1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Welcome back Happy our listeners, and I want to first 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: start by saying this is probably going to be the 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 1: last time we call you guys that, because today is 4 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: the day where we will be voting on a name 5 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: for all of our listeners out there. We've been asking 6 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 1: you guys to send in your suggestions for names, so 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: our inbox has thankfully been flooded. We've narrowed it down 8 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: to some amazing options, and so just in a little bit, Rachel, 9 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: we're going to be narrowing it down for the final 10 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: two and then let you guys, all of our listeners decide, 11 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: because of course you need to have to say you've 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: had to say since the beginning. Then we need your 13 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: voices to be heard. So we will be going on 14 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: the Instagram account later today to vote after this episode air, 15 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: So don't forget to check us out and give us 16 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: your input. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest with y'all. I 17 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: don't like calling y'all Bachelor Happy Hour listeners. If too long, 18 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,279 Speaker 1: it's a mouthful. We need something cute, fun, We need 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: to create our own community. So this honestly has been 20 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: a long time coming, and that's our fault. We probably 21 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: should have started this a lot sooner, but don't worry 22 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: about that. Let's let bygones be bygones. We're here now 23 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to pull up. You better vote. I 24 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: think that we got some really good suggestions for names. 25 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: You know, well, we'll narrow it down to the two best. 26 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: And you know you guys do your part and vote. 27 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: And speaking of voting, while I while I have your attention, 28 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: let's make sure we voted our local and our local, 29 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: regional state whatever local cash, regional, state, national elections. Let's 30 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: just make sure we vote period. Okay, just always vote. Yeah, 31 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: we're in scary times, worry about okay. And now that 32 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: I'm off that soapbox, I want to get to you 33 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: guys about who we are having on the podcast today, 34 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: because who we're having on today is she's just one 35 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: of a kind. You have been riding into us for months. 36 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: You guys are always requesting certain people on the podcast, 37 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: but this is probably one of our biggest requests, and 38 00:01:56,440 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: I understand why. Becca understands why. But I'm happy that 39 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: you guys get to really see how great she is. 40 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: She's an og, she is bachelor royalty. Some may call 41 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: her the Queen and she's honestly, no, you should be 42 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: calling her the Queen if you're not already. But she's 43 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 1: living proof that this process and this show they work 44 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: it really, they really do. And she's an amazing example 45 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: as a woman, a mother, a friend, and a bachelorette. 46 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: And we'll be having none other than Trista sutter On 47 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 1: to talk about everything related to The Bachelor, the Bachelorette, 48 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: just to check in with her, talk to her about 49 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: life after the Bachelorette, what she's been doing, what she learned, 50 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: and what advice she has for us for future people 51 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: coming on this franchise, and just life advice in general. 52 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: Rachel I cannot wait to have her because we kind 53 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: of know her. We got to know her at the 54 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: bachelotte reunion last year, and I feel like the world 55 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: hasn't seen enough of her, and she just has this 56 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: amazing spirit. You know, when you think of the Bachelor 57 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: and Bachelor, you think of obviously Chris Harrison, that's the 58 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: first name I think that pops into everyone's head. But 59 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: let's be honest, no one really remembers the first couple bachelors, 60 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: and maybe there's a reason for that, but everybody remembers 61 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: Trista because she did pave the way and she had 62 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: the I think, the first love story that is still 63 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,839 Speaker 1: lasting to this day because of the show. And so 64 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna get her on. We're going to pick her 65 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: brain on what she went through because it was so 66 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: different than probably what we experienced on her season. And 67 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: so I cannot wait to chat with her. I can't either. 68 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: And I'll just say too that I think coming because 69 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: I was so anti the franchise before coming on. You know, 70 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: I didn't watch it, I didn't relate to it and 71 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: connect to it, and it's just in open to something 72 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: new and in what it could bring in life and 73 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: love and even coming off the Bachelor and in the Bachelrette, 74 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: I wasn't in a mindset of connecting to other Bachelor 75 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: and I mean I had talked to the ones kind 76 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: of right before me, but I just wasn't in that 77 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: mindset because I was just thinking about the show, the 78 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: people that I was on the show with. And so 79 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: that's what I'm really excited to talk to Trista about 80 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: because I have to give her credit for being the 81 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: one to reach out to connect us and to make 82 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 1: sure that we hold strong to being women and Bacherettes 83 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: and going through this experience together. So anyways, enough from us, 84 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: because Trista can say it's so much better because you 85 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: know she started this. Shits my one curse heard for 86 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: the podcasts. All right, So before we get trist on, 87 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: we have to get back to business, Rachel, because we've 88 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: rounded up twenty of our favorite names, and so we're 89 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: gonna We're gonna start out, we're gonna narrow it down 90 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: and make it a little bit easier, and then from 91 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: there we're gonna pick our top two favorites and then, 92 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: like I said before, we're going to have an Instagram poll, 93 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: So don't forget to check out our page today. It's 94 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,679 Speaker 1: gonna air right after this episode, so check it out because, 95 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: as Rachel said earlier, you gotta vote. You can't have 96 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: an opinion unless you vote. People. Let's start now. These 97 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 1: are baby sticks. Okay, after you do this, then you register. 98 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: If you're not already, you go vote. Please pay all right, Becky, Yes, 99 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: I'm excited and nervous because we have a lot of options. 100 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: So thank you for everyone who submitted options when we 101 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: ask you to. But we have to narrow it down 102 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: to just one and honestly, we have to like it 103 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: because this is what we're going to be calling them. 104 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: So we're gonna go ahead and read the list, and 105 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: then after that we'll narrow it down to the two 106 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: like you said, Becca, and put the pull up. Do 107 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: you think that I'm not even gonna say this is 108 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: gonna be fair because if y'all we don't like Do 109 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 1: you think this is our parents feel when they're picking 110 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: out a name for their children. Absolutely not, because I 111 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: have a feeling there's it's not really as much of 112 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: a joint effort as you think, I think, because it's 113 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: gonna come down to what I like, because I'm if 114 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: you like, I have to push this baby out. It 115 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: affects my body, my health, you know what I mean. 116 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, I have to be okay, 117 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: what I'm calling this baby for the rest of it's life. 118 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: It's true, um, But but yes, yes, this is this 119 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: is kind of what it's like. This is our baby. 120 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: You're right back, Okay, this is our baby. But I 121 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: guess yeah, it's it's hard because we don't have a 122 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: face for the name. We have many faces, and so 123 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: we just yeah, it's gonna you know, Rachel and I 124 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: will narrow it down, but also too, it's gonna be 125 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 1: what we like because we gotta call you guys. Okay, 126 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: to start it off, We're just gonna make it easy simple. 127 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: We got batches b A h E s what batches 128 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: does have a ring to it? Right? It's does have 129 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: a ring to it. Okay, So I'll read, I'll read 130 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: the ten and then you read ten. Okay, okay, okay. 131 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: So Two we've got bach chers. It's a mouthful, it's 132 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: a little time. It looks great on paper. I don't 133 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: know if it's great coming out of our mouth. We've 134 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: got Hapchlers, hapchlerschler hal. I don't know if I'm gonna 135 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: be able to say that. Yeah, it's a lot rosebuds, 136 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: which I feel like it is another podcast acute name. 137 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm not quite sure. Five we've got bat cheese U 138 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: six pedal pushers, which you know is a fashion trend 139 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: as well, play on words, if you will. Seven batched teenies. 140 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: Do you like martinis? I love a good dirty martini, 141 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: really cheese stuff, dollives. I feel like you have to 142 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: like olives like to really appreciate martinis, And I don't 143 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: so and I like an extra dirty so it's basically 144 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: olive juice. But that's it. But I don't do like 145 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: I can't do a gene one. So yeah, yeah, they're 146 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: not my thing. Um, Bachelor Besties and drinking buddies. Okay, 147 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: these are good. We've got right, so we still have 148 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: have to go. So adding on, we got Happies. I 149 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: don't know why that one's so funny to me. It's like, 150 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: does it make you happy? I think so. I don't know, 151 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: like not everyone's gonna be happy when they're listening to it. 152 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just very true. All right. We 153 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 1: got the pod Squad, just kind of cute. I feel 154 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: like that can apply to any podcast. We have Bachelor 155 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: Warriors sounds like a basketball team. M hm yeah, so 156 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: I'm guessing be like that one. No, no, I'm not. 157 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm not saying yeah, I'm not saying okay, okay. We 158 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: got clinkers, which is kind of cute if you're like 159 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:48,839 Speaker 1: clinking your glasses. Bachelor bays rosies. Now this one rage. 160 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: I feel like you already coined this term. But we 161 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: got the R and b's. It's I know it's cute, 162 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 1: but it's been dead. But it's been Brian. It's very 163 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: ran right, yeah yeah, Okay, couple more. We got the Shakers, 164 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: the Bachelor babies or the drunken Roses. But I have 165 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: to add one because somebody actually did DM me and 166 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: I liked it. Okay, if you hate it, okay, this 167 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: is well. I kind of want to vote for two, 168 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: but I know I can't. Okay, but I kind of 169 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: liked this and it was bachelholics. That's actually really cute. 170 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna just say it like it's 171 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: I said no, because I said it in my head 172 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: three times. No, that's why not, because I was has 173 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: if you know, if I didn't like it, I would 174 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 1: have told you, and I'm spelling it out. I think 175 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: it's super cute, actually makes sense, and it makes sense 176 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: for Happy Hour. I read it and I was like, 177 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm actually low key really into it the more I 178 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: said it, and I wish I'm sorry whoever dmned me 179 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: DM me again because I probably lost it, but I did. 180 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 1: Actually I think I screenshotted it. I'll go through my pictures, 181 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: but a very good one. So I mean, I think 182 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: I have to say that's one of my top choices. 183 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: That's that's that's gotta be one of my two. So 184 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: we're narrowing it down to two. Okay, Bachelholics for sure. 185 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: The more I keep saying it and I'm thinking about it, 186 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: and I'm just I'm seeing it on t shirts, I'm 187 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: seeing it written, I'm seeing what up our little Bachelholics 188 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: like it's it's it encompasses the happy Hour and I'm 189 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: so into it. My other choice, I like it, it's 190 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: got it all. Yeah, this kind of has my vote. Sorry, 191 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: I'm kind of selling it. That was a good one, um, 192 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: and they were all good choices. Everybody who's sent in choice, 193 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: thank you, because that's what we asked and they're all 194 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: good and it is hard to choose from. But we 195 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: can only choose too. So we both agree on Batchelholics. 196 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: My next choice would be Batches. I actually agree with 197 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 1: that too when we because that was the first one 198 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: we said, and it kind of reminds me of like, hey, benches, right, 199 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 1: but saying it, Yeah, so I think they're both kind 200 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: of cheeky a little bit. I like exactly. I was 201 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: gonna say, m my third choice, which I don't love 202 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: as much as the first two. I kind of liked 203 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: the Clinkers, but not as much. It's not as ketchy. Yeah, 204 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 1: I think Clinkers. It's so this is what's hard about 205 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 1: picking the name, because it's not just what we're calling it. 206 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: We're thinking bigger than this. We're thinking posters, t shirts, mugs, drinks, 207 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 1: drinking glasses. Um, I'm just thinking of how it looks 208 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: so like Clinkers. I like in theory, but I can't 209 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: see it all the way around. I like the leak 210 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: narrowed down to my other one was gonna be I 211 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: like pod squad. But then when you said that could 212 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: go for any podcast, I thought she's correct. So that's 213 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 1: that she was going to take it for her other podcast. 214 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: Now we're the Thought Warriors. That's what we call our listeners, 215 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 1: Thought Warriors. So are you like the Bachelor Warriors? No, 216 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: that didn't not like that's where's actually sorry, whoever. I 217 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: think my honorary mention would be I have such my 218 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: mother's daughter, because this is probably one that she would pick. 219 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: I really kind of liked the pedal pushers, like a 220 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: rose pedal. Yes, but then again, yeah, I don't think 221 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: it fits us quite No, we're not quite there. If 222 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: I had a top five pedal pushers would be in it. 223 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: Other close ones were Batched teenies. For me, I like 224 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: drunken roses, but I don't want to call our listeners drunken, 225 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, So I think this was easier than 226 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: I said. Like Becca, I thought we were gonna have 227 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: to debate this, go at it, which means we're really 228 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 1: on the same page. And I could go with either 229 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: one Batches or Batch Waits almost set it wrong, which 230 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: is scaring me. Now, No, no, no no, Batchelholics. You gotta 231 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: go with your gut first instinct Batches and Batchelholics. I 232 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:03,319 Speaker 1: think that's it. We'll row you down. Well, that was easy, 233 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: that was fun. I don't know about you, Beck, I 234 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: feel good about both of those names. I do too. 235 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 1: I want to get to this poll for you all 236 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,439 Speaker 1: because I want to see if it's a pretty even 237 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: split or if it's like going to be one blows 238 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: the other out of the ballpark. It'll be interesting to 239 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: see what you guys have to say. Absolutely so, we've 240 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: narrowed it down to two You're welcome out of twenty 241 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: one option or twenty options. We've noted down to two 242 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: out of twenty options. But you guys have to make 243 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 1: the final decision. Of course, we want to include you 244 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: were all a part of this family, so Beca already 245 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: stated it before, but just in case you forgot, if 246 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: you want to be a part of this, make sure 247 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 1: you stalk our Instagram account today at Bachelor Happy Hour. 248 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: You can find the poll there. It's going to be 249 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 1: live for twenty four hours. Make sure you vote, and 250 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: then after that, I guess we'll find out the winner 251 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: next week of what our new name is going to be. 252 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: And that's it, Bachelor Happy Hour listeners, that's the last 253 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 1: time we'll say that. Thank good riddance, all right, everybody. 254 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: Now that we've finally got that out of the way, 255 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: it's time for our incredible guests. And I'm so excited 256 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 1: to have her on because she's not only the oge 257 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: bachelorette as well as our fairy bachelotte godmother, but most importantly, 258 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: she is our friend, our confidante, someone who's been there 259 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 1: since the beginning, and so we are so excited to 260 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: catch up with her. So, without further ado, Rachel, let's 261 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: give a warm welcome to Tristata. So be happy to 262 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: have you, so thank you. I'm so excited. I've been waiting. 263 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: I've been waiting. I actually apologies. We are long overdoing 264 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 1: for this. Yeah, I'll go well, so I want to 265 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: get into how you're doing with everything and just catch 266 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: up on life. But first I have to ask for myself. 267 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: But I think all of our listeners out there want 268 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: to know what is your secret because Trista, you not 269 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 1: aged a day since you were on your season, and like, 270 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 1: what the hell are you doing? You need to share 271 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: your secrets? Oh my god, I love you. So I've 272 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: gotten a couple people saying that, and I'm just like, 273 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: how much do I owe you? Because that's definitely not true. 274 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's really funny. I think that I 275 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: over the years have learned that good lighting is a 276 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: girl's best friend. So um, when they saw me on 277 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: the show the other day, I had really good lighting. Um, 278 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: I've learned a little bit better makeup techniques. So there 279 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: you go there, and I think moisturized, moisturized, moisturize, you 280 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: know you Like, it's just it's like you were glowing. 281 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: You were glowing back when you were the bachelorette, but 282 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: you still are. And so I was gonna say, like, 283 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: if you were doing, like olive oil on your face. 284 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to start doing that. I don't know what 285 00:15:57,200 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: it would be, but I love you. I gotta do no. 286 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: But I do use um Cediful like heavy cream. It's 287 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: the cream. It's not lotion on my face. I used 288 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: to use just lotion, and because I live in Colorado 289 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: and it's super super dry, I had to resort to cream. 290 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: So there you go. No olive oil, but Setiful cream 291 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 1: is my secret. I feel like you're being extremely humble 292 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: because Becca and I have both been around you in person, 293 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: so there's no lighting. That's not about makeup, you guys. 294 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: She just looks phenomenal. It's like, don't thank you for 295 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: That's that's part of the beauty of you, is your humility. 296 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: But you know, let's just take a moment, you know, 297 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: to praise you a bit. She really that stunning in person. 298 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: I have to say, Tristo, and this is I say 299 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 1: this all the time. I've never watched the show before 300 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: being on it, so the Greatest Seasons has been really 301 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: nice to go back and watch because I'm learning things 302 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: in a different way. So, you know, I met you 303 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 1: and I hadn't senior season, but I know people are like, she, 304 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,679 Speaker 1: you know, she's the og. She paved the way, And 305 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 1: then I see the season and I'm like, no, no, no, 306 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: she really is. I did pave the way. And it 307 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: was so much fun to watch your season and could 308 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 1: I another confession. I had no idea that Alex is 309 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 1: it Michelle Michael. Michelle didn't know he was the first Bachelor. 310 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 1: I thought it was the Firestone guy. So I'm watching it, like, 311 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: who is this man? I thought it was a Firestone guy. 312 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: Had no idea. I really need to update, Like there 313 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 1: needs to be a Bachelor history book or something that 314 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: you're so right there does I'll write it. Hey, that's 315 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 1: that's a money maker, so honestly, don't give it to 316 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: the franchise. And he's family all of our bachelorettes, and 317 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna do it together. Yeah, I love it. I 318 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 1: love it. We already have the group chat going. We 319 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 1: might as well. It's so hard to even know where 320 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: to start in this interview because it's like I want 321 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 1: to start, you know, from where you are now, but 322 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 1: then it's like I want to go back to the season, 323 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: but then I want to talk about your season. I 324 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: remember coming into the the reunion and I was so 325 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: excited to meet you. I wanted to talk to you. 326 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:22,199 Speaker 1: I wanted to pick your brain because you knew the 327 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: show different from when we did. And I'm not just 328 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: talking about the fashion or even talking about you know, 329 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,919 Speaker 1: the setup was a little different. It's that there was 330 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 1: no social media and all of that. So I guess 331 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: I'll just start and saying, you know, you've watched all 332 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 1: the seasons since you you experienced your own, How has 333 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: it changed from you for you from then to now? 334 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 1: Like watching the show? Yeah, so many ways. There's so 335 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: many little nuances that are different, and logistics and the 336 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: way that they do things. Obviously, social media is probably 337 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: the biggest change since my season. But I do have 338 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,439 Speaker 1: to say that there were message boards, so on ABC 339 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: dot Com they would put you know, there was internet 340 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 1: back then, so they would put links to these message 341 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 1: boards and message boards. Back then. We're kind of like Reddit, 342 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 1: where people would start a thread and then comment, comment, comment, comment, comment, 343 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 1: So you couldn't directly message the person that you were 344 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: speaking about, but you could go off on whatever you thought. 345 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: And so I was I was definitely criticized, as you 346 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: guys heard on the show on Monday. There were. There 347 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 1: was a lot of press criticism for like, even before 348 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: the show started, flut shaming me and telling me that 349 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 1: how are you gonna, you know, be able to hold 350 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: your character and not look like a slut, And so 351 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 1: there was a lot of that rhetoric, and the message 352 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: boards were definitely not time. So I dealt with hatred 353 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: in a different way, but in a similar way, you know. 354 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: But yes, social media has totally changed the game in 355 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 1: terms of and I say the game just it's not 356 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,479 Speaker 1: a game to me for people out there who are 357 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 1: going to say, oh, she's the word game. It is 358 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 1: different in that people I feel like nowadays come on 359 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: the show, not all the time, because there are people 360 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: who are still in it for the right reasons, but 361 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 1: they come in it because they think that they're going 362 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: to get Instagram famous and they know that they're going 363 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: to get tons of followers just by being on the ship. 364 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: So I think that that dilutes a little bit of 365 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 1: the reason that we all did the show, and that's 366 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 1: to find love, you know. So that's a sad occurrence 367 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: to me, but I think that is just the way 368 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,679 Speaker 1: that are called sure is now um and we just 369 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: have to hope that there are people who are going 370 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 1: to apply for the show who truly do want to 371 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:12,640 Speaker 1: find love and not just fame. But you know, there's 372 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: little things like like high definition. It definitely wasn't I 373 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: don't know, we did like phenomenal, so I, oh, you 374 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: need high death. Well actually maybe not as these crows, 375 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: but so, um, like we had date boxes we had 376 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 1: I would give um, they would give VCR tapes to 377 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 1: the guys to find out or VHS tapes to the 378 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 1: guys to find out what their dates were going to be. Um. 379 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: They all did a video message to me before the 380 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: rose ceremony. So I would go into I can't remember 381 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,359 Speaker 1: that what they called the room, but it was like 382 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 1: a you had all the guys pictures and picture frames 383 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 1: against this wall. It was like the contemplation room or 384 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: something like that. And I would stand there and like 385 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 1: look longing to longingly into their eyes and their photos 386 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: and then listen to their video messages and and that 387 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 1: was a fun little thing that they used to do, 388 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: which I actually wish that they still did. Um. I 389 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,640 Speaker 1: had friends of mine come on the show and stay 390 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: in the house with the guys. Yeah, they were like, yes, 391 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: isn't that crazy? So they stayed with the guys for 392 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,679 Speaker 1: a week and then they reported back to me. I 393 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: think it wasn't me a week, it might have been 394 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: a few days. They reported back to me on who 395 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 1: they liked, who they didn't like, and they set up 396 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: dates based on who they chose. So that was a 397 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 1: really fun expect away from the show. I know that, 398 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: like they need to do that again. Well, it's kind 399 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: of like I think it was Hannah Brown season. They 400 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: had Demi and Katie I think the first night in 401 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: the van watching the guys, and then they chatted with 402 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 1: Hannah and reported back. But it's like, can you imagine 403 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 1: if you could get some of your friends nowadays to 404 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: go and keep an eye on those guys? Oh god, 405 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: I think cuts like I would have maybe four guys 406 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,719 Speaker 1: left at the like at the very beginning, just to 407 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:15,120 Speaker 1: get to know because like stories about you already isn't 408 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: that fun. So that was a big change too, I 409 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 1: have to ask you, because when I was watching it, 410 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: I thought, wow, this is it was. The quality was better, 411 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: and by that I mean the reasons people would come 412 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,719 Speaker 1: onto the show. The guys had actual jobs, that's right. 413 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: I honestly didn't think that I would find someone because 414 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, people aren't going to have real 415 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 1: jobs or real you know, goals. That's that was my thinking. 416 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: So I'm looking at the men that are on your show. 417 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,880 Speaker 1: I mean, you're going to people's houses. They I mean, 418 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,439 Speaker 1: they really are established in their own right prior to 419 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 1: coming on the show, which I thought was so great. 420 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: And then there wasn't that much drama. Not granted I 421 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: saw you know, the short version. I'm sure there was, 422 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: but the show wasn't focused on the drama, and it 423 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 1: really seemed to be focused on the conversations that you 424 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 1: guys had, like you and your number two I don't 425 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: even remember his name, Charlie, but Charlie, but sitting in 426 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: the vehicle talking, You're talking about the fantasy suit, you're 427 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 1: talking about sex, you're talking about the I just I 428 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 1: thought it was so good. So my question, my question 429 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 1: is do you get frustrated watching the show now seeing 430 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 1: the sharp turn that it has taken from the time 431 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: that you were on it. Yeah, for sure. I have 432 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:32,199 Speaker 1: always said, but I kind of want them to go 433 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 1: back to how it used to be in terms of 434 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,479 Speaker 1: like plucking someone out of obscurity, you know, And I 435 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: think that Matt James is perfect for that because he 436 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 1: hasn't been on a prior show, you know. Obviously, not 437 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 1: only for the diversity element, because I'm sure it was necessary, 438 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: but I think that because no one knows him, we 439 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: can all fall in love with him together, you know, 440 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: and and there's no preconceived notions. So it is frustrating 441 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,680 Speaker 1: to me. It was very innocent back in the day. 442 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 1: And and to your point, there was no drama with 443 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 1: the guys. They had so much fun on my show, 444 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 1: um and even on the First Bachelor, it was not 445 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 1: caddy at all, like we all truly got along. And 446 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 1: I think that because production knows that they if they 447 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: want the viewers to you know, when you learn the 448 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 1: elements of a story, like just the basics when you're 449 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 1: in elementary school, you learn that there has to be 450 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 1: a villain or some kind of controversy, some some element 451 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 1: that will draw you in and and it can't just 452 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: be all rainbows and unicorns all the time, you know. 453 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 1: So I think that they, you know, they learned that 454 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 1: they need to they need to kind of encourage that 455 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: in a way, and so I think through casting they 456 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 1: realize that we need a villain, so who's going to 457 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 1: be the villain, and then they go on to maybe 458 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 1: encourage a little more drama than you know by by 459 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 1: your itms and the questions that they ask you and 460 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: kind of leading you down a certain path. So, um, yeah, 461 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,199 Speaker 1: it is. It's it is unfortunate. But as a viewer 462 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: and someone who lives in the real world and is 463 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: realistic about this stuff, um, I think that they need 464 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: that drama in order to hold our attention as viewers. 465 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 1: But it is. It is frustrating because I truly, knowing 466 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:34,439 Speaker 1: that Ryan and I have the success with story that 467 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 1: we do and that we were there just to find love, 468 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: I wish that it still was all about that. You know. 469 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: I want to ask speaking of Ryan, because you know 470 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: when you guys did meet, you met in like I 471 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 1: like to say, the show was like down to the basics, 472 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: like you were truly their hope and you you said 473 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 1: it best. I think in your last day, they're like, 474 00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 1: you're hoping to find somebody your compati with, that you 475 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,959 Speaker 1: fell in love with that works not only in the 476 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 1: show world but in the real world. And so I think, 477 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: especially in the first season of The Bachelorette, you had 478 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,199 Speaker 1: the ability because you didn't have social media coming from it. 479 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 1: You didn't. You didn't leave the show expecting I'm going 480 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 1: to be able to travel to all these cool places 481 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 1: and these parties are going to invite me all over 482 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: the world, and there's all this like hype. I think 483 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: when people get off the show, they think they're going 484 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: to get all these brand endorsements. There's a lot now 485 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,360 Speaker 1: that comes from the show, where back then it probably 486 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: wasn't as much. What would you say to now people 487 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 1: who who are going on the show? You know, we 488 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: know that Claire is now going to be soon filming 489 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 1: with her guys. They're in quarantine now, but they're they're 490 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,159 Speaker 1: in this weird position now where they don't get to 491 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,159 Speaker 1: travel around the world on the show like people in 492 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 1: the past have They they but it's kind of going 493 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 1: back to the basics with her season. So what would 494 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: you tell not only the guys an unclear season and 495 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,880 Speaker 1: coming out of it, but also heading into Matt James 496 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 1: this season, because that's going to look a little bit 497 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 1: different too, like going into it, what to expect and 498 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 1: what to focus on when they're filming in this quote 499 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 1: unquote new sort of filming environment. Yeah, well, I think 500 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 1: that you know, they're still going to have It's The Bachelor, 501 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: so they're gonna have once in a lifetime opportunities no 502 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 1: matter where they are. You know, they'll have I'm sure 503 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 1: recording artists, actors, comedians, whatever, I'm sure they'll have them 504 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 1: on the show that sort of thing. Um. So I 505 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 1: am really looking forward to that. Like I have to say, 506 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 1: I definitely have had a jealous bone in my body 507 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: every single time one of you all comes on and 508 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 1: is like in Switzerland or New Zealand, and I like, 509 00:28:54,400 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: oh my god. So I'm happy to see yes, right. 510 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: I love Seattle and it's where I fell in love 511 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 1: truly with my husband. But you know, I do love 512 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: to travel in borbor It would have been nice. Um. So, 513 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: I you know, I think that they can still have 514 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 1: an incredible experience, and they still will if they fully 515 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: give to the experience and are there and are vulnerable 516 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 1: and are willing to to to really dig deep and 517 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: get into that emotional part of what they need to 518 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 1: do in order to find out if they're truly meant 519 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 1: to be with Claire for the rest of their lives. 520 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 1: You know. Um, sorry, So I don't know, I'm I'm 521 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 1: I think that because it's reality TV and it's The Bachelor, 522 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: They're going to still make it pretty fantastic. You know, 523 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: the dates are going to be pretty cool. Um, But 524 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to getting back down why the 525 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 1: show is created. This is something that I actually talked 526 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: about it with Rachel and some of the other bachelottes 527 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,719 Speaker 1: yesterday because we did a little virtual brunch with some 528 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 1: fans and oh one thing, and it was so fun 529 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:12,479 Speaker 1: to because they have been watching the show since the beginning. 530 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 1: And one thing that stuck out to me during that 531 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,959 Speaker 1: conversation is they brought up your season and how your dates. 532 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 1: They loved watching them because they felt like they were 533 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: dates that they could do with their partner. You know, 534 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 1: you were on the beach having a picnic. It wasn't 535 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,479 Speaker 1: all of this. I think it's fun for people to 536 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: see the extravagant dates and it kind of takes them 537 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,719 Speaker 1: out of their world for a little bit. But at 538 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: the end of the day, like that's not accessible to 539 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 1: most people, and so to be able to watch your 540 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 1: love story with Bryan but some of the other guys too, 541 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: to just have more like a date that is accessible 542 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 1: where somebody can go out and take a walk and 543 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,719 Speaker 1: talk and sit on the beach or have a picnic 544 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 1: and just drink champagne. That's something that stuck out to 545 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: them that I think was really special and I'm hoping 546 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: maybe it's not going to make for as great of TV, 547 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: but I really am. I'm excited for Claar season to 548 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 1: see something like that where it's more about the conversation 549 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: and that interaction and the connection as opposed to, Oh, 550 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: we're going to go in a hot air balloon with 551 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 1: a world famous violin player. You know that's that's us. 552 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: You're so right. I haven't thought about it like that. 553 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: But um, I feel like a lot of people enjoyed 554 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 1: watching Ryan and I and My season because it was relatable, 555 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: like they just like you said, it was accessible, it 556 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 1: was relatable and I love that too. Now now you've 557 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: got me even more excited for Claar season because I'm 558 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 1: I think that we can focus as viewers on the 559 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: development of the relationship, and to me, that's why I 560 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: watched the show. I don't want to watch it necessarily 561 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: for the fantastical elements, you know, I think that's fun, 562 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 1: But I watch it because I love love. I am 563 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: a hopeless romantic. I love watching people fall in love, 564 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 1: be in love, you know everything about love. So I 565 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 1: think that it's really truly getting down to why they 566 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 1: created the show. And I love that. I'm so excited. 567 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 1: Even more so, we are super excited for Claire's season two. 568 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: I do have a question. Does Ryan still have the 569 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: bucket hat? Oh my god, you guys so after the show, 570 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's here. So after the show we were 571 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 1: talking about it, and actually a couple of people have 572 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 1: sent him screenshots of him on to you with the 573 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: bucket hat, and so like, you need to change your 574 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 1: profile picture. So we went into his closet, Pete and 575 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: blake's Ley and I and we got the bucket hat 576 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: and she took it to the beach the next day. 577 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 1: We have a little we have a little lake with 578 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 1: the beach. She shook it, took the beach to the 579 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: next day and I did like a little photo shoot. 580 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 1: I haven't posted a picture right yet, but oh my god, 581 00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 1: she's so cute and the buckett to host. It's between 582 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: the bucket hat and the poetry. Ryan. What happened me too? 583 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 1: I loved it. All is making a comeback? Yeah, I 584 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 1: think it. I think Kevin one asterisk fiance who was 585 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: wearing one mate. I could be wrong, but I'm pretty 586 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 1: sure he was wearing one the other day. The way 587 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 1: it's it's funny that you bring up Kevin, and it's 588 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 1: not just the firefighter thing. There's something very when I 589 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: was watching it, they they're very haven't I haven't been 590 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: around Ryan, but I've been around Kevin, and there's something 591 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: very similar to them. I don't know what. I don't 592 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: know why, not in the parents, but just the way 593 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 1: that they are. And Kevin's great and I can tell 594 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 1: Ryan is too. But there's something though that we were 595 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 1: talking about before that I want to ask you. Okay, 596 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,240 Speaker 1: I can be deemed as a tab negative at times 597 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: when it comes to talking about the franchise, but it's 598 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: something that you said that I think is why when 599 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: I speak about these numerous seasons, it comes off that way. 600 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: And we can all say this, but I feel because 601 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: it worked for me. I feel extremely protective over this 602 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 1: process because I know it can work, and I know 603 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 1: it is very real, even if it is a TV show. 604 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 1: And so I think when I'm critiquing some of the 605 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: newer things that I see, it's because i'm defensive because 606 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is real. Stop making a joke of it. 607 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 1: Stop playing around with this. This is a real thing. 608 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 1: Do you feel that way when you watch the show 609 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,799 Speaker 1: sometimes in these in these later seasons, because I'm just 610 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: like you, guys, stop it's a It's a real thing. 611 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 1: And I know I get criticized for it so much, 612 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: but coming from you know, the person who set the 613 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 1: bar so high for all of us and paved the 614 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 1: way and set an example. Do you feel that sometimes, 615 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 1: like like this process is your baby? Oh yeah, for sure. 616 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: The show is part of me. It's my history. It's 617 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 1: the reason that I have my family. So I am 618 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 1: that's a perfect word, Rachel as protective. I definitely get offended. 619 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 1: And I feel like a lot of the times I 620 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 1: try to be real and and speak my mind, but 621 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 1: at the same time, I feel like all of you 622 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:19,319 Speaker 1: are my little babies, and and so I'm protective not 623 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: only over the show and then like kind of treating 624 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 1: the show right and being invested in it as I was, 625 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 1: and being there for the truly for the right reasons, 626 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 1: for the love um, but I'm also really protective over 627 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 1: everybody who's been on the show, and because I feel 628 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 1: like we are all a family, and I know that 629 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 1: people have joked and said very godmother, and I've even 630 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:55,319 Speaker 1: been called grandmother by grandmother. Oh I won't say your name, 631 00:35:55,440 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 1: but yeah, I apologize on behalf of that was you 632 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 1: don't let me, don't let me find out. I'm sorry 633 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 1: you are if you're a grandmother es, so I was 634 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: like grandmother, know, but I'll be called very godmother any day. Um, 635 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:19,240 Speaker 1: I love that. So you know I have been called 636 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,919 Speaker 1: those things and I really do take those to heart, 637 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: Like I yes, I was there in the beginning and 638 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 1: know the plan wasn't for me to like be you know, 639 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 1: around for this long the show for be around this 640 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 1: long and for me to be called the very godmother 641 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 1: like there was never an intention back then, but because 642 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 1: that's kind of how things have happened. Um, I definitely 643 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 1: I take ownership of it. I love it. I love 644 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 1: this part of my story of who I am. And 645 00:36:54,880 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 1: I maybe don't like everyone in the French guys and 646 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:05,800 Speaker 1: I haven't shared like of them probably, but but I 647 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: love them all because we are all connected and this 648 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 1: crazy discombobulated family. So yeah, I definitely am very protective 649 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:21,520 Speaker 1: over the show the way that people talk about it 650 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 1: and everyone involved trust I will say you have not 651 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 1: only have you paved the way for us other bachelorettes, 652 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,320 Speaker 1: but you have been one of the most consistent, kind, 653 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 1: caring people within the franchise and within like all of 654 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 1: the contestants and leads group together, you have been one 655 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,240 Speaker 1: of the most standout people, especially to me and especially 656 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,759 Speaker 1: during this crazy year of twenty twenty with everything going on, 657 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 1: to always check in on all of the bachelorettes to 658 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,279 Speaker 1: see how we're doing, to reach out and call us, 659 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: and that's something that I definitely cannot say for a 660 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 1: lot of people that come from the show. That's something really, 661 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:05,320 Speaker 1: really special. And it's interesting because I feel so lucky 662 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: to have been you know, I was the fourteenth bachelorette, 663 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:12,000 Speaker 1: and so I had thirteen of you reaching out beforehand 664 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 1: and reaching out after or to check in on me 665 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: and to give me advice and to be someone that 666 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: I can lean on through all of this. And now, luckily, 667 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:21,759 Speaker 1: you know, we've been able to do that with Claire 668 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 1: as well before she went off on her journey. So 669 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 1: do you feel like, in a way, since you were 670 00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 1: the very first, like if you could have had somebody 671 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,200 Speaker 1: be where you are. To me and to Rachel, what 672 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 1: would what advice would you have wanted? But before you 673 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: became the lead, before you were put into that position, 674 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I would have wanted to know everything, all 675 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 1: the details. Um. And we knew nothing, you know, going in. 676 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 1: It was a totally new show. There were there were 677 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: no for the right reasons, there was no there were 678 00:38:56,520 --> 00:39:01,279 Speaker 1: none of the god, I'm having bad word day right now. Um, 679 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 1: it always happened to me. So UM, I feel like 680 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 1: there was nothing for us to base our behavior on. 681 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,359 Speaker 1: And now people come in and they're like, I think 682 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,799 Speaker 1: they think of themselves like, I'm going to be the 683 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: next Bachelor, I'm going to be the villain. I'm going 684 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: to be I'm gonna be Trista. They pattered themselves after 685 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,440 Speaker 1: Bacherettes too. Yeah, oh yeah, it's true. Yeah, So they 686 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,719 Speaker 1: had we had nothing to go off of. So I 687 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: would have loved, just honestly, any information. I crave information. 688 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:40,400 Speaker 1: I think knowledge is power, and I would have really 689 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 1: really been thankful to have anything, any information. Um. Although 690 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 1: you know, looking back, I guess hindsights twenty twenty and 691 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,600 Speaker 1: not having anything maybe it was a good thing because 692 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,799 Speaker 1: I went into it completely myself and genuine and I 693 00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 1: and and that was important to me to be who 694 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 1: I was and not act like someone else. And maybe 695 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 1: that happens nowadays. Do you guys think that like They've 696 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,719 Speaker 1: probably come in and think I have this person like 697 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:18,080 Speaker 1: like whomever that they are trying to act like. And 698 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 1: especially with social media and comparing ourselves to everyone, you know, 699 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 1: so important because so many people ask, and I'm sure 700 00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 1: our audience who listens to this, they ask, I want 701 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,920 Speaker 1: to apply for the Bachelor? What what did you do? 702 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:35,239 Speaker 1: What can I do? And what you said is so 703 00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 1: important because you're you were just yourself. That's the only 704 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 1: person you knew how to be, and you weren't trying 705 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,200 Speaker 1: to be anyone else. I felt that same way. I 706 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: hadn't watched it before, so I think the best advice 707 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,560 Speaker 1: you can give anyone coming in. And unfortunate Cleare's not 708 00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,400 Speaker 1: listening to this, but she knows because she's talked to 709 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,319 Speaker 1: all about she knows that girl knows exactly who she is, 710 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 1: what she wants, what she's going after. But I would 711 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:03,320 Speaker 1: say to people, and this isn't just in regard to Bachelor, 712 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 1: but just life in general. Yeah, maybe have a role model, 713 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 1: maybe have somebody you look to because you value what 714 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,720 Speaker 1: they value, or you look up to them for certain 715 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: things that they've done. But at the end of the day, 716 00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 1: we're all uniquely and beautifully made. You have a story 717 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,480 Speaker 1: to tell that's different from anyone else's, and if you 718 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,520 Speaker 1: lead with that, that's gonna be your best chance into 719 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,319 Speaker 1: getting on this show and then into succeeding on the 720 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 1: show period. That's that's really the case. Um oh, shoot, 721 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,320 Speaker 1: I was going to ask you something about your season. 722 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 1: I keep going back to your season because it's just sorry, 723 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:39,560 Speaker 1: it's just the season, the type of season I want 724 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:44,359 Speaker 1: to see it. Well, I want to know asker because 725 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,360 Speaker 1: I'm thinking because you didn't have, like, there wasn't a 726 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,840 Speaker 1: rule book for you. You just went in saying like 727 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 1: I want to find the person who I fall in 728 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 1: love with, who I'm compatible with like and watching that back, 729 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 1: you know, even though it was several years ago, like, 730 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,040 Speaker 1: it was so refreshing to be able to rewatch you 731 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: and to just see you. You were just you. As 732 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 1: Rachel was saying, you didn't go off of anything. You 733 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,839 Speaker 1: had no one you could compare it to, so you 734 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 1: just did what you thought in your heart and in 735 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 1: your gut was best. So knowing that you did, you 736 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,840 Speaker 1: couldn't really play off of anyone and didn't have any 737 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 1: bachelords before you. Is there anything watching your season back 738 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: that you wished you would not have done that you 739 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 1: maybe regret. There is something that I regret, and I've 740 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 1: talked about it a lot over the years. So this 741 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,320 Speaker 1: is the same answer if people have heard it before. 742 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:38,760 Speaker 1: But on the very first Bachelor, I was a point 743 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,839 Speaker 1: blank asked Alex who he would choose if he had 744 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,040 Speaker 1: to choose then, and it was like two nights before 745 00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,800 Speaker 1: the final rose ceremony, and of course he's gonna say me. 746 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 1: Of course, I mean, what guy in their right mind 747 00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 1: is not going to say the girl that he's looking at, 748 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,080 Speaker 1: You know that in that moment, So he said me. 749 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 1: So I went into the final rose ceremony thinking I'm 750 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,240 Speaker 1: getting engaged. This is like the biggest moment of my life. 751 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,160 Speaker 1: This is crazy. And I didn't and I was heartbroken 752 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,319 Speaker 1: and all the things. So when I was the bachelorette, 753 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:13,399 Speaker 1: I went into it thinking Alex had all this time 754 00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,400 Speaker 1: with us. Yes, it was only six weeks back in 755 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 1: the day, but it was six weeks of solely focusing 756 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:22,040 Speaker 1: on our relationship. And so we had all this time 757 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 1: and at the very end he thought he was going 758 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 1: to choose me, and then he didn't choose me. So 759 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 1: that tells me, oh my gosh, like I need to 760 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 1: hold my cards close to my chest, even more more 761 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 1: so than before, because I don't know what kind of 762 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,799 Speaker 1: deal breaker I will hear about, or if something will 763 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 1: happen and my mind will be changed. Right. So I'm 764 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 1: in the bachelorette and Ryan is professing his love to 765 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,520 Speaker 1: me through notes, through yes, through poems. But he handed 766 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:54,000 Speaker 1: me a note when the cameras weren't around. We were 767 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 1: in the car. He was saying goodbye in veil at 768 00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,719 Speaker 1: his hometown, and he handed me this note and I 769 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 1: literal early went into the bathroom in my hotel room 770 00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 1: because I thought that my hotel room was bugged with cameras. 771 00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,759 Speaker 1: I so I was like, I was so paranoid, you guys, 772 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 1: so paranoid. So I went into the bathroom and I'm 773 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,319 Speaker 1: reading this note and he tells me that he's falling 774 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:21,319 Speaker 1: in love with me, and he continued to after that. 775 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 1: You know, he needed As you probably know, this show 776 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,960 Speaker 1: is definitely way out of his comfort zone still is 777 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 1: to this day. He didn't watch the other night, he 778 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,359 Speaker 1: won't watch in the future, just because it is an 779 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 1: uncomfortable thing for him, and I fully respect that. But 780 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,440 Speaker 1: he was telling me that he was falling in love 781 00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:47,919 Speaker 1: with me, and I didn't give him any inclination. I mean, 782 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 1: with my body language. I felt like, I did you know, 783 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 1: I was very like, very affectionate in public, in person, whatever, 784 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: And I thought that he could gander from that that 785 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:01,839 Speaker 1: I was falling in love with him too. But I 786 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:08,319 Speaker 1: never said the words. I never gave him what's the 787 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: word reassurance, thank you, the reassurance that I was in 788 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:17,719 Speaker 1: it and it was him. But I just, even up 789 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,600 Speaker 1: to the last minute, I wanted to be sure that 790 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,920 Speaker 1: I was making the right decision, and so I didn't 791 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: want to do kind of what Ben Higgins did and 792 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 1: tell to people that I was falling in love with them. 793 00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: I didn't even want to tell one person I was 794 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,120 Speaker 1: falling in love with them because I didn't want my 795 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 1: mind to be changed in some way, shape or form 796 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 1: and then have to backjack and hurt his feelings like 797 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 1: I had been hurt on The Bachelor. So that's a 798 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 1: big regret of mine. I feel like he deserved to 799 00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,680 Speaker 1: know where my head was at. And with the advice 800 00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: that I give anyone who asks me to date, I say, 801 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:55,399 Speaker 1: just be true to yourself, really really listened to your gut, 802 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,799 Speaker 1: and go with whatever your gut is telling you. But 803 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 1: give in to your emotions, give in to expressing those 804 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 1: emotions and being vulnerable and sharing. Maybe not to the 805 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 1: point of telling two people that you love them. Something 806 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:14,680 Speaker 1: that you said made me think of what I was 807 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 1: watching you on Alex's season is the way he described you. 808 00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,720 Speaker 1: It was like Trista's the cool girl that I could 809 00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 1: never get, and and he had the He said he 810 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,320 Speaker 1: had a big crush on you. You made him nervous. 811 00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:31,240 Speaker 1: He was so infatuated with you because in real life 812 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,920 Speaker 1: he probably was like, I'll never get a Trista, which 813 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:37,839 Speaker 1: I laughed because fast forward to nowadays. I always say 814 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,400 Speaker 1: the guys, now, the reason a lot of these relationships 815 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: don't work is because they picked the girl they could 816 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: never get in real life. They picked the girl who's 817 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: their dream girl, not who makes sense and who works 818 00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,719 Speaker 1: in real life. That's the real question that I was 819 00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 1: going to ask you, though I remember it now Okay, 820 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm learning Bachelor history as we go. 821 00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: But I thought about this when I was watching, So 822 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 1: how many one how many bachelors were before your season? 823 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 1: Because at the time you left Alex this season, were 824 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:11,239 Speaker 1: they ever talking to you about a bachelorette? And then 825 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 1: when you did find out, were you just completely shocked? 826 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 1: Because I'm very curious as to how much time passed. 827 00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: So there were two bachelors, Um, just Alex and Aaron 828 00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:29,879 Speaker 1: Bergie was the second they asked, what you okay, He's 829 00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,480 Speaker 1: kind of disappeared too, He m, I believe he lives 830 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:38,600 Speaker 1: in Missouri or Kansas. Um, he's a pilot. Yeah, anyway, Um, 831 00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 1: so there were two bachelors and I found out, Um, 832 00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:48,799 Speaker 1: I was watching the finale in New York with a 833 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:54,279 Speaker 1: bunch of my friends of The Bachelor and uh and 834 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:58,280 Speaker 1: Slice called me and during the finale, like I remember 835 00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,959 Speaker 1: having to kind of go away for you know, where 836 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:05,319 Speaker 1: everyone was sitting and take a call, and he said, UM, 837 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,759 Speaker 1: are you liking watching the show? And then he was like, 838 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 1: what do you think about being the bachelorette? And I 839 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:17,080 Speaker 1: was like, really, this hadn't been talked about, Like this 840 00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,960 Speaker 1: was no, no, no, no, I don't. I don't believe so. 841 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 1: I don't think they talked about it during during the Bachelor. 842 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,760 Speaker 1: It was never I feel like a lot of people 843 00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,320 Speaker 1: these days go on the show thinking, oh, if it 844 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,920 Speaker 1: doesn't work out with them, then maybe I'll be a Bachelor, 845 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 1: or maybe I'll be the bachelorette, And back then that 846 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 1: was definitely not not a thought in any of our minds. 847 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 1: Um And and I don't remember ever it being a 848 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:47,759 Speaker 1: conversation with the with the producers about the possibility. It 849 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,760 Speaker 1: was just in that moment, and that's why I had 850 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 1: the reaction that I did, because it was like such 851 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:59,560 Speaker 1: a surprise um And for him to be thinking about 852 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 1: me as the bachelorette, Like I just felt like, Wow, 853 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 1: this is so this is crazy. Why would you want me? 854 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:11,600 Speaker 1: And um it was. It was very humbling but super 855 00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,880 Speaker 1: fundant exciting too. Yeah. I just I just I was 856 00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:16,360 Speaker 1: thinking about that as I was watching it. I just 857 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:18,919 Speaker 1: think it's so cool. I can't imagine they're not even 858 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 1: being a show and we're like, guess what, We're gonna 859 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 1: launch an entire show off of you. I mean, it's 860 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:29,440 Speaker 1: just it just goes to say what the franchise the 861 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,720 Speaker 1: creator of the show, everyone thought about you as a person, 862 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 1: which we're now very lucky to get to know as well. 863 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 1: It all makes it. I get it. Thanks. I want 864 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 1: to show off you too. You were honestly probably the 865 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:51,160 Speaker 1: best woman to kick start the bachelotte journey. Honestly like 866 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,080 Speaker 1: you held your own you were and like who you 867 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 1: are in real life. And when we talk to you 868 00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:58,840 Speaker 1: and I've gotten to know you, throw up this past 869 00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 1: here like that is still you when we watched you 870 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,520 Speaker 1: back on the screen. We do have a game that 871 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,719 Speaker 1: I want to get into, but before that, I need 872 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,839 Speaker 1: to ask you because I ask all of the bachelorttes 873 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 1: this question, and I ask Clear this even though she 874 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,439 Speaker 1: hasn't started for journey yet, but she's about to. And 875 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:19,400 Speaker 1: do you still wake up or like pinch yourself in 876 00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:23,359 Speaker 1: moments and say like I cannot believe I was the Bachelorette. 877 00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:27,759 Speaker 1: So even talking to you guys today, it like humbles me. 878 00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:31,280 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a dinosaur. I feel like I'm ancient. 879 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 1: I feel like and maybe it's because there are a 880 00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 1: lot of times when I'm not necessarily included in stuff, 881 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 1: which you know, kind of reinforces my insecurities about being 882 00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:51,440 Speaker 1: super old and they'll have you know, more recent people, 883 00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 1: because those people are the people who everyone watching knows. 884 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 1: You know, most of our the demograph that can watch 885 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 1: the show now are way younger, and and I feel like, um, 886 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,040 Speaker 1: maybe a lot of people can't relate to me just 887 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 1: because I'm at a different part point in my life, 888 00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:21,000 Speaker 1: you know. So um, oh gosh, what was the question, Becca, 889 00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:26,240 Speaker 1: I don't believe for sure. I do all the time 890 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 1: in talking to you guys and doing Good Morning America, 891 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 1: like they still want to talk to me like that 892 00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 1: is shocking to me. I. Um, being part of the 893 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:42,440 Speaker 1: reunion was Oh. I just loved that that day, that 894 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:46,920 Speaker 1: weekend with everyone because, as I've said, I feel super 895 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,279 Speaker 1: connected to everyone who has been on the show. We've 896 00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:54,799 Speaker 1: all been through this rare opportunity and and life to 897 00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,800 Speaker 1: me is all about human connection. It is all about 898 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 1: the relationships that I've hold the people in my life. 899 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,840 Speaker 1: And the fact that I get to call you guys 900 00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,799 Speaker 1: friends who I've watched on my televisions, you know, like 901 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:11,760 Speaker 1: it it's really fun for me. So yes, I pinched 902 00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:16,279 Speaker 1: myself all the time, and I'm just incredibly grateful for 903 00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:20,799 Speaker 1: the experience, not only because I've met my husband and 904 00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 1: created a family from the show. But because I get 905 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:28,760 Speaker 1: to connect with all of you very well said, because 906 00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: the experience is so much more than you think it is. 907 00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:34,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I never knew i'd make friends. I never 908 00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 1: knew I would you know, fall in love, and I 909 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 1: never knew that I would have this community with the bachelorettes, 910 00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:45,200 Speaker 1: you know, and I, oh, go ahead, no, no, keep going. Sorry, Well, 911 00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, and I give that honestly 912 00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 1: trusted to you because I was. I was uncomfortable and 913 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 1: I've talked to this before coming into the reunion just 914 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 1: because I felt uncomfortable being the only person of color. 915 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 1: But by the end of it, I was like, just 916 00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,759 Speaker 1: felt so welcomed and I wasn't even thinking about that 917 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:08,000 Speaker 1: and then like you jump starting the group chat and 918 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,640 Speaker 1: the community that we have there, Like Becca said, you're 919 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,439 Speaker 1: reaching out in twenty twenty, You've reached out reach out 920 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: to me multiple times about like what's going on to 921 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,359 Speaker 1: black people in the country, and it's really really meant 922 00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,759 Speaker 1: a lot. So I mean, it's just this sisterhood is 923 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,279 Speaker 1: one of the most beautiful things out of all of this, 924 00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 1: and I think that's why I hate when I see 925 00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:30,240 Speaker 1: seasons where there's just so much cattiness shown between the women, 926 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,920 Speaker 1: because it really is the key to survival. Beck and 927 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,440 Speaker 1: I've talked about this to the show, to finding your 928 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 1: husband even at the end or wife, is that having 929 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,319 Speaker 1: the sisterhood, brotherhood within the community and the house because 930 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 1: they will uplift you and support you and push you forward. 931 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:50,840 Speaker 1: If you don't have that, you will not succeed on 932 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:55,239 Speaker 1: the show. Okay, I could keep talking. You want to 933 00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: say something, you want to say something. I want you 934 00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 1: to have your point. Sorry, I know you guys are 935 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 1: giving me full body chills because the like we season one, 936 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 1: thirteen and fourteen, the fact that we're having this conversation, 937 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:12,000 Speaker 1: that we have this bond is so special and I 938 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:13,879 Speaker 1: feel kind of bad for our listeners out there who 939 00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:17,200 Speaker 1: can't be part of like within this conversation, I just 940 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:19,280 Speaker 1: want to wrap you girls up and hug you because 941 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:21,920 Speaker 1: it is a sisterhood. And like when you go on 942 00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,879 Speaker 1: the show, you think, Okay, I'm gonna live with thirty 943 00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,960 Speaker 1: some girls and I'll hopefully make friends with some of them. 944 00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,400 Speaker 1: But the fact that like we all came from different 945 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:33,759 Speaker 1: seasons at different times and can form these friendships and 946 00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 1: these bonds is something so special and so yeah, devoloped 947 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,960 Speaker 1: what you just said, Rachel. You know, the key to 948 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 1: not surviving the show, but to really embrace it for 949 00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,480 Speaker 1: all that it is and soak it all in is 950 00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,279 Speaker 1: to form those friendships. And you never know who you're 951 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 1: gonna meet coming from, never know, you never know. Okay, 952 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:57,759 Speaker 1: we gotta let your kids get back to Fortnite. So 953 00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,120 Speaker 1: we're gonna wrap this up really quickly with a but 954 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,880 Speaker 1: um okay, so the game that we're gonna play doesn't 955 00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,720 Speaker 1: have a name. Yeah, we're gonna call it OG or neubi. 956 00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,560 Speaker 1: So the way this is going to work is you 957 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:15,080 Speaker 1: are known to everybody as the ultimate OG. And by 958 00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,720 Speaker 1: the way, when we say OG, we are not talking 959 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,440 Speaker 1: about original Grandma, because I am still mad at whoever 960 00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,280 Speaker 1: freaking had the nerve to say that to you. OG 961 00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:28,160 Speaker 1: as an original gangster of the Bachelor world. And while 962 00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,359 Speaker 1: most of us will agree that OG's are always better, 963 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,919 Speaker 1: you know, some people might argue that newbies can hold 964 00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 1: their own as well. So we're gonna play a game 965 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:39,200 Speaker 1: OG or Newbie. So here are the roles. When we 966 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:42,239 Speaker 1: name an OG or, we will name an OG and 967 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:45,440 Speaker 1: a newbie across various categories, and you have to choose 968 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:49,319 Speaker 1: whether you'd prefer the classic or the newer version. Are 969 00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 1: I'm nervous? Don't you go with your gut first thing 970 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,880 Speaker 1: that comes to your mind? Okay, becca, Becca can kick 971 00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 1: it off. Okay, So to kick it off, we have 972 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,120 Speaker 1: to they start with the bachelor. So we are giving 973 00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:07,239 Speaker 1: you Alex Michelle or Peter Webber. Oh god, okay, So 974 00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:09,840 Speaker 1: am I choosing these people as like I think that 975 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,719 Speaker 1: they were a better bachelor or a better person or 976 00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,480 Speaker 1: what better bachelor? We will have you. We won't have 977 00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,319 Speaker 1: you get all into the weeds of it. Just a 978 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,560 Speaker 1: better bachelor? Who was a better bach? Better bachelor? Um, 979 00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm Peter. Sorry, sorry, interesting but it So that's a 980 00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:32,719 Speaker 1: tough one to start with. Yeah, I mean he was 981 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,840 Speaker 1: the first, and he'd like like any of us on 982 00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:37,640 Speaker 1: the first Bachelor, we didn't know what we were doing. 983 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:42,080 Speaker 1: But still it was the oversized suit coats, right, that's 984 00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:47,560 Speaker 1: why you went with Peter Good? So funny, I die 985 00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:56,200 Speaker 1: am watching Chris Sarrison. Um, okay, Batman's Michael Keaton or 986 00:56:56,200 --> 00:57:01,320 Speaker 1: a Christian Bale. Oh my gosh, my okay. Christian Bale 987 00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,600 Speaker 1: was the newer one. Yeah, yes, okay, I gotta go 988 00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:11,279 Speaker 1: with Michael Keaton. Sorry oge um, Yeah, I hate how 989 00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:14,399 Speaker 1: he changed. Like every single time a new movie comes out, 990 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,000 Speaker 1: there's a new Batman. Like, just stick with the originals. 991 00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: This is gonna be a really good one for you 992 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 1: because we're playing off of that. We're gonna give you 993 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:26,400 Speaker 1: three choices here. But for a Star is Born, we 994 00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:31,600 Speaker 1: have Judy Garland, Barbra Streisan or Lady Gaga. Okay, so 995 00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 1: I have not seen the original Star is borns um, 996 00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 1: so I have to go with Lady Gaga just because 997 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 1: it's the only one I've seen. And holy cow, was 998 00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:45,360 Speaker 1: she not phenomenal in that movie? Yes, I don't think 999 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:49,200 Speaker 1: anyone could beat her. I cried. I haven't cried like 1000 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,880 Speaker 1: that since Titanic in a movie theater like publicly it 1001 00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:58,440 Speaker 1: was it was bad. It was bad. It was bad. Okay, 1002 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:03,920 Speaker 1: James bad. We got Sean Connery or Daniel Craig. You 1003 00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:07,080 Speaker 1: didn't even need to say Daniel Craig. Sean Connery is 1004 00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:11,880 Speaker 1: my end all be all James Bond, Yeah, we love him. Yeah, 1005 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 1: I can't beat that. Okay, we'll switch it up from movies. 1006 00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:16,760 Speaker 1: We're gonna go to social media. I already know how 1007 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:22,000 Speaker 1: Rachel would answer this. But we have Facebook or TikTok. Oh, 1008 00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,840 Speaker 1: I can't do TikTok. So I just took my daughter 1009 00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:28,760 Speaker 1: off of TikTok. Good. It's a whole long story that 1010 00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 1: you guys definitely don't want to listen to. But it's 1011 00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:38,640 Speaker 1: just a touch mature for an eleven year old. And originally, 1012 00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:40,240 Speaker 1: when she came to me and said she wanted it, 1013 00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:43,400 Speaker 1: I didn't even want her to be on it. But yeah, 1014 00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of TikTok right now as a mom. Trista, 1015 00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 1: I'm I'm thirty, and it's a tad bit old for me. 1016 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,400 Speaker 1: Like it's too much for me seeing those dance moves. 1017 00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I should be with your daughter 1018 00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:57,840 Speaker 1: and just delete my account. I get Anne into it. 1019 00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,440 Speaker 1: We deleted her account. We had a big discussion about it. 1020 00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:04,760 Speaker 1: I mean, that's a talk for another another time. I'm 1021 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,720 Speaker 1: telling you not to be too political, but they're saying 1022 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 1: they're getting information from this app, like it's a big 1023 00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,120 Speaker 1: deal that US is talking about banning it. So I'm 1024 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:15,000 Speaker 1: just saying, I know, do you know what we were 1025 00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 1: I was sitting in Blakesley's room with her the other 1026 00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,640 Speaker 1: day and I think she was watching YouTube and there 1027 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,320 Speaker 1: was a YouTube like Little Box that was talking about 1028 00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,680 Speaker 1: how TikTok maybe banned, and she was like a good thing. 1029 00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:30,240 Speaker 1: We deleted it. We deleted it before it that a girl, 1030 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:37,280 Speaker 1: that's right, I know for all of our listeners. Blakesley 1031 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:41,080 Speaker 1: actually came to the Bachelorette reunion last year and she 1032 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,880 Speaker 1: was like our fifteenth bachelrette because Hannah Braun wasn't there 1033 00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,560 Speaker 1: because she was filming, and it was so she is 1034 00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:49,840 Speaker 1: the sweetest, Like, yeah, and I just love the bond 1035 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:53,360 Speaker 1: that you guys have. She loves you guys, and honestly, 1036 00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 1: what I love now it's like kind of a full 1037 00:59:56,800 --> 01:00:00,640 Speaker 1: circle thing, is like she I love of that. You 1038 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,960 Speaker 1: guys are these great role models for my daughter, you know, 1039 01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:07,480 Speaker 1: not even taking me out of it. I love that 1040 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:11,640 Speaker 1: people that I adore she adores too. So oh she's 1041 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 1: great honorary bachelorette with us. Yeah for sure. Oh it's 1042 01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:20,080 Speaker 1: my start. Okay, um, lets skip that one late night 1043 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:24,920 Speaker 1: host Johnny Carson Jimmy Kimmel. Oh my god, that's hard 1044 01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:30,400 Speaker 1: because Johnny Carson, Holy caw. I used to love watching 1045 01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,000 Speaker 1: him when my parents would let me when I was little. 1046 01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:36,800 Speaker 1: But I do. I love Jimmy Kimmel's a funny story. 1047 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:40,800 Speaker 1: Before we got married. We went on his show and 1048 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:44,520 Speaker 1: he hands us an envelope as his like wedding present, 1049 01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:51,480 Speaker 1: and it was full of cash. Stop, are you serious? What? 1050 01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:55,040 Speaker 1: At this end, it was like, I like your uncle Jimmy, 1051 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna hand you an envelope full of cash. 1052 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:04,360 Speaker 1: So did you keep all of it? He gave us 1053 01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:07,160 Speaker 1: all like it wasn't a joke, Like he was just like, 1054 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,680 Speaker 1: here you go. I would have I would have been 1055 01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 1: stuffing in my purse, say Uncle Jimmy, thanks preciate. So 1056 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with Uncle Jimmy. I love that. Actually 1057 01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:20,439 Speaker 1: I made a bet with him, and uh, I won 1058 01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:22,880 Speaker 1: ten dollars and so to this day it's hanging out 1059 01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:26,080 Speaker 1: my fridge. I will never spend the ten dollars. That's 1060 01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:29,200 Speaker 1: so funny. You've never spent it. It's like, yeah, he 1061 01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,040 Speaker 1: has like the fun uncle that like snakes you money 1062 01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:34,120 Speaker 1: under the table. All right, Okay, I want to get 1063 01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:38,800 Speaker 1: to this one because we love our singers. So Country Diva, 1064 01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:45,160 Speaker 1: the Og Dolly Parton or Taylor Swift Dolly for sure. 1065 01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:50,480 Speaker 1: I mean nine to five. I could sing that whole 1066 01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:55,720 Speaker 1: song to you, right. I just love her. She's amazing. 1067 01:01:56,360 --> 01:02:00,400 Speaker 1: Nothing bad against Taylor Swift. I I mean she's She's 1068 01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:03,400 Speaker 1: t Swift, um, and I love her too, But I 1069 01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,520 Speaker 1: gotta go with the og the legend. Yeah, Dolly's still 1070 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,400 Speaker 1: doing it. Okay, this is gonna be the last one. 1071 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:12,800 Speaker 1: And before I ask you, um, do you watch American 1072 01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:18,840 Speaker 1: Idol or Real Housewife Housewives either? Okay, so this question 1073 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:27,000 Speaker 1: doesn't make sense. Fine, I'll just go with burgers, wood Burgers, 1074 01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:32,360 Speaker 1: in and out or shake Shack. Oh, if only we 1075 01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,480 Speaker 1: had an in and out. But in and Out is 1076 01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:37,640 Speaker 1: not in Colorado, and please, I live in a tiny 1077 01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:42,440 Speaker 1: resort town. We don't have anything besides Walmart and Wendy's. 1078 01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:46,200 Speaker 1: So um, when we go to Denver, it's all about 1079 01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:48,880 Speaker 1: shake Shack. It's right down the street from my in 1080 01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,800 Speaker 1: lost house. So gotta go with shake Shack until in 1081 01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:54,360 Speaker 1: and Out comes to Colorado. I agree with you on 1082 01:02:54,400 --> 01:03:00,080 Speaker 1: that one. I agree more options though they do well 1083 01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,000 Speaker 1: because you know, they just have the burgers, right. I 1084 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,120 Speaker 1: have always said that my last meal if I was 1085 01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,080 Speaker 1: on death row and I had to pick a last meal, 1086 01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,520 Speaker 1: it would be it would be a burger and fries 1087 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:13,480 Speaker 1: and a and a milkshake. So I'm so glad we 1088 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,280 Speaker 1: ask you that question. Then forget American Idol and Real 1089 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:19,280 Speaker 1: Housewives now we know where they're wrong. Going to go 1090 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:25,320 Speaker 1: on our Bachelorrette dates to say, you know, oh, Trista, 1091 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:28,200 Speaker 1: this has been so great, long overdue, as we said 1092 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,960 Speaker 1: at the beginning, but thank you so much for doing this, 1093 01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:33,000 Speaker 1: thank you for all that you continue to do for 1094 01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,520 Speaker 1: the franchise, and thank you so much for being an 1095 01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:40,200 Speaker 1: example for us, for young women, for future bachelorettes. I mean, 1096 01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:44,400 Speaker 1: the list goes on and on. Yes, you are the og. 1097 01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:47,400 Speaker 1: We love you. You are not only a Batchelrette in 1098 01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,720 Speaker 1: our eyes, but such a good friend. So thank you, Trista. 1099 01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:53,400 Speaker 1: We love you. I just thought about something. There's a reason, 1100 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,200 Speaker 1: there's a reason that the women have been more successful 1101 01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:58,920 Speaker 1: at this at the men, not just because women do 1102 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,280 Speaker 1: it better. That is true, but we had you to 1103 01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:05,920 Speaker 1: set an example and paved the way they had Alex period. 1104 01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:17,320 Speaker 1: That's it, but very true. Thank you. You guys are 1105 01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:20,840 Speaker 1: the best. I absolutely love this And anytime you want 1106 01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:24,720 Speaker 1: to talk, you know, my phone is always open for you. 1107 01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:29,880 Speaker 1: How much do you freaking love Trista. I love her 1108 01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:32,600 Speaker 1: and I and we and we know what's up because 1109 01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:36,840 Speaker 1: we have our own personal and bachelorette relationships with her. 1110 01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:40,280 Speaker 1: But what I love is that everybody's getting to know her. 1111 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:44,040 Speaker 1: You know that this new audience. It's funny, these new audience, 1112 01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:47,320 Speaker 1: they don't know me. I feel like maybe they started 1113 01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:50,120 Speaker 1: on your season or not even you if they came 1114 01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,320 Speaker 1: in with Peter and Hannah or Colton because of the fence. 1115 01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,680 Speaker 1: So it's it's fun I think, And I just think 1116 01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 1: it's beautiful that people can see where all of this started, 1117 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:02,440 Speaker 1: with all this greatest seasons ever. It's Tristas that we 1118 01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,600 Speaker 1: needed to see from you. Yes, one thousand percent. She 1119 01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,440 Speaker 1: like just listening to her and talking to her. That 1120 01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:11,840 Speaker 1: is who she is. We saw it on the big screen. 1121 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:14,920 Speaker 1: America's finally getting to re see it. But she is 1122 01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:19,200 Speaker 1: just honestly one of the kindest, most vibrant souls, and 1123 01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,640 Speaker 1: I'm so happy that she was the one to pave 1124 01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:25,840 Speaker 1: the way for us all. Absolutely. Now, I mean, you know, 1125 01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,320 Speaker 1: Claire still filming, so we still have her season, but 1126 01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: there's only fifteen of us people, So go back if 1127 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,959 Speaker 1: you haven't seen some of the first seasons, go back 1128 01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:37,960 Speaker 1: and watch these badass women. Yeah, absolutely well, said all 1129 01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:41,280 Speaker 1: right well Rachel. As always, that was such a fun episode. 1130 01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:43,800 Speaker 1: And thanks to you all for hanging out because we 1131 01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:46,840 Speaker 1: can't wait to see what name you help us decide 1132 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: on for our new Bouchelor Happy Hour listener's name. So 1133 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,800 Speaker 1: make sure to check out our Instagram at Bouchelor Happy Hour. 1134 01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:56,120 Speaker 1: And the poll is actually going to go live today, 1135 01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 1: so check it out. Vote, Vote, Vote. I mean not 1136 01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:02,080 Speaker 1: only in this but in real life too, but today 1137 01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:04,960 Speaker 1: we need a name. So keep writing to us because 1138 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:07,640 Speaker 1: we love to hear from you. Okay, guys, and always 1139 01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,400 Speaker 1: make sure you follow us on Bachelor Happy Hour on 1140 01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:14,880 Speaker 1: Instagram at batch happy Hour on Facebook and Twitter, and 1141 01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:15,439 Speaker 1: make sure