WEBVTT - Messages from the Afterlife with Medium A.J. Barrera 0:00:03.600 --> 0:00:06.160 What is a medium? Mediums connect with those who have 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:08.639 passed over in the spirit room and individuals where they 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:10.319 have one foot in the physical world one foot on 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:14.000 their side, they're able to bridge that connection. Hence a medium. 0:00:14.160 --> 0:00:16.920 Is there a unique reference that you would actually have 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:19.680 some sort of rock of her? Oh now that? Oh 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:22.400 my god, that's so crazy. I gave my mom a 0:00:22.520 --> 0:00:25.880 rock when she was here. I'm just hearing it in 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:29.360 a way of just like me, princess, PRINCESSA Oh my god, 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:31.680 those are the words like she would always call me, princess. 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:42.080 What up, guys. Welcome to Chickens and chill Um your 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:44.800 host cheek ease. I hope you all had a really 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:47.920 great weekend and you're starting your week off strong. Today's 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:50.440 episode is probably going to be a little intense. That's 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.200 because I'm talking to a medium. We'll be talking about 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:56.280 how it all works, and also I'll be getting a reading. 0:00:56.720 --> 0:00:58.520 I hope you guys are ready for this episode, because 0:00:58.560 --> 0:01:08.160 I sure am. This is checks and chill Okay, So 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:12.360 today's guest is a J. Berrera or A. He's a 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:16.360 psychic medium and intuitive counselor based in Los Angeles. He's 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:18.880 been doing this for about twenty years and so I'm 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:22.240 really looking forward to talking to him a j. First 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.560 of all, I want to say thank you, thank you 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:27.039 so much for doing this. I know we talked a 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.440 while ago. I mean, are my first reading was my 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.479 mom was still here? Right? Correct? That was several years ago. 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:35.160 What year was that? I think that was ten or 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:38.360 we love and if I'm not mistaken, yeah, yeah, So 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:40.160 I think you went to our house in Encino. You 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:43.600 were part of the reality show as well, and I 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.640 think that's when you were the first one that mentioned 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:50.040 that my stepdad, Juan, who had passed in in O nine, 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.440 was in the house and doing and just wanted to 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:55.800 let us know that he was there. The kids were like, 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:57.280 we were all freaking out. We're like, oh my god, 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:59.760 how does he know that we hear things? That is 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:03.160 so crazy. It's so amazing because at the time I 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:05.120 had my show from Beyond that would air I think 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:08.200 before after your Your Guys show. So it was weird 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:10.320 because it was kind of like the way it presented 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:12.799 itself and I wasn't sure if you guys were gonna 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:15.280 be open to it. And when the producer reached out 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:17.320 to me and mentioned that, and I said, well, they're 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:19.560 open and recepted to it, and just look all the 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:22.399 different things that were happening within your home and the energies. 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:25.240 It was just really interesting to see how things kind 0:02:25.240 --> 0:02:27.480 of orchestrated and the reading kind of took place in 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.720 its own very organically. So it was a beautiful thing. 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:33.120 It was. We were in my mom's office, I remember, 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:35.640 and you looked at me and you said that I 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:38.080 had no idea what was coming in my future. You 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:39.880 told me all kinds of things, and I was like, whoa. 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:43.440 I mean, we never thought my mom would leave us 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:45.440 and things would play out the way they have. But 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:50.920 like everything that you said was like whoa. Now I 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:53.200 look back and I think back, because I mean, thank goodness, 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:54.919 we have the reality show. We can look back and 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:58.680 see those moments. It's just like, my goodness. First of all, 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.520 let's let's start off with can you explain to us 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:04.160 for the listeners that may not know what a medium is, like, 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:06.720 what is a medium? Yeah? Absolutely, so there is a 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:09.639 difference between a psychic and a medium. So some people 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:12.120 are just mediums where they connect with those who have 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:15.120 passed over in the spirit realm and those individuals where 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.839 they have one foot in the physical world, one foot 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:19.040 on their side where they're able to bridge that connection, 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:22.160 hence a medium. Then you have a psychic who actually 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:25.079 works with tarot cards, crystals. They predict the future, give 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:27.280 you guidance, and so on, so forth. So there are 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:30.440 individuals that focus just on psychic work and medimistic work. 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:32.720 As for me, I do both psychic and medium ship work, 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:35.040 which is intuitive guidance and connecting with those who have 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:38.840 passed over. Okay, perfect, And is there a way of 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:42.800 like learning this or is this something that you're born with? 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.520 I love that you asked that question. A lot of 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:47.960 people think that that you're born with this a gift 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.680 or this ability. I always tell people it's an ability 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:53.040 more so than a gift. Because we all are we 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:55.240 all are intuitive, we all have that gut feeling, we 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:57.520 all have that intuition whatever you want to call it, 0:03:57.560 --> 0:04:00.040 being sensitive. So if you ever had a moment in 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.960 your life that say, for instance, that you are doing 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:04.720 a business still and all of a sudden, your gut 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:06.920 tells you, like this doesn't feel right, or you're gonna 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:09.200 make a move to a new home, it doesn't feel right. 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.280 You're listening to that intuition, and that's what we need 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.360 to pay attention to. So what I do I hold workshops, 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:16.680 classes and so on, so forth to teach people how 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:19.000 to do this work. Because I'm only one person, so 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:21.840 we can have hundreds or thousand more people out there 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:23.599 that can heal the world and give people advice and 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:25.640 give the people the guidance. It's something that we can 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:29.440 tap into. But it really starts with ethics, grounding, meditation, 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:33.120 the foundation of mediumship, which is really being respectful to 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:36.000 people's work. And a lot of people will tell me like, hey, 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.360 can you tap into this person's energy, And I would 0:04:38.400 --> 0:04:40.919 tell them absolutely not, because it's being disrespectful, it's not 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:45.719 being ethical and not to be personal. When when you 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:48.320 know people come into this work, they take one workshop, 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.679 the take one class, and they think like oh the psychic, 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:53.159 I'm a medium. It takes years to develop that ability 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:55.800 and to recognize it. So with you, you're you're very 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:58.719 sensitive and just in general as a person, but you 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:01.920 also vibrate this beautiful green energy. And typically that green 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:05.360 energy is like the humanitarian, the fixed person, the therapist, 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:07.719 Like you always want to make things right, but you 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:09.480 really don't know how to make things right for yourself 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.560 to focus on the things that makes sense for you. 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:15.160 So with you, it's there's there's a sense of trying 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.440 to bring balance in but you really don't know how 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.320 to do it. Even though you you want to do it, 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:20.960 you don't know how to do it. So it's really 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:24.160 recognizing what your gut and what spirit is telling you. 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:26.520 And I think just development over time is that the 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:28.040 brain is like a muscle. The more that you work 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:29.840 with it, the stronger and better than it gets. Yeah, 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:32.080 I call it my sixth sense. I'm like, you know what, 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:34.159 I always thank God. I'm like, thank you for my 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:36.760 five senses and my sixth sense because I'm very intuitive. 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.400 I I can feel certain energies. I feel like if 0:05:39.400 --> 0:05:41.560 I were to stop honestly drinking and maybe smoking a 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:44.080 little weed, because I smoke weed at night sometimes. So 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:46.320 I feel like if I were to just cleanse myself 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:49.760 and maybe become like vegetarian, like, I will be like 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.360 vibrating at a different level and I feel like I 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:55.880 can develop it more. But I'm not gonna lie. Sometimes 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.280 a part of it's kind of like a little like 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.839 maybe I'll wait a little bit, but I know how, 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:03.880 you know, Yeah, but I think at the same time, 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:06.799 people are fearful. They're fearful of the unknown. They're fearful 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:08.360 of like not knowing how to turn it on or 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:10.480 off or tap into it. So it's really again just 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:13.080 having that balance and understanding the process. I come from 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:15.680 a Catholic background one Heaven, one how on that judgment 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:17.960 day you go to that place. So for me, my 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.159 parents weren't really big believers in this work. They thought 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.039 I was taboo. So I've been doing this work for 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:24.799 twenty years now. So when I started doing this work 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:27.320 on radio stations here here in l A, my mom 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:29.040 thought it was a phase. So she goes, oh, it's 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:30.560 just a phase. It's just a phase. I go, Mom, 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:32.039 I've been doing this work for like twenty years now. 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:33.920 It's not a phase anymore. This is like what I 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:38.080 do right. So again, the more that you recognize the cheeky's, 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.120 I think it's gonna be such an easy process to 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:43.680 resonate with the subtle signs, because we expect to get 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.360 these big, almighty signs from the other side, and sometimes 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.080 they're very subtle. It's a thought, it's a feeling, it's 0:06:49.080 --> 0:06:51.760 a sense, it's a smell, it's a little different things. 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:54.760 If we recognize that, then we can gradually develop that ability. 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:58.719 And you said you started this work twenty years ago. Yeah, okay, 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:02.560 and how how did you know what happened where You're like, Okay, 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:05.000 this is what I'm meant to do, this is what 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:06.880 makes me happy, or I don't know, tell us a 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:10.400 little bit about it. Yeah, so interesting background with my work. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.040 I never had a near death experience. I never had 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:15.480 like something that traumatized me. I never lost anyone close 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:17.840 to me as a young individual. So for me, it 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:20.360 was more so curiosity than anything else. I was very 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:23.960 curious about the afterlife, the beyond, psychics and medium So 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.119 I grew up watching I Dream A Genie b Which, 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:29.040 The X Files, The Unexplained, you know, the Twilight Zone, 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:31.560 like all these different shows that meet me want to understand. 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:34.280 I guess the woo woo stuff if you will, because 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.720 you know, I grew up watching certain talk shows, and 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:39.120 I'm sure you have. You're not that much older. I 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:41.160 think younger. I think you're younger than me if I'm mistaken. 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:43.960 So we had talk shows like Sally Jesse, Rafael, Jenny Jones, 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:47.200 like all these different people and they had psychics and 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:49.480 mediums on television shows where they placed people in the 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:51.560 audience and they had them like read different things and 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:54.080 so on so forth. So I thought it was all 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:56.080 set up, like it was all placed, like, oh, this 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.920 is all like an act basically. So I kind of 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:01.400 went on my own journey when I was in sixth grade, 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:03.320 which is at a very young age, and I started 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:05.760 working with Tarot cards. It's actually the Writer's Deck, one 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:07.920 of the original decks that I recommend to people if 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:10.320 they're interested in tarot to work with that. So I 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:13.280 started working with Tarot cards from sixth grade to eighth grade, 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.440 and I was explaining giving readings to people in junior 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:18.880 high and so people that I was the weird kid. 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.720 Obviously I wasn't very popular at all. I was definitely 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.720 the weird kid. But you know, so I I could 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:26.720 look back now and make fun of myself and see like, 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.800 oh my god, what was I doing back then, because 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:31.520 it wasn't something that was really talked about back then. 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:34.000 It was really looked as taboo, the devil's work, evil 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:36.960 and so on so forth. So having that understanding, it 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.680 was really trying to bring that balance. I think for me, 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:42.720 my freshman year when I met my high school teacher 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:44.520 and she's actually a medium who I still talked to 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:47.680 like on a weekly basis, And she is a medium, 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.400 and she told me that I had the ability to 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:51.760 communicate with the either side. I did not know that. 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.560 All I knew I was able to read energy like 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:56.720 psychic energy, like I was able to sense things and 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:59.360 read things and predict things that were coming up. So 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.680 I started working with her for four years. I had 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:05.640 her for a PR science biology for everything because I 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:07.720 wanted to know everything. I was like a sponge. I 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:10.400 exhorbed everything that I want to do, so I really 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:12.440 didn't take any classes. It was more of a natural 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:15.280 ability that came to me an understanding because I mean 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:16.839 some of the books that I had behind me in 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:18.960 my garage and my other office. I have so many 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:20.839 books from when I started this work to help me 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:23.840 understand it. And I love reading about this work because 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:26.200 I see myself as an internal student of this work. 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:28.600 So I will never know everything about this work even 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.400 as I get older. I learned new development, new frame 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:34.560 of references of how I work. But for me that 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.599 that was yeah, because like, you cannot know everything, and 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:39.440 I always tell people, I can and will be wrong 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.640 in reading. I can admit that I am not like 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:43.559 needed to toot my horn and saying like it has 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:45.440 to be this way, has to be that way. Like 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.840 you have to accept that because if you're working from 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:49.240 a place of v ego, you're not working from a 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:51.040 place of love. And you need to work from a 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:52.760 place of love when you do this work, because if 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:55.319 you're working with that vibration, that's what you want to 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.640 get back out to the client, to the individual or 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:00.520 whoever you're talking to, because they're there too. Hell and 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:03.080 we all healed differently in our own ways, and we 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:05.880 all grieve differently. Some of us take a year, five years, 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:08.760 ten years. There's no time frame on healing. There's no timeline, 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:11.560 so it's as being patient with it. But for things 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.800 that happened and real quick to backtrack with with high 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:17.360 school works with my mentor Ellen Marin for four years, 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.839 and then at age nineteen and a half, I landed 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:23.000 a gig with Coast one of three point five in Burbank. 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:24.760 So I landed a contract with them and I was 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:26.439 on the on the show from seven at midnight in 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.559 a radio show called Angels and Waiting they took me 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:30.559 in the studio and said, hey, let's let's check out 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:32.439 this guy. They saw a kid that was there and 0:10:32.480 --> 0:10:34.440 they're like, what is this kid get gonna do? So 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:37.280 they had me come in the studio. Yeah, trust me, 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.600 I was so nervous. I've never done live radio, never 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.520 done anything like that. And they had me read, like 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:44.840 basically screened me to eat for six different people, like 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.560 all over New York, Kansas, whatever a v phone. Because 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:50.000 everything that I do is work about energy, it's about 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:53.120 a person's voice. So one thing led to another, and 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:54.680 dined at a gig, and then from there on I 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:56.679 went to k BIG, which is now my FM, and 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:59.120 Kiss FM, Hot I T jams and things just kind 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:00.640 of took off. I wasn't trying to do this work. 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:03.360 My background, honestly was to be a firefighter, to be 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:07.880 in law enforcement. Now I work, Yeah, yeah, but now 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:11.559 here's a beautiful part. And now I teach classes with departments, 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:14.760 and I teach them with detectives, and I teach them 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.520 how to do this work. But also we work with 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:19.760 detectives high rking. I'm not gonna say the department because 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:21.840 there's a lot of red tape around it. But with 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:25.480 different departments that we teach intuitives how to work with 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:27.800 law enforcement, because you have to think of us like 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.040 when we work on missing person in the homicide cases, 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:32.800 I'm just like a dog, like a canine, a diver dog. 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:34.880 I sniffed out the information and the detective needs to 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:36.240 figure out how to do it, you know what I mean. 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:38.920 So for me, it's about really learning the work. And 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:41.240 I've been blessed and fortunate because now I work with 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:45.280 small and large departments, law enforcement companies and cold cases. 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:49.960 So it just kind of became full circle years later. Yeah, circle, 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:54.600 so awesome. Do you know roughly how many readings you've done, 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.719 well over fifteen thousand. Is it something that you can 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.160 turn off for it? If you're just hanging out, you're 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:03.960 at a dinner, do you start getting feelings from someone 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:07.079 like hey there anything like that? I mean, yes and no, 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:09.160 it has happened a couple of times. But for me, 0:12:09.360 --> 0:12:11.560 like there again, there's ethics with it. So when I 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:14.800 clock in, basically I'm working so meditation and prayer. Even 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:17.800 when I do any interviews, radio, whatever I do, I meditate, 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.320 prey and I just you know, be the vessel for 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:23.560 the instrument of spirit basically, and when I'm done, I 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:26.000 shut down my chakras, I shut down and do a prayer, 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:27.720 Thank God, thank Spirit for allowing me to do what 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:29.800 I do. It's always giving thanks and being respectful of 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:32.319 the process regardless if I don't know what's going to 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:35.280 happen in an interview or in an event or so on, 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.160 so worth I need to allow it to happen. So 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.680 you can't keep that battery always on because what's gonna happen. 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.120 It's gonna vent, You're gonna drain and you can't recharge 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:45.960 it quickly enough. And so you have to be respectful 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:47.920 of the body and what the body is telling you. 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:51.199 And there's times that I've done events where I'm like 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:54.520 at this high, like vibrating so high, but I feel 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.240 tired at the same time. So it's really learning to say, 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:00.960 check yourself first before anything else, because you can't always 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:05.319 just be around doing readings. Okay, Well, with that being said, 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.040 would you be open to giving me a reading right now? 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:18.959 Are you on right now? Absolutely? Every client's different. Every 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:21.400 person is different of what they're looking for. If it's mediumistically, 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.920 if it's about connecting with spirit, or if it's connecting 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.880 with your energy in general. So are you open and 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:31.520 receptive to everything? I'm open and receptive to everything. Okay, 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.959 So if I can ask you, what's your birth month 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:39.520 and your birth date? So what I'm doing is I'm 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:42.199 working with numerology real quick. So when we wreak down 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:44.640 your information, you break down to a twenty. So twenty 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:48.360 you break down two plus zero equals to serio two vibrations. 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:51.120 So what's interesting about a two vibration? This year is 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:53.440 all about patients. It's all about calming down for what 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:56.240 you need to focus on. What's interesting. The last three 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:59.439 years for you have been very heavy weight, like very 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:01.760 heavy lifting that you needed to do, and it's about 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:05.560 coming into play about being responsible for yourself. What I 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:07.679 do see what's interesting with you is that this is 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:09.800 going to be a year for you to focus on 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:11.600 kind of like having this whole past to kind of 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:13.400 relax and do the things that you need to do 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:16.120 in your own personal life, not so much relating to career. 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:18.600 Because you're so driven of what you need to do, 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.080 it's hard for you to take a backseat and focus 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:24.320 on the needs for cheekies for yourself because you're always 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:27.080 like this motor vibrating and moving in this direction, saying 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:28.960 I gotta go, I gotta go, I gotta go, and 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:30.880 the moment that you sit down, it's kind of like crap, 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:32.640 like what do I What can I work on next? 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.560 What can I do next? So it's about you really 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:37.680 being patient with that vibration and focusing on the things 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:40.680 that you need to do for yourself. What's interesting here 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.320 is that I don't want to be too personal, but 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:44.920 I am gonna ask you. I don't know if you 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:47.560 are currently in a relationship, but are you currently in 0:14:47.600 --> 0:14:50.720 a relationship. If you don't be asking, I am okay. 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:53.320 So when we look at that vibration, it's gonna be 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:56.960 about you focusing for this year, about focusing on relationships, 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.680 focusing on communication, and focusing on the things that you 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.240 need to you. So it's gonna be about presenting it 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:05.720 this year. I feel like that for an interesting reference. 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:08.480 I don't know if if last year, if you were 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:10.800 in that relationship, but to me, it makes me feel 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:13.120 like this year is very significant for you to focus 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.680 on really bridging that gap. And what's interesting, there's gonna 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:20.440 be a very unique reference. What I'm being shown energetically, 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:22.680 which lets me know that there is going to be 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:26.520 a sense of you not jumping into like, Oh, we're 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:28.720 gonna move in, we're gonna get married, we're gonna do this. 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:30.480 I think it's gonna be a reality check for you 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:32.760 to kind of say, like, Okay, do I really take 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:34.920 a step back and really move into this vibration and 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:39.560 this relationship very calmly, very smoothly, because the challenges that 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:42.600 you had is really with your heart chakra. You give 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.640 too much energetically. You put everything out there energetically, so 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:49.080 it's about being protected at that same nature, what I 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:51.560 do need to bring up here with you as I 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.760 feel like that you have a lot of guidance that 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:55.680 is coming through from the spirit realm. So if it's 0:15:55.680 --> 0:15:58.080 your loved ones, if it's from your guides, I feel 0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:00.880 like it's important for you to recognize this what we 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:02.680 do need to bring up here. And I may be 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:04.640 mistaken in the process because I'm going to go in 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:07.640 a direction here. There's a sense that I see with 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:11.280 when we look at the relationship vibration here, there's a 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:13.720 sense that I don't want to say there's difficulty, but 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:17.119 it seems like it's about really you kind of vibrating 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:19.920 to his energy. And I don't know how this does 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:21.560 make sense to you. I don't know if there's a 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:24.800 sense of him like being private or closed off or 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.560 whatever it is. But there's a sense of kind of 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:29.040 saying like I respect my woman. I respect my woman, 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:31.560 but I don't want to be present with my woman, 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.840 if that makes sense. It's almost like I don't want that, 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:36.680 I wanta say limelight, but there's a sense of that 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:38.080 that I feel like there's a sense of like being 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.600 respectful to the process in you. So if there is 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:42.280 gonna be some seed bumps that you guys are going 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:44.800 to go through, which is normal with any relationship, I 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.280 feel like Spirit is gonna be working with you. Now. 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:50.360 What I do want to go into is relating to 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:53.760 more so the vibration of spirit in general. And what's 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:57.200 interesting here because when I bring this up here and 0:16:57.600 --> 0:16:59.800 I I am just gonna be very direct with everything, 0:16:59.840 --> 0:17:02.760 and I hope you don't mind where I'm going with this. Obviously, 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:06.120 Mom isn't spirit. Obviously I know that we know that, 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:07.840 and I do need to recognize this. And I'm going 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:10.520 to give you everything either how I feel, and you 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:12.439 may ask questions, and I'll be honest, like Cheeky's, I'm 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:14.639 not feeling it. I'm not sensing it. But what I 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:17.960 can tell you vibration ly is I just get immediately 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:21.000 like blackness to my head, which is more symbolism. It 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.679 doesn't mean like a physical injury, doesn't mean that, but 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:27.080 it lets me know that her soul and her spirit 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:31.520 immediately left the body before impact. I do not feel 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:34.960 like there's a sense of recognizing what was going on, 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:37.840 because to me, everything feels very blurry, and it feels 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:40.760 like there's a sense of being at peace. There's not 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:44.679 a moment of being afraid, which is weird. It's like 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:48.000 a calm energy, and you would think that so one 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:53.240 in that situation or individuals in that situation would be fearful, 0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:55.080 but it's a sense of like coming to a calmness. 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:57.760 It's like the calm before the storm. I don't know 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:03.879 if your mom would have own her destiny because I 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.120 don't predict, I don't play god, I don't do any 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:08.240 of that. But there's a sense with her that she 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:11.240 wants to recodize more so her love and her gratitude 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:16.119 towards you, because there wasn't that opportunity to verbally communicate 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:18.920