1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice. 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 4 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 3: Welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. Sororities and 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:24,159 Speaker 3: fraternities go hand in hand, the parties, the drama, the situations. 6 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 3: But today we are flipping the script. We're putting fraternity 7 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 3: boys in the hot seat and having them answer the 8 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 3: questions sorority girls have always wanted to ask, but maybe 9 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 3: never dared to. 10 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 2: Feel Like Dirty Rush after. 11 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: Let's get into it. 12 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 4: But the way I just. 13 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: Read a script, I didn't come up with that yet. 14 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: I didn't write that. 15 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 5: All right, session episode Dirty Rush. It's Ben Higgins, Bob Guinea, 16 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 5: Dean Bell, Brett Adams, Wells Adams, and Zach Shallcross joining you. 17 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 5: This is gonna be rated X. I would not listen 18 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 5: to it if you're under the age of twenty five. 19 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 5: Welcome back to another A little context for everybody listening. 20 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 5: We were in Carmel, California together for the AT and 21 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 5: T pro am. Everybody just started out. We're gonna start 22 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 5: with Brett Adams. We're gonna go clockwise from there. Remind 23 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 5: everybody where you went to school. Everybody here was in 24 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 5: a fraternity of some type for some period of time. 25 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 5: We're gonna be answering questions that we're sent in, and 26 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 5: then we're gonna be also answering questions from the sorority 27 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,559 Speaker 5: girls who are here with us. That kind of sounds 28 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 5: weird considering most of us are married. They're also work 29 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 5: with us on the pipe. So, Bratt, where'd you go 30 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 5: to school? University of Kansas Rock Chalk Jayhawk? Hey you 31 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 5: all right clockwise? 32 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: Let's go. 33 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 4: Well, I forgot you didn't want to hear my fraternity? 34 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 6: Oh? 35 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 2: Yes, I do, thank you. I went. 36 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 7: I was a Phi Gamma delta, also known as a Fiji. 37 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 6: Bob Guinea, Bob Guiney here, Michigan State University, Alpha tau 38 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,359 Speaker 6: omega atos. 39 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: Oh oh, the Atos at my school were meatheads pretty 40 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: much everywhere you know. 41 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 5: You know, Bob Guinea was a college quarterback at Michigan State. 42 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 2: Of course, I do, okay good. 43 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: I went to the University of Mississippi, but we call 44 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: it old Miss Toddy, and I was I was a 45 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: Sigma Kai, but I got kicked out. 46 00:02:54,040 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 5: Ben Higgins here, Indiana University, Acacia and Asia. 47 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, what is that? It's colored. It's like a it's 48 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 2: like a bug. It's like a weird crayon color. 49 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 5: It's kind of like the bohemian like grove. It's a 50 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 5: secret society. 51 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: Did you make up something? 52 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: No? 53 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 2: I did? Dean, Hey, thanks man. This is Dean Bell 54 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 2: reporting live. 55 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 8: I went to University of Colorado, Colorado Springs, Colorado. Pi 56 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 8: Cappa Fie, you were a bike. I'm just kidding. I 57 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 8: was not in the Loser and I was not in 58 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 8: I didn't need to buy my friends. 59 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 2: Well gd I goddamn Gamma Delta Iota. 60 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 8: That's exactly what I was, because again, I didn't need 61 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 8: to buy my friends. 62 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 2: Bring this conversation. I got so much smack to talk. 63 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 5: All right, boys, we're gonna bring this back into a 64 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 5: place of actual organization. 65 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 2: I'm gonna start with what are you wearing, Acacia. 66 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 5: I'm gonna start with Bob Guinea here. How many STDs 67 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 5: were rampant in your house personally or community both? 68 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: That's a real question that was saying, you know, you know, 69 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: what's what's funny is that there's a girl Uh in 70 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: the sorority that was like next to us. It was 71 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: a Kapa cup of gamma that had Uh an STD 72 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: that was she had akesha. 73 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 2: What do you take for acasia? Because that one was 74 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: very popular. 75 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 6: Well, a lot of a lot of penicillin, and I 76 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 6: think you have to shave things. 77 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 2: Wait, well is she doing okay? Now? Yeah, she's dead. 78 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: Now Akasha Kills really knows that. 79 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 6: I would say at any given time, you know, there's 80 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 6: probably some stuff that could cause blindness, others that just 81 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,119 Speaker 6: made you kind of have itchy, rashy things. 82 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 2: But it was like a thing. I don't know if 83 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 2: that's said, it was a thing. 84 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 6: I do know that we had a nickname list, like 85 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 6: a listen There were some nicknames on it, and one 86 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 6: of the guys nicknames was the Alaskan King Crab. 87 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 2: Why was he called that? He might have had a 88 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: case of the crabs? Is that curable? You with Akasha, 89 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, Amy jumped on that real fast. Yeah, 90 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 2: they built very personal. 91 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 9: Yes it is. I don't have anything, but I want 92 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 9: to provide accurate information for people listening. 93 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 5: You didn't know that we weren't going to You jumped 94 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 5: on that way before we had a chance to respond. 95 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: I felt very personal. 96 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 8: A question for Bob and just to be clear for 97 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 8: the listeners out there, yes, this is East Lansing East 98 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 8: Lancing Mission in the nineteen forties. 99 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 2: Is that right? Just to be clear, what was happening 100 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: during World War Two? 101 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 4: Was it tough? 102 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 2: Am I supposed to be here? Am I the oldest 103 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 2: guy here? But thankfully Brett's here? So the answer is no. 104 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 8: Okay, so you are in the fraternity and then you 105 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 8: got drafted to fight the world? 106 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 2: Yes, ww two American we were in mash. I did 107 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 2: start a mash with hot lift Sulhan. Yeah, I think 108 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 2: that's bob. 109 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 5: I'm not going to even fall up because I think 110 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 5: it's a common answer for everybody here when it comes 111 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 5: to a fraternity experience. 112 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 2: I would say this. 113 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: I think it's important to talk about. There was a 114 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: health department and I always thought it was funny because 115 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: people would go to it because things were happening. 116 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 2: Here's my questions departments. Is that Why is that funny? 117 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 2: That's the whole point of the health department Because this 118 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: question was about s t d's. 119 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that no one was going there because they 120 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 1: had the flu. 121 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 8: That that experience is not solely on fraternities and sororities. 122 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 8: Every college student has that experience. Okay, these gd ees 123 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 8: on my side of the aisle, not me. 124 00:06:55,760 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 5: Specifically, or assass Again, it feels like people are defending 125 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 5: things they don't need to be defending. 126 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense. 127 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 5: Is this is about the fraternity sorority life, they're not 128 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 5: Burns Brett Adams. In terms of dating a frat boy, 129 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 5: how do you know if a guy is actually interested 130 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 5: in you or not? 131 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 4: If a guy is interested in me? That's a strange question. 132 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 5: Was a real girl is asking this question? She's wondering 133 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 5: in terms of, Hey, she's interested in fratorney boy. You 134 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 5: know your buddies, you know yourself. How do you like, 135 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 5: how does she know that you're actually interested in her 136 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 5: as a fraternity guy? 137 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: Hmmm? Or is the answer that they just aren't well. 138 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 7: I think between the fraternities and sororities that it's pretty 139 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 7: much conversation amongst friends. 140 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 4: And we're around, and. 141 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 7: I would guess that this is such a strange question, 142 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 7: like how much to answer whether someone's interested or not? 143 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 7: But I think it's word of mouth that your buddy says, hey, 144 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 7: this girl's interested in you. 145 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 4: I don't know that's this. 146 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 2: I think you're on the right track. 147 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 5: Anytime in my college experience, if like somebody's interested in 148 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 5: somebody else, there would be at least the conversation with 149 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 5: a girl would be like is he actually interested? 150 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 10: Me? 151 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 2: And a buddy would be able to be like one 152 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 2: hundred percent he is or not? 153 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 7: Yes, But I also think guys will push their buddies 154 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 7: into being interested whether they are or not. 155 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, especially like I'm gonna say this. Date parties. Ah, Yes, 156 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: remember date parties. 157 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 4: Loved them. 158 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: Date parties were a great opportunity to meet new people. 159 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: And what I remember from those parties was lots of alcohol, yes, 160 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: and a lot of people saying, wells, she doesn't like you. 161 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 2: Does that make a wells? Adams? Try harder. This is 162 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 2: why I'm here today. 163 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 8: I've got a million questions and I'm so sorry interrupts. 164 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 8: Do I know you're managing this whole question topic debate? 165 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 2: Answer? 166 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 8: You went to Kansas, You went to Michigan State, you 167 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 8: went to Ole Miss, you went to Indiana. Those are 168 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 8: all prestigious and large schools and universities, right. 169 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 5: Same with Colorado Christian University of Colorado, Strace. 170 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 2: The school is so nice they had to use the 171 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 2: state name twice. Thank you, Ben. 172 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 8: Why on earth would you either of you charismatic individuals ever, 173 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 8: need to be in a position to meet more girls 174 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 8: because you're always going to be out and about at 175 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 8: any of these great schools, right, and like, what what 176 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 8: is the what is the incentive to go into a 177 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 8: fraternity to meet more girls when you can always just 178 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 8: go out into the street. 179 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: We couldn't. We couldn't drink on campus. We had to 180 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 2: have off campus housing. 181 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 7: You couldn't drink on Also, some of us are not 182 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 7: as charismatic as you are. 183 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 4: We need some help so. 184 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 2: We don't have a mustache. 185 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 4: That's right. 186 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:28,319 Speaker 2: I couldn't grow. 187 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 6: That mustache in my life depended on it. 188 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 8: Okay, this is okay, another follow up question, Bratt. First 189 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 8: of all, how dare you because you are the most 190 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 8: you have more charisma and your one finger than I 191 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 8: do in my entire body. 192 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 4: That's not true. Don't sell yourself short. 193 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: That's a genuine, honest question that I had. 194 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 8: I went to a school that was probably a quarter 195 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 8: of the size of all of your schools, and there 196 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 8: was never an issue of like meeting someone or for 197 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 8: you or no, that's what I'm trying to get at, 198 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 8: ben or making friends and I'm not trying to disparage 199 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 8: any of this decision making, whether it's an assortia or 200 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 8: fraternity or anything. I'm just curious, like, what is the 201 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 8: incentive on your guys' party. 202 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 7: Did you have any friends that went to Colorado State 203 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 7: University you knew before you went to school? 204 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 4: Yes? 205 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 2: So many? 206 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 4: Okay, I went to University Kansas. I did not know 207 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 4: one soul. I didn't. 208 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 7: That was my intro into college and to get friends 209 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 7: to acclimate myself. 210 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 4: So I didn't have the luxury that you did, Dean, 211 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 4: which is what. 212 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 5: In charisma I thought you were asking school did you 213 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 5: have friends that went one? 214 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 2: So I will say this. 215 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 6: I also think at a larger school sometimes it helps 216 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 6: to have some ways to make that place smaller. Like 217 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 6: for me, the football team made it really small. The 218 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 6: frat made it even smaller. It was like I felt 219 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 6: like I was I knew everybody. So I went to 220 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 6: school with two guys that that I knew, but because 221 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 6: I was on the football team, I didn't live with them. 222 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 6: I was in the football dorm. I got to know 223 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 6: a ton of people from that. But then the fraternity 224 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 6: made it even smaller. So from that perspective, yeah, I 225 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 6: took a really big school and made it really. 226 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 7: Small and you got to meet girls pretty easily. 227 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you knew one one or two people. You 228 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: knew zero people zero. I knew one person. 229 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 2: Miss. 230 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 9: My question is when you went to a date party, 231 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 9: did you ask the girl you had a crush on 232 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 9: or did you ask the girl you were friends with. 233 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 6: I will say this, I went to a lot of 234 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 6: date parties as a friend that ended up you know, 235 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 6: potentially benefits having benefits. 236 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I did have I didn't date. 237 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 6: I didn't ask anybody I had a crush with, necessarily 238 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 6: because I just went to the sorority date parties. 239 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 2: They were way more fun. 240 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 5: And to be honest, I think the reason why I 241 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 5: went out to parties and invited new people and tried 242 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 5: to meet girls was also just like that acceptance of hey, 243 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 5: I have like attractive girlfriends that can like I will 244 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 5: see at the bars. It was like almost like a 245 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 5: fun like like community that you were building of, like, oh, no, 246 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 5: you my buddies coming with me? I know, so and 247 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 5: so girl, let's go sit within the night. That's totally cool. 248 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 5: I've gone to two date parties with her. We're good friends, 249 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 5: and all of our friends are attractive. And that's like 250 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 5: almost like a status thing for me, where I'm like, 251 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 5: my buddies are coming with me to meet the good 252 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 5: looking girls at the bar. 253 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 1: Ben was just collecting hot chips. 254 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 6: From what I understand, we need to ask real quick, 255 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 6: have you ever had a bad case of acacia. 256 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 4: Case? 257 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, did you take Pennis again? It was bad for 258 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 2: turning out. I'm gonna ask, well, is this question? 259 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 5: How fast do guys decide if a girl is just 260 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 5: a hookup girl or a girlfriend material? 261 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 2: I think it happens instantly. 262 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, thank you, Dean. 263 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it happened like you know, what, do 264 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 2: we do it later? No one's listening to this show. 265 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 2: Hundred thousand downloads yesterday. 266 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I agree, though, I think you know. But 267 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: I also think women feel the same way about men. 268 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: I don't think it's women decide a lot quicker than men. Yes, 269 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: and they're like, I will hang out, I will tolerate 270 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: you for another twenty minutes or not. 271 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 4: So it seems like lot. 272 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: Honestly, I think it's more the other way around, of 273 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: like I think that she's tolerating me. This is working out, 274 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: this is awesome. 275 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 2: I might have I might get a case of. 276 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 5: Zach Shallcross, I got a question for you. I think 277 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 5: you're gonna perfect for it. We all shared the STDs 278 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 5: we've dealt with in life. 279 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 8: Yeah no, no, no, we haven't other than us all have. 280 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 4: You know how? 281 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 8: I know you haven't shared that because Wells is still 282 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 8: not talking right now. 283 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 2: Okay, know, Zach. 284 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 5: My real question for you, and this is written in 285 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 5: by a sorority girl wanting to know these answers, what 286 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 5: is something if you could go back to college? What 287 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 5: is something in college that would give you the ick? 288 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 5: Like make you completely turned off? And if anybody after 289 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 5: Zach answers has any insight into chiming in on this, 290 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 5: I think it is a helpful question. 291 00:15:55,680 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 10: My god, in college, I let's just. 292 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 4: Put it this way. 293 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 10: I uh, desperate, It's not the right word for myself, 294 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 10: but it was pretty damn close. 295 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 4: So not a lot of things gave me the. 296 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 10: As a three hundred and five pound offensive lineman at 297 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 10: a not a great football school. 298 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 2: It's a great answer. So I'll tell you you were 299 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 2: okay with anything, you know, a. 300 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 10: Standards kind of uh. 301 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 6: I have a friend who used to say a great saying. 302 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 6: He would always go, you know, bomb if your standards 303 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 6: are too high. 304 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 3: Lower them. 305 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 2: I swear to God, I don't know that. I don't 306 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 2: know my insight into this. 307 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 5: When it comes to college, man, that's Kenny Rogers. 308 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 4: Well, college is like, yeah, I want to hear what 309 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 4: you have to say, Ben. 310 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 2: Because I think I thought you were going in this direction. 311 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 5: I think college, any uh, what gave mediac was anybody 312 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 5: that felt too forward and like interested in talking about 313 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 5: like a future too quickly. Like in college, I was 314 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 5: not in the space to ever think about marriage. I 315 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 5: was there to figure myself out. 316 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 2: And have a good time. 317 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 5: And if anybody, like on a date or at a 318 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 5: bar or a date party, would corner me and be like, 319 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 5: you know, find this. 320 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 2: What is this? It would be like it's not my thing. 321 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 10: I thought you were too into me, And I'm like, 322 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 10: are you kidding me? 323 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 4: What kind of problems? 324 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 2: Okay? 325 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 4: Around interested? 326 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 7: Not beat around the bush, but the yeah is a 327 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,640 Speaker 7: stinky vagina. 328 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 5: I don't disagree. I mean, is anybody here gonna say no. 329 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 2: Bob, my mic doesn't seem to be working. 330 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 11: That's like a literal ichy. Hey, what're laying it all out? 331 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 11: Sidn't Let's go ahead and cut that. I didn't know 332 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 11: that we were laying it all out. I thought we 333 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 11: were kind of. 334 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 5: A hundred percent laying it all here's a okay, let me 335 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 5: just ask that question based on a Brett response. 336 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 2: Oh my, that's why I'm so glad you're Brett. Just 337 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 2: makes my life so much easy. From zero? What are 338 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:21,880 Speaker 2: you gonna talk? 339 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 4: Five? 340 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 2: Is the same thing? Whatever it is, I'm sorry, but 341 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 2: it's not. It's not a safety tree. 342 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 5: But no, to Brett's point, the net, Hey, Brett might 343 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 5: be the only one willing to say it. But to 344 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 5: Brett's point, if you run into that situation in college, 345 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:50,360 Speaker 5: is it not talked about amongst your fratorney brothers? 346 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:52,399 Speaker 4: One hundred percent? So is he wrong? 347 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 2: No, he's wrong in my opinion. Granted have her turn brothers, but. 348 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 6: Never talked about talking about that with your fraternity. 349 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:06,199 Speaker 8: Brother Well, I have a fraternity brothers eyes. That was 350 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 8: never like a topic converce in my experience. Think you 351 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 8: be okay for you? I mean, are you saying you're good? 352 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 8: Don't respond? Or it doesn't exist in college? 353 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just so. 354 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 4: Cleanest, most sanitary place in America. 355 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 8: Pulling myself back to college, I got one thing to 356 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 8: say stinking vagina is still better than no vagina. 357 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, and I think, well on that goodness, 358 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 5: I can't wait for this. 359 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 2: To come aheadline of. 360 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 1: This podcast is going to be sky it's better than that. 361 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 2: It's such a good quote from Dean, Right, that's all 362 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 2: we need. 363 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 12: Can I give it a normal answer or like a good. 364 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than someone talking about their family. Oh, 365 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: I don't need to know about your parents. 366 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 12: See I want to I don't care what's happening over 367 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 12: there to your thing. 368 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 4: It's fine, No, you don't. You want to know about 369 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 4: the person you're talking to. 370 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 2: No, you don't remember their daughter? 371 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 4: Are you talking about the Fox News? 372 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 2: Let's be honest. 373 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: Way, everyone's parents watches Fox News in. 374 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 2: This room right now? 375 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 12: All right, okay, And the second that you start talking 376 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 12: about their family, let me talk, let me talk about 377 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 12: your parents, they're like, well, they love Talker Carlson. 378 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 2: You're like, fuck, I gotta go. 379 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 4: They watched which halftime show? 380 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I'm talking about. I don't care. 381 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: Let's go on a lovely day. 382 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 10: You just met this person, and they say, oh no, 383 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 10: the question was. 384 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: Just turning to beat them. The question was what gives 385 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: you the theck and someone's like, well, let me tell 386 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 1: you my dad he loves Tucker Carlson, And you're like, fuck, 387 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 1: I gotta go. 388 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 8: This is this is what's hard to hear from a 389 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 8: GDI's perspective on this is. Ben said marriage too quickly, 390 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,239 Speaker 8: You said family too quickly. For me, it was like, 391 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 8: you guys are already talking about taking to that level. 392 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 8: Never in my experience that I experienced, were you talking 393 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 8: about my biggest s dick in college was a girl 394 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 8: that was like addicted to meth, you know what I mean? 395 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 2: Fair in Colorado Springs there was a fair bit of that. Okay, 396 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 2: where did you go to school? Cold in Colorado? In 397 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 2: the Colorado Springs campus? 398 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 8: Trying to make it, Ben is like, oh, she's trying 399 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 8: to get married too quickly. Wells like she's trying to 400 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 8: introduce me to her parents too quickly. I'm like, oh 401 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 8: my gosh, you're not doing meth. 402 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 4: That's awesome. 403 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 2: Teeth, For God's sake. It was rough out there, Okay. 404 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 5: Speaking of hygiene, Oh, none of this is usable. 405 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 2: You'd be surprised. Oh yeah, it's very usable. 406 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 5: Speaking of hygiene, Bob Guinea, were you ever worried about 407 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 5: your living conditions at the fraternity house? 408 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 2: Uh no, I'm super o c D anal weirdo. You 409 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 2: know about that cleaning college? 410 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, my roommates weren't always you weren't in a fraternity. 411 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:33,239 Speaker 5: But were you ever worried about the cleanliness of the 412 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 5: home that you were living in? 413 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,360 Speaker 4: Well, okay, not a chance in hell. 414 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: I'm about the homies currently. 415 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 4: Whoa No. 416 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 8: I shared a room with a young man for a 417 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 8: good couple of years there, and was he also a raccoon? 418 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 2: He was king wreckon. I mean, you guys know me. 419 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:05,959 Speaker 2: Most of you guys know me pretty well. I'm not 420 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 2: the pretty easy going. 421 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 8: When it comes to that stuff, right, So it's like, oh, 422 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 8: don't worry about showering for a couple of weeks, don't 423 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 8: worry about wiping your butt after you go to the bathroom. 424 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 2: You know, as long as you're happy on that basically. 425 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 8: But there were a couple of times where you know 426 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 8: you're in a place and you're like, is going to 427 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 8: clean himself? 428 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 2: Ever? And they probably thought the same thing about me too. 429 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 8: And it's different obviously because you guys were all on 430 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 8: fraternities and you're living closer to each other than. 431 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,959 Speaker 2: We are or I am with my friends. 432 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 8: But yes, I was worried about my friend's sanitation a 433 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 8: couple of times. 434 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 5: How often, Brett, were you washing your sheets in college? 435 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,120 Speaker 4: That is a very good question. 436 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 2: That's the best one so far in the circle of 437 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 2: truth here. 438 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 7: I would maybe hope I washed my sheets every two weeks. 439 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 4: That's good, that's really good. 440 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 2: I agree, that's normal. 441 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was a normal guy. You were once a week, 442 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 4: that's really yeah. Well we're not filthy like Dean what. 443 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 2: I would literally go once a semester. Yeah, I'm oh, 444 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 2: where that bad's? Proudly you just put when I'm going 445 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 2: to bed after a. 446 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 4: Shower, his sheets stand up? 447 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 2: What does that even mean? 448 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 9: Are they're actually telling the truth right now that you 449 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 9: washed your that you wash your sheets in the fraternity, 450 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 9: like feeling dirty on a weekly or twice a month, 451 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 9: baseless because I was in a sorority, and I'm scrolling 452 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 9: the brain right now to be like, did I ever 453 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 9: wash my sheets? Like and I'm a clean person. Yeah, 454 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 9: because did you have a washer dryer in the fraternity? 455 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 2: I did? 456 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,359 Speaker 10: Yes, Yeah, we didn't have like working water, but we 457 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 10: had like a washer and dryer. 458 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:03,400 Speaker 2: And a lot. I do think you're fold guys. I'm 459 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:04,400 Speaker 2: weird with that stuff. 460 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, I was going to say, I think it's a 461 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 5: unique group where I know enough about all of you 462 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 5: to believe you like telling the truth, because I think 463 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 5: all of us, like even since college, high school, we 464 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 5: were washing our sheets often because we want to be clean. 465 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 5: I've always been weird about my sheets. 466 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 6: Especially that much business rolling through those sheets on a 467 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 6: weekly basis. 468 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:33,360 Speaker 5: And curiosity when you're struggling, when you got a bad 469 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 5: case of a cash you want to keep that ship. 470 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 3: You also have. 471 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 9: One, two, three, four, like six sorority girls just by 472 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 9: show of hands who washed their sheets once a week. 473 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:50,120 Speaker 4: That's impressive, beautiful. What does that tell you about you? 474 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,439 Speaker 2: This is let me I got to hear. 475 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, this is what it is, all of you, all 476 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 8: of you folks over here. They're okay, there's probably part 477 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 8: of that too, but it's just it's a rich folk 478 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 8: thing to wash your sheets. 479 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 2: Okay. 480 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,199 Speaker 8: If you can wash your sheets once a week, that 481 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 8: means you have a backup set of sheets that you 482 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 8: can put on the bed while the other sheet is washing, and. 483 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 5: A lot of how sheets work. 484 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 2: Okay, Richie, Yeah, I understand what you're getting. Yeah, yeah, 485 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 2: I washed my sheets one time. 486 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 8: They disintegrating in the dryer because that's how poor quality 487 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 8: they were. 488 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 2: Okay, that's why we couldn't do it in Colorado. 489 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 12: Spe He's got seven thread cot. 490 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 5: Okay, Richie, I didn't know. Like it is still a 491 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 5: thing in my life now. I don't let shoes ever 492 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 5: touch the bed, like when my wife packs and she 493 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 5: puts her like, don't throw your wife under the bus 494 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 5: luggage up there, No, it's there. We we do it 495 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,959 Speaker 5: in our home. There is never a shoe that touches 496 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 5: the bed while we pack. In fact, luggage doesn't even 497 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 5: hardly touch our bed because that's been so many different places. 498 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 5: That is a sacred place for sacred things to happen. 499 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 4: Sacred. Yeah, all right, we're. 500 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 2: Gonna go back to Wells for this one. Be honest. 501 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,199 Speaker 5: There is a beautiful girl that you have shown interest in, 502 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 5: and she's shown interest back. How important to you is 503 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 5: it that she gets good grades in addition to. 504 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 2: Just so everyone knows, I didn't say that. 505 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,679 Speaker 5: I prefer grades you. Here's the scenario. You invite her 506 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,920 Speaker 5: to a date party. You've been into her physically. You 507 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 5: show up and. 508 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,400 Speaker 2: I've been in physically. 509 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,479 Speaker 5: You show up to the date party and she drops 510 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 5: the bomb that, like, hey, I'm going to actually be 511 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 5: here an extra semester because I just failed three of 512 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:15,359 Speaker 5: my five classes. 513 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:27,160 Speaker 2: Does that be honest? Is it a bad thing? Good thing? 514 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 2: Do you not care? 515 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: The fact that I graduated from college is a wild 516 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 1: thought experiment for me. So the fact that someone else 517 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: might have done that, I'm totally fine with. Maybe them 518 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: taking five years of which I took. I like to 519 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 1: call it a victory lap. You know what's good? My 520 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 1: wife didn't go to college. She's very smart. But I 521 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: like to think that, like, it doesn't matter how long 522 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 1: it takes you to get through college. If you loved 523 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,479 Speaker 1: someone or you find someone, it's pretty great. And if 524 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: they have a casha, you know, it's kind. 525 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 2: Of selling for that. Ye I don't know how like 526 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 2: a gamma didn't get out of this list. That feels 527 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 2: like like a beta, Like you hate that answer. I 528 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 2: just don't think you're telling the truth. 529 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 5: I think the truth would be you don't care if 530 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 5: they got good grades? 531 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: Right, I don't care? Don't I mean to be honest 532 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 1: with you, I really don't care. 533 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 8: Something there's something attracted about a girl that gets good grades, 534 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 8: better grades than you do, at least in my opinion, 535 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 8: I don't see how you. 536 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: Can If the girl's more smarter than you or more 537 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 2: applied than you are, that's kind of hot, I think, right, Yeah, yeah, 538 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 2: I see that point. Not saying that. 539 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 8: You're wrong, obviously, I'm just saying there is. 540 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 4: I don't care. I don't care. 541 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 2: I feel like super smart or. 542 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,719 Speaker 4: Not that smart. 543 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,959 Speaker 1: As long as like we connect on some sort of 544 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: like emotional level, that's all it really matters to me. 545 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 2: I always felt like I feel like I'm just talking. 546 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 2: Every time you ask well as a question, I'm on here, 547 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 2: I go, yeah, tell me more. Yeah, yeah, I feel Yeah. 548 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 8: Every time there was a girl that was way smarter 549 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 8: and way more applied than I was, I was like, 550 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 8: I gotta find a way to talk to her, you know, 551 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 8: not for for any other reason than you just be like, 552 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 8: she's way better than I am, and I need to 553 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 8: prove to myself that maybe I can be on her level. 554 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 8: That's at least a moment. 555 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 556 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 8: So there's something inherently attractive about and you're a lot 557 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 8: smarter than. 558 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 5: You and you never thought like, I want to date 559 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 5: her because she's going to make more money than me 560 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 5: and she can potentially just float this life. 561 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 8: Listen, listen, listen as someone that's married to someone that 562 00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 8: makes way more money than does it was a great 563 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 8: It's not It's not something I strived. 564 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 2: For, I guess, but you fall through. You did a 565 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 2: great job doing it. 566 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 5: Nice work, Yeah, Brett, I'm coming back to you for 567 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 5: this one best and worst pledge experience. The scenario here 568 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 5: set up by the question was, Hey, is it ever 569 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 5: frustrating for guys as they try to get into a fraternity? 570 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 5: The pledgship is so long, girls don't really do the pledging. 571 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 5: It's more fun and like exciting for everybody, But the 572 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 5: guys kind of go through like a really tough few 573 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 5: weeks as they lead up to getting accepted into the fraternity. 574 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 5: Was that ever frustrating for you? But then also shared 575 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 5: the best things that come out of pledgship? 576 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 2: Uh? 577 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean pledgship sucks. I think all these guys 578 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 7: will tell you that it's horrible. The actives make your 579 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 7: life as miserable as possible. It's not fun for however 580 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 7: long it is, whether it's four months, nine months, whatever 581 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 7: it is, it is a miserable time that you think 582 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 7: or they tell you that there's a light at the 583 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 7: end of the tunnel and to keep going. My worst 584 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 7: experience during that was, you know, obviously the accessibility of 585 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 7: the actives had that could wake you up at any 586 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 7: time of the night for whatever they needed. If they 587 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 7: wanted omelet made at three o'clock in the morning because 588 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 7: they came home drunk. 589 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 2: You had to do that. 590 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 4: That sucked. 591 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 7: The bond that I made with the guys. I am 592 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 7: much older than most of you guys here and those 593 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 7: that's right ship for you, Bob, But thank god we 594 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 7: are here together holding hands. But I will tell you 595 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 7: that the bond that I made with these guys, I 596 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 7: still have a text chain with all my fraternity brothers. 597 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 7: I still see them every year, and I think that 598 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 7: is pretty special. Despite whether you think that a fraternity 599 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 7: is good or not. At my age, to still have 600 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:17,479 Speaker 7: the friendships that I have with these guys, I wouldn't 601 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 7: trade it. 602 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,239 Speaker 5: For the world, and I think it's the point of 603 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 5: doing this whole thing. 604 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 2: Zach. 605 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 5: Final question, We're going to throw it back to a 606 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 5: question we've already asked before we open it up. To 607 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 5: a second part of this episode where we get live es. 608 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 609 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, because I don't know how well we actually answered this. 610 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 5: But how did you know in college if a girl 611 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 5: was just a hookup or a girlfriend? 612 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 4: I was here for that part. 613 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 2: Oh you were there, but I don't think you actually were. 614 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 2: His answer was not clearly very memorable. 615 00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 4: Wait, so what was the question? 616 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 2: You were in fact not here for this part. 617 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 5: Your first question asked was more about the ick, but 618 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 5: this was how do you know if a girl was 619 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,240 Speaker 5: just a hookup or girlfriend? 620 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:11,760 Speaker 2: Material? 621 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,279 Speaker 10: Okay, I walked in right when you guys were talking 622 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 10: about this. I would say, how would you know? I mean, 623 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 10: it's pretty immediate, but like I piggyback off what you said, 624 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 10: like they're making the decision before, like, and I'm going 625 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 10: to lean on this again. I didn't have the wherewithal 626 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 10: to make have that decision. I didn't have that thought process. Really, 627 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 10: could you just like hell, yeah, whatever, let's go. 628 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 4: Could you hate? You want to talk sweet? 629 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:47,319 Speaker 2: Oh? 630 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 4: We want to go further? Cool too? 631 00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 5: Based on answer Anne Well's answer, would we all agree? 632 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 5: Because I think this is like revolutionary for so many 633 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 5: that when we're in college, specifically, I think girls in 634 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 5: a lot of ways want the guy to be interested. 635 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 5: And really the message that you guys are sending is 636 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 5: really the guys are just hoping the girls interested. 637 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 4: Is this like a lesson. 638 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 12: Also in life in general, in college or But I 639 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 12: think that we don't hold. 640 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 4: The cards my man. Yeah, we really. 641 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 2: I think that's the point. We've never been in charge. 642 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 5: We've never been in charge, and I mean I do 643 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 5: think that is like a note to take from this 644 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 5: is all of us are sitting here being like we 645 00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 5: never felt in charge now. 646 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 10: No, we're just trying to figure it out. We have 647 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 10: no idea what we're doing, still don't, but like figuring 648 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 10: out on the fly. 649 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 2: But a pretty girl is interested in you. 650 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 5: You are ecstatic and feeling very lucky, and I think 651 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 5: in their mind they're like, I hope he's interested me, 652 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 5: and you're like, oh, yeah, have been, will be one 653 00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:57,840 Speaker 5: of me? 654 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? Can I give a closing thought? 655 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 1: I haven't thought after your thought? 656 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, so this whole thing is supposed to be. 657 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,959 Speaker 1: About fraternities and sororities, right, Like that's the idea, which 658 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,760 Speaker 1: is like a community of people that are coming together 659 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 1: and enjoying each other's company. And we are at this point, 660 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,839 Speaker 1: don't laugh at me, right, you laugh too? 661 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 11: Uh. 662 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 1: In our community, we used to have these things that 663 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: like people would like go and join and like it. 664 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 2: It was usually the church, right, Like. 665 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: People would come to the church and then they drop 666 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: their kids off and then they would do like church 667 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 1: activities or whatever. And it was like this sense of community, 668 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 1: and that's gone away. Let's be realistic, like that's just 669 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 1: not what's happening in a lot of the communities around here. 670 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: And I think that the one thing that is cool 671 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,879 Speaker 1: about sororities and fraternities is that, like it's a sense 672 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 1: of community. Everyone wants to feel like they're a part 673 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 1: of something. And even though I was kicked out of 674 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 1: my fraternity, like it was a cool period of my 675 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,120 Speaker 1: life where I felt like I was a part of something. 676 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: And so I get it, like I get the dirty 677 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 1: rush thing of it all. 678 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,760 Speaker 5: And you still, even though you were removed from the fraternity, 679 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:30,720 Speaker 5: your friendships today you still have from that fraternity. 680 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:35,919 Speaker 1: You come to my fraternity golfnment every year. 681 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 5: That was a statement for you to open it up 682 00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 5: and say, yes every year you come. 683 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 2: Do I know that? 684 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 5: But the listener, does you hang out with every Sigma 685 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 5: Ki that I ever ung out with. We go to 686 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 5: a golf event every year with like thirty people, yes from. 687 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,839 Speaker 1: And I love all those people, and half of them 688 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:01,800 Speaker 1: were at my wedding. And yes it's a the listener 689 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,799 Speaker 1: does not know that. Sorry, so I'm so sorry we've 690 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: been drinking. But yeah, it's a lovely community that like 691 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 1: maybe a lot of people don't get to experience. But 692 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: even though I was kicked out of this thing, it's 693 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:19,560 Speaker 1: still a big part of my life. 694 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,839 Speaker 2: It's still buddies you've seen for years later. Dean, what 695 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 2: was your thought? 696 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 8: I can give a closing statement that thinks, okay, whoa dude, 697 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 8: Everyone like I did a good thing. 698 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 2: Now. 699 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 8: My closing statement wanted to be I think the concept 700 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 8: of this podcast is great, and I think it's so 701 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 8: fun to take a trip down memory lane. 702 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 2: What I wanted to say was. 703 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,400 Speaker 8: I feel like a piece of shit and and a 704 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 8: loser from just yesterday. My embarrassment and my shame that 705 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 8: I feel from yesterday so big. But even going back 706 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 8: to college is bigger and stronger than ever, right, So 707 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 8: to to take a step back to college and remember 708 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 8: how maybe like sure of myself I was or uncertain 709 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 8: or not confident or whatever it might have been, especially 710 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 8: when I was back in college. I look back at 711 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:12,799 Speaker 8: that and I have a lot of gratitude obviously for 712 00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 8: being able to make it out of that, but how 713 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:20,879 Speaker 8: I was back then, I was so stupid, for lack 714 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,840 Speaker 8: of a better word. And so when I think about 715 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 8: us being in fraternities, or you guys being in fraternities 716 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 8: or whatever, or the listeners being in sororities, it's such 717 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 8: an important aspect of your life, but it's also such 718 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 8: a blip on the radar, and it feels like such 719 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 8: an old head thing to say, to be like, it 720 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 8: doesn't really matter, and of course to you guys it does. 721 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 8: Like you just said, your fraternity brothers are such a 722 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,399 Speaker 8: big part of your life. My experience is different because 723 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 8: I didn't have that. But I look back on those 724 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:49,800 Speaker 8: days and you're asking us these questions where it's like, 725 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 8: how did you feel about this at that point, and 726 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 8: I'm like, well, honestly, I was just an idiot back then. 727 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,880 Speaker 8: And I think that's the most important, in my opinion, 728 00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 8: the most important takeaway to remember that everyone, especially the 729 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 8: guys in the fraternities, are idiots when they're twenty nineteen 730 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 8: to twenty three years old. They're so stupid at least 731 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 8: I was. I was so stupid at that age, right. 732 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,920 Speaker 8: I still think I'm stupid, but I was especially stupid 733 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 8: back then. And anything that they feel, or any way 734 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 8: that they act or react to anything you do is 735 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 8: so irrelevant and so fucking stupid because those guys are stupid, 736 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,879 Speaker 8: and you shouldn't put much stock into what a guy 737 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 8: thinks at you. I'm sorry of you at that age 738 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 8: because they're a fucking idiot. 739 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 5: It's a season of development, not definition, so it doesn't 740 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:40,560 Speaker 5: define you. 741 00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,359 Speaker 2: But yeah, so let's talk about that. 742 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:43,320 Speaker 4: What is college? 743 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 1: Is college a place where you're supposed to go get 744 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,760 Speaker 1: higher learning or is college a place where you're supposed 745 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,880 Speaker 1: to figure out how to live by yourself as a 746 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 1: normal I. 747 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 2: Think you learned social skills. 748 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 6: I think you learned social I can't tell you I 749 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 6: learned from that's more important than the It's like the 750 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 6: journalism degree that I got. 751 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if I think is as valuable as 752 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 1: like I figured out how to do taxes and I 753 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 1: figured out how to deal with people all that stuff, 754 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,120 Speaker 1: and I don't know. 755 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:19,399 Speaker 2: Again, it's development, it's it's not. For so many of us. 756 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 5: It's such an important four years, five years, six years, 757 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 5: whatever did. But it is, it's a graduated what we 758 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,120 Speaker 5: got through it. It's a season, and I think there's 759 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,880 Speaker 5: a lot of mistakes made, a lot of stories to 760 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,480 Speaker 5: be told, a lot of embarrassing moments, a lot of 761 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:44,239 Speaker 5: nights out with the boys. Now that you can be 762 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,800 Speaker 5: like you remember when you did that, Brett, that was wild, 763 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 5: but it isn't who you are today. And I think 764 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,719 Speaker 5: that's always I think that's a lesson that we all 765 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 5: have in life. But one hundred percent, it's the social skills. 766 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 5: We're gonna pause here. We'll come back with a second 767 00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:01,759 Speaker 5: episode with live questions that have been burning on the 768 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 5: hearts of some of America's top sorority girls.