1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: Looking for the perfect birthday or anniversary gift or a 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:06,119 Speaker 1: special date night, Well then you need zod Art, Seattle's 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: only exotic car mental company. Visit zadart dot com to 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: book an exotic special car for that very special day. 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels second Dato date to date or not to date? 6 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: That is the question whether it is nobler to use 7 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: tender and suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune 8 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: or Craigslist and take up arms against a sea of weirdos. Yeah, 9 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: don't do that. Why am I opening up today's second 10 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: date update like that? Because Erica is on the phone 11 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 1: and she wants to call a guy named Alan and 12 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: they met in an acting class. Oh, how did I do? 13 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: You did? Great bass? That? Okay, definitely, maybe I'll think 14 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: about that. What's the guy's name that you want to 15 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: call today? The name's Alan Alan and your email said 16 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: that you guys met an acting class. How'd that go down? Well, 17 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: we met in class and he really stood ounced me 18 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: because he sounds like a great that I hat like 19 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: a fullhead. Oh nice, Okay, that's awesome. Is this an 20 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: ongoing class or was this just a one time class 21 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: that you took it's an eight week class, so yeah, 22 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,639 Speaker 1: it's an ongoing class. Okay, okay, So how far into 23 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: your eight weeks before either you or he asked each 24 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: other out? We were into the second week okay, so 25 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: second weekend, And how did you guys officially decide to 26 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: go out? Well, we were hanging out after class and 27 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 1: he asked me if I wanted to hang out and 28 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 1: like go over things. Oh, I was hoping it would 29 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: be more romantic than that. It wasn't he wanted more 30 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: of a script? Yes, I did. It's not very hollow 31 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: at all. And did it seem like a date or 32 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: did it seem like he wanted to go over and 33 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: practice acting stuff with you? It definitely seemed like a date. 34 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: We're being very flirtatious when he asked me, and it 35 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: was just us. Oh cool, okay, so like everybod but 36 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: he had gone home and it was just you two. Yeah, 37 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: we were just hanging out outside, all right. And what 38 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: did you guys do when you went out? Well, he 39 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: texted me after a couple of days and asked me 40 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: if I wanted to come over and make some mollies. 41 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: That's a cute date. Yeah, good, Yeah, because I guess 42 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: they're hard to make, and he said that he could 43 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: teach me, so I was like, yeah, that sounds great. 44 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 1: I love Tamallies. You haven't he left over? You know, 45 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: I don't really care if we do your second ay 46 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: update anymore. I just want some food. Do you enjoy 47 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: making to Mollies with him? Yeah? It was a lot 48 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: of fun. He's really funny until he made me laugh, 49 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: and he's really patient. Mike. Mollies were like they were 50 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 1: so bad and us are really good. But he was 51 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: being really helpful with so okay, and it's not romantic 52 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: to me, I don't know. Yeah, it was really romantic. 53 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: It was nice. Okay if you so, if you spend 54 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 1: some time with this dude making romantic to mollies, why 55 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: do you think he's not calling you back? And that's true. 56 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:00,040 Speaker 1: I know. The whole night was really great, and I 57 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: guess I'm like, you know, you go through things of 58 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: like what went wrong? And um there was one point 59 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: where he pointed out something that knew that I didn't 60 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: realize I did, which is apparently I compartmentalized my food, 61 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: Like when I eat it, what do you mean, like 62 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: you make sure it doesn't touch Yeah, like nothing touches 63 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: and I eat like something one at a time. Yeah, 64 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: I didn't realize that I did that. Oh you didn't 65 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: even know that you did that? No, no, but I do. 66 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: I now noticed it, like every day you said, he 67 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: commented on it. How did he do that? He just 68 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: it was kind of like, oh, you know, And I 69 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: was like, what what's going on? And he was like, well, 70 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: you compartmentalize your food. That would be the weirdest thing 71 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: to turn somebody off. Ever, you're not letting your tamali 72 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: touch your beans that are on the plate, and that 73 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: I can't feel. I thought that too. I thought that 74 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: would be a little strange. I have a hard time 75 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: believing that would cause somebody to not call you back. 76 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: How did you guys end everything? He gave me a 77 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: kiss on the cheek and we were like a fee 78 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: you in class because I had believe because I really 79 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: didn't like overstay my welcome at his place for the 80 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: first date. Oh no, you should have slept over. I 81 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: just brought your overnight back with you. I'm just sleeping 82 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: on the couch tonight, right. Have you seen him in class? Yeah, 83 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: he was in the next class after, you know, we 84 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: said hi, to each other. Been after I was trying 85 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: to talk to him, it's being kind of cold, little standoffish. Um, 86 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: so I don't know. And I asked him if he 87 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: wanted to hang out, and he said he was busy. 88 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: Oh the old busy excuse. Yeah, was he being rude 89 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: to you? No, I wouldn't say rude. It just wasn't, 90 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: you know, as wealth mean as he had been before, right, 91 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: because if he liked you and he wanted to continue 92 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 1: to see you, he'd do things like sit next to 93 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: you in class or make eye Yeah. Now it's like 94 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: really awkward when I see him and we only have 95 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: a couple of classes left, and I just like it. 96 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: You know, it's just kind of strange, weird, and I'm 97 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 1: just wondering if I did something wrong. So I thought 98 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: i'd call these guys to help me. Sa yeared out. Okay, 99 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: I think it's a food thing, separated your food like 100 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: a weirdo, and it ruined your chances with this guy. Well, 101 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 1: play a song. Let's play a song, come back, call 102 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: him and get your second ad update. Okay, okay, all right, 103 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: hold on, you're looking jubil in the morning, Hey Erica. Yeah, 104 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I don't think we're gonna be able to 105 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: do your second ad update today. That well, because I 106 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: don't know what my motivation is. I have no direction. 107 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: There's a blemish on my notes, and the lighting of 108 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: this room is hang off. The lighting is terrible. At you, 109 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: I knew you would be that type of acker idea. 110 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 1: I can't do it. I just can't. I'm gonna go 111 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: outside for a smoke. I'll be back in fifteen minutes 112 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: and then we'll try it again, all right, seared it out. 113 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: Erica wants to call a guy named Alan that she 114 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: met in her acting class. They went out together, they 115 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: made to Molly's. They had a fun time, fun conversation, 116 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: said he was funny, also added that he had a 117 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: full head of hair, what she liked a lot. And 118 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: ever since they went out, he's not calling her back. 119 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: And also they've seen each other in acting class and 120 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: he's been very cold to her, just saying that he's 121 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: busy and he can't go out again. So she wants 122 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 1: to see if she did something wrong. Are you ready 123 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: to call him? Yeah, let's do it. Are you worried 124 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: that this is going to make things more strange whatever 125 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:27,559 Speaker 1: the class will end? Yeah? At this point, it's already weird. 126 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 1: It can't get weirder. It'll be a good story. I'm 127 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: gonna call him right now here we go. Hello, Hi, 128 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: is Alan there speaking? Hey Alan? How are you? My 129 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: name is Jebil and I host a morning radio show 130 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, Jebil, Yes, 131 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, have 132 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: you ever heard the show before it all? No, I'm 133 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: not familiar. Oh, okay, on the radio, yes, I mostly 134 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: listen to in PR. Sorry m PR, I'm not familiar 135 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: with that rapper. Well, we are a radio show and 136 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: we do a segment called the second Date Update. So 137 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: you recently went on a date with one of our listeners. Okay, 138 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: who was it? Her name is Erica. She emailed you, yeah, yeah, Ericay. Well, 139 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 1: she emailed us and said that you guys met in 140 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: acting class and you got together one night to make 141 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: Tamali's and ever since then, you've kind of been cold 142 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: to her in the acting class and you haven't responded 143 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: to like her phone calls or text messages or anything. Okay, 144 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: I don't understand why she emailed you. Well, I guess 145 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: she says that she's tried to talk to you a 146 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: little bit, but you've been cold, and when she asked 147 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: you if you wanted to go out again, you're just like, 148 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: I'm busy, and then didn't want to talk to her. 149 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: So she figured we might be able to find something out. 150 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what you wanted to say, it's just 151 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: it's not working. There a specific reason. Well, yes and no, 152 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: But I don't really see why I'm going to talk 153 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: to you about it, well, because you're not telling her 154 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: like you have to understand from her perspective, it's awkward 155 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: for her to be in a class every day with 156 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: a guy who obviously doesn't want to go out with you, 157 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: and you have no idea why. So the best thing 158 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: for her to do is to email a radio station. 159 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: I think so, one way or the other. We do 160 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: a lot of these second date updates. It works for 161 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: a lot of people. Well, I think it says something 162 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: about her sanity is that it. Do you feel like 163 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: she's not saying no, I'm not saying she's not saying 164 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm just choosing to go our separate ways as much 165 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: as we can, even though we still have to be 166 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: in that class together. Because I think it's going to 167 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: be better for both of us. So you're deciding for 168 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: her what's better for her. Well, I'm deciding what's better 169 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: for me, and I happen to believe it's got to 170 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: be better for her. And what is that? I don't 171 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 1: know why I'm telling you guys this, She's there's something 172 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: about her vibe. I don't want to talk about ores 173 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 1: and stuff, but there's definitely something about hers that clashes 174 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: with mine. Classes, with your vibe. Only people in an 175 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: acting class would say, what do you mean by that? Look? 176 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: She come over from my house, we made to Molly's. 177 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: There was like some awkwardness there. I didn't think anything 178 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,599 Speaker 1: of it. But then the next week in class, we 179 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: had to do these monologues right and when I went 180 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: up to do mine, I just I felt off, Like 181 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: I just I couldn't get in the right headspace. I 182 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 1: could just feel that my energy was being sucked. And 183 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of it has to do 184 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: with her. What did you feel like your energy was 185 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: off when you were doing your monologue because of her? 186 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: How it's hard to explain to the late person, meaning 187 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: not not an actor. I mean, I don't know what 188 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: you guys do it like radio personalities. Radio is bottom 189 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: of the barrel, not much of an art, where as 190 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: lay person as you get like, have you ever taken 191 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: an acting class? No, I have, I mean in high school, 192 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: but like that counts. I'm not talking about like lay 193 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: on the floor and being ice cream calling stuff. I 194 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: mean like really getting into like what's inside of you. No, 195 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: I've never really gotten in touch with what's inside of me? 196 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: Thank god. Yeah. Was it something that she did? Wasn't 197 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: anything she did. It was just her energy. You know, 198 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: when I have to do my monologue, it sucked and 199 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:35,719 Speaker 1: I'm good, all right, but this girl something about her. 200 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: I know it's her. I know it was her. It 201 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: just it put me in the wrong space. So you're 202 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: you're blaming her for you not doing a good job 203 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: on your monologue. Look, if you don't understand it, it's 204 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: just because you're not in touch. You know, you said 205 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,079 Speaker 1: you haven't been inside yourself. Well maybe you should take 206 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: a big swimming like you because in order to get 207 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: creative energy, you need to be free to do that. 208 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: I think it's a little unfair to say someone's being 209 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 1: ruined your abilities. I mean, it could have been like 210 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 1: what if you did you have a stressful week or 211 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: you had to fight with your mom. I don't know 212 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: if I had a stressful week. I have the tools 213 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: that I can channel that stress into a brilliant performance. 214 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: But she took those tools away from me. She had 215 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 1: to tell you that she did, but she did beef 216 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: the tool beef. And that's the reason that you're not 217 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: calling her back. You feel like you can't be creative 218 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: with her in your life. Yeah, Like I need amuse 219 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:39,679 Speaker 1: and she is not amused. She's a succubus and she 220 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: pulls the energy out of me. Every creative juice that 221 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: I have was sucked out of me by that. She 222 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: didn't feel the same way at all. I don't think. Well, look, 223 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 1: her monologue was not great either, And either she's just 224 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: a bad actress or I'm affecting her too. Okay, So 225 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: you think that just the two of you together, you 226 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: can't be successful actors because your energy doesn't fit right. Like, 227 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: I can't practice my craft to the best of my 228 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: ability if I have a succubus on me. Some people 229 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: like succubussess, some people don't. I mean, I can't change 230 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 1: how you feel. It kind of doesn't make sense to 231 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: me because I'm you know, I'm not you, But I 232 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: do know that she's on the other line listening right 233 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: now and would love to talk to you. What are 234 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: you seriously? Yeah, Erica, Hi, So she heard everything I 235 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: just said? Yes she did? Yeah I did? And do 236 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: you not agree with yes? I was thinking like you 237 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 1: were dating somebody else, Like now you think I'm like 238 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: some voodoo witch or something. So you think that your 239 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: monologue was good? Oh, I wouldn't say it was the 240 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 1: best ever had, but I can recognize that and not 241 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: blame it on somebody else. Well, maybe you're not in 242 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: touch with yourself enough to know what's aspecting you. Maybe 243 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 1: you're a little too pretentious for the class. I'm pretentious. Yeah, 244 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: do you hear yourself speaking right now? Okay, Erica, explain 245 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: this to me? All right? Look at it all as 246 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: a whole. The week before in class, my monologue was beautiful, 247 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: Like the teacher said, it was the best work she'd seen. 248 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: The next week after having spent just a little bit 249 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 1: of time with you, I'm mixing up Macbeth and Hamlet, 250 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: and it's all coming out apples and oranges. What other 251 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: excuse could there? Be. I don't know. Maybe you didn't 252 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: get enough sleep. Honestly, Allen, I don't I don't get 253 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: it because you weren't bad. I wasn't bad you. You 254 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: have completely skewed ideas of what's bad. Bad for me? 255 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: Is probably your best day. I don't know a lot 256 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: of you're being like this. Did we didn't have a 257 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: good time? Do we not have fun? We were hanging out. 258 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: That's not the point, Erica. Clearly, from a creative perspective 259 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: and from a professional perspective, we're not good for each other. 260 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: Our energies clash. So even if you had fun and 261 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: liked each other, it's not worth it because it's going 262 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: to screw up your careers. It could have been the 263 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: best date in the world, but it's not worth it 264 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: to me to continue dating someone that's going to pull 265 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 1: my creativity out of my stomachic Did you love God? 266 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: I mean, you're kind of being a jerk to her 267 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, she didn't do anything on purpose, even 268 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: if you feel like she sucked her creativity out. Look, 269 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm sorry if I said hurtful things, but I think 270 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: it's best that we don't pursue anything because it's clearly 271 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: affecting both of us. I mean, people have bad weeks, 272 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: but it's an acting class. Do you get through it? 273 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: You take notes, and you go to the next class 274 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: and try to do better. Maybe you'd understand this. Some 275 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: of us, like myself, are trained and know how to 276 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: focus stressful days or bad energies and still be fantastic. You, however, 277 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: changed all of that for me. One date with you, 278 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: and I had nothing left. O, sweetie, I'm really sorry, 279 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: but you really aren't that good. The teacher gives you 280 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: the most notes for a reason. No, the teacher gave 281 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: me notes because the teacher thinks that there's something there 282 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: that can be improved upon. You didn't get a lot 283 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: of notes because you know what, Well, she's never gonna 284 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: get me better. I know what the answer is going 285 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: to be here, But I would like to ask the 286 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: question regardless, Alan, would you like to go on a 287 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: second date with Erica? We will pay for it, obviously 288 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: not and Erica, I'm assuming that you don't want to 289 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: see Alan again. Yeah, hell no, I'll drop out of 290 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: the class. No, I'll be there. You'll see me. Oh man. 291 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: I hope that both of you can channel that awkwardness 292 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: into great monologues for future classes. I'll be able to 293 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: channel all of this energy, including this sour energy that 294 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: you just put in me, and I'll be able to 295 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 1: do great work. And I'm going to book a lot 296 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: of gigs. Erica, however, is going to be stuck doing 297 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: nothing waiting tables, and maybe you can give her a 298 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: job on your radio state. Alan will guarantee you in 299 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: ten years, I'm gonna be the one. He's successful and 300 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: you will not, yeah successful with cash and welfare checks. 301 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: Good luck, Broken Jewil in the Morning, we may have 302 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: found the most hated second date or ever. It's broken 303 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. In today's second date update, Erica 304 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: wanted to call a guy named Alan. They met in 305 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: their acting class. They went out on a date. He 306 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: wasn't calling her back, so we got him on the 307 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: phone and found out the reason that he was ignoring 308 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: her was because she's a succubus and she sucked all 309 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: of his energy away and he couldn't. He couldn't create 310 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: like an actor of his caliber can create in class, 311 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 1: he said after the date. The next time they were 312 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: an acting class together, he tried to do a monolog 313 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 1: and it was just terrible and He blamed her a 314 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: text message in at seven eight five to nine two, 315 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 1: saying Alan is the reason why actors are said to 316 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: be high maintenance. He really lived up the stereotype there, 317 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: that's for sure. Yeah, he dodged a bullet, she really did. Yeah, 318 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: But I mean they're both actors, so they'll probably end 319 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: up in some sort of relationship at some point. What's 320 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: going to be funny is that he actually becomes super 321 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 1: famous and the joke's all on us. Yeah, yeah, exactly, 322 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: And he's on Fallon or one of the late night 323 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 1: shows and they're like, when was the point you knew 324 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: that you were going to make it in this business? Like, well, 325 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 1: I was on this radio show and I had gone 326 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: out with a horrible suck give us of a woman, 327 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 1: and that's when I realized I needed to focus on me, 328 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: and I'm the only one who can bring my energy, yes, 329 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:46,360 Speaker 1: to a creative point where I can create properly. Yes, 330 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:49,880 Speaker 1: people will give him a standing ovation. Yes. So anyway, 331 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: everybody hates him on the text message board at seven 332 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: eighty five nine too, because he was he was a 333 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: jerk tour yeah serious, And she didn't do anything except 334 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:03,360 Speaker 1: for just be herself. Well, that is the problem. If 335 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: she would have been an actor and been somebody else, 336 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: maybe he wouldn't have had all of his energy sucked 337 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 1: out of his body. Remember, if you want to do 338 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: a second date update, all you have to do is 339 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: email the show and we will call the person who 340 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: didn't call you back Huber, ninety two point five