1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,199 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and. 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: We are here at the Woman Tell All. We are 4 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 1: doing a round. 5 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 2: Table speed dating episode. 6 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: Oh that's better than a round table because they're not 7 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: really sitting around the table. 8 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 3: We just watched the live taping of The Woman Tell 9 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 3: All and we're excited to bring you some very exciting, 10 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 3: very exclusive interviews. 11 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 2: To kick it off with the man himself, we have 12 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 2: the Bachelor Joey here. 13 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: Hey, Joe, how are. 14 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 4: You doing good? 15 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: How you doing doing good? 16 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,919 Speaker 5: I survived a conversation with multiple exes, so I'm doing 17 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 5: as good as you can do, I guess right now. 18 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you handled it pretty well. 19 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 3: We had pretty well, not great, you know, just pretty well. 20 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 4: Let's hear it. 21 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: Well we had. We had Jared Freed on last week 22 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: and he was just talking about like, you are like 23 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: the best Bachelor of all time. You really do you 24 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: handle all the serious conversation and so. 25 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: Well, you're very good. You're very good. 26 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 4: Appreciate it. 27 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 5: No, Jared's great, by the way, I got to listen 28 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 5: to that podcast and hear that one because he's hysterical. 29 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 5: But yeah, I think these are just one of those 30 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 5: nights that you come in and you just are open 31 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 5: to it. But I wanted to give all the women 32 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 5: the ability to share anything they wanted to and just 33 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 5: to kind of open up. I think a lot of 34 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 5: this night was obviously about Rachel too, with how for 35 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 5: us to finally get a little bit more to talk 36 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 5: about and for her to open up about a lot 37 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 5: of things that she was struggling with. So really happy 38 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 5: that they got the floor, and yeah, it seemed like 39 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 5: it was a good night for the most part. 40 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, Rachel was definitely I feel like kind of the 41 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 3: main part of the evening for you, How was it 42 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 3: seeing her tonight and kind of what were you feeling 43 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 3: expecting going to that conversation. 44 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, I knew that there was going to be still 45 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 5: emotions and there was going to be more to the 46 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 5: conversation because I think you guys could see also from 47 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 5: the taping from that ending that we had at the 48 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 5: Rose ceremony, she like, there's moments where I was still 49 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 5: feeling all the emotions and I can only say so much, 50 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 5: so just to get that extra time, I wanted it too, 51 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 5: and I wanted to see how she was doing. And 52 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 5: I think mostly with her. What I just love was 53 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 5: the ability to see her again, to see her have 54 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 5: a smile on her face, for her to still have 55 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 5: so much gratitude and appreciation for it all. To understand 56 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 5: we did have that kind of mutual feeling like we 57 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 5: knew it wasn't going any further and I felt that, 58 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 5: But we didn't really get a chance to talk about 59 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 5: that because when she left, she was still feeling all 60 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 5: the emotions and it just you didn't get to talk 61 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 5: that much. 62 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 4: So to get that extra time tonight I think was 63 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 4: really big. 64 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: You see you have a brown suit on tonight. Yeah, 65 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: you've had a lot of I've really liked a lot 66 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: of your looks all season. What has been your favorite? 67 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 6: WHOA? 68 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: Joe and I went over some questions we wanted to 69 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 3: ask if this was not one of them, but we 70 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 3: did talk about your brown suit when we were watching. 71 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 5: Harry's been crushing it this year. Man, he's making me 72 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 5: look better than I actually do. There's been a lot 73 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 5: of looks. This brown suit's actually now one of my 74 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 5: top favorites. 75 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 4: I agree. 76 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 5: I thought this was a really fun one that we 77 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 5: had for tonight. I think one that I still remember 78 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 5: because I got a chance to wear it for Kimmel again, 79 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 5: was the suit that I wore in Montreal. It's like 80 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 5: a blue checkered suit that he didn't even know if 81 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 5: it was going to be allowed to wear it because 82 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 5: it was almost too much. But we did get a 83 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 5: chance to wear it. And that's my favorite suit, hands down. 84 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 5: So if you look at the Montreal episode, that's my 85 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 5: favorite one so far. 86 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: There you go, Joey's looking good and feeling good tonight. 87 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: Okay, now a more serious question the letter. What were 88 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: you expecting when you saw the letter? 89 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think what everyone was expecting when they hear 90 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 5: the words we need to talk. 91 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 4: I went to the worst. 92 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 5: I think you saw a real emotion about someone I 93 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 5: truthfully cared about possibly leaving. So I did think that 94 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 5: there was something that happened, But you saw me also 95 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 5: say like what could have happened? Like I didn't talk 96 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 5: to her the last time I left her everything was 97 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 5: so great. So it just was one of those things 98 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 5: that I went to the worst thing possible because of 99 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 5: my insecurity, is because of my fear of someone I 100 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 5: truly cared about wanting to leave. And yeah, you saw 101 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 5: raw emotions. You saw me being like why'd you even 102 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 5: wear it like that? But I definitely went to the 103 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 5: most negative space, which I wish I could have changed. 104 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 5: But I also think it was great for us because 105 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 5: she gets to see now like how I can get 106 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 5: in those moments and it's real. So I don't regret 107 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 5: how I handle that. It just was one of those 108 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 5: one of those moments for sure, And. 109 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 3: I think people forget that so much can still happen 110 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 3: in those days, hours, days that you're apart from one another, 111 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 3: that you come back together. You even see you saying 112 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 3: like what happened? I didn't say anything to her, so 113 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: like what went down in the time that we were 114 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 3: apart That has made her feel this way. But do 115 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: you think that you're kind of like a worst case 116 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 3: scenario person, like when things happen, you immediately jump to, like, 117 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 3: what's the worst thing that could happen right now? 118 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 5: I think that I reverted back to that. I will 119 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 5: be the first to amit that I It took me 120 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 5: some time. It took a past relationship for me to 121 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 5: explain to me. When I was growing up, I was 122 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 5: when I was still in Hawaii. They said, you sometimes 123 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 5: always look for the negatives, like you don't try to 124 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 5: find the positives, and you need to change your perspective 125 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 5: and your point of view. And I've been working on 126 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 5: it so much over these last years, but I definitely 127 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 5: realize see this experience, with all the excitement and all 128 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 5: the extra stuff that comes with it, I do sometimes 129 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 5: go to that negative space too quickly or I think 130 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 5: of the worst case scenario. So it's been eye opening 131 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 5: to me. It's something that I definitely need to continue 132 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 5: to work on. But yeah, that was definitely a worst 133 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 5: case scenario moment where I took it that far. 134 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: Well, it was it was set up for you to 135 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: take it. 136 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, you know, she could have worded things differently. 137 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 4: The words we need to talk. 138 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 5: Every guy has gotten a text like that before and 139 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 5: they go there, So I don't think it was not justified, 140 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 5: but I do wish I was a little bit more 141 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 5: understanding going into it. 142 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 2: How do you wish she had worded. 143 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 5: The note Joey, I need to see you today because 144 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 5: I want to talk more, something along the lines of that. 145 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, or just like I miss you 146 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 3: so much, need to see you for a little bit. 147 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 4: So Srina, you should write the notes because I don't 148 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 4: even know how to write it. 149 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: There you go, Bochler, hire me as your copywriter. 150 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: And then and then how about seeing Maria for the 151 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: first time tonight. 152 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 5: I mean, I think people have seen throughout this whole 153 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 5: entire time how much Maria and I have always had 154 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 5: a great time together. So just to see here again, 155 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 5: to see you ever smile on her face, she seems 156 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 5: like she's doing really well. That was actually one of 157 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 5: the conversations to night that I probably wish I was 158 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 5: able to talk more and show appreciation to her, because 159 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 5: I think she deserves to know and everyone needs to 160 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 5: know that how much like we did have so much 161 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 5: respect and love for each other. It just was one 162 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 5: of those things that she was very unsure about the process, 163 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 5: and that her being unsure was hard for me to 164 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 5: move forward. I think she gets that too, and we 165 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 5: talked through that, and if anyone else needs to know 166 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 5: that that really was the end of the relationship was 167 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 5: because she was so unsure, and I think there's just 168 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 5: mutual respect, which it was great to see her tonight. 169 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 3: We saw her pull you aside at that last Rose ceremony. 170 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 3: Was there anything she could have said that could have 171 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 3: changed her mind? 172 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 4: I don't think so I think that her pulling me aside. 173 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 5: I give her so much credit for doing that because 174 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 5: it takes a lot of guts to be able to 175 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 5: do that. Also to even share that she was falling 176 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 5: in love, like to choose that moment and to do that, 177 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 5: it takes a lot of courage. 178 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 4: So I don't think it would have changed anything. 179 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 5: Because that also goes back to a little bit of 180 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 5: like the back and forth, like that's a tough time 181 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 5: to do it, and it was more just one of 182 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 5: those things like I'm glad that you shared it because 183 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 5: now I know and you have no regrets, but there 184 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 5: was another time that could have happened, and it's just 185 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 5: this back and forth. 186 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 4: I know that your feelings are real. 187 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 5: I don't doubt that, but I need to, like I 188 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 5: need to go forward with someone I feel like that 189 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 5: is there and I don't have the question is there? 190 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 5: And I think she said that too in our goodbye, 191 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 5: So that was kind of where I was talking about, 192 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 5: like I understand it, and I think we both have 193 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 5: that mutual understanding. It just yeah, weren't the right people 194 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 5: for each other, and this process didn't work on this 195 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 5: side for her, which I totally understand. 196 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, last question, did Jesse ever actually beat you in tennis? 197 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 2: Oh? 198 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 4: Come on, you saw how much I was edited. 199 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 5: There's even a moment where I said, I don't even 200 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 5: have to rewatch it again, and I was like, I 201 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 5: didn't even say that, Like, I don't know what that was. 202 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 5: Jesse is also surprisingly good at tennis. That was where 203 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 5: the truth is, like, he was way better than I 204 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 5: thought he was going to be. 205 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: But no, Jesse, not even close. 206 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 4: He has a good forehand and he has a decent serve. 207 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 5: But if I was playing Jesse straight up, you know 208 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 5: he's not gonna smoke him. 209 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 3: Joey's like, don't ruin my reputation on here. Let's let 210 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 3: the record straight. 211 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 4: I'm not a tennis pro. We've already talked about that. 212 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 5: I'm not that good, but I'm good enough to take 213 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 5: Jesse's as if you. 214 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: Gave me the chance. 215 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 2: We're gonna be asking him the same question. Let's see 216 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 2: what he says. 217 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 5: I love to see what he has to say. He 218 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 5: was very stoked on the edit. That was the first 219 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 5: time he watched it too, And Jesse. 220 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 2: Did the edit himself. He was sitting at home editing 221 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 2: that for sure. 222 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 4: He's lying to me, probably. 223 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: The most genuine we've seen Jesse since he's been a host. 224 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 1: He was so happy, so happy, he loved it. All Right, 225 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: joe we're gonna let you go, but we I'm sure 226 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: we'll be seeing you. We will see you again in 227 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: the next few weeks. 228 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 4: Soon enough. It's good to see you, guys. 229 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 2: I have a regrets your night, ye, Joey, congrats on tonight. 230 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 4: See you guys. Good to see it. 231 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: Okay, now we are here with Maria. Maria, welcome to 232 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: Happy Hour. 233 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: Welcome, Thank you. 234 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: So Joey is the first guy you bring home to 235 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: your fans. Yeah, how where was your head at when 236 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: you brought him home? Were you yourself like this could 237 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: be my person? 238 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 6: I mean I was open to that. 239 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 7: I think what it was is that I wanted my 240 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 7: family's opinion. I think you guys saw how emotional I got, 241 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 7: especially with my dad. 242 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 6: I was like, He's like, I see it. I seen 243 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 6: him like, do you really like I wanted? 244 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 7: I wanted their opinion and was so important to me, 245 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 7: I think to take that next step. 246 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 6: So I think, yeah, I. 247 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 7: Was open to the idea that that could be a possibility, 248 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 7: but I needed the reassurance from them. 249 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 2: And do you feel like you got that? 250 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 6: Yeah? I got him. 251 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 7: Everyone everyone was going yeah, yeah, yeah, do it, let 252 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 7: yourself free, let it go. 253 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 6: And then I I do it and he's like, bye, bitch, do. 254 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 3: You regret pulling him aside at the Row ceremony or 255 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 3: do you think you could have said or done anything differently? 256 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 7: Here's the thing, Like Joy and I had this like 257 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 7: intense conversation where we were talking regrets and he's like, 258 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 7: I don't want to ever leave anything left unsaid, and 259 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 7: he was like speaking to me about it, and I 260 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 7: was like, you know what, I'm just gonna say it. 261 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 6: In my gut. 262 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 7: I knew I was going home. I'm gonna be honest. 263 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 7: I had a feeling, but I was just like I 264 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 7: wanted to say it. And then I was told, you know, 265 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 7: you know, this is your moment to do it, because 266 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 7: you might not get another moment. And I was just like, okay, 267 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 7: I'll I'll take life by the balls and just do 268 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 7: it and then walk my ass out, I guess. 269 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 6: But then he still made me stand at the Row 270 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 6: ceremony and then send my ass home. But it's okay. 271 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 8: Over it, It's okay. 272 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 2: It's great. 273 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 1: Do you think you could have got there sooner if 274 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: it wasn't for all the nonsense drama that you were 275 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: dealing with all season. 276 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 6: What do you mean? 277 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: I mean you think that, I guess do you think 278 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: that fucked up your relationship with Joey? Like, do you 279 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: think he could. 280 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 3: Flow down the progression of like the relationship and your 281 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 3: feelings for him, because like you had kind of that barrier. 282 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 7: Yes, Like obviously I think that because a lot of 283 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 7: our conversations or consumed with the drama, and it was 284 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 7: a lot of me like having to like protect my 285 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 7: character and I was almost like trying to convince him 286 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 7: that I'm not this bad person. It was like a 287 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 7: weird way to start a good relationship. But after rewatching 288 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 7: it back, I think my final consensus is this, like 289 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 7: a man who's gonna love me is gonna love me 290 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 7: and not give up on me. Like there's I can 291 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 7: tell him I'm gonna leave ten times, and he's gonna be. 292 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 6: Like, no, you're not. 293 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 7: You're gonna say your ass right here and we're gonna 294 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 7: work this out. Like there's nothing I can do wrong. 295 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 7: I'll just say I'm not trying to be toxic saying 296 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 7: that these are the things I'm gonna do. 297 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 6: But I mean, like, I don't believe that I could 298 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 6: have done. 299 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 7: Anything different to change how Joey felt about me, because 300 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 7: I feel like, yeah, maybe it would have helped me 301 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 7: get to Fantasy Sweets, maybe it would have helped me 302 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 7: get to Final too, But like, I don't think I 303 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 7: was ever his person. 304 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 2: I think I got to look at it. 305 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you hate him now? 306 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 6: Oh, right there, I'm gonna go knock his ass out. 307 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 6: I'm just joking. 308 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 7: I love him. I think he's great. I think he's 309 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 7: such a sweet, sweet guy, and honestly, he makes me 310 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 7: laugh and I think we do that for each other, 311 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 7: and that's why I like seeing him today. 312 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 6: I thought it would be a little bit more awkward, 313 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 6: but it wasn't. 314 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 7: Like we laugh when we look at each other, like, 315 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 7: It's just it's nice to see him and I hope 316 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 7: he's happy, genuinely. 317 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: Out of out of the girls in the house, who 318 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: are your like closest. 319 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:22,839 Speaker 2: Friends, Edwina apparently. 320 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 6: Was my queen. 321 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 7: I bowed down to her. She is a queen to Yeah. 322 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 7: I mean I had a lot more friends than it showed. 323 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 7: And maybe people think. 324 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,199 Speaker 3: No, we know that because people have come on the podcast, 325 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 3: like we had Jen and we had Lexi, who were like, no, 326 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 3: like she had friends in the house. 327 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: Actually, I don't think we had anyone on the podcast that. 328 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 6: With you or talk about me in a meanway. 329 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 7: That's well, that's good to hear, because honestly, especially Jen, 330 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 7: the sisters, the Kelsey's, like, I was good with a 331 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 7: lot of girls. Actually, I'm extending my LA trip with 332 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 7: the sisters and Jen. We're going to stay a couple 333 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 7: more days. So they're probably like the closest that I'm 334 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 7: like or the people I'm closest with. But I was 335 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 7: great friends with a lot of them, and I will 336 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 7: be great friends with them for a long time, and 337 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 7: I'm happy that I met them. 338 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: Nice. 339 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: What is next for Maria? Still looking for love? 340 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 6: Still looking for love? Still okay, I need to stop 341 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 6: looking over there. But yes, I'm looking for love. I'm open. 342 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 6: I'm ready. Yeah, amazing. 343 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 2: Well we'll let you go. 344 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 3: We know you're in high demand tonight. But thanks for 345 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 3: taking the time and chatting with us. 346 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 9: Thank you for me guys. 347 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 6: You guys are great guys. Have what I want. I 348 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 6: love you, guys. 349 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 2: Bye bye, Maria. 350 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: All right, up Next is Jen. Jen. Welcome back to 351 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: Happy Hour. 352 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 6: How are you I'm good, Thanks for having me back. 353 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 8: I'm excited, of course, thanks for coming. 354 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 2: How are you feeling after tonight. 355 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 8: I'm feeling really good. 356 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 10: And honestly, it was just so good to see all 357 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 10: the rolls again and get together. And the bloopers are 358 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 10: my favorite parts. I was really excited about that. 359 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 2: The bloopers are always a good time. 360 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: Who are you Who are you the closest with in 361 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 1: the house. 362 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 10: I would have to say Maria, the sisters and Star Tailor. 363 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 8: These are all my girls. I love them so much. 364 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: What were your thoughts on the beginning of the night, 365 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: all the drama, the drama, the craziness. You know, you 366 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: laid back. You laid back, which is always the smartest move. 367 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: Like the people that insert themselves in the back roll. 368 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: You're like, oh no, this is going to get out 369 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: of control. 370 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, you know what. 371 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 10: There were times I wanted to say some things, but 372 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 10: these girls were just so quick with it, and I 373 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 10: just I need to sit and think before I speak, 374 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 10: you know, otherwise I'm saying bad things. 375 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 8: So no, it was it was definitely interesting to watch 376 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 8: it all go down. But I think the. 377 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 10: Important thing is at the end of the night, we 378 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 10: were able to all really just come together and sort 379 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 10: out the differences and we all hugged it out, which 380 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 10: I loved. 381 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 3: There was a lot of discussion around social media hate 382 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 3: and all the trolls tonight. 383 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 2: How has that experience been for you? 384 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, I feel very strongly about this. 385 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 10: I think that people have been getting very brash on 386 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 10: social media because they're hiding behind a screen and they 387 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 10: can say whatever they want. 388 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 8: And I've definitely been getting. 389 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 10: Some of that as well, and I just I will 390 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 10: never understand the reasoning behind it, and I really just 391 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 10: hope that we all just continue to be kinder and 392 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 10: ask ourselves, like why we're writing these nasty things about 393 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 10: people online. But I do think it is disheartening, and 394 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 10: you know, being in this position, I didn't realize that 395 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 10: I would be opening myself up to just a world 396 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 10: of hate. You know, I kind of live in a bubble, 397 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 10: and I think being on social media and putting yourself 398 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 10: out there, you're kind of interacting with a lot of 399 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 10: other different people that might not think in the same 400 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 10: things that you think. 401 00:15:56,240 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 3: So yeah, one hundred percent, you saw Joey for the 402 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 3: first time tonight, Well, before that, you watched your break 403 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 3: up back a little bit, a little recap of the 404 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 3: relationship all the way to the end. 405 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 2: How was that? 406 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 6: Yeah? 407 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 10: I got emotional, which I didn't think that I would, 408 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 10: but you know, again, I just think that it means 409 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 10: that it was just real for me, and seeing what 410 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 10: good times that we had was just it warmed my heart. 411 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 10: And I think they were more happy tears than sad tears. 412 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: So yeah, and then what was it like seeing Joey? 413 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 8: Honestly, he was kind of like seeing an old friend, 414 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 8: you know. 415 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 10: You know, there are no romantic feelings there left, but 416 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 10: I really just wish him nothing but the best. He's 417 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 10: such an amazing, great, genuine guy, and it's good to 418 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 10: see him in good spirits. 419 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: What do you think you learned the most about yourself 420 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: from all this? 421 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 9: I love this question. 422 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 8: I learned that being vulnerable is really powerful. 423 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 10: I think growing up, I've always just kind of had 424 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 10: a guard up, and I've always been afraid for people 425 00:16:57,880 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 10: to kind of see who I really am. 426 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 8: And so coming out of this experience, you know, a 427 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 8: lot of. 428 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 10: People saw the way I grew up and all my 429 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 10: insecurities around that, and it's just been kind of it's 430 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 10: been able. It's something that has allowed me to become 431 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 10: closer with my friends and my family, and that's something 432 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 10: that I think is so cherishable. 433 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 3: You said at the end of the night that you 434 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 3: weren't able to look to Joey for answers after the breakup, 435 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 3: so you found them within yourself. Can you just speak 436 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 3: a little more on that. 437 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 9: Noah, for sure. 438 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 10: I think oftentimes in relationships you always go you always think, oh, honey, 439 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 10: closure from the other person, you know, and you're like 440 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 10: wrapping your head around why things happen, whatever, whatever, and 441 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 10: you drive yourself insane. Anythink, at the end of the day, 442 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 10: I realized that, you know, closure was really just within 443 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 10: myself and realizing what the relationship meant to me and 444 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 10: what I learned out of it, and understanding that we 445 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 10: just weren't each other's person, which is one hundred percent okay, 446 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 10: and it just yeah, I found it within myself to 447 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 10: get those answers and soothe myself. 448 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:09,959 Speaker 1: Okay, So what is next for you? Are you currently dating? 449 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:11,959 Speaker 1: Are you ready to date? What's going on in the 450 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 1: real world? 451 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean I think I'm definitely ready to date, 452 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 10: but you know, I am still in pa school right now, 453 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 10: and life is just a little hectic, but if the 454 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 10: right person were to come along, I would definitely make 455 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:24,400 Speaker 10: some time in my schedule. 456 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 8: So we'll see. 457 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 3: Okay, last question, what was your favorite part of tonight 458 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 3: and what was the most shocking part of the night. 459 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 10: Oh my gosh, okay, my favorite part of the night. 460 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,640 Speaker 10: We're definitely the unseen bits of Marie and I talking 461 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 10: about knocking on wood, and I really hope that everybody 462 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 10: agrees with me, because when you say something that you 463 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 10: don't that you don't want to jinx, you should knock 464 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 10: on wood. 465 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 8: And I think that that's what it was. 466 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:51,959 Speaker 9: Thank you everybody. 467 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, what did she say it was? 468 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 10: He said that you only knock on wood when it's 469 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 10: like bad things, but also if you say something good 470 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 10: that you don't want to jinx. 471 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 1: You should knock on what I honestly, I think I 472 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: do them for I'm so superstitious, and I think I 473 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: do it for both. 474 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do it for both two because you're like, 475 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 3: I don't want it to happen or I don't want 476 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 3: it to. 477 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 1: Not happen, and I have to. I have to knock 478 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 1: twice and if I accidentally go three times, then I 479 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,880 Speaker 1: freak out, I have to reset and then knock twice again. 480 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's a whole other thing. That's a whole other. 481 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 10: Situation I had because now I'm going to start thinking 482 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 10: that because I'm super superstitious. 483 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:31,640 Speaker 1: That's rough. It's rough out there, it is, Okay. 484 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 2: Most shocking part of the. 485 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 10: Night, Oh, most shocking part, I don't know. Uh, most 486 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 10: shocking part of the night was this is a really 487 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 10: tough question. Everything was so shocking. Most for me was 488 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 10: me crying. I did not I'm a crier, so yeah, 489 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 10: I didn't expect that. 490 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 6: You know what. 491 00:19:56,280 --> 00:20:00,080 Speaker 3: Watching the whole relationship breakup montage, it just it's a 492 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 3: hard thing to do. 493 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 2: It brings a lot of feels to the forefront. 494 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 8: Well, it's not something that I think people do every day. 495 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: No, nor should people do. 496 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 1: Jen, thank you so much for coming back, and we 497 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 1: appreciate you. 498 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 6: Thank you so much. 499 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 2: You was so good. Good to see you too. Have 500 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 2: a good night, Jen. 501 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:28,640 Speaker 1: Buye LEXI, welcome back to Happy Hour. How are you good? Good? 502 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 11: Yeah, just coming off the tell all feel good about 503 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,199 Speaker 11: it all. It's definitely emotional, but it was nice to 504 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,360 Speaker 11: see everyone come together again in one room. 505 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 9: So Yeah, it was great. 506 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: Were you feeling that way at the beginning when everyone 507 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: was screaming at each other? 508 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,239 Speaker 11: You know, the beginning I think was a little bit 509 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 11: more difficult to watch and to sit there and be 510 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 11: a part of. But you know, it was nice that 511 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 11: there was the reconciliation eventually, and so I think everyone 512 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 11: kind of got out what they wanted to and ultimately, 513 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 11: you know, the end result was great. But I think 514 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 11: in the time, it was obviously a little bit hard to. 515 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, you were right in the middle too, like between 516 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 3: Yeah and Medina. 517 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:10,159 Speaker 11: Yeah, I was like, hey, guys, but I think, you know, 518 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 11: it turned out how I think I really wanted it 519 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 11: to coming into this. I remember just saying, like, I 520 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 11: really want this to have a positive ending. I think everyone, 521 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 11: you know, no one gets a book on how to 522 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,120 Speaker 11: handle this show, and it's like it's a hard thing 523 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 11: to navigate, and so I'm just really proud of everyone. 524 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 9: I think this is how I wanted. 525 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 11: Like, it was such a great season and so it's 526 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 11: nice that we were able to end, you know, everyone 527 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 11: being amicable with each other. 528 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent. 529 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 3: Were you expecting it to be like that at the 530 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,400 Speaker 3: beginning or was it more intense than you thought, because 531 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:39,879 Speaker 3: I feel like we saw a lot of people like 532 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 3: jumping at Leya were things that we weren't expecting, And 533 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,199 Speaker 3: I mean, I think everyone expected the Sydney versus Maria 534 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 3: drama to come to light, but then the Jess Maria 535 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 3: drama kind of took over. Did anything like really stand 536 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 3: out to night that you were like, I was not 537 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 3: expecting that. 538 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 4: I was. 539 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 9: I wasn't expecting as many people to jump in. 540 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 11: I think I understand it the right they want to 541 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 11: defend their friends. I think, you know, all the layah 542 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 11: stuff I had kind of heard sprinklings of, so I 543 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 11: think I knew that was going to come to light 544 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 11: and I'm glad they got to hash it out. But yeah, 545 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 11: I think, you know, the main thing I thought we 546 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 11: were going to discuss was kind of like the Maria 547 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,399 Speaker 11: and Sidney story, and so we obviously went into everything, 548 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 11: which I think is good because it's healing and everyone 549 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 11: got to get out their truth. But yeah, I definitely 550 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 11: went on a little bit longer than I thought it would. 551 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 9: Yeah. 552 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, how did it feel seeing Joey again for the 553 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: first time? 554 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 9: It seeing Joey again was great. 555 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 11: I think I really wanted to express my gratitude to 556 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 11: him for how sweet he's been through all of this. 557 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 11: And you know, he was such a great listener on 558 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 11: our day and just wanted to you know, even when 559 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 11: I went to him in Montreal and ended everything and 560 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 11: you know, ultimately left the show, like we still ended 561 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,439 Speaker 11: on such a great note. So I'm glad I got 562 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 11: to express my gratitude to him tonight. And yeah, it 563 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 11: was great seeing him. I hope he's happy, and I 564 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 11: guess we'll see that in a couple of weeks. 565 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you don't regret You don't regret any of that, right, And. 566 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 3: I was watching it back in everything because we saw 567 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 3: you after your one oh one, so right before the breakup. 568 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 11: Watching I mean, I was like, Montreal is a really 569 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 11: hard episode for me to watch. I was so emotional, 570 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 11: a lot of tears because it's hard to have like 571 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 11: this health issue and then like it's ultimately the reason 572 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 11: things ended. 573 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 1: Right. 574 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 11: So but I stand down in my decision because our 575 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 11: timelines are different. And you know I've said to Steve 576 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 11: and you guys when we talked about a couple of 577 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 11: weeks back, like I take my timeline really seriously. He 578 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 11: doesn't need to be on the same timeline as me, 579 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 11: and that's okay. And you know, I think we've got 580 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 11: to end things on like a really cordial note, and 581 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,199 Speaker 11: everything was, you know, really sweet. He was so understanding, 582 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 11: So I don't regret anything, but you know, it was 583 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 11: emotional to watch. 584 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, How has it been. 585 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 3: I know you spoke about just people reaching out to 586 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: you and connecting with you and your story. 587 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 2: How has that been? 588 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 3: Because I know we did talk a lot about, you know, 589 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 3: the hate and the online and that's obviously a very 590 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 3: real part of being on this show, but I think 591 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:08,880 Speaker 3: it's also nice to shine light on how stories, yeah 592 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 3: touch people, and. 593 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 1: For our listeners, there's a lot of you are really nice. 594 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 1: Some of you are assholes, but yeah, you are nice. 595 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 11: Tonight when they said the hate comment, I didn't hear it, 596 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 11: and so like everyone had their hand raised and I 597 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 11: looked around and I was like, because they're like a 598 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 11: people received hate and I'm like, oh my god, yes 599 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 11: I have. 600 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 9: And isn't up for. 601 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 2: It's like everyone'sday hands up except for Lexi. 602 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 6: You're like, not me plenty. 603 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:36,880 Speaker 9: Let me just re emphasize that. 604 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 11: Yeah, anyways, but no, I have obviously received unfortunately, you know, 605 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 11: messages that aren't very kind, but the good definitely outweighs 606 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,239 Speaker 11: the bad. I've received thousands of messages from people that 607 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,439 Speaker 11: have been so encouraging, have said that my story has 608 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 11: changed their outlook on dating, has given them the confidence 609 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,879 Speaker 11: to speak up about their conditions with their partner or 610 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 11: someone they're recently you know, starting a new relate ship 611 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 11: with and just making invisible illnesses seen like I can't eat. 612 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 11: Like the volume of people reaching out is so special. 613 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,200 Speaker 11: If people like writing to me while they're in the hospital, 614 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 11: like messaging me after their date, when they opened up 615 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,719 Speaker 11: to their partner and saying that like I gave them 616 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 11: the strength to do that. I couldn't even imagine this 617 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 11: to have been the reaction. 618 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 2: That's amazing, that's so nice. 619 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: Last question, if they asked you to be the bachelorette, 620 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 1: would you do it? 621 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 11: You know, I think coming into this, I was like 622 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 11: very I almost not that I didn't believe this could work, 623 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,959 Speaker 11: but it's just such an unconventional way to meet someone, 624 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,239 Speaker 11: and so seeing it work so successfully, and like you know, 625 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 11: Joey go through this whole experience, I would say never 626 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 11: say never. You know, I'm open to I'm so ready 627 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 11: to meet my person, like I truly couldn't be more ready. 628 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 11: I'm I want to get married, I want to have 629 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,719 Speaker 11: a family, and so you know, who knows what's going 630 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 11: to happen in the future, but never say never. 631 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 3: Well, Joe and I are big fans of you, and 632 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 3: we hope that your name is at least in the 633 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 3: ring right now for consideration, because we think you would 634 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 3: be amazing. 635 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 9: Oh, thank you. That means a lot. And yeah, I'm 636 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 9: big fans of you guys too. 637 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 1: Thank you. All right, well, thank you so much for 638 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 1: coming back on and enjoy the rest of your night. 639 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, you guys too. 640 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 2: Bye bye. 641 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: Okay, up next we have Medina. Medina, welcome to Happy Hour. 642 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 2: Hi, Hi, how was your Nay? 643 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 9: It was good. 644 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 12: It was a little nerve wracking going into it, but 645 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 12: I was definitely excited to kind of just like talk 646 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 12: and a little bit gooded over with. But I feel 647 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 12: relieved now. 648 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 649 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of your time on the 650 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 3: show that we saw was obviously involved in the drama. 651 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 3: So I can imagine that women tall was kind of 652 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 3: hanging over your head knowing that you were going to 653 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 3: have to kind of rehash it all out, So it 654 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 3: must feel good putting. 655 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 2: That to bad. 656 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, I think I was honestly excited because I 657 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:03,480 Speaker 12: feel like I definitely didn't talk as much as I 658 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 12: probably wanted to in the moment. And I don't regret 659 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 12: that in the sense of I feel like I'm definitely 660 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 12: the type of person who wants to process what's going on. 661 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 12: I don't want to say things out of emotion. I mean, 662 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,159 Speaker 12: we saw what happened when I said something out of emotion, 663 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 12: Like I obviously did not use mean to use the 664 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 12: word bully, and so like, I think I just liked 665 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 12: having that time to process and to actually like talk 666 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 12: about how I felt tonight. 667 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: So what started all this? It all started with you 668 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: said you you felt old, and then that. 669 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 12: Was just that's no, no, let's run the tape back. 670 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 12: I said, I felt pressure as a thirty one year old. 671 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 12: And I'm joking with you a little bit, but I think, oh, 672 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 12: but that. 673 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: Is that is that That's what Okay. 674 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 12: So the frustrating thing about like that whole situation is like, 675 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 12: if you actually look at what I said, I said, 676 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 12: I felt pressure. 677 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 9: I'm thirty one. 678 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 12: I feel like I don't have a lot of time 679 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 12: to waste, and so when what I said was taken 680 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 12: and skewed into I said I was old. 681 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 9: I said something. 682 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 12: About like like, oh, she's hot, she should own it, 683 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 12: or like Joey's only twenty eight, she's only I never 684 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,199 Speaker 12: said anything about anyone else, and I think that was 685 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 12: like the frustrating part is when I brought up my age. 686 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 12: I brought up my age only in regards to myself. 687 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:09,120 Speaker 12: And at the end of the day, you can be twenty, 688 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:10,439 Speaker 12: you can be thirty, you can be forty, you can 689 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 12: feel however you want. If you're forty five and love 690 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 12: being single, more power to you. I'm not telling anyone 691 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 12: else they have to feel this way. I think for me, 692 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,440 Speaker 12: I put a lot of pressure personally, I have some cultural. 693 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,439 Speaker 6: Pressure for me to get married. 694 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 9: And it's just how I feel. 695 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 12: And I think I was honestly confused why I wasn't 696 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,640 Speaker 12: like I guess allowed to have that feeling and honestly 697 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 12: taken aback. 698 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like tonight you being able to give 699 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 3: context to the comment, because I feel like we heard 700 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 3: you say that on the show, and then it turned 701 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 3: into Medina feels like she's old. Medina feels old. Medina 702 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,080 Speaker 3: feels old is kind of what we heard all season. 703 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 3: So for you to give that background of like, it's 704 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 3: not that I feel old, it's that I have this 705 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 3: pressure that I feel that comes from my culture, that 706 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 3: comes from myself to get married and have a family 707 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 3: and like to achieve these things that you want. I 708 00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 3: think it was great for you to be able to 709 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 3: give context that. Do you feel like watching it back? 710 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 3: I think there was a lot of Maria's talking shit 711 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 3: about Medina narrative going around seeing what you saw, do 712 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 3: you feel like it was shit talking? 713 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 12: I think shit talking is definitely a strong word. I 714 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 12: do think at the end of the day, like when 715 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 12: she approached me when I was setting up for Joey, 716 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 12: she did say, why does me being twenty nine upset you? 717 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 12: Which I was honestly like, what, Like, I literally said 718 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 12: nothing about your age, And I think that was like 719 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 12: the frustrating part. It felt like no one heard what 720 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 12: she said. At the end of the day, I don't 721 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 12: have to explain to anyone necessarily how I feel, right, 722 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 12: it's how I feel. If I had said it in 723 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 12: the context of how other people other people's age, Yes, 724 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 12: I think I have something to respond to, but I'm 725 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 12: allowed to have my feeling, and so I was taken aback. 726 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 12: I think also that night, I was setting up to 727 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 12: tell Joey about a very personal situation that I had. 728 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 12: We were on that group date with the working out. 729 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 12: I don't know if you guys remember the boot camp, 730 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 12: but a lot of those exercises last year. 731 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 9: I mean, I don't know how much time we have, 732 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 9: but like. 733 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 12: Last year, I literally almost died from doing some of 734 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 12: those types of exercises. I got this condition called rabdo, 735 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 12: which is very critical, and I was setting up a 736 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 12: spot and I was that was what I was planning 737 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 12: to tell him. So I was in that kind of 738 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 12: mindset of like wanting to tell him this serious conversation. 739 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 12: I was like, I was not thinking about this comment 740 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 12: at all, and so like I'm like, hold up, I 741 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 12: am trying to set up right now, Like I am 742 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 12: not trying to have that conversation. 743 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, gro you're rediracting my whole night right now, 744 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 3: Like my mind is not where your mind is exactly. 745 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 9: So I think it was just. 746 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 6: And I don't care. 747 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 12: I've known Maria at forties at that point, like if 748 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 12: she wants to shit, I don't care. 749 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 9: I don't know. 750 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 12: It was it was hard because it was like Maria 751 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 12: wanted me to be less upset about my age, Sydney 752 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 12: wanted me to be more upset about this comment, like 753 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 12: can I just feel how I feel? Like I'm not 754 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 12: telling anyone else to feel how they feel. So it 755 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 12: was it was like so confusing. 756 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: Can you think do you think was kind of kind 757 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: of being dragged into all this? Do you think it? 758 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if it ruined your experience, but I 759 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 1: guess hindered your relationship with Joey. You think it could 760 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: have gone differently? 761 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 12: I think for sure, like how I came to my 762 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 12: conversations with Joey was like way more of like a 763 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 12: serious tenor than I ever would want to come into 764 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,960 Speaker 12: like a new relationship. As I think for sure, one 765 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 12: hundred percent he did not get to see the true me. 766 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 12: I don't know if that would have changed the outcome, 767 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 12: but I think I would have felt better being able 768 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 12: to leave knowing that he was able to like truly 769 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 12: see me versus me leaving knowing like I would have 770 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 12: sent me home too. 771 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 9: Was definitely like hard, a hard pill to swallow. 772 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean, you only get You only get 773 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 1: so much time, and the majority of your time is 774 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:51,160 Speaker 1: now spent on nonsense and somewhat defending yourself, and it 775 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: kind of ruins your chances lower lowers your chance you would. 776 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 3: Be someone I would love to see like come back 777 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 3: on another Bachelor season, Like if there was a lead 778 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 3: that they were like, hey, we think this would be 779 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 3: like a great fit for you. I feel like it 780 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 3: would be really interesting for you to come back and 781 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 3: see how that journey could go differently for you. Would 782 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 3: you ever do it? If they were like, hey, do 783 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 3: you want to come back? We have a lead, we 784 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 3: think you'd hit it. 785 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 1: Off that She's like, fuck, no, I don't know what 786 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 1: you maybe. 787 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 3: No, I mean you did have kind of like a 788 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 3: tumultuous experience. 789 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean I think I would definitely ponder the idea. 790 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 12: I can't like, I don't want to ever sit here 791 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 12: and see like I didn't do anything like. I think 792 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 12: I can definitely be more open and just more me. 793 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 12: I think I've been placed in a lot of boxes 794 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 12: where I've been expected to be kind of like perfect 795 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 12: and poised. I won't get into that right now, but 796 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 12: I think like tonight was kind of like an example 797 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 12: of me being able to like speak my mind and 798 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 12: have my truth but also be poised and respectful, and 799 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,719 Speaker 12: so it would be nice to like have another experience 800 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 12: where I could kind of just like be a little 801 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 12: bit more me. So, yeah, I wouldn't say, oh, potential. 802 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 1: Maybe Bachelor in Paradise. So you would you do Bachelor 803 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: in Paradise? 804 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,479 Speaker 2: That's a much much easier question. 805 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 12: Now, whatever you guys got from me were that I 806 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 12: can potentially end up with someone because where is my man? 807 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 9: Where is yaod? 808 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 2: No, I thought you did an amazing job tonight. 809 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 3: Really what was it like, because I mean, you knew 810 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 3: Marian Sidney for the same amount of time, which I 811 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 3: know the girls get really close and that bond is undeniable, 812 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 3: but at the same time, it is a short time together. 813 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 3: Did you feel like you were pulled in one direction 814 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 3: or another tonight between Marie's and I mean you were 815 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 3: literally sitting dead in the middle of them. 816 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 9: Yeah. 817 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 12: I mean I think I've always veered a little bit 818 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 12: more towards Maria just because I feel like, personally, like 819 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 12: I'm not someone who's going to dote on something like 820 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 12: I don't think I would ever pull someone aside and 821 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 12: be like, oh my god, this person is saying this 822 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 12: about you unless like we had been friends for like 823 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 12: seven years, and like this is our like really good friend, 824 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 12: and like why are you saying that about our other 825 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 12: good friend, especially knowing that was already something I felt 826 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 12: like insecure about. Like I don't think like that comment 827 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 12: like I even needed to hear. And I think the 828 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 12: difference is like when Sydney argued she argued and used 829 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 12: me as a prop, saying she was arguing in the 830 00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 12: vein of me when I never asked for that. And 831 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 12: I also didn't need any want to stick up for 832 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 12: me because like Marie and I have resolved it. So 833 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 12: if you're going to argue, own it because like you said, 834 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 12: you felt bully, which is fine. You can feel that way, 835 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 12: So then you have to then finish that argument. And 836 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 12: don't don't put it on me to career she argued 837 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 12: for herself, So and do that, you know, but. 838 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 1: I think that that makes total sense to Medina, thank 839 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: you so much for coming on Happy Hour and enjoy 840 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:26,359 Speaker 1: the rest of your night. 841 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 2: Ye gay night bye, Thanks for coming. 842 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 1: All right, Well, that's gonna wrap it. That's another woman 843 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 1: tell all. In the books, it was a very entertaining one. 844 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 1: Glad we got to talk to everyone, and thank you 845 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,720 Speaker 1: guys so much for tuning in and listening to us. 846 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 3: On Happy Hour and in tonight's speed dating round you 847 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 3: made have noticed we were missing the woman of the moment, Rachel, 848 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 3: but we are going to be having a exclusive sit 849 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 3: down with her to chat about her entire time on 850 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 3: the show and really get into her time with women 851 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 3: tell all tonight, So stay tuned. 852 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: For that, and yeah, make sure you subscribe, download and listen, 853 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 1: and thank you guys because we love. 854 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,879 Speaker 2: You, We love you. 855 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: And next week we are finale times. 856 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 2: I can't believe it's already here. 857 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 1: I know, it's crazy best. It was a good season, 858 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 1: it was entertaining, so it was quick, and it's. 859 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 2: Going to be an amazing finale. I already know it. 860 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 3: So be sure to subscribe to this podcast, tune into 861 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 3: the finale, listen to all of our episodes, and have 862 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 3: a great night. 863 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 2: Bye.