Speaker 1: Second D in the dating world. Is there anybody who
Speaker 1: should be considered off limits romantically? Yes? I mean immediate
Speaker 1: family members. Sure, Sorry, it's been a disappointment I've had
Speaker 1: to live with for years. Also, people who are already
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Again, Brook, apologies, but I met my husbandship.
Speaker 1: I didn't do anything wrong though, he did not do anything.
Speaker 1: You stole him. He stole himself away. He was already saying,
Speaker 1: what about co workers? Oh that's fine too. People looking
Speaker 1: around this room, I don't think anybody was to date here.
Speaker 1: Oh we'll see one of our listeners when out with
Speaker 1: someone who was off limits for a little bit, but
Speaker 1: the second that window opened up, she jumped right through it.
Speaker 1: All right, that's my type of girl. Now she needs
Speaker 1: our help. Her name's Christina, Christina, welcome to the show. Hey,
Speaker 1: thank you. What window were you jumping through? Christina? Tell me,
Speaker 1: not the family one. Who's this guy? So his name
Speaker 1: is Greg and he's actually my son, the little lead coach, Oh,
Speaker 1: Jeff kid. So what's Greg like? Well, he's really nice.
Speaker 1: He's athletic, so that was attractive, okay, And it's like
Speaker 1: you see any guy who's like maybe a six interact
Speaker 1: really well with children. They're automatically like a nine. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean really honestly, Brook loves Barney the Dinosaur. She's like, damn, guys, Okay,
Speaker 1: I was thinking, people, Jeff dinosaurs, you should board it
Speaker 1: more specifically. Also a guy named Barney. Yeah. So how
Speaker 1: did you and Greg start things off? So obviously I
Speaker 1: kind of knew him, you know, was my son's coach,
Speaker 1: but we didn't really talk one on one much until
Speaker 1: it was the end of the season party. Um had
Speaker 1: a party for all the kids. Yeah, that's all the
Speaker 1: reason I signed up for baseball. And did you know
Speaker 1: did you know this whole time that Greg was single
Speaker 1: or was this something that you learned at the end
Speaker 1: of the year party. No, I didn't know. I mean
Speaker 1: I really, like I said, we didn't have that much interaction, definitely,
Speaker 1: not on a personal level until the party, and then
Speaker 1: we were just chatting. He's like, oh, what did your
Speaker 1: husband do? I was like, oh, I'm actually divorced, and
Speaker 1: he said me too, And then okay, you know those
Speaker 1: divorcees at the tea ball parties. Uh huh? And so
Speaker 1: did he ask you out or did you ask him? No,
Speaker 1: he asked me out. Okay, hey, I mean he was
Speaker 1: interested from the get go. That's why he immediately asked
Speaker 1: about the husband. He was obviously fishing, right, Well, I
Speaker 1: didn't think yeah right yeah. So we did end up
Speaker 1: going out just the one time we was would you
Speaker 1: do well? So we went to a casino. Oh that's
Speaker 1: a v to do, but watch a performance. How did
Speaker 1: that go? Well? From my perspective, was good. I'm seeping
Speaker 1: up from his books, that's what I'm calling. But you know,
Speaker 1: we went and we ate, We did a little gambling
Speaker 1: and I don't I don't know how to play cards
Speaker 1: or anything, and he was kind of showing me how
Speaker 1: to do that. And where was your kid during all this?
Speaker 1: Hopefully with the sitter Jeffrey? Okay he didn't come alonga
Speaker 1: that is not the important piece here. Well, just making sure, Okay,
Speaker 1: what was like the highlight of the night for you? Well,
Speaker 1: so we ended up going into this, um you know,
Speaker 1: they had like a little kind of pub there. We
Speaker 1: ended up dancing and um yeah it was good and he,
Speaker 1: you know, he had picked me up. He gave me
Speaker 1: a ride home. Probably the best part was we kissed
Speaker 1: when he dropped me off. Again, I thought everything was great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds amazing. It sounds like you're like closed the
Speaker 1: door to your house and we're like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: that was awesome. Yea, well not quite because the kids
Speaker 1: was great. But so after that, I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd love to see you again. I had a great time,
Speaker 1: and he was like, yeah, me too. And it was
Speaker 1: just kind of weird. He like didn't look at me
Speaker 1: like I just got very weird vibes. It did not
Speaker 1: seem genuine at all, and it just kind of that
Speaker 1: was really off putting. And then I just haven't heard
Speaker 1: from him since. Was it a good kiss or a
Speaker 1: bad kiss? I thought it was good. I would hope
Speaker 1: his reaction doesn't like to have the bad kids like well,
Speaker 1: all right, get out of my car. It's kind of
Speaker 1: how it felt, though, for his mood to change right
Speaker 1: after a kiss. I mean, what are you thinking? What
Speaker 1: do you think could have gone wrong? I can't think
Speaker 1: of anything. I literally have been playing through in my
Speaker 1: head like well, did I say something weird or I've
Speaker 1: already thought of something. Did he lose a lot of
Speaker 1: money at the casino? Because I would be in a
Speaker 1: horrible mood if I just lost a bunch of money,
Speaker 1: but that wouldn't make you not call a woman back.
Speaker 1: It's a guys after storing events like they're bad for
Speaker 1: like days. You're right, yeah, your favorite teams, don't talk
Speaker 1: to me. Just get out of here with a baseball
Speaker 1: coach that stops it first? Something's are you saying that
Speaker 1: he was upset he didn't get invited in what you're saying?
Speaker 1: Maybe he was trying to get to a second or third,
Speaker 1: trying to steal second. All right, well, I think we
Speaker 1: have some investigating to do. We're gonna play a song,
Speaker 1: we'll come back, We'll call Greg for you, and then
Speaker 1: Christina will try and get you a second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, sounds good? All right, Hold on,
Speaker 1: It's a gorgeous afternoon here at Brooke and Jeffrey Stadium,
Speaker 1: the perfect day to enjoy some nachos, crack of jacks,
Speaker 1: and moonshine as we witness aus scintillating second date update.
Speaker 1: If you missed it, one of our listeners, Christina, went
Speaker 1: out with her son's little league baseball coach named Greg
Speaker 1: and went to a casino, had a fun time, even
Speaker 1: got a kiss at the end of the night. But
Speaker 1: after that things were a little awkward, and that's why
Speaker 1: she needs our help today to get a second date. Update.
Speaker 1: One thing I forgot to ask you, Christina, is we
Speaker 1: know that you have a child who's on Greg's team,
Speaker 1: so he must have a kid too if he's the coach.
Speaker 1: Typically most typically that's true. Yeah, so maybe that's something
Speaker 1: that's running through his head, like we're your kid's friends,
Speaker 1: because he may be looking into the future about bringing
Speaker 1: your two children together. I mean, yeah, he does have
Speaker 1: a son on the team, and also, I would do
Speaker 1: their friends. It's like it's not like they play together
Speaker 1: outside of little league, you know what I mean? Do
Speaker 1: men typically do that much forward thinking though? It's like
Speaker 1: one date and already he's trying to plan playdates with
Speaker 1: the kids, Like it just doesn't feel well. Maybe maybe
Speaker 1: Christina's son is better than his son in baseball and
Speaker 1: he's worried that he's going to end up loving her
Speaker 1: kid more. Yeah, because I wouldn't want to get into
Speaker 1: that situation. Man, the guy can throw all the way
Speaker 1: home from the outball. Is that a possibility, Christina? Um,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I'm just giving you an insight
Speaker 1: into how men think. Yeah, I don't know. That that's
Speaker 1: the insight. Yeah, you probably thought all the way up
Speaker 1: to like do I get a kiss? Yeah? Well, we
Speaker 1: have a lot of questions here, not a whole lot
Speaker 1: of answers. So let's just make this call. We're gonna
Speaker 1: call Greg and try and get you your second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You ready, Christina, I'm ready. All right, here we go.
Speaker 1: I'm a Dallas number right now. Hello. Hey, I'm looking
Speaker 1: for Greg. Yeah, you got him? Greg? Hey Greg. My
Speaker 1: name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. How you doing, man, Yeah, I'm doing
Speaker 1: all right. What's it all about? This is all about
Speaker 1: a segment that we do call the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: It's where if you go out with some one and afterwards,
Speaker 1: if that person isn't calling you back, you start laughing
Speaker 1: while I'm talking, and then things get awkward on the
Speaker 1: phone like this. No, it may be good. Have you
Speaker 1: heard the segment before? Greg? Uh? Yeah, I guess so
Speaker 1: what radio stations again? Okay, okay, so it's kind of herd.
Speaker 1: It's broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Uh yeah, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: I've heard it before. Okay something yeah, yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: keep going. So one of our listeners has asked us
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you. Her name's Christina. Great, Okay,
Speaker 1: that feel good. Great. So Christina had a lot of
Speaker 1: nice things to say about you. Yeah, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's I've got tens of nice things to say about Christina. No,
Speaker 1: she's yeah, she's a she's a good looking lady. We
Speaker 1: have a fun time. Yeah. No, no no, no, I don't
Speaker 1: have anything bad to say about Christina. Okay, she said
Speaker 1: you're not calling her back after your guys's date at
Speaker 1: the casino, Are you like not looking to date seriously
Speaker 1: or something right now? Because she did say you were divorced,
Speaker 1: so maybe it's fresh. I don't know. Yeah, I'm divorced.
Speaker 1: It's it's just kind of embarrassing. It's just it's something
Speaker 1: with me. It's not something that she can change. I
Speaker 1: just don't think it's going to work out. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's what I thought. It's not what you thought. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, tell him what you thought. Christina's son better
Speaker 1: at baseball than your son and you're embarrassed. No, no,
Speaker 1: not my son. My son's very good at baseball. Coach.
Speaker 1: If it's not that, then what could it possibly be?
Speaker 1: Greg Because it seemed like a pretty good night from
Speaker 1: Christine's going to view. No, it was it was we
Speaker 1: had we had a very nice time. Yeah, not something
Speaker 1: she can change. It's just the way things are, and
Speaker 1: that's just the way it is. Well, be acused, it's
Speaker 1: not you, it's me. What can we tell her though,
Speaker 1: right like, because right now she feels like it's all her,
Speaker 1: Like the reason you're not calling back is because, yeah,
Speaker 1: could you give us something a little bit more specific? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want to think it's her, right, Uh, it's
Speaker 1: just so at the end of the night, we kissed goodbye. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and whenever I kissed her, like, all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: all I could see was like her kid's face. Her
Speaker 1: face looked like her son's face. No, I mean, like
Speaker 1: like and that's all I could see. God, OK, that's
Speaker 1: weird out. Yeah, it's not like I was thinking about
Speaker 1: the kids, just like you know, genetics, like her face,
Speaker 1: like bone structure like it was. It was very much
Speaker 1: like the kid. And that's very weird. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: that's that's pretty stereotypically how parents and children turn out.
Speaker 1: They tend to look similar. But I thought, did you
Speaker 1: not know that before you were out on the date
Speaker 1: with her. I feel like you've seen her before. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I never really I don't know. I never
Speaker 1: really noticed it or saw it or it wasn't really
Speaker 1: something I had to notice her think about before. But
Speaker 1: it was like when you were that close to her face,
Speaker 1: like that was the only time away sighed and like,
Speaker 1: do you feel the weirdness that you feel right now
Speaker 1: in your body? Like imagine that's how I felt. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: don't you think that's something you can get through? I mean,
Speaker 1: it's it's I mean honest, Like it was her face first,
Speaker 1: she gets claim on it. That should be I feel
Speaker 1: that she's calling DIBs on the face. Her face looks
Speaker 1: like hers. I spent a lot more time with her
Speaker 1: kid first, and I'm still spending more time with her kids,
Speaker 1: So why it's not her fault? Totally not her fault.
Speaker 1: You know, it's the definitely more feminine features. I'd say that, like,
Speaker 1: you know, little boy features. That's so weird. Okay, this
Speaker 1: is a dangerous territory right now. Yeah. I would love
Speaker 1: to tell Christina all of that, but I think it
Speaker 1: might sound better if it came right from you, Greg Share.
Speaker 1: He's talking to sound good coming from anybody. But that's
Speaker 1: why I need to let you know. Christina's been on
Speaker 1: the other line listening this whole time. Oh great, all right,
Speaker 1: she wants to talk to you. Christina. Yeah, I'm just
Speaker 1: that is not what I was expecting at all. I
Speaker 1: don't I don't get it. Yeah, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: get it either, because looking at you from further away,
Speaker 1: you don't really notice it. But I can't get over
Speaker 1: that knowledge or that awareness that I have. Now, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, didn't you have kids with your ex wife?
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys have kids, they have to look
Speaker 1: like one of you, right, Yeah, Well that relationship didn't
Speaker 1: work out either, So how do you feel about that? Christina? Ay? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't have ever thought that would be, you know,
Speaker 1: a reason that would keep you from dating with somebody.
Speaker 1: But can you imagine how awkward it is that he
Speaker 1: takes her for ice cream? Yeah? I feel like I've
Speaker 1: done this with your son before. I honestly, I don't
Speaker 1: think any of us in the room have any good
Speaker 1: advice for this. What the heck do we do here?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Christina? Are you willing to get some
Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery on your face so that it doesn't look
Speaker 1: like your son anymore. You have a perfect face, Christina.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm sure it's perfect, But if you want
Speaker 1: this to work you, yeah, maybe a bag on the
Speaker 1: face situation. Then there's no cosmetic surgery need. None of
Speaker 1: these are good? Is terrible, guys. Christina has a very
Speaker 1: lovely face, a very beautiful face, and it's just when
Speaker 1: I kiss it, it looks like a little boy. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't even know that. I don't think we should
Speaker 1: be asked. I don't even know how like you describe
Speaker 1: it like that. There are places besides the face that
Speaker 1: you can kiss. What if you no? No, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to make this work. You guys are trying to kill
Speaker 1: this relationship. I don't think this relationship is dead. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know that I have much. We can't know
Speaker 1: that for sure until we ask Greg, would you be
Speaker 1: willing to go out with Christina one more time? And
Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. I wasn't really ready to go
Speaker 1: out with her before. I'm definitely not ready to go
Speaker 1: out with her after this conversation here, Okay, it's even worse. Yeah, Christina,
Speaker 1: are you cool with that? Yeah? Actually, after this conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just too weird. We've gone the one subject that
Speaker 1: both of them are like, Nah, never mind, Okay's move forward.
Speaker 1: I mean, at least he was being truthful. It really
Speaker 1: wasn't about me. Yeah. Him, Yeah, And don't hesitate to
Speaker 1: introduce And if your future love interest to your son,
Speaker 1: I'm sure it'll be fine. Just say it's your twin.
Speaker 1: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning