WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Safety First

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels second date of date. The guy on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update today said in his

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<v Speaker 1>email that he's quote a genuinely nice guy, So I

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<v Speaker 1>believe him. Oh that's good. His name is George, and

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<v Speaker 1>George is a genuinely nice guy. If it's in writing,

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's true. So George, congratulations on being such

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<v Speaker 1>a nice dude. Well, thank you. I appreciate it. He

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<v Speaker 1>does sound lovely. Yeah, you're likable already, George. Thank you, George.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're such a genuinely nice guy, why do you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do a second date update? Well, that's uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I never thought I would have to, I guess, but

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<v Speaker 1>I figure, you know, we have the opportunity to figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Is it that nice guys always finished last

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<v Speaker 1>type scenario? That's kind of how it feels, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it was a great date and nothing

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<v Speaker 1>has seemed to have come from it, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us a little bit about her. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Tiffany. I found her on a dating website, which,

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<v Speaker 1>first off, the way, I'm not a guy who goes

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<v Speaker 1>on dating website. You know that, I was actually pretty

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<v Speaker 1>apprehensive about the whole stuff. Sure, that's what everybody always says,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't everybody's profile on dating website say I'm new to this.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems like that's the common thread, and that's true

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<v Speaker 1>for me. That is true. Rememb you gotta believe George

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<v Speaker 1>is his word always. Yeah, he's a nice, good guy.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, that was scrolling through profiles and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of them, you know, she kind of disingenuous. But then

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<v Speaker 1>when I found Tiffany's, I don't know, it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like one of those feelings you get, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like outdoorsy, which I love that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think the biggest straw was like she had this

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful blonde hair. I mean it's like, oh, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's like silky and smooth. All right. Now, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I know what kind of feelings you were getting. At first,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking it was like something in your heart,

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<v Speaker 1>but now I know it's somewhere else. No, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just a guy that likes a girl with a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hair, you know, and she's got slowly beautiful hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never heard a man say that before. You're

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<v Speaker 1>just saying like I looked at it and it looked like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like a hair model of some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>shampoo or something. Guys, So you're not a boob guy,

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<v Speaker 1>You're not a butt guy. You're a hair guy. I mean, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it teems very important to me. Dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>do not want to sit next to him during a

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<v Speaker 1>shampoo commercial on TV. George loves me some hair? That's all?

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<v Speaker 1>You really say that in third person? Oh shame? And

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<v Speaker 1>what you like? So you loved her hair? Tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date when you guys actually went out. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been talking for two months, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was very apprehensive about like coming on too strong. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've read articles about like creepy guys taking girls out

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. So when we went on this first date,

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<v Speaker 1>safety was really like that's the word. Like I was priority.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I told her, I'm not going to take you

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<v Speaker 1>to a picnic. I'm not going to take you to

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<v Speaker 1>the park because of you know, like wooded areas. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you understand that most women, if they are going

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<v Speaker 1>to get a message from a guy that list all

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<v Speaker 1>the creepy places they're not gonna take you, it comes

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<v Speaker 1>off as really creepy. Yeah no, no, no, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>so she knows that I'm on the same board, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>did you did you literally say to her, don't worry,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't take you near any wooded areas. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>she still went out with you. Yes, that's the problem, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure? So I took her to like a

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like downtown where there's like a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of lights. Yeah, it was during the

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<v Speaker 1>day day, Okay. Did she seem to enjoy herself. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great time. And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to call it, you know, quick, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like that, let's still get a drink. So I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're that's step two. We're getting there. You

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<v Speaker 1>took her, You took her to a place to get drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>and only bottles of water that were already closed she

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<v Speaker 1>could open herself. Yeah, okay, I mean everything she was

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<v Speaker 1>getting directly from the part that all right? So she

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<v Speaker 1>was safe with you, George, Yeah, exactly. That's I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>her to feel that way. Okay, Okay. You know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking to my co workers at work and I tell them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this next part, and they're like, that's too far. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I did was when we sat down and

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about, you know, what we do to

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<v Speaker 1>stay fit and everything, and then I, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just told her like just so you know I'm tested

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<v Speaker 1>on everything, and um waited on what you know all

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I'm up to date with shots and

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<v Speaker 1>vaccinations and you know I'm clean STD watch. So you

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<v Speaker 1>just told her that or were you having a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>where that work, Like we were talking about like working

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<v Speaker 1>out and stuff like thing fit, so you went I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's pretty relevant you made the leap from fitness

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<v Speaker 1>to STD yeah, because it's all like hell okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>how did she react when you told her that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>first off, I think she was like a little skeptical

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So I was like, oh, she doesn't believe me.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, no, no, I had it in

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<v Speaker 1>my bag. Is that I didn't plan it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>did have my results because I had just done it

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<v Speaker 1>like a week ago. You don't date a lot? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you date a lot? George? I mean where do you

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<v Speaker 1>find women? You know what I mean? So I'm trying online.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm just asking the question because to bring your well,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, it sounds like you got at STD

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<v Speaker 1>test leading up to the date. Yeah, I leading up

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<v Speaker 1>to the date, but it wasn't because I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a date. Okay, Okay, I was thinking you

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<v Speaker 1>did it specifically because you were going out with a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>and you want to hear eventually I would have a date. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, it's like sometimes, you know, I'm told

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<v Speaker 1>that can happen pretty quickly. You know, you go one

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<v Speaker 1>into the next, and I don't want to ruin the mood,

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<v Speaker 1>right you just you want to be prepared in case

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<v Speaker 1>dinner or drinks leads to something else. Yeah, And I

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<v Speaker 1>want her to feel safe. Did she feel safe? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>The thing one is, after I told her, she said

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<v Speaker 1>that she had to get going for a tennis lesson. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, she had one of those random tennis lessons

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<v Speaker 1>pop up in the middle of the day. Either that

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<v Speaker 1>or she was still on my train as on about

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<v Speaker 1>being health conscious and stuff, and she remembered and it

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<v Speaker 1>just popped your head. So what happened before she split

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<v Speaker 1>for her tennis lesson? How did you guys in things? Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we shook hands like a gentleman, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>And she um left pretty quick after that, And I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard from her, and her account is still active,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think she's getting my messages. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how many messages if you tried to send her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess like four at this point. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well we'll play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll call her and get your second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be great, Thank you. Hang on. Man be safe

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<v Speaker 1>always man, always safe over here brooking jubil in the morning. Second.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes the more you say something, the more skeptical people

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<v Speaker 1>will be of you. Like, for example, if I go

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<v Speaker 1>to a crowded department store this weekend, strip down all

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<v Speaker 1>my clothes, raise my hand, and yell, I am not

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<v Speaker 1>a pervert. Not a pervert, you know what. Those people

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<v Speaker 1>should believe me. You know why, because I said it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said it loudly. And George, who's on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us right now for a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>said over and over again to his date that he

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<v Speaker 1>is not a dangerous man, so she should believe him.

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<v Speaker 1>He told her before they went out. Don't worry, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not taking you at any wooded areas. Yeah, nothing like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Not bringing my duct tape with me or anything. Also

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<v Speaker 1>brought along his medical history to show her that he

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<v Speaker 1>was STD free on a first date, which she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>ask for it. Let's remember that. And of course he

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<v Speaker 1>said that he's a genuinely nice guy. George. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that your downfall was you tried to convince her a

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<v Speaker 1>little too hard of what a good dude you are. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I did all the right moves, you know. I will

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<v Speaker 1>admit maybe didn't need to bring up the medical history

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<v Speaker 1>on the first date. But it's still good news. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it is good news. Actually, that's a very

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<v Speaker 1>good point. It might be a little strange to show

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<v Speaker 1>her that, but yeah, it's good news as long as

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<v Speaker 1>you're STD free. Yeah, you did have to have a

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<v Speaker 1>chlamydia talk right after you showed it to her, so bonus. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going you know, all right, Well, I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>her phone number right now and find out why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. Okay, great, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is Tiffany there? This is Tiffany. Hey, Tiffany, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Who's this? Oh? My name is Jubil. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>do I know you? No? Probably not. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jubil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show. Um, okay, are you selling you something? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not selling anything. I actually want to call you

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners asked me if I could

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of you. His name is George, and

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<v Speaker 1>George emailed us and said that he went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with you, right right, And we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show called the Second Date Update. But

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<v Speaker 1>George really liked you a lot and he would love

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<v Speaker 1>to see if he could go out with you again.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's wondering if he did something wrong. Um hm, well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I have gone on some dates in my life. I

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<v Speaker 1>have never met someone like George. That's a good way

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<v Speaker 1>to say it. Ud come that's did he come off

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<v Speaker 1>like a serial killer? Kind of um, the nicest one

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<v Speaker 1>ever serial killer? Every Hey, at least he was nice, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was interesting to say the least. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's like a seed of potential in there that needs

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<v Speaker 1>some nurturing. So George has a seed of potential. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he's listen, he is incredibly selfless, very sweet, overly concerned

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<v Speaker 1>with my safety, and he's STD free. He told us that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I learned that on the date. Yeah, So he told

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<v Speaker 1>us about that and he admitted that he thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>could have been the reason that you're not calling him,

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<v Speaker 1>And there's that little seed. He kind of knows, but

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't. You know, can you explain the date in

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<v Speaker 1>your words? We heard from him a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>your date, but I'm just curious to hear your side

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<v Speaker 1>of the story. Well, you know, initially it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>very oh polite, and here, let me get your chair,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, you guys, I sneeze during the date,

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<v Speaker 1>and kindly he said, bless you, and then he went

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<v Speaker 1>to go blow my nose. I went to go blow

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<v Speaker 1>my nose. And then I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>do I have like a book or hanging out of

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<v Speaker 1>my nose? Hown embarrassing? And he was like dabbing my

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<v Speaker 1>nose and he's like, oh good. I just didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>any germs just spread because I don't like germs and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want them to get on you. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was this very awkward thing at the beginning. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we leave the restaurant. We're walking and you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>was walking on the sidewalk and we're about to cross

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<v Speaker 1>the street and there was a car and it was

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<v Speaker 1>nowhere near me, and he starts yelling at the car,

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<v Speaker 1>be careful, you're gonna hit my date, almost like announcing

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<v Speaker 1>like we're going to cross the street. Everybody stopped. How embarrassing. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was one of those things where it's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it can't get worse, Okay, it can't get worse. And

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<v Speaker 1>it kept getting worse, and then I just wanted out.

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<v Speaker 1>At one point where we're standing, you know, waiting to

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<v Speaker 1>cross another street, and he realizes that I'm standing like

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<v Speaker 1>on a grate, and he starts lecturing me. He goes,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know how many people die every year standing

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<v Speaker 1>on a grate by falling through? And also slightly I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, how many? He's like, well, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I bet the numbers really high. You hadn't, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee people fall through those things all the time

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<v Speaker 1>on city streets. Like the most paranoid mom ever on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with you, and I just I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>make it stop. I can't, I can't. Did you ever

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<v Speaker 1>address it with him like no, no, no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a charity corporation. I don't take care of people. I

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<v Speaker 1>was on a date. I'm not here to fix people.

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<v Speaker 1>I got my own stuff. Okay, I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>I need to be the person to tell him all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, okay's interesting. Um hey, Steffani, he is George.

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<v Speaker 1>Um wow, hold on, old on one second. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I need to let Tiffany what's going on. Well, Tiffany,

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<v Speaker 1>George is on the other line listening and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. He was supposed to wait for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm just a little confused here because I've been

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this whole thing where he thought you might die.

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<v Speaker 1>If anything, the whole day was to make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you would live, you know, for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>The point of dating me is to make sure you

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<v Speaker 1>know you can live for a long time. Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I say it's the nicest serial killer comments.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's being Yeah, well you got the nice

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<v Speaker 1>part right, okay, but the serial killer stuff and and

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<v Speaker 1>in that car was reckless. Okay, Okay, he had no George.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait, wait, you didn't hear listen, Yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>heard a lot of stuff. I said. What you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear is that there's a seed didn't have a seed

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<v Speaker 1>of potential. You've called me selfless, sweet, kind of cute. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was made attention. You bet you're sweet, But I

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<v Speaker 1>was saying attention. I wrote everything down. You're actually taking notes. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is important to me. I've been writing everything down.

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<v Speaker 1>Pros who cons And let me tell you something. The

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<v Speaker 1>pros are winning right now. Selfless, sweet, kind of cute, interesting, nice.

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<v Speaker 1>There's the serial killer parts in the con George. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, George, you are people die all great. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just you are really sweet, you really mean well, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's really good about you. But maybe maybe you just

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<v Speaker 1>try too hard and then you lose sight of who

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<v Speaker 1>you are because you're trying to be this super dating

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<v Speaker 1>hero that doesn't exist, and then you end up becoming

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<v Speaker 1>nothing but scary things. Well, I'm just I just one

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<v Speaker 1>need you to feel comfortable. And I guess I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it too much. Yeah, I did it too much, George,

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<v Speaker 1>George are coming off as an overbearing mother who nags

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<v Speaker 1>her child and that's not sexy. Yeah. Well, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>safety is the sexiest thing in a person, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you know, George, George, Yes, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>If that is what you in your heart believe and want,

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<v Speaker 1>then you need to find yourself some girl who's looking

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<v Speaker 1>for that. There's a girl out there somewhere looking for

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<v Speaker 1>the bread pit of safety, and you're her. Guy, Guy,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna rock. Where do you think I can find her?

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<v Speaker 1>I do not know, Tiffany, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second date with George? Will pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be a date date. You can

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<v Speaker 1>just get together and maybe help him find a girl

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<v Speaker 1>that's into safety. Um, come on down, come on to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know you don't want to chair a case,

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<v Speaker 1>but he needs help. Man, he's liable. Listen, baby steps.

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<v Speaker 1>I will let him email me for dating advice and

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<v Speaker 1>we could start there. I can get your personal email,

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<v Speaker 1>my workie dow. Okay, that sounds pretty good. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you didn't get a second date out of the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, but at least the long play here long

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<v Speaker 1>play okay? Well wait wait wait, George, let me be clear.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not a long play on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>This is dating advice, a dating coach. I'm going to help. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>here I get so we'll go on a second date. George.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you right now, if you ask me out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, the answers no, but if you need advice,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for you. No, no, no, I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>like if we worded like to a mock date. He's

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<v Speaker 1>trying everything he's tried. Yeah, let's go out in rural

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<v Speaker 1>place sometime and see how it works. George, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying it. It It could be nice, you know, in the

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<v Speaker 1>George expected George, I don't think you're going to get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date out of this, but you did to

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<v Speaker 1>strike up a friendship it sounds like with Tiffany, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she can help you in the dating week too. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you've made contact with Tiffany and she's agreed to help

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<v Speaker 1>you out. Thank you, Jewil, I appreciate it. Man, You're welcome. Great,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, get great right in the morning. Text in

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eighty five to nine two that says that

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<v Speaker 1>guy indeed was the Brad Pitt of safety. Talking about

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update if you missed it, George wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call a girl named Tiffany who wasn't calling him

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<v Speaker 1>back after their date. We got her on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and the reason she didn't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>him again. He was obsessed with her being safe and

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<v Speaker 1>obviously not very good at dating at all. One point,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually dabbed her nose because she sneezed and he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make sure that she wasn't getting any germs

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<v Speaker 1>on her so she wouldn't get sick, and then reminded

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<v Speaker 1>her when she was standing on a street corner on

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<v Speaker 1>top of a grate. You know, many people die standing

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<v Speaker 1>on top of those things. You shouldn't stand on top

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<v Speaker 1>of that. It was just constantly obsessed with safety. So

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<v Speaker 1>she said she didn't want to go out with him again,

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<v Speaker 1>but she did offer to be his dating coach at

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<v Speaker 1>the end, and he still didn't quite get that. He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't understand, you know, but I give them props for

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<v Speaker 1>keeping trying. Like her assistance is key, yep, So hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>he does well with her advice. Now he's he's got

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<v Speaker 1>an approval to email her on her work email and

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<v Speaker 1>ask dating questions from time to time, So I consider

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<v Speaker 1>that a successful second date update. Remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update, all you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do is email the show and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back.