Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sillers podcast with your host. Not funk that with your
Speaker 1: low blasses, Malone. You don't know who may have you
Speaker 1: ever heard that name? Oh? That's um the Long's husband, right,
Speaker 1: the coach of the boy, not not not near Longs fiance.
Speaker 1: He's the coach. That's how I know who he is.
Speaker 1: But go ahead, what about him? I don't ever reduce
Speaker 1: some man to be in somebody. Why not right now?
Speaker 1: He just embarrassed her right now, so we can reduce
Speaker 1: him to however we need to embarrass sir, he had
Speaker 1: a freaking relationship with somebody and she's that's his What
Speaker 1: are you talking about? That's public communication? You have children.
Speaker 1: What does it have to do? That's a that's embarrassing.
Speaker 1: Why did you say it wasn't have to do with who?
Speaker 1: I'm asking you? Why is it embarrassing? Yea, man, it's caught.
Speaker 1: Not only does she know he's Shet, the whole world
Speaker 1: know he's She did that's embarrassing. Why because it just
Speaker 1: is like, damn, I thought about that. I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's embarrassing, but it's hurtful, of course, hurtful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's just still embarrassing money, Like you don't I
Speaker 1: know when I'm sorry someone cheats. Of course it's hurtful
Speaker 1: and everything like that. I'm just saying, like, just for
Speaker 1: it to be in the public eye, that ship just embarrassing,
Speaker 1: like this is but shot up to me along, But
Speaker 1: my bad if I that made him a young man,
Speaker 1: a little man. No, I mean that's how you know
Speaker 1: about him. I mean that's how I knew about him.
Speaker 1: I mean, he's the coach of the Boston Celtics, like
Speaker 1: he would safe suspending them for the whole season. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but he just took them to the finals last year. No,
Speaker 1: I was thinking, I was just thinking, um about cheating
Speaker 1: versus affairs like, um, but let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: Why is it? Why do you feel like it's your father,
Speaker 1: for god cheats? How do I feel like it's my fault? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like why do you like? Why do y'all internalize that?
Speaker 1: M hmm. Sometimes you may look at yourself in the
Speaker 1: mirror and be like, Okay, I could have did certain things,
Speaker 1: you know, or I could have handled certain things differently
Speaker 1: or whatever. But I think that a man, man or
Speaker 1: a woman would feel that way afterwards, especially if they
Speaker 1: Men don't. Men don't feel like it's my fault. Men
Speaker 1: don't internalize cheating. It's you know, so you don't think that.
Speaker 1: Why would I think it's my fault? Exactly? And if
Speaker 1: you that's what I'm saying, If you cheat, it's your fault,
Speaker 1: ain't I don't think that way? Not you word? Obviously whatever,
Speaker 1: internalize it? Right. They immediately start to say, what did
Speaker 1: I do? No, okay, I had a situation world, No,
Speaker 1: that's not true. You could do whatever. If a man's
Speaker 1: gonna cheat, het gonna cheat. So why do you internalize it?
Speaker 1: Why do you feel like it's some greate? Why was
Speaker 1: you over there? Like? Why did he cheat on me?
Speaker 1: I was young, I didn't understand. That was my first
Speaker 1: first I was in love with I don't understand none
Speaker 1: of that. I was like, how could he take my
Speaker 1: heart and just crush it in a million pieces like that? Like?
Speaker 1: Why is your heart crushing too? A million peoples? I
Speaker 1: don't know? I was, I was in love. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: your heart hurt? What do you hurt? What was hurtful
Speaker 1: about it? Why? Why are you hurting? I'm asking why
Speaker 1: why am I hurting? Like when somebody cheats? On you
Speaker 1: what hurts? Like, why you're heart hurting because I'm because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave them because we probably might not be together.
Speaker 1: That's what I would you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: I'm in a different place in my life right now,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm like, oh my gosh, like I can't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to not be with him.
Speaker 1: I can't I start thinking about him with other women,
Speaker 1: just like oh my gosh, Like that's what's hurting. It's like, what,
Speaker 1: why does that bother you? Because that's my man? Well
Speaker 1: he ain't my man no more. But but I'm saying
Speaker 1: he's not your man anymore? No? Why not? Because he was?
Speaker 1: Like why what? Like I'm trying to get into a
Speaker 1: place to actually get into reason where it's not just
Speaker 1: like oh I just bla blah blah blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: reason like why is it not your man? Like let's say,
Speaker 1: if your man goes and sleep with somebody, you find
Speaker 1: out two years later, why is he not your man?
Speaker 1: If he was your man for those two years, Well,
Speaker 1: she didn't know what I'm saying. He was hurt. He
Speaker 1: was still hurt man anyway, but she didn't know that
Speaker 1: he I mean they probably still stay together. I mean
Speaker 1: I had a situation where he the baby on me.
Speaker 1: Oh that's different. You get reminded every day to nake
Speaker 1: a cheats different. But I was there. I stayed No,
Speaker 1: I'm getting I'm saying. What I'm trying to figure out
Speaker 1: is why is it about you? Specifically? Like if I
Speaker 1: if I explain why a woman cheated on me, I
Speaker 1: can explain it. I'd be like, oh, this is why.
Speaker 1: I would explain why I would feel a certain way
Speaker 1: or what it is. But I know this when sometimes
Speaker 1: when y'all like women, and I hate to group you
Speaker 1: all together, but y'all all do have vaginas, right, so
Speaker 1: there's somewhat pretty much some likeness and the thought. Right.
Speaker 1: I noticed when y'all talk about it, like I've been
Speaker 1: seeing people comment about that situation specifically, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: he cheated on me along, And I'm like, who the
Speaker 1: funk is me along? What's me alone? Alone? What do
Speaker 1: you mean? Who is alone? Does that mean? What do
Speaker 1: you mean? What does that mean? Like? Is she not
Speaker 1: a woman? She's a woman, but you know it's like
Speaker 1: she is the woman that you don't cheat on the
Speaker 1: woman that is the fantasy of like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: like one a woman like that. That's what apparently men
Speaker 1: or you know what many comments I saw a man
Speaker 1: saying like how you fumble the bag and all you're stripping?
Speaker 1: How you how you cheat on the I mean these
Speaker 1: niggas as holes. If niggas put that on social media,
Speaker 1: they ain't never had no bad bitch or they ain't
Speaker 1: never had a bit that was pretty much. Um, they
Speaker 1: never had a woman that was desirable, So they think
Speaker 1: having a woman that's desirable, they got you do anything
Speaker 1: to keep her. She's gonna do the same thing the
Speaker 1: ugly ain't gonna do. Maybe war, maybe more. She might
Speaker 1: be entitled, had that pretty girl entitlement where like I'm pretty.
Speaker 1: The reality is if you sleep with somebody a few
Speaker 1: times enough times, whatever they look like don't matter no more.
Speaker 1: Whatever they look like don't matter. If you had her
Speaker 1: straight up, like why wouldn't matter no more? You had her,
Speaker 1: show me somebody everybody won't, and I'll show you a
Speaker 1: nigger that's tired of sucking with her up. Yeah you
Speaker 1: don't think jay Z be like, man, I could get
Speaker 1: some way, And that's bullshit. And this's motherfucker. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure they go through I'm sure everybody
Speaker 1: goes through things. You know, I'm saying, what makes you
Speaker 1: think that she like what does that really mean? Like,
Speaker 1: but that's Beyonce, mean that she would like to jay Z.
Speaker 1: That's just that's just Beyonce. He just he'd been hit.
Speaker 1: That that's how you look at it. I mean, you
Speaker 1: think he's just like somebody that never had her. You
Speaker 1: think he's looked at it with those are Is that
Speaker 1: how you think? I don't think he looked at her
Speaker 1: like that. I think that you know, they should look
Speaker 1: at me like yes, yeah, like he never had you.
Speaker 1: I don't even make sense. Why know, you're saying, look
Speaker 1: at me like I'm the the prize, the queen or
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like, just look at me like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you're not. I am You're not not
Speaker 1: if somebody had you, if Dady flowered you your fist
Speaker 1: with whatever. Okay, get back to the damn manager now,
Speaker 1: the conversations, not the managers, gl rid Rid. This is
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to get to. Like, when we have
Speaker 1: these conversations on those sailings, we don't have a Curran
Speaker 1: event show. They make us have conversations about things that
Speaker 1: are rooted trust me, a hundred plus years ago, Like
Speaker 1: slaves are cheating on slave wives. This is all old stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get down to why of I
Speaker 1: just I won't trying to get down to a few thoughts,
Speaker 1: Like one is like, what makes me alone so great
Speaker 1: to wear? Somebody shouldn't like what y'all taste their macarona cheese?
Speaker 1: Not in know about it? Ship fired? No, she just
Speaker 1: supposed it looks so good because he's in Boys in
Speaker 1: the Hood. I'm not. Okay, Look, you don't even have
Speaker 1: to be about ne alone. It's the fact that she's
Speaker 1: with this man for a very long time. They share
Speaker 1: a child. You know, this is just very It's just
Speaker 1: very Yeah, it's just it's just mess. It's this message. Agreed.
Speaker 1: I totally agree. I understand her embarrassment, right. Her embarrassment
Speaker 1: is she's knee a long and nobody's supposed to cheat
Speaker 1: on her because she's knee alone. But okay, it's very
Speaker 1: very peplate. So the question is, why did he cheat
Speaker 1: on knee alone? What does that tell you? He's crazy?
Speaker 1: He's fun with the bag. I'm just telling what the
Speaker 1: comments said. I mean, niggas will lie on social media. See,
Speaker 1: this is the one thing about me that I appreciate
Speaker 1: more than most men, and I see today I'm meet
Speaker 1: on and off. This is one. It's one year, ain't
Speaker 1: no shift, ain't no third for it only get better.
Speaker 1: There's no worse meat. This is the worst me and
Speaker 1: the best me. And then they get you start noticing
Speaker 1: things that's really awesome about me. The more you interact
Speaker 1: with me, they don't get worse. Most men that you're
Speaker 1: gonna see on social media, it was they would never
Speaker 1: do that. You just ain't never had me alone. Think
Speaker 1: about how many people left Jenner Jackson and Holly Berryerry, remember, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was a big thing. When um Eric Banat had
Speaker 1: cheated on Holly. They're like, how could you cheat on her?
Speaker 1: You know, everybody was just beating her up. Ye, that
Speaker 1: is exactly what happened. And so my point is they're
Speaker 1: just women. Men are just me, and like, just because
Speaker 1: we look at them on television and we find over them,
Speaker 1: they're still just regular people that're gonna come with the
Speaker 1: sign bullshit than any other woman or more. And that's true.
Speaker 1: But they're not looked at like that. You know, it's like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it's me alone. So the regular you know,
Speaker 1: man on the street, it's like, oh my god. If
Speaker 1: I get I ain't about a woman in my life,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't chat set. It's not a woman walking or
Speaker 1: breathing ear that I wouldn't cheat on. She has nothing
Speaker 1: to do with her. I believe that because you could
Speaker 1: always find something about another woman that's better than your woman,
Speaker 1: or that's favorable for then your woman if that's what
Speaker 1: you If it's about your woman, oh she if she
Speaker 1: shucked pen is good, you can find one to do
Speaker 1: it better. If your woman beautiful, you can find one
Speaker 1: even more beautiful. She got to ask, you can find
Speaker 1: one more At whatever you think it's so great about
Speaker 1: one particular woman, it's another woman that exists that's greater
Speaker 1: or counters it. Unless he just feels like, oh, I
Speaker 1: looked up like I can't mess this because ain't no, Nick,
Speaker 1: you're not cheating because they worried about what y'all gonna do.
Speaker 1: They just get better at cheating. Yeah, I definitely think
Speaker 1: everybody they're trying to do little little things things I'm
Speaker 1: not saying every man go cheat. I'm telling you it
Speaker 1: don't got nothing to do with you. It ain't nothing.
Speaker 1: I mean, you could do things to help your man
Speaker 1: not cheat. I mean I think you'll do a poor job.
Speaker 1: One of the things that what are some things that
Speaker 1: we could do, well, there's some physical interactions. I think
Speaker 1: I told you all this, Jack and your nigga hand job. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's a guaranteed thing that's gonna work.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that second or third one is a
Speaker 1: little tougher. What's the second? What's the second or third one?
Speaker 1: Like if you second or you gotta really want to
Speaker 1: bet you give her a second that like I always
Speaker 1: used I used to have this thing, right. I used
Speaker 1: to have this thing right when I was trying to
Speaker 1: kind of get myself off of using women to make
Speaker 1: myself feel better about myself because that's what me And
Speaker 1: do you sleep with women to feel better about yourself?
Speaker 1: For some reason, sleeping with women make you feel accomplished
Speaker 1: and you just think yourself, it's really gone because women
Speaker 1: just suck anybody. They do. Everybody is like, trust me,
Speaker 1: it's a nigga right now near alone knocked down that
Speaker 1: you may probably looking like why are you fucking Yeah,
Speaker 1: everybody but every where they're like what we know? They
Speaker 1: just the reason why I decided to have sex with
Speaker 1: him is something totally different than how he may look.
Speaker 1: But somebody else is gonna look, or he might he
Speaker 1: was dealing him for sure. So so my point is, yeah,
Speaker 1: I started doing was when I like women. You when
Speaker 1: use women, like when you when you're young and you
Speaker 1: don't know better, you use women to make yourself feel
Speaker 1: better about yourself, like sleeping. When women make you feel accomplished,
Speaker 1: like you special because she got you some pushes, she
Speaker 1: gave you her body. Women just I just realized women
Speaker 1: just retort. Now the more I see it now, I
Speaker 1: just realized women just don't really care about their body.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, it's no big deal. They care. It's
Speaker 1: just that they haven't been taught. No. It's literally the
Speaker 1: movement going on to say, oh, do whatever you want
Speaker 1: to do. It's just no problem. That's the movement. It's
Speaker 1: literally there's a there's a walk called a sluptwalk where
Speaker 1: they literally practiced like women being sexually. Women go to sluptwalk.
Speaker 1: I've never been so a sluptwalk I've heard about it.
Speaker 1: Of course. I always tell you the masses represent you.
Speaker 1: That's not the masses. I'm saying. If it's something, If
Speaker 1: not the masses, any women not mine, Any women have
Speaker 1: never dad, have never stepped foot. I don't know anyone
Speaker 1: personally that has been to the SlutWalk. I don't either.
Speaker 1: First off, the problem is it don't matter if you
Speaker 1: know somebody personally. Your friends are sluts. I don't know
Speaker 1: your friends, So we got hold up your friends. No,
Speaker 1: first of all, your friends is not my cousins. All
Speaker 1: your friends having sex with me and their relationships with
Speaker 1: only we're you mean only like are they sleeping with me?
Speaker 1: And they're not in committed relationships? Well, now that you're
Speaker 1: getting older, so it's different, I'm saying. That's not the point.
Speaker 1: I'm saying. These same girls that she was friends with
Speaker 1: the whole time, they was like, we're only giving up
Speaker 1: pussy if we're in a committed relationship. No, they were
Speaker 1: finding me in to sleep with. That's where a slot is.
Speaker 1: They wasn't finding me. They wasn't. So that girl, I'm
Speaker 1: about to try to find about to find what. No,
Speaker 1: I'm just said that I'm said in women language. We
Speaker 1: went out to the clubs Now, girl, what're you're wearing?
Speaker 1: You wearing that dress? Are you trying to get Oh? No,
Speaker 1: none of my friends, we never nobody was going home
Speaker 1: from the club and having sex with anybody X y Z. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you might meet somebody eventually, you know, you might
Speaker 1: have Yeah, but it's not going down of these people
Speaker 1: getting pussy. No, not everybody. You're right. I did. I
Speaker 1: got I had some I won't even say like my friends,
Speaker 1: but I had some home girls that was like damn
Speaker 1: you wow. And I respect as women. Y'all really hold
Speaker 1: it down for women to lie and try to defend it.
Speaker 1: Like when y'all know that that they were slucked. Some
Speaker 1: of your partners a sluts. That's true, and y'all have
Speaker 1: had slutty moments. I'm sure in your life that because
Speaker 1: you exist. I don't mean that. I know girls said
Speaker 1: if you only seen, if you only seen, if you
Speaker 1: go to parties, like like we was going to parties
Speaker 1: when we were coming up, a slut, you have slutty moments.
Speaker 1: That's It's not a big deal. What I'm saying at
Speaker 1: the party. I'm not saying you slept with somebody at
Speaker 1: the party, you sleep moment, you know, or you had
Speaker 1: a slutty moment that now you might have met the
Speaker 1: right person. You just I'm just giving some pussy for
Speaker 1: this whatever reason. Well, okay, well I never had a
Speaker 1: one night stand because you did it twice. Don't mean
Speaker 1: it's not a one night stand. What one night stand
Speaker 1: is on the first night and never know? No, no,
Speaker 1: you can't talk to him again. No, no, Listen. The
Speaker 1: whole thing is you had sex on the first night.
Speaker 1: I have had first moment. No, no, it's different cause
Speaker 1: I slept with him twice. The point I'm saying is listen.
Speaker 1: So my point is I have stopped she used to
Speaker 1: be through meAll So the reason I stopped valuing those
Speaker 1: moments is because I realized women just wasn't what I
Speaker 1: thought they were. They weren't these precious jewels that was
Speaker 1: you had to do things to get them in position.
Speaker 1: I mean I used to think that. I just think
Speaker 1: women were really special. I get women are special, but
Speaker 1: they don't know how they're special. So if they don't
Speaker 1: know how they're special, then they let me and use
Speaker 1: them how they use them. Listen, see sexual relationship last
Speaker 1: only one night? A single performance of a play or
Speaker 1: show in particular. No, that's not one night stand. I
Speaker 1: don't know that is the meaning if you got if
Speaker 1: you gave away some coot on the first night, it
Speaker 1: was a one night stand that you kept. Yes, it
Speaker 1: just kept going. That's not sex on the first date
Speaker 1: or the first one. That's actually a slug. No, that's
Speaker 1: what a moment. I didn't say. I had a slutty moment.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you guys that that's what it is. Well,
Speaker 1: we're saying that that makes you still listen, why is
Speaker 1: he saying we that I just said. I just said,
Speaker 1: you don't have to do it one time, but the
Speaker 1: first night is a one night stand. I wasn't even
Speaker 1: saying that sexual relationship or you are slut if you
Speaker 1: slept with somebody on the first night, man, whatever that point.
Speaker 1: I'm saying this. Once I realized that y'all didn't care
Speaker 1: about your bodies, I realized that I cannot put value
Speaker 1: in your body. That's not true. Seein point you finished
Speaker 1: throw me off. I don't got to read you from
Speaker 1: l A mean. We all used to go off the clubs.
Speaker 1: We all used to we used to buy drinks, stuff,
Speaker 1: was popping. It's easy lower inhibition. Look, I'm not asking
Speaker 1: you to frame your your first nighters. What I'm saying,
Speaker 1: that's not what I'm doing. Because what I'm saying is
Speaker 1: I'm saying I used So men used women right as
Speaker 1: a sense of accomplishment. Right, If a woman give you
Speaker 1: some some vagina, you feel like you're special, like you
Speaker 1: accomplish something because you think women are special. The reality
Speaker 1: is women are special. They don't know they're special, so
Speaker 1: they don't treat themselves like they're special. So you getting
Speaker 1: vagina from them is not really an accomplishment. So but
Speaker 1: when you're young, you feel like that. So when I
Speaker 1: would misuse women, well I really wouldn't misuse them when
Speaker 1: I was use them for what they wanted to be
Speaker 1: used for, right, I thought that was special. So the
Speaker 1: more you didn't made me lose my damn training thought
Speaker 1: of where I was going with this, I know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is so the same thing. That's not what
Speaker 1: he's talking about. But I'm saying the same thing that
Speaker 1: we was talking about with cheating is that's the same
Speaker 1: reason the sense of accomplishment, right, So so men cheat,
Speaker 1: like you're saying, of course, I know it doesn't have
Speaker 1: anything to do with the woman, but okay, we're cheating
Speaker 1: or they're cheating because it's because it makes them feel
Speaker 1: better about who they are. But now when they ask
Speaker 1: it caught, No, no, I mean it's never caught. But
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is it's not about him, it's about
Speaker 1: the mentality. Like, so, once you have a woman, right,
Speaker 1: once you act sleep with the woman. Once you've have
Speaker 1: had a woman in the biblical sense, it's not the same.
Speaker 1: You'll never see her the same. It either is going
Speaker 1: to increase or most likely go. Now what do you
Speaker 1: mean mostly why because if that, if that soul tide
Speaker 1: doesn't happen right then and there, feel me, then you
Speaker 1: look at him as less stand right off the rip
Speaker 1: like whatever you know. I mean that it's the reason
Speaker 1: why that was the ultimate gift when you got married
Speaker 1: at first. I mean like, oh, I'm gonna give you myself. Now,
Speaker 1: women can't get nobody. They sell when they give it.
Speaker 1: Didn't give it to everybody else, n't But yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So she wished I would have waited. Yeah,
Speaker 1: me too, I do too. As a man, I wish
Speaker 1: I would have waited because it's just confusing. I mean,
Speaker 1: like me to start comparing people. You start comparing their performances,
Speaker 1: you start comparing how they like to have. You have
Speaker 1: this whole belief in your mind of how it should
Speaker 1: be going. Well, I'll be just laying here looking good
Speaker 1: and he don't want to do nothing, you know, And
Speaker 1: then that's because you comparing them to I mean, you
Speaker 1: compare it to some horn though that was wouldn't let
Speaker 1: you fucking walk four feet? And then or like true,
Speaker 1: it's true. You start making bad comparison and you don't
Speaker 1: know that somebody is probably treating you correctly or whatever,
Speaker 1: but you're comparing it to somebody that was probably in
Speaker 1: a failed relationship that didn't work. And you're like, well
Speaker 1: they don't do it like that time. Yeah, yeah, because
Speaker 1: um but back to the point. So what I did
Speaker 1: I remember? So the point I was getting to is
Speaker 1: when at that time, when I would miss use women
Speaker 1: right or use them for what they thought they was
Speaker 1: good for, I realized, like, do I really the way
Speaker 1: I would help myself as I would jack off before
Speaker 1: I would go just to ask them then if I
Speaker 1: want to sleep with like if they was trying to
Speaker 1: give me some pussy, and I was like, damn, do
Speaker 1: I really want to funk with this person? Or am
Speaker 1: I just trying to make myself feel better? I would
Speaker 1: jack off and once I nut it, yeah, right off
Speaker 1: the rip, it's left feel left it. Then I'm not
Speaker 1: hitting them back. But if I still wanted them, maybe
Speaker 1: three times total, maybe I'll have probably bought a couple
Speaker 1: of hundred times. What I'm saying that I realized I
Speaker 1: still want to interact with the person. Then if I
Speaker 1: really want to interact with you, I'm like funk with her.
Speaker 1: But if I jack off and I come and it's
Speaker 1: like because remember there's something about Mary. Remember when the
Speaker 1: guy told Ben Stiller, you know you need to jack
Speaker 1: off before you see her. Yeah, No, it wasn't because
Speaker 1: he didn't want it. He didn't want to about the sex.
Speaker 1: He didn't want to, you know, he didn't want her
Speaker 1: to think that it was just about sex, just about sex.
Speaker 1: I mean, I want out. I've done that before, just
Speaker 1: from like having um phone sex. So I was kind
Speaker 1: of stupid, but I went and masturbated and I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: if I still want to like have phone sex with
Speaker 1: him or whatever, then I'm yeah, but I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm good because I was. I really just wanted to
Speaker 1: get mine so me over here like entertaining this and
Speaker 1: sending these little list stupid ship like that's yeah, that's stupid.
Speaker 1: So and that's what I realized, Like, so that's that
Speaker 1: became my go to tool when I started kind of
Speaker 1: realizing what was going on with myself. So, you know,
Speaker 1: you start talking about more like a couple hundred girls,
Speaker 1: it's you still realize how much you don't want girls.
Speaker 1: I don't want this girl. You start realizing how few
Speaker 1: girls you really fucking with m I mean, and outside
Speaker 1: of that, it'll just be some pussy. And then you
Speaker 1: you get that fun, the feeling not on something, you know,
Speaker 1: you snutting and ship. Then this smatherfucker, You're like, what
Speaker 1: you're about to do? That's fucked up? All you would
Speaker 1: care about that like the morning after, you know, or
Speaker 1: the after right after you mean, no morning, but if
Speaker 1: you in the morning, yeah, like in the morning, in
Speaker 1: the morning when you get up, you know, when when
Speaker 1: you don't go to sleep, No you're not, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to sleep. That happened to me before that. That's
Speaker 1: not nice. You would do such a thing. You do
Speaker 1: stuff like that. You did stuff like that, you didn't
Speaker 1: feel bad about it? Why not? Because I want you
Speaker 1: to leave? So did you like what you're about to do? Really?
Speaker 1: That would crush my poor little heart? Right? You like
Speaker 1: to stay later? But everybody that never happened to be
Speaker 1: all these people you slept, would you. I was just saying, like, Dan,
Speaker 1: that's kind of messed up, Like I've never had that
Speaker 1: happened to me before, where everybody, I've never had someone
Speaker 1: say that to me. You just knew to leave. No,
Speaker 1: he'd be out here we go you ain't got no
Speaker 1: or he was coming to your house, so he was
Speaker 1: I got to go to mouse. That's out. So then
Speaker 1: how was you leaving? I'm out go there and I leave.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you knew the plan? No whatever, that
Speaker 1: was my plane. That's exactly what I'm saying with women, specially,
Speaker 1: that was my pussy. If it's somebody that you, I mean,
Speaker 1: you feel me. It's like at that time stated you
Speaker 1: gotta get what you gotta get when you get it.
Speaker 1: That's not how it goes. That's exactly what you said.
Speaker 1: That All I said is that has never happened to me.
Speaker 1: Dr Ruth know the name in that movie the st
Speaker 1: tried to dimond you got. That's not what I was on.
Speaker 1: That was not even the point, man. But the point
Speaker 1: I'm saying is so, yeah that that's so that that
Speaker 1: helps a lot. And when you start to realize that,
Speaker 1: that's how you start to control the concept of cheating
Speaker 1: and ship like that. I mean, you start to really
Speaker 1: understand that, you know, other people just trying like you're you,
Speaker 1: like you're you need them to make you feel better.
Speaker 1: They're the easiest. They're the easiest or simplest sense to
Speaker 1: making you feel much better than you currently feel. So
Speaker 1: if you're feeling bad, they'll make you feel better. It's
Speaker 1: not it's not really a funk boy. That's not with
Speaker 1: it really, you know, I don't even know what that means,
Speaker 1: like fucking I mean, how she's super donta. I have
Speaker 1: so much faith in her. Oh yeah, Pump. It reminds
Speaker 1: me everything I love about Memphis. She four videos and convinced, Okay,
Speaker 1: I haven't watched the Yeah. So once you realize that,
Speaker 1: you know, that's why men involved themselves with women. For me,
Speaker 1: you start finding other things to make yourself feel better.
Speaker 1: I'm saying you don't use women in their regards as
Speaker 1: loosely anymore. Now, I was like, Okay, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: form a bond with somebody else to make myself. I
Speaker 1: need to find more things to accomplish to make myself
Speaker 1: feel more accomplished or better. That's really what it comes
Speaker 1: down to. But it's not no woman in the world
Speaker 1: that's so fine that somebody won't What the hell does
Speaker 1: that mean? She's fine? Like? And ain't no man gonna
Speaker 1: not cheat because I mean, if a man is out
Speaker 1: here not cheating because he worried about losing his woman,
Speaker 1: he's a bit chass nigga. I would never not chea
Speaker 1: because I'm worried about losing my woman. I mean, you're
Speaker 1: not cheating because that's you don't want to cheat. You
Speaker 1: don't have the desire to. Like if I if I
Speaker 1: agreed to do something, I mean this, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: handle my agreement, but I'm not like, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 1: I would not cheat because I'm worried about losing no
Speaker 1: motherfucking body. I mean, but that should come into here.
Speaker 1: I mean, or you think if you were to be
Speaker 1: cheating when you think like man like I can lose
Speaker 1: like my whole family. Yeah they do, bitch ass niggas.
Speaker 1: Why would you not? Why would you let ever the
Speaker 1: thought of losing anything make you not do? Like what
Speaker 1: type of man are you? Like you can't find it
Speaker 1: in your own Like why does it have to be
Speaker 1: a consequence for you to not do it? Okay, this
Speaker 1: is just regarding cheating or as a man. As a man,
Speaker 1: like what type of man is in fear of Oh
Speaker 1: you do not mean feeling jump off a plane because
Speaker 1: I'm scared of dying. I don't. I don't work like that.
Speaker 1: I don't work off fear. I mean like when you
Speaker 1: pair of shooting off a plane, I mean you're jumping
Speaker 1: out of plane, like you can't live your life and ship? Right?
Speaker 1: But you do? You do know that? Like there's consequences,
Speaker 1: So you're like, you know what, I'm gonna make this
Speaker 1: choice to do this because yeah, I can you know,
Speaker 1: mess everything up over here. No, that's like I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna drink. I'm not gonna be drunk and driving because
Speaker 1: this can happen. Like, yes, you you have to have think. Okay,
Speaker 1: there's consequences. It's all personal consequence to me, Like when
Speaker 1: I made decisions I don't drink. It ain't because I'm
Speaker 1: worried about killing somebody else. I'm worried about how I
Speaker 1: would be intoxicated. I'm worried about embarrassing myself intoxicated. I
Speaker 1: ain't worried about nobody fucking elsee me. I ain't worried
Speaker 1: about the ebarrassing my mama. I'm worried about it or
Speaker 1: my father. I'm worried about the barrassing myself. So cheating
Speaker 1: would drives me. The most about the concept of not
Speaker 1: cheating right or having affairs is it would be literally
Speaker 1: the fact that you know what I mean, it has
Speaker 1: to be me because it's only gonna be me when
Speaker 1: that moment matter. I ain't no woman fing to be around.
Speaker 1: It's only gonna be me. So at that point, if
Speaker 1: that's the case, then I'm might aful cheating get away
Speaker 1: with it, because then that my minal changes. If I'm
Speaker 1: worried about losing you, right, we're married, and I'm worried
Speaker 1: about losing you, should I just need to make sure
Speaker 1: you don't catch me, right, So when I do it
Speaker 1: for me, whether you are around or not, it's gonna
Speaker 1: piece fights a fight. You know, I'm saying, it's like,
Speaker 1: hold up, NI, do you really want to feel me?
Speaker 1: Like you ain't really even working with this bitch? You're
Speaker 1: not even really fucking with her? What is wrong with you?
Speaker 1: What's you? What? You mad that this didn't work out?
Speaker 1: Like you figure out what's up with you and deal
Speaker 1: with it, and me deal with it. But if I'm worried,
Speaker 1: if i'm if, I'm not gonna cheat on you, bet
Speaker 1: because I'm worried about losing you. I just mean I
Speaker 1: need to cheat without you knowing, right? Yea. But see
Speaker 1: that's the thing I as when I was younger, I
Speaker 1: used to be like, well, what what didn't I do
Speaker 1: or whatever? After dealing with that type of stuff as
Speaker 1: I got older, I'm not I know. It's that's what
Speaker 1: you wanted to do. I could then the best woman
Speaker 1: to you as possible, or at least that within my
Speaker 1: means woman, But you know, a good woman being the
Speaker 1: best woman you just wasn't You don't know that. But
Speaker 1: either way, the best of my ability at the time.
Speaker 1: It's not true you wanted to be at that that
Speaker 1: was the best thing. That's how it was. You wanted
Speaker 1: to be whatever I mean what do you mean that's
Speaker 1: how she wanted to be. Yes, she wants to be
Speaker 1: like that because you'll don't understand what we judge is
Speaker 1: great women. Women who go out. It's not a good woman.
Speaker 1: She wasn't going out going out. I mean she wasn't
Speaker 1: it when she was in a relationship. She wasn't good.
Speaker 1: Was you going out before us in a relationship? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So the same person, that's not that's not the same
Speaker 1: person right now. Let me let me say something that's
Speaker 1: crazy to you. Do you believe a person is the
Speaker 1: same person as they are single as they are in
Speaker 1: a relationship, Like you should be worried if somebody changes
Speaker 1: when day in a relationship, Like if you meet a
Speaker 1: do right and y'all just talk with your friends, y'all
Speaker 1: mess around a little bit. But he liked bros you
Speaker 1: know this thing, and he started relationship with you because
Speaker 1: he commits you know what I mean? He likes sleeping
Speaker 1: with broads. That's his thing. You know. You're like, well
Speaker 1: he should change that for me, Like why would you
Speaker 1: make somebody change that? I first of all, I wanted
Speaker 1: to be with somebody want to sleep with some broads?
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Like I'm not gonna do. I'm
Speaker 1: not if you openly tell me you ain't got He's
Speaker 1: not gonna said with broad but you know he likes
Speaker 1: sleeping with broads. You could tell, you know the type
Speaker 1: of man. You could know the type of dudes who
Speaker 1: go through the stuff to attract I don't want that
Speaker 1: comes with a lot of drama, a lot of bullshit.
Speaker 1: You know that I didn't know I had that. I
Speaker 1: already did, already took my heart broken crushing one time.
Speaker 1: And it wasn't that you have been talking. You've talked
Speaker 1: to guys multiple times that attract women that stay listen.
Speaker 1: Like I said, I was in loved. He broke my heart.
Speaker 1: I was in love. That was okay, and he broke
Speaker 1: my heart and that was it. After that, I was
Speaker 1: just like, how do you break your heart? What do
Speaker 1: you mean? Broke my heart? He was just told you
Speaker 1: about it. I remember you talking. He was a horn
Speaker 1: when you got him. Know that, I swear didn't she did.
Speaker 1: I'm at a young age. I was naive how I was, Yes,
Speaker 1: I was, you were no virgin, No, put my business on.
Speaker 1: He's doing this to me. What's funny? I don't know.
Speaker 1: You act like you. You you asked me this before
Speaker 1: we talked about this. What are you talking about? You
Speaker 1: know why? I know because I know you some bushes.
Speaker 1: I'm not lying, man, you know I'm gonna be honest,
Speaker 1: like I promise you. Okay, So let me ask you
Speaker 1: a question. Is there a difference if your husband is
Speaker 1: cheating or having an affair? See, this is the thing, right,
Speaker 1: if your husband is cheating or having an affair. If
Speaker 1: I ever cheated, right, like, I would probably give me
Speaker 1: like like one of them. I would go to it
Speaker 1: with like a massage's house and peddlar extra whatever to
Speaker 1: give me something like. What I wouldn't want to do
Speaker 1: is have an' have another relationship. Yeah, that's a whole
Speaker 1: mental like, And I get when women fall apart because
Speaker 1: of that, right, because those be those times which which
Speaker 1: I think it's a bit weird, but I get one
Speaker 1: that's the one that's that's gonna hurt, that does hurt
Speaker 1: because you have a whole See it's different. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's cheating, but it's like dang, okay you okay, you
Speaker 1: suck this bitch, Okay, whatever, But now you're in a
Speaker 1: whole relationship with this woman, y'all. Spending time together, intimate time.
Speaker 1: You guys are like, you know, hanging out, hugging up
Speaker 1: a yeah, like what Yeah, it's that hurts, that's like
Speaker 1: that could have been my time. Didn't care, Yes, care,
Speaker 1: you have your nigga around, man, get your ass away
Speaker 1: from me. I don't don't. You don't do it as much,
Speaker 1: but you do it. You only want to be bothered
Speaker 1: when y'all want to be bothered. That's just the reality.
Speaker 1: That's really who we are. Y'all act like y're not.
Speaker 1: It's only separation. We let you know. We don't want to.
Speaker 1: Y'all act like y'all want to be bothered all the time,
Speaker 1: and till those times you don't want to be bothered,
Speaker 1: and then you do ship to make your sure you know,
Speaker 1: and they don't want to be bothered. I don't know
Speaker 1: what you're talking. Yes, you do every last time. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. You don't like that seeing
Speaker 1: all the time? I do, I mean we I do,
Speaker 1: I do. I do enjoy that, I do whatever I do,
Speaker 1: I do, I enjoy it. Look, we get all tell lies.
Speaker 1: I'm not, but I think it's dope. I think, but
Speaker 1: I think that's the giving take up more times than not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that and that's true more times, but not all
Speaker 1: the time though, sometimes like, oh my god, this Nick,
Speaker 1: I want to hear about this. What he's talking about
Speaker 1: just say sleep? Yeah, but but we we actually are honest, like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear this ship. I don't given
Speaker 1: what happened with Britt, can we talking about this later?
Speaker 1: Because I'm like, you'll better let us vent because we
Speaker 1: let you vent, we don't have you You actually like
Speaker 1: us venting, You actually like because you know this is
Speaker 1: fucking you want to be all in the business and
Speaker 1: you want to give your she know, if you know,
Speaker 1: I like to hear it. What do you say? You'd
Speaker 1: be like tomorrow, what do you say today? Nah? He'd
Speaker 1: be like, you don't have to be devils to have
Speaker 1: a kid. Let me just I just want to let
Speaker 1: me just say what I need to say. I'd be like,
Speaker 1: why do you have to be like that? Well, maybe
Speaker 1: it's like this, maybe it's like that. He's like, it's
Speaker 1: not that, So I'm I'm stopping. I just let me
Speaker 1: just that's not that's not what happened. I want to
Speaker 1: be They said this, but they really meant that. No, bitch,
Speaker 1: that's not what it was. I'm telling you from what
Speaker 1: I heard on the phone that's said, this is what happened.
Speaker 1: This na here be tripping, Yes, exactly. Ship. So I
Speaker 1: just I just I've just been noticing all. But I
Speaker 1: just noticed that's the culture of men today. It's like
Speaker 1: a whole ass nigger. Like I could tell these niggas
Speaker 1: aren't really getting no girls because they really be like
Speaker 1: niggas today, really like when I was when I was
Speaker 1: growing up, and you know, you could bland gangster rat,
Speaker 1: but we didn't, you know, we like I used to
Speaker 1: put women on pedestals for the most part. But that's
Speaker 1: not the culture of putting women on the pedest You
Speaker 1: have to earn it. And I think today we're back
Speaker 1: in the space we're like, oh, you know, just she's
Speaker 1: just NEI alone. How could you do NI alone? Like
Speaker 1: NI alone? Fifty some years old and old Pussy loved
Speaker 1: me alone just like every other guy. So not late
Speaker 1: then my childhood crushes Regina King is my greatest childhood
Speaker 1: that's fifty year old puts you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Niggers ranting through that now, you can't be feeling like
Speaker 1: that's your special now you can't be feeling like that
Speaker 1: ship special? Now, why can't your woman be special? I'm
Speaker 1: not saying your woman can't be special. I'm just telling
Speaker 1: you that some year old NEI alone can't be as
Speaker 1: special as twenty seven year old NEI alone. Now, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying NEI a long ain't find as a motherfucker
Speaker 1: for somebody in their fitty. But you know, nigger that
Speaker 1: had that pussy at this point, this motherfucking and been
Speaker 1: recycled him was kind of in and out that time.
Speaker 1: Babies that came out of there, you know, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: And that's the thing. I mean, like it's comes out
Speaker 1: of his mouth. I'm like, he makes ten years right
Speaker 1: or something with somebody before that she was, well, they
Speaker 1: got I don't know. I just know they've been engaged
Speaker 1: since engaged for two years. They've been together for a
Speaker 1: long time. They've been engaged since Yes, right, they've been
Speaker 1: engaged for long ast time. She should have been. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I think I read something where she said that
Speaker 1: she didn't want to be married. Yeah, that's probably why
Speaker 1: she probably or or or she was just keeping hers
Speaker 1: open and she she had a baby. She's sinking fifty
Speaker 1: years old, like who wants to be not to say
Speaker 1: that she can't, but she wants to have her her family,
Speaker 1: her partnership. That wasn't going to do with him. Maybe
Speaker 1: that could be the reason why he stepped out anyway,
Speaker 1: Maybe it could be like, you know what, she this
Speaker 1: ain't what I wanted to be. But this, this is
Speaker 1: ne alone, So I'm gonna try to stick around, but
Speaker 1: I need somebody gotta She didn't want to be married,
Speaker 1: and you're like, old, I'm trying to marry you. She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't really know. I'm ne alone. How many niggas
Speaker 1: won't meet? Why she did that? But you never know?
Speaker 1: I mean I did read she did? She did she
Speaker 1: didn't want to be married, Well, why she accept the proposal? Man?
Speaker 1: Maybe she thought about about to change her mind. Maybe
Speaker 1: he's like, man, this mother fucker still ain't ready. She
Speaker 1: not fucking You can't tell what we're going through a nigga.
Speaker 1: And that's why I said, you can't let a woman
Speaker 1: for me. This this is not like we don't know
Speaker 1: none of the whole. It's not really about them. It's
Speaker 1: about the mentality of all this ship to cat Like
Speaker 1: if your mind is fragileizing man for me and I'm
Speaker 1: not saying this is what happened with this. Nig is
Speaker 1: a fantastic NBA because this is rookie season as a
Speaker 1: coach and he coached them to the finals. So he's
Speaker 1: a strong man and thought you need to even deal
Speaker 1: with personalities. But what if that was the case. He
Speaker 1: was like, man, she want to marry me? You feel me? Like,
Speaker 1: so now he's looking for somebody to find comfort or
Speaker 1: that's why you can man? Is that something that men does?
Speaker 1: The comfort? Yeah? Like like if you felt like and
Speaker 1: this ain't true, but this is for men that it
Speaker 1: is true with If you feel like this, don't marry
Speaker 1: for me. You gotta find your nothing throw away. Hey,
Speaker 1: you know what if you don't think I'm good enough
Speaker 1: to be because there is a growing culture of women
Speaker 1: that's like, well I don't want to be married. I
Speaker 1: hold up, you don't want to be married. You don't
Speaker 1: know how Nigga might feel. Yeah we made me, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you know except your room. Like, let's let's wait
Speaker 1: about four years. You've been together ten Yeah, and someone
Speaker 1: wanted to wait two years for the engagement being together
Speaker 1: already for a while. Bro, Like what's going waiting to
Speaker 1: see if they're gonna get there ship together. If they're
Speaker 1: gonna I'm not accepting. If I'm not if you already
Speaker 1: have kind of reserves, see what I'm saying. So, and
Speaker 1: it's not it's not hurt like he did what he
Speaker 1: did based off of how he felt. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying others help him feel somebody else a part
Speaker 1: of the organization. I know, that's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: wonder how it's a whole bunch of stuff swirling around.
Speaker 1: I just want to you want to know. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: they haven't really released all of the details. But from
Speaker 1: what I loosely here, I don't really like spreading rumors.
Speaker 1: But it's like it's one of those situations where people
Speaker 1: felt like he could have been using his power to
Speaker 1: develop the relationship, which I don't think she'd be used.
Speaker 1: So that would that I guess that would That's why
Speaker 1: you can suspend it for a years. I was just
Speaker 1: about to say, because I'm like Celtics racist as don't
Speaker 1: care about Yeah, I'm like, what so yeah, something like that.
Speaker 1: Spending on Niggers and the Sisters and seventies Niggs. Bill
Speaker 1: Russell played for the big they was he wanted championship.
Speaker 1: They spending on this nigger, so they like be along.
Speaker 1: But that's a whole another conversation, like, well, I think
Speaker 1: that shouldn't be wrong. Like if a man uses power
Speaker 1: to get vagina for me, that's not wrong. Women use
Speaker 1: their fuckings appear to get gifts, you what you got
Speaker 1: to get what you want, right, right, I didn't say that.
Speaker 1: I didn't say that though, but yeah, right, I think that,
Speaker 1: um right. I think when you're gullible or you're being
Speaker 1: taken advantage of, I think that's when it's you know,
Speaker 1: it's a problem. But how can you be getting took
Speaker 1: advantage of? What you mean? Like, how can a man
Speaker 1: take advantage of you? Okay, So there's instances where sometimes
Speaker 1: if you tell a man a lot of things that
Speaker 1: you've been through, sometimes they use that. So why would
Speaker 1: you tell then what you've been through? You're thinking that
Speaker 1: I'm saying that women do. That's not taking advantage of them.
Speaker 1: If you reveal your trade secrets and somebody use them
Speaker 1: in battle, this ain't your therapist. Why is he battling
Speaker 1: with ex? We meet you to sleep with you? Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm some we're in a relationship. She's saying, we meet
Speaker 1: you to sleep with you, like our first The reason
Speaker 1: we approach you is because we find you sexually attractive.
Speaker 1: I mean every noning that you meet somebody and they
Speaker 1: don't have nothing to do with that, but most likely
Speaker 1: you're not working with them, like you could be friends
Speaker 1: with them or something, and then you realize later like
Speaker 1: why fun with But if you usually the normal dynamics,
Speaker 1: you meet somebody attractive, so you know this person want
Speaker 1: to sleep with you, why would you arm them with
Speaker 1: tools to help you to help them accomplish that go
Speaker 1: Your job is to hold out and and women are
Speaker 1: losing track of their responsibility. Your job is to hold
Speaker 1: out to see who this nigga is and really developing
Speaker 1: to develop the relationships to see if he's worth your time.
Speaker 1: Our job is to sleep with you. Your job is
Speaker 1: to deny once you accept you we did our job.
Speaker 1: Now it was like we just moved to the next job.
Speaker 1: Every now and then you might be, oh, this is
Speaker 1: a cool job. I'm working here for a while. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: work here for a while. Hilarious, I'm working here for
Speaker 1: a while. I like this place. I might have a
Speaker 1: couple of jobs but just some over time. If I
Speaker 1: really funk with the gig, I might put in more hours.
Speaker 1: At least I got an hour for the week. It's
Speaker 1: why I mean it's good. I'm like, damn, where were you,
Speaker 1: like twenty thirty years ago, five years ago? We should
Speaker 1: have had a conversation. Yeah, I'm just saying, you know,
Speaker 1: it's just a thought. That's awesome. You need a daughter,
Speaker 1: Uh definitely. Well, you know what they say, you have
Speaker 1: a daughter when you need love, to need to need
Speaker 1: to know love. I don't think I need to know love.
Speaker 1: I think that's my issue. I think that should be
Speaker 1: awesome because I'd be telling their most that do not
Speaker 1: put out. You put out game over And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be right, Daddy's right, you put out. My dad never
Speaker 1: told me that, like he should have. He didn't tell
Speaker 1: me that. My mom always told me. What if. I
Speaker 1: just want to say, stop being a whore, lacks bro,
Speaker 1: keeping in your pants, keeping your yeah, like make this
Speaker 1: nigger earn it. Stop like you're decreasing the value of
Speaker 1: something so special that could bring a life into this
Speaker 1: earth and you just finish give it to everybody to him.
Speaker 1: Damn not what you're doing with that and you're trying
Speaker 1: to you want money to marry you on the raft
Speaker 1: at the dirty thing. You didn't get into this weird.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if you didn't let this tainted ass
Speaker 1: nigga knock you down, and then you try to come
Speaker 1: down in that white dress. Now we all embarrassed. You're lying,
Speaker 1: stupid speaking come down in that white dress. You come
Speaker 1: down the all in that white dress. If you didn't
Speaker 1: lie to everybody at the wed and everybody know people,
Speaker 1: you's not pure, Hopefully you would know that before. And
Speaker 1: why would you lie and have this white dress on?
Speaker 1: What you mean? Most of these women need to wear brown, tan, yellow,
Speaker 1: It's all kind of cool light colors, tan, yellow, line,
Speaker 1: try something to stop wearing that white ivory. I genuinely
Speaker 1: think I've sucking up marriages the white because when she
Speaker 1: come down that aisle, right, you see her? Feel me,
Speaker 1: My boy Joey got married the other day. Shout out
Speaker 1: to Joey West are congratulation, And that lady came down
Speaker 1: in that white dress, his old lady, and he you know,
Speaker 1: had tears in his eyes and ship and I'll be thinking.
Speaker 1: I was thinking to myself, like because you be you
Speaker 1: kind of tears because you know I've watched multiple me
Speaker 1: and kind of Chuck cried when Tasha came down the aisle,
Speaker 1: Chuck shout out the Chuck build. He crowded candy and
Speaker 1: came down the aisle. And the whole time, I'll just
Speaker 1: be thinking, like from a sophisticated level, like you know
Speaker 1: why you crying because you think you got something, Like
Speaker 1: you really think you got something that's yours. Everybody had it.
Speaker 1: Everybody didn't stop saying everybody. Everybody didn't have it too many.
Speaker 1: Everybody except other people except you had it. That's why
Speaker 1: the white signifies purity. That's why you crying, because you're
Speaker 1: supposed to be looking at it almost like an angel
Speaker 1: coming down. It's not an angel, bro, just not she
Speaker 1: has the flowered herself. It's not that we're ivory. Yes,
Speaker 1: there you go ivory. I'm not I'm wearing We're bone.
Speaker 1: You're wearing a lavender dress. So when she comes down,
Speaker 1: at when she comes down, just coming down that aisle.
Speaker 1: But it will help because I think he'd be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I can like subconsciously you and accept, but imagine you
Speaker 1: think you got something special coming down this aisle. You
Speaker 1: just super like, just like, man, it's my little angel
Speaker 1: and this motherfucker the devil and be a head devil,
Speaker 1: like you know, she didn't practice. She told about harder
Speaker 1: a little bit more this, that's why you're married. And
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, that's why you're like, yeah, I gotta
Speaker 1: keep her with all that, with all that, with all
Speaker 1: that that just can't with it. I just don't know,
Speaker 1: do you think so do men getting relationships with women
Speaker 1: if they're more freakier, like they're sucking them real good?
Speaker 1: Is it like Okay, yeah, I'm gonna marry her or
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in a relationship with her. Say they're
Speaker 1: gonna marry the freaky one. Now, sometimes it happened because
Speaker 1: they could be so caught up, but that's not what
Speaker 1: they think it. Most niggas don't be wanting to marry
Speaker 1: a freak, thinking like, let me marry a good girl.
Speaker 1: I mean, and he had a freak on the shide
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But it is a new day, So
Speaker 1: niggas might be wife in these prostitutes. I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's a different day. I can't really speak for what
Speaker 1: niggas is that in two thousand two, I seen twenty
Speaker 1: one sevens at the slug walk with Amber Rose. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that so that pussy could be strong. But now
Speaker 1: Amber shout out to Amber because she wants to do
Speaker 1: no sinnings. She heard some stuff I was saying, but
Speaker 1: like it feels Amber for me. She coming down it
Speaker 1: out like if I'm funking with Amber. She couldn't wear white,
Speaker 1: like stopped playing and you need to wear like something else,
Speaker 1: cream or something. Cause I can't wear no white because
Speaker 1: I don't need my mind to wear it. I didn't
Speaker 1: girls and being the flower for twenty some years, they've
Speaker 1: been picking petals off that thing for twenty years. Maybe
Speaker 1: that's the colors. No, you want to signify purity because
Speaker 1: you knew that that was the thing. But that's because
Speaker 1: you're supposed to get that man something that no other
Speaker 1: man had and you can't. That's she's gonna give him
Speaker 1: up that little thing back the odd of the hole.
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