1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: My ex demanded that I skip a housewarming party because 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: his fiance is uncomfortable with me. 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 2: Excuse me, your presence is not required. 4 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: My ex twenty seven male and I twenty six females, 5 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: I just split two years ago. 6 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 3: I just imagine that's shit that guy souse so well, 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 3: it's such an annoying thing to ask. 8 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: We met through my best friend who worked in the 9 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: same theater as him then, and the reason we broke 10 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: up was because he didn't think we were working anymore. 11 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from New Material seventy eight 12 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: ninety six on the arsash Okay story Time read it. 13 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: So it was pretty amicable. I didn't put up a 14 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: fight or anything, but I strongly believed there was no 15 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: reason for us to be friends anymore. That always causes problems. 16 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: But I'm still friendly with his friends, and I make 17 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: small talk if I run into his parents lick. 18 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 3: Sorry, I don't mean to do real. 19 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 4: But it doesn't always cause problems, but it certainly does 20 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 4: increase the probability. 21 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: Oh if your friends after Yeah, it's not all it's 22 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: not an it's not a hard and fast rule, but 23 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: it's like it does make it's it's the more complicated 24 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: route to take. I'm like friends with my ex and 25 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 1: I like the house I was thinking about maybe staying 26 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: at during the fires. Is uh, she is also there 27 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: because one of our mutual friends is putting it together, and. 28 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 3: I was coincidence, I think not so? And that's you know, 29 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 3: and that's an example of like. 30 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 1: And she texted me and she's like, are you actually going. 31 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 3: In that tone that that felt like it's maybe not cool? 32 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: She was not. She was not looking forward to me 33 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: being there. 34 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 3: I thought you said you sually were friends with this 35 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 3: what happens are friends? 36 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: But she just doesn't like she feels it's too much 37 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: to be in the same So. 38 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: You're not friends. So you're not I would know what 39 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: friends do they hang out? It seems like you can't 40 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 2: hang out with your friends. 41 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 3: Well, there's a process that it goes through. 42 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we're we're phone friends. We're phone friends. 43 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 4: The point of this comment is that every situation is unique, right. 44 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 3: I think we've just discovered that right here. 45 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: That is true quick break. But we live in a 46 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: pretty close knit environment. Don't ask me how we live 47 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: in a city, but most of my friends and his 48 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: come from either the same UNI or have a common 49 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: hobby or we roam around the same circles, and we 50 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: definitely see each other once or twice every couple of months. 51 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: My ex has a fiance now, and I am happy 52 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: for them. I have never met her until now. I 53 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: thought this didn't matter or anything. We are all adults, 54 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: or so I think. One of his closest friends, Peter, 55 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 1: just bought a house. I am friends with his girlfriend, 56 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: and we are both invited to the housewarming. I didn't 57 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: think any of it, however, I sorry's just the way. 58 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:48,839 Speaker 3: I didn't think. 59 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: Anything of it. 60 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: However, my ex texted me yesterday after like an eyear 61 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: year a year, Sam is the ex that everyone is 62 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: immediately suspicious about in every read story. Just got you 63 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: to Yeah, Harriet Spaghetti is after my booty on this 64 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 1: stream right now. I don't know why. Whenever I look 65 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: up on stream, I just read the ones that are mean. 66 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 3: But your sixth cents going off? Anyways, someone just asked 67 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 3: where Riley has been. 68 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 2: Oh, he's right there, he's right there. You ask and 69 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 2: you shall receive. 70 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: Anyway, I didn't think anything of it. However, my ex 71 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: texted me yesterday after like a year, albeit very politely, 72 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: that maybe I could skip the housewarming as he was 73 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: bringing his fiance and she will feel uncomfortable. I was 74 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: pretty weirded out by his wording, so I called him. 75 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: He says, fiance feels uncomfortable that it would be anywhere 76 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: close to him, and the fact that they both feel 77 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: like I sometimes intrude into their social gatherings. It's not 78 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: just your social gathering. You have a mutual friend. If 79 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: if you freaking have mutual friends, then you know you're 80 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: gonna end up being in the same place. 81 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 3: Sam, You're you're you're forgetting one very important What am 82 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 3: I forgetting? 83 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 4: His fiance is clearly the queen of the world. She 84 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 4: gets to decide where you go and what you. 85 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: Do, supreme. 86 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: Well, uh, just to prove I'm better than her friends? 87 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 1: Wait what? Oh yeah so they so she like the 88 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: fiance is like, oh, you and trude, just to prove 89 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: that I'm better to his friends. 90 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 3: Maybe she's just better, babe. 91 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, maybe she's just silently. 92 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 3: Ill issue skill issue get ratioed. 93 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: I got pretty mad hearing him say these things, and 94 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: I asked him, in what way we are not friends? 95 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: And I stopped hanging out with his friends. The moment 96 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 1: we broke up to not make things difficult. There were 97 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: a lot of people in his circle. I became close too, 98 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: but I stepped away just so that things weren't awkward 99 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 1: for any future partner. And how was it my fault? 100 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: My ex explained. Two of his friends didn't like or 101 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: respect his girlfriend and thought her an airhead, and so 102 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: did his parents. It sounds like she might be an airhead. 103 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: Then it's not an airhead though, fix mix. 104 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: With the fifty bucks. Oh we need more time in 105 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: a wheel spin? Well, maybe everyone right now should like 106 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: the stream? 107 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 3: Yes, so we can do a dance. Do you close 108 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 3: the chat? We only need we need less than two 109 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 3: hundred likes for a wheel spin. If everyone closes the 110 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 3: chat and likes, who knows where. 111 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 2: We literally have more than seven hundred fifty people watching 112 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 2: right now. 113 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,239 Speaker 3: Nuts, Yes, everyone liked the stream. 114 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 2: We could possibly honestly, there's a guber of dance for 115 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 2: the next story if we get some fifty not even like, oh. 116 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, we gotta we gotta we get a bide by 117 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: the way. 118 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, we did that the principle of the wheel. 119 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: Because we didn't. 120 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 3: We must hold fast. 121 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 2: The wheel. 122 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 1: In the past, the wheel now the wheel forever wheel. 123 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: But our circles are I admit, full of literature and 124 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: theater people, and I admit some of them can be pretentious. Again, 125 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: I told him that was him being a spineless boyfriend 126 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: and not my problem. I told my ex strongly that 127 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: both Peter and his girlfriend are my friends and I 128 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: would be going to their housewarming, and his relationship issues 129 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: are not my problem. 130 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 3: Cooking, that's why you were doing. You cooked when you 131 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 3: sent them cooked gourmet, five star micheline meal. 132 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: Right there, I blocked him. Now Boo and his fiance 133 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: sent a long text on how she was sorry but 134 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: now I was apparently being vindictive, and how did it 135 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: matter if I didn't go to a housewarming. She asked 136 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: me to not make any drama and please respect her. 137 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: She's the one making the drama. She's the one making 138 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 1: the drama. So I guess what op did? Did reply? 139 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 2: Blocked her? Bare block blocked. 140 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 3: Blocked, which is acceptable, Like that's not even being dramatic. 141 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 3: It's like, oh, well, I guess if you're so perturbed 142 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 3: by my existence that you're gonna tell me not to 143 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 3: go there, maybe I'll just block you. Yeah, get it 144 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 3: out of the way. 145 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: Prepare to be blocked? Do you have any one blocked? 146 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 3: I don't even I don't think I do. 147 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 2: You got people blocked? 148 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Alexi? How many people do you have blocked? Alexai 149 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: has hell of people blocked. I'm guessing ten eight eight. 150 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 2: You have eight people blocked? Are they the same gender 151 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: or different genders? Yeah? 152 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: All man, Alexi says, all men, no bears, just all man. 153 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: Oh we just got thirty more minutes. Frank the Pug, 154 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: thanks for the thirty five bucks. Need more time. You 155 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: guys are my therapy tonight after the chaos I've been 156 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: dealing with. Keep me company longer, please. I love you guys, 157 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: And guess what now we will Frank the Pug, Brank 158 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: the Pug. We are here with you right now. We 159 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: are here with you, now, here with you today tomorrow. 160 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: For oh No Alves girl, thet the fifty bucks with hearts. 161 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: Put some hearts in the chat. For Mount Alves girl, 162 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: put some pugs in the chat. 163 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: For Frank Montana, it's the empty stands for Montana. 164 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: Do we know that for a fact? 165 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, sir. 166 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 2: We got a little bit more of this buckleberries. 167 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: My friends are pissed at my ex and I haven't 168 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: told my friend or Peter any of it yet. I 169 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: think maybe I could have handled it any other way. 170 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? And we do have more 171 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: relevant comments? But I want to ask you the people, 172 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: is OPD a hole? 173 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 5: No? 174 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 3: No, If anything, you're a sweetie pie for handling it 175 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 3: the way that you did. 176 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 4: I would have been way more petty about that. I'm 177 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 4: not petty, but like I would have been like annoying 178 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 4: for sure. 179 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: I think if you have mutual friends and they both 180 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: invite you to a place, say, you know, at the 181 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: House of Palm Springs, you cannot control whether either of 182 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: you show up there. 183 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: It is. 184 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: It is fully up to the prerogative of the individual. 185 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: And uh and you know, because like you you were 186 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: friends with those people. 187 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, not gonna lie. I would be like, I would 188 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 4: be like, yeah, oh yeah, sure, I won't go. Then 189 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 4: I would go, and then when I see them, i'd go, 190 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 4: I'd be. 191 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, it's so good to see you. Hi, 192 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I've heard so much about you. You 193 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 3: sound amazing, like I'd you know, and then she'd be 194 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 3: like and she'd probably like leave, and everybody like, well, 195 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,719 Speaker 3: why did she just run away like that. You're being 196 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 3: so nice. 197 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, obviously the better girlfriend. 198 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's like, well, if you're gonna be like, 199 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 4: you're not allowed to be near me. 200 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 1: Well, it's because she's in secure. She's insecure, she can't 201 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: handle it. 202 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 2: Who do you think you are? 203 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: Are you talking about? What are you talking about in 204 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: this story? We're talking about fiance this of this guy. 205 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I just want to make sure. Yeah, a 206 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 2: lot of people, a lot of people to comments are Sam, 207 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 2: are you're projecting right? I'm not. I would it's like 208 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 2: a perfect story. 209 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: I am literally never perfect story, the perfect time story 210 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 1: projected in my life. I don't bring my personal life 211 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: into this show ever. 212 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,319 Speaker 2: I think everyone here knows everything about it. 213 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: Ever, no one knows anything about me. I am an enigma. 214 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: I am a mystery on this show. 215 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure you told them your social Security number, 216 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 2: but I mean I did not, probably five. 217 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: I don't know that is wrong or is it? Maybe 218 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: it's right. I want to tell you, but we got 219 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: some relevant comments. We got an update. 220 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 2: Oh. 221 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: Also, I would like to do can we do a 222 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 1: Colin Ken you got that right, Colin? For you? 223 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 2: I want to do a callin and I want to. 224 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: Ask one of you guys, what is a reason you've 225 00:10:59,120 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: blocked someone? 226 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 2: Okay, the only time we'll do, I know, to do 227 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: a colin, but we'll do a callin if we spin 228 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 2: the wheel and it gets on callin. 229 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 1: You're right, you're right, you're right. Well, you're right, you're right, 230 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 1: you're right, like the stream if you see it already, 231 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: this guy is like, oh, we can't do the interpret 232 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right. 233 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 2: This guy's all over the place because he's thinking about 234 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 2: it like that. 235 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 3: I do like that, though I'm not gonna lie. I 236 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 3: like that. 237 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 4: Uh, it'd be really cool if we can make it 238 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 4: happen like lightning fast. 239 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, like if we want to discord message Riley, if 240 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: you want to uh give your uh blocking story, and 241 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 1: if we spin the wheel, maybe we'll do it. 242 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: Uh anyway, Yeah, we'll do that. How about that? Yet 243 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: relevant comment? 244 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: So Op gives context in a relationship to Peter and 245 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: his girlfriend. So, Peter's girlfriend and I have been friends 246 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,959 Speaker 1: for a long time, and we're even we were even 247 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 1: roommates for eight months. 248 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 2: Wait, Sam, we don't even have to you will call in? 249 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 2: Why you know who you can do what Alexa? 250 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 3: What a brilliant idea. 251 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: That's true. We could do an Alexa. 252 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 2: We could do it. Guys, get over here, they need 253 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 2: to see you again. 254 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 4: We gotta be careful when we say the A word. 255 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 4: It turns on people's machines. 256 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: But what we'll do is we will bring in Alexa's 257 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: reason for blocking one person. And it has to be 258 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: the funniest, non traumatic reason. 259 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 2: It can't be someone in this household. 260 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:29,559 Speaker 1: It can't be someone in this household. 261 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 2: I really quick, though, Mom, what do you mean when 262 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: you say Sam is smoke? 263 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 3: What are you saying? 264 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 2: Does your mom have the Hotsford? 265 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 3: What are you saying? 266 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 2: What are you saying? Missus n What are you saying? 267 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 2: Please elaborate so your son can read it. Sam is 268 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 2: a smoke show. 269 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that's what she meant. You got those you 270 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 3: got those cheekbones. 271 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: It's like the wonkiest show today. Everyone's going through the 272 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 2: emotions Sam, like Sam's going through. 273 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 3: It's like the entire city of. 274 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 2: Cannah. Hannah, what are you doing you. 275 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: Fifty dollars from Hannah? Oh my goodness, all right. 276 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: Fifty dollars. 277 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 3: Everyone knows what to do. 278 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: Also, Kimberly Holly says, I blocked my baby daddy. Well, 279 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: Sam could be your Stepdaden procrastictions. 280 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 2: I love this israll. 281 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 3: First, she'd have to talk to my dad. 282 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 2: He's the Cowboys fan. 283 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 3: But she didn't say smoking. She just said smoke. 284 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 2: I don't know what that means. I think. 285 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 3: Is she implying that's why your voice is low? 286 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 4: She says no, Everyone relax, she's not saying that. But again, 287 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 4: you took the time to say no, but then you 288 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 4: didn't clarify what you meant. 289 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 3: And enigma enigma, Sam is an enigma. 290 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: Which is hot. 291 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 3: They can well, yeah, I mean you're not wrong anyway. 292 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: Peter's girlfriend I have been friends for a long time. 293 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: We're even roommates for eight months. Technically I'm closer. I'm 294 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: a closer friend to Peter than my ex is, even 295 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,599 Speaker 1: though they are college friends, because of his fiances antics 296 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: and Pete and another one of his closest friends are 297 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: drifting away from my ex because he insists on bringing 298 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: her everywhere and they don't like her. Out of all 299 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: of my ex's friends, it's only Pete I'm close too, 300 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: mainly because of his girlfriend. Plus his girlfriend and Pete 301 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: met through me so I am a very close part 302 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: of their friend group, which is why I was pissed 303 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: at my ex because I can understand if he was 304 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: telling me to skip his best friend's party, but telling 305 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 1: me to skip one of my closest friends housewarming for 306 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: his fiance who people don't like their sounded so stupid. 307 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 3: Yeah it is. 308 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: I know something too, says not the a hole, but 309 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,040 Speaker 1: you should tell Peter and his girlfriend your ex and 310 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: his fiances are wieners. It's not your job to manage 311 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: their emotions or insecurities. If she's uncomfortable, then she should 312 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: stay home. Fry one fat Mannick says, I agree, Peter 313 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: should be told before the ex has a chance to 314 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: spin this and make OP the bad guy and OPI responds, 315 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: Peter is one of those people who doesn't like her. 316 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 1: Our circle is mainly filled with people who mix with 317 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 1: a certain type of bookish thinking. Plus Peter and another 318 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: of my ex's friends think she is anti intellectual. Most 319 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: of my exist friends are like that theater people or 320 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 1: really pretentious a holes. Peter doesn't like her more because 321 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: he thinks my ex was stupid to break up with 322 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: me and couldn't handle it. If I was doing better 323 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: than him. Their friendship is already on thin ice, and 324 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the reason it breaks. And 325 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: there's a little bit more, there's some more. There's a 326 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: lot more comments here of people giving advice. But what 327 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: do you think what advice do we have for OPI here? 328 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I think you know, don't. 329 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 4: One hundred percent right in terms of like you can't 330 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 4: this person is not allowed to dictate, like your presence 331 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 4: at something that is important to you to be at 332 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 4: and that your friends are are throwing it sounds like 333 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 4: nobody even really likes them. I wouldn't go out of 334 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 4: my way to be like, what's the word. It's not 335 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 4: even like vindictive, because it's like I would assume you 336 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 4: went right at the. 337 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: Very least to go. It's it's you know, he would 338 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: have gone, he would have gone if she wasn't there. 339 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 3: You know. I think I think at this point you 340 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 3: just need to be aware that we're all that's. 341 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 2: The dynamic, Like how how deep does he go? 342 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like at this point it's like, Okay, everyone's 343 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 4: aware now that they're annoying and a low key kind 344 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 4: of toxic. 345 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 2: To move on with your life, like just know that 346 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 2: going forward. I mean, have you guys experienced that. I mean, 347 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 2: obviously Sam has, but like. 348 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, it's like there's people in my life that 349 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 3: I was like, oh wow, that person's toxic, and I 350 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 3: guess what, I don't talk to them anymore. 351 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, But like if they're like that in the same 352 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 2: friend group or like in relation, like like going to 353 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 2: a party, well, if you know, like your ex is 354 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 2: going there or something like that, or somebody else else's 355 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 2: ex is going there. 356 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 3: I've always maintained the same position on that. 357 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,880 Speaker 4: And it's and it's kind of like the best way 358 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 4: I can describe it is using the terms winning and losing. 359 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 3: But it's not really a contest. 360 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:31,439 Speaker 4: It's more just like the same concept of like this 361 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,719 Speaker 4: person's fiance, her ex's fiance is trying to be like, well, 362 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 4: she can't be there because it would make me uncomfortable. 363 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 4: But if you are like, well I can't go there 364 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 4: because one person's presence would upset me. Now they're sort 365 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 4: of winning. 366 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:48,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, They're they're dictating what you can do with your life. 367 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 2: That's that's a great notion. 368 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 4: So I I don't I don't like that, And but 369 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 4: you know, sometimes someone's presence does really make you that 370 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 4: uncomfortable and you have to you know, you have to 371 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 4: do what's best for you. But I think think catering 372 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 4: to other people outside of you for like. 373 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, for that reason is ridiculous. Emerson Ray says, tell 374 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: Pete go to his housewarming party and pay no more 375 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: mind to ex and fiance. Yeah, I think that probably 376 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: would good. 377 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 2: Like, we're adults. It's not high school. 378 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 3: Like, if I wanted, like I said, I said this earlier, 379 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 3: if I wanted to be like annoying about it, I'd 380 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 3: show up and be like, oh my god, it's great 381 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 3: to see you. Like I'd be really shiny nice. So 382 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 3: there's no way anyone could be like, oh you were mean. 383 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: Quick Alexa, Colin, Alexa, what is the most recent reason 384 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 1: you've blocked someone? And tell your story in less than 385 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: thirty seconds? 386 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 5: Do you? 387 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 1: Oh, less than thirty seconds? 388 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 3: God? 389 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 390 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 5: Ah, okay, I'm begging you guys to tell me how 391 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 5: you feel about that. 392 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: Put the timer on. Go go next next to the mic, 393 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: Go next to. 394 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 3: The mic, talking to the mic. It's actually. 395 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 1: All right, go go now, okay, it's. 396 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 5: Actually a little bit different than you guys think. 397 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: So and talking to the microphone sound thirty seconds, thank 398 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 1: you twenty two, twenty one. 399 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 2: Okay, So. 400 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 5: Instead of blocking someone, I was supposed to get closure 401 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 5: with my ex of seven months. It was a very 402 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 5: good relationship. And instead of getting closure, the night before 403 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,479 Speaker 5: we were supposed to meet, I get a text after 404 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 5: being blocked on everything except for phone number. I said, hey, 405 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 5: are we still meeting at six o'clock at you know 406 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 5: this place we were supposed to meet? And he goes, 407 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 5: I found out that you went to Disneyland without me 408 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 5: when he gave me two Disneyland tickets for my birthday 409 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 5: nine months ago, and then he dumped me, by the way, 410 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 5: so he blocked me on everything, and then he blocked 411 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 5: my number. 412 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 1: And so did you block him back? 413 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? I did. 414 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 5: That's and you know what and so but do you 415 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 5: guys think that someone should block you for using the 416 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 5: Disneyland tickets they gave you nine months ago and then 417 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 5: they dumped you, and. 418 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:16,679 Speaker 1: Then they know you could totally use those Disneyland that you. 419 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 5: Went to Disneyland without me, used both of the tickets 420 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 5: even though they fucking dumped me. 421 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 2: You're right, all right, you said a mad no no. 422 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: Chat chat on? Can you put a can you put 423 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: a keep it a poll, Keep it a poll. Use 424 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:42,120 Speaker 1: Disneyland tickets or no use Disneyland tickets or no chat 425 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: let us know. 426 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 2: Wait oh okay, it was like lagging there. 427 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 5: Anyone who votes that I should have used the Disneyland tickets. 428 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: Please don't I think. 429 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 3: You should have given them to someone else. 430 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 2: Okay, hold on, I think you should have given them. 431 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 1: Away Disneyland tickets, use them, Use Disneyland tickets or no Disney. 432 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 2: We can't keep saying it uns we would get sponsored. 433 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 2: Use disney tickets or no use. Let me use tickets 434 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 2: because I don't use. 435 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 1: Tickets or use ticks or no. 436 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 3: Guess who shirt? 437 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 2: This is tickets? 438 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 3: It's mine. Last night we swapped shirts. 439 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 2: You're allowed the one, Alex. It feels bad that she 440 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 2: said a big no no. 441 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 3: Well she should she should feel terrible. 442 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and Apple Podcasts and wherever you Good job, guys, 443 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 2: that was great. No, you're fine. 444 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 3: No, it's okay. Hey, don't worry. I'm just giving you. 445 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 1: Facebook and YouTube. We're everywhere. 446 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 2: We're bigger than Alex Cooper. Come on, it's fine, we 447 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 2: get we get the one. I guess see everyone's saying 448 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 2: use tickets. Yeah, everyone. 449 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 1: Literally one hundred percent of people are saying you should 450 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: use the ticket. 451 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 3: How could you not? 452 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, what it's also been nine months heart. 453 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, they were a gift. Broke your heart in seven 454 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 2: months and she went to her here. You just get 455 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 2: on the mic, just get you get a little bit 456 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 2: more time. 457 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 1: You get fifteen seconds. 458 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,479 Speaker 2: Look at the camera. The camera is right there, right 459 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 2: in front of you. 460 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 5: He tought me four days after I went to his 461 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 5: grandma's funeral in. 462 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: Buffalo, New York. Talking to the mic, and tell him. 463 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 2: He taught me four He taught me four days. That's 464 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 2: so easy after I went to. 465 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 5: His grandma's funeral in Buffalo, New York. 466 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: So you can extra use those tickets. But you know 467 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 1: what this extra do. We're gonna get it to this 468 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: next up day. 469 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 470 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, you have like eighty eighty eight votes 471 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: right now, yeah saying thank you. Someone said no though. 472 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 3: I said no, no, It was Cassanda. Sanda loves doing that. 473 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 4: Sanda loves being the one person who votes the opposite 474 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 4: of the. 475 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 3: Am I right. Let me know. 476 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: Harriet Spaghetti says, why are we going to dinner with 477 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: a person who dumped you? Like that for closure, Harriet's 478 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: for closure. Alexa wanted to end on good terms because 479 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,199 Speaker 1: she's a nice person and she wants to wrap it 480 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 1: all up and a nice little bow and say, hey, 481 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 1: thank you for the relationship experience, thank you for being 482 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: part of my life in this way. Obviously it wasn't perfect, 483 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 1: but you know there was a reason we were together, 484 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 1: and I just want to say like, hey, thanks for 485 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 1: being my life, because that's the kind of person Alexa is. 486 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 1: But y'all, petty potters, what are you doing all that 487 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:27,880 Speaker 1: for what? 488 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 3: No, you just go to Disney. It's to celebrate our 489 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 3: past relationship. 490 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 2: Stop saying the mickey mouse, is that what you did? 491 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 4: Is that what you did Alexa, was that your intentional 492 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:44,400 Speaker 4: celebrate that past relationship at Disney? 493 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 3: No, exactly, she did not celebrate I'm saying. 494 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: I'm saying when she was going to go to this dinner, 495 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: that's what she was trying to do to book end 496 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: it on like a good. 497 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,479 Speaker 3: Okay, So I mixed that up. I thought you were 498 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:03,239 Speaker 3: being like, yo, you took the tickets and yeahiated him that. 499 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 2: I was like, you don't. If I had free take 500 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 2: us to d Land, I'm going to d Land. I 501 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 2: don't care he's. 502 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: Going to d land. But you know what we're going to. 503 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 2: We're going to the next this next update. 504 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,400 Speaker 1: Here, God, we're going to this next update. 505 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 2: So update. 506 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: Thank you for all the lovely suggestions in my previous post, 507 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: which is why I'm doing an update. I did go 508 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: to the party, honestly. After reading that yes, my ex 509 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 1: had in fact lost his mind, I decided to not 510 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: bother Peter or his girlfriend my friend and just go. 511 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 1: And man, I'm a business. It's not like my ex 512 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: and his fiance would come and scream the house down 513 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 1: on seeing me. Right again, I guess I didn't mention 514 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: my last post. The reason I was more mad at 515 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: my ex was because I have a very serious boyfriend. 516 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,479 Speaker 1: The idea that my ex's fiance would think I'd go 517 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 1: anywhere despite my ex, despite having a my boyfriend, was 518 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 1: really insulting. So we went to the housewarming and I 519 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:10,439 Speaker 1: ignored them. I didn't care. We are all adults and 520 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 1: I am not going to fuel drama. And my exit 521 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: and his fiance her especially, made a fool of themselves, 522 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: and at some point even I felt bad because I 523 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 1: saw how desperate she was for my ex's friends to 524 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 1: respect her or take any one of her sentences sincerely seriously, 525 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: Whoever she tried to talk to ignored her or straight 526 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: up walked away. 527 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 3: Yikes, Well, I mean YI doesn't sound like a fun 528 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 3: time again. 529 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: Peter and my ex's fiance. Peter and my ex's friends 530 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: are a different group, and I'm not friends with them, 531 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: but the way my ex let his friends treat his 532 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: fiance made my blood boil. I mostly hung out with 533 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: my friends Peter's girlfriend's friend group, and I didn't speak 534 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: or look at my ex once. 535 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 2: This is where you just had the blast, like the 536 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 2: best time of your life, like your glow up. Yeah yeah, 537 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,640 Speaker 2: you just look so good, looks like you're having fun, 538 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 2: and you. 539 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: Feel like you're like laughing in slow motion. You're you're 540 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 1: doing the whole thing, you know. 541 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,439 Speaker 2: You do the hair twirl. Yeah yeah, yeah. 542 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 1: One time he said hi, and my boyfriend said hello back, 543 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 1: and we didn't see him near us for the rest 544 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 1: of the night. His fiance just asked me if my 545 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: dress wasn't a bit too. 546 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 2: Modest, wasn't a bit too modest? 547 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're dressing a little bit a little bit 548 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: too covered up. 549 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 2: Dude. 550 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, what. 551 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: That is the weirdest dig ever, especially after being. 552 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,360 Speaker 3: Like, oh, oh, woe is me. I don't know if 553 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 3: I can handle seeing another person who exists who used 554 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 3: to date you. 555 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I feel like she would want someone 556 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 1: to be like more modest or whatever, you know, like 557 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 1: in terms of not maybe stealing her man, which he's 558 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 1: very wary of. 559 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just another great example of she sounds like 560 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:57,640 Speaker 3: a great time. 561 00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but Peter told her everyone there followed the 562 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 1: dress code casual, elegant. Don't ask me. I didn't make 563 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: the rules, but she didn't. My boyfriend already loathes my 564 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,640 Speaker 1: ex so we did not mingle near them again. Overall, 565 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: I had a good time. We even got to leave early, however, 566 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: some more time to ourselves. Oh, leave early and have 567 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: some more time to ourselves. Watched a movie and had 568 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 1: a good time at home. However, what pissed me off 569 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 1: was how much of a crappy fiance he was, and 570 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: how much his fiance was trying to fit in and failing, 571 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 1: and he wouldn't even help her. My boyfriend isn't just 572 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: a bookish person. He doesn't fit in with some pretentious 573 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: people either, and he's very blunt, so some people don't 574 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: like him. Plus he loves video games and comics, and 575 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 1: he has hobbies trekking diving, which scare me, but we 576 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 1: compromise and learned to adjust to each other's interest. Plus, 577 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: if someone treats my boyfriend even a little like how 578 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: they treat my ex's fiance, I would cut them off, 579 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: no questions asked. And I am all ready low contact 580 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 1: with a few friends who judge and made comments about 581 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,640 Speaker 1: him in the past. I really hope she leaves him 582 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 1: if she has any dignity, or he gets his crap together. Like, 583 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 1: all in all, not my problem, by the way, what 584 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 1: should be your problem is listening to every episode of 585 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 1: this podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. We literally release 586 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 1: twice a day. You can listen while you're cooking. You 587 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: can listen while you're cleaning. You can listen while you're 588 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: doing household chores or working. You know, your boss doesn't 589 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: have to know what's going on in your ears. You 590 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 1: don't have to know that I'm just whispering, sweeten. Nothing's 591 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 1: while you're, you know, looking like you're filling out spreadsheets 592 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 1: or whatever the darn day do you do all day? 593 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 3: Yes, well, I. 594 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: Could listen to the podcast whatever you want. 595 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 4: You pretend to fill out spreadsheets while you're actually submitting 596 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 4: your stories on our subjects. 597 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: Exactly, that's what you should be doing. That's the true work. 598 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: So I listen to the podcast anyway. You can search Okay, 599 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: Storytime wherever you get your podcast. 600 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 4: I'm really shocked here that she's taking this stance of like, oh, 601 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 4: I'm I'm blocking everyone who spoke badly about my ex boyfriend. 602 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 3: It's that's what she said, right. It was like because 603 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 3: people were talking about him, she said, I I can't 604 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 3: believe he didn't. 605 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 4: Stand up for her, which is like true, Like if 606 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 4: you have a fiance or any you should stand partner, 607 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 4: like you should stand up for them, and if you 608 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,960 Speaker 4: don't feel a need to, maybe you should examine the relationship. 609 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. 610 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 1: I think she's like I feel like she's criticizing a 611 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: lot here. She's criticizing the fiance for being dumb, she's 612 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: criticizing the ex ex boyfriend. 613 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 3: Everyone's getting criticized. 614 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: Criticized because like she's criticizing the fiance, she's criticizing the 615 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 1: boyfriend ex boyfriend, she's criticizing their relationship. She's criticizing how 616 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: people in the party are interacting with me. 617 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 3: So I'm kind of criticizing her boyfriend. She's like, he's blonde, complication. 618 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 3: Some people don't like him. 619 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, very critical, all right, but we 620 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: got some relevant comments and maybe an update. So Christine 621 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 1: Armadello eight twelve says, something about the first story and 622 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: the modest dress comment has me thinking the new fiance 623 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 1: wasn't a fair partner and she's always been insecure about Ope, 624 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: she's been competing with you longer than you realize. Probably 625 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 1: let's go Reddit, just you know, making Ope think things 626 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 1: that she didn't even have to, you know, does she 627 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: didn't even know she had to worry about, just like 628 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: I didn't even think he was cheating. But now I'm 629 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: now thinking it. What do you got in your mouth there, Bud? 630 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 1: What do you got in there? What do you got 631 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 1: in there? Start out spitted at. 632 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 2: Drawing, swallow it like a good Dakota. Yeah, yeah it 633 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 2: was water. 634 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 1: Haill Michaelson says, I agree with you. It seems like 635 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: that girl was the affair partner of OPI's ex fiance. 636 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: That would definitely explain the competition, the insecurity. Why his 637 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 1: friends treat her so badly, and why his parents don't 638 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 1: like her. Hmmm, oh crap. I would hope parents don't crap. 639 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 1: Getting within a fair partner. It would also explain why 640 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 1: he doesn't respect or try to protect her. Why would 641 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 1: he take someone with no moral seriously? I bet Opie's 642 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 1: ex fiance's friends and parents, like op More and the 643 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: girls in the group are probably making that girl's life 644 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: hard out of fear that she'll go after their boyfriends, 645 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: just like she did with Op's X. Opie, keep your 646 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: distance from them. They don't deserve even a minute of 647 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: your time and surround miserable too. Six who says you 648 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: handle this perfectly, part of me felt like she didn't 649 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: want you there because she didn't want the reality check 650 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: because she has she has now had the opportunity to 651 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: see how you interact with people, how your boyfriend interacts 652 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,479 Speaker 1: with you, and how you and how people interact with 653 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 1: her boyfriend, and the parent talks between your situation and 654 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: her situation. It's a shame you block them because I 655 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: imagine if they were if there were messages in back 656 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: last year's success versus Hers, they would have been glorious 657 00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 1: to read. But importantly, you don't care. In fact, you 658 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 1: have empathy for her. That's great, shows how beautifully you've 659 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: grown over two years. And Bond forty two says, wow, 660 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 1: you are genuinely a nice person after she took pretty, 661 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: after she took a petty dig petty dig at you. 662 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: You are more mad at how your ex's friend treat 663 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 1: her than your ex was. I think that says a 664 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 1: lot about your character and what a strong and confident 665 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: person you are. Bravo op and suitable. Park one eight 666 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 1: four says not the a hole for attending, but I 667 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 1: think all of your friends sound like pretentious a holes. 668 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: A dress code for a housewarming. We have dress codes 669 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: for our party. 670 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 2: It's called a theme party. 671 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, like we like say yeah yeah, we would like say. 672 00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 3: Wear fun hats cool? Code optional. 673 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 1: But being rude to ignoring someone's partner because they're not 674 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: smart enough or interesting enough, No way, No p in 675 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 1: response says to a downloaded comment that claimed she hadn't 676 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 1: gotten over her ex, says wow, because guys, having empathy 677 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: If a person, no matter how they act, is being 678 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 1: treated poorly means that I have not moved on caring 679 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 1: about how others are being treated doesn't always come with 680 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 1: ulterior motives, and my being mad at my ex for 681 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: being a crap human being towards his fiance has nothing 682 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: to do with my non existent feelings for him, but 683 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: everything to do with being uncomfortable with another woman being 684 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 1: insulted in front of you. Oh, p taken the high road. 685 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:29,400 Speaker 1: Tell them off. 686 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 3: When they go low, she goes hi, he goes high. 687 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,280 Speaker 1: That's right, and that's where that story ends. 688 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 3: But higher than me. I would have gone low. I 689 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 3: would have gone a little lower, got a little lower. 690 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 3: I would have gone a little lower. I got to 691 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 3: say a belt. 692 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 2: It's so. 693 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would have. I would have and I and 694 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 3: I took that personally. That's what I would have. That's 695 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 3: what I would have said. 696 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 4: It was a lot being like, oh I can't be there, 697 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 4: And I took that personally. I'm gonna make sure I'm 698 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 4: there in your face. 699 00:33:56,160 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 2: In your face or on on your face, near on, 700 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 2: within proximity. 701 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 1: We got some donos to read before we hit into 702 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 1: this next story. Why yes, everyone always says I look like. 703 00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,760 Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude, you're milo from Atlanta, which is amazing. 704 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 2: Everyone always says that. It's crazy. Earlier that was when when. 705 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 1: We first blew up on TikTok. Everyone like that was 706 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:35,239 Speaker 1: like one of the biggest I can't your Mila, but 707 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,520 Speaker 1: it's not. It's not doing this. 708 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:37,760 Speaker 3: You're an archaeologist. 709 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:39,840 Speaker 1: It normally does you an adventure. 710 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 2: Speak at to me, where would. 711 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 3: You want to You can explore anywhere? What would you explore? 712 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,320 Speaker 1: My dream is to go to the Koulong honey people 713 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 1: at the uh like the Mad Honey Yeah, the Mad 714 00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 1: Honey people, the honey buckets. My my dad's friend is 715 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 1: going there pretty soon. And I'm like, funk, I want 716 00:34:58,960 --> 00:34:59,359 Speaker 1: to go there. 717 00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:01,600 Speaker 3: You up and take it? 718 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 2: Would you? 719 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 3: Would you climb up and take the crazy money? 720 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,680 Speaker 1: I would climb up and take the bee honey. You 721 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,360 Speaker 1: think I Wouldn't You think I would? 722 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:10,720 Speaker 3: You think I wouldn't. 723 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 2: I'm mill owed that I will go anywhere. 724 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 4: Well, to be clear, I was teeing you up to 725 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 4: say Atlantis. What I said, where would you want to explore? 726 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 1: Oh? I know, but I don't want to explore Atlantis. 727 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,760 Speaker 1: Atlantis isn't real. 728 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 3: Now, And that's where I learned. Sam knew nothing. 729 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:32,880 Speaker 1: Yet. You got you got some Atlantas or. 730 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 3: Atlantis was real. It was written about by Plato Plato journaled. 731 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 3: Plato has documented and it. 732 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:40,839 Speaker 2: Was the first Plato's. 733 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 1: Plato's journals literally talk about imaginary things all the time. 734 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:49,840 Speaker 1: He's like, he's talking about like imaginary cities and places. 735 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 2: It's like I was. 736 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 1: Talking about the exercise thought exercise. 737 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 4: It was a city that never slept. They had an 738 00:35:56,239 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 4: energy source we didn't understand. And it was in Uh 739 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:04,560 Speaker 4: it is now I think it's in like inter It's 740 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 4: not on the coast of Africa, but it once was 741 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 4: on the coast of Africa, and it's yeah, it's it is. 742 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 4: And I will get into this later off stream. I 743 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 4: can't spin all stream. 744 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 3: Let us know if you want to stream where I 745 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,719 Speaker 3: explain why Atlantis is real and where it is. 746 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 1: That stream is coming tomorrow. 747 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 2: Actually very funny, Sam. 748 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 1: No, sir Atlantis. Yes, welcome to Atlantis. 749 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:28,880 Speaker 2: Wait do you see this, Dakota what missus Fu says? Uh, 750 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,800 Speaker 2: Sophia looks like Nami. Do you agree with that? Who? 751 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 2: From what up? Do you agree with that? 752 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 5: Though? 753 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 2: Kakoda? No, I don't, Sorry, she does, but. 754 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 4: She does look like like she's low key, like one 755 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 4: piece character. 756 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 2: Yeah it's the eyes. Yeah, Fia looks like a one 757 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 2: piece character. That's right. 758 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 1: She looks like like Chopper. But we got some dono's. 759 00:36:55,320 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 1: Uh chit chit chit chee chee chia bucks. I plan 760 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 1: my weekday dinner around your lives, and now my kids 761 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 1: know I'm making dinner when I turn you all on. 762 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 1: Thank you for being you. That is awesome. 763 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:14,719 Speaker 2: Oh wow, I read that littlechia Thank you. 764 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 3: G X fan, wild girl, that's that's a Texas fan. 765 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 3: We o girl, that's how I. 766 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 1: Say it that it's Texas fan. Old girl, that's Dan. 767 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 1: You got that quick. 768 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,400 Speaker 3: He's a Texas fan and he's with your girl. 769 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,800 Speaker 1: Texta fan with your girl, Texas fan with your girl. 770 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,239 Speaker 1: Thanks for the twenty ye bucks. You don't need to 771 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:42,879 Speaker 1: say anything, you know he's already told girl Sarita, thanks 772 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 1: for the five bucks donating just to hear Sam's say 773 00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: my name. That voice could bring about world piece Serita anytime. Wow. 774 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,320 Speaker 1: Oh do you see that Sophia gives off oh Chaco vibes? 775 00:37:59,440 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 1: What's that? 776 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 2: Wait? What is that? You don't know that? Oh? I 777 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:05,319 Speaker 2: don't know? 778 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 1: Al we got some oh U five bucks. I blocked 779 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,799 Speaker 1: my brother after he asked me for my notes. 780 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 2: Whoa give us? 781 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 3: Give us that one put that one in the subreddit. 782 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 2: Please please put that way. 783 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 1: Wha wait wait wait uh guys, let's get to seven 784 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty likes so we can spin that wheel 785 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,840 Speaker 1: and we could do a call in with Frank the 786 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: Pug about that crazy one liner. 787 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 2: Wow, we're not doing Alexa anymore. 788 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 3: Wow. 789 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,919 Speaker 2: Wait, she looks like a chocolate o Roca. 790 00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, we literally did Alexa already. 791 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 3: See I always I only hear about Uraka. 792 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean interviewed you on the show Alexa 793 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 1: given given me. 794 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 2: I thought I was like, you don't know what a 795 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:48,840 Speaker 2: chocolate is? Due problem, Hannah. 796 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 1: Thanks for the fifty bucks. We already said, thank you, 797 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 1: Thank you, Ziggy, thanks for the five bucks. Love okay, 798 00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 1: storytime cult slash family. Oh yeah, we're a cult parent 799 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,319 Speaker 1: Spaghettians for five bucks. All right, we got we got 800 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 1: a we got a whole paragraph here. Keon is not 801 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: more wait, Keon is not more culturally competent because he's multiracial. 802 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 1: He just happens to be more culturally competent than you two. 803 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 1: Because Dakota says weird things about food from other cultures 804 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,320 Speaker 1: and Sam still uses. 805 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 2: The word don't say it, does it? Don't say it? 806 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 2: Does it anyways? 807 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 5: Yeah? 808 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 3: S k. 809 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: Thanks Harriet, Emily, thanks for the twenty five bucks. 810 00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,840 Speaker 3: At wait, hold on to be clear, I have nothing. 811 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 3: I have no beef with any food from other cultures 812 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,879 Speaker 3: at all. I have no beef with it at all. 813 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 1: Sounds like you don't like beef, which isn't a lot 814 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 1: of culture. 815 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 2: No, and we have fifty five dollars. And that's another 816 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 2: thirty minutes. I can think of. 817 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 4: One cultural food I wouldn't eat, and it's when they 818 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,839 Speaker 4: take like the stomach of a cow and they take 819 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 4: like the partially digested grass from the cow stomach. 820 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,399 Speaker 2: And they eat it. That's that's cool. 821 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 3: Apparently it's supposed to be really good. I just don't 822 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:02,600 Speaker 3: think I can. 823 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,400 Speaker 1: We just got thirty more minutes. 824 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 2: We'll read that, but keep reading there me it tastes sweet. 825 00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,080 Speaker 1: Already did that, Kat Kelly, thanks for the ten bucks. 826 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,760 Speaker 1: I already read. Emily read this one. I read Emily 827 00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 1: for twenty five bucks. 828 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:18,400 Speaker 2: Here we go. 829 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 1: Cat Kelly, thanks for the ten bucks, and we read 830 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: that already. All right, let's go to the top. We're 831 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 1: that already. 832 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:29,359 Speaker 2: We did not reading. 833 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,279 Speaker 1: No, Sophia, thanks for the ten bucks. Thank you for 834 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,400 Speaker 1: keeping me company while I'm at work. I'm sorry you're 835 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,400 Speaker 1: going through the fire scarce. It means so much to 836 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,280 Speaker 1: me that you're still willing to stream MP with your fans. 837 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: Love y'all Texas slang, love y'all, love y'all. Lindsay Joy. 838 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 4: Thanks for the five bucks, Teddy, I see you in 839 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 4: the comments. 840 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,320 Speaker 3: I've had Prairie oysters before. 841 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 2: Not bad? 842 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,439 Speaker 3: Is it not bad? 843 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:51,640 Speaker 2: What about oysters? 844 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 3: Just look up Prairie oysters? 845 00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 1: Lindsey Joy says, thanks, thanks for the five bucks. 846 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,839 Speaker 4: My last don't read it's a private message, but that's 847 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 4: actually my last name is actually boo. 848 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,080 Speaker 1: But I put boop because boop and. 849 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 3: Boom and boo and hunga nice. 850 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 1: Hannah, thanks to the forty five bucks, always ottering that 851 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,680 Speaker 1: you read that and we're caught up where we got 852 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 1: one more actual drop bear? Thanks for five bucks. We 853 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,239 Speaker 1: need more time for Oh, we'll spend well, guess what 854 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 1: we got more time y'all. 855 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 3: It's here, We're here, it's here where he is and 856 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,359 Speaker 3: hand Hannah just drop another fifty. 857 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: Yesn't just dropped another fifty five. 858 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,960 Speaker 2: Hannah is the one who pushed us over. Okay, yeah, Hannah, 859 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 2: you're the best silent Hannah. Yeah, give in the chat, 860 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,239 Speaker 2: please give the. 861 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 3: We need, we need the Easter Island heads for the 862 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 3: jaw line. 863 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 1: Big Mama Panda, thanks for the three seventy seven. The 864 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,919 Speaker 1: number needs to be even Another fan in among Tana Oh, 865 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:01,719 Speaker 1: thanks for making a. 866 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 2: For the five bucks. 867 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,680 Speaker 1: I blocked a guy because he wanted to dance with 868 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 1: me and then cried on my shoulder when I gave 869 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,879 Speaker 1: in to pressure. He knew I was in a long term. 870 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:12,919 Speaker 2: Why did he? 871 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,120 Speaker 3: He's like, I just know this is never gonna work. 872 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 3: I don't know why I did this. I'm just hurting 873 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,800 Speaker 3: myself at this point. 874 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 1: That is like a weird situation to be in. 875 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,839 Speaker 3: Just like it's okay, I don't like you was gonna work. 876 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,600 Speaker 1: And then Teddy thanks for the two seventy nine Canadian 877 00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 1: Hi guys, long time since I've been here. Much love, 878 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,399 Speaker 1: much love to you too. Welcome back, Teddy, and we 879 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 1: are ready to thank vix Mix for the five gifted 880 00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 1: memberships more and tiny picture of Eiras. Thanks for the 881 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,279 Speaker 1: five bucks. I've been listening to old pods Sam. Can 882 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 1: you say congrats? 883 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:47,880 Speaker 2: Op? 884 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,319 Speaker 1: Like back in the day, what did I say? What 885 00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: did I say? Congrats? Back in the day. 886 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 2: I don't know you are the one that was there. 887 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,280 Speaker 2: I barely remember the old days. I remember yesterday. 888 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 1: I was literally that was the days we were. Yeah, 889 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,120 Speaker 1: you guys already like, I don't remember those days. 890 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 3: My brain was running on dry ramen. 891 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's literally, it's literally, yeah, I was. Christian's feet 892 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 1: were in the background of those It was great Christians, 893 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 1: shout out Christians. Christians feet. The reason people subscribed early on. 894 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,919 Speaker 2: Who's reading this one? Uh? 895 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 1: I got it? 896 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 2: Queue up? Are you ready? Are you ready? Sir? My 897 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,400 Speaker 2: friend is entitled. Yep, You're good to go. 898 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 1: My friend is entitled, and I finally broke free from 899 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 1: that entitlement. 900 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 3: I want to do the thing that'll get us copyrighted. 901 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:44,880 Speaker 3: I want to rever it's party. 902 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:48,880 Speaker 1: Read the story two years of no Contact with an 903 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 1: ex friend of mine Emma, and figured this would be 904 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,320 Speaker 1: a good sub to share the story of our friendship. 905 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from throw a lantern on 906 00:43:56,520 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 1: the our slash Okay story time subreddits. Also Kate Chris 907 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 1: Christopher Send says just saw one where Christian was asleep 908 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,520 Speaker 1: in the background last night. That's so funny. Yeah, we 909 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 1: literally recorded like twelve hours a day while Christian was sleeping. 910 00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: He's a trooper. Emma was a victim of bullying, so 911 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:18,799 Speaker 1: I became her only school friend. Her parents loved bomb me, 912 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 1: buying me lots of gifts, calling me Emma's savior, and 913 00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 1: lecturing me about needing to always support her because she 914 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: was bullied, et cetera. I didn't know better at thirteen 915 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 1: years old, and I was essentially being groomed to be 916 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: Emma's career Okay. I also met Kate, who was Emma's 917 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 1: childhood friend, and we became a cute group of three. 918 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:44,840 Speaker 1: But by college I realized Emma was falling far behind 919 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 1: in maturity. Her mom would ask me to help her, 920 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 1: poor Emma with basic things like catch the bus with 921 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:58,640 Speaker 1: her or driver even though she could drive. Even always 922 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: Autumn says, you said you my donation, but I didn't 923 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,440 Speaker 1: hear it. We did read your donation always Autumn. 924 00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:03,919 Speaker 2: We did. 925 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:05,719 Speaker 3: I know there isn't always Autumn up there. 926 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,719 Speaker 2: Yep, Oh you want to do it real quick. 927 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna read it really quick. 928 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 2: Real I don't actually, I don't think I have it anymore. 929 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 2: It's gone, No, it should be, it should be there anymore. 930 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 2: What do you mean it's getting filled up with the 931 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:19,680 Speaker 2: other donations? 932 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,760 Speaker 1: No, no, no, just refresh I will. 933 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 3: Oh, I think I see what he's talking about. 934 00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 5: Though. 935 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,239 Speaker 3: It's like you can only go down so far. Yeah, 936 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:29,799 Speaker 3: what we definitely said. 937 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 2: We definitely did read it. It's in there. I think 938 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 2: that was the one where we make it smaller. No, 939 00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 2: it doesn't do it. I wonder why it's doing that, 940 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 2: But that hasn't always been the case. Yeah, it was 941 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:43,400 Speaker 2: the one where palm springs. 942 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,080 Speaker 1: Yes, I do palm yeah. 943 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 944 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 1: Also you are uh keon, could you write a note 945 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,880 Speaker 1: on the notion to fix this so we can read. 946 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,840 Speaker 2: All the previous donations. 947 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:01,560 Speaker 1: And put you in ali uh eddie on that. Even 948 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,960 Speaker 1: when it was inconvenient for me, like when I moved 949 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,239 Speaker 1: out of home and lived an hour away, her mom 950 00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: would still try to guilt trip me. It became a 951 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,680 Speaker 1: one sided friendship. So to help Emma grow up, I 952 00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 1: started teaching her and asking her to do things. 953 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:15,879 Speaker 2: On her own. 954 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: But the problems grew, and there is a story to 955 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:25,280 Speaker 1: show that. That's called the travel story. So we travel 956 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,840 Speaker 1: with my new college group and they politely asked me 957 00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 1: to not invite Emma again because she would wander off 958 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: to call her mom and get lost. She'd lose things, 959 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:41,160 Speaker 1: get scammed, or randomly unpack her pluggage in public. She 960 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 1: always needed help and it was stressing me out. Twenty 961 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,480 Speaker 1: four to seven. She never pitched in for ubers or food. 962 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 1: The hotel mixed up rooms. Three people stuck with a 963 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,520 Speaker 1: single bed, and Emma got two king beds to herself 964 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: and she refused to swap, which caused further drama. That's crazy. 965 00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,600 Speaker 3: You're a monster if you do that. I'm sorry. 966 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,680 Speaker 1: Why would you ever want to be friends with Emma? 967 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 3: Were you hoarding two king beds? 968 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 1: She wanted to like put her luggage on one and 969 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 1: herself on the other. 970 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,440 Speaker 3: She wanted to jump between both of them. 971 00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. You know, we want extra trampoline. 972 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 4: Sometimes so as you wake up in the middle of 973 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 4: the night and you need to get into your second 974 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:18,080 Speaker 4: king bed yep. 975 00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it gets it gets too warm. You want 976 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 1: like the quo when you slip into like a cold bed, 977 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,600 Speaker 1: and then sometimes when it's hot, it's like feel so good. Absolutely, 978 00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: and she deserves that. She deserves that twice. But she 979 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 1: even interrupted and tried to third wheel my one date 980 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,959 Speaker 1: with my significant other. She had been with us every 981 00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: other meal she was leaving. Endless Miss calls pastoring for 982 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 1: our location and wanting me to pay for her uber 983 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 1: to meet us. I cried many times on that trip, 984 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 1: and my significant other admitted he dislikes how Emma treats me. 985 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,040 Speaker 1: By the end of the trip, Emma was still oblivious, 986 00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:01,520 Speaker 1: insisting my stress was caused by being two uptights got 987 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 1: another story about how terrible she is her birthday. For 988 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: her twenty fifth birthday, she invites me and Kate to 989 00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,400 Speaker 1: a dinner, but last minute books a five star hotel 990 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:15,240 Speaker 1: room to stay overnight and asks us each to pay. Wow, 991 00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:20,920 Speaker 1: that is such a scumbag move insane level of entitlement. 992 00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 1: An insane level of entitlement. 993 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, and just like, oh, but well, it's my birthday. 994 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,800 Speaker 3: I don't understand you're not gonna pay for me on 995 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:29,600 Speaker 3: my birthday. 996 00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: Well, I declined, saying I already have plans before my 997 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:40,359 Speaker 1: dinner and the day after, Kate dms me privately, saying 998 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,560 Speaker 1: this is really important to Emma and it will mean 999 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,719 Speaker 1: a lot if we did the hotel. Just pay and 1000 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,719 Speaker 1: we'll do things differently next time. So I gave it 1001 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:52,879 Speaker 1: and paid during dinner during dinner, Emma is unimpressed by 1002 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 1: my gift. That's just Chanelle lipstick. Alex says, Chanelle lipstick expensive. 1003 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:04,120 Speaker 1: Alexi says is expensive. And when it was time to 1004 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 1: pay the bill, Emma says, you guys pay Between the 1005 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:12,960 Speaker 1: two of you, I'm the birthday girl. That was ridiculous. 1006 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,359 Speaker 3: That is maybe I would leave. I'd be like, hey, 1007 00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 3: birthday girl, I'm gonna give you a great gift. 1008 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:22,600 Speaker 2: It's called a life lesson. Yeah, I see you. 1009 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:24,359 Speaker 3: Uh oh, what are you gonna do? Now? 1010 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 2: You know what I say. 1011 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,799 Speaker 1: We should have discussed this beforehand. And they both turn 1012 00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 1: on me, like, you know, the birthday girl never pays. 1013 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 1: While they went to other bars, I faked feeling sick, 1014 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,360 Speaker 1: went back to the hotel room, calling other friends in 1015 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:43,160 Speaker 1: my sixty foot other for support. That's when I decided 1016 00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: to stop being friends, which I think honestly, she doesn't 1017 00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:47,719 Speaker 1: sound like a good friend at all. 1018 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 3: Oh, she sounds exploitive. 1019 00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:51,839 Speaker 1: Maah. And if you want to be a good friend 1020 00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: to us, you should like this streams so we could 1021 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,800 Speaker 1: spin that wheel exactly. 1022 00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 2: We are like thirty likes away, guys, We're thirty likes away. 1023 00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:58,360 Speaker 3: That's crazy. 1024 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:03,399 Speaker 2: I mean thirty eight likes, thirty eight likes. Only thirty 1025 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 2: eight of you who haven't liked the stream need to 1026 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 2: like it, and we get to do this. I hear that, 1027 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 2: Did you hear that? Yeah? 1028 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:11,560 Speaker 3: I'd activate some neurons with that. 1029 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,760 Speaker 1: That's when I decided to stop being friends. I left 1030 00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 1: first thing in the morning for another event, upsetting both 1031 00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:22,719 Speaker 1: Emma and Kate because they expected me to drive them home. 1032 00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 1: Now we got another story my birthday. In the end, 1033 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,480 Speaker 1: I hadn't spoken to them for months, but they eventually 1034 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 1: reached out, wanting to celebrate my birthday. The event went 1035 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:37,080 Speaker 1: surprisingly well until the bill I know Drake. They went 1036 00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 1: through two bottles of wine and cocktails. Emma wanted me 1037 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,319 Speaker 1: to pay What happened to the birthday girl role? 1038 00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:43,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1039 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 3: Excuse me? I thought, are we not being consistent here? 1040 00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:50,839 Speaker 1: You invited us out, You're the birthday girl treating us 1041 00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 1: to a night out hypocrites, and they're the ones who 1042 00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,319 Speaker 1: asked me out. We eventually agreed to pay food three 1043 00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: ways and they pay for their own drink. But Kate's 1044 00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:05,759 Speaker 1: card declined and Emma never pays, so she forgot her pen. 1045 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 2: No, she did it. 1046 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:12,000 Speaker 1: I ended up paying Kate transferred me immediately, but Emma didn't, 1047 00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 1: and so began the final chapter. For weeks, Emma kept 1048 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 1: dodging my questions to pay me back for dinner and 1049 00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:21,200 Speaker 1: some concert tickets. She also owed. I even sent my 1050 00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 1: bank details again and started giving deadlines like please have 1051 00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,799 Speaker 1: this done by tomorrow. Her responses would be like, hey, 1052 00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,319 Speaker 1: how was your weekend? Or just leaving me on Red 1053 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:36,120 Speaker 1: the audacity scum bag, that's so whack. I eventually called 1054 00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,880 Speaker 1: Emma asking why she can't pay me back, and she 1055 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,759 Speaker 1: admits she doesn't know how to transfer money. We walked 1056 00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,400 Speaker 1: through it together, but she never makes the payment. I 1057 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 1: chased her again on text, and I'm left on Red ghosted. 1058 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,520 Speaker 1: I asked Kate for help and she said, that's weird. 1059 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,400 Speaker 1: She always pays me back and that hurt to hear. 1060 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: I chased up Emma again a few days later, left 1061 00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,520 Speaker 1: on Red again, and I finally had enough. I sent 1062 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,880 Speaker 1: her both concert tickets and told her to go with 1063 00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,759 Speaker 1: her sister because I'm not doing this anymore. And then 1064 00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:08,480 Speaker 1: Emma immediately pays me. Took almost two months and threats. 1065 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:10,759 Speaker 1: She made all these excuses, I'm tired, I don't check 1066 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,320 Speaker 1: my phone. You don't know how hard it is to 1067 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 1: be a receptionist. 1068 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:15,920 Speaker 2: I am a lawyer. 1069 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,040 Speaker 1: By the way, you expect so much from me. This 1070 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 1: outburst has come out of nowhere. I can't believe you're 1071 00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,120 Speaker 1: punishing me, et cetera. I sent her a long text 1072 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 1: about everything I had bottled up, including the travel story, 1073 00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 1: her birthday, my birthday being taken for granted, et cetera, 1074 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:30,920 Speaker 1: and then I asked for space. 1075 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:32,840 Speaker 3: I just got you. 1076 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:35,560 Speaker 4: Gotta love the UNO reverse card of like, you don't 1077 00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 4: know how hard it is to be a receptionist. Be like, dude, 1078 00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:41,279 Speaker 4: I'm literally the highest level receptionist there is. Yeah, I'm 1079 00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:42,520 Speaker 4: a law receptionist. 1080 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,560 Speaker 3: Dude, Like I received the law. 1081 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:48,040 Speaker 2: Yeah what oh I mean? 1082 00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 1: I think I think asking for space at this point, like, 1083 00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:54,720 Speaker 1: is the least OP could do for herself. 1084 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:56,239 Speaker 2: Cut this person off. 1085 00:52:56,719 --> 00:53:00,279 Speaker 4: This person is uh is trash, and maybe they'll grow 1086 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 4: and become a better version of themselves. But right now 1087 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,879 Speaker 4: without you being there and the thing I I would 1088 00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,439 Speaker 4: also be upset with being like, so you're you're paying 1089 00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,440 Speaker 4: these other people back but not me. 1090 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,759 Speaker 3: So you what do you think I'm a chump? You 1091 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:14,440 Speaker 3: don't respect me enough to pay me? 1092 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1093 00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:17,839 Speaker 1: I don't know, and like, oh, she only pays when 1094 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:21,719 Speaker 1: there's a threat. I feel like this whole thing. 1095 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,520 Speaker 3: Is And I admittedly am a guy who will forget. 1096 00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 4: But that's why I love venmo Is because like, you 1097 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,800 Speaker 4: can lived me a thing that goes, bring pay me 1098 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:30,680 Speaker 4: and I'll go, oh. 1099 00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,920 Speaker 3: Yes, I'll do that right now, speak of the devil. 1100 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:35,560 Speaker 2: What I need to do that? 1101 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh you need to do that for what for you? 1102 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:38,799 Speaker 2: Oh? 1103 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:39,480 Speaker 3: Yeah that's for me? 1104 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:40,920 Speaker 2: Get that? 1105 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 4: Well, just wait till he rins Rookie of the Year. 1106 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,120 Speaker 4: It's either gonna be him or Jade Daniels. 1107 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:47,160 Speaker 2: Is this a bet? Yeah, this is a bet. 1108 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 3: Sorry, it's a football bat. We we don't have to 1109 00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:51,520 Speaker 3: get into it. 1110 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:52,400 Speaker 2: We'll talk about it. 1111 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, I do believe Emma sucks. 1112 00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 3: Emma does suck. 1113 00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but right there, there we go, there we go. 1114 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,680 Speaker 1: You guys know it too. So Kay calls me and 1115 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:04,320 Speaker 1: angrily demands I apologize for hurting Emma's feelings. I said, no, 1116 00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm not apologizing for this, and I'd like for both 1117 00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:10,239 Speaker 1: not to contact me. A few days later, Emma sends 1118 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,680 Speaker 1: me this big text. She apologizes been and then accuse 1119 00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 1: me of being inconsiderate controlling and impatient. She justifies never 1120 00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 1: making an effort by saying she's a guest two events 1121 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,960 Speaker 1: and trips away while I'm apparently in charge. She then 1122 00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,120 Speaker 1: says this is all my fault because I should have 1123 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,720 Speaker 1: been clearer and basically nag her more to make an effort, 1124 00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,480 Speaker 1: plan pay, et cetera, and that I should apologize for 1125 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:37,319 Speaker 1: hurting her and causing drama. So Emma's apologizing but then 1126 00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:39,600 Speaker 1: being accusing and asking for apology. 1127 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 4: Comments just figured it out, dude, what op makes more 1128 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:49,400 Speaker 4: money than her friend Emma, and thus Emma believes that 1129 00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,840 Speaker 4: she should be exactly Comina. Karina says she wants her 1130 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,120 Speaker 4: to pay because she thinks she has money because she's 1131 00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,600 Speaker 4: a lawyer and thinks she can take it, which is, 1132 00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,399 Speaker 4: by the way, also scumback thing. 1133 00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 1: To do well. Question for you, Dakota, when would you 1134 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:06,200 Speaker 1: have cut it off? You mean Emma's behavior when we 1135 00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:08,320 Speaker 1: When you do you have cut off Emma's behavior? 1136 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,399 Speaker 3: As soon as she hits me with the oh, by 1137 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,239 Speaker 3: the way, I booked this five star hotel and you're 1138 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:14,440 Speaker 3: gonna pay for it, I'd. 1139 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,840 Speaker 2: Be like, who are you? 1140 00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,080 Speaker 1: I feel like the the two king beds I might 1141 00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,680 Speaker 1: have been like that, I might, I might distance myself. 1142 00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,680 Speaker 1: That's pretty pretty out of pocket. 1143 00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 3: That's gonna make me go all right, that's that's bad bait. 1144 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:29,840 Speaker 3: That's strange behavior. 1145 00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 4: But when she when she goes, when when she starts 1146 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:35,480 Speaker 4: trying to put upon the bill, that's what I'm like, 1147 00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:40,600 Speaker 4: it's over. Yeah, I'm suspicious immediately with like the almost 1148 00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,040 Speaker 4: going out of your way to make everyone else uncomfortable. 1149 00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:46,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, like but by just taking to the two largest 1150 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:46,920 Speaker 3: beds you could. 1151 00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,800 Speaker 1: Have, Yeah, and you're gonna make them sleep in a 1152 00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,080 Speaker 1: single twin. Like that's it's weird that well, that that's 1153 00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,759 Speaker 1: just behavior of someone who's who always gets their way 1154 00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 1: and entitlement, and it has massive entitlement and massive selfish 1155 00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 1: and like a friend, like when you have a friend 1156 00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 1: like that, like what do you actually have because it 1157 00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,439 Speaker 1: doesn't seem like you have a bill that shows bill 1158 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,400 Speaker 1: that shows up every once in a while. Yeah, exactly. 1159 00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,680 Speaker 1: Elizabeth Moore says I'd have dumped her in college. I 1160 00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:18,640 Speaker 1: think I agree. She ends up. She ends her text 1161 00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 1: passive aggressively with since you're so hung up about this 1162 00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,240 Speaker 1: and need me to make more of an effort whatever, 1163 00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:29,480 Speaker 1: I'll plan the next thing. Let's do tomorrow. Where do 1164 00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:30,320 Speaker 1: you want to go? 1165 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,680 Speaker 4: I'll book again, cut off, I'll plan the next thing, 1166 00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,520 Speaker 4: let's do tomorrow. That's not a plan, that's the spur 1167 00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:42,360 Speaker 4: of the moment. That's impulsive decisions. I probably already got 1168 00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 4: something going on tomorrow, like we what are we doing? 1169 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:47,359 Speaker 4: And your whole attitude is wrong. 1170 00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 3: I'm out And for that, Sharks, I'm out. 1171 00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:52,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, that she is. 1172 00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: She is the worst friend possible. Instead, I asked for 1173 00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:58,879 Speaker 1: a month of no contact, and she left me on bred. 1174 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,319 Speaker 1: A month passes an get another angry text from her. 1175 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,839 Speaker 1: It's been a month and one day. Now, why haven't 1176 00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,800 Speaker 1: you reached out? I set our book this time. Stop hiding. 1177 00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,440 Speaker 1: We need to meet up and fight it out. I 1178 00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,920 Speaker 1: declined and said the break helped me realize I was 1179 00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:17,360 Speaker 1: happier keeping our distance for now, and I wish her well. 1180 00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,920 Speaker 1: Her and her family all immediately blocked me on social media, 1181 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:22,920 Speaker 1: and that was it. 1182 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 2: Got to live when a problem takes care of itself. 1183 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, obviously I'm well aware of the mistakes I made. 1184 00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,880 Speaker 1: My boundaries are not strong enough. I fell for the 1185 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:35,640 Speaker 1: love bombing and shouldn't have felt so guilty about saying 1186 00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,880 Speaker 1: no but now I know to never do it again. 1187 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:40,160 Speaker 2: Edit. 1188 00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,560 Speaker 1: This is for anyone interested in the full hotel story. 1189 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:45,880 Speaker 1: Emma got with the two king beds, we can dive 1190 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,840 Speaker 1: straight into this while three girls from my college group 1191 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,200 Speaker 1: got stuck sharing a single. Wow. Everyone else were couples 1192 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,000 Speaker 1: with double beds, so obviously the hotel got the keys 1193 00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,720 Speaker 1: mixed up for Emma and the three girls. Emma was 1194 00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,760 Speaker 1: oblivious at first. Awe sucks for them. Room is amazing. 1195 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:03,720 Speaker 1: It's a massive with a dining table and kitchen. It 1196 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:05,920 Speaker 1: got awkward and they explained that we needed her to 1197 00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: swap rooms. She'd understand, like, why my room, So I 1198 00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:10,920 Speaker 1: had to spell it out to her a few times. 1199 00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,560 Speaker 1: She refused to swap because she wanted the space in 1200 00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:16,560 Speaker 1: the kitchen. I then negotiated that three girls could share 1201 00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 1: her room, and she didn't want to share with girls 1202 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 1: she didn't know. 1203 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 2: Well. 1204 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,680 Speaker 1: I tried to maintain my composure. She had been getting 1205 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:24,840 Speaker 1: on my nerves all day, and at this point the 1206 00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:26,640 Speaker 1: three girls showed up to negotiate with Emma. 1207 00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:26,840 Speaker 3: Two. 1208 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,959 Speaker 1: They noticed I was getting agitated and that Emma wouldn't budge, 1209 00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,240 Speaker 1: so they said to forget about it. They'll talk to 1210 00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 1: the hotel about upgrading their room. After significant off my 1211 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:39,280 Speaker 1: significant other even offered to take the single room so 1212 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,959 Speaker 1: that Emma and I could share our own room, which 1213 00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:45,760 Speaker 1: was an immediate no from me, especially since I was 1214 00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,000 Speaker 1: so irritated with her while turns out the hotel was 1215 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:51,520 Speaker 1: completely booked out because it's near a huge sporting taste stadium, 1216 00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:55,040 Speaker 1: and the three girls and I spent an hour downstairs 1217 00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,400 Speaker 1: with one of the hotel managers and we eventually found 1218 00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:00,400 Speaker 1: out one of the couple's rooms also had a sofa 1219 00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,520 Speaker 1: bed that could be set up. The couple agreed to 1220 00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,320 Speaker 1: swap rooms, leaving them with a single bedroom, and the 1221 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,440 Speaker 1: hotel could add a spare single to combine it and 1222 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 1: create a double, but the hotel was short staff because 1223 00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,200 Speaker 1: they were fully booked and said we'd have to wait 1224 00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,440 Speaker 1: until tomorrow to set it up. I can't remember what 1225 00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,520 Speaker 1: the sleeping arrangements ended up being that night. By the way, 1226 00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:21,520 Speaker 1: if you want to remember every night how you should 1227 00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,840 Speaker 1: go to bed, because the best way to go to 1228 00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:28,000 Speaker 1: bed is to sleep to our voices as they lull 1229 00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:31,920 Speaker 1: you into sleep, you should go listen to our podcast 1230 00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:37,160 Speaker 1: that we released episodes on morning and night every single day, 1231 00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:41,160 Speaker 1: including the weekends. Just look up Okay, story Time wherever 1232 00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:45,280 Speaker 1: you get your podcasts. That's Spotify, that's Apple Podcasts. Just 1233 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 1: go listen to us on your favorite podcast app. You 1234 00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:50,880 Speaker 1: could listen while sleeping, while working, while doing whatever exactly. 1235 00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:54,120 Speaker 3: That so listen everything exactly. 1236 00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:58,080 Speaker 1: There's another relevant update. But yeah, this woman needs to 1237 00:59:58,080 --> 00:59:58,520 Speaker 1: be cut off. 1238 00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:02,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, you can. I don't understand what's the problem 1239 01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:10,160 Speaker 3: with keeping well sped Yes, after the story, after the story, but. 1240 01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 2: I should understand why why are you keeping her around? Why? What? 1241 01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,600 Speaker 1: I don't know sometimes, like I guess sometimes maybe maybe 1242 01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 1: maybe maybe she's okay and. 1243 01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:22,480 Speaker 2: But she knows what's going on. Is like this is 1244 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 2: so messed up. This is literally so stupid. 1245 01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, I do think uh Dakota's right. I 1246 01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,440 Speaker 1: think OPI is just like a really really nice person 1247 01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:33,920 Speaker 1: and maybe keeps around people that don't treat her with respect. 1248 01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:35,240 Speaker 1: Jet you know, some people just. 1249 01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:39,240 Speaker 4: Really don't do well with confrontation, Like some people will 1250 01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 4: just let this play out until it concludes on its own. 1251 01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 4: But I mean I think at some point, I mean, 1252 01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,200 Speaker 4: she did end up making the decision like I want 1253 01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 4: a month away from you. But it is wild that 1254 01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 4: it took that long to get to that point, Like 1255 01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,120 Speaker 4: as soon as she's booking a five star hotel room 1256 01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:01,400 Speaker 4: and is like you're paying, it's like, get out of 1257 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:01,840 Speaker 4: my face? 1258 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:06,960 Speaker 1: Who get out? I might even that one that one 1259 01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,520 Speaker 1: time and then just complete. If I was made to 1260 01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:12,200 Speaker 1: pay in that case, I would have been like all right, 1261 01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:16,200 Speaker 1: and distance made immed. Yeah, I'd be like, this is 1262 01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,000 Speaker 1: the price of me never talking to you again. Yeah, 1263 01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,160 Speaker 1: but we do got a little bit more of this 1264 01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,720 Speaker 1: story before we spin that wheel. However, people observed her 1265 01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,120 Speaker 1: over the trip and word got out about the room drama, 1266 01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:29,480 Speaker 1: so they obviously developed opinions about her. When Emma and 1267 01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:32,720 Speaker 1: I argued after my birthday, I mentioned this hotel drama 1268 01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:34,720 Speaker 1: to her how it wasn't fair to the three other 1269 01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,480 Speaker 1: girls and other things like never paying or pitching in, 1270 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:40,440 Speaker 1: and she asked if the whole group knew about what happened, 1271 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:44,080 Speaker 1: and of course I said yes. She then got angry 1272 01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:48,240 Speaker 1: at me, texting in all caps accusing me of character 1273 01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:52,320 Speaker 1: assassinating her that I gossip to try to ruin her reputation, 1274 01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 1: which is not true. She did this to herself by 1275 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,760 Speaker 1: refusing to negotiate to with the other three girls. And 1276 01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:01,720 Speaker 1: refuse to make any effort wild. That is, that is 1277 01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:06,080 Speaker 1: easy to assassinate your character when you are murdering people 1278 01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:12,720 Speaker 1: every which way by being unkind, hypothetically hypothetically hypothetically murdering. 1279 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:17,000 Speaker 4: Hypothetically hypothetically hypothetically. I think I figured out. I think 1280 01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,720 Speaker 4: I had a thought though of why give me your 1281 01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:22,440 Speaker 4: group dynamic? The group dynamic makes things. 1282 01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:25,160 Speaker 1: Like that harder, Oh, because like they're all friends. 1283 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,200 Speaker 3: Right, So it's like you cut off one friend. Now 1284 01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:31,000 Speaker 3: it's like there's a whole inter friend group, like. 1285 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:34,440 Speaker 4: A little civil war breaking out, and it's like sometimes 1286 01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:37,840 Speaker 4: the politics of all that is such a headache that 1287 01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:40,840 Speaker 4: like maybe you put up with it a little bit longer. 1288 01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:45,280 Speaker 1: But I think I think op should not put up 1289 01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:45,480 Speaker 1: with this. 1290 01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:48,840 Speaker 4: I think it's even if she could afford that hotel 1291 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,240 Speaker 4: room for being because she's a lawyer, it's more of 1292 01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:55,920 Speaker 4: a matter of principle of like you like, it's like 1293 01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:59,520 Speaker 4: a lack of there's lack of respect, respect and like 1294 01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:02,440 Speaker 4: something else too. I can't the words not coming to mind, 1295 01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:07,240 Speaker 4: but it's it's a disregard for her as like a 1296 01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:11,520 Speaker 4: person and more as like a tool. It's like why 1297 01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:15,800 Speaker 4: she can afford this stuff. So it's like dehumanizing. 1298 01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:19,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, completely whack. But that's where that story ends. But 1299 01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:22,800 Speaker 1: now where the stream ends, because we're gonna spend that. 1300 01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:30,320 Speaker 2: Wheel before so we do get a call. Do you 1301 01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 2: want to do a voice call? Do you want to 1302 01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 2: have an Alexa Alexa talk? 1303 01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:34,080 Speaker 1: What do you mean why do we get a call? 1304 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 2: You said, if we if we hit the call, Yeah, 1305 01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:37,040 Speaker 2: you said, if we. 1306 01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,520 Speaker 1: Hit let's do we We heard Alexa story already, We're 1307 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:42,919 Speaker 1: gonna do it was such a short story, and that's 1308 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:43,720 Speaker 1: all she gets. 1309 01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:45,440 Speaker 2: Though. 1310 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:46,360 Speaker 1: I love you, Alexa. 1311 01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,640 Speaker 2: How you treat your friends? It is not it is 1312 01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:52,240 Speaker 2: it is the friends. 1313 01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:54,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I treat them with love and respect. But I 1314 01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:58,240 Speaker 1: want to hear from the community. All right, let's spin 1315 01:03:58,320 --> 01:03:58,640 Speaker 1: that wheel. 1316 01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:05,400 Speaker 2: Spend that wheel plus twenty minutes plus who's putting plus 1317 01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:06,680 Speaker 2: twenty minutes? All that thing? 1318 01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:10,800 Speaker 3: Is that plus twenty or was it was it that? 1319 01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:14,280 Speaker 2: Okay? 1320 01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:16,600 Speaker 3: How about waiting to see I got my polarized sung 1321 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:16,959 Speaker 3: We can. 1322 01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:20,000 Speaker 2: Do interpretive dance for okay? Do you want to do it? Wait? Wait? Wait, 1323 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:22,840 Speaker 2: did plus twenty minutes come back? That was for hard mode? 1324 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:29,080 Speaker 1: It replaced hard mode with plus twenty That's crazy. It's 1325 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:30,920 Speaker 1: on the wheel, so we have to abide by it. 1326 01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:32,960 Speaker 2: But do you want to do this chat? We can 1327 01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,800 Speaker 2: do we got chat. Here we go, here, we go chat. 1328 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:40,360 Speaker 1: Would you Paul, would you rather do interpretive? 1329 01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:41,120 Speaker 6: No? 1330 01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:43,800 Speaker 1: No, would you rather do the Frank the Pug Story 1331 01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:45,520 Speaker 1: or plus twenty minutes? 1332 01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:49,440 Speaker 2: Now it's either or it's either or No, you're not crazy. No, 1333 01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:51,920 Speaker 2: that's you're not. Now you're not abiding by any of 1334 01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:52,440 Speaker 2: the rules here. 1335 01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,120 Speaker 1: That is that is because they said they want freak 1336 01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:54,720 Speaker 1: the Pug story. 1337 01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,040 Speaker 4: But I thought we'd already agreed that if we hit 1338 01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 4: seven fifty we'd do a call in. 1339 01:04:58,480 --> 01:04:58,520 Speaker 5: No. 1340 01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:00,640 Speaker 1: No, we said no, we said we would we would 1341 01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:02,840 Speaker 1: be able to spind the wheel to get a call on. 1342 01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,320 Speaker 3: Oh okay, so we just misunderstood, gotcha? 1343 01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, Sam Zell over placefication folks, All right, way, Paul 1344 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:15,200 Speaker 2: Frank the Pug Interview, plus let me just Frank if 1345 01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:19,080 Speaker 2: he actually wants to do Frank, I can't do it 1346 01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:20,640 Speaker 2: right now, Franks. 1347 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:23,680 Speaker 1: Linda our joy. Sophie and I are not twins. We 1348 01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: are brother and sister. I'm four years older. 1349 01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:27,880 Speaker 3: They might as well be twins, though, how about we 1350 01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:28,160 Speaker 3: do this. 1351 01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:30,200 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a little bit of fun thing here. 1352 01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,240 Speaker 2: You can do it either or I do plus twenty 1353 01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:36,400 Speaker 2: minutes straight up, or we do plus ten minutes for 1354 01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:39,680 Speaker 2: this next story for interpretive. 1355 01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:44,000 Speaker 1: Dance, or plus ten minutes and pug because. 1356 01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:44,200 Speaker 3: It really was. 1357 01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:47,439 Speaker 2: Stated he didn't want to do it. Yeah, he doesn't 1358 01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:47,720 Speaker 2: want to do it. 1359 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:49,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's fair. 1360 01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:51,760 Speaker 4: Ke on because the wheel landed like this where it 1361 01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:55,720 Speaker 4: was like the red the bingle dangle was on twenty minutes, 1362 01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 4: but the arrow was. 1363 01:05:58,320 --> 01:05:59,600 Speaker 2: I like democracy, all. 1364 01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:02,080 Speaker 1: Right, theocracy plus plus twenty minutes. 1365 01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:09,520 Speaker 2: I love democracy twenty minutes or or dance interpretive dance 1366 01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,440 Speaker 2: twenty minutes or ten or ten minutes with. 1367 01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:14,800 Speaker 1: Every chance twenty minutes. There's no way, no get I bet. 1368 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:17,160 Speaker 4: You everyone's going to choose ten minutes an interpretive dance 1369 01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:18,400 Speaker 4: you think is gonna be up? 1370 01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,840 Speaker 2: Which's gonna be you? So someone says, ooh, I like 1371 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:22,560 Speaker 2: the ten and yeah, because you weren't there for the day, 1372 01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:24,800 Speaker 2: it will be the dancer. People like the dance. I'm sorry, 1373 01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,720 Speaker 2: that looks really weird. If you guys get it. One 1374 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:29,920 Speaker 2: one is twenty minute. It looks a little wonky because 1375 01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:31,480 Speaker 2: I put it. It's a little too long. One is 1376 01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:33,600 Speaker 2: plus twenty minutes. Two is dance with ten minutes. 1377 01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:40,040 Speaker 4: Uh, why to vote two for the dance, vote one 1378 01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:44,040 Speaker 4: for twenty minutes, and two also includes ten minutes. 1379 01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 1: Oh wow, people people really want people really want to dance. 1380 01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:48,720 Speaker 2: I love democracy. 1381 01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting that. Yeah, I was expecting people just want. 1382 01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:55,240 Speaker 1: Oh oh it's getting let's read. 1383 01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:56,520 Speaker 2: We're doing that. 1384 01:06:56,880 --> 01:07:00,840 Speaker 3: We'll read the told nary Cat. Thanks for five the 1385 01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:03,920 Speaker 3: five bucks. Thanks for entertaining my wife and I while 1386 01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:10,040 Speaker 3: we're playing the sims. Uh Easter barber Uh buyer yeh, 1387 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:13,920 Speaker 3: tiny picture eras. Thanks for the five bucks. I've been 1388 01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:15,080 Speaker 3: listening to old pods. 1389 01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:15,479 Speaker 2: Sam. 1390 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,680 Speaker 4: Oh can you say congrats? O pee like back in 1391 01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:20,440 Speaker 4: the day. I think so, We're congrats. Got up there, 1392 01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:26,400 Speaker 4: Victoria Hall. Welcome to the nights Washing Washing I Night 1393 01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:31,880 Speaker 4: the Sarah Wilcox, thank you for the too two dollars donations. 1394 01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:36,520 Speaker 3: And your message was retracted. We look a message retracted. 1395 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:38,080 Speaker 2: I can't like it. 1396 01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:40,640 Speaker 4: Uh, vix Mix, thanks for the five bucks. I love 1397 01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:44,440 Speaker 4: this community, so I will always come correct and we 1398 01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:45,600 Speaker 4: appreciate that. 1399 01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,960 Speaker 2: Vix. That's it. That's the donations, is it? 1400 01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:49,360 Speaker 6: Really? 1401 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 1: I look, indeed, people want twenty minutes. 1402 01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:56,840 Speaker 2: I wasn't. Honestly, I'm gonna I'm gonna end it at 1403 01:07:57,000 --> 01:08:01,360 Speaker 2: eight minutes, so wait so little. The polls will close 1404 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:02,000 Speaker 2: at eight minutes. 1405 01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:04,800 Speaker 3: Poles closing in thirty twenty nine. 1406 01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:06,560 Speaker 2: Actually very close. 1407 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,640 Speaker 1: This is a very six the Interpretive Dance win over 1408 01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:13,640 Speaker 1: the twenty minutes Willy Dance Kid Interpretive. 1409 01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:18,960 Speaker 2: I feel like people are voting multiply for twenty minutes. Guys. 1410 01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:20,120 Speaker 3: You can only vote once, guys. 1411 01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:24,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can, but there's like there's there's oh yeah, dude, 1412 01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:26,479 Speaker 1: I mean ten. You would have to get ten votes 1413 01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:29,479 Speaker 1: for Interpretive Dance. Frank the Pug says, I think it's 1414 01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:31,559 Speaker 1: gonna take it. I wanted to call, but I can't. 1415 01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:33,519 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I will submit my story to the subreddit 1416 01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:34,439 Speaker 1: soon though. Thank you. 1417 01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:37,160 Speaker 2: Thanks Frank. We want to hear it and let us 1418 01:08:37,200 --> 01:08:38,479 Speaker 2: know when you're there and we'll read it. 1419 01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:41,559 Speaker 3: Don kashek Okay. 1420 01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:43,120 Speaker 2: It looks like it's plus twenty minutes. 1421 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:45,160 Speaker 3: Twenty minutes on the clock. 1422 01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:48,040 Speaker 2: All right, we're twenty minutes for this next story. No 1423 01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:50,080 Speaker 2: dance you The people have voted. 1424 01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:56,280 Speaker 3: The people have voted, and they hate dancing. See how 1425 01:08:56,320 --> 01:09:00,160 Speaker 3: it feels, See how it feels to be you. 1426 01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:04,920 Speaker 2: You know what I've sacrificed. You can't. 1427 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:10,080 Speaker 3: You can't do this to me. I don't want to 1428 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,080 Speaker 3: do it so bad, but I make people deaf. 1429 01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:14,760 Speaker 2: Just put the mic a little bit away from you. 1430 01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:16,360 Speaker 3: You can't do this to me. 1431 01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:19,920 Speaker 2: You know how much I sacrificed. 1432 01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,320 Speaker 3: Did you not do the close up? You didn't close 1433 01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:23,640 Speaker 3: up on it? 1434 01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:24,680 Speaker 1: Do close up, close up. 1435 01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,240 Speaker 3: It's too late. It's over now you for next time 1436 01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:28,840 Speaker 3: you can. The magic is over. 1437 01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:30,479 Speaker 2: You can do another one. You can do have a. 1438 01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:37,519 Speaker 3: Stop, leave me alone. You're a weak pathetic what I 1439 01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:38,760 Speaker 3: can't remember the lines from that. 1440 01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 2: I'm somewhat of a scientist myself, you know. 1441 01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:44,360 Speaker 3: I'm somewhat of a shut up and read myself. 1442 01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:50,200 Speaker 2: Uh right, Uh? Who's reading this one soon? 1443 01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:51,080 Speaker 3: Uh? 1444 01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:51,519 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1445 01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:55,000 Speaker 1: You have my flatmate, my flatmates? 1446 01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:56,120 Speaker 2: Okay, oh yeah. 1447 01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:58,000 Speaker 4: Someone said I sound like Invader Zim recently, and I 1448 01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:00,799 Speaker 4: love that girl with always my favorite. 1449 01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:04,880 Speaker 2: That was spooky, It was spooky. 1450 01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:05,640 Speaker 3: It disturbed me. 1451 01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:08,320 Speaker 4: There there is an episode of Invaders in that I 1452 01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:11,160 Speaker 4: think disturbed me so deeply to my core. 1453 01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:13,240 Speaker 3: And I can't find it. I've looked for it, can't 1454 01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:13,600 Speaker 3: find it. 1455 01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:14,840 Speaker 1: Which which one? 1456 01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:15,200 Speaker 3: Uh? 1457 01:10:17,160 --> 01:10:20,160 Speaker 1: Which one should we do? Huh, which one should we do? 1458 01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:22,240 Speaker 2: What do you mean we saw them? 1459 01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:25,679 Speaker 3: More for they're an almond on the floor. 1460 01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:33,519 Speaker 2: You drop an almond? I didn't drop, No, But which 1461 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:36,000 Speaker 2: which story am I writing? Now? Feteen forty? 1462 01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:40,639 Speaker 1: Okay? 1463 01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:47,599 Speaker 3: Is that yours? What are you eating? 1464 01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:51,400 Speaker 2: You're eating? 1465 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:55,080 Speaker 4: Which is You can say that because it's technically liquid bread, 1466 01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:56,800 Speaker 4: it's wheat. 1467 01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:02,040 Speaker 3: It is wheat, it's grein. And we're back to the grains, 1468 01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:04,559 Speaker 3: back to the beginning, and we're back to grains. God, 1469 01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:05,000 Speaker 3: I love it. 1470 01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:10,800 Speaker 2: Okay, let's freaking do this. 1471 01:11:11,040 --> 01:11:15,360 Speaker 1: Oh, congrats to what fran Flores on her engagement and 1472 01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:16,160 Speaker 1: happy birthday. 1473 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:21,800 Speaker 2: Congrats Fran, happy birthday and engagement. All right, the h 1474 01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:22,280 Speaker 2: a C. 1475 01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:24,200 Speaker 1: It's getting a little toasted here. 1476 01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,800 Speaker 2: I'll turn it on once you start reading. Alright, you 1477 01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:28,519 Speaker 2: have my flatmate correct? 1478 01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:31,479 Speaker 1: Yes, but it is not. 1479 01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:34,080 Speaker 2: Also, I want to make sure it's connected. Yeah, it 1480 01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:37,719 Speaker 2: looks like it's good. Dakota is giving me ducky vibes. 1481 01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:43,240 Speaker 2: Who's ducky ducky from the land before time? I'm ready. 1482 01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:49,519 Speaker 1: My flatmate almost burned down the apartment then demanded I 1483 01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:50,479 Speaker 1: pay her fine. 1484 01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:53,439 Speaker 3: Hmmm, burning down the house? 1485 01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:54,000 Speaker 2: Do do do do? 1486 01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:57,280 Speaker 1: Do do do? Do do do do what the best. 1487 01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:59,080 Speaker 2: Let's see that one more time. Yeah, I'll say that 1488 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:04,360 Speaker 2: one more time. Oheah, Yeah that was bad taste. Maybe 1489 01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:05,800 Speaker 2: the story's ad very bad taste. 1490 01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:09,519 Speaker 1: With everything going on, flatmate almost burned down the apartment, 1491 01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:11,800 Speaker 1: then demanded I pay her fine. 1492 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:13,719 Speaker 3: That's the price of their mistakes. 1493 01:12:14,240 --> 01:12:16,040 Speaker 1: So I moved to a new city to finish my 1494 01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:19,760 Speaker 1: bachelor's degree. This was the last semester and I needed 1495 01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:23,040 Speaker 1: practical work to gain my last points. I landed a 1496 01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:25,720 Speaker 1: job in Oslo and found a nice place to live, 1497 01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:29,080 Speaker 1: sharing a flat with two people. By the way, this 1498 01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:32,439 Speaker 1: comes from Cacas ninety two on the r slash Okay 1499 01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:35,360 Speaker 1: storytime so I reroute it. So me and the other 1500 01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,439 Speaker 1: girl had a lot in common. We both worked in 1501 01:12:37,479 --> 01:12:40,480 Speaker 1: the same field. Her front of the house and security 1502 01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,519 Speaker 1: and some venues, and I worked as a lighting technician 1503 01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:46,360 Speaker 1: freelancing in a few theaters as a temp. We got 1504 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,800 Speaker 1: along so well that we decided to move out once 1505 01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:52,800 Speaker 1: our lease was up and rent another place together, only 1506 01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:56,679 Speaker 1: the two of us, just the two of us. Around 1507 01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:59,320 Speaker 1: the same time, she got a new job and she 1508 01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:01,679 Speaker 1: could work from home and make her own hours. Since 1509 01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:03,720 Speaker 1: I was happy for her, she would be home way 1510 01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:06,200 Speaker 1: more than me. We would agree that she could have 1511 01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:08,880 Speaker 1: the biggest room and wrench should still be split equally. 1512 01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:12,080 Speaker 1: A few months into the three year least, she started 1513 01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,880 Speaker 1: to change. She got really self centered and I couldn't 1514 01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:17,360 Speaker 1: stand to be around her. All of a sudden, she 1515 01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:22,320 Speaker 1: said things like I'm better than you. Oh yeah, just cute, 1516 01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:24,639 Speaker 1: little roommate, things like just cute. 1517 01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:26,760 Speaker 2: I'm by am dominance. 1518 01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:29,160 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1519 01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:31,200 Speaker 2: I wake up and I say I'm the alpha. And 1520 01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:34,280 Speaker 2: I said I'm better, but I am better. 1521 01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:38,920 Speaker 1: My job is better than your job. I make at 1522 01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:42,439 Speaker 1: least twice what you make. You're a nobody and can't 1523 01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:46,040 Speaker 1: do anything for me. Just cute little things. This is 1524 01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:48,240 Speaker 1: This is not cool. 1525 01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:49,720 Speaker 2: This is not cool cool. 1526 01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:50,320 Speaker 3: It's cute. 1527 01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:52,120 Speaker 2: To God, this is cute. I can't wait to do this, 1528 01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:53,200 Speaker 2: little roommate. 1529 01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:57,200 Speaker 1: This ended in me not wanting to be around here, 1530 01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:00,280 Speaker 1: and I moved all my stuff into my room, only 1531 01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:02,400 Speaker 1: going out to use the kitchen in the bathroom. She 1532 01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:05,400 Speaker 1: also chose to spend thousands of dollars on new fancy 1533 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:08,400 Speaker 1: dresses instead of paying me back twenty five dollars for 1534 01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:11,400 Speaker 1: the internet bill, saying she didn't think it was important 1535 01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:13,719 Speaker 1: to pay me back and new clothes were more important. 1536 01:14:14,120 --> 01:14:15,960 Speaker 1: Sorry for the long backstory, but I needed to give 1537 01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:20,200 Speaker 1: you an image of how efm entitled flatmates was as 1538 01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:23,960 Speaker 1: a person during our last year living together. 1539 01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:29,000 Speaker 2: How can we fix that on it? 1540 01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:29,519 Speaker 1: Yeh? 1541 01:14:29,920 --> 01:14:33,000 Speaker 2: I literally can try to everything I could over here. 1542 01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:37,479 Speaker 2: The thing is, check can't hear it? Only you can 1543 01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:40,120 Speaker 2: hear it. Chad, some time fix that. I know we can. 1544 01:14:40,360 --> 01:14:40,960 Speaker 2: We're trying. 1545 01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:44,559 Speaker 1: During the last year living together, I was working myself hard. 1546 01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:48,400 Speaker 1: Normal hours for a tech in Norway is thirty five 1547 01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,040 Speaker 1: point five hours a week, and I was working at 1548 01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:54,960 Speaker 1: least eighty hours for over two months, with only one 1549 01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:58,400 Speaker 1: day off in that entire time span. That meant I 1550 01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:01,559 Speaker 1: was out the door four seven am and at home 1551 01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:02,959 Speaker 1: after midnight. 1552 01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:05,120 Speaker 3: That sounds illegal. 1553 01:15:05,880 --> 01:15:06,320 Speaker 2: It's a lot. 1554 01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,760 Speaker 3: I mean, did they pay you very well for that? 1555 01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:11,400 Speaker 1: I would hope, I imagine. I mean, it's Norway and 1556 01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:14,320 Speaker 1: they're a tech something. So I showered and went straight 1557 01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:15,920 Speaker 1: to bed. I was too tired to do anything else. 1558 01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:19,320 Speaker 1: One night, I dreamt of a car alarm and it 1559 01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:23,280 Speaker 1: didn't stop. Then another sound chimes in and wait, a doorbell. 1560 01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:25,920 Speaker 1: This didn't fit my dream, so I woke up indeed, 1561 01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:28,960 Speaker 1: someone was ringing our doorbell and the fire alarm was 1562 01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:32,120 Speaker 1: going off, the building central fire alarm. My eyes were groggy, 1563 01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:33,920 Speaker 1: and I went to open the door. It was four am, 1564 01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:36,760 Speaker 1: and this guy was looking at me. He didn't say 1565 01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:39,479 Speaker 1: a word, so I asked him, what's going on? Is 1566 01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:43,040 Speaker 1: it really burning? Remember I've been working over two hundred 1567 01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:45,360 Speaker 1: percent for two months. The guy just looked at me 1568 01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:48,040 Speaker 1: with a shock face and said, girl, the alarm was 1569 01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:49,960 Speaker 1: going off from your apartment. 1570 01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:51,400 Speaker 2: This maybe wake up. 1571 01:15:51,520 --> 01:15:54,400 Speaker 1: I looked around, and indeed our entire apartment was covered 1572 01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:57,760 Speaker 1: in gray, thick smoke. I went to the kitchen, as 1573 01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:01,040 Speaker 1: I assume my flatmate was cooking. No opens, thankfully, and 1574 01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 1: so I turned the oven off and opened it, opened 1575 01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:08,200 Speaker 1: all the windows in the apartment before walking into Sleeping Beauties. 1576 01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:11,599 Speaker 1: She is a beast by the way room. She had 1577 01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:15,360 Speaker 1: fallen asleep with a pizza in the oven. 1578 01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:20,960 Speaker 4: A classic move I've never done. I've never fallen asleep 1579 01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,000 Speaker 4: with anything in the oven or the stove. 1580 01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:25,280 Speaker 2: Don't say that to me. 1581 01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:28,280 Speaker 4: What No, this is many years ago. This was when 1582 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:30,880 Speaker 4: I was like in high school, brother, you keep cooking. 1583 01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:34,000 Speaker 4: I was cooking something on the stove and I was like, 1584 01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:36,639 Speaker 4: I think I was like boiling corn and I forgot 1585 01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:39,360 Speaker 4: and all of the water boiled out and the corn 1586 01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:40,240 Speaker 4: just like burned up. 1587 01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:44,479 Speaker 3: My dad was like, what's wrong with you? 1588 01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:46,280 Speaker 2: What have I done? 1589 01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:50,479 Speaker 3: What have I done of my seed? 1590 01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:52,360 Speaker 2: What have I done? 1591 01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:55,240 Speaker 3: Exactly? It was exactly that, and. 1592 01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:57,880 Speaker 1: Now the fire department, police and ambulance was on the spot. 1593 01:16:58,160 --> 01:17:00,400 Speaker 1: The police took statements in the fireman looked in the 1594 01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:03,280 Speaker 1: oven and made sure all the windows were open. Things 1595 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:06,400 Speaker 1: went on till five am, and she had to take 1596 01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:08,479 Speaker 1: the blame as it was her fault, or at least 1597 01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:10,960 Speaker 1: you took the blame. I was offered to be checked 1598 01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:13,880 Speaker 1: out by the ambulance personnel since I had inhaled a 1599 01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,320 Speaker 1: lot of scope and since I had inhaled a lot 1600 01:17:16,360 --> 01:17:19,800 Speaker 1: of smoke, but I declined, just wanted one more hour 1601 01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:21,599 Speaker 1: of sleep before I had to leave for another day 1602 01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:23,760 Speaker 1: of work. I was told to go to the er 1603 01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:26,120 Speaker 1: if I felt any discomfort throughout the day, as smoke 1604 01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:32,120 Speaker 1: damages can occur. Late that evening, mid second shift, I 1605 01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,200 Speaker 1: started having problems breathing. Oh no, So I finished the 1606 01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:37,880 Speaker 1: show and my boss sent me off an hour early 1607 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,280 Speaker 1: to go to the er. I was quickly put on 1608 01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:43,479 Speaker 1: oxygen not even five minutes after I arrived and seen 1609 01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:46,920 Speaker 1: by a doctor two hours later. My throat was swollen 1610 01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 1: from the smoke, but thankfully no lasting problems and just 1611 01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:54,080 Speaker 1: three weeks of breathing heavily no lifting. Remember I'm a 1612 01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:56,439 Speaker 1: lighting technician. Heavy lifting a sixty part of my job. 1613 01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:58,640 Speaker 1: My bosses were really nice about it, and I got 1614 01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:00,679 Speaker 1: to take it easy the next three weeks. Okay, that's good. 1615 01:18:00,920 --> 01:18:01,479 Speaker 2: That's good. 1616 01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:06,840 Speaker 1: After in realistic territory. Yeah, I mean ops like being 1617 01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:10,799 Speaker 1: taken care of and taken care of themselves. After hours 1618 01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:14,959 Speaker 1: at work in the er, I came home to entitled flatmate. 1619 01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:18,479 Speaker 1: She demanded I pay half the fine she got from 1620 01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:25,479 Speaker 1: the fire department really quick. Is there any truth to 1621 01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,960 Speaker 1: this having to pay half the fine? 1622 01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:31,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, it's your fall. You have 1623 01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:32,559 Speaker 2: a crappy roommate. 1624 01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:38,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you ke on, if if Dakota pizza, when 1625 01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:42,479 Speaker 1: Dakota burns a pizza and the police come and they 1626 01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,120 Speaker 1: find your apartment, Yeah, are you splitting it? 1627 01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:51,360 Speaker 2: What's the feet five hundred bucks? Well? You know, I 1628 01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:54,640 Speaker 2: feel like you know, you know, we're not We're not. 1629 01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:57,400 Speaker 2: I'll say it, will I would I'd be like, because 1630 01:18:57,439 --> 01:18:59,559 Speaker 2: if I did the same thing, maybe I would split 1631 01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:03,040 Speaker 2: the feedby by pay me back payment plan. Yeah, do 1632 01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:04,759 Speaker 2: you like a payment plan. I'll help you out because 1633 01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:06,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, if you need to help. 1634 01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:06,400 Speaker 3: You But. 1635 01:19:07,880 --> 01:19:09,320 Speaker 2: What if it's two thousand dollars? 1636 01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:14,000 Speaker 3: I'm country. Yeah, I'm gonna disappear. 1637 01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:16,760 Speaker 2: But if it is in Dakota, is my roommate and 1638 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:20,519 Speaker 2: we have a contract, like I'm gonna I can't back it. 1639 01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:22,519 Speaker 2: I can't get out of it, like legally, so I'm 1640 01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:24,360 Speaker 2: gonna have to help them. And we're like, you're gonna 1641 01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:24,960 Speaker 2: have to pay me back. 1642 01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:26,960 Speaker 3: My contract is that you have to kiss me. 1643 01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:30,560 Speaker 2: Your kiss is worth a thousand dollars, and I you 1644 01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:34,000 Speaker 2: know what, You're right, you know, don't be a dormant. 1645 01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:36,960 Speaker 2: I'm not being a dormant. Here's the thing. Two thousand. 1646 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:40,320 Speaker 1: Spaghetti is coming for us, all right now? 1647 01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:43,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, they want blood and that's okay. I'm just saying 1648 01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:46,840 Speaker 2: as a friend, it would make sense. Yeah, But I 1649 01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:48,360 Speaker 2: was saying, you're gonna pay it all, but I'm gonna 1650 01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:49,599 Speaker 2: help you out as long as you pay me back. 1651 01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:53,920 Speaker 1: Ellie who says entitled Roomy pays all. Nicole A says, 1652 01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:55,760 Speaker 1: send the roommate the bill for the hospital. 1653 01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:59,200 Speaker 2: But the thing is, I'm not ope, I'm not here. 1654 01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:01,479 Speaker 2: You asked me about the code on myself. Yeah, this 1655 01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:05,479 Speaker 2: is different context. So I could see the code and 1656 01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:06,360 Speaker 2: naked and be like nice. 1657 01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:11,040 Speaker 1: I mean, she could have unlive me, and now she's 1658 01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:14,080 Speaker 1: expecting me to pay six hundred dollars. We were close, 1659 01:20:14,960 --> 01:20:17,800 Speaker 1: I exploded to all of you, wanting and dreaming about 1660 01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:21,639 Speaker 1: going off on entitled person. It felt amazing. I went 1661 01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:27,479 Speaker 1: on heavily worded anger spree and told her she could 1662 01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:31,080 Speaker 1: have had me unalived, she could have burned the whole 1663 01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:34,719 Speaker 1: building down, she had my throat swollen, and she wanted 1664 01:20:34,960 --> 01:20:38,920 Speaker 1: me to pay six hundred dollars, even after ranting on 1665 01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:41,519 Speaker 1: how much money she made, that how much more money 1666 01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:43,240 Speaker 1: that she made than me, and that I was basically 1667 01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:46,280 Speaker 1: trashed for making so much less than her. I basically 1668 01:20:46,479 --> 01:20:51,479 Speaker 1: told her to punch off. She stood there like an idiot, knowing, 1669 01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:53,640 Speaker 1: not knowing what to say, as I went to the 1670 01:20:53,680 --> 01:20:56,280 Speaker 1: bedroom to try to calm down and get some sleep. Well, 1671 01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:59,720 Speaker 1: So now two years later, and I'm glad I bought 1672 01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:02,000 Speaker 1: my own place. I'm never having a flat mate again. 1673 01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:03,960 Speaker 1: She has tried to reach out to me during this time, 1674 01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:06,519 Speaker 1: and I've just ignored her. She isn't worth my time. 1675 01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:11,400 Speaker 1: Darn towton. I have so many stories about this girl's 1676 01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:13,840 Speaker 1: entitled behavior since she got that new job. I believe 1677 01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:15,519 Speaker 1: you treat people the way you want to be treated, 1678 01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:18,360 Speaker 1: regardless of their work situation. Just because you got just 1679 01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:20,800 Speaker 1: because you got a better paid job, doesn't mean you 1680 01:21:20,880 --> 01:21:26,240 Speaker 1: get to treat me like a cool guy. Just FYI. 1681 01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:28,920 Speaker 1: I love my work. I love being creative and making 1682 01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:32,600 Speaker 1: shows magical through lighting. I actually get to do my 1683 01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:35,599 Speaker 1: passion for a living, which can't. 1684 01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:38,040 Speaker 2: Put a price on That's awesome. Yeah, hey, but there's 1685 01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:38,439 Speaker 2: an update. 1686 01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:40,240 Speaker 3: Loving your job. You can't put a price tag. 1687 01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:42,760 Speaker 1: Can't put a price tag on that. I mean maybe 1688 01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:43,680 Speaker 1: you could pop will do. 1689 01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:44,679 Speaker 3: It's priceless. 1690 01:21:44,800 --> 01:21:49,839 Speaker 1: It's priceless. We're gonna say it's priceless. Teld RB Double says. Basically, 1691 01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:52,920 Speaker 1: Opie has an entitled flatmate that tried to started making 1692 01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:55,760 Speaker 1: more money and was like, you suck, I make more 1693 01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:59,360 Speaker 1: money than you. You are you are trash and will 1694 01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:01,559 Speaker 1: always be tracked and no, Pie's like that's kind of mean. 1695 01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:04,200 Speaker 1: And then that roommate left a pizza in the out 1696 01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:07,040 Speaker 1: of end. There was a bunch of smoke almost burned 1697 01:22:07,040 --> 01:22:10,280 Speaker 1: the whole place down the uh the fire department came 1698 01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:12,240 Speaker 1: and said what that you're doing and they're like, oh 1699 01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:14,920 Speaker 1: my god, pizza and they gotta fine for six dollars. 1700 01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:19,200 Speaker 4: Said fine, fine, you gotta pay that money, pay that money, 1701 01:22:19,320 --> 01:22:21,840 Speaker 4: pay that money for wasting our fireman time. 1702 01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:24,600 Speaker 1: But we got an update here y'all. Hopefully that was 1703 01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:30,880 Speaker 1: good enough TLDR for all the newbies in the chat. Also, 1704 01:22:30,960 --> 01:22:33,280 Speaker 1: we have seven hundred and seventy two people on YouTube, 1705 01:22:33,320 --> 01:22:36,240 Speaker 1: one hundred people on Facebook, twelve people on Twitch, and 1706 01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:37,680 Speaker 1: how many on TikTok. 1707 01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:41,040 Speaker 2: Let me double check it was fifty earlier we have 1708 01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:42,000 Speaker 2: seventy nine. 1709 01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:46,920 Speaker 1: We have seventy nine people on tik doc Halo you tiktokians, TikToker, 1710 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:48,920 Speaker 1: we love, we love to see you. We really should 1711 01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:54,280 Speaker 1: have to add TikTok people on our Oh no, but 1712 01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:58,760 Speaker 1: like in the in the thing below, in what thing 1713 01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:01,320 Speaker 1: below like our little like a little oh that one 1714 01:23:01,760 --> 01:23:03,840 Speaker 1: I'll talk to Riley about. He had a notion test 1715 01:23:03,880 --> 01:23:08,400 Speaker 1: for that. Yeah, we got people. Yes, we don't have 1716 01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:11,479 Speaker 1: a thousand likes, even though we have almost a thousand 1717 01:23:11,479 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 1: people got us knight says hi, Hi TikTok, we love 1718 01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:18,479 Speaker 1: you updates. So I feel like I sounded so old. 1719 01:23:18,520 --> 01:23:24,679 Speaker 1: There s TikTok, TikTok. Hope everything is cool and yeah, 1720 01:23:25,080 --> 01:23:27,519 Speaker 1: I hope you're glizzing your yachts. 1721 01:23:27,960 --> 01:23:31,519 Speaker 2: You know the rizzler. But why did you say that? 1722 01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:33,320 Speaker 2: Why did you say that? I don't know, man, why 1723 01:23:33,360 --> 01:23:34,240 Speaker 2: did you say that name? 1724 01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:37,840 Speaker 3: His name is Samuel yacht Don. 1725 01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:41,519 Speaker 1: But we got an So I'm back again with another 1726 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:44,639 Speaker 1: story about my entitled ex flatmate. I'm now a twenty 1727 01:23:44,720 --> 01:23:46,759 Speaker 1: nine year old woman who works as a lighting technician 1728 01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:49,000 Speaker 1: in Norway. At the time I lived with this girl 1729 01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:51,080 Speaker 1: six years older than me. I only had a fifty 1730 01:23:51,120 --> 01:23:54,200 Speaker 1: percent steady job. The rest was on and off and seasonal. 1731 01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:56,840 Speaker 1: Welcome to the hard lifestyle of a TV theater and 1732 01:23:56,920 --> 01:24:00,639 Speaker 1: event technician. My last post was that the last straw 1733 01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:03,240 Speaker 1: for me, since she had done this before. But that 1734 01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:06,519 Speaker 1: time I came home from work in time to stop 1735 01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:10,080 Speaker 1: the fire department from coming. I already answered some comments 1736 01:24:10,160 --> 01:24:12,800 Speaker 1: about leasing with her for three years. I know it's 1737 01:24:12,840 --> 01:24:16,320 Speaker 1: a long time. This was after we had already lived 1738 01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:19,599 Speaker 1: together as good friends for three years. In another apartment. 1739 01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:21,760 Speaker 1: The only thing that changed was the fact that she 1740 01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:24,160 Speaker 1: got a new job and suddenly became too important to 1741 01:24:24,200 --> 01:24:27,679 Speaker 1: talk to people like me commoners, as she could only 1742 01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:31,000 Speaker 1: talk to actors, filmmakers, and producers. She once told me 1743 01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:33,240 Speaker 1: that I was not allowed to go to a party 1744 01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:35,560 Speaker 1: for TV and theater workers because she might go. 1745 01:24:36,400 --> 01:24:37,080 Speaker 2: Just I can't. 1746 01:24:37,960 --> 01:24:40,360 Speaker 1: Just I can't with her. That's another story again. 1747 01:24:40,520 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 3: I hate that. 1748 01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:43,320 Speaker 1: So the posturing is crazy. 1749 01:24:44,040 --> 01:24:46,760 Speaker 3: You oh, I'll be there, so you can't. It's like, dude, 1750 01:24:46,960 --> 01:24:51,040 Speaker 3: watch me pull up there. People who posture make me 1751 01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:52,040 Speaker 3: so mad. 1752 01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:55,080 Speaker 2: I just don't get it. I don't get it. 1753 01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:57,479 Speaker 3: There's some postures posturings going around. 1754 01:24:57,680 --> 01:24:58,760 Speaker 2: Let me tell you La. 1755 01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:02,439 Speaker 1: La is a place of got some fostering people. People 1756 01:25:02,520 --> 01:25:04,080 Speaker 1: are like, oh, I got a bunch of cloud blah 1757 01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:04,960 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah. 1758 01:25:05,320 --> 01:25:05,479 Speaker 2: Guy. 1759 01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:09,160 Speaker 3: It was like the view from my rooftop. 1760 01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:12,960 Speaker 1: The thought the suck Adam because I do know him 1761 01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:13,880 Speaker 1: and he is I. 1762 01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:15,000 Speaker 3: Don't know who that person is. 1763 01:25:15,080 --> 01:25:17,320 Speaker 4: This is a random person to me, but it was 1764 01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:19,880 Speaker 4: for all we know, I randomly found this guy on 1765 01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:24,640 Speaker 4: the internet. Yeah, somebody flexing and then being like, by 1766 01:25:24,680 --> 01:25:26,559 Speaker 4: the way, thoughts and prayers, just like. 1767 01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:29,040 Speaker 1: It was a little bit out of touch. I will 1768 01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:31,759 Speaker 1: admit he was like he was he said to picture 1769 01:25:31,840 --> 01:25:34,600 Speaker 1: the fire from uh but it's like his place, and 1770 01:25:34,680 --> 01:25:37,280 Speaker 1: he was like, he was like, wow, it's so sad. 1771 01:25:37,320 --> 01:25:39,240 Speaker 1: I can see these fires from the roof of my 1772 01:25:39,960 --> 01:25:44,519 Speaker 1: uh beach house in Malibu. That was the thoughts and prayers. 1773 01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:46,760 Speaker 4: But it's like, you know, and it's at the same time, 1774 01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:50,360 Speaker 4: it's like that person might not actually be like I 1775 01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:55,680 Speaker 4: be doing anything nefarious, but lure autopilot. 1776 01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:57,720 Speaker 1: It just sounds you don't have to say beach house. 1777 01:25:58,240 --> 01:26:00,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to tell them what I want, said he does. 1778 01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:02,240 Speaker 1: He does have a New York like a New York place, 1779 01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:04,639 Speaker 1: and he does have a coast. 1780 01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:06,280 Speaker 2: I was gonna say. A lot of people say they're 1781 01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:08,520 Speaker 2: like you usually those type of people are like transplants 1782 01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:10,160 Speaker 2: for La, like, I. 1783 01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:13,000 Speaker 1: Don't know if he's a transplant. He's a very nice 1784 01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:15,640 Speaker 1: person in person though he was very nice. No, I mean, 1785 01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:18,679 Speaker 1: it's just yeah, it's just that's very that's La. That's 1786 01:26:18,960 --> 01:26:24,639 Speaker 1: that's very Hey. Sorry, Hey, thoughts in prayers, thoughts in prayers. 1787 01:26:26,240 --> 01:26:27,280 Speaker 2: My thoughts are with everybody. 1788 01:26:31,560 --> 01:26:34,160 Speaker 1: As said, we had a three year lease. It couldn't 1789 01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:37,040 Speaker 1: be broken with a three months notice, but we both 1790 01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:39,360 Speaker 1: were on the lease and she didn't want to. She 1791 01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:42,200 Speaker 1: had almost the entire flat to herself. I stayed in 1792 01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:44,519 Speaker 1: my room yet paid half of everything. She had the 1793 01:26:44,560 --> 01:26:47,120 Speaker 1: living room almost all to herself. She often chose to 1794 01:26:47,160 --> 01:26:49,920 Speaker 1: sleep there instead of her own room. When we got 1795 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:51,560 Speaker 1: close to the end of her lease, I tried to 1796 01:26:51,640 --> 01:26:54,400 Speaker 1: do the adult thing. I sat her down to talk 1797 01:26:54,439 --> 01:26:56,720 Speaker 1: to her about my plans moving out, and it went 1798 01:26:56,760 --> 01:27:00,280 Speaker 1: something like this, me, I've been thinking about what to 1799 01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:02,240 Speaker 1: do once our lease is up, and I'm personally ready 1800 01:27:02,240 --> 01:27:04,360 Speaker 1: to buy my own place. My bank has approved my 1801 01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:09,120 Speaker 1: lone application and entitled flatmate says, oh, g cool, let's 1802 01:27:09,120 --> 01:27:11,360 Speaker 1: start looking at apartments. I will not live in an 1803 01:27:11,360 --> 01:27:13,400 Speaker 1: old one. It needs to be new. And as she 1804 01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:15,479 Speaker 1: went on, I was shocked. She thought I would buy 1805 01:27:15,520 --> 01:27:21,160 Speaker 1: it for us or with her and me. I'm looking 1806 01:27:21,200 --> 01:27:24,160 Speaker 1: for an apartment for me. Entitle flat mate says, oh, 1807 01:27:24,320 --> 01:27:26,479 Speaker 1: are you serious? You won't buy with me? What am 1808 01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:27,080 Speaker 1: I supposed to do? 1809 01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:29,080 Speaker 2: Then you know what? It's fine. 1810 01:27:29,200 --> 01:27:31,040 Speaker 1: I make so much more money than you, so you 1811 01:27:31,080 --> 01:27:33,680 Speaker 1: will be so you will only be able to buy 1812 01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:36,800 Speaker 1: an old crap one mine will be so much better 1813 01:27:37,040 --> 01:27:43,080 Speaker 1: because I have standards me. Good for you. I got 1814 01:27:43,160 --> 01:27:45,759 Speaker 1: up and walked away. She was fuming since I didn't 1815 01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:49,200 Speaker 1: give her the answer or fight she wanted. By the way, 1816 01:27:49,960 --> 01:27:53,040 Speaker 1: you should give us the answer that we want by 1817 01:27:53,200 --> 01:27:56,720 Speaker 1: listening to our podcast that we release on every single day. 1818 01:27:57,120 --> 01:27:59,200 Speaker 1: And the great thing about a podcast is you could 1819 01:27:59,360 --> 01:28:01,960 Speaker 1: just put it in your ear holes and do other stuff. 1820 01:28:02,880 --> 01:28:05,400 Speaker 1: Real one will know you got your taxis, you do 1821 01:28:05,479 --> 01:28:06,040 Speaker 1: your taxes. 1822 01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:09,000 Speaker 4: You can raise your children, you can do a bubble path, 1823 01:28:09,160 --> 01:28:12,519 Speaker 4: you can like, you can do a handstand, depending on 1824 01:28:12,600 --> 01:28:13,559 Speaker 4: what kind of you can. 1825 01:28:14,520 --> 01:28:18,559 Speaker 1: Through the streets and listening to our voices. So why 1826 01:28:18,680 --> 01:28:22,439 Speaker 1: not do that? Hey, all of you TikTokers people on 1827 01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:26,000 Speaker 1: TikTok go go go go on our podcast right now. 1828 01:28:26,240 --> 01:28:30,600 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah a five star review. Yeah yeah, come on. 1829 01:28:31,280 --> 01:28:34,360 Speaker 1: And that also includes Facebook and YouTube. Go go check 1830 01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:35,759 Speaker 1: out our podcasts, great. 1831 01:28:35,760 --> 01:28:41,240 Speaker 3: Twitch and transversely all of our listener only people. Come 1832 01:28:41,360 --> 01:28:45,280 Speaker 3: check out the stream Come check out the streams, so. 1833 01:28:45,320 --> 01:28:51,000 Speaker 2: You can, like Ezekiel just says, orgy just period. Yeah 1834 01:28:51,560 --> 01:28:54,599 Speaker 2: you know what it is. It is like a big orgy. 1835 01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:55,840 Speaker 3: Orgy. 1836 01:28:56,200 --> 01:29:00,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, join the orgy, get on end. It's looked the 1837 01:29:00,439 --> 01:29:05,240 Speaker 1: slip and slide. What you know, we've all been screened CDs. 1838 01:29:06,120 --> 01:29:10,840 Speaker 3: We're circling back to s the yoga, the hot yoga mat. 1839 01:29:11,280 --> 01:29:12,759 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we're going back picture. 1840 01:29:12,840 --> 01:29:15,160 Speaker 3: We need the picture of Sam's hot yoga. 1841 01:29:14,960 --> 01:29:16,839 Speaker 2: Mat to hang up in the studio. 1842 01:29:17,040 --> 01:29:19,320 Speaker 3: It's true, so next time you're at hot yoga. 1843 01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:22,080 Speaker 1: Fran Floor says, what's the name with the podcast? 1844 01:29:22,479 --> 01:29:27,800 Speaker 3: It's called Okay Story Okay Storyteller. Hey, Ken, congrats on 1845 01:29:27,880 --> 01:29:28,640 Speaker 3: your engagement. 1846 01:29:30,160 --> 01:29:37,280 Speaker 1: Ran congratulations, congrats anyway, join the digital Orgy, go to 1847 01:29:37,760 --> 01:29:39,439 Speaker 1: I'm stealing that from this is crazy. 1848 01:29:40,000 --> 01:29:44,160 Speaker 2: Join the digital Orgy. That wow. 1849 01:29:44,479 --> 01:29:49,160 Speaker 1: Come over to the podcast we have Okay, but keep 1850 01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:52,559 Speaker 1: going like lust and come into the podcast. We love 1851 01:29:52,680 --> 01:29:56,280 Speaker 1: to see you. I like that anyway. We got a 1852 01:29:56,360 --> 01:29:58,519 Speaker 1: little bit of an update here. So a month later, 1853 01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:02,919 Speaker 1: I bought my first apartment. It's small and from the fifties, 1854 01:30:03,120 --> 01:30:06,400 Speaker 1: but it's mine. The payments go to my building. The 1855 01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:10,920 Speaker 1: payments go to building my own future. Instead of throwing 1856 01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:13,960 Speaker 1: money at a landlord, which we don't like to do. 1857 01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:18,200 Speaker 1: We like to build equity. Baby. She happened to see 1858 01:30:18,360 --> 01:30:20,360 Speaker 1: some pictures of my apartment after I'd bought it. She 1859 01:30:20,479 --> 01:30:22,519 Speaker 1: came to me and told me how ugly and old 1860 01:30:22,560 --> 01:30:26,000 Speaker 1: it was, that she was going to live so much 1861 01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:29,320 Speaker 1: better than me and me this is what I say, Well, 1862 01:30:29,360 --> 01:30:32,960 Speaker 1: that's your choice. I hear you're going to spend fifteen 1863 01:30:33,000 --> 01:30:35,719 Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month to rent a high fashion apartment. 1864 01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:38,280 Speaker 1: That's literally throwing money out the window. Seeing you want 1865 01:30:38,320 --> 01:30:42,360 Speaker 1: to buy your own ace. Oup FYI, My apartment might 1866 01:30:42,439 --> 01:30:45,360 Speaker 1: be smold and small, but my total a month is 1867 01:30:45,400 --> 01:30:50,120 Speaker 1: one thousand dollars with everything included. Most of it goes 1868 01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:52,400 Speaker 1: into my property, which will only increase in value, has 1869 01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:55,160 Speaker 1: already gone up fifty k in one and a half years. 1870 01:30:55,240 --> 01:30:56,120 Speaker 3: Did you take that deal? 1871 01:30:56,560 --> 01:30:57,280 Speaker 2: I take that deal? 1872 01:30:57,479 --> 01:30:59,200 Speaker 3: Take that deal? So damn good deeds. 1873 01:31:00,000 --> 01:31:00,360 Speaker 2: I'm good. 1874 01:31:00,479 --> 01:31:04,040 Speaker 1: They'll first time apartment, and once I'm good and ready, 1875 01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:07,360 Speaker 1: I can sell it and buy a new one. That's 1876 01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:09,600 Speaker 1: called real estate investment. 1877 01:31:09,680 --> 01:31:11,599 Speaker 3: But Norway is roles different? 1878 01:31:11,880 --> 01:31:12,160 Speaker 1: Or is this? 1879 01:31:14,040 --> 01:31:14,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1880 01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:18,439 Speaker 3: So you can just like buy the apartment room like 1881 01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:20,760 Speaker 3: you can buy the unit itself. I don't think you 1882 01:31:20,800 --> 01:31:21,519 Speaker 3: can do that here. 1883 01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:26,240 Speaker 1: You can buy an apartment. They like, you don't let 1884 01:31:26,280 --> 01:31:27,360 Speaker 1: you buy an apartment? 1885 01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:30,400 Speaker 3: Well, after everything gets everything that's been bought out by 1886 01:31:30,439 --> 01:31:31,719 Speaker 3: these like conglomerates and stuff. 1887 01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:33,599 Speaker 1: I don't think they sell them like that as much 1888 01:31:33,600 --> 01:31:36,479 Speaker 1: anymore as they do. I'm almost positive Blackrock does not 1889 01:31:36,640 --> 01:31:42,920 Speaker 1: what you sell right now, Alexa's in property stuff, Alexa, 1890 01:31:43,000 --> 01:31:47,160 Speaker 1: can you buy an apartment? I'm saying it's on the 1891 01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:50,000 Speaker 1: decline in like, in general, can you buy an apartment? 1892 01:31:50,720 --> 01:31:52,320 Speaker 3: What do you mean by saying we're getting to a 1893 01:31:52,400 --> 01:31:55,560 Speaker 3: point where general here like there's an apartment building and 1894 01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:57,919 Speaker 3: you want to buy and own outright? 1895 01:31:58,240 --> 01:31:59,640 Speaker 2: Oh unit? My buddy does that? 1896 01:32:02,040 --> 01:32:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, is there the feasibility of 1897 01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:09,400 Speaker 1: being able to buy an apartment? 1898 01:32:09,520 --> 01:32:10,240 Speaker 2: And so oh. 1899 01:32:15,160 --> 01:32:17,799 Speaker 3: Yep, my friend does that. My friend owns an apartment 1900 01:32:18,320 --> 01:32:21,400 Speaker 3: bing bang boom. Well, I don't own any property. As 1901 01:32:21,439 --> 01:32:24,559 Speaker 3: you can tell, I know how to work it. It's 1902 01:32:24,600 --> 01:32:27,720 Speaker 3: the smartest way of saving my opinion. Her face was priceless. 1903 01:32:27,840 --> 01:32:31,519 Speaker 3: She looks shocked than mad and entitled. Flatmate said I'm 1904 01:32:31,520 --> 01:32:34,040 Speaker 3: going to live better than you. I can help myself. 1905 01:32:34,320 --> 01:32:36,160 Speaker 3: I looked at her with a poker face and said 1906 01:32:36,160 --> 01:32:41,040 Speaker 3: the words that angered her more than anything good for 1907 01:32:42,439 --> 01:32:46,240 Speaker 3: you indeed, and I walked away while her head looked 1908 01:32:46,280 --> 01:32:49,719 Speaker 3: like it was about to blow off. She is still 1909 01:32:49,960 --> 01:32:52,600 Speaker 3: renting that place, telling me about it in messages I 1910 01:32:52,680 --> 01:32:56,760 Speaker 3: don't apply to And that's is where that story ends. 1911 01:32:58,640 --> 01:32:59,439 Speaker 3: And that's the end of that. 1912 01:33:00,000 --> 01:33:02,639 Speaker 1: Honestly, the best way you can get revenge is living 1913 01:33:02,720 --> 01:33:05,160 Speaker 1: your best life, truly, Like, ain't that right? 1914 01:33:05,360 --> 01:33:08,360 Speaker 4: If you want revenge, don't channel all your energy into 1915 01:33:08,439 --> 01:33:11,479 Speaker 4: the person that you don't like. That's not gonna do 1916 01:33:11,640 --> 01:33:14,080 Speaker 4: anything for you. I mean it's not gonna it will, 1917 01:33:14,200 --> 01:33:16,840 Speaker 4: but it's not gonna be positive. Channel all the energy 1918 01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:19,799 Speaker 4: into yourself, yep. Can focus on what you can control, 1919 01:33:19,840 --> 01:33:20,240 Speaker 4: which is that. 1920 01:33:20,320 --> 01:33:24,439 Speaker 1: Ship compounds that compounds baby. 1921 01:33:24,720 --> 01:33:26,240 Speaker 3: And I don't even know if this is relevant, but 1922 01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:28,640 Speaker 3: you know what comparison It is relevant. Comparison is the 1923 01:33:28,680 --> 01:33:29,280 Speaker 3: thief of joy. 1924 01:33:29,479 --> 01:33:29,640 Speaker 5: It is. 1925 01:33:30,120 --> 01:33:33,200 Speaker 4: And I'm sure you can deeply enjoy your your older 1926 01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:36,519 Speaker 4: one thousand dollars a month apartment, even if it's not sounds. 1927 01:33:36,280 --> 01:33:39,400 Speaker 2: Like that sounds nice, sounds you don't have to deal 1928 01:33:39,479 --> 01:33:41,240 Speaker 2: with the crappiest roommate of all. 1929 01:33:41,439 --> 01:33:44,040 Speaker 1: But guess what, we got a couple donos to read 1930 01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:48,519 Speaker 1: before this stream goes put. Don't say that why you 1931 01:33:48,600 --> 01:33:48,880 Speaker 1: said it? 1932 01:33:48,960 --> 01:33:50,200 Speaker 3: Now, it's not gonna stop. 1933 01:33:50,600 --> 01:33:56,280 Speaker 1: Kimberly Holly says, ducky is played by John Cryer in 1934 01:33:56,360 --> 01:33:56,960 Speaker 1: Pretty in Pink. 1935 01:33:57,160 --> 01:33:58,639 Speaker 2: Ah. Yes I'm old. 1936 01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:02,400 Speaker 1: Sorry, well hire the five bucks and lovely lady, he says, 1937 01:34:02,760 --> 01:34:06,720 Speaker 1: first live stream loving it. Oh yeah, I do, I 1938 01:34:06,840 --> 01:34:09,560 Speaker 1: remember Ducky. That does kind of look like you a 1939 01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:10,000 Speaker 1: little bit. 1940 01:34:10,600 --> 01:34:15,040 Speaker 2: Just a last John sire, Yeah your crier? Yes it is. 1941 01:34:15,320 --> 01:34:18,160 Speaker 3: Yes, wasn't John Cryer the one who was fun? 1942 01:34:19,520 --> 01:34:19,720 Speaker 2: Oh? 1943 01:34:20,160 --> 01:34:24,240 Speaker 1: I was saying someone else? Wow, that's cool. That's cool, Ganstastic. 1944 01:34:24,560 --> 01:34:27,840 Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten bucks. We appreciate you engagings to 1945 01:34:27,880 --> 01:34:30,400 Speaker 1: the five bucks floors on the engagement. 1946 01:34:30,640 --> 01:34:32,880 Speaker 3: Sorry, Ezekiel, Uh, what. 1947 01:34:35,080 --> 01:34:35,760 Speaker 1: What we deal? 1948 01:34:35,840 --> 01:34:36,840 Speaker 2: What did you say? 1949 01:34:37,120 --> 01:34:42,840 Speaker 3: You said something about compound and Ezekiel said, where did 1950 01:34:42,920 --> 01:34:43,120 Speaker 3: it go? 1951 01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:51,559 Speaker 1: Compounds? Oh that's fine anyway. Zobie Love twenty five. Thank 1952 01:34:51,680 --> 01:34:55,320 Speaker 1: you for being a member of the Night. Thank you 1953 01:34:55,439 --> 01:34:58,120 Speaker 1: for joining, Samantha gutierra Is. Thanks for the five bucks. 1954 01:34:58,200 --> 01:35:00,000 Speaker 1: Hope you guys are saying safe from the fire, Sending 1955 01:35:00,160 --> 01:35:03,000 Speaker 1: love from the Mitten s PS. Yes you can buy 1956 01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:06,160 Speaker 1: an apartment. Uh information for Dakota Wing. 1957 01:35:06,360 --> 01:35:06,600 Speaker 2: Thank you. 1958 01:35:07,040 --> 01:35:11,799 Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten Okay story Time memberships growing the stream. 1959 01:35:12,080 --> 01:35:13,000 Speaker 2: Also, if you. 1960 01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:19,479 Speaker 1: Have not joined our members only lives, you should by 1961 01:35:19,520 --> 01:35:22,160 Speaker 1: being becoming a member right here on YouTube. That means 1962 01:35:22,200 --> 01:35:26,160 Speaker 1: you get Monday, Wednesday, Friday member only streams. It's a joy. 1963 01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:28,679 Speaker 1: It's like a little family. It's like the family gets 1964 01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:30,120 Speaker 1: a little bit smaller. You know, you've got like a 1965 01:35:30,160 --> 01:35:32,400 Speaker 1: thousand people here. It's just a couple of hundred in 1966 01:35:32,439 --> 01:35:35,559 Speaker 1: the members only stream. But we say weird, we say 1967 01:35:35,600 --> 01:35:37,240 Speaker 1: weird things, and we get a little crazy. 1968 01:35:37,320 --> 01:35:42,160 Speaker 3: We need a little crazy, a little were wolf Bombitz Dakota, 1969 01:35:42,280 --> 01:35:43,880 Speaker 3: please take medicine for your headache. 1970 01:35:43,920 --> 01:35:47,920 Speaker 1: Thanks for the four O two. Oh my god, wait, 1971 01:35:48,000 --> 01:35:51,240 Speaker 1: let's keep go. Let's read all those let's read all 1972 01:35:51,320 --> 01:35:56,439 Speaker 1: those ray ray thanks for two bucks. Dakota is dancing 1973 01:35:56,680 --> 01:36:01,200 Speaker 1: list my spirits. Victoria Hall, thank you for being a 1974 01:36:01,520 --> 01:36:06,759 Speaker 1: welcome member to the Knights. And that is all except 1975 01:36:07,120 --> 01:36:12,160 Speaker 1: fay Wolf seven one three gifted, twenty gifted memberships. That 1976 01:36:12,280 --> 01:36:17,960 Speaker 1: means twenty new babies Elite for Elite, the members only stream. 1977 01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:20,400 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Knights. We got We're gonna get a 1978 01:36:20,479 --> 01:36:21,599 Speaker 1: bunch of people in here. 1979 01:36:22,240 --> 01:36:23,360 Speaker 2: But that's right. 1980 01:36:24,840 --> 01:36:32,479 Speaker 1: That is where this stream ends. We have five more seconds, with. 1981 01:36:32,720 --> 01:36:41,200 Speaker 3: Five seconds left, with five seconds, we've got another thirty minute. 1982 01:36:42,000 --> 01:36:45,720 Speaker 1: My god, you guys, you guys love a buzzer beater. 1983 01:36:46,520 --> 01:36:50,439 Speaker 4: You guys love pulling a ray Allen. You know, just 1984 01:36:50,760 --> 01:36:54,000 Speaker 4: from the corner, fay Wolf, seven to one three from 1985 01:36:54,080 --> 01:36:58,120 Speaker 4: the corner to save Lebron James's legacy. 1986 01:36:59,160 --> 01:37:02,760 Speaker 3: Wow, bang, how. 1987 01:37:02,720 --> 01:37:03,240 Speaker 2: Do you say? 1988 01:37:04,920 --> 01:37:07,120 Speaker 1: Do this every single time? I don't understand. 1989 01:37:06,880 --> 01:37:08,640 Speaker 2: Because Samuel you doing this? 1990 01:37:09,360 --> 01:37:09,880 Speaker 3: What do you mean? 1991 01:37:09,960 --> 01:37:10,600 Speaker 2: Why do we do what? 1992 01:37:11,280 --> 01:37:13,519 Speaker 1: How do they do this? They always get us right 1993 01:37:13,640 --> 01:37:14,599 Speaker 1: at the last moment. 1994 01:37:14,760 --> 01:37:16,280 Speaker 2: They love to its just like you love it, just 1995 01:37:16,360 --> 01:37:16,680 Speaker 2: too soon. 1996 01:37:16,920 --> 01:37:20,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, they are, They're well practiced. They know they know 1997 01:37:20,560 --> 01:37:21,120 Speaker 3: what they're doing. 1998 01:37:21,400 --> 01:37:23,519 Speaker 2: They know what they're doing. We know what you're doing. 1999 01:37:23,560 --> 01:37:26,600 Speaker 1: Seven one three. Thank you for being a member, and 2000 01:37:26,720 --> 01:37:29,840 Speaker 1: thank you for gifting more members to the community. Hey 2001 01:37:29,920 --> 01:37:34,400 Speaker 1: Wolf and jj O one, thanks for the seven ninety 2002 01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:37,840 Speaker 1: nine to get us there. And Amanda Rose just tipped 2003 01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:40,760 Speaker 1: ten bucks on the dono link worth YouTube. It does 2004 01:37:40,800 --> 01:37:42,760 Speaker 1: not take thirty percent. Thanks for the ten blocks. We 2005 01:37:42,800 --> 01:37:43,320 Speaker 1: appreciate you. 2006 01:37:44,479 --> 01:37:45,400 Speaker 3: All right, that's right. 2007 01:37:45,680 --> 01:37:46,519 Speaker 1: Guess what we're doing? 2008 01:37:46,640 --> 01:37:48,040 Speaker 3: And did we did we get Kimberlys? 2009 01:37:48,520 --> 01:37:52,599 Speaker 1: We did you. We're gonna get into this next story. 2010 01:37:53,000 --> 01:37:56,599 Speaker 4: No freaking way, dude, what there's no way what we're 2011 01:37:56,600 --> 01:37:57,639 Speaker 4: getting into this next story. 2012 01:37:57,720 --> 01:37:58,880 Speaker 2: We're gonna get into the next story. 2013 01:37:59,040 --> 01:38:00,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, you think we're geting next door? 2014 01:38:00,600 --> 01:38:01,240 Speaker 1: What's the next one? 2015 01:38:01,280 --> 01:38:03,559 Speaker 4: But not before we talk about Cohoco nineties ten dollars 2016 01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:06,719 Speaker 4: donation in the Dono link, Thank you, Cohoco nineties. 2017 01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:11,360 Speaker 3: I don't know. Is someone cooking something. 2018 01:38:11,439 --> 01:38:13,160 Speaker 2: Maybe someone's cooking with like a little bit of oil. 2019 01:38:13,800 --> 01:38:15,840 Speaker 1: I'll go check. But what's the next one? 2020 01:38:16,360 --> 01:38:19,599 Speaker 2: Fourteen thirty two, fourteen thirty two. 2021 01:38:20,120 --> 01:38:25,519 Speaker 3: Ooh, one of my favorite names. Tercey's a pizza are 2022 01:38:25,680 --> 01:38:30,200 Speaker 3: i aa Aria? Thanks for the fire? 2023 01:38:30,360 --> 01:38:32,639 Speaker 1: All right, Dakota, all let this side to give oh, 2024 01:38:33,160 --> 01:38:35,400 Speaker 1: got him voice, a little bit of a break xo 2025 01:38:35,720 --> 01:38:39,519 Speaker 1: XO got him girl? All right, as Egal says, keep 2026 01:38:39,560 --> 01:38:43,960 Speaker 1: the stream, creamy, cream stream. I'm gonna go check that everything. 2027 01:38:44,200 --> 01:38:47,040 Speaker 1: Get downstairs, and I will be back shortly. 2028 01:38:47,360 --> 01:38:53,200 Speaker 3: Oh okay, donkey, yeah. 2029 01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:59,439 Speaker 2: Okay, No, I don't think it's a fire. I think 2030 01:38:59,479 --> 01:39:01,559 Speaker 2: someone just cook little burden something. 2031 01:39:02,120 --> 01:39:05,719 Speaker 3: Fire fire, fire, fire, where well. 2032 01:39:05,840 --> 01:39:07,080 Speaker 2: Let's just sit in the chair for a second. 2033 01:39:07,920 --> 01:39:10,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, feel what the feel the power of sitting in 2034 01:39:10,560 --> 01:39:11,040 Speaker 3: the red chair. 2035 01:39:11,120 --> 01:39:12,080 Speaker 2: And don't sit in the chair. 2036 01:39:13,560 --> 01:39:15,320 Speaker 3: She won't she's gone, he's gone. 2037 01:39:15,360 --> 01:39:18,320 Speaker 2: We've scared her with the power parents, right, yes, my 2038 01:39:18,479 --> 01:39:23,760 Speaker 2: parents give them back. Thanks cool. Uh wait, I think 2039 01:39:23,760 --> 01:39:26,120 Speaker 2: we're getting a little bit more donations. Okay, we're getting 2040 01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:29,320 Speaker 2: uh uh uh uh uh uh? 2041 01:39:29,920 --> 01:39:33,800 Speaker 3: Did we get one underneath teresa'st. 2042 01:39:32,520 --> 01:39:37,240 Speaker 2: He I think we're all caught up, Gucci Baby, Oki, Doky, 2043 01:39:38,280 --> 01:39:39,320 Speaker 2: Are you ready? Yeah? 2044 01:39:39,400 --> 01:39:41,680 Speaker 3: Now we're we're freaking ready to rock. 2045 01:39:41,720 --> 01:39:44,880 Speaker 2: It's just you and me, we're alone, these two boys 2046 01:39:45,120 --> 01:39:45,639 Speaker 2: in a room. 2047 01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:46,599 Speaker 3: Who are men? 2048 01:39:46,760 --> 01:39:48,880 Speaker 2: Did you like my interpretive dance? When Alexi was talking? 2049 01:39:48,960 --> 01:39:49,240 Speaker 2: I did? 2050 01:39:49,320 --> 01:39:49,840 Speaker 3: It was great. 2051 01:39:50,000 --> 01:39:50,760 Speaker 2: It was like I could do it. 2052 01:39:50,760 --> 01:39:54,439 Speaker 3: Too, as a certified interpretive dancer. I was interpreting the 2053 01:39:54,600 --> 01:39:55,519 Speaker 3: heck out of your dance. 2054 01:39:56,000 --> 01:39:58,479 Speaker 2: Was it good though? Oh yeah, it knew interpretation. I 2055 01:39:58,520 --> 01:40:00,040 Speaker 2: told you I could do it. Oh yeah, I I 2056 01:40:00,040 --> 01:40:02,799 Speaker 2: wanted to do it. Oh yeah, I want to dance. 2057 01:40:03,600 --> 01:40:05,080 Speaker 3: Let's make it next time we get it that you're 2058 01:40:05,080 --> 01:40:05,960 Speaker 3: the interpreted dancer. 2059 01:40:06,720 --> 01:40:07,680 Speaker 2: Who's going to be doing this? 2060 01:40:09,360 --> 01:40:11,360 Speaker 3: That's for a question for another time. 2061 01:40:12,439 --> 01:40:15,040 Speaker 2: That's when we get to another movie. Like why. 2062 01:40:17,400 --> 01:40:25,280 Speaker 3: Well, ma, okay, all right ready, I'm ready. My parents 2063 01:40:25,680 --> 01:40:28,080 Speaker 3: mistreated me, so I cut them off. 2064 01:40:28,800 --> 01:40:35,680 Speaker 2: Now they want to rekindle, rekindle, restart, refresh, or just 2065 01:40:35,720 --> 01:40:36,160 Speaker 2: don't do it. 2066 01:40:36,680 --> 01:40:39,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's agreed. Uh. 2067 01:40:40,160 --> 01:40:44,120 Speaker 4: Sorry if this is long, no apology necessary. I have 2068 01:40:44,240 --> 01:40:47,240 Speaker 4: a non identical twin sister. The two of us couldn't 2069 01:40:47,360 --> 01:40:50,400 Speaker 4: be any more different. She's lucky enough to be very 2070 01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:53,840 Speaker 4: beautiful and tall and very good looking. She has always 2071 01:40:53,960 --> 01:40:58,760 Speaker 4: ticked every box on her looks. Oh incoming op about 2072 01:40:58,840 --> 01:41:01,760 Speaker 4: to call themselves ugly? By the way, this comes from 2073 01:41:01,840 --> 01:41:05,799 Speaker 4: user Zoe thirteen asd on the r slash Okay storytime 2074 01:41:05,800 --> 01:41:06,240 Speaker 4: sup reread it. 2075 01:41:06,400 --> 01:41:09,200 Speaker 3: So I wasn't so lucky. 2076 01:41:09,880 --> 01:41:12,519 Speaker 4: I wasn't on the beautiful side and was shorter right now, 2077 01:41:12,560 --> 01:41:14,800 Speaker 4: I'm five to one and she's five eight. She was 2078 01:41:14,840 --> 01:41:17,600 Speaker 4: also better at making friends and being sociable, while I 2079 01:41:17,760 --> 01:41:20,800 Speaker 4: was always her awkward sister. Now I know I'm on 2080 01:41:20,840 --> 01:41:24,040 Speaker 4: the autism spectrum, but was only diagnosed two years ago. 2081 01:41:24,200 --> 01:41:27,080 Speaker 4: My parents never bothered with that. Now, none of these 2082 01:41:27,280 --> 01:41:30,360 Speaker 4: make my parents horrible. What makes them horrible is the 2083 01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:34,200 Speaker 4: way they treated me and my sister. They always treated 2084 01:41:34,280 --> 01:41:37,880 Speaker 4: her like she's an angel and treated me like I'm 2085 01:41:38,080 --> 01:41:38,679 Speaker 4: a loser. 2086 01:41:39,080 --> 01:41:41,120 Speaker 2: Man. That just seems to be such a consistent thing, 2087 01:41:41,880 --> 01:41:47,439 Speaker 2: a consistent theme. You know, I'm just reading with comments. Yeah, 2088 01:41:47,600 --> 01:41:51,479 Speaker 2: history repeats itself. The Internet repeats itself, not surprised. Yeah, 2089 01:41:51,520 --> 01:41:52,519 Speaker 2: there's a tendency there. 2090 01:41:53,240 --> 01:41:56,160 Speaker 4: Especially like the twins, not identicals, but it's like, I 2091 01:41:56,200 --> 01:42:01,840 Speaker 4: don't know anyway, Sorry, that was the sidebarb. This goes 2092 01:42:02,000 --> 01:42:04,400 Speaker 4: back as early as when we were three to four 2093 01:42:04,479 --> 01:42:08,479 Speaker 4: years old. For each twenty pictures that they have of 2094 01:42:08,600 --> 01:42:12,200 Speaker 4: her childhood, they have maybe two or three of mine. 2095 01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:17,360 Speaker 4: Excuse me, literally they have over ten times as many 2096 01:42:17,400 --> 01:42:20,000 Speaker 4: pictures of her, and most of mine are of both 2097 01:42:20,080 --> 01:42:22,519 Speaker 4: of us. She would always get a lot of attention 2098 01:42:22,640 --> 01:42:28,680 Speaker 4: from everyone and I got none. Parents spend much more 2099 01:42:28,720 --> 01:42:31,000 Speaker 4: money on her too. Let's say, if I wanted to 2100 01:42:31,040 --> 01:42:34,320 Speaker 4: spend one hundred dollars on clothes, eighty dollars goes to her. 2101 01:42:35,600 --> 01:42:37,719 Speaker 4: Or I'm sorry, let's say if they wanted to spend 2102 01:42:37,760 --> 01:42:40,479 Speaker 4: one hundred dollars on clothes, eighty dollars goes to her 2103 01:42:40,680 --> 01:42:44,080 Speaker 4: and twenty dollars to me. Their reasoning has always been 2104 01:42:44,160 --> 01:42:46,840 Speaker 4: that she's more beautiful and it's worth spending more on 2105 01:42:46,960 --> 01:42:49,840 Speaker 4: her as she gets a lot more attention while nobody 2106 01:42:49,880 --> 01:42:52,920 Speaker 4: looks at me anyways, So why bother with better clothes? 2107 01:42:53,280 --> 01:42:56,280 Speaker 3: They have literally told me that many times. 2108 01:42:56,760 --> 01:42:59,840 Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm gonna throw your parents into the sun. 2109 01:43:00,720 --> 01:43:05,439 Speaker 4: I'm gonna load them into a trebuche and they are 2110 01:43:05,520 --> 01:43:07,439 Speaker 4: gonna get launched into the sun. 2111 01:43:07,560 --> 01:43:08,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're gonna look like sam. 2112 01:43:10,439 --> 01:43:13,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, in that they don't exist because they've been burnt 2113 01:43:13,880 --> 01:43:19,360 Speaker 4: on a molecular level into their basic atoms. Okay, Anyway, 2114 01:43:21,240 --> 01:43:24,200 Speaker 4: I was in a sports team and they never once 2115 01:43:24,439 --> 01:43:26,439 Speaker 4: came to see me playing, while they go see my 2116 01:43:26,520 --> 01:43:30,600 Speaker 4: sister cheerleading every week. Extend this to everything, and you 2117 01:43:30,760 --> 01:43:34,799 Speaker 4: know the story of my life. I hated every second 2118 01:43:34,880 --> 01:43:37,920 Speaker 4: of my childhood. I hated my sister. Yes, I know 2119 01:43:38,080 --> 01:43:40,519 Speaker 4: none of this was actually her fault. I worked on 2120 01:43:40,600 --> 01:43:43,040 Speaker 4: myself with a therapist, so I no longer feel any 2121 01:43:43,080 --> 01:43:48,800 Speaker 4: hate or blame towards her, which we love. That's amazing, right. Uh, 2122 01:43:49,320 --> 01:43:51,760 Speaker 4: this is the parent's fault from the sound of it. 2123 01:43:52,720 --> 01:43:55,920 Speaker 4: So since I was fifteen, I was counting the days 2124 01:43:56,000 --> 01:43:58,720 Speaker 4: until I became eighteen and I could leave and never 2125 01:43:58,800 --> 01:44:02,439 Speaker 4: come back. And that's exactly what I did. That eighteen 2126 01:44:02,720 --> 01:44:05,000 Speaker 4: is the age which you can leave home without parent consent. 2127 01:44:05,920 --> 01:44:09,360 Speaker 4: I left home the day after my eighteenth birthday, the 2128 01:44:09,479 --> 01:44:12,800 Speaker 4: night before our parents through a birthday party for us, well, 2129 01:44:12,880 --> 01:44:15,280 Speaker 4: I mean for her Their gift for her was one 2130 01:44:15,280 --> 01:44:18,560 Speaker 4: thousand dollars gift card from a luxury designer brand, and 2131 01:44:18,680 --> 01:44:21,320 Speaker 4: for me a one hundred dollars gift card for a bookstore, 2132 01:44:21,760 --> 01:44:24,040 Speaker 4: arguing that this one hundred dollars gives me the same 2133 01:44:24,160 --> 01:44:26,679 Speaker 4: level of ability to buy the things I like, which 2134 01:44:26,680 --> 01:44:32,360 Speaker 4: are books, as the thousand dollars would to her expensive clothes. Okay, 2135 01:44:32,880 --> 01:44:35,639 Speaker 4: their logic right. They knew I was thinking of leaving, 2136 01:44:35,680 --> 01:44:37,920 Speaker 4: but they had no idea. I wanted out asap. I 2137 01:44:38,040 --> 01:44:38,840 Speaker 4: left that day. 2138 01:44:39,240 --> 01:44:41,720 Speaker 3: That's got to be the dumbest parent logic I've ever heard. 2139 01:44:43,000 --> 01:44:45,439 Speaker 3: We gave your sister one thousand dollars for designer clothes, 2140 01:44:45,479 --> 01:44:47,680 Speaker 3: but we gave you one hundred dollars because books are 2141 01:44:47,760 --> 01:44:52,880 Speaker 3: not so expensive. Just give them both fifty five or 2142 01:44:52,960 --> 01:44:53,960 Speaker 3: five hundred and fifty bucks. 2143 01:44:54,600 --> 01:44:56,760 Speaker 4: If you're already gonna drop eleven hundred between the two 2144 01:44:56,760 --> 01:44:58,360 Speaker 4: of them, give each of them five point fifty. 2145 01:44:58,760 --> 01:44:59,759 Speaker 3: It's that easy. 2146 01:45:00,280 --> 01:45:03,000 Speaker 4: Five point fifty is enough to shop at designer, for 2147 01:45:03,160 --> 01:45:10,080 Speaker 4: God's sakes. So they asked me to stay and allowed 2148 01:45:10,120 --> 01:45:12,519 Speaker 4: them to help out. But I was like, quote, I've 2149 01:45:12,720 --> 01:45:16,680 Speaker 4: had enough of you, leave me alone. I never made 2150 01:45:16,720 --> 01:45:18,960 Speaker 4: any contact with them. After that, as soon as I 2151 01:45:19,080 --> 01:45:21,479 Speaker 4: was able to, I moved to another city to get 2152 01:45:21,479 --> 01:45:24,720 Speaker 4: even further away, as I hated the city too. They 2153 01:45:24,840 --> 01:45:27,479 Speaker 4: called and texted me for a while, but I never 2154 01:45:27,560 --> 01:45:30,519 Speaker 4: answered and replied and changed my number eventually. I had 2155 01:45:30,600 --> 01:45:33,360 Speaker 4: also removed them from all my social media. 2156 01:45:33,920 --> 01:45:37,479 Speaker 3: I said it so that if they sent me any emails, 2157 01:45:37,760 --> 01:45:42,240 Speaker 3: it would automatically get deleted and a reply quote automatically deleted. 2158 01:45:42,360 --> 01:45:45,640 Speaker 4: Do not waste your time to be sent. That's the 2159 01:45:45,680 --> 01:45:48,080 Speaker 4: current status of things on my side. Well, I mean, 2160 01:45:48,240 --> 01:45:51,920 Speaker 4: it seems like OPI has been pretty systematically worn down 2161 01:45:52,000 --> 01:45:53,200 Speaker 4: here because. 2162 01:45:52,920 --> 01:45:57,920 Speaker 2: That's I'm lot to do at eighteen, I'm worn down 2163 01:45:58,040 --> 01:46:00,559 Speaker 2: right now. Yeah, that's a. 2164 01:46:02,040 --> 01:46:04,840 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know if the right thing to 2165 01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:06,880 Speaker 3: say is like, good on UOP, but it's more like 2166 01:46:08,120 --> 01:46:08,679 Speaker 3: that's brave. 2167 01:46:08,760 --> 01:46:10,760 Speaker 4: That was a brave thing to do. That was a 2168 01:46:10,800 --> 01:46:15,160 Speaker 4: brave decision to make, and I hope that it's, you know, 2169 01:46:15,360 --> 01:46:18,479 Speaker 4: for the best. Let's keep going here. Two days ago, 2170 01:46:18,600 --> 01:46:21,519 Speaker 4: my dad sent me a message on Facebook. My initial 2171 01:46:21,600 --> 01:46:23,519 Speaker 4: instinct was to delete it, but I opened it and 2172 01:46:23,600 --> 01:46:27,000 Speaker 4: started reading. This was the first message in months from them. 2173 01:46:27,360 --> 01:46:30,160 Speaker 4: He explained that he understands that they were not good 2174 01:46:30,280 --> 01:46:32,960 Speaker 4: parents and that they did a lot of wrong, but 2175 01:46:33,240 --> 01:46:35,920 Speaker 4: maybe we can start over. He asked if I can 2176 01:46:36,000 --> 01:46:37,800 Speaker 4: come over for dinner at some point so all of 2177 01:46:37,920 --> 01:46:40,560 Speaker 4: us can get to know the new versions. 2178 01:46:40,240 --> 01:46:41,040 Speaker 3: Of each other better. 2179 01:46:41,640 --> 01:46:42,760 Speaker 2: I have not responded. 2180 01:46:43,320 --> 01:46:45,599 Speaker 3: I don't know if I should give them another chance 2181 01:46:45,760 --> 01:46:49,800 Speaker 3: or just delete this message and don't look back. Ooh, 2182 01:46:50,040 --> 01:46:51,759 Speaker 3: and here is an update. 2183 01:46:52,600 --> 01:46:53,120 Speaker 2: What would you do? 2184 01:46:53,280 --> 01:46:53,559 Speaker 3: Kean? 2185 01:46:57,600 --> 01:47:02,759 Speaker 2: I mean, I gotta talk to somebody like there someone 2186 01:47:02,960 --> 01:47:06,120 Speaker 2: there needs to be a parental figure here that needs 2187 01:47:06,200 --> 01:47:09,479 Speaker 2: to I don't know, stand up for her. It doesn't 2188 01:47:09,800 --> 01:47:11,920 Speaker 2: an adult figure. I need an adult That's what I need. 2189 01:47:12,320 --> 01:47:14,880 Speaker 3: Like you need another adult who's not one of her parents. 2190 01:47:14,960 --> 01:47:17,680 Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, I'm not a parental figure like one of 2191 01:47:17,720 --> 01:47:20,200 Speaker 2: the pader almost like you know how we read it earlier, 2192 01:47:20,280 --> 01:47:22,760 Speaker 2: like the aunt was like yeah, yeah, something like that, 2193 01:47:22,840 --> 01:47:25,360 Speaker 2: where like someone stands up for you and no one's 2194 01:47:25,439 --> 01:47:25,680 Speaker 2: doing that. 2195 01:47:25,760 --> 01:47:27,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, someone needs to shout out and be like this 2196 01:47:27,400 --> 01:47:30,080 Speaker 4: is dumb and because guess not treating your children, because 2197 01:47:30,120 --> 01:47:31,960 Speaker 4: guess what, they're not going to take you seriously. 2198 01:47:32,680 --> 01:47:34,840 Speaker 2: They haven't it. It's been a long time. 2199 01:47:34,960 --> 01:47:39,120 Speaker 3: I think I think I would see right. 2200 01:47:39,400 --> 01:47:42,719 Speaker 2: I think you keep everything you're also in your mind 2201 01:47:43,120 --> 01:47:46,320 Speaker 2: Opie is now eighteen, right, I think I don't know 2202 01:47:46,439 --> 01:47:47,280 Speaker 2: how old they are now. 2203 01:47:47,560 --> 01:47:49,040 Speaker 4: I think they were talking about how they left an 2204 01:47:49,040 --> 01:47:51,680 Speaker 4: eighteen I'm not sure what their age is currently, but 2205 01:47:51,800 --> 01:47:53,880 Speaker 4: I think at the very least, you can be like, 2206 01:47:53,960 --> 01:47:56,519 Speaker 4: all right, well let's yeah, let's let's take a chance 2207 01:47:56,600 --> 01:47:59,600 Speaker 4: to see if anyone has changed here, and if the 2208 01:47:59,640 --> 01:48:01,760 Speaker 4: answer is no, you go right back to what you're 2209 01:48:01,760 --> 01:48:04,040 Speaker 4: doing before, and you can cut your loss like you 2210 01:48:04,120 --> 01:48:04,640 Speaker 4: have nothing to. 2211 01:48:04,680 --> 01:48:07,400 Speaker 2: Lose, that's the thing. You have nothing to lose but 2212 01:48:07,600 --> 01:48:08,519 Speaker 2: everything to gain. 2213 01:48:08,640 --> 01:48:09,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. 2214 01:48:09,600 --> 01:48:13,160 Speaker 2: So I don't know. I just feel bad because in 2215 01:48:13,280 --> 01:48:17,120 Speaker 2: that position of you're so young, but you're also like 2216 01:48:18,040 --> 01:48:22,320 Speaker 2: your brain is morphed now into this, like, ah, like 2217 01:48:22,960 --> 01:48:24,479 Speaker 2: where do I go? What do I do? I have 2218 01:48:24,600 --> 01:48:28,640 Speaker 2: no support system? Yeah, so I wish OHP had a 2219 01:48:28,640 --> 01:48:30,479 Speaker 2: support system, but it seems like there's none of that. 2220 01:48:32,240 --> 01:48:34,360 Speaker 4: Well, let's go ahead and get into the update find 2221 01:48:34,400 --> 01:48:38,360 Speaker 4: out what happens. So thank you for your comments and suggestions. 2222 01:48:38,439 --> 01:48:40,320 Speaker 4: They were super helpful and helped me see things a 2223 01:48:40,360 --> 01:48:41,160 Speaker 4: lot more clearly. 2224 01:48:41,640 --> 01:48:42,559 Speaker 2: Love you all. 2225 01:48:43,040 --> 01:48:45,400 Speaker 3: This is a big, big update, and something quite shocking. 2226 01:48:45,840 --> 01:48:46,280 Speaker 2: I got. 2227 01:48:46,439 --> 01:48:49,040 Speaker 4: I've gone back to my therapist. But before I get 2228 01:48:49,080 --> 01:48:51,520 Speaker 4: into it, a lot of you asked about my relationship 2229 01:48:51,600 --> 01:48:55,080 Speaker 4: with my sister. Well, there is no relationship really. I 2230 01:48:55,200 --> 01:48:57,840 Speaker 4: spent all of my childhood hating her and never really 2231 01:48:57,880 --> 01:49:00,320 Speaker 4: had a nice relationship with her. She was not like 2232 01:49:00,439 --> 01:49:04,200 Speaker 4: my parents, but they had spoiled her, and she sort 2233 01:49:04,240 --> 01:49:06,880 Speaker 4: of always saw herself as the better one of the 2234 01:49:06,920 --> 01:49:09,640 Speaker 4: two of us. Not surprised there, and right now I 2235 01:49:09,680 --> 01:49:12,280 Speaker 4: don't even blame her for that. On the day that 2236 01:49:12,400 --> 01:49:14,200 Speaker 4: I was leaving, I gave her a hug and told 2237 01:49:14,200 --> 01:49:16,760 Speaker 4: her that maybe if we had different parents, we could 2238 01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:19,320 Speaker 4: have really been sisters, but it's not how it turned 2239 01:49:19,320 --> 01:49:21,280 Speaker 4: out in this life. Maybe we can make up for 2240 01:49:21,360 --> 01:49:22,360 Speaker 4: it later ourselves. 2241 01:49:22,840 --> 01:49:23,120 Speaker 2: Wow. 2242 01:49:23,760 --> 01:49:25,560 Speaker 4: I told her that if she wants to talk to 2243 01:49:25,680 --> 01:49:28,280 Speaker 4: me about this, she can. She can call me and 2244 01:49:28,360 --> 01:49:31,720 Speaker 4: we can meet up. She never did call me, as 2245 01:49:31,800 --> 01:49:34,040 Speaker 4: it appeared from the last post. I went to talk 2246 01:49:34,080 --> 01:49:36,680 Speaker 4: to my therapist about this, and she suggested that I 2247 01:49:36,800 --> 01:49:40,120 Speaker 4: can initiate some conversation and see how it goes. Based 2248 01:49:40,160 --> 01:49:42,320 Speaker 4: on her assessment, she was happy if I wanted to 2249 01:49:42,360 --> 01:49:45,439 Speaker 4: go and see them. I just need to understand that 2250 01:49:45,520 --> 01:49:49,920 Speaker 4: there is no obligation to go or to stay, which 2251 01:49:50,000 --> 01:49:54,200 Speaker 4: is good. So I replied to my father's message with this, Hi, Dad, 2252 01:49:54,880 --> 01:49:57,439 Speaker 4: for us to ever have a chance of seriously starting over, 2253 01:49:57,520 --> 01:50:01,799 Speaker 4: you owe me an answer why. I expect an honest answer. 2254 01:50:02,320 --> 01:50:02,720 Speaker 2: Know why? 2255 01:50:02,840 --> 01:50:02,880 Speaker 1: What? 2256 01:50:03,479 --> 01:50:05,720 Speaker 3: No come and let's talk in person or anything of 2257 01:50:05,800 --> 01:50:08,560 Speaker 3: that sort. Just give it to me straight. Believe me. 2258 01:50:08,720 --> 01:50:10,800 Speaker 4: I can handle reading it if you can handle doing it. 2259 01:50:11,640 --> 01:50:13,479 Speaker 4: If you're not willing to give me that, then I'm 2260 01:50:13,520 --> 01:50:17,600 Speaker 4: not willing to start over. He came back to me 2261 01:50:17,920 --> 01:50:19,920 Speaker 4: the next day with a long message. 2262 01:50:19,560 --> 01:50:21,519 Speaker 3: Explaining why, and here it is. 2263 01:50:23,280 --> 01:50:24,120 Speaker 2: Who excuse me? 2264 01:50:25,400 --> 01:50:28,080 Speaker 4: He told me that my He told me that he 2265 01:50:28,320 --> 01:50:31,439 Speaker 4: and my mom wanted a child, and only one child, 2266 01:50:31,680 --> 01:50:34,200 Speaker 4: as they didn't have the resources and energy of having 2267 01:50:34,280 --> 01:50:37,400 Speaker 4: more than one. They realized that we're twins and that 2268 01:50:37,479 --> 01:50:40,719 Speaker 4: screwed up everything and actually made them sad rather than happy. 2269 01:50:41,560 --> 01:50:45,240 Speaker 4: This is I'm automatically super suspicious right now. There's got 2270 01:50:45,360 --> 01:50:46,960 Speaker 4: to be one of the dumbest things I've ever heard, 2271 01:50:47,960 --> 01:50:51,679 Speaker 4: where it's like, first of all, you clearly weren't struggling 2272 01:50:51,760 --> 01:50:54,840 Speaker 4: enough to give your you know, daughter one thousand dollars 2273 01:50:54,920 --> 01:50:57,920 Speaker 4: on her birthday when she turned eighteen. You know how 2274 01:50:58,000 --> 01:50:59,799 Speaker 4: many times I got a thousand dollars for my birthday. 2275 01:51:01,000 --> 01:51:05,880 Speaker 2: Zero. I was gonna say, like that's uh zero, Like what. 2276 01:51:06,240 --> 01:51:09,360 Speaker 4: That's an absurd amount of money to get at eighteen 2277 01:51:09,439 --> 01:51:10,000 Speaker 4: on your birthday? 2278 01:51:10,080 --> 01:51:10,559 Speaker 2: Like that's. 2279 01:51:12,120 --> 01:51:14,960 Speaker 3: So that's it just seems like BS to me already. Anyway, 2280 01:51:15,080 --> 01:51:19,599 Speaker 3: let's continue. Oh my god, they decided to give one 2281 01:51:19,680 --> 01:51:20,920 Speaker 3: of us up for adoption. 2282 01:51:21,200 --> 01:51:22,679 Speaker 2: Whoa what whoa? 2283 01:51:24,360 --> 01:51:27,200 Speaker 3: They looked around and even found a couple In case 2284 01:51:27,280 --> 01:51:30,799 Speaker 3: you wondered, I was the one they decided to give away. Yeah, shocker, 2285 01:51:31,000 --> 01:51:32,519 Speaker 3: shocking because I was. 2286 01:51:32,640 --> 01:51:36,760 Speaker 4: Smaller and my eyes weren't blue. Yeah, that's how you 2287 01:51:36,920 --> 01:51:39,639 Speaker 4: decide which one of your kids to keep. What dude, 2288 01:51:39,680 --> 01:51:41,639 Speaker 4: your parents sound horror? 2289 01:51:41,960 --> 01:51:42,639 Speaker 2: Is this story? 2290 01:51:42,880 --> 01:51:48,360 Speaker 3: Your parents sound like a complete fu hmmmm mmm? 2291 01:51:49,120 --> 01:51:52,000 Speaker 2: Wow? Anyway, he is this story? This is this is 2292 01:51:52,800 --> 01:51:55,400 Speaker 2: I'm bewildered right now. This is crazy. I've never read 2293 01:51:55,439 --> 01:51:57,879 Speaker 2: a story where like it's this crazy. This is crazy. 2294 01:51:58,320 --> 01:52:00,320 Speaker 3: My eyes weren't blue. I know another group that liked 2295 01:52:00,360 --> 01:52:02,320 Speaker 3: blue eyes. Uh. 2296 01:52:02,800 --> 01:52:07,360 Speaker 4: They arranged everything, even took me to uh even took 2297 01:52:07,439 --> 01:52:10,519 Speaker 4: me to them, but that couple bailed out before signing 2298 01:52:10,600 --> 01:52:13,679 Speaker 4: the papers when they saw me and my sister. Yeah, 2299 01:52:13,680 --> 01:52:16,880 Speaker 4: they're conscious couldn't handle separating twin sisters like this, which also, 2300 01:52:17,040 --> 01:52:20,360 Speaker 4: oh my god, yes, there's literally like all these crazy 2301 01:52:20,560 --> 01:52:22,640 Speaker 4: like studies and like experiments that have been run and 2302 01:52:22,720 --> 01:52:26,360 Speaker 4: when you separate twins like at birth, they like it 2303 01:52:26,720 --> 01:52:32,080 Speaker 4: messes them up. Like you you heard that documentary with 2304 01:52:32,200 --> 01:52:35,200 Speaker 4: the it was it's called Three Identical Strangers triple yeah, triplets, 2305 01:52:35,360 --> 01:52:41,400 Speaker 4: which is insane to me. It is like, so yeah, 2306 01:52:41,720 --> 01:52:45,599 Speaker 4: definitely don't do this, like you're you're uh, your parents 2307 01:52:45,640 --> 01:52:48,559 Speaker 4: are low key being evil right now. 2308 01:52:48,920 --> 01:52:50,640 Speaker 2: The way that they're handling this, Yeah, this is this 2309 01:52:50,760 --> 01:52:52,759 Speaker 2: is yeah, I'm not and I'm not no longer. 2310 01:52:52,880 --> 01:52:55,400 Speaker 3: Do they deserve the sun? They deserve the number fourteen? 2311 01:52:55,720 --> 01:53:00,400 Speaker 2: But does is anyone stopping the parents? The like, who's 2312 01:53:00,439 --> 01:53:04,920 Speaker 2: stopping the parents? They're in a bubble probably, I'm so confused, 2313 01:53:05,000 --> 01:53:07,200 Speaker 2: like who is Like who are their parents? Who were 2314 01:53:07,240 --> 01:53:10,439 Speaker 2: their grandparents? Are there any siblings? Who is? Like everyone's 2315 01:53:10,479 --> 01:53:13,960 Speaker 2: like in the Scott Free Neighbors friends, They're like, oh no, 2316 01:53:14,160 --> 01:53:16,360 Speaker 2: you know what that's reachable? Oh she does like blue eyes? 2317 01:53:16,479 --> 01:53:18,400 Speaker 3: I mean, how many people are there tapped into that? 2318 01:53:18,600 --> 01:53:20,320 Speaker 2: Though? Like for real, I don't know, this is like 2319 01:53:20,400 --> 01:53:23,360 Speaker 2: a private I'm like very confused, like is this just like, 2320 01:53:24,360 --> 01:53:29,000 Speaker 2: is this family living nowhere? I'm so confused? Yeah, where 2321 01:53:29,120 --> 01:53:31,160 Speaker 2: is this? Okay? This is not okay, No, this. 2322 01:53:31,240 --> 01:53:34,080 Speaker 3: Is not being like I just want the one with 2323 01:53:34,360 --> 01:53:35,679 Speaker 3: the blue eyes. 2324 01:53:36,960 --> 01:53:41,080 Speaker 4: That's crazy, Like it's a like it's an action figure, 2325 01:53:41,200 --> 01:53:42,120 Speaker 4: like it's a collectible. 2326 01:53:42,560 --> 01:53:45,479 Speaker 2: That's crazy. I don't want to play with you anymore 2327 01:53:46,280 --> 01:53:49,800 Speaker 2: exactly so heck man. 2328 01:53:50,360 --> 01:53:53,559 Speaker 4: So after this, they looked for some couples, and nobody 2329 01:53:53,600 --> 01:53:56,400 Speaker 4: seemed willing to adopt one of the twin sisters. They 2330 01:53:56,600 --> 01:53:59,000 Speaker 4: entertained the idea of putting me into foster care, but 2331 01:53:59,080 --> 01:54:00,880 Speaker 4: they couldn't live with them selves if they did. 2332 01:54:01,680 --> 01:54:03,839 Speaker 3: I think that says a lot stranger. 2333 01:54:03,920 --> 01:54:06,960 Speaker 4: Couples who so badly wanted to adopt a child couldn't 2334 01:54:07,040 --> 01:54:09,880 Speaker 4: be heartless enough to separate twin sisters, but their effing 2335 01:54:10,120 --> 01:54:11,120 Speaker 4: parents wanted to do it. 2336 01:54:11,520 --> 01:54:15,879 Speaker 3: It is beyond me. So they had to raise me themselves, 2337 01:54:15,960 --> 01:54:18,479 Speaker 3: and they didn't enjoy it at all in their minds. 2338 01:54:20,360 --> 01:54:20,960 Speaker 1: So rough. 2339 01:54:21,920 --> 01:54:24,280 Speaker 3: Oh hey, Sam, Sam just comes in and laughs at 2340 01:54:24,360 --> 01:54:30,599 Speaker 3: like the most horrific like he's like, a that's rough. 2341 01:54:33,240 --> 01:54:35,680 Speaker 3: Yeah no, So I guess I'll do a TLDR here. 2342 01:54:36,600 --> 01:54:41,480 Speaker 4: TLDR Opi and her twin sister, non identical, grew up 2343 01:54:42,000 --> 01:54:46,680 Speaker 4: and Opie was always the you know second, you know, 2344 01:54:46,760 --> 01:54:50,120 Speaker 4: the chopped liver compared to the golden child, who was 2345 01:54:50,160 --> 01:54:51,720 Speaker 4: always you know, giving a lot of money, and she 2346 01:54:51,880 --> 01:54:54,760 Speaker 4: was more beautiful, and you know, she would always get 2347 01:54:54,760 --> 01:54:57,440 Speaker 4: the nice clothes, and so there was they were never 2348 01:54:57,520 --> 01:54:59,640 Speaker 4: given the same treatment. So it's like on their birthday, 2349 01:54:59,640 --> 01:55:01,680 Speaker 4: it's like he's getting a thousand bucks for you know, 2350 01:55:01,800 --> 01:55:06,200 Speaker 4: to go to the designer you know, outlet, and you know, oh, 2351 01:55:06,240 --> 01:55:08,800 Speaker 4: he's getting like one hundred dollars gift card to for 2352 01:55:09,120 --> 01:55:09,680 Speaker 4: the bookstore. 2353 01:55:10,160 --> 01:55:11,960 Speaker 2: Really, yeah, it's that different. 2354 01:55:13,040 --> 01:55:15,560 Speaker 4: Comes to find out, after turning eighteen, she completely goes 2355 01:55:15,560 --> 01:55:17,680 Speaker 4: into contact with her family, right, which makes it cut 2356 01:55:17,720 --> 01:55:21,840 Speaker 4: them all off. Finds out after kind of reconnecting with 2357 01:55:21,920 --> 01:55:24,160 Speaker 4: her dad, dad sent her a message and she was like, well, 2358 01:55:24,280 --> 01:55:25,880 Speaker 4: I'm not going to do anything until you tell me 2359 01:55:25,920 --> 01:55:28,400 Speaker 4: why you treated me this way. He then explains the 2360 01:55:28,480 --> 01:55:31,400 Speaker 4: situation that they only wanted one kid. Turned out they 2361 01:55:31,440 --> 01:55:34,760 Speaker 4: were having twins, which really threw a wrench in their plans, 2362 01:55:35,000 --> 01:55:36,560 Speaker 4: and they were really like, yeah, so we were just 2363 01:55:36,600 --> 01:55:39,440 Speaker 4: going to give you away because you were smaller and 2364 01:55:39,520 --> 01:55:40,560 Speaker 4: had didn't have blue eyes. 2365 01:55:41,480 --> 01:55:44,520 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that reason like it's like they literally hate 2366 01:55:44,600 --> 01:55:47,879 Speaker 1: her for not having blue eyes, they hate her for existing. 2367 01:55:48,040 --> 01:55:49,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, this is literally crazy stories. 2368 01:55:50,200 --> 01:55:53,080 Speaker 3: Your existence ruined our plan. 2369 01:55:53,080 --> 01:55:57,240 Speaker 1: To Everyone perfectly laughed at the wrong thing coming in. 2370 01:55:58,680 --> 01:56:00,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just what we do here sometimes. 2371 01:56:00,760 --> 01:56:02,680 Speaker 1: You know. That's true, that's true, that's the way we are. 2372 01:56:02,920 --> 01:56:05,240 Speaker 3: So at this point, OPI is just now reading. 2373 01:56:05,000 --> 01:56:05,920 Speaker 5: This and. 2374 01:56:07,600 --> 01:56:08,320 Speaker 2: All right about it. 2375 01:56:09,760 --> 01:56:11,280 Speaker 1: Let's I can get into it. Let's say we can 2376 01:56:11,280 --> 01:56:11,720 Speaker 1: get into it. 2377 01:56:12,040 --> 01:56:14,960 Speaker 2: Samuel Donne, I didn't say it. I stopped literally said it. 2378 01:56:15,080 --> 01:56:15,440 Speaker 2: I thought. 2379 01:56:15,480 --> 01:56:18,320 Speaker 1: I said let's yeah. I said, let's we have we 2380 01:56:18,480 --> 01:56:19,800 Speaker 1: lets being get in Sam. 2381 01:56:19,920 --> 01:56:22,240 Speaker 2: We literally have more than eight hundred witnesses right now. 2382 01:56:22,520 --> 01:56:25,920 Speaker 2: They didn't hear it. Add too why anything? 2383 01:56:26,040 --> 01:56:27,400 Speaker 3: What do you mean to add two minutes? 2384 01:56:27,560 --> 01:56:30,120 Speaker 1: It's it's one minute. If anything, it's too many. 2385 01:56:30,160 --> 01:56:38,760 Speaker 3: Sam gives me a kiss when you Oh, why, it's 2386 01:56:38,840 --> 01:56:42,240 Speaker 3: suction so hard the people that that's where that's where 2387 01:56:42,240 --> 01:56:44,640 Speaker 3: the base comes from. Sam's got that suction. 2388 01:56:45,360 --> 01:56:48,600 Speaker 2: Everyone's kissing me today. I love it. How about kisses? 2389 01:56:48,680 --> 01:56:50,880 Speaker 2: Let's go so worth it? Yeah, it was so. 2390 01:56:53,160 --> 01:56:55,320 Speaker 4: So they had to raise me themselves, and they didn't 2391 01:56:55,440 --> 01:56:58,080 Speaker 4: enjoy it at all in their minds. The fact that 2392 01:56:58,120 --> 01:57:00,360 Speaker 4: they didn't put me into foster care was a favor 2393 01:57:00,440 --> 01:57:03,360 Speaker 4: in and of itself, more than what I apparently deserved. 2394 01:57:03,720 --> 01:57:05,200 Speaker 3: And that's why they never cared. 2395 01:57:04,960 --> 01:57:05,720 Speaker 1: To do more for me. 2396 01:57:06,040 --> 01:57:10,120 Speaker 3: Dude, these people are scum there for full time. No, 2397 01:57:10,320 --> 01:57:11,400 Speaker 3: he's laughing at something else. 2398 01:57:11,480 --> 01:57:14,880 Speaker 2: Now I'm glaring at the fifty dollars of anonymous. 2399 01:57:15,200 --> 01:57:19,520 Speaker 3: Oh notty dollars. And I guarantee you almost that whoever 2400 01:57:19,600 --> 01:57:21,560 Speaker 3: donated that wanted their name to be known. 2401 01:57:22,600 --> 01:57:25,040 Speaker 2: It was Granny's body mouth. It might have been Yeah, 2402 01:57:25,080 --> 01:57:26,600 Speaker 2: Grandy's potty mouth has done it a couple of times. 2403 01:57:26,600 --> 01:57:29,000 Speaker 3: If you've donated, If you just donated that fifty piece, 2404 01:57:29,000 --> 01:57:30,960 Speaker 3: and you would like to us to know who you are, 2405 01:57:32,520 --> 01:57:37,840 Speaker 3: drop in the comments because sometimes sometimes that's what happens. 2406 01:57:37,960 --> 01:57:39,920 Speaker 3: Sometimes people don't get their names in there and it 2407 01:57:40,080 --> 01:57:41,120 Speaker 3: just makes it anonymous. 2408 01:57:42,320 --> 01:57:48,040 Speaker 4: So anyway to continue, they're full time and resources belonged 2409 01:57:48,040 --> 01:57:50,000 Speaker 4: to my sister, and the small part of it that 2410 01:57:50,120 --> 01:57:52,920 Speaker 4: got to me, they saw it as me taking what 2411 01:57:53,160 --> 01:57:57,440 Speaker 4: was my sisters away. That's how they saw me. No 2412 01:57:57,560 --> 01:57:59,800 Speaker 4: wonder my childhood turned out the way it did. And 2413 01:58:00,800 --> 01:58:04,520 Speaker 4: given all this information do not reconnect with them. Now 2414 01:58:04,600 --> 01:58:07,120 Speaker 4: that you know why you go, oh goodbye. 2415 01:58:07,160 --> 01:58:10,160 Speaker 1: It's even more of a reason to just get away. Yeah, 2416 01:58:10,360 --> 01:58:12,880 Speaker 1: Like their actions were terrible, but the reason for their 2417 01:58:12,920 --> 01:58:13,960 Speaker 1: actions are even worse. 2418 01:58:14,240 --> 01:58:16,080 Speaker 4: And it's like if they didn't have a change of 2419 01:58:16,160 --> 01:58:19,000 Speaker 4: heart the entire time raising you for eighteen years, they're 2420 01:58:19,040 --> 01:58:24,000 Speaker 4: not going to do it randomly now that you're an adult, agree, Mike, So, 2421 01:58:24,120 --> 01:58:26,160 Speaker 4: no wonder my childhood turned out the way that it did. 2422 01:58:27,880 --> 01:58:30,160 Speaker 4: He said that deep inside they always knew what they 2423 01:58:30,240 --> 01:58:32,280 Speaker 4: were doing was wrong, but they could never step up 2424 01:58:32,320 --> 01:58:35,160 Speaker 4: and do the right thing during these eighteen years. 2425 01:58:35,600 --> 01:58:36,000 Speaker 2: Why not? 2426 01:58:36,760 --> 01:58:40,040 Speaker 4: Well, they thought that changing the dynamic would negatively affect 2427 01:58:40,120 --> 01:58:42,880 Speaker 4: my sister, as she's now used to being offered more 2428 01:58:42,960 --> 01:58:45,680 Speaker 4: time and resources and I'm used to not getting it, 2429 01:58:46,000 --> 01:58:47,040 Speaker 4: So making it more. 2430 01:58:46,960 --> 01:58:49,000 Speaker 3: Equal would be a luxury for me and a pain 2431 01:58:49,120 --> 01:58:52,400 Speaker 3: for her. Can you imagine? That's like the parents from 2432 01:58:53,640 --> 01:58:57,320 Speaker 3: Harry Potter being like, well, Harry, we wanted to take 2433 01:58:57,400 --> 01:59:00,320 Speaker 3: you out from under the staircase, but we will read 2434 01:59:00,360 --> 01:59:03,360 Speaker 3: what it would do to Dudley, so we decided to 2435 01:59:03,440 --> 01:59:07,480 Speaker 3: keep you onto the stairs for eighteen years. I mean, 2436 01:59:07,640 --> 01:59:10,200 Speaker 3: do you know any sacrifice it's like, no, you guys 2437 01:59:10,280 --> 01:59:12,800 Speaker 3: are not the good guys in that context. 2438 01:59:13,680 --> 01:59:16,840 Speaker 1: What I mean you have to take love from one 2439 01:59:17,280 --> 01:59:19,560 Speaker 1: of your children and give it to the other, right, 2440 01:59:19,640 --> 01:59:21,400 Speaker 1: you can't. You can't possibly love them both. 2441 01:59:21,920 --> 01:59:25,280 Speaker 3: They're just these people are psycho dude, I can't believe it. 2442 01:59:25,640 --> 01:59:26,120 Speaker 2: Garbage. 2443 01:59:27,160 --> 01:59:33,720 Speaker 4: So they thought that that's not fair for that wouldn't 2444 01:59:33,720 --> 01:59:36,480 Speaker 4: be fair for my sister. They thought that that's not 2445 01:59:36,760 --> 01:59:39,240 Speaker 4: fair for my sister to be in pain for the 2446 01:59:39,280 --> 01:59:40,480 Speaker 4: sake of my luxury. 2447 01:59:41,160 --> 01:59:42,600 Speaker 3: Again, where is their logic? 2448 01:59:43,720 --> 01:59:45,800 Speaker 4: I don't even know what to say to that, Like, 2449 01:59:47,120 --> 01:59:49,400 Speaker 4: so it is true, It's like, well, then your sister 2450 01:59:49,480 --> 01:59:52,880 Speaker 4: would be in in pain instead of you being in pain. 2451 01:59:53,000 --> 01:59:55,760 Speaker 4: So we decided you're the pain sponge, and your sister 2452 01:59:55,880 --> 01:59:57,160 Speaker 4: gets everything good. 2453 01:59:57,120 --> 02:00:00,120 Speaker 3: And great, good and green in this world, and you 2454 02:00:00,200 --> 02:00:04,240 Speaker 3: get the scraps. Mm hmmm, scraps. 2455 02:00:04,320 --> 02:00:07,560 Speaker 2: I'm the scraps. I met No come in here, now 2456 02:00:07,600 --> 02:00:08,200 Speaker 2: give me a kiss. 2457 02:00:08,960 --> 02:00:11,560 Speaker 3: I met someone named scraps once Riley. 2458 02:00:11,600 --> 02:00:14,000 Speaker 1: It's actually it's the next next to the outdoor shower. 2459 02:00:16,800 --> 02:00:18,760 Speaker 2: Anyway, you know, I'll tell you it. That was the 2460 02:00:18,800 --> 02:00:22,240 Speaker 2: kis from Riley. I got Christ from Riley, Dakota and 2461 02:00:22,440 --> 02:00:27,680 Speaker 2: Sam today John where is John. I need John, and 2462 02:00:28,680 --> 02:00:32,120 Speaker 2: from all the men, I need John, and then Sophia sucks. 2463 02:00:32,160 --> 02:00:36,480 Speaker 2: So no, dude, your days are numbered. 2464 02:00:36,520 --> 02:00:37,760 Speaker 3: Now I'm kidding. 2465 02:00:37,760 --> 02:00:38,800 Speaker 2: I love Sophia. 2466 02:00:41,360 --> 02:00:42,240 Speaker 1: Is gonna rise up. 2467 02:00:42,800 --> 02:00:47,840 Speaker 2: The army's gonna all kiss me now. Okay, all right, 2468 02:00:47,920 --> 02:00:48,600 Speaker 2: let's get kissing. 2469 02:00:48,920 --> 02:00:51,800 Speaker 3: Right, let's dive back in. So ever since I left, 2470 02:00:52,000 --> 02:00:54,960 Speaker 3: Mom and Dad were having trouble. My sister's off to college, 2471 02:00:55,200 --> 02:00:56,800 Speaker 3: and they're alone now with all the time in the 2472 02:00:56,840 --> 02:00:59,200 Speaker 3: world to think about what they did. They've been to 2473 02:00:59,280 --> 02:01:02,120 Speaker 3: marriage counsel and according to him, that has helped them 2474 02:01:02,160 --> 02:01:05,040 Speaker 3: see everything clearly now and see how cool they were 2475 02:01:05,160 --> 02:01:05,320 Speaker 3: to me. 2476 02:01:06,040 --> 02:01:06,400 Speaker 2: He says. 2477 02:01:06,400 --> 02:01:08,680 Speaker 3: They want to start over and make up for all 2478 02:01:08,720 --> 02:01:11,600 Speaker 3: of it if I'm prepared to allow them. And by 2479 02:01:11,640 --> 02:01:15,240 Speaker 3: the way, I am prepared more than prepared to allow you. 2480 02:01:15,920 --> 02:01:20,760 Speaker 3: To listen to full episodes with stories like this, Yeah, 2481 02:01:20,920 --> 02:01:22,520 Speaker 3: all you have to do is go to Spotify or 2482 02:01:22,560 --> 02:01:25,600 Speaker 3: Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast from and 2483 02:01:25,680 --> 02:01:29,360 Speaker 3: search okay storytime, and there you will find a near. 2484 02:01:29,760 --> 02:01:33,680 Speaker 2: Endless It's a plethora of episodes. 2485 02:01:34,200 --> 02:01:37,080 Speaker 1: You could listen twenty four sevens You could listen to 2486 02:01:37,160 --> 02:01:41,280 Speaker 1: twenty four seven, three sixty five for probably two years, 2487 02:01:42,040 --> 02:01:43,840 Speaker 1: and you would not run out of content. 2488 02:01:44,080 --> 02:01:45,200 Speaker 3: At the clip that we post it. 2489 02:01:45,480 --> 02:01:47,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it'd be it'd be a tough order, would 2490 02:01:47,920 --> 02:01:51,320 Speaker 1: be hard pressed to catch him. I don't people say 2491 02:01:51,480 --> 02:01:53,960 Speaker 1: they do it. I have no idea how they. 2492 02:01:53,920 --> 02:01:57,280 Speaker 3: Do it on like two and a half speed. Hear at. 2493 02:01:59,240 --> 02:02:01,080 Speaker 1: Two and a half speed, But we like, are you 2494 02:02:01,120 --> 02:02:02,360 Speaker 1: watching all the live streams too? 2495 02:02:03,080 --> 02:02:03,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 2496 02:02:03,360 --> 02:02:05,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. I think you could only listen. I 2497 02:02:05,480 --> 02:02:06,960 Speaker 3: think dedicating all that time to. 2498 02:02:07,040 --> 02:02:09,800 Speaker 2: Watch the live stream while you're also listening to another podcast. 2499 02:02:14,000 --> 02:02:15,240 Speaker 3: Once the neuralink. 2500 02:02:14,880 --> 02:02:17,160 Speaker 4: Becomes more popular, people are just gonna people are just 2501 02:02:17,200 --> 02:02:20,840 Speaker 4: gonna have the entirety of Okay story time like beamed 2502 02:02:20,880 --> 02:02:21,800 Speaker 4: into their head at once. 2503 02:02:22,280 --> 02:02:31,800 Speaker 3: They're gonna be like, I want that's so bad. It's 2504 02:02:31,880 --> 02:02:34,320 Speaker 3: like a zip bomb of just like brain rot. 2505 02:02:34,600 --> 02:02:36,200 Speaker 2: And then it's just like the it's like the Ultra. 2506 02:02:37,360 --> 02:02:40,400 Speaker 3: It's just just forever. After they do that, they it's 2507 02:02:40,440 --> 02:02:42,200 Speaker 3: like somebody, it's like the warning is like make sure 2508 02:02:42,240 --> 02:02:44,800 Speaker 3: you only download one episode at a time. They download 2509 02:02:44,960 --> 02:02:47,560 Speaker 3: every episode at once, and then forever they're just sitting 2510 02:02:47,600 --> 02:02:57,200 Speaker 3: in a chair like Waterhorse, Cardio Bunnies, green orange orange jacket. 2511 02:02:58,760 --> 02:03:05,360 Speaker 2: Protein peeing outside. Honestly a pretty fun life. 2512 02:03:07,000 --> 02:03:10,640 Speaker 1: Hey, what a way to go. You know what's going 2513 02:03:10,720 --> 02:03:12,680 Speaker 1: on inside that head is actually probably pretty fun. 2514 02:03:12,800 --> 02:03:15,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, imagine it's just their entire experience is just 2515 02:03:15,400 --> 02:03:18,720 Speaker 3: jumping like sporadically between moments on the on the show. 2516 02:03:19,000 --> 02:03:19,640 Speaker 3: And it's great. 2517 02:03:19,800 --> 02:03:23,120 Speaker 2: It's great. We have a fun time here. Yeah, I 2518 02:03:23,200 --> 02:03:27,320 Speaker 2: get kissed over here. 2519 02:03:27,400 --> 02:03:31,440 Speaker 3: You've got us shouting and then you'll just getting kissed. 2520 02:03:34,080 --> 02:03:35,360 Speaker 3: So okay, So. 2521 02:03:35,600 --> 02:03:37,520 Speaker 1: Doug says you're not braided rot your brain. 2522 02:03:37,840 --> 02:03:40,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's say I gotta I gotta lass so here 2523 02:03:40,200 --> 02:03:40,920 Speaker 3: I'm throwing it. 2524 02:03:45,880 --> 02:03:46,760 Speaker 2: You're off the rock bit. 2525 02:03:48,320 --> 02:03:52,600 Speaker 3: That was so good, guys, So what are what are 2526 02:03:52,680 --> 02:03:55,960 Speaker 3: you doing here now that I'm no contact? 2527 02:03:56,080 --> 02:03:56,400 Speaker 1: For sure? 2528 02:03:56,480 --> 02:03:58,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, now that I am I doing I don't think 2529 02:03:58,880 --> 02:04:02,160 Speaker 3: I'm I'm doing it Like I know. 2530 02:04:02,520 --> 02:04:04,280 Speaker 4: I said, I was like, well, you've got nothing to lose. 2531 02:04:04,320 --> 02:04:06,840 Speaker 4: But after hearing that, I think I just go, oh, 2532 02:04:06,920 --> 02:04:09,880 Speaker 4: I also have nothing to gain. Yeah, I don't think 2533 02:04:09,880 --> 02:04:11,440 Speaker 4: there's a way you can come back from that after 2534 02:04:11,560 --> 02:04:14,800 Speaker 4: eighteen years a thousand, Come on, dude, like you knew 2535 02:04:14,800 --> 02:04:15,440 Speaker 4: what you were doing. 2536 02:04:15,880 --> 02:04:16,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy. 2537 02:04:17,480 --> 02:04:18,600 Speaker 1: So what's this little update? 2538 02:04:18,640 --> 02:04:22,200 Speaker 3: We Gott's let's let's get into it. 2539 02:04:24,280 --> 02:04:28,120 Speaker 4: So this is quite shocking for me. This explains a 2540 02:04:28,160 --> 02:04:30,160 Speaker 4: lot about why my childhood turned out the way that 2541 02:04:30,240 --> 02:04:32,600 Speaker 4: it did. I'm gonna be honest. I wished they had 2542 02:04:32,680 --> 02:04:33,920 Speaker 4: given me away for adoption. 2543 02:04:34,480 --> 02:04:37,000 Speaker 3: I really really do. I could have been with adoptive 2544 02:04:37,040 --> 02:04:40,000 Speaker 3: parents who really wanted me, rather than with biological parents 2545 02:04:40,000 --> 02:04:43,480 Speaker 3: who never did. I still don't believe that they've changed, though. 2546 02:04:43,680 --> 02:04:46,440 Speaker 3: This can be the result of my sister, their golden child, 2547 02:04:46,760 --> 02:04:49,000 Speaker 3: being away and not spending as much time with them, 2548 02:04:49,240 --> 02:04:51,760 Speaker 3: and them trying to replace her with me. I think 2549 02:04:51,800 --> 02:04:53,560 Speaker 3: you just hit the nail on the head there, Opie. 2550 02:04:54,280 --> 02:04:56,360 Speaker 3: I don't want to do that at all, but I 2551 02:04:56,440 --> 02:04:59,480 Speaker 3: don't know. I've got to talk to my therapist. Please 2552 02:04:59,520 --> 02:05:02,200 Speaker 3: give me your opinions again. You guys were so useful 2553 02:05:02,200 --> 02:05:04,640 Speaker 3: to me last time. Your help means a lot. And 2554 02:05:04,800 --> 02:05:06,800 Speaker 3: that is the end of that story. And I think 2555 02:05:06,960 --> 02:05:08,400 Speaker 3: I can confidently tell you that. 2556 02:05:08,440 --> 02:05:12,600 Speaker 4: You are correct with your instincts that they are trying 2557 02:05:12,720 --> 02:05:15,840 Speaker 4: to just like fill the void that is now there 2558 02:05:15,960 --> 02:05:21,200 Speaker 4: because your sister left. I think if you were, and 2559 02:05:21,600 --> 02:05:23,080 Speaker 4: I don't know if you want to even put any 2560 02:05:23,240 --> 02:05:26,760 Speaker 4: energy into their existence at all, but I think it 2561 02:05:26,800 --> 02:05:30,240 Speaker 4: would be nice, a sweet poetic justice for you to 2562 02:05:30,320 --> 02:05:32,680 Speaker 4: try to milk as much money out of them as 2563 02:05:32,720 --> 02:05:34,520 Speaker 4: possible after. 2564 02:05:34,880 --> 02:05:38,760 Speaker 1: Everything that they feel like money comes with these I 2565 02:05:38,800 --> 02:05:40,360 Speaker 1: feel like money comes often. 2566 02:05:40,080 --> 02:05:42,760 Speaker 3: With string, and so yeah, not if you have no shame. 2567 02:05:43,480 --> 02:05:45,720 Speaker 1: But even if you don't like these people deserve they 2568 02:05:45,760 --> 02:05:49,680 Speaker 1: should one hundred grand at least they should. But taking 2569 02:05:49,800 --> 02:05:53,080 Speaker 1: their money, I feel like we'll keep their claws in you. 2570 02:05:53,200 --> 02:05:55,640 Speaker 1: And if you just don't, then you can completely take 2571 02:05:55,640 --> 02:05:56,600 Speaker 1: the high rosw true, but. 2572 02:05:56,600 --> 02:05:57,440 Speaker 2: You know what you can do with that. 2573 02:05:59,920 --> 02:06:02,640 Speaker 3: You can also just disappear off the face of the earth. 2574 02:06:02,680 --> 02:06:03,400 Speaker 3: And what are they gonna do? 2575 02:06:03,600 --> 02:06:05,720 Speaker 1: But you know what, also they want to think, Yeah, 2576 02:06:06,680 --> 02:06:09,160 Speaker 1: we want to we want to thank on a Naimos 2577 02:06:10,040 --> 02:06:15,640 Speaker 1: on a name, Nemos and Animosmos for the five bucks, 2578 02:06:15,920 --> 02:06:17,120 Speaker 1: my name, my name. 2579 02:06:19,360 --> 02:06:30,320 Speaker 6: AnonymOS, anonymous, anonymous things for the fifty bucks. 2580 02:06:30,800 --> 02:06:34,440 Speaker 1: Rebecca, thanks for the five bucks. Amanda Rose another fifty bucks. 2581 02:06:34,520 --> 02:06:36,560 Speaker 3: Wow, Amanda Rose dropping a fifty piece. 2582 02:06:36,800 --> 02:06:40,240 Speaker 1: Mirandy Joe, thanks for the two bucks? Are these really 2583 02:06:40,360 --> 02:06:42,360 Speaker 1: Dan's parents do it for? 2584 02:06:42,520 --> 02:06:42,760 Speaker 2: Damn? 2585 02:06:43,800 --> 02:06:44,880 Speaker 1: That was a great series. 2586 02:06:45,400 --> 02:06:46,120 Speaker 3: I can't believe. 2587 02:06:46,320 --> 02:06:47,080 Speaker 2: And that's it. 2588 02:06:47,320 --> 02:06:48,400 Speaker 1: I think that's it. 2589 02:06:48,760 --> 02:06:50,440 Speaker 3: So there's gotta be right. 2590 02:06:50,600 --> 02:06:54,360 Speaker 2: That's it is the end of the stream. That you 2591 02:06:54,520 --> 02:06:56,680 Speaker 2: might be back tomorrow. We I've talked to John. 2592 02:06:56,920 --> 02:07:02,960 Speaker 1: But if if you haven't already joined the Members only Lives, 2593 02:07:03,000 --> 02:07:05,680 Speaker 1: you should and become a member asap because there's a 2594 02:07:05,720 --> 02:07:07,480 Speaker 1: lot of Monday, Wednesday, Friday streames. 2595 02:07:08,000 --> 02:07:09,560 Speaker 3: But again we get up to no good. 2596 02:07:10,160 --> 02:07:13,960 Speaker 1: If you love us, make sure to subscribe We love you, 2597 02:07:14,720 --> 02:07:16,560 Speaker 1: and see it tomorrow.