WEBVTT - Serena & Greg - She Ghosted Him After a Great Date… Until One Swipe Changed Everything

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at advocateslad dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Greg is on the phone today for our first Date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Serena.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she's tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get a second date. But first, Craig, how long has

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<v Speaker 2>it been since you heard from Serena?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's been about five days.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, not too bad.

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<v Speaker 3>How long?

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<v Speaker 4>How many times did you hit her up?

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<v Speaker 3>Just a couple, you know, like I'd send her a

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<v Speaker 3>text and then I kind of followed up. My usual

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<v Speaker 3>is like an upside down smiley face emoji. I tried

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<v Speaker 3>calling everybody. Yeah nothing, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh oh, well, why don't you tell us about the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? So it was great. We went to this like

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<v Speaker 3>super chill indie bookstore cafe kind of thing. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 3>was really nice. I had like live music in the back.

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<v Speaker 3>They had candles on the table. It was super low key.

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<v Speaker 3>It just like really perfect explore what we were trying to,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, but the day was trying to be what

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying to make it, And yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 3>very romantic. Yeah, nobody was yelling in this place, so

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<v Speaker 3>that was nice. Yeah, and then you know what we

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<v Speaker 3>talked about. You know, we talked about like everything, the

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<v Speaker 3>most underrated cartoons, weird family traditions. She actually told me

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<v Speaker 3>that she celebrates her childhood stuffed animal's birthday every year,

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<v Speaker 3>which I thought was super interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Admitted to her that I once cried during a dog

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<v Speaker 3>food commercial. So yeah, it was a solid, really solid day.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely felt a vibe with her. But yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like I said, I really felt a vibe with her.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like I really felt like we got each other.

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<v Speaker 3>I walked her to her car at the end of

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<v Speaker 3>the night, and she, you know, she even said she

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to see me again, so.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh she did. Did you guys have any kind of

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<v Speaker 4>intimate moments?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? No, nothing to nothing like that. You know, I

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<v Speaker 3>kept get professional, but yeah, like it sound like a

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<v Speaker 3>good exit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, why do you think she might be ghosting you?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I might have made like a dumb

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<v Speaker 3>joke at the end of the night, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I offered her a mint and said something like, I

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<v Speaker 3>hope you're not doing anything for the next forty eight

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<v Speaker 3>hours and then pretended the mint was like laced with something.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you wouldn't joke about that on a Thursday. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a really bad joke.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>How did she react to that, Craig?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, yeah, she kind of froze. Uh, not gonna lie,

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<v Speaker 3>she kind of froze. Uh, you know, she draw it

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<v Speaker 3>and also kind of like gave me this like half

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<v Speaker 3>laugh before saying thanks for the date and getting in

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<v Speaker 3>her car.

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<v Speaker 2>So were you able to like apologize for the joke

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<v Speaker 2>and be like, hey, that was a joke. It was bad,

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<v Speaker 2>bad joke, but still joke.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I definitely apologize. I texted her the next morning

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, you know, I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. I had a great time. But yeah, no reply, and.

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<v Speaker 2>She goes joining us for today's first date follow up.

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<v Speaker 2>Craig is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Serena.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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<v Speaker 2>tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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<v Speaker 2>a second date. But first, Craig, why don't you recap

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<v Speaker 2>your date for us again?

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<v Speaker 4>Real quick?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So it was a great date. We went to

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<v Speaker 3>a really romantic place. We had great conversation. But at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of the date, I made a stupid joke

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<v Speaker 3>about drugging her with a mint. I totally regret making.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I am getting basically ghosted. She is not calling

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<v Speaker 3>me back. We're testing me back. All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you ready for us to give her a call?

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, I'm ready. I'm ready for whatever happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, here we go. Hi, man, I speak to Serena. Please,

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Serena, how are you. This is the radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called The Jewbill Show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Serena. I'm Nina.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewble. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what is going on much?

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<v Speaker 6>That's their question.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, have you ever listened to the show before?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, okay, Well, we do a segment on the show

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<v Speaker 2>that's called the first Date follow Up. That's where if

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<v Speaker 2>you go on a date with somebody and you end

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<v Speaker 2>up ghosting them, that person can email us to get

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<v Speaker 2>you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. And

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<v Speaker 2>we got an email about you Are you ghosting somebody?

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<v Speaker 5>I did go out with a guy named Craig recently.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that who wrote you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it is Craig. He emailed us. We talked him

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit about your date. He really liked you,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's wondering why you're ghosting him, so we thought

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<v Speaker 2>we'd call and ask if you wouldn't mind.

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<v Speaker 7>Telling us Okay, sure, Well the date was lovely, but

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<v Speaker 7>what I saw at the end of the date kind

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<v Speaker 7>of like freaked me out.

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<v Speaker 5>And you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I okay, I it was a good time. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't expecting him like him as much as I did,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we clicked, we had a really nice time. Like

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<v Speaker 1>he's quirky, but he's charming. And then near the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night, we're standing by my car and he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to show me a picture of him with elephants

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<v Speaker 1>in Thailand. Okay, and so he give me his phone

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<v Speaker 1>and says, you know the here's.

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<v Speaker 5>Me with the elephants. And I swiped to see more

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<v Speaker 5>pictures and I swiped too far. That's when I saw

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<v Speaker 5>just like endless bathroom selfies.

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<v Speaker 8>He's shirtless in different bathrooms.

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<v Speaker 6>Doing like look how hot I am poses, and some

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<v Speaker 6>had two action and some did not have tal action,

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<v Speaker 6>which you know, like I did not mean to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>What are you doing with this many photos? And who

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<v Speaker 5>are you sending them to? Like, nobody should have that

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<v Speaker 5>many naked photos of themselves on their phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and that's the reason you're ghosting him? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, well thank you for telling us. I wonder

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<v Speaker 2>why you have so many? Do you want you wonder

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<v Speaker 2>that too? I'm sure?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Like I said, it was just a lot tell notell.

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<v Speaker 5>I just like, who was he sending those two? Like

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<v Speaker 5>why do you need so many?

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<v Speaker 2>We should ask him? Oh gosh, and Serena, he's actually

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone right now and wants to talk to you,

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<v Speaker 2>So who should just ask?

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<v Speaker 3>I could just jump in. What so that's why you

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<v Speaker 3>ghosted me? You're ghosting me because of selfies?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Cool?

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<v Speaker 5>So you're on this call too.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, so you're saying, you know, like what you saw,

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<v Speaker 3>Like is that is that why you're ghosting You're just

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<v Speaker 3>like not attracted to me naked?

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<v Speaker 8>That's nothing to do. I mean, that's that's your takeaway.

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<v Speaker 8>Like there's a lot of photos, man, Like, who are

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<v Speaker 8>you sending those two?

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<v Speaker 5>That's weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I sometimes I just need to remind myself that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>hot now, Like I was overweight growing up and now

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<v Speaker 3>I look good. So I like to see it like

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<v Speaker 3>an angle I take like I like it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I like taking photos of myself.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you send those two people?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I'll send them sometimes if it's like appropriate.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's just to admire yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's just for me. And then like just in

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<v Speaker 3>case I need one ready to send to somebody like you.

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<v Speaker 8>I okay, you can save your photos for your like scrolling.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested in them, more in seeing anyone who

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<v Speaker 1>like admires himself that much.

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<v Speaker 5>That was just a lot for me.

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<v Speaker 3>What like, you don't want to date somebody with confidence?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm confident, Like that's that's just me being confident.

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<v Speaker 5>That's great. I'm glad you feel good about yourself now,

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<v Speaker 5>But that doesn't change to something you'll take.

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<v Speaker 8>Longer than me in the bathroom because you're turning.

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<v Speaker 5>At the right angle of your little friends, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not little.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Serena, would you like another day with Craig? We'll

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<v Speaker 2>pay for it, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm good at.

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<v Speaker 2>Least he's owning it, you know what I mean. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not like trying to play it off.

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<v Speaker 4>Like if you didn't see those Serena, would you want

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<v Speaker 4>to go on a date with him?

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<v Speaker 5>Probably, but like I know what I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I mean, Serena, Like, I really hope that you

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<v Speaker 3>change your mind. Like I really like you. I really

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<v Speaker 3>had a great time on our date. I'm sorry for

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<v Speaker 3>the dumb jokes that I made. I'm sorry that I

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<v Speaker 3>take so many selfies of myself, but like, I really

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<v Speaker 3>really like you as much as I like me.

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<v Speaker 1>I well, I will take that as a compliment because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I know how much you like you.

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<v Speaker 5>But I think this, like in the radio and the selfies,

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<v Speaker 5>I just this is a little too much for me.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think this is this is over now.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, can I can I just email you a

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<v Speaker 3>picture a couple, like a few pictures or so you

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<v Speaker 3>can tell me if they're good or not.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, yeah, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 5>They want to see that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time