WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Actors Duel

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jebels second Dato date to date or not to date?

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<v Speaker 1>That is the question whether it is nobler to use

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<v Speaker 1>tender and suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune

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<v Speaker 1>or Craigslist and take up arms against a sea of weirdos. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that. Why am I opening up today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update like that? Because Erica is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants to call a guy named Alan and

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<v Speaker 1>they met in an acting class. Oh, how did I do?

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<v Speaker 1>You did? Great bass? That? Okay, definitely, maybe I'll think

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<v Speaker 1>about that. What's the guy's name that you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call today? The name's Alan Alan and your email said

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys met an acting class. How'd that go down? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we met in class and he really stood ounced me

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<v Speaker 1>because he sounds like a great that I hat like

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<v Speaker 1>a fullhead. Oh nice, Okay, that's awesome. Is this an

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<v Speaker 1>ongoing class or was this just a one time class

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<v Speaker 1>that you took it's an eight week class, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's an ongoing class. Okay, okay, So how far into

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<v Speaker 1>your eight weeks before either you or he asked each

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<v Speaker 1>other out? We were into the second week okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>second weekend, And how did you guys officially decide to

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<v Speaker 1>go out? Well, we were hanging out after class and

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<v Speaker 1>he asked me if I wanted to hang out and

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<v Speaker 1>like go over things. Oh, I was hoping it would

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<v Speaker 1>be more romantic than that. It wasn't he wanted more

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<v Speaker 1>of a script? Yes, I did. It's not very hollow

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<v Speaker 1>at all. And did it seem like a date or

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<v Speaker 1>did it seem like he wanted to go over and

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<v Speaker 1>practice acting stuff with you? It definitely seemed like a date.

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<v Speaker 1>We're being very flirtatious when he asked me, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just us. Oh cool, okay, so like everybod but

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<v Speaker 1>he had gone home and it was just you two. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were just hanging out outside, all right. And what

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do when you went out? Well, he

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<v Speaker 1>texted me after a couple of days and asked me

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<v Speaker 1>if I wanted to come over and make some mollies.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a cute date. Yeah, good, Yeah, because I guess

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<v Speaker 1>they're hard to make, and he said that he could

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<v Speaker 1>teach me, so I was like, yeah, that sounds great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Tamallies. You haven't he left over? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care if we do your second ay

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<v Speaker 1>update anymore. I just want some food. Do you enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>making to Mollies with him? Yeah? It was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun. He's really funny until he made me laugh,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's really patient. Mike. Mollies were like they were

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<v Speaker 1>so bad and us are really good. But he was

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<v Speaker 1>being really helpful with so okay, and it's not romantic

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<v Speaker 1>to me, I don't know. Yeah, it was really romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>It was nice. Okay if you so, if you spend

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<v Speaker 1>some time with this dude making romantic to mollies, why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think he's not calling you back? And that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. The whole night was really great, and I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'm like, you know, you go through things of

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<v Speaker 1>like what went wrong? And um there was one point

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<v Speaker 1>where he pointed out something that knew that I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize I did, which is apparently I compartmentalized my food,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I eat it, what do you mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>you make sure it doesn't touch Yeah, like nothing touches

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<v Speaker 1>and I eat like something one at a time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that I did that. Oh you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know that you did that? No, no, but I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I now noticed it, like every day you said, he

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<v Speaker 1>commented on it. How did he do that? He just

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of like, oh, you know, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what what's going on? And he was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you compartmentalize your food. That would be the weirdest thing

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<v Speaker 1>to turn somebody off. Ever, you're not letting your tamali

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<v Speaker 1>touch your beans that are on the plate, and that

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<v Speaker 1>I can't feel. I thought that too. I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>would be a little strange. I have a hard time

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<v Speaker 1>believing that would cause somebody to not call you back.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys end everything? He gave me a

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<v Speaker 1>kiss on the cheek and we were like a fee

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<v Speaker 1>you in class because I had believe because I really

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like overstay my welcome at his place for the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Oh no, you should have slept over. I

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<v Speaker 1>just brought your overnight back with you. I'm just sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>on the couch tonight, right. Have you seen him in class? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was in the next class after, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>said hi, to each other. Been after I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to him, it's being kind of cold, little standoffish. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know. And I asked him if he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to hang out, and he said he was busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh the old busy excuse. Yeah, was he being rude

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<v Speaker 1>to you? No, I wouldn't say rude. It just wasn't,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as wealth mean as he had been before, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because if he liked you and he wanted to continue

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<v Speaker 1>to see you, he'd do things like sit next to

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<v Speaker 1>you in class or make eye Yeah. Now it's like

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<v Speaker 1>really awkward when I see him and we only have

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of classes left, and I just like it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's just kind of strange, weird, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just wondering if I did something wrong. So I thought

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<v Speaker 1>i'd call these guys to help me. Sa yeared out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a food thing, separated your food like

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<v Speaker 1>a weirdo, and it ruined your chances with this guy. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. Let's play a song, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>him and get your second ad update. Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, you're looking jubil in the morning, Hey Erica. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I don't think we're gonna be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do your second ad update today. That well, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what my motivation is. I have no direction.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a blemish on my notes, and the lighting of

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<v Speaker 1>this room is hang off. The lighting is terrible. At you,

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<v Speaker 1>I knew you would be that type of acker idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it. I just can't. I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>outside for a smoke. I'll be back in fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll try it again, all right, seared it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Erica wants to call a guy named Alan that she

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<v Speaker 1>met in her acting class. They went out together, they

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<v Speaker 1>made to Molly's. They had a fun time, fun conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>said he was funny, also added that he had a

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<v Speaker 1>full head of hair, what she liked a lot. And

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<v Speaker 1>ever since they went out, he's not calling her back.

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<v Speaker 1>And also they've seen each other in acting class and

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<v Speaker 1>he's been very cold to her, just saying that he's

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<v Speaker 1>busy and he can't go out again. So she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to see if she did something wrong. Are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to call him? Yeah, let's do it. Are you worried

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<v Speaker 1>that this is going to make things more strange whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the class will end? Yeah? At this point, it's already weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It can't get weirder. It'll be a good story. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call him right now here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>is Alan there speaking? Hey Alan? How are you? My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jebil and I host a morning radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, Jebil, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard the show before it all? No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not familiar. Oh, okay, on the radio, yes, I mostly

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<v Speaker 1>listen to in PR. Sorry m PR, I'm not familiar

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<v Speaker 1>with that rapper. Well, we are a radio show and

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment called the second Date Update. So

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went on a date with one of our listeners. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>who was it? Her name is Erica. She emailed you, yeah, yeah, Ericay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she emailed us and said that you guys met in

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<v Speaker 1>acting class and you got together one night to make

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<v Speaker 1>Tamali's and ever since then, you've kind of been cold

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<v Speaker 1>to her in the acting class and you haven't responded

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<v Speaker 1>to like her phone calls or text messages or anything. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why she emailed you. Well, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>she says that she's tried to talk to you a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, but you've been cold, and when she asked

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<v Speaker 1>you if you wanted to go out again, you're just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm busy, and then didn't want to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>So she figured we might be able to find something out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you wanted to say, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's not working. There a specific reason. Well, yes and no,

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't really see why I'm going to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about it, well, because you're not telling her

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to understand from her perspective, it's awkward

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<v Speaker 1>for her to be in a class every day with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who obviously doesn't want to go out with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have no idea why. So the best thing

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<v Speaker 1>for her to do is to email a radio station.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, one way or the other. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of these second date updates. It works for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people. Well, I think it says something

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<v Speaker 1>about her sanity is that it. Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>she's not saying no, I'm not saying she's not saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just choosing to go our separate ways as much

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<v Speaker 1>as we can, even though we still have to be

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<v Speaker 1>in that class together. Because I think it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be better for both of us. So you're deciding for

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<v Speaker 1>her what's better for her. Well, I'm deciding what's better

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<v Speaker 1>for me, and I happen to believe it's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be better for her. And what is that? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why I'm telling you guys this, She's there's something

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<v Speaker 1>about her vibe. I don't want to talk about ores

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, but there's definitely something about hers that clashes

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<v Speaker 1>with mine. Classes, with your vibe. Only people in an

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<v Speaker 1>acting class would say, what do you mean by that? Look?

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<v Speaker 1>She come over from my house, we made to Molly's.

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<v Speaker 1>There was like some awkwardness there. I didn't think anything

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<v Speaker 1>of it. But then the next week in class, we

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<v Speaker 1>had to do these monologues right and when I went

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<v Speaker 1>up to do mine, I just I felt off, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I just I couldn't get in the right headspace. I

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<v Speaker 1>could just feel that my energy was being sucked. And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of it has to do

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<v Speaker 1>with her. What did you feel like your energy was

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<v Speaker 1>off when you were doing your monologue because of her?

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<v Speaker 1>How it's hard to explain to the late person, meaning

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<v Speaker 1>not not an actor. I mean, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do it like radio personalities. Radio is bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of the barrel, not much of an art, where as

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<v Speaker 1>lay person as you get like, have you ever taken

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<v Speaker 1>an acting class? No, I have, I mean in high school,

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<v Speaker 1>but like that counts. I'm not talking about like lay

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<v Speaker 1>on the floor and being ice cream calling stuff. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean like really getting into like what's inside of you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never really gotten in touch with what's inside of me?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank god. Yeah. Was it something that she did? Wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>anything she did. It was just her energy. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>when I have to do my monologue, it sucked and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, all right, but this girl something about her.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's her. I know it was her. It

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<v Speaker 1>just it put me in the wrong space. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're blaming her for you not doing a good job

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<v Speaker 1>on your monologue. Look, if you don't understand it, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just because you're not in touch. You know, you said

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't been inside yourself. Well maybe you should take

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<v Speaker 1>a big swimming like you because in order to get

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<v Speaker 1>creative energy, you need to be free to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a little unfair to say someone's being

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<v Speaker 1>ruined your abilities. I mean, it could have been like

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<v Speaker 1>what if you did you have a stressful week or

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<v Speaker 1>you had to fight with your mom. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I had a stressful week. I have the tools

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<v Speaker 1>that I can channel that stress into a brilliant performance.

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<v Speaker 1>But she took those tools away from me. She had

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you that she did, but she did beef

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<v Speaker 1>the tool beef. And that's the reason that you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling her back. You feel like you can't be creative

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<v Speaker 1>with her in your life. Yeah, Like I need amuse

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<v Speaker 1>and she is not amused. She's a succubus and she

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<v Speaker 1>pulls the energy out of me. Every creative juice that

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<v Speaker 1>I have was sucked out of me by that. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel the same way at all. I don't think. Well, look,

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<v Speaker 1>her monologue was not great either, And either she's just

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<v Speaker 1>a bad actress or I'm affecting her too. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>you think that just the two of you together, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't be successful actors because your energy doesn't fit right. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't practice my craft to the best of my

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<v Speaker 1>ability if I have a succubus on me. Some people

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<v Speaker 1>like succubussess, some people don't. I mean, I can't change

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<v Speaker 1>how you feel. It kind of doesn't make sense to

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<v Speaker 1>me because I'm you know, I'm not you, But I

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<v Speaker 1>do know that she's on the other line listening right

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<v Speaker 1>now and would love to talk to you. What are

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<v Speaker 1>you seriously? Yeah, Erica, Hi, So she heard everything I

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<v Speaker 1>just said? Yes she did? Yeah I did? And do

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<v Speaker 1>you not agree with yes? I was thinking like you

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<v Speaker 1>were dating somebody else, Like now you think I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>some voodoo witch or something. So you think that your

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<v Speaker 1>monologue was good? Oh, I wouldn't say it was the

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<v Speaker 1>best ever had, but I can recognize that and not

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<v Speaker 1>blame it on somebody else. Well, maybe you're not in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with yourself enough to know what's aspecting you. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you're a little too pretentious for the class. I'm pretentious. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you hear yourself speaking right now? Okay, Erica, explain

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<v Speaker 1>this to me? All right? Look at it all as

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<v Speaker 1>a whole. The week before in class, my monologue was beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the teacher said, it was the best work she'd seen.

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<v Speaker 1>The next week after having spent just a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of time with you, I'm mixing up Macbeth and Hamlet,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's all coming out apples and oranges. What other

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<v Speaker 1>excuse could there? Be. I don't know. Maybe you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get enough sleep. Honestly, Allen, I don't I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>it because you weren't bad. I wasn't bad you. You

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<v Speaker 1>have completely skewed ideas of what's bad. Bad for me?

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<v Speaker 1>Is probably your best day. I don't know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of you're being like this. Did we didn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>good time? Do we not have fun? We were hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not the point, Erica. Clearly, from a creative perspective

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<v Speaker 1>and from a professional perspective, we're not good for each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Our energies clash. So even if you had fun and

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<v Speaker 1>liked each other, it's not worth it because it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to screw up your careers. It could have been the

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<v Speaker 1>best date in the world, but it's not worth it

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<v Speaker 1>to me to continue dating someone that's going to pull

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<v Speaker 1>my creativity out of my stomachic Did you love God?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're kind of being a jerk to her

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Yeah, she didn't do anything on purpose, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you feel like she sucked her creativity out. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry if I said hurtful things, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's best that we don't pursue anything because it's clearly

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<v Speaker 1>affecting both of us. I mean, people have bad weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's an acting class. Do you get through it?

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<v Speaker 1>You take notes, and you go to the next class

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<v Speaker 1>and try to do better. Maybe you'd understand this. Some

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<v Speaker 1>of us, like myself, are trained and know how to

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<v Speaker 1>focus stressful days or bad energies and still be fantastic. You, however,

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<v Speaker 1>changed all of that for me. One date with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had nothing left. O, sweetie, I'm really sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>but you really aren't that good. The teacher gives you

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<v Speaker 1>the most notes for a reason. No, the teacher gave

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<v Speaker 1>me notes because the teacher thinks that there's something there

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<v Speaker 1>that can be improved upon. You didn't get a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of notes because you know what, Well, she's never gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get me better. I know what the answer is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be here, But I would like to ask the

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<v Speaker 1>question regardless, Alan, would you like to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with Erica? We will pay for it, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>not and Erica, I'm assuming that you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see Alan again. Yeah, hell no, I'll drop out of

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<v Speaker 1>the class. No, I'll be there. You'll see me. Oh man.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that both of you can channel that awkwardness

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<v Speaker 1>into great monologues for future classes. I'll be able to

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<v Speaker 1>channel all of this energy, including this sour energy that

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<v Speaker 1>you just put in me, and I'll be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do great work. And I'm going to book a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of gigs. Erica, however, is going to be stuck doing

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<v Speaker 1>nothing waiting tables, and maybe you can give her a

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<v Speaker 1>job on your radio state. Alan will guarantee you in

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<v Speaker 1>ten years, I'm gonna be the one. He's successful and

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<v Speaker 1>you will not, yeah successful with cash and welfare checks.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck, Broken Jewil in the Morning, we may have

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<v Speaker 1>found the most hated second date or ever. It's broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the Morning. In today's second date update, Erica

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a guy named Alan. They met in

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<v Speaker 1>their acting class. They went out on a date. He

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling her back, so we got him on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and found out the reason that he was ignoring

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<v Speaker 1>her was because she's a succubus and she sucked all

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<v Speaker 1>of his energy away and he couldn't. He couldn't create

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<v Speaker 1>like an actor of his caliber can create in class,

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<v Speaker 1>he said after the date. The next time they were

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<v Speaker 1>an acting class together, he tried to do a monolog

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just terrible and He blamed her a

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<v Speaker 1>text message in at seven eight five to nine two,

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<v Speaker 1>saying Alan is the reason why actors are said to

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<v Speaker 1>be high maintenance. He really lived up the stereotype there,

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<v Speaker 1>that's for sure. Yeah, he dodged a bullet, she really did. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean they're both actors, so they'll probably end

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<v Speaker 1>up in some sort of relationship at some point. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be funny is that he actually becomes super

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<v Speaker 1>famous and the joke's all on us. Yeah, yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>And he's on Fallon or one of the late night

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<v Speaker 1>shows and they're like, when was the point you knew

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<v Speaker 1>that you were going to make it in this business? Like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on this radio show and I had gone

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<v Speaker 1>out with a horrible suck give us of a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's when I realized I needed to focus on me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm the only one who can bring my energy, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>to a creative point where I can create properly. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>people will give him a standing ovation. Yes. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody hates him on the text message board at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eighty five nine too, because he was he was a

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<v Speaker 1>jerk tour yeah serious, And she didn't do anything except

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<v Speaker 1>for just be herself. Well, that is the problem. If

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<v Speaker 1>she would have been an actor and been somebody else,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he wouldn't have had all of his energy sucked

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<v Speaker 1>out of his body. Remember, if you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back Huber, ninety two point five