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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Levi and Woodbridge. Levi says,

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Speaker 1: I believe in disciplining my son whenever he needs it.

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Speaker 1: He told me to shut up, so I ganged him

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Speaker 1: by the shirt collar to get his attention. My wife

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Speaker 1: hates when I react that way because our son is

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Speaker 1: only five. At what age is it appropriate to snatch him?

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Speaker 2: Fuck?

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Speaker 1: Give me, I just need a number.

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Speaker 3: Probably it's somewhere like at my house when I was

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Speaker 3: growing up. I think collar snatching started around two. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know, you know when I got to them Terrible

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Speaker 3: Tunes and said, no, no, I ain't ever told my

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Speaker 3: daddy to shut up. That was a consequence attached to that.

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Speaker 3: That was, you know, yeah, and once again, fathers, mothers,

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Speaker 3: when you have a man that's trying to raise these

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Speaker 3: boys and help teach them the way the manhood. If

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Speaker 3: I were you, I would allow that to happen, because

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Speaker 3: if you don't have an if you have an undisciplined boy,

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, does that you're either gonna

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Speaker 3: bury him or you're gonna have an inmate that you

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Speaker 3: cannot have undisciplined boys and he would do some undisciplined

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Speaker 3: things to girls. And you're stopping this man from checking

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Speaker 3: this boy. If you stupid enough to tell your daddy stupid,

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Speaker 3: you might say that shut up.

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Speaker 2: You might say that to the police. Then guess what.

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Speaker 1: Yeah? All right. Moving on to Kendra and Indianapolis, Keindre writes,

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight years old and my mom is dating

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Speaker 1: a thirty two year old that I dated. I told

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Speaker 1: her that we dated, and he confirmed it for her,

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Speaker 1: but she doesn't care. Luckily we never had sex. What

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Speaker 1: kind of man would do that? Am I supposed to

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Speaker 1: be okay with this? No?

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Speaker 2: You know you don't have to be okay with it.

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Speaker 2: The problem is your mama okay with it? Yeah, mama

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Speaker 2: got to get her. See, I understand you not being

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Speaker 2: okay with it. Mama.

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Speaker 3: I dated this man, now he dating your mama. I

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Speaker 3: will say this though, I'm just going out here on this.

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Speaker 2: From here, I never see your mama.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 2: If Levonte won them?

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Speaker 1: Yes, and Leavonte fine, Yeah, there's not a lot of

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Speaker 1: ugly Levante's.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Shay and Topeka, Shay writes, I worked

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Speaker 1: part time in a hardware store and my ex came

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Speaker 1: to get extra keys made for his house. He left

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Speaker 1: his original key in the store and I called to

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Speaker 1: tell him. He told me to keep the key. Is

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Speaker 1: it a sign that we're not done? Or is he

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Speaker 1: going to change his lots?

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Speaker 2: So, but he came in there to get copies of

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Speaker 2: the key made.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, extra extra.

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Speaker 3: So he got copies of the keys. How does that

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Speaker 3: signify change in the lot?

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Speaker 1: Exactly? So?

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Speaker 2: Is it a sign that you know, well one here

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Speaker 2: or he don't want to go back down there and

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Speaker 2: see you, so he'd have told you to just.

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Speaker 1: There's that? There's that?

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Speaker 3: Is that a sign that he want I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 3: he would have said more than that. Hey, look, i'm

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Speaker 3: gonna get these extra keys made. Here's one for you

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Speaker 3: in case you ever need to stop by for anything,

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Speaker 3: because I'm.

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Speaker 2: Here for you.

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Speaker 3: He would have said that if he left the original

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Speaker 3: key and he told you to keep it because he

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Speaker 3: ain't want to come.

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Speaker 1: Back down, not a sign of anything.

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Speaker 2: That. Oh, that's a sign in I saw keep it.

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Speaker 2: That's how he's said. It's Steve, oh man, you got

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Speaker 2: all you got? Yeah? Gon keep it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. He didn't even call her when he noticed that

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Speaker 1: he was missing. She called him. Yeah, all right, this

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Speaker 1: is the last one. Okay, listen carefully, this is the

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Speaker 1: last one. But Tina and Harlem writes, I've had a

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Speaker 1: special relationship with a neighbor for five years and her

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Speaker 1: husband didn't know about it, and neither did my husband.

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Speaker 1: She's divorced now and she's expecting to spend more time

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Speaker 1: with me. That's not happening. So how do I tell

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Speaker 1: her that?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'll tell you what going across the hall and tell.

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Speaker 2: Her there because she's a neighbor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, all this now, you you didn't messed up

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Speaker 3: your house.

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Speaker 2: But I ain't trying to mess up mind.

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Speaker 3: I was just doing trying to do a little something

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Speaker 3: something on the side. You ain't, I ain't really, I'm

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Speaker 3: you know, it ain't. It ain't what I thought it was.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: It was just enjoying the sneaking around and every now

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Speaker 3: and then and all that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I can't, you know, I'm a little

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be honest with you. When I hear

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Speaker 3: about women with other women, I'm way more tolerant. Mm hmm. Okay,

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Speaker 3: because I actually see what they see, what she see.

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Speaker 2: I got, Yeah, I see that you no, just giving

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Speaker 2: him an example. No, you think before you speaking.

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Speaker 1: Just no, get everybody driving thinking it.

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Speaker 2: Come everybody driving.

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Speaker 1: You have to say everything that comes to your mind.

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Speaker 2: Got to move. So yeah, move, I'm saying, answer with me.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're gonna break up with you probably

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Speaker 1: want to do it somewhere in pupplic and Harlem, like,

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Speaker 1: take her down to Apollow and tell her.

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Speaker 2: Don't tell that that. Just go down to Apollow and

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Speaker 2: break up. Don't don't do that at that apartment. Take

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Speaker 2: it Sylvius s Army at the Apollo. Bring till get there,

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Speaker 2: show your love, rubbed the rock. I don't need to

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Speaker 2: do this no more, all right, stay.

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Speaker 1: Tell her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes you just don't have an answer for you

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Speaker 2: know one thing I've discovered. Well, you can't help everybody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but you gave her an answer. You just

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Speaker 1: said to tell her walk across and tell her, because

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Speaker 1: that's what she wants to know. How does she tell

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Speaker 1: her that? You know?

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Speaker 3: I would use English. English would probably be the best

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Speaker 3: way to get.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean you think about? I don't know

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Speaker 2: how to tell her the English word?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Wow?

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Speaker 3: If you try to do it in Russian and is

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Speaker 3: really just gonna sound too harsh.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you, Clo, you tried, you definitely try.

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Speaker 1: You're listening.

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Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show