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Speaker 2: How I do? I don't know, but I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: When she showed up on that Eiffel Tower, because I

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Speaker 2: Talk about balling?

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Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, my heart will go on or

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Speaker 1: not be after watching this non it? Okay, you're anonymous

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Speaker 1: husband and I may have to utilize donor eggs as

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Speaker 1: IVF is not going well, how do you process this?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: That means there's not much that isn't making me emotional

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Speaker 1: right now. That's a lot, Honey, that's a whole lot

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Speaker 1: I have thought about that a lot. That is I

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Speaker 1: instead of saying how do you process as this, I

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Speaker 1: would like to say, because I don't know how, I

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Speaker 1: think you're so brave for doing that. That is a

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Speaker 1: whole other layer of stuff. That is a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't even imagine. I can't imagine that because I've

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Speaker 1: really brave. I think you're brave for trying to tackle IVF.

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Speaker 1: to have even the whole conversation about donor eggs.

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Speaker 2: That's a whole other layer of courage. So good for you.

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Speaker 1: As my best friend would say, give yourself some grace.

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Speaker 1: Talk to your people about it. Even if your friends CHRISA. Thompson,

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Speaker 1: Jacqueline Quick, Megan Carter, don't Heather don't know what it's

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Speaker 1: like to go through that. They're always there to listen.

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Speaker 1: They're always there to praise you, love on you, and

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Speaker 1: give you another perspective about the whole thing, which is

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Speaker 1: they don't understand because they didn't go through it.

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Speaker 2: Not the case.

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Speaker 1: They give you great if you have a good group,

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Speaker 1: they give you good perspective on how to attack things,

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Speaker 1: how to look at things, how to kind of compartmentalize things.

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Speaker 2: So and talk to your partner about it too, because

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Speaker 2: that's so important. That's really sweet.

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Speaker 1: I like that and that makes me emotional just listening

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Speaker 1: and you say that, but I love that.

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Speaker 2: All Right, we have a big show.

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Speaker 1: We're going to recap week seventeen, recap the holidays. We

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Speaker 1: are this will you know, roll this thing into the

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Speaker 1: new year twenty twenty six, I know twenty twenty five

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Speaker 1: was not a great year for a lot of people,

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Speaker 1: hoping that the new year offers love, happiness, and help

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Speaker 1: see you on the big show.

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Speaker 2: Love You Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a

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