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Speaker 4: So this week I had to plan a goodbye dinner

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Speaker 4: for another one of my friends that I'm losing to Michigan,

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Speaker 4: where I'm from, and I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Happy about it.

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Speaker 4: I started with a ton of friends here and they

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Speaker 4: all keep going.

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Speaker 2: I told you this was going to happen, and you

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Speaker 2: told me it wouldn't. But I told you there's a

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Speaker 2: certain age which people start to just and not is

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Speaker 2: not your friends anymore. But life just takes people, you know, oh,

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Speaker 2: for sure directions.

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Speaker 4: I was just saying that I didn't think I would

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Speaker 4: lose my friendships, and thankfully I haven't yet. But childcare

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Speaker 4: is expensive, and my friends are going to Michigan to Yeah, my.

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Speaker 1: Friends are still my friends. I just don't see it anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well Luckily I go back all the time, so

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Speaker 4: I also see her. But I'm very depressed about it.

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Speaker 4: But anyway, so she was like, I want to go somewhere,

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Speaker 4: you know, a little bit nicer that we can take pictures,

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Speaker 4: somewhere there that's picturesque. So I picked this place that

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Speaker 4: looks pretty reviews, It looks nice online.

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Speaker 1: I have never been there.

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Speaker 4: An hour before our reservation, I received a text about

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Speaker 4: the dress code and I would just like to share

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Speaker 4: it with you guys, because my jaw hit the floor. Okay,

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Speaker 4: So it said, thank you for booking with and I'm

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Speaker 4: not going to say the name.

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Speaker 1: We look forward to seeing you. Thank you for booking

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Speaker 1: with Chillis Kitchen.

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Speaker 4: Yes, as a reminder, starting at four pm daily, we

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Speaker 4: kindly asked that guests follow our sophisticated casual dinner attire

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Speaker 4: to ensure the best dining experience for all. Okay, please

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Speaker 4: refrain from wearing baseball caps, flip flops, non dress shorts,

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Speaker 4: and athletic wear which we've heard this before.

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Speaker 1: Right here we go.

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Speaker 4: Party accessories such as crowns, veils, or extremely extremely revealing

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Speaker 4: clothing are not permitted. Gentlemen must avoid wearing graphic T shirts,

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Speaker 4: sleeveless shirts, or open shoes. Please be aware that any

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Speaker 4: decision regarding permitting entry to the restaurant is entirely at

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Speaker 4: the management's discretion. Thank you in advance for your cooperation.

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Speaker 1: What the hell this offended you? It's not that I

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Speaker 1: just yeah, actually yeah I did.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard like, so now we can't wear a veil?

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Speaker 1: Like why are we wearing crowns around crown maybe someone's birthdays.

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Speaker 4: Bachelorettes birthdays, veils?

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Speaker 3: Like what? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Here's here's where.

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Speaker 2: Here's where I think it's coming from. Is I think,

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Speaker 2: first of all, I think our definition of dressing up,

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Speaker 2: or our definitions of what's elevated fashion and casual is

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Speaker 2: just like it's casual casual has become cut off teas

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Speaker 2: or yoga pants and health and you know, flip flops.

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Speaker 2: I mean honestly, like people who think they're dressing up

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Speaker 2: to go to work or wearing golf clothes, which I.

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Speaker 1: Don't think is dressing up. I don't care. I'm fine

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Speaker 1: with it.

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Speaker 2: But I do think that like as a society, what

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Speaker 2: we consider going out apparel to go to a nice

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Speaker 2: restaurant is probably not what it once was. Right like

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Speaker 2: when we were growing up, but we went to like

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Speaker 2: a nice place, button down shirt, like nicer pants, not jeans.

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Speaker 1: And I think now.

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Speaker 2: People's definition of what dressing up is is different, And

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Speaker 2: so I think what the restaurant's probably saying is we're

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Speaker 2: going for a vibe.

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Speaker 1: We own the place.

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Speaker 2: We don't want you to treat this like you just

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Speaker 2: came from the pool or something.

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Speaker 1: That's what I think. There's i've heard fall more egregious.

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Speaker 1: I'm not offended by that part.

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Speaker 4: I'm offended by why can't I have my cleavage out

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Speaker 4: and have a tiny veil on or a crown on

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Speaker 4: if it's my bachelorette?

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Speaker 1: Like that is weirdo behavior. I mean, it's extreme, certainly extreme,

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Speaker 1: it's certainly extreme. It's a funny country. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: They must have had people in there who like we're

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Speaker 2: extremely distracting with costumes.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I have no idea a graphic tea on a dude

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Speaker 4: can be cool with like a nice pair of jeans

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Speaker 4: and a nice pair of shoes.

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm okay with that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I got kicked out of a restaurant once, uh for

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Speaker 2: wearing a sweater that had a hood attached to it

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Speaker 2: that was considered a hoodie, and I was asked to leave.

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Speaker 2: See I just now that offended me. But I'll tell

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Speaker 2: you what I did. I never I will never go

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Speaker 2: back to that restaurant. By the way, my hoodie quote

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Speaker 2: unquote was not cheap, right, it was a nice brand

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Speaker 2: and I looked nice, but hey, that has a hood

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Speaker 2: on it. We said no hoodies, you can't eat here,

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Speaker 2: or you can wear your jacket during the whole meal.

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Speaker 2: Now again, like, is that extreme? I think it's extreme.

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Speaker 2: Is that like sort of interpreting taco as a sandwich

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Speaker 2: a little bit?

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Speaker 1: You know, I got a hook on it's a hoodie,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: I think what they meant was like a hoodie, like

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Speaker 2: like a champion, like a sporting something you would wear,

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Speaker 2: you know, to the jail. I mean, I think that's

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Speaker 2: what they meant when they made that policy, but they

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Speaker 2: also said no, uh, sneakers this place and you know

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Speaker 2: the place, you can't wear sneakers in this place. Well

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Speaker 2: you could, but but but women can wear sandals, but

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Speaker 2: I can't wear like Jordan Ones for example, and the

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Speaker 2: Jordan Ones that I happened to have, it was a

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Speaker 2: hoodie and I had Jordan Ones on, so I was out.

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Speaker 2: I was just I was completely out right. But thing like,

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Speaker 2: it's their restaurant. I guess if that's what they want,

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Speaker 2: they can do that, and then you can make the

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Speaker 2: choice not to go.

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Speaker 4: Well, I want not the whole vibe period, Like we were.

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Speaker 4: I text edition to my friends who always dress up

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Speaker 4: and they were like, WHOA, Like, I don't know, it's

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Speaker 4: just it was it's.

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Speaker 2: I mean revealing clothing like that's weird. I don't know

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Speaker 2: how you define that exactly. And by the way, like

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Speaker 2: the more the merrier there, Like I'm I don't I

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Speaker 2: want to go to a place where you can't show

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Speaker 2: them off come off.

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Speaker 4: Viiling is different though, and now you know how I

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Speaker 4: feel about this, Like if I wear something versus someone

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Speaker 4: who's forty pounds lighter than me and has you know,

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Speaker 4: a cops, we're gonna look very different.

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Speaker 1: So what are you gonna say? Who's revealing and who's not.

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Speaker 4: And they put in there like it's up to our discretion,

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Speaker 4: so there's not a fine line.

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Speaker 1: It's not like you can't do this or that.

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Speaker 4: It's like we can decide if you have too much cleavage,

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Speaker 4: then you're out. I don't know. It made me feel

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Speaker 4: like I was. I was very nervous. I was like,

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Speaker 4: oh my gosh, what do I wear?

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Speaker 1: I've seen worse than that.

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Speaker 2: But I also think if you, I mean, unfortunately, they

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Speaker 2: can do that and then just don't go back if

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Speaker 2: you if you think that's too much. The cleavage things weird.

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Speaker 2: But maybe maybe people come in and they make these

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Speaker 2: big spectacles and they you know, they got all this.

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Speaker 1: Crap on, and I don't know, I've seen it.

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Speaker 2: I definitely seem like, and I hate to pick on

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Speaker 2: bachelorette parties, but I've seen birthday parties and bachel atte

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Speaker 2: parties where they become the focus of the restaurant because

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Speaker 2: it's so over the top. You know, you've got veils

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Speaker 2: and whatever, BoA's and all this stuff, and it's it

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Speaker 2: doesn't hurt my feelings. But if the vibe of the

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Speaker 2: if the vibe that they're going for is different than

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Speaker 2: that at then I guess they say, don't come here,

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Speaker 2: and that's that's their risk, right, Like the people want

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Speaker 2: to go there and party.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I know you do.

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Speaker 2: And let's just get to the root of why this

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Speaker 2: upsets you is that you you are always low cleave

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Speaker 2: and you're always running a crowd, you know, And I

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Speaker 2: get it, I understand, But there are other Cheesecake Factor

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Speaker 2: would be a great place for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're we're going there next time. Yeah, honestly, honestly,

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Speaker 1: you should