1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: Getting engaged is the best day of your life. Fuss, 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: proposals always go horribly wrong. You should avoid them all costs. Really, maybe, 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: but we're gonna find out today. 4 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 2: We're going to prove that proposals always end in disaster 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: or not. You decided the comments with three stories about 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: crazy proposals and that didn't go according to plan. 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Let's go. I just proposed to my girlfriend of four years. 8 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: She said no because it wasn't a surprise. 9 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 2: Do better, she said, take it back, Let's run it 10 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: again in a couple months. 11 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: So I'll start by saying I love my girlfriend a lot, 12 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: and she is definitely high maintenance. We've been talking about 13 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: getting married for a couple of years now, but I 14 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: wanted to wait until I knew a wedding was something 15 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: that we could afford. I finally got a promotion and 16 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 1: she found stable employment, so I went out and I 17 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 1: bought a ring. By the way, this comes from dover 18 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: Callous from the r slash Best of Vendor Updates sub reddit. 19 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: So we went on a vacation last week. The whole 20 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: trip was very romantic, and I proposed to on the 21 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: beach with which is what I thought exactly was what 22 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: she wanted thought it, It's gonna be right, Sophia. Well, 23 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: turns out she expected it all along because the trip 24 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: was so romantic, so she said, no. 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god, don't marry this person. I'm sorry. She 26 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: was like, it was too romantic, the trip was too good. 27 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 2: I expected it because it seemed like something that you know, 28 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 2: a person would like to propose that. 29 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: Right, can you just like pop peta? It time stair 30 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: like you're mucking me. She wants me to try again, 31 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: but wants to make it a surprise this time. She 32 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: also wants a photographer to be there to capture the moment. 33 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: It was pretty effing embarrassing when a few people came 34 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: up to us to congratulate us, and she was explaining why. 35 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: She said, no, why would. 36 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 2: She do that? Why wouldn't she just say thank you, 37 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: move on? You don't need to tell strangers. 38 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: Rue, I'm not sure what to do. She wanted it 39 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 1: to be a surprise, but also wanted me to propose 40 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: as soon as I felt ready to. We also talked 41 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: about our ideal engagement and it's on a beach, yes, seriously, 42 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: in a forest or a field. I can't imagine any 43 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: possible scenario where I could surprise her at one of 44 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: these locations. She's not the outdoorsy type, so it'd be 45 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: unlikely that she would be in any of these locations. Anyways, 46 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: I explained my frustration to her, and she just said, well, 47 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: if you want to get married, you're gonna have to 48 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: find a way to make it work. It just seems 49 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: so bridy and immature, and I'm not sure how to 50 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: deal with her now. I'm still really pissed off about it. 51 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: What should I do about this? Am I wrong to 52 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: be pissed off? We have relevant comments, Opie is replying, 53 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: and we have an update that might be kind of tragic. 54 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, but Sophia, Yes, what do we 55 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: do here? 56 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 2: I honestly think we rethink marrying this woman? Yes, if 57 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: this is her attitude about you doing something like very 58 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: sweet proposing at a beach because you thought that's what 59 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 2: she wanted, and then she asked the audacity to say, oh, 60 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 2: it wasn't surprising enough. I think you should expect an 61 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 2: engagement a little bit, yes, a little. 62 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: Bit, yes, you should. You should like in that you planet. 63 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: I think it's like because it seed like most of 64 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: the time today, it's like okay, we talk about like, okay, 65 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: are we good being married, and then just like the 66 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: day and the exact setting of the engagement is a surprise, 67 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: right exactly, which is great because both people can be 68 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: on the same page so you're not like ambushing someone. 69 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 2: I also think most times, a lot of like in 70 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: these proposal situations, a lot of the people that are 71 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 2: getting proposed to kind of expect it. They're like, oh, 72 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 2: he told me to dress nice or they told me 73 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 2: to like wear something special and that we're going to 74 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 2: a pretty place blah blah blah. 75 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: And she didn't She probably didn't know it was gonna happen, 76 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: you know, just a guest. So I feel like what 77 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:28,959 Speaker 1: I would do, and I'm curious on your thoughts on 78 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: this is like, first go to her without saying like 79 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: all me to leave or anything like that, and be like, hey, 80 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: I just. 81 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 2: I felt really disrespected. 82 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: I felt really disrespected. And see, try like one more 83 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: time and see if her response changes, and really just 84 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: be like listen, I really really want you to, you know, 85 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: understand just just what I'm feeling about it. I agree, 86 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: and if she and if she still is like having 87 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: the same response, will just find a way to do 88 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: it better. Then, I'm like, A, Definitely, the marriage is 89 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: off until further notice. Maybe the relationship, I agree. I 90 00:03:57,880 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: don't know, but I agree. 91 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,839 Speaker 2: Also, well, you know what, you don't need a photographer 92 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 2: to be there in the moment. You can do an 93 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 2: engagement shoot, you know, a post engage like an engagement shoot. Yeah, 94 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: and like, and then you can get really nice photos 95 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 2: where you're all dressed up and look pretty. 96 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: True and like if she wanted a photographer, why didn't she? 97 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 1: She said? She said the locations? Yeah, I feel like 98 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: I feel like Opie would have mentioned if she had 99 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: said it before. 100 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: It doesn't seem it doesn' seem like. 101 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like it not sure, but we'll find out. 102 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: First of these relevant comments, panic Bread says, your girlfriend 103 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: doesn't sound nearly mature enough to get married. Take this 104 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: as a sign of your life to come and get out. 105 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: Opie says, I think you're right. WHOA. I had been 106 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: trying to justify it for her by judging by the 107 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,239 Speaker 1: overwhelming response, I should probably break it off. Dobby Chief says, 108 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 1: ask your friends their truthful opinion on her, and make 109 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 1: sure to let them know that they won't get any 110 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: backlash for saying something bad. They know better than us. 111 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: That'd be so funny. Opie's like, I've called you all 112 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: here today to discuss what you guys think of My 113 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 2: girlfriend can be honest, Blue Skies, there's no wrong answer here. 114 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: What do we think? Opie says? My friends can't stand her? 115 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: Oh there you go, there you go, brainstorm over. 116 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: You didn't even need the brainstorm. 117 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 1: They hate her, They hate her already. The sky is great. 118 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: DRHD says, take the ring back to the jeweler. Does 119 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: she want an engagement or does she want a marriage? 120 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 1: I can totally see Bridezilla growing on her already. 121 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, if this was her reaction to the engagement, how 122 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: controlling is she gonna be with the wedding? 123 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 1: I don't even want to imagine that scenario. Opie says, Yeah, 124 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 1: that's another thing. When we talked about her dream proposal, 125 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: she was showing me her pinterest for her dream wedding, 126 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 1: and it's full of stuff we won't ever be able 127 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: to afford. I told her it's unlikely our wedding would 128 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 1: be like that, but we could still make it nice, 129 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: and she said that she would rather wait till we 130 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: can afford her dream wedding. 131 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 2: Okay, I was. I was going to give her, you know, 132 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 2: some credit for like a second there, because I think that, 133 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: you know, Pinterest boards are for unrealistic weddings. That's what 134 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 2: you're supposed to do there, right. However, for her to 135 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: be like, we're gonna wait until we can afford this 136 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 2: million dollar wedding. 137 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: And also, like I think earlier, I don't know, the 138 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 1: signs I was getting from her earlier is like propose, propose, 139 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: you know, and now she's like, wait, wait, I don't know, 140 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: just all over them. 141 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you had all the money in the world, 142 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 2: would you have a giant wedding me? 143 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, heck yeah. See I don't think I would giant. 144 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 1: It could be a small amount of people, but giant 145 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 1: in the extravagance. 146 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 2: And yeah, you would, you would go a full on extravage. 147 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it could be like I could do. I 148 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: feel like I'm kind of indifferent right now in terms 149 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: of like big or small. But even if I did 150 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: like small close family friends, I feel like we just 151 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 1: do like ride in on like white horses or something. 152 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's sounds cool, though, I want to have some 153 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 2: sort of fantastical wedding. Yeah, like I'm wearing. I don't know, 154 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 2: I look like an elf. 155 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: You know, you know I'm gonna be honest. I wasn't 156 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: ready for that. 157 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, like a fantasy wedding. 158 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: I know. Oh when I thought you were saying like fantastic, No, fantastical, fantastical. 159 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 1: There you go, more words. I apparently don't know. Guys, 160 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: they all sound the same. Uh, But one says, and 161 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: by rather way, I suspect that she means nag you 162 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: about either getting a better job or taking a loan 163 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: out to pay for what she wants. Don't do this 164 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: to yourself, man, twitch Op responds, Yeah, she told me 165 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: I could start selling some of the furniture that I make, 166 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: which is something that I do as a hobby that 167 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: she now wants me to turn into a second job. 168 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: Prediction before we get into the update. Will they stay together? 169 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: I don't think so. I think he's already kind of 170 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: talking about her in a way that's negative, which you know, 171 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 2: is I think fair based off her attitude. But I 172 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: think when you've gotten to that point where you're telling 173 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 2: strangers online that you don't really like your girlfriend. 174 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: Might be too far gone. 175 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 2: It might be too far on. 176 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: So I have a link to my last post that 177 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: was deleted to summarize I proposed to my girlfriend on 178 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: a nice vacation and she rejected it because she knew 179 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: it was coming and there wasn't a photographer. Thank you 180 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: for all of your comments and messages. Sorry I couldn't 181 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: respond to me, but I did read them all. I 182 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: decided to try and talk about it with her one 183 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: last time before throwing in the towel. I wasn't really 184 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: expecting much, but I just wanted to see if she'd 185 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: see my side. She lives with me, so I wanted 186 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: to end things on a good note. She didn't understand 187 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: at all. She was still saying I needed to work 188 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: for it, and she wasn't taking me seriously. So I 189 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: broke up with her. 190 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: Yes, which is exactly what you said. You said, have 191 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 2: the conversation. If she's still not understanding, she's. 192 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: Gotta here one last time. Yeah, what I feel and 193 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: ounce of empathy, of empathy for this. She doesn't have 194 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: it and she don't got it. 195 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 2: She's a void. 196 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: Oh. Then she told me she accepts my proposal and 197 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: we're just going through a rough patch, but we'll make 198 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: it work out. She was really trying to get me 199 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: to change my mind and was promising that she would 200 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: be better to me. 201 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 2: I don't buy it. 202 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: She completely ignored me every time I told her we're 203 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: breaking up and was yelling over me about how we 204 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: were going to work things out now that we're engaged, 205 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: and eventually I just got tired and went to sleep. No. 206 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 2: But the thing is that you're not engaged because you 207 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 2: said no. So that actually is how that works. You 208 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 2: have to say yes to be engaged. 209 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: Oh wow, wow wow wow ay. 210 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 2: Yeah yai ooy YoY yoie. 211 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 1: I thought everything was perfectly clear that it was over, 212 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: and she's like, no, no, we're engaged. We're talking about it. Okay, 213 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: what you're at YEA said, yeah, we'll work it out 214 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: like after the wedding and stuff. Yeah, and just buy it. Hey, 215 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 1: give me your credit card? Yeah to me? Yeah to me. 216 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: I woke up Saturday to a whole bunch of messages. 217 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: She found the ring and took a pick of it, 218 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:31,079 Speaker 1: announcing our engagement and tagged me on Facebook. 219 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: That's so embarrassing her Facebook. Oh my god. She's like, 220 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 2: I'm going too strong arm you into this wedding. 221 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: We just got into another huge fight. And eventually I 222 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: just called her parents and told them to come pick 223 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: up all of her crap or I was going to 224 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: dump it as soon as she leaves. They were surprisingly 225 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 1: understanding her own parents. Her dad seemed really embarrassed by her, 226 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: but they were a huge help. I know it's illegal 227 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,439 Speaker 1: to do that, and I was supposed to actually evict her, 228 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:00,439 Speaker 1: but she got seriously violent, and I didn't want her 229 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: in my house anymore. Honestly, I kind of get yeah, 230 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: like like, hey, listen, I'm just putting your stuff out 231 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: a lawn. Just please leave, Like, let's not do this. 232 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: She smashed my iPad, knocks my PlayStation off the TV 233 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: stand and both are completely broken. 234 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 2: It's really I mean, obviously her her actions before were 235 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 2: pretty bad, but it's very telling. How you know the 236 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: the inner depths of a person when this is how 237 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 2: they react to a breakup. 238 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she heard her true colors. Colors are flying 239 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 3: around in a mild flag. So I didn't want to 240 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 3: wait around and see what else she would do. She 241 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 3: wouldn't even give me the ring back. Her dad had 242 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 3: to guilter into it. It was pretty pathetic. 243 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: So that's the end of us. Really sucks that I 244 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: wasted the last four years with her, but I guess 245 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: it's better to get out now. It's nice that I 246 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: can hang out with all of my friends again. A 247 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: girl I'm friends with asked me out on a date. 248 00:10:55,800 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, maybe Paul's you just got out of relationship. 249 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: So that's what I'm doing tomorrow. He's doing it tomorrow. 250 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 2: So for you, I know, how long has it been 251 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 2: A day? 252 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. 253 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 2: Okay, you had then at least an hour. I don't advise. Yeah, 254 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 2: I don't advise that. That's very soon, very you were 255 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 2: literally about to get married to someone. 256 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: I'm actually very nervous. I know it's way too early, 257 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: but even if it doesn't work out, it should be 258 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: fun to start dating again. 259 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 2: My god, take take up breath. 260 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 261 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: Breather a day after you pushed her. You know, you 262 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 2: had a pretty like crazy breakup with this girl that 263 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 2: you're about to get married to. 264 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: You need some time alone. 265 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: That's an ahole move to yourself. 266 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: It is an ahle move to yourself. And you know what, 267 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: maybe people disagree with this. A day after I also 268 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 1: think the other to his ex partner as well, because 269 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: it wait like it's a hold break up for op Yeah, 270 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: so it's like if someone like, if you're like in 271 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: a relationship, you break up and then you start going 272 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: on a date, like you are like down for a 273 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: date the next day. I feel like it's just it 274 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: feels like very knife twisting. 275 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's very rude. 276 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it just feels super rude to me and 277 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: also obviously rude to himself because he needs that time 278 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: and space. 279 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I agree. I think there is a 280 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 2: waiting period before you can start like going on dates 281 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 2: that is like respectful. 282 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: Yes, that's that's just what we're saying. Bite me in 283 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: the comments if you disagree, bite me in the. 284 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 2: Air, or fight me in this guy, fighte me in. 285 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: This guy, this guy I choose divorce. There's a weapon. 286 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: But let's close out with these relevant comments. Pretending to 287 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: be happy, says a girl I'm friends with asked me 288 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 1: out now on a date. So that's what I'm doing 289 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: tomorrow too soon. Bro, Literally totally hear you there. Opie 290 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 1: says she knows the entire situation. It's not serious. She 291 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: told me years ago she had a crush on me, 292 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: but we're good friends now. Who knows what will happen 293 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: that did not. That makes it worse. 294 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 2: That makes it so much worse that you're good friends 295 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 2: with her and she's been waiting this whole time to 296 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 2: kind of like jump in there. 297 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: You were looking good, my guy, not so much anymore. 298 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 2: I would be like kind of icked out by this girl. 299 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 2: If she literally like swooped in a day after I 300 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 2: broke up with my you know, almost fiance a hundred, 301 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 2: I'd be like, that's weird. Man. 302 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 1: Although when I was a freshman in high school, I 303 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: did ask a girl out the day after she got 304 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 1: broken up. 305 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 2: With Hopefully you've learned I have. 306 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, she broke up with me two weeks later. 307 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she shouldn't. I mean, that's but she 308 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 2: did just get out of relationships. 309 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: True. I was such a oh young boys anyways kinda 310 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: Juggler says, hmm, perhaps this is why you're crazy. X 311 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: did not like your girlfriends Opie says, Yeah, that's what 312 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: started it. 313 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude. 314 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: I don't blame my girlfriend for that. I shut my 315 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: friend down then and told my girlfriend about it because 316 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: I didn't want to keep things from her. I don't 317 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 1: think I did anything wrong in that situation. But after 318 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: that she didn't want me talking to any women. 319 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 2: I mean, like, I don't support that blanket statement, but 320 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 2: rightfully so in this case. Yeah, but I think I 321 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 2: don't think maybe obviously she's more so the a hole, 322 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 2: but he's a little bit the a hole. 323 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: I do blanket support you tapping our profile and joining 324 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 1: our live every weekday at three pm PST. 325 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 2: Tap it. 326 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: But Sophia, Yeah, this is absolutely crazy. 327 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: Could I see could we. 328 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: Say they're both day hill here? I think so? 329 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 2: I think so he was so in the clear and 330 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 2: then he was like, also, I'm going on a date tomorrow. 331 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 2: It just feels weird. 332 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: It's it's it's just really really really really not a move. 333 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: I cannot imagine. Like, there's two scenarios. One, he is 334 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 2: not over the woman that was almost his yance because presumably, 335 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,479 Speaker 2: I mean, they've been together for five years. 336 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: I believe is that in a relationship with so let 337 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: me let me maybe even I do it's incorrect. We've 338 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: been talking about getting married for a couple of years now. 339 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: Girlfriend of four. 340 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 2: Years, okay, girlfriend of four years. They've been together for 341 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 2: four years. Either he is still in love with her, 342 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 2: because you it's you don't just fall out of love 343 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: with someone immediately or he like never really loved her, 344 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 2: which is also a key if he was proposing to her. 345 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 346 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, neither of those situations are good. 347 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: This is very strange. 348 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 2: Yeah for any party here. 349 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like it. I mean, she was crazy 350 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: and it was obviously he made the right decision in 351 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: splitting up with them. But I would never date someone 352 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: the day, never date someone the week after, no minute. 353 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 2: The timeline, Okay, I do think it is different for 354 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 2: different people. I think at the very least three weeks 355 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 2: to a month at the very least. 356 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, that like a month is like to me, I 357 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: think like the No, I don't. 358 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: Think I would be able to get over something for 359 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 2: like two months. 360 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: Yes, I think like in reality, at least like a 361 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 1: few months. Yeah, and this is a four year relationship 362 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: or your relationship. Come on, guys, but guys, this is 363 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: not a four story episode. Ay, it's a three story episode. 364 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: So let's get do the second one. 365 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 366 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: Ah, we go. My boyfriend proposed to me while I 367 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: was on the toilet, and I said yes. 368 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: You know, sometimes you really gotta surprise your woman if 369 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 2: you want them to say yes. 370 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: Really surprised. We don't surprise. I'm like they were like 371 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: their Elvis h oh rip. Now it's not as bad 372 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: as it sounds. Well, sounds pretty bad. My friends are 373 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: just obsessed with that part. I think here's some fake names. 374 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: My thirty two female fiance Peter, who's thirty male, had 375 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: arranged a candle light dinner in a hotel room. There 376 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: was flowers, rose petals music. There's my favorite dinner and 377 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 1: my favorite dessert. Peter was in a tuxedo. I was 378 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: wearing a dress. The evening was amazing and this comes 379 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: from fun fixed forty nine to fifty six on the 380 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: r slash beester vtited updates. So I was eating and 381 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: my ibs started acting up. I ran to the bathroom 382 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: and it was mortifying, but at least I was comfortable 383 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: enough with Peter to allow him to come in. I 384 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: was apologizing for room our evening while I was on 385 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 1: the toilet, and he said it's okay. I felt like 386 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 1: he wanted to ask me to marry him the whole 387 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: evening or something. I told him I love him, and 388 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 1: he said I love you too, and I told him, 389 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure I wish I had a toilet is sent 390 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: on right now. Yeah, but just guys, can you pretend 391 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 1: that like I'm on a toilet? 392 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, just pretend just envision green screen? 393 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 1: Scene? Wait? Is that how you start it? You don't start? 394 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 1: And scene is the end? 395 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 2: And scene is the end? 396 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: Scene? 397 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 2: Or and scene? Sorry? And scene and scene? Yeah, and 398 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 2: you go and scene. 399 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you just go straight into him. So 400 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: I told him, I'm sure, I'm sure you'll take care 401 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: of me in sickness and in health. That comment made 402 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 1: Peter smile and he got down on one knee. I 403 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: didn't care. This is the situation. I was so happy 404 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: to say yes. I feel like he wouldn't have asked 405 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: that evening if I didn't say the insickness and in 406 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 1: health common. We're gonna talk about that in a second 407 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: and scene. I told my best friend Kate thirty three female, 408 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 1: and another friend, Bailey, also thirty three female. I told 409 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: him the truth. Kate said, it's weird, creepy in an 410 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: a hole move on his part. I explained that he 411 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 1: likely would have put it off if I didn't make 412 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:06,199 Speaker 1: the health comment. Katie said, I was desperate, and then 413 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 1: I should have some self respect. What Bailey said, if 414 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: I thought Peter would ask another time, then he should 415 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 1: have let him ask another time. 416 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 2: What do you mean let him? 417 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is kind of crazy. Before we're talking to them, 418 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 1: I thought it was the sweetest proposal story. Now I 419 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 1: feel like an a whole who caused my amazing fiance 420 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: to have a horrible story? Am I the a hole? 421 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: We have an update and the families getting in the mix. 422 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:30,680 Speaker 2: Okay, these friends kind of suck. 423 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 1: Okay, so Kate and Bailey, what's the deal. 424 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 2: I don't know. They're so negative. They're like, oh, just 425 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 2: because it's it's not the one that you wanted. He 426 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: didn't have to. If he did not want to propose 427 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 2: in that moment, he wouldn't have mm hmm, like I 428 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 2: don't think I'll by saying like like I feel like 429 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 2: you'll be there for me and say like, you know, 430 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 2: regardless of sickness and health, if you're here by my 431 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,479 Speaker 2: toilet side, and he was like, yet, you know what, 432 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to prove that I will be And that 433 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 2: was like a moment for them and they ruined. Obviously 434 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 2: it's a little silly, but they didn't have to freaking 435 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 2: make go Pee feel guilty. 436 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: Can I be honest with you so honest when we 437 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: first heard. This is why I wanted to save it. 438 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 1: Because when I first heard he proposed her while she 439 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: was on the toilet, I was like, come on, what 440 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 1: do we do with here? This is in opportune time. Absolutely, 441 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: now that I have a context, she has ibs, she's 442 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 1: probably something she always she always struggles with. 443 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's probably on the toilet for a while, on the. 444 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: For a while. And the fact that she said in 445 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: his sickness and in health, and they had this like 446 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: beautiful moment. Yeah, I feel I feel like it was 447 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: just basically what OPI said in that moment. He just 448 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 1: kind of felt the pole like urge. I am the 449 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: same way you feel an urge to run to the bathroom. 450 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 1: He had to run to her with a propose, and 451 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: propose I kind of like it, And could I if 452 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: I could bring one exhibit a the office. 453 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 2: Yes, that's exactly what I was thinking. 454 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 1: At a gas station, Yeah, so Jim and Pam. It 455 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: was a gas station that was the exact middle point 456 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: between the two of them. Yeah, And it was meaningful 457 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,479 Speaker 1: to them because that is that is literally how they 458 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: got to see each other. It was the meeting point 459 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: between the for the two of them, posing at a 460 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: gas station was the perfect place. 461 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 4: With proposals, and Angela was all like you you got 462 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 4: proposed to at a gas station? 463 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and like get off, you know, shut up with proposals. 464 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 2: It is literally the thought that counts. The more thought 465 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 2: that you put into at the more time. Like You're like, 466 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 2: not necessarily time, but it's like, this is something that 467 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 2: means a lot to both of us. We are both 468 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 2: here in this moment. It is we are both in love. 469 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 2: It is a profession of love, and no one gets 470 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 2: to decide where or when that happens. 471 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: I'm team toilet, Are you team toilet? 472 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:32,120 Speaker 2: Looking team toilet? 473 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 1: Team toilet? 474 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 4: Because in a way, she's comfortable with him coming in 475 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,439 Speaker 4: there with this big thing she has to do with 476 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 4: every day, and that's like the final that's the final thing. 477 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: That's a final leader, that's the final boss. 478 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 2: He's like, don't worry, baby, I'm gonna be here in 479 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 2: the bathroom with you. 480 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: I got you. You may be taking a dump, but baby, 481 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna dump you. 482 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 2: M M. 483 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 4: Hopefully they get a house where they have two tools 484 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 4: that trib beside each other. 485 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 2: Oh my god. One time in Palm Springs. My family 486 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 2: and I we went to this open house just for 487 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 2: funzies and there was a bathroom with two toilets facing 488 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,919 Speaker 2: each other like this, and there was no door. It 489 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 2: was literally just they were just facing. It was so weird, 490 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 2: it's cute. I was very uncomfortable. 491 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so guys who've established that were team toilet, Yeah, 492 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: put your votes in Chat said yeah, Chat, let us 493 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: know are you team toilet or not. We're gonna get 494 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 1: into this update. It might ruin everything I think the 495 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 1: family's getting in here. Let's find out. So the proposal 496 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: happened on Saturday, and I had been holding off and 497 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 1: telling my parents and Peter's parents. Both sets of parents 498 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 1: live in a different state, and tonight we told my 499 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: parents first via video chat. My parents are Bob fifty 500 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 1: eight male and Susan fifty eight female. My mom is 501 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: a massive fan of Romance, and I knew she would 502 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 1: ask about the proposal. Peter and I told my parents 503 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: the whole proposal story. My mom was over the moon. 504 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: She said, proposing like that is better than any idea 505 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 1: she had. Dude. My dad said, it just proves the 506 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,160 Speaker 1: love that Peter has fock. 507 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 2: At least the family's good. 508 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,120 Speaker 1: Family gets it. 509 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 2: Drop your friends they suck. 510 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 1: Keep your family that's right, and drop your pants and 511 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: propose your love yond the way you're thinking. Keeping my 512 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: pants on. No, my mom asked me if she can 513 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 1: tell others, and I said sure. I asked my mom 514 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 1: to be my maid of honor adorable. After getting engaged. 515 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: My pick for a maid of honor was either going 516 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: to be Kate or my mom. I did not pick 517 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 1: my mom to spite Kate. I'm not punishing Kate. Kate's 518 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: initial reaction to the proposal story just made her being 519 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: the maid of honor action. 520 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. If she had a little speech or something and 521 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 2: she was like, I it's weird that they proposed not 522 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 2: a toilet. Shut up, No. 523 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: One wants you to get out of here, Kate. Evacuate Kate. 524 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: That's not a slant rhyme. Plus, my mom is so 525 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: happy with our union and she would love to plan. 526 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 1: Then we told Peter's parents via video chat. His parents 527 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,920 Speaker 1: are Chuck fifty five male and Linda fifty nine female. 528 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: His parents really appreciated the comedy. Chuck thanked us giving 529 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 1: him the gift of telling that amazing story. If we're 530 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: comfortable with that I told him that we are confused. 531 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 1: Linda said she's so happy for us, and Peter told 532 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: his father that he wants him to be the best man. 533 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: Love the parents is yeah, this is so sweet. Right. Lastly, 534 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: we told Peter's sister Juliana twenty seven female via video chat, 535 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 1: as she lives in another state. She had her father's 536 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: sense of humor. All's going, well. 537 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 2: This is great. 538 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 1: Right. By the way, I just saw Peyton's comment. Guys, 539 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 1: I want the comment section flooded with toilets, but it 540 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: absolutely flooded. 541 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 2: Flood the bathroom right now. 542 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: Ninety five percent is team toilet on the pole. If 543 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 1: you're not team toilet, who even are you? Uh? 544 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 4: It's this person And this is what they say. 545 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: Serre Pistachio says, I get sickness and in health, but 546 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: I'd rather celebrate that moment in health, not insphincter destruction. 547 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 2: Were you the right to do that? 548 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:43,439 Speaker 1: You have right to do that. 549 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:44,439 Speaker 2: You have a right to do that. 550 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,120 Speaker 1: But the question here is for their scenario, given their 551 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 1: very unique context, is it did. 552 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 2: Both people did both parties like and appreciate the way 553 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 2: that they were proposed slash proposing Yes? And the answer 554 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 2: was yes. 555 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: The answer is yes. The answer is yes. I hope 556 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 1: Katie and Baby will be bridesmaids. Yes, Kate and Bailey 557 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: are single haters. 558 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can tell. 559 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: Right, he'll find you a toilet. I have been best 560 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: friends with Kate since sixth grade, so this little disagreement 561 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: won't ruin our friendship. And then, further on that update, 562 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: Kate and Bailey have both agreed to be bridesmaids. All right, 563 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 1: when I ask you a message, Kate apologized via message 564 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: and also sent me a video for apologizing. It's kind 565 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: of weird, right, Like it's like one. 566 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 2: Of those FaceTime videos that you can send out you're 567 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,199 Speaker 2: talking about, like if someone misses, So it's kind of 568 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 2: like a voicemail, but it's a fixed time voice right right. 569 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: Hey kay, It's it's like it's like a YouTuber apology video, 570 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: but for one person, like hey guy, I mean, okay, guy, 571 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: hey guy. You know, people learn and people grow. Yeah, 572 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 1: I hated toilets, but I mean it's nice. 573 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 2: I couldn't say the other one. 574 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 1: It's like you're a professional podcast or comedian or improver 575 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: or all of them combined. I know what it was, 576 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 1: poopy nice one. Riley is simmy probe get in there. 577 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: So Kate said she appreciates that I'm still letting her 578 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 1: be a key part of the wedding. She said that 579 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 1: after several days of thinking about the proposal, she realized 580 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,400 Speaker 1: how loving it was. She said, if I had IBS, 581 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: she would appreciate a guy who treats her like how 582 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: Peter treats me. Bailey also apologized be a message. Her 583 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: apology was brief, and she admitted in it that Kate 584 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: had told her to apologe okay. 585 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 2: She was like, hello, it's Bailey. Kate told me to 586 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 2: do this. I don't even want to be here. 587 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: Sorry, I guess there you go? Are you happy? 588 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 2: Are you happy? Now? 589 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 1: Is that enough? Like, let's go get some potato. Kate's 590 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 1: next apologize, say you love the toilets? Oh my gosh, sorry, 591 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 1: says did Ice Spice write this? Maybe? But guys, oh, 592 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:49,680 Speaker 1: if you. 593 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 2: Want to be my lover, that's not my spice. 594 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 4: You think you the crap? Nah? 595 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 1: You ain't even the fart. Wow, I didn't censer myself 596 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: at all. Do it? Do it? 597 00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 4: You do it, do it the right way? 598 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,360 Speaker 1: Think I'm the crap? Be you know, not even a fart? Yeah, tensored. 599 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: Thank you. Sorry to be tensed. But we have another update. 600 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: Do you remember this update? Okay, nice, I see what 601 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:15,439 Speaker 1: you did there yesterday. So thank you to all the 602 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: amazing people who gave me support on my original post. 603 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: After Kate's apology message and apology video, I messaged back 604 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: that I forgave her with a link to my original post. 605 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 1: She said she really wanted this is becoming like a 606 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 1: a YouTuber apology thing without YouTube. She said she really 607 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: wanted to talk face to face. We went to the 608 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: gym today even though I was feeling like I was 609 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: going to get an ibs flare up. More toilet talk baby. 610 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 1: We talked while we worked out. Kate said that she 611 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 1: was upset when she heard about my proposal story, and 612 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,239 Speaker 1: that she didn't understand why she was so upset at 613 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 1: the time. She confessed that when she had processed her feelings, 614 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 1: she realized it was intense jealousy. 615 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 2: Knew it. You know what, at least she's admitting to at. 616 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,719 Speaker 1: Least she's admitting to it. Any coming around, she's coming around. 617 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: I I do respect this. This is a good direct. 618 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: Kate revealed to me for the first time that she 619 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: was diagnosed with IBS a few months ago. 620 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god, she wants to be proposed to on 621 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 2: the toilet. Dude, it's all coming together. Wow, pieces are 622 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 2: adding up. 623 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: She said that she's it's been a really scary time 624 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 1: for her, especially since she watched me suffer so much 625 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 1: from it through all these years. Kate said that she 626 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: would want that proposal for herself. She said she wishes 627 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 1: she could be that comfortable with a man, and said 628 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: that my comments on my original post made her feel hopeful. 629 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: She said looking up more on IBS online has made 630 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 1: her feel hopeful as well. Kate had explicitly asked me 631 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 1: to make this update post. She apologized again, and she 632 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: said that she's glad that my mom is the maid 633 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: of honor instead of her. It's cute. She said She's 634 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: happy for me, but also very jealous. Kate says that 635 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 1: despite the fact that Bailey had sent an apology message 636 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: to Bailey still feels awkward talking to me. Kate said 637 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 1: that Bailey will come around. That Bailey's just too embarrassed 638 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 1: right now after how she acted, she should be. I 639 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: guess we'll see. I asked Kate if she looked up 640 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 1: how common IBS is, and she looked that up after 641 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: seeing the comment in my original post. She said she 642 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: was shocked at how common it actually was, and she 643 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: said that she was avoiding learning about it as she 644 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 1: was scared about what she might find out. I made 645 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 1: sure to tell her that a guy has never dumped 646 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: me over my ibs. She knows that I messed around 647 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 1: with an embarrassing amount of guys before meeting Peter. What 648 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: are you laughing at, Riley? 649 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 2: All Hawk girls have tummy issues. 650 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 4: No, no guy has dumped her over her ibs. 651 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: She's dumped them. That's good, that's good. I told Kate 652 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: the reasons those hookups never progressed to anything real was 653 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 1: because I was too ashamed to let a guy see 654 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,439 Speaker 1: the ibs part of my life. I told Kate that 655 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 1: the person who told me I was ugly and nasty 656 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: more than anyone was myself. Oh wow wow oooo. Kate 657 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 1: said she wasn't mentally adjusted to this yet, but she 658 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: thinks she can. I told her she's my best friend, 659 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 1: I love her, and that I will help her through this. 660 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: I made a joke about poopy girls having to stick together. 661 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: That made her smile. Great toilet jokes Today, after the gym. 662 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 1: I rushed home to the toilet to deal with an 663 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,959 Speaker 1: IBS flap that I felt coming right back at it 664 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 1: to no. In surprise, Peter took care of me when 665 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: he came home from work. He even helped me take 666 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 1: a bath as I was experiencing so much discomfort. 667 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 2: Damn, I would love to take a bath right now. 668 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 2: My back hurts. 669 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 1: No, sorry, I rock climb climber. I'm a rock climber now, Sofia, 670 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: I climb rocks Donner my middle name. I want everyone 671 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: to know Kate has been an amazing friend to me. 672 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 1: The disappointment that was at the center of my original 673 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: post completely out of character for her. I made that 674 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: post asking if I was wrong about Kate as always, 675 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 1: as she had always been very reasonable even with IBS. 676 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm happy. I have amazing friends, an amazing family, and 677 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: obviously an amazing fiance. So if you don't hear much 678 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 1: from me on Reddit, don't worry. I'm probably just living 679 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 1: an amazing life even when I'm stuck on the toilet. 680 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: By the way, if you're stuck on the toilet, you 681 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: can still shine. 682 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 2: Us live every week honestly, probably the best use of 683 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 2: your time. 684 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: Probably how most of your internal huts at all times. Sofia, 685 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 1: we have this very short final update and then that's it. 686 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 1: But this is a few days later, right now, suffering 687 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: from one of the worst IBS flareups of my life, 688 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: plus I have one whopa of a cold. But I 689 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 1: have good news. Both Katie and Bailey have visited me 690 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 1: in the toilet maybe another toilet, meaning I would be 691 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 1: here for it. Bailey now knows about Kate's IBS from Kate, 692 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: I was so sick. I was laying in bed when 693 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 1: my friends visited, and Peter was there to help me. 694 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 1: Of course, Bailey actually cried as she gave her first 695 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: face to face apology for her reaction to my proposal story. 696 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: She apologized to both Peter and I. She even hugged 697 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 1: me despite the fact that I have a cold. Peter 698 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 1: and I both accepted Bailey's apology, and I told Bailey 699 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: that she doesn't need to be embarrassed to talk to me. 700 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: My friends and I talked a little before I needed 701 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom. They wished me well before leaving. 702 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: Peter took care of me, of course, and I'm glad 703 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: that I'm on good terms with both of my. 704 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 2: Closest positive stories. 705 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 1: I love it. I absolutely love it. 706 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 2: I love it. I love a positive story. 707 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,479 Speaker 1: Is there anything else we would differently? 708 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 2: Honestly, no, it seems like everything else, Like everything worked out. 709 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 2: I don't think you have to get rid of your 710 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 2: friends because they've apologized. Friends sometimes make mistake, but they 711 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 2: owned up to it, so I think we're in the clear. 712 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 1: I think the way that Kate handled it was a 713 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: pretty textbook way of handling things, Like she took time, 714 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 1: she realized. 715 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 2: Why she was, you know, feeling this way, her. 716 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: Own jealousys insecurities, and brought that to NOP and is like, look, 717 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: I was I was jealous, I was insecure. I took 718 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: all that out on you. I was scared of my 719 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: own IBS and like what that journey would look like. 720 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: And by bringing all that stuff to the table and 721 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 1: just being honest, it probably helped her so much. 722 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, now she's got she's got a support team for 723 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 2: her ibs too. Ibs girlies stick. 724 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 1: Together, IBS two number two. Right. But guys, we can't 725 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 1: flush this episode down the toilet just yet because we 726 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: haven't S three And I'm gonna ask Sophia to read 727 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: it because my voice is getting crinklin. 728 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 2: I got it. 729 00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: That's the thing. So Sophia take it away. They go away, 730 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 1: They get away.