WEBVTT - OG Bachelorette Trista Sutter Stops By

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back Happy our listeners, and I want to first

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<v Speaker 1>start by saying this is probably going to be the

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<v Speaker 1>last time we call you guys that, because today is

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<v Speaker 1>the day where we will be voting on a name

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<v Speaker 1>for all of our listeners out there. We've been asking

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<v Speaker 1>you guys to send in your suggestions for names, so

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<v Speaker 1>our inbox has thankfully been flooded. We've narrowed it down

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<v Speaker 1>to some amazing options, and so just in a little bit, Rachel,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to be narrowing it down for the final

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<v Speaker 1>two and then let you guys, all of our listeners decide,

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<v Speaker 1>because of course you need to have to say you've

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<v Speaker 1>had to say since the beginning. Then we need your

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<v Speaker 1>voices to be heard. So we will be going on

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<v Speaker 1>the Instagram account later today to vote after this episode air,

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<v Speaker 1>So don't forget to check us out and give us

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<v Speaker 1>your input. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest with y'all. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like calling y'all Bachelor Happy Hour listeners. If too long,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a mouthful. We need something cute, fun, We need

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<v Speaker 1>to create our own community. So this honestly has been

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<v Speaker 1>a long time coming, and that's our fault. We probably

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<v Speaker 1>should have started this a lot sooner, but don't worry

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Let's let bygones be bygones. We're here now

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have to pull up. You better vote. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that we got some really good suggestions for names.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, well, we'll narrow it down to the two best.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know you guys do your part and vote.

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<v Speaker 1>And speaking of voting, while I while I have your attention,

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<v Speaker 1>let's make sure we voted our local and our local,

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<v Speaker 1>regional state whatever local cash, regional, state, national elections. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just make sure we vote period. Okay, just always vote. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're in scary times, worry about okay. And now that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm off that soapbox, I want to get to you

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<v Speaker 1>guys about who we are having on the podcast today,

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<v Speaker 1>because who we're having on today is she's just one

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<v Speaker 1>of a kind. You have been riding into us for months.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are always requesting certain people on the podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is probably one of our biggest requests, and

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<v Speaker 1>I understand why. Becca understands why. But I'm happy that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys get to really see how great she is.

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<v Speaker 1>She's an og, she is bachelor royalty. Some may call

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<v Speaker 1>her the Queen and she's honestly, no, you should be

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<v Speaker 1>calling her the Queen if you're not already. But she's

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<v Speaker 1>living proof that this process and this show they work

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<v Speaker 1>it really, they really do. And she's an amazing example

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman, a mother, a friend, and a bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 1>And we'll be having none other than Trista sutter On

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about everything related to The Bachelor, the Bachelorette,

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<v Speaker 1>just to check in with her, talk to her about

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<v Speaker 1>life after the Bachelorette, what she's been doing, what she learned,

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<v Speaker 1>and what advice she has for us for future people

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<v Speaker 1>coming on this franchise, and just life advice in general.

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<v Speaker 1>Rachel I cannot wait to have her because we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of know her. We got to know her at the

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<v Speaker 1>bachelotte reunion last year, and I feel like the world

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't seen enough of her, and she just has this

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<v Speaker 1>amazing spirit. You know, when you think of the Bachelor

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<v Speaker 1>and Bachelor, you think of obviously Chris Harrison, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>first name I think that pops into everyone's head. But

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<v Speaker 1>let's be honest, no one really remembers the first couple bachelors,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe there's a reason for that, but everybody remembers

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<v Speaker 1>Trista because she did pave the way and she had

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<v Speaker 1>the I think, the first love story that is still

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<v Speaker 1>lasting to this day because of the show. And so

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get her on. We're going to pick her

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<v Speaker 1>brain on what she went through because it was so

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<v Speaker 1>different than probably what we experienced on her season. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I cannot wait to chat with her. I can't either.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll just say too that I think coming because

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<v Speaker 1>I was so anti the franchise before coming on. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't watch it, I didn't relate to it and

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<v Speaker 1>connect to it, and it's just in open to something

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<v Speaker 1>new and in what it could bring in life and

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<v Speaker 1>love and even coming off the Bachelor and in the Bachelrette,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't in a mindset of connecting to other Bachelor

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean I had talked to the ones kind

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<v Speaker 1>of right before me, but I just wasn't in that

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<v Speaker 1>mindset because I was just thinking about the show, the

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<v Speaker 1>people that I was on the show with. And so

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm really excited to talk to Trista about

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<v Speaker 1>because I have to give her credit for being the

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<v Speaker 1>one to reach out to connect us and to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that we hold strong to being women and Bacherettes

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<v Speaker 1>and going through this experience together. So anyways, enough from us,

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<v Speaker 1>because Trista can say it's so much better because you

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<v Speaker 1>know she started this. Shits my one curse heard for

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<v Speaker 1>the podcasts. All right, So before we get trist on,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to get back to business, Rachel, because we've

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<v Speaker 1>rounded up twenty of our favorite names, and so we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna We're gonna start out, we're gonna narrow it down

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<v Speaker 1>and make it a little bit easier, and then from

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<v Speaker 1>there we're gonna pick our top two favorites and then,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said before, we're going to have an Instagram poll,

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<v Speaker 1>So don't forget to check out our page today. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna air right after this episode, so check it out because,

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<v Speaker 1>as Rachel said earlier, you gotta vote. You can't have

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<v Speaker 1>an opinion unless you vote. People. Let's start now. These

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<v Speaker 1>are baby sticks. Okay, after you do this, then you register.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not already, you go vote. Please pay all right, Becky, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited and nervous because we have a lot of options.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you for everyone who submitted options when we

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<v Speaker 1>ask you to. But we have to narrow it down

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<v Speaker 1>to just one and honestly, we have to like it

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<v Speaker 1>because this is what we're going to be calling them.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna go ahead and read the list, and

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<v Speaker 1>then after that we'll narrow it down to the two

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, Becca, and put the pull up. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that I'm not even gonna say this is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be fair because if y'all we don't like Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think this is our parents feel when they're picking

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<v Speaker 1>out a name for their children. Absolutely not, because I

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<v Speaker 1>have a feeling there's it's not really as much of

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<v Speaker 1>a joint effort as you think, I think, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come down to what I like, because I'm if

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<v Speaker 1>you like, I have to push this baby out. It

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<v Speaker 1>affects my body, my health, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, I have to be okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm calling this baby for the rest of it's life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true, um, But but yes, yes, this is this

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of what it's like. This is our baby.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right back, Okay, this is our baby. But I

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<v Speaker 1>guess yeah, it's it's hard because we don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>face for the name. We have many faces, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we just yeah, it's gonna you know, Rachel and I

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<v Speaker 1>will narrow it down, but also too, it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>what we like because we gotta call you guys. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>to start it off, We're just gonna make it easy simple.

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<v Speaker 1>We got batches b A h E s what batches

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<v Speaker 1>does have a ring to it? Right? It's does have

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<v Speaker 1>a ring to it. Okay, So I'll read, I'll read

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<v Speaker 1>the ten and then you read ten. Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So Two we've got bach chers. It's a mouthful, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a little time. It looks great on paper. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's great coming out of our mouth. We've

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<v Speaker 1>got Hapchlers, hapchlerschler hal. I don't know if I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be able to say that. Yeah, it's a lot rosebuds,

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<v Speaker 1>which I feel like it is another podcast acute name.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not quite sure. Five we've got bat cheese U

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<v Speaker 1>six pedal pushers, which you know is a fashion trend

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<v Speaker 1>as well, play on words, if you will. Seven batched teenies.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like martinis? I love a good dirty martini,

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<v Speaker 1>really cheese stuff, dollives. I feel like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>like olives like to really appreciate martinis, And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>so and I like an extra dirty so it's basically

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<v Speaker 1>olive juice. But that's it. But I don't do like

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do a gene one. So yeah, yeah, they're

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<v Speaker 1>not my thing. Um, Bachelor Besties and drinking buddies. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>these are good. We've got right, so we still have

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<v Speaker 1>have to go. So adding on, we got Happies. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why that one's so funny to me. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>does it make you happy? I think so. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like not everyone's gonna be happy when they're listening to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. That's just very true. All right. We

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<v Speaker 1>got the pod Squad, just kind of cute. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that can apply to any podcast. We have Bachelor

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<v Speaker 1>Warriors sounds like a basketball team. M hm yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing be like that one. No, no, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying yeah, I'm not saying okay, okay. We

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<v Speaker 1>got clinkers, which is kind of cute if you're like

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<v Speaker 1>clinking your glasses. Bachelor bays rosies. Now this one rage.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you already coined this term. But we

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<v Speaker 1>got the R and b's. It's I know it's cute,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's been dead. But it's been Brian. It's very

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<v Speaker 1>ran right, yeah yeah, Okay, couple more. We got the Shakers,

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor babies or the drunken Roses. But I have

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<v Speaker 1>to add one because somebody actually did DM me and

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<v Speaker 1>I liked it. Okay, if you hate it, okay, this

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<v Speaker 1>is well. I kind of want to vote for two,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know I can't. Okay, but I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>liked this and it was bachelholics. That's actually really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were gonna just say it like it's

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<v Speaker 1>I said no, because I said it in my head

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<v Speaker 1>three times. No, that's why not, because I was has

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<v Speaker 1>if you know, if I didn't like it, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have told you, and I'm spelling it out. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's super cute, actually makes sense, and it makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>for Happy Hour. I read it and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually low key really into it the more I

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<v Speaker 1>said it, and I wish I'm sorry whoever dmned me

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<v Speaker 1>DM me again because I probably lost it, but I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I think I screenshotted it. I'll go through my pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>but a very good one. So I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say that's one of my top choices.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's that's gotta be one of my two. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're narrowing it down to two. Okay, Bachelholics for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>The more I keep saying it and I'm thinking about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just I'm seeing it on t shirts, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>seeing it written, I'm seeing what up our little Bachelholics

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<v Speaker 1>like it's it's it encompasses the happy Hour and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so into it. My other choice, I like it, it's

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<v Speaker 1>got it all. Yeah, this kind of has my vote. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of selling it. That was a good one, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were all good choices. Everybody who's sent in choice,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, because that's what we asked and they're all

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<v Speaker 1>good and it is hard to choose from. But we

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<v Speaker 1>can only choose too. So we both agree on Batchelholics.

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<v Speaker 1>My next choice would be Batches. I actually agree with

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<v Speaker 1>that too when we because that was the first one

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<v Speaker 1>we said, and it kind of reminds me of like, hey, benches, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but saying it, Yeah, so I think they're both kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cheeky a little bit. I like exactly. I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say, m my third choice, which I don't love

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<v Speaker 1>as much as the first two. I kind of liked

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<v Speaker 1>the Clinkers, but not as much. It's not as ketchy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Clinkers. It's so this is what's hard about

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<v Speaker 1>picking the name, because it's not just what we're calling it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're thinking bigger than this. We're thinking posters, t shirts, mugs, drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>drinking glasses. Um, I'm just thinking of how it looks

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<v Speaker 1>so like Clinkers. I like in theory, but I can't

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<v Speaker 1>see it all the way around. I like the leak

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<v Speaker 1>narrowed down to my other one was gonna be I

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<v Speaker 1>like pod squad. But then when you said that could

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<v Speaker 1>go for any podcast, I thought she's correct. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>that she was going to take it for her other podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're the Thought Warriors. That's what we call our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Thought Warriors. So are you like the Bachelor Warriors? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't not like that's where's actually sorry, whoever. I

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<v Speaker 1>think my honorary mention would be I have such my

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<v Speaker 1>mother's daughter, because this is probably one that she would pick.

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<v Speaker 1>I really kind of liked the pedal pushers, like a

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<v Speaker 1>rose pedal. Yes, but then again, yeah, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it fits us quite No, we're not quite there. If

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<v Speaker 1>I had a top five pedal pushers would be in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Other close ones were Batched teenies. For me, I like

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<v Speaker 1>drunken roses, but I don't want to call our listeners drunken,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, So I think this was easier than

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<v Speaker 1>I said. Like Becca, I thought we were gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to debate this, go at it, which means we're really

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<v Speaker 1>on the same page. And I could go with either

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<v Speaker 1>one Batches or Batch Waits almost set it wrong, which

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<v Speaker 1>is scaring me. Now, No, no, no no, Batchelholics. You gotta

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<v Speaker 1>go with your gut first instinct Batches and Batchelholics. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's it. We'll row you down. Well, that was easy,

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<v Speaker 1>that was fun. I don't know about you, Beck, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel good about both of those names. I do too.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get to this poll for you all

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to see if it's a pretty even

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<v Speaker 1>split or if it's like going to be one blows

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<v Speaker 1>the other out of the ballpark. It'll be interesting to

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<v Speaker 1>see what you guys have to say. Absolutely so, we've

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<v Speaker 1>narrowed it down to two You're welcome out of twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one option or twenty options. We've noted down to two

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<v Speaker 1>out of twenty options. But you guys have to make

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<v Speaker 1>the final decision. Of course, we want to include you

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<v Speaker 1>were all a part of this family, so Beca already

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<v Speaker 1>stated it before, but just in case you forgot, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be a part of this, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you stalk our Instagram account today at Bachelor Happy Hour.

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<v Speaker 1>You can find the poll there. It's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>live for twenty four hours. Make sure you vote, and

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<v Speaker 1>then after that, I guess we'll find out the winner

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<v Speaker 1>next week of what our new name is going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's it, Bachelor Happy Hour listeners, that's the last

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<v Speaker 1>time we'll say that. Thank good riddance, all right, everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that we've finally got that out of the way,

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<v Speaker 1>it's time for our incredible guests. And I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 1>to have her on because she's not only the oge

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<v Speaker 1>bachelorette as well as our fairy bachelotte godmother, but most importantly,

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<v Speaker 1>she is our friend, our confidante, someone who's been there

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<v Speaker 1>since the beginning, and so we are so excited to

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<v Speaker 1>catch up with her. So, without further ado, Rachel, let's

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<v Speaker 1>give a warm welcome to Tristata. So be happy to

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<v Speaker 1>have you, so thank you. I'm so excited. I've been waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been waiting. I actually apologies. We are long overdoing

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<v Speaker 1>for this. Yeah, I'll go well, so I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get into how you're doing with everything and just catch

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<v Speaker 1>up on life. But first I have to ask for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think all of our listeners out there want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what is your secret because Trista, you not

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<v Speaker 1>aged a day since you were on your season, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell are you doing? You need to share

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<v Speaker 1>your secrets? Oh my god, I love you. So I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten a couple people saying that, and I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>how much do I owe you? Because that's definitely not true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's really funny. I think that I

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<v Speaker 1>over the years have learned that good lighting is a

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<v Speaker 1>girl's best friend. So um, when they saw me on

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<v Speaker 1>the show the other day, I had really good lighting. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned a little bit better makeup techniques. So there

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<v Speaker 1>you go there, and I think moisturized, moisturized, moisturize, you

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<v Speaker 1>know you Like, it's just it's like you were glowing.

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<v Speaker 1>You were glowing back when you were the bachelorette, but

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<v Speaker 1>you still are. And so I was gonna say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you were doing, like olive oil on your face.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to start doing that. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>it would be, but I love you. I gotta do no.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do use um Cediful like heavy cream. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the cream. It's not lotion on my face. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to use just lotion, and because I live in Colorado

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<v Speaker 1>and it's super super dry, I had to resort to cream.

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<v Speaker 1>So there you go. No olive oil, but Setiful cream

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<v Speaker 1>is my secret. I feel like you're being extremely humble

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<v Speaker 1>because Becca and I have both been around you in person,

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<v Speaker 1>so there's no lighting. That's not about makeup, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>She just looks phenomenal. It's like, don't thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's part of the beauty of you, is your humility.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, let's just take a moment, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to praise you a bit. She really that stunning in person.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say, Tristo, and this is I say

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<v Speaker 1>this all the time. I've never watched the show before

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<v Speaker 1>being on it, so the Greatest Seasons has been really

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<v Speaker 1>nice to go back and watch because I'm learning things

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<v Speaker 1>in a different way. So, you know, I met you

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<v Speaker 1>and I hadn't senior season, but I know people are like, she,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's the og. She paved the way, And

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<v Speaker 1>then I see the season and I'm like, no, no, no,

0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:12.040
<v Speaker 1>she really is. I did pave the way. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was so much fun to watch your season and could

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<v Speaker 1>I another confession. I had no idea that Alex is

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<v Speaker 1>it Michelle Michael. Michelle didn't know he was the first Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was the Firestone guy. So I'm watching it, like,

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<v Speaker 1>who is this man? I thought it was a Firestone guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Had no idea. I really need to update, Like there

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be a Bachelor history book or something that

0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:41.960
<v Speaker 1>you're so right there does I'll write it. Hey, that's

0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:45.560
<v Speaker 1>that's a money maker, so honestly, don't give it to

0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:50.320
<v Speaker 1>the franchise. And he's family all of our bachelorettes, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do it together. Yeah, I love it. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. We already have the group chat going. We

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<v Speaker 1>might as well. It's so hard to even know where

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<v Speaker 1>to start in this interview because it's like I want

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<v Speaker 1>to start, you know, from where you are now, but

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<v Speaker 1>then it's like I want to go back to the season,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I want to talk about your season. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember coming into the the reunion and I was so

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<v Speaker 1>excited to meet you. I wanted to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to pick your brain because you knew the

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<v Speaker 1>show different from when we did. And I'm not just

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the fashion or even talking about you know,

0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:30.919
<v Speaker 1>the setup was a little different. It's that there was

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<v Speaker 1>no social media and all of that. So I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just start and saying, you know, you've watched all

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<v Speaker 1>the seasons since you you experienced your own, How has

0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:44.440
<v Speaker 1>it changed from you for you from then to now?

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<v Speaker 1>Like watching the show? Yeah, so many ways. There's so

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<v Speaker 1>many little nuances that are different, and logistics and the

0:18:54.560 --> 0:18:58.840
<v Speaker 1>way that they do things. Obviously, social media is probably

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest change since my season. But I do have

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<v Speaker 1>to say that there were message boards, so on ABC

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<v Speaker 1>dot Com they would put you know, there was internet

0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:16.960
<v Speaker 1>back then, so they would put links to these message

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<v Speaker 1>boards and message boards. Back then. We're kind of like Reddit,

0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:25.439
<v Speaker 1>where people would start a thread and then comment, comment, comment, comment, comment,

0:19:26.000 --> 0:19:30.640
<v Speaker 1>So you couldn't directly message the person that you were

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<v Speaker 1>speaking about, but you could go off on whatever you thought.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I was I was definitely criticized, as you

0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:44.320
<v Speaker 1>guys heard on the show on Monday. There were. There

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot of press criticism for like, even before

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<v Speaker 1>the show started, flut shaming me and telling me that

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<v Speaker 1>how are you gonna, you know, be able to hold

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<v Speaker 1>your character and not look like a slut, And so

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<v Speaker 1>there was a lot of that rhetoric, and the message

0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:10.119
<v Speaker 1>boards were definitely not time. So I dealt with hatred

0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:13.520
<v Speaker 1>in a different way, but in a similar way, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, social media has totally changed the game in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of and I say the game just it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a game to me for people out there who are

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<v Speaker 1>going to say, oh, she's the word game. It is

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<v Speaker 1>different in that people I feel like nowadays come on

0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:36.920
<v Speaker 1>the show, not all the time, because there are people

0:20:36.920 --> 0:20:39.840
<v Speaker 1>who are still in it for the right reasons, but

0:20:40.040 --> 0:20:43.000
<v Speaker 1>they come in it because they think that they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to get Instagram famous and they know that they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to get tons of followers just by being on the ship.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that that dilutes a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that we all did the show, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>to find love, you know. So that's a sad occurrence

0:20:57.200 --> 0:20:59.480
<v Speaker 1>to me, but I think that is just the way

0:20:59.480 --> 0:21:02.679
<v Speaker 1>that are called sure is now um and we just

0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:04.760
<v Speaker 1>have to hope that there are people who are going

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<v Speaker 1>to apply for the show who truly do want to

0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:12.640
<v Speaker 1>find love and not just fame. But you know, there's

0:21:12.680 --> 0:21:15.960
<v Speaker 1>little things like like high definition. It definitely wasn't I

0:21:15.960 --> 0:21:22.320
<v Speaker 1>don't know, we did like phenomenal, so I, oh, you

0:21:22.440 --> 0:21:25.840
<v Speaker 1>need high death. Well actually maybe not as these crows,

0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:30.520
<v Speaker 1>but so, um, like we had date boxes we had

0:21:30.720 --> 0:21:34.399
<v Speaker 1>I would give um, they would give VCR tapes to

0:21:34.440 --> 0:21:37.439
<v Speaker 1>the guys to find out or VHS tapes to the

0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:40.960
<v Speaker 1>guys to find out what their dates were going to be. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>They all did a video message to me before the

0:21:46.400 --> 0:21:49.280
<v Speaker 1>rose ceremony. So I would go into I can't remember

0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:51.359
<v Speaker 1>that what they called the room, but it was like

0:21:51.440 --> 0:21:55.880
<v Speaker 1>a you had all the guys pictures and picture frames

0:21:55.920 --> 0:21:58.720
<v Speaker 1>against this wall. It was like the contemplation room or

0:21:58.760 --> 0:22:00.600
<v Speaker 1>something like that. And I would stand there and like

0:22:01.320 --> 0:22:04.800
<v Speaker 1>look longing to longingly into their eyes and their photos

0:22:05.119 --> 0:22:09.080
<v Speaker 1>and then listen to their video messages and and that

0:22:09.200 --> 0:22:11.399
<v Speaker 1>was a fun little thing that they used to do,

0:22:11.520 --> 0:22:15.159
<v Speaker 1>which I actually wish that they still did. Um. I

0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:18.640
<v Speaker 1>had friends of mine come on the show and stay

0:22:18.960 --> 0:22:24.520
<v Speaker 1>in the house with the guys. Yeah, they were like, yes,

0:22:24.760 --> 0:22:27.720
<v Speaker 1>isn't that crazy? So they stayed with the guys for

0:22:27.760 --> 0:22:30.679
<v Speaker 1>a week and then they reported back to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it wasn't me a week, it might have been

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<v Speaker 1>a few days. They reported back to me on who

0:22:35.320 --> 0:22:38.199
<v Speaker 1>they liked, who they didn't like, and they set up

0:22:38.280 --> 0:22:41.960
<v Speaker 1>dates based on who they chose. So that was a

0:22:42.119 --> 0:22:45.840
<v Speaker 1>really fun expect away from the show. I know that,

0:22:47.920 --> 0:22:50.320
<v Speaker 1>like they need to do that again. Well, it's kind

0:22:50.359 --> 0:22:52.800
<v Speaker 1>of like I think it was Hannah Brown season. They

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<v Speaker 1>had Demi and Katie I think the first night in

0:22:55.280 --> 0:22:58.480
<v Speaker 1>the van watching the guys, and then they chatted with

0:22:58.520 --> 0:23:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Hannah and reported back. But it's like, can you imagine

0:23:01.160 --> 0:23:03.199
<v Speaker 1>if you could get some of your friends nowadays to

0:23:03.280 --> 0:23:05.600
<v Speaker 1>go and keep an eye on those guys? Oh god,

0:23:05.640 --> 0:23:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I think cuts like I would have maybe four guys

0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:10.719
<v Speaker 1>left at the like at the very beginning, just to

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:15.120
<v Speaker 1>get to know because like stories about you already isn't

0:23:15.160 --> 0:23:17.879
<v Speaker 1>that fun. So that was a big change too, I

0:23:18.240 --> 0:23:20.200
<v Speaker 1>have to ask you, because when I was watching it,

0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I thought, wow, this is it was. The quality was better,

0:23:25.359 --> 0:23:28.600
<v Speaker 1>and by that I mean the reasons people would come

0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:32.719
<v Speaker 1>onto the show. The guys had actual jobs, that's right.

0:23:33.160 --> 0:23:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I honestly didn't think that I would find someone because

0:23:35.600 --> 0:23:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Oh, people aren't going to have real

0:23:38.240 --> 0:23:41.240
<v Speaker 1>jobs or real you know, goals. That's that was my thinking.

0:23:41.520 --> 0:23:43.600
<v Speaker 1>So I'm looking at the men that are on your show.

0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're going to people's houses. They I mean,

0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:49.439
<v Speaker 1>they really are established in their own right prior to

0:23:49.480 --> 0:23:51.200
<v Speaker 1>coming on the show, which I thought was so great.

0:23:51.720 --> 0:23:54.159
<v Speaker 1>And then there wasn't that much drama. Not granted I

0:23:54.200 --> 0:23:57.040
<v Speaker 1>saw you know, the short version. I'm sure there was,

0:23:57.680 --> 0:24:00.280
<v Speaker 1>but the show wasn't focused on the drama, and it

0:24:00.359 --> 0:24:03.000
<v Speaker 1>really seemed to be focused on the conversations that you

0:24:03.040 --> 0:24:06.120
<v Speaker 1>guys had, like you and your number two I don't

0:24:06.119 --> 0:24:08.800
<v Speaker 1>even remember his name, Charlie, but Charlie, but sitting in

0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:11.520
<v Speaker 1>the vehicle talking, You're talking about the fantasy suit, you're

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:14.399
<v Speaker 1>talking about sex, you're talking about the I just I

0:24:14.400 --> 0:24:17.760
<v Speaker 1>thought it was so good. So my question, my question

0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:22.480
<v Speaker 1>is do you get frustrated watching the show now seeing

0:24:22.600 --> 0:24:25.400
<v Speaker 1>the sharp turn that it has taken from the time

0:24:25.400 --> 0:24:28.720
<v Speaker 1>that you were on it. Yeah, for sure. I have

0:24:28.800 --> 0:24:32.199
<v Speaker 1>always said, but I kind of want them to go

0:24:32.280 --> 0:24:34.240
<v Speaker 1>back to how it used to be in terms of

0:24:34.280 --> 0:24:37.479
<v Speaker 1>like plucking someone out of obscurity, you know, And I

0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:39.720
<v Speaker 1>think that Matt James is perfect for that because he

0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:42.840
<v Speaker 1>hasn't been on a prior show, you know. Obviously, not

0:24:42.920 --> 0:24:46.760
<v Speaker 1>only for the diversity element, because I'm sure it was necessary,

0:24:47.040 --> 0:24:49.840
<v Speaker 1>but I think that because no one knows him, we

0:24:49.880 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 1>can all fall in love with him together, you know,

0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:58.320
<v Speaker 1>and and there's no preconceived notions. So it is frustrating

0:24:58.359 --> 0:25:01.680
<v Speaker 1>to me. It was very innocent back in the day.

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:05.879
<v Speaker 1>And and to your point, there was no drama with

0:25:05.920 --> 0:25:08.720
<v Speaker 1>the guys. They had so much fun on my show,

0:25:09.480 --> 0:25:12.159
<v Speaker 1>um and even on the First Bachelor, it was not

0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:17.000
<v Speaker 1>caddy at all, like we all truly got along. And

0:25:17.240 --> 0:25:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I think that because production knows that they if they

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:27.960
<v Speaker 1>want the viewers to you know, when you learn the

0:25:28.080 --> 0:25:31.160
<v Speaker 1>elements of a story, like just the basics when you're

0:25:31.160 --> 0:25:34.040
<v Speaker 1>in elementary school, you learn that there has to be

0:25:34.440 --> 0:25:38.680
<v Speaker 1>a villain or some kind of controversy, some some element

0:25:39.320 --> 0:25:43.439
<v Speaker 1>that will draw you in and and it can't just

0:25:43.520 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 1>be all rainbows and unicorns all the time, you know.

0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:49.080
<v Speaker 1>So I think that they, you know, they learned that

0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:52.080
<v Speaker 1>they need to they need to kind of encourage that

0:25:52.200 --> 0:25:54.600
<v Speaker 1>in a way, and so I think through casting they

0:25:54.640 --> 0:25:57.159
<v Speaker 1>realize that we need a villain, so who's going to

0:25:57.240 --> 0:26:00.399
<v Speaker 1>be the villain, and then they go on to maybe

0:26:00.480 --> 0:26:04.440
<v Speaker 1>encourage a little more drama than you know by by

0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:08.119
<v Speaker 1>your itms and the questions that they ask you and

0:26:08.400 --> 0:26:12.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of leading you down a certain path. So, um, yeah,

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:16.199
<v Speaker 1>it is. It's it is unfortunate. But as a viewer

0:26:16.960 --> 0:26:19.080
<v Speaker 1>and someone who lives in the real world and is

0:26:19.160 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 1>realistic about this stuff, um, I think that they need

0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:25.520
<v Speaker 1>that drama in order to hold our attention as viewers.

0:26:25.760 --> 0:26:30.000
<v Speaker 1>But it is. It is frustrating because I truly, knowing

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:34.439
<v Speaker 1>that Ryan and I have the success with story that

0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:38.400
<v Speaker 1>we do and that we were there just to find love,

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I wish that it still was all about that. You know.

0:26:44.200 --> 0:26:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask speaking of Ryan, because you know

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:50.840
<v Speaker 1>when you guys did meet, you met in like I

0:26:50.920 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 1>like to say, the show was like down to the basics,

0:26:53.680 --> 0:26:56.000
<v Speaker 1>like you were truly their hope and you you said

0:26:56.000 --> 0:26:57.879
<v Speaker 1>it best. I think in your last day, they're like,

0:26:57.920 --> 0:27:00.560
<v Speaker 1>you're hoping to find somebody your compati with, that you

0:27:00.600 --> 0:27:03.959
<v Speaker 1>fell in love with that works not only in the

0:27:03.960 --> 0:27:06.960
<v Speaker 1>show world but in the real world. And so I think,

0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:09.680
<v Speaker 1>especially in the first season of The Bachelorette, you had

0:27:09.720 --> 0:27:13.199
<v Speaker 1>the ability because you didn't have social media coming from it.

0:27:13.280 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 1>You didn't. You didn't leave the show expecting I'm going

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:18.000
<v Speaker 1>to be able to travel to all these cool places

0:27:18.000 --> 0:27:20.680
<v Speaker 1>and these parties are going to invite me all over

0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:23.840
<v Speaker 1>the world, and there's all this like hype. I think

0:27:23.880 --> 0:27:25.359
<v Speaker 1>when people get off the show, they think they're going

0:27:25.400 --> 0:27:27.440
<v Speaker 1>to get all these brand endorsements. There's a lot now

0:27:27.520 --> 0:27:30.360
<v Speaker 1>that comes from the show, where back then it probably

0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:33.760
<v Speaker 1>wasn't as much. What would you say to now people

0:27:35.040 --> 0:27:37.520
<v Speaker 1>who who are going on the show? You know, we

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 1>know that Claire is now going to be soon filming

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:44.680
<v Speaker 1>with her guys. They're in quarantine now, but they're they're

0:27:44.680 --> 0:27:47.159
<v Speaker 1>in this weird position now where they don't get to

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 1>travel around the world on the show like people in

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:56.120
<v Speaker 1>the past have They they but it's kind of going

0:27:56.160 --> 0:27:58.200
<v Speaker 1>back to the basics with her season. So what would

0:27:58.200 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 1>you tell not only the guys an unclear season and

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:03.880
<v Speaker 1>coming out of it, but also heading into Matt James

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 1>this season, because that's going to look a little bit

0:28:05.440 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 1>different too, like going into it, what to expect and

0:28:10.000 --> 0:28:13.560
<v Speaker 1>what to focus on when they're filming in this quote

0:28:13.640 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 1>unquote new sort of filming environment. Yeah, well, I think

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 1>that you know, they're still going to have It's The Bachelor,

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:25.280
<v Speaker 1>so they're gonna have once in a lifetime opportunities no

0:28:25.320 --> 0:28:28.360
<v Speaker 1>matter where they are. You know, they'll have I'm sure

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:34.680
<v Speaker 1>recording artists, actors, comedians, whatever, I'm sure they'll have them

0:28:34.720 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 1>on the show that sort of thing. Um. So I

0:28:38.600 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 1>am really looking forward to that. Like I have to say,

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 1>I definitely have had a jealous bone in my body

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>every single time one of you all comes on and

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:54.240
<v Speaker 1>is like in Switzerland or New Zealand, and I like,

0:28:54.400 --> 0:29:01.920
<v Speaker 1>oh my god. So I'm happy to see yes, right.

0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I love Seattle and it's where I fell in love

0:29:04.960 --> 0:29:07.920
<v Speaker 1>truly with my husband. But you know, I do love

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 1>to travel in borbor It would have been nice. Um. So,

0:29:11.400 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I you know, I think that they can still have

0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:18.120
<v Speaker 1>an incredible experience, and they still will if they fully

0:29:18.240 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 1>give to the experience and are there and are vulnerable

0:29:23.200 --> 0:29:27.640
<v Speaker 1>and are willing to to to really dig deep and

0:29:27.680 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 1>get into that emotional part of what they need to

0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:32.520
<v Speaker 1>do in order to find out if they're truly meant

0:29:32.560 --> 0:29:35.520
<v Speaker 1>to be with Claire for the rest of their lives.

0:29:35.600 --> 0:29:39.360
<v Speaker 1>You know. Um, sorry, So I don't know, I'm I'm

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I think that because it's reality TV and it's The Bachelor,

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:47.880
<v Speaker 1>They're going to still make it pretty fantastic. You know,

0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 1>the dates are going to be pretty cool. Um, But

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm really looking forward to getting back down why the

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:59.560
<v Speaker 1>show is created. This is something that I actually talked

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:01.880
<v Speaker 1>about it with Rachel and some of the other bachelottes

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:04.719
<v Speaker 1>yesterday because we did a little virtual brunch with some

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 1>fans and oh one thing, and it was so fun

0:30:08.560 --> 0:30:12.479
<v Speaker 1>to because they have been watching the show since the beginning.

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:15.080
<v Speaker 1>And one thing that stuck out to me during that

0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:18.959
<v Speaker 1>conversation is they brought up your season and how your dates.

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 1>They loved watching them because they felt like they were

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:24.600
<v Speaker 1>dates that they could do with their partner. You know,

0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 1>you were on the beach having a picnic. It wasn't

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:29.479
<v Speaker 1>all of this. I think it's fun for people to

0:30:29.520 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>see the extravagant dates and it kind of takes them

0:30:32.360 --> 0:30:34.719
<v Speaker 1>out of their world for a little bit. But at

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:37.080
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, like that's not accessible to

0:30:37.240 --> 0:30:40.600
<v Speaker 1>most people, and so to be able to watch your

0:30:40.720 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 1>love story with Bryan but some of the other guys too,

0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:48.240
<v Speaker 1>to just have more like a date that is accessible

0:30:48.280 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 1>where somebody can go out and take a walk and

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:52.719
<v Speaker 1>talk and sit on the beach or have a picnic

0:30:52.760 --> 0:30:56.080
<v Speaker 1>and just drink champagne. That's something that stuck out to

0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 1>them that I think was really special and I'm hoping

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's not going to make for as great of TV,

0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:04.320
<v Speaker 1>but I really am. I'm excited for Claar season to

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:07.240
<v Speaker 1>see something like that where it's more about the conversation

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 1>and that interaction and the connection as opposed to, Oh,

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:14.040
<v Speaker 1>we're going to go in a hot air balloon with

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 1>a world famous violin player. You know that's that's us.

0:31:20.440 --> 0:31:22.720
<v Speaker 1>You're so right. I haven't thought about it like that.

0:31:22.800 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 1>But um, I feel like a lot of people enjoyed

0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:30.520
<v Speaker 1>watching Ryan and I and My season because it was relatable,

0:31:30.680 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 1>like they just like you said, it was accessible, it

0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 1>was relatable and I love that too. Now now you've

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 1>got me even more excited for Claar season because I'm

0:31:41.520 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 1>I think that we can focus as viewers on the

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:49.240
<v Speaker 1>development of the relationship, and to me, that's why I

0:31:49.240 --> 0:31:51.680
<v Speaker 1>watched the show. I don't want to watch it necessarily

0:31:51.720 --> 0:31:54.680
<v Speaker 1>for the fantastical elements, you know, I think that's fun,

0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:57.640
<v Speaker 1>But I watch it because I love love. I am

0:31:57.640 --> 0:32:00.960
<v Speaker 1>a hopeless romantic. I love watching people fall in love,

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:04.040
<v Speaker 1>be in love, you know everything about love. So I

0:32:05.480 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 1>think that it's really truly getting down to why they

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 1>created the show. And I love that. I'm so excited.

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Even more so, we are super excited for Claire's season two.

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:21.760
<v Speaker 1>I do have a question. Does Ryan still have the

0:32:21.760 --> 0:32:26.480
<v Speaker 1>bucket hat? Oh my god, you guys so after the show,

0:32:27.400 --> 0:32:31.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, it's here. So after the show we were

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:33.200
<v Speaker 1>talking about it, and actually a couple of people have

0:32:33.360 --> 0:32:37.040
<v Speaker 1>sent him screenshots of him on to you with the

0:32:37.040 --> 0:32:38.840
<v Speaker 1>bucket hat, and so like, you need to change your

0:32:38.840 --> 0:32:42.800
<v Speaker 1>profile picture. So we went into his closet, Pete and

0:32:42.880 --> 0:32:45.280
<v Speaker 1>blake's Ley and I and we got the bucket hat

0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 1>and she took it to the beach the next day.

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:50.120
<v Speaker 1>We have a little we have a little lake with

0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 1>the beach. She shook it, took the beach to the

0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:54.440
<v Speaker 1>next day and I did like a little photo shoot.

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:57.040
<v Speaker 1>I haven't posted a picture right yet, but oh my god,

0:32:57.120 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 1>she's so cute and the buckett to host. It's between

0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 1>the bucket hat and the poetry. Ryan. What happened me too?

0:33:04.240 --> 0:33:11.160
<v Speaker 1>I loved it. All is making a comeback? Yeah, I

0:33:10.320 --> 0:33:14.720
<v Speaker 1>think it. I think Kevin one asterisk fiance who was

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 1>wearing one mate. I could be wrong, but I'm pretty

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 1>sure he was wearing one the other day. The way

0:33:19.360 --> 0:33:21.680
<v Speaker 1>it's it's funny that you bring up Kevin, and it's

0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:25.200
<v Speaker 1>not just the firefighter thing. There's something very when I

0:33:25.240 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 1>was watching it, they they're very haven't I haven't been

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 1>around Ryan, but I've been around Kevin, and there's something

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:34.040
<v Speaker 1>very similar to them. I don't know what. I don't

0:33:34.080 --> 0:33:36.360
<v Speaker 1>know why, not in the parents, but just the way

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 1>that they are. And Kevin's great and I can tell

0:33:40.280 --> 0:33:42.560
<v Speaker 1>Ryan is too. But there's something though that we were

0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 1>talking about before that I want to ask you. Okay,

0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:48.240
<v Speaker 1>I can be deemed as a tab negative at times

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:52.080
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to talking about the franchise, but it's

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:55.840
<v Speaker 1>something that you said that I think is why when

0:33:55.840 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I speak about these numerous seasons, it comes off that way.

0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 1>And we can all say this, but I feel because

0:34:02.640 --> 0:34:07.120
<v Speaker 1>it worked for me. I feel extremely protective over this

0:34:07.160 --> 0:34:10.719
<v Speaker 1>process because I know it can work, and I know

0:34:10.760 --> 0:34:13.080
<v Speaker 1>it is very real, even if it is a TV show.

0:34:14.200 --> 0:34:16.279
<v Speaker 1>And so I think when I'm critiquing some of the

0:34:16.280 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 1>newer things that I see, it's because i'm defensive because

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, this is real. Stop making a joke of it.

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:24.839
<v Speaker 1>Stop playing around with this. This is a real thing.

0:34:25.400 --> 0:34:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel that way when you watch the show

0:34:28.440 --> 0:34:31.799
<v Speaker 1>sometimes in these in these later seasons, because I'm just

0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:36.040
<v Speaker 1>like you, guys, stop it's a It's a real thing.

0:34:36.360 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 1>And I know I get criticized for it so much,

0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:43.200
<v Speaker 1>but coming from you know, the person who set the

0:34:43.239 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 1>bar so high for all of us and paved the

0:34:45.640 --> 0:34:49.120
<v Speaker 1>way and set an example. Do you feel that sometimes,

0:34:49.160 --> 0:34:53.799
<v Speaker 1>like like this process is your baby? Oh yeah, for sure.

0:34:54.520 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 1>The show is part of me. It's my history. It's

0:34:57.160 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 1>the reason that I have my family. So I am

0:35:00.160 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 1>that's a perfect word, Rachel as protective. I definitely get offended.

0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:08.880
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like a lot of the times I

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 1>try to be real and and speak my mind, but

0:35:12.640 --> 0:35:15.040
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, I feel like all of you

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:19.319
<v Speaker 1>are my little babies, and and so I'm protective not

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:22.680
<v Speaker 1>only over the show and then like kind of treating

0:35:22.719 --> 0:35:28.920
<v Speaker 1>the show right and being invested in it as I was,

0:35:29.200 --> 0:35:32.240
<v Speaker 1>and being there for the truly for the right reasons,

0:35:32.280 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 1>for the love um, but I'm also really protective over

0:35:36.960 --> 0:35:42.000
<v Speaker 1>everybody who's been on the show, and because I feel

0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:46.239
<v Speaker 1>like we are all a family, and I know that

0:35:46.520 --> 0:35:49.960
<v Speaker 1>people have joked and said very godmother, and I've even

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:55.319
<v Speaker 1>been called grandmother by grandmother. Oh I won't say your name,

0:35:55.440 --> 0:36:02.799
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I apologize on behalf of that was you

0:36:02.960 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 1>don't let me, don't let me find out. I'm sorry

0:36:06.600 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you are if you're a grandmother es, so I was

0:36:09.719 --> 0:36:15.200
<v Speaker 1>like grandmother, know, but I'll be called very godmother any day. Um,

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:19.240
<v Speaker 1>I love that. So you know I have been called

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:23.919
<v Speaker 1>those things and I really do take those to heart,

0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I yes, I was there in the beginning and

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:31.520
<v Speaker 1>know the plan wasn't for me to like be you know,

0:36:32.480 --> 0:36:35.120
<v Speaker 1>around for this long the show for be around this

0:36:35.200 --> 0:36:37.160
<v Speaker 1>long and for me to be called the very godmother

0:36:37.239 --> 0:36:41.640
<v Speaker 1>like there was never an intention back then, but because

0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:46.520
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of how things have happened. Um, I definitely

0:36:47.000 --> 0:36:50.759
<v Speaker 1>I take ownership of it. I love it. I love

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 1>this part of my story of who I am. And

0:36:54.880 --> 0:37:00.759
<v Speaker 1>I maybe don't like everyone in the French guys and

0:37:00.840 --> 0:37:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I haven't shared like of them probably, but but I

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:11.200
<v Speaker 1>love them all because we are all connected and this

0:37:11.680 --> 0:37:16.719
<v Speaker 1>crazy discombobulated family. So yeah, I definitely am very protective

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:21.520
<v Speaker 1>over the show the way that people talk about it

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 1>and everyone involved trust I will say you have not

0:37:29.120 --> 0:37:32.040
<v Speaker 1>only have you paved the way for us other bachelorettes,

0:37:32.080 --> 0:37:35.320
<v Speaker 1>but you have been one of the most consistent, kind,

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:40.400
<v Speaker 1>caring people within the franchise and within like all of

0:37:40.440 --> 0:37:42.920
<v Speaker 1>the contestants and leads group together, you have been one

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:46.240
<v Speaker 1>of the most standout people, especially to me and especially

0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:48.759
<v Speaker 1>during this crazy year of twenty twenty with everything going on,

0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:51.640
<v Speaker 1>to always check in on all of the bachelorettes to

0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:54.279
<v Speaker 1>see how we're doing, to reach out and call us,

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:58.440
<v Speaker 1>and that's something that I definitely cannot say for a

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:00.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of people that come from the show. That's something really,

0:38:00.960 --> 0:38:05.320
<v Speaker 1>really special. And it's interesting because I feel so lucky

0:38:05.520 --> 0:38:08.600
<v Speaker 1>to have been you know, I was the fourteenth bachelorette,

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:12.000
<v Speaker 1>and so I had thirteen of you reaching out beforehand

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 1>and reaching out after or to check in on me

0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>and to give me advice and to be someone that

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I can lean on through all of this. And now, luckily,

0:38:20.239 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, we've been able to do that with Claire

0:38:21.800 --> 0:38:25.359
<v Speaker 1>as well before she went off on her journey. So

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:27.440
<v Speaker 1>do you feel like, in a way, since you were

0:38:27.440 --> 0:38:30.120
<v Speaker 1>the very first, like if you could have had somebody

0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 1>be where you are. To me and to Rachel, what

0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:36.239
<v Speaker 1>would what advice would you have wanted? But before you

0:38:36.280 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>became the lead, before you were put into that position,

0:38:39.239 --> 0:38:43.319
<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, I would have wanted to know everything, all

0:38:43.400 --> 0:38:46.759
<v Speaker 1>the details. Um. And we knew nothing, you know, going in.

0:38:47.680 --> 0:38:51.160
<v Speaker 1>It was a totally new show. There were there were

0:38:51.760 --> 0:38:56.120
<v Speaker 1>no for the right reasons, there was no there were

0:38:56.520 --> 0:39:01.279
<v Speaker 1>none of the god, I'm having bad word day right now. Um,

0:39:04.719 --> 0:39:09.000
<v Speaker 1>it always happened to me. So UM, I feel like

0:39:09.000 --> 0:39:12.279
<v Speaker 1>there was nothing for us to base our behavior on.

0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:15.359
<v Speaker 1>And now people come in and they're like, I think

0:39:15.360 --> 0:39:17.799
<v Speaker 1>they think of themselves like, I'm going to be the

0:39:17.840 --> 0:39:20.400
<v Speaker 1>next Bachelor, I'm going to be the villain. I'm going

0:39:20.440 --> 0:39:24.080
<v Speaker 1>to be I'm gonna be Trista. They pattered themselves after

0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Bacherettes too. Yeah, oh yeah, it's true. Yeah, So they

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:29.719
<v Speaker 1>had we had nothing to go off of. So I

0:39:29.760 --> 0:39:35.120
<v Speaker 1>would have loved, just honestly, any information. I crave information.

0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:40.400
<v Speaker 1>I think knowledge is power, and I would have really

0:39:40.440 --> 0:39:46.040
<v Speaker 1>really been thankful to have anything, any information. Um. Although

0:39:46.320 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, looking back, I guess hindsights twenty twenty and

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:52.600
<v Speaker 1>not having anything maybe it was a good thing because

0:39:52.920 --> 0:39:56.799
<v Speaker 1>I went into it completely myself and genuine and I

0:39:56.880 --> 0:40:01.920
<v Speaker 1>and and that was important to me to be who

0:40:02.160 --> 0:40:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I was and not act like someone else. And maybe

0:40:06.680 --> 0:40:09.640
<v Speaker 1>that happens nowadays. Do you guys think that like They've

0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:13.719
<v Speaker 1>probably come in and think I have this person like

0:40:14.280 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 1>like whomever that they are trying to act like. And

0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:23.080
<v Speaker 1>especially with social media and comparing ourselves to everyone, you know,

0:40:23.160 --> 0:40:27.239
<v Speaker 1>so important because so many people ask, and I'm sure

0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:30.719
<v Speaker 1>our audience who listens to this, they ask, I want

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:32.920
<v Speaker 1>to apply for the Bachelor? What what did you do?

0:40:33.000 --> 0:40:35.239
<v Speaker 1>What can I do? And what you said is so

0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:39.160
<v Speaker 1>important because you're you were just yourself. That's the only

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:41.279
<v Speaker 1>person you knew how to be, and you weren't trying

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.200
<v Speaker 1>to be anyone else. I felt that same way. I

0:40:44.239 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 1>hadn't watched it before, so I think the best advice

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:50.560
<v Speaker 1>you can give anyone coming in. And unfortunate Cleare's not

0:40:50.560 --> 0:40:52.400
<v Speaker 1>listening to this, but she knows because she's talked to

0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:56.319
<v Speaker 1>all about she knows that girl knows exactly who she is,

0:40:56.320 --> 0:40:58.879
<v Speaker 1>what she wants, what she's going after. But I would

0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:03.320
<v Speaker 1>say to people, and this isn't just in regard to Bachelor,

0:41:03.360 --> 0:41:06.640
<v Speaker 1>but just life in general. Yeah, maybe have a role model,

0:41:06.680 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 1>maybe have somebody you look to because you value what

0:41:10.080 --> 0:41:12.720
<v Speaker 1>they value, or you look up to them for certain

0:41:12.760 --> 0:41:15.040
<v Speaker 1>things that they've done. But at the end of the day,

0:41:15.120 --> 0:41:18.640
<v Speaker 1>we're all uniquely and beautifully made. You have a story

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:21.480
<v Speaker 1>to tell that's different from anyone else's, and if you

0:41:21.560 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 1>lead with that, that's gonna be your best chance into

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:27.319
<v Speaker 1>getting on this show and then into succeeding on the

0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:32.160
<v Speaker 1>show period. That's that's really the case. Um oh, shoot,

0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I was going to ask you something about your season.

0:41:34.719 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I keep going back to your season because it's just sorry,

0:41:37.960 --> 0:41:39.560
<v Speaker 1>it's just the season, the type of season I want

0:41:39.560 --> 0:41:44.359
<v Speaker 1>to see it. Well, I want to know asker because

0:41:44.360 --> 0:41:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking because you didn't have, like, there wasn't a

0:41:47.440 --> 0:41:49.840
<v Speaker 1>rule book for you. You just went in saying like

0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to find the person who I fall in

0:41:52.040 --> 0:41:55.440
<v Speaker 1>love with, who I'm compatible with like and watching that back,

0:41:55.880 --> 0:41:58.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, even though it was several years ago, like,

0:41:58.080 --> 0:42:01.040
<v Speaker 1>it was so refreshing to be able to rewatch you

0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:03.680
<v Speaker 1>and to just see you. You were just you. As

0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:06.520
<v Speaker 1>Rachel was saying, you didn't go off of anything. You

0:42:06.520 --> 0:42:08.839
<v Speaker 1>had no one you could compare it to, so you

0:42:08.880 --> 0:42:11.040
<v Speaker 1>just did what you thought in your heart and in

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:16.239
<v Speaker 1>your gut was best. So knowing that you did, you

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:18.840
<v Speaker 1>couldn't really play off of anyone and didn't have any

0:42:19.000 --> 0:42:23.279
<v Speaker 1>bachelords before you. Is there anything watching your season back

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:25.960
<v Speaker 1>that you wished you would not have done that you

0:42:26.080 --> 0:42:30.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe regret. There is something that I regret, and I've

0:42:30.200 --> 0:42:32.239
<v Speaker 1>talked about it a lot over the years. So this

0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:34.320
<v Speaker 1>is the same answer if people have heard it before.

0:42:34.400 --> 0:42:38.760
<v Speaker 1>But on the very first Bachelor, I was a point

0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:41.839
<v Speaker 1>blank asked Alex who he would choose if he had

0:42:41.880 --> 0:42:44.040
<v Speaker 1>to choose then, and it was like two nights before

0:42:44.040 --> 0:42:46.800
<v Speaker 1>the final rose ceremony, and of course he's gonna say me.

0:42:47.120 --> 0:42:49.319
<v Speaker 1>Of course, I mean, what guy in their right mind

0:42:49.440 --> 0:42:52.040
<v Speaker 1>is not going to say the girl that he's looking at,

0:42:52.239 --> 0:42:55.080
<v Speaker 1>You know that in that moment, So he said me.

0:42:55.239 --> 0:42:58.279
<v Speaker 1>So I went into the final rose ceremony thinking I'm

0:42:58.280 --> 0:43:01.240
<v Speaker 1>getting engaged. This is like the biggest moment of my life.

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:04.160
<v Speaker 1>This is crazy. And I didn't and I was heartbroken

0:43:04.239 --> 0:43:07.319
<v Speaker 1>and all the things. So when I was the bachelorette,

0:43:07.920 --> 0:43:13.399
<v Speaker 1>I went into it thinking Alex had all this time

0:43:13.400 --> 0:43:15.400
<v Speaker 1>with us. Yes, it was only six weeks back in

0:43:15.440 --> 0:43:18.560
<v Speaker 1>the day, but it was six weeks of solely focusing

0:43:18.640 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 1>on our relationship. And so we had all this time

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:24.120
<v Speaker 1>and at the very end he thought he was going

0:43:24.120 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 1>to choose me, and then he didn't choose me. So

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:30.200
<v Speaker 1>that tells me, oh my gosh, like I need to

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:32.680
<v Speaker 1>hold my cards close to my chest, even more more

0:43:32.719 --> 0:43:35.680
<v Speaker 1>so than before, because I don't know what kind of

0:43:35.719 --> 0:43:38.799
<v Speaker 1>deal breaker I will hear about, or if something will

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:42.719
<v Speaker 1>happen and my mind will be changed. Right. So I'm

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:46.680
<v Speaker 1>in the bachelorette and Ryan is professing his love to

0:43:46.760 --> 0:43:50.520
<v Speaker 1>me through notes, through yes, through poems. But he handed

0:43:50.560 --> 0:43:54.000
<v Speaker 1>me a note when the cameras weren't around. We were

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 1>in the car. He was saying goodbye in veil at

0:43:57.520 --> 0:43:59.719
<v Speaker 1>his hometown, and he handed me this note and I

0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:02.759
<v Speaker 1>literal early went into the bathroom in my hotel room

0:44:02.840 --> 0:44:09.040
<v Speaker 1>because I thought that my hotel room was bugged with cameras.

0:44:09.840 --> 0:44:12.759
<v Speaker 1>I so I was like, I was so paranoid, you guys,

0:44:12.760 --> 0:44:15.200
<v Speaker 1>so paranoid. So I went into the bathroom and I'm

0:44:15.239 --> 0:44:17.319
<v Speaker 1>reading this note and he tells me that he's falling

0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:21.319
<v Speaker 1>in love with me, and he continued to after that.

0:44:21.440 --> 0:44:27.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, he needed As you probably know, this show

0:44:27.400 --> 0:44:30.960
<v Speaker 1>is definitely way out of his comfort zone still is

0:44:31.000 --> 0:44:33.200
<v Speaker 1>to this day. He didn't watch the other night, he

0:44:33.280 --> 0:44:36.359
<v Speaker 1>won't watch in the future, just because it is an

0:44:36.440 --> 0:44:41.520
<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable thing for him, and I fully respect that. But

0:44:41.800 --> 0:44:43.440
<v Speaker 1>he was telling me that he was falling in love

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:47.919
<v Speaker 1>with me, and I didn't give him any inclination. I mean,

0:44:48.040 --> 0:44:50.200
<v Speaker 1>with my body language. I felt like, I did you know,

0:44:50.280 --> 0:44:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I was very like, very affectionate in public, in person, whatever,

0:44:56.320 --> 0:44:59.719
<v Speaker 1>And I thought that he could gander from that that

0:45:00.280 --> 0:45:01.839
<v Speaker 1>I was falling in love with him too. But I

0:45:01.880 --> 0:45:08.319
<v Speaker 1>never said the words. I never gave him what's the

0:45:08.360 --> 0:45:13.640
<v Speaker 1>word reassurance, thank you, the reassurance that I was in

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:17.719
<v Speaker 1>it and it was him. But I just, even up

0:45:17.719 --> 0:45:20.600
<v Speaker 1>to the last minute, I wanted to be sure that

0:45:20.840 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 1>I was making the right decision, and so I didn't

0:45:23.960 --> 0:45:26.120
<v Speaker 1>want to do kind of what Ben Higgins did and

0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:28.160
<v Speaker 1>tell to people that I was falling in love with them.

0:45:28.320 --> 0:45:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even want to tell one person I was

0:45:30.040 --> 0:45:33.120
<v Speaker 1>falling in love with them because I didn't want my

0:45:33.160 --> 0:45:35.520
<v Speaker 1>mind to be changed in some way, shape or form

0:45:35.960 --> 0:45:38.640
<v Speaker 1>and then have to backjack and hurt his feelings like

0:45:38.719 --> 0:45:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I had been hurt on The Bachelor. So that's a

0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:44.960
<v Speaker 1>big regret of mine. I feel like he deserved to

0:45:45.120 --> 0:45:48.680
<v Speaker 1>know where my head was at. And with the advice

0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:52.120
<v Speaker 1>that I give anyone who asks me to date, I say,

0:45:52.239 --> 0:45:55.399
<v Speaker 1>just be true to yourself, really really listened to your gut,

0:45:56.120 --> 0:45:59.799
<v Speaker 1>and go with whatever your gut is telling you. But

0:46:00.200 --> 0:46:04.120
<v Speaker 1>give in to your emotions, give in to expressing those

0:46:04.160 --> 0:46:09.160
<v Speaker 1>emotions and being vulnerable and sharing. Maybe not to the

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:12.880
<v Speaker 1>point of telling two people that you love them. Something

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:14.680
<v Speaker 1>that you said made me think of what I was

0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:18.480
<v Speaker 1>watching you on Alex's season is the way he described you.

0:46:18.760 --> 0:46:21.720
<v Speaker 1>It was like Trista's the cool girl that I could

0:46:21.760 --> 0:46:25.319
<v Speaker 1>never get, and and he had the He said he

0:46:25.320 --> 0:46:27.320
<v Speaker 1>had a big crush on you. You made him nervous.

0:46:27.680 --> 0:46:31.240
<v Speaker 1>He was so infatuated with you because in real life

0:46:31.320 --> 0:46:33.920
<v Speaker 1>he probably was like, I'll never get a Trista, which

0:46:33.920 --> 0:46:37.839
<v Speaker 1>I laughed because fast forward to nowadays. I always say

0:46:38.040 --> 0:46:40.400
<v Speaker 1>the guys, now, the reason a lot of these relationships

0:46:40.480 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 1>don't work is because they picked the girl they could

0:46:43.080 --> 0:46:46.160
<v Speaker 1>never get in real life. They picked the girl who's

0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:48.600
<v Speaker 1>their dream girl, not who makes sense and who works

0:46:48.640 --> 0:46:50.719
<v Speaker 1>in real life. That's the real question that I was

0:46:50.719 --> 0:46:53.560
<v Speaker 1>going to ask you, though I remember it now Okay,

0:46:53.920 --> 0:46:56.759
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm learning Bachelor history as we go.

0:46:57.560 --> 0:46:59.560
<v Speaker 1>But I thought about this when I was watching, So

0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:03.520
<v Speaker 1>how many one how many bachelors were before your season?

0:47:04.320 --> 0:47:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Because at the time you left Alex this season, were

0:47:08.080 --> 0:47:11.239
<v Speaker 1>they ever talking to you about a bachelorette? And then

0:47:11.280 --> 0:47:14.120
<v Speaker 1>when you did find out, were you just completely shocked?

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:17.160
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm very curious as to how much time passed.

0:47:17.719 --> 0:47:21.400
<v Speaker 1>So there were two bachelors, Um, just Alex and Aaron

0:47:21.440 --> 0:47:29.879
<v Speaker 1>Bergie was the second they asked, what you okay, He's

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:32.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of disappeared too, He m, I believe he lives

0:47:32.480 --> 0:47:38.600
<v Speaker 1>in Missouri or Kansas. Um, he's a pilot. Yeah, anyway, Um,

0:47:38.719 --> 0:47:43.200
<v Speaker 1>so there were two bachelors and I found out, Um,

0:47:44.320 --> 0:47:48.799
<v Speaker 1>I was watching the finale in New York with a

0:47:48.840 --> 0:47:54.279
<v Speaker 1>bunch of my friends of The Bachelor and uh and

0:47:54.360 --> 0:47:58.280
<v Speaker 1>Slice called me and during the finale, like I remember

0:47:58.320 --> 0:48:00.959
<v Speaker 1>having to kind of go away for you know, where

0:48:00.960 --> 0:48:05.319
<v Speaker 1>everyone was sitting and take a call, and he said, UM,

0:48:06.239 --> 0:48:08.759
<v Speaker 1>are you liking watching the show? And then he was like,

0:48:08.800 --> 0:48:11.640
<v Speaker 1>what do you think about being the bachelorette? And I

0:48:11.680 --> 0:48:17.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, really, this hadn't been talked about, Like this

0:48:17.160 --> 0:48:19.960
<v Speaker 1>was no, no, no, no, I don't. I don't believe so.

0:48:20.160 --> 0:48:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't think they talked about it during during the Bachelor.

0:48:23.320 --> 0:48:25.760
<v Speaker 1>It was never I feel like a lot of people

0:48:25.800 --> 0:48:28.320
<v Speaker 1>these days go on the show thinking, oh, if it

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:30.920
<v Speaker 1>doesn't work out with them, then maybe I'll be a Bachelor,

0:48:31.000 --> 0:48:34.759
<v Speaker 1>or maybe I'll be the bachelorette, And back then that

0:48:34.880 --> 0:48:40.200
<v Speaker 1>was definitely not not a thought in any of our minds.

0:48:40.480 --> 0:48:44.160
<v Speaker 1>Um And and I don't remember ever it being a

0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:47.759
<v Speaker 1>conversation with the with the producers about the possibility. It

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:50.760
<v Speaker 1>was just in that moment, and that's why I had

0:48:51.040 --> 0:48:55.200
<v Speaker 1>the reaction that I did, because it was like such

0:48:55.239 --> 0:48:59.560
<v Speaker 1>a surprise um And for him to be thinking about

0:48:59.719 --> 0:49:03.960
<v Speaker 1>me as the bachelorette, Like I just felt like, Wow,

0:49:04.360 --> 0:49:07.200
<v Speaker 1>this is so this is crazy. Why would you want me?

0:49:07.480 --> 0:49:11.600
<v Speaker 1>And um it was. It was very humbling but super

0:49:11.840 --> 0:49:14.880
<v Speaker 1>fundant exciting too. Yeah. I just I just I was

0:49:14.880 --> 0:49:16.360
<v Speaker 1>thinking about that as I was watching it. I just

0:49:16.360 --> 0:49:18.919
<v Speaker 1>think it's so cool. I can't imagine they're not even

0:49:18.960 --> 0:49:21.160
<v Speaker 1>being a show and we're like, guess what, We're gonna

0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:26.239
<v Speaker 1>launch an entire show off of you. I mean, it's

0:49:26.280 --> 0:49:29.440
<v Speaker 1>just it just goes to say what the franchise the

0:49:29.480 --> 0:49:32.720
<v Speaker 1>creator of the show, everyone thought about you as a person,

0:49:32.880 --> 0:49:35.920
<v Speaker 1>which we're now very lucky to get to know as well.

0:49:36.000 --> 0:49:38.560
<v Speaker 1>It all makes it. I get it. Thanks. I want

0:49:38.640 --> 0:49:45.520
<v Speaker 1>to show off you too. You were honestly probably the

0:49:45.600 --> 0:49:51.160
<v Speaker 1>best woman to kick start the bachelotte journey. Honestly like

0:49:51.719 --> 0:49:55.080
<v Speaker 1>you held your own you were and like who you

0:49:55.120 --> 0:49:57.200
<v Speaker 1>are in real life. And when we talk to you

0:49:57.280 --> 0:49:58.840
<v Speaker 1>and I've gotten to know you, throw up this past

0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:02.000
<v Speaker 1>here like that is still you when we watched you

0:50:02.080 --> 0:50:04.520
<v Speaker 1>back on the screen. We do have a game that

0:50:04.560 --> 0:50:06.719
<v Speaker 1>I want to get into, but before that, I need

0:50:06.719 --> 0:50:08.839
<v Speaker 1>to ask you because I ask all of the bachelorttes

0:50:08.880 --> 0:50:12.560
<v Speaker 1>this question, and I ask Clear this even though she

0:50:12.560 --> 0:50:15.439
<v Speaker 1>hasn't started for journey yet, but she's about to. And

0:50:15.719 --> 0:50:19.400
<v Speaker 1>do you still wake up or like pinch yourself in

0:50:19.480 --> 0:50:23.359
<v Speaker 1>moments and say like I cannot believe I was the Bachelorette.

0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:27.759
<v Speaker 1>So even talking to you guys today, it like humbles me.

0:50:28.000 --> 0:50:31.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm a dinosaur. I feel like I'm ancient.

0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:36.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel like and maybe it's because there are a

0:50:36.520 --> 0:50:41.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of times when I'm not necessarily included in stuff,

0:50:42.080 --> 0:50:47.160
<v Speaker 1>which you know, kind of reinforces my insecurities about being

0:50:47.440 --> 0:50:51.440
<v Speaker 1>super old and they'll have you know, more recent people,

0:50:51.640 --> 0:50:57.960
<v Speaker 1>because those people are the people who everyone watching knows.

0:50:58.040 --> 0:51:00.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, most of our the demograph that can watch

0:51:00.600 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 1>the show now are way younger, and and I feel like, um,

0:51:05.960 --> 0:51:08.040
<v Speaker 1>maybe a lot of people can't relate to me just

0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:10.880
<v Speaker 1>because I'm at a different part point in my life,

0:51:10.960 --> 0:51:21.000
<v Speaker 1>you know. So um, oh gosh, what was the question, Becca,

0:51:21.040 --> 0:51:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe for sure. I do all the time

0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:29.400
<v Speaker 1>in talking to you guys and doing Good Morning America,

0:51:29.520 --> 0:51:32.640
<v Speaker 1>like they still want to talk to me like that

0:51:32.760 --> 0:51:36.920
<v Speaker 1>is shocking to me. I. Um, being part of the

0:51:37.000 --> 0:51:42.440
<v Speaker 1>reunion was Oh. I just loved that that day, that

0:51:42.560 --> 0:51:46.920
<v Speaker 1>weekend with everyone because, as I've said, I feel super

0:51:46.960 --> 0:51:50.279
<v Speaker 1>connected to everyone who has been on the show. We've

0:51:50.280 --> 0:51:54.799
<v Speaker 1>all been through this rare opportunity and and life to

0:51:54.960 --> 0:51:58.800
<v Speaker 1>me is all about human connection. It is all about

0:51:58.840 --> 0:52:02.080
<v Speaker 1>the relationships that I've hold the people in my life.

0:52:02.160 --> 0:52:04.840
<v Speaker 1>And the fact that I get to call you guys

0:52:04.880 --> 0:52:07.799
<v Speaker 1>friends who I've watched on my televisions, you know, like

0:52:07.840 --> 0:52:11.760
<v Speaker 1>it it's really fun for me. So yes, I pinched

0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:16.279
<v Speaker 1>myself all the time, and I'm just incredibly grateful for

0:52:16.440 --> 0:52:20.799
<v Speaker 1>the experience, not only because I've met my husband and

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:25.680
<v Speaker 1>created a family from the show. But because I get

0:52:25.719 --> 0:52:28.760
<v Speaker 1>to connect with all of you very well said, because

0:52:28.760 --> 0:52:31.200
<v Speaker 1>the experience is so much more than you think it is.

0:52:31.239 --> 0:52:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I never knew i'd make friends. I never

0:52:34.760 --> 0:52:37.520
<v Speaker 1>knew I would you know, fall in love, and I

0:52:37.560 --> 0:52:40.440
<v Speaker 1>never knew that I would have this community with the bachelorettes,

0:52:40.640 --> 0:52:45.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I, oh, go ahead, no, no, keep going. Sorry, Well,

0:52:45.239 --> 0:52:48.120
<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say, and I give that honestly

0:52:48.160 --> 0:52:52.120
<v Speaker 1>trusted to you because I was. I was uncomfortable and

0:52:52.120 --> 0:52:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I've talked to this before coming into the reunion just

0:52:54.960 --> 0:52:57.480
<v Speaker 1>because I felt uncomfortable being the only person of color.

0:52:57.960 --> 0:53:00.960
<v Speaker 1>But by the end of it, I was like, just

0:53:01.040 --> 0:53:04.759
<v Speaker 1>felt so welcomed and I wasn't even thinking about that

0:53:04.840 --> 0:53:08.000
<v Speaker 1>and then like you jump starting the group chat and

0:53:08.040 --> 0:53:10.640
<v Speaker 1>the community that we have there, Like Becca said, you're

0:53:10.680 --> 0:53:13.439
<v Speaker 1>reaching out in twenty twenty, You've reached out reach out

0:53:13.480 --> 0:53:16.040
<v Speaker 1>to me multiple times about like what's going on to

0:53:16.120 --> 0:53:18.359
<v Speaker 1>black people in the country, and it's really really meant

0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:21.759
<v Speaker 1>a lot. So I mean, it's just this sisterhood is

0:53:22.080 --> 0:53:24.279
<v Speaker 1>one of the most beautiful things out of all of this,

0:53:24.600 --> 0:53:27.120
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's why I hate when I see

0:53:27.160 --> 0:53:30.240
<v Speaker 1>seasons where there's just so much cattiness shown between the women,

0:53:30.760 --> 0:53:34.920
<v Speaker 1>because it really is the key to survival. Beck and

0:53:34.960 --> 0:53:37.440
<v Speaker 1>I've talked about this to the show, to finding your

0:53:37.520 --> 0:53:42.400
<v Speaker 1>husband even at the end or wife, is that having

0:53:42.440 --> 0:53:45.319
<v Speaker 1>the sisterhood, brotherhood within the community and the house because

0:53:45.360 --> 0:53:48.640
<v Speaker 1>they will uplift you and support you and push you forward.

0:53:48.680 --> 0:53:50.840
<v Speaker 1>If you don't have that, you will not succeed on

0:53:50.880 --> 0:53:55.239
<v Speaker 1>the show. Okay, I could keep talking. You want to

0:53:55.280 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 1>say something, you want to say something. I want you

0:53:57.080 --> 0:54:02.120
<v Speaker 1>to have your point. Sorry, I know you guys are

0:54:02.120 --> 0:54:06.200
<v Speaker 1>giving me full body chills because the like we season one,

0:54:06.480 --> 0:54:09.120
<v Speaker 1>thirteen and fourteen, the fact that we're having this conversation,

0:54:09.160 --> 0:54:12.000
<v Speaker 1>that we have this bond is so special and I

0:54:12.000 --> 0:54:13.879
<v Speaker 1>feel kind of bad for our listeners out there who

0:54:14.000 --> 0:54:17.200
<v Speaker 1>can't be part of like within this conversation, I just

0:54:17.360 --> 0:54:19.280
<v Speaker 1>want to wrap you girls up and hug you because

0:54:19.280 --> 0:54:21.920
<v Speaker 1>it is a sisterhood. And like when you go on

0:54:21.960 --> 0:54:23.879
<v Speaker 1>the show, you think, Okay, I'm gonna live with thirty

0:54:24.000 --> 0:54:26.960
<v Speaker 1>some girls and I'll hopefully make friends with some of them.

0:54:27.000 --> 0:54:29.400
<v Speaker 1>But the fact that like we all came from different

0:54:29.440 --> 0:54:33.759
<v Speaker 1>seasons at different times and can form these friendships and

0:54:33.840 --> 0:54:37.120
<v Speaker 1>these bonds is something so special and so yeah, devoloped

0:54:37.200 --> 0:54:39.960
<v Speaker 1>what you just said, Rachel. You know, the key to

0:54:41.040 --> 0:54:44.480
<v Speaker 1>not surviving the show, but to really embrace it for

0:54:44.520 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 1>all that it is and soak it all in is

0:54:46.840 --> 0:54:49.279
<v Speaker 1>to form those friendships. And you never know who you're

0:54:49.320 --> 0:54:53.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna meet coming from, never know, you never know. Okay,

0:54:53.080 --> 0:54:57.759
<v Speaker 1>we gotta let your kids get back to Fortnite. So

0:54:57.760 --> 0:55:01.120
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna wrap this up really quickly with a but

0:55:01.360 --> 0:55:04.880
<v Speaker 1>um okay, so the game that we're gonna play doesn't

0:55:04.920 --> 0:55:07.720
<v Speaker 1>have a name. Yeah, we're gonna call it OG or neubi.

0:55:08.040 --> 0:55:10.560
<v Speaker 1>So the way this is going to work is you

0:55:10.600 --> 0:55:15.080
<v Speaker 1>are known to everybody as the ultimate OG. And by

0:55:15.120 --> 0:55:17.720
<v Speaker 1>the way, when we say OG, we are not talking

0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:20.440
<v Speaker 1>about original Grandma, because I am still mad at whoever

0:55:20.520 --> 0:55:23.280
<v Speaker 1>freaking had the nerve to say that to you. OG

0:55:23.800 --> 0:55:28.160
<v Speaker 1>as an original gangster of the Bachelor world. And while

0:55:28.160 --> 0:55:30.359
<v Speaker 1>most of us will agree that OG's are always better,

0:55:30.640 --> 0:55:32.919
<v Speaker 1>you know, some people might argue that newbies can hold

0:55:32.920 --> 0:55:34.960
<v Speaker 1>their own as well. So we're gonna play a game

0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:39.200
<v Speaker 1>OG or Newbie. So here are the roles. When we

0:55:39.320 --> 0:55:42.239
<v Speaker 1>name an OG or, we will name an OG and

0:55:42.440 --> 0:55:45.440
<v Speaker 1>a newbie across various categories, and you have to choose

0:55:45.520 --> 0:55:49.319
<v Speaker 1>whether you'd prefer the classic or the newer version. Are

0:55:50.080 --> 0:55:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous? Don't you go with your gut first thing

0:55:54.080 --> 0:55:56.880
<v Speaker 1>that comes to your mind? Okay, becca, Becca can kick

0:55:56.920 --> 0:55:59.520
<v Speaker 1>it off. Okay, So to kick it off, we have

0:55:59.560 --> 0:56:02.120
<v Speaker 1>to they start with the bachelor. So we are giving

0:56:02.160 --> 0:56:07.239
<v Speaker 1>you Alex Michelle or Peter Webber. Oh god, okay, So

0:56:07.320 --> 0:56:09.840
<v Speaker 1>am I choosing these people as like I think that

0:56:09.880 --> 0:56:12.719
<v Speaker 1>they were a better bachelor or a better person or

0:56:12.760 --> 0:56:15.480
<v Speaker 1>what better bachelor? We will have you. We won't have

0:56:15.560 --> 0:56:18.319
<v Speaker 1>you get all into the weeds of it. Just a

0:56:18.320 --> 0:56:21.560
<v Speaker 1>better bachelor? Who was a better bach? Better bachelor? Um,

0:56:23.040 --> 0:56:29.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm Peter. Sorry, sorry, interesting but it So that's a

0:56:29.040 --> 0:56:32.719
<v Speaker 1>tough one to start with. Yeah, I mean he was

0:56:32.760 --> 0:56:35.840
<v Speaker 1>the first, and he'd like like any of us on

0:56:35.880 --> 0:56:37.640
<v Speaker 1>the first Bachelor, we didn't know what we were doing.

0:56:38.400 --> 0:56:42.080
<v Speaker 1>But still it was the oversized suit coats, right, that's

0:56:42.080 --> 0:56:47.560
<v Speaker 1>why you went with Peter Good? So funny, I die

0:56:47.719 --> 0:56:56.200
<v Speaker 1>am watching Chris Sarrison. Um, okay, Batman's Michael Keaton or

0:56:56.200 --> 0:57:01.320
<v Speaker 1>a Christian Bale. Oh my gosh, my okay. Christian Bale

0:57:01.480 --> 0:57:04.600
<v Speaker 1>was the newer one. Yeah, yes, okay, I gotta go

0:57:04.640 --> 0:57:11.279
<v Speaker 1>with Michael Keaton. Sorry oge um, Yeah, I hate how

0:57:11.320 --> 0:57:14.399
<v Speaker 1>he changed. Like every single time a new movie comes out,

0:57:14.440 --> 0:57:17.000
<v Speaker 1>there's a new Batman. Like, just stick with the originals.

0:57:18.360 --> 0:57:20.040
<v Speaker 1>This is gonna be a really good one for you

0:57:20.080 --> 0:57:22.560
<v Speaker 1>because we're playing off of that. We're gonna give you

0:57:22.600 --> 0:57:26.400
<v Speaker 1>three choices here. But for a Star is Born, we

0:57:26.440 --> 0:57:31.600
<v Speaker 1>have Judy Garland, Barbra Streisan or Lady Gaga. Okay, so

0:57:31.760 --> 0:57:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I have not seen the original Star is borns um,

0:57:36.120 --> 0:57:38.520
<v Speaker 1>so I have to go with Lady Gaga just because

0:57:38.560 --> 0:57:41.360
<v Speaker 1>it's the only one I've seen. And holy cow, was

0:57:41.400 --> 0:57:45.360
<v Speaker 1>she not phenomenal in that movie? Yes, I don't think

0:57:45.360 --> 0:57:49.200
<v Speaker 1>anyone could beat her. I cried. I haven't cried like

0:57:49.240 --> 0:57:52.880
<v Speaker 1>that since Titanic in a movie theater like publicly it

0:57:53.040 --> 0:57:58.440
<v Speaker 1>was it was bad. It was bad. It was bad. Okay,

0:57:59.360 --> 0:58:03.920
<v Speaker 1>James bad. We got Sean Connery or Daniel Craig. You

0:58:03.960 --> 0:58:07.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't even need to say Daniel Craig. Sean Connery is

0:58:07.360 --> 0:58:11.880
<v Speaker 1>my end all be all James Bond, Yeah, we love him. Yeah,

0:58:11.880 --> 0:58:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I can't beat that. Okay, we'll switch it up from movies.

0:58:14.320 --> 0:58:16.760
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna go to social media. I already know how

0:58:16.920 --> 0:58:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Rachel would answer this. But we have Facebook or TikTok. Oh,

0:58:22.040 --> 0:58:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I can't do TikTok. So I just took my daughter

0:58:24.880 --> 0:58:28.760
<v Speaker 1>off of TikTok. Good. It's a whole long story that

0:58:28.800 --> 0:58:33.280
<v Speaker 1>you guys definitely don't want to listen to. But it's

0:58:33.440 --> 0:58:38.640
<v Speaker 1>just a touch mature for an eleven year old. And originally,

0:58:38.680 --> 0:58:40.240
<v Speaker 1>when she came to me and said she wanted it,

0:58:40.320 --> 0:58:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even want her to be on it. But yeah,

0:58:43.560 --> 0:58:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a fan of TikTok right now as a mom. Trista,

0:58:47.800 --> 0:58:50.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm thirty, and it's a tad bit old for me.

0:58:51.040 --> 0:58:53.400
<v Speaker 1>Like it's too much for me seeing those dance moves.

0:58:53.400 --> 0:58:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I think I should be with your daughter

0:58:55.600 --> 0:58:57.840
<v Speaker 1>and just delete my account. I get Anne into it.

0:58:58.360 --> 0:59:01.440
<v Speaker 1>We deleted her account. We had a big discussion about it.

0:59:01.480 --> 0:59:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's a talk for another another time. I'm

0:59:04.760 --> 0:59:07.720
<v Speaker 1>telling you not to be too political, but they're saying

0:59:07.720 --> 0:59:10.120
<v Speaker 1>they're getting information from this app, like it's a big

0:59:10.200 --> 0:59:12.120
<v Speaker 1>deal that US is talking about banning it. So I'm

0:59:12.120 --> 0:59:15.000
<v Speaker 1>just saying, I know, do you know what we were

0:59:15.080 --> 0:59:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I was sitting in Blakesley's room with her the other

0:59:17.160 --> 0:59:20.640
<v Speaker 1>day and I think she was watching YouTube and there

0:59:20.720 --> 0:59:23.320
<v Speaker 1>was a YouTube like Little Box that was talking about

0:59:23.360 --> 0:59:26.680
<v Speaker 1>how TikTok maybe banned, and she was like a good thing.

0:59:26.720 --> 0:59:30.240
<v Speaker 1>We deleted it. We deleted it before it that a girl,

0:59:33.000 --> 0:59:37.280
<v Speaker 1>that's right, I know for all of our listeners. Blakesley

0:59:37.320 --> 0:59:41.080
<v Speaker 1>actually came to the Bachelorette reunion last year and she

0:59:41.320 --> 0:59:43.880
<v Speaker 1>was like our fifteenth bachelrette because Hannah Braun wasn't there

0:59:43.920 --> 0:59:46.560
<v Speaker 1>because she was filming, and it was so she is

0:59:46.600 --> 0:59:49.840
<v Speaker 1>the sweetest, Like, yeah, and I just love the bond

0:59:49.880 --> 0:59:53.360
<v Speaker 1>that you guys have. She loves you guys, and honestly,

0:59:53.920 --> 0:59:56.800
<v Speaker 1>what I love now it's like kind of a full

0:59:56.800 --> 1:00:00.640
<v Speaker 1>circle thing, is like she I love of that. You

1:00:00.680 --> 1:00:03.960
<v Speaker 1>guys are these great role models for my daughter, you know,

1:00:04.360 --> 1:00:07.480
<v Speaker 1>not even taking me out of it. I love that

1:00:07.680 --> 1:00:11.640
<v Speaker 1>people that I adore she adores too. So oh she's

1:00:11.720 --> 1:00:16.800
<v Speaker 1>great honorary bachelorette with us. Yeah for sure. Oh it's

1:00:16.800 --> 1:00:20.080
<v Speaker 1>my start. Okay, um, lets skip that one late night

1:00:20.120 --> 1:00:24.920
<v Speaker 1>host Johnny Carson Jimmy Kimmel. Oh my god, that's hard

1:00:25.080 --> 1:00:30.400
<v Speaker 1>because Johnny Carson, Holy caw. I used to love watching

1:00:30.520 --> 1:00:33.000
<v Speaker 1>him when my parents would let me when I was little.

1:00:33.520 --> 1:00:36.800
<v Speaker 1>But I do. I love Jimmy Kimmel's a funny story.

1:00:36.840 --> 1:00:40.800
<v Speaker 1>Before we got married. We went on his show and

1:00:41.120 --> 1:00:44.520
<v Speaker 1>he hands us an envelope as his like wedding present,

1:00:44.920 --> 1:00:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and it was full of cash. Stop, are you serious? What?

1:00:51.720 --> 1:00:55.040
<v Speaker 1>At this end, it was like, I like your uncle Jimmy,

1:00:55.120 --> 1:00:59.920
<v Speaker 1>and I'm just gonna hand you an envelope full of cash.

1:01:00.120 --> 1:01:04.360
<v Speaker 1>So did you keep all of it? He gave us

1:01:04.560 --> 1:01:07.160
<v Speaker 1>all like it wasn't a joke, Like he was just like,

1:01:07.400 --> 1:01:09.680
<v Speaker 1>here you go. I would have I would have been

1:01:09.720 --> 1:01:14.880
<v Speaker 1>stuffing in my purse, say Uncle Jimmy, thanks preciate. So

1:01:15.000 --> 1:01:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go with Uncle Jimmy. I love that. Actually

1:01:17.640 --> 1:01:20.439
<v Speaker 1>I made a bet with him, and uh, I won

1:01:20.640 --> 1:01:22.880
<v Speaker 1>ten dollars and so to this day it's hanging out

1:01:22.920 --> 1:01:26.080
<v Speaker 1>my fridge. I will never spend the ten dollars. That's

1:01:26.200 --> 1:01:29.200
<v Speaker 1>so funny. You've never spent it. It's like, yeah, he

1:01:29.240 --> 1:01:31.040
<v Speaker 1>has like the fun uncle that like snakes you money

1:01:31.080 --> 1:01:34.120
<v Speaker 1>under the table. All right, Okay, I want to get

1:01:34.120 --> 1:01:38.800
<v Speaker 1>to this one because we love our singers. So Country Diva,

1:01:39.160 --> 1:01:45.160
<v Speaker 1>the Og Dolly Parton or Taylor Swift Dolly for sure.

1:01:47.280 --> 1:01:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean nine to five. I could sing that whole

1:01:50.520 --> 1:01:55.720
<v Speaker 1>song to you, right. I just love her. She's amazing.

1:01:56.360 --> 1:02:00.400
<v Speaker 1>Nothing bad against Taylor Swift. I I mean she's She's

1:02:00.440 --> 1:02:03.400
<v Speaker 1>t Swift, um, and I love her too, But I

1:02:03.400 --> 1:02:06.520
<v Speaker 1>gotta go with the og the legend. Yeah, Dolly's still

1:02:06.560 --> 1:02:08.400
<v Speaker 1>doing it. Okay, this is gonna be the last one.

1:02:08.440 --> 1:02:12.800
<v Speaker 1>And before I ask you, um, do you watch American

1:02:12.840 --> 1:02:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Idol or Real Housewife Housewives either? Okay, so this question

1:02:18.880 --> 1:02:27.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make sense. Fine, I'll just go with burgers, wood Burgers,

1:02:27.520 --> 1:02:32.360
<v Speaker 1>in and out or shake Shack. Oh, if only we

1:02:32.440 --> 1:02:34.480
<v Speaker 1>had an in and out. But in and Out is

1:02:34.520 --> 1:02:37.640
<v Speaker 1>not in Colorado, and please, I live in a tiny

1:02:37.720 --> 1:02:42.440
<v Speaker 1>resort town. We don't have anything besides Walmart and Wendy's.

1:02:42.640 --> 1:02:46.200
<v Speaker 1>So um, when we go to Denver, it's all about

1:02:46.200 --> 1:02:48.880
<v Speaker 1>shake Shack. It's right down the street from my in

1:02:48.960 --> 1:02:51.800
<v Speaker 1>lost house. So gotta go with shake Shack until in

1:02:51.880 --> 1:02:54.360
<v Speaker 1>and Out comes to Colorado. I agree with you on

1:02:54.400 --> 1:03:00.080
<v Speaker 1>that one. I agree more options though they do well

1:03:00.080 --> 1:03:03.000
<v Speaker 1>because you know, they just have the burgers, right. I

1:03:03.040 --> 1:03:06.120
<v Speaker 1>have always said that my last meal if I was

1:03:06.160 --> 1:03:08.080
<v Speaker 1>on death row and I had to pick a last meal,

1:03:08.160 --> 1:03:10.520
<v Speaker 1>it would be it would be a burger and fries

1:03:10.800 --> 1:03:13.480
<v Speaker 1>and a and a milkshake. So I'm so glad we

1:03:13.520 --> 1:03:16.280
<v Speaker 1>ask you that question. Then forget American Idol and Real

1:03:16.360 --> 1:03:19.280
<v Speaker 1>Housewives now we know where they're wrong. Going to go

1:03:19.320 --> 1:03:25.320
<v Speaker 1>on our Bachelorrette dates to say, you know, oh, Trista,

1:03:25.400 --> 1:03:28.200
<v Speaker 1>this has been so great, long overdue, as we said

1:03:28.200 --> 1:03:30.960
<v Speaker 1>at the beginning, but thank you so much for doing this,

1:03:31.080 --> 1:03:33.000
<v Speaker 1>thank you for all that you continue to do for

1:03:33.040 --> 1:03:35.520
<v Speaker 1>the franchise, and thank you so much for being an

1:03:35.560 --> 1:03:40.200
<v Speaker 1>example for us, for young women, for future bachelorettes. I mean,

1:03:40.240 --> 1:03:44.400
<v Speaker 1>the list goes on and on. Yes, you are the og.

1:03:44.640 --> 1:03:47.400
<v Speaker 1>We love you. You are not only a Batchelrette in

1:03:47.440 --> 1:03:49.720
<v Speaker 1>our eyes, but such a good friend. So thank you, Trista.

1:03:49.800 --> 1:03:53.400
<v Speaker 1>We love you. I just thought about something. There's a reason,

1:03:54.560 --> 1:03:57.200
<v Speaker 1>there's a reason that the women have been more successful

1:03:57.200 --> 1:03:58.920
<v Speaker 1>at this at the men, not just because women do

1:03:58.960 --> 1:04:01.280
<v Speaker 1>it better. That is true, but we had you to

1:04:01.400 --> 1:04:05.920
<v Speaker 1>set an example and paved the way they had Alex period.

1:04:07.880 --> 1:04:17.320
<v Speaker 1>That's it, but very true. Thank you. You guys are

1:04:17.320 --> 1:04:20.840
<v Speaker 1>the best. I absolutely love this And anytime you want

1:04:20.840 --> 1:04:24.720
<v Speaker 1>to talk, you know, my phone is always open for you.

1:04:26.200 --> 1:04:29.880
<v Speaker 1>How much do you freaking love Trista. I love her

1:04:30.080 --> 1:04:32.600
<v Speaker 1>and I and we and we know what's up because

1:04:32.680 --> 1:04:36.840
<v Speaker 1>we have our own personal and bachelorette relationships with her.

1:04:36.880 --> 1:04:40.280
<v Speaker 1>But what I love is that everybody's getting to know her.

1:04:40.520 --> 1:04:44.040
<v Speaker 1>You know that this new audience. It's funny, these new audience,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know me. I feel like maybe they started

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<v Speaker 1>on your season or not even you if they came

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<v Speaker 1>in with Peter and Hannah or Colton because of the fence.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's it's fun I think, And I just think

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<v Speaker 1>it's beautiful that people can see where all of this started,

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<v Speaker 1>with all this greatest seasons ever. It's Tristas that we

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<v Speaker 1>needed to see from you. Yes, one thousand percent. She

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<v Speaker 1>like just listening to her and talking to her. That

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<v Speaker 1>is who she is. We saw it on the big screen.

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<v Speaker 1>America's finally getting to re see it. But she is

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<v Speaker 1>just honestly one of the kindest, most vibrant souls, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy that she was the one to pave

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<v Speaker 1>the way for us all. Absolutely. Now, I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Claire still filming, so we still have her season, but

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<v Speaker 1>there's only fifteen of us people, So go back if

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't seen some of the first seasons, go back

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<v Speaker 1>and watch these badass women. Yeah, absolutely well, said all

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<v Speaker 1>right well Rachel. As always, that was such a fun episode.

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<v Speaker 1>And thanks to you all for hanging out because we

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to see what name you help us decide

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