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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Oh my god, honnun, we're doing some hime, Marie.

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Speaker 2: I love you in the summertime because you're just so free,

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Speaker 2: which that's so rude to say, considering we're we've been free.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, are we really free?

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Speaker 3: Cis I still got these chains on that imagine we

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Speaker 3: just like we took a hard left shackles.

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Speaker 1: Shackles on my feet.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying, you're like so bouncy and happy

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Speaker 2: and no makeup.

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Speaker 1: And makeup at the time. Yeah, but you're just I

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Speaker 1: don't know, it's something else.

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Speaker 3: And you can't bounce in a snow boots this, you

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Speaker 3: can't bounce in a heavy ass Doc Martin.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, well you look light.

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Speaker 3: You look light, and you'll look tell me that I

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Speaker 3: look blessed, like I'm losing weight.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say you're.

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Speaker 2: No, your muscles are popping out. Did you look aggressive?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 3: I look like myself. Yeah, you look like it. We

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Speaker 3: dated you would low ki hit me. It's fine, it's fine,

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Speaker 3: you're good.

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Speaker 1: Like maybe I choke you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, not like that room though outside and

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Speaker 3: like a like a taco bell wore.

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Speaker 1: And they're like that's just what we do at Taco Bell.

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Speaker 1: They're like, what kind of sauce do y'all want with this?

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Speaker 1: Just mild? Yeah, So well, thank you for that compliment.

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Speaker 1: That was nice. I'm trying. Did you give me a

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Speaker 1: compliment because I said that you were mean?

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Speaker 4: You did?

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Speaker 1: You did? Is that why you gave me a complment?

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Speaker 2: I see what you posted on the instagram for the

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Speaker 2: Unofficial Expert and was.

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Speaker 1: Like, who is saying something mean in this picture? Everybody

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Speaker 1: said Marie, but they one person. But they love mean.

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Speaker 1: They love when Marie is mean. They love it.

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, well, what am I? But Sydney, you're

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Speaker 3: also mean. I feel like you trying to act like

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Speaker 3: you're this, like I'm an angel that you guys love

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Speaker 3: to hate. And it's like, no, s you mean too.

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Speaker 3: This we bonded over meanness. This is mean, pretty girl

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Speaker 3: bs that this podcast. That's the foundation of our friendship

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Speaker 3: is the meanness.

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Speaker 1: We bonded because you were pretty. And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: she looked mean, And I was like, I'm gonna talk

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Speaker 1: to Regina. George. He's like, that's so nice, that's fine,

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Speaker 1: quiet shade.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So last episode I felt like I was saying

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Speaker 3: too much, and so I want to work on just

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Speaker 3: being more selective with my words and information. Then the

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Speaker 3: nerve you have, the nerve, the audacity selective. Since I

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Speaker 3: did a whole episode I made fun of a dude

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Speaker 3: in a wheelchair, I talked about squirting, what was I

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Speaker 3: wasn't selective on that episode. I need you to be

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Speaker 3: as candid and as messy as you used to be.

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Speaker 4: Sis.

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to get from episode one want

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Speaker 1: to get in trouble. I don't want to get in trouble.

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Speaker 5: I was a comment on yesterday's post that they knew

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Speaker 2: I know, and then I talked to them in the

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Speaker 2: DMS and I was like, if you fucking say anything,

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Speaker 2: I will come and find you in LA and cut

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Speaker 1: I didn't say that, but there's that sweet as there's

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Speaker 2: I will butterfly filay you if you say anything. And

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Speaker 2: He's like, you were being I mean, you're saying everything

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Speaker 2: you said her social on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: I did not you said her social, You said her

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Speaker 3: mother's maiden name, everything, all the information that we needed,

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Speaker 3: first pet's name, the street that she grew up on.

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Speaker 1: You gave us a lot of information.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna stop any hu Marie, what you're an

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Speaker 3: Week because I'm not prepared to go first this so

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go ahead and deflect to you.

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Speaker 1: Is that though, is the word deflect?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Sure, so sure? What were you an expert in for?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I was on the apps this week? Yes, And this

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Speaker 2: apps because one, I'm gorgeous and I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, sweety sweety honey baby, none of us should be

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Speaker 2: I'm fine as fuck, and it's just it's weird. And

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Speaker 2: Now they're not going to me though. Yo, I'm getting

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Speaker 2: curved left and right. I'm just not saying the right thing. Well, Sidney,

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Speaker 2: I've seen some of the conversations and it's like, girl, girl,

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Speaker 1: I'd be a little dirtier, you know what i mean.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, so where do you work?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 3: The question you should be asking is how long can

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Speaker 3: face these things. And whenever Sidney's greenshot something and sends

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Speaker 3: it to me, I'm like, that's what you should how

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Speaker 1: But I don't think you're listening to me.

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Speaker 2: So what do you like? The comments like, so, what

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Speaker 2: are you here for? And I was like, for mutual physicality?

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Speaker 2: And and Devin Walker was like.

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Speaker 1: Are you an attorney?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: Who the fuck talks like that? Mutual mutual physicality is

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Speaker 1: a thing. I don't even know what the hell physicality means.

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Speaker 1: It's like us getting active, we're sex.

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Speaker 3: Okay, ask me that question, and then I'm gonna answer

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Speaker 3: it the way that I've been answering that question.

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Speaker 1: Hey, so what are you here for?

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Speaker 3: Multiple orgasms? That's how I've been answering that question. Multiple

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Speaker 3: or yes physicalitymutual physicality, multiple orgasms, it's synonymous.

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Speaker 2: Yea, well, that's why you're living your life and you're

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Speaker 2: popping that thing, popping that thigh, popping that.

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Speaker 1: Thing like it's your profession.

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Speaker 3: Now, I mean says you know, I'm unemployed, so yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know, this is what happens when shows get canceled.

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Speaker 1: People morph into horse.

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Speaker 3: Oh my God, I imagine it, just remembering like Para Rangers,

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Speaker 3: they'd like morph into like into.

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Speaker 3: Imagine if we see you underneath the bridge, just a second,

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Speaker 3: indict like it's because of Usler.

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Speaker 1: I would never I don't even know where.

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Speaker 3: If you don't even know how you get under a

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Speaker 3: like a londou like rape bridge.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, shut up, Sydney.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, I'm on here and I'm trying,

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Speaker 2: And a lot of people sent me references like other

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Speaker 1: One of them is called called Gush. One is called no.

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Speaker 1: ooh so lesbian party called Gush.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna go. We're gonna go to that. And

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Speaker 2: then I'm on another app called her.

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Speaker 3: And it's weird because all these apps just want you

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Speaker 2: I'm not paying for someone to talk to me. Are

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Speaker 2: you fucking serious? What do I look like a rich dude?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I am not that I am.

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Speaker 2: Either you're gonna talk to me or I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: find everybody sliding my dms. I feel like the people

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Speaker 2: are not sliding my DEMI. Here's here's what we're gonna do, upsetting.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna how much is the thing We're gonna We're

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Speaker 3: gonna slide some of the Patreon money to you so

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Speaker 3: you can get your stella got her groove back on

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Speaker 3: for the summer. I'm your WHOOPI Goldberg says, you are

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Speaker 3: my Angela Bassett.

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Speaker 1: So you're dying of cancer.

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Speaker 3: Probably I am shaving my head, shaving my head so

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Speaker 3: I will look like I'm done of cancer in a

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Marie, Uh, what were you an expert in? Ya?

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Speaker 1: What was I an expert in this week? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I really I don't even know how to to that question.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know what I did this week. So

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Speaker 2: You didn't hook up with anybody, not this week? I

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Speaker 3: I'm I was supposed to see one of the dudes

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Speaker 3: and he was like, oh, I'm going to Williamsburg to

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Speaker 3: and I was like, what is he picking up?

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Speaker 1: Is he a drug child? Drugs? Like a suitcase full

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Speaker 1: of money? What are you picking up? And he wouldn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also didn't want I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: Is there a way to have somebody come to your

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Speaker 2: Are Well somebody who hasn't been on the pod yet,

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Speaker 2: Cola Scola was telling me about us sex blanket where

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Speaker 2: you just throw.

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Speaker 1: He did say your sex tarps. Yeah, like you throw

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Speaker 1: it down and then you're like you do whatever, you

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Speaker 1: then yeah, oh no, it's like reversible. No, you're an idiot.

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Speaker 3: But also I just I feel like you gotta clean.

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Speaker 3: I'm still doing laundry. You must have maybe two sex blankets.

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Speaker 2: Well, you can get multiple sex blank your sex blankets.

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Speaker 2: But I just feel like Marie, we were going so

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Speaker 3: We can still we got time. Since it's only been

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Speaker 3: only a week. It's passed of me not getting my eat,

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Speaker 3: prey ho on.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I'm still out here. What does it

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Speaker 1: feel like? Is it closing up? What is yours? Closed up? Sis?

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Speaker 1: It is? It's been a moment for you. It is

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Speaker 1: closed up? Okay, send the troops.

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Speaker 4: How many troops you need?

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Speaker 1: How many people are you looking for? I need a

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Speaker 1: whole football team? Wow?

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Speaker 3: been a football player.

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Speaker 4: Maybe absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, like we are fans, we're friends, friends and fans

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Speaker 2: of this next guest, I mean literally doing everything and

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Speaker 2: anything that's like next Netflix, Comedy Central affiliated. Right now,

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Speaker 2: you're overseeing Jacqueline Novak's one woman show, Get on your knees.

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Speaker 1: Get on your knees for that mutual physicality.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and I watched it and I was like, Wow,

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Speaker 2: I'm inspired to low key give head right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, but we're not going to talk about all

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Speaker 1: Yes, give it up.

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Speaker 1: Team six getting rammed by twelve people. Rammed, you said, rammed, Wow, sitting.

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Speaker 4: Oh, the sex blanket is huge. I can I can

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Speaker 4: Whenever whenever live.

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Speaker 4: I always my instinct right is to I wonder if

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Speaker 4: To me, It's like the douvet is the thing you

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Speaker 1: No, you must be rolled in it. You must be

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Speaker 1: I don't have a sweaty body. You know it's good.

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Speaker 4: You're sweaty as hell. And I've always been sweaty.

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Speaker 1: When you sleep though, you're just like, yeah, Sydney, you too,

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Speaker 2: I stink too, Like all the toxins, everything that's getting

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Speaker 2: else she's Oh, it's like, am I going?

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Speaker 4: I got to balance that beauty.

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Speaker 1: I can't even say it. I can't even say it.

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Speaker 3: But I smell now, No, I can't contractually cannot say it.

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Speaker 3: it's fine, I'm gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, jump something ready to body. Yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 2: We got it, John, I just want to can I

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Speaker 2: just swoon just for a little bit, like I'll take it,

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Speaker 2: like everything about you, Like I remember when I met

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Speaker 1: It was like love at first turtleneck.

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Speaker 4: We really we have a turtle net connection.

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Speaker 3: We do crazy y'all just said, you're sweaty and you

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Speaker 4: It's I love the look. I really do.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I know. And as I was, as I

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Speaker 4: desexualizing myself at every turn. I have hangover brain right now,

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Speaker 4: so I'm literally the words are not the brain Jacque whine.

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Speaker 4: I got so drunk after the show.

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Speaker 1: What do you drink?

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Speaker 4: We drink this fucking cocktail that Scott sound like poisons.

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Speaker 4: It was like tequila. It's very like it feels so light,

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Speaker 4: That's how they and I don't remember paying.

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Speaker 1: You don't remember drinking dish.

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Speaker 3: You're one of those here's the life of the party

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Speaker 1: It's like uber here later.

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Speaker 3: Got a dash okay, Sharon it so you right bye,

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Speaker 4: Every time I confirmed via Texas Morning that I did pay, okay,

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Speaker 1: That's a good night or a bad night, but that's

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Speaker 4: It was fun.

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Speaker 1: And had it like leak over.

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Speaker 4: The well, I would say like wearing a necklace at

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Speaker 4: I haven't been wearing a necklace over the turtle neck.

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Speaker 4: But I'm going when I do turtlenecks, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, but there's a thing that's saying like turtlenecks

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Speaker 4: But no, I think turtlenecks are sexy. But I think

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Speaker 4: there is there's an irony in it when I wear them,

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Speaker 4: not when you wear them. You, I've never I never

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Speaker 1: Turtle because because there's different types of turtlenecks.

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Speaker 3: Right, Sydney's wearing a fitted like a sheer Yes moment

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Speaker 3: Plush City is gonna it's basically a bodysuit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, it's nasty. She's not putting on got sick.

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Speaker 1: Cash Okay, he's rich. Okay, but Unicolor has cashmere turtlenecks. No,

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Speaker 1: is that branded? Are they sponsoring? You?

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Speaker 3: To his website, John Early slash experts, I.

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Speaker 4: Do love unic cloth, though I am wearing uniclose shorts.

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Speaker 4: Have the shirt that I got in high school and

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Speaker 4: I literally just foun out today has a toothpaste from

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Speaker 4: the Drunk Goodness Toothpaste stand, which is impossible to get out.

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Speaker 3: When you came in, I thought that was Prince. But

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Speaker 3: that's why it's.

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Speaker 4: Aggressive. Look what he's doing.

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Speaker 1: And then guests magic with the statue of Liberty. He's

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Speaker 4: Mercury, David Copperfield.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, I was going to say

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Speaker 4: But well, essentially, I mean, yeah, this is a shirt

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Speaker 4: I got, you know, in one of those little bins,

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh, you were doing vintage

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Speaker 4: So aggressively, like so performatively, like oh it's vintage.

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Speaker 2: That's how you knew he was going to be a star.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh no, no, no, I don't do labels. It's like

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Speaker 3: I didn't do labels as a kid, But that's because

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Speaker 2: I wanted a pair of Nikes so bad, and my

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Speaker 2: got me a pair of bikeys. It said bikey's, not nikes,

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Speaker 1: From start to finish. Was like, is that a big

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Speaker 1: I'm saying? Was it a sloper?

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Speaker 4: Was anttle curl? Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, No, it was just a hard It was a sharp chick.

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Speaker 2: It was just a line. It was a line. There

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Speaker 2: is that a bet?

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Speaker 1: Is that a beat? Bikeys? Like they're screaming and lipped.

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Speaker 3: I mean, knowing what we know now, you should have

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Speaker 1: They're bikes. Yeah, you don't know bikes.

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Speaker 3: But I wish I was that witty when I was

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Speaker 4: I wasn't. I was silly, but I was not witty.

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Speaker 4: I was actually pretty like shy, you know, until it

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Speaker 4: Just like literally trying like literally after school, like doing

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Speaker 2: And wait were you in high school and you started

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 3: You started to his eyes so hard ear least the

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Speaker 4: No, wait, you know what I mean school plays though,

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Speaker 3: Stepping stools, so seriously, yeah, tell well your bang is

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Speaker 3: right now that you took it serious of course, like

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Speaker 1: I don't have time for this science project, miss Cunningham. Right,

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Oh yeah, I was like fully and I had

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Speaker 4: to quit the Crucible. That's sorry, that's what the story iseometry.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what is the Crucible about?

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Speaker 4: It sounds like it's like Salem Witch Trials.

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Speaker 4: Well that was high school, but it's still that's such

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Speaker 4: a like complicated thing that's not fun. High schoolers should

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Speaker 4: not be doing that play. It is I mean, our

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Speaker 4: Like that to me is like I don't think I'm

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Speaker 4: like that is the one thing I will really mourn

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Speaker 4: you imagine the intimacy with your partner of like watching

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Speaker 4: it like like dying laughing.

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Speaker 3: Just like getting stone, getting yes, getting high kids. See,

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Speaker 3: I don't think that I want to have children either,

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Speaker 3: but you saying that makes.

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Speaker 4: Me wants even really about the kid. It's really it's

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Speaker 3: Just like holding in a laugh, like look, how terrible

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's.

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Speaker 2: What you hope, you hope and pray that you have

444
00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,600
Speaker 2: a kid that's super talented. I mean imagine being that

445
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,320
Speaker 2: parent that it's like, oh man, troubled.

446
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but this But in.

447
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 3: The same way that I ask, do parents know when

448
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,320
Speaker 3: their children are ugly? Do parents know when their kids

449
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,800
Speaker 3: are bad at acting or bad at the thing that

450
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:12,480
Speaker 3: they because? Or are they in denial? Like whoa, look

451
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,159
Speaker 3: how good she is at her dance recital and she's

452
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:15,080
Speaker 3: the worst one up there.

453
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,920
Speaker 4: It's probably case by case, but either way, it's sensitive.

454
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,960
Speaker 2: It is sensitive, but it's it's just also that you

455
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,280
Speaker 2: don't want to be honest with the fact because they're

456
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:24,159
Speaker 2: just like they're kids.

457
00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,679
Speaker 1: They're going to grow into something else. This is not

458
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Speaker 1: the end.

459
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:29,919
Speaker 3: My mother told me when I was trashing my clarinet recital.

460
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 3: She was like, I don't make me. No, I didn't

461
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 3: even really play, just like you would like finger it,

462
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,600
Speaker 3: finger it and then just like never blow.

463
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 1: Which is kind of my brand. You didn't even know.

464
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:49,399
Speaker 1: I was like, you didn't even try marine. No, I didn't.

465
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Speaker 3: And but you know I had the little case I

466
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 3: would like wet the red, moisten, the reed. You're all

467
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,840
Speaker 3: about the prep, you're all about the builds up. I

468
00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 3: was like I was like third chair, third like last

469
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,160
Speaker 3: like back back, back row.

470
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Speaker 1: It was bad.

471
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 4: My mother was like, why did I she told you?

472
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she was like mm hmm, that's what you've

473
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,160
Speaker 3: been doing with that clarinet that we paid for.

474
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 4: That Those are expensive. It was percussion in band, So

475
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 4: you for drunk.

476
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Speaker 1: What did you not do? John? Where did you go

477
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,920
Speaker 1: to school?

478
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 4: Felt and now music? Yeah? Well no, but this is

479
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,440
Speaker 4: more just like you were required to do some sort

480
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Speaker 4: of performing art like band class, you know what I mean.

481
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Speaker 1: Or choir or something, or orchestra orchestra.

482
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

483
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you guys are not in LA or New York,

484
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,119
Speaker 1: you have to get a skill.

485
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,239
Speaker 3: You know, you have to in New York. I had

486
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 3: to do that in New York. You didn't have to

487
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 3: play an instrument in school.

488
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Speaker 4: Wait where did you grow up?

489
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Speaker 1: Okay, you know I'm split.

490
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

491
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Speaker 2: I was in Oakland, California, and then I was in

492
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Speaker 2: New York and they.

493
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Speaker 1: Don't have band teachers. I had.

494
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Speaker 2: I had a viola when I was I did. I

495
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 2: did that in elementary school.

496
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Speaker 3: But then when I came to New York, it was

497
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Speaker 3: about like, yes, very was.

498
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 4: That you being like I'm different the obvious girls put

499
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 4: the violin. I'm the.

500
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 2: I was late to picking up and they only had

501
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: a viola left, and they were like, well that's.

502
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 3: A chat like he's a coat hanger and tiny guitar,

503
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 3: and I wait, I kept calling it a violin and

504
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 3: someone was like, no, no, no, well what's the difference.

505
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 4: It's it's smaller, isn't it like deeper? Yeah, a sexier.

506
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 4: It's definitely sexier.

507
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 3: It's not a cellos. It could have been worse. You

508
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 3: could have got there late and had to play that

509
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 3: gas cello.

510
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: I would have.

511
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 2: Actually, I would be better at the stuff that I

512
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: need to do with women if I had a.

513
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 3: Cello, because yeah, yeah, hey dudes, if you'all fucking failing

514
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 3: at you know, sex, get you a cello.

515
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 1: It's good.

516
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: Write up the book, Google how to make her come.

517
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 3: I feel like that's the thing. Go to a go

518
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 3: to a man magazine and read that article. Oh they

519
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 3: don't do that, seventy nine ways to make hard gush.

520
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 3: They would never.

521
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 4: Isn't that funny? It's kind of Jacqueline Show, Like it's

522
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 4: like girls are always like from like age five, are

523
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 4: getting like how to please your man? But is it?

524
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 4: There's nothing the other.

525
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: Word literally nothing.

526
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 4: It's like it's like gay. It's like, want to please

527
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 4: you a woman? You know what I mean?

528
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 1: Well, I think you trying to please you, trying to

529
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 1: make your girl happy.

530
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 4: That's scared. Say no, it's.

531
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:25,679
Speaker 1: Gay, dude.

532
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 3: It's gay to talk about like sex, the communication before sex.

533
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: That's gay.

534
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 3: But that's why when I find a man that's good

535
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 3: at sex, I'm like, oh, he read something, he made

536
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 3: a search.

537
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 4: You actually feel it's not just some like intuitive thing.

538
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 4: It's actually like he's doing He's like.

539
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like can you do that? That made you wet? Sitney,

540
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: he's twisting.

541
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 4: He's sorry that it was great.

542
00:23:53,640 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: Teach me. I want to learn. She'd be like, get

543
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: off of me, get like like playing a boppit.

544
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 3: Remember those things it was like boppit, flick it, knock it,

545
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 3: suck it like that. They should make those for boys

546
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 3: to learn how to police women.

547
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 1: That's what a bop it should be.

548
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 3: It should be stroke it, ask it how it's doing,

549
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 3: flip it, get her a sandwich, flick it, be rich

550
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 3: Like that's yeah, don't be poor.

551
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 4: What do How do you feel like? I'm not shaming

552
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,880
Speaker 4: the people who clearly like learn something or mimicking something

553
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 4: important because we've all been there. Okay, but there is

554
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 4: a difference between like the sex that's like where you

555
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 4: feel where it's just like you feel connected, and then

556
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 4: the sex where like you feel like they have tricks.

557
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 4: And I'm not saying one is better, but it is.

558
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 4: There is something always to me in my head when

559
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 4: I feel.

560
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: One is usually better though.

561
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But if.

562
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 3: You have a connection with somebody, it's less about what

563
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 3: they know and it's more about y'all together totally you mesh.

564
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 3: It just works like great, I said, I have to

565
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 3: have a connection with somebody, open up, your heart is closed.

566
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: You have a fucking i U D in your feelings.

567
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: That's what it is. Yes, you do.

568
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 4: That's major. Did that just fly out? Yeah?

569
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:24,360
Speaker 1: It flew out.

570
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:28,679
Speaker 4: Okay, mark this part in the recording. We have a major,

571
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 4: major iconic moment right here.

572
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: I U D on your feelings.

573
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 3: We're gonna make some i u ds and write hashtag

574
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 3: on official expert on them.

575
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead, guys, it's merched. That's what it is

576
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 1: on the website.

577
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 2: Now, she doesn't want to get pregnant with emotions. It's

578
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 2: fucking I don't want to get pregnant periods yes, I'm not.

579
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 3: I want to that child's recital and I'm not paying

580
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 3: for no clarinet.

581
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: John.

582
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 3: I feel like you're very open, like you're you're definitely

583
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 3: vocal about how you feel and what you want and

584
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 3: you and your partner.

585
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: I feel like you would be great in a relationship ship.

586
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 4: You're gonna make me cry?

587
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: Is it true?

588
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 4: Well, you know what it is. I do desire intimacy,

589
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 4: like sometimes to the point of suffocation. Though that's that's

590
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 4: also part of the problem. It's not like you know,

591
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 4: it's it's a two way street, like it's it's I

592
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 4: think it's important to like want intimacy, you know, to

593
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,479
Speaker 4: then get it. But then also if you if, if

594
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 4: you're if I'm constantly stated like hello, like it's not

595
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 4: like sometimes to let intimacy happen, you have to like

596
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 4: kind of back off the.

597
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 3: Gas like me and oh, I'm just be pressed.

598
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm so pressed. I'm like annoying with it.

599
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 3: Me too, me too, I'm like intimacy, intimacy into macy.

600
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 1: John, did you learn that in therapy?

601
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 4: Wow?

602
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: I know some team here something like it is my

603
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 1: dad here.

604
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 3: Okay, wait wait wait before you even answer that, And

605
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 3: I want to finish giving everybody the visual which David

606
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 3: Copperfield vintage chee redbear.

607
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 4: Right.

608
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: But I love a T shirt that is like that,

609
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: like that summer.

610
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 3: Yes, he's wearing a white okay, not a cream, not

611
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 3: an eggshell, a white short.

612
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: It's very summer home.

613
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 2: It's like either I have a summer home or I'm

614
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 2: on my way to my friends Nancy Myers.

615
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 4: Yes, it's not kind of white. But it's this the

616
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 4: I have to tell you my boyfriend he oh wait, no,

617
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 4: he didn't ship. I was gonna say he tailored through shorts.

618
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 4: He tailored a lot of my clothes recently. He can sew. Bitch,

619
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 4: what are some things I need to be work?

620
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: Does he work with or not?

621
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 4: He saw you at the fund raiser that we did

622
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 4: a million years ago, and he was in love with you.

623
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: Yes, wait, is that what we got these tattoos?

624
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 4: No, No, isn't.

625
00:27:55,040 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 3: And I hosted a fundraiser for some mothers against.

626
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, generally wasn't.

627
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 3: They were doing tattoos in the back and they were

628
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 3: charity men, Sydney mestoos. That's forty dollars in the back

629
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 3: of a tattoos for charity.

630
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 4: There's a lot of pressures for tops, like it's for charity,

631
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 4: that's scario.

632
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: They actually were not that nice, but it's fine. I

633
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 1: was like, it's it's crooked, it's it's a crown.

634
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 3: I feel like mine is in most of my posts,

635
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 3: but I hardly ever see Boop Sydney's.

636
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:27,959
Speaker 1: So we know.

637
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 3: So we know your boyfriend and he is great at

638
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 3: tailoring things.

639
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but what what else were you going to say?

640
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 4: Oh? I was gonna I thought I I was going

641
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 4: to say that he too the shorts. He didn't. I

642
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 4: sent the bell House show. I was like, I want

643
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 4: them shorter, you know. I was like, I was like,

644
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 4: I need like performing in like short shorts because it

645
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 4: feels like there's something kind of like prancy about it,

646
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 4: you know.

647
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and people will be like, oh, you're not supposed

648
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 3: to perform comedy in shorts.

649
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: I love being a stage shorts and or a dress

650
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: and you can really well you are you move, you

651
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: move on stage, you use the hole. He does choreo, choreo. Yes,

652
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: I was gonna say choreography.

653
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 4: And ride pants and it's like and I have literally

654
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 4: split pants from like the movement. Wow, So I had

655
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 4: to I need shorts. I can hike up and so

656
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 4: I can really.

657
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: Need to see John right now.

658
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get that. I'm gonna catch a video of you,

659
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 3: like so the people can see.

660
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 4: Yes, and then and I'm wearing rubber burk and stocks,

661
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 4: rubber berks.

662
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 3: Rubber these are these are not rubber berks. I'm wearing

663
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 3: the art teacher lesbian classic burk.

664
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: But is she a gay?

665
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 3: I got these at Buffalo Exchange for thirty dollars. Okay,

666
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 3: so my birks are thrifted.

667
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 2: My eyes are burning watching both of your feet being

668
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 2: the bottle.

669
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: I have Converse and they are white.

670
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just got the no, honey, I've had them

671
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 2: for weeks on weeks.

672
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: Yes, but you don't really wear sneakers. It's basically Brandon News.

673
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 4: I don't.

674
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: It's just weird to see you guys in those because

675
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 2: it's just like, is that really your brand?

676
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: This is my brand. My brand is comfort. It is

677
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: sweety comfort.

678
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 4: Sweetie has become more and more of my brand.

679
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 2: I feel like I could see you like in like

680
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 2: a sandal that's like couture, like.

681
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: A Jesus John Galliano.

682
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never done like first. I rarely do sandals

683
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 4: and when I do like, I'm scared of kind of

684
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 4: a statement sandal, but I need to move past that.

685
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 3: You're scared of a statement sandal, make a statement with

686
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 3: just sandals.

687
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: John. For you, it's like a water park shoot and

688
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: John has Q feet.

689
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 4: Just to give you the.

690
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: Nail beds very very classy.

691
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: You come from a two parent home, you do classic

692
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 2: nail yes.

693
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 4: But I'll tell you what. I didn't learn how to

694
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 4: clip my nails until all this relationship shut you away.

695
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 3: You know what, you were just scratching people in the bed,

696
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 3: which when you were spooning.

697
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 4: And now I do it truly just to avoid that moment.

698
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: That is, the nails were just like hanging off the shoe.

699
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 4: They weren't. I wasn't like Curl.

700
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: I was like, are you getting book?

701
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 4: Curl?

702
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that. I was like, John, that's not That's.

703
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 4: Not what it is. The thing is this is gross.

704
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 4: But I don't care. The way that I keep my

705
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 4: toenail's fingernails down, it's literally just nervously picking them.

706
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. I thought you want to say, you

707
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: bite them. I was gonna say, but.

708
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 4: There is something just like gross up shredding them, but

709
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 4: especially tonails like absent, Like.

710
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: I saw a dude.

711
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 3: I saw a dude in public picking at his toes

712
00:31:58,920 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 3: two days ago.

713
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 4: I would never get it was like, shoot, I'm.

714
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: Not better than that up at his I was like sick.

715
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 4: In New y.

716
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, tost tikto Okay, we do want to talk

717
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 3: about therapy because that's the name of this episode, so

718
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 3: we touch on it a little bit and then we

719
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 3: can go back to not talking about therapy. Yeah, so

720
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 3: I have never been to therapy, but you guys have

721
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 3: both been to therapy.

722
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: When did you start going.

723
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 4: I started going when I was like literally like twenty four,

724
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 4: so that was two years ago, fifty two, so I'm

725
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 4: thirty one.

726
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: Were wow, so brave.

727
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 4: I mean, there's been plenty of time off, but that

728
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 4: was the first time I went when I because I

729
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 4: was like, I I just I had always, of course,

730
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 4: like been interested in the idea, but it seemed kind

731
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 4: of it's just like it's hard to start anything, you know,

732
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 4: It's hard to do something for the first time period,

733
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 4: so like I don't know, I just didn't do it.

734
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 4: And then and then I literally got to a point

735
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 4: where I was just like I can't keep it up.

736
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 4: I cannot keep up, like what's going but this is

737
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 4: going on, I can't do it, Like I literally.

738
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 1: Why don't we go to therapy? You said that?

739
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 4: And I got like a yeah no. I literally just

740
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 4: was like I'm exhausting myself. I can't do it anymore,

741
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 4: like whatever I'm you know.

742
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So you decided because it was like.

743
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 4: Some southern shit. It was like some southern like kind

744
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 4: of people pleasing shit that I you know, you know,

745
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 4: learned as a kid, and like it just it's like

746
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 4: every friendship, every relationship, everything was just like a kind

747
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 4: of repetition of that and like where none of my

748
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 4: own like feelings were involved. And I was like and

749
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 4: so and it can really get you into some fucking

750
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 4: toxic relationships. Yeah, I died relationships, yep.

751
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

752
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 4: And so I was just like I felt like I

753
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 4: was like kind of walking around balancing these like eight

754
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 4: toxic relationships.

755
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: At all times, and at twenty four.

756
00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 4: At twenty four, just like all my friendships, like deeply on.

757
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 1: Twenty four, isn't everything a little bit toxic?

758
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 4: Totally?

759
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: We eat bad, we drink bad, like everything's true.

760
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 4: And you're like you're like, yeah, that's true.

761
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 3: You're like, I'm fine, I'm fine, But you're twenty four.

762
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 3: You're supposed to be living your life.

763
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 2: You're not supposed to be having the weight of like

764
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 2: everything on your shoulders.

765
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't saying that. I'm saying at twenty four,

766
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: you don't.

767
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 3: We don't really know anything at twenty four, you're still

768
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 3: pretty stupid. Yeah you know, yeah, but it sounds like

769
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 3: you were pretty smart.

770
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 4: Well who knows, but I mean, I I was just like,

771
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 4: I really just felt like I was kind of freaking out.

772
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 3: But then how do you find a therapist? Like is

773
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 3: there an ask jeeves or something.

774
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 4: Like where do you use the best thing to do?

775
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 2: He's twenty four though, when you were still in my parents. Yeah,

776
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 2: so that was different.

777
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 4: For like for two years. So that was fucking incredible.

778
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 2: All of our young folks that are listening to the podcast,

779
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 2: use your parents and surance.

780
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: Shout out to Star She twenty four. Yeah, get that

781
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: blue Cross blue shield, bitch, what's wrong with you?

782
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 4: Do?

783
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: Who listen to the podcastn't hold bad?

784
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 4: I love you. Star She's twenty four.

785
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, use that blue cross blue shield. I'm miss it.

786
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 4: So Maud, I have blue Cross blue shield right now. No,

787
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 4: I had it.

788
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, they have the best of the best. Yeah.

789
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 4: So yeah, so I oh so this is the best

790
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 4: thing that I feel like you can do is it's

791
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 4: like who is your smartest, most like insightful friend, Like

792
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 4: who is the friend that you go to for like

793
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 4: the long fucking dinners, like the late night like talks,

794
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 4: talks talks. They have a therapist, sky Yeah, if they

795
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 4: have a therapist, like you couldn't and they like their therapists,

796
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: you can probably trust their therapists, you know. And I went,

797
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 4: I like had this teacher that was like that became

798
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 4: a good friend of mine from college and like she

799
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 4: was like the smartest woman I knew. And I was

800
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 4: just like, do you ever go therapy? And she was

801
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 4: like yes. She was like I like woke up one

802
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 4: day it was just like debilitating fears, like of death

803
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,479
Speaker 4: just suddenly in her thirties, was like I'm gonna die.

804
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 4: We're all you know, we're all gonna die, like and

805
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 4: then like couldn't get out of bed, you know. And

806
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 4: she was like and this a therapist like so genius

807
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 4: like helped me through it and like got me out

808
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 4: of that ship and like and so then I fucking

809
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 4: went to see her. She just gave your number and

810
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 4: I went to see her. And then she was my

811
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 4: therapist for like six years in New York.

812
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 2: Six years, six years relationship, you crazy beach?

813
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: Did you send her cards on the holidays? Like, did

814
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 1: y'all go out and get snack?

815
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 4: I tell you what it is. It does kind of

816
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 4: get weird because you do you do feel very close

817
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 4: to the Minnesota point.

818
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 3: But they know everything about you, but you don't really

819
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 3: know anything about it.

820
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 4: And I have gotten little snippets, yeah, like every I'm like,

821
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 4: it took me a while to she was lesbian because

822
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 4: she like slipped she said something about like she's like, yeah,

823
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,720
Speaker 4: there is kind of a there's a type of woman

824
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 4: who like like you know, you'll date them, you know,

825
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 4: and then and then like I mean it wasn't even

826
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 4: that explicit, but she's like a type of woman who

827
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 4: you date like that like is experimenting with homosexuality, but

828
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 4: they're not really homosexuals.

829
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: Talk about herself truth and you were like I'm gay.

830
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 1: She was like mm hmm, I meant a man.

831
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 4: There's a type of man.

832
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:04,720
Speaker 1: Yes, man.

833
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I think that is truly a perfect relationship

834
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 2: in terms of when you need to get something you

835
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 2: don't know that much about them.

836
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 4: When the boundaries are so clear.

837
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 2: Yes, And I think that's how I feel when it

838
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 2: comes to like crushes too. It's like, soon as I

839
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 2: know too much about you, I don't fucking like you anymore.

840
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: I love the moment, Yeah, I love when it's mysterious.

841
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 2: So that's the great thing about therapist. You know you

842
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 2: don't know anything about that.

843
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, But if I'm gonna be telling somebody all of

844
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 3: my business, I need to know your business too.

845
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,479
Speaker 4: Well. Sometimes I do want to know something like because

846
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 4: because it's also like it is my preferred conversational style,

847
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 4: Like if I'm like talking about something I'm struggling with

848
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 4: in my life, I like when someone uses their own life, like,

849
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 4: you know, as an example. You know. And so at

850
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 4: a certain point, I was like, can you disclose anything

851
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 4: like at all?

852
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 1: You asked her that.

853
00:37:55,040 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 4: Well, no, because something it's something good, but it's at all.

854
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 2: It taints things when they say, well, from my personal experience,

855
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 2: because they're supposed to be impartial.

856
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: Yes, they're supposed to tank it for you, but it

857
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: sounds like it doesn't.

858
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,280
Speaker 4: I kind of wanted it, But I think that just because.

859
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: You want it. It's as a therapist, it's like you

860
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: have to have those boundaries, yes.

861
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, and those boundaries are really important and I haven't

862
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 4: and so so this therapist, God, she fucking helped me

863
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 4: through that moment, Like I she has. She changed my life,

864
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 4: She really really did. She changed my life for six years.

865
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: How much of this therapist calls?

866
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 4: Because I need to know, like, well nothing. At first

867
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 4: it was like literally fully covered by.

868
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 2: My parents, right, and I want to kiss your parents

869
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: on the mouth.

870
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 4: It was funny, God damn. And then it was like

871
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 4: it was like I would I would go for a

872
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 4: bunch like like like burn money and then like do

873
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 4: a little super bill, send it to the insurance. And

874
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 4: then it was like literally like at a certain like

875
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 4: twenty five dollars after my SAG insurance.

876
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:04,439
Speaker 3: We're somebody's sad. Some of us are SAG eligible. Yeah,

877
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 3: I'm SAG eligible as well.

878
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: I just don't want to join because I don't want

879
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: to pay them. I don't want to play those baby,

880
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: it's not time. Three thousands. How much does it cost?

881
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 4: In my mind, it's like nine thousand start SAG. It's

882
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 4: literally like three thousands, yes, maybe more.

883
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have the Patreon money when we have three

884
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 3: do we have six thousand dollars for SAG.

885
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 5: I thought we were spending on Sydney's.

886
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 1: We're spending it on Sydney's dating app exactly.

887
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 4: I went on SAG yesterday yesterday.

888
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 2: Well, the benefits are whatevs. But the health insurance is

889
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 2: the health insurance for therapy.

890
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 3: So I gotta pay three thousand dollars for insurance, is

891
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 3: what you're telling me. I'd rather just keep living my

892
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 3: life just hoping I don't get hit by a bike.

893
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,240
Speaker 1: Like That's how I've been living.

894
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 4: For the less. Well, there's of course, great sliding scale

895
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 4: some of the like I've I have dear friends who've

896
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 4: seen like fucking sliding scale therapists for like twenty bucks.

897
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: Ah, sometimes they're not good because listen, I went to

898
00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 2: a slightest scale therapist. Bitch had Tom's on, didn't even

899
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 2: have her whole foot in the shoe, and.

900
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: It's just like she was walking on the back. It's like,

901
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: boo boo.

902
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 3: This you're you're wearing slippers pretty much, that's rude.

903
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm telling you, what's bothering me?

904
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 3: And I can't stop looking at the heel of your foot,

905
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 3: was it dry?

906
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: Was a dry hill? It just felt like, you're not

907
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: taking this seriously. She had what Tom's is.

908
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,359
Speaker 4: But sometimes those students are taking it more seriously than

909
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,760
Speaker 4: a professional therapist, you know, because they're like they're actually

910
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 4: like they're invested in a different way. Like sometimes it's

911
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 4: really good.

912
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 2: Okay, but people who walk on the back of their shoe,

913
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: it says something about you.

914
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 3: It's a it's a sense of laziness, okay, but also.

915
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, you had a long day, but your

916
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 2: whole day was sitting.

917
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 1: So it's like, what what are we working with?

918
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 4: This is a sooth dude. Here's the revolutionary thing about

919
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 4: therapy for me. Okay, I never knew. I never knew this,

920
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 4: Like because so this first therapist I had, Susan, who.

921
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: Love Susan is a good therapist?

922
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 3: Name my therapist Susan, Susan Cheryl something like that, Like

923
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 3: someone is.

924
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: This my therapist, Susan Miller who also does astrology?

925
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 4: You know? But yeah, but she, like we immediately developed

926
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 4: this thing that I just assumed was the therapeutic relationship,

927
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 4: which was more just kind of me reporting and her listening.

928
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 4: And so after a while, it kind of became a

929
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 4: little like mom, are you proud.

930
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, like, because you want to

931
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: get a reaction out.

932
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm like coming in and be like this is

933
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 4: going great, and this is going great, and well he

934
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 4: said he loves me too, you know, and like and

935
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 4: she was like, you know, like and so and then

936
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 4: and then I started seeing this new therapist like literally

937
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 4: she will literally never hear this, like she doesn't even

938
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 4: know what a podcast is. But I'm like terrified changed

939
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 4: my life. You changed my life, Susan.

940
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: Sorry Susan.

941
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 4: But but then this new therapist I saw, he's more

942
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 4: in this thing. And this is why even if she

943
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,760
Speaker 4: if you do have therapists with heels out of the shoes,

944
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 4: He's kind of taught me this thing that it's like,

945
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 4: it's not He's like, it's more about like using the

946
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 4: relationship with the therapist as like a kind of model

947
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 4: for like the problems in your real life. So it's

948
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 4: like my fear of you know, my fear of like

949
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 4: confrontation or whatever. It's like he's like, you can this

950
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 4: is the safest possible place for you. He's like, if

951
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 4: you have if you have a problem with something, and

952
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 4: I say, he's like, you should tell me, like, what's

953
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 4: the worst that's gonna happen, Like I'm not because of

954
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 4: the unbiased Yeah, it's like it's really like it's really

955
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 4: interesting where he's always like, use this, this can be

956
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 4: a place to like test shit out.

957
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: You know, just called her on them heels to open mic.

958
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 2: Huh yeah, we just open mic, in with my fucking

959
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 2: emotions and.

960
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 3: Lying my money, okay, Karen, Yeah, cool sounds fun.

961
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 4: But that's why I'm like if they're bad, like if

962
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 4: you if you can only afford sliding scale and you

963
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 4: happen to like land on a bad one, like sometimes

964
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 4: like it is still useful even if you like I

965
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 4: don't go them just to be like, well, I'm gonna

966
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 4: like say what I feel. I'm gonna tell them and

967
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 4: maybe they'll have something. Maybe something really constructive can come

968
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 4: out of it.

969
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: And that's my time and that time back to the room.

970
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: That's perfect. I believe in that. That's great.

971
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 2: But I'm also like, they say that therapists are supposed

972
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 2: to be unbiased and they're not supposed to be judgmental.

973
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: I don't fucking believe that.

974
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're telling people my business when they I haven't

975
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,280
Speaker 3: met a therapist yet, like a therapist that was my friend.

976
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: So I have nothing should go off of. But I

977
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 2: just don't believe as a human being, I don't care.

978
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: If it is your job to be unbiased, you are

979
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 2: gonna judge a little bit.

980
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 4: Well, that's another brilliant thing that this guy said. He

981
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 4: was like, this, it's an it's an ideal. He was like,

982
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 4: the kind of like totally unbiased therapist. He's like, it's

983
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 4: an ideal, Like it is imperfect. He's like, I'm a

984
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 4: human being. He was like, so I will fuck up.

985
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 4: And he was like, and we can acknowledge it, you know,

986
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 4: which I was like shaking. I was like, what do

987
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 4: you mean? You know? But like it scared me so much.

988
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 3: How do you go from one person for six years? Yeah, Susan, glorious, Susan.

989
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 3: I'm assuming his name is something like Kyle.

990
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 1: Or Bob or something, Robert Jason.

991
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 4: It's more than you expect.

992
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: It's his name, Davante.

993
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 4: His name is.

994
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: Davante.

995
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 4: It's Ray.

996
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: Ray.

997
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 3: No, that a hang, that's a that's a pal.

998
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's what Ray sounds like. Ray's like, if

999
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: you want to do something to get off you just

1000
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: say it to me, baby, I'm here for It's imperfect.

1001
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1002
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: He's like smoking a cigarette. It's imperfect.

1003
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 4: You know it's not gonna be.

1004
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: You know race. He's playing cards on the side. He's like,

1005
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: what are you want?

1006
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jack, you want me to do you in? He's

1007
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 3: playing online poker while you're talking to him. He's like, hey,

1008
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 3: dover Nick Nick. He like, just know that it's imperfect.

1009
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 3: Ah damn, I thought I one, like that's Ray. I

1010
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 3: feel like I've never met a man named Ray in

1011
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 3: real life.

1012
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 4: It's it's Ray.

1013
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 1: You're rare, rare, rare.

1014
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 4: You can cut that.

1015
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: We keep everything in maybe no and it's no take back,

1016
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: no Ray. Okay.

1017
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 3: So the goal is to meet a man named because

1018
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 3: in my mind, rais or sexy or is he Saddy

1019
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 3: the dad from Sister Sister, right?

1020
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: I know he's he's kind of hot, yeah, Ray.

1021
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:27,919
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1022
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,720
Speaker 2: But I think there's this thing about therapists that's, even

1023
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 2: if they're not that hot, there's something about them that

1024
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 2: you're like, oh, I'm spending this hour with you. You

1025
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: start looking at ship that you weren't looking at before,

1026
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 2: and you're like, well, the hairline is inteme.

1027
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like, wow, look at the ear loves

1028
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 3: is they look soft? Yeah, And it's like, oh he's

1029
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 3: forty five.

1030
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, what else the good ad? Well, you know, well

1031
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 4: there's a moment too. Also, it's like where you google them?

1032
00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: Oh never, I've never you googled. Yeah, you gotta google

1033
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: read the reviews.

1034
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 4: Noe, well that too, but you can find shit.

1035
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: I think that is where you're breaking.

1036
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 4: No, it's fucking bridge. You're not supposed to do. Now.

1037
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 4: I feel like I have I have now the secret

1038
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 4: in the room that I actually like need to acknowledge,

1039
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 4: like a recording to.

1040
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: You gotta you have to bring something up that you

1041
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 3: found in his LinkedIn at the next time, like next

1042
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 3: time you're there, you know, oh you know, I know

1043
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 3: you know it because you went to brown but so

1044
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 3: and he's like what.

1045
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I'm so scared I'm gonna slip up and

1046
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 4: say like a detail of his life, like how did

1047
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 4: you know that?

1048
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:32,959
Speaker 1: It's like you found his Facebook or so he found

1049
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: his Instagram.

1050
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 3: You're like, Ray, that caption is very problematic, but it's fine.

1051
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 3: I guess it was funny. You're like, how was your

1052
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 3: weekend in the Catskills with the dog and stuff like

1053
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 3: I say, I say, bring all that to Ray.

1054
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 4: Ray sounds like he's gonna be cool open Exactly.

1055
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: It's twenty nineteen.

1056
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 3: Everyone's googling, Hey, Ray CBA is just like not the

1057
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 3: filter for you, just saying, you know, I would go

1058
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 3: with a lark.

1059
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 1: Lark yes, or in the stories a rio Dejanira.

1060
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know you could filter story.

1061
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1062
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 4: Really, I'm so behind on stories. You've noticed, I'm sure.

1063
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 3: But stories are I think what saved Instagram.

1064
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 4: Oh exactly, I love stories, but I'm not like I

1065
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 4: still do the fucking like the mark of texts, Like

1066
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 4: how do people do like where it pops up in

1067
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 4: the middle you want to?

1068
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 3: I feel like that's because it's a different like a

1069
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 3: different dad.

1070
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 4: Well, then what about the thing where it moves with.

1071
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: Are you fifty five somebody? You don't say that.

1072
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 4: I have such I'm so bad with my story.

1073
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:38,760
Speaker 1: You do it from the computer.

1074
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: But but John, we have to be honest with the

1075
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 2: listeners that you are pretty famous, Like you're.

1076
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 3: You're out here, You're a pretty big deal. You're a

1077
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 3: big deal, and you're like modest about it.

1078
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,479
Speaker 2: But that's why you're not on Instagram as much because

1079
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 2: you're like busy, you.

1080
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 4: Know, well, you know it's the numbers. Here's what I'll say,

1081
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,240
Speaker 4: the number. The reason why my Instagram numbers are high

1082
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 4: is because I think.

1083
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: You bought them.

1084
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 3: I knew it, you bought them.

1085
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 1: Heelena Gomez.

1086
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 4: Selena Gomez, I think has some sort of gay like

1087
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 4: publicist because one day I obviously do not know her.

1088
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 4: There's no way she knows me. One day after like

1089
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:22,399
Speaker 4: an ars nova show, she followed me my friend who

1090
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,840
Speaker 4: was on the show and ars Nova in the same

1091
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 4: like minute, Selena Selena Gomez. I was like, did not

1092
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 4: just genuinely follow ars Nova?

1093
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 3: Maybe she was at the show, dude, she might have

1094
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 3: been there since you know, she got that little round babyface,

1095
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,919
Speaker 3: so and she's very like forgettable looking in real life.

1096
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,760
Speaker 1: I'm sure, well she don't have the last.

1097
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:42,760
Speaker 4: Such a good point, Okay, so normal.

1098
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: But maybe her assistant went live at the show.

1099
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 3: Yeah maybe and was like you're you got and she

1100
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 3: was just home laughing and following what was that?

1101
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 4: John Guy Joan followed the numbers shocked.

1102
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 5: She was the most followed account for the longest time

1103
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 5: until Kylie, like a few.

1104
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:03,359
Speaker 1: Months ago, until Kylie bought her shut up.

1105
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, Selena Gum was the most followed account.

1106
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 4: Wow, I didn't know that. Well there you go.

1107
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 1: And how many followers did you get from that?

1108
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 4: Like literally from that, like seventy thousand, like shut the

1109
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 4: fuck up, like just every day. Well that's true when

1110
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 4: when someone.

1111
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 3: Someone with a with a big following follows you, you'll

1112
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,760
Speaker 3: get a little bump yeah and follows. But she had

1113
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 3: she was the most followed on Instagram.

1114
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 4: So yeah, seventy I get dms all the time from

1115
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 4: like twelve year olds or like, please show her this

1116
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 4: sign I made thinking that I'm friends with her because

1117
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 4: show So wait.

1118
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 2: How does someone realize that somebody famous is following you?

1119
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 3: Like because they get notificed. They get notification, right, because

1120
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 3: it'll be like so and so like this image like

1121
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 3: that image, and I guess it says who you follow

1122
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 3: when you follow someone new.

1123
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 2: That's dumb, okay, but I'm glad. I'm glad for your

1124
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:54,959
Speaker 2: new I'm just saying follow.

1125
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's only following sixty one accounts she's on.

1126
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 3: I want to count well, Andrew, Andrew, please please confirm

1127
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 3: that John.

1128
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: Is one of the sixteen. Not Johnny's stressed out, He's.

1129
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 3: Let's see well what he says, no user, Oh my god.

1130
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 4: Devastated, devastated.

1131
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna slide in Selena Gomez DMS and be like, hey,

1132
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is John. Do you need a moment?

1133
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 1: Selena Gomez is the devil.

1134
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 4: It was honestly plateau.

1135
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:43,959
Speaker 3: The follow Okay, this is what John's face. John's face

1136
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 3: after realizing it is so flush.

1137
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 4: I know, I am blushing. I like, I'm gonna be.

1138
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,919
Speaker 1: Like, Selena Gomez, why you're not following my friend? No more?

1139
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 1: You're not following my friend no more?

1140
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 3: What? What was the What did did you post something

1141
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 3: that she was like, oh, this doesn't have the.

1142
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: Right fil on it.

1143
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,399
Speaker 5: She was like to stories, Yeah, she.

1144
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 1: Saw you walking. You posted a story leaving Rays and

1145
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: she's like, is he had Ray? And she was like,

1146
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: oh no, oh my god, wow wow wow wow wow

1147
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: wow wow.

1148
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 3: Well okay, wait, followers come in gust you and with

1149
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 3: therapy you who needs when you have ray?

1150
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 1: Selena? When you have read?

1151
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:29,959
Speaker 4: Wait?

1152
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: So how did you find ray in l A?

1153
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 4: Same thing where I moved to l A And I

1154
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 4: was like, who is my And I have this one

1155
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 4: friend who just like literally her advice that makes me

1156
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:41,799
Speaker 4: cry like I love her, like.

1157
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: He's emotional friends. Yeah, I'm talking to you, and I'm like,

1158
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 1: you know, I'm having a grade. Yeah, you look great

1159
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: on those shorts.

1160
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 3: And you're like sobbing at Trader Joe's and it's just like,

1161
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 3: come on, we can't do this body of I'm gonna

1162
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 3: get some croissants. I'm gonnaive you a minute to get

1163
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 3: yourself together.

1164
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 4: You're coming to the store with you, Marie. That's fully me.

1165
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 4: I go deep in in proper settings. But I asked her.

1166
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 4: I just asked her, and she was like, I saw

1167
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 4: this fucking amazing therapist. He's the best, and she was

1168
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 4: just telling me about him and he sounded great.

1169
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 3: Okay, so what Okay, so attract your Both of your

1170
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:18,240
Speaker 3: therapists have been attractive.

1171
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, Susan, I'm gonna kill myself Like Susan wasn't.

1172
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:28,359
Speaker 4: She wasn't a baddie, but you know, I wasn't like

1173
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 4: you weren't like voiced, Yeah, yeah, exactly.

1174
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 1: Wait how old is Susan Susan.

1175
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, Susan's probably in her like late sixties. Wow.

1176
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 3: Okay, well, Susan, I feel like that's that's what I

1177
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 3: want in a therapist though with somebody with like Asian

1178
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 3: still experience, and I want them to not be too sexy,

1179
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 3: but I don't want them to be ugly. And I

1180
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 3: need them to have good teeth because I can't take

1181
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 3: no advice from somebody who has bad teeth.

1182
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm looking for.

1183
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 2: If I no, let me tell you the people with

1184
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 2: the with the worst like teeth in weird hands they live.

1185
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: What's a weird hand?

1186
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 3: They fucking know people would I don't trust people with

1187
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 3: nice hands?

1188
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 1: What's the weird? Like soft?

1189
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 3: Like let me feel your hands. I know you've been

1190
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 3: through some work. His hands are soft though in a while. Also,

1191
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 3: your lifeline is very short, you're going to.

1192
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 4: I have no idea.

1193
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: I'm just okay.

1194
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 4: You know what.

1195
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 2: John has soft reasonable, nice hands for New Yorker, but

1196
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 2: he's like living in New York. The fact that I

1197
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:34,240
Speaker 2: could touch the palm and it's like not rough, but it's.

1198
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: Something about him like it's been She's like I could

1199
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:42,800
Speaker 1: call me now, but three payments.

1200
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 4: Have what happened? Cleo?

1201
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 3: She died? She died and confirmed and or deny and

1202
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 3: like didn't she die like disgraced?

1203
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, like didn't she get in trouble.

1204
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she wasn't a real thing. I mean, well,

1205
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:00,080
Speaker 3: but like so she wasn't even a real Jamaica. It

1206
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 3: wasn't even really Jamaica is what it is.

1207
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's talk about that, John. I feel like

1208
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,239
Speaker 2: there's like people who are fraudulent. But what about like

1209
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 2: impostor what is it called syndrome?

1210
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: Yeah? What about that? What you mean what does that mean?

1211
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 4: I feel like it's an imposter syndrome, like you're feeling

1212
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 4: about yourself.

1213
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 2: Yes, when you feel like you're a fraud, like you

1214
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 2: don't you don't deserve the things that you're getting.

1215
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's like, well, I mean this is

1216
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 4: very related to therapy. Yes, I think it's impossible. Like

1217
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 4: the why being a person is so hard is because

1218
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 4: you can't see yourself, like you cannot you don't know.

1219
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 4: As much as you try to control it, you know,

1220
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 4: as much as you try to like understand what you

1221
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 4: you know, you can't. You You are not privy to

1222
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 4: the conversations that your friends are having about you behind

1223
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 4: your back.

1224
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 1: This is true. I've had moments recently where I'm like, oh,

1225
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 1: they're definitely talking about me. Oh, like they definitely.

1226
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 3: Something at me, like because I just I feel like

1227
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 3: I agree with you're saying.

1228
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,359
Speaker 1: We don't see how people see us.

1229
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:05,839
Speaker 3: Have you ever seen a picture of yourself and then

1230
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 3: flipped it, like flipped it so you can see what you.

1231
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: Actually look like? You know what? Mushrooms?

1232
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,720
Speaker 3: Now we're not talking about there's a picture of yourself,

1233
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 3: but you flip because we've only ever seen mirror reflections

1234
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 3: of ourselves or ourselves and photographs.

1235
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: But like when you flip your face, it's like this,

1236
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 1: how do you do that? It's weird. I don't know,

1237
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: it's weird. How do you do that? You don't like

1238
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: you don't look like yourself? Is what I'm saying.

1239
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is what I look like. It's like

1240
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 3: this eye is my good? Like, it's it's weird.

1241
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: I need to see this. Where is is this an app?

1242
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 5: I feel like it's something doing picture? Just flip the picture?

1243
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:45,280
Speaker 1: Okay?

1244
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 4: The anger?

1245
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, angry gay sexy tall producer.

1246
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:55,800
Speaker 4: I mean I think that's where I feel like imposter

1247
00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:58,359
Speaker 4: syndrome like comes from. Is like you literally like, I mean,

1248
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 4: it's been really interesting. I've been working with Jack on

1249
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 4: the show. I'm not trying to plug. But it's like

1250
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 4: Jacqueline's like she's getting up there every single fucking night

1251
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 4: doing it's an hour and a half.

1252
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 1: Show, Like hour and a half, she's doing it.

1253
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 4: Show.

1254
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 2: It's it's phenomenal because not only is she actually doing

1255
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 2: but all of the words, it's so much.

1256
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: Where was the show? How long does it run?

1257
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 4: Till August eighteenth? And there's a room on the streets

1258
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 4: that it's going to be a transferring to a different.

1259
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 3: Theater ours Nova'lena Gomez, But no, but she's been doing

1260
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 3: it every night and like this is the imposter cy

1261
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 3: inter thing.

1262
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 4: It's like it's like she literally it's like she's I know,

1263
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 4: she feels a love from the audience, you know, like

1264
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 4: on some level, but she's still it's like she's inside

1265
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 4: her own body, like she can't see just the obvious

1266
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 4: greatness that like we're all seeing, right, the objective just greatness.

1267
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 3: But that's part of being a performer, right, Like, especially

1268
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 3: if you're doing a show regularly, Yeah, you know what

1269
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 3: it feels like to absolutely kill it, crush it, standing ovation.

1270
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,399
Speaker 3: If you get that once, the next time you don't

1271
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 3: get that, you're like, oh, the show was sad time

1272
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 3: right to that to that's the time that you felt

1273
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 3: like you truly killed it. But as a comedian, like

1274
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 3: that's that's what my whole week was was oh wow,

1275
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 3: I need to quit everything I needed.

1276
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 2: But we realized that audiences are so fickle and like

1277
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 2: they're walking in and you don't know what their day was,

1278
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 2: and so you don't know all these people like I

1279
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 2: went on the opening night, and those are people who

1280
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 2: genuinely love everything about there was Sometimes she was saying

1281
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 2: something and she couldn't even finish because they were already

1282
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 2: about to laugh because they're that intuitive to like comedy.

1283
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 2: So you know when you have fans and then you

1284
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 2: know when you have randoms totally and I feel like

1285
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 2: the randoms whatevers, like I'm not here to win you over.

1286
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 1: This is my show.

1287
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I do believe in like like I am not

1288
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 4: into this idea like you should be able to perform

1289
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 4: anywhere like do the heart and so and mic it's like, no, no,

1290
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 4: curate your audiences, Like yeah, I've always felt like I

1291
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 4: feel like the open mic thing is so like male,

1292
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 4: it's so like you gotta.

1293
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 3: Fucking suffer man, and the people who are suffering, the

1294
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 3: people who are suffering.

1295
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 1: Most of them are.

1296
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 4: Trash exactly.

1297
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 1: With people and be successful exactly.

1298
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 4: That's a skill. It's not cheap. It's not like like

1299
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1300
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: It's called self care, okay, And I think.

1301
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 2: More performers need to go to therapy for that because

1302
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 2: I think that's what drives us crazy just every day

1303
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 2: thinking like okay, am I good enough?

1304
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 1: Like what is this?

1305
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 4: Like?

1306
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: How great is that?

1307
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 4: Like?

1308
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: Am I as amazing as they're saying?

1309
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 4: Oh?

1310
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: Are people liars?

1311
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:45,439
Speaker 3: I've seen people say something is good and then tell

1312
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 3: me that it's bad.

1313
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: It's like I can't.

1314
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 4: Trust it right. Well, that's and that's what I think.

1315
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 4: That's what therapy provides. It. It provides this like place to

1316
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 4: like actually start to and it takes a while, but

1317
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 4: you kind of start to see yourself more clearly. You

1318
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 4: like come in with the same kind of bullshit every

1319
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 4: week and it's just like it's the same thing that

1320
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 4: kind of like it is like like gnawing at you.

1321
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 4: And then like over time, you keep coming back, you

1322
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 4: keep coming back, and then like you see, you start

1323
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 4: to see the pattern and then you like start to

1324
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 4: make sense of yourself a little more. And then once

1325
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 4: you see the pattern, then you can like dismantle it.

1326
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 4: You know, wow, wow.

1327
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 3: John, you are an advocate for therapy because everything you

1328
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 3: say and I'm like, WHOA, give me Susan's number before

1329
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 3: you get out of here, honestly if you can, because

1330
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 3: because I'm not somebody who's ever been like like therapy, Like, yeah,

1331
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 3: it's normal because it's normal now, but it's not normal

1332
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 3: in my culture, is not normal in my family.

1333
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:37,439
Speaker 1: If I told my mother I was seing a therapy

1334
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: she'd be like, why for what?

1335
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very it's very trendy now and it's I

1336
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 2: almost am like not saying that we should not be

1337
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 2: pushing therapy, but there's a lot of people who make

1338
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 2: it so that it's like is this like a child latte?

1339
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 6: Now?

1340
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: Like why are you unicorn FRAPs?

1341
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 2: Like why are you turning it into like ug boots?

1342
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 2: Like this is not this is something serious. This is

1343
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 2: like people's livelihood. We need it, Like don't tell me

1344
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 2: what's going on in your therapy session and make it

1345
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 2: like a thing.

1346
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: It should be separate.

1347
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, well them like the weird like marketing

1348
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 4: around therapy. Yeah, so like sinister Marund just like the

1349
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 4: unicorn it's like it's like it's like it's.

1350
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 1: Like, hey, therapy, everyone should go, but maybe everybody should go.

1351
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 4: But everyone should and it does especially like their needs,

1352
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 4: like with men, like there men need to go to.

1353
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 1: Men need therapy.

1354
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 3: Get Black men also need to go to therapy, and

1355
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 3: they're the ones that are least likely to go.

1356
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 4: I feel like, well, there needs to be models for it.

1357
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 4: Like I feel like, well that was I mean remember

1358
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,040
Speaker 4: those like Michael Phelps ads that were going around there

1359
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 4: was like for headspace on posters being like therapy helped

1360
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 4: me a lot for headspace.

1361
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 1: Is that the app?

1362
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 3: I think it's for headspace? He was doing ads for him.

1363
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 3: That's a therapy app.

1364
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 2: That's like meditation and uh therapy, right, I'm not for sure.

1365
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 3: Somebody somebody said an app that you gotta pay for,

1366
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 3: so I don't know, you had to buy it, and

1367
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 3: then you had to buy things in the app, like

1368
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 3: you want to hear what your therapist has to say

1369
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 3: seven dollars.

1370
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're.

1371
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 2: Saying that we have to market it better. So you're

1372
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 2: saying somebody like Beyonce and I go, I go to.

1373
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 3: Susan everybore you kind of like, I love this sh symbol.

1374
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 1: I love I love jay Z, I love Susan, I

1375
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 1: love my cuts, I love you.

1376
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 2: Imagine if Halo was really just about therapy, well.

1377
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:39,240
Speaker 3: She does say, remember those walls I built, baby, they're

1378
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 3: tumbling down.

1379
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 4: That's therapy, exactly exactly. I hope to god she had

1380
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 4: a therapist.

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01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 1: She wouldn't say anything. I feel like she's one of

1382
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: these people that everything is so you know what I mean.

1383
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 4: The idea of like rawness, of like vulnerability is so funny.

1384
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 3: It's funny, like anytime she does a documentary and it's

1385
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 3: like her in front of her mac Book pro camera

1386
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 3: and she's wearing like light makeup and she's like, you know,

1387
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 3: so it's hall you know, to be Beyonce it and

1388
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 3: it's like, yes, it's you know, you're surrounded by people

1389
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 3: who say yes.

1390
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: I wonder if she says dumb stuff just so people

1391
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: can agree with her. That would be Terris, that would

1392
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: be amazing.

1393
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 4: Catch exactly there where she's like in a group of

1394
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 4: her like her like team yes, and.

1395
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 1: She's like, she said, the sky looks green today, and

1396
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 1: everyone's like, yes, it does, Beyonce, and she's like, and

1397
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 1: then can you guys give me a cheeseburger with whooped

1398
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 1: cream on.

1399
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 3: It, and they're like, we already have six of them, right,

1400
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 3: what kind of cream you want to hand hand with?

1401
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 1: Whip? Like like cool cool whip. I think Blue Aby,

1402
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: we don't need her anymore.

1403
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 3: And they're like absolutely, just start kicking her ivy in

1404
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 3: the ass. They just like get out of here, SCRAMed,

1405
01:02:54,680 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 3: and Beyonce is like, look at these idiots.

1406
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 4: Like start incorporating their children their videos.

1407
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 3: I don't know how I feel about that was in

1408
01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 3: all the videos now, but we haven't seen the twins

1409
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 3: in any videos yet because there's still babies. Yeah, she

1410
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 3: doesn't want to be that person. She wanted to be

1411
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 3: that person. She is that person because Blue is all

1412
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 3: up and through the video that sidebar, she stole all

1413
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 3: the visual visual so Lunge from so Lunch, from this

1414
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 3: like South African duo.

1415
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 2: It was like the thing the new Yeah, it's like

1416
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 2: there we go that tea Marie piping hot baby.

1417
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 1: It was like trending.

1418
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 3: I mean it wasn't really trending because people were like,

1419
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 3: Beyonce has been giving us these exact visuals, but it's

1420
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 3: side for side, the colors, the outfits, the formations like

1421
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 3: completely copied from this other video, like same exact People

1422
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 3: are like Beyonce inspired them, so technically she did this herself.

1423
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: And it's like, wow, so Beyonce is your god. Okay,

1424
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: got it? She is to her fans, I got it.

1425
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 4: Kind of a solonge vibe visually from from that news maybe.

1426
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 1: So long and then was like, SI, let me direct

1427
01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 1: your videos.

1428
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 2: Maybe someone pulled up, but somebody in the elevator was like,

1429
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 2: give me the visual beat.

1430
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: Somebody's ass.

1431
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 3: I mean, but I think that a lot of a

1432
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 3: lot of like bigger name artists will do that. They'll

1433
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 3: steal from people who are who are not as famous.

1434
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 3: It's okay, but they're more avative. That pushes me to

1435
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 3: be more famous.

1436
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 4: There.

1437
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 2: I have to work towards it, Like eventually somebody is

1438
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 2: going to steal from you. It's gonna steal for me,

1439
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:30,919
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna steal from someone else and it's fine.

1440
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 1: It's a circle of life. John, You literally pushed Marie.

1441
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 2: Into therapy and this is what growth around. This is

1442
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 2: a breakthrough, This is this is the this episode of

1443
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 2: the year. Wait, but how much Susan costs? Because we

1444
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 2: need to talk about because.

1445
01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:52,400
Speaker 4: I honestly, like she was discounting me by the end there,

1446
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 4: I would be scared to know what.

1447
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 3: John give us our promo code come on Now promo cards,

1448
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 3: early bird promo code John Burley slash early Bird.

1449
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're not going to say she costs three

1450
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: hundred dollars.

1451
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 4: No, no, no, she by the end off insurance pre SAG,

1452
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 4: I was paying one hundred dollars per session, which is brutal.

1453
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: That's too that's too much.

1454
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 4: Just get early side that was discounted that. But then

1455
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 4: I submitted, you know, retroactively submitted to insurance, and like

1456
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 4: I got like seventy five percent.

1457
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: Off twenty five Okay, Marie, work on that.

1458
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 4: You know there are ways, There really are ways around it, Okay.

1459
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 4: But and also I feel like that there is something

1460
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 4: Am I going to therapy at this age? I don't

1461
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 4: want to assume we're the same age.

1462
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: I mean, you said thirty one, that's not what Ilse said. Okay,

1463
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 1: Marie's ageless.

1464
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 4: But you're a grown woman, and I feel like you

1465
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 4: can make therapy what you want it to be. Like

1466
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 4: I went like kind of like unformed clay, you know,

1467
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 4: just but I feel like if I went now like

1468
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 4: I'm doing with Ray, I feel like I'm so much

1469
01:05:56,760 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 4: more like I'm getting what I need out of it.

1470
01:05:58,640 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 4: I feel like you can do that.

1471
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 1: Wow.

1472
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 3: Now with therapy, do I you have to go the

1473
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 3: same day at the same time every time.

1474
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 4: I cannot talk? Is the hangover rains? He knows that

1475
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 4: my schedule is really inconsistent and crazy because you're busy, busy,

1476
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 4: and so I do change the time literally every week.

1477
01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 4: And it's fine.

1478
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 1: You're like, hey, can I come now?

1479
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:23,680
Speaker 3: I'm outside on downstairs and Ray's like, what, how did

1480
01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 3: you get to my house?

1481
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm here and raise already.

1482
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 3: Guy.

1483
01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 2: He's got a notebook with a whole bunch of notes

1484
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:30,440
Speaker 2: and it's like, wait, we didn't even.

1485
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:32,040
Speaker 1: Meet up yet. He's like, yeah, I've been. I've been

1486
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 1: doing extra credit for you. Yea extra work. We gotta talk.

1487
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 1: What if you go to therapy and the therapist has like

1488
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 1: a Lisa Frank binder.

1489
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 4: Then you you you pull a rain and you bring.

1490
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 1: It up and you leave because I think it's rude.

1491
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 2: Are you're supposed to be Everything is supposed to be plain, Like,

1492
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 2: you're not supposed to have loud colors on, Like I

1493
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 2: want the room to be you know, neutral.

1494
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 1: I don't need to know their style.

1495
01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, I wanted to be calming and something

1496
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 3: that I'm like, I feel safe in here. But it's like, oh,

1497
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 3: you come in with a lecture, green shoe today.

1498
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: Susan, dude, you feel like expressed myself?

1499
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1500
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 1: Oh bit you you shop it fashion nova now? Oh

1501
01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 1: I can't.

1502
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 3: Can my therapist have lashes on or no? She can't

1503
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 3: have no falset, no eyelin or no nothing.

1504
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: No eyeline there. Some people need it because then their

1505
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,840
Speaker 1: eyes be real. Sunky, shut up. I need a blake,

1506
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 1: a blank slate. That's what I need you to look

1507
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:29,800
Speaker 1: cute and clean.

1508
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 2: John, this has been fantastic. I've learned so much.

1509
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 4: I have both your numbers. Text my ass if you

1510
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 4: want to talk more about therapy.

1511
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 1: Oh, that's why you have my phone number. Can you

1512
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 1: give Selena Gomez.

1513
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 3: More?

1514
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 1: I can't believe County County.

1515
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 3: I can't believe that happened. And you couldn't wait to

1516
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 3: tell you that she didn't follow you no more?

1517
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 4: He was like, actually in their place.

1518
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 1: John, are you gonna texted him like, can you take

1519
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: that out? Can you take that out? I just it's

1520
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 1: not my brand.

1521
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:07,840
Speaker 4: The only thing I might ask you to take out

1522
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 4: is me encouraging you to join SAGH.

1523
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 3: Is there anything you want to leave the listeners on

1524
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 3: before we go about anything that we talked about or

1525
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 3: anything that.

1526
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 4: You feel like, Okay, well, I will say that this

1527
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 4: I have a really good metaphor that I didn't make up.

1528
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 4: That is, we can explain the thing I was talking

1529
01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 4: about more clearly this okay, So I'm obsessed with this metaphor.

1530
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,599
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm bad with metaphor, And like, if.

1531
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 3: You say there could be one hundred people in the

1532
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:39,519
Speaker 3: room and all of them like you if one if

1533
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 3: you say, I don't know what that is, it's Gaga

1534
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 3: on the.

1535
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:44,599
Speaker 1: Tour for a Star.

1536
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 3: Every single interview, everything she did, she would they were like,

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Speaker 3: John Early, I'm disappointed. What do you notice There could

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Speaker 3: be a hundred people in a room and.

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Speaker 5: If people don't believe in you and only one dozen for.

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Speaker 3: Me that there's like there's a video on YouTube of

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Speaker 3: somebody that put like a compilation of all that together.

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Speaker 1: Bradley.

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Speaker 3: Every time she says that, Bradley Cooper acts like he's

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Speaker 3: hearing it for the first time.

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Speaker 1: And Bradley sucks a mean clit. You know what I

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01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: mean for me to repeat that mean clean clip.

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Speaker 3: Put that in your hinge, Bradley sucks a mean clip. No,

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01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:28,000
Speaker 3: we're putting that on a clutch. It's gonna be a

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01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 3: tiny clutch with a lot of words on it.

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01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 1: John, give me that matter.

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Speaker 4: My version of that is okay. So imagine a bird

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01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 4: circling a tree. So like they're like at the bottom

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01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 4: of the tree and they're circling the edge of the tree,

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01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,839
Speaker 4: and they don't they don't know, like all they're seeing

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01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 4: is like just this, like these like fucking branches and

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01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 4: what they're seeing. They're at bottom of the tree, at

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01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:54,719
Speaker 4: the bottom tree. But they keep circling up the tree,

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01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:56,720
Speaker 4: and so they keep seeing the branches in the in

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01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 4: the in the leaves up close, you know, and they

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01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:01,400
Speaker 4: keep circling, keep circling, circle, keeps me And then by

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01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 4: the time they get to the top of the tree,

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01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 4: they've because you know, their birds are so small, sore

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01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 4: right up against it, they can't see it. But by

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01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 4: the time they get to top the tree and they've

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01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:12,000
Speaker 4: circled it so many times, they start to understand the

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01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 4: pattern of the tree and the shape of the tree.

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01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 4: You know what I mean. So, and that's when they

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01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 4: like kind of absorb the knowledge of the trees, circling

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01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 4: around it over and over and over again. And therapy

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01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 4: is so good in this way.

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01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 1: You're where the bird.

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01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:26,599
Speaker 4: We're the bird the tree.

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01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:28,759
Speaker 1: No, our problems is the tree worries.

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01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 4: They're actually both the tree and the bird. Actually, I

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01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,720
Speaker 4: feel like because you're circling yourself through therapy.

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01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 3: Okay, I think the tree is your issues, right, because

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01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 3: you're going through your issues. You're like I don't know

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01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 3: how I get through.

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01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 4: This or I don't even really know what they are. Yeah.

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01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 4: But and then but that I feel like is such

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01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:50,759
Speaker 4: a like healthy way to go through life with all problems,

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01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 4: and especially with therapy. It's like instead of this kind

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01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 4: of need for direct understanding immediate like linear.

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01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 3: Likeeah, because I'm like, if that was a bird that

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01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 3: was smart, I would just flash straight way right, we're spiraling.

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01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 4: But yeah, and it's I feel like it's actually kind

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01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 4: of like really beautiful to be like that's how we

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01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 4: that's actually how we kind of work as people. We

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01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 4: don't like immediately understand ourselves. We can't like you actually

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01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 4: have to kind of like keep looking at yourself from

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01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 4: different angles.

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01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 1: Wow, and therapy never.

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01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:21,479
Speaker 2: A therapist will never give you the answer and you

1594
01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:22,760
Speaker 2: have to figure it out on your own.

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01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 3: They never tell you what to do. They give you

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01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 3: little pebbles to figure it out.

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01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm paying you one hundred dollars an hour for some pebbles.

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01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 3: If I'm coming in, I'm like, cis, Yeah, I don't

1599
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:33,760
Speaker 3: know if I like comedy no more.

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01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:35,759
Speaker 1: I'm going need for you to be like, but you're funny, Marie.

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01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 1: You should do it until you die.

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01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 4: Well, they both my therapists have been like pretty damn

1603
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 4: encouraging when they can tell that I need it.

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01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 2: You know, they can give you encouragement, but they're not

1605
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 2: gonna be like, so this is what's going on with

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01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:48,959
Speaker 2: me and my boyfriend.

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01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:49,559
Speaker 1: What do you think.

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01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 2: They're like, I think we should say that again out

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01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:55,720
Speaker 2: loud and then break it down. Yeah, and then I'm

1610
01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 2: gonna tell you a few things where you're like, oh

1611
01:11:57,520 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 2: but this, I'm gonna point out a.

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01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:00,360
Speaker 1: Few things and then you have to figure it on

1613
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 1: your Yeah. So it's basically your scale.

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01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're paying for a friend to not give you

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01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 2: all of the advice.

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01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 1: They give you partial advice. I sting like that.

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01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:11,720
Speaker 3: I could just say the friends that I have now,

1618
01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:13,759
Speaker 3: then that's what they give me, partial advice.

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01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:14,879
Speaker 1: They helped me through things.

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01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 4: And I don't have to pay that. Yeah, well that's

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01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 4: I mean, that's what friends.

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01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 1: A mad time.

1623
01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:28,680
Speaker 3: Tell people where they can find you, they'll follow you,

1624
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:30,600
Speaker 3: and they give us your instagrams.

1625
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: Tell people listening.

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01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 4: B E j O H N C E but John

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01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:42,800
Speaker 4: say the Instagram and Twitter generally dot tumblr dot com.

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Speaker 4: And also come see Jacko Novak's Get on Your Knees.

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Speaker 3: It's a masterpiece at the Cherry I directed chan char

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Speaker 3: Lane Theater until August.

1631
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Speaker 4: Eighteenth, eighteen.

1632
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:54,960
Speaker 1: And where what you have coming up in La?

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Speaker 3: What shows on television are coming out that people should

1634
01:12:58,360 --> 01:12:58,680
Speaker 3: be on a look?

1635
01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:01,559
Speaker 4: Have a monthly show that Sydney did so fine?

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01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:07,040
Speaker 3: Fun talk to Ray, Hey, Ray Ray, come to your shows?

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01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:08,719
Speaker 1: Imagine he cannot.

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01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 4: Jacqueline saw her therapist in the audience, her old therapist

1639
01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:15,759
Speaker 4: from her twenties, who literally fell asleep during her session.

1640
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:20,599
Speaker 1: That's so rude but also hilarious. Was just sleeping during

1641
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 1: her show?

1642
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:27,080
Speaker 2: A wait, and I'm gonna need the listeners to do

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01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 2: us a favor. I saw, did y'all do that for

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01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,280
Speaker 2: Jack Jack Knight, I need you all to go to

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01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 2: Selena Gomez page and put palm trees underneath one of

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01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:38,840
Speaker 2: her photos for the shadiness.

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01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 1: The most recent one that she posted.

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01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 3: When you hear this episode, go to Selena Gomez this

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01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 3: page the most recent photo she posted, drown it with

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01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 3: the palm trees shady and then hashtag anofficial expert because

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01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:51,360
Speaker 3: we need.

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Speaker 1: We NEEDHAG Official expert and then just trees B John C.

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01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:04,000
Speaker 3: John We stand with Bejon, Yeah, we stand with I'm

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01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:04,800
Speaker 3: with her, I'm with.

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01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:09,080
Speaker 1: Her, I'm with Ray. Thanks guy, Ray.

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01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:11,879
Speaker 3: I'm a subscribe and high at us on the patreoon

1657
01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:13,880
Speaker 3: and see us every Sunday at the Nitty Factory.

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Speaker 4: Yes, plea.

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01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 1: Bye. Forever.

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