Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jane Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.
Speaker 1: All Right, I'm excited for this guest because she is
Speaker 1: she's she's a feisty sister, but she's sweet. We've had
Speaker 1: her on before. I'm a huge fan. I am.
Speaker 2: It's like a dormant secret fanship that I have about them. Well,
Speaker 2: we're the same generation. Yeah, they mattered a lot and
Speaker 2: they just got to be themselves, which was so inspiring
Speaker 2: to me.
Speaker 1: But they were also like strong, you know, And I'm
Speaker 1: I want to walk the line with it with talking
Speaker 1: about Nikki because obviously she's been through some stuff so
Speaker 1: and her sister is obviously very protective and they're best friends. So,
Speaker 1: but I do would like to get into some of
Speaker 1: it as well. Yeah, there's a sister ship piece of
Speaker 1: that I always want to know about, right and always,
Speaker 1: you know, she's always having her back. So let's get
Speaker 1: Brie Bella on and let's hear what she's up to. Hi,
Speaker 1: how are you?
Speaker 3: I'm good? It just been a crazy morning, you know,
Speaker 3: summer with kids.
Speaker 1: Literally, if you hear kids screaming, I'm like everybody, I
Speaker 1: can hear every sound that is coming up here.
Speaker 2: I was like, please, Dana's like on our laptop googling
Speaker 2: what new camp they can go to.
Speaker 1: I did, I literally just enroll them in a camp
Speaker 1: for tomorrow because I'm like, I have an audition I got.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I was like, I'm the same.
Speaker 3: I literally the kids are in a different camp every
Speaker 3: week for like the next month.
Speaker 1: How old are your kids?
Speaker 3: So eight? And then my son he'll be five August first,
Speaker 3: and I'm just like, I don't know. I just feel
Speaker 3: like it's better for them, it's better for me and
Speaker 3: get them busy out.
Speaker 1: Especially the boys.
Speaker 2: I feel like the boys have to go like and
Speaker 2: I'm not even I don't even care how that sounds. Actually,
Speaker 2: I'm not even going to preface it. I'm just gonna
Speaker 2: say my son is a six year old boy who
Speaker 2: needs to be on the go and outside and like
Speaker 2: actively moving, or he's not a human that I really
Speaker 2: want to live with.
Speaker 3: I agree, I'm the same way. I mean, I literally
Speaker 3: got a trampoline so my son can jump before school
Speaker 3: teachers in sane. I'm like, I'll just see him at
Speaker 3: times in my house and I go just go to
Speaker 3: up from the tramp and I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: she just needs to constantly get energy out.
Speaker 1: Things we thought we'd never say to a boy go
Speaker 1: on the tramp.
Speaker 3: So true.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I think is so funny. I
Speaker 1: was reading you know, obviously I know who you are.
Speaker 1: I've watched her shows, but it was it was it
Speaker 1: made me chuckle because when I was reading something, you said,
Speaker 1: you know, you and your husband aren't really in the
Speaker 1: press because you guys have a happy relationship, And I'm like, man,
Speaker 1: isn't that the damn truth. I was like, me and
Speaker 1: my ex husband plastered everywhere because our relationship was a show.
Speaker 1: But then I'm like, but then, you know, not me
Speaker 1: and my husband. Now, it's like they don't write about
Speaker 1: how respectful and loving our relationship is. They you know,
Speaker 1: they don't. They don't care about that. They just go
Speaker 1: pick up any little negative comment. It was like, why
Speaker 1: can't we celebrate the happy couples? Why can't that be
Speaker 1: a headline?
Speaker 3: And I actually feel like people would click and read.
Speaker 3: I think people actually find it refreshing. I mean, unless
Speaker 3: I'm just one of those people who constantly like positivity
Speaker 3: surrounded by me. But sometimes I feel like the media,
Speaker 3: it just feels like we just constantly want to hear negativity,
Speaker 3: how bad people's lives are going, and I feel like
Speaker 3: more than ever, they're just like digging so deep into
Speaker 3: people's privacy, like what I've seen with my sister first
Speaker 3: hand with this divorce. I'm like, where do like we
Speaker 3: draw the line? Like where is their boundaries? Because I
Speaker 3: feel like media just has zero boundaries and it's awful.
Speaker 1: Well, and I think it's hard to because you guys
Speaker 1: are I mean, it's not that you guys are super
Speaker 1: private too, you know, it's like you guys have your shows,
Speaker 1: you have, so I think there's when people say boundaries
Speaker 1: like all right, well fine there Devil's Advocate is like, well,
Speaker 1: you have the reality shows, you put your personal life
Speaker 1: out there, so then it should be okay, But what
Speaker 1: is the boundary within all of that? Because there are
Speaker 1: there should be boundaries, even whether you share your life
Speaker 1: socially or not. You know.
Speaker 3: I agree. It's like, you know, one of those things
Speaker 3: I love taking pictures with fans. I wouldn't be where
Speaker 3: I'm met today if it wasn't for my fans. But
Speaker 3: if I'm eating with my family, like I feel like,
Speaker 3: you know, just wait till we're done, or you know,
Speaker 3: like certain things like that, and you know, living our
Speaker 3: lives on reality television, I feel like, you know you
Speaker 3: do you give so much and Nikki and I never
Speaker 3: hold back, even on our podcast, we don't hold back.
Speaker 3: But I feel like it's almost like you know, us
Speaker 3: weeklies and People's and all these great platforms. It's also
Speaker 3: like ask permission, like if you want to do a
Speaker 3: deep story and like fact check, that's the one that crazy,
Speaker 3: like there's zero fact checking.
Speaker 1: No no, I yeah, and there is zero and when
Speaker 1: they do have the proof. This is the funny. I
Speaker 1: wrote about this in my book. They were running a
Speaker 1: terrible story and it was given some information, a lot
Speaker 1: of false information from an ex boyfriend and a bitter one.
Speaker 1: I would like to just go on record. And I
Speaker 1: emailed the editor who was writing the story and being like,
Speaker 1: here there's actual text message proofs to then show that
Speaker 1: it's not that's not the truth. And she's like, well,
Speaker 1: we're going to run it anyways. I'm like, I'm giving you.
Speaker 3: Improve right what no, I mean, it's wild, like literally
Speaker 3: anyone can call TMZ, anyone can call anyone and they
Speaker 3: can just say so I heard this, and they will
Speaker 3: run it and it is like wild to me. I mean,
Speaker 3: I told Nicole, I'm like, I literally want to put
Speaker 3: so many people in check and be like, please, have
Speaker 3: you even like fact checked? Have you like you're just
Speaker 3: looking at a like simple little headline, not even reading
Speaker 3: the story, and like they make their opinions and their
Speaker 3: decisions on what they feel is right and wrong.
Speaker 1: Prell you remind me because I had you and Nikki
Speaker 1: both on are you the sister that dms the haters?
Speaker 3: No, that was Nicki, and that was I feel like
Speaker 3: roles are reversed because I'm a protective sister. It's like
Speaker 3: I feel like now I'm dming people.
Speaker 2: So that was going to be my question for you,
Speaker 2: because you guys are so like, you're my goals. I
Speaker 2: just wanted a sister. I love that you're twins. I
Speaker 2: fell in love with y'all when you were in Total
Speaker 2: Divas and I loved and I think I told you
Speaker 2: all this before, but I loved that you were always
Speaker 2: It was the first time I saw women be strong
Speaker 2: and sexy, you know, And I was like, yes, more
Speaker 2: of that as I'm like on hydroxy cut in my
Speaker 2: very bad college days, you know, but like you were
Speaker 2: that you were like positive body image for me because
Speaker 2: it was about being strong and also about having a voice,
Speaker 2: and and you were just hot and I was like,
Speaker 2: this is awesome. So you two are so bonded obviously,
Speaker 2: I mean your twins, your sister's your family. But you
Speaker 2: how how do you handle being protective because I've watched
Speaker 2: her be protective of you. I've watched you be protective
Speaker 2: of her. But like now things are really swirling, like
Speaker 2: it's crazy. Breathe, Like I mean the headlines are all
Speaker 2: over and that I can't imagine sitting and watching someone
Speaker 2: I love because I've had to do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and going this is so false.
Speaker 3: Right, how do you think maybe firsthand for everything? Like
Speaker 3: you know, well, I will say how I do it
Speaker 3: is you know, I'm a very patient, loving person. I'm
Speaker 3: extremely spiritual, so I definitely use my faith to kind
Speaker 3: of like take a minute and take a breath. And
Speaker 3: I am like, okay, so I call myself. But I
Speaker 3: have more than ever I have like gone at it
Speaker 3: with people and like really because I you know, I
Speaker 3: told my sister this. I was like I get being
Speaker 3: silent and like, you know, taking the high road, but
Speaker 3: sometimes you got to put people in check and I
Speaker 3: go and it's time, and so I was just like,
Speaker 3: you know, I feel like how I sleep at night
Speaker 3: is just telling some people like the facts and everything
Speaker 3: and protecting her and I actually sleep like a baby.
Speaker 3: It's like really great. When I don't stand up for
Speaker 3: myself or use my voice, I lose sleep at night
Speaker 3: because I'm like, why do I just let that go?
Speaker 1: Like phone?
Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, but it's hard. It's so it's been very.
Speaker 1: Challenging as a sister because I know what my friends.
Speaker 1: When I have dated certain people, they have seen the
Speaker 1: red flags and some have told me prior. Some chose
Speaker 1: to not tell me until later when your sister has
Speaker 1: you know, like in the last relationship, did you see
Speaker 1: the red flags and did you talk to her about them?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Or yeah, okay yeah before they got married.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah. I mean, And I feel like people saw
Speaker 3: it on the reality show, like you definitely saw some
Speaker 3: of my conversations on Total bellas I had and I
Speaker 3: was honest, And you know, it's funny because there'd be
Speaker 3: some people coming at me like you just date every
Speaker 3: guy she's with. It's like no, because I know what
Speaker 3: she deserves, Like I know where how my sister should
Speaker 3: be treated like, and I'm her twin, and like, if
Speaker 3: I don't think my twin deserves the best, then why
Speaker 3: should she think that. It's like no, I just you know,
Speaker 3: I definitely did. And I feel like for anyone when
Speaker 3: your closest friends and your family member tell you about
Speaker 3: red flags, it's like you instantly want to be stubborn
Speaker 3: and pushed back, like it's crazy.
Speaker 1: What did you think was the biggest thing that you
Speaker 1: were like, they're not going to work because of this,
Speaker 1: like they're too similar in this area, or they bought
Speaker 1: heads too much here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just felt like I just you know, for me,
Speaker 3: it was I just thought maybe they saw life differently
Speaker 3: and maybe wanted different things. And I feel like then
Speaker 3: that makes people bump heads. I also think, like, you know,
Speaker 3: they did get put in a situation where, like, you know,
Speaker 3: they became parents before getting married, and I think that's
Speaker 3: always tough because I know for my husband and I
Speaker 3: we've been married eleven years and we've had a very
Speaker 3: successful relationship, but communication was always key for us. And
Speaker 3: I even remember he and I actually did this thing.
Speaker 3: It was like this Christian workbook thing on what we
Speaker 3: see on becoming parents, and it was really interesting. We
Speaker 3: had this workbook and we were like how to discipline,
Speaker 3: how this, and then we'd like look at like then
Speaker 3: we worked with a pastor, and then you went through
Speaker 3: your answers and you really got to start to compromise,
Speaker 3: you know, before we were even trying to have kids.
Speaker 3: But I think what helped us is we had all
Speaker 3: this time to really get to know each other, to
Speaker 3: come into rhythm be not only partners, you know, in
Speaker 3: a romantic way, but also like just in life and
Speaker 3: understanding like how to live with someone. So I just
Speaker 3: maybe things just moved too fast so they didn't have
Speaker 3: the opportunity to really just like put that in motion.
Speaker 3: But communications everything, and I think that was a big
Speaker 3: thing lacking, And I think that's the one thing that
Speaker 3: is so important in a relationship for a good foundation,
Speaker 3: especially in marriage.
Speaker 1: No, I mean I get that piece I had, you know,
Speaker 1: with my now husband, we had a baby before we
Speaker 1: got married. But it's also like I was almost forty,
Speaker 1: and you know, I knew we wanted to try and
Speaker 1: the emotions you know started a little faster. But you know,
Speaker 1: you kind of skip that piece of the work that
Speaker 1: you did with your husband which really forms that amazing
Speaker 1: foundation for communication and all that. And it's like, you
Speaker 1: gotta be real strong because you've got a baby and
Speaker 1: a toddler then running around and you're if you're not
Speaker 1: on the same wavelength and communication styles and the whole thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it can be hard. And I know
Speaker 1: hindsight is twenty twenty.
Speaker 2: I'm also a reverse baby havever, so it's a little tricky,
Speaker 2: but I know hindsight's twenty twenty. But do you feel
Speaker 2: like the reality TV piece or just the public piece
Speaker 2: of this expedited that for your sister because I can't
Speaker 2: imagine feeling like you're feeling or like she's feeling. And
Speaker 2: then also it being so wildly public, that's just an
Speaker 2: unfair layer that I feels like it expedites all of
Speaker 2: the worst things.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, faster.
Speaker 3: I feel like in her last couple relationships, if it
Speaker 3: wasn't put so much into the media, it would have
Speaker 3: had more fair chances. Even in our last relationship. It's
Speaker 3: almost like, and I think people actually they're hurtful comments
Speaker 3: and how you know, there's a ton of detectives or
Speaker 3: what do they call themselves on TikTok Instagram that just
Speaker 3: feel like they know stories and the way they dissect,
Speaker 3: but they don't really know. They only know what's given
Speaker 3: to them through these like you know, media platforms. So
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people don't realize your opinions
Speaker 3: can lay heavy on, like how even people like dictate
Speaker 3: what their next move is. And maybe you know, big
Speaker 3: relationships that out there don't give each other that second
Speaker 3: fair chance right as they're getting judged hard. It's like
Speaker 3: living like under a microscope. And so I think that
Speaker 3: kind of did happen with her last couple relationships. And
Speaker 3: I told her, I'm like, Nicole, we're forty one, Like
Speaker 3: we grew up with no social media. We lived life
Speaker 3: like failing and succeeding, and a lot of our failures
Speaker 3: is actually what helped our growth. And nowadays everyone thinks
Speaker 3: we got to walk on this perfect line. And I'm
Speaker 3: the first one to be like, I'm not perfect. You
Speaker 3: can judge me for it. I don't care. But she
Speaker 3: takes it hard, and I'm like, nowadays with social media,
Speaker 3: I can't imagine being a kid in today's I just
Speaker 3: can't imagine being fifteen. I went through so many weird
Speaker 3: stages and I needed those stages to become the woman
Speaker 3: I am today. But I would have been judged hard
Speaker 3: and I would have taken some weird selfies. I know
Speaker 3: that in college, but I mean I would go to Titawana.
Speaker 3: I think how I was dressed. I'm like, oh my gosh, oh,
Speaker 3: I would have died.
Speaker 2: Also, shout out to our former selves because we were really hot.
Speaker 2: Like I just went through my attic space and three
Speaker 2: and I was like, why was I even wearing clothes?
Speaker 2: We're all the same age. I was, yeah, we're all
Speaker 2: the same age. Like my BACKLA shirt, why was I
Speaker 2: even wearing?
Speaker 3: That? Was so?
Speaker 1: How did she be naked? Go girl?
Speaker 3: I am same and so and like I just like,
Speaker 3: you know, I think to myself, it was so great
Speaker 3: about that is that we got that. I mean that's
Speaker 3: like very freeing, and that was so freeing for us
Speaker 3: and we needed it. We needed to get that out.
Speaker 3: But now kids nowadays, I mean, then they'll get bullied
Speaker 3: or someone will be jealous in their friend group and
Speaker 3: then get everyone to hate them, and then it's like
Speaker 3: it turns into weird situations for the young ones. But
Speaker 3: I think for us now, it's hard for us all
Speaker 3: to live our lives almost with social media for us
Speaker 3: who didn't grow up with it, because I have forty one,
Speaker 3: I'm like, what am I getting attacked for? Like, wait,
Speaker 3: what did people want me to do? And what do
Speaker 3: they like? It's like you never feel like you can win,
Speaker 3: and you sometimes feel like you're losing a lot, but
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, whatever, I don't know it's.
Speaker 1: And the tolerance gets lower, Oh for sure. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think for me one of the hardest things that I well,
Speaker 1: like again and I can't imagine like being a sister
Speaker 1: of this. But I come from a DV background, and
Speaker 1: so when I was reading some of the articles, because
Speaker 1: I did, I wanted to know, yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: looked at them and when I saw the headlines and
Speaker 1: how it shaped shifted, and I looked at the comments
Speaker 1: because I I almost knew what the comments would say,
Speaker 1: because a lot of times when I read those headlines,
Speaker 1: it's like, well, I bet she did this or I
Speaker 1: bet And I'm like, why does it always go to
Speaker 1: the what the woman did and then say the woman
Speaker 1: did it, and then always and then and then them saying, well,
Speaker 1: she's a wrestler, so she's probably the aggressor. And I'm
Speaker 1: like how this is so unfair. It's like, first of all,
Speaker 1: we don't know the whole story, but also why does
Speaker 1: it switch and then just put the blame then on
Speaker 1: her because she's a wrestler, so with you as well
Speaker 1: being one in that field, like how do you kind
Speaker 1: of manage that? And those then perception of maybe then
Speaker 1: who would be the aggressor in a relationship?
Speaker 3: And you know what's crazy is the people because I
Speaker 3: would go look at like the bios and I would
Speaker 3: debate and pray really hard if I should send them
Speaker 3: a nice paragraph to their DMS, which I held back
Speaker 3: a lot, but I laughed because you guys are the
Speaker 3: same people who call wrestling fake, but all of a
Speaker 3: sudden in a situation, you want it to all a
Speaker 3: sudden be real, and that's always driven like driven US
Speaker 3: Pro wrestler is crazy when people call we do fake
Speaker 3: because you see constantly the injuries and what we put
Speaker 3: our bodies through and we actually are really doing it
Speaker 3: predetermined finishes. So yes, it's the entertainment part, but you
Speaker 3: know what we do bake. But I always find it
Speaker 3: funny with those people. It's like they use it when
Speaker 3: it's good for them and then they don't when it's not.
Speaker 3: But I've recognized this the last couple of years with
Speaker 3: a lot of big breakups and the media, and instantly
Speaker 3: the woman is the villain. And I think to myself, why, Like,
Speaker 3: is it because it's a strong, successful woman and we
Speaker 3: love seeing like we want to see her fall, so
Speaker 3: we root it on. I don't know, but it has
Speaker 3: driven me crazy and I even go, everyone keeps asking
Speaker 3: about her, but has anyone asked what he did? Anyone
Speaker 3: go look at the police report and it's like, no
Speaker 3: one does that, And I'm trying to figure that part out,
Speaker 3: and I go, is it because she may be out
Speaker 3: of the relationship bigger stars, so going after her more
Speaker 3: like means something? Not sure? But yeah, when I would
Speaker 3: see that actually the pro they're like, well, she's a
Speaker 3: pro wrestler, And I'm like, so weird because you're also
Speaker 3: the people who hate on wrestling. Right now we're going
Speaker 3: to be like it's so real, But yeah, I mean
Speaker 3: it's I still will see stuff at times and I
Speaker 3: literally it's really hard on me. I'm just like no
Speaker 3: patience for it anymore.
Speaker 2: M Yeah, what's the retreat for you? Like, how do
Speaker 2: you I know, you're a spiritual person. I feel like
Speaker 2: you guys were yoga people too.
Speaker 1: Is that true? Did I make that up? Look at
Speaker 1: me pulling from my total dubas archives. Yes?
Speaker 2: Girl, Yeah? But how what is the biggest reset then
Speaker 2: for all this? Because all of these things y'all are
Speaker 2: dealing with are really heavy. I mean, this is divorce
Speaker 2: is heavy enough without there being any sort of domestic
Speaker 2: violence allegations or like that. This is heavy, heavy stuff.
Speaker 2: So how does breathe the mom take a minute, breathe
Speaker 2: the sister to be able to get back to like
Speaker 2: less reactive and more proactive for you and your family?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean, you know, the great thing
Speaker 3: is is being with family. I mean I will say,
Speaker 3: like I have a life coach, talk to her every
Speaker 3: two weeks. It's incredible to do it for business and personal.
Speaker 3: My sister and I, you know, because we have a
Speaker 3: lot of faith. We constantly are praying. And I'm one
Speaker 3: of those like I just like I look at I'm
Speaker 3: blessed for what I have. I don't think about what
Speaker 3: I don't have. And when I say I'm not talking
Speaker 3: about material things in that way, I mean, like, okay,
Speaker 3: like my family's been through it. I mean, even my
Speaker 3: mom in the last couple of years, what she's been through,
Speaker 3: like we've been through it. But also I look at
Speaker 3: the positive things of the life we live and I
Speaker 3: get a wake up every morning. I have an incredible husband,
Speaker 3: I have two healthy children, and I have a wine
Speaker 3: brand and a thriving podcast. Like I look at all
Speaker 3: the things I have, and every night I make my
Speaker 3: kids do this and my husband and I do it.
Speaker 3: We say one thing we're grateful for, and then we
Speaker 3: say one thing we're proud of ourselves that we did
Speaker 3: that day. And I feel like constantly giving yourself affirmations
Speaker 3: really helps you get through it. And my sister, I
Speaker 3: will say this, her biggest thing when everything went down
Speaker 3: is she turned to faith because it's what we know
Speaker 3: never leaves you what feels there the strongest, and so
Speaker 3: you know, for her and I were still like that.
Speaker 3: I'm a church goer. I you know, I do a
Speaker 3: lot of my spiritual things and feel laugh. If you
Speaker 3: go in my backyard, you see a big statue of
Speaker 3: Buddha and then you see like Jesus and Mother married
Speaker 3: and my roses bring.
Speaker 1: Them all in.
Speaker 3: I bring them all in. I'm like I need all
Speaker 3: of you so a lot of help over here, but
Speaker 3: I do, and I think at the end.
Speaker 1: It's a tribe of her reason, you know, it's our tribe.
Speaker 3: Our situal tribe. I love it, and I think at
Speaker 3: the end of the day, my grandfather, full blooded Italian
Speaker 3: from South Philly, was always like, at the end of
Speaker 3: the day, you'll always have your family, and he's right.
Speaker 3: I have my thirteen cousins and their spouses that feel
Speaker 3: like brothers and sisters. I'll see all of them over
Speaker 3: Fourth of July. My aunts and uncle's in close with
Speaker 3: I'm like, the list goes on, and I'm constantly surrounded
Speaker 3: by family and that keeps me sane and humbled. They
Speaker 3: never let me be on my high horse, and that
Speaker 3: goes for my sister, and I think with that, we're
Speaker 3: so blessed. I'm like, and they just love We all
Speaker 3: love each other so hard, so I mean, we're lucky
Speaker 3: to constantly be surrounded by that, and that's helped me
Speaker 3: a lot.
Speaker 1: Some of us don't always have families, so we just
Speaker 1: pick them. Yep, gotcha, girl. X Games you're co hosting
Speaker 1: alongside Selima.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: June twenty seventh and twenty ninth, tell us all about it.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm so excited. Some skills full circle for
Speaker 3: me because I was when I say it was a
Speaker 3: skater chick. I dated the skater boys, never gotten on before,
Speaker 3: but you definitely saw me at the skate part.
Speaker 1: I let it each.
Speaker 3: If I got on the skateboard, I tried a couple
Speaker 3: of times to do an Alie and I did each,
Speaker 3: and I was like, you know what, Like, I don't
Speaker 3: feel like breaking bones.
Speaker 1: So I went on my daughter's hoverboard that I got
Speaker 1: her for Christmas this past year, and I mean, no,
Speaker 1: those ws by me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's like, I mean, you gotta have
Speaker 3: good balance. No, I'm so excited. You know, my sister
Speaker 3: and I. It's funny. So I was always I was
Speaker 3: definitely into the punk rock scene, very much into the
Speaker 3: extreme sports. But my sister and I when we moved
Speaker 3: back to San Diego in college, so we're talking two
Speaker 3: thousand and two, you know, Kelly Slater, Tony Hawk, all
Speaker 3: these big names. Extreme sports was on fire, and it
Speaker 3: was like to be in San Diego during that scene.
Speaker 3: It was absolutely incredible. And I'm so excited now I
Speaker 3: get a host and watch like these athletes like do
Speaker 3: to me do some of the most incredible, beautiful tricks
Speaker 3: that you'll ever see. I mean, being a pro wrestler,
Speaker 3: I feel like we can get very extreme as well.
Speaker 3: But when you watch these guys and gals out there,
Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, fearless, they're actually incredible, you know,
Speaker 3: not only athletes but artists because they're coming up with
Speaker 3: their own tricks and moves. They're getting creative, and it's
Speaker 3: it's so fun to watch. So I'm like the fact
Speaker 3: I get to be in that atmosphere, I'm like, oh
Speaker 3: my gosh, it's actually like a dream job. I'm like,
Speaker 3: I didn't even realize it until I got the call,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh my gosh, this is increble.
Speaker 1: And your husband is like, wait a minute, do you
Speaker 1: like these covering up here? I love tony tattoo.
Speaker 3: I used to be your style until you met me. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's true.
Speaker 1: Yes, to have with your husband, I mean with him
Speaker 1: being a wrestler too, do you guys just like I mean,
Speaker 1: I can't imagine. Actually, do you guys like do like
Speaker 1: little routines to get into bed or.
Speaker 3: Okay, the other night sent me so he's in Mexico
Speaker 3: City right now with Adew they have a big show,
Speaker 3: and he sent me, literally I think it was last
Speaker 3: night last night, these outfits and they're wild, and he goes,
Speaker 3: I want you and I to just show up and
Speaker 3: like at some independent show and just wrestle, and like
Speaker 3: no one, I'm like, only yo. But then I also
Speaker 3: told him, ooh, I like that.
Speaker 2: I know. I was like, I think my husbands sending
Speaker 2: me similar, but I have no talent in the rest.
Speaker 3: Like I know. He even like goes, should we dress
Speaker 3: the kids up? Tail? And I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: we're so that family. But like we'll be cooking in
Speaker 3: this kitchen and like it we're so the types like
Speaker 3: if I'm cooking, or if he's cooking, really I'll like
Speaker 3: jump behind him and do like a fool Nelson, or
Speaker 3: like we'll just like you know, wrestle around. And it's
Speaker 3: I love it. I love that I got to do
Speaker 3: it with him and wrestling. We have this like really
Speaker 3: weird carny talk, like we have just these words and
Speaker 3: he and I will do it about the kids and
Speaker 3: like it makes us laugh so hard, but no one
Speaker 3: has any idea what we're talking about. But it's it's
Speaker 3: so fun.
Speaker 1: Well, because you don't have any headlines of you know,
Speaker 1: your picture perfect. What what where do you guys struggle?
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, actually the one thing where we
Speaker 3: struggle is where we live, which is I feel like
Speaker 3: people saw us move all the time on the reality shows.
Speaker 3: But like my husband really wants to live in the
Speaker 3: Pacific Northwest, which I love, but I also like to
Speaker 3: be by family and work and that's kind of how
Speaker 3: I function. And so I will say this Northern California
Speaker 3: has definitely been our big compromise. He gets his trees,
Speaker 3: he gets his rain, we get more seasons, we're very
Speaker 3: close to like Tahoe and you know, seventy like different
Speaker 3: places and so but that was always like it was
Speaker 3: hard on us for a minute. Like when we're living
Speaker 3: in Arizona. He's like, I love that we're by your
Speaker 3: family because my mom my brother there. He goes, but
Speaker 3: I'm I'm miserable here. He's like, I need rain, and
Speaker 3: he goes, you get three inches a year here. He's like, Brie,
Speaker 3: I feel like this is a dying city. And I'm like,
Speaker 3: oh my gosh. So we would struggle on that because
Speaker 3: I was I can't just like move, you know, to
Speaker 3: the like Aberdeen Washington, I would be so depressed. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and he thrives. He thrives in the gloom like he
Speaker 3: all of a sudden he'll get energy. And I'm like,
Speaker 3: you're the only person who gets energy when it's gloomy.
Speaker 1: You guys are APPA based now right? Is that correct?
Speaker 1: And you love it? We'll see you soon, girl, girls
Speaker 1: drip NAPA.
Speaker 3: Really, you guys gonna stop by the tasting room.
Speaker 1: I love, Yeah, I love so long.
Speaker 3: Yeah, speak easy. I mean so I never go wine
Speaker 3: tasting because you live here and you like do it
Speaker 3: your first couple of months and then never again. I
Speaker 3: went yesterday to Promontory. I think that's the best tasting
Speaker 3: and I've ever done in a NAPA.
Speaker 1: It was really.
Speaker 3: I mean, you walk in and they pop dong, that's
Speaker 3: like your starter.
Speaker 1: I mean, oh, never had don before? That real? Which
Speaker 1: part domb?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Is that champagne? Yeah, I've never had it?
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, agree.
Speaker 2: We've got some Yeah, we've got some tasting. I don't
Speaker 2: know me too, honey, but a little dom never heard anything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, tastes the stars when you drink that.
Speaker 1: O my girl. All right, well girl, we know you
Speaker 1: have lots to do, so thank you for coming on
Speaker 1: the show. We appreciate you, and uh you again. Everyone
Speaker 1: listen to your podcasts all of it and leave a
Speaker 1: nice comment.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, yeah, let's be a little sweeter. I mean,
Speaker 3: that's the thing I keep saying. I'm like, if you
Speaker 3: look around, it feels like the world is in a
Speaker 3: really hard place. Like we just keep seeing like just
Speaker 3: sadness everywhere. All we can do is just spread love
Speaker 3: and be kind. It is so easy to be kind.
Speaker 3: It must drain people so much to be mean and
Speaker 3: have these like really like evil hearts. I think. But
Speaker 3: if we can just spread love and kindness, gosh, we're
Speaker 3: gonna win. Everyone's gonna win, and just like unite, Like
Speaker 3: if we can just unite.
Speaker 1: Wow, put your husband in a full nelson.
Speaker 3: I should literally, I know right now.
Speaker 2: I can tell it's in your body. I can see
Speaker 2: it trying to come out of you. I'm glad we're
Speaker 2: not in the same room.
Speaker 1: Actually, I might.
Speaker 3: Wrestle her and be like, girl, lock up, come on.
Speaker 1: I should have been a wrestler because I love like
Speaker 1: you know do You're scrappy.
Speaker 3: And I've been dying because we've been training together. She
Speaker 3: got me lifting again, and.
Speaker 1: So are you going to get back in the ring? Now,
Speaker 1: that's my call.
Speaker 3: So I would love to. I've not gotten a call yet,
Speaker 3: so I don't know if like someone's lost my number something.
Speaker 3: I don't know, And i'd love to put it out
Speaker 3: here on the show, but then i'd get a lot
Speaker 3: of people calling me. But yeah, I mean, I hey,
Speaker 3: when you are a wrestler, like we always retire, everyone
Speaker 3: retires like a hundred times, but that love and passion
Speaker 3: for the ring never leaves you. Originally, as you get older,
Speaker 3: it's harder. And what you're seeing the women do right
Speaker 3: now at WWEAWTNA, I mean, the list goes on incredible
Speaker 3: athletes and they're doing incredible things, and I always think, like,
Speaker 3: how can I ask get in there? So I would
Speaker 3: love to, especially see Nikki back and her excitement with
Speaker 3: it all. I'm like, girl, you need your tag partner.
Speaker 3: So hopefully I'm hoping. But after every work, every time
Speaker 3: we live, we'll lock up and we just think, and
Speaker 3: our trainer it just like trips them out. He's like,
Speaker 3: you guys are wild, but we have so much fun.
Speaker 3: We'll see each other across the room and we're just
Speaker 3: like running for a walk up. We're like, yeah, I
Speaker 3: love you, I'll teach you. Guys. Come out to wine.
Speaker 1: Country okay, great, get we'll get up tipsy on wine
Speaker 1: and then pull back out again.
Speaker 3: Best way to train.
Speaker 1: Okay. I love it. I'm excited. I cannot wait to
Speaker 1: see you get out of retirement for the ninth time.
Speaker 1: Things are going to be great. We'll be there front room,
Speaker 1: cute fans by girl Bye.