WEBVTT - Elevate the everyday

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is to try building little splurges into your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only is elevating the everyday fun, it tends to

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<v Speaker 1>be a more economical way of boosting happiness than buying

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<v Speaker 1>big stuff. I was reminded of this tip while listening

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<v Speaker 1>to one of my favorite podcasts, how to Money. A

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<v Speaker 1>few months ago. Hosts Joel and Matt interviewed personal finance

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<v Speaker 1>bloggers Kirston and Julian Saunders. The couple had paid off

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand dollars in debt in a few years, which

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<v Speaker 1>involved a reasonable amount of frugality. However, Kirsten noted that

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<v Speaker 1>they made a point of elevating the every day in

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<v Speaker 1>order to feel like life was good and rich, even

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<v Speaker 1>as they were socking away cash. The idea is that

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<v Speaker 1>if you get a promotion or a raise, you might

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<v Speaker 1>choose to spend some amount upgrading a relatively low cost

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<v Speaker 1>but frequent purchase. So, for instance, if you and your

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<v Speaker 1>spouse share a bottle of wine once a week, and

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<v Speaker 1>this opportunity for connection is a major highlight for the

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<v Speaker 1>two of you, going from a fifteen dollar bottle to

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<v Speaker 1>a thirty dollar bottle could feel quite luxurious, again and

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<v Speaker 1>again and again. But as long as that wasn't the

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<v Speaker 1>whole raise, you come out ahead without having taken on

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<v Speaker 1>the big expenses like a new house or new car

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<v Speaker 1>that truly raised your cost of living. I love this

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<v Speaker 1>idea of elevating the every day. We interact with certain

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<v Speaker 1>objects more often than others, and being happy with them

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<v Speaker 1>can make a big difference in your life. Start with sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Do your sheets feel comfortable? Do you love your pillow?

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<v Speaker 1>If not, why not? Changing this can make going to

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<v Speaker 1>bed feel more indulgent, and going to bed earlier is

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<v Speaker 1>how grown up sleep in now? How about your shower?

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<v Speaker 1>Is the water pressure stimulating? We had an issue not

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<v Speaker 1>long ago with some plumbing problems in my house, and

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<v Speaker 1>these made the shower water feel more like a trickle

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<v Speaker 1>than anything appealing. Getting this fixed meant a big boost

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<v Speaker 1>in happiness. So can Really good towels are really nice shampoo.

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<v Speaker 1>If you buy four bottles of shampooper year, spending twelve

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on each instead of three dollars, is only thirty

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<v Speaker 1>six dollars more out the door for something you can

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate every single morning. That's ten cents in morning to

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<v Speaker 1>elevate the every day. What could be a better bargain

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<v Speaker 1>than that. You can drink your coffee out of a

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<v Speaker 1>pleasingly contoured mug. You can drink good coffee. I like

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<v Speaker 1>real cream. I'd rather skip dessert than start my day

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<v Speaker 1>with skim milk. If you exercise frequently, stop making do

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<v Speaker 1>with ratty jim clothes. High quality socks are still relatively

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<v Speaker 1>cheap in the grand scheme of treats, and they can

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<v Speaker 1>make you feel like you're running on air. I also

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<v Speaker 1>like really nice pens. Someone recently gave me a cross pen,

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<v Speaker 1>and while a little detective work finds that some of

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<v Speaker 1>the company's offerings run into the hundreds of dollars, a

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<v Speaker 1>standard really nice pen costs about twenty five scheduling my day,

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<v Speaker 1>and my planner feels downright decadent writing with such a

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<v Speaker 1>pen now versus the free ones I grabbed from hotels. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>on some level, a nice pen is indulgent. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>really necessary, and if money is incredibly tight, life might

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<v Speaker 1>call for making do. But if you choose to spend say,

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<v Speaker 1>of your salary on housing versus the thirty percent or more.

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<v Speaker 1>Some calculators say you could theoretically afford you can buy

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of nice pens and still build up savings.

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<v Speaker 1>And interestingly, there's some evidence that the little stuff adds

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<v Speaker 1>more pleasure to life than the big stuff. Thanks to

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<v Speaker 1>the hedonic treadmill effect. We get used to most things

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<v Speaker 1>in life, good or bad. A new car can make

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<v Speaker 1>you happy at first, but you're not going to get

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<v Speaker 1>new cars too frequently and you'll stop noticing them eventually.

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<v Speaker 1>Whereas you can buy a fancy coffee every more morning

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<v Speaker 1>and experience the pleasure again and again. By elevating the

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<v Speaker 1>every day, you can buy happiness, and you can get

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<v Speaker 1>it pretty cheap. So how will you elevate the every day?

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<v Speaker 1>What little treat will use for John? In the meantime?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making

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