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Speaker 1: then this guy was arrested at a nearby hospital lefter

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Speaker 1: seeking treatment for an unspecified medical issue. I don't understand,

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Speaker 1: all right, how do he pull the trigger?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad that the American Cornhole League has issued

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Speaker 1: the ACL, the American corn Hole League. Now that is

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Speaker 1: aware of reports regarding allegations involving Dayton Weber. This is

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Speaker 3: None of it's improcessed, like it's bad, But like, what

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Speaker 1: Because there's a lot I need a lot more information.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well there's a video on CMZ of him shooting

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Speaker 2: Because I was trying to figure out how to he

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Speaker 2: pull the trigger? But in this video that's a fair question.

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Speaker 2: Legit like got his a little nub out there shooting

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Speaker 2: This is wild. So clearly he can he is capable

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Speaker 2: I don't know that was working out right? So you

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Speaker 1: So you were driving, arguing and then shot a gun

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Speaker 1: Oh are you gonna show me?

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Speaker 5: Five years, okay, And but this, this sleeping situation at

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Speaker 5: No, she hasn't called me Stephen bed. That would be alarmed.

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Speaker 1: women don't cheat. Wait what.

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Speaker 2: Wait, hard work, hard working woman like this, she's not cheating.

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Speaker 1: So if he were doing it though, absolutely not even

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Speaker 5: That's it's just strange to be sleeping at the office.

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Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, very have you said something to her

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Speaker 1: All right? I mean I just whatever it is, have

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Speaker 1: So I mean she receptive, because if she's not receptive

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Speaker 1: because why would you want to keep doing this to yourself?

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Speaker 5: No, I mean, look, she hasn't been necessarily thrilled with

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Speaker 1: All right. I wish I wish there was a.

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Speaker 5: Situation closer, but right now it's what we got.

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Speaker 1: You know, Okay, all right, Mike, Well let's see what

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Speaker 1: Eight five five, one three five. Here it goes one

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Speaker 1: think she's cheating. This is just sleep debt. Sleep deprivation

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Speaker 1: builds up over time. Help her find a new job

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Speaker 1: if you want a healthier schedule. Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: So you think this is legit? You think she's just tired?

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Speaker 4: She could just be tired. Okay, first thing first, Sarah,

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Speaker 4: if you're listening, good morning. I'm on my way to work.

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Speaker 1: Oh Sarah, who is that?

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Speaker 2: Sarah is my manager?

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Speaker 4: She heard me on you guys the show yesterday. I

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you really do just need a break. You want

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Speaker 5: But you get old and you get tired, and this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, check on love to nap Here is it, Adeline?

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Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. What do you think stair.

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Speaker 6: Go love you love you? You know I didn't want

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Speaker 1: You know what don't you worry about that? We got

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Speaker 6: I just think I'm not you know, Twitter, don't leave

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Speaker 2: I like how you think interesting quality control you're saying,

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Speaker 1: Up, Just creep up and see if he's actually sleeping

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Speaker 1: you know what. Okay, yeah, absolutely, okay, all right, thank you,

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Speaker 1: have a good day, me too. I mean, that's going

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Speaker 2: Well you had to bring some flowers and say, you know,

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay, that's right. All right, So really your

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Speaker 1: got it. Good Maggie, how are you doing, Good morning,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, How are you great? Thanks for calling, Thanks

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Speaker 1: for listening. Stay or go stay Okay, but you don't

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Speaker 8: It's the same as like if there's a couple who

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Speaker 8: That doesn't necessarily mean this infidelity, And that could be true.

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Speaker 8: This could be an option for them versus her driving

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Speaker 1: I've heard of people doing stuff like this too, By

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Speaker 8: Situation doesn't necessarily mean that that's what she's doing. She's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, thank you, Maggie, have a good day you too,

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Speaker 1: all right, Daniella thinks do you think she's cheating? Danielle,

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Speaker 1: I sure do, okay, and and and just it's normal.

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Speaker 1: is well, I got to sleep my car for two hours,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's yeah. She probably has a whole another family,

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Speaker 1: We don't got to go that far. I mean, now

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Speaker 4: You never know. Listen, if you care about your actual

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Speaker 1: Your car, and I don't. We didn't get much detail

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Speaker 1: I see now if she works at McDonald's and there's

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Speaker 1: But you'll know more than the one. It's in Milwaukee,

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Speaker 4: It is destined?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Danielle. I have a great day.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. Love to day.

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Speaker 3: And you're the thing, fine, get closer to work, Like

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Speaker 1: But every day, like I don't. That's a lot of

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