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Speaker 1: If you're such a genuinely nice guy, why do you

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Speaker 1: have to do a second date update? Well, that's uh.

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Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about her. What's her name?

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Speaker 1: Her name's Tiffany. I found her on a dating website, which,

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Speaker 1: It seems like that's the common thread, and that's true

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Speaker 1: for me. That is true. Rememb you gotta believe George

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Speaker 1: I know what kind of feelings you were getting. At first,

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Speaker 1: we've been talking for two months, you know, and I

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Speaker 1: I do not know, Tiffany, would you like to go

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Speaker 1: This is dating advice, a dating coach. I'm going to help. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: at seven eighty five to nine two that says that

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Speaker 1: today's second date update if you missed it, George wanted

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