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Speaker 1: I discovered my parents are cousins and I want to

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Speaker 1: have a baby, but I don't want it to be

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Speaker 1: a deformed monster. Should I tell my boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: You know, the decisions you have to make in a relationship, like, hey, boyfriend, we.

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Speaker 1: Might have a deformed monster as a baby. A deformed

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Speaker 1: monster baby.

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Speaker 2: I can't even I can't even get that sentence out

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Speaker 2: without laugh.

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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, you know, you know how I said

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Speaker 1: I had a close family? Wow? Who? Well, let me

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Speaker 1: just say sweet? How I ama? Okay? So I twenty

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Speaker 1: two female, was adopted as an infant and never really

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Speaker 1: knew much about my biological family since it was a

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Speaker 1: closed adoption. I wonder why it was a closed adoption,

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Speaker 1: dirty secrets hiding behind the others adoption papers? Yeah? What hid?

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Speaker 1: What you hide? Incest? I received infrequent letters and photos

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Speaker 1: from my biological mother, and I connected with my mother,

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Speaker 1: half sister, and aunt during my freshman year of high school. Family.

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Speaker 1: I still really didn't know anything about my family because

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Speaker 1: my biological mother is a chronic liar, great sick. However,

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Speaker 1: she did tell me that my father was no longer

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Speaker 1: around and had no interest in meeting me. Well damn, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's all right, just laying it all out. I talked

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Speaker 1: to my half sister and she said that she was

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Speaker 1: told by our grandmother that it was due to him

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Speaker 1: being a familial relation. And so I got down to

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Speaker 1: doing some research. If you're gonna do research on some

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Speaker 1: like family members and see, like, all right, what are

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Speaker 1: they up to, who are they related to, what kind

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Speaker 1: of like you know, what kind of crimes they've done,

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Speaker 1: you should definitely research it on public data check.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she could have looked her up to find out

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Speaker 2: who her grandmother actually was, Like, she could have found

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Speaker 2: her name, her address, even if there's a criminal record, Like,

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Speaker 2: you got to use public data check for this stuff.

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Speaker 1: So if you want to snoop on your friends and family,

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Speaker 1: go to the Lincoln bio check out Public Data Check.

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Speaker 1: That's where you get all your sneaky, sneaky information. So ope,

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Speaker 1: he did the research and she was able to corroborate

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Speaker 1: with DNA testing that he is indeed my mother's first cousin. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: that was shocking and I feel like my existence was

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Speaker 1: a mistake.

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Speaker 2: Damn, my existence was a mistake. Yeah, jeezuz, oh guy

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Speaker 2: and Opie didn't know, you know.

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Speaker 1: We didn't know, but now he knows that they are

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Speaker 1: an incests baby. Hopefully they're not like fucked up block.

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Speaker 1: You know that he goes into it. So I've been

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Speaker 1: struggling with it. Thankfully, from what I've read, there's very

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Speaker 1: minimal genetic overlap in that kind of relationship, and they

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Speaker 1: don't have any medical issues. So basically you can have

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Speaker 1: sex with the custos. Hey, everyone in Alabama is cheering

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Speaker 1: right now, Editors, you know what to do. I do

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Speaker 1: wear contacts. Fuck, I wear contacts. I do have HDA ADHD.

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Speaker 1: I think I probably have ADHD generalized anxiety disorder and

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Speaker 1: auditory processing disorder, and I'm prone to getting lung infections.

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Speaker 1: Mother smoke while pregnant, but none of these are major

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Speaker 1: in the slightest and I have very normal, albeit a

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Speaker 1: slightly more anxious life.

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Speaker 2: So there's nothing you want to tell us.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm an incest baby. I'll put it

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Speaker 1: on the record. I don't care. But although I have

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Speaker 1: not looked up my parents a public data check yet,

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Speaker 1: to do it, dude, Yeah, I have to do it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we both you know, we throw our hats into

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Speaker 2: the ring on public data check.

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Speaker 1: Are you an incest baby check out right, public data

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Speaker 1: check two? Game show coming to you? Oh god, I

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Speaker 1: feel like that's worse than what's the Who's Your Daddy?

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Speaker 1: Game show? Or like are you the father? Oh? Oh yeah, Maury, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like are you an incest baby? Is a

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Speaker 1: worse show, way worse. Yeah, are you an incest baby?

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Speaker 1: Find out tonight at seven. I'm in a relationship right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how long it'll lasts, or if it'll last.

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Speaker 1: I would love to eventually marry him, but I'm twenty two,

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Speaker 1: and I'm made a realist here. You know, sometimes when

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Speaker 1: you're twenty two, relationships don't work out. You know, would

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Speaker 1: I be the a hole if I didn't tell him

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Speaker 1: since there's virtually no chance our kids would have issues?

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Speaker 1: But I'm also scared that he would break up with

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Speaker 1: me because of it. And if, and before anyone makes

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Speaker 1: any Kentucky role tide jokes, my biological family is from Ashland, Kentucky,

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Speaker 1: and my life is a meme. At this point, I thought.

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Speaker 2: They were going to say, like, it's not true, that

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Speaker 2: it's very true, Marilynd Okay, no, it is confirmed.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, there are some clarifications in an update oh so.

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Speaker 1: My mother said she didn't know she and my father

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Speaker 1: were related growing up. She never knew her mother's side

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Speaker 1: of the family, as my grandmother abandoned them for a

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Speaker 1: second family. Damn, so real. There's so much showing on here.

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Speaker 1: My parents were very much in love and dated as teenagers.

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Speaker 1: They just had so much in common, you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: just like in school our blood. They went to the

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Speaker 1: same high school and they didn't look related in the

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Speaker 1: slightest or share the same last name. My mother found

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Speaker 1: out when Grandma got a divorce and came back into

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Speaker 1: her life. I think my parents were eighteen or nineteen,

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Speaker 1: right after high school. As for the boyfriend, the boyfriend

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Speaker 1: and the op have been together for a year, which

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Speaker 1: isn't long, but again can see it leading to marriage.

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Speaker 1: He's not Americans who were probably not related. Trying to

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Speaker 1: keep this one out of a family and three. Views

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Speaker 1: of incest are a bit different here in America for

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Speaker 1: you non Americans, especially since I live in a very

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Speaker 1: religious family. My family are strict Catholics, and it's not

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Speaker 1: illegal everywhere, but it is in some states. What I

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Speaker 1: would like to the record to be kept straight, not

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Speaker 1: all Americans can done incest. My views of incest are

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Speaker 1: still Maine.

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Speaker 2: Speak for yourself, okay, representing Florida.

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Speaker 1: He yo, come on, your cousin, don't don't please, don't

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Speaker 1: don't do it, or at least look them up on

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Speaker 1: public data check to see how related they actually go exactly.

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Speaker 1: So should op tell her boyfriend? Yeah, yeah, Opie should

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Speaker 1: really wait. Let me think.

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Speaker 2: Actually, actually I don't think it matters. I completely reverse

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Speaker 2: what I just said.

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Speaker 1: Like I think it's like I feel like it should

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Speaker 1: be fine if it comes out if like, but it's

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Speaker 1: not like you're I don't think it's like necessary.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, Opie said, like they did their homework

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Speaker 2: and it seems like there's no health risk or anything.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, if that's the case. And also like

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Speaker 2: early in the relationship, I could see more so where

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Speaker 2: it's like getting more serious and heading towards marriage, and

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Speaker 2: it's like, hey, I want to be honest, but I

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Speaker 2: at this stage your relationship, I definitely don't think I agree.

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Speaker 1: I agree. It's just such an awkward conversation, like how

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Speaker 1: do you bring that up?

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Speaker 2: Or you just you just lean all the way in

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Speaker 2: and you're like, I'm leaving you for my cousin.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: It's a family, traditional family tradition, alright.

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Speaker 1: What that we're wrapping up so you