Speaker 1: How I Suck at dating with Dean Angler and Dared
Speaker 1: Haven and I heard radio podcast. Hey everyone, welcome to
Speaker 1: help I suck at dating of course with myself and
Speaker 1: Dean Angler. And as we've been doing the past few weeks,
Speaker 1: we have very special co host. Uh you know her
Speaker 1: from of course a Bachelor on season twenty six of
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. Technically speaking, it is Sierra Jackson. Sierra, how
Speaker 1: are you? I am doing so well? Hello? Hello, I'm
Speaker 1: doing great though, super happy to be on and get
Speaker 1: to take partners with y'all. It's very exciting. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: doing great. Please, we're the we're the lucky ones of
Speaker 1: the group here. I think we're all lucky. We're all lucky.
Speaker 1: That's fair. So Sierra. So, for those of you uh
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast that might not be able to
Speaker 1: place the name, she's from Clayton season of The Bachelor,
Speaker 1: this most recent season. Um, Sierra. So, I didn't watch
Speaker 1: much of this season, but I it was pretty captivating,
Speaker 1: especially near the end. What are your thoughts on it? Um? Gosh,
Speaker 1: it was definitely wild and the ending was definitely like
Speaker 1: an end ending that no one expected. Um. I knew
Speaker 1: the ending or I thought I knew the ending, right,
Speaker 1: I thought I knew how it was an end, and
Speaker 1: technically it did in that way. But um, you know,
Speaker 1: they rekindled and you know, got got together and um
Speaker 1: are now happy as can be. So um, that's really good.
Speaker 1: But definitely caught everyone off guard. Um, and they were
Speaker 1: just wild. It was crazy from the moment I walked
Speaker 1: into the mansion until you know it was It was
Speaker 1: pretty wild. Jared, did you watch the finale or like
Speaker 1: at least kind of know what happened? Yeah, I watched
Speaker 1: most of it obviously, are you talking? I'm sorry? No,
Speaker 1: yeah talking, because obviously I just here and it was everything.
Speaker 1: But Jared, because I know sometimes you watch it, sometimes
Speaker 1: you don't watch, so I'm just curious. I know it's
Speaker 1: it's quite ironic. I love the franchise so and I
Speaker 1: don't watch as much as I should actually does. And
Speaker 1: of course I watched the finale or the last few
Speaker 1: weeks of Clayton's season because it was pretty captivating. So
Speaker 1: are you surprised that Susie and clay are together? Now? Um?
Speaker 1: I am, but I'm not, um, and like, for like
Speaker 1: a couple of reasons. So I am surprised because I
Speaker 1: didn't expect that, um, and I didn't see them as
Speaker 1: like a couple. I guess I just didn't see that. Um.
Speaker 1: But now that I when I sit back and I
Speaker 1: think about it, though, uh, it does make sense to
Speaker 1: me because Susie is very strong willed, and she's decisive,
Speaker 1: and she's very just like you know, she's got her
Speaker 1: shot unlock, right and UM, from my experience with Clinton,
Speaker 1: you know, I could be wrong, right, but from my
Speaker 1: personal experience and the vibes that I get, UM, he's
Speaker 1: definitely needs a little bit of push sometimes to make decisions,
Speaker 1: you know, guidance or um, you know, somebody to balance
Speaker 1: back off ideas from somebody that's a little bit more supportive,
Speaker 1: a little bit more like you know, this is what
Speaker 1: we're doing and this is how we're doing it, and
Speaker 1: like this is what's up and him to be just
Speaker 1: like okay. So that dynamic between him and Susie, I
Speaker 1: think it works because she's she's a boss. She's boss's bitch.
Speaker 1: So I think that she'll be able to either with
Speaker 1: him in the shape in the areas that he needs,
Speaker 1: um or just be like the woman that he needs
Speaker 1: to grow into a better man, you know. Um, because
Speaker 1: I mean, I personally don't think Clayton is good enough
Speaker 1: for her, but that's my personal opinion and I just don't.
Speaker 1: But hey, I dated guys aren't good enough for me.
Speaker 1: So I wanted to ask you about that because you
Speaker 1: posted something on Instagram about noticing some red flags from
Speaker 1: Clayton after the season. And do you think that hypothetically speaking,
Speaker 1: say you went to All the Distance and he proposed
Speaker 1: to you, do you think that you would have said
Speaker 1: yes in that moment? Um? No, I don't things, so, um,
Speaker 1: if I went that far, because I mean, did I
Speaker 1: want to go that far? Like? I mean, that's the
Speaker 1: question I guess is did I go that far? Because
Speaker 1: I was just kind of coasting it through. I just
Speaker 1: kept getting roses and I was not really understanding why
Speaker 1: or did I, like, I actually want to get that
Speaker 1: far with him? So I if I had feelings for
Speaker 1: him and I was in love with him, then absolutely,
Speaker 1: like I would say yes, you know, um, but if
Speaker 1: because it's an engagement, you can break off an engagement,
Speaker 1: you're not tied to that person. It's just saying that
Speaker 1: you do want to focus on them and marry them someday,
Speaker 1: you know, And that's the one you don't have to like,
Speaker 1: you know, tie the knot right then and there. So
Speaker 1: you know, I would say yes. But if I was
Speaker 1: just kind of coasting through and I just happen to
Speaker 1: end up at the end, and I'm like, really, I
Speaker 1: didn't think I get this far? I probably, I say no.
Speaker 1: So yeah, that'd that would be pretty epic way to
Speaker 1: end the season two. And for what it's worth, I
Speaker 1: agree with you. I do think she's just uh too
Speaker 1: good for Clayton. Um. The last couple episodes, I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't, really, like I said, I didn't watch much,
Speaker 1: but I watched the little snippets of it because a
Speaker 1: lot of people were talking about it, so I was
Speaker 1: intrigued and I was like every time I heard him talk,
Speaker 1: I was like, what are you saying? What are you doing? Like?
Speaker 1: How is this? How is this happening? Like this? So um,
Speaker 1: I agree, hopefully they end up happy together forever and
Speaker 1: ever and ever. Um, But I do think so as
Speaker 1: you can do better as well, So so is Heara.
Speaker 1: What was your experience like on the show, and like,
Speaker 1: how did you even get on the show in the
Speaker 1: first place? Gosh? So I um, you know, and I
Speaker 1: said this in another podcast too. Um, I had like
Speaker 1: a really bad hinge date and I was piste off
Speaker 1: and I was just like piste off and I deleted
Speaker 1: my hand and I was like, screw this, I'm gonna apply.
Speaker 1: I was like in bed, it was late at night,
Speaker 1: and I saw like a little ad thing and so
Speaker 1: I just I remember, I uploaded the crappiest photo of me.
Speaker 1: It was like blurry Snapchat save photo and it had
Speaker 1: like half of my face. It was like an awful
Speaker 1: photo because I just didn't care. I didn't think I
Speaker 1: get chosen or anything. Um. And then I did the
Speaker 1: form and the about me where it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: like why do you want to do the show? And
Speaker 1: I gave them literally like three sentences. It was like
Speaker 1: the most Like I wasn't Google or Gaga. I was
Speaker 1: literally like, I'm twenty six, I'm in Dallas, I'm single,
Speaker 1: I'm black, and Asian dating is difficult. And I was
Speaker 1: like and I'm successful, I'm in good money, and I
Speaker 1: just I'm ready for a man. And I like literally
Speaker 1: just put it like that, and they called me back
Speaker 1: the next day. I ignored the call. They called me again.
Speaker 1: Ignored it because I didn't know who's calling me because
Speaker 1: I don't answer something out now. And then they text. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they text me and they're like, hey, can you tek
Speaker 1: text message? Well, they let me a message antexting me,
Speaker 1: but I didn't listen to the voicemail because like I
Speaker 1: just never I'm really bad at that. But um, then
Speaker 1: they texted me and we're like, hey, it's you know
Speaker 1: Offome Bachelor. Can you uh can you call us back please?
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh ship. So I called him
Speaker 1: back and went to the process, did everything and we
Speaker 1: didn't find out it was Clayton until you know, right
Speaker 1: before we left. Um, so then we go and you know,
Speaker 1: started that whole journey. Was there was there anyone you
Speaker 1: wanted to be before Clayton was announced as the guy
Speaker 1: I did? I mean I said this word too. I
Speaker 1: wanted it to be Greg because I thought he was
Speaker 1: so cute, right Yeah, I just get this vibe from him,
Speaker 1: but I don't know, like I just like I feel
Speaker 1: like we would like click, like okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Isn't the handsome man from Katie season? He wasn't he
Speaker 1: that not that well received? Yeah? He had he had
Speaker 1: a whole like gaslight thing. Moment too. But the way
Speaker 1: that I received his when I watched it back, um,
Speaker 1: because I had to go back and watch um, I
Speaker 1: didn't think I was like okay, he literally was just
Speaker 1: like I'm just done. I want to go home. Like
Speaker 1: he like, he was like, I don't want to do
Speaker 1: this anymore. Like I said, I loved you, you don't
Speaker 1: love me like I want to go home. I didn't
Speaker 1: see that as gaslighting. I just saw it as to
Speaker 1: him wanted to dip out. Um so um but now,
Speaker 1: but I mean I wanted to be graged right and
Speaker 1: I wanted to be Michael um because I think he
Speaker 1: is so sexy and I just love a good daddy,
Speaker 1: you know. So so how disappointed were you when they
Speaker 1: announced Clayon? Um? I So I wasn't disappointed. I was
Speaker 1: just more like okay, like yeah it was. I wasn't
Speaker 1: really just like disappointed, but I was just kind of
Speaker 1: like bummed out a little bit because I'm like, I
Speaker 1: have no idea who this guy is about him, you know,
Speaker 1: and um, I had that one like little stock ABC
Speaker 1: photo that that you know he has that's like blurry,
Speaker 1: it's not even like good um, and um, I just
Speaker 1: I was like Okay, well he's not like you know,
Speaker 1: he's not like typically like the type I would go
Speaker 1: for um like physically. But I was like, but he's
Speaker 1: not ugly, you know, he's like chi give um and
Speaker 1: so like I'll give it a shot, you know. And
Speaker 1: they said that he's a really sweet guy. And you know,
Speaker 1: the producers are telling me that he's such a good
Speaker 1: guy and this and this is this. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, let's go and give a shot because like,
Speaker 1: for me, personality is more than anything. So um, you
Speaker 1: know that's I went and like kind of thinking of
Speaker 1: it as like a blind date type thing. I would
Speaker 1: love nothing more than if a producer told a cast member,
Speaker 1: like when they were like, oh maybe I should shouldn't
Speaker 1: go on, They're like, you know what, he's kind of
Speaker 1: an asshole. I wouldn't go on. I'd wait till I
Speaker 1: want that. Please tell me that, like she give me
Speaker 1: all the realness, Like I would want something to say
Speaker 1: that to me, like, yeah, he's kind of a dick,
Speaker 1: but he's really sweet too. He just needs a woman
Speaker 1: to put him in his place. And I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: let me be that woman, you know. So um yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like so that's that's it. But you know
Speaker 1: now that I look back though, like I'm I'm I'm
Speaker 1: glad it wasn't Greg. Also because I'm over grad, I
Speaker 1: got that passed through my system, and um, Michael did
Speaker 1: not though he is. So what made you move on
Speaker 1: from Greg? Then? Out of curiosity? Um, because I'm also
Speaker 1: a Greg. I'm a Greg. I'm a great guy too.
Speaker 1: I think Greg's hot, Yeah he is, right, but he's
Speaker 1: he's still hot. I mean, I think he's attractive still,
Speaker 1: you know, but um, I just like, you know, like
Speaker 1: how did you like enter the franchise and he just
Speaker 1: just talk to people and like learning whatever, you know.
Speaker 1: I just, um, I just like learned more about him
Speaker 1: and like his personality, like you know, Obscar, like who
Speaker 1: he is, you know, and through that Greg Vine and um,
Speaker 1: I just don't think like we would be compatible and
Speaker 1: so like you know, obviously if you're like, oh, we
Speaker 1: definitely wouldn't be compatible. He's still attractive, but like there's
Speaker 1: no way in hell we would have a date. And
Speaker 1: then well what kind of juicy gossip have you heard?
Speaker 1: I'm curious, curious, nothing nothing, nothing bad. It's just like
Speaker 1: you know, just that he is very like, um, he
Speaker 1: is very like quiet and he's reserved and he's like
Speaker 1: very to himself, but he is more open around like
Speaker 1: the boys again the guides, but like um I was
Speaker 1: setting to he is like a little bit more piet
Speaker 1: and doesn't really like talk much. And um, I just
Speaker 1: need like I need a guy that I like, a
Speaker 1: man that's chill. But I also want to be able
Speaker 1: to feed off this energy like I want him to
Speaker 1: like give it to me, I can give it back
Speaker 1: and we can like band it with each other and
Speaker 1: we can have fun. And um, you know he's not
Speaker 1: always chill, like I can't do always chill, you know.
Speaker 1: So um, he sounds like a really drill woud and
Speaker 1: I would just probably annoy him the time I get
Speaker 1: on his nerves and then he would probably just bore me.
Speaker 1: And I just so doan, do you and Calin have
Speaker 1: a good banter back and forth? Like do you give
Speaker 1: it and take it from her? I like to think
Speaker 1: we do. Yeah, we do, but I've noticed, um that
Speaker 1: the further we go in the relationship, the less back
Speaker 1: and forth we have because we'll just like we know
Speaker 1: each other too well. Now, So where if she gives
Speaker 1: it something like I'll like, if she says something towards
Speaker 1: me that she knows like it's a little bit of
Speaker 1: an insecurity of mine, I'll do the same to her.
Speaker 1: So it ends up being like a fun banter then
Speaker 1: ends up into it like a little bit of an
Speaker 1: annoying fight. But I've only I've only noticed that as
Speaker 1: we've gotten, you know, closer and closer, where it's like
Speaker 1: I'll just I'll say something. In the early stages of
Speaker 1: the relationship, it was like this kind of flirty, sexy
Speaker 1: back and forth where it's like you kind of poking
Speaker 1: each other but it's sexy. But now if I if
Speaker 1: I poke her that way, she'll just cry and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't have time for your just over. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I agree. I think Cayl and I are uh similar
Speaker 1: in a sense. But okay, So Sierra, So for the
Speaker 1: listeners out there that might you know, have the hots
Speaker 1: for you, So what you need is a guy that's quiet,
Speaker 1: reserved but also can be loud and obnoxious at the
Speaker 1: same time. Well kind of, but no, so like, I
Speaker 1: I know it sounds like crazy, So I just want,
Speaker 1: you know, I want a man who's very grounded and
Speaker 1: like who he is, like where he cannot be swayed,
Speaker 1: he cannot be persuaded, like he can't be like dragged
Speaker 1: our pool in a certain way. He's so grounded and
Speaker 1: so he has this confidence about it, and that is
Speaker 1: so confident that he doesn't have to be the ludest
Speaker 1: person in the room and he doesn't have to be noticed.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to be like the focus of the center,
Speaker 1: center of attention because he is like so secure and
Speaker 1: grounded and like what he can bring to the table
Speaker 1: and like who he is as a man. I think
Speaker 1: that's the sexiest thing. But he knows how to turn
Speaker 1: up and have a good time. If everybody goes out
Speaker 1: to the club or to dinner or brunch, he can
Speaker 1: totally have fun, but he can take it back to
Speaker 1: um and be grounded. Because I am like I have
Speaker 1: like a really bad sucking attentions band and I'm all
Speaker 1: over the place. So I do need a very patient
Speaker 1: man who could be like, okay, Siarah, like calm down
Speaker 1: for like two seconds and chill. And I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you want someone that's stubborn. You want someone that's hard
Speaker 1: headed and stubborn. Gotcha? Um. So, so, now that the
Speaker 1: Bachelor's season is over, I imagine they're probably gonna do
Speaker 1: another Bachelor in Paradise season. Would you go on that?
Speaker 1: And if you would, besides Michael and obviously Greg was
Speaker 1: off the docket. Now, who would you want to see
Speaker 1: walk in the Paradise? Do you think? But so, um,
Speaker 1: if I win, it's it's still like I'm decided, it's
Speaker 1: up in the air. Um, but if I did go there,
Speaker 1: there's literally like that's the thing is like, that's why
Speaker 1: it's undecided is because I don't have my like sights
Speaker 1: on anyone. Um. Everybody says that I'll tell you, trust me,
Speaker 1: you'll go down there, there'll be a guy or two
Speaker 1: that you look at and you're like, Okay, I might
Speaker 1: not have liked you before I do now, And that
Speaker 1: definitely could be the case, like you know, right but
Speaker 1: as of right now, no, because they all are like
Speaker 1: little boys me. I'm watching their Instagram stories and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm doing my freaking yeah, I do my
Speaker 1: little you know. Um C I a search you know,
Speaker 1: just over here, you know, and I'm like, y'all are
Speaker 1: just not like I want a man. I want a man.
Speaker 1: I want a husband. I don't want a boyfriend, you
Speaker 1: know for a couple of months, you know. I want
Speaker 1: a real relationship with somebody who can hold it down
Speaker 1: and help me grow and develop into like a strong
Speaker 1: even stronger, more amazing about us woman. I have a
Speaker 1: lot of goals and things that I want to accomplished,
Speaker 1: and I need somebody that's going to be like in
Speaker 1: my corner supporting me. And I also want to support
Speaker 1: them to um because I'm very ambitious and I want
Speaker 1: to be an ambitious man, and I want to have
Speaker 1: like a good head on his shoulders and not care
Speaker 1: about social media or like cloud or partying or anything
Speaker 1: like that. Like I want him to just be very
Speaker 1: kind of just like have his head on right and
Speaker 1: know what he wants and know what's really important in
Speaker 1: life and like the things that aren't and don't really matter.
Speaker 1: Do you know how many times I've seen, especially guys
Speaker 1: from the franchise, I've looked at their instagram and have
Speaker 1: audibly said to myself because suck, Like I'm in real
Speaker 1: life and they're very nice, so I always feel bad afterwards.
Speaker 1: But man, the cringe that is some of these guys
Speaker 1: instagrams I'm like, oh, but you meet someone in real
Speaker 1: life too, and like their instagram's look wholesome. Some of
Speaker 1: them their instagrams look great, and you meet them in
Speaker 1: real life and you're like, oh my god, I can't
Speaker 1: stand you for two more seconds, like you need to,
Speaker 1: like you're getting on nerves. So that's happened before too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I believe it. Yeah. I would say most of the
Speaker 1: guys and the girls in this franchise, uh are very
Speaker 1: similar to that. But yeah, there you know, if you
Speaker 1: if you don't want to find an F boy that's
Speaker 1: out club and all the time and doing whatever the
Speaker 1: F boys do, maybe Paradise isn't the right option for it.
Speaker 1: Seems like you're kind of apprehensive about the whole concept altogether. Anyways. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I don't. I just don't want Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want a guy that just wants to have
Speaker 1: a good time. I mean, if I wanted that, I
Speaker 1: could go get on a hinge and like, so I
Speaker 1: write a few times and find that here, you know. So, um,
Speaker 1: I want a man that is like very very serious
Speaker 1: and how you just you want something real and he
Speaker 1: wants a badass woman by his side. So I think
Speaker 1: I think Paradise is more wholesome then it's led On.
Speaker 1: When you look at the history of the relationships that
Speaker 1: have come from Bachelor, Bachelor, and Paradise, I feel like
Speaker 1: the success ratio and Paradise is far higher than in
Speaker 1: either Bachelor or Bachelor Wrette. So I think that real relationships,
Speaker 1: more real relationships have come from Paradise than they have
Speaker 1: from the other two shows, Which is funny because Paradise
Speaker 1: is marketed as like more of the salacious show. So
Speaker 1: what you're saying is to Sierra, you're telling her to
Speaker 1: give it a chance. I always say give Paradise a chance.
Speaker 1: I anytime someone's has asked me should I do it
Speaker 1: or should I not do it? I always tell people
Speaker 1: you should do it, because you're always gonna regret it
Speaker 1: if you don't. You wanna know what's funny is about Paradise.
Speaker 1: After my season of The Bachelor, I'm sorry Rachel's season
Speaker 1: that I happened to be on the Dean season of
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. Dean was the bachelorette. It was uh I
Speaker 1: was I was flying to Colorado for something and I
Speaker 1: never met your wife at this point. I never met actually,
Speaker 1: but I knew a friend of she was a friend
Speaker 1: of a friend, so I got her phone number from
Speaker 1: them and I texted her and I was like, hey, Ashoually,
Speaker 1: I know we've never met. I was just on the
Speaker 1: season of the Bachelorette. They're inviting me to go to
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise. I have no idea what that show is.
Speaker 1: Do you suggest that I do the show? And she
Speaker 1: like she first of all, she responded within twenty seconds,
Speaker 1: praised to that woman because she is very generous and
Speaker 1: she's always willing to give out her her advice. And
Speaker 1: she said, Dean, it would be the dumbest mistake for
Speaker 1: you not to go to Paradise. And it was partly
Speaker 1: because the part of the reason I went to Paradise
Speaker 1: the first time was because your wife, So uh, tell her,
Speaker 1: I say thank you next time you see her. And
Speaker 1: and I do agree. I do agree that Paradise you
Speaker 1: have a better success rate, you have a lot more fun,
Speaker 1: it's a lot more laid back. You actually got to
Speaker 1: get paid for it too, which is really nice. And
Speaker 1: it's a change from the first first season and you're
Speaker 1: on so I also agree. I'm I'm all for it,
Speaker 1: and I mean granted, Jared and I are both uh
Speaker 1: you know we know our partners from the show Bachelor Paradise.
Speaker 1: So um, so we we went the same thing for you,
Speaker 1: I think. So did they put you all up to this?
Speaker 1: Did they? Are they secret informant? Don't you're recruiting? You know?
Speaker 1: I see y'all. I mean, I'm always down for it. Hollo. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what is that Alistair? H yeah, it's Alistir. And my
Speaker 1: feet stink really bad too. I don't smell God, how
Speaker 1: does she put up? I slept on a hotel couch
Speaker 1: last night with my shoes on, and I am just
Speaker 1: I'm not my best right now. Yeah, so I actually
Speaker 1: want to talk about that briefly before we go to break.
Speaker 1: Dean opened up the podcast before we started recording by
Speaker 1: saying that he was pretty hungover and then he went
Speaker 1: out last night. I forgot last night was St. Patrick's
Speaker 1: Day because I'm old and I have a kid, and
Speaker 1: I don't do anything with my life anymore. So Dean,
Speaker 1: what the hell do you do last night that led
Speaker 1: you to sleep on a hotel couch with your shoes
Speaker 1: on too? Now your feet stink? Um? Well, she's she's
Speaker 1: being lugging the crab at it right now? Can you
Speaker 1: can you stop? I'm a little self. If Ashley f stunk,
Speaker 1: I'd mean mug her too. Uh. Well, one of my
Speaker 1: really good friends in town from London for work, and
Speaker 1: he has one night in Las Vegas. Uh And so
Speaker 1: we just went out and we just hit a bunch
Speaker 1: of casinos, were gambling until five in the morning. Uh.
Speaker 1: We didn't do anything crazy, you know, but we were
Speaker 1: just like drinking until three or four or five am. Uh.
Speaker 1: And I slept on the couch at as a tower
Speaker 1: room and I woke up and took a taxi straight home,
Speaker 1: got right on the laptop and started recording this podcast.
Speaker 1: So you know, it's really funny about this. I'm started
Speaker 1: to interrupt. But two days ago Dean texted the group
Speaker 1: asking if we could do the podcast earlier in the morning. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Fast forward. Here he is waking up after an all
Speaker 1: night bender and barely making news. I was like, I
Speaker 1: was like a couple of things I want to note
Speaker 1: real quick. Um. Originally we were supposed to have a
Speaker 1: We had a ten am t time today to play golf,
Speaker 1: and obviously you can't play to at ten am and
Speaker 1: then record a podcast at noon. But I'm thinking in
Speaker 1: my head, like, oh, well, if we record the podcast
Speaker 1: at nine am, we can then play golf afterwards. So
Speaker 1: that was where that logic came in. And yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: it was a little bit of a bender last night, Jared,
Speaker 1: But I also won a lot not a lot of money,
Speaker 1: but I won like a thousand dollars on the roulette table.
Speaker 1: So I'm still choking. I'm still choking up as a
Speaker 1: w Yeah. Yeah, that's nice. It was funny. We were
Speaker 1: like making such a big racket and that's such a
Speaker 1: big commotion in the casino, Like people probably thought we
Speaker 1: were winning like tens of thousands of dollars. Every time
Speaker 1: we had a number, I would like do laps around
Speaker 1: the table screaming my ass off, and then they come
Speaker 1: over and watch them be like how much money you
Speaker 1: just win? I was like, I just want sixty bucks.
Speaker 1: Yeah it was it was fun, but I'm feeling I'm
Speaker 1: paying for it this morning. So I appreciate you guys,
Speaker 1: you know, let me be a little bit late, letting
Speaker 1: me look like this, and unfortunately you can't smell me
Speaker 1: through the computer, so that's definitely the biggest component of this.
Speaker 1: But um, I feel uncomfortable talking about myself. So let's
Speaker 1: get a quick break. Stay tuned through the break, will
Speaker 1: be right back. All right, welcome back. What do you
Speaker 1: got forest dating headlines wise for this week? Jared so
Speaker 1: from an article from Mashable, which side note I went
Speaker 1: to their offices in New York like three years ago
Speaker 1: and they were freaking awesome. So anyway, Mashable says, these
Speaker 1: are the eight most random new emojis, and they're telling
Speaker 1: us how to use them. So apparently on today, March fifteen,
Speaker 1: there's a hundred new emojis that became available with Apple's
Speaker 1: latest new update, the I don't know iOS fifteen point
Speaker 1: four whatever that means. But apparently that number is a
Speaker 1: little misleading, considering a quarter of those are skin tone
Speaker 1: variations of the same standard handshake. Okay, so they're they're
Speaker 1: that's good, they're more inclusive. So but here are there
Speaker 1: some of the more stranger new emojis and how you
Speaker 1: can incorporate them in your digital vernacular. So apparently there's
Speaker 1: a troll emoji. Uh, and this troll emoji is supposed
Speaker 1: to be used when you haven't left the house in
Speaker 1: days or showered in a while, So needs say, Dean
Speaker 1: can use that today. Yeah, it says it's time to
Speaker 1: send your best sis a deranged text and add the
Speaker 1: troll emoji as a self aware nod to your current
Speaker 1: state of mind. You can also apparently be used in
Speaker 1: a hey do you want to answer my riddle? I
Speaker 1: don't really get that. I do like how they can
Speaker 1: use that as a hey, I haven't showered in a while.
Speaker 1: So Dean, next time we record the podcast and you've
Speaker 1: had an all night bender just right before we start recording,
Speaker 1: just send that troll emoji so we know what we're
Speaker 1: in store for. Yes, smelly, late everything, all those things.
Speaker 1: Are you guys emogi in your in your everyday texting?
Speaker 1: Are you guys emoji users? I am heavy? I'm always
Speaker 1: using emojis. Do you use emojis when uh you're talking?
Speaker 1: Uh in flirtatious ways with other people? Uh? No, I
Speaker 1: need voice notes? Yeah, screwed the emoji. Yo. I'm surprised
Speaker 1: the voice that's saying because you said you don't like
Speaker 1: answering phone calls, you don't like listening to voicemails. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but if i'm kind of flir like, you've got my attention.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna send you a little like, hey, how
Speaker 1: are you? You know Jared? What about you? Uh No,
Speaker 1: I guess I'm not a big emoji guy. Yeah, why
Speaker 1: don't you? I want you to send me more emojis
Speaker 1: more often. I don't want to upset you. Don't send
Speaker 1: me more, I'll send you to the peach one. Send
Speaker 1: just to me trolls. That's all I want is trolls.
Speaker 1: Uh So. A number two strange new emoji, the lip bite.
Speaker 1: If you're not familiar with those memes. You can also
Speaker 1: use the lip bite emoji to put your ironic f
Speaker 1: boy hat on. So plenty of the guys from Bachelor
Speaker 1: I'm sure use this lip bite emoji. You can use
Speaker 1: it to replace the winky face you guys remember that
Speaker 1: one though that might accompany messages like ha ha uh
Speaker 1: I can't believe I just said that loud loud, But yes,
Speaker 1: the lip bite is a new emoji, probably trying to
Speaker 1: replace the wink emoji. What do we think about that?
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I'm not a fan of I'm I'm o
Speaker 1: g wink omoji all day long. So I like, but
Speaker 1: it's too much sometimes sometimes I think it's too like,
Speaker 1: you know, is anybody using the wink emoji seriously to
Speaker 1: actually try to flirt with someone, like they're actually like, hey, yeah,
Speaker 1: I use it mostly like to my friends, like I'll
Speaker 1: be ten minutes late. Winky face you know. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: how I do it too. I do the winky face
Speaker 1: for that. It's too it's too much for flirting. It's
Speaker 1: like way too strong, so you gotta use it whenever
Speaker 1: it's like or like yea, you know the he he
Speaker 1: I do a lot of he he's. Um. It would
Speaker 1: be funny to be like, hey, I'm gonna be ten
Speaker 1: minutes late lip biting emoji, So yeah, I could see
Speaker 1: I could see that having some appeal. I'm a big
Speaker 1: do you guys use me emoji's emojis whatever where you like,
Speaker 1: make you a little lavatar and send those. Those are
Speaker 1: my favorite too. I do the pig, and I always
Speaker 1: like to get a pig. Oh no, I'm talking about
Speaker 1: the one where you like you it's like yourself, you
Speaker 1: know you guitar. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I use
Speaker 1: those pretty frequently too, well Dean. When Dean had the mustache,
Speaker 1: that emoji was pretty awesome because he would just send
Speaker 1: an emoji of himself, and it was just it looked
Speaker 1: like a guy that was waiting outside to rob me.
Speaker 1: It was just a guy in a beanie and a mustache, yeah,
Speaker 1: and a golden tooth. God, I used to be so attractive.
Speaker 1: What happened to me? I'm just going down fast alright.
Speaker 1: Number three, there's apparently now a disco ball emoji. So
Speaker 1: the next time you're feeling like a mirror ball, used
Speaker 1: the disco ball emoji. And this is one of the
Speaker 1: rare emojis that is actually cuter on the web. That's
Speaker 1: what it says on this Mashable. So apparently there's a
Speaker 1: disco ball one. I don't know. I guess, yeah, in
Speaker 1: case you want to go to the club. I looked
Speaker 1: it up. It's not it looks like a disco ball.
Speaker 1: I don't know it. Yeah. I literally like click because
Speaker 1: I was curious, and I was like, it literally looks
Speaker 1: to me, it looks like the same. So I don't
Speaker 1: have these emoji yet. Easton just sent me some emojis
Speaker 1: and they're just a little um this a little square.
Speaker 1: I do have to update my phone. You need a
Speaker 1: new iOS bro. Yeah, I'll get on that. I'll get
Speaker 1: on that. Not right, now, but I'll do it by
Speaker 1: next week. I'll have it done. Yeah, you'll be fine.
Speaker 1: Uh So the next emoji I think is actually probably
Speaker 1: gonna take off. It's finger hearts. So that's demonstrated obviously.
Speaker 1: You touch your thumb, you touch your finger, you create
Speaker 1: the shape of a heart. You know. I think this
Speaker 1: one could take off because this one's kind of silly
Speaker 1: enough where a finger heart emoi, it's this one, it's
Speaker 1: that one. It's not when you yeah, this one, there's
Speaker 1: this one, there's this one, that's that one, and then
Speaker 1: they have this one too, So what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Wait for all the listeners out there, Yes, here's putting
Speaker 1: her index finger index of your thumb and it does
Speaker 1: and then your hand is obviously the shape of the
Speaker 1: actual Oregan heart, right because like this, but then this
Speaker 1: is also the heart too, so every like those little
Speaker 1: Korean like m so it's like a thing. So they
Speaker 1: have Elgin now, which will I think it will take
Speaker 1: off because it's like pretty common. Yeah, we're so blessed
Speaker 1: to have you on this podcast. You're learning, you're teaching
Speaker 1: us so much. And I would have definitely been like, oh,
Speaker 1: I think it's probably like the smallest violin in the
Speaker 1: world emoji. I would say, like, it's like pay me
Speaker 1: my money, like you and me know it's it's like
Speaker 1: you know, an you're saying, hey, you know, good to know.
Speaker 1: I feel so cultured now, So Eastern if you're out there,
Speaker 1: or Hanna, if you guys have access to these new emojis,
Speaker 1: please let us know what they look like, or Sierra.
Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody has access to them, because
Speaker 1: the next one is called slide, which probably this one
Speaker 1: obviously is more playful for when you're sliding into someone's
Speaker 1: d n s. But what the hell does a like
Speaker 1: an actual slide, like a slide into a pool. No,
Speaker 1: Like I was thinking it would be like a slip
Speaker 1: and slide or something like a little person It's literally
Speaker 1: a play grown slide. Like I don't know if i'd
Speaker 1: want to use that up there. It is right there
Speaker 1: East and showing us. It is definitely a playground slide,
Speaker 1: which I don't know if you want to associate sliding
Speaker 1: into someone's d m S with a child's playground. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, East, And I felt like
Speaker 1: you're about to say something big. No, I'm not sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm just big. I'm just having something. I'm looking at
Speaker 1: these emojis. Um, I don't want it to go off
Speaker 1: too much on these emojis. I'm really excited about it.
Speaker 1: I've dated as soon as I could. I also love
Speaker 1: the melting smiley face. That's a big favorite of mine. Um.
Speaker 1: There's also a oh I'm not peeking, but maybe I
Speaker 1: love that one. I've been using that a lot, but
Speaker 1: almost no one's updated yet, so everyone's getting my emojis
Speaker 1: and they're just a question mark in a box. It's
Speaker 1: a bummer in context. Are you using the peaky one for?
Speaker 1: I mean, why can't you use it for? Uh? Like,
Speaker 1: like my wife text to me, She's like, what are
Speaker 1: we gonna have for food? And I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think like as a looking respectively thing. Anyways, for
Speaker 1: the listeners out there that that that might be struggling for,
Speaker 1: maybe like inspiration on a regular basis, just do us
Speaker 1: all a favorite and go follow East on Instagram because
Speaker 1: it's it's constant and joyful entertainment. It's NonStop. Yeah, you're kind,
Speaker 1: thank you. Hey. I'm with Dean on this one because
Speaker 1: it's one of those instances where Dean and myself have
Speaker 1: way more followers than you. But this is it's not earned,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you, you deserve every
Speaker 1: follower that Dean and I have Eastern and then just
Speaker 1: when you get to ten k, that's I just want
Speaker 1: a little knix to the number. That's all I want,
Speaker 1: very close. The only thing is you're kind of you're
Speaker 1: segmenting your audience a little bit because some of this
Speaker 1: stuff you post is a little I would I would say,
Speaker 1: are rated. Uh look at his Instagram. It's a lot
Speaker 1: of it's a lot. It's good. It's good, it's good,
Speaker 1: clean fun. It's just it's it pertains to a certain
Speaker 1: age group, I think, and you're sting a little older
Speaker 1: with it. It's PG thirteen. It's excuse to an older audience.
Speaker 1: But if you're a child, you're following me, get away.
Speaker 1: I don't want kids out there. Stop sending me slide emojis.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to the freaking park slide Yea. Easton's
Speaker 1: like the new Batman, you know what I mean? This
Speaker 1: is for mature audiences only. Yes, thanks for the plugging. Yeah,
Speaker 1: more the pouring liquid emoji. Apparently this one's a little
Speaker 1: ominous to the entirely empty cup pouring out a suspiciously
Speaker 1: colored liquid. Well, let's see this. What the hell? Can
Speaker 1: you see? It's kind of break can you see? It's
Speaker 1: like we could see it. I just I don't know
Speaker 1: whatever you for what like throwing f in the chat
Speaker 1: for respect kind of thing? Like pour them out for
Speaker 1: your homies? Like that's kind of what iok at? Ass
Speaker 1: or like um if you're like just like how like
Speaker 1: you know, if you're going out with your girlfriends and
Speaker 1: then then you just do a whole bunch of like
Speaker 1: poured out cups. Maybe it's like I'm drunk. I don't know.
Speaker 1: If you guys asked me how last night was in
Speaker 1: text form, I would just send back a lot of
Speaker 1: pouring cups. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah? Okay. Do you guys
Speaker 1: ever have Siri read the emoji? I like hearing how
Speaker 1: Siri describes them, like last porn liquid, glass point liquid. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's not ver very exciting. But sometimes it's like mischievous
Speaker 1: little boy or something again Eastern In what context are
Speaker 1: you using an emoji that's being described by Siri as
Speaker 1: of what did you say? Mischievous little boy? Little boy
Speaker 1: with the slide emoji a little trick or something I
Speaker 1: don't know, or a little frank How did she describe
Speaker 1: the melting face? Let's see, let's pull up the melting face.
Speaker 1: Melting face straight to the point when I would use
Speaker 1: that though, so like, that's a perfect emoji whenever like
Speaker 1: your girlfriend goes out with that guy that you hate
Speaker 1: and then you're like, you're like, bitch, did you sleep
Speaker 1: with him? And then she sends you that melting face
Speaker 1: with a smile where she's like, yeah, you know, that's
Speaker 1: that kind of emoji. I do like that every time
Speaker 1: Easton asked for my audio from this podcast, I'm just
Speaker 1: going to sell him the melting face like it's coming.
Speaker 1: But not least. The final emoji the the empty jar,
Speaker 1: which apparently is different than the pouring liquid. So finally
Speaker 1: an emoji that you can use to invite your crush
Speaker 1: to firefly catching. What the hell you compare her with
Speaker 1: a sparkly emoji for aximum romantic effect bonus points if
Speaker 1: you listen to Fowerfies. All right, well, anyway, how is
Speaker 1: this supposed to be flirty? Let me see this emoji.
Speaker 1: It's just a jar. It's it's amazing jar. It's an
Speaker 1: empty Mason jar, You're a little spider and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: trap you in here? Is that the idea? Oh? I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's interesting to think about how many emojis
Speaker 1: are out there that we just have never used, and
Speaker 1: perhaps like all of the messages were unable to convey
Speaker 1: properly because we just don't even know they exist. You know,
Speaker 1: like you've everyone's got there probably like their five favorite emojis. Easton,
Speaker 1: it's probably got like the top twenty listed on the
Speaker 1: on his refrigerator. Um, but the other you know, the
Speaker 1: other five. So emojis just take a back seat, never
Speaker 1: get used, and you're missing out on a lot of
Speaker 1: opportunity there. I feel like, I don't know, there's a
Speaker 1: whole world of out there, so many emojis, man. I
Speaker 1: just like when a new movie comes out and they
Speaker 1: have like the movie character emojis. It's like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: if you know, on Twitter, on Twitter, when you tweet
Speaker 1: like the Batman and there's a little Batman action figure,
Speaker 1: you know, hey guys, my laptop is dying. Dude. I
Speaker 1: knew he was gonna say that where is the melting
Speaker 1: face emoji? When I needed? Yes that Dean, my laptop
Speaker 1: is dying, Dean, Well you know what we're actually it's
Speaker 1: time anyway to wrap up this podcast. So worked out
Speaker 1: perfectly perfect timing for your laptop to almost die. So
Speaker 1: go get a charge. Sierra Jackson, thank you so much
Speaker 1: for joining us today. I think you're gonna be on
Speaker 1: uh one more podcast coming up to thank you once
Speaker 1: again for joining us. Uh and make sure. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think that's it. It's so I'm so used to like
Speaker 1: thanking oh so many guests, but we just have we have.
Speaker 1: Thank you to Easton and his Instagram page. Be sure
Speaker 1: to go follow him. Uh, thank you, thank you? Yeah
Speaker 1: you follow help us like a dating a guest. Hey,
Speaker 1: by the way, how did your how did your freaking
Speaker 1: coffee shop gets so many Instagram followers? And our podcast page,
Speaker 1: which has been in existence for probably seventeen times longer
Speaker 1: than that, have so much less than your stupid coffee shop.
Speaker 1: We need to start and more TikTok's you and I
Speaker 1: apparently and post them on help by such a dating
Speaker 1: I always think about like I was legitimately gonna go
Speaker 1: out and just like buy fifty followers for the help
Speaker 1: by Secuit dating Instagram page, just to hey, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: follow and share what I do follow up, but I'm
Speaker 1: gonna share it. I'm gonna hip hill up. You appreciate,
Speaker 1: We appreciate that. It's by no means a requirement to
Speaker 1: be a co host of this podcast. Evidence by Me.
Speaker 1: Jared sometimes actually shares the page. But um, what I
Speaker 1: really should do is we should start to go fund
Speaker 1: me to buy some more Instagram followers for our help
Speaker 1: by stucuit dating. Put nobody's gonna donate to that go
Speaker 1: fund me of all the causes. Yeah, help by step
Speaker 1: dating needs more Instagram followers. Help us pay for it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there you go, marketing. All right, that's gonna over this
Speaker 1: week's episode. Thank you guys so much for joining us.
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