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Speaker 1: Good. All right, break it down. If you ever have

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Speaker 2: M but Swayne, Sometimes the best thing you can do

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Speaker 1: This is feeling things with Amy and Kat. Happy Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Kat. And

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Speaker 1: before we get to our feeling of the day, I

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Speaker 1: thought you'd be excited to know that I have a

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Speaker 2: Okay, I am excited because.

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Speaker 1: I give you a feeling of excitement.

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Speaker 2: Yes, which I need that because my feeling is not

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Speaker 2: a pause. Well, it's not excitement today, so thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Do you wash your hands before you unload the dishwasher? No? Right?

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Speaker 1: I know pressing question, isn't it because it really makes

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Speaker 1: I purposefully wash my hands? And this is a question

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Speaker 1: then you're doing it with your dirty hands. Well I'm dirty.

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Speaker 3: Well, so I guess i'm dirty too.

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Speaker 1: You're dirty.

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Speaker 2: I thought maybe you just maybe saw me doing that

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Speaker 1: You don't do this either, no, And fun fact, I've

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Speaker 2: No, Okay, I thought maybe I was. That's never crossed

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Speaker 2: my mind. But as you said that, I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: But it's different because like, okay, you're touching a shirt

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Speaker 2: When What is so interesting I guess about that question

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a question that has never come up.

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Speaker 2: Never come up. Okay, same, cool. Well, now that actually

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Speaker 2: for my birthday, we had a game night and my

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Speaker 3: I think that maybe original host. Do you have any

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Speaker 1: That was before Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Before, before Steve Harvey, before before before.

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Speaker 1: Because before before Oh, y'all went way back.

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Speaker 2: This is from like the sixties. Okay, so did you

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Speaker 1: Which fun fact? Did you know that I was on

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Speaker 1: Family Feud with Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Stop because we looked up how to get on the show. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I went on with Bobby. We played Andy Roddick's family. Well,

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Speaker 3: Wait. Could we look that episode up and watch it?

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Speaker 3: It would be so fun to go on that show.

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Speaker 1: I got into a little tiffy tiff with Steve because

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Speaker 3: But I'll be able to see that on the episode.

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Speaker 1: You won't hear what I said, even though there are

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, that part of the game.

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Speaker 2: Then it was the guy from Home Improvement that was

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Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. Yeah, this is a long time ago,

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Speaker 2: So we had to the next host. I forgot who

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Speaker 1: Richard Dawson kiss her the host of Oh wow, he

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Speaker 1: sure does, he sure does. So that's like his thing,

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, I don't know, because what if you were

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Speaker 1: Okay, see, I know that Steve Harvey hugs his contestant

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Speaker 2: It's even not a kiss on the cheek.

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Speaker 1: It's now I'm looking at it. He's kissing. But some

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna on the show be like, oh I

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Speaker 1: Right or right? And you're a contestant. You're trying, yeah,

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Speaker 2: But even if even if nobody thought it was weird,

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Speaker 1: Well, obviously, I think eventually something evolved or they probably

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Speaker 2: Right ew No, I I hope that's not ever. I

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Speaker 2: This is very bizarre, Like why have I never It's okay,

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Speaker 2: So then now we're Last night we watched Steve Harvey

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Speaker 2: and was much better of you would experience.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's great at that, like you watch someone work

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Speaker 1: He is a good host. I have no idea about

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Okay, I have to read this. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Shannon just found us this information. The family feud Kiss

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Speaker 2: like herpies, oh God, and a desire for less politically

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Speaker 2: incorrect television, though host Richard Dawson initially tried to keep

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Speaker 2: it going by polling viewers, who overwhelmingly voted for him

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Speaker 2: to continue. It was a charming way for him to

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Speaker 2: calm the nerves of content. This is gross.

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Speaker 1: So he only kissed the women though, to be clear,

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Speaker 1: like he did the only women. What about the nervous men?

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Speaker 2: What did they do? What do you do to calm them?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to know, but probably nothing because he

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Speaker 2: Second, this also is like they would be there, It

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Speaker 2: would be like my husband. I'm here with my husband,

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Speaker 2: he's on my team, and then you would just kiss

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Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, I'm just calming your wife's nerves.

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Speaker 3: Don't worry about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Modern audiences and networks deemed it inappropriate, leading current

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Speaker 2: Respect for women of all kind from all places.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your disturbance is valid.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: This is a safe space for you to be honest.

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Speaker 1: Right, Are you just bitter because you haven't been invited

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I get it, Like there can be some

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Speaker 3: Well you don't even have Christmas lights.

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Speaker 2: Okay. I hung my Christmas lights on my old house

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Speaker 1: But how did you call.

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Speaker 3: Somebody I had dated in the past they were a

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm not capable and women aren't capable. However,

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Speaker 1: I mean, Ben and I would do trees, like I

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Speaker 3: Oh like just honestly, address is fun.

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Speaker 1: white lights. Not gonna lie shout out. I know you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your a house actually with redos. Your house looks.

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Speaker 1: I do have a holiday? Would you rather addition for you?

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Speaker 2: Do you know?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather holiday edition? Would you rather host the

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Speaker 2: Host?

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Speaker 1: Be stuck behind a slow shopper or a slow driver?

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Speaker 3: Stuck behind a slow shopper? What does that even mean?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Like you're trying to like check out the taking forever.

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Speaker 3: I went to Home Goods this weekend.

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Speaker 1: You get one perfect gift, like receive it or get

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Speaker 3: Oh I want five surprise gifts.

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Speaker 1: Okay, have candy cane breath all month or gingerbread, cookie

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 3: I'm not taking it seriously.

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Speaker 1: So you're taking this seriously. Regift something and get caught,

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Speaker 2: I would never want to be caught regifting, well unless

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Speaker 2: I like, no, no, no, I think keep a gift

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Speaker 1: But it's like, if you're gonna regift, like go through

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Speaker 2: Have you do you regift so I will give something away.

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Speaker 1: Something, that's the thing, like she my mom didn't even

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Speaker 3: That's fair and it's like a good gift and that

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Speaker 3: Well that's not regifting.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I didn't know you could do that.

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Speaker 2: So I did it to her. So she kept sending

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Speaker 2: so this is an idea for anybody else to everybody

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Speaker 2: and so then the grandma's like, oh, I used to

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Speaker 2: A blanket just like that, or like, oh I used

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Speaker 2: Great prank for somebody who is a good sport.

440
00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 3: When it comes to.

441
00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,400
Speaker 1: Who would be a bad sport about that? I don't.

442
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 2: Cry, said probably me. Well, it wasn't even like your gift.

443
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,959
Speaker 2: It was people giving it, like somebody's giving all your

444
00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 2: stuff to everybody else.

445
00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's obviously just a joke.

446
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a job.

447
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 1: Oh, speaking of being at your parents' house, to your

448
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 1: grandpa's grandparents house for the holidays, I got sucked into

449
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 1: this TikTok video of these three sisters. And they were older,

450
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 1: like maybe in my like forties their fifties age like

451
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,560
Speaker 1: when I say older, like grown out of the house,

452
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: probably had their own families, And they were tasked like

453
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,920
Speaker 1: they were either at their parents' house or their grandparents' house,

454
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 1: and they had to each go find three very random objects,

455
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 1: one each, and then they came back to the table

456
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,960
Speaker 1: and they're filming the whole thing, and then they had

457
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: to drink a cup of a sip of water and

458
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 1: hold the water in their mouth when the person reveals

459
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 1: the one item that they went and collected, and they

460
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 1: can't laugh. But you grab something so random or obscure,

461
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 1: like if you think of all the trinkets and things

462
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,639
Speaker 1: like in your parents' house, I'm sure you could find

463
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 1: something that would make one of your siblings die laughing.

464
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 2: My mom still has our baby teeth, yes.

465
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,120
Speaker 1: Like you could go collect all of your teeth. Yes,

466
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 1: when my mom died, I found my teeth in her

467
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 1: jewelry box. Why did they do that because we're also

468
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 1: we gonna put it in the trash. Yeah, I think

469
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 1: I thought it was kind of sweet. Okay that my

470
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 1: mom still had my chi Okay in a ziploc bag,

471
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 1: I can make a necklace. So but this could be

472
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 1: a fun thing to do, Like if y'all are going

473
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,640
Speaker 1: home for the holidays, get your siblings, get some water.

474
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 1: You each take a sip, and then you have to

475
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:16,199
Speaker 1: go find the most random funny thing or trinket and

476
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 1: lay it in the middle of the table. And they

477
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 1: would start laughing and they would be trying to hold

478
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 1: the water in. And I don't even know these people,

479
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,439
Speaker 1: and I'm watching them online and then they're spitting their

480
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: water and then I'm laughing. I don't know that just

481
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 1: one of those things that was funny.

482
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 2: I could do that at my mom's house because my mom,

483
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 2: like I said, she keeps everything like that brings.

484
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 1: Up feelings of like nostalgia, joy, laughter, Like this is

485
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 1: a good types of feelings that you want to have

486
00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:45,679
Speaker 1: in like a cute little activity, and who knows what

487
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 1: kind of conversations will come from that, Like oh my gosh,

488
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 1: Like one of them was this really creepy looking dull

489
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: that the girl went gathered, and another one was like

490
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 1: a picture of their brother from like back in the day,

491
00:22:55,560 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 1: looking really you know, weird, like your husband husband. I

492
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 1: was at Cat's house the other night for her birthday,

493
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 1: and she has all her ornaments on her trees, which Cat,

494
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 1: I must say, you have some solid ornaments. She has

495
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 1: like a beautiful box of cheese.

496
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 3: It's a diet coat because that's a food on my tree.

497
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: Like all, oh, they're fun. And then there's this one

498
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: picture of your husband from when he was a kid.

499
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 2: And it is sports hilarious, goggles on.

500
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 1: Yes, and he's just like a little chunky cute And

501
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: I was like, Cat.

502
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 2: What is this?

503
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: And he gave that to you.

504
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: You go, did you make this? I was like, no,

505
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 2: he put this in my stocking the first year we

506
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 2: were dating. I'll have to post a picture of it.

507
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: It's so funny. And the reason I found that picture

508
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 2: is because when I went to his mom's for the

509
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 2: first time, she was like, oh, let's go look through

510
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 2: Patrick's baby book. It's like something late.

511
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: The first time it went to her house.

512
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 2: She the first time I met her, it was just

513
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 2: like the first time I went to her house. Okay,

514
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 2: because a lot of their family stuff they do other

515
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,879
Speaker 2: people's houses, so I'm looking through them and I was like,

516
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 2: this is the cutest photo I've ever seen of any

517
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 2: kid in the world. Yeah, it's pretty cute, so that

518
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 2: could be something people would not be able to hold

519
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 2: the water.

520
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 3: And if I put that picture of.

521
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: Speaking of things to hug and squeeze ins, we're talking

522
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: about gifts. This might be something special like depending on

523
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: the age range of your kids. But I will say

524
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: my daughter's eighteen, so this could work for older kids too.

525
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 1: I had never thought of this, but Ben and I

526
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: took Stashira to build a bear the other day and

527
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 1: she had us record our voices into one of the

528
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 1: little things, which I'm sure parents of young kids y'all

529
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: know that y'all can do this, But I don't remember

530
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: paying much attention to build a bear and what all

531
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,719
Speaker 1: they can do. I think we took the kids there,

532
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: maybe right after we adopted them, but I don't know

533
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: that we did the whole recording and that whole thing. Yeah,

534
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: but she picked out the bear, and then the way

535
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: they stuff it is so cool.

536
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 3: How you jumping, do you?

537
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 1: Yeah? And they like talk to it and then you

538
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: put a little heart inside of it. But anyway, Ben

539
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 1: and I a little recorded message inside her build a

540
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: bear for her, and it was so sweet. And I

541
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: think it's something that she she asked for, but I

542
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: think she was Yeah, it was her idea. But also

543
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: that makes me think that just because they're eighteen, or

544
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: if you've got kids that are going off to college,

545
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: like I don't know, they may on the surface be like, oh,

546
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,959
Speaker 1: what this is lame, But to be able to go

547
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 1: to bed at night and press a button and hear

548
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: your parent's voice and then saying something encouraging to you. Yeah,

549
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 1: And then she asked for one from her grandparents too.

550
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 1: It's from Ben's parents. Those are her only living I

551
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: don't how many on my side, but anyway, gift idea

552
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 1: of like for grandparents or parents is something special to

553
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: do no matter the age of your kid, because you

554
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: never know when they might need to press that button.

555
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really sweet and hear your voice.

556
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 3: That was her idea.

557
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

558
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: I guess it's something that she thought would be helpful

559
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: for her or maybe that came up with like some

560
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: friends recently. I don't know, but yeah, it was her idea.

561
00:25:58,320 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: We were at dinner and then she was like, do

562
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: we have time to go to build a pair And

563
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: you're like sure, and we were like okay, so we

564
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: went and we did it. Yeah, it was just me

565
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: Bens to share a little special time for her. We

566
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: got gelato and hung out and talked and kids, they

567
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 1: surprise you. You never know. We do have.

568
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 3: Was that the whole would you rather?

569
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, I'm not done? Well, got derailed? Okay, Wow

570
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: we have more?

571
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm ready.

572
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:34,719
Speaker 1: Okay, wear in itchy holiday sweater or matching pajamas that

573
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 1: don't fit well.

574
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,479
Speaker 3: As long as the pajamas are too big, I'd rather

575
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 3: wear that.

576
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

577
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: Listen to the same Christmas song all season long, same

578
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: one or no holiday music at.

579
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 2: All, same one, because I like the same I do

580
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 2: the thing where I listened to the same song over

581
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 2: and over and over again even Christmas. Well, I have

582
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 2: a Christmas playlist that I always play, and I only

583
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 2: like like three of the songs on it.

584
00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 1: So yeah, have cold toes all month or dry cracked

585
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: hands all month. I fit cold toes.

586
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 2: I hate cold feet, though, I always have to have socks.

587
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can get toe warmers or something, but

588
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: they're cold, dry cracked hands.

589
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: But you can't have toe warmers because your toes have

590
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 2: to be cold.

591
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,959
Speaker 1: I just not say anything in this game about not

592
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: being able to manipulate the cold toes.

593
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: Cold tops cold, but if cold, if you put toe

594
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 2: wars toe warmers on, then your toes aren't cold anymore. Uh,

595
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 2: I'm thinking too deep about this. I think the toes,

596
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 2: but it hurts me to say that. Okay, yeah, it's

597
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 2: not real. It's not real.

598
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to wear gloves all month, it's not real.

599
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,959
Speaker 1: Untangled Christmas lights or wrap twenty weird shaped gifts with

600
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: no boxes.

601
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 2: Oh, I want to wrap the weird gifts with no boxes.

602
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 2: I love wrapping presents you do at Christmas time. At

603
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 2: Christmas time, I get really into it. And I watched

604
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 2: the because you've if you go on TikTok, there's like

605
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 2: accounts that teach you how to wrap weird shaped things

606
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 2: in cute ways. And like I learned how to wrap

607
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 2: shirts to look like it's a shirt. You're looking it's like,

608
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 2: so like a shirt, yeah, and like a like a

609
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 2: neck and a tie and like, oh that's kind of cute. Yeah,

610
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 2: So I'd rather do that.

611
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: Well, the more, you know, Speaking of clothes, and we

612
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: talked about washing your hands earlier before the dishwasher. What

613
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 1: about clothes, Like if you get new clothes as a gift.

614
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: Do you wash the clothes before you wear them? No?

615
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 3: I feel like we talked about this recently.

616
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: We did.

617
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: It could have just been personally, Oh, because you love

618
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:33,959
Speaker 2: washing stuff as soon as you get it.

619
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: Oh, maybe we did talk this. I do have digitalv

620
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: right now.

621
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

622
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: It just came up because we're talking about new clothes

623
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: and we were washing hands, and maybe I was curious. Again. Yeah,

624
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: I will ideally like to wash the item before. I

625
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: guess it depends. If it's a shirt, I like to

626
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: wash it. If it's jeans, no way, I'm throwing it on.

627
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: It's fine, Okay.

628
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: If it's a swimsuit, I don't wash.

629
00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 2: Even swimsuits, which is gross now that I'm I'm gross.

630
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 2: I haven't washed my hands before I put my dishes away,

631
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 2: and I don't watch my swimsuits after.

632
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 1: I underwear, you don't wear underwear.

633
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 3: I'm not wearing underwear.

634
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: But what about underwear though? You watched that, right, Let's.

635
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: Just say, let's just say I've never thought to do that.

636
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: I've never have. People don't People don't try underwear on.

637
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 3: What if they do, well, I'm not buying that kind Yeah.

638
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 2: I know you try what and if you would turn

639
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 2: underward to Victoria's secret, they throw it away. What they

640
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: can't take back undern has tags on it. Yeah, because

641
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 2: like I don't think they keep Yeah, I heard it.

642
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: I heard a legend that they throw it away really

643
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 2: or that maybe maybe the workers get to keep it.

644
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 2: I don't know that I would want to because like

645
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 2: you don't know, you don't know.

646
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 1: Exactly, you don't know. That's my point, Like you you

647
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: don't know, you.

648
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: No, I never thought about Okay, I've never thought about sheets,

649
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 2: you know the answer. I'm not watching my underwear. I'm

650
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 2: not watching my bed.

651
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: Wait, brand new bed sheets, you're gonna just put them on?

652
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: But they're in a package.

653
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't know like chemicals and stuff.

654
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: I think maybe I'm just making up. I think you're

655
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 2: just Yeah, the underwear. I think you do have a

656
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 2: point there. I probably should. But if you buy underwear

657
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 2: that's in like a package, like you know how men's

658
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 2: underwear usually comes in like a pack, would you watch that? Yeah,

659
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 2: even though there's definitely nobody's put it on before.

660
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what else is in there? Or what dare

661
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: somebody do before? Like we're at like answer, Like the

662
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: people that work these places are just all law abtings.

663
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 2: They're probably washing their they probably have to wash their

664
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 2: hands before they start work that day.

665
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: Sure yeah yeah, see I feel like my luck, I'll

666
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,959
Speaker 1: get the discrundled employee that sprinkled the underwear with like

667
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: anthrupt some crazy thing or some like ghost pepper powder

668
00:30:58,240 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: or something.

669
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 2: Okay, but okay, here's my Okay, wait you are I

670
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 2: would want to wear those because then I can sue

671
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: them and become a millionaire. Oh yeah, you're taking away

672
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 2: opportunities to make money.

673
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: Okay. See I'm not a very re litigious person, so

674
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: I don't think of lawsuits right away.

675
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 2: But if you, I'm like, I've never ever seed somebody.

676
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: But but you're just waiting for the right.

677
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 2: I'm waiting for somebody to put ghost pepper or powder

678
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: in my under okay.

679
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: Shannon said that yes, Victoria's Secret generally destroys returned underwear,

680
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: especially if they appear worn, soiled, soiled, or unsellable for

681
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: hygiene and safety, marking them as damaged out.

682
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: Okay, I want somebody if they've worked at like a

683
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: Victoria's Secret or like an Airy or something like that,

684
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 2: where they're like no or a Soma where they're that's

685
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 2: what they do is underwear. Can you say, like, man,

686
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 2: these look soiled, like like we're not liking to the customer. Yes,

687
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 2: if somebody's returning underwear and I can, I'm like, family,

688
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: these look like you wore them. I can. I can't

689
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 2: take these like or do you just have to be like.

690
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: Oh okay, like is this the tag still on them?

691
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you could somebody could put them on with

692
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 2: the tag okay, or like I guess they should have.

693
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 2: Is the rule that has to have the tag on them?

694
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: My question is can you confront somebody and say like,

695
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 2: I'm not taking these back.

696
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: Or are you supposed to just like customers always right?

697
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 3: Yeah?

698
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: Well, because when I worked to them, all we weren't

699
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 2: allowed to, Like, if somebody was stealing something and you

700
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: knew that they were stealing it, you weren't allowed to

701
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 2: say anything.

702
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah lost prevention. You're supposed to just let them go.

703
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: You're not supposed to chase after them, and one time

704
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: I did ooh tell us.

705
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 2: More So, I worked at Limited Too growing up, and

706
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: it was just me and my boss, and I'd worked

707
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 2: there for like three years at this point, so I

708
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 2: thought I was pretty confident in my job, and when

709
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: people would come in to steal, you could tell because

710
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 2: a lot of times they had like big bags they

711
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 2: were aligned with like a little four oil or something whatever.

712
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 2: And so these ladies came in and you could you

713
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 2: knew that they were stealing.

714
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 3: You knew it. We could sew them and.

715
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 2: They need foil bag. Well that's for censors, I guess.

716
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: So I don't know if it works like I written

717
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 2: a legend, but they knew that. We knew too, because

718
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 2: when you noticed somebody doing that, what you're supposed to

719
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 2: do is just or this was fifteen years ago, what

720
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 2: we were supposed to do back then is just give

721
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 2: them extra customer service and just kind of follow them

722
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 2: around the store. And so I saw this woman put

723
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 2: this she was baiting me. I saw this woman put

724
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 2: something in her bag, and so I said, like, my

725
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 2: manager's name whatever, her name, I don't remember who was there.

726
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 2: Let's say her name was Angela. Angela. She put something

727
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 2: in her bag, and the woman looked at me like

728
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 2: the stealer droplifter, and she goes, honey, I think she

729
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 2: called me baby, baby, I ain't got to steal nothing,

730
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: and reached into her bra and to her shirt, down

731
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 2: her shirt and just pulled out lobs of money and

732
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: threw on the table and I blacked out. After that,

733
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 2: I guess she gathered her money and left. But of

734
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 2: course when she left, all those sirens went off, and

735
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, this might be a

736
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 2: core wound of mine because I remember being so upset

737
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 2: that like somebody could do that, like purposely get away

738
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 2: with it.

739
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 3: I just my the justice meter.

740
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 2: Was going off. I wanted to be like, somebody catch

741
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 2: her you like they do in the yeah, the movies.

742
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 2: But I got a lecture from my manager about that.

743
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:32,879
Speaker 2: She's like, don't ever do that again.

744
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: It's something she could have doing it to you. She

745
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: was doing it as Limited Too, which technically then she's

746
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: doing it to the owner of Limited, which technically also

747
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: is he Like, wasn't he even bad?

748
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 2: I was, well, I don't know that.

749
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: We were the guy in Ohio.

750
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 2: The Limited and limited To were not the same company anymore.

751
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 2: By that point they were separated. It limited To was

752
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 2: its own entity.

753
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: Also, I'm not saying just because someone is bad that

754
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: is the CEO or owner that now you can treat

755
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 1: it however you want.

756
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just where.

757
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: My brain went imediately went to the owner of like

758
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: Victoria's Secret, you know the guy in Ohio that girl

759
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,399
Speaker 1: wrote a song about it.

760
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 2: Like oh yes, yeah.

761
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah ye. Like I'm not even gonna say because

762
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: this is such a buzzword right now, but I want

763
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 1: to say this is allegedly and this is from my brain.

764
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm not quoting it because I need to look.

765
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 2: At Jack's was her name, Jes Singer.

766
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: She wrote song.

767
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 2: Yes.

768
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 1: I met her in Vegas once and I was like,

769
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 1: I love your song. She was a iHeart festival. Wasn't

770
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: he one of the guys like tied up with like Epstein.

771
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't know that.

772
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: Let me look it up.

773
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 2: That is true. I've never heard that, or maybe I've

774
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 2: just ignored it. I locked out in my brain. But

775
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 2: I think your point too, is that, like, it's not

776
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 2: like that woman was stealing from me, but I still

777
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: felt so strongly about it. My boss said she could

778
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: have had a gun. Don't ever do that again, was

779
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 2: her point, because when she reached into her shirt, she

780
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 2: could have been reaching for a gun. And would that

781
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 2: be worth it? No, not at all. That's why they

782
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 2: just let them steal the merchandise.

783
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: Okay. Les Wexner, the billionaire founder of L Brands, which

784
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: is the parent company of Victoria's Secret and Bath and

785
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: body Works, had a decades long personal and professional relationship

786
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: with convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein.

787
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 2: Oh okay.

788
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:27,800
Speaker 1: Epstein served as Wexner's personal money manager and was given

789
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: board powers, including power of attorney, over Wexner's finances. Now

790
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: that is does not mean he knew exactly what Epstein

791
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: was up to, but I knew there was a connection. Yeah,

792
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 1: good memory, Thank you brain for not being wrong on that,

793
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: because I don't ever want to like tie people to

794
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 1: him unnecessarily.

795
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 2: But yeah, they I thought her song was just like

796
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 2: about like a man owned Victuaria's Secret, Like this is crazy.

797
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 1: It is I was tying multiple things together. I don't

798
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: think she was singing about or anything of that, but

799
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 1: just sort of that the standards of who Victorious Secret

800
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 1: is was created by a man. Yeah, and like what

801
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: women were thinking they needed to be before Victoria's Secret diversified.

802
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 1: I think since then they have become more diverse, are

803
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: they in their representation at the time? Yeah, Like I

804
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: go in the mall and there's pictures of Okay. I

805
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: think it's like when the Victoria's Secret catalog first started

806
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: getting mailed out, it was like one type of woman.

807
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: Now the fashion show, I don't know how, I don't know.

808
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: I don't really watch that. Do you watch the Victoria's

809
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 1: Secret Fashion Show?

810
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: I've ever watched it.

811
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I guess I just see clips later. Yeah, we

812
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: do have an email, Okay to close things out now, Kat.

813
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: Before I read the email, I will say this is her,

814
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: not me, And she did save some kind words about

815
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: my son Stevenson and him raising money for Haiti with

816
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: the running a couple of weeks ago. So there's that.

817
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: I won't read that part. We're going to focus on

818
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: something else. But this is her, not me, Okay, you Ai,

819
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,720
Speaker 1: Me and Kat. I'm a longtime listener and generally enjoy

820
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: your podcasts. Regarding the podcast from twelve one, twenty twenty five,

821
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: titled Inconvenient Truth, Amy came in hot with a great

822
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 1: subject about needing to cry. Why did Kat keep derailing

823
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: this subject, even to the point of Kat talking about

824
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,879
Speaker 1: lipstick after Amy said something compelling about what she said

825
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: to her boyfriend in the ride from the airport. This

826
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: could have been a very compelling and very helpful podcast

827
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: episode Thank You and Happy Holidays. I don't know. I

828
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm asking if you know what she's talking about.

829
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: But also you knew we were going to read the

830
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 1: email to You're not like, I'm not like springing this

831
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: on you. We both decided let's read this to be like,

832
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 1: was there something compelling? Because I don't know. I know

833
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: that I was talking about how when I went to

834
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: pick up my boyfriend, I know that my feeling of

835
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: the day was I feel like I need to cry.

836
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 1: And then my ride with my boyfriend was that he

837
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: was not having a fun ride. I went to pick

838
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 1: him up, I went out of my way inconvenience to

839
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 1: myself to pick him up. And then he said I

840
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:09,360
Speaker 1: was creating a not fun environment. Well, which is true.

841
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 3: Sorry, I don't want to do I'm not gonna.

842
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 2: Derail you because I'm having thoughts. I'm sorry, were you

843
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 2: done well?

844
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 1: I could easily do that to you a lot. So

845
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 1: if any listeners ever get like frustrated because Kat and

846
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't finish a certain thought, because one of us

847
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: can show us well, first of all, no, that we're

848
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 1: not doing it on purpose. We both have ADHD not

849
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: using that as an excuse, but we derail our conversations

850
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: equally the same, like even ourselves, Like I might derail

851
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 1: my own conversation, I might derail one of Cat's thoughts

852
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: and vice versa. So if we do that, we would

853
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: love to circle back, but we might need more info

854
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 1: about where you think we were going or where we

855
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: were going to go, and maybe we never meant So

856
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 1: this is more of a PSA and sorry, this is

857
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 1: work for you listener or any listener out there that

858
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: if we don't circle back to something, if you want

859
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: to email us like and you have more details, remind

860
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: us and then maybe we can pick back up.

861
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to because I watched that back because

862
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,479
Speaker 2: I have to edit the video. So I'm like, maybe

863
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 2: I wasn't paying attention, or maybe I thought you were,

864
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 2: or maybe I wonder sometimes because sometimes I know stories

865
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 2: that you're telling, so I'm like, I wonder if in

866
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 2: my head, I'm like, oh I've heard this, not like

867
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it again, but like I

868
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 2: think that you've said something but that you hadn't, but

869
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 2: I just know because you already told me. So I

870
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 2: want to say I'm sorry if I railed you, because

871
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: I do remember bringing my lipstick up, and I'm like, well,

872
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: did I bring that up in the middle of an

873
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: important story, because that would be annoying. I'm sorry, was it?

874
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: Because yeah, it was a little lipstick you were excited

875
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 1: about because it changed colors.

876
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 3: We didn't really change colors.

877
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: I just like the way it looked to your pH though, didn't.

878
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: It It felt like that one. Okay, it had the

879
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 2: same texture, but it don't. I think it looks different

880
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,879
Speaker 2: on people because people skin tones are different.

881
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: Oh, I know. Was it clinique?

882
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

883
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,439
Speaker 1: Oh so then and then I derailed and started talking

884
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: about my former stepmom how she got mad at my

885
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: dad for buying me clinque powder, so you never know, like, yeah,

886
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: then we go on a total different trajectory because you know,

887
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 1: my dad's only supposed to buy me Mabelene because I'm

888
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: a high schooler.

889
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so.

890
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: Now I have uncomfortable feelings when I go past the

891
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,919
Speaker 1: clinique powder or stand the mall.

892
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 2: Oh I have a question, and this is a little bit.

893
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna do it.

894
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 3: This is us. I had this thought earlier and.

895
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,359
Speaker 2: It didn't come out when you get and it makes

896
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 2: me think of Clinique made me think of it when

897
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: you get a gift with purchase, When you're buying a

898
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 2: gift for somebody, do you give the person that you're

899
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 2: buying the gift that free gift with purchase.

900
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:50,760
Speaker 3: Or do you keep it for yourself?

901
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: Depends what it is.

902
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 2: I like your answer. You're like, hey, if I want it,

903
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 2: I'll keep it if I don't want to give it

904
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 2: to them, right, because I bought something for my nieces.

905
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 2: I only got one gift with purchase, but I bought

906
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 2: two things, and I said like, shoot, like, I guess

907
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 2: I'll just figure out how I need to give this

908
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 2: to them, or maybe I'll keep it for I don't

909
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 2: know what I said, but Patrick was like, technically that

910
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 2: free gift belongs to them.

911
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't.

912
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 2: Oh, technically you bought it. I only got it because

913
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 2: I bought somebody else something. Yeah, but you bought it, Okay.

914
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 2: I like the way you're thinking. So I was like, shoot,

915
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 2: I'm so selfish.

916
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: No, No, I think it depends. Okay, I don't think

917
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: it means it belongs to them. You bought them the

918
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: gift that you intended to buy them, and then because

919
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,760
Speaker 1: your money paid for their gift, you get the free gift.

920
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 3: Okay, so for you, it's definitely mine.

921
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I think. I think it depends on

922
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: how you want to look at it. But if I

923
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: were a judge, I'd be like, it's yours.

924
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, the good news is I don't really want this.

925
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 2: I'm going to give it to them. But I just

926
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,359
Speaker 2: was like, am I thinking about this wrong? Am I

927
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 2: being selfish?

928
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: No?

929
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 3: Okay?

930
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: Like I ordered my daughter some stuff from free People,

931
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: and it said if you spent a certain amount, you'll

932
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: you'd get like if you sent spent a certain amount,

933
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: you got free money, like a gift card back to

934
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: free People. Well, so everything I bought her was for

935
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,959
Speaker 1: her for Christmas? So should she get the gift card

936
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: that they emailed me?

937
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 2: So my husband would say yes, but I think I'm like, no,

938
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 2: I want that.

939
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: No, they're sending it to me. They're sending me a

940
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: gift card for the money I spent.

941
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I get what you're saying. I like your lot.

942
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: But it was genius of them because I did end

943
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: up adding to my order so that I could get

944
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 1: the gift card.

945
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, they all get you that way.

946
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 1: They get you. Oh yeah, okay, so it's that free people.

947
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:40,839
Speaker 1: I think they still have it going on right now,

948
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: like even while you're listening to this, but TVD apparently

949
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: coming up on December seventeenth, they're going to email me

950
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 1: my gift card?

951
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 3: Is it good?

952
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, cat cryokat saying that their their word

953
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,439
Speaker 1: is good for it and it's one hundred and fifty dollars. Yeah,

954
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: I got exist.

955
00:43:58,640 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 2: This is such good marketing.

956
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:01,800
Speaker 3: Now I'm gonna go buy something I don't need.

957
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: It, and then you have to now here is also

958
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: where they get you. You're gonna get it in your

959
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: email on December seventeenth, when I believe by January tenth.

960
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 2: But I can do that.

961
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 3: Well, like so can I.

962
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 2: But like I love having a gift card in my wallet,

963
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 2: like being like spend me, you have money to go.

964
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 3: I like looking forward to it.

965
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: But if there's a deadline, isn't it nice that you

966
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: actually will, yeah, be forced to do it, because then

967
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: sometimes like I forget about it and yeah.

968
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 2: Shoot, I did all my Christmas shoping already you're done.

969
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 3: I need one more thing for my dad.

970
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 2: Dad's a really hard shop for in my dad's birthdays,

971
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 2: the twentieth and then Christmas, so I have to get

972
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 2: more things for him. Yeah, but then yeah I'm done.

973
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, look at you.

974
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 2: Good job. Thanks.

975
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, wash your hands before you unload the dishwasher.

976
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 1: I think that's is that our main takeaway from.

977
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,839
Speaker 3: Wash your hands today, Wash your underwear when you buy it.

978
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: Wash your hands, wash your underwear. I'm trying to think

979
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: a third and that makes you think of what's who's

980
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: that guy? His name was like Dshawn, Oh oh you

981
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: and your you know? He said, you know you had

982
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: your husbands hid, your kids had your wives? Hai'd your

983
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: kids had your husbands? Maybe raving everybody up in here.

984
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 3: He was on the news, something so different for you.

985
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 2: I was singing of the guy that says like, take

986
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 2: care of your family, your chicken and your mentals.

987
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 1: What is that? Well, what is yours?

988
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 2: I don't remember now, I don't know.

989
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 3: It's like some some athlete.

990
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 2: It was like a saying like take care of your money,

991
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 2: your chicken, and your mentals.

992
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: What are your mentals like your brain, your.

993
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,879
Speaker 2: Mental health or something? And chicken maybe with chicken stand

994
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 2: for family. I could have actually made chicken up. I

995
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 2: remember there's something.

996
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,800
Speaker 1: Do you say children or chicken chicken?

997
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 3: I don't know.

998
00:45:56,480 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: And Marshaun Lynch, the football player, said, I'm just here

999
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: so I don't get fined.

1000
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 2: Wait, really, I don't know anything about So he was.

1001
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: At a press conference once and I guess they were

1002
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: trying to ask him a question. He was like, I

1003
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 1: guess if you don't go to the press conference, you

1004
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 1: get a fine. And so he just looked at me

1005
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: and he goes, I'm just here, so don't get fine.

1006
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: Good for him being honest. Wait, do we know what

1007
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,479
Speaker 2: it was that he said? Yes, that's right. He said,

1008
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 2: take care of your money, your chickens, and your mentals. Well,

1009
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 2: now I need to know what I think chicken chickens

1010
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 2: is like your family.

1011
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 3: What else would it be. It couldn't be actual chickens.

1012
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 2: Oh your bread? Well then he says money twice. Then

1013
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 2: well that's our because we're a new sign off.

1014
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: Take care of your money, your chickens, and your mentals.

1015
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 2: Amen, it doesn't have the same.

1016
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,720
Speaker 1: Have the mentals you need to have, have the chicken

1017
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: you need to have. Well, we know, have control of

1018
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: our chicken.

1019
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 2: You're right, Well, kind of you kind of.

1020
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: Do over your your chicken attitude.

1021
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 3: My money attitude.

1022
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's okay.

1023
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 1: I need to know if people really prefer to money

1024
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: as chicken, because I'm gonna do that. And you're like, oh,

1025
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:00,760
Speaker 1: I gotta go make that chicken.

1026
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 2: I kind of like that better than bread.

1027
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:05,439
Speaker 1: Gotta go make that chicken.

1028
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 2: To make that chicken, I gotta get my chicken from

1029
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: free people.

1030
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, you get a one hundred bitchy chickens, but you

1031
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:13,280
Speaker 1: have to spend some chicken.

1032
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 2: You got to spend some chicken to make some chicken.

1033
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: You have to spend some chicken to make the chicken.

1034
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: But I will say in order to what you have

1035
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: to spend, you're sort of getting it back, but you're

1036
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: not getting it back in cash. You're getting it back

1037
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: and spending more of fruit people.

1038
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 3: But it's like half off a place.

1039
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:28,879
Speaker 1: Share literally had stuff on her Christmas list from free people,

1040
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, that's a win, and that's

1041
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: my money. The money I'm getting back that I spent

1042
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: on her is mine.

1043
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 3: It's not okay.

1044
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then yeah, do y'all know the guy on

1045
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: the news like, I haven't found that part yet, but yeah,

1046
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: I remember that. You know what I'm talking about. To

1047
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: take care of yourself. It's dangerous out there. Dangerous out there,

1048
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,439
Speaker 1: and hit us up. We want to hear from you.

1049
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: You can leave us a voicemail eight seven seven two

1050
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: oh seven two oh seven seven, or you can Emil

1051
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: Malice hey there at Feeling Things podcast dot com and

1052
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: we'll see you on Thursday for couch talks.

1053
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 2: Half the day.

1054
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: Sorry I cut you off, you derailed us. Sorry, half

1055
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: the day you need to have Bye bye