WEBVTT - Conversation with Eve (from the Bible) 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:09.119 But I was telling the true uncatchable in lies. So 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:11.080 you should just give a class to all other men 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:13.680 to help do that. That'd be the words, don't ask 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.320 me to do that, hurting your own self interest. It's 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:19.200 not I'm not gonna get hurt because I'm not gonna 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:23.240 ask You're not gonna get hurt because you're guarded because 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:27.760 of that other situations going back, we're not. But what 0:00:27.800 --> 0:00:31.319 I'm saying is if I don't before I ask you something, 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:34.720 because I already know, already did my detective work already 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:37.400 been f B, I C I A everything, I have 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:40.680 the proof I didn't. I got the receipts everything. So 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:44.800 if I come to you, which is dumb, if I 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:47.040 come to you and I'm showing you every light I'm 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:50.640 showing you, and that's a garbage lying, Lying is perfect. 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:52.199 But that's what I'm saying. I'm not gonna ask you 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:54.480 something and I don't know that it's true or false. 0:00:55.520 --> 0:01:02.680 Still like I I deal with relations ships like money laundry. Yeah, 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:06.480 you gotta conceal sources and you've got to fabricate channels. 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:08.399 You gotta know how to talk to these people. You 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.520 gotta know how to do things trust me. I'm very slick. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:14.720 I know how to get information. That's why I was 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:17.399 going to school to be a homicide detective. Then I 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:22.080 was gonna go be a lawyer because I was naturally 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:25.040 and the woman. But the truth is, y'all never ever 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:27.480 have enough proof. No, I have enough proof. It's just 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:30.880 I'm just like you know, I never have enough proof. 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:33.840 I have all the proof. It's just my feelings is 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:35.800 hurt today, but I muna still llell you tomorrow. So 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:37.840 that's why I don't really care. But y'all never have 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:41.080 enough proof. I have all the proof. You know what. 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:45.319 You're right. You know why because the proof he really 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:50.600 wanted from him. That's not why you don't what that accomplish. 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:55.840 I just feel like you're not taking away my options because, okay, 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:58.200 say you heard my feelings. The option is for me 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:00.680 to leave, stay or whatever. If you're telling me what 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:03.160 I'm hearing because you know I'm gonna leave, I feel 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.080 like you took it away because now I'm just staying 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:08.040 because I believe in what you said that you did right. 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.000 That's my only my only love. You have to lie 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:15.560 the whole time. You can't constantly. You don't telling the 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:21.200 woman the truth never got a human being anywhere. Every 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:24.200 time they have is always in the bad. But don't 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:27.440 you know when she finds out later, she's still stuck around. 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.760 So why lie to get caught up later to go 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:34.960 through that. You're not ever gonna get caught up. You 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:39.280 you already caught up. A woman's intuition, her gut is 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:43.040 gonna be accurate. So you deny it the whole time, 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:46.639 you'll never have enough proof. Ever, my proof is him 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:50.399 being honest. That's why I just don't ask questions. That's 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:53.000 just why you lie, because then you would never have proof. No, 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:55.480 I don't ask questions because I'm not going to give 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.960 you the opportunity to lie to me. So one thing 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:00.400 I can always say, you ain't lie to me. You know, 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:01.720 you know what they're gonna say. I ain't never let 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:04.960 you right because I don't ask questions. Yeah, so you 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:08.280 know bad news. You don't ask questions about it. You 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.920 don't use the information that you know to make decisions. 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:13.239 And if you did get answers to your questions, you 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:16.600 wouldn't use that that information to make decisions. I would 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.040 use both to make my decisions. But what I'm saying 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:22.480 is if he's lying to me, he's telling me everything 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:26.520 I want to hear in a good way. So the 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.720 option of me saying said, just say if I call 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:32.040 him cheating, and I asked them, babe, did you cheat 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:35.160 on me? How did you catch him cheating? It's a 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:36.960 whole lot of stuff you can I didn't call people. 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:39.480 I didn't set up a hole cheating scandal, catching nigga cheating. 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:44.640 So I know I called you. You ain't never call handed, 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.800 how much want you never walked in on nigga penis 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:53.040 in Vagina. No, I set up the scandal, and I 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:57.800 don't mean he cheated. Actually called entrappedment. Oh well, he 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:00.480 should have been smart enough. That doesn't mean you cheated 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:02.480 and did And that's why at the end of the day, 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:06.720 you still I started getting a car note paid here, Hey, 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:09.960 you need this before I even mentioned it to him, 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.360 because before I even mentioned it to him, he already 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:15.240 felt guilty because he saw me. But the point was 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:16.640 he was supposed to but I was about to go 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:18.880 to his car, but I couldn't put up. He saw 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:23.600 me and drove off. Literally, that's some emotional ship to do. 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:30.120 So because the nigga caught you you felt he catching him, 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:32.800 and so now his relief was let me pay her. 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:36.359 His apology was let me pay her bills pretty much. 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:38.680 But then I just end up telling him like, bro, 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.000 like because I wouldn't see him after that, like he 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:42.560 kept trying to see me, Like well, then he's like, 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:44.800 how was he paying all of these bills? Because he 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:49.360 felt guilty? He was doing little stuff, but now them 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:52.200 if you wasn't seeing you, it's called I gave him 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.920 on the account here to cardinal people call him and put, 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:58.039 you know, pay with your credit card so you wouldn't 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.920 see him. And he was doing that because he felt good. 0:05:01.000 --> 0:05:02.840 He was doing it because he felt guilty. I know 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:04.960 a guilty man would try to pay his way out 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:07.000 have a problem. I'm telling you it wasn't the guilt 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:09.200 was bothering him. Was the potential loss he was trying 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:11.520 to stave off. It was it was already gone because 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:13.640 he thought in the crazy part about it, because I 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:15.640 end up letting him know, probably like a couple of 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:19.760 months later, and he was like, women, women is this 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:25.279 and no, bro, you sat there was texting my cousin. 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.560 God set it up because he blocks me because I 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:30.839 didn't every food joke on him. He got pissed block me, 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:34.320 so I text him from my cousin phone. So he's 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:38.200 having a full fledged conversation. So he started going all 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.760 left field with the conversation, like oh, you gotta ask, 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:43.560 and you this and that and you know, let's do 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:45.599 it one time. And we ain't never got to tell 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:50.680 her to this story. So I'm like, okay, So I 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:52.360 set it up just to see what's he gonna go. 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:55.600 He went through, like something that's missing in this story. 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:58.000 You said, what you just made that one plus one 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:01.240 equals two and it's a variable in there because because 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:05.240 what he started talking reckless in the text message. Yeah, 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:08.279 I doubt he just started talking reckless. So you're trying 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:10.440 to say that they had something going on, you know, 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:13.960 something about it made him feel comfortable enough to talk reguless. 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.400 He didn't just jump off the port. I thought he 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:20.400 thought it was me until he started saying certain stuff 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:22.000 and then I was like, you know who this is. 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:24.080 He was like, yeah, this is such a such step 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:27.040 because it ain't. He was like I always you know. 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.720 And this happened on like so he was mad about 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:34.320 the April one, and this happened on April one. So 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.400 the whole time thinking like maybe he april fing me 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:39.839 back at this point, that's what I was thinking. Maybe 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:41.960 he was. He wasn't, because therein't no way in hell 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.000 you about to just there start paying all my bills. 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:45.560 You wouldn't paying all my bills. You don't give me 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:47.359 money here and there. But you wasn't paying car. No, 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.400 my carnal at that time was as I have been 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.440 eighteen years old, I had a five hundred out of carnal. 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:56.400 Oh so this is no, this is a whole This 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:59.560 was before I met now. This was the little high 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:02.960 school situation. So you had a nigger in high school. 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:05.960 I was paying all your bills. Yeah, you got a job. 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.200 He was paying my card now and gave me no money. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.360 He was a little work on. He wasn't in high school. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:14.520 He was three years older than me. He probably like 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:17.600 six years older than he was. No, he could went 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:19.520 to school together when he was in eleventh thousand in 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:21.320 the night, So technically he was when you were at 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:25.840 first he was the sixth He was two years older 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:29.680 than me with two to three to two. No, he 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:31.960 was he was because he was a prom with me. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.520 You diy ain't let no grown as man go to 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:36.240 prom with you. That man was a grown as man. 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:38.720 They went to prom with you. They don't even after 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:40.679 a certain age, you can't even go to problem with people. 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.280 I ain't never heard that rule. It's a rule. It 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:48.040 was stage. I don't know the limit. But a junior 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:51.400 in college went to your high school prom. No he 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:53.720 wasn't a junior. Well, I don't know. You have to 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:57.480 be enrolled. No he was. I'm sure you y'all throwing 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:59.680 me off with these ages. You were saying that we 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:03.800 just listening. I was in the twelve. She was seventeen, 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:07.440 he was one. She was eighteen. Why you keep on? 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:15.960 I was, I was seventeen, he was nineteen. Whatever. Ain't 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:18.720 no nigga nineteen paying nobody be he paid my car? No, 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:22.360 ain't nobody nineteen paying nobody card. Yes he was. That's 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:28.440 something that god. I can show you his age. I 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:32.040 need to see it. I'll show you. We're going to 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:34.640 call him live. And the oldest person you talked to. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:41.520 He liked, let's call this guy about emotional men. I 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:43.760 had a guy that lied to me about the age 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:48.320 they made themselves younger. I did because I believe that 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:53.680 he was forty. No, I was not eighteen talking to 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:58.720 no four year old. He told me he was. He 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:01.560 told me he was either I want to say thirty 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:05.600 or like something like that. But I think he was 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:10.000 older at night. I think later on, no, later on, 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:14.400 like as years went by, like later on I found out. 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:17.559 I found I don't say, I didn't say see paperwork. 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:20.040 But when I was going to this house, I started saying, 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:21.920 like little family picture with kids and a girl. And 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:23.199 I was like, who is that? He's the Oh no, 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:25.480 that's that's my niece's nephew. He was lying to me 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.480 by a whole lot. And one day on Crunshawn Imperial. 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:31.319 I was going to the nail shop and he drove 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:33.000 in with the kids in the car and the girl 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:35.000 in the car, and they saw me and he spoke. 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.160 And then when I was going to the thing, she 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:39.880 came up to me. She was like, how you know 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.200 such and such And I was like, oh, I break 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:45.160 this hair. He already hit though, right, we was talking, 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:47.640 so he already knocked you down. Yeah, we was talking 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:54.920 all right. This is no Ceilings podcast where a high 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:59.320 school girl got knocked down by somebody. She was twenty 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:06.040 eight and I was eighteen. I was in college already 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:09.400 and you ran into R Kelly. Hey, I was young. 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:11.920 He was like he was getting money. You know, back then, 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.280 I was just all about using people for their money. 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:17.600 How would you be about had seen? Because that's what 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.520 I just always wanted. I didn't have money like that, 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:22.679 so I needed somebody's money before besides my natural aid, 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:27.160 I needed money. I shocked a lot, I shopped a lot. 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.000 So like, but you're not materialistic, I'm not, I said. 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.720 When I was younger. I was. When I was younger, 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:35.560 it was all about buying all of Jordan's and all 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:37.959 this and all that, like I need that, I need that. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.360 I was a b I would I wouldn't say beggar, 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:43.719 but I was more like gimme, gimme getting I wasn't 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:45.120 give me, give me, give me a type of person 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.880 that's a beggar. So why are you trying to not 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:52.120 the bad part? The trader's trader? Yeah, they trade you 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:58.959 like stocks in commodity, that's what he said. A bartererer. No, 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:05.720 and y'all need to find another word. It's cool for 0:11:05.760 --> 0:11:09.200 you to be emotional at okay, I'm just saying I 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:11.280 mean when you're young in college. You're supposed to live 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.440 your college. Don't try to college. I didn't get the 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:17.600 know when and I was living on camp. You have 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:21.880 to live your college life before college and after college 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:27.240 after college. I calmed down. I did. I calmed down. 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.680 So wait a minute, So this is so let's get 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:34.360 this right. You are this is five years ago. So 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:38.120 that dude you dated for eight years this had to 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.440 be around the same time. Yeah, when we was on 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:43.760 our off phase, I used to tell when I was 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:46.840 when we when you know, I break up with him 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:48.960 because I always broke up with him. He never broke 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.280 up with me. I was always the one leaving, but 0:11:53.000 --> 0:11:55.880 it was like I was coming back. You had other 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:58.480 calls and trades to make. No, y'all not gonna put 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:02.800 it off like that, That's what say. I mean. No, no, no, no, no, no. 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:05.520 You break up with your main thing and go find 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:07.400 the side thing with a couple of dollars. Let him 0:12:07.480 --> 0:12:09.960 knock it down. No, because everybody didn' knock me down. 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:14.319 It's because you're not about to put it like that. 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:18.080 You no, no what I'm saying. This is what I'm saying. 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:21.440 A two parties involved did that. We're talking about now. 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.200 The guy with the family and the kids did. And 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:26.320 the other guy you were with, and that was only 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:29.960 I was here for eight and a half years. He was, 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:35.120 of course that was five years ago. Yes, that was 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.520 five years ago. The guy in high school and the 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:41.000 guy you saying when he was in college. Okay, both 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:47.160 was takedowns. Not at the same time. Ya, it's always now. No, 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:49.880 that's what you're not going to do it. No, y'are 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.600 not gonna be like I just went from one to 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:54.679 two to three like back to back. First of all, 0:12:54.679 --> 0:13:05.600 it was time frames September. No high school that was 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:11.480 before either of the two. The other two the one 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:13.640 was Sunday, Yes, the one I went to prom with 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:16.000 that was a high school. Of you had the boy 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:21.800 that was eight years with, Yes, But the boy I 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:25.840 was with before eight years was not in high school 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:33.400 five years ago. He got a timeline. He got it wrong. 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:37.040 There was a high school, and then when the high 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:40.000 school did what he did, then it went to my 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:43.160 ex that I met. So I was with him when 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:46.040 we had broke up. The first time I had met 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.160 somebody and we was talking and we talked, and I 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:51.959 left him and went back to my ex. That's how 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.920 that went high school has nothing to do with So 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.960 you didn't meet eight years in high school? No, I 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:58.840 did not. I told you that. I told you I 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:04.080 met him turned eighteen thirteen days after eighteen. I was 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:07.800 already in college, dude, I was already in college with 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:10.839 the wife and kids. He was both college. They was 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:14.240 both college. I gonna need you get that right thing, 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:16.400 like I'm knocking down three people in high school. That's 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.360 definitely not what I was doing. I didn't even like 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:20.360 sex like that. So I used to be like, so 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:23.680 you had had it before you had it. I had it, 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:25.440 but it wasn't an issue like it wasn't. I wasn't 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:27.960 pressed like, oh, let's have sex like I used to, like, 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.680 do we have to do that? No, I was. I 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:34.280 didn't care for sex. I didn't care for saying. I 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.920 didn't start cantill. I'm just saying, your body counts. I 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:41.200 like three in high school. It's not it was one 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:46.200 in high school. In high school, it was three high 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:48.680 school did you go to it was for short three? 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:52.280 I went to Washington and Garding. Okay, it was three. 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.760 It was not three. It was two in college and 0:14:55.800 --> 0:15:01.680 then one. It was that seventeen there was one at 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:04.360 each high school exactly. Definitely. Not. I didn't talked to 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:06.320 nobody at Gardina. I was. I didn't even have to 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:09.080 stay in school long. I was there from first to nutrition, 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:15.160 I was out. That's how smart I was. I didn't 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:17.960 have time to meet nobody at Guardina. I didn't because 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:20.800 I didn't even stay long enough. Literally but not I'm 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:22.280 about to come on here and making me like I 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:29.280 was just holing around, just bartering around, then bartering around. 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.640 How you just split it? Like I just was taking 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.880 him down, Like September I had him, November I had him. 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:39.080 They were both September. No, they were not. There wasn't 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:42.760 even the same age nobody has at the same time. 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.520 Oh lord, or he said he was older than that. 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:48.600 He was older. He lied to me about to say. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.200 I knew he was lying, but I couldn't confirm because 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:53.640 I've never seen like his idea or anything like that. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:56.080 But as I got older and we were running to 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:59.360 each other like here and there every other year, he 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:04.040 just looked older for a year, was messing around. We 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:07.320 talked for a year. Yeah, but he was a hustler, 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:10.120 so like it'd be like, oh, I need you to 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:15.760 drive here, and in college. Yeah, you know, ship, I 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:19.200 was wild in college having fun with those two men 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:22.280 that she was wild with, because most I was not. 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:27.680 I was not wild with you. Man. You said you 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:30.840 was wild in college. I was. Man, I couldn't be 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:32.920 wold because my ex he was always at my dorm 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:36.280 and stuff I couldn't do all that year, even though 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:37.720 he was messing with a man for a whole year, 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.320 but he knew about him. It's not like my ex. No, 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.280 I tell him like I'd be like, he'd be like, 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:44.520 you're ready to come back, and I was like, yeah, 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:47.800 let me break it off with him. That's a lot 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:52.200 of self respects right there. That's how That's how I 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:55.720 love I was with him. So none of us, wait, what, 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:59.000 that's how in love he was with you. I said, 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:00.840 that's how in love I was. That you was knocking 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:04.040 down somebody for a whole year. So you were so 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:06.399 in love with him that you would text him from 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:09.560 the other guy's bed. I had my own place, and 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:12.280 do had his own place. I didn't know, so you 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:20.280 never saw when I was with y'all, don't create a 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:23.960 create a story. Yes, that's what you're doing. Well, the 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:26.399 thing is, I'm gonna tell you something, right, So, Charlotte Mayne, 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:31.480 I realized something about like, so this is no Settlers podcast, Me, 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:35.800 Peter the homegird Nicia back again, right, Nicia Jay So 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:38.760 me and Charlotte Magne had this conversation. I said, the 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:41.879 reason our interviews go so good, like our conversations go 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:45.160 so good, is because I'm honest, right, I'm always gonna 0:17:45.240 --> 0:17:46.840 keep it a buck with what I think, so I 0:17:46.840 --> 0:17:49.840 don't have to remember what I just said. So even 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:52.480 when I interact with the opposite sex in general, I'm 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:54.639 gonna say exactly what I mean, so I don't have 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:56.920 to try to remember what I said. I'm gonna say 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:59.359 exactly what I said because I meant what I said 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:02.679 so right now, because you're trying to preserve how you 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:04.919 look like as far as like to a bunch of 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:07.480 people who don't know you, right, you're trying to preserve 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:10.080 how you look, so you're trying to catch yourself up 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:11.680 with all of the kind of feeds you tell it. 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:15.680 She looks fantastic, by the way, for the non video audience, 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:18.800 because nobody's gonna see thank you, but for one. What 0:18:18.840 --> 0:18:23.560 I'm saying is like, I have no problem saying what what? What? How? 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:26.640 Something was? I don't have an issue because I don't 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:29.240 care what nobody said, because unless you pay my bills. 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:32.840 You just said this whole time, those are perspective potential 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:34.880 bill pairs what I don't I mean, I don't care 0:18:34.920 --> 0:18:37.520 for it now, I'm not nineteen and twenty anymore. Like 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:39.639 that don't matter. You just said right now, You're not 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:43.480 going to make You're not gonna take something that happened 0:18:43.880 --> 0:18:46.240 or how I'm telling my story and change it into 0:18:46.320 --> 0:18:48.760 y'all narrative, Like how y'all trying to We don't have 0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:51.000 no narrative, but you're trying to make it seem like 0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:53.879 I'm telling you a story like no, but we just 0:18:53.880 --> 0:18:56.640 ain't no. So we're just repeating back what you're saying 0:18:56.680 --> 0:19:01.960 to that we're asking, and I'm trying to catch it. 0:19:02.160 --> 0:19:04.679 And it's like hard because he said one thing and 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:06.840 you're saying one thing that's eighteen. It's at Timber no 0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:09.560 rease ever you had to that's part of the joke. 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:11.640 But again, I know it's about a joke, but I'm 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:13.360 just trying to catch on and I'm trying to tell 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:15.200 the story. Well, you said you was really wild, and 0:19:15.280 --> 0:19:17.320 then you said that was really well. I said, I 0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:20.119 lived my college days. That's what I said. No, we 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:22.400 actually have this, so you know we're gonna play this part. 0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:28.640 I don't want to hear it. I was wild in college. Okay, 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:31.240 my wild probably is different from yo wow, because you're 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:33.360 a guy. What was your wild? My wild was just 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:36.000 like I was just standing up lady in popcorn. No, 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:38.919 I turned up. I went to clubs. I was. I 0:19:39.000 --> 0:19:41.160 was a club right then. I used to promote because 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:43.119 I used to promote for clubs. Who would you promote 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:47.600 for this? A little people call money tall? So I 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:52.680 used to promote with them all the clubs, like that's 0:19:52.680 --> 0:19:53.960 how he used to get in the club free. That's 0:19:53.960 --> 0:19:55.600 how I met a lot of people because I used 0:19:55.640 --> 0:19:58.720 to You know, so, what was your favorite club to promote? 0:19:59.160 --> 0:20:02.080 I want to say, Uh, it's crazy because me and 0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:05.800 my brother was just talking about this. Oh what it's called? 0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:10.560 Where was it? It was in Hollywood? It was the 0:20:10.600 --> 0:20:14.919 club that popped on every Thursday. All the celebrities used 0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:18.040 to perform her. Damn, I came in clubs. Something I'm 0:20:18.040 --> 0:20:21.280 gonna remember, and I'm gonna text you and tell you 0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:23.520 I remember I used to let that club dialing like 0:20:23.600 --> 0:20:26.040 the year and the and the block because they changed 0:20:26.119 --> 0:20:28.080 names about everything they do. They do because one club 0:20:28.160 --> 0:20:30.920 we used to promote that they it was like called 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:33.080 club Sugar Daddy, and then they changed it to like 0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:36.080 something else and then something else, like every time something 0:20:36.160 --> 0:20:38.840 happening at the club, they have changed their name. That's smart. 0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:41.520 So now we're not trying to catch you up. I'm 0:20:41.560 --> 0:20:44.240 just listening to you tell me about it and asking 0:20:44.280 --> 0:20:47.159 you questions. But because you are kind of lined, like 0:20:47.240 --> 0:20:49.120 not on purpose, you tell them like the white lives 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:50.640 because you don't want to look bad and not get 0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:54.879 what the hell is that's supposed to mean there's no 0:20:55.000 --> 0:20:57.920 white lives. I mean I don't. But what I'm saying 0:20:58.080 --> 0:21:02.399 is whenever I would break up with my ex, I 0:21:02.440 --> 0:21:06.879 would I would be entanglement with somebody else, you feel me, 0:21:08.480 --> 0:21:12.879 And it's not necessarily and it's not necessarily that I 0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:16.879 did something sexually with these people. No, I'm just saying 0:21:17.840 --> 0:21:20.199 everybody didn't deserve the cookie, got to give it up 0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:23.199 to them, like literally, but not like It's not like 0:21:23.240 --> 0:21:27.120 me and my ex would break up for a week 0:21:27.160 --> 0:21:28.800 and then I'll be with somebody for that week. No, 0:21:28.920 --> 0:21:30.760