WEBVTT - Love Taps 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:08.480 Find Out and podcast. So something happened to me the 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:09.840 other day in the parking lot that I want to 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:16.040 bring up. Oh, it's parking lot etiquette. Parking lot etiquette. Oh, 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:21.760 I know one of them the um what's those things called? Oh, 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:26.119 the shopping carts. If you don't return your cart the 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:29.600 buggy as some people would say parts of the country, 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:33.640 that's like a southern southern Oh I've never heard that before. Okay, 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:36.279 so what's your thing. Well, first of all, we can 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:42.480 touch on that. I'm good because you're that one. Well, 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:46.800 now it's so annoying put them away. Now, it's so frustrated. 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:49.880 I hate when people don't put away the shopping carts 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:52.360 in the designated spots, when they just leave them in 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:56.560 an empty parking space. That drives me insane. Well, and 0:00:56.600 --> 0:00:59.760 so I've conditioned Janna to start walking back the shopping 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:05.000 cart because before it's hard with kids though, that's why 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.360 either put them in the car and then do it. Great, 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:09.080 So then you leave the kids in the car. Well, 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:11.600 here's the thing. I always bought. Park close to one 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:14.400 of those, like next the spot next to it, or 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:19.560 two spots or cross from it. Um, I I don't 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:22.200 know what it is. It's just I will tell you. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:24.120 The other day though, when I was at Whole Foods, 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:27.480 I was putting my card away and I took the 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:30.520 cart from the older lady who was also bringing it 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:34.280 that way, look at you, good Samaritan. I just kind 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:35.760 of shook my head. I was like, oh, this just 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:39.480 feels weird. This is not who I am, um. But no. 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:45.920 So I was leaving home Depot, which I feel like 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:51.000 Home Depot parking lots are way too tight for the yeah, 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:53.080 the trucks that are there and the reasoning that people 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:55.520 are going there. And it's funny because I was I 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:57.960 parked to the far end to where like the lumber 0:01:58.080 --> 0:01:59.720 x It is because I'm going to get lumber for 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:03.480 the playhouse thing them building, and so it's a lot 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:06.360 of trucks. Like in this section that I'm parked, I have, 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:09.120 you know, a bunch of wood in the back. So 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:12.160 I don't have my backup camera, which we've all gotten 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:16.760 a little dependent on, right Like who even looks in 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:20.520 their mirrors anymore? I still try to, but still, so 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:24.680 I'm backing up and my cameras like beeping at me 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:28.080 because it's facing the ground. Because my tailgates down so 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:31.440 I can't really see completely and give a little love 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:37.200 tap to the truck behind me in another spot whoops, whoops. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:42.160 And I was like, ship, did I just hit a car? 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:44.400 So I pulled up a little bit, got out and looked. 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.560 I mean nothing. It was literally a love tap, no scratching, nothing, 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:52.800 but really though, like that's something like it could be 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:56.320 buffed out. Let me lick my finger and grab it 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:58.480 out a little bit, grab a grab a sharpie from 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:01.720 the car was on. It was one of those two 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:04.600 where like in case someone saw me, I was like 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:07.760 almost like acting out that it was okay, like I 0:03:07.840 --> 0:03:09.799 wish people could see me. I was like, oh, okay, yeah, 0:03:09.919 --> 0:03:13.720 it's good, like okay, everything's okay, like just pretending that 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:17.919 someone was looking at me. Um. And I drove away 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:21.720 and but then I was like leaving. I was like, man, 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.680 should I still left the note? Should have still said hey, 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:28.440 I love tapped your car? But it was all good 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:34.120 x o x ou, I'll let your board board. Um, 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:36.440 No part of me like felt still a little guilty, 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:38.480 like maybe I still still of left it out. But 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:41.880 what would you have said, like to whom it may concern, 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:46.960 to the to the black I don't know mc GMC 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:52.080 or four GMC, those are two different cars. Um, Like, yeah, 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:53.680 what would you have said? I don't know. I don't 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:55.880 even know. I just felt a little bit of that guilt. 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:57.960 And I'm like, man, what was but guilt for what? 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:01.680 Because it didn't it did nothing. You didn't hurt anything, 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:03.720 I know, but still I like you felt like you 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:10.040 violated their car a little bit, A little bit, I 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:11.960 don't know. I mean, I know I didn't do anything wrong, 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:15.800 but still it's one of those things, like to what extent. Obviously, 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:19.000 if there's any damage, even a scratch, I would have 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.320 been straight up and been like written on something and 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:24.360 left form, Hey I did this. Here's my name and number. 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:28.799 Give me a call in order giving a fake phone number. 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:34.040 Have I'm just kidding, UM, But you feel guilty because 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:38.080 because I wasn't able to tell a person, and like 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:41.880 I wish I could have told them, but they came 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:47.880 in or woman, I love to have your truck. Uh, 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:56.400 my bad, It's all good. I don't know what are 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:58.920 you struggling with. I'm struggling with the fact that if 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:07.760 you left your name and number, they would find another 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:12.760 scratch on their car. And be like, no, man, he 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:16.640 sides with my car. Your head would go there, my 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:20.640 car is totaled. Actually yeah, and you owe us five 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:24.680 million dollars. Well, if someone did that, there's no way 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:26.280 they could prove it. So I'd be like, I don't 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:30.719 know what you're talking about. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:34.880 That's interesting. I mean obviously if you had some kind 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:40.280 of scratch or some something that happened to the car 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:42.679 and then you left, like, I'm like, yeah, you should 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:44.400 for sure feel guilty. That's that was the wrong thing 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:47.000 to do. But because you didn't do anything to the car, 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:50.920 in my mind's like you went out and looked, that's 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.920 beyond any like not many people would probably get out 0:05:53.920 --> 0:06:00.279 of the car and look maybe peace. And that's what 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:05.400 I did to my grandparents car. I was in high school. 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:11.719 It was snowing, and my grandparents had just come to 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:15.039 visit us, and I wasn't used to having a car 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:17.680 behind me. So I'm running late. I think it was 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:23.359 my senior year and it was still you know, it 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:28.440 was six like, and I again I was running late, 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:30.520 running late, and so I get in the car and 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:36.839 I just straight up reverse and floor it. Stop the 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:44.160 crunch that I heard, and I just was like shut 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:46.279 and I didn't know what to do. I just like 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.560 froze because like, you know, my Grandpa's so sweet, but 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:51.440 at the same time, you don't want to mess with 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:55.280 them either at that time of his age. And so 0:06:55.400 --> 0:07:00.800 I just went forward and turn my car and went 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:04.680 straight to school. What happened when they when they found 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:07.599 out when they came out and saw their car, It's like, 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:09.240 wait a second, how did someone hit the front of 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:11.600 our car when we're punked in the triveway? So I 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:13.960 called my mom from school and I was crying and 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:17.080 I was like, I hate grandma Grandpa's car. And they're like, oh, 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:20.440 they know, they heard it, they saw you peel away. 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.080 I was like, are they mad? Oh my god, I'm 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:27.960 so sorry. I just couldn't confront them. I was running 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:33.880 late for school. I can't even imagine. So that's there 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.679 was some damage done and it wasn't like crazy damage, 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.680 but there was a good amount of damage to both cars. 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:43.680 That's really, really, really funny to me. So, I mean, 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:47.280 I eventually told, but I feel like there's a lot 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:50.520 of people that would if they hit they would just go. 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:54.360 You're like Grandma and Grandpa, I don't know what happened. 0:07:55.680 --> 0:07:59.800 I mean, it was bad. Are you sure? You're like 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:01.520 you sure when you guys pulled in you didn't hit 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:05.160 the rear end of my car. They're a little senile 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:08.560 and or they would be like, whoa guys, easy, easy 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:11.440 on the you know init or whatever, not inhale. But 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:14.760 you've never been funny. If I if I were backed 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:17.440 in and hit that truck and there's a scratch on 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:19.720 my car but not on theirs, and I left the 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:21.840 note and be like, hey man, I backed India and 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:26.000 I gotta scratch my car. Let's exchange information. Oh please, 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:29.480 you still have a scratch on your car from the 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:33.559 time that you went to McDonald's in Los Angeles. I 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:38.000 will forever haunt me. McDonald's will forever haunt me. You 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:42.440 shouldn't have gone. Shouldn't have gone, Garma, just the big 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:45.480 man upstairs saying stop eating McDonald's. No. But I think 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.120 to circle around, I think it's really sweet that you 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:53.319 did that. You have the conscious conscience, conscience, conscience to 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:56.680 feel bad about that even though you did nothing wrong. 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:03.360 Easton talked to me, help me, I need any more 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:07.920 details about that, about that McDonald's scratch. Did you misjudge 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:11.559 the drive through? What happened? No, it's the one that's 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:19.040 on Sunset and Laurel Canyon. Yeah, and you have to 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.880 it's like the tunnel drive through. Yes, yes, we're going 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:26.440 to fight that day. Probably. That's like I eat my 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:31.880 feelings just like you think I remember something happening near 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.679 Like I'm gone McDonald's. No, I was. I was already 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:36.920 out and about because I wouldn't have gone over the 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:39.560 hill to go go to that McDonald's. I was on 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:43.600 my way home McDonald's. Yeah. So I went through that 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:47.360 tunnel of death drive through that a motorcycle can barely 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:49.600 fit through with my big old truck. And I'm like, 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:53.439 you just and you just see the remnants of scrapes 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:57.760 all down that tunnel. I'm like every car in here, 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:59.800 it's like, what you do? You just scraped the side 0:09:59.880 --> 0:10:02.760 or scraped the pole or I'm like, who built this? 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:06.480 This is terrible Eastern What would you do if you 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:11.120 love tap somebody and either made a mark or made 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:16.080 a no mark? I mean, this is a safe space 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:19.720 right where, this is a cone of honesty. I gotta 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:23.160 be honest if there's no mark and nobody saw it. 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:26.880 I'm jetting. I'm not I'm not doing anything. I'm gonna 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.040 get out. What if what if there was a mark 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:33.080 and nobody saw it. That's the thing, and nobody saw it, 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.120 you know what you would do? You would leave. I 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:41.360 can see it in your face. It depends on how 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:48.200 big the mark was. Uh yeah. I like to think 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.640 that I that I would leave a note, but in reality, 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:53.760 I probably would justify it by going like, well, you 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:55.360 know your car has been hit a bunch of no 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:57.120 one left to know. This is just you put in 0:10:57.120 --> 0:10:59.839 the karma back into the world. That's messed up. Though 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.800 I should, I should be more honest. But if it 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:06.400 was a small it was like shorter than a pencil scratch, 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:10.360 I probably would just leave if no one saw it. Yeah, 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:16.439 that's really funny. Don't park. No, don't remember that. One 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.560 time my ex friend came back and wrecked my car 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:24.319 and said that He's like, you could clearly tell that 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.640 he hit a pole, Like you could for sure tell 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:29.160 he hit a pole. And he's like, I don't know 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:31.840 what happened the car. Somebody must have hit me. I'm like, 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:35.520 that is a white pole. And I was like on 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.000 the on the we're on our way to them. Yeah, 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.760 And I was kind of defending him because I still 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:44.480 didn't know him that well and Jane was lightening him up, 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.160 lighting him, but I could tell he was lying. I 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:49.600 knew him right, Jane has been was friends with him 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:52.240 for like ten years. So I was like, hey, easy, 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:54.400 like you don't know, like, let him make some easily. 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:57.640 She's like, no, I know him. He's lying, and come 0:11:57.679 --> 0:12:02.120 to find out, he definitely did. Yeah. It's like the 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:06.439 pole did not just come attack my car. Whoever was 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:10.560 driving pulls have minds of their own. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:15.400 no driving. It's so funny that how you do rely 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:18.959 on that backup camera. So yeah, but I want to 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:23.480 get like a Ford Escort when the kids get older 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:26.439 and are driving, because that's like the card. That's the 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.280 card my sister drove, and that's the car I learned 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.760 how to drive stick on. I want the kids to 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:33.920 be able to drive stick and use their mirrors. Here's 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:37.439 a question for you. Are you the parent that gives 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:39.679 your kids a car or makes them work for it? 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:45.600 You're asking me you gotta work for it. That's not 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:50.000 what you said, You're that's not what you said. What 0:12:50.040 --> 0:12:56.080 do you mean you totally changed your answer. Here's you 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:59.240 totally change. Here's the thing. Here's the thing. You're like, Well, 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:02.679 if they're playing sports and they're you know, if they 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.520 look I will. I don't want to help them out 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.120 with a car. If they're just sitting on there but 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:11.080 going to school coming home, and that's it. If they're working, 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:15.199 or they have a lot of extracurricular activities including sports, 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:17.800 and so they don't have as much time to earn 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:21.800 money for a car, whatever it may be, they can 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:28.240 influence online through a couple of swipe ups. Um, I'm 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:33.040 willing to help them out. And if they are working 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:38.960 in other ways, they just have to be a productive person. See, 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:41.520 that's just gonna be really hard for me because I 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:43.320 had to buy my own car. Like, I think there's 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:48.720 something so some work, like the work ethic behind paying 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:50.800 for your own car. I'm like, Okay, my parents don't 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:52.679 have the money to get me a car. I have 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:56.320 to work for my car. You know. I don't know. 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:58.280 I just think there's something that was that. I think 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:03.240 that was the moment that for me in my mind 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:05.959 created the oh crap, if I'm if I'm gonna want 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:07.600 something in my life. I have to work for it, 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:10.760 you know, And I think that's where like the beginning 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:14.560 of where my work ethic came from. That makes sense, Yeah, 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.520 I know it does. You Know what I'm curious about 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.880 with Jolie and Jason's I wonder if they're going to 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:24.040 want a driver's license when they turned sixteen, you know, 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:27.720 because I've met so many kids like my parents that say, 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:31.440 like my kid's eighteen and he has no intention of 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:34.320 getting his license, Like they just feel like that sense 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.360 of freedom that came with it, Like like when we 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:39.440 were sixteen, that was everything, you know, like that's all 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:41.800 I wanted. But now it's like, hey, man, let me 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:43.680 sit in my room. I got this, you know, like 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:45.720 I can hang out with my friends here. I don't 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:48.080 need to do that. And like, like my wife didn't 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:54.080 get her driver's license until she was six. I taught 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:56.560 her how to drive, which is a weird thing to do. 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:00.880 Why didn't want she she just didn't see a need 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:03.080 for it. And then at a certain point she was like, 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:05.360 I'm kind of afraid of it, Like I don't I 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.800 don't want to be behind this not you know, two 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:11.160 thousand pound torpedo. Uh. And then we moved to l A. 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:12.800 And she's like, oh, I gotta get a license now, 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:15.920 but um, yeah, and you know, and she's she's the 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:18.520 same age as me or in our thirties. But I 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:20.600 just feel like there's gonna be a whole generation of 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:22.320 kids that are like they have to be like pushed 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:25.080 by their parents to get their license because it's like 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:26.920 it's a pain in the ask, you guys, know, like, 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:32.440 but but also it opens up the whole world. Oh absolutely, 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:35.920 And I mean, like you said, Eastern when are generation. 0:15:36.040 --> 0:15:38.280 It was like I got my permit the first day 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:41.320 I was eligible, I got my license, Yeah, exactly, whatever 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:44.120 it was fifteen and three months sixteen, Like I was 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:46.880 that day. I was making sure I got everything I 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:49.680 needed to. So the day I turned sixteen and whatever 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:53.800 it was, I was out peace see you. So that 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:57.600 that is interesting though, especially with ride sharing and and 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:00.320 being able to hang out with your friends, you know, 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:03.520 with your phone and all of that. When we drove 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:06.360 to our friend's house, what do you guys remember the 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:12.960 first time you drove? Yes, tell me. I got my 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:15.880 driver's license and then I borrowed I didn't have a 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:17.720 car at the time, so I borrowed my mom's car, 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:20.720 and I remember her saying, the gaslights on, but you 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:22.520 still got like thirty miles out of it before you 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:25.480 have to go get gas. But so uh. And I 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:29.120 remember like being able to pick whatever music I wanted 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:30.920 was a really big deal. And I went and picked 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:34.320 up my girlfriend from school and we went to I 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:36.080 think we went to McDonald's. Then I brought her back 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:37.680 to her house and I drove home and I was like, 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:44.720 I was I was five, I was sixteen, and so 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:48.640 was she. It was all above board. I was I 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.840 was the first of my friends to get the driver's license, 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:55.200 and it was, you know, I gotta I bought myself 0:16:55.200 --> 0:17:00.760 a red Ailero um and I I told my mom. 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:02.280 I was like, I'm just going to pick up Lisa, 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:06.480 like just me and Lisa. I had eight girls packed 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:08.720 in my red Alero. We're going to seven eleven to 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:12.399 get slurpees. And then I didn't. I probably told my 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:14.960 mom like the truth about a few years ago. I 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:16.600 was like, you no, no, there was there was about 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:18.399 eight girls in that car, like we were just bumped 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:22.840 into like in sing getting slurpees. It was I drove 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:26.560 to work. I was a lifeguard because it was the 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:31.840 summertime that I was able to get my license, and yeah, 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:33.760 I had to go to work to go to the pool. 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:38.680 I go tore my whistle memory lane here whistles. You 0:17:38.680 --> 0:17:40.760 guys get your license? Did you get the first time? 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:43.679 Did you have to retake the test first time? Or 0:17:45.520 --> 0:17:49.960 I'm not gonna lie. I think I cheated in Um however, 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:55.200 well because like driver's at okay, driver's a yeah, yeah, yeah, um, 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:58.600 but now I failed a few times. Probably it's so 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:02.879 tricky you know there, it's like they make it they 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:06.919 really second guess. Yeah, it's like you know, they make 0:18:06.960 --> 0:18:10.120 you second guess. I don't. I've never been a good 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:12.479 test taker. That's the thing. My teachers would always say, 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:16.280 she's really smart, she's um, well, I would know what 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:18.400 they say, really smart. But I was never a good 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:22.120 test taker. I think the questions or the other options, 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:26.200 and like, well that could potentially maybe be the next, 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:28.280 the other the other. Maybe you should have been a 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:33.560 lawyer or a politician. Okay, super excited because today's guests 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:37.320 we have Clint Black and his wife Lisa hartman Um 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:39.960 coming on the show. Clint Black is like, oh my god, 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:42.920 I mean talk about high school and live in the 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:49.159 good old days. He's one of the biggest country stars ever. Um, 0:18:49.160 --> 0:18:52.720 so excited to have him on the show. And before that, 0:18:52.920 --> 0:19:08.240 let's take a break. All right. We have two huge 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:11.840 legends on our show today that we're very excited to 0:19:11.880 --> 0:19:13.960 talk to you about a lot of different things. We 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:17.040 have the one and only country superstar Clint Black and 0:19:17.080 --> 0:19:22.119 then successful music artists and actress Miss Lisa Hartman. Welcome 0:19:22.160 --> 0:19:26.800 to wind down. Oh my goodness, it's so nice to 0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:31.199 talk to you guys. Um Hey, a little fun fact. 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:35.159 She was supposed to play my Mom, which he was 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:41.080 to be the general Welcome Home Christmas. That didn't happen 0:19:41.400 --> 0:19:44.600 because you said you didn't want to act. Clint, you 0:19:44.720 --> 0:19:48.560 told me you didn't want to act. Well, that was 0:19:49.000 --> 0:19:51.520 one part of it was I wasn't ready to jump down. 0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:53.680 I had a lot of other things going on, including 0:19:56.160 --> 0:20:03.840 might ask oh, So that's why we couldn't say yeah. 0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:06.880 We couldn't say it was so hard. I love the role, 0:20:06.960 --> 0:20:08.679 I love the whole thing. It was so sweet, and 0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:11.880 I love the general. I want this this guy anyway 0:20:12.080 --> 0:20:15.399 was this guy because they weren't going to be together. 0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:20.679 I'm at home now, I'm this guy at home that 0:20:20.760 --> 0:20:25.480 created when he read that scrip that's his client. Well 0:20:25.480 --> 0:20:27.280 it would have been fun. But maybe the next one 0:20:27.400 --> 0:20:31.000 will we can do that. Um, how is filming the 0:20:31.080 --> 0:20:37.879 Mass Singer? It was? It was grueling. It was it 0:20:37.880 --> 0:20:42.360 was TV. You know, it was you know what I'm 0:20:42.440 --> 0:20:45.560 used to, you know, being out on tour. You you 0:20:45.640 --> 0:20:48.240 go on your routine and when it's time to go on, 0:20:48.359 --> 0:20:51.159 you go on. But in TV, of course you uh, 0:20:51.240 --> 0:20:54.560 in this case, you put on an owl costume and 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:59.000 you start sweating immediately, go and get in an egg 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:01.440 that you can't walk round in and you have to 0:21:01.480 --> 0:21:03.639 move across the stage in it, and you know, break 0:21:03.640 --> 0:21:06.320 your leg, almost fall off the stage, and then you don't. 0:21:06.359 --> 0:21:08.080 Your heart rate goes way up and then you sing 0:21:08.400 --> 0:21:13.560 just little stuff like that crazy and uh, and so 0:21:13.680 --> 0:21:17.240 you're just and of course, you know, once the taping starts, 0:21:17.240 --> 0:21:20.320 they have to turn off the AC units in the 0:21:20.359 --> 0:21:23.520 sound stage because they make a noise and you feel 0:21:23.560 --> 0:21:27.520 it instantly, and now you're really sweating. And then the 0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:31.520 judge panel starts talking and everybody says what they and 0:21:31.520 --> 0:21:35.360 then Ken goes into his long diet tribe and and 0:21:35.680 --> 0:21:38.399 you know, I lost five pounds just every time Ken talked, 0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:45.159 so you know, it was it was strange and and 0:21:45.359 --> 0:21:49.280 different and you know, unbelievable. I've always wondered, did you 0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:52.120 guys do do the contestants? You guys get to pick 0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:56.600 your costume at all. So yeah, we we well, they 0:21:56.600 --> 0:21:59.520 showed the first one and we didn't love it. We said, 0:21:59.560 --> 0:22:01.960 you know, we really like to go more in this direction. 0:22:02.400 --> 0:22:05.280 And they came back with the second one and it's amazing. Yeah, 0:22:05.600 --> 0:22:07.680 they sent a sketch in the Faberge egg and the 0:22:07.720 --> 0:22:10.359 whole thing, and we were just we fell in love instantly. 0:22:11.119 --> 0:22:13.720 And then when we got to the set, they brought 0:22:13.760 --> 0:22:15.520 us in early to see if we could, you know, 0:22:15.640 --> 0:22:17.959 so we could get used to the egg, see if 0:22:17.960 --> 0:22:21.520 we could fit. And we're thinking, you know, and it 0:22:21.560 --> 0:22:24.040 was really tricky. The thing opens up right, and you 0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:26.240 go in and they zip tie you in, and you've 0:22:26.280 --> 0:22:28.879 got handbrakes and these bars, and the thing has a 0:22:28.920 --> 0:22:31.359 mind of its own. I mean, you want to go 0:22:31.480 --> 0:22:33.840 this way, and it's like you also have stage hands 0:22:33.840 --> 0:22:37.520 who have minds there and a stage manager who wants 0:22:37.560 --> 0:22:40.199 to have control of their minds and our minds, and 0:22:40.200 --> 0:22:43.240 he's moving over here. Here we go. You feel like 0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:45.680 Fred Flintstone with his little toes in the car. It's 0:22:45.760 --> 0:22:48.960 true in the little egg, it's going to be a 0:22:49.000 --> 0:22:52.040 broken ankle here you just your human puppet that at 0:22:52.040 --> 0:22:54.800 that moment, Yeah, it was that. It was you know, 0:22:54.880 --> 0:22:57.480 so you you you suit up, get the thing in. 0:22:58.600 --> 0:23:00.360 You know, youve got to sing live. You get any 0:23:00.400 --> 0:23:02.600 egg you get, you go down the layer. Now you're 0:23:02.600 --> 0:23:04.440 on your mark. You think, no, we're not on the mark. 0:23:04.480 --> 0:23:06.240 We had to get on the market is all this 0:23:06.280 --> 0:23:09.439 stuff you can't see and go, you know, and you're like, 0:23:09.520 --> 0:23:12.600 oh my gosh. And then you finish and you're relieved 0:23:12.640 --> 0:23:14.280 and you hope you've done a great job or a 0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:17.840 good job. And then Ken goes off and then there's 0:23:17.920 --> 0:23:25.080 Kenny Well. I remember when dirt was first invented? Do 0:23:25.080 --> 0:23:27.760 you guys? So the Mass Singer has been a huge show. 0:23:27.920 --> 0:23:30.600 I think too much surprise to a lot of the masses. 0:23:31.200 --> 0:23:33.679 And now that you guys have been on it, what 0:23:33.720 --> 0:23:36.600 do you think from an internal perspective? Has been the 0:23:36.760 --> 0:23:39.320