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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocateslad dot com.

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Speaker 2: Greg is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Serena.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she's tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe

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Speaker 2: get a second date. But first, Craig, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Serena?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been about five days.

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Speaker 2: Okay, not too bad.

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Speaker 3: How long?

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Speaker 4: How many times did you hit her up?

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Speaker 3: Just a couple, you know, like I'd send her a

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Speaker 3: text and then I kind of followed up. My usual

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Speaker 3: is like an upside down smiley face emoji. I tried

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Speaker 3: calling everybody. Yeah nothing, okay.

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Speaker 4: Uh oh, well, why don't you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So it was great. We went to this like

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Speaker 3: super chill indie bookstore cafe kind of thing. Yeah, it

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Speaker 3: was really nice. I had like live music in the back.

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Speaker 3: They had candles on the table. It was super low key.

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Speaker 3: It just like really perfect explore what we were trying to,

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Speaker 3: you know, but the day was trying to be what

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Speaker 3: I was trying to make it, And yeah, it was

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Speaker 3: very romantic. Yeah, nobody was yelling in this place, so

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Speaker 3: that was nice. Yeah, and then you know what we

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Speaker 3: talked about. You know, we talked about like everything, the

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Speaker 3: most underrated cartoons, weird family traditions. She actually told me

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Speaker 3: that she celebrates her childhood stuffed animal's birthday every year,

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Speaker 3: which I thought was super interesting.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Admitted to her that I once cried during a dog

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Speaker 3: food commercial. So yeah, it was a solid, really solid day.

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Speaker 3: Definitely felt a vibe with her. But yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: like I said, I really felt a vibe with her.

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Speaker 3: I felt like I really felt like we got each other.

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Speaker 3: I walked her to her car at the end of

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Speaker 3: the night, and she, you know, she even said she

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Speaker 3: wanted to see me again, so.

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Speaker 4: Oh she did. Did you guys have any kind of

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Speaker 4: intimate moments?

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Speaker 3: Uh? No, nothing to nothing like that. You know, I

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Speaker 3: kept get professional, but yeah, like it sound like a

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Speaker 3: good exit.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, why do you think she might be ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I might have made like a dumb

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Speaker 3: joke at the end of the night, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I offered her a mint and said something like, I

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Speaker 3: hope you're not doing anything for the next forty eight

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Speaker 3: hours and then pretended the mint was like laced with something.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you wouldn't joke about that on a Thursday. That's

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Speaker 2: a really bad joke.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: How did she react to that, Craig?

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Speaker 3: Uh, yeah, she kind of froze. Uh, not gonna lie,

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Speaker 3: she kind of froze. Uh, you know, she draw it

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Speaker 3: and also kind of like gave me this like half

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Speaker 3: her car.

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Speaker 2: So were you able to like apologize for the joke

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Speaker 2: and be like, hey, that was a joke. It was bad,

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Speaker 2: bad joke, but still joke.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely apologize. I texted her the next morning

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Speaker 3: and you know, you know, I was like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I had a great time. But yeah, no reply, and.

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Speaker 2: She goes joining us for today's first date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Craig is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Serena.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: a second date. But first, Craig, why don't you recap

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Speaker 2: your date for us again?

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Speaker 4: Real quick?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So it was a great date. We went to

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Speaker 3: a really romantic place. We had great conversation. But at

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Speaker 3: the end of the date, I made a stupid joke

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Speaker 3: about drugging her with a mint. I totally regret making.

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Speaker 3: Now I am getting basically ghosted. She is not calling

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Speaker 3: me back. We're testing me back. All right.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to give her a call?

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Speaker 3: Yep, I'm ready. I'm ready for whatever happened?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, here we go. Hi, man, I speak to Serena. Please,

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Speaker 2: Hey Serena, how are you. This is the radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jewbill Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Serena. I'm Nina.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewble. What's going on?

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Speaker 5: I don't know what is going on much?

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Speaker 6: That's their question.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: No, okay, Well, we do a segment on the show

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Speaker 2: that's called the first Date follow Up. That's where if

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Speaker 2: you go on a date with somebody and you end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can email us to get

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. And

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Speaker 2: we got an email about you Are you ghosting somebody?

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Speaker 5: I did go out with a guy named Craig recently.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that who wrote you?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is Craig. He emailed us. We talked him

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Speaker 2: a little bit about your date. He really liked you,

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Speaker 2: and he's wondering why you're ghosting him, so we thought

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Speaker 2: we'd call and ask if you wouldn't mind.

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Speaker 7: Telling us Okay, sure, Well the date was lovely, but

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Speaker 7: what I saw at the end of the date kind

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Speaker 7: of like freaked me out.

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Speaker 5: And you.

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Speaker 1: Well, I okay, I it was a good time. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting him like him as much as I did,

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Speaker 1: Like we clicked, we had a really nice time. Like

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Speaker 1: he's quirky, but he's charming. And then near the end

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Speaker 1: of the night, we're standing by my car and he

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Speaker 1: wants to show me a picture of him with elephants

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Speaker 1: in Thailand. Okay, and so he give me his phone

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Speaker 1: and says, you know the here's.

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Speaker 5: Me with the elephants. And I swiped to see more

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Speaker 5: pictures and I swiped too far. That's when I saw

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Speaker 5: just like endless bathroom selfies.

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Speaker 8: He's shirtless in different bathrooms.

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Speaker 6: Doing like look how hot I am poses, and some

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Speaker 6: had two action and some did not have tal action,

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Speaker 6: which you know, like I did not mean to do that.

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Speaker 5: What are you doing with this many photos? And who

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Speaker 5: are you sending them to? Like, nobody should have that

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Speaker 5: many naked photos of themselves on their phone.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and that's the reason you're ghosting him? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, well thank you for telling us. I wonder

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Speaker 2: why you have so many? Do you want you wonder

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Speaker 2: that too? I'm sure?

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Like I said, it was just a lot tell notell.

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Speaker 5: I just like, who was he sending those two? Like

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Speaker 5: why do you need so many?

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Speaker 2: We should ask him? Oh gosh, and Serena, he's actually

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Speaker 2: on the phone right now and wants to talk to you,

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Speaker 2: So who should just ask?

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Speaker 3: I could just jump in. What so that's why you

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Speaker 3: ghosted me? You're ghosting me because of selfies?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Cool?

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Speaker 5: So you're on this call too.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, so you're saying, you know, like what you saw,

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Speaker 3: Like is that is that why you're ghosting You're just

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Speaker 3: like not attracted to me naked?

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Speaker 8: That's nothing to do. I mean, that's that's your takeaway.

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Speaker 8: Like there's a lot of photos, man, Like, who are

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Speaker 8: you sending those two?

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Speaker 5: That's weird.

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Speaker 3: I sometimes I just need to remind myself that I'm

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Speaker 3: hot now, Like I was overweight growing up and now

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Speaker 3: I look good. So I like to see it like

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Speaker 3: an angle I take like I like it. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I like taking photos of myself.

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Speaker 4: Do you send those two people?

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Speaker 3: I mean I'll send them sometimes if it's like appropriate.

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Speaker 5: So it's just to admire yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just for me. And then like just in

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Speaker 3: case I need one ready to send to somebody like you.

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Speaker 8: I okay, you can save your photos for your like scrolling.

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Speaker 1: I'm not interested in them, more in seeing anyone who

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Speaker 1: like admires himself that much.

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Speaker 5: That was just a lot for me.

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Speaker 3: What like, you don't want to date somebody with confidence?

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Speaker 3: I'm confident, Like that's that's just me being confident.

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Speaker 5: That's great. I'm glad you feel good about yourself now,

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Speaker 5: But that doesn't change to something you'll take.

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Speaker 8: Longer than me in the bathroom because you're turning.

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Speaker 5: At the right angle of your little friends, Like.

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Speaker 3: It's not little.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Serena, would you like another day with Craig? We'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it, thank you.

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Speaker 5: But I'm good at.

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Speaker 2: Least he's owning it, you know what I mean. It's

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Speaker 2: not like trying to play it off.

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Speaker 4: Like if you didn't see those Serena, would you want

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Speaker 4: to go on a date with him?

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Speaker 5: Probably, but like I know what I know.

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Speaker 3: Now, I mean, Serena, Like, I really hope that you

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Speaker 3: change your mind. Like I really like you. I really

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Speaker 3: had a great time on our date. I'm sorry for

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Speaker 3: the dumb jokes that I made. I'm sorry that I

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Speaker 3: take so many selfies of myself, but like, I really

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Speaker 3: really like you as much as I like me.

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Speaker 1: I well, I will take that as a compliment because

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Speaker 1: obviously I know how much you like you.

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Speaker 5: But I think this, like in the radio and the selfies,

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Speaker 5: I just this is a little too much for me.

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Speaker 5: So I think this is this is over now.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, can I can I just email you a

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Speaker 3: picture a couple, like a few pictures or so you

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Speaker 3: can tell me if they're good or not.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, yeah, go ahead.

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Speaker 5: They want to see that.

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Speaker 2: It's time