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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Natasha is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named

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Speaker 2: Mason who she really likes. So in a few minutes,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call him see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Natasha,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Mason?

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Speaker 3: Oh, man, it's been it's been like a couple of days. Like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Well, he he won't hang out with me again. We

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Speaker 4: were I don't know.

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Speaker 3: He just says he's busy, it's the work family obligation.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but could not be legit if it's been a

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Speaker 5: couple days or the couple days is silence.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like we work in the same building. I

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Speaker 3: just don't get it, Like it's not it's just a

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Speaker 3: bunch of it'so much to bes because he could just

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Speaker 3: be busy or I don't know, I feel like something

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Speaker 3: else is going on, Like we had such a great date.

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Speaker 3: We had like fire, it was amazing. So the fact

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Speaker 3: that he won't like just meet up for another happy

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Speaker 3: hour right across the street from our office. Is just

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Speaker 3: doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 6: Well, let's talk about the date. Let's hear about the fire.

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean, like, I don't know, we had a

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Speaker 7: really good time, Like our date was like amazing, but

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Speaker 7: like we were like touching and kissing, like we shared

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Speaker 7: appetizers and like, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Then we went back to his house and we hooked up.

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Speaker 4: I had to go, like I had to sneak out

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Speaker 4: in the middle of the night because I had a

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Speaker 4: early work day the next day. But I don't know,

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Speaker 4: I just thought that since it was so hot, and

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Speaker 4: really I didn't see anything that went wrong. I just

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Speaker 4: don't understand, like why he can't even like I mean.

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Speaker 3: After our coffee in the lobby, Like, what in.

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Speaker 6: The heck right now? It feels like you're a little eager.

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Speaker 5: Have you expressed that eagerness at any point after so

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Speaker 5: you guys hooked up?

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, yeah, but like okay, so I might have

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Speaker 3: to like kicked something when I left his house that

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Speaker 3: may have upset him, Like.

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Speaker 6: I took something and when I was leaving.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I might have kicked something like my shoe. Well,

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Speaker 3: there was like kitty litter on my shoe and I

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Speaker 3: was leaving his house, so I was like, oh, no,

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Speaker 3: maybe I kicked over his cat's litter box and maybe Dad,

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Speaker 3: is that why he's not talking to me? I mean

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Speaker 3: I might be.

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Speaker 6: So did you leave a mess behind you? Is that

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Speaker 6: what you're saying?

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Speaker 3: It was dark, it was early. I didn't see it.

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Speaker 3: I might have met I don't even know if the

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Speaker 3: cat was in there. Sorry, it's not funny.

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Speaker 6: Did you address the potential mess that you left?

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Speaker 5: Did you say sorry, I think I kicked something on

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Speaker 5: my way out or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: I want to explain myself, but like, I'm just not

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Speaker 3: he won't meet up with me, so he's just being cold.

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Speaker 3: And after hooking up and after the way everything went,

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Speaker 3: and then if.

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Speaker 4: I made a mess to his apartment, and if that's

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Speaker 4: why he doesn't want to see me, against just tell me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah that doesn't feel good, right, yeah, especially after hurking

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Speaker 6: up with somebody, they do owe you a little something

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Speaker 6: that doesn't feel good.

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Speaker 3: Do you have any family obligations? I didn't even understand

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Speaker 3: how many could be possible.

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Speaker 2: It'll be oh, okay, well we'll play a song, come

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Speaker 2: back and then call him and see if you tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting you.

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Speaker 6: And maybe get to another date if you still want one. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 6: thank you, all right, we'll play a song, come back

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Speaker 6: and get your first day follow up.

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Speaker 1: Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Natasha is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Mason.

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Speaker 2: So in a second, we're gonna call him, see if

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Speaker 2: you tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get

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Speaker 2: her another date. But real quick, Natasha, why don't you

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Speaker 2: catch everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 4: Basically we work in the same building. We didn't realize

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Speaker 4: we had worked together for so long.

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Speaker 3: And then we had she hung out and we hooked up.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I maybe kicked over his catbox and now he will

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Speaker 3: hang out with me and he's getting me a bunch of.

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Speaker 6: Weird All right?

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Speaker 2: Do you think it might be because he kicked over

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Speaker 2: the litter box on accident? All right, well, we'll see

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Speaker 2: if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 6: Here we go. Are you ready?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm asking to Mason. Please, Mason, how

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Speaker 2: are you good?

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Speaker 3: What's uh? Who's look.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you for asking, Mason. My name is Jubel

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Speaker 2: and I host a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Mason, the whole shows here. I'm Nina, Hi, and

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Speaker 6: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, I've heard you guys. I heard you guys later.

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Speaker 3: I heard you guys earlier.

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Speaker 6: Oh sweet, Oh, thank you. That's cool.

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Speaker 2: We're just calling to say thank you.

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Speaker 6: We were watching you. Listen. We're actually calling you because

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Speaker 6: we got an email about you. Mason.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so from somebody who you went on a date with,

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Speaker 2: but now you're ghosting.

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Speaker 6: This is a first date follow up.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, all right, so what the what are the accusations?

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Speaker 2: Any idea, any idea of who would email us?

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Speaker 6: Natasha? I'm pretty sure you're correct, Mason. Is Natasha? What happened?

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Speaker 6: She wants to know why you're ghostinger. She said she

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Speaker 6: really liked you, but now you are.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, So all right, well this is okay if

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Speaker 8: she wants to hear it on the radio. So we obviously,

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Speaker 8: like she told you, guys, kind of the basic what happened.

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Speaker 8: We met and we went off for drinks and then

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Speaker 8: she might well she might have spent the night all

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Speaker 8: saying yeah, yeah, that part okay cool and then so

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Speaker 8: thanks for drinking, and I'm a light sleeper. She spent

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Speaker 8: the night and I kept on waking up because she

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Speaker 8: kept on farting and I was And it's fine, there's

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Speaker 8: nothing wrong with farts. But it's just a little bit

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Speaker 8: like maybe I guess too soon for fart, if that

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Speaker 8: makes sense, Like I just you know, I just kind

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Speaker 8: of met her and I'm already hearing her fart exactly.

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Speaker 5: You can't really control your body soon's.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, which is fine.

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Speaker 8: Because I'm sure, like you know who doesn't fart, so,

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Speaker 8: but I was just a little bit much for me.

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Speaker 3: It kind of game me an ech, But there's nothing, there's.

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Speaker 6: No bad thing.

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Speaker 3: I should just honestly, I should have just got back here.

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Speaker 6: It was why you guys were like stuff.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean I was, I was sleeping.

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Speaker 8: Who knows what she was, but I have remem Murphy.

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Speaker 5: It was it just it was just sleep, okay, Like

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Speaker 5: I could, I could, I could see like if she

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Speaker 6: But like if you're sleeping, you can't really control what's happening, right.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 8: That's why it's an embarrassing I guess. I mean, I

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Speaker 8: just again like it's maybe if I just knew her

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Speaker 8: longer for it's like a dating thing because I have

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Speaker 8: you know, something wrong with that when you're dating someone.

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Speaker 2: But I always get nervous about that, falling asleep next

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Speaker 2: to someone for the first time, if I'm gonna fart

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Speaker 6: That's how you're get nervous.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what if you were in his position? I'm

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Speaker 5: just curious, like how other people would handle that, Like

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Speaker 2: Were she was sleep farting, I think that's that'd be cute,

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Speaker 2: unless they were like real bad ones.

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Speaker 6: Oh that's cute. She doesn't even know she's farting. She's

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Speaker 6: embarrassed right now? Are you crying right now? I'm just laughing.

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Speaker 6: Oh I'm sorry. Well, thank you for telling us the truth. Mason.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I feel about I'm a light sleeper.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 2: Sure, Mason, I don't know if you remember or not.

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Speaker 2: But when we do the first date follow ups, the

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Speaker 2: other person is on the phone. So Natasha's on the

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Speaker 2: phone and wants to talk to you, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, you heard all that.

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Speaker 7: I'm here.

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Speaker 3: Hey, sorry, hey, yeah, no, no, it's cool. Maybe you

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Speaker 3: know you were definitely farting also.

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Speaker 6: For dinner.

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Speaker 3: We okay, okay, I was.

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Speaker 8: Talking a lot, so I probably don't want to air

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Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't. I don't know if I remember. I

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Speaker 3: don't know who was farting, but there was farting, dude, so.

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Speaker 4: Something when when I too, it's cute and you it

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Speaker 4: just seems uncomfortable around you, so you know.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, but I don't know. You were totally farting more

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Speaker 3: than I was, and I feel so much better now.

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Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I'm glad we're on the same page, part

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Speaker 9: page or something. I'm glad we have the same Yeah,

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Speaker 9: I'm glad I heard you got to hear me fart

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Speaker 9: because I felt them fair.

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Speaker 3: I thought I thought you didn't want to talk to

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Speaker 3: me anywhere because I kicked over your cat pot. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that was totally. No, that happens all the time. That's

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Speaker 3: that's fine.

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Speaker 6: That would have been well.

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Speaker 2: Now that you have both known each other's fart sound

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Speaker 2: like yah, Mason, would you like to go on another

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Speaker 2: date when Natasha will pay for it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: So I guess now that we both realize that we're

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Speaker 8: both nighttime tutors. Night I mean, I'm not I'm not

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Speaker 8: opposed to it, and I definitely feel bad about ghosting

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Speaker 8: and I shouldn't have done that.

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Speaker 3: And now that now it's just now, this whole thing

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Speaker 3: is just really funny.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, that'd be great. Natasha, congratulations, got another day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, guys. That's awesome and speaks for apologizing.

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Speaker 3: I hated that feeling.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so definitely, yeah, definitely, and just please yeah.

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Speaker 3: Let's go on the second date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's cool. And now it doesn't matter if you

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Speaker 2: guys fart, no, no.

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Speaker 5: Maybe do things to turn each other on on this

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Speaker 5: rural reset.

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Speaker 3: I like that hard part reset