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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: million bucks things in its true good Steve listening together, Please,

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Speaker 1: I don't join Jo. You gotta do that turn you're

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Speaker 1: going to do. You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn.

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Speaker 1: You haven't got to turn them out to turn the

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Speaker 1: water the water go. Come come on your bad huh?

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Speaker 1: I show will good morning everybody you are listening to

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Speaker 1: the voice, come on deem me now, one and only.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show, I said every day

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Speaker 1: because God been good to me. God has done some

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Speaker 1: things in my life that's truly been just amazing. It

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Speaker 1: really amazing. Ain't even really the word. They don't really

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Speaker 1: just out of superlatives. That's why I said every day.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show because God is in

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Speaker 1: a blessing business. Yeah it is. God. God can help

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Speaker 1: you turn your life around. Did you hear me? God

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Speaker 1: can help you turn your life around. Whatever you're going through,

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Speaker 1: God has an answer for it. See. But it's the

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Speaker 1: going through that gets us though, ain't it? Because I

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Speaker 1: was having a moment yesterday, and I set my wife down.

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Speaker 1: I said, Babe, I just need to talk to him.

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Speaker 1: Going through a little bit right now. I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to share what I'm a little down right now. My

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Speaker 1: wife reminded me. She just reminded me, just see this

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Speaker 1: what a man. That's what a good mate does. A

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Speaker 1: good mate reminds you just of things that sometimes you

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Speaker 1: forget when you get off track. Because you know, I

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Speaker 1: the way on this journey I've been on. I try

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Speaker 1: to give a person a takeaway. But even being that person,

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Speaker 1: sometimes I get off track myself. I get a little

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I sometimes I forget some of the stuff I say.

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Speaker 1: And ain't that I forget it. I guess I just

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Speaker 1: some of the things that my wife or a mate

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Speaker 1: can be good for you to remind you. And she

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Speaker 1: just says, Steve, God got us. She said, have you

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Speaker 1: ever known to stead every time you get in a spot,

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Speaker 1: and she say, and I know how you must feel,

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Speaker 1: because you out here working and and then you keep

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Speaker 1: this then went wrong, and not then when you steady

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Speaker 1: what does this? She say? But you ever noticed he

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Speaker 1: always always, no matter what, provide a way. And he

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Speaker 1: ain't ever too late, or you might be going the

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Speaker 1: deadline is approaching. The deadline can come and pass, but

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Speaker 1: then they have a grace period for you. And then

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Speaker 1: It may not be when you want it, but he

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Speaker 1: that what you're going through is necessary. Look, circumstance and

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Speaker 1: that's that He gonna see you through this, just like

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Speaker 1: old part is though, ain't it. Ain't God brought you

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Speaker 1: Did you get put out? Now? I'm cool? See some

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Speaker 1: Ain't that how we usually do it? I'm just asking you, God,

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Speaker 1: God get us out the fire and we walked right

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Speaker 1: then get to doing something ignorant like blaming God, when really, man,

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Speaker 1: God has given us, as human beings, the power of decision,

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Speaker 1: and we all make decisions. How many times? Man? See?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it's a blessing and getting locked up. You can

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Speaker 1: realize that my family was important. Made me. Man, really

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Speaker 1: do what I gotta do. No, no, no, no, no, partner,

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I was watching forty eight hours yesterday and

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Speaker 1: do said, Man, my mother told me quit hanging with

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Speaker 1: You can't blame God. That's why I talk to myself

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Speaker 1: How many times has God got you out of something

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Speaker 1: Don't you think That's what I think? So I thank

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Speaker 1: God my wife for reminding me that God got us anyway,

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Speaker 1: that God gonna pull you through anyway that. Have you noticed, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we ain't lost a beat. Oh. I know it's hard

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Speaker 1: still moving forward, You're still dressing nice, you still look

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Speaker 1: good when you come into that job. Everybody don't got

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Speaker 1: to know you. Your house is in bad shaping. All

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Speaker 1: I need your attention for this simple, very simple, but

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Speaker 1: Let us rejoice and be glad in it. It's a

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Speaker 1: very simple scripture. It means so much to me. I

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Speaker 1: would invite you to just do the same. It's a deal.

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Speaker 1: Today is all we really have. The past belongs to history,

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Speaker 1: That's why they call it the present, because it's an

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Speaker 1: Charley Strawberry, Caller forem Mississippi Monica Junior, Better Notice, Kids,

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Speaker 1: boy tell you what I remember one of your most

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Speaker 1: famous jokes? Will it turner? I give my money? I

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Speaker 1: saw the other day. Man, Man, what lisz have you

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey money, what liszt have you been through? I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you one of the biggest impacts, one of

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Speaker 1: one of the little bartenders playing. You know how they play.

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Speaker 1: I don't really play like that, you know how how

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Speaker 1: he I go along with it. But a pickup truck,

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Speaker 1: he grabs me from behind. It was kind of tight,

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Speaker 1: but I said, okay, that's how he's trying to play.

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Speaker 1: Zoe writes, my mother has been married to my stepfather

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Speaker 1: They haven't done that before. Mama, just catching up, that's all, that's,

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Speaker 1: Hell no, hell no, that asis? And what he tripping for?

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Speaker 1: this glorious gift. You can play the hoki poking, you know,

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Speaker 1: you know, y'all key, y'all get you know, look little

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Speaker 1: little look, look, you know you're old. You need some activities.

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Speaker 1: Well you know what he ain't for you? Then gone back.

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Speaker 1: You like being single, you're sixty six, Go ahead, yeah,

428
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Speaker 1: he's sixty six. He finn't get this right though. She

429
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Speaker 1: just wants him to simmer dock load and five ain't

430
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Speaker 1: no simming down. So that's it. Believe him. She can't, Hanley,

431
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Speaker 1: she wants him to simmer down. Yeah, but I'm but

432
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now because I got a

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Speaker 1: lot of friends, and I know they don't had many

434
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Speaker 1: discussions about these peel. Listen to me. You build up

435
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Speaker 1: a tolerance. If you keep on, you're gonna build up

436
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Speaker 1: a tolerance. What used to be one pill gonna have

437
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Speaker 1: to be two pells. And if you're getting the prescription,

438
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Speaker 1: feel then pills. It's expensive. There's two thousand dollars pells

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Speaker 1: Now he gonna keep on. He's gonna buy himself out.

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Speaker 1: Now he gonna mess rob. He gonna buy himself out

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Speaker 1: to situation. That's an expensive prices ass I own out.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, he got it all. Hang on in there,

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Speaker 1: he got it out, all right. Here we go sheersia

444
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Speaker 1: and Lexington says, I'm twenty seven years old and I'm

445
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Speaker 1: dating a man that just got married. He was a

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Speaker 1: single dad when we met, and he never told me

447
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Speaker 1: he was getting married. The wife moved in with him,

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Speaker 1: and he introduced me as the babysitter. I love his kid,

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Speaker 1: and I think I can remain professional and keep the job.

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Speaker 1: Should I quit or stay? Girl, it's no way you're

451
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Speaker 1: gonna be able to keep this up. You think that

452
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Speaker 1: woman is a fool. You think she ain't gonna know.

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Speaker 1: You think the dude you're dating is that brilliant. His

454
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Speaker 1: dumbass talking about you the babysitter. What what the babysitter?

455
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Speaker 1: You gonna get tired and looking at the babysitter look

456
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Speaker 1: like you. You gonna get tired of being the babysitter.

457
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Speaker 1: He gonna leave something somewhere. This is this is a disaster.

458
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Speaker 1: Waiting to happen. The kid don't say something, nah, Mama,

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Speaker 1: when you ain't here, Daddy be coming back home. They

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Speaker 1: be in the dear room. All right, thank you. Feel

461
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Speaker 1: you're listening to show. I want to be happy. We

462
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Speaker 1: talk about it all the time. I just want to

463
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Speaker 1: be happy. I just want to be happy. Well, you

464
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Speaker 1: know what it's. It's be yourself. According to a new

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Speaker 1: survey of two thousand Americans, people think the key to

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Speaker 1: being successful and being I mean to being blissful is

467
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: a mix of being true to yourself and spending time

468
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Speaker 1: with your family. Steve, and that old saying that money

469
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Speaker 1: can't buy happiness is reflected on this list. Huh, excuse me,

470
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Speaker 1: you had something gonna say that's what make you happy.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go from ten to one. Okay, number number ten,

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Speaker 1: they asked two thousand Americans. One of the biggest fights.

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Speaker 1: I saw that the domino table in my daddy back yard.

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Speaker 1: All right, remember number ten. If you want to be happy,

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Speaker 1: spend time with a pet. Pet Hu. Pets bring people

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Speaker 1: a lot of happiness. No, no, no, I know who,

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Speaker 1: they asked. Now, go ahead. Number nine. Spend time outside.

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Speaker 1: Spend time outside, you know, around nature around nature. Like

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Speaker 1: name you live in the projects, Okay, you know what's

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Speaker 1: out in that nature? Next question number eight. This came

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Speaker 1: in very low on the list. Sex. Yes, eight, that's eight.

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Speaker 1: That's eight, you think, Yeah, all right. Number seven keeping

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Speaker 1: your house, your space clean and organized. I like that one.

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Speaker 1: Keeping a clean house. Yeah, that's over sex. What what

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Speaker 1: I got? Had six on a pile of dirty close Yes,

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Speaker 1: number six and I bunched them up into base. Number six.

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Speaker 1: Spending time with your friends that makes you happy. Number five.

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Speaker 1: Listening to what six weeks? Yeah, and the clean out

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Speaker 1: Number six, I mean number five listening to music. Listening

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Speaker 1: to music that makes you happy? Yeah. Number four taking

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Speaker 1: time for yourself every single day. Now you do that, Steve,

492
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Speaker 1: I know you do. I need Yeah. Number six good

493
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Speaker 1: for you, but it really was to day you still

494
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Speaker 1: confused right now? Yeah, we're doing all right. So Number

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Speaker 1: three getting a quality nights sleep or getting enough sleep.

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Speaker 1: That that makes you happy? Yeah, I don't make me happy.

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Speaker 1: Number two. Watching TV shows or movies now that makes

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Speaker 1: you happy? Movie yeah? Action movie yeah? Yeah? Now like

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Speaker 1: forty eight hours old that makes you happy? Watching a

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Speaker 1: lock up raw extended stay that makes you happy glad,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm, I'm glad, I'm free. Wow man,

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Speaker 1: thank you? Okay, okay, all right? The number one, number

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Speaker 1: one thing that makes you happy? Hold one, Well, I'm

504
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Speaker 1: gonna write it out for Junior. We've already talked about it.

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Speaker 1: Oh cool, you got a lot of it. Yeah, spending

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Speaker 1: time with family, not on Not one thing on that

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Speaker 1: list says money, not one thing. I don't have all

508
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Speaker 1: this but can't go nowhere. You just broke at the family,

509
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Speaker 1: but money ain't in there at all at all. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let me go over something. Okay, who as first of all,

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Speaker 1: let's just use money compared to all these. Number ten

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Speaker 1: was what Sirley? Spending time with the pets, Steve, And

513
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Speaker 1: if you ain't got no money, what kind of pet that? Snails?

514
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: Are ants? What? What is you got grasshoppers? What is

515
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: you doing for? Michael Jackson had a mouse? Remember that? Okay?

516
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Speaker 1: One else? Spending time outside in nature. If you ain't

517
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Speaker 1: got no money, where is you going that? You might have?

518
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Speaker 1: Just go sit on your steps? All right? Keeping it

519
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Speaker 1: mad with money? What's it? Never? Eight? Having sex? Now

520
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Speaker 1: you know how much you can have when you got money? Man, Okay,

521
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: go ahead. Number seven, keeping your house and your space

522
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Speaker 1: clean and organized. I love money by housekeeper. Let's go.

523
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: Spending time with friends. Money get you better friends to music,

524
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Speaker 1: listening to music, coldest bone box in the world, coast money,

525
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Speaker 1: taking time for yourself every day, time with myself, looking

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Speaker 1: at my account, getting the quality night sleep, Steve, I

527
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Speaker 1: sleep better, O money sleep better right after six. But

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Speaker 1: number two watching TV shows and movies that tymes. TVs

529
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: you can get in your house and you got no money,

530
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: you can put them on all your TV to fighting everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can have a movie screening room in your home. Okay,

532
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: you got spending time with your family. You don't really

533
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: know that's what Yeah again I saw that. That's what

534
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: makes you happy. Man, if you met my sister, you

535
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna do that. Don't say that that boy

536
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: can talk about your Why you think I'm alway with y'all? Hey,

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00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: let me tell you this too. What when we had

538
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: our kids joined us on our vacation this year. Yes,

539
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: it's the most fun I've had many really really enjoyed

540
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 1: my kids because they've grown now, they ain't as stupid

541
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: as they used to be. Seriously, man, as you sit

542
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,879
Speaker 1: there and listening to them talk, and I would walk

543
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: off and just go and get a cigar and go. Man,

544
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,479
Speaker 1: I have failed them as a family because the people

545
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,879
Speaker 1: in that other room they cannot beat my kids. It's

546
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: nice when they come back around, Isn't it just to

547
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: put a little light on parenting? Hanging there with your kids,

548
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: because eventually they're gonna get it. They're gonna get They're

549
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: gonna all come around. Pop. I saw what you was

550
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: trying to tell me. Man, Thank you, stupid, they all

551
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: come around. Thank you for saying that. Everybody keeps telling

552
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 1: me that. All right, how do they come around round

553
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: the corner? Now? Man, They're gonna come around, all of

554
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: them come around. Yeah we did. We came around. We

555
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: were crazy. All right. We'll have more of the Steve

556
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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening

557
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: to Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, time now for

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00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather be stuck on an

559
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: island for eternity all on your own, all on your own,

560
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: or would you rather be stuck on an island for

561
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: eternity with someone you hate? M Oh yeah, give me be,

562
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. We'd be because me and me and

563
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: me and him going ahead to work through some things

564
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 1: so we can survive this thing that's about to talk

565
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: to hope it's of me and huh yeah yeah, be

566
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Speaker 1: for me. I'm gonna drive myself crazy about my dam

567
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: Now I got to hit. I'll be I'm on the island.

568
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:07,240
Speaker 1: Now tell me with all those people in your head, man, please,

569
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: I got to I got to do b I got

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00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 1: to hear somebody. I can talk to you, even we

571
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: don't like it till I got to hell somebody. All right,

572
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 1: take it back to your school days. Would you rather

573
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: be prom king or valedictorian? Oh? Prom king? Feeling to

574
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: be valid victorian? That would have ruined my whole high

575
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 1: school experience. All that scaddy and this stuff, well you

576
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 1: know the stuff, how to miss trying to get this

577
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: A on this test. I don't give a damn by

578
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 1: no A on no tests. Man. I got to get

579
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: out here learn these social skills, he all as. Yeah,

580
00:36:52,680 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: do you know what that would have took out of me? Man?

581
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: In order for me to get all a's in high school,

582
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 1: I'd have had to sell my bike. I'd have had

583
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: a withdrawal from all extra curriculum. Ax activities. I'd have

584
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: to stop playing sports. I'd have to what else I

585
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: got that give? I couldn't have no girlfriend girl. I

586
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: didn't have a whole lot of success then, but most

587
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 1: of my time with women was spent trying. The success

588
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: ratio that wasn't high at all, but the effort I

589
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: had to put in just to talk to one or

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00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: started on. Yeah, this prom season right now, Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 1: I was. That's a touch of something. I was a

592
00:37:49,239 --> 00:38:01,720
Speaker 1: runner up. I didn't win. I couldn't get black back then, lost, lost, lost.

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00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: He wasn't voting. Yeah but you went to school. But

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00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 1: but see Timy you he was after me. You was

595
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: a school white kids. Yeah. But but but I couldn't

596
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: get the black keys to vote. That was my problem.

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00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: So you look at things to change. We're voting now.

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00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: We're voting now. Yes, we are voting now. All right, um,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to morning show. Come on,

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Speaker 1: Steve introduced Jay, It's time for murder another hit. Yeah,

602
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Speaker 1: take a fence. I take a fence. I know you do.

603
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Speaker 1: Take total and we all probably gonna take after Yes,

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Speaker 1: So now ladies and Gentlemen's time for murder the hits

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Speaker 1: with one of the best us and regretful decisions I've

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Speaker 1: ever made. Ladies, gentlemen, Okay, see you now. This is

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00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: the song is not thank you, The song is not

608
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: that bad today. I'm not I'm not really insulting anyone.

609
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Speaker 1: Am I actually making a dedication. The song is dedicated

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00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 1: to all the side dads, all the hot poppers, all

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00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: the sugar daddies, blend the daddy. It's time for you

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Speaker 1: to step up and help out. And I took took

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00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 1: Erica Baudu song. I can make you put your phone

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Speaker 1: down and and to say a message to what you

615
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 1: need to do to help out. Check it out. Here

616
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:51,320
Speaker 1: we go. I can help you with the school clowns clowns.

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Speaker 1: I can have you. I can have you. I can

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Speaker 1: have you with school clowns clowns. I cann have you

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Speaker 1: with them school clowns, clowns. I can't have you. I

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Speaker 1: can't have you. I can have you with them school

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Speaker 1: clothes clowns. If I can get your kids some fool shoes, Oh,

622
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 1: I can get them. I can get them. I can

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Speaker 1: get your kids in school shoes. If I can get

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Speaker 1: them penning paper. Oh, I can get the mine get them.

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00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: I can get them penning paper. Yea yeah, I can

626
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Speaker 1: get your kids backpack right back. If I get a

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Speaker 1: little bitty and new school bookies. Now am I getting

628
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Speaker 1: that cookie? I can get your kids some bus fan. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I can get it. Ever, and I can get your

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Speaker 1: kids some bus fan. If this goes out to all

631
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: them brothers out there, go get that. Can you help

632
00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: me in call, especially around back in school, help me.

633
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: I can get it if I get it. Simple, I

634
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 1: can get it. I get it, I get it, don't

635
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 1: get it. I ain't with it, very simple, very simple.

636
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: It wor time I've ever heard bookies. Sometimes you got

637
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: to force the work. I can get it if I

638
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 1: get it. Yeah, that change ain't no robbery. Change change

639
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 1: ain't no robbery right that time of year. Because they

640
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,919
Speaker 1: were getting that to help me, they don't get thought

641
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: out there, show me on the show. Oh yeah, I

642
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 1: can't help you with your stool clothes, little man, be

643
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: dressed girls, yeah, looking just like just like it. They

644
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 1: always looked like who bout the cloths that I know

645
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: you did? Cute man. Yeah, don't you call me your

646
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 1: holl you walk into your room calling your daddy. A

647
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: girl to that one time boy? Girl, do that me

648
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: have her? A little boy three years old? This girl

649
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: the boy came the sa Hey, daddy, I ain't got

650
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,399
Speaker 1: no kid. I'm so scared at that. Yeah, I got

651
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: I got him. Never went back and she was fine too.

652
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to help nobody with. Coming up next, nephew,

653
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 1: tell me's prank phone call. We'll be back. You're listening

654
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: to show coming up at the top of the hour,

655
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.

656
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: Subject you're single unless you're married. Uh, that's it. You're

657
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: single and unless you're married. Right now, the nephew is

658
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What you got for

659
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: his neph Yo house is my house? Well, then your

660
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: house mortgage is my house. Got one for you right here,

661
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: let's go, cat Dove. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Russell. Yeah,

662
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 1: this is However Russell. I'm Isaiah. I'm a a realator

663
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: real estate and I'm trying to do some schematics. I'm

664
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: thinking I'm I'm calling the right house. I'm not quite sure.

665
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: Are you West Dixie Road? Uh? Yeah, that's how many

666
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: square feet is your house? If you don't mind me asking, Uh,

667
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: it's about thirty five square feet. I don't know this

668
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 1: is the right house or not. Is this you have

669
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 1: a deck out in the back of all weather type

670
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: of deck out in the back? Yeah? I do what

671
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: do you? What do you? What do you? What's this about? Okay,

672
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 1: if you don't mind me, Russell, how long have you

673
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 1: lived there? Yeah? Man, I've already asked you twice, and

674
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 1: you're asking me for like pros information on my CREB.

675
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 1: It's just a reference to Okay, Well, like I said,

676
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: I'm a realator and I'm trying to get ahead of

677
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: some things that's going on. And you're well, it's been

678
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: brought to my attention that your house is going to

679
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: be it's going into foreclosure. It's gonna be on the

680
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 1: on the market in the next two to three weeks.

681
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: So I wanted to make sure I was getting the

682
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: right house, and I wanted to make sure you got

683
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: the wrong house. My my my house is not going

684
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 1: and foreclosure. I'm up to date. I'm good. So you

685
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 1: got you definitely got the wrong house. Okay, hang on

686
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: so West Dixie Road, And like you said square feet.

687
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 1: This is a two car garage, right, I don't know.

688
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: I don't know what information you're getting. But when it

689
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: comes to my name in my crib and what's going

690
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: on with my bills and all that, I'm up to

691
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: date and I'm fine. So you got the wrong information,

692
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 1: you got the wrong the wrong person, or the wrong

693
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 1: information on the right house, whatever it is. But this

694
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: is not My house is definitely not going in the

695
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: foreclosure bills like it's my woman, you get me so

696
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: I So. My whole thing is is I don't even

697
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,800
Speaker 1: know why you're calling. My house is definitely not for sale.

698
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: It's now or not on for going a foreclosure. I'm

699
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: not behind all my bills, sir. I'm telling you what

700
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: my books say, and this is all I'm looking at,

701
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: legitimate legal paper money. Yo. What I'm trying to tell

702
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: you is this, I don't care about your bucks. Read

703
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: what I'm read, Read what I'm writing to you. I'm

704
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: up to date on my mortgage. You're just the realtor soul.

705
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,439
Speaker 1: My whole thing is, you're not nobody's selling my house.

706
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: My house is now Okay, no, no, let's let's back up.

707
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: Let's go back to you just the real You're not

708
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,240
Speaker 1: gonna talk to me like that. Now, I'm a realtor

709
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: and I'm a person. That's that's that's on top of

710
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: my game. Your house is going into foreclosure. Now you

711
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: can be a denial if you want to be. But

712
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:28,800
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get on top of everything and

713
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: get you know, try to sell the house as soon

714
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 1: as it hits the market. So I know what I'm not.

715
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: You don't know, my man. Look, it's not thinking the

716
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,839
Speaker 1: foreclosure dude. So so so if I'm looking at paperwork here,

717
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: why am I looking at paperwork that has your address

718
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: on it? Sir? That's not like a personal problem. I

719
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: obviously you now top your well, you know, the personal

720
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: problem is gonna be yours when they when they come

721
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 1: put you out your house. This is foreclosure. That's your address. Man. Yo,

722
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: Look I try to tell you, man, don't knock on

723
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 1: my door, call my don't call none of that. Nobody's

724
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 1: coming to my house knocking on the door, trying to

725
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 1: put me out of my house. And on top of

726
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: that before closure takes a long time. Well, that's what

727
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 1: I mean. This is, this is, this is, this has

728
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: been in there a long time. It's coming up in

729
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: the next couple of weeks. That's what I'm telling you.

730
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 1: What paperwork do you have? I am looking at what bank?

731
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 1: What do you even even know what bank did? Is

732
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: it's telling the house or trying to put me in foreclosures?

733
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: Are you with do you? Are you with first five deality?

734
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: That's not a concern. Okay, will you just asked me, sir,

735
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: you just asked me. That's what's on this paperwork and

736
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: the foreclosures. You got the wrong paperwork when you have

737
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: the wrong hand dress and taps to somebody else's. Shoot, Okay,

738
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: this is your address. It is the right square footage,

739
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 1: it is the right hand set entertaining you right now,

740
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 1: my man, I'm telling you I'm not my isn't going

741
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 1: in the foreclosure? Okay, you know what. You're getting angry

742
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:57,760
Speaker 1: with me, But really, if you have paid your bills,

743
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be in this situation. You know what I

744
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: mean that I'm paying my bills, but ifally you're not

745
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: paying yours because you're on your way in the foreclosure.

746
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: And now you're getting upset with me when I'm just

747
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 1: a realtor calling trying to trying to catch funny to me. Funny,

748
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm on my candle, my business barbecue right now, Dude,

749
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm not this zero. Let's just a general fear of

750
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: me going in the foreclosure. The attitude is not necessary.

751
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: Matter of fact, this is probably didn't call me with

752
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 1: this bullet. This is probably your last barbecue on the deck,

753
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: So enjoy that. Look you come over here and you

754
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: call me again, you'll be on the brol You got me.

755
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: All I'm telling you is this right here? Bro, they

756
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: come in to close your house out in two weeks.

757
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: All I wanted was the schematics on your house. That's

758
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: all I wanted. Well, obviously you have all information you need.

759
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,360
Speaker 1: You already know more about what's going on with my

760
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: personal fears than I do. But I'm gonna tell you

761
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a problem to come out knos to

762
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,719
Speaker 1: my fucking door. Okay, Well, I need to come up

763
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 1: and take a look at my house getting foreclosed on

764
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 1: that that that's not how it works, all right. I

765
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: need to come up and take some pictures of the house.

766
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: So is that gonna be the internet? Get up the internet?

767
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: But you got I need to come in. I need

768
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 1: to come inside, sir, and see the condition of the house. Yeah,

769
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 1: you me right. I'm not going in the foreclosure. I'm

770
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: up to date with all my You're not coming to

771
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: my house. You're not getting inside the house. Okay, you

772
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. Well, I tell you

773
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: what you're you're your co worker, Michaela. She thinks, she

774
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: seems to think different, Michayla. Don't you work with Michaela?

775
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, what's MICHAELA got to do with this? MICHAELA

776
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: got me to call you baby this nephew, time me

777
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: for the Steve Harvey more on this show. Russell, you've

778
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: been prank baby you been? Baby? Oh my god, oh my,

779
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 1: oh my god. Oh that's crazy. Man. I'm like, man,

780
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:02,319
Speaker 1: I got up to date. Man, I'm talking about I'm

781
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: up to date. Man. You up to date? Baby? Tell

782
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,760
Speaker 1: me this. What's the baddest and I mean the baddest

783
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: radio show in the land, Harvey Morning Show. Baby? You

784
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 1: up to date? Baby? You up to date? Wow? You

785
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: play way to you come over here if you want to.

786
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 1: You're gonna be on the grill. Yeah, man, I tell

787
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 1: you what, come here too. If you come my knock

788
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,439
Speaker 1: on my door in two weeks, gonna be a problem. Yeah,

789
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: dog full blown. Just need you know. All right, come on, man,

790
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk my bill. I'm gonna talk my bills

791
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: like I am my woman. Come on, I ain't never

792
00:50:52,719 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: heard that. Yeah, that was my line. Now that was scary,

793
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: booster button baby. He said, hey man, hey, hey, hey man,

794
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: hold on, I didn't ask you twice. Who are you now?

795
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: The animal? Personal business? What what? What? What you want? Yeah?

796
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 1: But then time me try to get offended, just the relative.

797
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,439
Speaker 1: You're not gonna talk down to me. But he didn't

798
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: told you. But you got all the wrong information. Man,

799
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 1: All that's the wrong information, right, But I'm gonna coming

800
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: gave him all the right information now, very they're all good, though,

801
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:37,839
Speaker 1: King of Prank, I was trying to be stupid for y'all.

802
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:39,919
Speaker 1: I just work harder trying to be stupid for y'all.

803
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: Some of them would be going too far, Shirley, don't

804
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 1: tell him that some of this is just too far much.

805
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 1: His life is in danger. Couple of them all right,

806
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Coming up next Today's Strawberry Letters subjects

807
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 1: you're single unless you're married. We'll get into it right

808
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 1: after this. You're morning show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter,

809
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: and if you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work,

810
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: on sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter

811
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter.

812
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air,

813
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now.

814
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight, We got it for you.

815
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: Here it ease. Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject your

816
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: single unless you're married is the subject? All right? Dear

817
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I am thirty six years old and I've

818
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 1: been in a great relationship for four years. A year ago,

819
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: I noticed a change in my man and changes in

820
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: our sex life. If I initiated sex, he made up

821
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: excuses like he has acid reflux and he's scared sex

822
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: might give him a heart attack. Then I saw a

823
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 1: text on his phone that said I of you too.

824
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: I asked about it, and he said he texted her

825
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: some relationship advice that was only responding to her. He said,

826
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: it's no big deal to love a friend without romantic involvement.

827
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: I told him if he continued to send messages like that,

828
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: he was going to need some relationship advice too. After that,

829
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 1: he changed his password to his fingerprint to access his phone,

830
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 1: so I had to be creative to find out if

831
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: he was sneaking around with another female. I checked to

832
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: social media direct messages and all of the proof was there.

833
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 1: His advice in quotations to her was to leave her

834
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: man and be with him. I found out he'd introduced

835
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 1: her to his mother as his future wife, and that

836
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: broke my heart. I sat and wrote him a note

837
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: telling him what I had seen and told him i'd

838
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: be at my sister's while I figured things out. He

839
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 1: called me and said he loves me, but he's not

840
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: in love with me. He also said he is not

841
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: in love with the new girl, but he's very close

842
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: to it. He apologized to me and said I have

843
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: every right to be hurt, but I shouldn't be upset

844
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:13,280
Speaker 1: because we were just dating, not married. He said, technically

845
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: he's single, and so am I. Why did he stay

846
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:20,240
Speaker 1: with me with four years and use me until something

847
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: better came along. We talked about marriage, but I guess

848
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,919
Speaker 1: he had other plans. I was blindsided and I feel

849
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: like a fool. I am moving out of his house

850
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 1: and his life. Where did where did I go wrong? Whole?

851
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: Technically he's single and so are you. That part is true,

852
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: and you do have every right to be upset. You

853
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: can be upset if you want to be upset. I'm

854
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 1: sorry this happened to you. Four years is a long

855
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 1: time for this to be the outcome. And you know,

856
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure you were hoping for way more, something a

857
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: little more permanent, like marriage, since you mentioned marriage in

858
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 1: your letters that you guys talked about it. But you know,

859
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: I say this better late than never, because it is

860
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 1: clear that this man is not for you. He said

861
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: he loves you like you can I guess love a

862
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: pet or something. But he's not in love with you.

863
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: So the best thing for you to do is to

864
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: let him go. The quicker you do that, the sooner

865
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 1: you can get on with your life. But the lead,

866
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:24,840
Speaker 1: the learning process is gonna be gonna be hard for you.

867
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 1: You say, where did you go wrong? That that's the

868
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: hard part. He was getting everything he wanted from this relationship,

869
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,839
Speaker 1: sex with you, all the benefits of marriage. You were

870
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: living together, you know, and and even with that, he

871
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:44,720
Speaker 1: still considered you guys single. So these are the lessons

872
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:48,719
Speaker 1: that you gotta that you gotta, you know, watch and

873
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,800
Speaker 1: learn so you won't make these same mistakes again. You

874
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: weren't getting anything. You weren't moving toward a commitment from him.

875
00:55:56,440 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 1: Uh So you know, I just don't. I mean, you know,

876
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: how did you play a part in this? I guess

877
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: is what I'm trying to say. You played a part

878
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 1: in this because you allowed this to go on like this.

879
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: You're just dating a man and living with him for

880
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: four years. You were hoping for something more, but you

881
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: didn't get that. You wanted to marry him. You know,

882
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: you guys never disgusted only when he brought it up.

883
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: What about what you wanted? And what about you know,

884
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: what he thought about what you wanted? You could have

885
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 1: found these things out a little earlier in the relationship

886
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: if you just, you know, done some digging like you

887
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: did when you were trying to find out if he

888
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 1: was sneaking around cheating on you. So I guess what

889
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:42,839
Speaker 1: I'm saying is let this be a lesson. I think

890
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,799
Speaker 1: you should let this one go. Hopefully you have since

891
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: you moved out and everything. But next time, you know,

892
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: you have a right to speak your mind and let

893
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: them know what you want and like Steve says in

894
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: his book Act like a lady, Think like a man.

895
00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 1: Makes some standards and requirements so you won't end up

896
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: in the same position giving four years of your life

897
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: to a relationship that really is going nowhere and you're

898
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: not getting what you want, but they get everything they want.

899
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 1: So learn from this and move on. Steve subject you're

900
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 1: single unless you're married. That's complete and utter bull Every

901
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 1: adult knows that if you're not married, you can be

902
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: in a relationship. You're not single, y'all live together. Single

903
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 1: people can do single things. The problem you have is

904
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: when you're not single, but you're performing as though you

905
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: are single. If you're in a committed relationship, living with

906
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 1: a person is a committed relationship. Marriage is a committed,

907
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: committed relationship. So y'all in a relationship, he ain't single.

908
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old. I've been in a

909
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: great relationship for four years. Boy, it is when went

910
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 1: down here pretty fast, though, been a year ago. Changing

911
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,919
Speaker 1: your man's sex life. If I initiated sex, he made

912
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: up excuses like he had acid reflex and he scared

913
00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: sex might give him a heart attack. Wow, this is

914
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: called pre existing conditions. Who let's acid reflex stopped them

915
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: from having sex. I don't know, I've vomited and won't

916
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 1: it six? Oh good Cross, I've had diar real sex

917
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: on that night. On that note, we'll have part two

918
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: of your response, sir, get yourself together coming up in

919
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry Letters subject

920
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: you're single unless you're married. We'll get back into it

921
00:58:54,760 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to all right, Steve, come on,

922
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject your single until you're married. Well, okay,

923
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: that's how you want to go with it, but I

924
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: think it's bogus the way he played this woman year

925
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: agold had a wonderful relationship. She thirty six that sex

926
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:20,919
Speaker 1: in the chap had a change in a sex life

927
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: if she initiated sex. The dude made up excuse like

928
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: he had acid reflux and he was scared that sex

929
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 1: might give him a heart attack. You thirty six, First

930
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: of all, how old is he? Because if he's the

931
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: same age as you, he in bad shape. He's scared

932
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 1: sex gonna give him a heart attack. I have had

933
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:44,959
Speaker 1: sex to try to have a heart attack. Prince wrote

934
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: a song that says, when we make love crazy in love,

935
00:59:55,280 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: having a hundred million to h a tax. Damn you,

936
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 1: that was a song. When we make love is like

937
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: having a hundred million little heart attacks. That's a song

938
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 1: you make love to have a heart attack. Now he

939
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 1: don't want to have set because he's scared attack my heart.

940
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 1: This is not about you, sir. No, I'm telling you

941
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: how wrong this dude is. All right. Then you saw

942
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 1: a phone attack on the phone say I love you too.

943
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 1: Then you confronted the man about it, and he said

944
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: it ain't no big deal. He was giving her some

945
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: romantic advice, which he was. But the thing of it

946
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 1: is is you told him if he continued to see

947
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: a message like that, that she was gonna need some

948
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: advice too, all right. So he changed the password, he

949
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 1: put his finger on and everything right now. So now

950
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: she got creative and went through his messages and found

951
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,920
Speaker 1: out on social media that he had advice to her

952
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 1: was to leave her man and be with him. And

953
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: you find out he induced her to his mother as

954
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: his future wife. That broke her hard. Then you wrote

955
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: him a note. You told him that you be at

956
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: your sister's house while while you figured this out. Then

957
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 1: he did it hit the whole crux of the whole letter.

958
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 1: Right here. He called you said he loves you, but

959
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: he's not in love with you. You need to be

960
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 1: in love to marry somebody, and everybody on this show

961
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 1: could tell you that you got to be in love.

962
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 1: Both show definitely you got to get to marry somebody.

963
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:49,560
Speaker 1: So that that's a bummer right there. He also said

964
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: he's not in love with the new girl, but he's

965
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: very close to it. Did you not get a text

966
01:01:55,760 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 1: that said I love you too? That's right, that's right.

967
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 1: It was in the tax So now he just trying

968
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: to let you down soft. But then here he goes

969
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: he apologized to you and said you got every right

970
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 1: to be hurt, but I shouldn't be upset. See this,

971
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 1: this dude right here, he know how to draw the

972
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: difference between upset and hurt, Like them two ain't the

973
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 1: same damn thing. Whatever. Right, you got every right to

974
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: be hurt, but you shouldn't be upset because we were

975
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 1: just dating, not married for four years. Fool. We lived

976
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: in your house, right, this ain't dating. We live together.

977
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 1: In some states that's called common and law. So technically

978
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 1: he's singling, So am I Why did he stay with

979
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: me four years and use me until something better came along?

980
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 1: First of all sins to stop beating yourself up. You

981
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 1: don't know the something the better has come along. That's true.

982
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: You don't know that. Let me tell you something else

983
01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: I want you to do. We had talked about marriage,

984
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: and I guess he had other plans. I was blindsided.

985
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 1: I feel like a fool. I'm moving out of his house,

986
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: in his life. Where did I go wrong? You didn't

987
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 1: go wrong? Nowhere, You didn't go wrong. See that's what

988
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: happens to a lot of ladies or dude becomes an

989
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: a hole and then all of a sudden you take

990
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: the blame and where it like you did something. You

991
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: got a man that the lied. We wasn't we wasn't

992
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 1: we were single? Food, she lived in your house. You

993
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: find a message that say I love you too. He

994
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: tell you he ain't in love with her, but he closed.

995
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: How the heir? Are you close in love? What is there?

996
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: What is that? I'm not in love with her, but

997
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm close kinda? There ain't no songs about now. It's

998
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 1: songs that say I believe, I believe, I believe I'm

999
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 1: falling in love. That's a song, but the key word

1000
01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:18,680
Speaker 1: he said, I believe I'm falling in love. Did the

1001
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: Ain't no song out there going stay with me. I'm

1002
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 1: almost there. I'm almost in love with you. Ain't come

1003
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 1: on now, stay with me. I'm almost there. I'm almost

1004
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 1: in love with you, almost almost damn near. Dare kind

1005
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: of kind, but I don't know when. Hon't wait a

1006
01:04:54,800 --> 01:05:01,440
Speaker 1: while alone, I'm almost in love. Moost your comments Today's

1007
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters you hit song I'm Almost in a little

1008
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 1: on Instagram and faithbook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

1009
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: on demand as well. You're listening to morning show Lower

1010
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: the lights please, ladies, and time for Junior's Poetry Hours.

1011
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: Let me just say this quick, this poem right here. Yeah,

1012
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: forget that. The point of the poem is is getting

1013
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 1: close to going back to school, right yeah. And everybody

1014
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 1: that's uncles don't get appreciated because we help Now. I

1015
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 1: got a seventeen year old nephew desks by to be

1016
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 1: in the same grade with the fourteen years He didn't

1017
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 1: call me, and you don't say that on the air.

1018
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 1: On Hold on, first of all, hold on, what you want?

1019
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 1: What you want me to act like it ain't hell Okay,

1020
01:05:58,040 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: my people, they know what you want to act like

1021
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 1: he's a spil because he's not right. Should I be

1022
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: shamed of the fact that what he won't do? Now

1023
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 1: the fourteen year old then't damn Niver caught the seventeen

1024
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:11,439
Speaker 1: year old. But I didn't think it was gonna happen.

1025
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: But nor I'm mercy they won great appause like that. Now,

1026
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 1: I mean, would he go in the classroom? They think

1027
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 1: the teacher didn't walk in all I'm saying. What im

1028
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 1: just saying. He asked me for some stuff, and I

1029
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 1: just wanted to let him know this. Now, the name

1030
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 1: of the poem is I'm just Huncle. Here I'll go

1031
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 1: hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey

1032
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 1: hey hey hey hey. I'm just Huncle. Stop asking me

1033
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 1: for cash, okay, because when I helped you out, you

1034
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: don't do number. Walk in the other room and just

1035
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 1: talk trade. Go bag your mom and your daddy because

1036
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 1: they the one that had you. Because I'm just Huncle,

1037
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 1: I can do all I can do. Now that I

1038
01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 1: know you're going back to school and you like new stuff.

1039
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 1: But I'm lived out here in La Rid Highs hell man,

1040
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 1: it's even rough. Now. I'm not trying to be mean,

1041
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:08,200
Speaker 1: because I really do love you with all my heart.

1042
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna get a jump on this. I'm gonna

1043
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:16,439
Speaker 1: say no before you even start. I'm just hum That's

1044
01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 1: all I can do. That was called the style conversation.

1045
01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: That's what you're doing. You're sitting there looking for rhymes.

1046
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Speaker 1: That's no rhymes, and it ain't got to be. It

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01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: was that called you don't you have different styles? This

1048
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: was called the style of conversation. I don't get what

1049
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 1: I was talking to him. I don't This is style?

1050
01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:47,040
Speaker 1: Do you have? Do you have? Do you have any

1051
01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 1: kids asking you for? Yeah? Okay, But this was the

1052
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 1: style of car. It's called style of cars. I created it.

1053
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 1: We know that at this was just most deaf. Why

1054
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:14,680
Speaker 1: would I go listen to most most deafening the style

1055
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: of conversation A style you made up? All Right, we

1056
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: gotta go, we'll be back. You're listening to In the

1057
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:29,400
Speaker 1: divided nation we all currently inhabit, it's nice to know

1058
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:33,360
Speaker 1: that there are still some things we can still agree on,

1059
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 1: and that is sandwiches. Sandwiches are delicious, right. Everybody loves

1060
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 1: a great sandwich. Right, but still there's plenty of room

1061
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 1: for healthy debate and disagreement about what's the best sandwich. Okay,

1062
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 1: to settle things once and for all, Once and for all,

1063
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:53,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna settle this. You gov dot com ranopole to

1064
01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:57,719
Speaker 1: find out which ones were most cherished sandwiches in our country.

1065
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: Here are the results. All right, Okay, let's not do that.

1066
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:07,719
Speaker 1: Hold Ty Sherley, before you do that, what's the question

1067
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:10,080
Speaker 1: we ought to ask each other before you do the survey?

1068
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:16,640
Speaker 1: What's your favorite all time favorite damn sandwich? I knew it?

1069
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 1: Uh huh, I like a damn easy junior. What is it?

1070
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:27,519
Speaker 1: Peanut butter and jelly all day long? Hey, miss hey,

1071
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:34,400
Speaker 1: miss Tommy, what is it? Grill turkey and pepper jack cheek? Yeah,

1072
01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:38,760
Speaker 1: real turkey and pepper jack cheese. And he's so white

1073
01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:46,760
Speaker 1: keeping that's bad. Ms Poe ass Black talking about some

1074
01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:50,600
Speaker 1: damn pepper jack cheese. Hey, I like pepper put some

1075
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: salt on it. I don't care about they don't hurt

1076
01:09:56,080 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 1: my sandwich. Y'all? Call what's your favorite sandwich? All time?

1077
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: B l t H b lt bacon let us into me?

1078
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 1: That was mine? But girl, we could ride together. When

1079
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: I was a kid, it was ham sandwich. But um,

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01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 1: does cheeseburger count? That's not a sandwich. Okay, that's a burger,

1081
01:10:22,760 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 1: all right, so I gotta say, yeah, I thought it

1082
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 1: was because it's cheeseburger all day cheesburger. Yeah about you, Steve,

1083
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 1: Come on, man, what's my favorite sandwich? Yes? All right, y'a,

1084
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 1: all ready, buckle up, come up and take you. I

1085
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:51,679
Speaker 1: know what you're gonna say. What hotday veld veto real

1086
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 1: cheese sand gotta be very old veto, you say, Tommy,

1087
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: I don't give it stopped up them, which probably is

1088
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:10,840
Speaker 1: not even real cheese mercy when you sliced it and

1089
01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 1: made of grilled cheese sandwich. I don't eat that, note bot,

1090
01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:20,719
Speaker 1: but I could, I probably would. Guess what sal cheese

1091
01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:29,360
Speaker 1: sandwich and government grilled cheese. Guess what, Steve? Huh? That

1092
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:35,040
Speaker 1: is the number one sandwich in America. Grilled cheese cheese.

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01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 1: Thank you cheese? H gad cheese everybody though, adults and

1094
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,560
Speaker 1: junior I like, I like peanut butter sandwiches, but I

1095
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 1: don't like peanut butter and Chelly, I just like peanuts. Up,

1096
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:59,680
Speaker 1: I just like peanut butter. I don't like you're the

1097
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:03,120
Speaker 1: guy in my daddy house. Really, you had a grape,

1098
01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:09,040
Speaker 1: big giant jaw of grape jelly, Well, real grape in

1099
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: that jaw. To no man, it was just purple yall

1100
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 1: purple it hand. I ain't never read the label less

1101
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 1: than one percent real fruit. Okay, listen to me. If

1102
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 1: you got some grape jelly and the label says less

1103
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:41,360
Speaker 1: than one percent real fruit, what they've done, y'all? Hold

1104
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 1: up some hot water with some purple glading now with

1105
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:53,800
Speaker 1: some jelly gelatin in it, and one grape skin one?

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01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: All right, we got more, more sandwiches, more Steve Harvey

1107
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 1: morning shows coming up right after this. We'll be back

1108
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:08,680
Speaker 1: at twenty after you're listening to the String show. So

1109
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:14,040
Speaker 1: listen to this story, guys. A Meath manufacturing company experienced

1110
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:18,720
Speaker 1: a glitch in its payroll recently and accidentally paid a

1111
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 1: worker three hundred times his salary, and now they can't

1112
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:25,559
Speaker 1: seem to find the guy. The worker expected his usual

1113
01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:28,720
Speaker 1: monthly check of five hundred and forty five dollars, but

1114
01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:31,600
Speaker 1: instead received a check for more than one hundred and

1115
01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:35,600
Speaker 1: eighty thousand dollars. Now when he noticed, yeah, when he

1116
01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:38,880
Speaker 1: noticed the mistake, he alerted his manager, who told him

1117
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 1: to go to his bank and repay the money, but

1118
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 1: he never did and the company can't find him. They

1119
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:47,799
Speaker 1: tried to reach him for several days and eventually received

1120
01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:52,040
Speaker 1: a letter from his attorney informing them of his resignation.

1121
01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 1: He hasn't been heard from since. The company has filed

1122
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 1: a complaint with the least, but no arrest has been made.

1123
01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 1: So the question to you, guys is what would you

1124
01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: do in this situation if you got paid three hundred

1125
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:13,560
Speaker 1: times your salary? Oh, I'm out. I'm telling you. I

1126
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,639
Speaker 1: will die in front of you right there. You would

1127
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:19,479
Speaker 1: think I'm gone, flat out, roll me out the dough.

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01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: Pardon I'm gone, Junior. I call in him. I will

1129
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 1: call see how y'all doing? How do I want to

1130
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:39,840
Speaker 1: show doing? Not coming back? Boy? Y'all? Stay boy? Three

1131
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:44,559
Speaker 1: hundred times you'll pay? All right, We'll have more, thanks, guys,

1132
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:46,800
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up.

1133
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 1: We'll do a round of would you rather? At thirty

1134
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Right after this you're listening

1135
01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 1: to the String Show? All right, guys, time now for

1136
01:14:56,320 --> 01:15:00,519
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather be you stuck on

1137
01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 1: an island for eternity all on your own, all on

1138
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 1: your own, or would you rather be stuck on an

1139
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:11,639
Speaker 1: island for eternity with someone you hate? M Oh yeah,

1140
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 1: give me b I'm gonna go with B because me

1141
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 1: and me and me and him gonna have to work

1142
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:18,960
Speaker 1: through somethings so we can survive this thing. Yeah, that's

1143
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 1: about to talk to I hope it's a me and huh. Yeah,

1144
01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 1: really work it out, b Be for me, I'm gonna

1145
01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:33,439
Speaker 1: drive myself crazy about my damns. Now I got to be.

1146
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:36,800
Speaker 1: I'm on an island now, tal me with all those

1147
01:15:36,880 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 1: people in your head, man, plead, I got to I

1148
01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 1: got to do be. I got to have somebody. I

1149
01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:44,680
Speaker 1: can talk to you, even we don't like you till

1150
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 1: I got to have somebody, all right. Take it back

1151
01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:51,080
Speaker 1: to your school days. Would you rather be prim king

1152
01:15:51,640 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 1: or valedictorian? Oh, prim king? Whatever? I feel to be Victoria.

1153
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:07,440
Speaker 1: That would have ruined my whole high school experience. All

1154
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 1: that study and this stuff, well you know the stuff

1155
01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:13,080
Speaker 1: I'd have missed trying to get this A on this test.

1156
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn by no A on no tests, man,

1157
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 1: I gotta get out here learn these social skills all a's. Yeah,

1158
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:33,639
Speaker 1: do you know what that would have took out of me? Man?

1159
01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 1: In order for me to get all a's in high school,

1160
01:16:36,560 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 1: I'd have had to sell my bike. I'd have had

1161
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 1: to withdrawal from all extra curriculum axctivities. I'd have to

1162
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 1: stop playing sports. I'd have to what else I gotta give.

1163
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 1: I couldn't have no girlfriend. I didn't have a whole

1164
01:16:57,240 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 1: lot of success then, but most of my time with

1165
01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:04,439
Speaker 1: women was spit trying. Yea, the success ratio that wasn't

1166
01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 1: high at all, but the effort I had to put

1167
01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 1: in just to talk to one junior started on, Yeah,

1168
01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:20,439
Speaker 1: it's problem season right now? Yeah? I was. I was.

1169
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:23,719
Speaker 1: That's a touch of subject. I was a runner up front.

1170
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 1: I didn't win. I couldn't get black vote back then

1171
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:37,120
Speaker 1: you lost, Tommy, I lost lost. They wasn't voting. Yeah,

1172
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: but you went to school. But but see Timmy, you

1173
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:42,880
Speaker 1: he was after me using school white kids. Yeah, but

1174
01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: but but I couldn't get the black kids to vote.

1175
01:17:45,080 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: That was my proper so looking change, we're voting now,

1176
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:58,800
Speaker 1: We're voting now, we are voting now? All right, um,

1177
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:01,720
Speaker 1: all right, well, thank you guys. That's today's round of

1178
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:04,040
Speaker 1: would you rather? Coming up at forty nine minutes after

1179
01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:05,960
Speaker 1: it's the last break of the day, and we'll have

1180
01:18:06,080 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 1: some closing remarks for you right after this. You're listening,

1181
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Here we are, last break of the day. Wow,

1182
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 1: what a week it's been. Huh. So you have some

1183
01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 1: closing remarks for Steve. Oh, I got you, okay. In

1184
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:32,240
Speaker 1: light of encouraging people and getting people to understand the

1185
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:35,880
Speaker 1: process that we are all involved in when it comes

1186
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 1: to finding our success in our happiness, we are all

1187
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 1: in the process. And you know, one of the things

1188
01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:48,280
Speaker 1: when you're trying to become happy, or you're you're seeking

1189
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:51,800
Speaker 1: out your success, your position in life, what you're gonna do,

1190
01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 1: how you're gonna get it done. Maybe you start a business,

1191
01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:57,839
Speaker 1: maybe trying to get a promotion, maybe trying to finish school,

1192
01:18:58,320 --> 01:19:00,759
Speaker 1: whatever it is, you're gonna run an to some things.

1193
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 1: That is just life. You are not the only one.

1194
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:10,640
Speaker 1: But when you get hit with one of them hardness,

1195
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 1: one that kind of slows your roll a little bit,

1196
01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:18,240
Speaker 1: and we all have them, one that kind of knocks

1197
01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:23,920
Speaker 1: you down and you didn't see it coming. I mean, man,

1198
01:19:25,000 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 1: it's life is difficult, man, it really really is. And

1199
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:33,120
Speaker 1: all of us have to face some of these challenges

1200
01:19:33,560 --> 01:19:37,240
Speaker 1: that are so heavy that it feels like it knocks

1201
01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 1: us out to game. And you can be thrown for

1202
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:42,720
Speaker 1: a moment. Don't get me wrong, it's human nature. You

1203
01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:45,560
Speaker 1: can get tossed up pretty bad where you feel like

1204
01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:49,240
Speaker 1: giving up. You can you can get tossed up pretty

1205
01:19:49,280 --> 01:19:51,280
Speaker 1: bad where you feel like, well this is the end.

1206
01:19:52,960 --> 01:19:58,200
Speaker 1: But when you get knocked down, when you get ran over,

1207
01:19:59,080 --> 01:20:04,680
Speaker 1: when you get push when you're exhausted, you gotta get

1208
01:20:04,720 --> 01:20:10,360
Speaker 1: back in the game. You have to get back in

1209
01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:16,559
Speaker 1: the game. It's still no excuse for not getting back

1210
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:19,879
Speaker 1: in the game. Because life is ten percent what happens

1211
01:20:19,920 --> 01:20:25,440
Speaker 1: to you. It's what you do about it. Everybody has hardships,

1212
01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:32,639
Speaker 1: everybody has challenge moments. Everybody gets knocked down, everybody get

1213
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 1: ran over, everybody get blindside it. But you have got

1214
01:20:38,439 --> 01:20:43,000
Speaker 1: to get back in the game. You don't have the time.

1215
01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 1: Time is too precious for you to just sit on

1216
01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:51,679
Speaker 1: the sideline on the bench, not playing anymore. You can't

1217
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:57,519
Speaker 1: do that. God is your coach, and with God all

1218
01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:04,720
Speaker 1: things are possible. I want to ask you something when

1219
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:08,720
Speaker 1: God is doing what he does, when he's in the background,

1220
01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:12,559
Speaker 1: moving on your behalf, when he's back there working out

1221
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:15,680
Speaker 1: things that you don't know that's working on, when he

1222
01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:19,639
Speaker 1: is working on your behalf just because he knows you've

1223
01:21:19,680 --> 01:21:23,040
Speaker 1: been asking him to, if he'd been secretly working on

1224
01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:26,800
Speaker 1: your behalf because you his child, because you honor him,

1225
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 1: love him, in respect him. If he's in the background

1226
01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:33,519
Speaker 1: working on your behalf. Wouldn't you like to be on

1227
01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 1: the field for the end of the game. Wouldn't you

1228
01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 1: like to be on the field when the results come

1229
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:44,959
Speaker 1: in when God get through doing what he doing. Wouldn't

1230
01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 1: you love to be there when He puts his stamp

1231
01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:52,400
Speaker 1: of approval on it. Wouldn't you like to be on

1232
01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: the field in the game when the package that you've

1233
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 1: been praying for finally arrives. Wouldn't you like to be

1234
01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:04,200
Speaker 1: in the field in the game when He finally answered

1235
01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: that prayer. Wouldn't you like to be there standing on

1236
01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 1: the field when it all turns around and all your

1237
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 1: haters got to sit there and become your footstools. Wouldn't

1238
01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 1: you like to be on the field for that? I

1239
01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 1: know I would. I want to be on the field.

1240
01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: When God starts passing out victories, I want to take

1241
01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:30,440
Speaker 1: a victory left. When God starts blessing you when everybody

1242
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:35,360
Speaker 1: said was over. I love it when God proved people wrong.

1243
01:22:36,120 --> 01:22:39,639
Speaker 1: I absolutely love it. I love it when God say

1244
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:43,080
Speaker 1: there's nothing you can do to my child that he

1245
01:22:43,240 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: can't handle. And when you get through starting these fires

1246
01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 1: around him, when you get through messing with him, look

1247
01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 1: at him. He gonna be stronger and bigger and brighter

1248
01:22:52,479 --> 01:22:54,880
Speaker 1: and better than ever when you was laughing at him,

1249
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:58,360
Speaker 1: when you thought he folded and I came to his rescue.

1250
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 1: Who laughing. Now all the people in the stands will

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Speaker 1: see it. You won't have to shove it in nobody's face.

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Speaker 1: Oh they're gonna see it. They're gonna be sicker, they're

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Speaker 1: gonna try something else. But at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: I want to be on the field when it's over,

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Speaker 1: when God comes through, when he show up like he

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Speaker 1: always does. I don't care if it's the last second

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Speaker 1: field goal, as long as I win the game. What

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Speaker 1: difference doing me. I got hurt while I was playing,

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Speaker 1: but I want I'll take that. God got a great

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Speaker 1: life for you. But you got to stay in the

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Speaker 1: game to get it. God got a great life for you,

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Speaker 1: but you gotta get up when you get ran over.

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Speaker 1: God got a great life for you, but you gotta

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Speaker 1: hang on when you feel like sitting down. God got

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Speaker 1: a great life for you, but you will never know

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Speaker 1: how great it is until you get the end results.

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Speaker 1: You'll never know how great it is until you hanging

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Speaker 1: out and see what God finally had worked out for you.

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Speaker 1: Stay on the field, get back in the game. It's critical.

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Speaker 1: It's critical. I want to be on the field when

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Speaker 1: they're doing the victory lab. Those are my closing remarks. Wow,

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Speaker 1: drop that mic baby, drop it. Yeah, y'all have a

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Speaker 1: great man. Sound like he broke it. He did. Drop

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Speaker 1: it like it's broke. It's hot for all Steve I

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Speaker 1: recons that's no purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must

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Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless

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