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Speaker 1: you're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got this radio show. Man,

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Speaker 1: Hi got here. I really can't explain it. Only by

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Speaker 1: the grace of God, that's all I can really tell you.

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Speaker 1: I was talking with a buddy the other day and

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Speaker 1: interesting philosophy about it. He said. You know, you can

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Speaker 1: have dreams and visions. He say, but God, God will

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Speaker 1: never show you what all he has for you. He

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Speaker 1: see it. It's just become this major blessing for me.

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Speaker 1: my first question would have been to him, why I

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Speaker 1: that it is amazing man, how God works, and my

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man. It's crazy, ain't it.

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Speaker 1: You're listening for Today, we gather on the hall way

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Speaker 1: Hey y'all, what's up this Steve? How y'all doing this morning?

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Speaker 1: This Steve Harvey morty show. We don't want to crack it,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Cheery strong, you understand the assignment.

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Speaker 1: a good morning, Steve of the Harvey. What's up chrow

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Speaker 1: is from Johnny in Memphis. Johnny writes, I must be

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Doc. Let's go over this. You were in

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Speaker 1: down there. I'm gonna thirst, I'm gonna talk to your managers.

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Speaker 1: Then i'm gonna hand you the little that's your money,

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Speaker 1: tip money you want send. I'm gonna whoop you'all in

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Speaker 1: the marking like. That's what I'm gonna do. You know

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Speaker 1: what I ain't worried about to get my who I

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Speaker 1: want to tip. I'm gonna give you a till. Quit

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Speaker 1: talking people by the damn tip. That's what you stop doing.

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Speaker 1: That's your till. And see you not tissing me off? Now,

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Speaker 1: j I'm gonna come down there and I'm gonna whoops.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do. Okay, then i'm gonna tell you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna what the one need to do? You time? Hey? What? Hey, man,

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Speaker 1: I ain't worried about nothing, because let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: If you will the same way you till, I ain't

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Speaker 1: worried about the damn thing. Now check this out. You

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Speaker 1: got the wrong number, but you got the right because

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down there and i'm gonna let you

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Speaker 1: see what it is clem see how I try to

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Speaker 1: conduct myself in a nice matter and be professional. But

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Speaker 1: you don't about this, and you're gonna get it. I

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Speaker 1: got your till when I'm bob. You better weed come'na

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Speaker 1: come down, then beat you. That's what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get the real I'm coming down there soon

444
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Speaker 1: as I get off from work. You better not bring

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Speaker 1: you down now, your bet whatever? And but you ain't

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Speaker 1: got to worry about me, ain't. What's your name? What's

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Speaker 1: your name? Do you? You? You you gotta be in

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Speaker 1: the paper? I remember your name? What's your name? My name? Timmy? Timmy? What?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm I don't tim me? Who nephew Timmy from

450
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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Martin stuff. You just got right say what?

451
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Speaker 1: Hey man, this is a nephew Timing from the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morny show. Your boy Richard got me the pray

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Speaker 1: phone call you. You know what, y'all? You got my

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Speaker 1: damn pressure up, man, y'all some steak I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna get. I'm gonna get both of y'all time, y'all

456
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Speaker 1: because y'all ain't right. Man. You got me hauling in

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Speaker 1: the day. I'm dealing my employees looking at me. Man,

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Speaker 1: ain't not gonna be me at like this. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: kill talking about a meeting so we can get out

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Speaker 1: of company Christmas party together. Man, And you've got me

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Speaker 1: fool him kid, y'all, Man, Hey, kiddy, Man, I gotta

462
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Speaker 1: I gotta ask you though, Baby, Come on, man, what

463
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Speaker 1: is what's the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio

464
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Speaker 1: show in the landing The Steve Harvid Morning Show. Man, Hey, man, Hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: take all the employee to the seafood house. Man. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm scared to go down, and now they might they

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Speaker 1: might be scared to go with me. It might be

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Speaker 1: a good thing off. They're gonna be pulling out they

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Speaker 1: kills nine, They're gonna they're gonna tell any we got

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Speaker 1: the boss. We got it. Man, y'all got me, y'all

471
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Speaker 1: got me? And you're having to waits down all right place,

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Speaker 1: Pardner come all right, thinking nephew coming up at the

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Speaker 1: top of the hour, trending entertainment news. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

475
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Speaker 1: So Queen Bee has spoken. Beyonce is opening up about

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Speaker 1: turning forty, and she refers to this milestone in her

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Speaker 1: life as the best I've ever felt in my life,

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Speaker 1: the best I've felt in my life. Beyonce penned a

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Speaker 1: deeply personal message to fans and shared it on her

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Speaker 1: website at the close of Virgo season. She thanked fans

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Speaker 1: for their well wishes after she celebrated turning forty earlier

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Speaker 1: this month, September fourth. She went on to say, whoever

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Speaker 1: tried to condition women to feel that they are supposed

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Speaker 1: to feel old and unhappy when we turned forty got

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Speaker 1: it all the way fed up. That's what she said.

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Speaker 1: This has absolutely been the best I've felt in my life.

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Speaker 1: I'm so grateful to be grown, grown, grown woman beyond.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's actually right. I mean I don't I

489
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Speaker 1: don't get it, you know, but that's that's that's young

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Speaker 1: people who say, man, you old, when clearly old is

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Speaker 1: the goal. But like at my age right now, somebody

492
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Speaker 1: asked me recently, they said, hey, man, if you could

493
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Speaker 1: go back to any age, what would you go back to?

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Speaker 1: And I said sixty four. Yay, said, but you sixty four? Now?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go back nowhere. This is the

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Speaker 1: best out of had it. I don't want to go

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Speaker 1: back nowhere else. I'm living my best life right now

498
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Speaker 1: and it's a spiritual evolution for me. So I get

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Speaker 1: where Beyonce is coming from. And I think everybody has

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Speaker 1: to get into a new awakening of who they are

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Speaker 1: because age happens to us. All age is the goal.

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Speaker 1: It's every Your goal is to get to your next birthday.

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Speaker 1: That's that's the goal. Because if you don't, if you

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Speaker 1: miss one, I've got down news for you, man, You're

505
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Speaker 1: gonna be out of all reports. So I'm like, really

506
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Speaker 1: really comfortable with being where I am, and I can

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Speaker 1: understand where she's coming from. Yeah, she's also speaking to

508
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Speaker 1: the double standard. You know that men are more distinguished,

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Speaker 1: uh you know, with the gray as they get older,

510
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Speaker 1: but somehow women aren't afforded that same um luxury to

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Speaker 1: grow old gracefully. But it's changing now, thank god, because

512
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Speaker 1: you're down. No. Absolutely, But it hasn't always been like that,

513
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It hasn't always been like that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a sure for women versus men. I mean, look,

515
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Speaker 1: it's nice to see these beautiful young girls out here,

516
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Speaker 1: but it's a lot more for me. It's a lot

517
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Speaker 1: more fulfilling and rewarding when I see older women. That's fine, Yeah,

518
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Speaker 1: to take care of themselves. See fellas and fellas. Let

519
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Speaker 1: me help you understand something. Anyway you might get the

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Speaker 1: like in the way that because it's because if you

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Speaker 1: had a chance to get well, you're not gonna get

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Speaker 1: one of the young ones. No way. You can look,

523
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Speaker 1: you can look, you know, yeah got Google dudes and

524
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Speaker 1: they were talking about Hey man, so you know you

525
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Speaker 1: wasn't mad, who would you get? And then they would

526
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Speaker 1: have had all these young names. I said to see,

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Speaker 1: y'all don't understand they don't want you though, right, Why

528
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Speaker 1: y'all not incorporating that in there? Y'all think like you

529
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Speaker 1: really got a shot and Mina, you really got a

530
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Speaker 1: shot at Rihanna. They don't want you? You have you

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Speaker 1: filtered that into the case. No, man, I got game, Doc,

532
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Speaker 1: you ain't got that much? Dog? What game? Dog? They're

533
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: looking at you? Dog? If you got gag, get it now,

534
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Speaker 1: say Ran, Say Ran, Say Ran, say redyin you doing that?

535
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Speaker 1: Somebody asked me a question about Beyonce and I said,

536
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Speaker 1: Beyonce is married. They said, no, man, she wouldn't hold

537
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Speaker 1: a dog. She has a husband. His name is Jay

538
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Speaker 1: z Oh. I happen to know. So we're not even

539
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: having these what if conversations. I don't do that, man,

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Speaker 1: I don't have what if conversation about another man's wife

541
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Speaker 1: and all this. Hell, I don't, I don't. I don't

542
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Speaker 1: even get in conversations like that. I removed myself from

543
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: all them hypothetical situations because I don't. I don't want that,

544
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Speaker 1: you know, sitting up and you're talking about this grown woman.

545
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Speaker 1: I have a lot of what else about? Hallado. I'm sorry,

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00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 1: I have a lot of what else? Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: That's all that's gonna ever be. For instance, Tommy, what

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Speaker 1: what what if? We were? But I just I sew

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Speaker 1: a lot of what else? But he's married though you're

550
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Speaker 1: talking about but let me had at one. I'm sorry,

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00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: Hallie gets it? Whoa talk about talking yourself into the grave? Argument?

552
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: That wasn't necessary off the radio? So who's this? Yeah?

553
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:21,280
Speaker 1: What's this what if? Thing? What saying? I was telling

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Speaker 1: Tommy halle Berry just posted a picture. She went to

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Speaker 1: some kind of event. I think a firm raised at

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Speaker 1: a museum. Look at Tommy trying to quit. Well, black dress,

557
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Speaker 1: Look at your hall I love Hallie Berry beautiful as

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Speaker 1: well as sisters black queens. What if he's looking at

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00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: the look at him looking over his glasses, look looking

560
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Speaker 1: like an old man. We're just gonna be the first

561
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Speaker 1: turn off right right over your back. Come on with

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00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: the swag, Tommy whatever? Wait? Wait what about this? Did

563
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:12,719
Speaker 1: you see Naomi Campbell and the runway? Who that woman

564
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: can walk? He is the beast beautiful of that that

565
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: hot pink suito. Yeah. Since we talked about women aging

566
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: and looking good aging, well yeah, yeah, that's the goal.

567
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 1: Like you say, Steve, you know who looked nice? Who

568
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: did my Facebook watch show? Uh? Cynthia Bailey. Yeah, she's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: She's dropped dead. I think her face is a work

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Speaker 1: of arts. Yes, I love her her cheek bones, she's

571
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 1: beautiful and her skin, she's beautiful. All right, coming after

572
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Speaker 1: twenty minutes, after the hour, we'll tell you about a

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Speaker 1: first grader. This story is so beautiful. I love this

574
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: story raising twenty thousand dollars for college just by being

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Speaker 1: obedient and listening to his mom. We'll talk about it

576
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

577
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: All right, so did you guys see the first grader

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00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: school picture that went viral as he refused to take

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Speaker 1: off his mask for picture day. Such a cute little boy,

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Speaker 1: it was the first grader. His name is Mason Peoples.

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00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 1: He turned a smile for the camera. An interesting conversation

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Speaker 1: between the photographer and him ensued. The photographer, Okay, take

583
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: your mask off, little Mason. My mom said to keep

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Speaker 1: it on at all times unless I'm eating and far

585
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 1: away from everybody. Photographer, I'm sure it's okay to take

586
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: it off for pictures. Mason. No, my mom seriously told

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Speaker 1: me to make sure to keep it on. Photographer. Are

588
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Speaker 1: you sure you don't want to take it off for

589
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 1: two seconds? Mason, no, thank you. I always listen to

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Speaker 1: my mom. Photographer, Okay, say cheese, so that we have

591
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: the picture of little Mason with his mask still on now.

592
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: His mom, her name is Nicole. Nicole posted on Facebook

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Speaker 1: that she was so proud of her son's obedience, but

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00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: she said she should have been a little more clear

595
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: about the rules on that day. The post, which has

596
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 1: garnered over sixteen thousand shares, prompted the mom to start

597
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: to go fund me page because people wanted to reward

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Speaker 1: Mason for his obedience and everything. So now he has

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00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 1: over twenty thousand dollars steed for his college fund. How

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00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: about I want to retire. I want to retire. I

601
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: need to go fund me page the story. Mason. Ain't

602
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: nobody funding hundred million. I walk about him. Shut out, Yeah,

603
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: shout him out, and it's shout out Mason. Keep keep

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00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: doing what your mom tell you to do, man, keep

605
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: thinking it through, and take that money and go to college, man,

606
00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: and turn yourself into something great. Ye now that I'm

607
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 1: saying that, let's get away from Mason and let everybody

608
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 1: know that ain't with the college. You can still be great. Yeah.

609
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: From those of you that ain't with the college, you

610
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: can still be great. Don't let that hinder you. Because

611
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: college ain't in the Bible. Not now. One of them

612
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: verses out in red didn't mention Harvard or any of them.

613
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 1: I didn't see. If I I've been through the Bible,

614
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 1: I don't know it as good as most people. But

615
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: I ain't nobody sending me a scripture that mentioned USC

616
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 1: turned to the Book of Princeton. You know, mo House,

617
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: wasn't it. Now I'm living with us that you can

618
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Speaker 1: make it without a degree. But you do have to

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Speaker 1: have faith, and you do have to have a work ethic,

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Speaker 1: and you do have to apply it to a mission

621
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Speaker 1: and a dream. Now, if you combine those four things,

622
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: the mission to dream, the faith, and the work ethic,

623
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Speaker 1: you can make it. Now, if you have a dream

624
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: that requires a degree, then you have to go get one.

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00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 1: Can't be a dunist or adopted without one, can't fly

626
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: play without one. All right? Coming up at thirty four

627
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Hollywood superstar Will Smith celebrated his

628
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Speaker 1: birthday this week, said I had affairs too. We'll talk

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Speaker 1: about all of that. We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: brace yourselves for this story, okay, and trending celebrity marriage news.

632
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Speaker 1: Will Smith says he wants the world to know that

633
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Speaker 1: his wife isn't the only one who had affairs. He's

634
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Speaker 1: had his hair his share of extramarital romances too. Smith

635
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: talked about he talked to GQ about Jada Pinkett Smith's

636
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: revelation last year. Remember she did this on Red Table

637
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Speaker 1: Talk when she said she had an entanglement with August. Also,

638
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Speaker 1: the rapper Will said, Jada, his wife of twenty three years,

639
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Speaker 1: quote never believed in conventional marriage. Jada had family members

640
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Speaker 1: that had an unconventional relationship, so she grew up in

641
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: a way that was very different than how I grew up.

642
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 1: There were significant, endless discussions about what is relational perfection?

643
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Speaker 1: What is the perfect way to interact as a couple.

644
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Speaker 1: As for the large part of our relationship, monogamy was

645
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Speaker 1: what we chose, not thinking of monogamy as the only

646
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Speaker 1: relational perfection. I don't know what that means. Perfection in

647
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: your relationship meaning wait, wait, I know what you want

648
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Speaker 1: me to read it again? Perfectional? What are you up

649
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: as words? Ya? Well, entanglement was made up, but perfection.

650
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: Give me the quote again, relational perfection. Relational perfect y'all

651
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Speaker 1: to talking about? Right man? Why are we talking about it? Oh?

652
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,240
Speaker 1: It's it's news right now. He did this GQ article,

653
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 1: so it's news. What is up with all these confessions?

654
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: Everybody talking about stuff that they did. Go sit your

655
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Speaker 1: hands down somewhere by you all in the news talking

656
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: about what you did. Go set your ass down somewhere

657
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: and stop with all these confessions. Confession that ain't even

658
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Speaker 1: usher confession that's Roscoe Wallace Coble spitting and talking about

659
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Speaker 1: crying or everything you did would have produced some dying.

660
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Speaker 1: I'm just so tired of all these still confessions. I

661
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: don't understand this though. Man, Yeah, you ain't got to

662
00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: tell all your damn business. You just don't. You just don't, man,

663
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: and listen to me, y'all. Don't just ain't no new trend.

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Speaker 1: We all can do this. He got a lot of money,

665
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 1: he and jaded. They got money, your money. You ain't

666
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: got nothing to survive this. Ain't nobody jumping on this bandwagon.

667
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: Run doll understands that he did. He went on to

668
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Speaker 1: say that I don't suggest our road for anybody, but

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Speaker 1: the experiences that the freedoms that we have given one another,

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Speaker 1: and the unconditional support to me is the highest definition

671
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Speaker 1: of love. What I understood that again, Well, you have

672
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Speaker 1: to read everything Will say twice because you can't understood

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Speaker 1: it all. Right, here we go, Steve, he says. Will says,

674
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Speaker 1: I don't suggest our road for anybody. Okay, that makes sense, Okay,

675
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: he said, But the freedoms that we've given one another

676
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: and the unconditional support to me is the highest definition

677
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: of love. All right, the experiences, the freedom that we've

678
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: given one another, and the unconditional support, he says to me,

679
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: to him, that's the highest definition of love. No, nobody,

680
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Speaker 1: you know what you can call it? All that all

681
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: that is is a hall pass. That's all that you

682
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: dressed this up, making freedom done. It's an open marriage.

683
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: It sounds like, no, you know. See what he's saying, Shirley,

684
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: is I feel better as I watch you kiss August.

685
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 1: What that's what it's saying. I feel better as I

686
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: watch you kiss August. I've seen in the mouth. I'm

687
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: feeling good about me. I'm supporting that love. First of all,

688
00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: what was a young boy's name? AUGUSTA? He bad? I

689
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm sorry. I don't hold them, don't hold up.

690
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 1: Let's back up. You write my apology. I don't know

691
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: what the hell they talking about. I don't know why

692
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: the hell I'm trying to fix it. It makes my bad.

693
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Speaker 1: I'm out of this right here, me and d we're

694
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Speaker 1: doing none of this. Coming up. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of

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Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry

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Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject just tell me the truth.

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Speaker 1: I wish I would not too bad. We'll get into

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Speaker 1: that in just a few but right now the nephew

700
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Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What you got

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Speaker 1: let's might be perfect for this WCS. Wife correct Services. Oh,

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Speaker 1: shout out to Jada, Wife Corrects Services. This is right

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Speaker 1: on point. Let's go. Okay, Hello, Hello, I am trying

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Speaker 1: to reach George Police. My name is Marcus from with WCS.

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Speaker 1: Uh callin and see if we can actually try to

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Speaker 1: lend you our services. We understand that you're having a

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Speaker 1: few problems and want to see if maybe WCS can

709
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Speaker 1: bring um a better life to you and you can

710
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Speaker 1: have an exciting life better than the one you have now.

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Speaker 1: Who we are with Wife Correctional Services, sir. WCS. What

712
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Speaker 1: it is is we take your wife for a couple

713
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Speaker 1: of weeks and we reprogram them so that it's of course,

714
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Speaker 1: you have to sign a waiver contract, but we take

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Speaker 1: your wife and we reprogram them so that they will

716
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Speaker 1: act in a fashion of what you want them to act. Oh, okay, okay,

717
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: whatever she said? What it is that we've gotten some

718
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,720
Speaker 1: We've gotten some reports that you've been having some problems

719
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Speaker 1: with with your particular wife. And I heard where you

720
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Speaker 1: located at. We're here in Saint Louis, sir. Okay, and

721
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Speaker 1: don't worry. We're totally confidential. This is not anything that's

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Speaker 1: gonna get out. Um and and your your names are

723
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Speaker 1: never submitted. First of all, here's here's something we can do.

724
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Speaker 1: I can ask you questions because we've been notified that

725
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Speaker 1: this is probably a service that you would probably want. Now, Um,

726
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Speaker 1: has your wife ever snapped on you in public? And

727
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: snapped on me? I mean what I mean she My

728
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: wife ain't crazy. She on just snap on me. She might,

729
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: you know, try to check me, uh say something. You

730
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, She's just gonna snap on me

731
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: in probably so your wife your so, your wife has

732
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: tried to check you. It's what you're saying. May not

733
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: check me per se. I mean she might. She might

734
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: not like some mom doing and might say something about it.

735
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 1: But so basically your wife is not in her place

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00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: where she needs to be hold on. I mean what

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00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: you mean? I mean she might say something you know,

738
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 1: I mean I might be doing something more. You know,

739
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: might be with my boys and might get out of

740
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: control a little bit. She might just say something at

741
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: the time, but she don't just try to all out

742
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: check nobody. You know what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay,

743
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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Let me ask you this one.

744
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Speaker 1: Have you ever just had some plans with your guys,

745
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Speaker 1: We're gonna go out, and had to change your plans

746
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 1: because um, your wife? Well, I mean, if if like

747
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: I'm just come about hanging out and I ain't let

748
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Speaker 1: her know something, she might you know, be like, well,

749
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: baby already had plans, you know, can you stay home

750
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Speaker 1: with the boys or something? But I mean, I mean

751
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: nothing on the regular, you know how I usually do

752
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: what I want to do. Seems like denial. Okay, here's

753
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: another one, sir, Well, no, just listen, hear me out. Now,

754
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: let me ask you this um has your wife? Let's say,

755
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: back when Michael Jordan was playing basketball, did you ever

756
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: miss a playoff game on television because your wife wanted

757
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: to watch something else? I mean, we got two TVs

758
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: in my house. Man, I wish now I don't even

759
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: get down. I mean I might have to watch the

760
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: little TV. Okay, but I mean I usually watch it

761
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: on the big Yeah. But but you you've been pushed

762
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: to watching the smaller television. Now, I wouldn't push to

763
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 1: do nothing. Man. What I'm trying to tell you is,

764
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Speaker 1: I mean we compromise. We do fifty fifty in my house.

765
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 1: I mean, she might get the big TV to watch

766
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: her stories or something, and I just had to go

767
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: watch to the TV. Thet TV do go out of

768
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: here wants to see there. We got so cool with that, dough.

769
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Speaker 1: I'm cool with that. You're cool with that. So you're

770
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: with that. You're actually the one that's programmed. And ain't

771
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with my wife? Ain't nothing wrong with within

772
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Speaker 1: my family? You know, I honestand well. Let me the

773
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: reason why I'm asking you these particular questions is because

774
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Speaker 1: someone has actually let me know the problems that are

775
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 1: at hand in your household. Let me ask you. I

776
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: got one question for you. Here's what I want to

777
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 1: ask you. Has your wife ever cussed you out at

778
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: a family cookout? Hey? Man, hold on, man, you know

779
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: what you're getting a little personal? Man? Is this even legal? Man?

780
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm here. I never heard of this company. Man,

781
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Speaker 1: I've never heard of this is something new. It is

782
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Speaker 1: definitely saying something new. I mean what, Don't make me

783
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: be your guinea pig. Don't don't start out calling me

784
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 1: trying to get you know, referrals or client tell or

785
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 1: whatever it is you trying to do. Man, don't call

786
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: me with this nonsense. Partner, and I completely understand it.

787
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Speaker 1: WCS sir, is here to benefit you. It's no benefit

788
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Speaker 1: to me. Man, getting I look at my personal business

789
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Speaker 1: one and what's going on in my household? Okay, well,

790
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: last thing I want to ask you, and this is

791
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Speaker 1: the last question I have for you. Make it. Make

792
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Speaker 1: this the last I want straight up. Okay, have you

793
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 1: do you do? Do you buy your own clothes? Or

794
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: does she buy the company? You know what? Man? This man?

795
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Speaker 1: You whatever company? This is? Dog? Don't call me mouse

796
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: no more? And whatever put you up to this. Whoever

797
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: gave you my number? Talk about my wife? Checked me

798
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: or got me under control? Got me on lock? Man?

799
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: You tell him too. Don't call me no more? Are

800
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Speaker 1: you are you? Are you in denying? Don't call house

801
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: no more? I'm gonna tell you what. George Foreman or

802
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Speaker 1: whatever it's Marcus, it's Marcus. Whoever you George Foreman Market. Hey,

803
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna find a Yeah,

804
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Speaker 1: I'm located. Dog, I'm coming down there, and I'm gonna

805
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Speaker 1: blushing as you in my personal sore. You're ready, You're

806
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: ready to retaliate on mealiate, but you don't want to

807
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: retaliate on the problems you have with your wife. Retaliation man,

808
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,839
Speaker 1: When I'm saying you're calling my house, I'm minding my home,

809
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,319
Speaker 1: and as you're worrying about who you're watching, what TV

810
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Speaker 1: in my house and my wife checking me in public?

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Speaker 1: I want man, Hey, doll, look, I'm telling you. Don't

812
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Speaker 1: you want to watch the big television? Big TV? Man,

813
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Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with the TV I got. You know what

814
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Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's in my room. I gonna get across

815
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Speaker 1: the bed, watch whatever I want to whenever I want

816
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Speaker 1: to do. Don't you want to be able to go

817
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Speaker 1: out with the When you want my partners? Dog, not

818
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Speaker 1: a fact you need me to get partners? You call

819
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Speaker 1: them asking dumb Listen what you want to do to

820
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: me and your wife has already done to you? I

821
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Speaker 1: see you got to Damn. I'm gonna block what's your

822
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Speaker 1: phone number? Man? Give me something. Tell me where to

823
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Speaker 1: find you. Why are you in denial? Denial? I'm gonna

824
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Speaker 1: tell you what's in You need to get your wife

825
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Speaker 1: checked in to Wife Correctional Services so that you can

826
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Speaker 1: live a better life. Whoever, Man, I need to get

827
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Speaker 1: a life. Man. Can I get a life? Man? Stop

828
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Speaker 1: calling me doll? For real? I understand it. Can I

829
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Speaker 1: say one more thing that you say? Straight up? Listen

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Speaker 1: to me, sir? Yeah? What what? What's his nephew? Time

831
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Speaker 1: me from the Steve Harvard the Morning Show. You just

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Speaker 1: got cranked by your boy justin didn't know what? Oh? No, hey, hey, hey, okay,

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Speaker 1: y'all got me? Man? What is the baddest radio show

834
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Speaker 1: in the land? You are even knows you my boy

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey doing in the morning on the Steve Harvey Morning.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know, I get on a little and

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Speaker 1: That's what you got, the wife that you wanted. You understand,

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Speaker 1: that's what you want, right y'all, y'all, y'all support my business?

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Speaker 1: What come on? Husband? Yeah, he's in denial. Okay, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna fix that for you. We're gonna fix it for you.

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Speaker 1: I know, thank you enough. You're coming up Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Just tell me the truth is the subject. We'll get

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Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. Never know about yours.

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Speaker 1: M Buckle up and hold up tight. We got a

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Speaker 1: four year here. It is Strawberry letter, all right, thank you. Subject,

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Speaker 1: Just tell me the truth. Dear Stephen Shirley, I have

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Speaker 1: been married for two years to a man that is

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Speaker 1: twenty four years older than I am. I was his

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Speaker 1: side piece for the last two years of his marriage,

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Speaker 1: and he got divorced to be with me. After we

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Speaker 1: got married, things changed. I had to accept that my

879
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Speaker 1: husband was not going to be monogamous, partly because he

880
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Speaker 1: was having sex with me while he was married. I

881
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: never signed up or agreed to an open marriage, but

882
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Speaker 1: I'm wise enough to know that he needs more than

883
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Speaker 1: one woman to make him feel like a king. I

884
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Speaker 1: won't say that I'm miserable with him, because we've had

885
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Speaker 1: a lot of fun and we traveled to exotic places often.

886
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Speaker 1: I just wish he'd tell me the truth about what

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Speaker 1: he is doing. On the side, I have to be

888
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Speaker 1: the most reasonable wife on the planet, and I don't

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Speaker 1: check his phone or his social media accounts. I can

890
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Speaker 1: get in his car and smell perfume on the passenger

891
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: seatbelt and I don't say a word. I know he

892
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: loves me because he shows me over his wife. I

893
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Speaker 1: thought he would continue to be open and honest once

894
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: we got married, But he lies about simple things like

895
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Speaker 1: where he had lunch. I will see a receipt that

896
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Speaker 1: says otherwise. He will lie about which one of his

897
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Speaker 1: male friends he was with. He lies about taking a shower,

898
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Speaker 1: getting a pedicure, getting a haircut. He's just a liar.

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Speaker 1: I got a call recently from his barber saying he

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Speaker 1: left his credit card, and I called my husband and

901
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Speaker 1: asked him what he was doing, and he said he

902
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Speaker 1: was sitting in the barber chair. I hung up on

903
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Speaker 1: him and canceled a card so no one could use it.

904
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Speaker 1: I've told him repeatedly that he does not have to

905
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Speaker 1: lie to me because I'm not going anywhere. How is

906
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Speaker 1: he going to keep this up as he gets older?

907
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: Am I setting myself up for a lot of heartache

908
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Speaker 1: and headaches with this man? Please advise? Okay, My question

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Speaker 1: to you is what do you want from us? Because,

910
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Speaker 1: in case you haven't heard this before, payback is a

911
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Speaker 1: bee and that's what's happening here. You're being paid back.

912
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Speaker 1: I mean, were you cheated with him on her? So

913
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Speaker 1: look what's happening now? So yes, to answer your question,

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Speaker 1: you are in store for a lot of heartaches and

915
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Speaker 1: headaches with this man. It's already happening. You were cheating

916
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Speaker 1: with this woman's husband, and he divorced her to marry you.

917
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Speaker 1: Now you're concerned he's cheating on you and he's lying

918
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Speaker 1: to you. You're concerned about that. What he's doing, what

919
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Speaker 1: he does, and he was doing it before you with

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Speaker 1: you and now during you excuse me, did you think

921
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Speaker 1: he was gonna change when he married you? You thought that? No,

922
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: you married what He is a liar? You said it

923
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Speaker 1: in the letter. He is a liar, a liar, and

924
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Speaker 1: a cheater. This time he's just cheating on you and

925
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Speaker 1: not with you. Okay, The question is what are you

926
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Speaker 1: gonna do about all of this, because clearly you're worried

927
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Speaker 1: and unhappy. Now you might even be feeling some empathy

928
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Speaker 1: for his ex wife now you know what she went

929
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Speaker 1: through when he was with you. And no matter how

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Speaker 1: reasonable you say you are in this letter, how are

931
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Speaker 1: you not going to be checking his phone and stuff?

932
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Speaker 1: This marriage that you're in right now, it's not good

933
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Speaker 1: because he's not gonna stop what he's doing. I mean,

934
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Speaker 1: this is who he is and this is who you married. Steve. Wow,

935
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Speaker 1: just tell me the truth. Really, Oh you're concerned about

936
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Speaker 1: the truth, all right, Well let's tell you the truth.

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Speaker 1: I will thank you, Shirley. I've been married for two

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Speaker 1: years to a man that's twenty four years older than

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Speaker 1: I am. I want you to keep that information because

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring it back. Twenty four years older than

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Speaker 1: I am. I was his side piece for the last

942
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Speaker 1: two years of the marriage. He got divorced to be

943
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Speaker 1: with me, and after we got married, things changed, really

944
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Speaker 1: things change. I had to accept that my husband was

945
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Speaker 1: not going to be monogamous. You know why, because nothing changed.

946
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Speaker 1: You said, you gotta accept that things change. What's changed,

947
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Speaker 1: it's the same, it's the exact same. You had now

948
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Speaker 1: have to accept that your husband's not gonna be monogamous.

949
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Speaker 1: He ain't never been, partly because he was having sexual

950
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Speaker 1: me when he was married. I never signed up or

951
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 1: agreed to an open marriage. Wait, I don't understand. You

952
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: accepted the cheating before. See, but you were the cheat,

953
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Speaker 1: but you the cheat turn, not the cheat. And it

954
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Speaker 1: was okay as long as you were the cheat turn.

955
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Speaker 1: But now you don't want to be the cheat t See.

956
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Speaker 1: What's what's wrong with you? Lady? What is wrong with you?

957
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: How you don't see this? But I'm wise? Here we go.

958
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: Now we did see this with stupid people throw me.

959
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: But I'm wise enough to know that he needs more

960
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: than one woman to make him feel like a king.

961
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Speaker 1: That ain't wisdom. That's called his track record. What the

962
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 1: hell that got to do with wisdom? It's his track record,

963
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 1: Like Shirley said, it's what he'd do. I won't say

964
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Speaker 1: that I'm miserable with him, because we have a lot

965
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Speaker 1: of fun and we travel to exotic places often. I

966
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Speaker 1: just wish he'd tell me the truth about what he's

967
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Speaker 1: doing on the side. What you need to hear the

968
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Speaker 1: truth about what you already know he doing on the

969
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Speaker 1: side because you don't. You don't check his phone and

970
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Speaker 1: social media. Kids get kids in social media accounts. Here

971
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 1: the stupid line. I get in his car and I

972
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Speaker 1: smell perfume on the passion the seat belt, and I

973
01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: don't see a word? Right? Oh? You hell a stupid

974
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 1: You get in the car and you smell perfume on

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Speaker 1: the seat belt and you don't say a word. That

976
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 1: makes you a good reasonable wife, That makes you a food?

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Speaker 1: Oh damn food, And I ain't got number more this

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Speaker 1: hold on, Steve, we'll la part two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

980
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Speaker 1: strawberry letter subject, just tell me the truth. We'll get

981
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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's

983
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Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter subject, Just tell me the truth?

984
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 1: What is with all these truths? I've had my feeling

985
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Speaker 1: truth to day? Will if GQ telling the truth to

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Speaker 1: Straba and let her truth us? What happened to shut

987
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 1: your damn mouth? What happened to that? Don't you know

988
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: truth ain't the best policy. Silence is shut show, damn MO,

989
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: now here we go. I'm mad, no, so hell, let

990
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 1: me quit trying to fix this up. This stupid ass

991
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 1: woman didn't Mary. This man just twenty four years older

992
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 1: than she is, and she was his side piece for

993
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: two years. He got divorced to be with her, and

994
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: after we got married, things changed. Well I guess what

995
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: she say changed. I had to accept that my man

996
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 1: was not gonna be in a monogamous relationship. Ain't nothing changed.

997
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 1: He wasn't even one before when he was cheating with

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01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: you for two years. It's the same, and I have

999
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 1: to accept that, probably because he was having sex with

1000
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 1: me while he was married. I never signed up or

1001
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 1: agreed to an open marriage. His ex wife didn't even wow,

1002
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: see button Knight. But you turn it into an open marriage,

1003
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 1: and now you married to the dude that was cheating

1004
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 1: with you, and now all of a sudden you don't

1005
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 1: want it to be open. But that's what he'd do. Well.

1006
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say I'm miserable because we have a

1007
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Speaker 1: lot of fun, we go to exotic places. I just

1008
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: wish he'd tell me the truth about what he's doing.

1009
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Speaker 1: On the side. Did you hear yourself? I just wish

1010
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: he would tell me the truth about what he doing

1011
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 1: on the side. Everybody nothing Hattie will Smith, whoa. We

1012
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Speaker 1: all not fitt the gone or tabletop all this here,

1013
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 1: this here, we just not fit to do this here.

1014
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: And I don't know what you expect him to do,

1015
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: but he doing what he'd do. I'm I'm I'm a

1016
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Speaker 1: most reasonable wife on the planet. I don't check his

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Speaker 1: phone social media, and I can get in his con

1018
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 1: smell perfume on the passage to see belt and I

1019
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 1: don't say a word. What so you stupid and a food?

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Speaker 1: Now listen to me. I know he loves me because

1021
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: he chose me over his wife. He didn't choose you.

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01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: His wife got rid of him. You're not listening. His

1023
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: wife got rid of him. And he wouldn't got you

1024
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: because he know you a fool and he can do

1025
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Speaker 1: what he want to do to you and steal and

1026
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: get a wife too. But now, I thought he would

1027
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: continue to be open and honest once we got married.

1028
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: But he lies to me about simple things like where

1029
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:24,520
Speaker 1: he had lunch. Wait a minute, he was open and

1030
01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: honest about you in the marriage because he was telling

1031
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 1: you he was unhappy, but he was lying to his wife.

1032
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 1: But he told you he was unhappy. You thought that

1033
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 1: was honesty. Everybody cheats say they're unhappy. Then he lied

1034
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Speaker 1: about what friends he would be, lied about taking a shot,

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Speaker 1: getting the pedocute, live bout the hairculd lie bout the

1036
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: credit card? He just he just lie, lie live. I

1037
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:54,560
Speaker 1: hung up on him, and one time I called it bober.

1038
01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: Shop called the house, say he left his credit card.

1039
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: I called the bober. I called him and told him

1040
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: he left his boys. He said he in a barber chair.

1041
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 1: I hung up him and canceling the car so no

1042
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: one could use it to hear the stupid bro. I've

1043
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: told him repeatedly he does not have to lie to

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Speaker 1: me because I'm not going anywhere. Well, I'm not since

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01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 1: you're not going anywhere, and you know he got side pieces.

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Speaker 1: Why do y'all have to talk? He don't have to

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01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: lie to you because you're not going anywhere. And then

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Speaker 1: check this out. How is he going to keep this

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Speaker 1: up as he gets older? Can I go back to

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01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: the top of the letter? Did not you say I've

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01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: been married for two years to a man that is

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01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: twenty four years older than I am? How old his

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01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 1: ass got to be? Hard time, you said, how is

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01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 1: he going to keep this up as he gets older?

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01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: You said, you've been married two years to a man

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01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: that's twenty four years older than I am. How old

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01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:04,960
Speaker 1: his ass got to be? He twenty four years older

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01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: than you, and your concern is how is he gonna

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01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: keep this up as he gets older? He already old

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01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 1: keeping it up? He doing fine. A matter of fact,

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01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 1: he killing it. Am I setting myself up for a

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01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 1: lot of heartache and headaches with this man? Please? No,

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01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 1: you're not setting yourself up for heartache and headaches and heartaches.

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01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 1: You're in the headache and heartache. You're in it. You

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01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 1: didn't set yourself up. You arranged it when you thought

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01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:43,640
Speaker 1: he was leaving his wife for you, when in actuality,

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01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 1: he got put out by his wife because he got busted.

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Speaker 1: Then he went straight to you. You know what, Let

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01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 1: me fix this for y'all. I haven't told y'all over

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Speaker 1: and over that we do not give promotions. I've told

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Speaker 1: y'all that, So now you think he left her to

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Speaker 1: be with you, but you still the side piece. See,

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01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 1: I told y'all we don't do promotions. Y'all don't believe me.

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01:06:16,040 --> 01:06:18,439
Speaker 1: I've been a man in my whole life. We don't

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01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:21,680
Speaker 1: do promotions. He didn't leave his wife for you. He

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01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 1: left his wife because he got put out. Then he

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01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 1: would and got you and made you his wife. What

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01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:30,680
Speaker 1: you thought was a promotion. But now guess what. You

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01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: still the side piece because he knew you accepted second before.

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01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: Why would he make you number one? Now you still

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Speaker 1: number two? Lord, have mercy. I've been telling y'all, we

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01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 1: don't give promotions. Can't be the side piece, and me

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01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 1: and the wife help for what you wanted? The truth?

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Speaker 1: There's the truth. Poster comment safety on today's Strawberry Letter

1085
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 1: and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out

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01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:01,919
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up at forty

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01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour. It's Junior with Sports Talk

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, Time now

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01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 1: for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior, Shirley

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Speaker 1: Well right now. NBA training camp starting a preseason starts Sunday,

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01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 1: and Kyrie Irving Andrew Wigg is already making headlines. As

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01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 1: y'all noticed, City of New York has already mandated that

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Speaker 1: pro athletes in the city from of New York. That

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01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 1: means the New York Knicks and the Brooklyn Nets must

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01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 1: be vaccinated. Kyrie Irving said, I ain't, I ain't. I

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01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 1: ain't doing it. So he couldn't even show up for

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01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: media day already because he's not vaccinated. He said, it's

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01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 1: a private issue. He's not gonna discuss it. And all

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01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 1: he has to do is get one shot. One shot.

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01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 1: He just got to get one. He ain't got get both,

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01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:54,040
Speaker 1: didn't get one. You can get your check all He

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01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 1: won't be allowed to play at home games, and he

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01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 1: just got to play at a way game. He won't

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01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: be able to play at Oh yeah, anybody fit to

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01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 1: pay you your whole check for half your time? Oh?

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01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 1: No jobs? Who you know doing that? And I'm sorry, man,

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01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: these players just gonna have to comply because you're in

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01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 1: a team sport. Yeah, and you're coming around in the

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01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 1: team sport in the locker room. Man, it's a team effort,

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01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. Man. Yeah, I'm I heard

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01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 1: Kareem said, Hey, I can't accept that answer because you're

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01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: putting pressure on the team. You're gonna have to You're

1113
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 1: gonna have to get You're gonna have to solve either

1114
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:42,160
Speaker 1: you want to get vaccinated, and he said he should mandate.

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01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:44,639
Speaker 1: He said, the nbation, Man, they all players get vaccinated.

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01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: Now not percent of the league is vaccinated. Well, but

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01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 1: it's it's it's going that way. Yeah, yeah, because and

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01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:54,280
Speaker 1: it's like this, but it's it's really simple, man. It's

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Speaker 1: they are jobs. They're a cologist that require vaccinations. If

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Speaker 1: you want this job, to hold this position, and you

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01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:04,840
Speaker 1: want this check, and I'm your boss, you have to

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01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 1: do this. I'm sorry. In my company, man, you have

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01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: to get you you have to get vaccinated. That's what.

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01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 1: You can't be up in my face all day. But

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Speaker 1: you ain't got no vaccination. I got to go to work.

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01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 1: There's too many people count on me. Yeah, and if

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01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:21,920
Speaker 1: you want to vaccination, that's fine. In fine, Yeah, sowhere

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Speaker 1: else to work. I don't care. He think he was

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01:09:24,080 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 1: gonna shoot three phoners and be away from everybody. What

1130
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 1: do you think? I don't know, Anna, I ain't gonna

1131
01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 1: go into paint. I'm gonna stay out of here. And

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely not a person saying he should just play basketball,

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01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:38,719
Speaker 1: because if you can get involved with issues. I highly

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01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:43,280
Speaker 1: I welcome that you You should use your platform to

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01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: awareness and voting, awareness and black lives matter. I'm with

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01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:50,080
Speaker 1: all of that, and that's not what I'm saying. Yeah,

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01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:52,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna follow and see what you do. I don't

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01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 1: even know it already. You need to get that damn shot.

1139
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 1: Anybody need to shots him? It might all right, you

1140
01:09:58,960 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 1: can st coming up at the time of the hour.

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01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:06,599
Speaker 1: We'll talk about Steve Harvey's mentoring right after this. You're

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01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, So Steve, this Saturday, you're

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01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:16,839
Speaker 1: inviting young men between the ages of fourteen and eighteen

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01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: to join your virtual mentoring program. And the mission of

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01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 1: your foundation, well, you could probably say it better than

1146
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:25,560
Speaker 1: I can. Go ahead, I mean, it's very simplest that

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01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:29,000
Speaker 1: we have boys and girls. Marjorie just finished up her

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01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: mentoring camp, which wasn't virtual, but we have so many

1149
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:36,759
Speaker 1: boys that live in so many different areas. We're still virtual.

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01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 1: We're hoping to get out of it soon. But the

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Speaker 1: mission is simple, is to teach boys the principles of

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01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:48,479
Speaker 1: manhood and the principles of dream building. Now, what you

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01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: do with these principles once you learn the principles of

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01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 1: manhood and the principles of dream building. It enables you

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01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: to go and be whatever you want to be. But

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01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 1: whatever you choose to be, let's be good men. At

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01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 1: the end of the day, those two, to me are

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01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 1: the two most important things. I don't care if you

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01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 1: go to college. I don't care if you go to

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01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 1: the military. I don't care if you go work at

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01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:13,879
Speaker 1: home depot. I don't care if you join the management program.

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01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 1: I don't care. I want to teach you how to

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01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 1: live out your dreams and how to be a good man.

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Speaker 1: And that's what happens when you don't have fathers. Man,

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01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:27,880
Speaker 1: and you can look at I'm telling you, man, you

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01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:32,920
Speaker 1: can see the absence of fathers in boys lives very quickly.

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01:11:33,439 --> 01:11:36,360
Speaker 1: You can see the absence of fathers in girls lives.

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01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:39,560
Speaker 1: And you can't do that to young girl. And so

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01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:41,680
Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is we take these young

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01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 1: boys from single parent homes headed up by women, and

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01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 1: we teach them the principles of manhood, and we aid

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Speaker 1: these single mothers who are raising these boys. We give

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Speaker 1: them the aid and the tools and the supplemental help

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01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: that helps them get their boys into manhood. Because if

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01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 1: one thing becomes clear at the count Knowing what not

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01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:04,360
Speaker 1: to do is just as importantess knowing what to do.

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01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 1: And so a lot of these boys are living their

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01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 1: life without their fathers being active in their life, and

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01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 1: they don't want to repeat that behavior to their children.

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01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 1: And we give them the added tools of forgiveness, you know,

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01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:19,519
Speaker 1: because a lot of them are angry and you cannot

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01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 1: blame them. These young men are hurting because they fathers

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01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: ain't in their lives. And so on Saturday, we open

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01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:29,960
Speaker 1: up the Virtual minut program to go virtual so anybody

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01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 1: can join in and doing the pandemic man. And this

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01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 1: was no joke. We had over six million kids wow,

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Speaker 1: worldwide throughout the pandemic. We touched global. We touched six

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Speaker 1: million kids, and so it's really really real. And so

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Speaker 1: we've been doing the work and now my vision has

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01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:55,760
Speaker 1: expanded even and I'm working real hard to cut this deal.

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01:12:55,840 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 1: I'm about to buy another ranch, a new one, bigger

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01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: than the one I had in Dallas, and I'm going

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01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 1: to build the facility out. I'm gonna own it myself,

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01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:11,280
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna make a permanent facility that's in the

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Speaker 1: changing lives of young men and young women but I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna do it with a lot of educational things to

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01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 1: a lot of coding and steam programs and things of

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01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 1: that nature. Called the athletics will be there because it's

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Speaker 1: a great draw. But we were doing some fantastic work

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01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 1: man and nece sanity will be another step in the

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01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 1: right direction for that. So steve one principle of manhood,

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01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:38,800
Speaker 1: give us one. Do the number one rule of manhood.

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01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:43,759
Speaker 1: Do what you say you're gonna do. That's the number

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01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:46,560
Speaker 1: one rule. If you I try to embed that in

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01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 1: young boys, if you do that one thing, if you

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01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 1: learn that one thing to do whatever it is you

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01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 1: say you're going to do, do that. You will gain

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01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 1: the respect of your other peer. You will gain the

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01:14:01,360 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 1: respect of all women. You will gain the respect of

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01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 1: your children. You will gain the respect of your coworkers.

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01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 1: There's no one that doesn't respect a man that does

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01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 1: what he says he's going to do. If you learn

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01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:20,640
Speaker 1: that principle, that's manhood. If you say you're coming, you

1214
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 1: got to show up. YEA. Now, if I tell you

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01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm not coming, you can quit looking for me. That's right.

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01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:27,560
Speaker 1: Don't be telling when I thought you'd come anyway, I

1217
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 1: told you I wasn't coming. But if I tell you

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01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:32,800
Speaker 1: I'm coming, please know I'm gonna be there. And you

1219
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 1: can ask anybody that I sign a contract with that

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01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:41,720
Speaker 1: is no, he just don't show up. All right, Steve, Well,

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Speaker 1: space is limited, so please go to Harvey Foundation dot

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Speaker 1: org Harvey Foundation dot org to register. Thank you. We'll

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Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

1224
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to

1225
01:14:55,880 --> 01:15:03,560
Speaker 1: show the power A lottery drawing is tonight is tonight

1226
01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 1: and the jack pot uh is um. This is big.

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01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:11,360
Speaker 1: It surges over half a billion dollars. It's growing over

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01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 1: five hundred and seventy million dollars. So right now, that's

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01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:19,360
Speaker 1: where we are. The cash option now stands at three

1230
01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 1: hundred and seventy nine million dollars. All right, just right here,

1231
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna play. You're playing tonight. I'm gonna put five

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01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 1: hundred dollars. Hire, And what you're gonna do if you

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01:15:31,920 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: win five dollars? Five hundred dollars? You didn't think I

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01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:45,400
Speaker 1: mean something else? I can't five hundred dollars. Who do

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01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:48,680
Speaker 1: you think you're talking to? What you're gonna move? What

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01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:50,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna do when if you win it, I ain't

1237
01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 1: coming in here. I mean that I'm coming here soon

1238
01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: as I win. What are you not coming to work?

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01:15:56,280 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: I'm the next morning, next three morns. And what are

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01:16:00,600 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 1: you gonna do when you get well, yeah, I'm just

1241
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:08,080
Speaker 1: come there three I might probably won't. They probably won't

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01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 1: let me come in on third day. May now, let

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01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:12,560
Speaker 1: you come in on the second day, because after what

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01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:14,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start saying on first day, I'm pretty sure

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01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 1: they're gonna want to talk to me about day two

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01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 1: at three. The stuff I'm going to say with a

1247
01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 1: half billion dollars, it's not going and I'm gonna say

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01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 1: it anyway. Just get your all I can tell you.

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01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 1: Just get your finger on the button. That's all I

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Speaker 1: can tell. All Right, we'll get your lottery tickets tonight.

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Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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Speaker 1: up in thirty three minutes after right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: brace yourselves for this story, okay and trending celebrity marriage news,

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Speaker 1: Will Smith says he wants the world to know that

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Speaker 1: his wife isn't the only one who had affairs. He's

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Speaker 1: had his hair his share of extramarital romances too. Smith

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Speaker 1: talked about He talked to GQ about Jada Pinkett Smith's

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Speaker 1: revelation last year. Remember she did this on Red Table

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Speaker 1: Talk when she said she had an entanglement with August

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Speaker 1: Alston of The Rapper. Will said, Jada, his wife of

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Speaker 1: twenty three years quote never believed in conventional marriage. Jada

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Speaker 1: had family members that had an unconventional relationship, so she

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Speaker 1: grew up in a way that was very different than

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Speaker 1: how I grew up. There were significant, endless discussions about

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Speaker 1: what is relational perfection? What is the perfect way to

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Speaker 1: interact as a couple. As for the large part of

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Speaker 1: our relationship, monogamy was what we chose, not thinking of

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Speaker 1: monogamy as the only relational perfection. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: they mean perfection in your relationship meaning wait, surely I

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Speaker 1: know what you wanted you to read it again? Perfectional?

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Speaker 1: What he made up? Ass words? Y'all? Trip, Well, entanglement

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Speaker 1: was made up? But perfectional? What is it? What is?

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Speaker 1: Give me the quote again? Relational perfection, relational perfection, entanglement?

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Speaker 1: Hell y'all talking about? Right? Why are we talking about it. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it's it's news right now. He did the GQ article,

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Speaker 1: so it's news. What is up with all these confessions

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Speaker 1: and everybody talking about stuff that they did. Go set

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Speaker 1: your hand down somewhere by you all in the news

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Speaker 1: talking about what you did. Go set your ass down

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Speaker 1: somewhere and stop with all these confessions. Confession that ain't

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Speaker 1: even usher confect, that's Roscoe Wallace conroblem, sitting and talking

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Speaker 1: about cray or. Everything you did would have produced something.

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Speaker 1: And I'm just so tired of all the hell conficius.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand this though many you ain't got to

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Speaker 1: tell all your damn business. You just don't. You just don't, man,

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Speaker 1: We all can do this. He got a lot of

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Speaker 1: money here me jad they got money, you your money.

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Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to survive this. Ain't nobody jumping

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Speaker 1: on this bandwagon run. I don't understands that he did.

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Speaker 1: He went on to say that I don't suggest our

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Speaker 1: road for anybody, but the experiences, the freedoms that we

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Speaker 1: have given one another, and the unconditional support to me

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Speaker 1: is the highest definition of love. What hold up, let's

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Speaker 1: back up? You right? My apology. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: the hell they talking about. I don't know. Why the

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Speaker 1: hell I'm trying to fix it. It makes my bad.

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Speaker 1: I'm out of this right here, me and Martin, we're

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Speaker 1: doing none of it. Coming up. It is our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day and at forty nine minutes after

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Speaker 1: we will also hear from our fearless leader, our Captain

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, with his closing remarks right after this you're

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Speaker 1: listening to all right, guys, here we are at the

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Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Wednesday hump day. Boy,

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Speaker 1: what a day? Yeah? Are you okay lot today? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I'm really struggling with my

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Speaker 1: closing remarks today because just tell the truth, all right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: got in. You know I don't normally do personal commentary

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Speaker 1: on closing remarks. I guess I do, But I just

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Speaker 1: want to say that everybody sometimes the best pot let's

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Speaker 1: see is to shut show damn money. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what it is in our society today that's got everybody

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Speaker 1: thinking that they just got to be open, sharing, letting

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Speaker 1: it out, being more transparent. Look, there's a difference between

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Speaker 1: between being authentic and being transparent and being foolish. I mean, look, man,

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Speaker 1: I wish everybody would just take a little bit more

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Speaker 1: time and consideration and weigh out. While you're sharing all

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Speaker 1: your private information with everybody, think of the impact sometimes

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Speaker 1: that it leaves. You. Know, Look, man, I guess we're

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Speaker 1: all all responsible for being a remote or excuse me,

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Speaker 1: if we're all responsible for being a role model to

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Speaker 1: some body. All of us are. I don't know anybody

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Speaker 1: who's who's exempt from that. Now you can say you

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Speaker 1: don't want to be a role model, but all of

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Speaker 1: us have a role to play in somebody's life. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't You don't have to be famous or an athlete

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Speaker 1: to be a role model. Somebody's patterning themselves after you.

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Speaker 1: Somebody younger is looking up at you. Well, if that's

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Speaker 1: the case, then we do all have a sense of

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Speaker 1: responsibility to kind of monitor the things we say. No, look,

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Speaker 1: are we all gonna make mistakes? Of course, all we're

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Speaker 1: all gonna say some things we wish we could take back.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I've done it myself over and over

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Speaker 1: and over again. I can't count the things I wish

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Speaker 1: I could get a redo in, but you can't. But sometimes, man,

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Speaker 1: when you're talking and you're sharing, you just gotta be understanding, man,

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Speaker 1: of who your audience is. There's somebody man that's listening.

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Speaker 1: That's impression. You know, if you got a wild lifestyle,

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Speaker 1: it's your business. It's your choice. You get the right

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Speaker 1: to do what you ever want to do. But you

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Speaker 1: ain't gotta tell everybody. You ain't got to tell everybody everybody.

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Speaker 1: Ain't got to go along with everybody. Ain't got to

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Speaker 1: be cool with what you said. I just happen to

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Speaker 1: be that person sometimes in this political correct society that

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Speaker 1: we live in. I get sick and tired sometimes of

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Speaker 1: having to be so politically correct in terms of because

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Speaker 1: you know, what a lot of people call political correctness

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Speaker 1: is if I have a viewpoint and I share it

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Speaker 1: with you, you have to agree with my viewpoint or

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Speaker 1: else you're politically incorrect. I'm sorry. I ain't on that bandwagon.

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Speaker 1: No damn mote, take me off of that bandwagon. That's

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Speaker 1: not political correctness. That's agreeing with your view. And I

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Speaker 1: don't have to agree with your view. I got something

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Speaker 1: else for you. I ain't got to like your view.

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Speaker 1: I got another thing for you. I don't have to

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Speaker 1: accept your view from me. It's fine for you. Gold

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Speaker 1: do you. But the moment you bring it over here

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Speaker 1: to me, you are now subject to my view? What

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Speaker 1: about my view? Why can't I say what I want

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Speaker 1: to say about the statement you made? If your freedom

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Speaker 1: is to be able to say what you want to say,

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Speaker 1: ain't my freedom to be able to say what I

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Speaker 1: want to say? Where my political correctness? Something come in that?

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Speaker 1: So you know what, y'all, I didn't decide that I

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Speaker 1: ain't going along with it no more. And you can

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Speaker 1: call me politically and correct if you want to, But

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Speaker 1: Uncle Steve is through with this mass. Man. You can't

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Speaker 1: come over here and share your mess with me, and

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Speaker 1: then when I share you mine, you got something to

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Speaker 1: say about mine? What can I say something about yours?

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Speaker 1: So here's my whole thing. Just shut your damn mouth.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you ain't got to share everything going through and

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Speaker 1: everything you're feeling, because once you put it out, there

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Speaker 1: is out there and it's now subject to our viewpoint.

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Speaker 1: It's now subject to my viewpoint. And I'm sorry, man,

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Speaker 1: we don't took this seat. See America, so free this

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Speaker 1: freedom of speech, but there's no freedom of return speech. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you're free to speak how you want to speak, But

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Speaker 1: I ain't free to speak on it. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: excuse me. Are y'all doing what your forefathers have been

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Speaker 1: doing with this constitution? Are you writing it just for

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Speaker 1: certain people because it showed don't apply to all of us?

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01:25:37,920 --> 01:25:41,960
Speaker 1: And political correctness has got to start being political correctness

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Speaker 1: for everybody. And that's including the people who don't have

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Speaker 1: to agree with what you said. That don't make us

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Speaker 1: politically incorrect. You put it out there. So my suggestion

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Speaker 1: from now on, shut show, damn mouth. Stop sharing with

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Speaker 1: me your views on marriage. Stop sharing with me your

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Speaker 1: views on relationship. And then when I say my view

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Speaker 1: on it, now all of a sudden, I'm wrong for

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Speaker 1: not agreeing with you. Well I don't, Uncle Steve, don't agree, no,

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Speaker 1: damn mother. And that's the way I'm doing political correctness

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Speaker 1: from now on. That my view is my political choice,

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01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:33,200
Speaker 1: just like yours is your political choice. So I'm cool

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Speaker 1: with it. So now if you don't won't mind, don't

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Speaker 1: share with me yours. But if you share with me yours,

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Speaker 1: please be open to mind because mine is just as

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Speaker 1: valid as yours. Is it not? Welcome to America, Uncle

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Speaker 1: Steve signing off today, y'all have a great day to

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Speaker 1: day and shut your down. For all Steve Harvey contests,

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