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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex.

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Speaker 2: Pete and is Sugarl Dre and the call and you.

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Speaker 1: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 3: Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober.

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Speaker 1: Thought, what's up girl?

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Speaker 2: Behind my back? Because I feel like it's not like

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Speaker 2: helping my posture.

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Speaker 1: I'm weak, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I realize I have terrible posture, yes, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: but it's like it's hard to change your posture because

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Speaker 2: you really have to think about it, Like you have

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Speaker 2: to consciously be like, okay, let me walk like this

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Speaker 2: because most of the time, you know what I think.

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Speaker 1: Caused my bad posture, as bad as it sounds, being.

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Speaker 2: In my phone, like me looking at my phone and

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Speaker 2: being hunched over and just like walking and not paying attention.

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Speaker 2: Babies great posture, Yes, they do. They have great posture.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just because you know, they're fresh out

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Speaker 2: the puss. They haven't had any you know, distractions, so

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Speaker 2: they noticed the look up. These days, they be distracted.

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Speaker 2: They be having little iPads and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, the kids don't.

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Speaker 2: Be outside of these days. Used to be outside. I

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Speaker 2: wonder what it is about the drink water off the whole.

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Speaker 1: It taste like that.

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Speaker 2: It tastes good, it tastes refreshing.

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Speaker 1: I never never fresh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the saani is nasty. I feel like people who

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Speaker 3: drink the say no shade. But I feel like you're

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Speaker 3: not a real water drinker.

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Speaker 1: Drink you ain't, you ain't.

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Speaker 2: What's the what's like a water that if you saw

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Speaker 2: somebody drinking like, oh yeah she a real water drinker

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Speaker 2: aqua pina.

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Speaker 3: I really like the Trader Joe's water. That's really good water.

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Speaker 3: And they just spring water period. But you know who

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Speaker 3: really the real drinkers, the real drinks, the real drinkers,

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Speaker 3: the real d they go to the spring and get

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Speaker 3: their water for real.

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Speaker 1: It's like a for real bit.

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Speaker 4: No, I really am being for real.

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Speaker 3: You can literally it's a website called find your Spring

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Speaker 3: or something like that, and you can access it no

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Speaker 3: matter what state you live in, and it'll tell you

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Speaker 3: what spring you can go to in your state and

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Speaker 3: get spring fresh spring water. You just take your you know,

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Speaker 3: water bottle and then you put it in there.

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Speaker 1: No, you need to take something bigger than the water bottle.

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Speaker 4: Bit.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about the big I'm talking about like the

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Speaker 3: ozarka sized bottles.

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Speaker 1: So where's our spring at?

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Speaker 2: We have a few of them.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I've never been there.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a real I ain't that serious. I ain't

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Speaker 3: that deep in it yet, but I'm trying to get there. No,

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Speaker 3: because they say that it's already like full of minerals

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Speaker 3: and everything.

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Speaker 1: What if somebody just went pissed in it. They went

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Speaker 1: to find your spring and they kissing all the springs.

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Speaker 2: Okay, bro, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Just saying you need it, but you need to boil.

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Speaker 1: But if you boil it, you get rid of the minerals.

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Speaker 3: Huh, Yes, you get rid of rid of all the

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Speaker 3: minerals and alkaline property.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not doing that. I'm doing that.

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Speaker 3: I really want to do that though, because if you

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Speaker 3: on water.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not because you gotta use the gas to

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Speaker 2: That gas ain't chee.

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Speaker 1: It's given premium.

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Speaker 4: It definitely ain't be having to get ninety.

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Speaker 2: Three we okay, okay, okay, okay. So first of all,

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Speaker 2: we have to catch up. So what you been up to?

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Speaker 1: Grow?

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Speaker 2: What have I been up to? What have we been doing?

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Speaker 2: We've been doing a lot. I feel like, yeah, we

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Speaker 2: just got back yeast few weeks. We have been doing good.

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Speaker 2: We had the Roots Picnic a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: Roots.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all, this is our first festival, and

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Speaker 2: I was nervous as usual. I think I told y'all

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Speaker 1: I don't know why, I just be so nervous.

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Speaker 2: But I was so shocked at how many of the

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Speaker 2: poor crew showed up for us. Yeah, our set was

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Speaker 2: shout out from UCA Uh. He was there all day

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Speaker 2: and he said we had the biggest crowd on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: We say, and not only was it the biggest crowd

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Speaker 3: Interacting with us. And I love when we have crowds

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Speaker 3: like that. Like I hate when we were having crowds

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Speaker 3: and people be aching shot o't nobody want to say this.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie like we so cool, Like you

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Speaker 4: Let's have a good time.

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Speaker 2: We only had I'm not gonna say the city that

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Speaker 3: Even remember, but I do remember we had two cities

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Speaker 2: Oh well, I can remember one specifically, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: podcasts in that same city. I just think that's just

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Speaker 2: how they are. They just too cool for school, you

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Speaker 4: Coming to our.

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Speaker 1: You need the motherfucking turn up because we be lit.

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Speaker 1: We be lit.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it was a really good experience. Roots was

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Speaker 2: so like professional. They had everything laid out. We had

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Speaker 1: Room, they had all the area. We stole all the sacks.

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Speaker 1: They probably came to our room like, god, damn, the.

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Speaker 4: Whole basket was gone. We took all the waters, the.

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Speaker 2: Apples, bananas, the water bitch, we took everything.

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Speaker 4: Clean it up, baby, We ain't leave a chrome.

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Speaker 2: We could tell we ain't we are nowhere.

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Speaker 4: You ain't been nowhere home.

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Speaker 2: You know. You know how people clean up afterwards, They

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Speaker 1: They was like, oh, hell you we have nothing.

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Speaker 4: But it was so fun though, it really was.

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Speaker 1: That was my first time to Philly.

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Speaker 4: That was my second time.

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Speaker 1: And yeah what yeah, what you like a Philly?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Philly looks so similar to New York to me, Like

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Speaker 3: Looked like New York, but you don't give the vibes

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Speaker 3: like certain areas look like New York, but it definitely

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Speaker 3: ain't giving New York.

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Speaker 1: Yes, well, let me tell you New York.

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Speaker 2: I could stay in New York for like a week

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Speaker 2: for me. I'm just not really an East Coast girl. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: I went to d C. I had a grand time.

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Speaker 1: City, towntown. Sorry, I got my mind in the good

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to hurry aroup this shit.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell y'all something, if youre in Philly,

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Speaker 2: do not do not go to that Ruth Chris in Philly.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, we're about to tell this story because

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Speaker 4: But I will tell y'all where to go after she

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Speaker 2: So we went to Ruth Chris. It was me, Drea,

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Speaker 2: my best friend, Killer and past Age. It was four

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Speaker 2: you know, when me and Dre go out to eat,

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Speaker 2: we like to order the whole left side of the menu.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: We both worked in the service industry. We gonna take

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Speaker 2: care of our people. But from the moment we sat down,

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Speaker 2: the service was absolutely horrifying.

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Speaker 1: It was terrible.

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Speaker 2: And mind you, we went to a steakhouse. My steak

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Speaker 2: was overcooked. Every everything was bad. The only thing that

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Speaker 2: was good was the crab cakes. I think, oh in

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Speaker 2: the shrimp. The shrimp that we had was good.

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Speaker 3: I didn't taste the crab cakes, but the shrimp was

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Speaker 3: really good. My stuffed chicken was not blessing. The potatoes

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Speaker 2: Playing the space, yeah, the Brussels Spronce was nasty.

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Speaker 3: And I've never been to Ruth christ They had a

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Speaker 3: no matter where you go, you know, you can go

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Speaker 1: Meal that nice hawked me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no matter what city that you in.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, fucking let's go to Ruth

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Speaker 2: But yes, y'all, Like, the food was just not good.

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Speaker 4: I didn't like none of my dreams.

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Speaker 1: The drinks was bad.

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Speaker 2: My drink was bad, and all I had was like

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Speaker 2: a titos and cranberry, but it was like straight cranberry.

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Speaker 2: So then you know, the manager comes over at the end,

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Speaker 2: were like it was absolutely terrible. Service has been terrible.

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Speaker 2: Everything was just terrible. And like we are not complainers, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Do you know she was like, Okay, well, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Now we think it's she gon like cop at least

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Speaker 2: half the meal.

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Speaker 4: I caught that.

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Speaker 2: We said, rightly, well, I thought that she was gonna

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Speaker 1: Do y'all know?

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Speaker 2: She took off the two cheapest things on the tab,

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Speaker 2: And then instead of her dropping the ticket off and

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Speaker 2: being like, hey, ladies, I'm sorry for your experience, I

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Speaker 2: took off the shrimp and I took off the Brussels sprouts.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry about that. Please come back and I'll make

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Speaker 2: sure I take care of y'all. We waited another thirty

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Speaker 2: some dollars, which it ain't nothing to growl like me.

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Speaker 3: But what I say too, this is the first time

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Speaker 3: ever in my life that I didn't tip somebody.

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Speaker 1: Drea literally because I was gonna leave him something.

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Speaker 4: I always tip people, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that sound like a peepee.

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Speaker 1: Like bitch you did day?

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Speaker 2: Yeah a video Campbell.

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Speaker 6: You're going to jail.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I wasn't tripping, it was that was how

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Speaker 2: Let people know I got the word.

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Speaker 2: Don't spread the word too so because he's bitch, is

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Speaker 2: I don't put nothing past no girl. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: He was texting me. He was just smiling.

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Speaker 3: No, that is true, but I just feel like I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like.

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Speaker 3: Not saying he would never cheat or do like no

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Speaker 1: Because this is the first time we've done this. You know,

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Speaker 2: So we have Stephen Charles from the LS brand y'all

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Speaker 1: Yes, get all comfortable.

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Speaker 7: I think something else is coming.

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Speaker 2: I think, well, let me just say this. I've tried

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Speaker 2: For me personally, this is a really good cream liqueur.

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Speaker 3: I also love Bailey too, like I used to always

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Speaker 3: bit sweeter too. Yes, it has that little but it

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Speaker 7: And it tastes a little yes, definitely. So yeah.

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Speaker 8: So by the way, like you guys, that episode was

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Speaker 8: I think what you guys said was so insightful about

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Speaker 7: Like literally, if you want.

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Speaker 8: You could have your full bar, it would be champagne,

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Speaker 8: it would be to Kill, it would be cream, vodka,

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Speaker 8: that way is because it's inspired by my grandmother's recipe

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Speaker 2: And basically whare mass Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's it's the French with the creole mix all together. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: So it's like it's like.

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Speaker 2: Like they similar to like coqito.

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Speaker 8: So everybody in the islands have their own cream recipe.

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Speaker 8: But the way they do it is like it's a

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Speaker 8: So so basically during the holidays, my aunt, my mom,

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Speaker 7: And the problem after that is that it would spoil

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Speaker 8: So it's basically to people to understand the taste, it's

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Speaker 8: is like it's really low and lactose. So some people Kenny,

448
00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:58,760
Speaker 8: I don't know if Kenny told told you guys, but

449
00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,200
Speaker 8: like is lactose and tolerance you know, any drinks LS.

450
00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:05,320
Speaker 7: And that's the reason why. Also he became an investor.

451
00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:08,960
Speaker 8: Also because the way that we perfected the recipe making

452
00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,680
Speaker 8: it commercial, if I may, you know, that's why we

453
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,280
Speaker 8: say it's inspired by Camas, because we we want to

454
00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:17,359
Speaker 8: think of LS as the evolution of of the heritage

455
00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,040
Speaker 8: of the Caribbean, of Haiti and all of that, you know.

456
00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:22,840
Speaker 8: And yeah, so that's that's the first thing that we

457
00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:28,320
Speaker 8: wanted to fix. The shelf life, you know, because this

458
00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:30,320
Speaker 8: is on the shelf, this is going to be bought

459
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 8: at Total Wine Beth Moore in California and whatever. You

460
00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,280
Speaker 8: can't have a product on the shelf in two weeks later,

461
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,399
Speaker 8: it's going bad, you know. So with LS, what we

462
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 8: did we did some stress tests with high temperatures and

463
00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,560
Speaker 8: low temperatures, so we know that the product is not

464
00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:46,880
Speaker 8: going to separate in any kind of condition, so it's

465
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:47,640
Speaker 8: going to stay the same.

466
00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:48,960
Speaker 7: So that's uh, that's.

467
00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:51,240
Speaker 8: The reason why the quality of the product is so high.

468
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:51,480
Speaker 7: You know.

469
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Speaker 4: So it has no dairy in it.

470
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 7: Exactly, yeah, exactly.

471
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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I was one of my my stomach went bubbling.

472
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:01,959
Speaker 1: I had a good nun.

473
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,119
Speaker 4: Well that's what I was wondering.

474
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Speaker 3: So I was wondering, like maybe if y'all used almond

475
00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:06,240
Speaker 3: milk or coconut milk.

476
00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 4: Ris, but you said it does have a little bit

477
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:08,359
Speaker 4: of diiry.

478
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,400
Speaker 7: Yep, it does. It does exactly.

479
00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 8: So basically the process makes it that people that are

480
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:14,440
Speaker 8: like those doesn't.

481
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely, definitely.

482
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:20,160
Speaker 2: Okay, So ty has married us a drink. So what

483
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 2: we got tye.

484
00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,480
Speaker 9: This when you guys have already sipping on the LS

485
00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:25,080
Speaker 9: on ice.

486
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we can drink it. You can drink it

487
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,800
Speaker 1: regular correct, So we're.

488
00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 9: Gonna be sipping the spicy LS cocoa. And so this

489
00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:37,000
Speaker 9: one includes the LS the core. We have to rock mango,

490
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,920
Speaker 9: and then we have a little bit of tabasco sauce

491
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,880
Speaker 9: because y'all love a little bit of spice.

492
00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:45,400
Speaker 2: Oh yes, I love a spicy I am excited, y'all.

493
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 9: So Drea has hers, I'm gonna bring yours over to you,

494
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,879
Speaker 9: Lex and you can spruce this up and enhance it

495
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,199
Speaker 9: by adding a little bit of coconut rum to this

496
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,120
Speaker 9: one to take it to the next level and give

497
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,679
Speaker 9: it really that like tropical vibe to it. Okay, So

498
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 9: this is the Spicy LS Cocoa y'all.

499
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 2: Okay, So are y'all eventually going to come out with

500
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 2: different flavors.

501
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 7: Yes, so that's the plan.

502
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 8: So basically right now, we just closed our first seed

503
00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:15,400
Speaker 8: investment for we just raised the money with Faarless Fund

504
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:19,719
Speaker 8: with Arian Simone and all our team and yeah, because

505
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 8: I am partner with my wife, so they invest in

506
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 8: black women. So when we pitched them the brandy, they

507
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 8: loved it. So it was just a good match. So

508
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 8: we were looking for investment and that's where we landed.

509
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 8: But yeah, that's that's the goal. But I think right

510
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 8: now our main focus also is to keep on growing

511
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,680
Speaker 8: because right now we're in twelve states and we want

512
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 8: to keep on growing eventually get into the fifty states

513
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 8: and eventually get into more recipe.

514
00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 7: But that's but.

515
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 8: Again it's it's it's the industry that's not easy to

516
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 8: get in. Because that's why I was telling Kenny and everybody.

517
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,439
Speaker 8: It's easy to invest in the brand that's like like

518
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 8: because when you see it on the shelf, it's already there,

519
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,879
Speaker 8: but people don't know the work that goes into that.

520
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,919
Speaker 8: Because remember, liquor comes from the days of prohibition and

521
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 8: till this day, there are still ramifications of that because

522
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 8: the distributors.

523
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 7: Are all white, honed, all old white men.

524
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 8: They already millionaires because their father's father whatever built this.

525
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 8: So when you come into the room, because you need

526
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 8: a distributor to sell liquor into a state.

527
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 7: Right.

528
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,159
Speaker 8: So for example, for us, when we started, which was

529
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,400
Speaker 8: a long time ago, I had the idea for LS

530
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 8: in December twenty eleven and we didn't sell our first

531
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Speaker 8: bottle until January twenty fifteen.

532
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 7: That's just to tell you in that amount of time,

533
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 7: and I didn't waste any time.

534
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 8: That's just the red tape that you need to do

535
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 8: to have your own brand on the shelf, you know.

536
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,640
Speaker 7: And what I was saying is that we had there's

537
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 7: a big.

538
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 8: Asian community in Boston and people was requesting the product

539
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 8: on social media, and we went to a meeting with

540
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,959
Speaker 8: the distributor, were like, listen, the people want the product.

541
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 7: They said, yeah, but you know, we don't really need it,

542
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 7: gonna take it.

543
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's great even if the store wants it, even

544
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 8: if the the customer wants it. You need to have

545
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 8: the distributor to actually sign the dotted line to be

546
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 8: able to legally sell your product into the state.

547
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: You know that is so much.

548
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 7: Oh, yeah, it is, it is.

549
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 8: It's it's it's like and it's a continuous fight even

550
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 8: when you do get in. Now, oh, they're gonna, of course,

551
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 8: the bigger brands, they're going to be on top of

552
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 8: you and stuff stuff. So that's what we're fighting, the

553
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 8: good fight. Like like Kenny said, we we.

554
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Speaker 2: On your side now, laid.

555
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 3: L Is so like so right now, Ellis is only

556
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 3: available in the States, into alve States.

557
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 8: Yeah so, and of course my hometown of Montreal, That's

558
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 8: what I about to say.

559
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Speaker 3: So is it like the same thing as far as

560
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 3: like trying to get it in store.

561
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 4: Internationally, it's worse.

562
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 7: It's worse where I'm from.

563
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 8: So in Canada, everything is like you know, we have

564
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Speaker 8: free of care, we have everything is regulated. It's like

565
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 8: a good but it also becomes a bad thing. Right,

566
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 8: so the liquor is no difference.

567
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 7: It's regulated by the state.

568
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 8: So basically what they do is that there's like they

569
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 8: have like they call this like tender calls, which is

570
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 8: basically like you propose like once a year, the the

571
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 8: the whip out like all the creams on the table

572
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 8: and they choose one based on the on the scoring aspect,

573
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 8: and if you if you, if your product didn't.

574
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 7: Get choose that year, you have to wait. You're done.

575
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 7: You have to wait till next year.

576
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 8: They don't care about your family, they don't care about

577
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 8: your bills, they don't care about this ship.

578
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 1: Good time?

579
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 7: Are you like Coco?

580
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 2: But I told you I love Spicy Dreams the page

581
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 2: and I mean the main going.

582
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 1: I was like, hold on, wait a minute, but this

583
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 1: is good. You know what.

584
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 2: It's crazy because a lot of times people ask us

585
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 2: because we've been drinking on this show for ever, and

586
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 2: they be like, oh, y'all need to come out with

587
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 2: a line, and y'all, I'm like, y'all don't.

588
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 4: Know all of the laws.

589
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 3: It's not People think that you could just have an

590
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 3: idea to start a liquor, Brian and you could just

591
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 3: start it in heavy nicksy.

592
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 7: Yeah.

593
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's so many obstacles stuff to go through the

594
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 3: especially and then on top of it, like you said,

595
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 3: as being black people, that's a whole other story.

596
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: So is it available online anywhere?

597
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:17,679
Speaker 10: Like?

598
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so we can get it online?

599
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 8: Yeah, so people like if people want to order it

600
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 8: if we're not physically in stores in their states, because

601
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 8: there's a lot of states we're not physically in store,

602
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 8: they can still order online. Okay, there's like a couple

603
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 8: of states that it's impossible for us to ship online,

604
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 8: Like Hawaii, I'm sorry, Like we have people DM and

605
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 8: us like we wanted to Awai, I'm sorry, we can't

606
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 8: ship it there.

607
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 7: It's the law.

608
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 8: It is what it is. We just got in into Texas.

609
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 8: That was huge for us. We wanted to be there

610
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 8: for a while. But yeah, so basically Florida in all

611
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 8: total wine stores and yeah, so the next thing we

612
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 8: didn't want to do is like we wanted to do

613
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 8: Target and wanted to do like you know, places where

614
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 8: people shop and they can also buy some wine and

615
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,479
Speaker 8: of course some some some ls and other stuff, you know.

616
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 8: But it's and again I think what's really the message

617
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 8: is more that the product is good, yes, but if

618
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 8: the people don't support, like you know, we support away

619
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 8: from Texas.

620
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 3: So I'm about to be telling my friends if I

621
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 3: see Bailey's at the house, baby, why you ain't got

622
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 3: no L?

623
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 1: You know, where is the L. I'm gonna do that

624
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: for like on people's birthday.

625
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 4: You need to buy we need to buy them a

626
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 4: bottle of la.

627
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 2: Because that's how you get it into it. Like the

628
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: best promotion is word of mouth. And I'll be telling

629
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 2: people and I am not a person who lies, like

630
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: he would take them think about us.

631
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 4: We don't give a honest honestly, this is actually a.

632
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 2: Really, really good drink. And I love the fact that

633
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 2: you're like determined. I can tell like.

634
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 1: You're not gonna stop, but you.

635
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 2: Have a great product. So it's not even like you

636
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: got some bullshit that you're trying to sell.

637
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: This is a great product.

638
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 8: And to be honest, like that's what kept us moving

639
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 8: because every step of the way, there was always people

640
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 8: that we respected and that had done stuff, good stuff whatever.

641
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 7: That was telling you, guys have something on your ends.

642
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 2: Right.

643
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 8: Also, you gotta keep you gotta keep pushing. So like

644
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 8: like we did a deal with Kenny in the middle

645
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:12,199
Speaker 8: of the pandemic, like we we never met, you know,

646
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 8: we never met. That's how good the product was for him.

647
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 8: So so that's so that's the testament to the drink.

648
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 8: But again we're talking about the all the steps you

649
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 8: need to do to have your liquor. It's like you

650
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 8: need to have a label approval by the by the

651
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 8: federal government in the States, you need to have formula

652
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 8: approval for what's in the bottle, right, and all of

653
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 8: those steps can take easily each six months, seven months,

654
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 8: eight months, you know. And once you when you draft

655
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 8: those things, if you miss a comma at the wrong

656
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 8: you put a comma at the wrong place, up refusal

657
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 8: letter and then you start again. Everything is done by

658
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 8: paper and then there you go.

659
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 7: You know. So it's it's like, it's it's it's a lot.

660
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 8: But that's why I keep I keep telling people, like

661
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 8: all the information is online, like and we just started

662
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 8: doing a vlogged too, like just to show people the

663
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 8: work that goes behind like actually promoting a brand, you know,

664
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 8: like people think.

665
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 7: Oh, yeah, it's on the shelf. Yeah, it's easy. No,

666
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 7: it's it's not.

667
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

668
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So talk about your background because you said your grandmother.

669
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 7: Yep, yep, yep.

670
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,719
Speaker 8: All my family came so I have family in the States,

671
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Speaker 8: but the bulk of my family went to Montreal in

672
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Speaker 8: Canada and uh. And the reason why is because in Haiti,

673
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 8: French was a second language, so it's pre all first

674
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 8: and then they learned French, so it was easier for

675
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Speaker 8: the kids to come here. My mom was the youngest

676
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Speaker 8: of seven and and basically she went to high school

677
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Speaker 8: in Montreal.

678
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Speaker 7: She got me super young, like nineteen years old.

679
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Speaker 1: Oh I thought, look that I'm young in the States.

680
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: I thought she was about to stay like twelve.

681
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 8: Oh okay, no, no, I wasn't.

682
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 7: I wasn't making no no shame.

683
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Speaker 1: Mom had me.

684
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Speaker 7: Well okay, so so so.

685
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Speaker 8: You know, it's just introspective, you know, like like I'm

686
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 8: just thinking about but yeah, so to me that was

687
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 8: really young. But yeah no, but yeah, so it become

688
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 8: it became a thing like you know. But I was

689
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 8: always like you know, she uh, you know, I live

690
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 8: with my mom like alone, and I was always an entrepreneur,

691
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 8: like always, like I was seven years old, I was

692
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 8: I was doing cartoons whatever, like comic books myself, and

693
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 8: I would sell them to the people in my class.

694
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 8: You've always been a hood's right, like seven years old,

695
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 8: Like my mom was like, where did you get that money?

696
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 8: I'm like cool, but yeah, so and then you know,

697
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 8: it's just like just one day, like I went after university.

698
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 8: I was just sitting there and I was looking at

699
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 8: the bottle of came as that somebody just done it

700
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 8: and I'm like, if we put it on the shelf, people.

701
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 2: People would buy it. I mean, it's perfect, Like, I

702
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 2: love it. We support you poor minds, the poor crew.

703
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Speaker 1: Cific website.

704
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 8: They can get it from cremail us dot com, cremail

705
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 8: dot com and they'll find the store locator there to

706
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 8: find the story about the brand and yeah, everything that

707
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 8: they need to know about about the brand.

708
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 7: And and we're behind you. I'm proud of you guys.

709
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 7: What you guys doing. The Roots picnic it was, it was.

710
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna make sure at least that some of

711
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 2: our stops too. We're we're gonna we're working on Patreon

712
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 2: Lounge for the people that are exclusive, and we're gonna

713
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 2: have some They're gonna have some ls cream in the

714
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 2: building for y'all. So make sure y'all come out on

715
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 2: tour if you want to try. We're gonna have it

716
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 2: for the girl and the guys. Thank you so much

717
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 2: for coming through.

718
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 7: Appreciated.

719
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Speaker 1: We're gonna make you look. We're gonna get this ship

720
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Speaker 1: on the jail.

721
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Speaker 10: Okay, okay, all right, thank you little about.

722
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Speaker 4: To give me the lit right little drink.

723
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Speaker 2: Listen, all right, we're gonna get into the first topic

724
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Speaker 2: today Bookie book Okay.

725
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: What's up y'all?

726
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 4: Is your girl x peace and it's your girls righting the.

727
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 2: Call and Miami were coming to turn up.

728
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm excited.

729
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 4: I'm excited too.

730
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 3: We've been long overdue for a Miami show and I

731
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 3: can't wait to see y'all. It's the perfect way to

732
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 3: kind of, I guess in the summer, because the summer

733
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 3: gonna almost be over. And it's like August thirteenth, y'all,

734
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 3: we're gonna be in Miami, Miami and Prop Shows.

735
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 4: Doors open at Sibbings.

736
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 2: Show starts today, Yes, And I'm telling y'all, look, this

737
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 2: is right before my birthday too, So y'all know I'm

738
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 2: finna be listing.

739
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: Turn the net. I'm finna put it on for Miami.

740
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all listen.

741
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: August thirteenth, Doors open at seven, show starts at.

742
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: Eight, Miami and prov y'all, please.

743
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 2: Do not miss this show. Y'all know we're gonna have

744
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: people popping up, rolling up on this Miami.

745
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun. Oh, welcome to Miami here.

746
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: So I'm Miami's see y'all. What's the all people?

747
00:31:59,640 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 3: Do?

748
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 4: They be there?

749
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 11: All right, all right, come.

750
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: On man, July sixteen. Then you know what time to you.

751
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 10: See queen sitting shot at North Carolina. We're coming to

752
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 10: the boat Jangles Arena.

753
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 1: You see how excited she was.

754
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 7: That's how excited.

755
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 10: Y'od better be here July sixteen when we come to the.

756
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 7: Qute certain, come to the church, come to the show.

757
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 7: Come on, we gotta walk back from that time.

758
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

759
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 10: See that's how you're working on some things. QC shot

760
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 10: July sixteen, the whole Jangles a ringer.

761
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 7: Come to the show.

762
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 12: Oh, she's gonna be doing dread part. Then she's gonna

763
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 12: be doing Dread kissing the potlize you want your dress

764
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 12: July sixteen, She's gonna do them for you.

765
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 7: At a dis kind of price, and you get your

766
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 7: tickets today, show man.

767
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 12: Okay, she's my like cocho brother maid.

768
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 10: From Scratch and set July sixteenth and shot at North

769
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 10: Carolina at the Boat Jangles Rap.

770
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 7: Come on in here, ma'am.

771
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 10: This is the third grade teacher and she will be

772
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 10: giving out books like Carolina.

773
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

774
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 4: It's your girl lex p and Eas your girls right

775
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 4: in the call.

776
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 2: And y'all know Orlando we owe y'all, so we coming

777
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: back in a big way. August tenth, Poor Minds is

778
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 2: coming to Orlando for our live show.

779
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 3: Yes, we're coming to Orlando Improv. I cannot wait to

780
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 3: see all of y'all faces.

781
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: You know.

782
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 3: Unfortunately we had to reschedule these days, so I'm super

783
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,479
Speaker 3: excited to come out and see y'all.

784
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 4: Doors open at seven.

785
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 2: Yes, and the show starts at eight, and we back

786
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 2: a bigger than end. But let me tell y'all, y'all

787
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: should be happy because this show this round is super lit.

788
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: So Orlando August tenth, Doors open at seven, show starts

789
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Speaker 2: at eight.

790
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Speaker 1: Orlando Improv.

791
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 2: We'll see y'all and we outside Bookie period put it

792
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 2: on because we're coming. Hey. So for the first topic,

793
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 2: I definitely wanted to kind of talk a little bit

794
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:16,839
Speaker 2: about agism because I have been seeing this trend online

795
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: to like the.

796
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 4: Past I don't even want to say, for the past

797
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:19,919
Speaker 4: few weeks.

798
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 3: I feel like agism is like an ongoing topic or whatever,

799
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 3: but I have been really seeing it a lot for

800
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 3: the past few weeks, Like people have been acting like

801
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 3: when people turn fifty and they have kids or they

802
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,839
Speaker 3: get married, you're supposed to crawl in a hole and die.

803
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 3: I feel like, you don't stop living your life just

804
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 3: because you're aging. But I also feel like like, and

805
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 3: this is something that I think that I kind of

806
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 3: say frequently on this show because of like art and

807
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 3: I don't want.

808
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 2: To say an sistors because they feel like because they're

809
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: still alive.

810
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 3: But I feel like, because of like older generations of

811
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 3: our family, like you know, our parents, grandparents, you used

812
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 3: to seeing fifty year olds, I guess behave or act

813
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 3: a certain way, dressed a certain way, etc. Our generation

814
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 3: is not really like it. So then it's like, so

815
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 3: like the new fifty year olds, people not used to

816
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,320
Speaker 3: seeing fifty year olds do some of the shit that fifty.

817
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:22,839
Speaker 4: Year olds is doing.

818
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 3: But it's not to say that they wasn't doing it

819
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 3: back in the day. It just wasn't publicized because we

820
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 3: didn't have social media. But I just think it's a

821
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 3: crazy idea to think that just because you turn fifty

822
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,919
Speaker 3: years older, you turn sixty years old, you stop living

823
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 3: your life and you stop having fun. What really prompted

824
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:38,839
Speaker 3: me to want to talk about these was because I

825
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 3: was on Instagram, I mean on Twitter, and I've seen

826
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 3: people talking about Diddy, because you know, he just had

827
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 3: that video for Acbag the Son that he got with

828
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 3: City Girls that came out and he was like dancing

829
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 3: naked on the couch, and like something that I saw

830
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 3: a lot of people say was like, this man is

831
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 3: fifty plus and he has seven kids.

832
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 2: It's why are you dancing naked on the couch?

833
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: I just I don't know.

834
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:06,320
Speaker 3: I feel like she so it's okay for you to

835
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 3: dance take it on the couch shit at twenty, but

836
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 3: not at fifty, Like what if you got kids? These

837
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 3: people got kids at twenty. I just don't see the difference.

838
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 3: And I just feel like, again, just because age doesn't

839
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 3: stop you from living your life and doing what you

840
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 3: want to do. I think you have people who are

841
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 3: a little bit more conservative, and that's fine.

842
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 4: If that's what you're went to. But then I think

843
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 4: you are people who ain't conservative.

844
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 3: And if you're a person who ain't conservative, you shouldn't

845
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,720
Speaker 3: all of a sudden be conservative at fifty years old

846
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 3: just because you got older.

847
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: But I like what you said as far as like

848
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: things aren't the same, y'all have to realize, like even

849
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 2: being in our thirties, we're not the thirty year olds

850
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: that were in the seventies, right, like women in the

851
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: you know, like men and women in the seventies, they

852
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 2: had a whole different lifestyle.

853
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 3: And at thirties, maybe I'm not wearing I'm not wearing

854
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 3: no mo, move.

855
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: Move move was coming home to make She got the

856
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 2: martini with the olive way and he got the briefcase.

857
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 2: It's not I like when we love dirty martini though. Yeah,

858
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 2: but I'm just saying are different now, Like we are

859
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 2: the new adults, and we childish as fuck, and we're

860
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 2: also enjoying life. Though I say this all the time,

861
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 2: and it's a harsh reality.

862
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: A lot of times, our parents.

863
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 2: And our grandparents, our great grandparents, they were fucking depressed.

864
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 1: They were depressed.

865
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 2: They weren't happy because they had to live a certain

866
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 2: way and be a certain way. But it's like if

867
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: somebody's in their fifties or sixties and they want to

868
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 2: be in a bikini, turning up and celebrating life. I mean,

869
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 2: he worked hard, he wants to celebrate. He's got a young,

870
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 2: fine girl in his arm.

871
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: They acting bad, they making money.

872
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 2: Together, what's wrong with it? I feel like the older

873
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 2: I get the greater life.

874
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: Gets for me.

875
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 2: I'm learning lessons, I'm making more money. I'm just out

876
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 2: here turning up so and I'm getting finer. So I

877
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:46,240
Speaker 2: feel like, if you're living your life correctly, it's getting better,

878
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 2: so you should turn up even more. Like I'm sorry,

879
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 2: we are. There's women who are in their forties, fifties, sixties, whatever,

880
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 2: and their grandmothers now, but they be fine.

881
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: They be fine as hell? What's wrong with that?

882
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 2: So you expect a woman who has taken care of

883
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 2: her body, she's in her fifties, you want her to

884
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 2: be covered up?

885
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: No, we outside put on a bikini. You're at the beach.

886
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: What's wrong with that? Yeah, y'all want people to feel

887
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 2: some type of way. It's like for what life is

888
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 2: meant to be lived?

889
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 4: Now?

890
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 3: No, And I do notice it's always like super young

891
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 3: people that say that type of stuff, And I just

892
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 3: feel like it's because you haven't really lived enough life.

893
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 3: You lived like it's like, if you lucky enough to

894
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 3: get older, everybody is gonna be fifty at some.

895
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,240
Speaker 1: Point, hopefully, what a blessing.

896
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying.

897
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 3: If you're lucky enough to reach that age, then you're

898
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 3: gonna realize which we haven't obviously reached that age yet,

899
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 3: But you're gonna realize, like it's really a blessing to

900
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 3: get older. And I'm not gonna just stop living my

901
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 3: life just because I'm fifty. No being I look good

902
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 3: and I'm healthy.

903
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: Gon up, I'll be thirty four this year, and there's

904
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 2: you couldn't pay me any amount of money to go

905
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: back to being twenty four.

906
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, like, there's no way I'm going. I ain't gonna

907
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 4: lie I was litle.

908
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 3: I would be twenty because I was, but you couldn't

909
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,919
Speaker 3: pay me to be Like twenty seven to twenty seven

910
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: to twenty.

911
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: Nine was very hatto, I mean like for me.

912
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 4: But like I said, when I turned thirty, I was

913
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 4: so happy. It was like refreshing.

914
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 3: I couldn't wait to start a new chapter of my

915
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 3: life because the last few years of my twenties was

916
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: very ghetto. But you know how they say, it's like

917
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 3: a thing that everybody go through in the mid twenties,

918
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 3: late twenties.

919
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 2: But on the other side of it, I do want

920
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 2: the men and the women and everybody else, like when

921
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: you get older, we also need to embrace that too,

922
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 2: because it'd be a lot of people that be in

923
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 2: their forties and they fifties and be like, oh, I

924
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 2: look like I'm twenty three.

925
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 1: No, you don't, And that's okay too.

926
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 2: One thing I hate, and I've talked about this before,

927
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 2: I hate when people tell me like, oh, Lex, you

928
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 2: look like you could be twenty eight or twenty seven

929
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 2: whatever they be telling me. Yeah, but my thing is, no,

930
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 2: I don't. I literally this is what a thirty year

931
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 2: old looks like. This is what a woman in her

932
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 2: mid thirties looks like. This is literally what she looks like.

933
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 2: Y'all are just used to seeing people, I don't know,

934
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 2: burn themselves out, run themselves out.

935
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: But I love the fact.

936
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 2: That I look my age, and I'm okay with that.

937
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 2: This is what the thirties look like.

938
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't really so much hate when people

939
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,439
Speaker 3: say that type of stuff to me, that I look

940
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 3: younger than thirty two. I just feel like, to them,

941
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 3: that's a compliment. It doesn't offend me or anything. Yeah,

942
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 3: it doesn't offend me or anything like that. But I

943
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 3: just also feel like, yeah, age don't really have a

944
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 3: look to me. Though, I think that some people do

945
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 3: look younger than their age.

946
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: That's a fact.

947
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 3: Now, somebody that's forty looking twenty three, that's a reach you.

948
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 2: But I definitely think.

949
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 3: That there are people out there who they be like

950
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 3: forty three and they don't look forty three.

951
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: Now I agree with that, but that's more so to me.

952
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 3: What is looking like You say you feel like you

953
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 3: look thirty four? What is what is looking thirty four?

954
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: Ladies?

955
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 3: Okay, but then you got other people who your same

956
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 3: age who don't necessarily look thirty four.

957
00:40:58,560 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 4: People would have thought they might be.

958
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 2: So to me, when somebody looks younger, it's not because

959
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: of how they dress, or how they carry themselves or

960
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 2: how they do their makeup. It's literally their features. Some

961
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 2: people really just have a baby face and.

962
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 3: It has nothing like skin. I think it's plasticity everything.

963
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that goes into it a little bit.

964
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 2: But I don't care how good you take care of

965
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: your skin. Like I take very good care of my skin.

966
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,439
Speaker 1: I still look thirty four, and I'm okay with that.

967
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 2: What I'm saying is like some people because they think

968
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 2: that when you turn thirty, all of a sudden, you

969
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 2: get your AARP card and you're supposed to be.

970
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: On it with a walk or with tennis balls on

971
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: the bottom of it. Bitch, I turned thirty.

972
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 4: I ain't dead, I feel you.

973
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 3: But however, as somebody who went to high school, it's

974
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 3: people that I went to high school with, and.

975
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,439
Speaker 1: I to high school. I know that's right.

976
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 4: I mean, some people ain't going.

977
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: Why Eddy ain't going to high school?

978
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:51,359
Speaker 6: Now?

979
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: Why you put his business out there like that he didn't.

980
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think he cares to be honest.

981
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: So good.

982
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 3: But anyway, anyways, like I was saying, though, I just

983
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 3: feel like some people that I went to high school,

984
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 3: we don't look the same age.

985
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 4: I'm just leave it.

986
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: Some people definitely peak in high school.

987
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 4: It's not about peaking.

988
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like life, you know, life being lifeing

989
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 3: for you, but we definitely don't both look thirty.

990
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: Two, right.

991
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: I mean, I see what you're saying, but I feel

992
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 2: like for us we look like women in our thirties.

993
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 4: We do, okay, so agree with that.

994
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, That's what I'm saying.

995
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 2: But it be people that be in denial about it, like, yes,

996
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 2: you're supposed to still turn up. I'm not saying don't

997
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 2: turn up, but don't be in denial about how you look.

998
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 4: I don't think people being denal.

999
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 3: I think people just think that they look good for

1000
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 3: their age, and I think that some people do look

1001
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 3: good for they age.

1002
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 4: So some I'm not gonna lie.

1003
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 3: For a long time, I was dreading turning thirty because

1004
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 3: I would always look at people that were thirty before me,

1005
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 3: and I would be like, yeah, not looking forward to this, sheep.

1006
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 2: It's not giving. Always look at people in their thirties,

1007
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 2: especially women Black women, be like, you get money, you fine?

1008
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: You live like.

1009
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 2: Damn, and guess when I turned thirty, I'm getting money.

1010
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 2: I'm fine, liv I just knew it was in the.

1011
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 3: Car absolutely for sure, for sure, but I definitely just

1012
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 3: was not looking forward to it. But I also was

1013
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 3: a person who wasn't looking forward to this. I didn't

1014
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 3: want to like get old at one point. So it

1015
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 3: was just like, Okay, I'm not looking forward to turn

1016
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 3: the thirty that she is not getting with it's supposed

1017
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 3: to be like it's gonna.

1018
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: Get like no, But now you're there, you're like, okay,

1019
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 2: just give it a little bit.

1020
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, for show for show. But I don't think it's

1021
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 3: a bad thing though. Like I said, I think that some.

1022
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 4: People are beautiful, yeah, and I mean it's.

1023
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 3: A blessing as well, because a lot of people don't

1024
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:44,720
Speaker 3: get the opportunity.

1025
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, I just want to say a

1026
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 2: lot of people y'all being denwn you look your age,

1027
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 2: but it's okay to look your age.

1028
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 4: But also but some people don't.

1029
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 1: Some people don't, but this lady, the majority of people do.

1030
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 4: I've seen this lady on.

1031
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:01,320
Speaker 2: Was it Twitter?

1032
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 4: The other day?

1033
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 3: It was a tweet that went viral that lady was

1034
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 3: like fifty something and she did not look fifty.

1035
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm not talking about that. I've seen another lady.

1036
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 2: She was like, it's forty's giving the New twenties, and

1037
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 2: everybody was like, nah, bruh, that ain't it.

1038
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: And it was definitely like I've seen that too.

1039
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 3: I'm not talking about that it was giving forty. I

1040
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 3: am talking about the lady that I seen who was

1041
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 3: celebrating like her fifty seconds or fifty thirty right or

1042
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 3: something like that.

1043
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,399
Speaker 2: But she looked really good, Like I would have never

1044
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 2: guessed that lady. And I mean I get it at

1045
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 2: a certain age, like I feel like whenever you're fifty plus,

1046
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 2: somebody telling you that you look younger, maybe that is

1047
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 2: more so of a compliment, but I feel like anybody

1048
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 2: like forty five and under like that's not giving extremely old,

1049
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 2: and it's like it's okay to look your age, you know,

1050
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,280
Speaker 2: at that point. Now, I do feel like when people

1051
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 2: hear that, maybe my opinion will change when I turn fifty, cause.

1052
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, fifty ain't old.

1053
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 2: I'll probably feel that way because I know at one

1054
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: point I used to hear thirty and be like, oh

1055
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 2: my god, thirty.

1056
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:56,879
Speaker 1: Is so old. You know what I'm saying.

1057
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 2: But I feel like, you know, if you're like forty

1058
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 2: five and under, look at your age, it's like it's.

1059
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: Okay, Like it's not that serious.

1060
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:06,919
Speaker 4: I mean, it's not that serious to start to start

1061
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 4: a thread on Twitter.

1062
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: And everybody in their thread looked the cript. Bitch, no

1063
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: they did it.

1064
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 3: See that's what I'm saying you No, But everybody.

1065
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 4: That night, hey, some of them looked a little younger

1066
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 4: than I don't know.

1067
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 3: But to me, I do see people sometimes and I

1068
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 3: think the same times. Yes, but I do see people

1069
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 3: sometimes and I think that they look younger than what

1070
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 3: they say they're aging. That's fine, but I'm telling you,

1071
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 3: even people that be like thirty five, like I've seen

1072
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 3: people who like Okay, they'll say they thirty.

1073
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 4: Five, but to me, they might look like they like

1074
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 4: twenty nine.

1075
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair, But I'm saying it's more people that

1076
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 2: look they age and don't.

1077
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And that's a fact.

1078
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,399
Speaker 2: I mean, if you say it's a fact, a fact

1079
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 2: in your.

1080
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 1: World, it's a fact.

1081
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 2: Jack, Okay, girl, just kidding, Okay, So let us know

1082
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: how y'all feel about the age thing. I know we

1083
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 2: talked about this world, we had it, touched on it again.

1084
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 2: So for the next topic, I wanted to talk about

1085
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 2: new age j D. I had a conversation with my

1086
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 2: ex the other day and I just thought it was

1087
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 2: absolutely insane because I have been working on with my

1088
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 2: therapist about creating boundaries and just you know, doing things

1089
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 2: for me and making sure my happiness is you know,

1090
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 2: first priority. So I just think it's so crazy how

1091
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 2: nowadays you'll be having raw sex with somebody.

1092
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: Y'all can be.

1093
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 2: Telling each other I love you constantly, going on dates,

1094
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 2: y'all on the phone all day every day. But oh,

1095
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 2: y'all single, Oh he can do what he wants, she

1096
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 2: can do what he wants. We're single, but y'all are

1097
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 2: doing all of the above, and I feel like, how

1098
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 2: did we get here and why why? Because I mean,

1099
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 2: have you been in a situation where like you were

1100
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 2: telling somebody I love you, but y'all weren't necessarily in

1101
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 2: a relationship.

1102
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'll say this, I wasn't telling that nigga

1103
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 3: he could just do whatever he wants.

1104
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 2: Right, okay, Because I feel like and the reason I

1105
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 2: say you can do whatever you want because like, say,

1106
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 2: something happens and you see that nigga outside with another

1107
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 2: girl or he sees you outside with another nigga, We're

1108
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 2: so used to trying to.

1109
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: Play cool, like I don't care, like, oh, okay.

1110
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 3: He can want because I feel like once you start

1111
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 3: telling somebody, at least for me, if I tell somebody

1112
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 3: I love you, playing sheet cool? Nohe at the motherfucking window.

1113
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 3: I'm not playing sheet cool. If I see you out

1114
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 3: would have beat. I don't care if we said we

1115
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 3: in a relationship or not. If we're telling each other

1116
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 3: we love each other and I see you out with

1117
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 3: another girl, I'm gonna say something absolutely. But that's just

1118
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 3: me though, So maybe some people do be trying to

1119
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 3: play cool. I'm not playing it cool, because if we

1120
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 3: gotten to that point where we were expressing our feelings

1121
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 3: for each other, like we didn't already cross.

1122
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 2: Certain lines into certain boundaries. So why do you think

1123
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 2: it's so normal though? Because I mean, I'm not just

1124
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 2: saying for me and you. A lot of my friends

1125
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 2: be in situationships. A lot of my guy friends be

1126
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 2: in situationships with people that they're saying, I love you too,

1127
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: but they're not in a relationship.

1128
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 1: Why, I don't know.

1129
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 4: To me, he is just kind of I don't know

1130
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:05,360
Speaker 4: to a certain extent.

1131
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 3: I just I feel like you should you and a

1132
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 3: person need to make us some type of commitment.

1133
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: Which type of commitment?

1134
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 4: And if y'all not.

1135
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 3: In a relationship, it should be for a good reason,

1136
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 3: Like what's the reason why y'all not in a relationship?

1137
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:20,399
Speaker 3: I always ask myself those type of situations too, if

1138
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 3: I find if I was to find myself being in

1139
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 3: a situation like that, if you're in a situation like that,

1140
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 3: and maybe you and the person you are, that person

1141
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 3: just got out of a relationship and you're not trying

1142
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 3: to jump into a new relationship and you're trying to

1143
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 3: work on healing yourself or they're trying to work on

1144
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:36,400
Speaker 3: healing theyself and they just trying to give theyself some

1145
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 3: time before they jump into a new situation. That's a

1146
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 3: little bit more understandable versus just not being in a

1147
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 3: relationship with a nigga because he say he ain't.

1148
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 4: Ready and he's not no real reason.

1149
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 3: This is how I feel like you kind of just

1150
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,479
Speaker 3: wasting your time and it's a cop out. I mean, yeah,

1151
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 3: because why don't he want to be in a relationship

1152
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 3: with you?

1153
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 2: I can understand if somebody's still fucking tammy, Okay.

1154
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 4: Right, so that's up to you. It's like that's up

1155
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 4: to you too.

1156
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 3: If you know that, then why are you gonna let

1157
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 3: this nigga still play in your face?

1158
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: And like, oh my god, I saw with you.

1159
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,399
Speaker 3: I don't feel like I put up with that type

1160
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 3: of shit, Like if I feel like a nigga, even

1161
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,720
Speaker 3: if me and a nigga is not in a relationship,

1162
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 3: but we're actively dating each other and we're together all

1163
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 3: the time, we're having sex, we're doing all that stuff,

1164
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 3: but we're not in a relationship.

1165
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 4: Like what's the reason I'm gonna ask you?

1166
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 3: Like, why you not ready to get in a relationship

1167
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 3: and if I deep down inside, and I feel like

1168
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 3: a lot of women know this.

1169
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,800
Speaker 4: If you know that it's because he playing around?

1170
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 3: Are he fucking with other beaches and he's just not

1171
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 3: ready to settle down, then like, why are you putting

1172
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 3: up with that? Because I'm sorry to me, that's not

1173
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 3: a real enough reason for you to not be with me.

1174
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 2: I saw a post other day that was actually crazy

1175
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 2: to me because I've seen so many girls or reposted

1176
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 2: and retweeted.

1177
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: The post said y'all.

1178
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 2: It said something like, post y'all nigga to see if

1179
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 2: we fucking with the same guy, and then the caption said,

1180
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 2: y'all can post him all you own.

1181
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm not leaving. That's absolutely crazy to me.

1182
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 2: That that's the mentality like, oh, you can fuck with them,

1183
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:12,720
Speaker 2: but I'm not leaving anyway.

1184
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: So do what you want, you can have him.

1185
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 2: We have gotten the mentality of oh, it's just my turn,

1186
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 2: it's just my turn. And I really hate that because

1187
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 2: you know how I look at relationships, Well, I feel.

1188
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 3: Like that's why marriage, the rates for marriage are declining

1189
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 3: right with our generation, because like, women don't require men

1190
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:33,280
Speaker 3: to do like you don't not to say make because

1191
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 3: you can't make somebody marry stand or you can't make

1192
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 3: somebody be with you. But yeah, women don't set the

1193
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 3: standard on where it's like, Okay, you can fuck with

1194
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,719
Speaker 3: me and you can fuck with three other girls and

1195
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,280
Speaker 3: I can know and I'm cool. Weitty no why nigga

1196
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 3: ever gonna feel like you gotta marry any of y'all.

1197
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 2: And not only that, I just feel like with the relationship,

1198
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 2: it's also to see, like, Okay, let's see where this goes. Okay,

1199
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: I can commit to you. If it works out and

1200
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 2: we ended up being together for great. You're not supposed

1201
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 2: to navigate life by yourself. But if a relationship doesn't

1202
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 2: work out, it's not the end of the world.

1203
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: Commitment doesn't scare me, you know.

1204
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,240
Speaker 2: And I think we've gotten so far of just saying, hey,

1205
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 2: we're exclusively dating. I'm your boyfriend, you know you're my girlfriend.

1206
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:19,280
Speaker 2: Why is everybody so afraid of that? You're not signing

1207
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 2: your life away. You're just saying, hey, you know what,

1208
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 2: let's see if we can just focus on each other

1209
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 2: and see where we can grow and see where it goes.

1210
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. But we've gotten

1211
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 2: down so bad and so far from the lights. We

1212
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 2: are literally fucking people row going on days saying I

1213
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 2: love you and I'm talking about myself because I was

1214
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 2: doing that. I'm not doing that shit no more. I

1215
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 2: try to play, you know, be like, oh, I'm the

1216
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 2: cool girl.

1217
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm the no nigga. I care.

1218
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 2: My feelings are hurt, and it's okay to express yourself

1219
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 2: and say, hey, you know what, I don't like this,

1220
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: this is what I like, this is what I need

1221
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 2: from you, and if you can't give that to me,

1222
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: that is okay. But I'm gonna create this boundary and

1223
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna move on. Yeah.

1224
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 3: I also sometimes kind of think though, that you have

1225
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 3: to set certain boundaries in the beginning, like you can't.

1226
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 2: Be cool with certain shit that all of a sudden up.

1227
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, but you're not always been that type

1228
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 3: of person where I feel like, whatever you expect from

1229
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 3: the situation or whatever you want from the situation, you

1230
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 3: gotta go into it letting somebody know that is up.

1231
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 3: And nigga gonna be like, Okay, why all of a sudden,

1232
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 3: Like you've been cool with this for the past year,

1233
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 3: You've been cool with this for the past two years.

1234
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 4: Why should I switch it up now?

1235
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 2: Well, I'll say for me, I can speak personally in

1236
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 2: my situation. I switched up because I met my X

1237
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,760
Speaker 2: when I was twenty five, you know what I'm saying,

1238
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 2: and like we started dating, like you know, two three

1239
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 2: years later, you know, we started dating other people. Things

1240
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 2: go back and forth, you know, people growing, people change.

1241
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 2: The things that I wanted seven years ago. You know

1242
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 2: seven eight years ago is not the shit I want

1243
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 2: now and expect now.

1244
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 1: So I do agree with you in the beginning.

1245
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 2: Set the tone, but also you have to give people

1246
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 2: room to grow and understand that people don't stay the same.

1247
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be dating the same person hopefully a

1248
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 2: year from now. Two years I change. I don't even

1249
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 2: recognize it's crazy because when I see even posts from

1250
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 2: a year ago, I'm like, I am so different. Men

1251
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 2: that try to come back and spend the block with

1252
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 2: me that I dated a year ago, I'll be like,

1253
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:19,720
Speaker 2: you still on that same type of phone, you still

1254
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 2: talking about you still trying.

1255
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: No, I'm not even that girl anymore.

1256
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 2: So I feel like, yes, set the standard, but also

1257
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 2: be open minded and understand that people grow and change.

1258
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, it's a little too wast

1259
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: it gets a little tricky.

1260
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 2: But I think we need to bring back relationships, bitch,

1261
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 2: that's all I'm trying to say. Bring back being okay

1262
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 2: with being committed and if it doesn't work out, go

1263
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 2: your separate ways and move on and it's okay. But

1264
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 2: it's okay to also date one person at a motherfucking time.

1265
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that's what you should be doing.

1266
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 3: You know, with it's TV rates and shit running ruin.

1267
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 3: It's getting too loud the way I think that you

1268
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 3: should definitely want to be monogamous and be with one person.

1269
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 3: But again, if I think the climate that we're in now,

1270
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 3: people don't set those boundaries, Like people are not making

1271
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 3: it like, well, you can't be out here fucking two

1272
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 3: other girls and me at the same time like you said,

1273
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 3: they'd be like, well, I ain't leaving, I ain't.

1274
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 2: Coming up off this nigga.

1275
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: Oh girl, look let me tell y'all something. Y'all can

1276
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: have him.

1277
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 2: That's my I seen this clip the other day of

1278
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 2: this Lady. She was talking on the podcast.

1279
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 3: She said she had at this current point in my life,

1280
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 3: I don't want no man who I feel like is

1281
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 3: having sex with this.

1282
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 2: Lady was talking on a podcast. They said that she

1283
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 2: had a method called let them. It's like it's called

1284
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 2: the let them methods. So she was like, if you

1285
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 2: apply this to everything in your life, you will understand

1286
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:48,879
Speaker 2: things better. She was like, you know, if you see

1287
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: your friends, they all go out to brunch, they didn't

1288
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:52,840
Speaker 2: invite you. Instead of being upset, text me on you

1289
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 2: know what, just let them. Just let people do what

1290
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 2: they do, and you create the environment that you want.

1291
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 2: You create the boundaries to where things don't If a

1292
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 2: nigga want to he don't want to commit to you

1293
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 2: and he want to, just let him.

1294
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 3: I one hundred percent agree with that. But I feel

1295
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 3: like I've always, to be real, had that type of

1296
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 3: mentality when it come to friendships and relationships. It something

1297
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 3: bothers me, I'll let somebody know that it bothers me,

1298
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 3: just because I think it's healthy, healthy to get things

1299
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 3: off of your chase. Just are you not bodling it

1300
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 3: inside and you have an animosity and stuff, I think

1301
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 3: you should let people know how you feel. But however,

1302
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 3: let people do what the fuck they want to do,

1303
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 3: because then it's gonna show you who they really are.

1304
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 3: I wouldn't even trip about.

1305
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:33,840
Speaker 1: She seeing me.

1306
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 3: And that's and this is something I'm I'm gonna tell

1307
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 3: my friends. If I feel some type of way about

1308
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 3: some shit, I'm gonna let you know. I'm gonna tell you.

1309
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 3: But then if you continue to do something, I'm not

1310
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 3: gonna bring it up again because I'm letting you do

1311
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 3: what you choosing to do. Same thing with a nigga,

1312
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 3: I'm letting you choose what your I'm letting you do

1313
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 3: what you choosing to do, because at the end of

1314
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 3: the day, you gotta understand too. Sometimes people don't do

1315
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 3: stuff it has nothing to do with you, but everything

1316
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 3: to do with them. And that's friendship labels and relationship libals.

1317
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 2: And I think for me that is something that I

1318
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 2: am definitely learning because I was always that person who

1319
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,800
Speaker 2: people would do things that bother me and I wouldn't

1320
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 2: say nothing because I just hate conflict that much and

1321
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 2: I would keep my mouth shut just just.

1322
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: To be cool and keep everything.

1323
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 2: You know, I'm the person that everybody's like, oh, you know,

1324
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 2: let's keep the koon bay, y'all. And I'm trying to

1325
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 2: get along with everybody as I learned. I'm trying to

1326
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 2: get along with everybody. But as I learn, I'm doing

1327
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 2: things and it wasn't I was unhappy.

1328
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1329
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 2: I'm trying to accommodate for everybody else and I'm uncomfortable.

1330
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 3: Somebody, if smoke gonna bring me peace, well I'm about

1331
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 3: to bring smoke to your friend though, right, Like I

1332
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 3: I gotta let you know something, if I gotta get

1333
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 3: that shit off my chest so I could be at

1334
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 3: peace and so I could feel okay, well myself, I'm

1335
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,800
Speaker 3: gonna say something to you, right.

1336
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:50,399
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying.

1337
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 2: So for the people who have problems with speaking up,

1338
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 2: I am going through that currently. We just had a

1339
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 2: conversation this morning and I'm like, I am so it's

1340
00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: so hard for me to create boundaries and I'm really

1341
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 2: really learning that. But also boundaries and standards kind of

1342
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 2: go hand in hand, whether it's with family, friends, relationships, whatever.

1343
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 2: So it's like, I have to do what's gonna make

1344
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 2: me happy. So if you can't meet.

1345
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 1: Me where I want to be at, then you gots

1346
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 1: to go Bookie butt.

1347
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 4: Oh, you just can't be afraid to lose people.

1348
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 3: I feel like every time that I was when I

1349
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:23,919
Speaker 3: was younger, because that was more so.

1350
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: So let me get some ore this LSS cream off

1351
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 2: your girl and me so please you.

1352
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: But LS is a lesson.

1353
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 3: But no, I just feel like, again, you can't be

1354
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 3: afraid to lose people. It's never been a time in

1355
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 3: my life where a situation didn't fit for me or

1356
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 3: I was or even if I was trying to force

1357
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 3: something and make it work even though I knew it

1358
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 3: wasn't meant for me.

1359
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:47,680
Speaker 4: It's never been a time.

1360
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 3: Where I stood in my faith and let go in

1361
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 3: trusted God and he didn't bring something bitter into my life. Eventually,

1362
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 3: you just gotta be okay with letting stuff go. Like

1363
00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 3: a lot of time girls of me the guy and

1364
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 3: maybe feeling like, oh he's so amazing, or it ain't

1365
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 3: even and he that amazing. You just getting older, just

1366
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 3: say you like you thirty, you want to have a baby,

1367
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 3: or you want to be in a relationship. You like,

1368
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 3: oh the clock is ticking, like I need to settle

1369
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 3: down with a man. So now you just settling for

1370
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 3: the nigga that's around. But that ain't even a person, right,

1371
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 3: But that ain't even a person. God ordained for your life.

1372
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 3: That ain't even a person that is for you. But

1373
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 3: you gotta be okay with letting go to find in

1374
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 3: trusting him, in trusting the past for your life to

1375
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 3: find the person is for you. Friendship too, Let them

1376
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 3: holes go. I'll say that all the time.

1377
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: Let them go.

1378
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 3: Let a Dusty mcgristy go, not Dusty mcgresty.

1379
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 2: Let them holes.

1380
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

1381
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:43,959
Speaker 3: Me and my friend had Me and my best friend

1382
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 3: had tweeted about this a few weeks ago because she

1383
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 3: was like, I'm sorry, but relations, friendship breakups have never

1384
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,439
Speaker 3: hurt me like that because if I had to cut

1385
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 3: you off as my friend, you really tried it, bitch,

1386
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 3: like you really need something that had me so fed

1387
00:58:58,160 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 3: up that I had to be like.

1388
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 1: See with me.

1389
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 2: It's like even if they did do something where I

1390
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 2: had to cut them off, it's still be hurtful. Because

1391
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 2: I've always said this, my friends are like my family.

1392
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 2: I don't have a big family, so it's like if

1393
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 2: I let you in, and it's more so like the disappointment,

1394
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 2: like me, you gonna do me like that?

1395
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 4: But why are your family if they ain't treating you

1396
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 4: like that?

1397
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: I mean, but that's what I'm saying.

1398
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 2: That's why be so disappointing because you be letting somebody

1399
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:25,439
Speaker 2: in and you be giving them all this love. So

1400
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 2: to get that treatment back, it'd be hurtful, you know,

1401
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 2: to me personally. So yo, let us know how y'all

1402
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 2: feel about the new age, new age dating and saying

1403
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 2: I love you with no commitment, because saying I love

1404
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: you with no commitment is wild.

1405
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:39,959
Speaker 1: I ain't doing it no more.

1406
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 2: I am in.

1407
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: I'm changed.

1408
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 2: I'm a changed woman, and I am so proud of myself.

1409
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 2: I was talking to my best friend, my homeboy last night,

1410
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 2: and I was like, I actually created boundaries with this nigga.

1411
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:52,480
Speaker 1: He was like, I never thought you was gonna get there.

1412
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm so happy for you. And I said, God,

1413
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: it's good. Can I get amen?

1414
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 2: No, you can get an amen from me too, because I

1415
00:59:59,200 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 2: agree with that man.

1416
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: The town has came. What do we call that?

1417
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 2: Brow?

1418
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 1: Amen?

1419
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the bee out bow.

1420
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 2: That's a song hunt hits were made that day.

1421
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: Now you want to go to the stool.

1422
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 4: Only to record that? You be trying to go to

1423
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 4: record of the stood.

1424
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, a whole album Why Not, And that's where I got.

1425
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 2: So today we're gonna talk about something that has haunted

1426
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 2: us all, something that we don't necessarily like to talk about,

1427
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 2: something that needs to be discussed but really doesn't get discussed.

1428
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: We're talking about the one, the only, the terrible, the

1429
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 1: horror of BV.

1430
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:00,120
Speaker 7: Bitch, the BV monster. U.

1431
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 1: This is what we're gonna talk about today.

1432
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 2: You know why we're talking about this today because I

1433
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 2: feel like I have conversations with my friends, me and

1434
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 2: my friends, my family, like we're super.

1435
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: Open and you want to talk about it. So BV.

1436
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:17,440
Speaker 2: We're gonna give the definition for those who don't know,

1437
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 2: because we know we have me in tuning me in.

1438
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 2: Bacterial vaginosis is a type of vaginal inflammation caused by

1439
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 2: the overgrowth of bacteria naturally found in the vagina, which

1440
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 2: upsets the natural balance.

1441
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: Now BV happens.

1442
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 2: You know when you got a little BV, be like

1443
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 2: bring it here, sweaty because I love it when it's

1444
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 2: phone K. This is not the funky David Bannon was

1445
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 2: talking about beach. He was talking about the saying, this

1446
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 2: is the fault where it's smelling like that spring water

1447
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 2: you was talking about the spread the spring water.

1448
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 4: Those stall the spring water, do not stay.

1449
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 3: And number two, if anything, the spring water is gonna

1450
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 3: help you stay balanced, gonna help keep your pa balance. Okay,

1451
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 3: the way BVB smelling is more like you left some

1452
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 3: bald eggs in your car for a few days in

1453
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 3: the summer in one hundred degree with so let me

1454
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 3: say this.

1455
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, ladies, we need to be honest with ourselves. I

1456
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 2: don't care if you're standing up, bending over, twerking, walking

1457
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 2: to your refrigerator. You should not smell your vagina. If

1458
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: you smell your vagina, you probably have BB. But that's

1459
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 2: not It's okay.

1460
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: Every woman has had BB before.

1461
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 3: The thing is it's okay because I feel like certain

1462
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 3: things happen where your you know, vaginal pH will become unbalanced. However,

1463
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 3: you know, the key is when you notice it and

1464
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 3: not just trying to you know, put a suppository up there,

1465
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 3: or not just trying to spray real quick worry or

1466
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 3: not trying to use a little white you know, you

1467
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 3: gotta go to the doctors.

1468
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 1: Yes, and figure out and get antybodotic.

1469
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 2: And this is not an STD. I feel like you should.

1470
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm getting so this is not an STD.

1471
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 3: It's something that just happens with a woman's vagina whenever

1472
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 3: your pH is thrown off. So that could be because

1473
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 3: you not wearing because you're wearing underwear that isn't breatheable

1474
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 3: to where your vagina can't breathe. It could be because

1475
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:26,080
Speaker 3: you having multiple six partners. It could be because you having

1476
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 3: one six partner who has multiple sex.

1477
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 1: Partners, like we were talking about. So I have the

1478
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: risk factors. So if you smell assoshi and it ain't.

1479
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 2: No noble around, this is that reason why, like Dreya said,

1480
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 2: having multiple sex partners, Yeah, they passing the bacteria from

1481
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 2: Sean Kisha to Loca. We did, Babe, he ain't mean

1482
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,240
Speaker 2: the ocean, He ain't mean the spring water.

1483
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 1: He was talking about BV bitch.

1484
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a good example, a great example, believe

1485
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 2: it or not.

1486
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,840
Speaker 1: Douchey y'all, please.

1487
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 2: Stop all the good the good bacteria literally bb is

1488
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 2: when it's an overgrowth of the bacteria, like it just

1489
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 2: stop stop it, stop it now. I am okay with it.

1490
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 2: If it's just plain water, like after your cycle to

1491
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 2: kind of you know, clear it up, just plain water.

1492
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I still disagree with that, I just feel

1493
01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:29,920
Speaker 3: like you don't need to clean you don't need to

1494
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 3: clean out yo vagina after your cycle if anything, just

1495
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:36,760
Speaker 3: uses the pository but like putting water up there and

1496
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 3: yeah that would I think again, you're still cleaning out

1497
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 3: good bacterial.

1498
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, water doesn't can't kill bacteria, but for me,

1499
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 2: you know, dip on the way, yeah it can't.

1500
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 3: But it's it's like still flushing a lot out, which

1501
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 3: I think that that's night.

1502
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saying do it all the time.

1503
01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 2: I'm just saying if you're trying to get a little

1504
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 2: but that doesn't affected as far as like or you're

1505
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 2: gonna be putting the apples cider vinegar in there and

1506
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 2: the vinegar and the water like our grandma's used to do.

1507
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: It used to be funky under that move move.

1508
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 2: No, seriously, Well, you know what our friend did come

1509
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 2: on the show a few years ago.

1510
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 4: Shout out to Ski. He did come on the show

1511
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 4: a few years ago, and he made a very good point.

1512
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 3: He was like, back in the day, like Pussy used

1513
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 3: to think, but niggas used to think it was normal.

1514
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 1: I just smelled it, but niggas.

1515
01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 3: Used to think it was normal. Because everybody pussy stayed

1516
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 3: because it wasn't supposed to be funky.

1517
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, like everybody.

1518
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 2: Was eating McDonald's and drinking.

1519
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 1: Oh lord, don't get me wrong. I'm not gonna lie

1520
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 1: like wild times. They was pussy smells like pussy. But

1521
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:52,520
Speaker 1: it don't it, don't you know what I'm saying.

1522
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 4: It don't smell like it shouldn't have that punk.

1523
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it shouldn't have that punk on it. Like after you,

1524
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: I don't care.

1525
01:05:58,280 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 4: Unless you just left the gym.

1526
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 2: Even then, when you leave the gym, it's gonna smell

1527
01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 2: like sweat, like a normal part musty.

1528
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it ain't. It ain't gonna be like. Let

1529
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 1: me tell you something.

1530
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 2: I could wake up in the morning, go to the gym,

1531
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:14,360
Speaker 2: run some errands. If you can go a whole day,

1532
01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 2: you should still be able to come home and get

1533
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 2: freaking nasty. If you can't do a whole day of

1534
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 2: activities and come home and get freak nasty.

1535
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 1: You got a little BV enough.

1536
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 3: I agree, it's just gonna let's I said, it's just

1537
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 3: gonna be a little musky.

1538
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be.

1539
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 2: That's a difference between must and fishing, must and noble.

1540
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,000
Speaker 3: Bitch, did I tell you how I used to be

1541
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 3: friends with the girl and she used to be patting

1542
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 3: her pussy all the time.

1543
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 1: Now she leaking, she's soaking wet. But she was not

1544
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: shaking it like this, and it.

1545
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 4: Was not because she was with for real, that thing

1546
01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:47,600
Speaker 4: just used to be leaking.

1547
01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 3: But that's another But that's another sign of BB. Yeah,

1548
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 3: that's a watery discharge anywhere like rain.

1549
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, let me, let me, let me give the

1550
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 1: If you ever see a.

1551
01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 4: Girl and it's running down her legged and because you turned.

1552
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 1: Running down your leg is crazy.

1553
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 2: She used to be hearing a little towel around Patton towels.

1554
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so it says it is a little towel of.

1555
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 4: The face towel. That don't make it better that you, dude,

1556
01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 4: You could fit that in your purse.

1557
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 1: Go fit your ass and the doctor's office, bitch.

1558
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 2: So the symptoms of BB's thin, gray, white, or green

1559
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 2: vaginal dish.

1560
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 1: Charge is wild.

1561
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 4: If you got green dishcharger, you ain't went to the doctor.

1562
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 1: You are sick.

1563
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 2: No, actually you just need to go to the funeral home.

1564
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 2: Just wrap this shit up, bitch, wrap it up and

1565
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 2: go ahead.

1566
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

1567
01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:43,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So then it has the foul smelling, fishy vaginal odor,

1568
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 2: like yes, Like.

1569
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like, you know, that's something happened

1570
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 1: to us. A few times you'd be like, who is us?

1571
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 3: Everybody said, bitch, you ain't never had bb I'm not

1572
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:55,560
Speaker 3: saying that I never had it, But bitch, you said

1573
01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 3: it happened to us, Like you be around and you

1574
01:07:57,880 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 3: be smelling it.

1575
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 2: It has never happened to me, none of my friends.

1576
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 2: I've never smelled none of my friends.

1577
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 1: Plus, no, I'm not saying I smelled somebody else pussy.

1578
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 2: I'm saying one time I was just like, damn, I

1579
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 2: don't have I didn't buy salmon today.

1580
01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: What's up? You know it happens, Bitch, it happens. We

1581
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 1: keeping it? Are we keeping it real?

1582
01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 2: No? We is, bitch, But I ain't gonna lie like.

1583
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 4: It's never got to that point.

1584
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:21,639
Speaker 1: Where I was like, that could be one of the

1585
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:24,560
Speaker 1: fine men. But that is the one of the first symptoms.

1586
01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:27,719
Speaker 2: The first symptom, it says is the fishy vaginal odor,

1587
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:29,679
Speaker 2: and then it goes to the dish. I ever say

1588
01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 2: this though, let me say this, I am not I

1589
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 2: have had b B before.

1590
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 4: But I'm not gonna lie.

1591
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 3: I haven't had BB like since I've been probably like

1592
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:42,160
Speaker 3: twenty four and that's because I feel like if you

1593
01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:45,560
Speaker 3: take preventative measures, then it won't happen.

1594
01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 1: Right of course, but we're talking to the people.

1595
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:49,360
Speaker 3: Once you know, you know, and then you could take

1596
01:08:49,360 --> 01:08:51,719
Speaker 3: the preventative measures to stop it from happening.

1597
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:55,560
Speaker 2: But honestly, like she said, sometimes bench you know, you

1598
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 2: might be dealing with a nigga.

1599
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's just somebody catch you by.

1600
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 3: To use a suppository every time. After you have six,

1601
01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 3: you're supposed to make sure you pee after stick to

1602
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:07,639
Speaker 3: make sure you use a suppository after you get off

1603
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 3: of your cycle. All of these things will keep your

1604
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 3: pH ballance, let that koochie breathe. Personally, I don't like

1605
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 3: to wear peties. I wear them when I need to.

1606
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 3: If I am on a little g no, I don't

1607
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 3: wear them if I got a little gen And you guess.

1608
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:22,560
Speaker 1: What, when you get off, I'm going to sniffed the

1609
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 1: count you.

1610
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 2: Get sniffy, it's gonna smell couchie fresh.

1611
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 1: I'm smelling it, bitch, because you stressed.

1612
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:30,479
Speaker 3: Don has smell it, but you ain't ever smelled my

1613
01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 3: kuchie except I smell it except.

1614
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 4: For that one time, but that was because I was.

1615
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 6: Quick.

1616
01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:43,679
Speaker 4: Story time back to jail.

1617
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 3: I went to jail for three days and I was

1618
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 3: on my period and they ain't had no tampons or

1619
01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 3: nothing in there.

1620
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 4: So I had to have the same tampon in for.

1621
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 2: Two days, y'all, two three days and when Lex picked

1622
01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 2: me up from jail, she had BBG X y Z

1623
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:00,680
Speaker 2: J bad.

1624
01:10:01,080 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: It was getting too loud at the road window.

1625
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:08,719
Speaker 2: Now, y'all, I can, but that's the while I really

1626
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:10,559
Speaker 2: think about having the same.

1627
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 4: Like you're on your cycle, you have the same timpany the.

1628
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:18,680
Speaker 3: Jealous, inhumane, inhumane, Yes, the jealosystem have.

1629
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 1: Tested for that for that. Okay. The next symptoms that.

1630
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:28,759
Speaker 2: Was circumstances out of my contry, vaginal itching and burning

1631
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 2: during your nation. So these are all signs of BB.

1632
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:34,960
Speaker 2: Like Dreda said, you can take preventative measures. Sometimes it

1633
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:35,599
Speaker 2: just happened.

1634
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:38,759
Speaker 1: Drink a lot of water. That definitely helps.

1635
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 2: But y'all pay attention to your vagina, you know, look

1636
01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 2: at it, sniff.

1637
01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 1: It, rob her, talk to her, you clean her.

1638
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:50,799
Speaker 2: And y'all put stuff in your vagina.

1639
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:53,920
Speaker 3: I was so surprised to find out the amount of

1640
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,879
Speaker 3: women that actually be trying to clean inside of the vagina.

1641
01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 2: And that's and this is another thing I want to

1642
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 2: talk about. Those little y'all needs. People be shoving up

1643
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 2: there and stop, please stop. I I'm not trying to

1644
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,000
Speaker 2: put nobody out of business.

1645
01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 1: Stop shoving ship up your vagina. Like she said, I

1646
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 1: think it's a pository.

1647
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 2: Is okay after your cycle, after you have unprotected sex.

1648
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:18,959
Speaker 2: Please stop, like she said, stop stop douching all that stuff.

1649
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 1: You don't even really need a feminine wash.

1650
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 2: Now, some people probably do, because sometimes doctors do recommend

1651
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 2: that for people who have other situations, use one unscented gentle.

1652
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:30,679
Speaker 1: One.

1653
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 2: Stop using all these that have like oh it's got

1654
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 2: rose water, high holeronic acid, it's gonna make this smooth,

1655
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 2: lighten up your booty.

1656
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 1: Oh stop it, stop it. It's just too much.

1657
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 2: Y'all be doing too much to and honestly, if you

1658
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:44,800
Speaker 2: over do it, you.

1659
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: Could be giving yourself BV. You know what I'm saying.

1660
01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 2: So like, if you're trying to be too clean, you're

1661
01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:51,679
Speaker 2: gonna give yourself BV. Because a lot, like I said,

1662
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 2: some of this stuff is caused from you getting rid

1663
01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 2: of the good bacteria. So just don't overdo it, y'all.

1664
01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 2: Don't be too clean, but also don't be there. Smell

1665
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:04,640
Speaker 2: your pussy m and stop fucking him. Niggas will be

1666
01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:06,639
Speaker 2: fucking the other beatrees at the same time.

1667
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes they don't know. Sometimes they don't know. Okay, So

1668
01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:15,559
Speaker 1: now we gonna get into the bop.

1669
01:12:17,120 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 4: Okay.

1670
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: So by the time y'all see this episode, the playlist

1671
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 2: will have dropped. I have a playlist, and when I

1672
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,360
Speaker 2: tell y'all, this shit is hot fire. I did an

1673
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,519
Speaker 2: R and B playlist and this is all new songs.

1674
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 2: I haven't made my bop of the weekend. When I

1675
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:39,760
Speaker 2: tell y'all, this might be my favorite playlist today. It's

1676
01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 2: almost two hours long. I listen to y'all, and I

1677
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:45,880
Speaker 2: really put it together. So one of the songs on

1678
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:48,880
Speaker 2: my playlist is a song by Aaron Ray. It's called

1679
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,400
Speaker 2: Stay for the Night. When I tell y'all, it is

1680
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 2: such a fucking vibe. It's basically it kind of goes

1681
01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 2: to what we were talking about earlier. He's telling this

1682
01:12:56,840 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 2: girl you like me, I like you. You finna cut

1683
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:03,080
Speaker 2: off them niggas. I'm finn cut off these old basically

1684
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:03,840
Speaker 2: like you.

1685
01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:06,720
Speaker 1: Staying with me for the mine? Yes, and that is

1686
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 1: this is the music that I love. This is the

1687
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:11,280
Speaker 1: music that I'm talking about. Like, let's bring that feeling back.

1688
01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 1: Like you like me?

1689
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 2: I like you?

1690
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:14,720
Speaker 1: What are we doing? Period, let's do it.

1691
01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:18,240
Speaker 2: So. Aaron Ray is an amazing artist. He makes amazing

1692
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:19,480
Speaker 2: R and B music.

1693
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 1: And he's cute.

1694
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 2: We love a cutie that can sing, So shout out

1695
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:23,919
Speaker 2: to Aaron Ray.

1696
01:13:24,080 --> 01:13:26,600
Speaker 1: Uh it's a R I N W R A Y.

1697
01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 1: So make sure y'all look that up.

1698
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 2: By the time y'all see this though, y'all will have

1699
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:32,360
Speaker 2: the playlist and y'all gonna love this playlist. I actually

1700
01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 2: just made a Spotify account because I noticed it's easier

1701
01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 2: to follow people, so y'all can follow me on the Spotify.

1702
01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 1: Listen to what I'm listening to and all that good stuff. Period.

1703
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:44,880
Speaker 1: What you got a little Drea my.

1704
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 3: Bay of the week. It's put It on the Flow Again.

1705
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:50,240
Speaker 3: Like that's literally the name of the song.

1706
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:55,600
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, oh I thought it was just put It

1707
01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 2: on the floor, no remix. It's put It on the

1708
01:13:57,960 --> 01:14:03,559
Speaker 2: Floor Again. Now, y'all childish, but yeah, I believe the

1709
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 2: thing that's funny is I'm liking that they're doing that

1710
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,560
Speaker 2: again because you know when people used to make remixes,

1711
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:09,960
Speaker 2: it wasn't just the remix, they named it something else.

1712
01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 2: So you know they did tomorrow too, so put it

1713
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:13,880
Speaker 2: on the floor again.

1714
01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:15,679
Speaker 1: I like that. So what do you think about Cardi Verse?

1715
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 3: I love Cardi Verse cause one thing Cardi gonna do

1716
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:21,360
Speaker 3: is slide on a feature. And people was on Twitter

1717
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 3: complaining because they was like, oh, Cardi just getting away

1718
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 3: with not dropping a sophomore album for five years because

1719
01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 3: she keeps sliding on her features. Yeah, and I would

1720
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 3: be cold if she keep coming out with features. I

1721
01:14:33,880 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 3: don't I don't care about her. Nikki didn't come out

1722
01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 3: with a second album for a long ass song.

1723
01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:41,559
Speaker 2: I mean, it happens. I also feel like y'all gotta

1724
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 2: realize artists back in the day, you would get years

1725
01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 2: in between an albums. Stop forcing these people to drop albums,

1726
01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 2: and then when they drop a rushed ass album, you

1727
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:51,839
Speaker 2: talk about it sucks.

1728
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:54,799
Speaker 3: Lauren Hill had one album and we still be listening

1729
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 3: to their whole to this day.

1730
01:14:57,400 --> 01:14:59,400
Speaker 4: She still be touring to this.

1731
01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:01,679
Speaker 1: Day, bring out the crowd.

1732
01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:04,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just feel like you don't have to come

1733
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 3: out with a sophomore album until you're ready.

1734
01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:07,919
Speaker 4: If Carty never come out with another.

1735
01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:11,439
Speaker 2: G I even came out with my debut and y'all

1736
01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 2: is pressing. Let me take my time with this ship.

1737
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:15,599
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1738
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:21,160
Speaker 1: So I like that point you made. Yeah, who is pressed?

1739
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1740
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 1: The people, bro, they want this album.

1741
01:15:26,000 --> 01:15:30,240
Speaker 2: And when I drop it, y'all, when I dropped this

1742
01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:32,800
Speaker 2: album on, y'all, ass I don't want to hear nothing.

1743
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:34,599
Speaker 3: But you haven't even had a song. You haven't even

1744
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:35,920
Speaker 3: had a single.

1745
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:44,960
Speaker 1: Vocal. They hit the vocals. That's why, all right.

1746
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:47,720
Speaker 2: So yeah, like I was saying, you know, Cardi, you

1747
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:49,559
Speaker 2: hand me my bag because my item of the week is.

1748
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 3: On party really slid on this verse. Definitely quotables. One

1749
01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 3: thing she gonna do is come through with the quotables.

1750
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:57,680
Speaker 3: You know, it's about to be summertime. The girls is

1751
01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:01,000
Speaker 3: gonna be outside, like Lynx was saying, and we need

1752
01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 3: all the quotables for our pictures. We need the captions.

1753
01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:06,080
Speaker 3: And the song is full of captions.

1754
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 2: And yeah, it's.

1755
01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 4: About I love Lotto and Cardi B.

1756
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 2: So it's a heat for me again again.

1757
01:16:14,120 --> 01:16:14,960
Speaker 1: Shout out to Cardi B.

1758
01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:17,679
Speaker 2: Honestly, I love Lotto, I love Cardi b I love

1759
01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 2: all the rap girlies, And honestly, I was so worried

1760
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 2: that nobody was gonna drop some like fire.

1761
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:25,559
Speaker 1: Music before something, because what was you gonna walk out to? Bitch.

1762
01:16:25,640 --> 01:16:28,639
Speaker 3: I wasn't worried, though, because every summer somebody gonna come

1763
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 3: with it. Somebody comes with the heavy hitters every summer.

1764
01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I can't wait, because we got a good one

1765
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:34,960
Speaker 2: to walk out too, and we're walking out to it

1766
01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:35,439
Speaker 2: all some.

1767
01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:39,759
Speaker 4: We do, we do, okay, So item of the week.

1768
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:41,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I haven't done the item of the week in

1769
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,439
Speaker 2: a while. I'll always be like Drell, what's your girl?

1770
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:45,040
Speaker 2: What you got? So, y'all, let me tell y'all, I

1771
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:47,480
Speaker 2: don't know how to say this. I think it's Ol Hendrickson.

1772
01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:53,680
Speaker 2: I think I think it might be Old Yeah Hendrixon.

1773
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 2: Either way, y'all, this is a very very good skin brand.

1774
01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 1: Y'all know I am a skin girl, so I'm not

1775
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 1: gonna lie.

1776
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 2: I fell off my skincare routine for a minute and

1777
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:05,800
Speaker 2: I got back into it, and I feel like this

1778
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:10,040
Speaker 2: bounced me back so so so so quick.

1779
01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:13,839
Speaker 1: Now y'all know it's summertime. Please do not be outside

1780
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:15,080
Speaker 1: with a full face and makeup.

1781
01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 2: Your eyebrows dripping down your face, Your lash is falling off,

1782
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:19,879
Speaker 2: they lifting up everything.

1783
01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:20,360
Speaker 1: Y'all.

1784
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:23,280
Speaker 2: Take care of your skin so you can put on

1785
01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 2: some sunscreen and some lip gloss and go. Literally, that's

1786
01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:29,439
Speaker 2: all you need, especially if you use this, y'all. This

1787
01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:31,880
Speaker 2: is not sponsored, I swear, but y'all know when I

1788
01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:34,160
Speaker 2: love stuff, I love it just like this LS cream

1789
01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:38,160
Speaker 2: per So listen. It's called a banana bright Viottamin C serum.

1790
01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:41,360
Speaker 2: If you use retinall, you're gonna have to use it

1791
01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 2: every other day. Don't use this the same day as

1792
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:45,839
Speaker 2: you use your retinall, especially if you're like a beginner,

1793
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:47,920
Speaker 2: because vitamin C and retina is gonna make your skin

1794
01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 2: fuck up. I'm not a dermatologist. I'm just telling y'all

1795
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:53,960
Speaker 2: what happens. So viottam of ce. You gotta use this

1796
01:17:54,040 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 2: during the day. You use some sunscreen with it. It's

1797
01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 2: going to brighten up your skin. I had a really

1798
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:02,559
Speaker 2: big problem with bags under my eyes, y'all. It just

1799
01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:05,360
Speaker 2: has cleared up my skin so amazing. I'm actually gonna

1800
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:08,320
Speaker 2: do an episode next. Let's do what next? Solo episode?

1801
01:18:08,320 --> 01:18:08,799
Speaker 6: No makeup.

1802
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so we gotta do We gonna do an old

1803
01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:12,599
Speaker 2: makeup episode again because so I can just.

1804
01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:13,479
Speaker 1: Really show you one.

1805
01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I I think I had a little conceiller on.

1806
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 1: Oh okay, y'all did have a little conceider on. So

1807
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 1: now I'm gonna do it.

1808
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:25,240
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do an episode next time with completely nothing

1809
01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:27,679
Speaker 2: on my face. Okay. So yeah, this is the old as.

1810
01:18:28,000 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 2: It's a little bit on the pricey side. I'm not

1811
01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 2: gonna lie, but if your skin curre girly, it's so

1812
01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 2: worth it. It's the Banana bright vitamin C cerrum. I

1813
01:18:36,240 --> 01:18:38,280
Speaker 2: use it all the time, love it swear by Amen.

1814
01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:41,679
Speaker 4: So now we're.

1815
01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:43,679
Speaker 3: Gonna get into our favorite segment of the week, which

1816
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 3: is pour your heart out. You know, if you have

1817
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:48,400
Speaker 3: any questions, you can send them to ask poor minds at.

1818
01:18:48,280 --> 01:18:49,240
Speaker 4: Gmail dot com.

1819
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:52,839
Speaker 2: As k p O U R in my nbas at

1820
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 2: gmail dot com.

1821
01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 1: I'm a little tiptail you.

1822
01:18:58,360 --> 01:19:01,600
Speaker 2: It is shit what we said on the episode with

1823
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:02,880
Speaker 2: Kenny Day, Let's get you loose.

1824
01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:05,280
Speaker 1: That's what the else sand for.

1825
01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So question number one, Hey, y'all, I love you

1826
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 2: guys so much, y'all give out good advice, like big sisters,

1827
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 2: let's get into it.

1828
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:17,679
Speaker 3: I'm twenty three years old. I've been dating this guy

1829
01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 3: for nearly a year now. We started off as friends

1830
01:19:20,439 --> 01:19:22,680
Speaker 3: for a couple months and then started catching feelings. We are

1831
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:25,400
Speaker 3: long distance and it's been hard. We tried to make

1832
01:19:25,400 --> 01:19:28,040
Speaker 3: the best of it with our busy schedules. Anyways, we

1833
01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:31,400
Speaker 3: had a conversation the other day. The boyfriend girlfriend question

1834
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:34,080
Speaker 3: came up. In the beginning of us talking. I told

1835
01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:35,920
Speaker 3: him I wasn't ready because I just got out of

1836
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 3: a toxic situation and I just want us to vive.

1837
01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 4: He was down for it.

1838
01:19:40,920 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 3: We both caught hard feelings for each other, and when

1839
01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 3: I told him I think I'm ready to be in

1840
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:47,800
Speaker 3: a relationship, his response was, I don't know if I'm

1841
01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:51,479
Speaker 3: ready because I'm scared, which he did tell me about.

1842
01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 3: We met each other's families and everything. Everyone says we

1843
01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 3: look good together and etc. But do you guys think

1844
01:19:58,040 --> 01:20:00,280
Speaker 3: that I should still go with the flow or let

1845
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:00,519
Speaker 3: it go?

1846
01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 2: I feel like this, Like we just talked about the

1847
01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 2: You know, it's okay with being committed to somebody, but

1848
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:12,640
Speaker 2: I also feel like you shouldn't question it, Like if

1849
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:14,000
Speaker 2: you're going into a situation.

1850
01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.

1851
01:20:16,640 --> 01:20:19,640
Speaker 2: Slow down then, because when I get in a relationship,

1852
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:20,960
Speaker 2: it don't be no questions asked.

1853
01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 1: It be my men and my men and my men.

1854
01:20:23,560 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 2: I was laughing at me early she said that She's like,

1855
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 2: I know that nigga Ain't that funny, bitch, because I'm

1856
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:31,479
Speaker 2: looking at my phone. I'm like, hey, bitch, you can't.

1857
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:35,439
Speaker 2: My nigga is fucking Chris Rock and this motherfucker bitch.

1858
01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 2: So that's what I'm saying, Like, when you're in a

1859
01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 2: situation and you just you know, you're supposed to feel

1860
01:20:41,120 --> 01:20:44,160
Speaker 2: the butterflies, it shouldn't be no questions asked. So I

1861
01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:48,680
Speaker 2: feel like, don't force yourself, take your time. You know

1862
01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:50,599
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, It's okay. It's also okay to take

1863
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:52,720
Speaker 2: your time. What I was saying earlier is like, we

1864
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:55,200
Speaker 2: shouldn't be scared of commitment, but also don't force it

1865
01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:57,680
Speaker 2: on yourself either. If you don't feel like you know

1866
01:20:57,800 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 2: you're ready to commit, they don't commit yet. But also

1867
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:04,960
Speaker 2: don't be three four years down the road and still

1868
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:06,000
Speaker 2: doing the same bullshit.

1869
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, unless y'all both still ain't ready.

1870
01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:10,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1871
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 1: I just feel like people gotta.

1872
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:14,439
Speaker 3: Do what works for them, right, Like plenty of people

1873
01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:17,800
Speaker 3: who be just dating or talking for like years and

1874
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:20,160
Speaker 3: then eventually finally they getting a relationship.

1875
01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 2: You just gotta do.

1876
01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 4: What's ready for you. I just, I mean, what's perfect

1877
01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:23,599
Speaker 4: for you.

1878
01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:26,519
Speaker 3: I think that the problem be when one person be

1879
01:21:26,920 --> 01:21:29,639
Speaker 3: wanting a relationship and the other person don't, and then

1880
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:32,560
Speaker 3: y'all just wasting y'all time for years and y'all.

1881
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:33,280
Speaker 2: Not on the same page.

1882
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:36,120
Speaker 3: But it sounds like y'all both aren't sure that y'all

1883
01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 3: are ready for a relationship. So I would just, you know,

1884
01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:40,519
Speaker 3: if y'all like each other and y'all having a good

1885
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 3: time together, I would just still keep keep it cool,

1886
01:21:43,600 --> 01:21:46,679
Speaker 3: see where it go. But then once one of y'all

1887
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 3: wants a relationship and the other person don't, then I

1888
01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:52,559
Speaker 3: think that's where y'all need Yeah, that's where the thissec

1889
01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:54,679
Speaker 3: connect starts, and then that's when y'all kind of really need.

1890
01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 4: To re evaluate the relationship mood hun Oh.

1891
01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, alright, questions too, Hey, y'all.

1892
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,360
Speaker 2: First, I just want to say I love watching y'all

1893
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 2: continue coming through for the worlds So I'm a twenty

1894
01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:08,160
Speaker 2: three year old female and I have a situationship with

1895
01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 2: a thirty six.

1896
01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 1: Year old male. You know what, third did his big

1897
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:12,240
Speaker 1: one with picking these questions.

1898
01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 2: Okay, he has two children their teens, and I have zero.

1899
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:18,360
Speaker 2: We've been kicking it for the past two months and

1900
01:22:18,360 --> 01:22:21,000
Speaker 2: the sex has been great. He always asks to take

1901
01:22:21,040 --> 01:22:23,920
Speaker 2: me out, but I always decline. I'm an introvert. I'd

1902
01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 2: rather stay in the house and chill type of girl.

1903
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 2: He serves me and gives me whatever I want or need.

1904
01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:31,240
Speaker 2: I grew feelings for him, but in the beginning, I

1905
01:22:31,280 --> 01:22:34,000
Speaker 2: told him I just wanted to be friends. He told

1906
01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 2: me he wanted to buy a house for me slash us.

1907
01:22:37,760 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 2: That threw me all the way off. When I ask him,

1908
01:22:41,600 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 2: what are what are we? He told me we can

1909
01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:46,760
Speaker 2: go as far as I wanted to, and it left

1910
01:22:46,760 --> 01:22:49,160
Speaker 2: me confused. He has a lot going on, and he

1911
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:51,680
Speaker 2: travels a lot, and I don't want to get in between.

1912
01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:51,840
Speaker 1: Of all that.

1913
01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 2: I don't really ask about other women or his baby mamas,

1914
01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:57,719
Speaker 2: because he told me he wasn't dealing with anyone else.

1915
01:22:58,000 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 1: He doesn't have social.

1916
01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:00,559
Speaker 2: Media, and I try if I had to do a

1917
01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:03,840
Speaker 2: background check and didn't find anything. He hasn't given me

1918
01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:06,879
Speaker 2: any red flags. He makes time for me and stuff,

1919
01:23:07,080 --> 01:23:08,720
Speaker 2: but I don't want him to feel like.

1920
01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:11,280
Speaker 1: I'll just be waiting around for him. He is a

1921
01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:13,840
Speaker 1: great dad, and that makes my pussy too wed.

1922
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 2: This is the first time dealing with an older man

1923
01:23:16,520 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 2: and a man with children. I'm so used to young

1924
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:21,519
Speaker 2: niggas my age, so my guard is so up. Please

1925
01:23:21,560 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 2: give me some advice, y'all. Well, you know what I'm

1926
01:23:26,320 --> 01:23:31,000
Speaker 2: gonna say. Bitch, Okay, you young. I hope you have

1927
01:23:31,040 --> 01:23:32,360
Speaker 2: a job and income coming in.

1928
01:23:32,680 --> 01:23:33,559
Speaker 1: I always feel like this.

1929
01:23:33,600 --> 01:23:35,040
Speaker 2: If a man ask you to move in and he

1930
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 2: paid the bills, bitch, this.

1931
01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:36,719
Speaker 1: Is your moment.

1932
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:40,719
Speaker 2: Move in and stack up your bread, save your money,

1933
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:41,920
Speaker 2: and do what you gotta do.

1934
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:43,560
Speaker 1: Focus on whatever you're trying to invest on.

1935
01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:45,880
Speaker 2: If it works out, cool, If it don't, you got

1936
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:47,920
Speaker 2: your bread stacked.

1937
01:23:47,200 --> 01:23:49,479
Speaker 1: Up and you can leave. Always have a plan.

1938
01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:52,880
Speaker 2: B But I feel like if he's asking, it's not

1939
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:55,360
Speaker 2: the end of the world. You're only twenty three. You

1940
01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:57,360
Speaker 2: like him, You said it's cool. You like to be

1941
01:23:57,400 --> 01:23:59,439
Speaker 2: at the house anyway, you might as well stay at

1942
01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:00,640
Speaker 2: a house rent free.

1943
01:24:01,439 --> 01:24:04,719
Speaker 1: Shit. That's how I be personally feeling.

1944
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

1945
01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:08,680
Speaker 3: I've always been a little weird about stuff like that

1946
01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:11,920
Speaker 3: because I just feel like living with somebody is like

1947
01:24:12,080 --> 01:24:15,559
Speaker 3: having somebody in your space and you being in a space,

1948
01:24:15,840 --> 01:24:19,040
Speaker 3: and unless you really just know a person for real

1949
01:24:19,120 --> 01:24:22,720
Speaker 3: and trust them like that, I don't know. It's like

1950
01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:25,800
Speaker 3: is it worth not paying rent? I mean, I guess

1951
01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:29,040
Speaker 3: it's because I lived with somebody before so well with

1952
01:24:29,120 --> 01:24:31,080
Speaker 3: them just so you couldn't pay rent. Though, Yeah, I

1953
01:24:31,160 --> 01:24:33,080
Speaker 3: live with them because that was your boyfriend and you

1954
01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:33,839
Speaker 3: loved them.

1955
01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 1: And it was so and she's like, you know, we're cool.

1956
01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:38,960
Speaker 2: She said, we're cool. But that doesn't mean.

1957
01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:42,200
Speaker 1: That you're right. You're right, But like I said, I

1958
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:43,519
Speaker 1: do feel like, like I said, I.

1959
01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:46,519
Speaker 3: Think living with I think I get it. Times is hard,

1960
01:24:46,600 --> 01:24:48,519
Speaker 3: the economy is fucked up right now.

1961
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:50,640
Speaker 4: But at the same.

1962
01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 3: Time, living with somebody to save money, get a room aid.

1963
01:24:57,360 --> 01:24:59,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I agree, I definitely.

1964
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:02,120
Speaker 3: I don't move in with no nigga just so you

1965
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 3: could like stack some bread up. Like I feel like,

1966
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:06,680
Speaker 3: if you want to save some money, girl, get a

1967
01:25:06,720 --> 01:25:08,240
Speaker 3: room mate, because at least it a gonna be no

1968
01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 3: strings attached, Like you wanna be living with that nigga,

1969
01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 3: you dont have to give him some if you ain't

1970
01:25:12,040 --> 01:25:13,920
Speaker 3: paying no rent all the time.

1971
01:25:14,439 --> 01:25:16,759
Speaker 1: But I will say, like, it's not like she doesn't

1972
01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:17,479
Speaker 1: like this man.

1973
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:19,479
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying that she doesn't like him,

1974
01:25:19,479 --> 01:25:21,639
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying I don't think that good enough

1975
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:24,960
Speaker 3: reason to live with somebody, especially if you're unsure about it,

1976
01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:27,679
Speaker 3: because it's a reason why she's on the fence.

1977
01:25:27,720 --> 01:25:31,400
Speaker 2: Well, she said he she's unsure about it because of

1978
01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:33,759
Speaker 2: her past experiences.

1979
01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 1: She said, he hasn't given me any red flags.

1980
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 2: Okay, So I mean, and that's okay, but you have

1981
01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:41,599
Speaker 2: to you can't project what somebody else does to you

1982
01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:45,000
Speaker 2: onto this next man. So that's what I'm saying. I

1983
01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:47,479
Speaker 2: feel like, now, if she would have said he does

1984
01:25:47,520 --> 01:25:49,000
Speaker 2: this in X, Y and Z, y'all be like no.

1985
01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:51,040
Speaker 2: But I feel like, you ain't got no red flash.

1986
01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:53,320
Speaker 1: You're gonna turn up half fun. That's I don't take shit.

1987
01:25:53,920 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 4: When somebody is not turning up and having fun, it is.

1988
01:25:57,040 --> 01:25:59,360
Speaker 1: I get to come home. I get that big swe.

1989
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:02,320
Speaker 3: When didn't this nigga say he was didn't she say

1990
01:26:02,320 --> 01:26:05,559
Speaker 3: he's like forty or fifty s thirty six thirty six

1991
01:26:06,640 --> 01:26:12,120
Speaker 3: from Okay, so he almost forty so and she's twenty three. Yeah,

1992
01:26:12,160 --> 01:26:14,880
Speaker 3: I don't that's not getting fun, is it. Given you

1993
01:26:14,960 --> 01:26:16,719
Speaker 3: gonna have to like take care of the house.

1994
01:26:16,840 --> 01:26:19,680
Speaker 2: But but I will say this too, when I live

1995
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:21,519
Speaker 2: with somebody, he didn't have kids.

1996
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:23,919
Speaker 1: She did say he has, Oh, but they're teens.

1997
01:26:24,040 --> 01:26:26,040
Speaker 2: Ya, So y'all almost the same age, bitch, y'all can

1998
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:27,200
Speaker 2: play PlayStation together.

1999
01:26:28,400 --> 01:26:30,920
Speaker 1: It's not like a ball to me. Bitch, I don't know.

2000
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:32,479
Speaker 2: I think that you just need.

2001
01:26:32,320 --> 01:26:36,000
Speaker 3: To reevaluate the situation and just really act yourself what

2002
01:26:36,040 --> 01:26:37,519
Speaker 3: you want to. If you really like this nigga, you

2003
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:39,800
Speaker 3: really love this nigga, why not moving with him and

2004
01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:42,200
Speaker 3: like try to see if you could see like a

2005
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:45,720
Speaker 3: future with him. But if you're just doing it so

2006
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:48,000
Speaker 3: you don't gotta pay the obu sis, I don't know,

2007
01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:49,160
Speaker 3: because people really show.

2008
01:26:49,200 --> 01:26:51,880
Speaker 4: The people start showing. They asked where y'all live in

2009
01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:52,559
Speaker 4: the same house.

2010
01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:55,679
Speaker 3: She'd be all fun and games when y'all live separately,

2011
01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:57,120
Speaker 3: But once you live together.

2012
01:26:56,960 --> 01:26:57,719
Speaker 1: It is different.

2013
01:26:57,960 --> 01:26:59,920
Speaker 2: It's real. But I'm not gonna lie, Like I said,

2014
01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:02,120
Speaker 2: I experienced with living with someone I was young, and

2015
01:27:02,160 --> 01:27:05,120
Speaker 2: it was but it was we had a time so

2016
01:27:05,360 --> 01:27:06,200
Speaker 2: maybe I'll look at.

2017
01:27:06,080 --> 01:27:10,200
Speaker 1: It a little different. Were Yeah, we were both.

2018
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:12,000
Speaker 4: Grown up.

2019
01:27:12,720 --> 01:27:16,559
Speaker 1: Oh bitch, you gotta cook, you gotta cook.

2020
01:27:16,720 --> 01:27:20,200
Speaker 4: And he got teenage children that like the kids.

2021
01:27:20,200 --> 01:27:23,519
Speaker 2: Probably she I'm thinking they either between the ages obviously

2022
01:27:23,560 --> 01:27:25,480
Speaker 2: of thirteen and seventeen.

2023
01:27:25,560 --> 01:27:27,200
Speaker 1: Bitch y'all almost the same age.

2024
01:27:27,280 --> 01:27:29,800
Speaker 2: Y'all can go play fitch the y'all with froto bitch,

2025
01:27:30,360 --> 01:27:32,920
Speaker 2: So that kid is not a problem. She's probably gonna

2026
01:27:32,920 --> 01:27:35,840
Speaker 2: want to hang out with the kids more than the man.

2027
01:27:36,400 --> 01:27:40,000
Speaker 2: But there's other factors you have to consider. Like I said,

2028
01:27:40,080 --> 01:27:43,360
Speaker 2: the kids. So I would move though.

2029
01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:43,920
Speaker 1: That's me.

2030
01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:51,880
Speaker 3: What have always worked for me is keep your house,

2031
01:27:52,200 --> 01:27:54,639
Speaker 3: spend the night at that nigga house every week all

2032
01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:57,040
Speaker 3: week if you want to rent.

2033
01:27:57,240 --> 01:27:59,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what that's what you did. That's that's what

2034
01:27:59,560 --> 01:27:59,800
Speaker 1: I do.

2035
01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:04,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm saying the situation where I told you

2036
01:28:04,160 --> 01:28:05,280
Speaker 2: to move, he was like movie.

2037
01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:07,760
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, go you was like no, I.

2038
01:28:07,720 --> 01:28:09,439
Speaker 4: Didn't see a point to move in with a nigga

2039
01:28:09,439 --> 01:28:10,599
Speaker 4: who was already paying.

2040
01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:14,040
Speaker 2: My ring because the house was looking and I was

2041
01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:14,960
Speaker 2: trying to be in the pool.

2042
01:28:15,040 --> 01:28:17,240
Speaker 4: But I had a key and I used to be there.

2043
01:28:17,040 --> 01:28:20,040
Speaker 1: All the time. I don't care. I wasn't there with you.

2044
01:28:20,479 --> 01:28:22,320
Speaker 1: If you live there, he can't tell me to get

2045
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:23,120
Speaker 1: out there and see.

2046
01:28:23,120 --> 01:28:25,040
Speaker 3: That's why you can't listen to let advice cause he's

2047
01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:25,799
Speaker 3: self serving.

2048
01:28:28,160 --> 01:28:31,799
Speaker 2: Oh okay, y'all, make sure y'all go to Poor Mines

2049
01:28:31,880 --> 01:28:34,880
Speaker 2: dot com we on tour, get the tickets.

2050
01:28:36,240 --> 01:28:37,719
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all get y'all LS cream.

2051
01:28:37,760 --> 01:28:39,800
Speaker 2: You can get it online. We'll have it available on

2052
01:28:39,880 --> 01:28:43,080
Speaker 2: tour with us. Shut out to Stephen Charles for coming through.

2053
01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:45,720
Speaker 2: We got tied in the building, making us the.

2054
01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:46,679
Speaker 1: Good dream period.

2055
01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:49,479
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all go to Music Beauty Collection dot com

2056
01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:51,599
Speaker 2: and get all your lippy knees.

2057
01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:55,160
Speaker 1: We got more merch dropping. We got so much going on.

2058
01:28:55,320 --> 01:28:59,000
Speaker 2: It's been such, you know, a fruitful year, and we

2059
01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:01,040
Speaker 2: can't wait to see y'all on tour. And y'all know

2060
01:29:01,080 --> 01:29:04,240
Speaker 2: we got to carry out karaoke coming up next, so

2061
01:29:04,280 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 2: we'll see y'all massa.

2062
01:29:07,040 --> 01:29:09,799
Speaker 4: Oh shit, he went to get the speaker.

2063
01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:12,320
Speaker 2: Come on, come on that we and also y'all make

2064
01:29:12,360 --> 01:29:14,799
Speaker 2: sure y'all leave us a voicemail. We got the number below.

2065
01:29:15,360 --> 01:29:16,960
Speaker 2: If you have something you want to get off your chest.

2066
01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:18,840
Speaker 2: This is not an advice column. This is something to

2067
01:29:18,840 --> 01:29:22,519
Speaker 2: get off your chest. Suggestions for us we have. If

2068
01:29:22,520 --> 01:29:25,040
Speaker 2: you want to write us in for advice, email us

2069
01:29:25,040 --> 01:29:26,679
Speaker 2: at ask our Minds at gmail dot com.

2070
01:29:26,800 --> 01:29:28,080
Speaker 1: Go ahead and play the voicemail.

2071
01:29:28,120 --> 01:30:02,400
Speaker 6: Tha he he can and.

2072
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:08,440
Speaker 11: I just want to charge and bulk. So I never suy.

2073
01:30:09,800 --> 01:30:13,080
Speaker 11: We were super cute. Uh syn did it because we

2074
01:30:13,160 --> 01:30:17,200
Speaker 11: were together, but he was still in me. I was

2075
01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:20,439
Speaker 11: still with him, and you know, I mean I didn't.

2076
01:30:20,920 --> 01:30:23,320
Speaker 11: I helped my leg, but I'm just saying with some

2077
01:30:23,520 --> 01:30:25,080
Speaker 11: phone and so.

2078
01:30:27,200 --> 01:30:33,320
Speaker 5: His girls reading tested me, asking hey, so I can

2079
01:30:33,400 --> 01:30:38,760
Speaker 5: get another lost in kid phone and did wonder if

2080
01:30:38,800 --> 01:30:41,600
Speaker 5: y'all did, and clearly got a.

2081
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:45,040
Speaker 11: Lot of many days now tested her back together. But

2082
01:30:47,120 --> 01:30:47,960
Speaker 11: I actually don't know.

2083
01:30:48,040 --> 01:30:48,519
Speaker 5: We didn't know.

2084
01:30:49,520 --> 01:30:53,240
Speaker 11: Maybe i'am says I can't tell. I'm like because her

2085
01:30:53,360 --> 01:30:57,400
Speaker 11: he was as of on my ause, but yeah he

2086
01:30:57,400 --> 01:30:58,120
Speaker 11: can had to cant.

2087
01:30:57,960 --> 01:30:59,680
Speaker 1: Go my hoone like if I can't tell a lot

2088
01:30:59,680 --> 01:31:03,960
Speaker 1: of it, thank you. I'm glad she ain't asked for

2089
01:31:04,040 --> 01:31:05,640
Speaker 1: no advice to be because I ain't got none to

2090
01:31:05,680 --> 01:31:05,960
Speaker 1: give you.

2091
01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:08,040
Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad she asked for no advice, But she

2092
01:31:08,080 --> 01:31:09,520
Speaker 3: says she can't tell nobody.

2093
01:31:09,280 --> 01:31:11,760
Speaker 4: And girl, it's one hundred thousand people listen to this show.

2094
01:31:13,640 --> 01:31:16,160
Speaker 1: Maybe her man don't listen. Don't be judging.

2095
01:31:16,280 --> 01:31:18,679
Speaker 4: She had to get it off of No, I'm not judging.

2096
01:31:19,120 --> 01:31:22,160
Speaker 4: I am concerned. I hope that he don't.

2097
01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:26,200
Speaker 2: Maybe her friend Rick, nobody.

2098
01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:26,640
Speaker 4: Else did know her.

2099
01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:28,920
Speaker 3: Listen to the show. Yea, hopefully somebody else. That was

2100
01:31:28,960 --> 01:31:34,600
Speaker 3: somebody else's voice, because girl, I mean, but.

2101
01:31:34,760 --> 01:31:37,200
Speaker 1: You know what, obviously she's a liar. Girl, you better lie.

2102
01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:41,800
Speaker 1: That wouldn't me bitch. You can lie, girl, you can lie.

2103
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:43,720
Speaker 2: And then if he's say, I'm gonna say this was

2104
01:31:43,800 --> 01:31:47,519
Speaker 2: from somebody in South Africa, I got your back.

2105
01:31:47,800 --> 01:31:49,439
Speaker 1: She she ain't down with the lawyers.

2106
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:51,519
Speaker 2: But thank you, girl, I'm glad you got that off

2107
01:31:51,560 --> 01:31:53,960
Speaker 2: your chest. I hope it works out for you and

2108
01:31:54,080 --> 01:31:59,000
Speaker 2: your husband. Girl, Positive vibe, positive vibes your way, and

2109
01:31:59,240 --> 01:32:00,920
Speaker 2: once again poor mind dot com.

2110
01:32:01,040 --> 01:32:03,160
Speaker 1: Get y'all tickets and we'll see y'all next week by.

2111
01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:05,719
Speaker 7: Bull Cities.

2112
01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:07,040
Speaker 1: Hey, m North Carolina.

2113
01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:10,000
Speaker 10: You know it's had July fifteen coming to the city,

2114
01:32:10,080 --> 01:32:11,479
Speaker 10: Man Dura performing out seven.

2115
01:32:11,560 --> 01:32:13,760
Speaker 7: When shit goes city, you know, at least be up there.

2116
01:32:13,840 --> 01:32:14,479
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

2117
01:32:15,840 --> 01:32:18,800
Speaker 7: Y'all get your tickets y'all you already know.

2118
01:32:20,360 --> 01:32:20,400
Speaker 1: That.

2119
01:32:20,479 --> 01:32:20,960
Speaker 7: Ain't it that?

2120
01:32:21,040 --> 01:32:21,320
Speaker 5: Ain't it?

2121
01:32:21,479 --> 01:32:21,720
Speaker 1: Do this?

2122
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:22,360
Speaker 2: Do that?

2123
01:32:22,560 --> 01:32:25,040
Speaker 7: That's the bull city right there, bullsay that's the Bull city.

2124
01:32:25,200 --> 01:32:25,400
Speaker 2: Bull.

2125
01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:28,479
Speaker 10: Yeah, we're coming too.

2126
01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:29,280
Speaker 1: They don't like that.

2127
01:32:30,760 --> 01:32:34,760
Speaker 10: July fifteen, Drunk North Carolina, Full City dorn't performing out seven.

2128
01:32:35,040 --> 01:32:37,559
Speaker 1: Trust you don't do that ship people lived there, he said,

2129
01:32:38,040 --> 01:32:38,960
Speaker 1: But let me.

2130
01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:41,840
Speaker 10: They don't like that on me like that, don't like

2131
01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:44,759
Speaker 10: it's his own the state, nor can.

2132
01:32:46,520 --> 01:32:48,639
Speaker 7: Man. It should have sound fantation that would have probably

2133
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:49,040
Speaker 7: been better.

2134
01:32:49,280 --> 01:32:53,720
Speaker 10: What you know, won't mean the out tops July fifteen, already.

2135
01:32:53,439 --> 01:32:55,960
Speaker 12: Know no put it in there, come on telling you

2136
01:32:56,080 --> 01:32:57,439
Speaker 12: come to the show that you laughed bit tax so

2137
01:32:57,520 --> 01:32:57,920
Speaker 12: they don't.

2138
01:32:57,800 --> 01:32:59,960
Speaker 1: Say we laughed. Show up to that shows you.

2139
01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:02,960
Speaker 6: Right?

2140
01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:04,599
Speaker 1: You see what she said?

2141
01:33:06,320 --> 01:33:14,639
Speaker 2: Carolina, yeahrth Carolina said, Carolina say new one.

2142
01:33:14,720 --> 01:33:15,120
Speaker 7: But it's.

2143
01:33:21,880 --> 01:33:22,559
Speaker 1: What's up y'all?

2144
01:33:22,600 --> 01:33:25,439
Speaker 3: Is your girl XP and it's show girl dre and

2145
01:33:25,479 --> 01:33:27,280
Speaker 3: the call and we just wanted to come and talk

2146
01:33:27,320 --> 01:33:29,040
Speaker 3: to y'all and let y'all know that we do have

2147
01:33:29,600 --> 01:33:33,240
Speaker 3: sponsor packages available for this tour coming up.

2148
01:33:33,400 --> 01:33:35,519
Speaker 4: Yes, for Richard for Poor two.

2149
01:33:36,600 --> 01:33:39,720
Speaker 3: We do have sponsorship packages available if you would like

2150
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Speaker 3: to be a sponsor for the live tour. All you

2151
01:33:42,680 --> 01:33:44,519
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2152
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2153
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2154
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2156
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2157
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2158
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2159
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2160
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2161
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Speaker 2: For Richard, for yes, and like she said, we have

2162
01:34:13,040 --> 01:34:16,400
Speaker 2: a different packages available for purchase, So make sure y'all

2163
01:34:16,560 --> 01:34:19,640
Speaker 2: email us Drea Alec Show at gmail dot com and

2164
01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:20,920
Speaker 2: we'll see y'all on the roads.

2165
01:34:21,160 --> 01:34:25,320
Speaker 4: Period set up.

2166
01:34:25,360 --> 01:34:29,760
Speaker 2: Oh everybody drunk out on a dance floor, just gotta lect.

2167
01:34:29,640 --> 01:34:32,479
Speaker 4: You want more. Actually a groupie, I ain't even known

2168
01:34:32,600 --> 01:34:35,759
Speaker 4: tour that I run hardcore.

2169
01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:38,320
Speaker 1: Maybe because she heard that I buy at the saw

2170
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:39,919
Speaker 1: bottom of the ninth.

2171
01:34:39,720 --> 01:34:42,280
Speaker 3: And the series got more if I got a molin

2172
01:34:42,360 --> 01:34:47,520
Speaker 3: all under the next floor, one homeboy.

2173
01:34:47,160 --> 01:34:49,280
Speaker 4: Tripping, He don't know I got a gun when it

2174
01:34:49,360 --> 01:34:51,519
Speaker 4: comes up, hot man. We knew this for fun.

2175
01:34:55,360 --> 01:35:01,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, up, tipsy.

2176
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:08,080
Speaker 6: Everybody needs the cook gets everybody six, everybody get.

2177
01:35:10,160 --> 01:35:10,360
Speaker 1: Man.

2178
01:35:10,439 --> 01:35:11,760
Speaker 6: Look, I got the stick.

2179
01:35:12,000 --> 01:35:12,880
Speaker 9: Was brought to you by.

2180
01:35:14,600 --> 01:35:14,880
Speaker 6: One.

2181
01:35:15,240 --> 01:35:20,320
Speaker 4: He come up and you can see everybody in the studio.

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Speaker 3: Is getting tipsy, clearly because we didn't even clean the words.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I want to the ball next week, drunk.

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Speaker 2: I got as go ball and they call me pick next.

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Speaker 10: I'm good at the settem Watch him big cause I'm

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Speaker 10: getting him sick.

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Speaker 1: Oh see, y'all makes

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Speaker 2: Acing okay.