1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: I called my manipulative on out in the family group chat, 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: so she complained to. 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 2: My boss, let's freaking get a flame in the group chat. 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: It's a bit fire emojis y chat right now off chat. 5 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: Back in April, my grandfather underwent a total Larry and 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: Jack to me laryn jectomy due to his throat cancer redeveloping. 7 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: He was in the hospital for about a month and 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: was discharged to a nursing facility where I twenty six 9 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 1: female work at in admissions for continued rehab before going home. 10 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: He had a completed He had a complicated case. He 11 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: has a track that needs to cleaning and suction tube 12 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: feeding and needed help transferring to do his ADLs. 13 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: A ADL chat. That is an ADL giants milk, I 14 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 2: see you in the chat. 15 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Pretty Girl forty four 16 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: on the r slash Okay storytime sebrid it so where 17 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: my aunt fifty four female came into play. She wanted 18 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: to be the daughter out of three daughters total to 19 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: take care of my grandfather, but has no official POA paperwork. 20 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: What's POA chat's what's pa chat? Let us know my 21 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: aunt is a control freak and has to be right 22 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: about everything, and everything has to be her way to 23 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: the point where she will tell lies to make sure 24 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: her point gets across activities. So I was assisted daily living, 25 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: Assisted daily Living power of attorney. During my grandpa's stay 26 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: at the nursing facility, we had plenty of care meetings 27 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,639 Speaker 1: and update meanings to discuss how my grandpa was getting along. 28 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: Other than these meetings, she never visited him never. Unfortunately, 29 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: a couple weeks in his insurance cut his stay and 30 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: no longer would cover. I looked at his notes and 31 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: he could do all of his assistant daily livings by 32 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: or activities of daily life. 33 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 2: There's a lot of activities of daily life. Can you 34 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 2: tie your shoes? Make sense? That makes sense? That makes sense. 35 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: Activities of daily life by himself. 36 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 2: I think it's activities of daily living. 37 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: Living by himself living. He just needed help with suctioning 38 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: his track and changing. 39 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: His tube feeding. Suctioning his tracks sounds crazy. 40 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: This is stuff that home healthcare can educate on. My 41 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 1: aunt didn't agree with the insurance and appealed the decision. 42 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: Not only did she appeal once twice, she appealed three times. 43 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 2: Thrice. Why isn't it thrice? It should be once twice 44 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: thrice price. What's what's four? Rice price? Five? U six 45 00:02:53,639 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 2: nice seven nice septice aunt tice ice. 46 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 3: Nice, all right, even after I told her it would 47 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 3: not a wait, it's rare to even get the second 48 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 3: appealed overturned, even after I told her it would not 49 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 3: be approved due to my experience in the field. 50 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Opie literally works at the place that the grandpa's at. 51 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 52 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: Of course, during this time, my grandpa was continuing therapy 53 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: but paying for it privately. He was in good spirits 54 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: and everyone loved him. However, my aunt was always finding 55 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: a way to complain about something to get the appeal overturned. 56 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: He called and was very rude to our director of 57 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: nursing and accused our director of nursing of not being 58 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: her title. And she was calling to demand my grandfather 59 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: be taken off tube feeding. 60 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 2: Why does she what does she know? 61 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 3: What? 62 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: She knows nothing? He knows zero? How to be a 63 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 2: bossy be a. 64 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: Bossy lady who doesn't want the best for her father. 65 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: Our dawn director of nursing told me what happened, and 66 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: I messaged in the family group chat, Julie, before you 67 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: call in and demand Papa to be taken off as 68 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: tube feeds. The family should discuss it first. A doctor 69 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: and a dietician needs to be consulted, and they have 70 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,239 Speaker 1: to make sure he's meeting his daily oral intake goal 71 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: so he has enough calorie intake. He was a full 72 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: liquid diet only transition transitioning to a parade diet and 73 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: before demanding he'd be taken off of it. I think 74 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: we should all be aware and don't accuse our nursing 75 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: director of not being the nursing director. This is also embarrassing. 76 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: She let's freakin go off in the chan, in the chat, 77 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 2: in the chat that we saw in this chat. 78 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, she replied, once again, you're clueless. 79 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 2: Do you feel like you know more than the director of. 80 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: Nursing, director of nursing and also your Spielberg of nursing, 81 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: your niece, who's Scott of nursing, mister. 82 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 2: Ripley, the Ridley Scott Oh. 83 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: Andrews director who plays talented mister. 84 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: Ripley Andrew Scott Oh in the New One? Do you 85 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: watch that you do you want to? I watched a 86 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 2: little bit of VIC and I kind of got boring. 87 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: I have only seen half of the first one. 88 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 2: We need to choose a series to watch together. We 89 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: haven't watched a series in ages. 90 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: I replied, I'm not clueless. If my director of nursing 91 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: just told me what the exact conversation was. And my 92 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: family acting like that towards people at my job is embarrassing. 93 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: Snaps and you didn't see that. But I did a thing. 94 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: Here we go, you took it away from me. 95 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: Side note, When my grandma was in the hospital, my 96 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 1: aunt Julie was calling in the hospital every day and 97 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,799 Speaker 1: accused my other aunt, sixty female, of not providing updates. 98 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: My aunt Julia hasn't given one single update in our 99 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: family group chat. And also she hasn't been there. Oh, 100 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 1: he said, she hasn't gone to visit the grandpa, So 101 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: where does she go. She's just trying to be controlling, 102 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: but she's not actually helping. I was at work when 103 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: we were having this conversation, and I saw her name 104 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 1: pop up on my phone at my job. Somehow her 105 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: voicemail was left on my phone and I listened to 106 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: it in utter disbelief. She was calling to speak to 107 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: my main boss to report me for inappropriate messages. 108 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 2: You mean the one that she flamed you in the 109 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 2: group chat. Yeah, that was inappropriate to you. 110 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: Also, why are you calling her boss? What is her 111 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: boss going to do about it? 112 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 2: I mean he is going to fire like like she 113 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 2: I think she's trying to basically say, oh, sending inappropriate 114 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: messages to get her fired. No, I know, but it's 115 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 2: kind of ridiculous. It's just ridiculous. It's a ridiculous escalation. Yeah, ridiculous, ridiculous. 116 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: I read back our conversation and nothing I said was inappropriate, 117 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: just me asking if she can consult with our family first. 118 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe what she had done. Fast forward to now, 119 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: my grandpa was discharged to live with my aunt Julie, 120 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: and I refuse to go visit. My parent went there 121 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: the other day and visited with my grandpa. My aunt 122 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: Julie came out and started just to set the record 123 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: straight my name or op. Before she could finish, my 124 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: mom cut her off and started in on her, calling 125 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: her out for all her lies and rude comments. After 126 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: my dad told me what happened, I sent a message 127 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: in the group chat and said, Julie, if Papa is 128 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: staying at your house, you need to respect people to 129 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: visit without coming outside when you said you would let 130 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: others visit without you interrupting. I have a copy of 131 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: the voice message you left about me sending inappropriate messages 132 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: trying to get me in trouble with my executive director. 133 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: Don't go around and say you didn't when I have 134 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: the voice message on my phone. What kind of person 135 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: does that to family? We were discussing in a family 136 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: group chat as a family, not as an employee messaging 137 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: a family. So why did you call my job to 138 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: report me? What family does that? You are a terrible person, Julie. 139 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: I used to look up to you, but now you're 140 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: someone who has no respect or family. Please seek help. 141 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: If people want to come visit Papa and take them somewhere, 142 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: they're allowed to without your inpumbly However, you crossed the 143 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: line calling my job to report me, Mike. 144 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: Drop, let's freaking go. Let's freaking go. 145 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: Julie, get out of here. 146 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 2: Julie can go kick some freaking rocks. Julie, you're done, Julie, 147 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 2: how about you? How about Julieve? 148 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: Julie? Yeah, Julie's like there is no voicemail in bossing 149 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: say thanks? 150 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 2: Oh is Julie? Julie that was so good. That was 151 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 2: so good. Oh good, that was the thinker for me. 152 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: I appreciate it. I like that you like laughed at 153 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 2: it before you got it too. Oh no, because I 154 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: I just thought it was funny without the connection to Julie. Yeah, 155 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: but then with the connection to Julie better, even better 156 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: than that. It was kind of like when you like 157 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 2: taste a really great dish. Oh my god, the sweetness 158 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 2: is so good, and then it's like, is that umami 159 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 2: in a zest of lemons? Like that? 160 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: Thanks, she replied. If you have something to stay you 161 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: can private message me or call me. I replied, I 162 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: heard you're telling things that aren't one hundred percent trough. 163 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure everyone in the family 164 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: is aware so you can't change stories like you tend 165 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: to do. Just wanted to let everyone know you called 166 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: your niece's job to report to her boss when she 167 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: was talking to you in a family group chat. She replied, 168 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: not true, but whatever. Again, it would be more appropriate 169 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: to private message or call me if you would like 170 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: to discuss. I'll do so with pop up present since 171 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: he knows the truth, I replied, make sure he listens 172 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 1: to this too and share the voice message she left 173 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: to report me in the family group. 174 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 2: There's a little bit more of this story. But ba 175 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 2: ba bo. 176 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 4: Bo bob and share her the link to this too. 177 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh we at her at her here at her. 178 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:28,319 Speaker 2: Wow wowee wowie wow wowie Mauie. But we got a 179 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: little bit more. Yah. Yeah. 180 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: By the way, you can join us live on YouTube 181 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 1: about three pm Pacific Sana time. 182 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 2: Just tap her profile. Woo do it? Do it? 183 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: I continue to say, Julie, please don't ever talk to 184 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: me again after you reported me to my boss, who 185 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: called me before and after her discussion with you. You 186 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: reporting me to my boss is a very low and 187 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: disrespectful thing to do to family. It makes me so 188 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 1: sad that Papa ended up staying at your house and 189 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: was being fed untruthful things. I pray you seek the 190 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: mental help you need. You are no longer family to me. 191 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: Please never talk to me again. Julie is also the 192 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: same aunt who called CPS on my parents when my 193 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: brother and I were little. 194 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 2: Sounds like the worst awful. 195 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: She is a very terrible person who doesn't. 196 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 2: Julie just sucks so much. 197 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 1: She doesn't know boundaries. She is telling people in our 198 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 1: family different stories to make her look good and me 199 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: someone who is making things up. So am I the 200 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: A hole for calling my on out in our family 201 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:36,559 Speaker 1: group chat? No, she's lying, she's lying about things. 202 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 2: And also she like, all right, here we go, here 203 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 2: we go, here we go. You lie publicly about me? Yeah, 204 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 2: I tell the truth publicly about me. 205 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: I freaking clap back publicly. 206 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: I clap back, well, because it's like, you need to 207 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 2: inform all the people that were lied that we're lied 208 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 2: to of the lie. You got to inform them. 209 00:11:55,080 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: So it maybe don'ts a Yeah, she's a liar, yeah, 210 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: and a don cheat. 211 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, she sounds absolutely awful. I think Op did 212 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: the exact right thing. I agree. I don't know if 213 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 2: there was a way to, like to to navigate this better, honestly. 214 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: I don't think so. 215 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 2: But can we can we put a little poll? I 216 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: love to know what you guys think for your answers 217 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 2: to the chat. Do you think Op is the A 218 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 2: hole or not the A hole? Yeah, we're gonna put 219 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 2: I think not. I think not. I think not. I 220 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 2: think not. Also, Papa is okay. 221 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: I believe Papa, Papa, Papa, are you okay? 222 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 2: He's fine? He's fine. Lied to dude. His freaking throat 223 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 2: is being destroyed with all the lies he's being fed though. Whoa, 224 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 2: that's why I need to replacement. 225 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 4: Did not know where you're going? 226 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 2: Now you do? All right? Yeah? What do you think? 227 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 2: A whole or not? The A one or two? Put 228 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: it in let us know. We also spin that that 229 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 2: wheel a little bit again. 230 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 4: Pretty ready, it's ready? 231 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 2: Whoa? 232 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 1: Also, John is two hundred. Thank you for the five 233 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: buck Tip made a theme song, not sure if it 234 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: got lost. 235 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 2: In the discord. Made a theme song. Theme song is 236 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 2: two hundred. That's funny. Wait can we listen to it? 237 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: Put it dm, DM Reley mil Crespo, thank you for 238 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: the two bucks. Shout out to my sister Ashley Longorio 239 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: Longoria her first live Welcome Ashley, make some noise and 240 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: then you said it, and thank you for the ten bucks. 241 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 1: My dad's wife tried to slap my mom last year. 242 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 2: Whoa. 243 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: It was a messy situation all around, say the least. 244 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it does sound Cina. You should submit 245 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 2: that story to our subreddit. Also, if you have a 246 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 2: story that you want us to read on the show, 247 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 2: submit it to our subreddit. That is, any place we 248 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 2: go to get new stories. Place we go. Oh, the 249 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: places will go a bit stories to us. 250 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: And now we're gonna go straight to Jeopardy. 251 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:09,680 Speaker 2: Great to Jeopardy r J al right, Disney. And also 252 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 2: you guys are playing too, so if you guys get 253 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 2: it before us, you win. Oh we got Disney. Yeah, 254 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:18,079 Speaker 2: that's cool. Also, it looks like everyone there's one vote 255 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 2: for a whole. I feel like, who is that person? 256 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 2: If you like they're an a whole? 257 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: Why, yeah you did it by accident? 258 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: Fix? Uh? Ninety seven votes for not the a whole, 259 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: ninety eight percent of people not the a whole. I'm 260 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: an agreement. There a far paper scissors, hang, who got it? 261 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 2: All right? 262 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 3: Uh? 263 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: Disney five hundred. 264 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 4: In the live action remake of Dumbo in twenty nineteen, 265 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 4: this director, known for his gothic style, refusing classic animated. 266 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 2: Film buzz Walt Disney, buzz del Toro, Nope, buzz uh, 267 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna know that. Oh is it the live action? 268 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 2: Oh it's a live in action twenty nineteen. Buzz uh 269 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: Ridley Scott, Nope, buzz uh. Quentin Tarantino, No, but I 270 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 2: was timper. Other guy freaking chat all right, yah, dang. 271 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: I thought this was like I thought these were like 272 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 2: questions trivia for four hundred. Whoa, whoa? You have to 273 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 2: I think you have to continue continue. 274 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 4: There four hundred. 275 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 2: This Greek hero was going, go ahead Heracles. 276 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: Yep, dang, And it's not Hercules because Hercules is the Roman. 277 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: No I would have I wouldn't have known that. That's 278 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 2: freaking that was so fast. Dang, okay, next one cool 279 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 2: divi uh bry again Disney four hundred. 280 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 4: This was the last Disney animated film produced under Wellness 281 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 4: used direct supervision before his death in nineteen sixty six. 282 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 2: Cinderella Buzz. Cinderella buys the goofy movie, you know, nineteen 283 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 2: sixty by Sleeping Beauty. Leaping Beauty was buzz snow white. 284 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 2: That was the first. That was the first one. Buzz 285 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 2: the Aristocrats. 286 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 4: Nope, can't read Chat. 287 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 2: I know I read Chat. 288 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 4: That was. 289 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 2: Byes. We got it, But by is the Jungle Book. Yep, 290 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 2: let's go. That's good. Let's got your turn. Uh these 291 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 2: are all trivia three hundred. 292 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 4: This famous planting by Edvard Munch depicts a figure with 293 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 4: a agonized expression against a what. 294 00:16:54,840 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: It's the screen? Oh yep, No, oh hey, those, I'm 295 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 2: going to keep trying with Disney. Disney three hundred. 296 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 4: The Partner's Statue at Disney Parks features Walt Disney holding 297 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 4: hands Mickey Mouse. 298 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: Dang, I was gonna say that. I think I think 299 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: I said. 300 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,360 Speaker 2: Trivia five hundred. 301 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 4: This artist is known for the painting go ahead, Sam Salva. 302 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 2: I knew that one. Uh. Literature five hundred. 303 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:34,239 Speaker 4: This American poet wrote, go ahead, Sophie Robert love this 304 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 4: one fact. 305 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 2: Oh sorry, chat, you're really scared for a second, and 306 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 2: then I was like, no, it's right. 307 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 4: This this quote changed my life. And that's why I 308 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 4: decided to do the hard. 309 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: Things in life, and that's why you're here exactly all right, 310 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:53,360 Speaker 1: No I did that going back and forth. 311 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: Literature four Okay. This two thousand and. 312 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 4: Three novel by Dan Brown involves a sem ball go 313 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,160 Speaker 4: ahead Sam. 314 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 2: The da Vinci code. Yep, yes, yes, yeah. Literature three hundred. 315 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 4: This author, what okay, you're disqualified if you don't have 316 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 4: an answer, just qualified. 317 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 2: Buzz. That's not fair. You can't. That's not fair that 318 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 2: you try to say buzz buzz. Christopher Walson, Is it 319 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 2: is Christopher right that I'm completely disqualify. You can't do that. 320 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 2: I'm saying, I feel like, well, I thought it was Christopher, 321 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 2: who's the kid that he's like al al chet got it? 322 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, Chat never know what it was. 323 00:18:55,960 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 2: Dang, all right, Uh, Disney to hundred. This is the 324 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:03,919 Speaker 2: first toy story. 325 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 1: I said buzz first, I said, But I knew it 326 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,440 Speaker 1: was toy story, I said first. 327 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 4: Guys, who said buzz first? 328 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 2: I knew that was toys. You have to tell you 329 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 2: have to tell us who said buzz first? It was 330 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 2: two story. 331 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: I can't say it until instead who said it? 332 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 4: Uh, Sophia A two hundred. Its ancient one of the world. 333 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:33,679 Speaker 4: Go ahead, it's reading it, all right? 334 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 2: Just qualified. You can't do it. 335 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 3: You have to have it's the statue. 336 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 2: No, you're wrong. You gotta have it, so I don't 337 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 2: have to get it right. I just have an answer. 338 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 2: It's the statue of Rhodes. Okay, you can't. 339 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 4: You can't buzz and then read it. You have to 340 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 4: have it ready. I was thinking, no, you were reading it. 341 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 4: I saw your eyes. 342 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 2: Did this? 343 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: Damn said buzz too. 344 00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 2: I didn't hear it. I didn't say buzz. 345 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 1: Everyone's saying I got it first the last time. 346 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 2: By the way, that's because they love you. 347 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 4: No, it was Bosses of Roads. But I'm giving it 348 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 4: a chat. 349 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I said, Statue of roads for 350 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: not knowing the answer. I was not that far off 351 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,440 Speaker 1: for like I was qualified. 352 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 2: Uh, literature two hundred, all right, this great expectations. Sorry, 353 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 2: I forgot what it was. I don't even think that 354 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 2: was written by tickets. I think that was a face. 355 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 2: Wait was it a tail of two cities? Yeah, okay, 356 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 2: that's what I was going to say. I know I was, 357 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 2: I was. I promise, well, gave me a chat, give 358 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 2: it a chat. Expectations was trivia for one hundred? All right, Antarctica, 359 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 2: but go said buzz first. You can't keep saying really 360 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 2: tells us said buzz first. 361 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: This is he's literally cheating. Go ahead, I can't possibly 362 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 1: win because you've getten in this. Oh my gosh, I'll 363 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 1: do one hundred. Yeah, all right, buzz chrisus chasmine. 364 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, for all the marbles. Buzz I heard. 365 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 2: Juliet. 366 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 5: Oh you freaking didn't, you're him? 367 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 2: I am being bullied. 368 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 4: This is a sham, fav I'm sorry. 369 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 2: You're literally this is a scam. I am being bullied. 370 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: I know the answer to these things, and I didn't 371 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 1: get disqualified twice. Though it's kind of ridiculous that I 372 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: was disquified when. 373 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 2: Kind of the same thing. 374 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 1: You got some dons here multiple times, Mad hatter Gal, 375 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 1: thank for the twenty bucks. 376 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 2: Oh that reminds me. 377 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,880 Speaker 1: You guys love my karma Reddit story. Well, my dear, 378 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 1: I have some new tea to share with you. This 379 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: happened not that long ago, and it's a very fresh bru. 380 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 1: I will post it on the so I read it 381 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: very soon. Can we do a poll? 382 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 2: What do you want? 383 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 4: Who said buzz. 384 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 2: It wouldn't have won? Dude? I would have won. 385 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: I would because it happened multiple times. Riley, it happened 386 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: multiple times. 387 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 4: I don't know about that. We'll get a buzzer next time. 388 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get a buzzer. Have a buzzer. Actually, Sophia 389 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 2: was robbed? All right? Shall we get into that got heated? Dude? 390 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 3: Ye? 391 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 2: Who got it? Does Jeopardy not get heated? 392 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 4: Between YouTube? Why don't I playing like games with Sophia? 393 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 4: She gets so into it and so competitive. 394 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 2: She does get very competitive, like I had. I brought 395 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 2: a thing of cards car game with me. That's everyone 396 00:22:58,880 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: knows that. 397 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I regretted it afterwards, and I'm good 398 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:08,400 Speaker 4: at game, all right, Sam, right thing, let's read. We're 399 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 4: losing our Facebook peeps. 400 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 2: All right, all right, Facebook piece, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 401 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 2: We're going. We're going, all right. Also, if you want to, uh, 402 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 2: slow down the video and clip it and then see 403 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 2: who was really first? Tell us wow, one vote for. 404 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: Us. 405 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 2: The om mommy is strong. I see you guys, and 406 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 2: I love you. I see you and I hate you. Okay, 407 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 2: read your story. Well, we got another dinner. I'm j grow. 408 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: Thank you for the ten book tip. This is what 409 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: you should use the flags for. 410 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: First. 411 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: On with the flag up gets to answer first. 412 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 2: All right, yes, Sam, Stella, Stella, Stella. I see your messages. 413 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 2: Don't worry. Don't you worry. They don't go unnoticed. All right, 414 00:23:55,960 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 2: So we ready? Are we ready? Are you ready? Yeah? 415 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 2: Are we ready? Get it to me. I didn't wear 416 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,919 Speaker 2: the engagement shirt my mom got me. Now she's refusing 417 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 2: to pay for the wedding. 418 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 5: Hi. 419 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,360 Speaker 2: Female twenty one and my now fiance, male twenty two. 420 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 2: Early marriage. I've been together for about a year and 421 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:22,159 Speaker 2: a half now, since May of twenty twenty three. We 422 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 2: went to Disneyland in May of twenty twenty four with 423 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 2: my mom and her best friend, and my fiance was 424 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 2: planning to propose to me. My mom and her friend 425 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 2: were in on it to help everything go smoothly. Nice. 426 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 2: Well did it go smoothly? Yeah? Did it go smoothly? 427 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from select Heart two nine 428 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 2: nine oh on the our size okay, storytime subreddits, meet 429 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 2: your stories there. Anyway, most of the trip was great. 430 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 2: My fiance proposed to me on the second full day 431 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 2: of our trip at Disney California Adventure Time or no, 432 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 2: just adventure in front of the Ferris Wheel. As nerdy 433 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 2: as it sounds, it really was adorable and just perfect. Afterwards, 434 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 2: we all spent the day to day together in cell 435 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 2: of the engagement. I heard you're not allowed to propose 436 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 2: at Disneyland or something true what people do a lot 437 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 2: of people do. But I heard you're not allowed. 438 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 1: Can you tell the story after about about the proposal? 439 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: Actually I guess Riley did, but that was on the 440 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:23,399 Speaker 1: members only stream. 441 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:28,119 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you can tell it again, Oh disney World, 442 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 2: Disney World, it. 443 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 1: Doesn't get Yes, you can't propose. 444 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 2: There was a video of a guy taking away proposally. 445 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 2: Maybe it's like in front of the castle or something. Anyway, 446 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 2: a little later we went back to the hotel room 447 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 2: to change into jackets and long sleeves, just because the 448 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 2: night does get colder right by the water there. 449 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: Think it's chilly, but you guys should just tuddle for. 450 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 2: Warmth, paddle for warmth. While there, my mom showed us 451 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 2: these matching just Engage Disney shirts she got us from Etsy, 452 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 2: along with matching Mickey buttons to put on our shirts 453 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 2: and ears for me that say I do I know 454 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 2: exactly who these people are. It was a nice gesture 455 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 2: of my mom, but instead of wearing them to the 456 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 2: park like I think she expected, we planned to wear 457 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 2: the shirts to the airport on the last day because 458 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: again it was a nice gesture, but I don't know 459 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 2: if you want to be walking around all day with 460 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 2: that yeah, and everyone're going congrats, congrats. The next day 461 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 2: was fine too, We all hung out and rode rides 462 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 2: together and everything was fine. Later on, closer to the night, 463 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,040 Speaker 2: my fiance and I went to the hotel just like 464 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 2: we had previous days, to change into warmer clothes. We 465 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 2: came back, we hit the parade or the fireworks traffic. 466 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 2: While stuck, we met this little older lady who worked 467 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: there and got to talking. We told her how we 468 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,679 Speaker 2: just got engaged and how we were just trying to 469 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 2: get back to my mom. She was so excited for 470 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 2: us to be engaged that she wanted us to get 471 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 2: matching buttons from the town hall. We followed her to 472 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 2: the town hall. Put I see you in the chat 473 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 2: if you know where to put ice in the show. No, 474 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 2: she was so excited for us to be engaged that 475 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 2: she wanted to get us matching buttons from the town hall. 476 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 2: We followed her to the town hall, which also got 477 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 2: us out of the traffic, and got the buttons from her. 478 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 2: We were able to make it back to my mom, 479 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:23,120 Speaker 2: and when we met up with them, I felt my mom, Yeah, 480 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 2: her eyes were locked on our buttons and she became 481 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 2: super quiet. I, trying to be positive since it was 482 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 2: our last night, didn't say anything because honestly, I thought 483 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 2: it wasn't that big of a deal. We walked to 484 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 2: a ride and in the queue, my mother just walked out. 485 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 2: I see a barrage of ICUs in the chat right now, 486 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 2: I see a barrage of ICUs. Really quick, we have 487 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 2: more of the story. But is opva hole for wearing 488 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 2: a pin that is not the mom's pin. 489 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 1: I don't think she's like necessarily like an intentional a hole. 490 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 2: But would you heard your mom's hurt, your mom's feelings? 491 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:07,320 Speaker 2: It is sad, But is it ah? Is it a 492 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 2: hole by ignorance? I don't know. What do you think 493 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: A hole or not a hole? Put your answers in 494 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 2: the chat. What do you think, so Fia? 495 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 1: I think it's like I think sometimes you get a 496 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 1: person a gift, you know, of clothing. When you get 497 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 1: a person a gift of clothing, I think there is 498 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: an expectation of wearing it. 499 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 2: Yep. 500 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: And because this was a Disney kind of you know, 501 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,640 Speaker 1: Disney shirt, Disney outfit and stuff, she probably expected them 502 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: to wear it. 503 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 504 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 1: And then yeah, I guess it probably just hurt to 505 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: see them. 506 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 2: Where Yeah, I imagine it would hurt. So far, we 507 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 2: got two votes for a hole. Oh okay, now five votes? 508 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 2: Who are not the a hole? We'll let this a 509 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 2: hole not the a whole pole keep going and we'll 510 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 2: get back into this story. My mother just walked out. 511 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 2: I didn't know till a little later when I went 512 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 2: to say something to her, and she was gone. I 513 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,959 Speaker 2: asked her friend where she was what happened, and she 514 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 2: tapped my button and said, you broke your mother's heart. 515 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 2: Imagining her going. You broke her heart, You broke her heart, 516 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 2: smashed it into tiny place. 517 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm imagining the button was like on her heart 518 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: as she went. 519 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 2: Broke her heart. After the ride, we all called her 520 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 2: multiple times, it couldn't get hold of her. Her friend 521 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 2: went off to find her and told me she would 522 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 2: call me when things settled down. My fiance and I 523 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,479 Speaker 2: did our own thing and waited to hear anything. We 524 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 2: stayed till the park closed, instill nothing. We texted our 525 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 2: group chat that we could wait for them on Main Street, 526 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 2: but eventually decided to go back to the hotel. When 527 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: we weren't hearing anything from mom. Mis killed and said, 528 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 2: that's a little dramatic. Is a little bit dramatic? Is it? Pins? 529 00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 2: Are everything? Thing about the purple heart? What is that? 530 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 2: Purple heart? Purple heart? What is it? 531 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 1: Isn't that for like the military? 532 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's a pin. It's about life and death. 533 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 2: Good point, and it's about heart and purple, oh purple. Anyways, 534 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 2: I got to the hotel. We packed up our stuff 535 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 2: since we left the next day, and even laid out 536 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 2: our shirts to wear the next day. When my mom 537 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 2: and her friend came back. My mom immediately started to 538 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 2: argue with me and said too many hurtful things to count. 539 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 2: He told me how inconsiderate me and my fiance are 540 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 2: of other people's feelings, and how she wanted the shirts, buttons, 541 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 2: and the ears back since we got new ones, not 542 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 2: the ears, even the ears. Have you no loyalty to 543 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 2: your button? Queen? I refused, but my face came out 544 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 2: of the bathroom and said, Okay, here you go. Damn. 545 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 2: He's very common situations like this, where as I either 546 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 2: flip out or shut down. She told us how all 547 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: we do is use her for her money, and we 548 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 2: never would have been able to be on this trip 549 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:11,480 Speaker 2: at it not being her, I said, Mom wanted to 550 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 2: be part of it. Yeah, I don't know. 551 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 1: It's definitely an avoidable situation, but this seems like a 552 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: little bit too. 553 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 2: Yeah like reaction. Maybe op is a whole by ignorance, 554 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 2: but I think just like maybe thoughtless, like thoughtless, didn't 555 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 2: think about it, It wasn't wasn't intentional. I could understand 556 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 2: why that might hurt the mom, But this reaction is 557 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 2: a little bit too much. This is way too much. 558 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 2: This is way too much. I mean, come on, it's 559 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 2: like a pins and you're making the engagement about you. Yeah, 560 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 2: to be about that. If if your gift helps someone 561 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 2: enjoy something more, great, Yeah, but it shouldn't. The gift 562 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 2: shouldn't be about you. Yeah, you know. Anyway, I refused. Also, 563 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 2: my mom made me these pants. A gotta gotta do 564 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 2: my mom. She wanted me to show them on stra 565 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 2: and I love them. 566 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, Sam's been jealous because my mom makes it. 567 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. Mom makes everything for Sophia, and this is the 568 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 2: first piece of clothing I've gotten since she was born. 569 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 1: That's because I asked her to make things. It's true, 570 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: and I give her like comps. 571 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 2: It is true. It is true. So now I'm doing 572 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 2: the same, and now she does it. Now she does 573 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 2: it all right. So she paid for our portion of 574 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 2: the hotel room because she said it was a graduation 575 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 2: gift to both of us for graduating college. At first 576 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 2: we refuse, but my mom insisted it was a gift. 577 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 2: But now in this moment, she was throwing that gift 578 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 2: back in our faces, which is not cool, unlike these pants. 579 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 2: She told us that since we only use her for 580 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 2: her money, she was not going to help pay for 581 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 2: the wedding at all, and she said, to have it. 582 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 2: It's crazy. 583 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: That's crazy over some pins, over some pins come on. 584 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 2: That is that I feel like it's no reaction. Also, 585 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 2: looking at the twenty six percent of you say ohp 586 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 2: he was the a hole. Seventy two percent say not 587 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 2: the a hole, yeah, which I agree. I feel like 588 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 2: if we were to give percentages of a holary I 589 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 2: perc yeah, the ten percent a hole, ninety percent, not 590 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 2: the angry because it's just like, it's just not it's 591 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 2: not thoughtful, but it's also just so inconsequential. My fiance, 592 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: being the com one, said it's okay, God will provide this. 593 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: Fiance's responses have been so funny. She's like, I'm taking 594 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 1: back the shirts. 595 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 2: And he's like, okay, here you go. 596 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm not paying for the wedding. He's like, okay, 597 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: I gobble. 598 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 2: Pred She did not like him, saying that she had 599 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 2: nothing to say back. She began throwing in the most 600 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 2: random crap for the past year and began attacking me 601 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 2: for things in years past. In this situation, I shut 602 00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 2: down as I began to take have a pan attack. 603 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,160 Speaker 2: I began crying and hyperventilating, and my mother did nothing 604 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 2: but continue to try and fight with us. Come on, 605 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 2: read the room, Read the room. She then began attacking 606 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 2: my fiance about his tattoos and said, I really like you. 607 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 2: I can't find a thing wrong with you, but I 608 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 2: hate your tattoos. So funny, She's like, you're so cool, 609 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 2: but your tattoos tack You responded that he was never 610 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:31,240 Speaker 2: looking for her approval of them. Oh my god, because 611 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 2: we both know she does not like tattoos and he 612 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 2: couldn't care less about what she thinks about fiance. Dude, 613 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 2: what is secure king? 614 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:38,839 Speaker 5: Ye? 615 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 2: What a freaking secure king? This is got like the 616 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 2: only thing honestly, what this shows is that the fiance 617 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 2: deserves to be married to. Yeah, like the this this 618 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,759 Speaker 2: this big w for fiance ws a the chat for 619 00:34:53,800 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 2: fiance because I feel like he's just basically wedding winning 620 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:05,880 Speaker 2: the wedding anyway. I feel like the fiance is just 621 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 2: showing his true colors. And I love all of them. Great, 622 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 2: they're great, They're great. Anyway, after things started to die down, 623 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 2: and I was still crying. She came over and hugged me, 624 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,320 Speaker 2: saying it was all gonna be okay, and she was there. 625 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 2: At this point, I wanted her nowhere near me and 626 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 2: cried myself to sleep that night as there was no reconciliation. 627 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:25,640 Speaker 2: There's a little bit more to the story, but you 628 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 2: can join us live every weekday here on YouTube at 629 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 2: three PMPSD. Just have our profile. So after all that, 630 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 2: I'm following her orders of her not wanting to help 631 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,319 Speaker 2: with the wedding, but all my friends are telling me 632 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 2: to forgive her and let her help. My fiance and 633 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 2: I are firm on not wanting her to help because 634 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 2: we don't want her to dangle any part of our 635 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 2: wedding in our faces again. But it's hard because she's 636 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 2: my mom. I love her so much, but her behavior 637 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:55,719 Speaker 2: is unacceptable and I don't want that interfere with our day. 638 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 2: Yeah what if she makes the wedding about Yeah? 639 00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 1: What if she comes to the wedding and she's like, 640 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,839 Speaker 1: were are my pins? And you don't wear your pin 641 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 1: on your wedding dress and then she. 642 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 2: Just crashes the wedding cake. Yeah, so right now, it 643 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 2: looks like seventy five percent of you are saying not 644 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 2: the a hole for not wearing the pins. But question 645 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 2: for the chat question for Sophia, yes, and maybe a poll. 646 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 2: Do you invite the mother to the wedding? Invite to 647 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 2: the wedding or nah? Because you know, maybe maybe she 648 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 2: causes a scene. 649 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but what would it be more of a scene 650 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: not invite her? 651 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 2: Why, is questioned young w. 652 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, i'd sell you an inviter, especially when you got 653 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 4: a husband like that. Dude, you're fine, she's gonna be 654 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 4: like unpachable. 655 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think. Uh, I think invite her 656 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 2: just because it like like Sophia's wise question said, uh, 657 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 2: would probably be more drama to not invite her and 658 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 2: she would be like crazy. But I do see some 659 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,399 Speaker 2: nose in the chat, so uh, invite her one or two. 660 00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 2: Put your answers in the chat. 661 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,800 Speaker 4: You can give her like a friend, so that friend 662 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 4: that happens, give her a nanny. That's what we've been 663 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,280 Speaker 4: doing with troublemakers at weddings. 664 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 2: Would just give oh like like have an uncle or 665 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,279 Speaker 2: on or something. Miss A says, yes, invite her, but 666 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:22,359 Speaker 2: don't let her pay, Yeah, because if yeah, she might 667 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 2: hold it over you Banana Jones. Mom says, do not 668 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 2: unless you want a train we train wreck wedding. Harriet says, 669 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:36,840 Speaker 2: it's giving narcissism. It is giving. It's giving hell a narcissm. 670 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 2: And she's making the engagement all about her. You know, 671 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 2: she's not very demure or mind very demure or mindful 672 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:47,720 Speaker 2: for sure. Most zen Beance says miss jay Bird. Oh 673 00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 2: Tina m gifted gifted membership. Hey oh yeah, members in 674 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 2: the chat. Also, I would like to point out Riley 675 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 2: completely redesigned. 676 00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, look at it, guys, I was, I was. 677 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 2: It was pretty. It is. It's so pretty. 678 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,359 Speaker 1: It looks so nice, okay, is like. 679 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,680 Speaker 2: The only thing we need to change is the chat. 680 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're working on that. So this is This is 681 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 4: version one. We're working on version two. We'll have it 682 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 4: done by like Thursday. But then version three. You guys, 683 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:24,359 Speaker 4: you guys don't even understand versions the free Oh dude, 684 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 4: don't even realize I said that, unpin oh. 685 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 2: Well that's where that story ends. But we got more 686 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 2: stories for you. Certainly not spelt Sophia. You can do that. 687 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:41,839 Speaker 2: And I'm looking at the chat right now. I'm looking 688 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 2: at the chat right now, and it says a rag 689 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 2: for the Queen. It says eighty three percent of you 690 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 2: guys are saying invite, So, oh wait, what the heck? Wait? 691 00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 2: Eighty one percent of you guys are saying invite. I 692 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,839 Speaker 2: think I'm on board with the invite team. What are 693 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 2: you doing? Really? Ah? Why is it zoomed in so 694 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 2: I'm back here? 695 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 5: Oh? 696 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 2: Why is it like? Oh because I put a blur 697 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 2: on it? Oh, stories and stuff? Okay, back to it. 698 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,720 Speaker 4: I have a marrying thing on. 699 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,919 Speaker 2: This dons before, so Vegan's the next story, Amy things 700 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,399 Speaker 2: for ten bucks. Key to living the right way, don't 701 00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:36,879 Speaker 2: become a right story that Cardio in and run away 702 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 2: from drama in your life. That's why Sam runs to 703 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 2: live that drama free life. Amen. Also, I got the 704 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 2: coolest shoes. 705 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,759 Speaker 4: Oh my god, you got shoes the feet one? 706 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the feet. I'm gonna go get them. I'll 707 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 2: show you, guys. I ran I've been running in the 708 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,719 Speaker 2: past couple of days by calves are blasted from them 709 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:56,840 Speaker 2: because they're a little. 710 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: This is unrelated, but I did baseball. I like went 711 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:05,800 Speaker 1: to a baseball what are they called a batting batting cage? 712 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 713 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, and my like four arms hurts so much, and 714 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:12,719 Speaker 1: I was like trying to figure out why, and I 715 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 1: was like, from going to the batting cage, I was 716 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,319 Speaker 1: really bad. Oh, I was better at softball. They had 717 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 1: softball and baseball. 718 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 2: I was, I. 719 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,600 Speaker 4: I have a fun athletic thing that Why did you 720 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 4: not close the word? Oh? I played because a semi 721 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 4: pro basketball player yesterday? 722 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 2: Did you win? 723 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,879 Speaker 4: I win one game? That's impressive out of five. Hey, 724 00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 4: that's crazy. I made four three pointers in a row. 725 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 4: I've never done that before. It's usually three. Yeah, dude, 726 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 4: I was I put the let's go put the stuff 727 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:43,839 Speaker 4: on them. 728 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm obsessed. I know. That's why. 729 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 4: That's why my Instagram is like that if you ever, 730 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:53,360 Speaker 4: because I'm telling the audience, tell audience because Steph Curry 731 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,719 Speaker 4: won over France by shooting four three pointers. 732 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:56,759 Speaker 2: In a row. 733 00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,080 Speaker 1: And I got that video. I put it on my 734 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 1: I got that video live. 735 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 2: It was crazy, bro. Yeah. 736 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: We were in a we were in like a little 737 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: French cafe or French bar as it was happening. 738 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 2: Wild. The French people were like yea every time, were 739 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 2: like we were. We were giving him a little bit 740 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,239 Speaker 2: bit of the good old American dude. 741 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:19,600 Speaker 4: Curry started cooking. 742 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, we ate it over. I don't even I don't 743 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,840 Speaker 2: even want If you haven't seen all of our collective 744 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 2: dumps on Instagram of our little French trip, I'm proud. 745 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,160 Speaker 2: Are you doing? You should go go go follow us 746 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 2: and and and go see our dogs. 747 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,359 Speaker 1: I've been public for like ages now. 748 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:42,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, changes his name, so change his name. Mine's at 749 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,360 Speaker 2: Samuel Donner my name so he has his underscore Sofia 750 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:49,240 Speaker 2: underscore DONNERA So if you had daughter is Tyley Wilson 751 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,359 Speaker 2: dot MP four which is sick. 752 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,239 Speaker 1: Uh soccer junkie. Thank you for the ten buck tip. 753 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,360 Speaker 1: Stuff to your channel about a month ago. Been watching 754 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 1: daily since. 755 00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 2: Thanks. 756 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 1: Also curious to know if anyone is watching in Bay Area, California. 757 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,120 Speaker 1: Would love to connect with other Okay Storytime fans. 758 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 2: If you're you should join the discord. If you're trying 759 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:11,200 Speaker 2: to connect with other Okay Storytime fans, also join the 760 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 2: discord if you haven't already. The link is in the chat. 761 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,239 Speaker 1: And Amy, thank you for the two bucks. Today is 762 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 1: my beagle, Betty's fifteenth birthday. Damn fifteen, Happy birthday, Betty? 763 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 2: What could you go? Oh? Fifteen? For God? 764 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 1: That's dog yeah, but now we have to wait to 765 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 1: start this next story because Riley and. 766 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,920 Speaker 2: Left schen Valley Mama says, little collective dumps. I don't 767 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 2: want to see that. Well, yes you do do of 768 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 2: me and Sophia. I won't show you all of them 769 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 2: because you gotta go. Gotta go. Yeah, you can't, you 770 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 2: can't freaking look. Yeah, you gotta go, you gotta go. 771 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 1: Look right now, here's a picture that Sam took. 772 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 2: I can show it. 773 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 1: Oh, I can't show it to you. 774 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 2: That's that's me and the ciss right there. 775 00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, sampost of the worst picture of me. 776 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,879 Speaker 2: I thought I like that picture. I think you look cute. 777 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,320 Speaker 2: My hair is all over the place. You look great. 778 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 2: You look like you look like a beautiful goddess. 779 00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 5: It's nice. 780 00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:13,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, nothing new ones Millennial Lanks, thank you for the 781 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: two bucks. I'm my sister's sitter for my bros wedding 782 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:16,879 Speaker 1: in December. 783 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 2: You know what pops to you. 784 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 1: Mariah Vincent, thank you for the ten buck tip. And 785 00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 1: Anna Burandanner thank for the five buck tip. Maybe invite 786 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,600 Speaker 1: as a guest or don't let her pay for anything 787 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 1: so she can't dictate or make decisions for anything. She 788 00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:34,320 Speaker 1: will make a scene or cause unnecessary drama and trouble 789 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,879 Speaker 1: for no reason other than she wants attention, no matter 790 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:37,359 Speaker 1: what kind. 791 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 2: SO is in favor of not inviting. Yeah, oh nice, 792 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 2: but I mean I could see that. But I think 793 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 2: if I was, if I was in this position, I 794 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,279 Speaker 2: would probably invite because I imagine it would create more 795 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,280 Speaker 2: drama than not. I agree, unless you had a small wedding, 796 00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 2: super small wedding where like you weren't inviting people agree, 797 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 2: is ready? I'm ready. 798 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 1: My sister almost killed my pet, but she doesn't care. 799 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 2: He's like, kill it again. Oh my god. 800 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 1: I eighteen female have a bearded dragon named Phil. 801 00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 2: Yes, I love this story. 802 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 1: I love this story. Who I have had for about 803 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:23,280 Speaker 1: one year now. Phil is deeply undercover because he's. 804 00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 2: One of those double agent. Yeah, double agent? 805 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:30,480 Speaker 1: Whoa philho Loo sixty bucks? 806 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:31,280 Speaker 2: Thank you, Mela. 807 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 1: I would love to hear more stories of your trip. 808 00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 1: Thank you for being there when I needed some emotional 809 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,880 Speaker 1: support a couple months ago, when I just you, Mela. 810 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,319 Speaker 2: Thank you for your donation and I'm glad we could 811 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:41,720 Speaker 2: be there. Very sweet. 812 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,279 Speaker 1: Another thirty minutes, Wow, and we're going to be here 813 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 1: for you a little bit more Mela with that extra. 814 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 2: Thirty extra thirty. 815 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,080 Speaker 1: Phil is deeply loved by me and my family. My 816 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: sister fifteen female, who I will call Jane, really likes 817 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 1: to make tiktoks of Phil, which I have completely no 818 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,360 Speaker 1: problem with. Normally just videos of Phil running around or 819 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:05,439 Speaker 1: doing something silly like opening his mouth when he basks. 820 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,400 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I need to see this. 821 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:14,080 Speaker 4: Oh wait, what's that one dude off of Hey Jesse 822 00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,440 Speaker 4: that had the beer dragons Missus Kipling? 823 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,839 Speaker 2: No, but what's the Robbie. This is what Robbie would 824 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:21,960 Speaker 2: do if there was a TikTok dude. I remember when 825 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:23,880 Speaker 2: I was in San Francisco. I was at this coffee 826 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 2: shop in the rain. It was pouring down, and I 827 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 2: see this guy come into the coffee shop and he 828 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,080 Speaker 2: looks like a chill dude, maybe like in Tech or 829 00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 2: something a little bit older, and he has a bearded 830 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:37,200 Speaker 2: dragon just chilling on his shoulder, walks in, doesn't acknowledge it, 831 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 2: sits down, has his coffee, and just starts reading the newspaper. 832 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 2: I talked to him, like, hey, dude, why the bearded 833 00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 2: Dragon's like, oh, I love my bearded dragon. And he 834 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,879 Speaker 2: tells me about his job in Ai and a little 835 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,399 Speaker 2: bit of a bearded dragon. We have like a whole 836 00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,160 Speaker 2: hour conversation and now I'm just like anyone who owns 837 00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 2: a bearded dragon is goaded. That's so sweet love that. 838 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,799 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Throwaway Beardy to on 839 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: the r slash oaky story. So yesterday my sister came 840 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,080 Speaker 1: up to me to show me a TikTok she had 841 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 1: made a fill. There is a trend on TikTok of 842 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 1: putting butter on dogs, as some audio plays over it 843 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 1: of this guy saying butter dog, Riley, look it up. Well, 844 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 1: Jane showed me a video of her putting some soft 845 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 1: butter on Phil so that she could follow the trend. 846 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: When I saw that, I became very upset. I had 847 00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,520 Speaker 1: seen a video recently off someone explaining how doing this 848 00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,959 Speaker 1: trend with bearded dragons can be dangerous because the butter 849 00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,160 Speaker 1: will stick to their skin and if they get put 850 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:43,320 Speaker 1: back under their basking light. 851 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 4: Let me get this, let me get this sound on here. 852 00:46:56,200 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 5: Buttered fay. 853 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 1: Can be dangerous because the butter will stick to their skin, 854 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 1: and if they get put back under their basking light, 855 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:19,759 Speaker 1: the butter will heat up and basically burn the bear 856 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 1: to dragon's skin. 857 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,840 Speaker 2: Really, I mean, I guess it's like cooking. But oh 858 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 2: that is true. Literally be cooked no way. 859 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's under a hot light and that's where 860 00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,839 Speaker 4: it likes to hang out. I don't sizzling. Dude, you're 861 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 4: gonna be smelling that beard. 862 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 2: But you're you're saying, if I put butter on my skin, 863 00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,120 Speaker 2: I will get more burned. 864 00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 4: Probably probably If you put butter in your skin, you 865 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,760 Speaker 4: directly go outside and take. 866 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 2: A run, and I would get more burned, but I 867 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:52,239 Speaker 2: would get like oil. It's like, you know, like oil. 868 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:56,239 Speaker 2: It makes you Wait, why do we put butter on 869 00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:59,359 Speaker 2: our food when we cook it? Dude? To taste? No, 870 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 2: it's an oil. It's like a fat. Yeah, make it 871 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:07,880 Speaker 2: so this the pan doesn't stick? Yeah, you put oil, 872 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:12,080 Speaker 2: but on your but the pan hotter? No, but it 873 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 2: could Right now we're talking about like literally makes the 874 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,439 Speaker 2: skin of the lizard hotter. Wait, so when you put 875 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:22,800 Speaker 2: on tanning oil, does it tan your skin faster? N 876 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 2: I thought it was like to put to stop you 877 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:29,040 Speaker 2: getting I thought it was to stop you getting sun burnt. 878 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:42,320 Speaker 2: Discovering oil and so tanning oil? Whoa okay? Cool? Okay? 879 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:48,600 Speaker 2: Are you learning about tanning oil, I'm learning how butter 880 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 2: butter works. Banana m all right, I'm about to get 881 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 2: flamed in the chat. You all putting butter on me 882 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 2: right now, like. 883 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,439 Speaker 1: The first person who learned how to churn butter. 884 00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 2: He's like. 885 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,440 Speaker 1: I told Jane to delete the video and that she 886 00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,799 Speaker 1: can't do stuff like that with Phil, and quickly got 887 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 1: him out from under his basking light that she had 888 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 1: put him back under after the video, and started to 889 00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:14,680 Speaker 1: bathe them in the tub to try and get any 890 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 1: of the butter off that she didn't wipe off. 891 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:17,520 Speaker 2: It's so cute. 892 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 1: My sister came and told me I was overreacting and 893 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,839 Speaker 1: that it's just a fun trend. I snapped at her 894 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 1: and told her I'm not letting her near Phil until 895 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:29,320 Speaker 1: she apologizes to me and promises to not do trends 896 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 1: like this with Phil again. And asked me every time 897 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,600 Speaker 1: she wants to make a video, don't to ask me 898 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,600 Speaker 1: every time she wants to make a video with Phil. 899 00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 5: Let go. 900 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,799 Speaker 2: Honestly, Yeah, you could. You could speak to Phil's agent 901 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 2: if you had a contract him. 902 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,759 Speaker 1: Ever again use him in one of your tiktoks. You 903 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:47,880 Speaker 1: better go through, go. 904 00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 2: Through me, yeah, I've seen that one where they put 905 00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:04,200 Speaker 2: cheese on the Dog Show. She's that's great. Yeah, cheese text. 906 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:08,320 Speaker 5: Cheese, you gotta pay the cheese text every time you're cooking. 907 00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 5: When the cheese comes home, he comes looking the rules 908 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 5: or the rules and the facts. So the facts and 909 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 5: when the cheese raw opened, gotta pay the tax. Cheese cheese. 910 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,359 Speaker 2: I thought, those little mini mozzarella ba it's so good. 911 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:26,919 Speaker 1: Anyway, My sister got angry and told me she wasn't 912 00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: apologizing for just wanting to have fun with Phil, and 913 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 1: then I can't take Phil away from her. After I 914 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 1: finished making sure all of the butter was off, I 915 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 1: put him back in his tank that's in my room 916 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:39,840 Speaker 1: and told her she's not allowed to come in and 917 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 1: take Phil. My parents found out this morning and told 918 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:45,799 Speaker 1: me I was out of line for what I did 919 00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,520 Speaker 1: and that it was just an innocent video. 920 00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,680 Speaker 2: That if Phil gets cooked, chat is Phil cooked. 921 00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,520 Speaker 1: They told me, I need to stop freaking out so 922 00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 1: much over things that involve Phil. Said she's not apologizing 923 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,360 Speaker 1: because she didn't know what would hurt Phil, so I 924 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,359 Speaker 1: should get over it and let her c Phil again. 925 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:07,839 Speaker 1: I feel like I can't trust her with Phil, though, 926 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,480 Speaker 1: if she hadn't shown me the video, Phil would have 927 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 1: sat in his tank getting burned under. 928 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,319 Speaker 2: His masking line, and I wouldn't even know until it 929 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 2: was too late. 930 00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 1: I think I might be the a hole because I 931 00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 1: could be overreacting, like my family say, and for yelling 932 00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 1: at her when she didn't know that doing the trend 933 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,239 Speaker 1: would hurt Phil. So redd it am I the a hole? 934 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,840 Speaker 2: I'm just imagining the PSAs where it's like, have you 935 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:35,800 Speaker 2: let your little sister use butter off your bearded dragon? 936 00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,280 Speaker 2: Every year, hundreds of bearded dragons are cooked alive. 937 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,120 Speaker 4: If you started smelling Phil, that would have been a problem. 938 00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:48,399 Speaker 2: Dude, I wondered it would do this bearded dragon tastes good? Oh, 939 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 2: I don't want to know. 940 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:50,479 Speaker 4: Oh, it probably tastes like chicken. 941 00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,480 Speaker 1: Okay, wait, I'm trying to think here. I think that 942 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,840 Speaker 1: op is in the right for wanting to protect her pet. 943 00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:57,319 Speaker 2: Yep. 944 00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:02,640 Speaker 1: However, I will say that she it seems like she 945 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 1: only recently found out that from a TikTok that butter 946 00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: is harmful to bearded dragons, and so it is reasonable 947 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,520 Speaker 1: to think that the sister just didn't know. Yeah, however, 948 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:20,359 Speaker 1: she should have apologized afterwards. Yeah, so so maybe maybe 949 00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 1: a little bit of the a hole for like her 950 00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,920 Speaker 1: initial reaction of like yelling at her before she didn't know, 951 00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 1: But the sister is the a hole for putting butter, 952 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:30,279 Speaker 1: I mean for not apologizing for it. 953 00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:35,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, agreed, agreed, So I think like op could have 954 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:37,879 Speaker 2: been maybe a little like. 955 00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 1: Hey, you can't put that on it. But I think 956 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:41,719 Speaker 1: I understand why she did it. 957 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:45,759 Speaker 2: But I think the issue here is that non apology, 958 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 2: which is like, oh, then maybe she's just gonna do 959 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 2: something else that's gonna endanger to the dragon. I don't 960 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 2: think she would have done it. 961 00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:55,480 Speaker 1: Purpose no, Yeah, but I think if you don't apologize. 962 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but also righty, is the tip link working? 963 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 2: It is? Okay, it just works for some people. It doesn't. 964 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,760 Speaker 2: We can try like an incognito browser if it's not working. 965 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:07,920 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I mean says sister should have looked it 966 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 1: up and or asked o pee, which yes, but also 967 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,040 Speaker 1: she was fifteen. Yeah, I mean, I don't know if 968 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,320 Speaker 1: I would have thought about I think she should still apologize. 969 00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 2: Absolutely. I didn't even realize the fix of butter until 970 00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,240 Speaker 2: literally this moment. So I think it's. 971 00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 4: Butter he doesn't even use butter, though he uses oils 972 00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:25,800 Speaker 4: for his eggs. 973 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:29,839 Speaker 2: I do. I use olive oil. Apparently it helps with longevity. 974 00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,840 Speaker 1: It does if you get high quality butter. No, Hi, 975 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:34,239 Speaker 1: I mean high quality oil. 976 00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:37,279 Speaker 2: I think I think any kind of oil, high quality oil. 977 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 2: What do you mean? What's the different? H quality? Brother? 978 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,120 Speaker 2: Quality brother? Hi? High quality brother? 979 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 1: Mama Mandy says, not falling Sophie's logic. Feel could have 980 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,800 Speaker 1: been badly injured purposely or not. I yeah, which is true. 981 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm just saying that initially the sister Ope could have 982 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 1: maybe been like, hey, you can't do that, that is dangerous, 983 00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:02,480 Speaker 1: rather than yelling at her. But the sister should have apologized. 984 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,960 Speaker 2: Ali says, ignorance doesn't excuse you from an apology. Yeah, 985 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,600 Speaker 2: I think we're all at agreement. She needs agreement. She 986 00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,640 Speaker 2: needs to apologize. But I think, like, I don't think 987 00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,759 Speaker 2: she was intentionally trying that's what I do to hurt fail, 988 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:17,719 Speaker 2: because who would do that? 989 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 1: Who would intentionally hurt Phil? 990 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:24,880 Speaker 2: What? Intentionally? Yeah? A slavey Toave says slightly. Toave says 991 00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,160 Speaker 2: she needs to apologize. I think if she wants access 992 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:31,360 Speaker 2: to Phil needs to apologize. I agree, and that content. 993 00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 2: My ultimatum. 994 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:38,840 Speaker 4: Dude, imagine if you guys used me for content like 995 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:40,960 Speaker 4: you do and try to put butter on me and 996 00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,719 Speaker 4: uh stick me under like a really hot light and 997 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,400 Speaker 4: you didn't apologize to the person that made me to 998 00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 4: get me back. 999 00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:50,799 Speaker 2: That'd be crazy when I laugh you up in butter 1000 00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 2: right now? Putter him up boy. Update. 1001 00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,239 Speaker 1: So, after my last post and getting all your feedback, 1002 00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,879 Speaker 1: I had ordered a lock for Phil's tank and put 1003 00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:01,840 Speaker 1: it on once I got it so that my sister 1004 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,560 Speaker 1: couldn't get to him. I waited a bit to see 1005 00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:08,080 Speaker 1: if my sister would apologize, but she didn't, so I 1006 00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,759 Speaker 1: sat down both my parents and sister to go over 1007 00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:14,200 Speaker 1: again why I wasn't allowing her to see Phil and 1008 00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 1: how what she did was not okay. I had made 1009 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:19,320 Speaker 1: a slide show and everything about how putting butter on 1010 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,280 Speaker 1: bearded dragons was in fact not a harmless friend I please. 1011 00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,440 Speaker 1: I told her that I wasn't mad at her for 1012 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,040 Speaker 1: doing it since she didn't know, which I think. Yeah, 1013 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,520 Speaker 1: we agree with agree, but I was upset over how 1014 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:35,120 Speaker 1: she reacted. 1015 00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:39,319 Speaker 2: Would agree this is textbook great? Agree? Yeah. 1016 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 1: I took a lot of explaining and I even use 1017 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 1: some advice you guys gave me on how to best 1018 00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 1: explain it? 1019 00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:52,480 Speaker 2: What? What? What? 1020 00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:54,919 Speaker 4: I'm looking for the video? I think there's something here 1021 00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 4: the video of Phil. 1022 00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:03,279 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna read it. Don't show, don't show, don't 1023 00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:06,879 Speaker 2: show you yet we read the story. 1024 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:09,880 Speaker 1: He took a lot of explaining and I even use 1025 00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:12,759 Speaker 1: some advice you guys gave up on how to best 1026 00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:15,320 Speaker 1: explain it. And after a lot of talking and a 1027 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,719 Speaker 1: bit of arguing, it seemed they finally all got it. 1028 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:20,600 Speaker 1: My sister got upset and apologized to me for how 1029 00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:25,280 Speaker 1: she reacted and seemed genuinely upset. Okay, after she realized 1030 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:29,520 Speaker 1: what she did to fill Okay, it's good, she apologized. Okay, 1031 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,640 Speaker 1: my parents also apologize for not taking my side and 1032 00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 1: scolding me for what rules I said in place. The 1033 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,480 Speaker 1: lock is still staying on the tank just in case, 1034 00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,920 Speaker 1: but my sister is now allowed to see him and 1035 00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,239 Speaker 1: play with him if she asks me, and she's not 1036 00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,680 Speaker 1: allowed to make any more videos of Phil without me 1037 00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:47,640 Speaker 1: being there to watch. She seems a bit irritated about 1038 00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,680 Speaker 1: the rules, but she follows them. 1039 00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:52,880 Speaker 2: By the way. You should follow us live. 1040 00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 1: On YouTube every weekday through Pan Pacific Santa time just 1041 00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,359 Speaker 1: to have her profile. I also got her to take 1042 00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,200 Speaker 1: down the video all off TikTok, and she ended up 1043 00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 1: making a video on how what she did was stupid 1044 00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:06,160 Speaker 1: and that to not do what she did, which I'm 1045 00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:07,680 Speaker 1: very pleased with a PSA. 1046 00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 2: I love that amazing. This is like the perfect resolution. 1047 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,360 Speaker 2: I think, Oh, he is handling this perfectly, not getting 1048 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,520 Speaker 2: like too aggressive with like you know, a fifteen year 1049 00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 2: old kid that doesn't know that much, but also say hey, 1050 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:22,040 Speaker 2: this is what you did was wrong. These are the 1051 00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:24,760 Speaker 2: rules for access to Phill and if you live by 1052 00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:28,200 Speaker 2: the rules, then you Phil. If you live by the rules, 1053 00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:29,440 Speaker 2: field will be in your POBM. 1054 00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:33,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think this. She has gone back to making 1055 00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:36,000 Speaker 1: her harmless videos of Phil just running and playing and 1056 00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 1: all is going well. Now look up like Phil the 1057 00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 1: bearder to drive. 1058 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,880 Speaker 2: That's what I did. I also want to Phil up. 1059 00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 1: Here, get out and again for the advice and reassurance 1060 00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:47,840 Speaker 1: that what I was doing wasn't wrong, since I honestly 1061 00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,560 Speaker 1: was pretty lost at the time. Phil is also doing 1062 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:52,840 Speaker 1: well and he appreciates all the compliments of the picture 1063 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,440 Speaker 1: I posted. He knows he's a handsome boy, so he's 1064 00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:56,920 Speaker 1: happy to have gotten the appreciation