1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to try to stay consistent with my routine 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: throughout the bucket off. Calm Down with Erin and Chrissa 3 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: is a production of iHeartRadio Welcome the Dress rehearsal. This 4 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: is b Whenever I hear myself on our clips back 5 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: and saying welcome to the GLOVEDWN podcast, I was like, oh, 6 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: welcome everybody that Thursday night football, it's my favorite. It 7 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: gets me so excited. You're a lapsed on that. Let's 8 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: go back to the man who should not be named 9 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 1: voice coach whenever it was before you start like an 10 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: opening you're supposed to take and then go into your 11 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: read instead of having so let me try with calm 12 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: Down podcasts. Welcome to the Calm Down Podcast. Yeah, that's 13 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: better been welcome podcast. Hold on, let me do it. 14 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: How are we doing? Kevin? Thanks so much, No, because 15 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: it'd be like you have to let the let it 16 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: out and Kevin, Kevin, No, Now I'm out of bris. 17 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: I can't do this yo. With that, we welcome you 18 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: to the Calm Down Podcast. This episode we are recording 19 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: a little bit earlier because the Labor Day weekend, which 20 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: I mean, look, it will have already happened. So I'm 21 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: sure Ryan or what a full producer and Kurt will 22 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: be like, we're not talking about things that already happened. 23 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 1: I am so excited for that Ohio State. Oh my god, 24 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: big noon, Like I know, shout out to Fox. So again, 25 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: the output will already be revealed by the time the 26 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: podcast airs. But Steve and I already have a whole 27 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: plan for Saturday. College football. College football can already getting up. 28 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: Wait wait, I'm well, look, I'm just the krack of 29 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: dawn here at the I got to get the pig wriding. 30 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm just football is back. Football is working here. 31 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. We didn't even plan this. We're both 32 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: wearing our where by Aaron Andrews gear, a cute ranch 33 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: edition of Where NFL Line is out. Check it out 34 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: on whereby EA dot com or Fanatics dot We've got 35 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: some commute stuff, fute. I'm so freaking proud of you, 36 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: said friend of ours. I'd posted about like the new stuff. 37 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: I just I cannot say enough. It is one thing 38 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: to talk about, it's another thing to actually do it. 39 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: And every year you guys just keep getting better and 40 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: better and better. So love you all right, girl, huge 41 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: We don't even have to have the NFL season start 42 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: to have massive news. Michael pars Mitlanta, part of the 43 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: Green Bay Packers. This clap is for from Green Bay 44 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: Packers fans and for the Dallas Cowboy fans. I think 45 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: they're less what so so well, we talked about it yesterday. 46 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: I mean, our tech chains with our guys from our 47 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: crewise just going off, going off, going off, going off, 48 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: like it's just it's drama twenty four seven. There is 49 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: no reality show, even Real Housewives of New York and 50 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: it's Prime that can keep up with this. It is 51 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: just fantastic. Now, this is going to be a side 52 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 1: note we talked about later. You and I were both 53 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: in the middle of watching The Gambler and his Cowboys. 54 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: Didn't you feel like watching this happen yesterday is a 55 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: lot like what you saw with herschel Walker with the 56 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: Emmett Smith kind of like hold out kind of thing. 57 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: It's very on brand, it is. It wasn't really surprised, No, no, yeah, 58 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:26,399 Speaker 1: I understand the herschel Walker situation was for all those 59 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: picks and then the picks that had the caveat in it, 60 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: and watching the game. If you don't know they only 61 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: got those picks if they ended up trading the players 62 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: that they got from Minnesota. So there was like all 63 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: these other like subplots within that. But I'm like Jerry 64 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: says it himself in that in that series, he let 65 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: his Dallas Cowboys are a soap opera and he likes 66 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: it that way. So I don't know. Again, I'm not 67 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: a Cowboys like, I'm not from Texas. I'm not a 68 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: Cowboys fan. I'm a fan of the NFL. Sure this 69 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: is awesome. I don't know. I think it's awesome because look, 70 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: if Michael wanted Michael said he wanted out, so he 71 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: got what he wanted. And I don't know. You know what, selfishly, 72 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: I'm excited because I've got the Packers Week two for 73 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: Thursday night football, our opener against the Commanders, and I'm like, 74 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: let's go. I thought of you right away. A couple 75 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: of things from the football side of it, just where 76 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: we are, I mean, take away what I do for 77 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 1: a living. I was raised a Green Bay fan. My 78 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: dad's a big Green Bay fan. He it's weird because 79 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: he grew up in New England. But he said at 80 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: the time the Patriots weren't good, so they were always 81 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: blacked out. Packers always on. So when I became a 82 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: huge fan of watching sports with my dad, my dad 83 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: was like, this is Brett Farv. You know this is 84 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: and so those were my memories of watching it with 85 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: my dad. And then I got to do this for 86 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 1: a living, and you know, Fox when Aaron was playing 87 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: there covered Packers a lot, So I got to know 88 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: that organization really, really well, and it's been some of 89 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 1: the coolest moments in my career. So as somebody that 90 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: was raised a Packers fan, now I'm neutral, but I 91 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: look at the whole organization through my dad's eyes. They 92 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: don't they don't get guys like this, They don't things 93 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: like this don't happen. You know. My dad was going 94 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: on a whole tangent yesterday about Reggie White and him 95 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 1: coming and how it turned the franchise around, and it's 96 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: just really really cool. And then from our perspective, it's 97 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: like seeing Mike in the Green and Gold and having 98 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: him on Thanksgiving Day up against the Lions. Now, what 99 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 1: does this do to the NFC North It's frigging awesome. Like, 100 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: I just love the drama. I love the theater. I 101 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: love that Jerry is just like the gambler, and I 102 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: love that the Packers, holy shit, paid the guy. It's 103 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: all it's fun. It's fun. And for anyone that hasn't 104 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: seen that Cowboys documentary on Netflix, I'm not finished with 105 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 1: it yet. You are, You're one episode in front of me. 106 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: But also it's spending all these years both of us 107 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:45,119 Speaker 1: working with coach Jimmy Johnson. You just Troy of course, 108 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: and Troy, but watching like that relationship with Jerry, me 109 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: and all the backstory of that, and yeah, there's so 110 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: much vulnerability from all of them in this and it 111 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: is so so well done. So you don't all die fan. 112 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:03,239 Speaker 1: You have to just be a fan of the NFL storylines, people, competitiveness, 113 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: like it is freakin' awesome. And I love it, love it, 114 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,679 Speaker 1: love it. But yeah, there's a sequel now the Michael 115 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: Persis Oh my gosh, that is the next episode. I 116 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: was telling my dad, you know, about it last night, 117 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: and I said, Chris so was going on and on 118 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: about it. We started watching it. We couldn't stop. You 119 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: had mentioned when you were explaining the whole series to 120 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: us about the rivalry between San Francisco and Dallas. And 121 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: while I knew it was always a rivalry because I 122 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: worked with Troy, I heard about some of it. You 123 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 1: got to see the footage and these guys break it down. 124 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: It's awesome. You know who's great in this? I do 125 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: want to talk about Troy in a minute, the playmaker. 126 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: He's hilarious in it. Michael Ergan is incredible. Yeah, but Troy, 127 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: Oh go ahead, no, no, no, because it's just for all this. 128 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: It's all those sound bites that you know and love 129 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: from Michael Whorre. It's like even at the White Hoose 130 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: where no one wants to touch the subject matter, and 131 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: he's like white House, I was the president, Like this 132 00:06:55,680 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: guy is just like TV gold he is. And Jared 133 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: was saying, like, what a hell of a teammate, you know, 134 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: like throw me the ball like this this is you know. 135 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: I love watching those things through my husband's eyes. It 136 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: was kind of that way when we watched the Jordan 137 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: doc the Jeter series as well. Jared kept saying, oh 138 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: my god, all these things he's saying, this is awesome 139 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: and he loved it too. With the San Francisco and 140 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: the Dallas rivalry, I think it was Steve Young who 141 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: said the Cowboys made me the player. I am like, 142 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: they made me better and that reminds me of like 143 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: Larry and Magic and that whole thing. Troy is awesome 144 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: in it. I have a fun text chain with obviously 145 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: my boys on my crew that have also worked with Troy, 146 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: and there's troyisms that we love so much. It was 147 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: like the time I think that the media was waiting 148 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:47,119 Speaker 1: outside of his car and is hot, like Trump drives 149 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: me with his glasses. He's like, y'all never take a break, 150 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: do you like? It's so good. It's so Troy Like, 151 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: it's awesome, his style, his hair coming out of his helmet. 152 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: I love the story of now that we've done because 153 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: and we're just talking about it, but there's so many 154 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: moments of it. The aquarium story, Oh my gosh, we 155 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: go and get an aquarium and they bond over that. 156 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: I just think it's so again, you don't have to 157 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 1: be a fan of the Cowboys. In fact, you can 158 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: hate the Cowboys and you can watch this and find 159 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: some sort of you know, through line of how you 160 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: even if you hate them, you have to respect that. 161 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: It was I mean, you, guys, this team has not 162 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: been in an NFC Championship game in thirty years, and 163 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: we still talk about them every single day. My best 164 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: selling team on my clothing apparel. I mean, their fan 165 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: base is rabbit. They are just diehards. It's a religion. 166 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: It's it's awesome, it's awesome wide. The value of this 167 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: team is up there. I don't know if there's still 168 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: the number one. Are they the number one? But like 169 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: up with the Arsenals that don't quote me, but like 170 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: the like in terms of franchises and the value of 171 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: the franchise, and yet you still haven't won anything in 172 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: thirty years. So Jerry, you canno Jerry. But Jerry's a businessman. 173 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: I love Jerry. The other thing that's great is how 174 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: about when they were going out for their first Super 175 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: Bowl at the Rose Bowl and Troy talked about it 176 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: like it just hit me. I thought, I love stuff 177 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:13,839 Speaker 1: like that. Also, Michael Jackson was the halftag and when 178 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 1: Michael Urban's like, I was like, hey, he just stood 179 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: there for a while. I'm like, can you go because 180 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 1: I got to get in the locker room. Okay, love it? 181 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 1: So all right, that was the big news obviously huge. 182 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 1: Michael Parsons to Green Bay. By the time our episode 183 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: will air, we are going to be on the road. 184 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: I mean you were the road because I don't start 185 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: there's a neck football until week two. Yeah, but you 186 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: are headed where and what game do you have? Remind 187 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: refresh the viewers with your schedule. We have Giants, which 188 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: you just saw for a preseason game, and like you 189 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 1: told me, a lot of excitement around that organization. And 190 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 1: then they are at the fighting Terry mcl Lawrence and 191 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: the Jade and Daniels. So we have Giants and Commanders 192 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: week one, which is great. We're so excited about it. 193 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: I've got to do some I am now in the 194 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: tight chest era. I need to just get down to 195 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: business today. I need a solid four hours glasses on, going, going, going, 196 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: texting the boys. Hey la la la la la, catching 197 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 1: up on articles. So yeah, that's where we are and 198 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to it. I'm going to do a 199 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: walk today, a power walk with my serious or whoever 200 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 1: is on. I'm going to listen to some football talk. 201 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: Yesterday I was doing it. I had an hour drive. 202 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: Coach Reid was on. He was breaking stuff down with 203 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: Alex Smith. I found that to be so helpful and great, 204 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 1: Like just listening to stuff. We were talking about this 205 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: the other day is so helpful, just talking, listening going 206 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: over stuff. Sports talk radio will always remind me of 207 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: my father and with my dad and he would always 208 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: have on Seattle sports talk radio and or ESPN radio, 209 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,080 Speaker 1: whatever it was. And I just like always like, I 210 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: mean a couple of things my dad. I mean, you know, 211 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: we'll always stand out the same as yours, sports and music. 212 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 1: And it's like driving in the car with some of 213 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: the best I mean, I still do. My father has 214 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: not passed away, Okay, like the memories that I have 215 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 1: from driving in the car with my dad or listening 216 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: to music and listening to sports talk radio. So yeah, 217 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: you do and so And I like, I can't listen 218 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: to debate shows. They give me an they're just screaming 219 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 1: on TV. But I like a healthy conversation and dissension 220 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:35,199 Speaker 1: and opinion. And I find on those sports talk radios 221 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: they're not yelling at each other. It's like, well, then 222 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: tell me why you think that. And it's like a 223 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: little bit more constructive, which I find to be interesting 224 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 1: to see point counterpoint on some of the y The 225 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: only problem I have sometimes we debate shows. It's not 226 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: the only problem. It's the biggest problem. I have a 227 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 1: lot of these people aren't in the locker rooms or 228 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: on the conference calls with these guys, and I'm like, 229 00:11:54,160 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: what do you what are you basing your opinion off of? Yeah, yeah, okay, 230 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: So so the season will be started or you'll be 231 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 1: on the road and going. I'm excited. I'm going next week, 232 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: what you got. At the end of the week, we 233 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 1: get a new studio at Fox. I'm moving into a 234 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: new studio. It is going to be the state of 235 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: the art. I haven't seen it yet. So I'm like, 236 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: you guys just got a new studio. The boys next 237 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: door in Oh but you're getting one. We're getting Yes, 238 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: the kickoff show is getting one cute qqute. So you 239 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: know how good I am with technology? This ought to 240 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: be good. Oh my god, let me put a pin 241 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: in that conversation. So there's a spam risk call happening 242 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: on right now. I need to many lately. I got 243 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: to tell you something, Okay, ladies and gentlemen, I have jury. 244 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: I am found guilty of not being somebody that has 245 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: her phone all the time. I don't like to have 246 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: my phone. I don't. I don't want to have my 247 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: phone all the time. It's not charged, there's not reception. 248 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: So miss Aaron Andrews and Shared Stole have designated emergency 249 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: pople for their child, Mac Roger Stole. Number one on 250 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: the list is Aaron's sister. Number two on the list, 251 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: drum roll, please Steven Henry Candary. I love his middle 252 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: name is Henry. It's so great. Stephen Henry Candary was 253 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: anointed with the great honor of becoming Max's second emergency 254 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: contact person yesterday. And let me just tell you this morning, 255 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: when we woke up to that text chain, Steve was 256 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: so excited and now nervous. You know what he says 257 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: to me. We're sitting out with our coffee because we're 258 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: trying to do coffee conversations, and I love that have 259 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: our phones with us because you know, sponsored by Illy. 260 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: He goes, yes, sponsored by Illy. He goes, I'm gonna 261 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: have to have my phone during the conversations now, And 262 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 1: I go why, he goes, Mac is the emergency contact person. 263 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: Wonder if she calls me and I'm not available, then 264 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm not a good emergency contact person. Then he has 265 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: his phone and a number pops up. He doesn't know. 266 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: He goes, I'm going to have to answer all no, 267 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: So guess what A call comes through during coffee conversation 268 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: and he goes, Mac, is it you Mac? Every time? Now, 269 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: guess there's every spare call because it might be Mac. 270 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no one is going to take this 271 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: more seriously. I know what I just illustrated than Stephen 272 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: Henry Candary. We will be probably, I mean, I don't 273 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: know in church or I don't know somewhere church all 274 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: the time. We're in church, you're at work. When there's church, 275 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: you're at church, you're at a box. So we could 276 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: be at the Masters. Okay, I'm really not allowed to 277 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: have your phone or you're kicked off. Augusta and Steve 278 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: will be like, fine, I can't go to Master's because 279 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: I can get it on my phone because I'm Max's 280 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: emergency contact person. So we've created a monster. But at 281 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: least you know that your child will always have a 282 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: pickup in case of emergency. So I know. Anyways, that's 283 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: what's happening over here. It's great. It was so I 284 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: actually didn't even ask. I just told you guys. They said, Hey, 285 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,359 Speaker 1: I hope you don't mind, You're gonna be the emergency 286 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: contact curson, no offense. You and I are never around, 287 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: so our names are not on max emergency contact. Hey, 288 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: that's a good head coach. No, your personnel put people 289 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: in a position to have success. I would fail at that. 290 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: You got to do a mother to two people, and 291 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: before God, the sons that I have, they're probably like 292 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: this girl sucks as a god parent. I'm like, hey, 293 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: I'll leave you a lot of money. Actually I don't 294 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 1: not a lot of money, but you know I don't 295 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: have kids, so maybe you'll get money. Be nice to me. 296 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: He is laughing. Max is getting ready to school. Yeah, 297 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: so I had a meltdown last night and I was 298 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: trying to get all the forms ready. Forms are ready. 299 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: I've got a big shop I've got to do today, 300 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: have things to bring to school with him, very concerned 301 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 1: about how we're bringing that in? Are we bringing it 302 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: in one bag? Like this is what? And then at 303 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 1: one point Jared's like looked at me, asked me a question. 304 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: I just started crying. I said, I am having a moment. 305 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: This is what's happening, okay, And it's happening with going 306 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: to school and it's happening with after school activities. I 307 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: got this whole thing. He's coming home, he's taking a nap, 308 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 1: and then what am I doing with him the five 309 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: days out of the week. I need after school activities? 310 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 1: So I'm texting parents, what are you doing? What do 311 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: you got going on? What am I? We're set up, 312 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 1: We even got the little calendar all going in the house. 313 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 1: I have been a freak about this and I think 314 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 1: this is what's happening, and this is why I get emotional. 315 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be home half the week, and 316 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: I feel not bad, but I'm like, I already feel 317 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: like I'm missing a lot. So I want to be 318 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: the mom that sets it all up, but I don't 319 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: know how to set it up, Like I don't know, 320 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: Like I got this cool mom that has a son 321 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: and she works too, but she is really great and 322 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: she'll text me and the nanny in the morning be like, hey, 323 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: the kids are going here? Does Mac want to come? 324 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: Mac ends up going. I text her the other day 325 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: and I said, thanks for being a great stepmom. She goes, 326 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: can I be the hot Julia Robert's stepmom? I said, yeah, 327 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 1: but only the steal like Elie is yeah, in that movie. 328 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, anyone has never seen step Mom. Oh 329 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 1: my god, it's heart wrenching but so sweet awful. But anyways, man, 330 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: I got I'm having a real thing about trying to 331 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 1: juggle both and knowing I won't be there, so wanting 332 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: it perfectly all set up yesterday last night, Jared's like, well, 333 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 1: what time are we supposed to drop him off? It 334 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 1: says here, seven to eight. I'm like, we said eight thirty. 335 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: Is it eight o'clock this morning? I'm texting his teacher. 336 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 1: I'm a fucking freak right now, and I don't even 337 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: want to be with myself. Okay, okay, let's take a pause, 338 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: as you would tell me, and let's go through this. 339 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 1: Make a bee yep. I'm going to give you a 340 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: couple headlines here. Okay, were a great mom, You love 341 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 1: what you do for a living. And your son is 342 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 1: going to when he even understood how many points to 343 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: mommy on TV from the high chair and you're interviewing 344 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: Sakworn Barkley at the NFC Championship game and he says, Mama, 345 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: if you're doing great, sweetie, and three is all of 346 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: the things that you're doing are completely normal. I'm sure 347 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: you're not alone in this, and anyone the listening to 348 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: this podcast that has a child probably feels the same 349 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 1: way that you're never going to do enough or you're 350 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: never going to be perfect. But Mac is two. Mac 351 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 1: is a love. So let's just start with that. Number one. 352 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: You're doing great, like your child is happy, he is healthy, 353 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 1: he's alive. So take the stress off of yourself to 354 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: be perfect because you're never going to be perfect. Was 355 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 1: your mom perfect? No, my mom wasn't perfect, But you're 356 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 1: doing all of the things to at least put yourself 357 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 1: in a position to like have your kid be happy. 358 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: Look at all the MAC has so much shit that 359 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 1: he already does so much shit, so busy, busy. You're 360 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 1: an incredible mom. So I feel like, what can we do? 361 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,719 Speaker 1: And I'd love to open it up to the mom's 362 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: plain possibility that how they manage their time and how 363 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: when they're busy working and everything where it's like, how 364 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: can we help Aaron not feel like the you know, 365 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: heart rate has to be so high or the guilt 366 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: has to be so high because this is no way 367 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: to live. And you're not alone. I knock this off. No, 368 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 1: I think that you are somebody I know. I don't 369 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 1: think I know you are somebody in your professional life, 370 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: personal life as a mom. You want everything to be perfect. Yeah, 371 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 1: reality is not. But that's okay. I think it's I 372 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:15,439 Speaker 1: think it's great that you aspire to have everything be 373 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: as perfect as it can be, but in reality it's 374 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: like you're always going to be falling short. Then if 375 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: the goal is perfect, well then you might as well 376 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: just say I've got an F on every paper because 377 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 1: you're not going to So why don't It's not about 378 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: lowering expectations, but why don't you just say I've been 379 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:34,639 Speaker 1: really into Stoicism lately to Ryan Holiday, and I actually 380 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: listened to this podcast on the way to the ranch 381 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: because I a drive, and it was about like the 382 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: history of Stoicism and what it's all about. Stoicism is 383 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: like basically this idea. And I'm sorry for any philosophers 384 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: out there if I'm butcher butchering it, but in short, 385 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 1: this is what I retain from it and have learned. 386 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: Steve adopts this very well, which is why he's so calm. 387 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 1: Just know that not everything is in your control, and 388 00:19:56,840 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: that's okay. Something's going to happen no matter what it is. Okay, 389 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: the cat, my dog, my dog killed the cat. I 390 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: can't control that. But what I can control is, okay, 391 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: what can I do to help the dog not kill 392 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,719 Speaker 1: the cat, another cat or whatever? That Life is going 393 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:12,679 Speaker 1: to happen. Things are going to happen, but it's not 394 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: what happens, it's how you react to it. So instead 395 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: of absorbing, our reaction sucks. So it is mine and 396 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: Steve has taught me a lot about he doesn't react. 397 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: We are so like, you know, with all of it, 398 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 1: and think about how much energy that takes us. I'm 399 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: exhausted today exactly. So why don't you and I help 400 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: each other when we have our vent session because I 401 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: think that's important. I actually really need that, and I 402 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 1: have that with you because as soon as I get 403 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 1: off the phone with you after just going look, then 404 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so that's still good. I think that's 405 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: cathartic for re you that. But then I think there's 406 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:52,439 Speaker 1: also a point where something happens that maybe is not 407 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 1: exactly what we wanted. We take a deep breath, we 408 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:59,959 Speaker 1: take a beep, and then react. You and I are reactionary, 409 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,679 Speaker 1: so I don't know if this will help you, but 410 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 1: I would like to try to do it together. When 411 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: we want to just react, let's text each other and 412 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: be like, I'm having a moment, I'm gonna freak out, 413 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 1: pause and then whatever. Or if you're not adequate with 414 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: Mac or you feel like whatever, text me and then 415 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: let's let it. Let it go, because you are an 416 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,199 Speaker 1: fucking awesome mom. Aaron. Look how hard you work to 417 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: have your child. Yeah, Air, remind you of everything. If 418 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,919 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be if you if you didn't have this 419 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: tenacity in you, Mac wouldn't even be here. So give 420 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: yourself some grace. It's not going to be perfect, but 421 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 1: you're doing a fucking great job. So it's so funny. 422 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna cry in two seconds. I am so emotional. 423 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: And it's not even about him going to school. I 424 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: know he's going to be great. He's going to be 425 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: not perfect, but he's going to be great. It's like 426 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 1: everything that's coming with it, the job him. Do we 427 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: have our ducks in a row? What's what's the code? Like, 428 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: what's what? Okay? We've got We've to bring a box 429 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 1: of pull ups? So am I walking in with the 430 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 1: box or do they want me to put it in 431 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: a bag. It's nuts what I got going on a pair, man, 432 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 1: But you also have to remember this, you have an 433 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: incredible husband who takes out and is so willing and 434 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 1: wanting to help you out. I don't know how these 435 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 1: single mom I don't know how these people do it 436 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: alone exactly, or people with multiple children. I said that 437 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 1: to my girlfriends Jackie and Meghan. I'm like, how do 438 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,159 Speaker 1: you guys do this? But I say this to you, 439 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 1: I don't have a kid, and I go, how do 440 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 1: you do that? No? No, I don't have animals. Okay, well, 441 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: everyone has their own things out or that puts like 442 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: a lot of pressure on them or whatever. I think 443 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: you just need to remember that the most important thing 444 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 1: is that your kid's happy. I see the videos, and 445 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: I see the pictures of your child that is not 446 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 1: a child. It's worried about how the pull ups got 447 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: into class. Okay, So give yourself some grace and remember 448 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: that like you are doing what you love. Your child 449 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: is fine. And our friend is writing songs about being 450 00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: a showgirl. I need to write a song about how 451 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: am I getting pull ups into the class. It's just fine, Okay. 452 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: I still don't know what. Oh feel light means? What? 453 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: I don't? Oh, thank god, because well she's very smart. 454 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 1: We know that, but you know all words. And I'm like, 455 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm on a stone. We should probably look that up. 456 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,879 Speaker 1: I don't even know how to pronounce it. Oh so light? Okay, 457 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,919 Speaker 1: somebody tell us what. I can't wait to hear the 458 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 1: album October third, can't come soon enough? Hurry up? Oh 459 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 1: my god? Okay, skin update. So to add to the craziness. Ready, 460 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 1: So I was noticing my skin as and you were 461 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: talking about you're gonna go get a facial. I'm gonna 462 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: get one this week. All the little maintenance two nuts. 463 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 1: I somebody was saying, God, your skin's looking great. I'm like, 464 00:23:56,040 --> 00:24:00,160 Speaker 1: thank you. I take a compliment. Thank you. Guess what's 465 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 1: happening next week because of what I do to myself. 466 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 1: It's already happening. It's happening, and I'm just like it always. 467 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 1: It's I was when I wrote this to you guys, 468 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: I was going to say, watch good next week. We 469 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: help this. No, it's just it's what happens. I get excited, 470 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: I get to sit down and it's like it's fine, 471 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: you're great. Everyone's great. Everyone's fine, everyone's great. I don't 472 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: know if you feel like this, but I also I'm like, 473 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: I'm just ready for the goddamn thing to start. I 474 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: just needed to get going. We have been having so 475 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: many conversations about like, well, you know, summer and all 476 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: this kind of stuff. I'm ready, I really am, and like, 477 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 1: I've got the next few days to like relax. I'm 478 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: going to enjoy the weekend all and then I am excited. 479 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: I'm excited for that first pull out the suitcase, let's 480 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: pack the bag. This is always what I do, though 481 00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 1: always I'm so organized. The first few weeks, I've done 482 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,959 Speaker 1: all the things that you've taught me. I've got them. 483 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: Everything's organized. Week five starts defining Week six. Why week eight? 484 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 1: You're lucky that I'm even at the game because I've 485 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 1: made the flight and actually know where I'm staying. So 486 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to try the same way You're going to 487 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: try to not be so hard on yourself. I'm going 488 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: to try to stay consistent with my routine throughout the 489 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: NU get off, I mean ship, I am calm, I 490 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: am rud what them I'm going to be. I'm going 491 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 1: to try. This is what I'm going to try so 492 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 1: organized and so what I say every woman, I can 493 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 1: say this because I have a ranch. Hand is the 494 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: freaking best person in the whole world. I remember a Norman. 495 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: I remember look at my man. You see Norman. Norman. 496 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: Oh Jesus, book at Norman's the og. Norman's been here 497 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: since way before I'm here. Anyone that doesn't know Norman story, 498 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: Norman and Pilot, who has since passed away. Sweet Pilot, 499 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 1: they were here long before I owned the ranch, and 500 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: the previous owners took them with and they left and 501 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 1: moved a couple of miles away. These dogs homeward bound 502 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: back to this ship. One day, Tony goes, hey, Norman 503 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 1: and Pilot are back, and I'm like, well much, okay, hey, 504 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: lovely update speaking of dogs. Oh You're so sweet to ask. 505 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,880 Speaker 1: So sweet Lollie is doing good. I don't know he's 506 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: Here's the question, how long do I keep her in 507 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 1: that like great situation I have going on. We're going 508 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: on two months now, and anyone that doesn't know Lollie, okay, 509 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 1: what I you know? You know, yeah, Wally, I'm trying 510 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 1: to acclimate her up here, and I'm trying to make 511 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: sure he doesn't run away and she's taken care of, 512 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: but she's so afraid of people, and she's opening up 513 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 1: and she's better, but she still doesn't let me petter. 514 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 1: But she's coming around like she likes when the dog's around. 515 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 1: But I'm like, how long do I leave her in 516 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 1: that little area? Because it's also not fair to the 517 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 1: dog that's like lived her whole life roaming acreage to 518 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 1: be like, Okay, we're going to put you in this 519 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 1: small contained area so you are safe. Well she happy. 520 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,199 Speaker 1: I wish that dogs could talk. I don't know. I 521 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:21,679 Speaker 1: got to talk to Tony about it because it's been 522 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 1: bothering me. I'm like, any dog experts out there, know, 523 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 1: how long do you wait? Because I if I open 524 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: up that grate and she runs out, I'm not getting 525 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 1: her back, and then I'll worry about her every day 526 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 1: that she's head and she's not being loved and I 527 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: don't know. So that's kind of where I'm at. Steve 528 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,239 Speaker 1: and I were talking about that last night, like how 529 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 1: long do we confine her so she gets acclimated. I 530 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: don't know what you shoot? Wait, what was I saying 531 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: before then? I can't remember. I don't know I'm excited 532 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: for the season. I'm ready for it to start. Like 533 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 1: I said, I don't know if it's on the pre game. 534 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 1: We've had a hell of a summer. We've had a 535 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: lot of great memories. Now it's time for us to 536 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 1: go do our damn job. It feels like two summers 537 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: we've had it has There's been a lot of great memories, 538 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 1: and I am just grateful for that, but also like 539 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,159 Speaker 1: I love my job, you love your jobs. Like, let's 540 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 1: do the damn thing. We have an anonymous update. If 541 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: we want to get to that, we would love to. 542 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 1: So the original question came from April. Husband doesn't want 543 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: his second kid, but I do. I respect his choice, 544 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: but feel sad. What to do? Our advice if we 545 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: want to go back to it, have a lot of conversations. 546 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: Definitely talk about it. Don't make a decision, and stick 547 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,639 Speaker 1: with it. Continue to talk through it. You want to 548 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,120 Speaker 1: give the follow up? Uh? Yeah, So I just exited 549 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 1: out as the thing because I thought you were reading it. Sorry, 550 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: Oh I can do it. Sorry, here's the follow up. 551 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: I'm pleased to share that I'm almost seven weeks pregnant 552 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 1: and I couldn't be more excited. We had really good 553 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 1: conversations that brought us closer and made this something we 554 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 1: both wanted and entered in together. Please send good vibes 555 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 1: as the week goes on that this little one gets 556 00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: to join us in April twenty twenty six. Thank you 557 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 1: so much. Yeah so canads. That is so sweet, and 558 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 1: thank you for keeping us updated. Yeah yeah, I mean 559 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: this is we talked about when she originally wrote in 560 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 1: and was saying, like, you know, you had such great 561 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: and sound sage advice where it was like you got 562 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 1: to be on the same page and you can speak 563 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 1: obviously being a mom, but like you, bringing a kid 564 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 1: in to the world is hard enough as it is, 565 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: but it's if you're not aligned with your husband on it, 566 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 1: or if you're being sneaky about it and you're like, oh, 567 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: I was on birth control, Like things can get real. 568 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: Don't resent you and resentful exactly. So I'm so happy 569 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 1: that you guys had a constructive conversation or multiple conversations. 570 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure and that and I don't think it's a 571 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 1: coincidence either that like because you were not stressed, no 572 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: anxiety filled in your body, that your body was receptive 573 00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 1: to the character. But I believe in that, like you 574 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: could be. Thanks, we're matchmakers and we'll help you get pregnant. 575 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: What else, and you know what will also help you 576 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: calm down? Okay, I love myself, but doing great, ladies 577 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 1: and gentlemen of the jury. I love you all. Thank 578 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 1: you for listening. I don't know why I had to 579 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 1: make it a lawyer, Oh, you're a lawyer to a 580 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: lawyer to Actually that was my What was your major 581 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: in college? Communications school that had an incredible communications program? 582 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: Not me. I went to UCSB only because I liked 583 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 1: the location of the Collegey, so you want to be 584 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: a sports broadcaster. Do they have a broadcasting program? I'm like, no, 585 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: they don't. Your girl knows what she wants, you know. 586 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: I wanted location and I did internships. But I also 587 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 1: was my major was like, well, let's just pick a 588 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 1: major that's fun. Law and society. I don't even know 589 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: if that's a major anymore, but it was really fun. 590 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: A lot of political science and then you learn all 591 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: about jurisprudence and the history of all this other stuff. 592 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: I object, I am object. I love you. Let's reve you. 593 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: Let's do the damn thing ahead of us. Thank you, guys, 594 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: for listening. See you next week, by the way, when 595 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: we are on here next week. First game under your 596 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: belt and first time in studio. Oh that's what I 597 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: was talking about. I got a new studio. Tune into 598 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: Box NFL kickoff on Sunday night. I know. I'm so excited. 599 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: I love when I get to do it. Oh my god, 600 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: I'll already be at site. I don't thinks I make 601 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: it to do a hit with you. I'll already be 602 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: at site. I'm producing the show. We're doing a hit together. Great, 603 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: see you at eight am, guys. Calm Down with Erin 604 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. For more podcasts 605 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever 606 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: you get your podcasts.