1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jane Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: All Right, I'm excited for this guest because she is 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: she's she's a feisty sister, but she's sweet. We've had 4 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:16,319 Speaker 1: her on before. I'm a huge fan. I am. 5 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 2: It's like a dormant secret fanship that I have about them. Well, 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 2: we're the same generation. Yeah, they mattered a lot and 7 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 2: they just got to be themselves, which was so inspiring 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 2: to me. 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: But they were also like strong, you know, And I'm 10 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: I want to walk the line with it with talking 11 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: about Nikki because obviously she's been through some stuff so 12 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: and her sister is obviously very protective and they're best friends. So, 13 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: but I do would like to get into some of 14 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: it as well. Yeah, there's a sister ship piece of 15 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: that I always want to know about, right and always, 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: you know, she's always having her back. So let's get 17 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: Brie Bella on and let's hear what she's up to. Hi, 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: how are you? 19 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 3: I'm good? It just been a crazy morning, you know, 20 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 3: summer with kids. 21 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: Literally, if you hear kids screaming, I'm like everybody, I 22 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: can hear every sound that is coming up here. 23 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: I was like, please, Dana's like on our laptop googling 24 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 2: what new camp they can go to. 25 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: I did, I literally just enroll them in a camp 26 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: for tomorrow because I'm like, I have an audition I got. 27 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, I was like, I'm the same. 28 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 3: I literally the kids are in a different camp every 29 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 3: week for like the next month. 30 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: How old are your kids? 31 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 3: So eight? And then my son he'll be five August first, 32 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 3: and I'm just like, I don't know. I just feel 33 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 3: like it's better for them, it's better for me and 34 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 3: get them busy out. 35 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: Especially the boys. 36 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 2: I feel like the boys have to go like and 37 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: I'm not even I don't even care how that sounds. Actually, 38 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: I'm not even going to preface it. I'm just gonna 39 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: say my son is a six year old boy who 40 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: needs to be on the go and outside and like 41 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: actively moving, or he's not a human that I really 42 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 2: want to live with. 43 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 3: I agree, I'm the same way. I mean, I literally 44 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: got a trampoline so my son can jump before school 45 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 3: teachers in sane. I'm like, I'll just see him at 46 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 3: times in my house and I go just go to 47 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 3: up from the tramp and I'm like, oh my gosh, 48 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 3: she just needs to constantly get energy out. 49 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: Things we thought we'd never say to a boy go 50 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 1: on the tramp. 51 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 3: So true. 52 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I think is so funny. I 53 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: was reading you know, obviously I know who you are. 54 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: I've watched her shows, but it was it was it 55 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: made me chuckle because when I was reading something, you said, 56 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: you know, you and your husband aren't really in the 57 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: press because you guys have a happy relationship, And I'm like, man, 58 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: isn't that the damn truth. I was like, me and 59 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 1: my ex husband plastered everywhere because our relationship was a show. 60 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: But then I'm like, but then, you know, not me 61 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 1: and my husband. Now, it's like they don't write about 62 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: how respectful and loving our relationship is. They you know, 63 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: they don't. They don't care about that. They just go 64 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,519 Speaker 1: pick up any little negative comment. It was like, why 65 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: can't we celebrate the happy couples? Why can't that be 66 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: a headline? 67 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 3: And I actually feel like people would click and read. 68 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 3: I think people actually find it refreshing. I mean, unless 69 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 3: I'm just one of those people who constantly like positivity 70 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 3: surrounded by me. But sometimes I feel like the media, 71 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 3: it just feels like we just constantly want to hear negativity, 72 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 3: how bad people's lives are going, and I feel like 73 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 3: more than ever, they're just like digging so deep into 74 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 3: people's privacy, like what I've seen with my sister first 75 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 3: hand with this divorce. I'm like, where do like we 76 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 3: draw the line? Like where is their boundaries? Because I 77 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 3: feel like media just has zero boundaries and it's awful. 78 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: Well, and I think it's hard to because you guys 79 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: are I mean, it's not that you guys are super 80 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: private too, you know, it's like you guys have your shows, 81 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: you have, so I think there's when people say boundaries 82 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: like all right, well fine there Devil's Advocate is like, well, 83 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: you have the reality shows, you put your personal life 84 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: out there, so then it should be okay, But what 85 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: is the boundary within all of that? Because there are 86 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: there should be boundaries, even whether you share your life 87 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: socially or not. You know. 88 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: I agree. It's like, you know, one of those things 89 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 3: I love taking pictures with fans. I wouldn't be where 90 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 3: I'm met today if it wasn't for my fans. But 91 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 3: if I'm eating with my family, like I feel like, 92 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 3: you know, just wait till we're done, or you know, 93 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: like certain things like that, and you know, living our 94 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 3: lives on reality television, I feel like, you know you 95 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 3: do you give so much and Nikki and I never 96 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 3: hold back, even on our podcast, we don't hold back. 97 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 3: But I feel like it's almost like you know, us 98 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 3: weeklies and People's and all these great platforms. It's also 99 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 3: like ask permission, like if you want to do a 100 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 3: deep story and like fact check, that's the one that crazy, 101 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 3: like there's zero fact checking. 102 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: No no, I yeah, and there is zero and when 103 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: they do have the proof. This is the funny. I 104 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: wrote about this in my book. They were running a 105 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: terrible story and it was given some information, a lot 106 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: of false information from an ex boyfriend and a bitter one. 107 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: I would like to just go on record. And I 108 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: emailed the editor who was writing the story and being like, 109 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: here there's actual text message proofs to then show that 110 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: it's not that's not the truth. And she's like, well, 111 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: we're going to run it anyways. I'm like, I'm giving you. 112 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 3: Improve right what no, I mean, it's wild, like literally 113 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 3: anyone can call TMZ, anyone can call anyone and they 114 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 3: can just say so I heard this, and they will 115 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: run it and it is like wild to me. I mean, 116 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 3: I told Nicole, I'm like, I literally want to put 117 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 3: so many people in check and be like, please, have 118 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 3: you even like fact checked? Have you like you're just 119 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 3: looking at a like simple little headline, not even reading 120 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 3: the story, and like they make their opinions and their 121 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 3: decisions on what they feel is right and wrong. 122 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: Prell you remind me because I had you and Nikki 123 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: both on are you the sister that dms the haters? 124 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 3: No, that was Nicki, and that was I feel like 125 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 3: roles are reversed because I'm a protective sister. It's like 126 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 3: I feel like now I'm dming people. 127 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 2: So that was going to be my question for you, 128 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 2: because you guys are so like, you're my goals. I 129 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 2: just wanted a sister. I love that you're twins. I 130 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: fell in love with y'all when you were in Total 131 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 2: Divas and I loved and I think I told you 132 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 2: all this before, but I loved that you were always 133 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 2: It was the first time I saw women be strong 134 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: and sexy, you know, And I was like, yes, more 135 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 2: of that as I'm like on hydroxy cut in my 136 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 2: very bad college days, you know, but like you were 137 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 2: that you were like positive body image for me because 138 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 2: it was about being strong and also about having a voice, 139 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 2: and and you were just hot and I was like, 140 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 2: this is awesome. So you two are so bonded obviously, 141 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 2: I mean your twins, your sister's your family. But you 142 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:42,119 Speaker 2: how how do you handle being protective because I've watched 143 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 2: her be protective of you. I've watched you be protective 144 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 2: of her. But like now things are really swirling, like 145 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: it's crazy. Breathe, Like I mean the headlines are all 146 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 2: over and that I can't imagine sitting and watching someone 147 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 2: I love because I've had to do that. 148 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and going this is so false. 149 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 3: Right, how do you think maybe firsthand for everything? Like 150 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 3: you know, well, I will say how I do it 151 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 3: is you know, I'm a very patient, loving person. I'm 152 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 3: extremely spiritual, so I definitely use my faith to kind 153 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 3: of like take a minute and take a breath. And 154 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 3: I am like, okay, so I call myself. But I 155 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 3: have more than ever I have like gone at it 156 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 3: with people and like really because I you know, I 157 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 3: told my sister this. I was like I get being 158 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 3: silent and like, you know, taking the high road, but 159 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 3: sometimes you got to put people in check and I 160 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 3: go and it's time, and so I was just like, 161 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 3: you know, I feel like how I sleep at night 162 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 3: is just telling some people like the facts and everything 163 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 3: and protecting her and I actually sleep like a baby. 164 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: It's like really great. When I don't stand up for 165 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 3: myself or use my voice, I lose sleep at night 166 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 3: because I'm like, why do I just let that go? 167 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: Like phone? 168 00:07:56,280 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, but it's hard. It's so it's been very. 169 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: Challenging as a sister because I know what my friends. 170 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: When I have dated certain people, they have seen the 171 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: red flags and some have told me prior. Some chose 172 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: to not tell me until later when your sister has 173 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: you know, like in the last relationship, did you see 174 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: the red flags and did you talk to her about them? 175 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Or yeah, okay yeah before they got married. 176 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah. I mean, And I feel like people saw 177 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 3: it on the reality show, like you definitely saw some 178 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 3: of my conversations on Total bellas I had and I 179 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: was honest, And you know, it's funny because there'd be 180 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 3: some people coming at me like you just date every 181 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 3: guy she's with. It's like no, because I know what 182 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 3: she deserves, Like I know where how my sister should 183 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 3: be treated like, and I'm her twin, and like, if 184 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 3: I don't think my twin deserves the best, then why 185 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 3: should she think that. It's like no, I just you know, 186 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 3: I definitely did. And I feel like for anyone when 187 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 3: your closest friends and your family member tell you about 188 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 3: red flags, it's like you instantly want to be stubborn 189 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 3: and pushed back, like it's crazy. 190 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 1: What did you think was the biggest thing that you 191 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: were like, they're not going to work because of this, 192 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: like they're too similar in this area, or they bought 193 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: heads too much here. 194 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just felt like I just you know, for me, 195 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: it was I just thought maybe they saw life differently 196 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 3: and maybe wanted different things. And I feel like then 197 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 3: that makes people bump heads. I also think, like, you know, 198 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 3: they did get put in a situation where, like, you know, 199 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 3: they became parents before getting married, and I think that's 200 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 3: always tough because I know for my husband and I 201 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 3: we've been married eleven years and we've had a very 202 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 3: successful relationship, but communication was always key for us. And 203 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 3: I even remember he and I actually did this thing. 204 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 3: It was like this Christian workbook thing on what we 205 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 3: see on becoming parents, and it was really interesting. We 206 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 3: had this workbook and we were like how to discipline, 207 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 3: how this, and then we'd like look at like then 208 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 3: we worked with a pastor, and then you went through 209 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 3: your answers and you really got to start to compromise, 210 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 3: you know, before we were even trying to have kids. 211 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 3: But I think what helped us is we had all 212 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: this time to really get to know each other, to 213 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 3: come into rhythm be not only partners, you know, in 214 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 3: a romantic way, but also like just in life and 215 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 3: understanding like how to live with someone. So I just 216 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 3: maybe things just moved too fast so they didn't have 217 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,959 Speaker 3: the opportunity to really just like put that in motion. 218 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 3: But communications everything, and I think that was a big 219 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 3: thing lacking, And I think that's the one thing that 220 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:57,680 Speaker 3: is so important in a relationship for a good foundation, 221 00:10:57,920 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 3: especially in marriage. 222 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: No, I mean I get that piece I had, you know, 223 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: with my now husband, we had a baby before we 224 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 1: got married. But it's also like I was almost forty, 225 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 1: and you know, I knew we wanted to try and 226 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: the emotions you know started a little faster. But you know, 227 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: you kind of skip that piece of the work that 228 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: you did with your husband which really forms that amazing 229 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: foundation for communication and all that. And it's like, you 230 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: gotta be real strong because you've got a baby and 231 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: a toddler then running around and you're if you're not 232 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: on the same wavelength and communication styles and the whole thing. 233 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it can be hard. And I know 234 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: hindsight is twenty twenty. 235 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 2: I'm also a reverse baby havever, so it's a little tricky, 236 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 2: but I know hindsight's twenty twenty. But do you feel 237 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 2: like the reality TV piece or just the public piece 238 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 2: of this expedited that for your sister because I can't 239 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 2: imagine feeling like you're feeling or like she's feeling. And 240 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 2: then also it being so wildly public, that's just an 241 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 2: unfair layer that I feels like it expedites all of 242 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 2: the worst things. 243 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, faster. 244 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 3: I feel like in her last couple relationships, if it 245 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 3: wasn't put so much into the media, it would have 246 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 3: had more fair chances. Even in our last relationship. It's 247 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 3: almost like, and I think people actually they're hurtful comments 248 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 3: and how you know, there's a ton of detectives or 249 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 3: what do they call themselves on TikTok Instagram that just 250 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 3: feel like they know stories and the way they dissect, 251 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 3: but they don't really know. They only know what's given 252 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 3: to them through these like you know, media platforms. So 253 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 3: I think a lot of people don't realize your opinions 254 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 3: can lay heavy on, like how even people like dictate 255 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 3: what their next move is. And maybe you know, big 256 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 3: relationships that out there don't give each other that second 257 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 3: fair chance right as they're getting judged hard. It's like 258 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 3: living like under a microscope. And so I think that 259 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 3: kind of did happen with her last couple relationships. And 260 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 3: I told her, I'm like, Nicole, we're forty one, Like 261 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 3: we grew up with no social media. We lived life 262 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: like failing and succeeding, and a lot of our failures 263 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,439 Speaker 3: is actually what helped our growth. And nowadays everyone thinks 264 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 3: we got to walk on this perfect line. And I'm 265 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 3: the first one to be like, I'm not perfect. You 266 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 3: can judge me for it. I don't care. But she 267 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 3: takes it hard, and I'm like, nowadays with social media, 268 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 3: I can't imagine being a kid in today's I just 269 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 3: can't imagine being fifteen. I went through so many weird 270 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 3: stages and I needed those stages to become the woman 271 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 3: I am today. But I would have been judged hard 272 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 3: and I would have taken some weird selfies. I know 273 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 3: that in college, but I mean I would go to Titawana. 274 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 3: I think how I was dressed. I'm like, oh my gosh, oh, 275 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 3: I would have died. 276 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: Also, shout out to our former selves because we were really hot. 277 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 2: Like I just went through my attic space and three 278 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 2: and I was like, why was I even wearing clothes? 279 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 2: We're all the same age. I was, yeah, we're all 280 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: the same age. Like my BACKLA shirt, why was I 281 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: even wearing? 282 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 3: That? Was so? 283 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: How did she be naked? Go girl? 284 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 3: I am same and so and like I just like, 285 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 3: you know, I think to myself, it was so great 286 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 3: about that is that we got that. I mean that's 287 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 3: like very freeing, and that was so freeing for us 288 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 3: and we needed it. We needed to get that out. 289 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 3: But now kids nowadays, I mean, then they'll get bullied 290 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 3: or someone will be jealous in their friend group and 291 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 3: then get everyone to hate them, and then it's like 292 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 3: it turns into weird situations for the young ones. But 293 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 3: I think for us now, it's hard for us all 294 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 3: to live our lives almost with social media for us 295 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 3: who didn't grow up with it, because I have forty one, 296 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, what am I getting attacked for? Like, wait, 297 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 3: what did people want me to do? And what do 298 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 3: they like? It's like you never feel like you can win, 299 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 3: and you sometimes feel like you're losing a lot, but 300 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 3: you're like, oh, whatever, I don't know it's. 301 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: And the tolerance gets lower, Oh for sure. Yeah, I 302 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: think for me one of the hardest things that I well, 303 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: like again and I can't imagine like being a sister 304 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 1: of this. But I come from a DV background, and 305 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: so when I was reading some of the articles, because 306 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: I did, I wanted to know, yeah, you know, I 307 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: looked at them and when I saw the headlines and 308 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: how it shaped shifted, and I looked at the comments 309 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: because I I almost knew what the comments would say, 310 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: because a lot of times when I read those headlines, 311 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: it's like, well, I bet she did this or I 312 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: bet And I'm like, why does it always go to 313 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: the what the woman did and then say the woman 314 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: did it, and then always and then and then them saying, well, 315 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: she's a wrestler, so she's probably the aggressor. And I'm 316 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: like how this is so unfair. It's like, first of all, 317 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: we don't know the whole story, but also why does 318 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: it switch and then just put the blame then on 319 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 1: her because she's a wrestler, so with you as well 320 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: being one in that field, like how do you kind 321 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: of manage that? And those then perception of maybe then 322 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: who would be the aggressor in a relationship? 323 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 3: And you know what's crazy is the people because I 324 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 3: would go look at like the bios and I would 325 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 3: debate and pray really hard if I should send them 326 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 3: a nice paragraph to their DMS, which I held back 327 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 3: a lot, but I laughed because you guys are the 328 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 3: same people who call wrestling fake, but all of a 329 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 3: sudden in a situation, you want it to all a 330 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 3: sudden be real, and that's always driven like driven US 331 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 3: Pro wrestler is crazy when people call we do fake 332 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 3: because you see constantly the injuries and what we put 333 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 3: our bodies through and we actually are really doing it 334 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 3: predetermined finishes. So yes, it's the entertainment part, but you 335 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 3: know what we do bake. But I always find it 336 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 3: funny with those people. It's like they use it when 337 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 3: it's good for them and then they don't when it's not. 338 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 3: But I've recognized this the last couple of years with 339 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 3: a lot of big breakups and the media, and instantly 340 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 3: the woman is the villain. And I think to myself, why, Like, 341 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 3: is it because it's a strong, successful woman and we 342 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 3: love seeing like we want to see her fall, so 343 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 3: we root it on. I don't know, but it has 344 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 3: driven me crazy and I even go, everyone keeps asking 345 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 3: about her, but has anyone asked what he did? Anyone 346 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 3: go look at the police report and it's like, no 347 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 3: one does that, And I'm trying to figure that part out, 348 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 3: and I go, is it because she may be out 349 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 3: of the relationship bigger stars, so going after her more 350 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 3: like means something? Not sure? But yeah, when I would 351 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 3: see that actually the pro they're like, well, she's a 352 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 3: pro wrestler, And I'm like, so weird because you're also 353 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,439 Speaker 3: the people who hate on wrestling. Right now we're going 354 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 3: to be like it's so real, But yeah, I mean 355 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 3: it's I still will see stuff at times and I 356 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 3: literally it's really hard on me. I'm just like no 357 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 3: patience for it anymore. 358 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 2: M Yeah, what's the retreat for you? Like, how do 359 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 2: you I know, you're a spiritual person. I feel like 360 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 2: you guys were yoga people too. 361 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: Is that true? Did I make that up? Look at 362 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 1: me pulling from my total dubas archives. Yes? 363 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 2: Girl, Yeah? But how what is the biggest reset then 364 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 2: for all this? Because all of these things y'all are 365 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 2: dealing with are really heavy. I mean, this is divorce 366 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 2: is heavy enough without there being any sort of domestic 367 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: violence allegations or like that. This is heavy, heavy stuff. 368 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 2: So how does breathe the mom take a minute, breathe 369 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 2: the sister to be able to get back to like 370 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 2: less reactive and more proactive for you and your family? 371 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean, you know, the great thing 372 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 3: is is being with family. I mean I will say, 373 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 3: like I have a life coach, talk to her every 374 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 3: two weeks. It's incredible to do it for business and personal. 375 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 3: My sister and I, you know, because we have a 376 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:18,479 Speaker 3: lot of faith. We constantly are praying. And I'm one 377 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 3: of those like I just like I look at I'm 378 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 3: blessed for what I have. I don't think about what 379 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 3: I don't have. And when I say I'm not talking 380 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: about material things in that way, I mean, like, okay, 381 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 3: like my family's been through it. I mean, even my 382 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 3: mom in the last couple of years, what she's been through, 383 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 3: like we've been through it. But also I look at 384 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 3: the positive things of the life we live and I 385 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 3: get a wake up every morning. I have an incredible husband, 386 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,679 Speaker 3: I have two healthy children, and I have a wine 387 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 3: brand and a thriving podcast. Like I look at all 388 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 3: the things I have, and every night I make my 389 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 3: kids do this and my husband and I do it. 390 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 3: We say one thing we're grateful for, and then we 391 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 3: say one thing we're proud of ourselves that we did 392 00:18:56,359 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 3: that day. And I feel like constantly giving yourself affirmations 393 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 3: really helps you get through it. And my sister, I 394 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 3: will say this, her biggest thing when everything went down 395 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 3: is she turned to faith because it's what we know 396 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 3: never leaves you what feels there the strongest, and so 397 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 3: you know, for her and I were still like that. 398 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 3: I'm a church goer. I you know, I do a 399 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 3: lot of my spiritual things and feel laugh. If you 400 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 3: go in my backyard, you see a big statue of 401 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 3: Buddha and then you see like Jesus and Mother married 402 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 3: and my roses bring. 403 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:27,479 Speaker 1: Them all in. 404 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 3: I bring them all in. I'm like I need all 405 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 3: of you so a lot of help over here, but 406 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 3: I do, and I think at the end. 407 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: It's a tribe of her reason, you know, it's our tribe. 408 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 3: Our situal tribe. I love it, and I think at 409 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 3: the end of the day, my grandfather, full blooded Italian 410 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 3: from South Philly, was always like, at the end of 411 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 3: the day, you'll always have your family, and he's right. 412 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 3: I have my thirteen cousins and their spouses that feel 413 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 3: like brothers and sisters. I'll see all of them over 414 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 3: Fourth of July. My aunts and uncle's in close with 415 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, the list goes on, and I'm constantly surrounded 416 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 3: by family and that keeps me sane and humbled. They 417 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 3: never let me be on my high horse, and that 418 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 3: goes for my sister, and I think with that, we're 419 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 3: so blessed. I'm like, and they just love We all 420 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 3: love each other so hard, so I mean, we're lucky 421 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 3: to constantly be surrounded by that, and that's helped me 422 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 3: a lot. 423 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 1: Some of us don't always have families, so we just 424 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 1: pick them. Yep, gotcha, girl. X Games you're co hosting 425 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: alongside Selima. 426 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 427 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:42,239 Speaker 1: June twenty seventh and twenty ninth, tell us all about it. 428 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 3: You know, I'm so excited. Some skills full circle for 429 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 3: me because I was when I say it was a 430 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 3: skater chick. I dated the skater boys, never gotten on before, 431 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 3: but you definitely saw me at the skate part. 432 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: I let it each. 433 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 3: If I got on the skateboard, I tried a couple 434 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 3: of times to do an Alie and I did each, 435 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 3: and I was like, you know what, Like, I don't 436 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 3: feel like breaking bones. 437 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 1: So I went on my daughter's hoverboard that I got 438 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 1: her for Christmas this past year, and I mean, no, 439 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: those ws by me. 440 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's like, I mean, you gotta have 441 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 3: good balance. No, I'm so excited. You know, my sister 442 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 3: and I. It's funny. So I was always I was 443 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 3: definitely into the punk rock scene, very much into the 444 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 3: extreme sports. But my sister and I when we moved 445 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 3: back to San Diego in college, so we're talking two 446 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 3: thousand and two, you know, Kelly Slater, Tony Hawk, all 447 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 3: these big names. Extreme sports was on fire, and it 448 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 3: was like to be in San Diego during that scene. 449 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 3: It was absolutely incredible. And I'm so excited now I 450 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 3: get a host and watch like these athletes like do 451 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 3: to me do some of the most incredible, beautiful tricks 452 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 3: that you'll ever see. I mean, being a pro wrestler, 453 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 3: I feel like we can get very extreme as well. 454 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 3: But when you watch these guys and gals out there, 455 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:03,120 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, fearless, they're actually incredible, you know, 456 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:06,159 Speaker 3: not only athletes but artists because they're coming up with 457 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 3: their own tricks and moves. They're getting creative, and it's 458 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 3: it's so fun to watch. So I'm like the fact 459 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 3: I get to be in that atmosphere, I'm like, oh 460 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 3: my gosh, it's actually like a dream job. I'm like, 461 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 3: I didn't even realize it until I got the call, 462 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh my gosh, this is increble. 463 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,199 Speaker 1: And your husband is like, wait a minute, do you 464 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,640 Speaker 1: like these covering up here? I love tony tattoo. 465 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 3: I used to be your style until you met me. Yeah, 466 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 3: it's true. 467 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: Yes, to have with your husband, I mean with him 468 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: being a wrestler too, do you guys just like I mean, 469 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 1: I can't imagine. Actually, do you guys like do like 470 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: little routines to get into bed or. 471 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 3: Okay, the other night sent me so he's in Mexico 472 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,680 Speaker 3: City right now with Adew they have a big show, 473 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,400 Speaker 3: and he sent me, literally I think it was last 474 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 3: night last night, these outfits and they're wild, and he goes, 475 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 3: I want you and I to just show up and 476 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 3: like at some independent show and just wrestle, and like 477 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 3: no one, I'm like, only yo. But then I also 478 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 3: told him, ooh, I like that. 479 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,640 Speaker 2: I know. I was like, I think my husbands sending 480 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 2: me similar, but I have no talent in the rest. 481 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 3: Like I know. He even like goes, should we dress 482 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 3: the kids up? Tail? And I'm like, oh my gosh, 483 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,439 Speaker 3: we're so that family. But like we'll be cooking in 484 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 3: this kitchen and like it we're so the types like 485 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 3: if I'm cooking, or if he's cooking, really I'll like 486 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 3: jump behind him and do like a fool Nelson, or 487 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 3: like we'll just like you know, wrestle around. And it's 488 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 3: I love it. I love that I got to do 489 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 3: it with him and wrestling. We have this like really 490 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,239 Speaker 3: weird carny talk, like we have just these words and 491 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,400 Speaker 3: he and I will do it about the kids and 492 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 3: like it makes us laugh so hard, but no one 493 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 3: has any idea what we're talking about. But it's it's 494 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 3: so fun. 495 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 1: Well, because you don't have any headlines of you know, 496 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 1: your picture perfect. What what where do you guys struggle? 497 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, actually the one thing where we 498 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 3: struggle is where we live, which is I feel like 499 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 3: people saw us move all the time on the reality shows. 500 00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 3: But like my husband really wants to live in the 501 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 3: Pacific Northwest, which I love, but I also like to 502 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 3: be by family and work and that's kind of how 503 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 3: I function. And so I will say this Northern California 504 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,439 Speaker 3: has definitely been our big compromise. He gets his trees, 505 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 3: he gets his rain, we get more seasons, we're very 506 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 3: close to like Tahoe and you know, seventy like different 507 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 3: places and so but that was always like it was 508 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 3: hard on us for a minute. Like when we're living 509 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 3: in Arizona. He's like, I love that we're by your 510 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 3: family because my mom my brother there. He goes, but 511 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 3: I'm I'm miserable here. He's like, I need rain, and 512 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,879 Speaker 3: he goes, you get three inches a year here. He's like, Brie, 513 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 3: I feel like this is a dying city. And I'm like, 514 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 3: oh my gosh. So we would struggle on that because 515 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 3: I was I can't just like move, you know, to 516 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 3: the like Aberdeen Washington, I would be so depressed. Yeah, 517 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 3: and he thrives. He thrives in the gloom like he 518 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 3: all of a sudden he'll get energy. And I'm like, 519 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 3: you're the only person who gets energy when it's gloomy. 520 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: You guys are APPA based now right? Is that correct? 521 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 1: And you love it? We'll see you soon, girl, girls 522 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: drip NAPA. 523 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 3: Really, you guys gonna stop by the tasting room. 524 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: I love, Yeah, I love so long. 525 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, speak easy. I mean so I never go wine 526 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 3: tasting because you live here and you like do it 527 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 3: your first couple of months and then never again. I 528 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 3: went yesterday to Promontory. I think that's the best tasting 529 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 3: and I've ever done in a NAPA. 530 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 1: It was really. 531 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 3: I mean, you walk in and they pop dong, that's 532 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 3: like your starter. 533 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 1: I mean, oh, never had don before? That real? Which 534 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: part domb? 535 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 536 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 3: No? 537 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: Is that champagne? Yeah, I've never had it? 538 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, agree. 539 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:47,640 Speaker 2: We've got some Yeah, we've got some tasting. I don't 540 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 2: know me too, honey, but a little dom never heard anything. 541 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, tastes the stars when you drink that. 542 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: O my girl. All right, well girl, we know you 543 00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 1: have lots to do, so thank you for coming on 544 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 1: the show. We appreciate you, and uh you again. Everyone 545 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: listen to your podcasts all of it and leave a 546 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: nice comment. 547 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 3: Well yeah, yeah, let's be a little sweeter. I mean, 548 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 3: that's the thing I keep saying. I'm like, if you 549 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 3: look around, it feels like the world is in a 550 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 3: really hard place. Like we just keep seeing like just 551 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 3: sadness everywhere. All we can do is just spread love 552 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 3: and be kind. It is so easy to be kind. 553 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 3: It must drain people so much to be mean and 554 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 3: have these like really like evil hearts. I think. But 555 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 3: if we can just spread love and kindness, gosh, we're 556 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 3: gonna win. Everyone's gonna win, and just like unite, Like 557 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 3: if we can just unite. 558 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 1: Wow, put your husband in a full nelson. 559 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 3: I should literally, I know right now. 560 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: I can tell it's in your body. I can see 561 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 2: it trying to come out of you. I'm glad we're 562 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 2: not in the same room. 563 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: Actually, I might. 564 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 3: Wrestle her and be like, girl, lock up, come on. 565 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 1: I should have been a wrestler because I love like 566 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,360 Speaker 1: you know do You're scrappy. 567 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 3: And I've been dying because we've been training together. She 568 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 3: got me lifting again, and. 569 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 1: So are you going to get back in the ring? Now, 570 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: that's my call. 571 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 3: So I would love to. I've not gotten a call yet, 572 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 3: so I don't know if like someone's lost my number something. 573 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 3: I don't know, And i'd love to put it out 574 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 3: here on the show, but then i'd get a lot 575 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 3: of people calling me. But yeah, I mean, I hey, 576 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,439 Speaker 3: when you are a wrestler, like we always retire, everyone 577 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 3: retires like a hundred times, but that love and passion 578 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,439 Speaker 3: for the ring never leaves you. Originally, as you get older, 579 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 3: it's harder. And what you're seeing the women do right 580 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 3: now at WWEAWTNA, I mean, the list goes on incredible 581 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 3: athletes and they're doing incredible things, and I always think, like, 582 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 3: how can I ask get in there? So I would 583 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 3: love to, especially see Nikki back and her excitement with 584 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 3: it all. I'm like, girl, you need your tag partner. 585 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 3: So hopefully I'm hoping. But after every work, every time 586 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 3: we live, we'll lock up and we just think, and 587 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 3: our trainer it just like trips them out. He's like, 588 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 3: you guys are wild, but we have so much fun. 589 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,239 Speaker 3: We'll see each other across the room and we're just 590 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 3: like running for a walk up. We're like, yeah, I 591 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 3: love you, I'll teach you. Guys. Come out to wine. 592 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 1: Country okay, great, get we'll get up tipsy on wine 593 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 1: and then pull back out again. 594 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 3: Best way to train. 595 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 1: Okay. I love it. I'm excited. I cannot wait to 596 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,360 Speaker 1: see you get out of retirement for the ninth time. 597 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: Things are going to be great. We'll be there front room, 598 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 1: cute fans by girl Bye.