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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for stealing the money my

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Speaker 1: husband gave away so I could have a baby?

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Speaker 2: Stealing is bad? You know, I go out and live here

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Speaker 2: and say it. Tell you curmudgeons and your little little

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Speaker 2: criminals out there. But what what about for a baby?

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Speaker 2: What if? What if a baby steals? What if you

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Speaker 2: are stealing to save your baby? See oh quandary see

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Speaker 2: ethics one on one baby. That's right.

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Speaker 1: So to start off, I want to say that my

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Speaker 1: husband thirty six mail, has an old friend thirty three

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Speaker 1: male that he's known since high school. They are inseparable

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Speaker 1: and spend the entire week together like they are really

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Speaker 1: really close, really inseparable?

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Speaker 2: How how close are we talking.

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Speaker 1: To get them separated? WHOA? My husband and I have

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Speaker 1: struggled with fertility issues for years. We recently started a

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Speaker 1: new method IVF in hopes to get at least one

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Speaker 1: child together.

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Speaker 2: I thought they were going to say we recently started

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Speaker 2: a method called boning on the daily or boning other

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Speaker 2: Oh damn.

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Speaker 1: Note that I saved for the majority of the treatment,

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Speaker 1: while my husband only paid about two to three thousand dollars. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we saved up for another round after the huge disappointment

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Speaker 1: and heartbreak from failing the first time.

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Speaker 2: That's just how it goes. That's how it goes. IVF.

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Speaker 2: That stands for I'm very frustrated by losing my money.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, nice one, but ah, this time, I'd put in

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Speaker 3: all the money, including my dad's inheritance, and my husband

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Speaker 3: didn't pay a penny.

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Speaker 2: Damn, that's a lot of money. Bro adopt dropping GE's.

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Speaker 1: Last week, I found out that he secretly pulled out

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Speaker 1: seven thousand dollars. We had eleven thousand dollars in total.

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Speaker 1: I was completely and utterly shocked, and I confronted him,

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Speaker 1: and he casually reminded me of how many times his

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Speaker 1: best friend complained about his old junk car and how

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Speaker 1: he had decided to lend him seven thousand dollars to

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Speaker 1: buy a good, old, decent car.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that is so. That's a party foul.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know, my my friend's car is more

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Speaker 2: important than our future child. You know, so a car

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Speaker 2: is so Some people.

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Speaker 1: Give him names, you know, it's it's like a child.

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Speaker 2: My roommate, Christian automotive photographer, would agree, Hey, come on,

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Speaker 2: I mean he takes care of those a child, That's right,

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Speaker 2: try and simonate and that, let me tell you, I

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Speaker 2: believe it. No, that's why he painted it pink.

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Speaker 1: Now we know. I was beyond livid, and I asked

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Speaker 1: if he really thought that, if that was okay, and

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Speaker 1: he said I shouldn't worry, and he guaranteed his friend

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Speaker 1: would just pay us.

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Speaker 2: Back in time's so bad, it'll be all good.

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Speaker 1: I lost it on him and immediately demanded his friend

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Speaker 1: to send the money back and threaten police involvement. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in case he was mad, Dude, she is not playing

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Speaker 1: around over here. His friend immediately returned the money, but

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Speaker 1: told my husband about the police thing, and my husband

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Speaker 1: came home and he yelled at me, calling me unhinged

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Speaker 1: and selfish.

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Speaker 2: I mean, the police thing is a bit much. He

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Speaker 2: could have just asked for it back. Yeah, I just

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Speaker 2: asked for it back.

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Speaker 1: If he's like, no, I'm running away to Cuba and

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Speaker 1: faking my death, Okay, now we can get some extra

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Speaker 1: people involved. I told him I saved up some of

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Speaker 1: this money. Slash used my inheritance for this treatment while

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Speaker 1: he contributed nothing, even though we are in this together.

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Speaker 2: So wait, yeah, that's a good point. This is like

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Speaker 2: all her money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my god, he corrected me, saying that I'm

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Speaker 1: the one with the problem, and he thought it's only

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Speaker 1: fair that I make up for it by paying for

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Speaker 1: the IVF myself.

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Speaker 2: Yikes. Yikes.

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Speaker 1: I don't even he doesn't even explain, like there's yikes,

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Speaker 1: even if you had like bullshit logic, there's like literally

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Speaker 1: no logic here.

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Speaker 2: Yikes.

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Speaker 1: This hurts so badly and I couldn't argue anymore. He

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Speaker 1: went up to stay with his friend while constantly shaming

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Speaker 1: me for how I treated them both and for the

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Speaker 1: police involvement, like they stole from me or something.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, first off, that's a shitty husband move, like

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Speaker 2: you're the one with the problem. Like like, I mean, maybe, like, dude,

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Speaker 2: don't they both want the baby.

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Speaker 1: They both want the baby. They're both they initially had

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Speaker 1: both been paying for it in varying amounts. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe maybe he just wants a baby with Steve. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe that's.

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Speaker 2: What I'm here.

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Speaker 1: He's val Steve gave to get IVF.

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Speaker 2: Also, he's going on this getaway, this romantic getaway with Steve.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Something's happening beneath the covers. Let me

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Speaker 2: tell you