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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This is from

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Speaker 1: Marcellus and Aiken. Marcellus writes, I'm a fifty one year

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Speaker 1: old married man and I haven't been intimate with my

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Speaker 1: wife since December because she will not stop smoking cigarettes.

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Speaker 1: I gave her an ultimatum and she told me that

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Speaker 1: sex is not that important to her.

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Speaker 2: Is she a liar and a cheater?

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Speaker 3: No? Well, bro, let's look at a couple of things.

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Speaker 4: You haven't had sex with her, she's fifty one, because

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Speaker 4: she started smoking. It's not attractive to you. You told her, obviously,

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Speaker 4: stop smoking, we can have sexy.

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Speaker 1: Kid.

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Speaker 4: She told you sex ain't that important to her. Now,

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Speaker 4: you also haven't had sexist December?

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Speaker 2: Right? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay man?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah your point.

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Speaker 3: So I'm saying, does that make you a liar and

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Speaker 3: a cheater?

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Speaker 4: Because see all we talking about is ain't nobody had

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Speaker 4: sex since Decemble till she just started smoking cigarettes. She

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Speaker 4: may be trying to figure out what cigarette got to

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Speaker 4: do with having sex. You, on the hand, you just

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Speaker 4: ain't having sex with your wife because she smoked cigarettes.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying nobody's right or wrong in this situation,

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Speaker 4: but I'm just saying let's just get it all out

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Speaker 4: on the table now. If she's not having sex because

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Speaker 4: she's a liar and a cheetah, then why ain't.

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Speaker 3: You having sex.

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Speaker 2: Well with her? Because she smells like cigarettes? Obviously?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what we've overlooked? What for sex?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? God, what.

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Speaker 4: I like cigarettes? I put cotton with air fresh and

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Speaker 4: in my nostrils.

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Speaker 2: All right, So the problem is his okay.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Dasia in New Orleans, Day just says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a daddy's girl and my mama hates it. I

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Speaker 1: call my dad and my mama answered the phone, answered

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Speaker 1: his phone and said, we don't have any money. I'm

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Speaker 1: tired of her playing with me like that. I am

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Speaker 1: grown with my own family. How do I get my

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Speaker 1: mom to stop this?

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Speaker 4: Well, you do play the daddy girl card quite often,

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Speaker 4: and the mother knows that, Oh, I'm kind of a

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Speaker 4: My daughters can call me. They will call me before

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Speaker 4: they call they mommy in a heartbeat, in a heartbeat, yeh,

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Speaker 4: in a heartbeat, yeah, because they know I'm probably I'm

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Speaker 4: probably gonna say yeah, So she not gonna stop, and

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Speaker 4: you're not gonna stop.

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Speaker 3: And the beat go zone. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So you know, welcome to drama land, and that's what

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Speaker 4: it's gonna be. Your mama ain't having it, and you're

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Speaker 4: not gonna stop. So, yeah, you can't get your mama

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Speaker 4: to stop. She gonna protect her husband because she know

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Speaker 4: you've you know you've used, you've taken advantage of the privilege.

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Speaker 4: Let's just say that, okay, And your mama is blocking

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Speaker 4: and that's her job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's tired of her falling up there asking for money. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: next question, Uh huh, All right, here we go. Kelvin

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Speaker 1: and Buffalo writes, my girlfriend and I share an apartment,

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Speaker 1: and she asks if her sixteen year old brother can

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Speaker 1: live with us when he gets out of juvenile detention.

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Speaker 1: He's been in there for three months for skipping school

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Speaker 1: and stealing a car. Would I be wrong to tell her?

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Speaker 3: Heck no, no, you wouldn't be wrong. Well, I mean

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Speaker 3: where do parents at exactly?

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Speaker 4: See, the sixteen year old boy don't want to go

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Speaker 4: back home because he already knowed restrictions at the house,

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Speaker 4: which ain't worked because he's still skipping school and stilling.

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Speaker 4: Cause so now when he come on over there, he

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Speaker 4: gonna expect and he's manipulating. He could be manipulating you,

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Speaker 4: because he wants to come to a situation that has

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Speaker 4: a lot more leeway in it. I think when you

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Speaker 4: get out of juvie, you need to go home and

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Speaker 4: you deal with the consequences and let them parents.

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Speaker 3: Work through that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Now, if your dad is in the picture, your mom

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Speaker 4: and dad, that's gotta be they deal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but he got a juvie and come to your house.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know what, that may not be possible though,

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Speaker 4: because he's gonna come out of there on probation, and

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Speaker 4: reprobation gonna have some restriction and the parents are always

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Speaker 4: included in that, especially with a juvenile, so he may

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Speaker 4: not have a choice. I'm pretty sure as a juvenile

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Speaker 4: his release is depending on something to do with the

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Speaker 4: custodial parents, whoever that is.

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Speaker 3: That has to be clear, because they got.

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Speaker 4: To release this juvenile to somewhere and him asking you

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Speaker 4: can you stay there? I'm not sure sure that's how

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Speaker 4: this is gonna work. And he may be trying to

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Speaker 4: use you, so you gotta be careful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm y'all work.

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Speaker 3: I'll see that. What nephew, he don't steal? They call

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Speaker 3: if he can't stay over. He got he got it.

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Speaker 3: He just want.

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Speaker 1: To stay somewhere, Like Steve said, with a rule, he

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Speaker 1: thinks he's going to be easier.

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Speaker 4: You think, yeah, man, because you know maybe it's you know,

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Speaker 4: maybe this ninety days ain't taught him what he needed

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Speaker 4: to know. Yeah, it's sad, but it don't sound good

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Speaker 4: right now. Just based on that, he need to go

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Speaker 4: to where his mom and daddy at. That's what and

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Speaker 4: that's what juvenile detention Center's gonna do.

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Speaker 2: So the boyfriend wouldn't be wrong and telling her.

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Speaker 3: No, no, man, he don't know nothing about your brother.

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Speaker 3: Come on right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on last one, Steve uh Aliyah and Dearborn says,

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Speaker 1: I called my husband and he hung up on me.

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Speaker 1: I called a few more times with no answer. He

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Speaker 1: called minutes later and said he was talking to his

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Speaker 1: old boss and he knew I didn't want anything. My

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Speaker 1: husband was right, but shouldn't I always come first?

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Speaker 4: He was talking to his old boss and he knew

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Speaker 4: you ain't want nothing. He was right, He wasn't your

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Speaker 4: old boy.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't talking to his old boss.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know what he could have listen. He

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Speaker 4: hung up and then he didn't answer. Now we're gonna

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Speaker 4: have to go with it. He was talking to the

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Speaker 4: old boss. Now, y'all can listen. See this food right

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Speaker 4: here that y'all be listening to. Y'all gotta be careful

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Speaker 4: with him, Be careful with him, because he ain't always

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Speaker 4: trying to advice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, yeah, you heard what he said.

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Speaker 3: You know, good head way.

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Speaker 4: He wasn't talking to Now, we didn't throw the woman

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Speaker 4: into something else, because that ain't what she was saying.

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Speaker 3: She was saying, shouldn't she come first first? You see?

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Speaker 4: So I'm just trying to let her understand that if

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Speaker 4: he was talking to the old boss, let him had

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Speaker 4: it finished the conversation. You know, I've had to ignore

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Speaker 4: my wife's call because I'm on a business call.

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Speaker 2: But he knew she didn't want anything, and she said

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Speaker 2: he was right.

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Speaker 3: But okay, now, fool, go ahead, Yeah til seconds. They

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Speaker 3: who talks to their old boss? Who go back?

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Speaker 4: You used to call me, You used to call me

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Speaker 4: every time I fired you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, you're listening. Steve Hardy Morning Show