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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. All right, he eats everybody. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so this is reasonably shady. What is happening? My name

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Speaker 1: is gille Brian, So how y'all doing? This is Robin

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Speaker 1: Dixon and we are here today to talk about all

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Speaker 1: kinds of things once again. But I want you all

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Speaker 1: to know that today it's all about pride. We are

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Speaker 1: loving pride, we live pride. We're here for pride. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about some pride. Absolutely, happy Pride month everyone.

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Speaker 1: June is Pride month and we are getting our pride on.

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Speaker 1: But you know, first and foremost, we always do what

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Speaker 1: we do, and that is give our reasonably shady moment

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Speaker 1: of the week. Robin. I've had several Oh what about you?

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Speaker 1: Oh I can't wait. Well, I mean I have one

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Speaker 1: to share. So my reasonably shady moment goes to the cicadas.

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Speaker 1: We have not talked about those cicadas. And my DoorDash driver, who,

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Speaker 1: by the way, I need like platinum status in door dash.

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Speaker 1: Yes you do, yes, But so my door dash driver

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Speaker 1: calls you know there you get to text. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: your door your door dash her is approaching blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: So I get a phone call and the door dash

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Speaker 1: driver was like, um, it's too many cicadas out here.

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Speaker 1: Can you come? Can you come to the car and

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Speaker 1: get your food? Like what? So the door dash man

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Speaker 1: is scared of cicadas. Yes, it was a girl, was

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Speaker 1: a young young lady. And I'll say, okay, I will,

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Speaker 1: I will come to the door. And first of all,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't even that many cicadas out. So I'm like,

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Speaker 1: young lady, if you are scared of the cicadas to

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Speaker 1: the point where you can't execut your your job right,

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Speaker 1: then how about you just waiting another week or two

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Speaker 1: until the cicators cicadas are gone. Yeah, that's that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling that I'm talking of feeling that however they are,

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Speaker 1: they are making their way out. But they have been

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Speaker 1: the worst. Like I have run from cicadas. I have

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Speaker 1: um like screened and yelled because they have flown on me.

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Speaker 1: It has been a situation. One time I went out

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Speaker 1: walking with my kids a couple of weeks ago, and

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Speaker 1: that was like a disaster. Yeah, outdoor walks are canceled.

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Speaker 1: Out the walks picnics, cook out, Cancel crabs, going to

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Speaker 1: the pool that's canceled for right now, cancel cicada's got

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Speaker 1: it online. But you know what, it's so crazy. So

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Speaker 1: so my son Corey, who is who is thirteen, like

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Speaker 1: he's terrified of him. So like we'll be outside and

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Speaker 1: he's like like running from this Scara. I remember, and

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you can relate, when I was

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Speaker 1: a kid and the cicadas were out and popping seventeen

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Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, I've been through this my third time cicadas,

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Speaker 1: so I think it was like the first time. So

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Speaker 1: seventeen times two is what thirty four years ago? So

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Speaker 1: I was probably like eight or something, right, okay, robbing

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Speaker 1: with the math and I was like outside like catching them,

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Speaker 1: playing with them, And yeah, I didn't. I wasn't scared

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Speaker 1: of him like I used. I guess I was a tomboy.

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Speaker 1: I would play with frogs. I would catch frogs and

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Speaker 1: bring them in the house and robbing. That's weird, No,

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Speaker 1: it's not. That's like what we did. We played outside

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Speaker 1: all the time, this is true, but we didn't know

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Speaker 1: what Nobody playing with the cicadas. They were lightning bugs.

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Speaker 1: Did you catch lightning bugs? At least I did catch

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Speaker 1: lightning bugs in a jar, but I wasn't touching them. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well I was doing all that. So when I see

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Speaker 1: these thirteen year old boys scared of cicadas, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what has happened? Listen, you better toughen up them, Corey

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Speaker 1: and Carter. You better talk to my mom because if

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Speaker 1: terrible life for them. Though it's just it's just different.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, so yes, my shady moment, not even just

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Speaker 1: the week, the past what month? I guess the cicadas

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to do her job, Yeah, she needs to

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Speaker 1: go indoors for another week or so. Now, Rob, you

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Speaker 1: know that I've been traveling. I've been out of town.

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Speaker 1: I've been vacationing with my children, um, and we've been

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Speaker 1: living our very best life, which I'm very happy about.

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Speaker 1: So you know, I've been out here in these streets.

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Speaker 1: I've been vacating with my children. And anytime we go out,

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Speaker 1: for us. Okay, So we're in a very nice hotel

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Speaker 1: But you know, Jasappie, you know, kirk coins are good

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Speaker 1: And she looks at me. She was like, I'm blind.

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Speaker 1: I'm blind. I'm blind. I'm blind. I said what. She

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Speaker 1: she is blind. And then she walks away and proceeds

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Speaker 1: have a cane? Like, no cane, no stick, no glasses, no, no,

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Speaker 1: she just told me she was blind. Now, if that

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Speaker 1: my shady lady of the week. She literally had that

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Speaker 1: my god. She said she was blind. She was blind,

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Speaker 1: but had nobody helping her, no, no stick help helping

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Speaker 1: her to walk. No, okay, and went on her mary

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Speaker 1: She she she pointed to her ears, and she was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm on conference call. Conference called. No one wanted to

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Speaker 1: take a picture of me and my children, which I don't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we're cute. I don't stand by the way.

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Speaker 1: I did see you all your pictures of like the

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Speaker 1: actually adore my daughter. She coordinates the colors and she's like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: tonight it's gonna be white night. Tonight it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: would never do that with me. Yes, But anyway, this

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Speaker 1: in Miami, you were not blind. You're just shady, Okay.

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Speaker 1: You did not want to take a picture of me

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Speaker 1: and my kids. You're rude. I'm gonna call you a Karen. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you were white, you were a Karen. Okay, anyway, moving on, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's move on to I love the fact that

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Speaker 1: we can now talk about, like KARNI vents things that

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Speaker 1: are going on in the world. Last week we talked

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Speaker 1: about Fallon and Simon and Porscha. Do we have any updates? Yes,

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Speaker 1: So I watched the interview. Okay, Fallon's interview. Fallon's interview,

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Speaker 1: things that stuck out to me. Number One, she says

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Speaker 1: time the world did. Okay, that's probably true, right, I really,

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Speaker 1: Number two, Simon really wanted her to do the show. Okay,

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Speaker 1: me to believe that's why he's with Porsche, because he

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Speaker 1: He just likes fact she's on TV. Is that what

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Speaker 1: he really I just think he really really from what Okay,

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Speaker 1: It just made me feel like, Okay, he's more attracted

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Speaker 1: and he's like, I really like her since so I

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Speaker 1: end of the interview, he was like, turn it off.

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Speaker 1: She sounds stupid. One was able to deduce that foulon

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Speaker 1: your liar, okay, because because she went from like, you know,

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Speaker 1: oh we take you know, I don't blame Porsche. We

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Speaker 1: both played a part in the demise of our marriage

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Speaker 1: to saying Okay, Simon and I were going through therapy

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Speaker 1: so I thought I cared. I actually paid for the

420
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,919
Speaker 1: fight for Floyd's fight, and I literally never again am

421
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: I falling for this crap? Never again? But my kids

422
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 1: kept telling me like, so what is it? Over this

423
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: past weekend, my kids were like, oh, yeah, the YouTuber

424
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 1: and the TikTok are going to be fighting, and they're

425
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 1: like looking at me, like are you gonna buy it, Like,

426
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, you better get out of my face. I'm

427
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: not yes, we're not interested in YouTube and TikTok. And

428
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 1: then and then I'm like, the highlights are going to

429
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 1: be on YouTube and TikTok like any minute, exactly, you

430
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,920
Speaker 1: know what I mean exactly. It makes absolutely no sense

431
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 1: to me. But guess what they're making katrillions of money. Word.

432
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 1: I'm almost like, m maybe I should signed him to

433
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 1: get my ass beat to get dropped like oo ocho,

434
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 1: why did you get Oh my god, wait did you

435
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 1: see Lamar odom did he fight? Oh? Wait a minute.

436
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 1: Speaking of Lamar, he gave his He hung out with

437
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 1: Wendy Williams that night. By the way, Wendy Williams, you

438
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: getting your swerve on Honey right, She's now trying to

439
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: get with Gary Owens. You asked, how do you invite

440
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: somebody on to your show to do an interview? And

441
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,120
Speaker 1: then you asked them out for a date. I think something.

442
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,120
Speaker 1: She needs to put that horm on patch back on,

443
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: Honey listen. And they went out on the date. They

444
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: were spotted out. Yes, so after she and then she

445
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 1: tells us she was hanging out with Lamar after um

446
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: he won his fake belt, like this is a mass

447
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Wendy, Wendy, get yours, honey, because you're

448
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: getting it right. I need you to watch the clips

449
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,679
Speaker 1: of Lamar's fight through. Is it worse than Chad getting dropped?

450
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 1: Which one? Well, Lamar one? Right, So let Lamar. It's

451
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 1: like literally like Lamar is like six ten and he's

452
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 1: fighting Aaron Carter. Do you remember Aaron. Aaron Carter is

453
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 1: probably like five four, right, and so he's just like

454
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 1: these long arm I mean he's he's swinging at Aaron Carter.

455
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: Aaron Carter is running all over the ring like like

456
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: a bad but Aaron Carter did get some good hits

457
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 1: off at him. It was like he has some good

458
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,439
Speaker 1: hits and I think he just like warm himself out

459
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 1: because Lamar was just like swinging his like that. Right.

460
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: But Lamar, I'm gonna say this, Lamar, your belt doesn't

461
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: count if you're fighting a four year old, like, it

462
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: doesn't count. If you're fighting somebody that's half your size,

463
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 1: it doesn't. What is the belt four? I don't know.

464
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: It's for the it's like the winner of the losers, right,

465
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think people are so excited to

466
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,479
Speaker 1: be like outside of this pandemic, and they're finding any

467
00:24:55,760 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: reason to get people together to like, you know, do something. Hey,

468
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: if if watching these horrible boxing matches brings people joy,

469
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 1: he listen. We were in Miami and my engrace, my

470
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: oldest story. You know, she's always got something up asleep.

471
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 1: She's just like, why why don't we stay and then

472
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: we can go to the fight. First of all, I

473
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: have no interest in being bothered with these little teeny

474
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: boppers that are going to this fight. And now I'm

475
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 1: not spending all this No, the answer is no. Yeah.

476
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 1: But you know, honestly, I hope they kind of stopped

477
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: because I think they're devaluing the sport. And you know,

478
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,239
Speaker 1: I hope these guys realized how serious this sport is,

479
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: how people train all their lives for it, and they're

480
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: kind of like taking away from it and almost making

481
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 1: a mockery of it. Hopefully, hopefully this will be Hopefully

482
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 1: this will be it. They're more coming, or Door says,

483
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 1: there's more coming, all right, but we have we had better,

484
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: more exciting news. It was like breaking news. The breaking

485
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: news was that Watch What Happens Live was actually live

486
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 1: with Andy Cohen and people in the club house. Andy,

487
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 1: you have suffered. Huh, you have survived because you were

488
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: in there by yourself. You were scratching your head, you

489
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: were scratching your toes. You so you're scratching everything, and

490
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 1: you was talking to yourself. You was dealing with the WiFi.

491
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 1: Remember one day I was on I was on the

492
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 1: floor trying to fix my WiFi, and you was probably

493
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: very angry with yourself. But anywhere you now have a

494
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: live studio audience and live guess Andy Coing. Congratulations, the

495
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: round of applause for Andy. All right, last thing I

496
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,959
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about is I saw the musical with

497
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: my kids in the Heat in the Heights. Yeah, that's

498
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: what it was called In the Heights. Loved it that much, Yes,

499
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: and it was actually amazing. So if you liked Hamilton's,

500
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 1: then you'll love in the Heights. Yes. On HBO, Max,

501
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: I'm giving them a little shout out. It's the guy,

502
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: the Miranda guy. Yes, he did, he did it, and

503
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 1: it was it was everything. Okay. Um, I didn't watch Hamilton,

504
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: but I would take you. I'm just not into I'm

505
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 1: not into musicals and stuff. So angels, angels and the musicals.

506
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:11,639
Speaker 1: So did you like it? A door? If you're not,

507
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: you like it? Okay, yeah it was amazing. It was

508
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 1: actually amazing. Check it out. All right. So we we

509
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: gotta get to what we get into and today's episode

510
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: is called the Power of Pride. All right. We want

511
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: to just be very clear. We know that we have

512
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: so many fans that are part of the lb gt

513
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: Q A community, and um, we are so excited to

514
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 1: be in a space and in a place and in

515
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: a year that we can just be excited about pride,

516
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 1: talk about pride. It's not taboo. And right now, starting

517
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,640
Speaker 1: off this little conversation, I have my fifteen year old

518
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: daughter Adore with us, because, um, I think the younger

519
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: generation is really I don't want to say there's spearheading

520
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 1: the pride movement in a different way, but they have

521
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: a different take on it than we than I did.

522
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: I can say when I was growing out, absolutely yeah,

523
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: I feel like the younger generation, they're growing up already

524
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 1: understanding pride and l g B t Q I a

525
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 1: issues or even existence. I mean, I'll be honest, when

526
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: I was growing up, I didn't even I didn't even

527
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: know that there was a community or there were issues

528
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: to be aware of, um, and so I really loved

529
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: that the younger generation, they're they're growing up with that consciousness.

530
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: It wasn't part of my consciousness when I grew up. Yes,

531
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:33,199
Speaker 1: now a door, I do remember when you were taking

532
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: ballet and you had a girl in your class who's

533
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: who had two fathers. Um, was that weird to you? No? Well,

534
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: I don't even remember. I was so little. But after

535
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: years after that, I had another girl in my school

536
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: who had two fathers, and I just I thought it

537
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: was just so cool, like I didn't see anything wrong

538
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: with it, Like they were all so sweet, and I

539
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: just I think that now it's just really normal and accepted,

540
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: like even on TV and everything, there'll be more represented,

541
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: and I feel like the more they're represented, the less

542
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: people are going to have to worry about not feeling accepted. Yeah,

543
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: I totally weird or something like unusual because it's like

544
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: happening more often. Yeah. Now, I do have a question

545
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: because Demi Levato just recently came out but in saying

546
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: that she is non binary, so I don't really know

547
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: as much. But non binary is where you don't specifically

548
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: identify as a he or she you're plural, your, your, your, your,

549
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: they in them, You're one person, but you don't identify

550
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: as a specific gender. So instead your day then okay,

551
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 1: and that's what Demi Livado is now. Yea, So Demi

552
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: identifies as non binary and and Demi wants us to

553
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: refer to them as they or them. Um, I mean

554
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: that's definitely something that like, as I'm as I'm even

555
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: saying that, I'm trying to refrain from saying she wants

556
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: us to refer you know what I mean or you know?

557
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: So it is. It is an adjustment, it's something to understand.

558
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 1: I wonder is that something that is direc actually connected

559
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: to sexuality or is that a totally different, different issue

560
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: or topic. Yeah, I think that it's different because like

561
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: the way you identify as like how who you are

562
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: as a person versus like your sexuality is like a

563
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 1: different area of who you are? Got it? Got it?

564
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: Do you have any friends that identified it that way? No?

565
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: I don't have any friends identify that way. But I

566
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 1: know someone who was on my who had to substitute

567
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: from our lacrosse team and they were transgender, and so

568
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: because they weren't allowed to play for the boys team.

569
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: They made them play with us, but I would just

570
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,239
Speaker 1: like didn't really know, and like I didn't know what

571
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: to say or like how to Okay, so this is

572
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: so this is my question. They were transgender, so where

573
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: did they were? They born a girl? So I didn't ask.

574
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: I'm guessing because they're not allowed to play with the boys.

575
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: They're born a girl and now they're a boy and

576
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 1: they're not allowed to play with the boys because of

577
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: just rules that already been set. M got you. I

578
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: do remember there's a debate as to whether or not

579
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: that's fair. Right, So if you were born male but

580
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: you are you have transition to female, should you be

581
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: allowed to play as a female in female sports? Right now? What?

582
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: What are your what are your thoughts as a fifteen

583
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: year old? What do you think? I don't know. I

584
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 1: just feel like with all of that, there's like so

585
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: much like genetics and so much things behind it that

586
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: like I don't know, I'm not educated enough to like

587
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: know like what that person like how athletic they are

588
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: even person by person, not everyone's going to be a

589
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: fair competitor, So like what's really the scale of Oh

590
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: it's fair to compete against this person? Beside your compete

591
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: against that person. I feel like more sports should be

592
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: more inclusive anyways, Like I feel like like more girls

593
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: sportshould get more funding and other things like that. But

594
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: I feel like for translator people, I don't really know. Yeah,

595
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: I mean I can see where it's a really touchy

596
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: issue because you know, just naturally, men are stronger, more athletic,

597
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: and so if you have an athlete who was born

598
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: in ale but identifies as female, that natural athleticism and

599
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: strength is still the advantage of that is still going

600
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: to be there. So I understand that the debate not

601
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: even saw where Caitlyn Jenner even thinks that they should

602
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: not be allowed, because imagine if if Caitlyn Jenner is

603
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: saying that, and and Caitlin was a Olympic athlete, So

604
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: if Caitlin were to have transitioned, you know, when she

605
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: was in her prime, would that have been fair to

606
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: the other women? But then where do you compete, Like,

607
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: where do you play? So then you're just nowhere, right, Yeah,

608
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: And that's that's the hard part because that's not fair either.

609
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: You want everyone to be able to have the same

610
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: opportunity to participate in sports and athletics and yeah, that's

611
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: that's hard. That's hard. UM. So for you just let

612
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: you know, UM. And I'm so happy that you are

613
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: totally inclusive and you don't even think about it twice,

614
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: and it's just speaks to how far we've come. I

615
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: remember when I was your age and like my dad,

616
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: you know, he's eighty something as Oh, he's a very

617
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: funny guy, but anytime he felt like somebody was gay,

618
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 1: he would say, you know, I think, oh, that gentleman

619
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: has sugar in his tank, and I'm like sugar in

620
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: his tank. For the longest time, I didn't understand what

621
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: that meant, and so I got older and I was like, oh,

622
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: he means that the person is gay. And it was

623
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: very taboo to even discuss back then. So just to

624
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: see how far we've come is a beautiful thing. I

625
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: think that it's because of all the people that like

626
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: you got to surround me with my life, like other

627
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: people who are more just to have different ways of

628
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: life than like you or Dad. I think it helped

629
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: me versus some kids don't have that much exposure to

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Speaker 1: things like that, so then they go to school and

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Speaker 1: they're like, what is going on? Like I don't know

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Speaker 1: what And I'm like, girl, like, let me help you around.

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Speaker 1: But I just think it's so important for kids to

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Speaker 1: just be exposed to all different types of people who

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Speaker 1: just identifying different ways, because that will just help them

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Speaker 1: in their future. Yeah, and I've always taught you guys

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00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: that we love everybody when when we don't treat anybody different,

638
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: lee and love is love. And I'll be honest. So

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Speaker 1: my I have two boys and they play sports, and

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Speaker 1: so they have a lot of you know, we were

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Speaker 1: constantly around a team of boys, and I will frequently

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Speaker 1: hear them, you know, say oh, that's gay or you know,

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Speaker 1: when they're like the boys like oh if they say

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Speaker 1: something that, like if they're eating a hot dog, it's like,

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Speaker 1: oh that's gay. Like it's all this and I'm always like,

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Speaker 1: guys like stop, like so you know, they're still we

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00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: still have a ways to go with educating people and

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00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: exposing them and and just making them you know, like

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Speaker 1: accepting and just realizing like this is a normal part

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Speaker 1: of life. And so I'm constantly telling the kids, you

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Speaker 1: know that my my boys are around, you know, stop

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Speaker 1: using stop using that as a as a like a

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Speaker 1: bad thing. Stop you know, So it's we're not quite

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Speaker 1: there yet, um, but I think it it does help

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Speaker 1: when there are other children or people who are accepting

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00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,439
Speaker 1: and and maybe maybe they have hear from them to say, okay,

657
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 1: this is not okay, Like yeah, stop, so you know

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00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: what love is love? And I was just very impressed

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Speaker 1: with our Vice President Kamala Harris who marched in the

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Speaker 1: DC Pride parade. Thank you Lucia, her and her husband,

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00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 1: they marched. It's awesome. And you know, her secret service

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00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: were like having a fit. Yes, secret service was having

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Speaker 1: a fit, and we didn't give a damn. Okay, but

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Speaker 1: I love that there was the first sitting either Vice

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Speaker 1: president or president that actually marched in a gay parade.

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Speaker 1: I think that that speaks volumes for who and what

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Speaker 1: she is. She had her love is Love t shirt

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Speaker 1: on and she was rocking and her little pink jacket

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Speaker 1: and her tender shoes. That is awesome and that that

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00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: actually brings up the memory when we were filming season one,

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00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,720
Speaker 1: we didn't get to see this, um, but we actually

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00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: had the opportunity. No, I'm sorry, I think there was

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Speaker 1: season two, season two, Yeah, we had the opportunity to

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Speaker 1: walk in the Gay Pride parade in d C. And

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00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: it was a day. I mean, it was hot, it

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00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: was a long day, it was hired, but it was like,

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00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 1: the energy was amazing. It was full of love. You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy that that we had the opportunity to

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Speaker 1: do that. It was such a beautiful day. And I'm

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00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: mad that that Bravo didn't show a Bravo get that

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Speaker 1: footage and show it, because it was. It was definitely

682
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: an amazing day and it is a beautiful energy. Like

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00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,439
Speaker 1: the energy is so peaceful, and it's just so much

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00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: love and everybody's inclusive. Yes, and I'm happy that the

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00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: I guess the logo or whatever it is a rainbow.

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00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: That makes sense because everybody is just feeling love and included,

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00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: and no one is feeling um judged because no one

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00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: should be judged for who they want to love. I'm

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00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: not in the gay community to know what goes down

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00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: at the gay Pride parade um, but if there is

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Speaker 1: a separation of a white parade and a black parade,

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Speaker 1: and a white gay Pride moment and a black I

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00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: mean pride should be everybody is together, right, it should be.

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Speaker 1: But I think we shouldn't forget the fact that Black

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00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: gay people already have a tough time with I guess

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Speaker 1: acceptance in the Black community itself, you know what I mean.

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00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: So so they're so they're dealing with acceptance within the

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Speaker 1: black community or you know, their families or whoever has

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00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 1: you know, not been as accepting of homosexuality, and then

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Speaker 1: they have to deal with just race relations between you know,

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Speaker 1: whites and blacks, and you know, so they have it's

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00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: like a it's multilayered of what they have to deal with. Discrimination. Yeah,

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00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: that we kind of you know, as for me, just

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Speaker 1: as a heterosexual Black woman, like, I don't think about that.

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Speaker 1: I think, you know, while we've come along a long way, um,

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Speaker 1: just with you know, pride in general, it sounds like

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00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: we have a lot a longer way to go, and

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00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,879
Speaker 1: hopefully the Black community can do a better job of

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Speaker 1: you know, understanding and accepting our gay brothers and sisters,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully the gay eights, blacks, Asians, whomever can all

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00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: come together, you know, just as a unified front and

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00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 1: not as a separate you know, to totally separate causes

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00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: and so well, you know, we are the best allies

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00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: that we can be. Clearly, we got for a long

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00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: way to go, so we do. Yeah, hopefully we opened

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Speaker 1: some eyes to some people today who are listening, so

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00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: we can, you know, continue to add more allies. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I hope. I hope so too. And just for the record,

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Speaker 1: just that everybody knows there's there was a man by

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Speaker 1: the name of Bayyard Rustin. I've talked about him before

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Speaker 1: in interviews. He was the one that um spearhead and

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Speaker 1: orchestrated the march on Washington. He was one of Martin

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Speaker 1: Luther King's like right hand man. He didn't talk about

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Speaker 1: the fact at the time that he was gay because

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00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 1: he didn't want to distract from this whole civil rights movement.

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00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: But he was and everybody that knew him knew it.

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Speaker 1: So he was one of our black gay pioneers. Fantastic

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00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: for the record, yes, yes, yes, Now what's he involved

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00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: in the gay rights movement as well? After or at

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00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: some point, um, I don't know about that, but definitely

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00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: all the way involved in the civil rights movement. So

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Speaker 1: we want to give a big shout out to Bayyard Rustin.

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Speaker 1: So that is how we feel. We love our gay

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Speaker 1: community that loves us. We want to just give you

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Speaker 1: all the happiest and the biggest pride we ever can

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Speaker 1: we love when June comes around because um, you know

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Speaker 1: it's it's time for us to put on our rainbows, right.

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Speaker 1: So we appreciate you guys listening to Reasonably Shady. We

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Speaker 1: are here every week every Monday, Monday after Monday, so

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Speaker 1: you know, thank you everybody, Thank you everyone. We're still

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Speaker 1: having fun. I hope you're having fun listening and we

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Speaker 1: will talk to you soon. Okay bye. Reasonably Shady is

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