1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest, 2 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: Because it's a lot of people are up early, so 3 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to work. So I'm just getting organized. Other 4 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: people getting their exercise, and I've started to do something 5 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: which I've found all my life to be miserably painful. 6 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 1: But I play that song when I do this. Now 7 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: I'm trying to do pull ups. No, they're so hard. 8 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: I have had strength, that's the thing, and grip, and 9 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: I used to try to do them and I just 10 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: get so sad because they're hard. They just make every 11 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: part of your body? Is there a secret to it? Like? 12 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: Do you like? I think the secret is you just 13 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: do one for a week then you too. Okay, see 14 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: that's a secret anyway. That song I play to get 15 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: me going and pull myself. Where are you at right now? 16 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: One number six came? What's up? You probably do? But 17 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: do you deal them with your legs straight down and 18 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: no rocking? Like completely like this? Yeah? Oh yeah, I 19 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: don't like the leg swinging thing. There's a doorway where 20 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: you're at, and I feel as though you should prove 21 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: it during the next song, We don't know you need 22 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: the bar? You don't you could do the doorways. I've 23 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: seen touch to it on like beans. We're gonna pull 24 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: myself up over these monitors by me on the the door, 25 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: like the doorway door, the actual door. Yeah, I think 26 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: are going to break the hinges off. No, I don't know. 27 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: Those are pretty sturdy doors made a metal anyway. That 28 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 1: song just what I'm saying. That's a good song to 29 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: work out too, is what I was trying to say 30 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: to you all um. This morning, as you get going 31 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: not quite as warm hies in the upper seventies and 32 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: low nineties, as you work inland, we gotta Ryan's roses 33 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: this morning. So that's after seven. Now. The deal with 34 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: this is they've been living apart due to work, and 35 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: everything was okay, it was fine, and then something happened 36 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: was a late night decision, and now there's some trouble. 37 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: So we'll do that at seven. Sotana and Robbie are 38 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: you know they're becoming one? And I see baby steps, 39 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: I see you know the dog solar panel. I see 40 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: the dog's name is Sonny. Sonny. The two of them 41 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: the Taco Tuesdays. And now apparently she has given him 42 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: the authority and the responsibility and the duty to calculate 43 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: sugar intake. I didn't want to do it romantic. How 44 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: hot is this opposite of hot? But I realized I'm 45 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: super addicted to sugar, and I really I don't want 46 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: to be addicted anymore. So I'm like, I need to 47 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: go cold turkey. And I wasn't doing it on my own. 48 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: And I'm with him the majority of I'm him more. 49 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: I'm more with him than I am with anybody else 50 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: someone dependent over here. But what's the impetus to the 51 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: sugar intake? Is like, so, how what he's supposed to do? What? 52 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: So he's like monitoring me. He's just like helping me 53 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: get rid of it completely. And so I put sugar 54 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: in my coffee every single morning. It's like what I 55 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: look forward to. I love it so much. And now 56 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: that he's in charge of my sugar, he goes, no 57 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: more sugar in your coffee, and I'm like really having 58 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: a tough time with it, and it's so addicting. No, 59 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm when I'm not with him, I'm I stand to 60 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: it because I'm like, now I've committed to him, and 61 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: he's like keeping me on track and he's checking in 62 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: with me. I even had a headache, Like the after 63 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: two days of it, I had like this earlyday. I 64 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: never get headache, so it must have been from the withdrawals. Yeah, 65 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: so I think this is great. I used to put 66 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: sugar in my coffee. Then I put Splendor, and then 67 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: I realized bad, bad, bad, bad bad concerning the amount 68 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: of mornings I drink coffee. And I also read more 69 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: about sugar and decided I made a choice to not 70 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: use it. Now I don't really want sweet. I don't 71 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: really want it. That's what he was saying. He was like, 72 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: you put it. It's the first thing you put in 73 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: your body, so you're going to crave it more throughout 74 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: the day, and you're gonna crash the first thing you're wanting. Yeah, 75 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: so twenty one days breaks to have it. Have you 76 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: done it yet? Twenty one days? No, I'm at like five. 77 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: It's okay. It's like pull ups right, one at a time, 78 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: the brutal. And then for dessert after dinner, we'll have 79 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: like watermelon. Isn't that still sugar? No? But I'm natural sugar. 80 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: Why don't you just not have dessert? That's the thing 81 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: that you need if you're trying to not have sugars, 82 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: stop dessert, Okay, but you gotta It's a process, bro. Yeah, 83 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you the best process just cold turkey, 84 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: Like you just said cold turkey. Well, yeah, processed sugar 85 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: because after dinner, would like you can't have dates and cherry. Yeah, 86 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: I know, I would have like a cookie or chocolate 87 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: or some like. I think you've got to stop sugar 88 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: to get your body to not want Yes, processed you 89 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 1: refine sugar. That is a big step. But I really 90 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: admire it because once you have your breakthrough, you won't 91 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: really want it. You won't need the dessert. You won't 92 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: need that stuff in the morning. That's what I'm hoping 93 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: for because it's really I'm like, very addicted. Can you 94 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: tell a bit of a touchy subjects? I've seen her 95 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: in action. She can take down like five cut pakes. 96 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: It's very fascinating and she got very like, don't take 97 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: my fruit away from me. It's not that easy about 98 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: all right, listen to assist my hair thinning to you know, No, 99 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: I'm just looking at honestly it. I lost so much 100 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: hair after the pregnancy, and I've been using Ravella, which 101 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: is actually helping it grow. Back a lot. So I'm 102 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: very curious about this hack. I was actually saying your 103 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: name because I was vamping my brain so I could 104 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: look over at tubs to see if he might want 105 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: to partake in this. How you feel about your hair thickness? Uh? 106 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: It is, it's very fine, like light hair, but it's 107 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: not thinning like I want sugar. Alright, So here's the thing. 108 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: This was in this week's Woman's World magazine. A staple 109 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: on your coffee table that in Southern Living. If you're 110 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: concerned about thinning hair, eat more tacos, come on what 111 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: kind shrimp, fish and crab. It is those uh, items 112 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: from the sea that help with thickening hair. So you know, 113 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: I take a package of I don't know, pulverized marine 114 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: collagen in the morning, put in my coffee. You don't 115 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: know that tasty? Don't taste it. Polarized marine. It's like 116 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: marine collagen, but it's been powder form and I put 117 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: in my coffee. Literally can't keep up with you, and 118 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: I want to I want to keep I want to 119 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: keep my hair thick. That's what it does. That that's 120 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: what's for. Where do you get shipped from? What's it 121 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: called collagen? Marine layer, marine collagen, marine collagen. You even 122 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: noticed every guy red lobster's got great hair. I mean, 123 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: this is a research study the way. Let's go back 124 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: to the tacos. Why can't you just eat the fish? 125 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: Why does it have to be a taco? Well, I 126 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: think they're trying to make it seem more appetizing by saying, 127 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: have a shrimp taco or crab talker. But it's really 128 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: what's it's that crustacean or whatever it is? That a 129 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: crab taco? Interesting, Tony, What does it say about marine collagen? Well, 130 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm just looking up like where you buy it, and 131 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 1: it comes in many forms. You can get it everywhere. 132 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: What are the benefits from Australia or something? Can you 133 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: get the benefits while you do that? Today's quote? Feelings 134 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious 135 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: breathing is your anchor? All right? What'd you find out? 136 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: Let's see what do you do for your body? It 137 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: helps delay some signs of aging like wrinkles, joint issues 138 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 1: and weakness. Um. It also provides issues entrain on air 139 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: with Ryan Secrets. Oh we're still enjoying that, all right, 140 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: We just talking the benefits of marine collagen. Was there 141 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 1: anything else you discovered during b I g um? It 142 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: slows down the body body breaking down of its own collagen, 143 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: So so it just slows down the process of does 144 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: collagen thicken hair? Let's see. College is often recognized as 145 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: a potent solution for thickening hair. It may reduce hair 146 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 1: loss and boost her health. Get it, get me some 147 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: of this. Do you guys start trising about their hair thinning? Yeah? Okay, okay, 148 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: let's get to the headlines. Well, man, we can't catch 149 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: a break with these gas prices. The average price for 150 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: a gallon of gas and l A County is back 151 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: above six dollars. The average price has risen for the 152 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: last eighteen consecutive days, increasing twenty three point nine cents, 153 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: including five point six cents just on Saturday alone. It's 154 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: the largest increase since March nine. Southern California is known 155 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: for its many street vendors. Well, there's a new bill 156 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: in the works that would make it easier for them 157 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: to make a living. It would change the food retail 158 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: code so they would be able to get the proper 159 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: health permits. Among other things, the bill would eliminate some 160 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 1: expensive equipment requirements and intentionally incorporate sidewalk food vendors into 161 00:09:55,760 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 1: the code. And Courtney Kardashian and Travis Barker are merry 162 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: for real this time. They tied the knot in the 163 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: ceremony in Santa Barbara yesterday. They were seeing exchanging vows 164 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: on the steps of a courthouse, Travis dressed in all 165 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: black tuxedo and Courtney in a bridle white mini dress 166 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,239 Speaker 1: with a veil. Her grandmother and his father were photographed 167 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: alongside them next to a black convertible with a large 168 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 1: sign that reads just married, So big congratulations to them 169 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest. Yeah, did you ever know 170 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 1: that there is an elementary school underneath Dodger Stadium? Buried 171 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: underneath there? No, but I knew there was a Dodger jail. 172 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,839 Speaker 1: That me too, because you almost got I was for 173 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: standing on top of the dugout and you've come so 174 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: far trying to lead everybody the seventh inning stretched. They 175 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: all loved it. Let me bring in Evan love It 176 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: of Studio City. Now. Evan started this on TikTok. It's 177 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: a series called l A in a Minute. Evan, Good morning, 178 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: good morning, how are you appreciate you having me on. 179 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,719 Speaker 1: Of course, we love Los Angele listen, and we love 180 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: the history and the food and the culture. Why did 181 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:07,839 Speaker 1: you start to do this and show we, the people 182 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 1: who live here, what our city has to offer in 183 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: terms of rich history. Great question. Two reasons. Number one. 184 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: I started from my son, Uh, he is, as most 185 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: children eight years old, addicted to the screen. I was 186 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: sick and tired of taking the screen away from having 187 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: the fights. So we came up with this rule that said, 188 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: you need to learn something if you are going to 189 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: have screen time tomorrow. That dovetailed with the fact that, um, 190 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 1: you know, I am a l a Walk born and 191 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: raised native, um, very proud of my city. And I 192 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: realized that people were starting to do news on TikTok, 193 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: which sound a little bit silly now I'm old school. 194 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: I am a newspaper subscribing person, but I figured people 195 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: are getting news, yeah, literal news there. So people are 196 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: getting news on TikTok. What I was gonna do is 197 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: sit down with the l A Times every day and 198 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: distill in one minute what's going on Los Angeles. Put 199 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: that in front of my son. Hey, just you know, 200 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: you enjoy it. Report back what you learned, what you 201 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 1: retain from that, you can watch your screen time tomorrow. 202 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: But I think more importantly the overall goal was throughout 203 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: my entire life. I've heard the trope that Los Angeles 204 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 1: doesn't have culture, los Angeles doesn't have history, But the 205 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: truth is you just need to look for it. Around 206 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: every corner is something fascinating, something interesting. So if I 207 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: can sort of just contribute to people recognizing that Los 208 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: Angeles is this dynamic and fascinating city, then I'm gonna 209 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: go ahead and do that. Luckily, um, you know, pretty 210 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: quickly through the TikTok algorithm, was able to develop a 211 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: night's following and uh, you know, kept me motivated. It's 212 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: called at l A in a minute on TikTok and 213 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: Instagram and Evan, So you talked about the history of 214 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: food trucks, the history of why do we say the 215 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 1: four or five instead of four or five? So, um, basically, 216 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: since l A was the first city to be planned 217 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 1: around car culture and um, you know, car as the 218 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 1: ubiquitous transportation method, all of the freeways used to be 219 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: called by their their name, their locale um, the Royale Goo, 220 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: the the Pasadena Freeway, and that that was how he 221 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: referred to it was for the location name. And then 222 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: when they tried to codify everything and just you know, 223 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: make it more rigid with the numbers that the just 224 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 1: carried over. So was you know the Ventura Freeway. Will 225 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: it's still the it's the one oh one. Right. Well, 226 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: here's the thing, Evan discovering all these little gold mines 227 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: about Los Angeles. So I was just telling City Antonia 228 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: about the elementary school buried beneath Dodger Stadium. Tell us 229 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: about that. Oh, I'm glad you pulled that. That's one 230 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 1: of my favorite tidbits. And look, I'm a huge Dodger fan. 231 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: I mean, baseball has been my birth birth um, and 232 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: I knew about the history with Dodger Stadium and Chavez 233 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: R being very controversial at the time, very tragic for 234 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: the families that lived there, and we all no at 235 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: least elements of that. But again digging deeper, and there 236 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 1: was a book by by Eric Brightwell called Stealing Home 237 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: that I had read in kind of preparation for this piece, 238 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: and he gets into the gnarly details and it wasn't 239 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: just you know, moving the families, but it turns out, 240 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: you know, there was a community there and the Dodgers, 241 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: you know, when they had did when they did what 242 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: they did to build the stadium, and you know the 243 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: deal with the O'Malley's in the city instead of you know, 244 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: demolishing the elementary school, and I always go back and forth. 245 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: It's it more respectful to demolish at first, but either way, 246 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: they ended up just burying and building over the elementary school, 247 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: which is now located under the third base foul side 248 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: into the stands and extending out into the parking lot. Um. 249 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: So I found that like a very very fascinating tidbit. Yeah, 250 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: that there's an element buried under there. Fascinating. Well. Evan 251 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: loved Studio City born and raised l a In a 252 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 1: minute before we let you go, they tell me that 253 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: you're working on the history of Kiss FM. Oh, absolutely true. 254 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: I put that together. I was inspired. I did a 255 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 1: Carneys piece recently, and it turns out that the person 256 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: who founded Carneys actually was the person responsible for Kiss 257 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: FM swapping from its adult contemporary format in nineteen seventy 258 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: five to the top forty format if you will, of 259 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: nineteen seventy Also in nineteen seventy five, when Charlie Tuneau 260 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 1: was running the show back then. No, you see, I did. 261 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: We didn't know that and we work here. That's hey. 262 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I got all kinds of tidbits for you. 263 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: Did you know that Kiss FM K I I S 264 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: is named kiss because the AM frequency at the time 265 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: was on a M If you remember old pager code, 266 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 1: that's the way I relate to it. WON one five 267 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: looks like I I S. So they decided to do 268 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: Kiss FM. So that's why we have two eyes I 269 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: I We're big fans. I'm glad you're doing this. Make 270 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: sure you check out this stuff here in southern califorint 271 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: a lot of fun at l A in a minute, 272 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: Evan love it, take care, brother, thank you for connecting. 273 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: Thank you all. I really appreciate you, and have a 274 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: great day l A. I appreciate you, guys. See you bye. 275 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: Spirit of l A. And that guy and I like it. 276 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: I love that his last name is love it. Which 277 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: way is the beach? Ryan? Okay, so you said two 278 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: celebrities tany in the trending report that you admire y 279 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: are going public about their therapy. Go ahead, Yes, So 280 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: the first one I'm talking about is our Girl Hills stuff. 281 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 1: She was on the cover of Women's Health magazine and 282 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: she was opening up a lot, mostly about her relationship 283 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: with her body, but she also talked about her mental health, 284 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: and so she talks to her son Luca about it 285 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 1: all the time, and she basically tells him, you know, 286 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: if you ever get tired of talking to your friends 287 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 1: and family about things, you can always go to therapy. 288 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 1: So he's young, but she wants him to know that, like, 289 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: this is available, this is a good outlet. And she said, 290 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: I love my therapist, and I always feel better when 291 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: I leave because I can say whatever I want and 292 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: not feel judged. Everybody needs that and then someone else 293 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 1: I admire very much. Harry Styles opened up about his 294 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: journey with therapy in in the Better Homes and Gardens interview. 295 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: It was like an extended version. And he used to 296 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,400 Speaker 1: think that he never needed therapy, thought that it meant 297 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 1: that you were broken, and so he started going to 298 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 1: therapy um and he says, it's just benefited so much 299 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 1: from it. And I feel like I too started going 300 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 1: to therapy in my adult life, like recently, I think 301 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: within the last year and a half. And I've always 302 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: thought the same thing too, Like I can handle my 303 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: problems on my own, Like I'm strong, I got this. 304 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: But therapy really kind of lets you figure out like 305 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: kind of why you live the way that you live, 306 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 1: why you tick, why certain things upset you, because it 307 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 1: all comes from your past and you really can kind 308 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: of dig into that and then kind of change your 309 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: ways for the better. I think it's great that everybody's 310 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 1: talking about this now. Is it weird so you talk 311 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 1: about your experiences with your therapist on this show all 312 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 1: the time? Is it weird if I asked you, oh, 313 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 1: who is it to go see them as well? Like? 314 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 1: What if we saw the same therapist? I feel like 315 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: that that's weird, right, I think it's weird. Uh, I 316 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 1: don't think it's weird because I can't share. No, they 317 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 1: can't share, and I don't really I don't talk about you. 318 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: So what if you wanted to? Yeah, I wouldn't want 319 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: to share a therapist with one of my friends. No, 320 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 1: I think you're right to. I think it would be 321 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: a little too close to home. You know, honestly, I'm 322 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,479 Speaker 1: I'm a giver and I love her and she's so 323 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: good that I wouldn't care. You could? You can use her, 324 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: but he doesn't want Yeah, thank you for him. They 325 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,239 Speaker 1: I was entertaining the idea like, no, I don't think so. 326 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: But you always think like the way you think, that 327 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: way you handle situations, and the way you live your 328 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,400 Speaker 1: life is like the right way. That's why you're doing it. 329 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: But a therapist kind of helps you see everything from 330 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: like I don't think I handle situations the right way. 331 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: I don't think that ever. I think they're just emotional right. 332 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 1: I don't have it figured out. No, I know that 333 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: I don't hand them. Well, I just like that's what 334 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: I got. You need her for sure, I need her friend, 335 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 1: not her. I'm not going to do I'm not gonna 336 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: pass you and p Three of the Therapist Building Z 337 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 1: It's time for Ryan's roses. Listen to this. Jenny says 338 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 1: her husband and she spent a lot of the year apart. 339 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: He has to be in d C but the first 340 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: part of the year and then he works in l 341 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 1: A the second part of the year. The other night, 342 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 1: she said she was going to bed and she got 343 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: on find my friends, and he was not where he 344 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: was supposed to be. So, Jenna, thanks for coming on. 345 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 1: So I'm just trying to understand, so you cann't find 346 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 1: my friends? And was he in d C or l 347 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 1: A at the time that you searched for him? He 348 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: was in d C. And where is he supposed to be? Well, 349 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:22,360 Speaker 1: usually he's in this part of North Virginia in this housing. 350 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: He stayed there all four years, the same place that 351 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: he's always at. And when I went and find my friends, 352 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: he was at some random house that's not this area 353 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: at all. And doesn't he know that you have to 354 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 1: find your friends Radar? Yeah, I mean we've that was 355 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: part of you know, when he started. It was something 356 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: that I could do with the girls. We could see 357 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: your daddy that like this is not of course he's awhere, 358 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: Like yeah, why why I'm just trying to understand that 359 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: little the conecs. Why is your head jumping to the 360 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: conclusion of not good? I don't know. I just had 361 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:02,479 Speaker 1: this gut feeling. It was late and I don't usually 362 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: check it at night, Like I don't usually check it 363 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:06,959 Speaker 1: unless I'm with the girls name ont us hear their 364 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 1: dad's at just for fun, Like I just don't do 365 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,159 Speaker 1: that on my own. I never have that instinct. But 366 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 1: for some reason, my gut was just like check Signed 367 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: my Friends, like something's wrong, And I did, and he 368 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:20,120 Speaker 1: wasn't home, But could he be at a co worker's 369 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: house or you know something. Now they're working on a 370 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: project somewhere. I mean it was two o'clock in the morning. 371 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: M hmm. Maybe he did. You ask him about that, yeah, 372 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: and he denies it. He doesn't know why it said that. 373 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: He says that he was at home asleep. Jenna just 374 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: told us that her husband was on Find my Friends, 375 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 1: not where he said he was going to be, and 376 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 1: not where he was supposed to be, So she thinks 377 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: he's hiding something. He works in d C part of 378 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: the year and that's where he was, so out of 379 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 1: state and not where he told her he was. She 380 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: just looked it up on that radar. It seems like 381 00:21:58,240 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: he was not trying to hide it because you can 382 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: only turn off your location so that you can't be tracked. 383 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: So it's you know, like the fact that he left 384 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 1: it on maybe is a good sign. Show Jenna, I 385 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: need you to say, Ryan, you my permission to call, 386 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: and then his name on kiss him. Go ahead, Ryan, 387 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 1: you have my permission to call. All right, we're gonna 388 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: do that now, be very quiet. Let's see we can 389 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: find out. Okay, Jenna, okay, Hello, Hi is this Seth speaking? 390 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: Hi Seth. My name is Gail. I'm calling from Gis Flowers. 391 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,239 Speaker 1: How are you doing this morning? I'm good, Gail? How 392 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? Thank you. We're in Echo Park 393 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 1: and actually offering local residents of promotion today. Free dozen 394 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 1: red roses, red, pink or white. You can choose and 395 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 1: we can write a note and send them out this afternoon. 396 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 1: Is that something you'd be interested? Oh? Wow? Really, free roses, 397 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,400 Speaker 1: absolutely free. I don't need any cash or credit card 398 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 1: info from you. We just hope that you refer as 399 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 1: a friends and family and come back as a pain 400 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 1: returning customer. Oh wow, uh yeah, okay, so um great. 401 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: You can send them to send them a Wendy. Hang on, 402 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: let me I want to grab the address for your 403 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: real quick all right, And in the meantime, what would 404 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: you like to say on the card for Wendy? Uh? 405 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 1: You know what? You can just put? How about put 406 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 1: I love you this too shall pass? Love Richie, I 407 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 1: love you this too shall pass Love Love Ritchie Love Ritchie. Yeah, 408 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: it's yeah. It's a friend of behind. He and his 409 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,360 Speaker 1: wife are kind of kind of going through it. They're 410 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 1: going through a bit of a hard time, so I 411 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: think let's be a nice thing for them. Um, okay, 412 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: so you're right, your voice broadcast on the radio. I'm 413 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: just gonna jump in here and get to the bottom 414 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: of this. Thank you for agreeing to come on. I 415 00:23:56,320 --> 00:24:00,679 Speaker 1: have your wife, Jenna on the line. Oh okay, let 416 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: me let me back up a second. So we're calling 417 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: you because your wife had information that you were in 418 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,880 Speaker 1: a certain location. Then she checked her find my Friends 419 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 1: radar on the phone and you were where you said 420 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: you were, and she thinks that suspect. So why were 421 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 1: you in a different place while you were away out 422 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: of state working? No, Look, this is we've already talked 423 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: about this, okay. I I don't know why. I have 424 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 1: no idea why I would say that I was back 425 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 1: at home in bed like every night, and I don't 426 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 1: know why it says that. But this is great because 427 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: a friend and now she's got you guys involved. Well, 428 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 1: what happened? Why the confusion here? I had no idea. 429 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 1: I don't know what is going on with any of 430 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 1: that app stuff. I was at home in bed every night. 431 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: We've talked about this a bunch, and you know this 432 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: has been going on. We've been doing this for several 433 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: years and it's been really tough, so I don't know 434 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: what's happening. So, Jenna, does this make any sense to you? 435 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:07,679 Speaker 1: I'm trying to piece it together. I just I just 436 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 1: don't understand why after four years of you being where 437 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 1: you said you're going to be on the app, I 438 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: check it this one time. It's the middle of the 439 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: night and you're not where you're supposed to be. Like 440 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:23,160 Speaker 1: that just doesn't jive. I mean, it's like completely, It's 441 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,919 Speaker 1: just it's never failed before. On my phone drops calls 442 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: all the time. I don't know why that would say that. 443 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: I have no idea. I promise you I was exactly 444 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: where I said I was going to be. Richie and 445 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 1: Wendy do you know they're going through a tough time. 446 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: I just wanted to do something nice, that's all. I 447 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 1: don't know why you wouldn't send him to me after 448 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 1: we've been talking. Writing a love note from your best 449 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 1: friend to his wife is strange because I think it's yeah, 450 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 1: it's Jenna, we're gonna have to go here. But do 451 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 1: you think your husband is cheating on you? And Seth. 452 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: That's what we're calling about. I most certainly I'm not 453 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: cheating on my wife. I'd like to believe that he's not. 454 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: But I think that we just have to talk this 455 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 1: out a little bit more, and maybe I need to 456 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: go and visit. Maybe I need to go and bring 457 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 1: the girls. Why would I cheat on you. I have 458 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: no reason to cheat on you. This is already tough enough. 459 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: Bring the girls. Yes, that would be great. Okay, all right, guys, 460 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,679 Speaker 1: thank you very much, good luck. I don't know that 461 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 1: he's cheating. Didn't sound like he's cheating. Did you think 462 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 1: he's cheating? I guess not. But it was just so 463 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 1: strange that he wrote a love note to his friend's 464 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,399 Speaker 1: wife as his friend. So that's what was bizarre. Okay, 465 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: we say send the roses to whom He's like, oh, Wendy, 466 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: I love you. This two shall pass. We're like, oh 467 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: my gosh, she's sending the roses to another woman, not 468 00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 1: his wife, Jenna. And then he's like love Ritchie, and 469 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: he explains to Cysney, oh, they're fighting, so he's going 470 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 1: to step in to try and bridge the gap, bring 471 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 1: them together by sending this love note. No, I I 472 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: think the intent might be heartfelt, but you don't get 473 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: involved in other people's fights by pretending to the other 474 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 1: person's forgiving you and assume their position. I mean, it 475 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,120 Speaker 1: just it's not a good idea. But if Richie came 476 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: to him and was like confiding in him and saying, 477 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 1: I really want to make this right. I don't know 478 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: what to do, and then boom call from florists offering 479 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: me free flowers, and it was like a sign from 480 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 1: the universe that he just needed to step That's like 481 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: if if if Cyny and Michael were having an argument 482 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 1: and we wrote a note like that with flowers on 483 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: Sisney's behalf, that's crossing a big line. I'd be very upset. Well, 484 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 1: what are they the same? But yeah, I'd be very upset. Exactly, 485 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 1: stay out of that. How dare you write what I'm 486 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,880 Speaker 1: thinking in my own personal husband wife. Yeah, you don't 487 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: know why, you don't know what's going on, you don't 488 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: know who's in the wrong. But what if Sisney confided 489 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: in us and said, I really I know this is 490 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: what's going on, this is what's wrong. I really just 491 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 1: need some sort of gesture to Michael. I mean, did 492 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,160 Speaker 1: Sisney say please write a letter. No, since you would 493 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: do it, let me ask lose. I don't listen, North Hills. 494 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: Let's go ahead. You're on with us? Go ahead? Hi 495 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 1: h So you know, honestly, I've been accused of this before. Um, 496 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, I was a traitor Joe's once and my 497 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: boyfriend accused me of cheating because I was coming up 498 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: at a different location. But I was literally a traitor Joe's. 499 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: So I feel like sin my friends is not accurate. 500 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: I don't you know what I mean, like, and it's 501 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: so frustrating, but I hope that they can work it out. 502 00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: Because you were gadget. You were accused of being with 503 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: someone else. Yes, because my location, like I was at 504 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: traitor Joe's, but it was coming up my little dot 505 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: was coming up at a different location. So my boyfriend 506 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: thought I was like teating on him, but I was 507 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: literally a trader Joe. So so it's not pinpoint percision. 508 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 1: I believe I told you guys about an app that 509 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: has pinpoint precision. It's got right words? What it three words? Yeah, 510 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 1: you told me and I told other people that's what 511 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: it was. Okay, Anyway, there's another app that can pinpoint 512 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: exactly where you're standing under which door threshold? It's called 513 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: what's three words? I appreciate Colin, thank you? What three? 514 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: Isn't that funny? Sometimes I think I saw that somewhere, 515 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 1: but you actually told me that, and I own it. 516 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: That's fine in real life with other people, but not 517 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 1: to me, because I'm the one that told you about. 518 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 1: A friend of mine named Rich says to me, Hey, 519 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: you know, wife and I look for a little weekend 520 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 1: getaway and I recommend this little place. Like eight months later, 521 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 1: guy comes to me and he's a front of mine 522 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 1: and he says, Oh, I meant to tell you I 523 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: found this great place I wanted to tell you about 524 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: if you ever wanted to go for a little romantic 525 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 1: get away. I'm like, dude, I recommended that place for you. 526 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: This is not happening. Can you share the Well, you're 527 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: not ready for this level of romance. Text on air 528 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: with Ryan Secret, So pocketing? Have I ever been pocketed? 529 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: Since he's asking you dating thing, are you a pocket? Pocket? Well? So, 530 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: like I do ask sometimes for someone my keys, that's 531 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 1: not pocketing. He explained to him what it is. Why 532 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: do you know what it is? Because I just read 533 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: about this. Why does Tanya know because I read about 534 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 1: it too. Well, thanks for the subscription, that's why we're here. Okay. 535 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 1: So pocketing is when a person hides their partner from 536 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 1: the world, more specifically they're close friends, their family. It's 537 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: excuse after excuse, So it's like a metaphorical term of 538 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: putting them in your pocket, but they don't get to 539 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: see the light of day when it comes to your 540 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 1: personal life objects. It's similar maybe to soft launching, like 541 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: when you kind of like soft launch your partner on 542 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: Instagram or social media, just show like their hand or 543 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 1: like two cups of coffee or things like that. But 544 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 1: this is the whole other like you're not introducing them 545 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 1: to your family probably or your close knit group of friends. 546 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: Pocket because there's different reasons why. Some people do it 547 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: maliciously because they're evil, and some people not malicious. But 548 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 1: I think some people do it because maybe they're not 549 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 1: proud of it's getting there. No, that would be malicious. 550 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: If you're not proud of them when you're dating, then 551 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,239 Speaker 1: why are you dating them? But some people do it 552 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 1: because they maybe just got out of a relationship and 553 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 1: they're not ready to introduce another person to their group 554 00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: of friends or their family for whatever reason. So in 555 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 1: that case, fine, or they're scared to fall for somebody new, 556 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 1: so they're just keeping a distance. But this is a 557 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: new dating term and it's going around. And I for 558 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 1: sure was pocketed in my early twenties college years. I 559 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: was pocketed all the time, and it made me feel insecure. 560 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: Pocketed meaning whomever you were dating didn't share your introductment. 561 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 1: They never like they never wanted they met my family, 562 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 1: but they never wanted me to meet their parents or 563 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: they're like siblings or like really and get me involved 564 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: in that would make you crazy, yeah, you know, and 565 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 1: we ended up obviously breaking up, but it was just 566 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 1: like I felt insecure, And it makes you feel like 567 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: they're ashamed of you or something. So what if is 568 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,959 Speaker 1: there the opposite of pocketing, Like you just wanted to 569 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: take them everywhere and introducing everybody and take them to 570 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 1: all the stuff and all the things. That's just like 571 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: the best case scenario. You don't want to be pocketed. 572 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 1: But like I think also there comes up time, like 573 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 1: if you keep it pocketed for a little bit and 574 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: then there's all this build up and then it's like 575 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 1: a lot of pressure is put on a big reveal, 576 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:02,479 Speaker 1: and so then you just kind of keep putting it off, 577 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 1: putting it off, and then before you know, you're pocketed 578 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 1: for like six months. What if you bread crumb your pocket. 579 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 1: If you bread crumb your pocket, then I think you're 580 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 1: double mean. No, your bread crumbing your pockets. You're slowly 581 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 1: introducing them to people. Everybody want bread crumbing. I know 582 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 1: what benching is. Okay, Okay, benching is something completely different. 583 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 1: Benching and bread crumbing, these are all related, aren't they know? 584 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 1: Benching somebody is like when you want to keep them 585 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 1: as a backup plan, so they're they're on your bench. 586 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 1: And then bread crumbing is when you lead them on 587 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 1: with messages like, oh I love you so much, you're 588 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 1: the one, but then you're never really the one. Then 589 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: is pickpocketing when you rescue someone from the situation and 590 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 1: treat them like they deserve to be treated from being pocketed. 591 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 1: Pickpocketing is illegal and you will go to jail if 592 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: you steal from someone. I'm stopped. I'm out of the 593 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 1: whole program, over my head, just a pocket. I like 594 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: that this show has follow up calls because to me, 595 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: it's one big season of episodes. You don't. You streams 596 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: something and you wait for the next one, the next one, 597 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,840 Speaker 1: the next one. Well, this is one big season, and 598 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: when we hear an issue and we get a follow 599 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 1: up call, it's like the next episode, right, So remember this. 600 00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: There was a woman that was from Atlanta that just 601 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: moved here and she knew one person here in l A. 602 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: And people can relate to that moving to a city 603 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: you don't know anyone really And the guy that she 604 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: knew um was friends with Haley's mom, right, So it 605 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 1: was kind of like Tana's and I. The only reason 606 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 1: I lived with Tannaz is because my parents knew that 607 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 1: Tenna's parents and that was the one person they let 608 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 1: me be roommates with when I was eighteen, wating to 609 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 1: move out her on my own. So Jim Haley found 610 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 1: herself catching feelings for the guy, not me and Tannaz 611 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: I didn't have that. She feels like if she tells 612 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 1: him how she feels, she may push away the only 613 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: person she knows in la So it's risky for her. 614 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: She wants a friend in l A, but she also 615 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: like romantically kind of into it. She doesn't want to 616 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 1: screw it up, but she wants to go for it 617 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: if it's real. Yeah, and we told her to go 618 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,320 Speaker 1: for it. She's yeah, we I think we should go 619 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: for it. And somebody said, blame it on the alcohol. Yeah, 620 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 1: so Haley is back in Encino. Well, Haley, we've brought 621 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 1: everybody up to speed. What's happened since we spoke Okay, So, um, 622 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 1: we got some Margarita's like you told me to do. Um. 623 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 1: We just hung out a couple more times. Um, because 624 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,960 Speaker 1: me to Hollywood Boulevard, which was a lot of grocers 625 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:44,760 Speaker 1: than I expected, just like people everywhere and like people 626 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 1: in weird costumes and shirtless guys, the snakes around them. Yeah, 627 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 1: to say the least. Um. But then last week I 628 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 1: told him I would make dinner to you know, pay 629 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: him back for showing you around so much. And um, 630 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 1: he came over and I'm made like this lemon chicken 631 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: pasta dish. I'm really not a great cook, but I 632 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: gave it my best shot. Um, and I think it 633 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 1: was okay. Um. But anyway, like we we had some wine, 634 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 1: we watched a little bit of Death on the Nile 635 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 1: and HBO Max. Um, Like I got really close to 636 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 1: him and I made it really clear that I was interested. Um, 637 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: and you know, like long story short, like we made 638 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:23,920 Speaker 1: out of it, and it was it was pretty heated, 639 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 1: but we stopped before it went too far. Um. And 640 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 1: now it's kind of weird texting, but it's it's not 641 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,840 Speaker 1: like it was. It seems sort of awkward and forced. 642 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. I honestly, I think I might have 643 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 1: wouined everything. And I don't know what to do now. 644 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 1: But if he kissed you, then he's feeling the same way, right, 645 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 1: I mean I thought so, but then his text, I 646 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 1: don't know. It's just it's it's weird. I don't know 647 00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 1: how to complain it, like, but it's just something that's off. Now, 648 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 1: how did it end that night? You said you stopped 649 00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,319 Speaker 1: once it got kind of heated, Like how did you 650 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 1: guys say goodbye? Um? Like you know, we we didn't 651 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: really finish the movie. We kind of like pause it. Um, 652 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 1: it's like sort of pulled away before things got you know, 653 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,800 Speaker 1: too far, and then um, he just sort of like left, 654 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: like give me a quick little like goodbye kiss and 655 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: just left and like you know, we said we would 656 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:24,319 Speaker 1: text and can you at least keep it normal until 657 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: you find another friend? So you're not totally without friends. Yeah, 658 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: I would like to, Um, I'm doing my best. I 659 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 1: don't know. I guess I can't really tell where he's at, 660 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm a little scared to like 661 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 1: just ask exactly what's going on, because yeah, like I 662 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 1: don't want to leave the only friends that I have. 663 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 1: Can you hang out with him again soon? Yeah? And 664 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 1: just keep it casual, keep it cash. Yeah, let's take 665 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: a little pressure off. Yeah, I think so. Well, Haley, Look, 666 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 1: this is not uncommon, right, this is not uncommon. I 667 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: will tell you that the same thing happened to me 668 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 1: in a different way, completely different way. But we were friends. 669 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: We made out and things, and then that was it 670 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 1: because it was totally different, everybody moved away. I'm sure 671 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 1: he's feeling weird and insecure too, Like he probably things 672 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 1: that you're not into it, Like who who knows what's 673 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 1: going through his head? Yeah? All right, Well, try and 674 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:26,800 Speaker 1: have a low pressure moment or two. Keep that alive 675 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 1: while you meet people here in l A. Alright, Hey, like, 676 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,760 Speaker 1: good luck, good luck, Thank god we never made out. 677 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,839 Speaker 1: Who's we Ryan and I? You guys had a chance. 678 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 1: It was a moment when you and Ryan were going 679 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,719 Speaker 1: to make out. There was never a moment. No, I'm 680 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,799 Speaker 1: just saying, thank god we never did. But like, how 681 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 1: could you? I don't know because we were both single. Yeah, 682 00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean we're gonna make out a lot 683 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,319 Speaker 1: of single people in this building. Did you want to 684 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 1: at one point? No? No, no, no no, no, think 685 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:02,040 Speaker 1: clearly you did. Thank thank god we you you wanted 686 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 1: to make out with Ryan? Sorry? Right not ill like 687 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, this is not going well 688 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,839 Speaker 1: for either side. Your and she doesn't want to, Like 689 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: this is not a win win win win. But thank 690 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,759 Speaker 1: god we didn't because why because what if it was 691 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,800 Speaker 1: awkward and then go to work together every day but 692 00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,200 Speaker 1: like look at each other and spend hours. That's why 693 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 1: we wouldn't. I wouldn't have made out with you because 694 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:31,319 Speaker 1: of that. Just because of that. Yeah, what's the route 695 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 1: with air with Ryan's secrets? It's Ryan Seacrest here Monday morning, 696 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 1: maxt Cicy and Tanya here as well. Five to one 697 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 1: or two seven. I do have five hundred dollars in 698 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 1: spring cash to give to you in a second, and 699 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: that's when you qualify to win a brand new Ford 700 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 1: Broncos Sport Brittany, good morning. How you doing good? How 701 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 1: are you? We're doing well? So your boyfriend started to 702 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 1: wear makeup and what's the issue? Um? I guess it 703 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 1: just kind of took me by surprise, like and it 704 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:16,319 Speaker 1: kind of made me check my biases. But like, what 705 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 1: does this mean for sexuality? Doesn't mean anything for sexuality? 706 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 1: How can I be more inclusive? Like is there more 707 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:27,280 Speaker 1: biases that I need? Can you tell us about the transition? 708 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,439 Speaker 1: So he was not wearing anything and then just start 709 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:34,799 Speaker 1: putting on what? Um, he kind of just started with 710 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 1: like lipstick and eyeshadow, but now it's more like a 711 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 1: full face and you're just confused by it. Yeah, I 712 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: guess like since it kind of just came out of 713 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: like nowhere, Like he's kind of more of like the 714 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 1: like manly man frat boy type when I met him, 715 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 1: but like over the period that we've been dating, he's 716 00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 1: become like more feminine, which I kind of I like 717 00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 1: it it. Um just I think the makeup came out 718 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:06,359 Speaker 1: of like left fields. So so, but Brittany, have you 719 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 1: asked him why he's doing it? No? I just I 720 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 1: don't know how to bring it up, Like I don't 721 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 1: want to like scare him or I think the same 722 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,399 Speaker 1: way you're talking to us. Yeah, exactly. It's not like 723 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 1: it's not an apparent thing, right, It's not something you're 724 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 1: like thinking about it, something you see. It's like it's 725 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 1: physically there. So I think it's very and he might 726 00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 1: want you to ask him, to be honest with you. 727 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 1: He might be waiting for you to ask him about this, 728 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,160 Speaker 1: which could be very telling. And then how fun you 729 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 1: guys can go makeup shopping together and like share that. 730 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 1: That'd be so fun. So I think you're comfortable with it, 731 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:51,160 Speaker 1: so ask him. It's just eyeing. It's stranger to not 732 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,000 Speaker 1: say anything, right, I mean, you guys are together, you 733 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,359 Speaker 1: should be able to talk about it. Let's see what 734 00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 1: he's trying to I think he might be trying to 735 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,759 Speaker 1: get you to ask the question, So why would start 736 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:06,320 Speaker 1: with that approach? Brittany, Okay, is there any like topics 737 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,439 Speaker 1: or anything I should avoid that way? I don't come 738 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 1: off as like kind of like, I guess, not biased, 739 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 1: but rude or insensitive or like ask him in a 740 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 1: way that he thinks that I'm not inclusive of it. 741 00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 1: I don't think there is. I think if you're just 742 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,359 Speaker 1: completely honest and that you're open and just want to 743 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,560 Speaker 1: find out more. Yeah. I think also it's just it's 744 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:33,720 Speaker 1: just it's like a change and change in his routine. 745 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,359 Speaker 1: You know, like if my significant other wasn't never went 746 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:38,799 Speaker 1: to the gym, then allviously start going to the the gym 747 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,759 Speaker 1: every single day. I'd be like, where's this coming from? 748 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,080 Speaker 1: You know, like, yeah, I think that's cool, Brittany. I 749 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,360 Speaker 1: think so you just you just as his partner. You 750 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,239 Speaker 1: just want to understand the new look or the new 751 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,399 Speaker 1: vibe or whatever. Right, well, good luck, thanks for con 752 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 1: I think it would be stranger if you're like in 753 00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody and you notice it and they 754 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,239 Speaker 1: obviously are doing it to be noticed. You're doing that 755 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,120 Speaker 1: like you put accessories on or you do something so 756 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:07,840 Speaker 1: that there there's notice he starts wearing earrings and stuff 757 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 1: like that that she's got to say something. I just 758 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,400 Speaker 1: look at yours like you want to hear some I 759 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 1: don't know, but I think like when I was in 760 00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,160 Speaker 1: my early thirties, I thought, would that be a cool look? 761 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:25,440 Speaker 1: I think there would back then, yes, yeah, back then, right, yeah, 762 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:29,160 Speaker 1: that was the look a stud No, like a little hoop, 763 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 1: a little thing like David Silver on to a. That's it, 764 00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,279 Speaker 1: that's it right. But then at my time past, no, 765 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 1: Now Warren just got one or maybe like, well, when 766 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,439 Speaker 1: was he here last? I guess that's been years. Huh, 767 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:54,200 Speaker 1: who now, Warren? No one? Norman's got one one or 768 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 1: two point seven? Kiss him. It's time for Ryan's roses. 769 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,040 Speaker 1: Listen to this, Jenna says her husband, and she spent 770 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,360 Speaker 1: a lot of the year apart. He has to be 771 00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,399 Speaker 1: in d C, but the first part of the year, 772 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 1: and then he works in l A the second part 773 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,719 Speaker 1: of the year. The other night, she said she was 774 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:15,440 Speaker 1: going to bed and she got on find my friends, 775 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,280 Speaker 1: and he was not where he was supposed to be. So, Jenna, 776 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,360 Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. So I'm just trying to understand. 777 00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 1: So you cann't find my friends? And was he in 778 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 1: d C or l A at the time that you 779 00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: searched for him? He was in d C. And where 780 00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:35,600 Speaker 1: is he supposed to be? Well, usually he's in this 781 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: part of North Virginia, in this housing. He stayed there 782 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,439 Speaker 1: all four years, the same place that he's always at. 783 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,920 Speaker 1: And when I went and find my friends, he was 784 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:47,919 Speaker 1: at some random house that's not this area at all, 785 00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,960 Speaker 1: And doesn't he know that you have to find your 786 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 1: friends radar. Yeah, I mean we that was part of 787 00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,320 Speaker 1: you know, when he started. It was something that I 788 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:00,719 Speaker 1: could do with the girl girls, we could see her 789 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,720 Speaker 1: daddy at like this is not of course he's aware, 790 00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,799 Speaker 1: Like yeah, why why, I'm just trying to understand that 791 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 1: little the college. Why is your head jumping to the 792 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: conclusion of not good? I don't know. I just had 793 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,920 Speaker 1: this gut feeling. It was late, and I don't usually 794 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,759 Speaker 1: check it at night, Like I don't usually check it 795 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:22,440 Speaker 1: unless I'm with the girls. They want to see their 796 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 1: dads at just for fun, Like I just don't do 797 00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,680 Speaker 1: that on my own. I never have that instinct. But 798 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,319 Speaker 1: for some reason, my gut was just like, check sign 799 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,839 Speaker 1: my friends, like something's wrong. And I did. And he 800 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 1: wasn't home. But could he be at a co worker's 801 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,360 Speaker 1: house or you know something. Now they're working on a 802 00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 1: project somewhere. I mean, it was two o'clock in the morning. 803 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 1: M hmm. Maybe did you ask him about that? Yeah, 804 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 1: And he denies it. He doesn't know why it said that. 805 00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 1: He says that that he was at home asleep. Interesting. Alright, 806 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 1: hold on for one second, let's uh see what we 807 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:01,359 Speaker 1: can line out. We will make the cult to your 808 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:05,080 Speaker 1: husband one or two point seven kids of him on 809 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 1: Air with Ryan Seacrest tomorrow. It's his second date updates 810 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,239 Speaker 1: to'll be back for that sins and he has got 811 00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: you next for an hour. Keep it here, seven kids 812 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,719 Speaker 1: of him, have a great morning. Thanks for listening to 813 00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe it 814 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 1: and we'll talk to you again tomorrow