Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels second date of date. The guy on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second date update today said in his
Speaker 1: email that he's quote a genuinely nice guy, So I
Speaker 1: believe him. Oh that's good. His name is George, and
Speaker 1: George is a genuinely nice guy. If it's in writing,
Speaker 1: I know it's true. So George, congratulations on being such
Speaker 1: a nice dude. Well, thank you. I appreciate it. He
Speaker 1: does sound lovely. Yeah, you're likable already, George. Thank you, George.
Speaker 1: If you're such a genuinely nice guy, why do you
Speaker 1: have to do a second date update? Well, that's uh.
Speaker 1: I never thought I would have to, I guess, but
Speaker 1: I figure, you know, we have the opportunity to figure
Speaker 1: it out. Is it that nice guys always finished last
Speaker 1: type scenario? That's kind of how it feels, to be honest,
Speaker 1: because I think it was a great date and nothing
Speaker 1: has seemed to have come from it, So I don't know.
Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about her. What's her name?
Speaker 1: Her name's Tiffany. I found her on a dating website, which,
Speaker 1: first off, the way, I'm not a guy who goes
Speaker 1: on dating website. You know that, I was actually pretty
Speaker 1: apprehensive about the whole stuff. Sure, that's what everybody always says,
Speaker 1: doesn't everybody's profile on dating website say I'm new to this.
Speaker 1: It seems like that's the common thread, and that's true
Speaker 1: for me. That is true. Rememb you gotta believe George
Speaker 1: is his word always. Yeah, he's a nice, good guy.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that was scrolling through profiles and a lot
Speaker 1: of them, you know, she kind of disingenuous. But then
Speaker 1: when I found Tiffany's, I don't know, it was it
Speaker 1: was just like one of those feelings you get, you know,
Speaker 1: and she was like outdoorsy, which I love that. But
Speaker 1: I think the biggest straw was like she had this
Speaker 1: beautiful blonde hair. I mean it's like, oh, I mean
Speaker 1: it's like silky and smooth. All right. Now, I think
Speaker 1: I know what kind of feelings you were getting. At first,
Speaker 1: I was thinking it was like something in your heart,
Speaker 1: but now I know it's somewhere else. No, Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: just a guy that likes a girl with a lot
Speaker 1: of hair, you know, and she's got slowly beautiful hair.
Speaker 1: I have never heard a man say that before. You're
Speaker 1: just saying like I looked at it and it looked like,
Speaker 1: you know, like a hair model of some sort of
Speaker 1: shampoo or something. Guys, So you're not a boob guy,
Speaker 1: You're not a butt guy. You're a hair guy. I mean, hey,
Speaker 1: you know it teems very important to me. Dude, I
Speaker 1: do not want to sit next to him during a
Speaker 1: shampoo commercial on TV. George loves me some hair? That's all?
Speaker 1: You really say that in third person? Oh shame? And
Speaker 1: what you like? So you loved her hair? Tell us
Speaker 1: about your date when you guys actually went out. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: we've been talking for two months, you know, and I
Speaker 1: was very apprehensive about like coming on too strong. You know,
Speaker 1: I've read articles about like creepy guys taking girls out
Speaker 1: and stuff. So when we went on this first date,
Speaker 1: safety was really like that's the word. Like I was priority.
Speaker 1: Like I told her, I'm not going to take you
Speaker 1: to a picnic. I'm not going to take you to
Speaker 1: the park because of you know, like wooded areas. Okay,
Speaker 1: but you understand that most women, if they are going
Speaker 1: to get a message from a guy that list all
Speaker 1: the creepy places they're not gonna take you, it comes
Speaker 1: off as really creepy. Yeah no, no, no, it's just
Speaker 1: so she knows that I'm on the same board, Like,
Speaker 1: did you did you literally say to her, don't worry,
Speaker 1: I won't take you near any wooded areas. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: she still went out with you. Yes, that's the problem, guys.
Speaker 1: Are you sure? So I took her to like a
Speaker 1: you know, like downtown where there's like a lot of people,
Speaker 1: had a lot of lights. Yeah, it was during the
Speaker 1: day day, Okay. Did she seem to enjoy herself. Yeah.
Speaker 1: We had a great time. And then I was like,
Speaker 1: do you want to call it, you know, quick, and
Speaker 1: she's like that, let's still get a drink. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: you know, we're that's step two. We're getting there. You
Speaker 1: took her, You took her to a place to get drinks,
Speaker 1: and only bottles of water that were already closed she
Speaker 1: could open herself. Yeah, okay, I mean everything she was
Speaker 1: getting directly from the part that all right? So she
Speaker 1: was safe with you, George, Yeah, exactly. That's I wanted
Speaker 1: her to feel that way. Okay, Okay. You know I'm
Speaker 1: talking to my co workers at work and I tell them,
Speaker 1: you know, this next part, and they're like, that's too far. Okay.
Speaker 1: So what I did was when we sat down and
Speaker 1: we were talking about, you know, what we do to
Speaker 1: stay fit and everything, and then I, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: just told her like just so you know I'm tested
Speaker 1: on everything, and um waited on what you know all
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm up to date with shots and
Speaker 1: vaccinations and you know I'm clean STD watch. So you
Speaker 1: just told her that or were you having a conversation
Speaker 1: where that work, Like we were talking about like working
Speaker 1: out and stuff like thing fit, so you went I
Speaker 1: think it's pretty relevant you made the leap from fitness
Speaker 1: to STD yeah, because it's all like hell okay. And
Speaker 1: how did she react when you told her that? Well,
Speaker 1: first off, I think she was like a little skeptical
Speaker 1: to me. So I was like, oh, she doesn't believe me.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no, I had it in
Speaker 1: my bag. Is that I didn't plan it, but I
Speaker 1: did have my results because I had just done it
Speaker 1: like a week ago. You don't date a lot? Do
Speaker 1: you date a lot? George? I mean where do you
Speaker 1: find women? You know what I mean? So I'm trying online.
Speaker 1: But I'm just asking the question because to bring your well,
Speaker 1: first of all, it sounds like you got at STD
Speaker 1: test leading up to the date. Yeah, I leading up
Speaker 1: to the date, but it wasn't because I was going
Speaker 1: to have a date. Okay, Okay, I was thinking you
Speaker 1: did it specifically because you were going out with a woman,
Speaker 1: and you want to hear eventually I would have a date. Okay.
Speaker 1: The thing is, it's like sometimes, you know, I'm told
Speaker 1: that can happen pretty quickly. You know, you go one
Speaker 1: into the next, and I don't want to ruin the mood,
Speaker 1: right you just you want to be prepared in case
Speaker 1: dinner or drinks leads to something else. Yeah, And I
Speaker 1: want her to feel safe. Did she feel safe? Well?
Speaker 1: The thing one is, after I told her, she said
Speaker 1: that she had to get going for a tennis lesson. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, she had one of those random tennis lessons
Speaker 1: pop up in the middle of the day. Either that
Speaker 1: or she was still on my train as on about
Speaker 1: being health conscious and stuff, and she remembered and it
Speaker 1: just popped your head. So what happened before she split
Speaker 1: for her tennis lesson? How did you guys in things? Well, um,
Speaker 1: you know, we shook hands like a gentleman, we do.
Speaker 1: And she um left pretty quick after that, And I
Speaker 1: haven't heard from her, and her account is still active,
Speaker 1: so I think she's getting my messages. I don't know
Speaker 1: how many messages if you tried to send her. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess like four at this point. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, well we'll play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: and we'll call her and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: that'd be great, Thank you. Hang on. Man be safe
Speaker 1: always man, always safe over here brooking jubil in the morning. Second.
Speaker 1: Sometimes the more you say something, the more skeptical people
Speaker 1: will be of you. Like, for example, if I go
Speaker 1: to a crowded department store this weekend, strip down all
Speaker 1: my clothes, raise my hand, and yell, I am not
Speaker 1: a pervert. Not a pervert, you know what. Those people
Speaker 1: should believe me. You know why, because I said it,
Speaker 1: and I said it loudly. And George, who's on the
Speaker 1: phone with us right now for a second date update,
Speaker 1: said over and over again to his date that he
Speaker 1: is not a dangerous man, so she should believe him.
Speaker 1: He told her before they went out. Don't worry, I'm
Speaker 1: not taking you at any wooded areas. Yeah, nothing like that.
Speaker 1: Not bringing my duct tape with me or anything. Also
Speaker 1: brought along his medical history to show her that he
Speaker 1: was STD free on a first date, which she didn't
Speaker 1: ask for it. Let's remember that. And of course he
Speaker 1: said that he's a genuinely nice guy. George. I think
Speaker 1: that your downfall was you tried to convince her a
Speaker 1: little too hard of what a good dude you are. Okay,
Speaker 1: I did all the right moves, you know. I will
Speaker 1: admit maybe didn't need to bring up the medical history
Speaker 1: on the first date. But it's still good news. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it is good news. Actually, that's a very
Speaker 1: good point. It might be a little strange to show
Speaker 1: her that, but yeah, it's good news as long as
Speaker 1: you're STD free. Yeah, you did have to have a
Speaker 1: chlamydia talk right after you showed it to her, so bonus. Right,
Speaker 1: I'm going you know, all right, Well, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: her phone number right now and find out why she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. Okay, great, here we go. Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi is Tiffany there? This is Tiffany. Hey, Tiffany, how
Speaker 1: are you? Who's this? Oh? My name is Jubil. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: do I know you? No? Probably not. My name is
Speaker 1: Jubil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show. Um, okay, are you selling you something? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not selling anything. I actually want to call you
Speaker 1: because one of our listeners asked me if I could
Speaker 1: get a hold of you. His name is George, and
Speaker 1: George emailed us and said that he went out on
Speaker 1: a date with you, right right, And we do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called the Second Date Update. But
Speaker 1: George really liked you a lot and he would love
Speaker 1: to see if he could go out with you again.
Speaker 1: But he's wondering if he did something wrong. Um hm, well, listen,
Speaker 1: I have gone on some dates in my life. I
Speaker 1: have never met someone like George. That's a good way
Speaker 1: to say it. Ud come that's did he come off
Speaker 1: like a serial killer? Kind of um, the nicest one
Speaker 1: ever serial killer? Every Hey, at least he was nice, right,
Speaker 1: it was. It was interesting to say the least. Um,
Speaker 1: there's like a seed of potential in there that needs
Speaker 1: some nurturing. So George has a seed of potential. Yes,
Speaker 1: he's listen, he is incredibly selfless, very sweet, overly concerned
Speaker 1: with my safety, and he's STD free. He told us that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I learned that on the date. Yeah, So he told
Speaker 1: us about that and he admitted that he thinks that
Speaker 1: could have been the reason that you're not calling him,
Speaker 1: And there's that little seed. He kind of knows, but
Speaker 1: he doesn't. You know, can you explain the date in
Speaker 1: your words? We heard from him a little bit about
Speaker 1: your date, but I'm just curious to hear your side
Speaker 1: of the story. Well, you know, initially it was like,
Speaker 1: very oh polite, and here, let me get your chair,
Speaker 1: and you know, you guys, I sneeze during the date,
Speaker 1: and kindly he said, bless you, and then he went
Speaker 1: to go blow my nose. I went to go blow
Speaker 1: my nose. And then I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: do I have like a book or hanging out of
Speaker 1: my nose? Hown embarrassing? And he was like dabbing my
Speaker 1: nose and he's like, oh good. I just didn't want
Speaker 1: any germs just spread because I don't like germs and
Speaker 1: I don't want them to get on you. So it
Speaker 1: was this very awkward thing at the beginning. And then
Speaker 1: we leave the restaurant. We're walking and you know, he
Speaker 1: was walking on the sidewalk and we're about to cross
Speaker 1: the street and there was a car and it was
Speaker 1: nowhere near me, and he starts yelling at the car,
Speaker 1: be careful, you're gonna hit my date, almost like announcing
Speaker 1: like we're going to cross the street. Everybody stopped. How embarrassing. No, no,
Speaker 1: it was one of those things where it's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: it can't get worse, Okay, it can't get worse. And
Speaker 1: it kept getting worse, and then I just wanted out.
Speaker 1: At one point where we're standing, you know, waiting to
Speaker 1: cross another street, and he realizes that I'm standing like
Speaker 1: on a grate, and he starts lecturing me. He goes,
Speaker 1: do you know how many people die every year standing
Speaker 1: on a grate by falling through? And also slightly I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, how many? He's like, well, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I bet the numbers really high. You hadn't, Like,
Speaker 1: I guarantee people fall through those things all the time
Speaker 1: on city streets. Like the most paranoid mom ever on
Speaker 1: a date with you, and I just I was like,
Speaker 1: make it stop. I can't, I can't. Did you ever
Speaker 1: address it with him like no, no, no, I'm not
Speaker 1: a charity corporation. I don't take care of people. I
Speaker 1: was on a date. I'm not here to fix people.
Speaker 1: I got my own stuff. Okay, I don't think that
Speaker 1: I need to be the person to tell him all that.
Speaker 1: Oh no, okay's interesting. Um hey, Steffani, he is George.
Speaker 1: Um wow, hold on, old on one second. I think
Speaker 1: I need to let Tiffany what's going on. Well, Tiffany,
Speaker 1: George is on the other line listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. He was supposed to wait for a second.
Speaker 1: But I'm just a little confused here because I've been
Speaker 1: listening to this whole thing where he thought you might die.
Speaker 1: If anything, the whole day was to make you feel
Speaker 1: like you would live, you know, for a long time.
Speaker 1: The point of dating me is to make sure you
Speaker 1: know you can live for a long time. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I say it's the nicest serial killer comments.
Speaker 1: I mean it's being Yeah, well you got the nice
Speaker 1: part right, okay, but the serial killer stuff and and
Speaker 1: in that car was reckless. Okay, Okay, he had no George.
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait, wait, you didn't hear listen, Yes, you
Speaker 1: heard a lot of stuff. I said. What you didn't
Speaker 1: hear is that there's a seed didn't have a seed
Speaker 1: of potential. You've called me selfless, sweet, kind of cute. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was made attention. You bet you're sweet, But I
Speaker 1: was saying attention. I wrote everything down. You're actually taking notes. Yes,
Speaker 1: this is important to me. I've been writing everything down.
Speaker 1: Pros who cons And let me tell you something. The
Speaker 1: pros are winning right now. Selfless, sweet, kind of cute, interesting, nice.
Speaker 1: There's the serial killer parts in the con George. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, George, you are people die all great. I'm
Speaker 1: just you are really sweet, you really mean well, and
Speaker 1: that's really good about you. But maybe maybe you just
Speaker 1: try too hard and then you lose sight of who
Speaker 1: you are because you're trying to be this super dating
Speaker 1: hero that doesn't exist, and then you end up becoming
Speaker 1: nothing but scary things. Well, I'm just I just one
Speaker 1: need you to feel comfortable. And I guess I didn't.
Speaker 1: I did it too much. Yeah, I did it too much, George,
Speaker 1: George are coming off as an overbearing mother who nags
Speaker 1: her child and that's not sexy. Yeah. Well, to me,
Speaker 1: safety is the sexiest thing in a person, I think.
Speaker 1: All right, you know, George, George, Yes, you know what
Speaker 1: If that is what you in your heart believe and want,
Speaker 1: then you need to find yourself some girl who's looking
Speaker 1: for that. There's a girl out there somewhere looking for
Speaker 1: the bread pit of safety, and you're her. Guy, Guy,
Speaker 1: you're gonna rock. Where do you think I can find her?
Speaker 1: I do not know, Tiffany, would you like to go
Speaker 1: out on a second date with George? Will pay for it.
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be a date date. You can
Speaker 1: just get together and maybe help him find a girl
Speaker 1: that's into safety. Um, come on down, come on to me.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know you don't want to chair a case,
Speaker 1: but he needs help. Man, he's liable. Listen, baby steps.
Speaker 1: I will let him email me for dating advice and
Speaker 1: we could start there. I can get your personal email,
Speaker 1: my workie dow. Okay, that sounds pretty good. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so you didn't get a second date out of the
Speaker 1: whole thing, but at least the long play here long
Speaker 1: play okay? Well wait wait wait, George, let me be clear.
Speaker 1: This is not a long play on a second date.
Speaker 1: This is dating advice, a dating coach. I'm going to help. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: here I get so we'll go on a second date. George.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, if you ask me out
Speaker 1: on a date, the answers no, but if you need advice,
Speaker 1: I'm here for you. No, no, no, I'm gonna say
Speaker 1: like if we worded like to a mock date. He's
Speaker 1: trying everything he's tried. Yeah, let's go out in rural
Speaker 1: place sometime and see how it works. George, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying it. It It could be nice, you know, in the
Speaker 1: George expected George, I don't think you're going to get
Speaker 1: a second date out of this, but you did to
Speaker 1: strike up a friendship it sounds like with Tiffany, and
Speaker 1: maybe she can help you in the dating week too. Okay,
Speaker 1: you've made contact with Tiffany and she's agreed to help
Speaker 1: you out. Thank you, Jewil, I appreciate it. Man, You're welcome. Great,
Speaker 1: all right, get great right in the morning. Text in
Speaker 1: at seven eighty five to nine two that says that
Speaker 1: guy indeed was the Brad Pitt of safety. Talking about
Speaker 1: today's second date update if you missed it, George wanted
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Tiffany who wasn't calling him
Speaker 1: back after their date. We got her on the phone
Speaker 1: and the reason she didn't want to go out with
Speaker 1: him again. He was obsessed with her being safe and
Speaker 1: obviously not very good at dating at all. One point,
Speaker 1: he actually dabbed her nose because she sneezed and he
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that she wasn't getting any germs
Speaker 1: on her so she wouldn't get sick, and then reminded
Speaker 1: her when she was standing on a street corner on
Speaker 1: top of a grate. You know, many people die standing
Speaker 1: on top of those things. You shouldn't stand on top
Speaker 1: of that. It was just constantly obsessed with safety. So
Speaker 1: she said she didn't want to go out with him again,
Speaker 1: but she did offer to be his dating coach at
Speaker 1: the end, and he still didn't quite get that. He
Speaker 1: didn't understand, you know, but I give them props for
Speaker 1: keeping trying. Like her assistance is key, yep, So hopefully
Speaker 1: he does well with her advice. Now he's he's got
Speaker 1: an approval to email her on her work email and
Speaker 1: ask dating questions from time to time, So I consider
Speaker 1: that a successful second date update. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second date update, all you have to
Speaker 1: do is email the show and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back.