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Speaker 1: Right now it is time for us to ask the

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Speaker 1: CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This one's from

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Speaker 1: Felix and Mobile. Felix writes, I met my wife for dinner,

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Speaker 1: and afterwards she said she was stopping by her sister's house.

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Speaker 1: She came home three hours later, and she hadn't answered

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Speaker 1: my calls, nor did her sister. She's never lied to me,

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Speaker 1: and is it crazy to believe she was visiting her sister?

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Speaker 1: Is that crazy, bro?

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Speaker 2: What you're tripping for?

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Speaker 1: So it made him suspicious she.

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Speaker 2: Ain't answer the phone.

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm sure by the time we get this letter

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Speaker 3: you have asked her why you ain't answer your phone? Now,

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Speaker 3: whatever she told you could have possibly been the truth.

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Speaker 3: She's going by her sister now her sister didn't answer

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Speaker 3: the phone.

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Speaker 2: You know how we do.

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Speaker 3: If I tell you I'm going over my boy harold house,

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Speaker 3: I call Harold and I tell Harold. Look, I told

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Speaker 3: my girl I'm going over your house. If she called dog,

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Speaker 3: don't email you already. No, we'd have done that. Now

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Speaker 3: you're thinking she'd have done it. And the only reason

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Speaker 3: you thinking she'd have done that is cause you would.

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Speaker 2: Have done that. Thanks, got you see what I'm saying, Yes, susy,

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Speaker 2: so uh just relaxed, Okay, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Shamika and Lexington. Shamika writes, I write

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Speaker 1: to work with a married neighbor, and we fool around

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Speaker 1: in the car before he drops me off some mornings.

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Speaker 1: He has any we wait a minute. The neighbor, She

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Speaker 1: writes to work with her married neighbor.

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Speaker 2: This is from.

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Speaker 1: And she says they fool around in the car before

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Speaker 1: he drops her off some mornings. He has an electric

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Speaker 1: car now and it has a camera in it, so

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Speaker 1: he's afraid to get freaky in it. So Shamika's question is, clo,

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Speaker 1: is it unladylike if I offer to get us a

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Speaker 1: hotel room?

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, what is you talking about? Is it

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Speaker 3: unlady like to get it? You wasn't worried about it.

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Speaker 3: He was a lady like to get red.

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Speaker 2: Over in that car right right?

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Speaker 3: You begin, drove all up in the call, up in

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Speaker 3: the dash board, even all over the head board, be

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Speaker 3: bit by the stick shifting. Now you want to worry

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Speaker 3: about it? Is it unlady like to get a hotel room?

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Speaker 2: Lady?

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Speaker 3: You way past that thought. Don't do what you want

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Speaker 3: to do. I'm the lady girl, buy I can't stand

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Speaker 3: even asked questions. What is it unlady like to get

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Speaker 3: a hotel room?

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Speaker 1: Moving moving on to uh As in Brooklyn, Avis writes,

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Speaker 1: my twenty four year old son lives with me and

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Speaker 1: he pays half of the bills. I have a new boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: and my son said we need to have some house rules,

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Speaker 1: and he wants to put limits on how often my

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Speaker 1: man can stay over. My man said I should put

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Speaker 1: my son out, but he's not willing to help me financially.

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Speaker 1: If I do put him out, what should I do?

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Speaker 2: Well? You know, you hold up.

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Speaker 3: See, all the men in her life come with stipulations.

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Speaker 3: The boy who's staying then made house rules for her.

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Speaker 3: The man who is staying with her then made a

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Speaker 3: house rule for her.

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Speaker 2: If I got to go, I can't pay no more.

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Speaker 3: If I can't get what I want, you ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: be able to get what you want.

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Speaker 1: Uh Oh, that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: Now, ladies, let me say this right here quick, giving

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Speaker 3: up your power. First of all, you his mama, that's

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Speaker 3: a yeah, let's just start there, and it's your house right.

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Speaker 2: Number two, that's your.

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Speaker 3: Relationship with your man and he can't get it how

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Speaker 3: he wanted and you don't get get it how.

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Speaker 2: You want it.

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Speaker 3: That's right, So ladies, just stop giving up your power.

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Speaker 2: Take your power back.

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Speaker 3: You have control of this whole situation, especially with that man. Now,

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Speaker 3: that boy you can control because he can get his

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Speaker 3: old ass out. When you're twenty four living at your

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Speaker 3: mama house, you need to be very quiet, very quiet.

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Speaker 3: Don't call shuts. You lucky you, and then you lucky

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Speaker 3: that got cell phones back. Because when I was twenty four,

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, I didn't live my mom

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Speaker 3: and daddy, but I've been over there and couldn't use

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Speaker 3: the phone. I'd have visited my mom and daddy and

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Speaker 3: had to stay off the phone because she was expecting

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Speaker 3: Earlene to call.

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Speaker 2: I've done that early. Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: Last one clo This is from Diane and Indianapolis, and

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Speaker 1: Diane says, my husband hates when I wear leggings if

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Speaker 1: I'm going out of the house, but he wears tight

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Speaker 1: jeans and tight shirts all the time. His stomach and

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Speaker 1: his thighs are too big for the clothes. But I

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Speaker 1: don't ever say a word. Should I bust this bubble

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Speaker 1: and tell him I.

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Speaker 3: Ain't gonna fine ass leggers stop that. Yeah, yeah, yeah

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Speaker 3: you should. I don't know why he have in trouble

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Speaker 3: with your leggings. And fellas, listen to me, cut these

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Speaker 3: little tired I thought skinny jeans was out. Now that's

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Speaker 3: what I they are now and what have we always?

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about it for me and demand. So now

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Speaker 3: for let's just understand the rule Number one for skinny

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Speaker 3: jeans is you have to be skinny.

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Speaker 2: What you cannot do.

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Speaker 3: Is put on a pair of skinny jeans and when

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Speaker 3: you button them, you look like a waffle cone. You

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Speaker 3: know that little ice cream cone that with the point

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Speaker 3: on it and then the ice cream hang over the top.

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Speaker 3: That's what it looked like when your fat ass snapped

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Speaker 3: them pants and your gut is hanging over them jeans.

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Speaker 2: So that's for starters right there.

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Speaker 3: And fellas get a grip on you and stuff is

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Speaker 3: age appropriate?

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Speaker 2: Now, that's things that's age appropriate.

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Speaker 3: There's stuff you can't do, like you know, I noticed

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Speaker 3: old guys starting to braid.

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Speaker 2: They hell, you passed that. If you fitty, If you

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Speaker 2: fitty and you have not had dreads or.

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Speaker 3: Braids before, if you ain't, let grow into them at fit.

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Speaker 2: You don't do this.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what made Scottie Pippen plat his hair,

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Speaker 3: but Scotty Pipping platted his hair. I'm just as damn confused.

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Speaker 3: Hey man, what did you flatten your hair fault? If

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Speaker 3: you got it though flooded. You played with Jordan, what

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Speaker 3: is you platting your hair fault?

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Speaker 2: What they got to do? That's that's out of our generation.

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Speaker 3: If you played with Magic Jordan or Bird, your ass

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Speaker 3: should not be platting your damn health. If you was

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Speaker 3: on the floor with Tracy McGrady, you flatten your hair.

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Speaker 2: If you ever had your.

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Speaker 3: Shot blocked by shock on Charles Bark, you flatten your

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Speaker 3: damn everybody else.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Clo.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, Harvey Morning Show,