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Speaker 1: The Nicki Gliser Podcast. Glaser.

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Speaker 2: Here's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's Nicky

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Speaker 3: Glazer podcast. Joining me today are Brian and Noah. Anya

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Speaker 3: is not here because she is in Canada and they

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Speaker 3: don't have Wi Fi in Canada, so it's not working.

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Speaker 3: Wherever she is Nova Scotia. Where is she's Nova Scotia. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: she's like at a cabin on a lake. So what oh?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I used the word no at the beginning of Nova.

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Speaker 1: It is a pun for no.

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Speaker 3: Before we got started on the show today, just seconds ago,

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Speaker 3: Noah and Brian were remembering local TV ads in the

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Speaker 3: New York area, and Noah had one that Brian didn't recognize,

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Speaker 3: and then Brian said, Selena and Barnes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Selena and Barnes is a injury attorneys in New

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Speaker 1: York area, and they had a catchy phrase.

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Speaker 4: You know Selena and Barnes.

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Speaker 2: You do?

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Speaker 4: Maybe I know it from living in New York.

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Speaker 1: Sure, No, they were there when you were there, But.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I watched TV in New York. How

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Speaker 3: would I have seen this. I'm very confused, But maybe

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Speaker 3: I did. Maybe I remember they didn't have It was

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Speaker 3: TV and listening to the local radio either, but I

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Speaker 3: do know maybe they yes, subway ads or something. Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 3: so what about Selena and Barnes? Did you want to

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Speaker 3: tell us and you said I save it for the show.

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Speaker 3: This better be good. I'm just kidding measures on.

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Speaker 1: First of all, nothing I say is worthy of that

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Speaker 1: type of god.

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Speaker 5: No, can you do you remember this Selena on Barnes?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Seleno and Barnes injury attorney attorney call eight eight

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Speaker 2: eight eight eight eight eight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. Well, well, Barnes is dead, Barnes is dyed.

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Speaker 1: He died. No, it was a couple of years ago,

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Speaker 1: but he died in a helicopter crash.

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Speaker 4: Holy fuck, Yeah, I do remember this.

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Speaker 5: Yes, what Yeah, he died in a helicopter crash or

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Speaker 5: maybe it was like a small plane, but he was

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Speaker 5: flying it and he died. So it's like, yeah, it's tragic,

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Speaker 5: but also like he was flying the plane, so people

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Speaker 5: are like, okay, well, you know, he took the risk

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Speaker 5: and he didn't pan out. But it's funny about it

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Speaker 5: or not funny. But what's interesting about it is that

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Speaker 5: the billboards around the city that used to say Selena

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Speaker 5: on Barnes within like ten days, it was just Seleno

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Speaker 5: injury attorney.

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Speaker 3: Oh, he was so excited to finally get Barnes out

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Speaker 3: of the way.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I bet you. He was ready to break up

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Speaker 5: with Barnes. He was sick of having Selena on Barnes.

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Speaker 5: He just he wanted it to be just solito eight

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Speaker 5: eight eight eight.

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Speaker 1: And now he's got it.

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Speaker 5: So I haven't heard any song yet, but it makes

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Speaker 5: me wonder if there's a conspiracy theory that perhaps Seleno

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Speaker 5: sabotaged the helicopter. Really, I mean, it's my conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I just would love to see him get the call

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Speaker 3: that it happened. That's what that's footage I want to

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Speaker 3: see of. Like no, and he's writing things down right away,

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Speaker 3: like and he's waving it for his secretary. Get on

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Speaker 3: the billboards. He's out, he's done. Oh he does like

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Speaker 3: a mime of a plane going into his desk. She's

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Speaker 3: like no, she's crying. He's like, get over it, Move

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Speaker 3: on these billboards. Get kits Burns's name out of there.

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Speaker 3: There is something so man, when I hear of a

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Speaker 3: plane crash, I'm on it. I want to know everything

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Speaker 3: about that's why I know about this, like just a

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Speaker 3: tragedy like that. God, I got really into who's the

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Speaker 3: woman Patsy Klein died in a plane crash. Read about

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Speaker 3: her a lot the other day. Had no idea that

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Speaker 3: she died that way, and it's so tragic. And she

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Speaker 3: used to like have premonitions that she was going to die.

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Speaker 3: She used to like tell people she was in a

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Speaker 3: really bad car crash where she almost got scalped to death,

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Speaker 3: like a couple of years before her plane crash, and

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Speaker 3: she survived that, and then the plane not so much.

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Speaker 3: And God, there was one I read about over the

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Speaker 3: weekend that was, oh.

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Speaker 2: God, oh there's a couple bad crashes over the weekend.

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Speaker 4: Girl was there?

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Speaker 2: I think, maybe you're about to talk about the one

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Speaker 4: No, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I did read about that last night. There's, you know,

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Speaker 3: kept going, and then there was another crash or something

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Speaker 3: like that. God at the same air show. They were like,

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Speaker 3: so who knows if it's true. But this was also

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Speaker 3: in Last Images where I read all my morbid stuff.

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Speaker 3: It was a girl in a helicopter with her It

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Speaker 3: was it was a screenshot from like the video, and

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Speaker 3: she's in a helicopter with her brother, and she's in

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Speaker 3: a wedding gown. She had the idea to surprise her

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Speaker 3: groom by helicoptering into instead of being walked down the aisle,

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Speaker 3: Everyone's waiting at the ceremony. Here comes the bride and

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Speaker 3: they all start getting alerts on their phone. This is

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Speaker 3: what I'm guessing, because it kind of said something like this,

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Speaker 3: that there was a helicopter crash a mile away and

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Speaker 3: in by a helicopter because it was a surprise except

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Speaker 3: one person, So that one person was probably like, there

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Speaker 3: was what wait, sorry, I share that with me. There

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Speaker 3: was a a mile a mile away. Okay, oh god,

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Speaker 3: oh god.

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Speaker 4: And had to like tell people and she it was

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Speaker 3: Guys, if it's fogging up, yeah, not don't go in

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Speaker 3: a helicopter. Just don't go in a helicopter. Don't go

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Speaker 3: in a helicopter. I did it in Hawaiian. It was

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Speaker 3: one of the most extraordinary experiences of my life, going

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Speaker 3: over this like cliff that had a waterfall and then

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Speaker 3: you just right over it. You're like, it's all grasp

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Speaker 3: like Jurassic Park and it's like this huge. It was

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Speaker 3: one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen in

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Speaker 3: my life. Still not worth it now that I think

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Speaker 3: just get so nervous about those propellers. I have dreams

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Speaker 3: where all I'm doing is ducking as I'm walking into

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Speaker 3: near a helicopter. You ever hear about people that are

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Speaker 3: like plane propellers that they're just walking out of the

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Speaker 3: plane and yes, oh my god, and they just walk

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't seek this stuff out so't.

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Speaker 5: I haven't seen this specific story about it, but I

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Speaker 5: do know that I'm very mad at places like seemingly

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Speaker 5: innocent publications like People magazine because they just love and

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Speaker 5: on my news app when they pop up, it's always

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Speaker 5: something like bride.

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Speaker 1: And groom die on the way to their wedding or

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Speaker 1: I gotta subscribe then, man, who.

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Speaker 4: It's it's fear porn.

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Speaker 3: People get addicted to it kind of is, and I like,

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Speaker 3: I love being scared of things and having my fears

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Speaker 3: validated because I'm not doing this stuff anyway, so it

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Speaker 3: makes me feel like, good job, Nikki. You're not going skydiving,

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Speaker 3: You're not going to a rodeo, You're not going to

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Speaker 3: a monster truck rally. This is the right thing to do. Which,

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Speaker 4: Is? Is it? Really?

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Speaker 3: I mean, people could say the same thing about a

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Speaker 3: tailor stift concert. I really want to understand. Is it

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Speaker 3: very exciting to see cars go way up in the

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Speaker 5: They smash other cars though they smash other cars too.

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Speaker 4: Why is that entertaining?

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Speaker 3: I realized another fear of mine over the weekend because

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Speaker 3: I went to go see Barbie and there was a

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Speaker 3: ad for I usually love, you know, trailers, but they're

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Speaker 3: there's just too much action going on. I close my

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Speaker 3: fear of the crash. I don't like when a beautiful

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Speaker 3: There's a scene where she is in like definitely a

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Speaker 3: Chevy truck that they bought an ad for because it's

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Speaker 3: all Chevys chasing each other and this Chevy like you

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Speaker 3: don't understand why they even like are selling. People are

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Speaker 3: she's in a Chevy and it's like a new I

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Speaker 3: don't like watching new cars go up on curbs and

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Speaker 3: hitting a bump or like, and in car chases, they're

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Speaker 3: always going over curbs and they're they're breaking really fast

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Speaker 1: Like people getting damaged.

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Speaker 3: Why don't you like for I like hearing about like

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Speaker 4: But if you still have to drive that Chevy.

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Speaker 3: Around after it's been in this chase, I feel like

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Speaker 3: You're just ruining it. I think I also have like

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Speaker 3: this car, Nick you oh the and my dad being

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Speaker 3: like you know what, my dad talks about car alignment

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Speaker 3: more than his love of his grandchildren. Like there's every

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Speaker 3: kind of paranoia. But I don't like car chasing scenes.

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Speaker 3: Although there was an ad for this new movie called

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Speaker 3: Grand Turismo which is gonna bomb, probably but it's about

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Speaker 3: like people who play the Grand Triesmo video game and

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Speaker 3: then they are recruited to like play and there's a

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Speaker 3: and I don't I don't know what happened. I've seen

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Speaker 3: this guy before. I was never into him, and then

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Speaker 3: he showed up on the trailer and I was like,

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Speaker 3: same way I felt as like a young girl when

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Speaker 3: I've I talk about it on stage sometime when I

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm growing up because there's just when

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Speaker 4: Just so he's so fucking good.

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Speaker 3: about it desperately with people.

439
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,119
Speaker 4: And but so I wanted to.

440
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 1: Take a Barbenheimer phenomenon.

441
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't.

442
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,439
Speaker 3: My friend Lizzie saw Oppenheimer and she has a new

443
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 3: joke that she was like, I saw three movies this weekend.

444
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:28,200
Speaker 3: It was Oppenheimer, which I like because it was too long.

445
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,640
Speaker 3: Barbie's an hour and fifty four minutes.

446
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:31,439
Speaker 4: I checked.

447
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 3: I any movie I put in my phone, Google just

448
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,719
Speaker 3: fills in because it knows that I need to know

449
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 3: running time. Yeah, I need to know how long this

450
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 3: motherfucker is going to take. And you beite your ass.

451
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,399
Speaker 3: I knew exactly the I looked at my phone the

452
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 3: minute the trailer was trailers were over, so I could

453
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 3: go one hour and fifty four minutes from this time,

454
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 3: I will be out of here.

455
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 4: I'm just always looking for things to be over.

456
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oppenheimer, she said there was too much music in it,

457
00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 3: Like there's a beach scene and it's like.

458
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:02,640
Speaker 4: There's like he's going to bed.

459
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 3: They're like like it's like the music is constantly swelling

460
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 3: to this crescendo of of of anxiety, and yeah, I

461
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 3: just hear it's super anxious. But I do want to

462
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 3: see it just so I know references, and I would

463
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 3: like to see it with Chris, and I would like

464
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 3: to see it when we can pause it, because that

465
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:21,640
Speaker 3: was something I wanted to do during the Barbie movie.

466
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 3: I missed a good chunk because I had to go

467
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 3: to the bathroom at one point and I wanted to

468
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 3: pose it, but I couldn't do that.

469
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Speaker 1: But you know about the Barbenheimer phenomenon this meme.

470
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 4: Well, I know about people going to see a double.

471
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 3: Yes, many people did, because Oppenheimer only has made three

472
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,120
Speaker 3: hundred million and Barbie has made seven hundred million.

473
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 5: So yeah, well they definitely drafted off of each other,

474
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 5: and certainly Oppenheimer I think drafted off of Barbie because

475
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 5: I don't think it would have been as popular if not.

476
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:49,400
Speaker 1: I had no idea even.

477
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,640
Speaker 4: What that movie was until it was all a Barbie.

478
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 5: Like a different well it's like The Dark Knight and

479
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 5: then okay, exception and stuff.

480
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 3: So when boy read it, they were talking about Oppenheimer

481
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 3: a lot, like Chris already knew about it as soon

482
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 3: as I was like, what is this Oppenheimer thing? Because

483
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 3: I just only knew it as attached to Barbie. But

484
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 3: what a great marketing scheme.

485
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: Well, I think this. I think that they didn't plan this.

486
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:17,360
Speaker 5: I think this is the Internet being sarcastic and ironic

487
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 5: and saying that they're gonna go see both movies, and

488
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 5: then the studios just fucking hit the jackpot. It was

489
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 5: an organic meme that people only liked it because it

490
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 5: was so stupid. It happens on the Internet all the

491
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 5: time where something is so stupid that people then sarcastically

492
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,239
Speaker 5: and ironically pretend that they love it. So people did

493
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 5: go see both movies. And what I'm not looking forward

494
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 5: to is the next movie that those execs have. They

495
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 5: they're gonna think that they have a huge hit on

496
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 5: their hand based on their genius way Annington.

497
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 3: Yes, it's like you're gonna go see Paddington Too and

498
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 3: Grand Treason, and people are gonna be like, no, sorry,

499
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 3: nice try, and.

500
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: It's like, you're not a genius, nobody.

501
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 5: You didn't do anything to make all that money on

502
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 5: Oppenheimer and Barbie. It was because people found something randomly

503
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 5: so stupid that they went and did it, and you're

504
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 5: not gonna be able to recreate that. And I can

505
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 5: just picture the exec being like, yeah, I did, I

506
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 5: did Oppenheimer. I think I know what I'm doing around here,

507
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 5: and then they're gonna fucking have a flop their next movie.

508
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 5: Whoever the execs or producers of the people who made Oppenheimer,

509
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 5: their next movie will be a flop.

510
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: You heard it here. It's going to bomb. It's probably

511
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: gonna be like an eight.

512
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 5: It's probably gonna be like a one billion dollar budget,

513
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 5: and it's gonna and it's gonna make like three hundred

514
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 5: million or something.

515
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 3: I guarantee you guys know what Barbie is about, because

516
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 3: one of the reason I wanted to see Barbie more

517
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 3: than anything was like, what the fuck? How are they

518
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 3: going to make this a feminist statement? Like what are

519
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 3: they doing with it? What could the plot possibly be?

520
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 3: Chris and I were also talking about this, like how

521
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 3: could Barbie, how could this be a funny script, like

522
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 3: how could they make a like Barbie is a big

523
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 3: deal but it's not. I'm sorry, I think it's taking

524
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: on this cultural important that it really didn't have. Like

525
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 3: they're making a story about how Barbie is in all

526
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 3: of our lives and has been with us all along.

527
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 3: When I got to say, we all stop playing with Barbie,

528
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 3: and they Steven stayed in the movie around five years old.

529
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 3: And it's not like it's if you or maybe have

530
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 3: some kind of Down syndrome or something, Barbie has stayed

531
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 3: in your life until your adulthood. But and that is

532
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 3: no shade on people with Down syndrome, but they tend

533
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 3: to like childlike things well into their adulthood. You Barbie

534
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 3: is an afterthought. And it wasn't that I didn't like

535
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,239
Speaker 3: I didn't feel empowered by Barbie. It didn't make me

536
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 3: feel like I could go and get a job and

537
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 3: be an astronaut. Maybe it did, like maybe the Barbie

538
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 3: the Vet made me go, oh, I could be a vet.

539
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,439
Speaker 3: And it's it's it's as easy as like, you know,

540
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 3: there's just a picture of a dog skeleton on the wall,

541
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 3: and that's all I have to do all day is

542
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 3: just to have a stethoscope with a pawprint on it,

543
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 3: and there's a dog skeleton on my wall, and I

544
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 3: get the pet little dogs all day, and I get

545
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 3: to wear a cute little outfits. But Barbie did not

546
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 3: impact me this much. I think that was part of

547
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 3: their marketing scheme, was to sell us on the idea

548
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 3: that Barbie was a huge part of our lives when

549
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 3: it wasn't.

550
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 4: Do you know what the plot was? Can you guys

551
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 4: guess what it's about?

552
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 5: Well from the what I've heard some things about it,

553
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 5: but I'm going to guess that Barbie is in Barbieland

554
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 5: and then she gets zapped into the human world.

555
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 2: Yes, that's the guess, and she shows them that women

556
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 2: can do anything right. So the Pretty Women's promise is

557
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 2: is that Barbieland and real life are separate, which, okay,

558
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 2: that's great.

559
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 3: That makes it so it can be a thing. And

560
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 3: Mattel is aware of Barbieland and likes to keep Barbie

561
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 3: Land as Barbie Land and Barbieland has the disillusionment that

562
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 3: they've solved everything for women. In Barbieland, all the women

563
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 3: are like in charge of everything. Every woman is a

564
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 3: Supreme Court justice, every woman wins a new Nobel Prize.

565
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 4: Every woman in men are just.

566
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 3: Like less less than women are in the real world,

567
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 3: Like they're just they're an afterthought. No one even knows

568
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 3: where they live. They're just there. And like every night

569
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 3: is girls night. Ken always goes home alone. No one

570
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 3: even knows where he goes. He's just there. It's it's

571
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 3: Barbie and Ken.

572
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 2: This world is created by a large corporation called Mattel.

573
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 3: Yes, oh okay, yes, but they it's it's like it's

574
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 3: it's self. It's exit. Mattel's not controlling it. It's not

575
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 3: like Truman Show. It's just it's the world. And they

576
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 3: walk around on their tiptoes and then things start to

577
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 3: go haywire, where Barbie starts to like have thoughts of

578
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 3: death and like have flat feet. And this is in

579
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 3: the beginning of the movie, and they realize that there's

580
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 3: some kind of you.

581
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 4: It's just you can make up anything.

582
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 3: They're like, there is a portal that's open and somehow

583
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 3: the real world thoughts of like what the real world

584
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 3: is like for women is entering into Barbieland and it's

585
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 3: and all the Barbiees are freaking out that she has

586
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: flat feet and they're.

587
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 4: Like, oh my god, you have to go see Weird Barbie.

588
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: And Weird Barbie is this Barbie that represents like the girl,

589
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 3: the Barbie that has like cut hair and like marker

590
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 3: on her face and like girls like is always in

591
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 3: the Splits, And that's played by Kate McKinnon, who's genius. Anyway,

592
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 3: I thought it was very interesting how they did it,

593
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: and I'm always curious, like when you have the concept of, like,

594
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 3: what's a Barbie movie. I don't know how they're gonna

595
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 3: do Polly Pocket the movie, but I guess it's being made,

596
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 3: like they're gonna try to recreate this for every time.

597
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,439
Speaker 5: It's an epidemic in Hollywood. I mean every fucking show

598
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 5: and movie free. It doesn't matter, as Hollywood execs are

599
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 5: afraid to make new things these days. All they do

600
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 5: is make things with pre existing ip unless it's like

601
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 5: then even Oppenheimer is a historical thing. But if you

602
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 5: can attach a a someone who already had a successful thing,

603
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 5: then they can make what they want. But if it's

604
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 5: a if it's a new person, it can either be

605
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 5: superheroes or it can be pre existing ep There must

606
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 5: be something attached they're running out.

607
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 3: People are talking about how Barbie isn't like is a

608
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 3: new concept. No, it's pre existing IP. Yes, so it's

609
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 3: it really wasn't anything original.

610
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 6: Grants pre existing IP, yes, every every I mean, yeah,

611
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 6: there was there's a new Marvel DC character coming out,

612
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 6: Beetlebug or something.

613
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a there's the Blue Beetle, which is DC's

614
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: So DC is like, there's a radioactive bug who bites

615
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: somebody and then they get superpowers and they're gonna just

616
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: pretend like we didn't already see seven thousand Spider Man movies.

617
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 3: I mean insane. That movie looks truly atrocious. It's just

618
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 3: like Granny has a gun. Like the pivotal moment in

619
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 3: the movie is in the trailer where it's all of

620
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 3: a sudden, a granny like someone's Abulita like has a

621
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 3: huge machine gun and they're like Granny, no, and she's like,

622
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 3: I got it, kids, and it's like, that's the why

623
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 3: did you show us that?

624
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 4: Like that is the.

625
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 3: Funniest thing that in the movie, because it's all they have.

626
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 3: Trailers suck now, they just give away everything. I didn't

627
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 3: even watch the Barbie trailers. If they would have left

628
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 3: the foot moment for the Barbie trailer, like that would

629
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 3: have been a crucial moment in the there's funny stuff

630
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 3: that happens, but they they gave away all the funny

631
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 3: moments in Barbie, and I just gave away another one

632
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 3: that actually would have been saved.

633
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 4: But then, but yeah, the Barbie movie did make me.

634
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 3: Later on, I was on I did like nine sets

635
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 3: this weekend, not like nine, I did nine sets this weekend,

636
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 3: and I was getting into some like feminist stuff that

637
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: was maybe sometimes a little bit over the top, and I, oh,

638
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 3: at one point, I go listen, I know it's.

639
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 4: Hard for men too. I saw Barbie, and the crowd fucking.

640
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 3: Exploded because it was exactly what that movie was about.

641
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 3: Was like, men don't want to see it because it's like, oh,

642
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 3: it's anti men. I guess, like some right wing people

643
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 3: are like up in arms, but don't go see Barbie

644
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 3: because it's a feminist movie. Like that would be such

645
00:30:55,160 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 3: a horrible thing, I guess, But it's it's Yeah, you

646
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 3: were talking head on. I was almost gonna say Tucker Carlson,

647
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 3: but that's not on anymore. Yeah, I don't know any

648
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 3: Fox and Friends, Gottfield. Yeah, so yeah, it it what

649
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 3: it did. If anything, it made me feel like bad

650
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 3: for men and make me go like, oh, men need

651
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 3: to be supported more and need more emotional support. They're

652
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 3: kind of lost, which I guess is also not a

653
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 3: good Like you know, Fox and Friends, people would think

654
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 3: that's like that's men aren't lost, they don't need to cry.

655
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 5: But it was about for men these days, you know,

656
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 5: we had a grapple with the with the fact that

657
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 5: people are questioning our power.

658
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 4: Well, yes, it's that.

659
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 3: I mean, listen, I love playing that card of like,

660
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 3: oh poor men, you've had it good for so long.

661
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 4: Now it's our.

662
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 3: Turn when when oh you can't cry, you're you're sad

663
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 3: and isolated. But the truth is they are men are.

664
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 3: Men don't have as many like men don't have girls chats,

665
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 3: Men don't have emotional support. They don't need it as

666
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 3: much because women are just fucking banana when it comes

667
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 3: to emotions. But it is, there is a problem there,

668
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:08,239
Speaker 3: and men don't need to be mocked for being like

669
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 3: having a stiff upper lip and like being a little

670
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 3: bit and being angry because they do they have like

671
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 3: a lot of rage hormones that we don't have. That

672
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 3: thank God, we don't have it that they don't know

673
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 3: what to do with.

674
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Speaker 2: There is a great book that is on my reading list.

675
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: They actually started reading it a while ago and then

676
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 2: I stopped, and it talks about how men handle depression

677
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 2: and their communication is so different than the way women

678
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: do it. It's actually a book that's written for men,

679
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 2: not really, you know, but it still gives like a

680
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: good view of it for other people who might want

681
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: to read it. It's Terrence Reel who I'm reading his

682
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 2: other book. It's called I Don't Want to Talk About It.

683
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and I what a great what a great title.

684
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

685
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that that's how men, the most of

686
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 3: the men that I know, handle any.

687
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 2: They they handle depression by actually like doing stuff. So

688
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,479
Speaker 2: it's like they will go and they'll start hitting nails

689
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: into like a wooden plank and fix up the porch

690
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 2: or something. That's how they handle depression. And we turned

691
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: to our girlfriends to actually talk and have like emotional

692
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: process it.

693
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 3: Aud ability, Yeah, well, dude, does building a porch help

694
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 3: them process it?

695
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 4: Though?

696
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 5: Like?

697
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 3: Is it is that helpful? Or is it like they're

698
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 3: just building a porch around their problems? No, it's that

699
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 3: that is how they cope, and so it does.

700
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 4: Work for them.

701
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 5: Yes, I mean I keep saying they and am like

702
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 5: what Like, I mean, I'm a man. I'm not building

703
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 5: the porch when I get upset.

704
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 3: Well, you might do, Brian, You're different. You're different. You

705
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 3: have like a more feminine energy in that way. Like

706
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 3: Brian has friends that he talks to about his feelings.

707
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 3: How did for men listening who don't have that, Like

708
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 3: is that something you've always had? Is it something you

709
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 3: realized you were lacking? Like you do seem to process

710
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 3: your feelings in a way that I relate to at

711
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 3: least were not including you.

712
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, get out.

713
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 5: I don't know. I think I think there's just men

714
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 5: who are like me. And there are men who, you know,

715
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 5: bury everything and hammer nails into wood in order to

716
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 5: get rid of their feelings. But I mean, I did

717
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 5: go to therapy for a little long time, but I

718
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 5: think I'm done. I don't think I have to do.

719
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 3: I think you were a pussy for going, Like was

720
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 3: it hard to get you to go the first time?

721
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 5: Like?

722
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 4: How did you get in there?

723
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: No? Not at all.

724
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 5: I thought I thought it was great. I never thought

725
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 5: I was a pussy and I do know. I think

726
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 5: it's there is cultural. You know, people who when they

727
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 5: grow up and around, maybe your older brother calls you

728
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 5: a pussy for going to therapy or something like that,

729
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 5: and they get beaten out of you that.

730
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: Way, or if you're on the football team.

731
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 5: And that's why there's a lot of football teams like

732
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 5: the Indianapolis Colts, who they're like they're charity. You know,

733
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 5: every football team's got like a here's our you know

734
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 5: how like PEPSI is like we're going to do houses

735
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 5: for dogs or whatever. Indianapolis Colts charity is kick the

736
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 5: stigma of talking about your mental health. So it is

737
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 5: like a thing in sports too. But I never had

738
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 5: a problem with it, and I always I think I'm

739
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 5: open with complaining about all sorts of things. So I

740
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 5: think that's where it comes from. Is all this, I mean,

741
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 5: how does go on and on? I talk a lot.

742
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 5: I just talked to you just now.

743
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 3: No, uh no, like what I mean, we welcome to

744
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 3: the show. I mean that's uh yeah, you do talk

745
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 3: a lot. You talk things out, and you have a

746
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:30,399
Speaker 3: more analytical approach to talking. You're not as feelings based

747
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 3: as facts based. I've noticed when you talk yeah, which

748
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 3: I think is probably more masculine, but you do have

749
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: a lot of logic and like your mattress saga has

750
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 3: been a fascinating one to to live through. Brian bought

751
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 3: a temper pedic mattress and I'm not joking you. Let

752
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 3: me just tell Noah, how many hours do you think

753
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 3: Brian spent at the mattress store the day that he

754
00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 3: purchased his mattress. Before making that purchase, how many hours

755
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,919
Speaker 3: do you think he spent just that one mattress store.

756
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 4: Was it one mattress store?

757
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 3: Brian?

758
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was that one mattress store temper Pedic.

759
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 4: Okay, our uh yeah? How many hours?

760
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 2: I mean, I can't imagine spending more than like an hour,

761
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 2: and with the buying process, maybe like an hour.

762
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 3: That this question is probably a significant amount of time.

763
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 3: And it's Brian, like, what would you guess if you

764
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 3: were a betting woman that it's it's you know what,

765
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 3: I know, what you and I would do is probably

766
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 3: like more than an hour and a half is like excruciating.

767
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 4: But what do you think, Brian?

768
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 2: So if you didn't frame the question in a way

769
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 2: where I would be able to tell that he spent

770
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: probably like five hours at the store. I think I

771
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 2: would say that Brian went to the store multiple times

772
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 2: to just be sure.

773
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 4: It's one time, one time.

774
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 6: So.

775
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 4: I don't know.

776
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: I guess I'm thinking about how long I spent and

777
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: I just knew it like immediately, so I would say,

778
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: like an hour and a half.

779
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 3: Okay, Brian, how many hours did you spend the store before?

780
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, this was the second time I

781
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:56,760
Speaker 1: went to the store.

782
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, I didn't know it.

783
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 5: Relative than this, But the day I bought the bed,

784
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 5: I spent six hours at the mattress store sick. And

785
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 5: I kept saying, am I the most annoying mattress purchaser

786
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 5: you guys have ever had? And they're like, no, no,

787
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 5: And then they did that thing where they're they go

788
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 5: up into a falsetto and they.

789
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 3: They also turn over to different shifts of people.

790
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 1: Well that's what happened.

791
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 5: It got to be so long that I said to

792
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 5: a guy one of the there's two guys, and one

793
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 5: of the guys like, well, I'm gonna take my lunch break,

794
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 5: and so he left, and then I turned to the

795
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 5: other guy and I was like, do you need a

796
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 5: lunch break? I mean, we've been here for like three

797
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 5: and three and a half hours, and he's like, no, no, no,

798
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 5: I don't need a lunch break. Actually, you know, I

799
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 5: actually get a little bonus for pushing my lunch break.

800
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 5: So it's actually good that you're here for so long

801
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 5: because I can get a little bit of money. Because

802
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 5: you're here for so long on my lunch break, what

803
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 5: are you doing?

804
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,919
Speaker 3: No sense to me how you could spend this long

805
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 3: of a time and you have someone assisting you the

806
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 3: entire six hours.

807
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 4: You no point where you like go.

808
00:37:58,640 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: Take an at.

809
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 5: I said to the I was like, don't you need

810
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 5: a lunch break? And he said no. I get a

811
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 5: little bump, and then another.

812
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 4: It was just hanging out with you for six hours?

813
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 4: Have you seen him since?

814
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 1: I lay down? And then I say, can you please?

815
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,959
Speaker 1: Can you? Yeah? So I go there every few days

816
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: and lay down and we maybe you.

817
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 5: Lay down on each mattress for fifteen You have to

818
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 5: lay down for fifteen minutes to get a feel for it.

819
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 5: So I told the guy, I said, you don't have

820
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,959
Speaker 5: to lay here next to me or to stand around

821
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 5: and watch me lay Just go do whatever you want

822
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 5: and I'll let you know when I need you, and

823
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 5: he said fine, And then an hour and a half

824
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 5: passed and he comes up to me and he goes, listen,

825
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 5: I really gotta get lunch. I'm really hungry. And I

826
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 5: was like, so go get luck. Like he was the

827
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 5: guy who was like, don't worry about it, I don't

828
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 5: need lunch, and he's like, yeah, listen, enough time. I

829
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 5: didn't think you're gonna be here for five hours. I

830
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 5: need to get lunch. So I was like, I'll tell

831
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 5: you what. I'll go get lunch also, and then you

832
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 5: get lunch and then we'll reconvene after a lunch break.

833
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 1: So he did that. I left for twenty minutes.

834
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:56,240
Speaker 5: I got a smoothie, and then I came back and

835
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 5: we both took a lunch break and then finished the

836
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 5: six hours. And then I looked. I tried all of

837
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 5: these mattresses I laid in.

838
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 4: There was sleep at any of them.

839
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 3: It was like fifteen minutes you would just lay there

840
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 3: and like toss and turn or like what would you

841
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 3: do for fifteen minutes? Would you be on your phone

842
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 3: or would you just stare at the wall, like what?

843
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 5: Sometimes I'd be on my phone and sometimes there'd be

844
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 5: another customer. There was this other guy who was also

845
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 5: looking for a mattress, and then and we laid in

846
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 5: bed together and we talked about the bed for fifteen minutes.

847
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 5: That guy wound up buying a different bed than me.

848
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 5: There is another guy who came in who had the

849
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 5: same story as me, where he's like and he was

850
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 5: definitely rich. I mean, he did not give a fuck

851
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,240
Speaker 5: about buying the mattress. He was like, I will drop

852
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 5: fifty He kept saying. This guy came in and he

853
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 5: kept saying to the guy, He's like, I have a mattress.

854
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: I don't like it.

855
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 5: I spent a ridiculous amount of money on this mattress

856
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 5: and I can't It was the worst money ever spent.

857
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 5: It was this outrageous amount of money and I was

858
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 5: not comfortable in it. My wife hates stince. We just

859
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,959
Speaker 5: want to get a new mattress. And I was like, oh, yeah,

860
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,280
Speaker 5: I did the same thing. I bought a really expensive mattress.

861
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 5: I had it for three years and I hate it.

862
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 5: And then I was like, yeah, it was like I

863
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 5: spent like five thousand dollars on a mattress. I threw

864
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 5: five thousand dollars at him and I could just see

865
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 5: it in his eyes. He's like, I'm not telling you

866
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 5: how much I spent on my mattress because it was

867
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 5: probably something like twenty to thirty thousand dollars, which you

868
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 5: can buy a custom made, like fancy mattress for that.

869
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 3: Because he looked, I think him say, I'll buy your

870
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,479
Speaker 3: mattress from you and try it out, because that guy's

871
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:31,720
Speaker 3: just going to put it out on the street.

872
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 4: Rich people don't care about reselling things.

873
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I wanted a temperped it and so did he.

874
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: Oh right.

875
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 5: He just looked like a Beverly Hills rich guy, and

876
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 5: I was like, uh, five thousand dollars mattress is the

877
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 5: equivalent of getting a wayfair clear and sale mattress to him.

878
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 5: But then you wind up buying the most expensive mattress

879
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 5: in the store, So did you?

880
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: So did?

881
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 5: I a different firmness level, but I got the same one,

882
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 5: and I fucking hate it. I spent six hours in

883
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 5: that store laying in all the mattress.

884
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 4: This didn't work for you? Six hours?

885
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: No, it would have been.

886
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,720
Speaker 4: Because I asked Brian.

887
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 3: The reason I know about six hours is he's talking

888
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 3: about this mattress that you know he has and he

889
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 3: hates and I and I hate to be like my

890
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 3: mom because my mom would go to go then why did.

891
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 4: You buy it?

892
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 1: Nick?

893
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 3: And it's like, well, I didn't know I was gonna

894
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 3: hate it. The answer to that is like, because I

895
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 3: didn't know. But I eventually asked, Brian, why did you

896
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 3: buy this mattress if you knew what you wanted and

897
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 3: it goes against what you want because Brian wanted to

898
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 3: temperpede it because he wanted that like sinking feeling where

899
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 3: it like encapsulates you. Yeah, but then he ended up

900
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 3: buying like a hybrid that's like a half spring half that.

901
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 3: So it's like it was called the Luxe.

902
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,720
Speaker 5: The lux Breeze Medium Hybrid, and it's not Breeze Medium Hybrid.

903
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 5: It's not that I it's not that hybrid's bad. It's

904
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 5: that these breezes are so fucking stiff. I really do

905
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 5: think they're going to discontinue them, because there's just no

906
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 5: way they intend the bed to feel like this.

907
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: There's just no way.

908
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 4: But I go, I say, Brian, why did you get

909
00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 4: this mattress?

910
00:41:59,000 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 5: Then?

911
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 4: Like, how are you?

912
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 3: There's six and he goes because I was tired and

913
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 3: I was disoriented. I was hungry, and I didn't know

914
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 3: where he was anymore, Like he had been in this

915
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 3: fucking story for so long. But in the end it

916
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 3: backfired because he was like he hadn't seen sunlight in

917
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 3: over six hours.

918
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 4: He was like starting to lose his mind.

919
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 2: I never give myself that much time to make a

920
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 2: decision about nothing. The other day, I went and I

921
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 2: got my nail hand on, and I wanted a pink

922
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 2: for Barbie, even though I didn't see the movie.

923
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, your pink is so good. Noah, I've been looking

924
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 3: at with the green sweatshirt that you're wearing. It's perfect.

925
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: Thank you.

926
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 4: I picked a pink.

927
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 2: She put it on and it was sheer, and I

928
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 2: was like, uh, I don't want sheer. I wanted to cover.

929
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: So she went and she brought me like three other colors.

930
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: She put the first one on and then she was

931
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 2: going to do the other one, and I was like,

932
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 2: you know what, don't even give me the choices. I

933
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 2: like this, like the one you put on my pinky.

934
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 2: Let's keep it that way.

935
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 3: Same same I Canno went and got my nails button

936
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 3: yesterday and the guy's like, is this good? He like,

937
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 3: you know, did a rounded one and I was like.

938
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, fire, it's fine.

939
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 3: When they asked me rounded or or flat or coffin shaped,

940
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm thinking about coffins right now because I

941
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:10,919
Speaker 3: feel so bad that I don't care.

942
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 4: I just don't care.

943
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 3: I've never I don't even know what woman would ever

944
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 3: be like, I need it to be this shape of roundness,

945
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 3: and they're all fucked up. The problem with going to

946
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 3: Nailsalon's is they glop it on too much and then

947
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:26,720
Speaker 3: it will never dry. My toes were still not dry,

948
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 3: and I was pressing into them just to show how

949
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 3: they weren't dry six hours later. I could have bought

950
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 3: a mattress in that time, and I was pressing into

951
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 3: that and they still weren't dry.

952
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 4: That is absurd. I want to go back there today.

953
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 3: I have an hour and a half and it's thirty

954
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 3: minutes away, but I want to drive back there just

955
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,720
Speaker 3: to say, look at this, this damage happened six hours

956
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 3: after you guys painted it, and then not do anything

957
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 3: because they'll just do it again, Like I just want

958
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 3: them to see. And I forgot my sunglasses there. Do

959
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 3: you ever forget something and you just go how much

960
00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 3: were those sunglasses? They were eighty five dollars. Okay, I

961
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 3: wore them for two two months. That was pretty That

962
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 3: was probably like twenty dollars worth of wearing for like

963
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 3: when I really expected to lose these things. This place

964
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 3: is thirty minutes away, hmm. I don't even know if

965
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 3: they have it, and I don't want to call ahead

966
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 3: because they don't really speak English and they don't seem

967
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 3: to like want to answer their phones based on when

968
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 3: I was there. So maybe I'd just say goodbye to

969
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 3: those glasses forever.

970
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 5: What you just described is my thought process for every

971
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:26,320
Speaker 5: single decision I make about anything.

972
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 3: Really, that's all seemed like you don't seem to value

973
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 3: your time. If I was to be guessing about how

974
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 3: you manage your li.

975
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 5: I am valuing my time because I knew that if

976
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 5: I picked the wrong mattress, I would suffer, and that

977
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 5: would cost me way more time.

978
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 3: It'd suffer. I know it is wasted so much of

979
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 3: your time. Yesterday he went on another mattress.

980
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 4: What I went.

981
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: I went to Macy's and I went to another Well.

982
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 4: I want you just to get rid of this mattress.

983
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 5: He hates it, this mattress So the thing about temper

984
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 5: Pedix is that there's a breaking period and like they

985
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:58,800
Speaker 5: say that you have to lay in it for thirty

986
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 5: days and then it'll it'll feel more like.

987
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 4: This, it's more than thirty days.

988
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 3: Well whatever, that's the ninety days is the time he

989
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 3: has to return it. But if he returns it, he's

990
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 3: got to pay a restocking fee. But he also has

991
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 3: the chance to return it, and then they just give

992
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 3: you another mattress and it's a fine and there's no

993
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:21,280
Speaker 3: restocking fee. So that discourages people from, you know, returning

994
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 3: it and then buying a new one. But if he

995
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 3: gets a new mattress without the restocking fee, if they

996
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,280
Speaker 3: just exchange it and it's a clear exchange, he's stuck

997
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 3: with it. There's no ninety day, So he is him

998
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 3: a dilemma of what does he do, because I would say,

999
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: just go with the one. You know, now you've been

1000
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 3: back to the store, you've tested your mattress that you

1001
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 3: thought you wanted. It sucks that even there now you

1002
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 3: realize when you got it you were not in the

1003
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:47,880
Speaker 3: right state of mind. Get a mattress now that feels

1004
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 3: like the one that you originally wanted. The temper pedic

1005
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 3: that fits to your body, not this hybrid bullshit. Not

1006
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 3: the breeze bullshit. The breeze and but he But then

1007
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 3: I think about that and I go, Nope, I think

1008
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 3: I think it's too much of a risk. Brian is

1009
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 3: too sensitive of a boy. He's not gonna like this mattress.

1010
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 3: It's just too much of a I just I'm stressed

1011
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 3: out for you, man.

1012
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 4: I don't know how you're going to do this.

1013
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 5: I went to the mattress store yesterday and I laid

1014
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 5: in the I laid in the Breeze Hybrid, the one

1015
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 5: that I bought, because I was like, did I just

1016
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 5: totally fuck this up? Because I must have laid it

1017
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 5: in the store and thought it was comfortable, That's why

1018
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 5: I bought it. This just must not be broken in yet.

1019
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 5: So I went to the store because I was like,

1020
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 5: I want to lay in the mattress that I bought

1021
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 5: and see how it's supposed to feel smart.

1022
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: So I did that. I laid in it, and I

1023
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 1: was like, this is the worst mattress I've ever laid it.

1024
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: Oh what a day.

1025
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 5: It's like, my mattress isn't broken in the one of

1026
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 5: the store is broken in and it's like two percent softer.

1027
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 3: I just don't understand. I gotta feel this mattress. I

1028
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 3: want to come over and lay it before all. Mean,

1029
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 3: imagine mattress being so fucking bad that you have horrible

1030
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 3: night's sleep. Your back is like cracking in half from

1031
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 3: the sleep. Like I've just never heard of a mattress

1032
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 3: being that bad, unless it had like spikes on it,

1033
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 3: like I don't, or unless it was like a there

1034
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 3: are spikes sofa mattress that you has a bar going

1035
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 3: through it.

1036
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 5: There are spikes on the end and then cut you

1037
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 5: and then there's like a river of acid that flows

1038
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 5: through the middle.

1039
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 3: That's what keeps saying out like it every time I

1040
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 3: see you. You're just like the worst night to sleep

1041
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 3: of my life.

1042
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it really sucks with me. Fucking My wife

1043
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 5: played in it. And you know she has her own

1044
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 5: bed much softer my wife, so she doesn't have to

1045
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 5: do anything with this.

1046
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:32,359
Speaker 1: My wife waits on you.

1047
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 4: To sleep in the same bed, her bed.

1048
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: She laid in the bed and she said size bed.

1049
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 5: She's got a king sized bed all to herself, and

1050
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 5: she sprawls out like a starfish right.

1051
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 1: In the middle.

1052
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 3: Now for now can you sleep in her bed so

1053
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 3: you don't have to like torture yourself anymore.

1054
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:47,919
Speaker 4: You know, I'm getting rid of this one.

1055
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,880
Speaker 5: Well, I am torturing myself because just in case it

1056
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 5: breaks in and I'm like, you know what, I actually

1057
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 5: love this bed like like Noah was to taste someone.

1058
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 3: To lay in it while you're at work or something

1059
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 3: like to break it in faster? What's and are I

1060
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 3: guess gets broken in at the store because people are

1061
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 3: laying in.

1062
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 5: That is what I don't understand is how temper Pedic

1063
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 5: could sell people a mattress that feels like shit for

1064
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 5: ninety days and that's not just me for many people.

1065
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 4: Why How could you're reading consumer reviews.

1066
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: And read it?

1067
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 2: How could I make that company repedic mattress? And I

1068
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 2: love it? So two opposing views here it's the best

1069
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 2: and your dress ever? Do we know what model you have?

1070
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 2: You know, I was just trying to search through my

1071
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 2: email for it to see, but it might be it

1072
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 2: is it has like that cooling technology in it, so

1073
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 2: I think it maybe you'll.

1074
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 5: Have cooling technology, but this is the latest cooling technology.

1075
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 3: And anyone's saying doesn't want to be cool when they sleep,

1076
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 3: and why is this a new technology? This is like

1077
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,919
Speaker 3: wheels on luggage, hasn't Everyone always wanted to be cool

1078
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 3: with the memory foam.

1079
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 5: Mattresses sleep really hot. They sleep really how. You sink

1080
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 5: into them and it heats up. And that was the

1081
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 5: initial complaint about memory foam is that they sleep too hot.

1082
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: I sweat all night.

1083
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 5: So they started injecting this cooling technology into their mattress

1084
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 5: and now I think.

1085
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: They've gone too far.

1086
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 5: But my wife laid in this mattress and she said,

1087
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 5: I would rather sleep on the floor than sleep on

1088
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:08,240
Speaker 5: this mattress.

1089
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: That's how stiff and hard it is. Anyway, I don't

1090
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: know what you're going to do.

1091
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure I'm gonna return and then get a

1092
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 5: temper pedic Hybrid medium non breeze pro adapt. Okay, but

1093
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,240
Speaker 5: you know when you were talking about you lose stuff

1094
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 5: like you like your sunglasses, or you leave it somewhere.

1095
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:33,720
Speaker 1: I lost my wallet this weekend.

1096
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it sucks.

1097
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1098
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 5: I lost my wallet and Allie said, so this is

1099
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 5: like this is where like my I don't know if

1100
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 5: I don't have feelings or something, but I lost the

1101
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 5: wallet and I realized it was lost and I've just

1102
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 5: always been this way. I just instantaneously moved on from

1103
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 5: the fact that I lost it, and within thirty minutes

1104
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 5: I had replaced everything in the wallet. And Ali said

1105
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:05,399
Speaker 5: that I have never seen someone move from like realization

1106
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 5: to losing something like that to like having it all

1107
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 5: taken care of so quickly.

1108
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 4: I'm very similar.

1109
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 3: I realized that when I left, I left my purse

1110
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 3: in a cab one time, and I remember someone was.

1111
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 4: Over my house.

1112
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 3: When I realized it might have been Andrew, I was

1113
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 3: at my apartment in New York. I realized I just

1114
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 3: got out of a cab and gotten up to my apartment,

1115
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 3: four floor walk up and I get up there. We're

1116
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 3: up there for like a half hour, and I go,

1117
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 3: oh my god, and I know exactly what happened. There's

1118
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 3: no even question where it could be. Yeah, and I

1119
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 3: just was like, all right, well that it's just immediate

1120
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 3: acceptance because any of this, like, oh God, no, I

1121
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 3: think it's a rebellion of my parents, because again my

1122
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 3: parents would be like.

1123
00:50:56,680 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 4: Why did you leave it there? Yeah, because I wanted to.

1124
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 3: I really like losing things and replacing all my credit cards.

1125
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 3: Like my mom's questions constantly is like why wouldn't you

1126
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 3: look before you got out? Just like just this constant

1127
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 3: shame of like how dumb are you to have done

1128
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 3: this thing?

1129
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 4: Like it's your fault.

1130
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 3: And so now I think I just in rebellion to that,

1131
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 3: which is a great thing. I just go immediately to acceptance.

1132
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 3: It's gone, let's figure this out. Like what I realized

1133
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 3: yesterday I lost my glasses. It was just like, okay,

1134
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,799
Speaker 3: do I care? I got some good times with them,

1135
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 3: that was fun, Like they they're cute. I think they're

1136
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 3: still in stock. I could still get them, and you

1137
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 3: know we had that was I expected to lose them eventually,

1138
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 3: and it just happened sooner than later. There was a

1139
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 3: moment of like, man, they were in my lap. I

1140
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 3: knew I should have put them in my bag. Yeah, bad, bad, Nikki.

1141
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 3: And it was probably for a point four seconds that

1142
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 3: I felt that way. I pictured them in my lap,

1143
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 3: and I picture putting them in my purse, and I go,

1144
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 3: why didn't you do that? And maybe I'll do it

1145
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 3: next time. But there's no point in beating yourself up,

1146
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 3: because that doesn't bring them back. I used to get

1147
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 3: I used to get like scolded and like, well, you're

1148
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 3: not getting another one. You're not getting another one. And

1149
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 3: I always lose my accessories, like there's all I hope

1150
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 3: I don't ever lose my engagement ring. This one I

1151
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 3: really look at, but I know that everything else that's

1152
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 3: jewelry is gonna be lost one day unless I keep

1153
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 3: it in a safe and never touch it. And I

1154
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 3: always let myself off the hook for it because when

1155
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 3: I was younger, I was told, well, you're never gonna

1156
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 3: get another one again.

1157
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 4: We're not buying you one.

1158
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,440
Speaker 2: And now I'm just like, well, I work and I

1159
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 2: can buy myself another one if I lose it, no

1160
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:38,799
Speaker 2: big deal.

1161
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.

1162
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 3: I was always just told this is why you can't

1163
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 3: have anything nice.

1164
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:44,760
Speaker 4: You lose everything.

1165
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 3: You treat everything poorly, you don't care about nice things.

1166
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 4: You just don't deserve nice things.

1167
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 3: And I've been like thinking about it recently and I've

1168
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 3: been talking about it on stage, But I never got

1169
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 3: an American girl doll and my sister dead, and I

1170
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 3: really think it was because and she to this day

1171
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,839
Speaker 3: is like a much more organized person, has three kids

1172
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 3: of her own, keeps track of everything, just is like

1173
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 3: such a good efficient mom. And my parents just kind

1174
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 3: of knew this was not I was not to be

1175
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 3: in charge of an American girl doll. They had too

1176
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:18,280
Speaker 3: much going on. My sister always got like Littlest Pet Shop.

1177
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 3: Those had so many little accessories. I was not going

1178
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 3: to keep track of all that bullshit, and like Molly's

1179
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 3: chalkboard and ADDIE's basket. I it was just everything was

1180
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 3: gonna get lost. And I'm still to this day and

1181
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 3: it is nice. I think that is a reason why

1182
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 3: I have like being well off in that way, because

1183
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 3: now I kind of just I don't know when when

1184
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 3: I do lose something, or I'm like, oh, we can

1185
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 3: just get another, like I do like the casualness with

1186
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:53,399
Speaker 3: which with I get to respond to these things, because

1187
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 3: my mom still does have that in her where it's like, Nick,

1188
00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 3: you really you gotta stain on that? Ah, where'd you

1189
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 3: get this?

1190
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 4: You just gotta go.

1191
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 3: I'll just get another. It was forty five bucks, it's

1192
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 3: not a big deal. She's like, oh, I can get

1193
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 3: that out, and I go, nope, I have muddy like

1194
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 3: I just liked it. It's like this little fuck you

1195
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 3: to the chronic shame. I felt afliding everything. We'll be

1196
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 3: right back after this and talk about more stuff. I

1197
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 3: want to get into a book.

1198
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 4: That Noah is reading.

1199
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 3: Okay, we're back. Wait, one more thing Brian needs to

1200
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 3: say about this wallet.

1201
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 5: So I lost the walle I knew exactly where I

1202
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 5: lost it. It fell out of my fucking fanny pack,

1203
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 5: which I have a habit of not zipping it up

1204
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 5: and just walking around with it flopping around. And I

1205
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 5: remember I was out a farmer's market once and I

1206
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 5: had it unzipped and the farmer's market guy was like,

1207
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 5: you gotta zip your fanny pack. And I was like, nah,

1208
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 5: I'm fine. And that's when the writing was on the

1209
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 5: wall that one day I would lose my wallet. And

1210
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 5: so six months later, my wallet falls out of my

1211
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 5: fanny pack at a gas station.

1212
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 1: I lost at the gas station.

1213
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 5: I was like talking on the phone filling my gas

1214
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 5: with my fanny pack just open, just like you you don't.

1215
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: Check on the phone.

1216
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, this is a lesson, like you could actually

1217
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 5: something could fall out of it.

1218
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 3: You love talking on the phone so much, And we

1219
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 3: were talking about this and it's like, stop talking on

1220
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 3: the phone.

1221
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 4: Just text people.

1222
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: No, it's goods good.

1223
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:13,839
Speaker 4: You love a phone call.

1224
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 5: I'll talk for hours on the phone, I'll talk. The

1225
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 5: only thing I'll do for longer than that is as

1226
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 5: trut mattresses mattress. I was talking on the phone, so

1227
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 5: I was distracted. I was filling up gas. I bought

1228
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 5: a lottery ticket and then I dropped the wallet. The

1229
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 5: lottery ticket was not in the wallet. But the reason

1230
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 5: I the way I learned that my wallet was stolen

1231
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 5: because I texted you. I was like, hey, if is

1232
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 5: your is the wallet in your hotel room? I uh

1233
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 5: called the gas station. I said, did anybody return the wallet?

1234
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 5: And they said no, And then I saw on my

1235
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 5: Chase account that there had been some purchases made. And

1236
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 5: then they and I looked up online what are the

1237
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 5: chances that somebody finds your wallet and returns it? And

1238
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,959
Speaker 5: they said that statistically it's a fifty to fifty chance

1239
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 5: that fifty percent of the time when someone finds a wallet,

1240
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 5: they returned it. And then I was so this, So

1241
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 5: I was looking at this guy he made he took

1242
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 5: my wallet and he bought two hundred and fifty dollars

1243
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 5: worth of vans. He went to Vans and then he

1244
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 5: spent eighty dollars at his seven eleven And I'm just

1245
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 5: like what, I don't think it's a kid.

1246
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:15,359
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a kid.

1247
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 5: I just think it's what what kind of piece of

1248
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 5: shit person sees a wallet on the ground and their

1249
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 5: first thought is to immediately immediately drive to the mall

1250
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 5: he drew mall?

1251
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 4: Kid? A kid?

1252
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 1: You think it was a kid?

1253
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 4: I don't want want honestly vans. Yes, I think it was.

1254
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 1: No, it's not just kids who want vans.

1255
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 4: I wonder what size they were. We could we could

1256
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 4: find out.

1257
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: There there were baby shoes, and it's probably first Yeah,

1258
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 1: I think a team, like maybe it was a teen.

1259
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 3: I've had that moment where I remember in college there

1260
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:49,760
Speaker 3: was a girl walking in front of me who dropped

1261
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 3: some cash and I just pocketed it. And I'll never

1262
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 3: forget how wrong that felt, and like what the fuck?

1263
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 3: Like I get it. If you find cash and no

1264
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 3: one's around, like I I'm not going to do a

1265
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 3: lot to be like did anyone drop some cash?

1266
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 4: So it's like the worst.

1267
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 5: Thing you can do is say is take the cash

1268
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 5: and try to give it to someone at the hotel

1269
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 5: desk or this crazy can you turn this cash? If

1270
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 5: someone comes by looking for the cash.

1271
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 4: I'd never in a million years do that.

1272
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 3: But I saw this crash fall out of the girl's

1273
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 3: pocket and I pocketed it. And it's one of the

1274
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 3: worst things I've ever done in my life. I really,

1275
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 3: I'm embarrassed to even admit that I did it. And

1276
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 3: it was like three dollars. I'm not it was like

1277
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 3: no money. But I was going through a hard time.

1278
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 3: I mean I was a klepto back then anyway. And

1279
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 3: but yeah, the the the sociopathy that has to be

1280
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 3: going on in your head to steal and think it's

1281
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 3: a sociopathic.

1282
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 5: My idea was at least given the ID to the like,

1283
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 5: but instead he took the whole thing.

1284
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 3: You put an ID in the mail, it'll send it

1285
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 3: to that address. Yeah, so it's like put it in

1286
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 3: a mailbox.

1287
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:54,919
Speaker 1: That's a really good tip.

1288
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 5: But yeah, like like they it's and like my parks

1289
00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 5: pass was in there, and it's just like you can't

1290
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 5: that parks past, and so I yeah, I just I

1291
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 5: feel like I just lost.

1292
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 4: What I always think is, yeah, of.

1293
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 5: Course, it's just like I see a fucking wallet on

1294
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 5: the ground. You know where I live, you know where

1295
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 5: I lost.

1296
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 3: That's why I put my phone number. Chris got me

1297
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 3: a label maker. I put my phone number and my name,

1298
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 3: Nikki G on all my AirPods and on my laptop

1299
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 3: because most people are good. Yeah, And this is what

1300
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 3: I've said before about the airport thing, like leave your luggage,

1301
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 3: Like most people are not gonna buy a ticket to

1302
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 3: go on a plane, get inside and then just start

1303
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 3: stealing things and steal a guitar that they then have

1304
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 3: to bring on their flight.

1305
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 4: Like this isn't.

1306
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 3: This isn't pre nine eleven when you can just walk

1307
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 3: into an airport and even then I would have probably

1308
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 3: trusted things. Most people are not gonna steal things, but

1309
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 3: I would say, I say it was more than fifty

1310
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 3: percent chance, depending on where you are, of course, but

1311
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 3: that you're gonna get it back because most people aren't

1312
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 3: insane like this. I mean, I go to a Starbucks

1313
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 3: all the time and I have my laptop out and

1314
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 3: my wallet and stuff, and I will go to the

1315
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 3: bathroom and just leave it. And I don't ask a

1316
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 3: person near me can you watch this? Because I'm like,

1317
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 3: I assume everyone's kind of looking out for each other

1318
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,919
Speaker 3: and that's probably naive. And knock on wood, I knock

1319
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 3: on wood, knock on wood. I haven't had anyone steal

1320
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 3: anything from me, but just in case your phone, you're

1321
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 3: sting even a number on things, huh, and your phone.

1322
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 4: Stolen from your hand, remember, Yeah, but that's like from

1323
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 4: my hand.

1324
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 3: This wasn't because I like left it sitting out like

1325
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 3: you can't really prevent that, and now I do. I

1326
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 3: will never on that corner it's right across from my apartment.

1327
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 3: I will never walk stupidly with my phone in my

1328
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 3: hand and buy my apartment on that same block anymore.

1329
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe that's not the I just never watch it, dude.

1330
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 3: It was like a relay race. Like I was holding

1331
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 3: out a baton. He already he got a running start.

1332
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 3: He came at me running and just grabbed it from

1333
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 3: my hand so fast I didn't even notice. And then

1334
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 3: he was running down the street. A bunch of people saw.

1335
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 3: They were all around me. It was like a crowded

1336
00:59:56,040 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 3: moment in my neighborhood. And these two girls witnessed me

1337
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 3: have my phone sold.

1338
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 4: And he was a kid.

1339
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 3: I think he was probably like twelve thirteen years old,

1340
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 3: and he was running away, and everyone wants to know,

1341
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 3: like what race? It was a five k No he

1342
01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 3: I don't know what race he was. He had a

1343
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 3: hoodie on, but he was running away and and I

1344
01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 3: just come.

1345
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 4: On, oh, come on.

1346
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 3: And I just love the idea that he'd be like

1347
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 3: all right, I will come on, like this is crazy.

1348
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 4: What am I doing with my life?

1349
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 3: But I really just wanted the phone case because it

1350
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 3: was this Taylor Swift phone case that I had spent

1351
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 3: a lot of money on on Etsy and I really loved.

1352
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 3: And but yeah, I just I immediately accepted it in

1353
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 3: a way. It reminds me exactly what you're talking about.

1354
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 3: These girls that witnessed it were like.

1355
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh my god. And I just picked

1356
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 4: up my Trader joke.

1357
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 3: I just was like, eh, well, I guess he needs

1358
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 3: it more than I do.

1359
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 4: I literally was over it within seconds.

1360
01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:00,440
Speaker 3: I said come on, okay, and I just was like,

1361
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 3: guess I'll be on my laptop texting tonight. I have

1362
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 3: to go to the Verizon store tomorrow. Like I just

1363
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 3: already accepted it because what good. And they were like,

1364
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 3: what are you gonna do? And I'm like, I'm not

1365
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 3: gonna call the police, Like then I have to deal

1366
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 3: with them coming a report.

1367
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 4: They're not gonna do anything.

1368
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,439
Speaker 2: I would be more torn over, like, oh my god,

1369
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 2: this guy's gonna see my photos.

1370
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 4: Was a phone on lock? Were you using it?

1371
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1372
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 4: I was. I was using it. I was texting someone

1373
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 4: at the time.

1374
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,919
Speaker 3: I wasn't worried about that because I would benefit from

1375
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 3: any photos leaking anything. Please please break into my eye

1376
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 3: cloud and use all the naked photos that I haven't there,

1377
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 3: no begging you. I'll be more famous because of it. Anyway,

1378
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 3: I will be really hurt.

1379
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 5: For me.

1380
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 3: There's so much, but like you could just get that

1381
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 3: from me anyway, you know, like if they're gonna fish

1382
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 3: and find your stuff, like I don't want that to happen,

1383
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 3: Please God no. But when it comes to videos and

1384
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 3: naked photos and stuff, you know, what are.

1385
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 4: You going to do?

1386
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: I would be a core upset if I lost my

1387
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: phone than my wile while it is like you you

1388
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:11,959
Speaker 1: can cancel the credit cards and then those numbers are

1389
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 1: just useless now and I can get my The one

1390
01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: thing that's funny that they have now is my WGA card,

1391
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 1: So like they can go swipe in at the picket

1392
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: lines if they wanted to, or go get into the

1393
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: WJA library. Wait, they could be maybe they'll start submitting packets.

1394
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 3: They need to wear out those new vans in the

1395
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 3: in the line picketing the phone though it's I think

1396
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 3: I would rather because you know what, if I lose

1397
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 3: my ID, I have to go to the DMV.

1398
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 4: There's no way around it.

1399
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 3: You have to go, wait in line, take a ticket number,

1400
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 3: sit in that terrible space, wait for your number to

1401
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 3: be called. Realize you don't have all the right documentation.

1402
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 3: They send you back. It's like a lot of red

1403
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 3: tape with a phone. You just have to like wait

1404
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 3: for the Apple logo to like upload and it takes

1405
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 3: like twenty minutes at the store and then everything comes

1406
01:02:58,880 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 3: back pretty quickly.

1407
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, well the idea you have to go.

1408
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: In California, you don't have to go.

1409
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 5: I just went on the website and I said, I

1410
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 5: someone stole my ID and they send you a new

1411
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 5: one for thirty dollars. Oh yeah, all right, that's not

1412
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 5: bad nothing. But that's why it wasn't so bad. I

1413
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 5: gave myself like fifteen seconds to be upset to do

1414
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 5: the thing that those girls were doing.

1415
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 1: I went, ah, I was just like, why do I

1416
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 1: have to do this?

1417
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,560
Speaker 5: And I went down on my knees and I landed

1418
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 5: on the couch and then I got up and I

1419
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 5: and I did everything, and I was it was all

1420
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 5: you were.

1421
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 4: Going to say, the floor or the mattress would have

1422
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 4: been the same feeling.

1423
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: I landed.

1424
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I landed on the mattress and it was very painful.

1425
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 5: And then I got up and I did it. I

1426
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 5: fixed everything in the ID. The only thing I haven't

1427
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 5: gotten back it was my WGA card, which they need

1428
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 5: to call me back.

1429
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 3: Well, I guess some would say that you must mourn

1430
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 3: these things, and maybe the approach that we have is

1431
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 3: not healthy because it will just push down feelings of

1432
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 3: like loss. Like I think even with death, sometimes I

1433
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 3: can be this way. When I find out someone dies,

1434
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 3: I'm just like, all right, well, there's nothing I can

1435
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:06,840
Speaker 3: do about it. Let's figure out what's next. Like I'm

1436
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 3: not gonna like me crying about it. It's not going

1437
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 3: to bring this person back, isn't going to change anything,

1438
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 3: like practical, Let's think about moving forward. Huey Herman died.

1439
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:19,320
Speaker 3: I just saw that on my phone. I was like sad,

1440
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 3: But then I was like, well, of course, did I

1441
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 3: think he was gonna live forever? Like what everyone has

1442
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 3: to die? It was just kind of like, okay, yeah,

1443
01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 3: oh god, that sucks. Okay, yeah, but there's nothing I

1444
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 3: can do about it. It's just I think it's maybe

1445
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 3: an unhealthy way to look at things sometimes, to move

1446
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 3: on from them so fast, because I know, you know,

1447
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 3: my friend cursed in this weekend, dropped a plate of

1448
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 3: cookies and was crying about it, and like what she

1449
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 3: scraped her knee too, And she spent all this time

1450
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 3: working on these cookies and they fell and they like

1451
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:54,040
Speaker 3: were all over a garage floor and they were ruined

1452
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 3: and they were wet, so like I because I was like,

1453
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:57,920
Speaker 3: if they're dry, just like wipe them off with a

1454
01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 3: paper towels.

1455
01:04:58,560 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 4: Or like blowing them hard.

1456
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 3: It was fudge, but it was like fudge wet fudge

1457
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 3: on like you know, dirty floor.

1458
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 4: So they were ruined.

1459
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, And she sent a picture and she was like

1460
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:11,439
Speaker 3: her face was like cry looking, and she mourned them

1461
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 3: like she still like.

1462
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 4: Processes her emotions in a really good way.

1463
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 3: I would have just been like it was always gonna happen, Yeah,

1464
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 3: but what if.

1465
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 1: You don't feel anything you drop them.

1466
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 5: You're a little pissed at yourself, and then you don't

1467
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 5: feel the sadness is that bad?

1468
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 3: But maybe you don't feel the sadness because you're not

1469
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 3: letting it in. That's always what I wonder, Like the

1470
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 3: reason I'm not feeling it is because I'm not.

1471
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:32,680
Speaker 4: In tune with it.

1472
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 1: Is that why I'm in so much fine?

1473
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna want to cut myself later because of this,

1474
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 3: like in weeks or like I'm gonna want to do

1475
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 3: I'm I'm gonna be depressed later because I'm not feeling

1476
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 3: this feeling.

1477
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 1: Oh it's like delayed, Yeah, repressed.

1478
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 5: So if I dropped a plate of cookies, I need

1479
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 5: to like mourn them for thirty minutes before moving on

1480
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 5: or else I'll get depressed later, feel maybe maybe.

1481
01:05:57,160 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 1: Is that real?

1482
01:05:58,040 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 5: Why can't it just be like I'm not a guy

1483
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 5: who who gets emotional like that, Like I don't feel

1484
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 5: the emotion at all. That's what I'm saying about the

1485
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 5: wallet is like I was frustrated for like a few,

1486
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 5: like thirty seconds, but then I didn't feel anything, Like

1487
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 5: I rarely feel anything.

1488
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 3: Well, I but you do because you are generally disgruntled

1489
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:18,919
Speaker 3: about a lot of things.

1490
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:20,120
Speaker 4: You feel things so much.

1491
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: That's like the only thing I feel is disgruntled.

1492
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 3: Like, well, the mattress thing is it makes sense to

1493
01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 3: feel disgruntled about there's something you can do about it.

1494
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 3: The wallet, it's out of your hands. Literally, you know,

1495
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 3: there's nothing you can do. And I think that is

1496
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 3: just a freeing feeling when something's truly out of my hands.

1497
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 4: I'm just like, well, okay, what's next?

1498
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 1: Like acceptance is the I think.

1499
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 5: I think what Kirsten did is just taking the long

1500
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 5: road to the goal of acceptance. And like, for whatever reason,

1501
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 5: when you lost your phone and I lost my wallet,

1502
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 5: we didn't have to go through sadness Town in order

1503
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 5: to get to Acceptanceville.

1504
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 4: Yeah we went, we went around.

1505
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah we took the freeway, or you take a helicopter

1506
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:02,520
Speaker 1: in the fog.

1507
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, never do that. Why would you

1508
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 3: ever go Just let's do it anyway. I mean, I

1509
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 3: understand why that's been happened in the past. I know

1510
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 3: I understand why Kobe was like, let's just go through

1511
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 3: it and get to it, because he's a guy that

1512
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 3: has achieved the impossible.

1513
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 4: There's no obstacle.

1514
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 3: He couldn't just find a way through it, like fits

1515
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 3: with his character to be like this is the best pilot.

1516
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 4: I only have the best.

1517
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 3: There's a little bit of fog. I've been through fog

1518
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 3: and helicopters before. Let's just do it. But if you're

1519
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 3: not Kobe Bryant and you haven't achieved the apossible, don't

1520
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 3: fucking go.

1521
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 4: Don't just trust fog. How could you? Would you ever

1522
01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:45,600
Speaker 4: drive through fogg? I would pull over on the side

1523
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 4: of the road.

1524
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 1: Final thought, I've driven through fog.

1525
01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 5: I mean when I was There was one time I

1526
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 5: was in a snowstorm. I was driving in South Dakota

1527
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 5: on the way to Badlands National Park, and I really

1528
01:07:57,920 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 5: felt like, this is the closest I ever come to

1529
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 5: dine eyeing in a car because besides an accident, because

1530
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:06,440
Speaker 5: I was losing control of the car on the icy

1531
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 5: road like every two minutes, and we would be driving

1532
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 5: past other cars that had gone over the edge into

1533
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 5: the snow drift on the side of the highway. And

1534
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 5: then there was a point where there was also construction.

1535
01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 5: And it was the craziest type of construction you can have.

1536
01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:27,320
Speaker 5: Imagine you're on a highway A sixty five in South Dakota.

1537
01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:29,839
Speaker 5: It was eighty mile an hour highway.

1538
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:32,599
Speaker 1: You know how highways have a median.

1539
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, this construction closed one side of the highway and

1540
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 5: directed traffic over the median onto the other side of

1541
01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:42,799
Speaker 5: the highway.

1542
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:44,679
Speaker 4: So now two lane highway.

1543
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 5: You're on a two lane highway, but it's an eighty

1544
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 5: mile it's an eighty mile an hour, four lane highway

1545
01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 5: going in both directions, and that right then would freak

1546
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 5: me the fuck out. But also it was icy blizzard conditions,

1547
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 5: and so I was like, this is fucking insane. Every

1548
01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:05,400
Speaker 5: every few minutes I look the steeler. The steering wheel

1549
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:06,679
Speaker 5: of the car would not work.

1550
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:07,839
Speaker 4: I don't like the outdoors.

1551
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:09,639
Speaker 5: It would be on an ice drift, and I would

1552
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 5: just be like, do you when you're on an ice

1553
01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 5: drift in the car? You just have to let go

1554
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:15,200
Speaker 5: of the wheels sort of and just glide along with it.

1555
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 5: It's called it's like similar to hydro planning.

1556
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 1: You just have to kind of glide and let it

1557
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 1: go because if you fight against it, you'll just skid out.

1558
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:22,720
Speaker 1: And that's what those other people did.

1559
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 3: I'd be so mad at my boyfriend for wanting to

1560
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 3: go to the fucking bad Lands if we ended up

1561
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:31,599
Speaker 3: on a highway that was ice over going eighty miles

1562
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:32,559
Speaker 3: an hour at each other.

1563
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 4: I would file for divorce before we were married.

1564
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 3: It was I would say I would never ever, honestly,

1565
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:42,240
Speaker 3: I would be happy because it would prove everything I'm

1566
01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 3: scared of, Like this is why we don't do this stuff,

1567
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 3: like this is why I don't go Why do What

1568
01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 3: are the bad lands?

1569
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 4: So why would they?

1570
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: It's a national park?

1571
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 4: How are you even doing this?

1572
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 5: It's one of them where me and Ali want to

1573
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:56,639
Speaker 5: go to all sixty three national parks before we die,

1574
01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 5: and this is one of the national parks, and well, you.

1575
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,120
Speaker 3: Better get to its because it sounds like you're putting

1576
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 3: yourself in situations where you're gonna die all the time

1577
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 3: to do this.

1578
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 1: Well, so we did the and also we were on

1579
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: that road for over two hours, the head to head

1580
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: eighty mile an hour highway in the blizzard.

1581
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 5: It was insane. And there you're in South Dakota. There

1582
01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 5: was like, well, we can't just pull over over. We

1583
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:19,639
Speaker 5: can't just pull over and then just be in the cold.

1584
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 5: We need to find a town and there just isn't

1585
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:24,599
Speaker 5: any There's just nowhere to go. So we just had

1586
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 5: to keep going because we're going to the middle of nowhere,

1587
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:28,640
Speaker 5: We're going to the bad lands. We were staying in

1588
01:10:28,720 --> 01:10:31,759
Speaker 5: Airbnb in Wasta, a little town that's got like fifteen

1589
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:33,839
Speaker 5: people in it. We had to make it to Wata,

1590
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 5: so we made it. It did wind up paying off

1591
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:40,479
Speaker 5: because we get to the bad Lands and the roads

1592
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 5: are closed because we got off the road just in time.

1593
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:45,960
Speaker 5: They closed all the roads because of the blizzard, so

1594
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 5: nobody can get to where we are at all in

1595
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 5: any way. So we go to the bad Lands and

1596
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 5: we asked the park ranger how many cars are in

1597
01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 5: the park, and he said, you are one of three

1598
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:03,760
Speaker 5: cars in the entire park. And so we went into

1599
01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 5: this park. It was like a winter wonderland and we

1600
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 5: were the only ones there and that was amazing. And

1601
01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 5: we only did.

1602
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 4: It worth almost dying for, not worth.

1603
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 1: Almost dying for at all, but there was a payoff.

1604
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 4: If you had kids, would you have continued that journey?

1605
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 1: I would have in the car. I would have gone

1606
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:22,719
Speaker 1: twice as fast.

1607
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:30,880
Speaker 2: Oh, Brian, Brian, doesn't the snow though, make it look

1608
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,280
Speaker 2: just like any other snow covered park.

1609
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:37,360
Speaker 5: No, this looked amazing. I can't show your pictures. It

1610
01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 5: looked pretty amazing. I mean it was, it was amazing

1611
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:42,679
Speaker 5: just being there. It was freezing. It was like one degree.

1612
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:45,639
Speaker 3: Now that first of all, I just think you get

1613
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:49,479
Speaker 3: there and there's no stores open, there's nothing, there's no

1614
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:52,519
Speaker 3: That sounds like hell, what do.

1615
01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 4: You do for food?

1616
01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 3: Well?

1617
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 5: We had we had food in the car because this

1618
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 5: was like a we were doing a cross country road

1619
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 5: trip and we had food in the car, but it

1620
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 5: was like we were so at that point we were

1621
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 5: so starved for a hot meal. It was like we

1622
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:08,960
Speaker 5: were eating canned soup or like, uh, peanut butter and

1623
01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 5: jelly sandwiches for days, and we were like, man, it

1624
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 5: would be nice to just.

1625
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 4: What actually is the payoff here?

1626
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 3: Just seeing beautiful trees with snow on them? Like, what's

1627
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 3: the payoff for going? I'm not playing dumb. I know

1628
01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 3: this comes up all the time on the show, like

1629
01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 3: what Nikki, why can't you just understand the beauty of

1630
01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:30,120
Speaker 3: a hike or whatever? What's the point of all of this?

1631
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 1: The point of it is that there is no point

1632
01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:36,839
Speaker 1: to anything.

1633
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:39,520
Speaker 2: They're bonding. It's the bonding experience.

1634
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:40,920
Speaker 1: All that matters is.

1635
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 5: I don't think it's well, we did bond, but that's

1636
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 5: not what we didn't do it so we can bond?

1637
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 3: Is the point to look at pretty things there is.

1638
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:50,759
Speaker 4: That's the point. That's a that's a point.

1639
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:53,559
Speaker 5: There is no point to doing anything in life. Life

1640
01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:57,519
Speaker 5: is inherently meaningless and pointless, and so all you have

1641
01:12:57,560 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 5: to do is decide that something has a pointint and

1642
01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:00,880
Speaker 5: then it does.

1643
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 4: But so what is that point that you decided.

1644
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: It was an adventure?

1645
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,120
Speaker 4: It was you can scratch off on your bucket.

1646
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 5: For me, I love the idea of checking off that

1647
01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 5: I'm on on my my list. But also it was

1648
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 5: an adventure, and that that trip we could have stayed

1649
01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 5: it was like a seven week trip. We could have

1650
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 5: stayed at home and experienced nothing for seven weeks.

1651
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:24,799
Speaker 1: But now we went and we go to brunch.

1652
01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:28,040
Speaker 3: You could go on walks, you could go shopping, you

1653
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:30,759
Speaker 3: could go you could watch a bunch of TV shows.

1654
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:33,200
Speaker 4: You could like we could do that, go on hikes

1655
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 4: around here.

1656
01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 5: But that's not that that wouldn't have been as special.

1657
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:40,479
Speaker 5: This was really special. We had an amazing time and

1658
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 5: that and that's why people go. I think there's a

1659
01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 5: certain level where you shouldn't go in a helicopter in

1660
01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,559
Speaker 5: the middle of the fog, because like your chances of

1661
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 5: dying are so high, Like I wouldn't skydive. But like

1662
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 5: this to me, and we didn't anticipate being trapped in

1663
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:57,480
Speaker 5: this snowstorm. This is just something that happened.

1664
01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:00,559
Speaker 3: Right, But there is you did go in the winter

1665
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:02,800
Speaker 3: to a place that could have snowy that.

1666
01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:05,759
Speaker 4: Not a lot of restops.

1667
01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: Well, no, no, it wasn't. It wasn't the winter.

1668
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:11,920
Speaker 5: It was an unseasonable arctic blast.

1669
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:15,759
Speaker 3: Well you went during climate change and that shit happens,

1670
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:16,680
Speaker 3: so it's on you.

1671
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I okay.

1672
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:20,360
Speaker 3: I will say that there is something in me that

1673
01:14:20,439 --> 01:14:23,640
Speaker 3: does understand why hikes would be nice because there is

1674
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:25,439
Speaker 3: a I'm staying on this ranch and there is a

1675
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 3: tiny patch it's point probably zero for miles, so it's

1676
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:36,519
Speaker 3: a it's a little little patch, less than a twentieth

1677
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:41,599
Speaker 3: of a mile, and it's beautiful and it's like you

1678
01:14:41,640 --> 01:14:43,479
Speaker 3: walk through it and you're like in the woods and

1679
01:14:43,479 --> 01:14:45,840
Speaker 3: there's a waterfall and it's so nice. And I will

1680
01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:49,599
Speaker 3: walk that back and forth, back and forth, back and forth,

1681
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:52,880
Speaker 3: just listening to a good song. That's my kind of hiking.

1682
01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:56,719
Speaker 3: It's right off from where I live. It is within

1683
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:58,640
Speaker 3: I don't have to drive anywhere to get to it.

1684
01:14:59,120 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 3: I don't have to there's no climbing. There's an end

1685
01:15:02,840 --> 01:15:05,120
Speaker 3: anytime I want it to be. I am point zero

1686
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 3: four miles from an end. It is right there. It's

1687
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:10,200
Speaker 3: just a pathway, and I can just go back and

1688
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 3: forth and get that sense of nature. And I found

1689
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 3: myself just going back and forth so often I go,

1690
01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 3: oh my God, I think I like hiking, But the

1691
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 3: truth is I still don't like hiking because all the

1692
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 3: things about hiking that I don't like are not involved

1693
01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:23,439
Speaker 3: in this.

1694
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:24,080
Speaker 4: This is what I like.

1695
01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:27,639
Speaker 3: I like finding a wooded path that I can walk

1696
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 3: back and forth on, like it's in the courtyard of

1697
01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:33,599
Speaker 3: my retirement home. And they just built it so, you know,

1698
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:35,879
Speaker 3: they could I could pretend I'm out in the woods.

1699
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 4: That's what I like.

1700
01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:39,719
Speaker 3: So I do understand like being in nature feels good,

1701
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 3: but I want it to be close by. And man,

1702
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:47,840
Speaker 3: I'm just like, I'm angry about this, this two lane

1703
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:48,639
Speaker 3: highway experience.

1704
01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 4: I'm so mad at you. I want Ali to file

1705
01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 4: like was she was she mad about her?

1706
01:15:57,040 --> 01:15:59,040
Speaker 3: Was she just like, oh no, she likes this stuff,

1707
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:01,679
Speaker 3: so she was probably like she is, like we did it.

1708
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 5: She's way less risk averse than me. I was like

1709
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:07,760
Speaker 5: white knuckles, like I was freaked out. I was like,

1710
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:11,240
Speaker 5: this is really bad and she could have died. She

1711
01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:13,960
Speaker 5: was freaked out normal, which is like for her, that

1712
01:16:14,120 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 5: is like screaming your head off.

1713
01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 1: I was like, this is insane. That was I would

1714
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 1: never choose to do that.

1715
01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:23,719
Speaker 5: I don't even like driving on a regular two way

1716
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 5: like road, like a country road. I think it's so

1717
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,960
Speaker 5: stupid that you can drive over fifty miles an hour

1718
01:16:29,960 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 5: in opposite directions on the road and just trust that

1719
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 5: the other person's not going to go over the yellow line.

1720
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:37,639
Speaker 5: The yellow line doesn't stop anything. It's just a line

1721
01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 5: in the middle of the road.

1722
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 4: It's just a line.

1723
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 3: And people be texting, man, people be grabbing an ice

1724
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:45,920
Speaker 3: cream cone that day dropped in the passenger side seat.

1725
01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 4: That's how Dawson's dad died.

1726
01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1727
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:51,400
Speaker 3: You ever like reach for something that dropped and like

1728
01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 3: you can't help, but the steering wheel moves with you. Yeah,

1729
01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 3: Like there's I can't believe people aren't.

1730
01:16:57,040 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 5: There's some really so much more often when you're eating

1731
01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 5: in the car. One time I was eating in the

1732
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 5: car and like I forgot it was like something like

1733
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 5: a little bean, like a little tiny piece of the

1734
01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 5: thing that I was eating fell and I was, and

1735
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 5: for some reason, I was like, I cannot allow that

1736
01:17:14,120 --> 01:17:17,360
Speaker 5: little bean to be on the floor of my car

1737
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:21,479
Speaker 5: for another second while I'm driving. So I was reaching

1738
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:23,559
Speaker 5: for the bean, and I was I felt myself like

1739
01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:26,120
Speaker 5: I'm out of control right now. Yes, I was like

1740
01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 5: what the f and I had to stop myself. I

1741
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:29,720
Speaker 5: was like, what the fuck am I doing? Is it

1742
01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:33,760
Speaker 5: really worth dying to pick up this bean for I'm

1743
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:35,639
Speaker 5: gonna I could, I could eat, I'm gonna be done

1744
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 5: driving in thirty minutes, and I could spend all day

1745
01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:39,679
Speaker 5: looking for the bean.

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01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:41,679
Speaker 1: Why do I have to do it now?

1747
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 3: I relate to it so much. It's so reckless, it's

1748
01:17:45,200 --> 01:17:45,879
Speaker 3: so stupid.

1749
01:17:46,680 --> 01:17:47,320
Speaker 4: We have to go.

1750
01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 3: But I wanted to just say what I want to

1751
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:52,960
Speaker 3: get to tomorrow on the show. This weekend, I met

1752
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 3: one of the richest people in the planet and I

1753
01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:59,000
Speaker 3: can't wait to talk about that, and truly one of

1754
01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:01,640
Speaker 3: the most wealthy persons people on the planet Earth. And

1755
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 3: I got to like interview them about being so wealthy,

1756
01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 3: which is so exciting. And then I want to talk

1757
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:10,080
Speaker 3: about the book you're reading Noah Okay, and I want

1758
01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 3: to talk about the festival you went to this weekend.

1759
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:16,080
Speaker 3: Oh okay, and yeah, and I want to and then

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01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:18,040
Speaker 3: I think Anya will be with us tomorrow, but we'll see,

1761
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:19,680
Speaker 3: we'll see if her internet is up and working. But

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01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 3: that's everything that you will get from the podcast tomorrow.

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01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:23,760
Speaker 3: Thank you for listening today, Anya, we missed you.

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01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:29,280
Speaker 4: Don't be coo and just don't take any chances. Pull over,

1765
01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:30,760
Speaker 4: get the bean later