WEBVTT - The Power of Pride!

0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:04.560
<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:18.400
<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. All right, he eats everybody. Okay,

0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:22.680
<v Speaker 1>so this is reasonably shady. What is happening? My name

0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:24.799
<v Speaker 1>is gille Brian, So how y'all doing? This is Robin

0:00:24.880 --> 0:00:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Dixon and we are here today to talk about all

0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:30.840
<v Speaker 1>kinds of things once again. But I want you all

0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:34.640
<v Speaker 1>to know that today it's all about pride. We are

0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:38.400
<v Speaker 1>loving pride, we live pride. We're here for pride. So

0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:42.440
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna talk about some pride. Absolutely, happy Pride month everyone.

0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:45.640
<v Speaker 1>June is Pride month and we are getting our pride on.

0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:49.040
<v Speaker 1>But you know, first and foremost, we always do what

0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.640
<v Speaker 1>we do, and that is give our reasonably shady moment

0:00:51.680 --> 0:01:01.680
<v Speaker 1>of the week. Robin. I've had several Oh what about you?

0:01:01.680 --> 0:01:05.320
<v Speaker 1>Oh I can't wait. Well, I mean I have one

0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:11.480
<v Speaker 1>to share. So my reasonably shady moment goes to the cicadas.

0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:20.039
<v Speaker 1>We have not talked about those cicadas. And my DoorDash driver, who,

0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:23.360
<v Speaker 1>by the way, I need like platinum status in door dash.

0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes you do, yes, But so my door dash driver

0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:28.840
<v Speaker 1>calls you know there you get to text. It's like, oh,

0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:31.880
<v Speaker 1>your door your door dash her is approaching blah blah blah.

0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:34.720
<v Speaker 1>So I get a phone call and the door dash

0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.840
<v Speaker 1>driver was like, um, it's too many cicadas out here.

0:01:38.200 --> 0:01:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Can you come? Can you come to the car and

0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:45.120
<v Speaker 1>get your food? Like what? So the door dash man

0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:47.400
<v Speaker 1>is scared of cicadas. Yes, it was a girl, was

0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:49.680
<v Speaker 1>a young young lady. And I'll say, okay, I will,

0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I will come to the door. And first of all,

0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.480
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't even that many cicadas out. So I'm like,

0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:58.200
<v Speaker 1>young lady, if you are scared of the cicadas to

0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:02.080
<v Speaker 1>the point where you can't execut your your job right,

0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:04.000
<v Speaker 1>then how about you just waiting another week or two

0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:06.600
<v Speaker 1>until the cicators cicadas are gone. Yeah, that's that's what

0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling that I'm talking of feeling that however they are,

0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:12.480
<v Speaker 1>they are making their way out. But they have been

0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:16.640
<v Speaker 1>the worst. Like I have run from cicadas. I have

0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:20.679
<v Speaker 1>um like screened and yelled because they have flown on me.

0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:23.320
<v Speaker 1>It has been a situation. One time I went out

0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:25.320
<v Speaker 1>walking with my kids a couple of weeks ago, and

0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:28.480
<v Speaker 1>that was like a disaster. Yeah, outdoor walks are canceled.

0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:32.440
<v Speaker 1>Out the walks picnics, cook out, Cancel crabs, going to

0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:35.079
<v Speaker 1>the pool that's canceled for right now, cancel cicada's got

0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:37.000
<v Speaker 1>it online. But you know what, it's so crazy. So

0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:41.000
<v Speaker 1>so my son Corey, who is who is thirteen, like

0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.080
<v Speaker 1>he's terrified of him. So like we'll be outside and

0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:46.040
<v Speaker 1>he's like like running from this Scara. I remember, and

0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you can relate, when I was

0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:51.880
<v Speaker 1>a kid and the cicadas were out and popping seventeen

0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:54.800
<v Speaker 1>years ago. Okay, I've been through this my third time cicadas,

0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.400
<v Speaker 1>so I think it was like the first time. So

0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:01.320
<v Speaker 1>seventeen times two is what thirty four years ago? So

0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I was probably like eight or something, right, okay, robbing

0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:07.840
<v Speaker 1>with the math and I was like outside like catching them,

0:03:07.840 --> 0:03:11.600
<v Speaker 1>playing with them, And yeah, I didn't. I wasn't scared

0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:13.560
<v Speaker 1>of him like I used. I guess I was a tomboy.

0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I would play with frogs. I would catch frogs and

0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:19.480
<v Speaker 1>bring them in the house and robbing. That's weird, No,

0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:22.280
<v Speaker 1>it's not. That's like what we did. We played outside

0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:24.280
<v Speaker 1>all the time, this is true, but we didn't know

0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:29.000
<v Speaker 1>what Nobody playing with the cicadas. They were lightning bugs.

0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Did you catch lightning bugs? At least I did catch

0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:34.920
<v Speaker 1>lightning bugs in a jar, but I wasn't touching them. Okay,

0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:36.880
<v Speaker 1>well I was doing all that. So when I see

0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:39.600
<v Speaker 1>these thirteen year old boys scared of cicadas, I'm like,

0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.640
<v Speaker 1>what has happened? Listen, you better toughen up them, Corey

0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:44.680
<v Speaker 1>and Carter. You better talk to my mom because if

0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:46.480
<v Speaker 1>they scared of a cicada, Lord, it's gonna be a

0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:50.240
<v Speaker 1>terrible life for them. Though it's just it's just different.

0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:53.200
<v Speaker 1>So anyway, so yes, my shady moment, not even just

0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:56.360
<v Speaker 1>the week, the past what month? I guess the cicadas

0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:59.360
<v Speaker 1>go to the cicadas and the door dash driver who

0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:04.320
<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to do her job, Yeah, she needs to

0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:07.520
<v Speaker 1>go indoors for another week or so. Now, Rob, you

0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:10.000
<v Speaker 1>know that I've been traveling. I've been out of town.

0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I've been vacationing with my children, um, and we've been

0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.520
<v Speaker 1>living our very best life, which I'm very happy about.

0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:19.360
<v Speaker 1>So you know, I've been out here in these streets.

0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I've been vacating with my children. And anytime we go out,

0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:25.599
<v Speaker 1>especially like you know, the dinner or whatever, we always

0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:28.320
<v Speaker 1>have like a color that we're gonna wear. So we

0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:31.880
<v Speaker 1>wear our colors and then we go downstairs or we

0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:33.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, we get ready to get in the car,

0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:36.479
<v Speaker 1>and we find a nice place to take pictures. And

0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.440
<v Speaker 1>so because you know, we all want to be in

0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.080
<v Speaker 1>the picture, we have to find somebody take to picture

0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:44.599
<v Speaker 1>for us. Okay, So we're in a very nice hotel

0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.240
<v Speaker 1>in Miami. Actually I can say it is the one

0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:52.360
<v Speaker 1>hotel in Miami, and um it is a little expensive.

0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:54.280
<v Speaker 1>But you know, Jasappie, you know, kirk coins are good

0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:58.640
<v Speaker 1>these days. Okay, alright, So anyway, Um so I asked

0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:01.760
<v Speaker 1>this lady, but very nice, white lady, I said, excuse me,

0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:03.160
<v Speaker 1>can you take a picture of me and my kids?

0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:05.360
<v Speaker 1>And she looks at me. She was like, I'm blind.

0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm blind. I'm blind. I'm blind. I said what. She

0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:12.240
<v Speaker 1>looked at me, dead in my face and telling me

0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:15.760
<v Speaker 1>she is blind. And then she walks away and proceeds

0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:18.200
<v Speaker 1>to like navigate her way through the crowd. Does she

0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:23.400
<v Speaker 1>have a cane? Like, no cane, no stick, no glasses, no, no,

0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:25.159
<v Speaker 1>she just told me she was blind. Now, if that

0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:30.080
<v Speaker 1>ain't shady, I don't know what it is. She is

0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:32.440
<v Speaker 1>my shady lady of the week. She literally had that

0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:34.920
<v Speaker 1>one ready to go. She was ready for me. Oh

0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:39.080
<v Speaker 1>my god. She said she was blind. She was blind,

0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:42.960
<v Speaker 1>but had nobody helping her, no, no stick help helping

0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:46.080
<v Speaker 1>her to walk. No, okay, and went on her mary

0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Way and went on her Mary Way. And I had

0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.240
<v Speaker 1>to find somebody else. I couldn't. It took me a

0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.520
<v Speaker 1>very long time to find somebody else. I asked another lady.

0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:54.520
<v Speaker 1>She she she pointed to her ears, and she was like,

0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm on conference call. Conference called. No one wanted to

0:05:57.960 --> 0:06:00.320
<v Speaker 1>take a picture of me and my children, which I don't.

0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're cute. I don't stand by the way.

0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I did see you all your pictures of like the

0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:08.040
<v Speaker 1>same color, and I was like, that is so cute. Yes,

0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:12.560
<v Speaker 1>actually adore my daughter. She coordinates the colors and she's like, Okay,

0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:14.640
<v Speaker 1>tonight it's gonna be white night. Tonight it's gonna be

0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.919
<v Speaker 1>yellow light night. So she, you know, make sure that

0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:20.040
<v Speaker 1>we're all on one for our colors. Yes, my kids

0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.760
<v Speaker 1>would never do that with me. Yes, But anyway, this

0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.240
<v Speaker 1>lady out here in these streets at the one hotel

0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:28.480
<v Speaker 1>in Miami, you were not blind. You're just shady, Okay.

0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:29.680
<v Speaker 1>You did not want to take a picture of me

0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:32.000
<v Speaker 1>and my kids. You're rude. I'm gonna call you a Karen. Yes,

0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:35.680
<v Speaker 1>you were white, you were a Karen. Okay, anyway, moving on, Okay,

0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.400
<v Speaker 1>so let's move on to I love the fact that

0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:40.960
<v Speaker 1>we can now talk about, like KARNI vents things that

0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:42.800
<v Speaker 1>are going on in the world. Last week we talked

0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:47.560
<v Speaker 1>about Fallon and Simon and Porscha. Do we have any updates? Yes,

0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:52.840
<v Speaker 1>So I watched the interview. Okay, Fallon's interview. Fallon's interview,

0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:57.880
<v Speaker 1>and in the most nicest way possible, I tried my

0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:03.279
<v Speaker 1>hardest to stay away. Okay, bing, you're borring her, girl,

0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:06.960
<v Speaker 1>you're borring because it was just I mean, you know,

0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:08.920
<v Speaker 1>and and no like shade to her, like this is

0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:10.880
<v Speaker 1>all new. But like so I'll tell you like the

0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:14.360
<v Speaker 1>things that stuck out to me. Number One, she says

0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:17.000
<v Speaker 1>she found out about Porsche and Simon at the same

0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:21.960
<v Speaker 1>time the world did. Okay, that's probably true, right, I really,

0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:23.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess so, yeah, I think that's true.

0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I believe that. Okay, I thought that was surprising. Um.

0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:32.480
<v Speaker 1>Number two, Simon really wanted her to do the show. Okay,

0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:35.080
<v Speaker 1>he really pushed you to do the show, which led

0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:39.720
<v Speaker 1>me to believe that's why he's with Porsche, because he

0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:44.640
<v Speaker 1>is interested in the limelight and the you know, fame.

0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:48.600
<v Speaker 1>And since Foulon, for whatever reason, didn't really you know,

0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.320
<v Speaker 1>get it on that season she was on. This past

0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:52.920
<v Speaker 1>season she was on, I guess we didn't see her

0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.120
<v Speaker 1>that much, like, I don't know, maybe just she just

0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:58.360
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't her thing. And I think that's the whole

0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:01.120
<v Speaker 1>reason why he is out with Falin and he's with

0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.160
<v Speaker 1>because Okay, so forget the fact that you know Pors

0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:06.080
<v Speaker 1>she's beautiful, she has a great personality, she has a

0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:07.840
<v Speaker 1>big booty. None that he don't like, none of that.

0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:09.640
<v Speaker 1>He just likes fact she's on TV. Is that what

0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:14.000
<v Speaker 1>you're saying, Robin Dixon? Okay, Yes, and no, I mean

0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I think he's I think he is attracted to the

0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:20.880
<v Speaker 1>fame number one and then number and then number two.

0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.800
<v Speaker 1>All that other stuff is amazing now and I think

0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:26.880
<v Speaker 1>he really I just think he really really from what Okay,

0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:29.000
<v Speaker 1>first of all, from all his activity on social media

0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:33.439
<v Speaker 1>he stays, you know, talking on social media about what's

0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:36.360
<v Speaker 1>going on with them, um, and then just from hearing

0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:39.319
<v Speaker 1>Fallon say that he really wanted her to do Atlanta.

0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:42.160
<v Speaker 1>It just made me feel like, Okay, he's more attracted

0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:45.520
<v Speaker 1>to the fame than anything else. Maybe that's what caused

0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.120
<v Speaker 1>their marriage to fall apart, because maybe he wanted more

0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:50.480
<v Speaker 1>from from Falen and she couldn't give it because he

0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:53.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't figure out before she joined the show that she

0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:56.280
<v Speaker 1>was boring, right I got. I mean, I don't know.

0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:58.400
<v Speaker 1>I guess that's just kind of those That's what I

0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.080
<v Speaker 1>gathered from that, Okay, I'll say out of that, like Fallon,

0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:04.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, she was a class act um. She really

0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:08.200
<v Speaker 1>wasn't trashing anyone. She really she didn't blame Porsche for anything.

0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:10.959
<v Speaker 1>But you know, she said the two of them, Simon

0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:15.480
<v Speaker 1>and Fallon, are responsible for the marriage falling apart. But

0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:18.800
<v Speaker 1>the timeline just sounded really fishy. You know, it's just

0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:20.800
<v Speaker 1>a lot of like so she talked, she was talking

0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:23.520
<v Speaker 1>about a bunch of nothing, yes and no. I mean,

0:09:23.600 --> 0:09:25.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I learned stuff, but it didn't really

0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:31.160
<v Speaker 1>it was nothing that was like like super shocking. Um

0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:33.640
<v Speaker 1>for me, it's just still a little bit more confusion.

0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I really don't have like huge answers to anything. Um,

0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:41.840
<v Speaker 1>the timeline is seems really fishy as to like when

0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:45.200
<v Speaker 1>their marriage fell apart, and oh and oh, this is

0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.400
<v Speaker 1>the other part. She said they have been going through

0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:51.920
<v Speaker 1>therapy um and she thought everything was all good. So

0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:54.160
<v Speaker 1>this is where I start again, this is funny. So

0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:55.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting there listening to it, and one is like

0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:58.120
<v Speaker 1>on the couch, he's like watching TV, but he like

0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:00.320
<v Speaker 1>he can hear it, and so he st arts off

0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.199
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, I really like her since so I

0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.240
<v Speaker 1>started okay, Wine likes fouling. Okay. Right then towards the

0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:07.760
<v Speaker 1>end of the interview, he was like, turn it off.

0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:13.360
<v Speaker 1>She sounds stupid. One was able to deduce that foulon

0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:19.800
<v Speaker 1>your liar, okay, because because she went from like, you know,

0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:22.160
<v Speaker 1>oh we take you know, I don't blame Porsche. We

0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:25.000
<v Speaker 1>both played a part in the demise of our marriage

0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:29.000
<v Speaker 1>to saying Okay, Simon and I were going through therapy

0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:31.160
<v Speaker 1>and he hadn't been home, and this is where it

0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:33.560
<v Speaker 1>started getting a little weird. He hadn't been home in

0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:37.320
<v Speaker 1>three months, right, And I talked to him, you know,

0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:38.880
<v Speaker 1>I talked on the phone and we all, you know,

0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:41.320
<v Speaker 1>we were we were good. And then the next day

0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:44.280
<v Speaker 1>I found out he felt he filed for divorce. And

0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.240
<v Speaker 1>it was just like we it was listening. If your

0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.080
<v Speaker 1>man is at home in three months, that's not your man,

0:10:49.440 --> 0:10:55.360
<v Speaker 1>right right. So that's when one was like turn her off. Alright, alright.

0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:58.360
<v Speaker 1>So so so I think this like at this point,

0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:02.520
<v Speaker 1>we should just let the cameras just pick up at

0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.760
<v Speaker 1>this point, because it's a whole bunch of back and

0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:07.760
<v Speaker 1>forth and failing in the in the supposed boyfriend who

0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:10.480
<v Speaker 1>said he's not, and you know, they keep going on Instagram.

0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:12.760
<v Speaker 1>We're just gonna be entertaining on Instagram until we see

0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:15.439
<v Speaker 1>what happens on the show when this camera start rolling.

0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for that. I'm here for minding my business,

0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:21.960
<v Speaker 1>are you really? No? Not really? Okay, moving on, alright,

0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:25.200
<v Speaker 1>So I didn't. I also did not see the documentary

0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:30.200
<v Speaker 1>about Tom Girardi. But you saw it, okay, so give me,

0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:34.040
<v Speaker 1>give me t give me o that man. Okay, So

0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:37.679
<v Speaker 1>I'll watched it. That actually came out today, okay, right

0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:40.320
<v Speaker 1>today is yeah, it just came out today. And I

0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:43.000
<v Speaker 1>will tell you this. I signed up for Hulu, yes,

0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:50.160
<v Speaker 1>to watch this. No, not Robin has a Hulu subscription. Yes, yes,

0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I signed up just to watch this, and oh it

0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:55.320
<v Speaker 1>was good. I didn't. I was watching it on my

0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:58.640
<v Speaker 1>way here. I didn't get to finish it, but um

0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:02.960
<v Speaker 1>I picked up some like I don't know the proper term,

0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:07.640
<v Speaker 1>like psychopath vibes from him because people had voicemail recordings

0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.080
<v Speaker 1>like once they started feeling like, you know, stuff was

0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:13.959
<v Speaker 1>getting really fishy with their money, he would like leave

0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:16.800
<v Speaker 1>them voicemails like I'm a really nice guy. You don't

0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:19.760
<v Speaker 1>I hope you don't hate me, but you know, I'm

0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:22.760
<v Speaker 1>trying to I'm trying to get get everything taken care of,

0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:24.480
<v Speaker 1>and I know it's really frustrating for you, and it's

0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:26.640
<v Speaker 1>really frustrating for me. Like me, like, but the whole

0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:29.199
<v Speaker 1>time he's like lying to them, you know, like so

0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:32.720
<v Speaker 1>what I don't understand. It's like, okay, it's simple math.

0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:35.440
<v Speaker 1>If you get a one hundred million dollars settlement for

0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:40.040
<v Speaker 1>your clients, yes, you take your which most lawyers do. Good,

0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:44.760
<v Speaker 1>twenty millions, that's nice, that's nice money, and you give

0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.240
<v Speaker 1>them their eighty million and call it a day. But

0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.200
<v Speaker 1>what he was doing was like he was stalling. He

0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.840
<v Speaker 1>was like trying to piecemeal it and give it to

0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:56.960
<v Speaker 1>them in like monthly installment, and it was just and

0:12:56.960 --> 0:13:00.720
<v Speaker 1>and what what I gather is that it's that has

0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:07.080
<v Speaker 1>been going on for years and it caught up to him. Um,

0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:10.720
<v Speaker 1>what I thought was kind of stupid was that he

0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:14.880
<v Speaker 1>would even allow Erica to be on the real housepus

0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:17.880
<v Speaker 1>of Beverly Hills, because you know, she's over there talking about,

0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:19.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, showing off her house and her money and

0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:24.240
<v Speaker 1>the planes they have and all this stuff. And meanwhile

0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:28.439
<v Speaker 1>there's people literally like hunting him down for their settlement.

0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.400
<v Speaker 1>So it's like, if you knew that you owe these

0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:35.440
<v Speaker 1>people money, why are you allowing your wife to go on? Well,

0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:39.240
<v Speaker 1>then then that that clarifies for me, or solidifies for

0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.240
<v Speaker 1>me that she did not know. Erica did not know.

0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:43.160
<v Speaker 1>But that's going on. I don't think she knew. I

0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:45.920
<v Speaker 1>really don't. I don't think she knew. I don't think

0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:48.079
<v Speaker 1>she knew. She definitely didn't know the degree to it.

0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, well, we'll see, like one

0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:52.680
<v Speaker 1>when when she filed for divorce, which we just saw

0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:57.000
<v Speaker 1>in the last episode, she filed for divorce, maybe that's

0:13:57.000 --> 0:14:00.200
<v Speaker 1>when she started to realize, like, something's wrong, something's wrong.

0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm in trouble. You know, I'm gonna have no money

0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.160
<v Speaker 1>if I don't protect myself. So I feel like, you know,

0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:08.400
<v Speaker 1>her filing for divorce was to protect himself. But I mean,

0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:11.640
<v Speaker 1>we'll see anyway. But like literally, Tom is like in

0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:14.640
<v Speaker 1>a deposition. He's like, yeah, they're asking him, like how

0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:16.600
<v Speaker 1>much money he has, and he's like, yeah, I had

0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:19.360
<v Speaker 1>like eighty million cash, but it's all gone and I

0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:23.520
<v Speaker 1>had fifty millions. This is bizarre. At fifty million dollars

0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:26.520
<v Speaker 1>in stock a stock portfolio and that's all gone. Like

0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:33.280
<v Speaker 1>stop it, Okay, we're gonna move on to another deposition. Okay.

0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:35.920
<v Speaker 1>Because there's a man, a black man that we love

0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:38.280
<v Speaker 1>to hate and then hate to love. His name is

0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:41.600
<v Speaker 1>Kanye West, and reportedly he lashed out he had to

0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:44.640
<v Speaker 1>give a deposition because he's in some sort of legal

0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:47.400
<v Speaker 1>battle with people that he was doing business with when

0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:51.800
<v Speaker 1>he comes to his gospel music or whatever. And during

0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:54.000
<v Speaker 1>the deposition, which was court order because he did not

0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:55.040
<v Speaker 1>want to come, he said he wanted to do it

0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:57.160
<v Speaker 1>virtually because he don't have time for these people. He

0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.160
<v Speaker 1>has other things to do. He is friends with Trump,

0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.960
<v Speaker 1>he said that this the quote, he's friends with Trump's yes.

0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:06.600
<v Speaker 1>So during the deposition, he puts on a Jesus head covering, which,

0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:09.920
<v Speaker 1>by the way, I don't even know what that what?

0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:13.080
<v Speaker 1>So is that a mask that looks like I don't

0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:14.840
<v Speaker 1>know what that means? Don't know what that means? Can

0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:18.120
<v Speaker 1>we get a photo? I don't know? And then he

0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:22.280
<v Speaker 1>called himself the richest black man in America. Wrong, Yes,

0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:25.320
<v Speaker 1>that's very wrong. So so we're just gonna forget Jay

0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Michael Jordan's I mean, what about the man that paid

0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:34.400
<v Speaker 1>off all the more house students him? He's like, he's

0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:36.520
<v Speaker 1>called I'm trying to find him. That's that's what's his

0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:38.400
<v Speaker 1>name is? Mary? Leave him alone? Okay, I'm gonna leave

0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:41.960
<v Speaker 1>him alone anyway. So my boy of the story is Kanye.

0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Cut it out. Okay, be clear that you're not that important.

0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:48.600
<v Speaker 1>You don't need to put on the Jesus head covering

0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:51.000
<v Speaker 1>because you're not Jesus. If you're friends were Trump and

0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:53.280
<v Speaker 1>you still want to tell the world that you should

0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:55.960
<v Speaker 1>keep that to yourself. And Kim, I think he dodged

0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:57.880
<v Speaker 1>a bullet. Hunh oh my gosh, you know what. She

0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:01.880
<v Speaker 1>dodged a bullet. And we've seen reports and pictures of

0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:05.080
<v Speaker 1>him with this model, the New Girl Arena, who I

0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.480
<v Speaker 1>guess has a kid. Or used to date Bradley Cooper. Right,

0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:09.360
<v Speaker 1>she's I don't think you have a kid together. I

0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:13.400
<v Speaker 1>think they do. Okay, she used date Bradley Cooper. Um, okay,

0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:14.800
<v Speaker 1>So first of all, can we pause for a second

0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:19.920
<v Speaker 1>if you hear a whole bunch of noise? Okay, fine, Fine.

0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:23.760
<v Speaker 1>The studio is in the studio where Robin and I

0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:26.560
<v Speaker 1>do what we do call our reasonably shavy podcast is

0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:29.760
<v Speaker 1>in like my basement. Okay, upstairs, I have workers here,

0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:33.880
<v Speaker 1>construction workers. They're working on my front door, in my entryway. Listen,

0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:37.240
<v Speaker 1>the renovation is continuing. Whether we gotta do a podcast

0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:41.240
<v Speaker 1>and they're allowed to tell? That's all I mean. Can

0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.000
<v Speaker 1>we tell? Can we tell him to go to lunch? Damn, No,

0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:45.800
<v Speaker 1>we're not. We got they took the lunch break, Yes,

0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:48.880
<v Speaker 1>they took the siesta. Okay. So all that noise in

0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:53.160
<v Speaker 1>the background is is the workers? Sorry? Sorry? Yes? All right?

0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.640
<v Speaker 1>So okay, So I feel like Kim. You know, recently

0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:58.440
<v Speaker 1>we saw these pictures of Kanye with Irena Shaike Shake.

0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:00.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to say her name, but I

0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:04.440
<v Speaker 1>feel like him is probably looking at the pictures laughing like,

0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:08.240
<v Speaker 1>oh he is your problem now. Booboo, this is all

0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:11.720
<v Speaker 1>you You can have him have at it because she

0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:14.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we don't know all the ins and outs,

0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.199
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like what we've seen is enough to

0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:19.879
<v Speaker 1>actually have a little bit of sympathy for her. I

0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:24.000
<v Speaker 1>think she probably tried her best to, you know, deal

0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:27.879
<v Speaker 1>with his eccentric personality. We'll call it that and whatever

0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:30.280
<v Speaker 1>else comes with it. My hat is off to her

0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:32.399
<v Speaker 1>for dealing with that. My hat is off to her

0:17:32.520 --> 0:17:36.960
<v Speaker 1>for really trying to put together and have a family unit.

0:17:37.040 --> 0:17:39.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, they have four kids together. She really tried

0:17:39.520 --> 0:17:41.280
<v Speaker 1>to make it work. And I kind of feel sorry

0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:43.600
<v Speaker 1>for a little bit a little bit, right, yeah, because

0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.400
<v Speaker 1>when you have four kids, like I understand getting divorced,

0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, without children or you know, but four kids

0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:54.200
<v Speaker 1>for small kids, and you want them to have stability.

0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:56.280
<v Speaker 1>From what I understand, KNYE want to move to different

0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:58.760
<v Speaker 1>plays every year, and you know, you just need to

0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:01.520
<v Speaker 1>have stability for child dream And then your kids have

0:18:01.640 --> 0:18:04.000
<v Speaker 1>to see that your father is showing up to depositions

0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:09.919
<v Speaker 1>with Jesus Jesus head on his head, I don't Jesus

0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:12.440
<v Speaker 1>head wrap like like kind of come on. You need

0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:15.320
<v Speaker 1>to take life seriously and you can't just thumb your

0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:19.280
<v Speaker 1>nose at like real legal stuff, like yes, it's not

0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:22.560
<v Speaker 1>going to help you at all, and it never you know, Kim,

0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:25.160
<v Speaker 1>we all know went behind him and apologized for all

0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:28.040
<v Speaker 1>his behavior for the entire time that they were married. Clearly,

0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:30.000
<v Speaker 1>she's I'm sure very happy she no longer has to

0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:33.000
<v Speaker 1>do that, um, because she's not a babysitter. She's a

0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:36.000
<v Speaker 1>grown a woman who is holding down a billion dollar

0:18:36.040 --> 0:18:38.479
<v Speaker 1>business and four kids. So oh and getting people out

0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:40.600
<v Speaker 1>of jail. So my hat goes off to Kim. Yeah,

0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:42.679
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, she's got a lot going on. Now you

0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:46.760
<v Speaker 1>have some paid six information. Oh yeah, so I just

0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.399
<v Speaker 1>need to share this story that. Okay, the headline alone

0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:52.560
<v Speaker 1>was like made me stop. Let me read the headline.

0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:54.919
<v Speaker 1>This is the headline that I read, and then I

0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:59.120
<v Speaker 1>had to go, you know, read them more. Manhattan socialite

0:18:59.480 --> 0:19:10.760
<v Speaker 1>ditches her restaurantur partner for her identical twins sister's husband. Okay,

0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:12.680
<v Speaker 1>right now, I want you all to know that one

0:19:12.680 --> 0:19:14.800
<v Speaker 1>of my twins is in the room with us and

0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:18.720
<v Speaker 1>she's looking like w TF, what in the world is happening?

0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:22.159
<v Speaker 1>Because that would never happen. So okay, this is like

0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:26.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean this is crazy. There's Swedish born. These ones

0:19:26.520 --> 0:19:29.600
<v Speaker 1>are Swedish born. Um, because so these are not black people,

0:19:30.080 --> 0:19:32.399
<v Speaker 1>because we don't get down like that. Just for the record,

0:19:32.680 --> 0:19:37.639
<v Speaker 1>black people don't do this. Okay. So Charlotte Bonstrom and

0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:43.240
<v Speaker 1>her sister is Cecilia Bonstrom. So so Charlotte, she left

0:19:43.240 --> 0:19:49.000
<v Speaker 1>her restaurant to her husband, Vittorio assaf and he owns like, um, Sarafina,

0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:53.480
<v Speaker 1>the sarap restaurants and stuff. So she left him. Okay,

0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:56.240
<v Speaker 1>and you'll be with the billionaire. Well, no, I don't

0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:58.879
<v Speaker 1>know the other ones a billionaire, so twenty they were

0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:02.080
<v Speaker 1>married for twenty years. Okay, she left him to go

0:20:02.720 --> 0:20:06.400
<v Speaker 1>get with her, to go marry her identical twin sisters spouse.

0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:10.719
<v Speaker 1>So her identical twin sister was married to a founder

0:20:10.760 --> 0:20:14.720
<v Speaker 1>of a fashion label, Za Dig and Voltaire. I know

0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I have a couple of things by them. I can't

0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:19.080
<v Speaker 1>remember exactly what the weird part is. So like I

0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:22.040
<v Speaker 1>started going on like Instagram. So the one that was

0:20:22.080 --> 0:20:24.880
<v Speaker 1>married to the fashion label, she's like the creative director

0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:28.399
<v Speaker 1>for the fashion label and she's still like working for

0:20:28.440 --> 0:20:31.040
<v Speaker 1>the fashion label. Okay, but these these are identical twins.

0:20:31.040 --> 0:20:33.800
<v Speaker 1>They look alike obviously pure, so he don't know who

0:20:33.840 --> 0:20:36.880
<v Speaker 1>he's getting. I mean I think you know, you know,

0:20:38.080 --> 0:20:40.640
<v Speaker 1>he's like, I'll take I'll take either one. I mean,

0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I think your daughters are identical twins. Like like a

0:20:43.760 --> 0:20:47.120
<v Speaker 1>door that would be like you know you dating angels. Yeah,

0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:50.199
<v Speaker 1>that would never never go down the wide opened, Like

0:20:50.200 --> 0:20:52.560
<v Speaker 1>how do you do that? That would never happen. So

0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:56.800
<v Speaker 1>you literally are like we can throw that sisterhood in

0:20:56.840 --> 0:21:01.040
<v Speaker 1>the trash, right, yes? And then the man, I mean,

0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:03.800
<v Speaker 1>she's like a whole man. Find your own man, That's

0:21:03.800 --> 0:21:06.160
<v Speaker 1>what I want to say, find your own man, right,

0:21:06.320 --> 0:21:09.080
<v Speaker 1>like the man. Okay, so the husband, the husband who

0:21:09.080 --> 0:21:13.719
<v Speaker 1>got with the twin, like dirt bag. Clearly you you

0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:18.719
<v Speaker 1>have a type. I mean your type is the same person.

0:21:19.200 --> 0:21:22.080
<v Speaker 1>That's your type. So just stay with your wife. You're

0:21:22.080 --> 0:21:24.359
<v Speaker 1>a dirt bag. I don't like you. I'm never buying

0:21:24.359 --> 0:21:26.800
<v Speaker 1>a piece of your clothes again. What is it? Za

0:21:27.760 --> 0:21:30.159
<v Speaker 1>in Voltaire? Never buying that again, Dick, I don't know,

0:21:30.280 --> 0:21:32.199
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm pronouncing it right. Yes, but

0:21:32.240 --> 0:21:36.640
<v Speaker 1>it's so in that bizarre that's very bizarre, so bizarre. Yes,

0:21:36.680 --> 0:21:39.480
<v Speaker 1>And if you have any bizarre type of stories like

0:21:39.520 --> 0:21:41.000
<v Speaker 1>that please send them to us, because we want to

0:21:41.000 --> 0:21:42.840
<v Speaker 1>talk about it. We want to laugh at him, and

0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:44.720
<v Speaker 1>really it almost makes me feel like this whole Portion

0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:49.919
<v Speaker 1>in Simon thing is nothing. Yes, portion is getting We

0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:52.320
<v Speaker 1>don't care about portion anymore because twins are marrying each

0:21:52.359 --> 0:21:58.680
<v Speaker 1>other's husband. Yes, Portion had nothing on Charlotte and Cecilia,

0:21:58.880 --> 0:22:01.240
<v Speaker 1>not at all. Now I do want to talk about

0:22:01.280 --> 0:22:05.520
<v Speaker 1>because in my travels with my kids, I was in Miami. Okay,

0:22:05.560 --> 0:22:08.879
<v Speaker 1>so Miami is actually now the new Vegas maybe because

0:22:08.920 --> 0:22:13.800
<v Speaker 1>it's like hosting all of these nonsense fights. Okay, we

0:22:13.920 --> 0:22:17.800
<v Speaker 1>have Floyd, yes, and a man that I ain't never

0:22:17.840 --> 0:22:21.119
<v Speaker 1>heard of before. Now we have YouTube against TikTok. We

0:22:21.240 --> 0:22:24.600
<v Speaker 1>got all these stupid ass fights. Yes, I said, it's stupid.

0:22:24.920 --> 0:22:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Does anyone care who's over the age of twenty six? Well,

0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:31.640
<v Speaker 1>so I thought I cared. I actually paid for the

0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:35.919
<v Speaker 1>fight for Floyd's fight, and I literally never again am

0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:38.960
<v Speaker 1>I falling for this crap? Never again? But my kids

0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:41.480
<v Speaker 1>kept telling me like, so what is it? Over this

0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:44.040
<v Speaker 1>past weekend, my kids were like, oh, yeah, the YouTuber

0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:45.720
<v Speaker 1>and the TikTok are going to be fighting, and they're

0:22:45.760 --> 0:22:47.879
<v Speaker 1>like looking at me, like are you gonna buy it, Like,

0:22:48.000 --> 0:22:51.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you better get out of my face. I'm

0:22:51.119 --> 0:22:54.480
<v Speaker 1>not yes, we're not interested in YouTube and TikTok. And

0:22:54.520 --> 0:22:56.119
<v Speaker 1>then and then I'm like, the highlights are going to

0:22:56.200 --> 0:22:59.359
<v Speaker 1>be on YouTube and TikTok like any minute, exactly, you

0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:01.920
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean exactly. It makes absolutely no sense

0:23:01.920 --> 0:23:04.639
<v Speaker 1>to me. But guess what they're making katrillions of money. Word.

0:23:05.040 --> 0:23:07.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm almost like, m maybe I should signed him to

0:23:07.640 --> 0:23:11.840
<v Speaker 1>get my ass beat to get dropped like oo ocho,

0:23:11.920 --> 0:23:16.280
<v Speaker 1>why did you get Oh my god, wait did you

0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:19.560
<v Speaker 1>see Lamar odom did he fight? Oh? Wait a minute.

0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:21.879
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of Lamar, he gave his He hung out with

0:23:21.920 --> 0:23:24.399
<v Speaker 1>Wendy Williams that night. By the way, Wendy Williams, you

0:23:24.440 --> 0:23:27.359
<v Speaker 1>getting your swerve on Honey right, She's now trying to

0:23:27.359 --> 0:23:30.200
<v Speaker 1>get with Gary Owens. You asked, how do you invite

0:23:30.240 --> 0:23:32.760
<v Speaker 1>somebody on to your show to do an interview? And

0:23:32.800 --> 0:23:36.120
<v Speaker 1>then you asked them out for a date. I think something.

0:23:36.200 --> 0:23:38.120
<v Speaker 1>She needs to put that horm on patch back on,

0:23:38.160 --> 0:23:40.359
<v Speaker 1>Honey listen. And they went out on the date. They

0:23:40.400 --> 0:23:44.320
<v Speaker 1>were spotted out. Yes, so after she and then she

0:23:44.359 --> 0:23:46.399
<v Speaker 1>tells us she was hanging out with Lamar after um

0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:48.680
<v Speaker 1>he won his fake belt, like this is a mass

0:23:48.720 --> 0:23:51.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Wendy, Wendy, get yours, honey, because you're

0:23:51.560 --> 0:23:53.840
<v Speaker 1>getting it right. I need you to watch the clips

0:23:53.840 --> 0:23:57.679
<v Speaker 1>of Lamar's fight through. Is it worse than Chad getting dropped?

0:23:57.920 --> 0:24:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Which one? Well, Lamar one? Right, So let Lamar. It's

0:24:01.160 --> 0:24:04.480
<v Speaker 1>like literally like Lamar is like six ten and he's

0:24:04.520 --> 0:24:07.480
<v Speaker 1>fighting Aaron Carter. Do you remember Aaron. Aaron Carter is

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:10.440
<v Speaker 1>probably like five four, right, and so he's just like

0:24:10.880 --> 0:24:15.359
<v Speaker 1>these long arm I mean he's he's swinging at Aaron Carter.

0:24:15.400 --> 0:24:18.800
<v Speaker 1>Aaron Carter is running all over the ring like like

0:24:18.840 --> 0:24:23.800
<v Speaker 1>a bad but Aaron Carter did get some good hits

0:24:23.800 --> 0:24:26.640
<v Speaker 1>off at him. It was like he has some good

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:28.439
<v Speaker 1>hits and I think he just like warm himself out

0:24:28.440 --> 0:24:31.640
<v Speaker 1>because Lamar was just like swinging his like that. Right.

0:24:31.680 --> 0:24:34.240
<v Speaker 1>But Lamar, I'm gonna say this, Lamar, your belt doesn't

0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:36.320
<v Speaker 1>count if you're fighting a four year old, like, it

0:24:36.359 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 1>doesn't count. If you're fighting somebody that's half your size,

0:24:38.600 --> 0:24:41.639
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't. What is the belt four? I don't know.

0:24:41.800 --> 0:24:45.280
<v Speaker 1>It's for the it's like the winner of the losers, right,

0:24:48.920 --> 0:24:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just think people are so excited to

0:24:51.600 --> 0:24:55.479
<v Speaker 1>be like outside of this pandemic, and they're finding any

0:24:55.760 --> 0:25:01.040
<v Speaker 1>reason to get people together to like, you know, do something. Hey,

0:25:01.080 --> 0:25:07.880
<v Speaker 1>if if watching these horrible boxing matches brings people joy,

0:25:07.400 --> 0:25:10.159
<v Speaker 1>he listen. We were in Miami and my engrace, my

0:25:10.160 --> 0:25:12.480
<v Speaker 1>oldest story. You know, she's always got something up asleep.

0:25:12.600 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 1>She's just like, why why don't we stay and then

0:25:14.600 --> 0:25:17.240
<v Speaker 1>we can go to the fight. First of all, I

0:25:17.280 --> 0:25:20.639
<v Speaker 1>have no interest in being bothered with these little teeny

0:25:20.640 --> 0:25:22.760
<v Speaker 1>boppers that are going to this fight. And now I'm

0:25:22.760 --> 0:25:25.240
<v Speaker 1>not spending all this No, the answer is no. Yeah.

0:25:25.600 --> 0:25:27.679
<v Speaker 1>But you know, honestly, I hope they kind of stopped

0:25:27.680 --> 0:25:31.000
<v Speaker 1>because I think they're devaluing the sport. And you know,

0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:34.239
<v Speaker 1>I hope these guys realized how serious this sport is,

0:25:34.800 --> 0:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>how people train all their lives for it, and they're

0:25:38.119 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of like taking away from it and almost making

0:25:40.000 --> 0:25:44.280
<v Speaker 1>a mockery of it. Hopefully, hopefully this will be Hopefully

0:25:44.320 --> 0:25:47.160
<v Speaker 1>this will be it. They're more coming, or Door says,

0:25:47.160 --> 0:25:48.960
<v Speaker 1>there's more coming, all right, but we have we had better,

0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:52.800
<v Speaker 1>more exciting news. It was like breaking news. The breaking

0:25:52.840 --> 0:25:57.879
<v Speaker 1>news was that Watch What Happens Live was actually live

0:25:58.160 --> 0:26:02.439
<v Speaker 1>with Andy Cohen and people in the club house. Andy,

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:07.639
<v Speaker 1>you have suffered. Huh, you have survived because you were

0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>in there by yourself. You were scratching your head, you

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:14.000
<v Speaker 1>were scratching your toes. You so you're scratching everything, and

0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:16.400
<v Speaker 1>you was talking to yourself. You was dealing with the WiFi.

0:26:16.760 --> 0:26:18.359
<v Speaker 1>Remember one day I was on I was on the

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:20.879
<v Speaker 1>floor trying to fix my WiFi, and you was probably

0:26:21.040 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 1>very angry with yourself. But anywhere you now have a

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:30.480
<v Speaker 1>live studio audience and live guess Andy Coing. Congratulations, the

0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:32.960
<v Speaker 1>round of applause for Andy. All right, last thing I

0:26:33.000 --> 0:26:35.959
<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk about is I saw the musical with

0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 1>my kids in the Heat in the Heights. Yeah, that's

0:26:40.840 --> 0:26:43.280
<v Speaker 1>what it was called In the Heights. Loved it that much, Yes,

0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:46.920
<v Speaker 1>and it was actually amazing. So if you liked Hamilton's,

0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:50.320
<v Speaker 1>then you'll love in the Heights. Yes. On HBO, Max,

0:26:50.400 --> 0:26:53.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm giving them a little shout out. It's the guy,

0:26:54.040 --> 0:26:58.560
<v Speaker 1>the Miranda guy. Yes, he did, he did it, and

0:26:58.720 --> 0:27:02.160
<v Speaker 1>it was it was everything. Okay. Um, I didn't watch Hamilton,

0:27:03.000 --> 0:27:05.560
<v Speaker 1>but I would take you. I'm just not into I'm

0:27:05.560 --> 0:27:09.920
<v Speaker 1>not into musicals and stuff. So angels, angels and the musicals.

0:27:10.080 --> 0:27:11.639
<v Speaker 1>So did you like it? A door? If you're not,

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 1>you like it? Okay, yeah it was amazing. It was

0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:16.440
<v Speaker 1>actually amazing. Check it out. All right. So we we

0:27:16.520 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 1>gotta get to what we get into and today's episode

0:27:19.400 --> 0:27:23.520
<v Speaker 1>is called the Power of Pride. All right. We want

0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:25.800
<v Speaker 1>to just be very clear. We know that we have

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:28.639
<v Speaker 1>so many fans that are part of the lb gt

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Q A community, and um, we are so excited to

0:27:34.359 --> 0:27:37.159
<v Speaker 1>be in a space and in a place and in

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:39.800
<v Speaker 1>a year that we can just be excited about pride,

0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:44.159
<v Speaker 1>talk about pride. It's not taboo. And right now, starting

0:27:44.200 --> 0:27:46.640
<v Speaker 1>off this little conversation, I have my fifteen year old

0:27:46.800 --> 0:27:50.240
<v Speaker 1>daughter Adore with us, because, um, I think the younger

0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:53.200
<v Speaker 1>generation is really I don't want to say there's spearheading

0:27:53.840 --> 0:27:56.359
<v Speaker 1>the pride movement in a different way, but they have

0:27:56.359 --> 0:27:58.280
<v Speaker 1>a different take on it than we than I did.

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:00.840
<v Speaker 1>I can say when I was growing out, absolutely yeah,

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like the younger generation, they're growing up already

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:10.200
<v Speaker 1>understanding pride and l g B t Q I a

0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:13.240
<v Speaker 1>issues or even existence. I mean, I'll be honest, when

0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 1>I was growing up, I didn't even I didn't even

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 1>know that there was a community or there were issues

0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:22.720
<v Speaker 1>to be aware of, um, and so I really loved

0:28:22.720 --> 0:28:26.480
<v Speaker 1>that the younger generation, they're they're growing up with that consciousness.

0:28:26.880 --> 0:28:29.560
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't part of my consciousness when I grew up. Yes,

0:28:29.920 --> 0:28:33.199
<v Speaker 1>now a door, I do remember when you were taking

0:28:33.240 --> 0:28:37.720
<v Speaker 1>ballet and you had a girl in your class who's

0:28:37.840 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 1>who had two fathers. Um, was that weird to you? No? Well,

0:28:42.880 --> 0:28:45.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't even remember. I was so little. But after

0:28:45.680 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 1>years after that, I had another girl in my school

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:49.960
<v Speaker 1>who had two fathers, and I just I thought it

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:52.920
<v Speaker 1>was just so cool, like I didn't see anything wrong

0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:54.800
<v Speaker 1>with it, Like they were all so sweet, and I

0:28:54.840 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 1>just I think that now it's just really normal and accepted,

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 1>like even on TV and everything, there'll be more represented,

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:04.200
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like the more they're represented, the less

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:07.320
<v Speaker 1>people are going to have to worry about not feeling accepted. Yeah,

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:10.560
<v Speaker 1>I totally weird or something like unusual because it's like

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 1>happening more often. Yeah. Now, I do have a question

0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 1>because Demi Levato just recently came out but in saying

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 1>that she is non binary, so I don't really know

0:29:20.600 --> 0:29:23.440
<v Speaker 1>as much. But non binary is where you don't specifically

0:29:23.520 --> 0:29:30.080
<v Speaker 1>identify as a he or she you're plural, your, your, your, your,

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 1>they in them, You're one person, but you don't identify

0:29:33.240 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 1>as a specific gender. So instead your day then okay,

0:29:37.040 --> 0:29:39.520
<v Speaker 1>and that's what Demi Livado is now. Yea, So Demi

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 1>identifies as non binary and and Demi wants us to

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:47.400
<v Speaker 1>refer to them as they or them. Um, I mean

0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 1>that's definitely something that like, as I'm as I'm even

0:29:50.200 --> 0:29:52.440
<v Speaker 1>saying that, I'm trying to refrain from saying she wants

0:29:52.520 --> 0:29:54.440
<v Speaker 1>us to refer you know what I mean or you know?

0:29:54.560 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 1>So it is. It is an adjustment, it's something to understand.

0:29:57.480 --> 0:30:00.720
<v Speaker 1>I wonder is that something that is direc actually connected

0:30:00.760 --> 0:30:05.520
<v Speaker 1>to sexuality or is that a totally different, different issue

0:30:05.600 --> 0:30:08.600
<v Speaker 1>or topic. Yeah, I think that it's different because like

0:30:08.720 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 1>the way you identify as like how who you are

0:30:10.800 --> 0:30:13.800
<v Speaker 1>as a person versus like your sexuality is like a

0:30:13.840 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 1>different area of who you are? Got it? Got it?

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:21.160
<v Speaker 1>Do you have any friends that identified it that way? No?

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't have any friends identify that way. But I

0:30:23.200 --> 0:30:25.520
<v Speaker 1>know someone who was on my who had to substitute

0:30:25.560 --> 0:30:29.280
<v Speaker 1>from our lacrosse team and they were transgender, and so

0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>because they weren't allowed to play for the boys team.

0:30:32.640 --> 0:30:34.640
<v Speaker 1>They made them play with us, but I would just

0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:36.239
<v Speaker 1>like didn't really know, and like I didn't know what

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:38.320
<v Speaker 1>to say or like how to Okay, so this is

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:41.440
<v Speaker 1>so this is my question. They were transgender, so where

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:44.760
<v Speaker 1>did they were? They born a girl? So I didn't ask.

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing because they're not allowed to play with the boys.

0:30:47.720 --> 0:30:50.400
<v Speaker 1>They're born a girl and now they're a boy and

0:30:50.440 --> 0:30:53.480
<v Speaker 1>they're not allowed to play with the boys because of

0:30:53.600 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>just rules that already been set. M got you. I

0:30:57.360 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 1>do remember there's a debate as to whether or not

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 1>that's fair. Right, So if you were born male but

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:06.800
<v Speaker 1>you are you have transition to female, should you be

0:31:06.880 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 1>allowed to play as a female in female sports? Right now? What?

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 1>What are your what are your thoughts as a fifteen

0:31:13.760 --> 0:31:15.360
<v Speaker 1>year old? What do you think? I don't know. I

0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:17.840
<v Speaker 1>just feel like with all of that, there's like so

0:31:17.960 --> 0:31:20.560
<v Speaker 1>much like genetics and so much things behind it that

0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, I'm not educated enough to like

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 1>know like what that person like how athletic they are

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:29.680
<v Speaker 1>even person by person, not everyone's going to be a

0:31:29.680 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 1>fair competitor, So like what's really the scale of Oh

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:35.200
<v Speaker 1>it's fair to compete against this person? Beside your compete

0:31:35.200 --> 0:31:37.160
<v Speaker 1>against that person. I feel like more sports should be

0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:40.640
<v Speaker 1>more inclusive anyways, Like I feel like like more girls

0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 1>sportshould get more funding and other things like that. But

0:31:43.160 --> 0:31:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I feel like for translator people, I don't really know. Yeah,

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean I can see where it's a really touchy

0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:54.800
<v Speaker 1>issue because you know, just naturally, men are stronger, more athletic,

0:31:55.480 --> 0:31:59.760
<v Speaker 1>and so if you have an athlete who was born

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:04.600
<v Speaker 1>in ale but identifies as female, that natural athleticism and

0:32:04.640 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 1>strength is still the advantage of that is still going

0:32:06.920 --> 0:32:10.200
<v Speaker 1>to be there. So I understand that the debate not

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:12.960
<v Speaker 1>even saw where Caitlyn Jenner even thinks that they should

0:32:12.960 --> 0:32:15.480
<v Speaker 1>not be allowed, because imagine if if Caitlyn Jenner is

0:32:15.480 --> 0:32:20.400
<v Speaker 1>saying that, and and Caitlin was a Olympic athlete, So

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 1>if Caitlin were to have transitioned, you know, when she

0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:29.280
<v Speaker 1>was in her prime, would that have been fair to

0:32:29.440 --> 0:32:31.840
<v Speaker 1>the other women? But then where do you compete, Like,

0:32:31.880 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>where do you play? So then you're just nowhere, right, Yeah,

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:37.760
<v Speaker 1>And that's that's the hard part because that's not fair either.

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 1>You want everyone to be able to have the same

0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:44.440
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to participate in sports and athletics and yeah, that's

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:47.640
<v Speaker 1>that's hard. That's hard. UM. So for you just let

0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:50.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, UM. And I'm so happy that you are

0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:53.880
<v Speaker 1>totally inclusive and you don't even think about it twice,

0:32:53.960 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 1>and it's just speaks to how far we've come. I

0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:59.560
<v Speaker 1>remember when I was your age and like my dad,

0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, he's eighty something as Oh, he's a very

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:05.440
<v Speaker 1>funny guy, but anytime he felt like somebody was gay,

0:33:05.560 --> 0:33:08.440
<v Speaker 1>he would say, you know, I think, oh, that gentleman

0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:11.080
<v Speaker 1>has sugar in his tank, and I'm like sugar in

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:13.440
<v Speaker 1>his tank. For the longest time, I didn't understand what

0:33:13.520 --> 0:33:15.920
<v Speaker 1>that meant, and so I got older and I was like, oh,

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>he means that the person is gay. And it was

0:33:18.160 --> 0:33:22.200
<v Speaker 1>very taboo to even discuss back then. So just to

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:26.680
<v Speaker 1>see how far we've come is a beautiful thing. I

0:33:26.680 --> 0:33:28.800
<v Speaker 1>think that it's because of all the people that like

0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:31.280
<v Speaker 1>you got to surround me with my life, like other

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:34.040
<v Speaker 1>people who are more just to have different ways of

0:33:34.080 --> 0:33:36.400
<v Speaker 1>life than like you or Dad. I think it helped

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 1>me versus some kids don't have that much exposure to

0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 1>things like that, so then they go to school and

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:43.280
<v Speaker 1>they're like, what is going on? Like I don't know

0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:46.240
<v Speaker 1>what And I'm like, girl, like, let me help you around.

0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:49.200
<v Speaker 1>But I just think it's so important for kids to

0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:52.040
<v Speaker 1>just be exposed to all different types of people who

0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 1>just identifying different ways, because that will just help them

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:57.120
<v Speaker 1>in their future. Yeah, and I've always taught you guys

0:33:57.160 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 1>that we love everybody when when we don't treat anybody different,

0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 1>lee and love is love. And I'll be honest. So

0:34:03.200 --> 0:34:06.520
<v Speaker 1>my I have two boys and they play sports, and

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:08.040
<v Speaker 1>so they have a lot of you know, we were

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:12.320
<v Speaker 1>constantly around a team of boys, and I will frequently

0:34:12.480 --> 0:34:16.040
<v Speaker 1>hear them, you know, say oh, that's gay or you know,

0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:17.879
<v Speaker 1>when they're like the boys like oh if they say

0:34:17.920 --> 0:34:19.920
<v Speaker 1>something that, like if they're eating a hot dog, it's like,

0:34:19.920 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 1>oh that's gay. Like it's all this and I'm always like,

0:34:22.000 --> 0:34:25.239
<v Speaker 1>guys like stop, like so you know, they're still we

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:28.520
<v Speaker 1>still have a ways to go with educating people and

0:34:28.560 --> 0:34:32.400
<v Speaker 1>exposing them and and just making them you know, like

0:34:32.440 --> 0:34:38.839
<v Speaker 1>accepting and just realizing like this is a normal part

0:34:38.880 --> 0:34:42.799
<v Speaker 1>of life. And so I'm constantly telling the kids, you

0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:46.520
<v Speaker 1>know that my my boys are around, you know, stop

0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:49.239
<v Speaker 1>using stop using that as a as a like a

0:34:49.280 --> 0:34:52.239
<v Speaker 1>bad thing. Stop you know, So it's we're not quite

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:54.719
<v Speaker 1>there yet, um, but I think it it does help

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:58.279
<v Speaker 1>when there are other children or people who are accepting

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:01.439
<v Speaker 1>and and maybe maybe they have hear from them to say, okay,

0:35:01.520 --> 0:35:04.920
<v Speaker 1>this is not okay, Like yeah, stop, so you know

0:35:05.040 --> 0:35:08.880
<v Speaker 1>what love is love? And I was just very impressed

0:35:08.920 --> 0:35:12.200
<v Speaker 1>with our Vice President Kamala Harris who marched in the

0:35:12.320 --> 0:35:16.120
<v Speaker 1>DC Pride parade. Thank you Lucia, her and her husband,

0:35:16.160 --> 0:35:19.240
<v Speaker 1>they marched. It's awesome. And you know, her secret service

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 1>were like having a fit. Yes, secret service was having

0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:23.960
<v Speaker 1>a fit, and we didn't give a damn. Okay, but

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I love that there was the first sitting either Vice

0:35:26.600 --> 0:35:29.680
<v Speaker 1>president or president that actually marched in a gay parade.

0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:32.360
<v Speaker 1>I think that that speaks volumes for who and what

0:35:32.520 --> 0:35:35.080
<v Speaker 1>she is. She had her love is Love t shirt

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 1>on and she was rocking and her little pink jacket

0:35:37.040 --> 0:35:38.880
<v Speaker 1>and her tender shoes. That is awesome and that that

0:35:39.080 --> 0:35:42.680
<v Speaker 1>actually brings up the memory when we were filming season one,

0:35:42.760 --> 0:35:45.720
<v Speaker 1>we didn't get to see this, um, but we actually

0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:48.040
<v Speaker 1>had the opportunity. No, I'm sorry, I think there was

0:35:48.080 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 1>season two, season two, Yeah, we had the opportunity to

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:53.920
<v Speaker 1>walk in the Gay Pride parade in d C. And

0:35:53.960 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 1>it was a day. I mean, it was hot, it

0:35:57.080 --> 0:35:59.680
<v Speaker 1>was a long day, it was hired, but it was like,

0:35:59.719 --> 0:36:03.719
<v Speaker 1>the energy was amazing. It was full of love. You know.

0:36:03.800 --> 0:36:06.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy that that we had the opportunity to

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:09.200
<v Speaker 1>do that. It was such a beautiful day. And I'm

0:36:09.239 --> 0:36:11.600
<v Speaker 1>mad that that Bravo didn't show a Bravo get that

0:36:11.640 --> 0:36:14.560
<v Speaker 1>footage and show it, because it was. It was definitely

0:36:14.600 --> 0:36:20.520
<v Speaker 1>an amazing day and it is a beautiful energy. Like

0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:23.439
<v Speaker 1>the energy is so peaceful, and it's just so much

0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:29.120
<v Speaker 1>love and everybody's inclusive. Yes, and I'm happy that the

0:36:29.760 --> 0:36:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I guess the logo or whatever it is a rainbow.

0:36:32.280 --> 0:36:36.920
<v Speaker 1>That makes sense because everybody is just feeling love and included,

0:36:37.040 --> 0:36:41.000
<v Speaker 1>and no one is feeling um judged because no one

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:43.719
<v Speaker 1>should be judged for who they want to love. I'm

0:36:43.760 --> 0:36:47.279
<v Speaker 1>not in the gay community to know what goes down

0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:50.440
<v Speaker 1>at the gay Pride parade um, but if there is

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:54.320
<v Speaker 1>a separation of a white parade and a black parade,

0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:57.320
<v Speaker 1>and a white gay Pride moment and a black I

0:36:57.360 --> 0:37:00.560
<v Speaker 1>mean pride should be everybody is together, right, it should be.

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:04.640
<v Speaker 1>But I think we shouldn't forget the fact that Black

0:37:04.719 --> 0:37:09.520
<v Speaker 1>gay people already have a tough time with I guess

0:37:09.560 --> 0:37:13.359
<v Speaker 1>acceptance in the Black community itself, you know what I mean.

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:15.960
<v Speaker 1>So so they're so they're dealing with acceptance within the

0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 1>black community or you know, their families or whoever has

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:22.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, not been as accepting of homosexuality, and then

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 1>they have to deal with just race relations between you know,

0:37:27.520 --> 0:37:30.359
<v Speaker 1>whites and blacks, and you know, so they have it's

0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 1>like a it's multilayered of what they have to deal with. Discrimination. Yeah,

0:37:34.719 --> 0:37:36.960
<v Speaker 1>that we kind of you know, as for me, just

0:37:37.080 --> 0:37:40.879
<v Speaker 1>as a heterosexual Black woman, like, I don't think about that.

0:37:41.200 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, while we've come along a long way, um,

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:47.560
<v Speaker 1>just with you know, pride in general, it sounds like

0:37:47.600 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 1>we have a lot a longer way to go, and

0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:52.879
<v Speaker 1>hopefully the Black community can do a better job of

0:37:53.120 --> 0:37:57.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, understanding and accepting our gay brothers and sisters,

0:37:57.880 --> 0:38:02.239
<v Speaker 1>and hopefully the gay eights, blacks, Asians, whomever can all

0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:05.880
<v Speaker 1>come together, you know, just as a unified front and

0:38:06.000 --> 0:38:09.760
<v Speaker 1>not as a separate you know, to totally separate causes

0:38:09.760 --> 0:38:14.400
<v Speaker 1>and so well, you know, we are the best allies

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 1>that we can be. Clearly, we got for a long

0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 1>way to go, so we do. Yeah, hopefully we opened

0:38:20.160 --> 0:38:22.279
<v Speaker 1>some eyes to some people today who are listening, so

0:38:22.320 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 1>we can, you know, continue to add more allies. Yes,

0:38:25.640 --> 0:38:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I hope. I hope so too. And just for the record,

0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:29.680
<v Speaker 1>just that everybody knows there's there was a man by

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:32.000
<v Speaker 1>the name of Bayyard Rustin. I've talked about him before

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:36.760
<v Speaker 1>in interviews. He was the one that um spearhead and

0:38:37.080 --> 0:38:40.839
<v Speaker 1>orchestrated the march on Washington. He was one of Martin

0:38:40.920 --> 0:38:44.919
<v Speaker 1>Luther King's like right hand man. He didn't talk about

0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:46.680
<v Speaker 1>the fact at the time that he was gay because

0:38:46.719 --> 0:38:49.960
<v Speaker 1>he didn't want to distract from this whole civil rights movement.

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 1>But he was and everybody that knew him knew it.

0:38:53.880 --> 0:38:58.640
<v Speaker 1>So he was one of our black gay pioneers. Fantastic

0:38:58.760 --> 0:39:01.520
<v Speaker 1>for the record, yes, yes, yes, Now what's he involved

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:03.680
<v Speaker 1>in the gay rights movement as well? After or at

0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 1>some point, um, I don't know about that, but definitely

0:39:06.719 --> 0:39:08.560
<v Speaker 1>all the way involved in the civil rights movement. So

0:39:08.640 --> 0:39:10.560
<v Speaker 1>we want to give a big shout out to Bayyard Rustin.

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:13.560
<v Speaker 1>So that is how we feel. We love our gay

0:39:13.600 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 1>community that loves us. We want to just give you

0:39:16.640 --> 0:39:19.759
<v Speaker 1>all the happiest and the biggest pride we ever can

0:39:20.200 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 1>we love when June comes around because um, you know

0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 1>it's it's time for us to put on our rainbows, right.

0:39:28.320 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 1>So we appreciate you guys listening to Reasonably Shady. We

0:39:31.120 --> 0:39:34.880
<v Speaker 1>are here every week every Monday, Monday after Monday, so

0:39:35.000 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, thank you everybody, Thank you everyone. We're still

0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:39.799
<v Speaker 1>having fun. I hope you're having fun listening and we

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:44.799
<v Speaker 1>will talk to you soon. Okay bye. Reasonably Shady is

0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:49.000
<v Speaker 1>a production of the Black Affect podcast Network. For more

0:39:49.080 --> 0:39:52.480
<v Speaker 1>podcasts from our heart Radio, visit the I Heart Radio app,

0:39:52.680 --> 0:39:55.760
<v Speaker 1>Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.

0:39:56.400 --> 0:40:00.200
<v Speaker 1>You can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixon, En,

0:40:00.480 --> 0:40:14.400
<v Speaker 1>Giselle Brant, and Reasonably Shady m