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Speaker 1: Second date, up date.

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Speaker 2: If you've ever been set up by a friend for

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Speaker 2: especially if the friend who's setting you up is brooked.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I am so good at this. One of

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Speaker 3: my friends actually got married to the person I said

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Speaker 2: But the problem is Brooke is notoriously competitive. So right

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Speaker 2: after she introduces you to the date, Brook undoes an

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Speaker 2: extra button and tries to flirt and then steal the

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Speaker 2: guy right back.

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Speaker 4: Mommy can take it.

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Speaker 1: That's how it's done.

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Speaker 2: Apparently that isn't as awkward as the blind date situation.

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Speaker 2: One of our listeners found herself tossed into the other

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Speaker 2: night the Brook button yourself back up and let's say, hi, Robin,

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Speaker 2: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, my buttons.

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Speaker 2: We're in a safe.

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Speaker 4: Still uncomfortable a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So you went out on a blind date set

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Speaker 2: up by a friend I did.

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Speaker 5: It was something else?

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Speaker 6: Can I can I hear the sales pitch from your friend,

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Speaker 6: like why you should do this?

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Speaker 2: Let's tell us how it started?

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Speaker 5: All right, So I'm recently single. Okay, my friends were

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Speaker 5: just really encouraging me to go on and get out there.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, jump back on the horse. And it

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Speaker 5: had been a long time since I'd been on any

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Speaker 3: I thought you were going to say any horse, Well

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Speaker 6: And what did that feel like on the dating apps

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Speaker 6: for your first time in a while.

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Speaker 5: Well, I wasn't really sure what to do. And so

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Speaker 5: my friend, like my BESTIEP said I can make a

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Speaker 2: Okay, dangerous.

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Speaker 5: I was a little hesitant, but I mean she does

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would trust my best friend to do it.

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Speaker 2: I mean I would argue, my mom knows me better

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Speaker 2: than anybody else, and she set up a dating profile

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Speaker 2: for me and that turned out freaking horribly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe that's different.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure your friend was kinder than my mom was.

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Speaker 2: Tell us how it went. How did it go?

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Speaker 5: So basically, I get a call from her like a

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Speaker 5: week after. I guess she's been really monitoring my Oh.

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Speaker 3: She's still lugged in exciting.

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Speaker 6: I thought, like, she set it up for you and

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Speaker 6: then she let you go, like you know, give you wings,

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Speaker 2: It sounds like she took full control over your dating profile.

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Speaker 5: I guess I wasn't ready for the wings. Just yet.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: He told me that she found the perfect match for me, Like, Hey,

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Speaker 5: We're going to go to this nice bar tomorrow and

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna come with you.

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Speaker 3: What way?

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Speaker 2: Now she's pulling a Brook move.

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Speaker 4: But does that mean she told the guy, Hey, I'm

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Speaker 4: setting up my friend or was she acting like you?

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Speaker 5: She said she was setting up me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So there's.

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Speaker 3: Honesty from the beginning.

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Speaker 2: Before you went to the bar, did she show you

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Speaker 5: Oh? No, no she didn't.

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Speaker 4: It was a real blind.

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Speaker 5: Definition blind date. Yeah, and I was like, okay, well,

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Speaker 5: can I at least get his name? And no?

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Speaker 3: No, not Okay, So is he there when you walk

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Speaker 3: into the bar.

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Speaker 4: She didn't know.

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Speaker 3: Well, her friend would know. Her friend would tell her.

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Speaker 5: I didn't know, but I will say. Right after walking in,

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Speaker 5: this really cute guy comes up to me and he says, oh, hey,

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Speaker 5: you must be Robin.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and he's cute.

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Speaker 5: She picked a good one. His name is Jay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's awesome.

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Speaker 2: Well, good work on your friend.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. So here's where it gets crazy. My

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Speaker 5: At this point, I'm really confused.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm confused too.

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Speaker 5: So she made a very public announcement and I quote,

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Speaker 5: this is my hot best friend Robin. She's recently single. Oh,

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Speaker 5: I all to give her her own TV experience of

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Speaker 5: the Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: Rent No, oh my god.

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Speaker 5: She invited like twenty guys.

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Speaker 7: What was men?

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Speaker 3: Twenty men were waiting for just what men?

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Speaker 5: But not all of them new, not all of them new,

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Speaker 5: And like I saw a few guys walk out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah I would walk out.

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Speaker 3: Well that wasn't because you. They just couldn't handle the competition.

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Speaker 2: You know, how did you feel when your friend sprung

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Speaker 2: that on you, that suddenly we're going to be meeting

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Speaker 5: I was horrified.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So what did you say to your friend? Was

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Speaker 3: she did she get that? You were like mortified?

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Speaker 5: I think she got it. But she pushes me, which

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Speaker 5: most of the time is a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you know.

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Speaker 5: We balanced each other out.

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Speaker 2: So did you start talking to all these dudes?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I just imagined her with a clipboard, her friend in

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Speaker 3: a corner, just crossing names.

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Speaker 6: Off, like all right, next, come on, organize it's a

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Speaker 1: She's doing side interviews.

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Speaker 5: She just might have done that. I wouldn't be surprised.

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Speaker 2: My god, I mean, did you end up like vibing

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Speaker 2: with any of these dudes?

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Speaker 5: Surprisingly?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Oh, okay, they're at least like three or four that I.

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Speaker 1: Was really.

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Speaker 4: So are we calling four guys right now? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Which one are we calling?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 5: I really like the first guy that was there right in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you told us his name is Jay.

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Speaker 6: Jay got really distracted by the twenty dudes forgotten it?

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Speaker 6: And why did Why did Jay stand out?

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Speaker 5: He was just like really smart and funny. We had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's on time. He was the first one there.

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Speaker 2: So Jay was your favorite from the bachelorette experience?

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Speaker 7: Like him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Did you ever end up going out with him again

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Speaker 5: So we exchanged numbers, okay, and we've been texting and

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Speaker 5: all that, and it was really nice. But recently I've

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Speaker 5: been kind of putting in more energy to the whole

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like he's fading a little bit.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I just I don't know why he's pulling away.

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Speaker 6: Now interesting, I mean, how long has it been since

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Speaker 5: Now, I guess it hasn't been that long, Like a

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Speaker 3: That's a long time. Yeah, that's a lot of time.

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Speaker 3: Did you ever go out with any of the other

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 2: Wow, okay's the one and only.

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Speaker 3: All eggs one basket.

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Speaker 7: Huh.

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Speaker 2: All right, thank god. Here's what we're doing. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: come back. We're gonna call Jay for you, and we're

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Speaker 2: gonna invite him into the Fantasy Suite to ask him

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Speaker 2: why he won't go out with you. One more I

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Speaker 2: want to get to. We're gonna do it with your second.

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Speaker 1: Date update right after this second date update.

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Speaker 2: Anybody who's seen The Bachelor or The Bachelorette knows the

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Speaker 2: relationships that start on those shows have a notoriously high

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Speaker 2: success rate of going to.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: All seasons, I'd say almost three of those couples are

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Speaker 4: I'd like half of them, like, we may get divorced

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Speaker 4: before the marriage.

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Speaker 2: But I bring it up because one of our listeners, Robin,

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Speaker 2: had her own bachelorette experience the other night, did not

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Speaker 4: It was this is not your moment.

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Speaker 7: This is for.

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Speaker 2: Buttons. Back up, please. Robin spoke to all of them

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Speaker 2: that night, at least the ones who didn't immediately leave

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Speaker 2: that she liked the best was actually the first one

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Speaker 2: she met, named Jay. They had a great time after that.

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Speaker 2: Though we do apologize for broke after that night, Robin

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Speaker 2: feels like she's been putting more effort into like seeing

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Speaker 6: What we didn't ask is have you asked your best

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well I think I'm taking just a little break.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, we'll go back to her after we're done

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Speaker 2: calling Jay here. First, Let's see if he picks up

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Speaker 2: and has any explanation.

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Speaker 3: And if he doesn't want to go out with you again. Bonus,

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Speaker 3: you got some backup numbers still right from that night.

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, overflow, guys listening, trying.

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Speaker 2: To focus on Jay for now, I'm going to dial

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Speaker 2: his number. Let's hopefully he picks up. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 2: we're looking to speak with Jay speaking. Hey Jay, you

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Speaker 2: are speaking with a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Good morning, Oh wow, hey, good morning. How you doing.

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Speaker 3: Oh cute little voice.

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Speaker 6: I think he has an accent, sir, Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 6: no wonder he was the first one.

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Speaker 2: You sound pretty comfortable being on the radio here, do

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Speaker 2: you do you listen.

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Speaker 7: Every now and then? Yeah, I would say, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh, no accent.

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Speaker 2: Sorry to turn Brooks microphone off. I am just jokeing.

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Speaker 2: We're all very excited to talk to you because we've

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Speaker 2: heard about you through one of our listeners that you

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Speaker 2: met the other night and she had a really good

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well a couple weeks ago, right, huh.

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Speaker 2: It's someone that you met named Robin.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, you definitely.

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Speaker 4: Remember Robin bro That's like the craziest thing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, no, I definitely do. You're You're absolutely right,

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Speaker 7: I remember Robin.

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Speaker 3: And she didn't say like you're ghosting or anything like that.

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Speaker 6: It sounds like you guys have been chatting a little

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Speaker 6: bit via text we have.

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Speaker 7: But it's it's been pretty nice.

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Speaker 2: I could say, yeah, okay, and we've heard about how

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Speaker 7: I'm actually really surprised she even told you. She explained

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Speaker 6: Yes, did you know going in that her friend was

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Speaker 7: Well, that's the thing. I walked in there. I'm expecting

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Speaker 7: I had no idea what was going on. No, but

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I.

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Speaker 6: Want to crawl into all that.

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Speaker 3: Poor girl.

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Speaker 7: Honestly, I felt really bad for her because she seemed shocked.

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Speaker 7: I don't really think she walked in there expecting this

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Speaker 4: You know, nobody anything but the friends.

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Speaker 7: We were both shocked, which I think is why we

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Speaker 6: So what if you guys like you sounds like you

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Speaker 3: Were you going to ask her out and you just

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Speaker 7: Or so here's the thing. My friends we were talking

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Speaker 7: Why don't we do this for you?

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Speaker 5: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Wait what Yeah, you're doing the same thing as she's doing.

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Speaker 7: So I gave them the password from my dating app

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Speaker 3: And if that's the case, why isn't Robin invited? She

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Speaker 2: That's not very fair to Robin, who like chose you

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Speaker 4: Probably zero unless it's open bar that night, and good

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Speaker 7: I just figured that if she was doing it, maybe

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Speaker 6: So wait, So you want to go out with Robin,

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Speaker 7: Sure Robin's going out with like three or four of

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Speaker 2: You know, that wasn't what we heard from her, But

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Speaker 2: I don't know, be true. We do have a way

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Speaker 2: you know, Jay that there is someone waiting out in

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Speaker 3: Talk to you like we would hand out carnations.

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Speaker 2: Surprise, it's Robin.

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Speaker 3: She's on the phone.

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Speaker 7: She's on the phone. What do you mean she's on

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Speaker 2: I mean she's been on the other line listening this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi, Hi Robin.

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Speaker 7: Hey this is really weird. Yeah, a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Have you been though?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't what kind of question is that?

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Speaker 5: From what I just heard, it sounds like you're just

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Speaker 7: Well, I wouldn't say that's the case. I mean I

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Speaker 7: was exploring options, aren't you exploring options? That night? It

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Speaker 7: was casual. I like, yeah, I still like.

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Speaker 7: Honestly, I mean, the reason I haven't made like an

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Speaker 2: God forbid, my every love story needs like a little

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Speaker 1: But isn't that the.

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Speaker 6: Whole problem with dating right now is you always feel

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Speaker 2: Hamster's having fun on the wheel right now. So yeah,

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Speaker 2: But Robin, what I'm hearing here is this bachelor pad

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I can't force you to do anything,

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Speaker 5: I know, that's not even my place. However, I will

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Speaker 7: I don't want to let my friends down though, either.

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Speaker 3: You know, I.

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Speaker 6: Honestly think if you go to that and you have

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the book is quoting her key party id like

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Speaker 2: I honestly believe that you should call off the event

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Speaker 2: because you say you like Robin as much as you

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Speaker 2: say it, prove it take her out on a date,

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Speaker 7: I think that's a great idea. Okay, but I can't

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Speaker 7: do that. Oh why, No matter what, after the event,

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna text you. I'm gonna call you, lucky you Robin.

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Speaker 5: You know, I know that I probably shouldn't. I know

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Speaker 2: Wait what after all that, you're going to go out

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I really think that they're going to work out. I

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Speaker 6: I think that he's going to go and there's gonna

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Speaker 6: I'm an idiot.

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Speaker 3: Robin's amazing, and you know the dudes are way worse

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Speaker 3: of picking out girls. Yes, I bet half of them

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Speaker 2: You would stick around if a guy said to you, Hey,

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Speaker 2: I really really like you, but I'm gonna date twenty

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Speaker 1: First, I haven't even gone out of a date.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't have DIBs on anything.

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Speaker 4: They can't go on a date as twenty other ones

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Speaker 3: For what does it these days?

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Speaker 2: I give up on relationships and love, don't you, jeff

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Speaker 2: you know what? They're still hard for you? I don't

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Speaker 2: You can email the show. We'll call that person, and

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Speaker 2: then the twenty five other people that you're also sort

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Speaker 1: Ye, try and get you a second date.

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Speaker 3: That's why this segment works.

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Speaker 4: Where everyone gets a dates.

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Speaker 1: Looking Jeffrey in the morning,