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Speaker 1: Second date up day day. We've all heard of the

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Speaker 1: friend zone. Guys do not want to be put into

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Speaker 1: the friend zone. Well, women also have a dating label

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Speaker 1: that they fear. They don't want to become a weekday girl.

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Speaker 2: What's done?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I had not heard of this before, but apparently

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Speaker 1: it's a thing in the dating world right now where

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Speaker 1: if a guy only wants to hang out Monday through Friday,

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Speaker 1: that means you're his safe weekday girl. He's got in

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Speaker 2: So now nights then, yeah, Friday, he's free to.

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Speaker 1: Use those fun weekends finding new, more intriguing women to

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Speaker 1: try and play with. It is and that's why Sarah's

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Speaker 1: emailed the show because she's worried after just one date

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Speaker 1: she has been labeled a weekday girl.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, it's a date on a Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Sarah, Welcome to our weekday show. What is this guy's

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Speaker 1: name and what day did you guys hang out?

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Speaker 3: His name is Steve and it was a Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Stay fair, you're not going to do a first day

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Speaker 2: on weekend. You don't give up a weekend for it.

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Speaker 1: Really, I'll do a Friday night, but will.

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Speaker 2: Do anything I like. You had better plans than the

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Speaker 2: first date on the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, well maybe it depends on what type of

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Speaker 1: date you're doing during the weekday. You can make that

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Speaker 1: kind of sexy. What did you and Steve do for

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Speaker 3: I'm just going to own this right up front. I

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Speaker 3: are you coming?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean almost, but no, I Jeff set.

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Speaker 2: Up this whole thing, making it sound like he was

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Speaker 2: the one putting out. You didn't even remember when you

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Speaker 1: Oh, how long did you have to hustled?

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Speaker 3: I hustled? I dropped everything.

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Speaker 1: Oh but that's great. From the gym into the date,

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Speaker 3: I did, like an emergency, like flash, you start his

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Speaker 2: I bet. I mean that's a thing like, yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: If you're hurrying trying to get ready, you're still rushing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean when I got there, he wasn't there, so

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Speaker 3: I thought that he had given up, like he was gone.

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Speaker 2: Mean it sounds like it took you a while.

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Speaker 1: You can't be mad if you leave, you know, which

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Speaker 3: I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I mean he said he would be sitting in the window,

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Speaker 3: him a text saying, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: Did you take off? Like I get it if you did,

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Speaker 3: but I'm sorry, And he was like, oh no, no

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Speaker 2: Was still there.

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Speaker 1: It's weird that they put the tables in the restroom

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Speaker 2: So did you have a moment to collect yourself before

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Speaker 3: I figured out which table was his.

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Speaker 1: Okay, just run into the bathroom and give him a hug.

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Speaker 1: No where he's at.

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Speaker 3: So I didn't do that, but I kind of I

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Speaker 3: pictures he has glasses. He's so cute in his glasses,

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Speaker 3: but his glasses were on the table. Okay, And I

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Speaker 2: What wait the did you just say you stole this glasses?

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Speaker 2: Why would you steal them?

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Speaker 3: It was more like borrowing because.

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Speaker 1: You took them so he could lose them, and then

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Speaker 3: This way I could put my best fay forward without

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Speaker 2: I didn't creak it too. You could see the bathroom

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Speaker 1: What happened when he came back to the table, well,

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Speaker 3: He said hello, and it was like quick cook, and

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Speaker 2: Wait, he's he's spending all this time searching for them,

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Speaker 3: Like I meann't all this time. It was like two

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Speaker 1: Did he compliment your sexy blurry looks at any point

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Speaker 3: Nobody complimented my awesome personality times he's like, I didn't

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Speaker 1: A natural blonde or brown? Yeah, whatever you are.

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Speaker 2: I'm so curious how you got these glasses back to

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Speaker 3: We wrap up our lovely cute little date. I kind

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Speaker 4: He left.

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Speaker 1: You gave him back to the employees that worked there

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Speaker 1: untilse he went back and like tried to find them again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because he told me he gave them his number

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Speaker 3: in case they turned out.

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Speaker 1: Aren't you worried?

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Speaker 2: Like when they called that they said, oh, the person

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Speaker 3: I really think about that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so when we were wrapping up, I'd be like,

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Speaker 3: that would be awesome. Oh and well nothing happened.

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Speaker 2: Maybe Alexis is onto something when he was driving away

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Speaker 2: he reranded somebody's car.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe he's trying to call and text you but

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's totally fair. I did suit him one text

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Speaker 2: It's interesting that you don't sound like guilty at all

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Speaker 3: I mean, you really just have one moment to make

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Speaker 1: Okay, and steal his personal belongings. That makes sense, so

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Speaker 1: let's try and get it. It was a borrowing Yes,

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Speaker 1: well let's come back. We're gonna call Steve for you.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if he actually did find his glasses and

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Speaker 1: give you one more try on hopefully a weekend date.

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Speaker 1: We do not want you to end up a week

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Oh if you meet the whole fan coming up. Let

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Speaker 1: me do your second date update right after this second

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Speaker 1: date update. You gotta live your life, no regrets, and

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Speaker 1: our listener does not regret stealing her date's glasses off

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Speaker 1: the table, just temporarily so that she would look better

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Speaker 1: to him during their date. Okay, and technically worse, but

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Speaker 1: he just wouldn't be able to make her out right,

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Speaker 2: A monet, you know, it's like all a mess when

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Speaker 2: you get up, but from far away looks fantastic beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because the thing is she'd rushed straight from the

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Speaker 1: little musky and acted on impulse. Did that actually help?

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Speaker 1: We don't know. It was definitely a risky move though

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Speaker 1: the owner, Steve. The question is should this be brought

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Speaker 2: Wait that his missing glasses are at the restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Know that she was the one who basically took them

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Speaker 2: If this was all about honesty, but this is about

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how Sarah feels. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's really up to her. Sarah, do you want us

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Speaker 3: I think that would be like a really cute thing

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Speaker 3: to maybe come up on our first anniversary or Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Year, you can call us back and then we'll take

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Speaker 1: Maybe on his deathbed you whisper it into his ear.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he's like, so.

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Speaker 1: We've decided we're not going to say anything about you

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Speaker 1: taking the glasses. If you want to bring it up,

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Speaker 1: All right, Now, let's call this guy and see if

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Speaker 1: he picks up the phone. Here we go, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we're going to talk to Steve. Yes, Hey, Steve, this

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Speaker 1: is about a radio show that you are currently on

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Speaker 1: right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, Steve,

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Speaker 2: Out, Okay, an awkward phone call. What's going on his Steve?

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Speaker 1: Hey man, this is a it's a segment we do.

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Speaker 1: It's called Second Date Update, and we're trying to help

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners that went on a date with

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Speaker 1: you to cafe recently.

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Speaker 4: Those was just really strange to me. Okay, yeah, it

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Speaker 4: is strange. We know.

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Speaker 1: That's sorry. We heard about it's kind of a funny

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Speaker 1: date with this girl named Sarah where during it you

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Speaker 2: She said that you're looking everywhere for him after you

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Speaker 4: Huh, Yeah, I did lose my glasses. I really I

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Speaker 4: can't really see that well with them. I would have

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Speaker 4: And it was just as the strange at thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of weird for you to leave your

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Speaker 2: You're not calling her back and she just doesn't know why.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I did have a good time with her.

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Speaker 1: And okay, but of what you could make out of her?

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Speaker 1: That's a funny compliment. Guys, you can see.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I mean she seemed nice. She seemed very nice.

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Speaker 4: I just to it was very disorienting to me, and

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Speaker 2: I thought, Okay, it'd probably be hard to like concentrate

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Speaker 2: What did I do with them? I mean, those are expensive.

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Speaker 2: So maybe it wasn't even a good look at what

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Speaker 4: So I mean, I mean, here's here's the awkward thing

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I did. What's the big deal?

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Speaker 1: Didn't We didn't realize that. And I don't know Sarah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I'm an adult and that scheduled two different days.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know that. I had to tell you everything

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay. So I asked them who turned them in

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Speaker 4: I called Amanda before and she said, oh, I returned

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Speaker 2: You call the first eight girl, not Sarah. You called Amanda.

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Speaker 4: Well, I called Amanda first because I met with her beforehand.

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Speaker 2: Oh so, because she was the hero that found the glasses,

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Speaker 4: So I didn't feel right about having a second date

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Speaker 3: Because something because of them, because of Okay, there is

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Speaker 3: We need to sort this out.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is really uncol well because that girl Wizard

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Speaker 3: Nay Mandy or something, she's a liar.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, flat out. I'm sorry, Sarah, you sorry, That

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Speaker 4: I feel like you're getting ganged up on. You know,

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Speaker 4: this is really just an ambush. Here.

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Speaker 1: See the way that this works is we have the

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Speaker 4: Of course, Yeah, this is really you contacted me, so

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Speaker 3: Really me, I don't think you really get the kind

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Speaker 2: Okay, But what do you improve it with Sarah? The second?

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Speaker 1: How do we do this?

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Speaker 3: If I have to?

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Speaker 4: I asked you, look, prove it, Sarah.

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Speaker 3: I can prove it because remember you sent me the

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Speaker 3: text saying hey are you coming? And I was like, ohm,

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we're gonna do it.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know, we just like really hit it

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Speaker 4: My glasses, How dare you do that?

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Speaker 2: See? I think that she was hoping for the reaction

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Speaker 1: Barah, There's no way Amanda could have been the one

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm confused why Amanda was live, But why

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Speaker 2: I think you missed that first part where she didn't

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Speaker 4: You stole my glasses, borrowed No, I saw.

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Speaker 2: That I gave them back.

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Speaker 3: You have them. I don't see what the big deal is.

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Speaker 3: I liked you enough that I wanted to really make

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Speaker 1: It's coming from a place of her liking you, I promise.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's a good first impression. By me

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Speaker 1: You can't butter him up.

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Speaker 2: Really, it's kind of weird because now you're having to

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Speaker 4: Do I want a relationship based on theft or Lyne?

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Speaker 1: That's the choice you get to make here, because we'll

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Speaker 4: I mean, this just is too ridiculous for words. How

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Speaker 1: She's telling them you got back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Amanda's still lying.

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Speaker 1: First date, she stole your glasses. The second date, she's

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Speaker 4: This is just too strange for me. I appreciate the offers.

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Speaker 1: Look, I don't care how strange it is for you.

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Speaker 1: It's romantic for us. So I need a yes or no?

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Speaker 1: Will you date Sarah? She's honest and we'll pay for

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Speaker 2: She came from the gym.

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Speaker 1: That's huge, man.

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Speaker 4: As long as you probably not to steal anything of

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Speaker 3: And I will not take anything of yours, however briefly. Ever, again,

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Speaker 3: it's so cute.

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Speaker 2: You guys are gonna grow old together. Just gonna steal

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Speaker 1: It sounds like we're going to send you guys out

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Speaker 2: Wait, what about you're gonna dump Amanda? Though?

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Speaker 4: Right to have a conversation with her about lying.

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Speaker 2: Not dumper, just Okay, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean he didn't think it was too interesting. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, no, wonder the people at the coffee

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Speaker 2: Was there was so much gossip at the restaurant about it.

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Speaker 1: I think he's definitely gonna call that first girl, Amanda,

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Speaker 1: But I don't think he's actually gonna have a long

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Speaker 2: No, you don't think so. You don't think that's what

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Speaker 1: No, I think he's just gonna date.

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Speaker 2: You're the saying a guy who schedules two dates for

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Speaker 1: Weird, right, Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's a pretty big assumption.

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Speaker 1: Probably gonna end up dating Sarah too. He's gonna get

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Speaker 1: both women. Yeah, him, he'll get a third somehow. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He's just good at what he does.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And even though we're not very good at what we do,

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Speaker 1: there and date fourteen women at the same rest. There

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Speaker 1: you go,