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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Amy here and we are back with another

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Speaker 1: Sunday sampler. It's clips from some of the podcasts that

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Speaker 1: came out this week on the Nashville Podcast Network, like

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Speaker 1: The Bobby Cast, my podcast Four Things with Amy Brown,

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Speaker 1: so Losers with Lunchbox, and Ray Movie, Mike's Movie podcast,

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Speaker 1: Get Real with Caroline Hobby, and more. This week on

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Speaker 1: the Bobby Cast, Bobby talked with radio veterans Tony Randall

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Speaker 1: and Chris Rochester of The Tony and Chris Show. They've

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Speaker 1: been in radio over thirty years, so they have a

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Speaker 1: bunch of stories, like the time they interviewed Garth before

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Speaker 1: he was famous. As you may know, a new podcast

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Speaker 1: joined the Nashville Podcast Network Family a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: It's called In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie and

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Speaker 1: it's all about animals. So check that out if you haven't.

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Speaker 1: Josie's an amazing storyteller. You're gonna love it. And another podcast,

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Speaker 1: It's Near to the Fam is Take This Personally with

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Speaker 1: Morgan Hulsman. This week she had on two guests, therapist

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Speaker 1: doctor Alexandra Solomon and country artist Kylie Morgan. So you're

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Speaker 1: going to hear from both of them. Let's get started

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Speaker 1: with a clip from Take This Personally.

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Speaker 2: This week, I have on doctor Solomon, who is beyond

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Speaker 2: an expert with over twenty years of experience. She studied

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Speaker 2: psychology and women's studies at the University of Michigan, and

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Speaker 2: she also received her PhD in counseling psychology.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for joining me, and.

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Speaker 2: I want to get your expertise on several topics, but

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Speaker 2: we're going to dive right into the deep end.

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Speaker 4: To start, I.

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Speaker 2: Want to talk to you about the ways that we

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Speaker 2: invalidate ourselves. I'm guilty of it. I know a lot

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Speaker 2: of people are of saying others have it worse. How

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Speaker 2: do we get away from doing that and feeling that way?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well the only way that I know

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Speaker 5: how to do it is with something in something that

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Speaker 5: comes from psychology, which is called dialectics. So dialectics. You know,

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Speaker 5: our research has shown that a lot of our emotional

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Speaker 5: resilience and emotional well being rests upon our ability to

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Speaker 5: hold a dialectic. And a dialectic is a space where

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Speaker 5: competing truths, where two things are true at the same time,

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Speaker 5: two things that seem opposite are actually both true. I

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Speaker 5: had a terrible day and I am blessed. Those both

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Speaker 5: are true. We can be blessed and suffering that both

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Speaker 5: those things can be true. I don't have to prove

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Speaker 5: that I have it worse than anybody else in order

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Speaker 5: to be entitled to my suffering, and the way that

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Speaker 5: I do that is by holding both my grief and

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Speaker 5: my gratitude, my courage and my fear, the fact that

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Speaker 6: Forever a work in progress.

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Speaker 5: Like these things that just seem like they can't possibly

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Speaker 5: both be true at the same time are as part

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Speaker 5: of the thing that makes being.

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Speaker 6: Alive so complicated.

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Speaker 5: So I think if I have one of those moments,

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Speaker 5: I certainly have had those moments where I am just

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Speaker 5: in the suck. I am just like suffering and struggling

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Speaker 5: and want to host a big old pity party for myself.

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Speaker 5: And then I'm just like, ah, I'm being ridiculous because

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Speaker 5: there are people who have, you know, quote unquote actual problems.

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Speaker 6: Both those things are true.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I am absolutely blessed and I am absolutely burnt

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Speaker 5: out or struggling. So that's where I try to go,

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Speaker 5: because You're right, if I cannot validate my own suffering.

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Speaker 5: You can bet that I'm not going to be able

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Speaker 2: And being self aware is kind of one of the

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Speaker 4: Visit living up to all the hypes. Should we be

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Speaker 4: focusing so much on that? And what does that look like?

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Speaker 2: If somebody hasn't ever heard the word self aware and

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Speaker 6: Self awareness is my that's my jam.

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Speaker 5: That's how I spend really all day every day is

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Speaker 5: supporting people in different ways to understand with curiosity and

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Speaker 6: And I think it's it is essential.

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Speaker 5: So I think the first step is to just begin

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Speaker 5: Like just getting really curious and starting to view our

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Speaker 5: I think one of the things, you know, you started

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Speaker 5: last couple of decades the whole field of self help.

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Speaker 5: awareness work. I think those are really gentle ways to start,

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Speaker 2: How do you suggest I think it's hard for people

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Speaker 2: there's feedback. And because of social media, there is also

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Speaker 2: feedback with criticism and negativity. So how do we kind

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Speaker 2: of look at something like, Okay, this is feedback to

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Speaker 5: I think that's a very very good point. It's all

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Speaker 5: about the strength of the relationship.

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Speaker 5: I will not take feedback from somebody where I have

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Speaker 5: a sense that there's an ulterior motive or a hidden agenda,

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Speaker 5: in community with me. I won't take feedback from somebody

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Speaker 5: You know and that so that I think it really

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Speaker 5: cultivating the kinds of relationships where there's enough trust that

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Speaker 5: then feedback feels like a generous gift rather than an attack.

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Speaker 5: And that's what there was right with my husband. I

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Speaker 5: trust that he's in my corner. I trust that he

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Speaker 7: You guys go to San Diego. How long were you

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Speaker 8: Ninety three to two and fifteen years?

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Speaker 9: Fifteen years?

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Speaker 10: I think, well, that last year was just paid out there.

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Speaker 9: You got paid for a whole year.

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Speaker 11: Oh more than that.

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Speaker 9: It was the craziest thing.

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Speaker 8: We won't go into the radio company that did it,

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Speaker 8: That they had built a station across the street for us,

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Speaker 8: it we were number one, beating our old station that

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Speaker 7: Okay, let me let me for those that don't know,

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Speaker 7: so across the street means a rival. So you were

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Speaker 7: working at a different station and a clear channel built

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Speaker 7: a station and then they said, hey, come so they

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Speaker 7: hired you away from your old station.

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Speaker 8: We were crushing like they put a ridiculous bonus in

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Speaker 8: always number one, and we did it in the first

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Speaker 10: And then a new Jane clarify one quick thing. They

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Speaker 10: didn't hire us away like we just went for more money.

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Speaker 10: There's a story behind it. We wanted to stay at

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Speaker 10: Casso Win. Oh if we were there for ten years,

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Speaker 10: wasn't a big contract negotiations?

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Speaker 9: Then you picked them.

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Speaker 10: It was a big contract negotiation. The contract had been

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Speaker 10: negotiated in principle. We just hadn't signed the contract yet.

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Speaker 10: Everything was done for our wives. I delay it is great.

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Speaker 10: We're not paying these guys this money and they're like,

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Speaker 10: yes we are. This is what the market will bear,

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Speaker 10: we've never paid a show this much and we're not

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Speaker 8: we'll tell everybody they ditched for more money.

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Speaker 10: And that was the caso in way because there were

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Speaker 10: some names that came out of there. Jack Diamond back

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Speaker 10: in the day, Lisa Dent who went to Chicago had

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Speaker 10: great success. It was a station where if you left,

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Speaker 10: if you were successful and left, you left the city.

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Speaker 10: Nobody had ever stayed because there was no country station

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Speaker 10: before the holidays. It was weird because we always took

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Speaker 10: Tony and Chris, and they were like, absolutely, but they'll

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Speaker 10: never leave KSOM. I mean, they're killing it over there.

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Speaker 10: And he was a funny story and he told them

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Speaker 10: what happened.

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Speaker 10: The guy was like, give me a couple of days

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Speaker 10: because now we're in the holidays. Books are closed. Obviously,

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Speaker 10: long story short, it got done. And when we left

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Speaker 10: Kson before Christmas two weeks before, came back in January

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Speaker 10: to a brand new radio station that had been built

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Speaker 7: Was that a super stressful, intense time for you guys. Yes,

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Speaker 7: that you talk about it now, it's like how ham

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Speaker 7: But really at the time, it was like, oh my god, horrible. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I'm like, what am I going to do?

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Speaker 8: I've I got he hurt, even though the other station

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Speaker 8: you loved everybody at the other station, and then you're

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Speaker 8: coming on and it was just weird and like jealous

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Speaker 10: If traffic's more than sixty seconds behind out of this window.

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Speaker 7: Where was this coming from, like what you actually have

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Speaker 8: Did they were paying you guys, the GM.

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Speaker 10: They were trying to get us for cause because it

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Speaker 7: And that's why they were giving you all these stipulations.

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Speaker 8: Paul was just like, take the checks in our building

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Speaker 10: It's kind of like when George gets fired from the

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Speaker 7: You know, it's like out that GM came in with

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Speaker 14: You're listening to in the ves office with doctor Josie Horschak.

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Speaker 15: I'm so excited about our guest today in the VETS office.

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Speaker 15: We have my friend and my mentor, doctor Cindy Charlie,

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Speaker 15: She's really gone on to become the most saw after

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Speaker 4: So I'm excited to have her here today.

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Speaker 14: Awesome, All right, let's talk about teeth with doctor Cindy.

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Speaker 15: Hi, doctor Cindy, we are so excited to have you

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Speaker 16: Welcome, thank you, happy to be here.

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Speaker 16: providing the best pre anesthetic evaluation that we can, providing

442
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Speaker 16: monitoring during anesthetic event. All of those things cost money

443
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Speaker 16: and require talented people on our team to assist us.

444
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Speaker 16: And so yes, doing a dentistry procedure under general anesthesia

445
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Speaker 16: can be expensive, but if we make it part of

446
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Speaker 16: our pets annual care, If we do an annual procedure,

447
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Speaker 16: then that could be less expensive over time. Instead of

448
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Speaker 16: ignoring the fact until we get to the point where

449
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Speaker 16: the jargat cat isn't eating and they've got a tremendous

450
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Speaker 16: amount of discomfort, and we have to impove a lot

451
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Speaker 16: of their teeth to a lot of oral surgery that

452
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Speaker 16: becomes more expensive.

453
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Speaker 15: Yeah, and I think you know, owners just don't know

454
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Speaker 15: on the back end that there's so much that goes on.

455
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Speaker 15: It's not just a teeth cleaning, like you said, it's

456
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Speaker 15: we've got all those nurses that are helping with you know,

457
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Speaker 15: getting them ready for surgery and inducing them, intimating them.

458
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Speaker 15: It's just like all the things that would happen to

459
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Speaker 15: humans at the human hospital. So there's a lot of

460
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Speaker 15: talented people involved. There's a lot of work that goes

461
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Speaker 15: on behind the scenes. And then it's not just a

462
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Speaker 15: dental cleaning. We're taking full mouth X rays, which is

463
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Speaker 15: a huge diagnostic tool. I'll maybe let you expand on

464
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Speaker 15: that a little bit. And you know, cleaning is a

465
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Speaker 15: kind of belittling what we do because we use high

466
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Speaker 15: speed hand tools to really clean those teeth and then

467
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Speaker 15: we're probing them to see is their disease that we

468
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Speaker 15: can see with our eye and around the gun line.

469
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Speaker 15: I mean, there's a it's a quite a process and

470
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Speaker 15: it's not just a dental cleaning.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, I think the word dental. Historically we've used the

472
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Speaker 16: word dental to describe what we're doing, and that totally

473
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Speaker 16: under estimates the time, skill, and talent needed to complete

474
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Speaker 16: the procedure. So a comprehensive oral and radiographic evaluation under

475
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Speaker 16: general anesthesia is probably better wording to describe it to clients.

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Speaker 2: It's not just.

477
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Speaker 16: Getting your clean. It's not what you think the groomor

478
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Speaker 16: may or may not be able to do. There's a

479
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Speaker 16: lot more to it.

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Speaker 17: Good little food for yourself. Oh, it's pretty bad, it's

481
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Speaker 17: pretty beautiful. Beautiful.

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Speaker 4: That's a little more said.

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Speaker 17: You're kicking with full thing with Amy Brown.

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Speaker 1: All right, I got four questions to ask your friends

485
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Speaker 1: or your kids around the dinner table, or your significant other,

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Speaker 1: whoever you hang out with your coworkers like this, just

487
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Speaker 1: little conversation starters that could be good. And we do

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Speaker 1: high low around the dinner table a lot. When my

489
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Speaker 1: niece was here, she had a friend visiting her for

490
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Speaker 1: the weekend and we were doing high low and her

491
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Speaker 1: friend said, Oh, I love rose thorn bud, and you

492
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Speaker 1: share the rose of what's going on in your life.

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Speaker 1: At the moment, which is a recent success, like it's

494
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Speaker 1: just it's already there, it's happened, it's awesome. You share

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Speaker 1: a thorn, which is a current challenge that you have,

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Speaker 1: and then you share a bud, like what's budding in

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Speaker 1: your life? What's an opportunity with something you're looking forward to?

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Speaker 1: And so those are three questions right there. What's your rose,

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Speaker 1: what's your thorn, and what's your bud?

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Speaker 14: So I'll ask you, Okay, my rose right now is

501
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Speaker 14: more about my children, but.

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Speaker 18: As a mom, that's you know, it's for me.

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Speaker 14: We got really good teachers this year and last year

504
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Speaker 14: we had a very difficult year, so we were nervous

505
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Speaker 14: about it, and it's just eliminated so much stress for me.

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Speaker 1: I think even of just acknowledging that and having gratitude for.

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Speaker 18: It is Yeah, this woman's amazing.

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Speaker 1: It reminds me of taking all the little things in

509
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Speaker 1: your day and looking at like what's going right, because

510
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: sometimes we can get wrapped up in what's going wrong.

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Speaker 1: That's an easy thing to sort of overlook, like, Okay, yeah,

512
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Speaker 1: we got teachers, they're good, like onto the next But

513
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Speaker 1: it's pausing and thinking, oh gosh, this actually really is

514
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Speaker 1: going to be so great for our year, and I'm

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Speaker 1: getting very thankful.

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Speaker 14: You really notice it when you didn't have a great

517
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Speaker 14: year the year before, it matters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess it's probably something I've not really thought

519
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Speaker 1: much about or taken for granted because I've typically had

520
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Speaker 1: good teachers. What about a thorn?

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Speaker 18: I think I have arthritis.

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Speaker 1: That is definitely a thorn.

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Speaker 14: I have this burning sensation in my knee. It almost

524
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Speaker 14: feels like a sunburn. And I don't run and I

525
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Speaker 14: walk every day, so it could either be runners knee

526
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Speaker 14: but I don't run, or arthritis, and all signs are

527
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Speaker 14: pointing towards arthritis. So I officially bought an arthritis brace

528
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Speaker 14: the other day.

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Speaker 1: It can come up at any age, depending on what's

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Speaker 1: been going on. I feel like sometimes when it's going

531
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Speaker 1: to rain, my joints will flare up. But I definitely

532
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: don't have arthritis. But yeah, I know some teenagers that

533
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Speaker 1: really deal with it, and it can be crippling, bilitating.

534
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Speaker 14: You know, I went down the WEBMZ rabbit hole and

535
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Speaker 14: I have to just turn it off.

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Speaker 1: What about a bud for you? An opportunity?

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Speaker 18: I have a really exciting brand deal coming up.

538
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 14: Can you say, who I haven't like finalized it, but

539
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 14: zip lock bags?

540
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 4: Oh that's exciting, isn't that?

541
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Speaker 14: Fun's it was something I had on my vision board

542
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 14: to get more brand deals and yeah, we started talking

543
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Speaker 14: on Instagram with all my recipes and yeah, there's an

544
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Speaker 14: opportunity there.

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Speaker 18: So it's silly, but it's exciting.

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Speaker 1: Well, my rose would be Stevenson getting baptized last weekend.

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Speaker 1: That just seeing a beautiful rose lines up with that

548
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 1: because there was probably some thorns and buds in that.

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Speaker 1: And to see the growth that he's had and how

550
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Speaker 1: far he's come in him making that commitment and wanting

551
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: to and just how excited he was and seeing friends

552
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: that showed up to celebrate him. Probably had ten buddies there.

553
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: That's a core memory that came. And yeah, and watching

554
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: them hug him and high five him and pray over him. Also,

555
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: he's turning fourteen this weekend, so that's a rose as well.

556
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 1: A thorn for me would be I love my daughter Sashi,

557
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: a lover, She's amazing. Just a recent little thorn was

558
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Speaker 1: she put Hannah all over her face right before the baptism.

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00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 18: Hannah like a Hannah tattoo. That lasts for weeks.

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Speaker 1: Right, well according to Google, because I was freaking out

561
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: trying to google how long is this going to last?

562
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Speaker 1: And we need to get it off asap, and it

563
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,679
Speaker 1: said anywhere from four days to three weeks. Yeah, depending

564
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Speaker 1: on how long you leave the hennah on because you

565
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Speaker 1: have to let it set all about it twelve hours.

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00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: Luckily we got it off in time to where it

567
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 1: didn't do much permanent stuff. But I mean I was

568
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: getting baby oil and lemon and scrubbing and all. The

569
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 1: thing's kind of hilarious. It was hilarious. But Ben's family

570
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:20,120
Speaker 1: was coming in town baptism. There's any family photos out

571
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: in place. She was starting school two days after that,

572
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: and her new job. She's a hostess. And I said,

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Speaker 1: you're front facing at it. You were totally the face

574
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Speaker 1: of the restaurant. And you have hando tattoo all over

575
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Speaker 1: your face, which is beautiful in some culture, is not

576
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: your culture, right.

577
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 4: But it's also typically on your hand.

578
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, well she put on the face.

579
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Speaker 18: That's hilarious.

580
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: And then my bud would be an opportunity that I

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Speaker 1: have might be that I just saw a sign to

582
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Speaker 1: get another cat, because there's this big headline that said

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Speaker 1: having a cat reduces risk of a heart attack by

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Speaker 1: thirty percent. So I'm like, what an opportunity. I wonder

585
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 1: what dogs do? Well. I love my dog, but she

586
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: sort of stressed out sometimes, and my cat doesn't stress me.

587
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 14: How he is pretty great And I am not a

588
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Speaker 14: cat person, and Maggie's wonderful.

589
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 18: I will second that.

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00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's sitting here with us now. So if you're

591
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: looking for your sign to get a cat, A ten

592
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: year study conducted by the University of Minnesota's Stroke Institute

593
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Speaker 1: found that having a feline friend can reduce the risk

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Speaker 1: of a heart attack by over thirty percent. These scientists

595
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: followed over four thousand people and discovered the cat owners

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Speaker 1: had much lower risk of cardiovascular disease.

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Speaker 4: So, huh, bring on the cats.

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00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 19: Yeah.

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00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: And then the final question for this section, so again,

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Speaker 1: you're playing this game with your girlfriends, your kids, you

601
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: do rosebud Thorn. And then if you did not know

602
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: the day you were born, how old would you be?

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Speaker 14: Okay, I have two answers. Mentally, I'm like eighty seven.

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00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 14: I feel like I know a lot just having such

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00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 14: a crazy childhood. You know, I remember being eighteen saying

606
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Speaker 14: to my mom do you feel or however old she was,

607
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 14: she was in fifty forty, and she was like, no,

608
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 14: I feel the same way I felt when I was eighteen.

609
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 14: So there's a part of me that still feels hip.

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00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 14: But I realized very quickly I'm not sometimes, but I

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Speaker 14: think if I was in a room by myself, in

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Speaker 14: my head, I'm still like eighteen.

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00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 18: So that's a double answer. I'm eighty seven and eighteen.

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00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 6: Oh yeah.

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00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 4: I kind of like that.

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Speaker 1: You got the wisdom, but you're still young and free, yeah,

617
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: and fun and all the things. A dead giveaway that

618
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: you're older, according to gen Z, is if you wear

619
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: high heels when you go out, because now.

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Speaker 4: You see I don't anymore. That's the thing.

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Speaker 14: Like I feel like I fall into a lot of

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Speaker 14: the gen Z trends.

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Speaker 1: It's probably because you spend a lot of time on TikTok.

624
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I know. Well now I'm like, okay, I

625
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: got to start where my sneakers are to go out,

626
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Speaker 1: because I am just aging myself when I'm putting on

627
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Speaker 1: my heels, because I still feel like that's what you

628
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: do to go out. So heads up, put on the

629
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Speaker 1: sneakers and I'm not this is not me trying to

630
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Speaker 1: look young, and this is me saying like, thank god,

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Speaker 1: the younger.

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Speaker 14: Enation is very yeah, like why would you walk down

633
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Speaker 14: Broadway in hills if you didn't have to?

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Speaker 9: We're gonna do it live.

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Speaker 19: Oh, the one, two, three, Sore Losers?

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Speaker 13: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most

637
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 13: about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts, my

638
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 13: sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.

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Speaker 19: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.

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Speaker 19: I live on the north side of Nashville with Bayser,

641
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 19: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a

642
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 19: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully

643
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 19: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue

644
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 19: to be determined. Over to you, coach.

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Speaker 13: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The

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Speaker 13: Sore Losers. I'll tell you this right now. There's a

647
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Speaker 13: dad's group see hard path. I'm not doing the dad's

648
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 13: text thread. No, no, there's no text, there's no communication.

649
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Speaker 13: It is just the first Thursday of every month we

650
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Speaker 13: go out for drinks and I don't know, like a

651
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 13: start to the month. Hey, Paul. Yeah, I'm hungover a shit,

652
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 13: got drunk.

653
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Speaker 19: First Thursday, by the way, to start August, go and

654
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Speaker 19: get slaughtered.

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Speaker 9: I love it.

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00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 19: Man.

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Speaker 13: Welcome to dudes. Welcome to dude. Listen. And so I

658
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 13: don't talk to these people. This is how like I

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Speaker 13: know some of the dads in the neighborhood, like I

660
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 13: have their numbers and I text them like that awkward

661
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 13: thing about hey, I heard nothing but thugs go to

662
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 13: this school. When I see a school sign in his

663
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 13: yard and no reply because I don't really know them.

664
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 13: It's just the first Thursday of every month. This guy

665
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 13: sends out an email. And here's the great thing about guys.

666
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 13: You know it's the first Thursday of every month. We

667
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 13: don't send it three days in advance and say hey,

668
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 13: anybody want to go to this place to grab a

669
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 13: drink at you know, eight o'clock on Thursday. He sends

670
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 13: it out at noon on Thursday and says, hey, tonight,

671
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 13: we're meeting here bro code. So this first Thursday of

672
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 13: August we get an email Tenseil and Tangle. Hey, guys,

673
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 13: I'm out of town for work, Jesse. You think you

674
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 13: could handle this meet up tonight? Jesse replies, Hey, I'm

675
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 13: in Arizona all week. Anybody else. So the guy sends

676
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 13: it to me and says, hey, you want to organize something.

677
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 13: Puts the pressure on me to get the dads together.

678
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 13: Just name a spot. So I name a spot. Hey,

679
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 13: let's meet at this restaurant, Barcelona Line Bar, eight o'clock. Boom,

680
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 13: let's go. Dude, what a turnout. The only problem is

681
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 13: the restaurant closed at nine.

682
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 9: Guys, make it quick.

683
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 13: So we got there. We got there at eight, like ten,

684
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 13: eight ten, and like eight forty someone goes you, guys,

685
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 13: realize it's closes at nine. I'm like, no, eight forty five.

686
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 13: One of the dad shows up. He was there for

687
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 13: fifteen minutes. Yeah, you gotta definitely check times. I've learned

688
00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 13: that with brunches, we regularly hit a ten thirty.

689
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 19: A lot of these push eleven when they open. Oh

690
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 19: definitely happened where we'll get there at ten thirty. Yep, guys,

691
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 19: we're gonna go over there, grab a drink, no reason.

692
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 19: We're just see her thirty minutes early and they're not open,

693
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 19: so we go to a pre bar before the brunch.

694
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 13: You're like the people that when I worked at Sam's

695
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 13: Club would line up outside the door fifteen minutes before

696
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 13: it opens, like they have to have the paper towels

697
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 13: right at ten.

698
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 9: But here's the thing.

699
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 19: We were spoiled when we live downtown because those places

700
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 19: are breakfast slash brunch, so we would just turn them

701
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 19: into a brunch, whereas the midtown shit, bro, they're not

702
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 19: pushing noon. I mean, if you want to get in

703
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 19: and it'd be a good atmosphere, don't go a second before,

704
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 19: got it.

705
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 13: But yeah, so the women do get together, but now

706
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 13: the men. I gotta admit. The men do get together,

707
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 13: but they don't do it like the women. The women

708
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 13: like they have a group. My wife organized it after

709
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 13: she heard about the dad's group. She's like, well, I

710
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 13: need a mom's group. They just go to someone's house

711
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 13: and drink wine and eat.

712
00:33:59,280 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 6: You know.

713
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 19: Snow that first guy that dipped out on you guys

714
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 19: that said he was an Arizona or the other one

715
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 19: was busy. Yeah, yeah, you can come over and drink

716
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 19: my liquor cabinet or whatever beer you want, just don't

717
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 19: pay my wife.

718
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 13: The only we did have one awkward one. We had

719
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 13: one awkward one, and.

720
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 9: It wakes Jim.

721
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 13: It was last summer and they were like, Hey, we're

722
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 13: gonna be over at Hector's house. He has a pool.

723
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:29,240
Speaker 13: I'm like, what the kinky? So it was like twelve

724
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 13: dads in a backyard in the pool. No women with

725
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 13: the hangers. No, no women, no no, because it was

726
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 13: dad's night. Hey Jim, what's your wife up to? And

727
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 13: what was weird?

728
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 9: Is you like to swim?

729
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 13: How many out of twelve? Like, if you're going to

730
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 13: a dude's night, right.

731
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 19: If there's a pool involved, I don't know if I'm

732
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 19: gonna get in if it's just dudes, That's what I'm saying.

733
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 19: That's the question you have to ask yourself. They did

734
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 19: it on this TV show I watch, and it was

735
00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 19: an all dude get together and they're all on the

736
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 19: pool together and it just looks gay, which is fine,

737
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 19: there's nothing wrong with that. I'm heterosexual, though, I don't

738
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:06,720
Speaker 19: try to get in a pool with five other dudes.

739
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 13: So then you had to decide like what am I

740
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 13: gonna do? Like am I gonna roll up in my

741
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 13: bathing suit? Or am I gonna be one that just

742
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 13: hangs out on the side of the pool.

743
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 19: It's tough because then if all the other dads are in,

744
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 19: you feel ostracized.

745
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 13: I didn't know what it was gonna be like. I

746
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 13: was like, no way, anybody's really gonna swim, but I'm

747
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 13: gonna bring my swimsuit just in case every dude's flipping around.

748
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 13: Out of the twelve dudes that showed up, hey John,

749
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 13: throw me at floaty, Well, first we just sat on

750
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 13: the back patio. Had to drink.

751
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 9: Hey Jim dive Forard cannon Ball.

752
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 13: Had to drink. Then we had a second drink, and

753
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 13: then someone got in the nervous like, hey, we're gonna

754
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 13: get in the pool. I was like, wean, I'll get in. Well,

755
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 13: guys are wearing a banana amock ather. Dude is like

756
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 13: I'm getting in.

757
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 9: Guy gets it in his boxer.

758
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 13: When guy's like, I'll hang my feet over the.

759
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 9: Edge, that's why you can't do, dude.

760
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 13: And one guy's like, I'll bring a chair over there

761
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 13: and just watch a guy. That's what I'm doing.

762
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 9: I'll throw my pool in the water.

763
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 13: And so there was seven of us that got in

764
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 13: the pool and three that put their feet over in

765
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 13: two just satin chairs. That's life. And I mean, I'm

766
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 13: gonna tell you what I get a text from Garrett

767
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 13: at least once every couple of weeks. It says, hey, man,

768
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 13: you going any guys pools night? Come on? But I

769
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 13: will say the awkward part is the guy that hosted

770
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 13: that night, that had us over him, had us in

771
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 13: his pool. I've never seen him since. He ain't He

772
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 13: ain't come around ever. Yeah, I got.

773
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 19: Usually those gatherings lead to other things awkward when they don't.

774
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 13: Well, it was just like, all right, man, well I'm

775
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 13: gonna go ahead and go you know what I mean, Like,

776
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 13: I'm done swimming. Cool, you got a towel I can

777
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 13: dry off with. All right, cool, Thanks, here's your towel back.

778
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 20: Man.

779
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 13: But he never He hadn't been to another dad's get

780
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 13: together in over a year.

781
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 19: Anytime you want with that towel back, I'll just drop

782
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 19: it off on your porch tomorrow, man, like getting the

783
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 19: front lawn.

784
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 13: Man, it's been six months. I just found this in

785
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 13: lawndry basket.

786
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 5: There you go.

787
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 12: Hey, it's Mike d And this week a movie Mike's

788
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 12: Movie Podcast.

789
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,240
Speaker 11: My wife Kelsey and I.

790
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 12: Gave our movies of the month, the best and worst

791
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 12: movies that we saw in July. Letting you know what

792
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 12: is worth your money to go see in theaters, where

793
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 12: you should wait to stream at home, and what you

794
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 12: should avoid altogether. I also gave my spoiler free review

795
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 12: of the new m Night Shamalan movie Trap, so be

796
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 12: sure to check out this full episode. But right now,

797
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 12: here's just a little bit of Movie Mike's movie Podcast.

798
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 11: What was the best movie you saw in July?

799
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:54,400
Speaker 4: No question?

800
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 21: Twisters.

801
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 11: It's a movie that we went to the theater twice

802
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 11: to see.

803
00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,479
Speaker 21: We have seen it twice in theaters. Now I would

804
00:37:59,480 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 21: go again.

805
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 12: I do want to see it in the forty X

806
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 12: now because we saw it in Imax, we saw it

807
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 12: in Standard and right after Twisters came out, Dead Pulling

808
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 12: Wolverine came out and it took all the screenings of

809
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:11,760
Speaker 12: forty X out.

810
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 11: But it's coming back for a week. I just could I.

811
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 12: Convince you to go see it for a third time.

812
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 12: I've never done that, I don't think ever. The only

813
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 12: movies I've seen twice recently one with Blue Beetle because

814
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 12: we took my mom to go see it.

815
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 21: Before Black Panther twice once together, once with my family.

816
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 11: And then before that.

817
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 12: I think the last movie I saw twice in theaters

818
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 12: was probably up, but Twisters.

819
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 9: Was no question.

820
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,479
Speaker 12: Could we go to the forty X because I looked

821
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 12: into it.

822
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 11: Some of the.

823
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 12: Forty X have where you wear the three D glasses too,

824
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 12: so it's like fully immersive. I don't think I do that.

825
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:43,839
Speaker 12: I don't think Twisters is that way. I think it's

826
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 12: just all the effects, the rumbling chairs, the wind, the

827
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 12: spit in your face.

828
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 21: I think I would turn the water feature off.

829
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 11: I think you can. Yeah, you can control some of

830
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 11: the levels.

831
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 21: You could twist my arm.

832
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 12: I just think if there's any movie that you would

833
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 12: go see in forty X, I think it had to

834
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 12: be that one.

835
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 21: I mean, I'm not complaining about saying Twisters for a

836
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 21: third time.

837
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 12: Worst case scenario, we leave if it's two, because I

838
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 12: think you can probably turn off the entire seat, right,

839
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,479
Speaker 12: I mean, you look a little lame with everybody else's

840
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 12: having fun and you're just sitting there in a normal chair.

841
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 21: I've just heard that like some people get motion sick.

842
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, the motions because you don't like roller coasters.

843
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 21: I'm so anxious.

844
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 12: I had to convince you in LA to get on

845
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 12: the Simpsons ride, and that's a virtual reality ride, so

846
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 12: You're not really going up and down.

847
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 11: It's just motion.

848
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 21: But my thing is with glasses. The older I've gotten,

849
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 21: the more I get motion sick.

850
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 19: Like.

851
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 21: I went on a cruise with my family twice, and

852
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 21: the first time I was perfectly fine, and then the

853
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 21: last time we went, I was like, oh, I don't

854
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 21: feel great. And then you and I went on that

855
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 21: sunset cruise and Cobo, oh yeah, and about thirty minutes

856
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 21: in I was like, this is a mistake. Like I

857
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 21: just felt terrible and fun fact about that, I went

858
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,879
Speaker 21: downstairs to the bathroom because I thought I was gonna

859
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 21: be sick, and I slept and fell and came back

860
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 21: almost crying. It wasn't The views were great. Cobo was beautiful,

861
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 21: but I just don't do well with boats.

862
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 12: The picture we took at those famous arches was like, oh,

863
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 12: like they had a perfect trip, and then that that

864
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 12: was the one fun part of it.

865
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 21: We do have. We have those pictures framed. They're great pictures.

866
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 21: But yeah, real story was I was miserable. It was

867
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 21: like unlimited drinks too of our ticket, and I was

868
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 21: up there like can I get a spry I was

869
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 21: like a seven up something, So yeah, I'm.

870
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 20: Like that TikTok's out four thirty. If y'all haven't seen that,

871
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 20: it's like a senior dog. And then the sound is

872
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 20: the person being like when my senior dog thinks it's

873
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 20: time for dinner. What time did you say dinner was four?

874
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 9: Four thirty?

875
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 14: Four thirty?

876
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 21: Okay?

877
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 9: Thanks?

878
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 6: What time did you say we were eating at four thirty?

879
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 6: Four thirty? Oh, four thirty? Okay, thank you.

880
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:50,959
Speaker 21: But yeah, I feel like the motions. I'd be willing

881
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 21: to give it a try, though, if you're willing to

882
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 21: leave if I don't feel good, I could be convinced.

883
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:55,720
Speaker 11: So still a five out of five.

884
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 12: To watch A ten a second time in theaters, I

885
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 12: picked up on more things. I still won't spoil it

886
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 12: for anybody. I like going back to watch a movie

887
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 12: because I know it's coming and then I can pay

888
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 12: attention to those small little details that I didn't, you know,

889
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 12: catch the first time, put all the pieces together, and

890
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 12: I think after watching it for a second time, I

891
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 12: did feel more of that camaraderie that I said it

892
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 12: kind of lacked from yeah, from the first one, where

893
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 12: I'm like, okay, I think it takes a few times

894
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 12: to watch something to really feel that because I didn't

895
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 12: really feel it chase it. I didn't get that chemistry

896
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:29,839
Speaker 12: the first time. I thought it was more focused on

897
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 12: the two leads, but as I rewatched it, I was like, oh, yeah,

898
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 12: there is some good camaraderie here. I still don't think

899
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 12: it has the memorable quotes like the first one will have.

900
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 21: There are some parts, but I also don't feel like

901
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 21: the first one has much like tension. Yeah, if you

902
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 21: catch my draft tension, I would rather just say sexual

903
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 21: tension than ever hear you bark on this podcast again.

904
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 21: Please stop.

905
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 12: So for my best I always like to pick a

906
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 12: different one than you. But I think if I I've

907
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 12: seen the movie, so I think it would be Twisters.

908
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 21: Wow, we're gonna have no.

909
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 12: I decided to go with because I think I went

910
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 12: into Twisters with really high expectations that were met. But

911
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 12: for my best, I'm gonna go with the most unique

912
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 12: in theater experience that I had that I think was

913
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 12: the most memorable of July, even aside from Twisters. It

914
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 12: was Long Legs because I've been looking for a scary

915
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 12: movie that I could really immerse myself in, and also

916
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 12: in a year where everybody's saying that there's so many

917
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 12: remakes and reboots. When it comes to just any movie,

918
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 12: especially in the horror genre, we usually get like, you know,

919
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 12: Ten Jason's or Halloweens or whatever. So when it came

920
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 12: to Long Legs, I was like, this is a great

921
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 12: original horror movie. Didn't really reinvent the wheel, but I

922
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 12: just loved it from the moment it started to the

923
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 12: moment it finished. And I think it is a movie

924
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 12: you have to kind of let yourself buy into it,

925
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 12: because if you were just to see like a still

926
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 12: from it, or if you went into it thinking I'm

927
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 12: going to poke fun of this and it's not gonna

928
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 12: scare me, then you're gonna be like, ah, this is

929
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 12: a scary at all. But I think it goes the

930
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,720
Speaker 12: Long Legs mainly because I don't want to pick twisters

931
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 12: the same.

932
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 21: As you you could pick twisters.

933
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 12: Because especially because a third time. But what was the

934
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 12: worst for July? Because it wasn't really stag month, as

935
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:12,959
Speaker 12: I'll recap it here at the end.

936
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 21: We saw it was a great month. I'm just gonna

937
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 21: go Beverly Hills Cop four. You saw what it was,

938
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 21: you turned it on on vacation, and I was like,

939
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 21: this is, as my little brother would say, trash.

940
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 12: I honestly thought it was going to be better. Well,

941
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 12: I don't know why I did. I just thought Eddie

942
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 12: Murphy coming back, that he would. I really think what

943
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 12: it came down to is I was never a fan

944
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 12: of that franchise. I think I kind of missed a

945
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 12: boat on that, you know, being an eighties franchise.

946
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 21: Bad Boys was better.

947
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:40,359
Speaker 11: Yeah, And I feel like.

948
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 12: Those movies ended up being kind of similar, like old

949
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 12: cops come back, try to do young things still, and

950
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,919
Speaker 12: I just don't really get into kind of the fun

951
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 12: nature of the Beverly Hills cop movies. That entire movie

952
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 12: was just him finding different vehicles to be chased in

953
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 12: or to chase other people in. And I was like

954
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 12: him and golf car, him in a helicopter, and that

955
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 12: was really the entire movie. And it felt like it

956
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 12: was a straight to cable type movie, which I feel

957
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 12: that was like the biggest grape I've had with Netflix recently,

958
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 12: is it just feels like just putting that really generic stuff.

959
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 21: It's like a Lifetime movie a little bit. Yeah, But

960
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 21: for dudes, listen, I used to love a Lifetime movie.

961
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 21: Give me a Sunday afternoon and a Lifetime movie marathon.

962
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 21: Slaps Carl. She's a queen and talking, so she's getting

963
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,479
Speaker 21: really not afraid to faces episode soul.

964
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 17: Just let it flow.

965
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 9: No one can do week.

966
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:49,280
Speaker 11: Carlne his time for Caroler.

967
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 4: Okay, so I kind of want to hot back though.

968
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 22: So the FIRSTMAS carriage you felt, oh yeah, so off track.

969
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 4: It's okay, I love the track. I gotta come back.

970
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, the first one I felt so overwhelmed. I was

971
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 3: just like letting that part of me that was not

972
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 3: a mom, like, was never going to not be a

973
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:09,919
Speaker 3: mom again?

974
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 4: I thought that.

975
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 22: First one with the first miscarriage too, Actually, I was

976
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 22: when I first found out I was pregnant the first time.

977
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 4: It was not excitement, No, I wasn't ready yet. No, yeah,

978
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 4: I just was this scary.

979
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 22: And the miscarriage was the missage was devastating because then

980
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 22: you finally get on board with it.

981
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 3: It was the morning I felt excited enough to entertain

982
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 3: a conversation with Dylan about like, so if we had.

983
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 4: A boy, would you want to name it like it?

984
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 3: That was the day I lost the pregnancy, so devastating,

985
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 3: and I was shocked at I've said this before. On

986
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 3: other I think I did like a podcast about miscarage

987
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 3: one timement where I said this, but I was shocked

988
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 3: at how devastated I was, for how anxious I was

989
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 3: when I found out I was pregnant, and that kind

990
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 3: of just made me go, Okay, I wanted to start trying,

991
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 3: like you're never gonna be ready, You're just as he's

992
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 3: going to be before you just actually do it.

993
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 4: So I'm there.

994
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 3: This was really freaking sad. Maybe we're more ready for

995
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 3: this than I thought. And you know, I was very comforted.

996
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 3: So many people told me, like a lot of women

997
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 3: have one and then you know they had then you

998
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 3: get pregnant right after, and then you have twins, and

999
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 3: so I was like, okay, one is normal, one is

1000
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 3: super normal. It was a chemical pregnancy too, Like I

1001
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 3: never even made it to the doctor, so like one

1002
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 3: chemical pregnant.

1003
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 4: Life for babies was like so normal, normal. Just getting

1004
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 4: the uterus ready, yes, one.

1005
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 3: Hundred percent, you're really fertile, like a few months after

1006
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 3: you have one. So I was like, definitely devastated. I

1007
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 3: took two or three weeks and and God is really

1008
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 3: nice to me. I've told the story before, but I

1009
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 3: just feel like you need to say it again this girl.

1010
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 3: It was Drew Baldrid his wife actually.

1011
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 22: Can Balder's by the way, what about an independent art

1012
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 22: I know, I'm so excited for him and proud of him.

1013
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 4: I could although he's very big, but yeah, he's a

1014
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 4: huge man. But I mean I was so stu him.

1015
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 4: You've written with him a bunch, right, Yeah.

1016
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,360
Speaker 3: We were both signed to this music like back in

1017
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 3: the we kind of signed. Yeah, a publishing company. Amazing,

1018
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 3: so yeah we were we were publishing a fan for

1019
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 3: a while. But I'm I'm so stuked for him. But anyway,

1020
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 3: his wife, I hadn't doctor her in maybe like a year,

1021
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 3: year and a half, maybe two years, And it was

1022
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 3: the night after my miscarriage, my first miscarriage, and she

1023
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 3: texted me, girls, so random, hope you're doing good. But

1024
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 3: I had the most vivid dream last night that you

1025
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 3: had a baby. And I was like, well, that's guysy

1026
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 3: because I lost a baby last night. And she said,

1027
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 3: this is just this has to be Jesus reassuring you.

1028
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,439
Speaker 3: She said, I saw it so clearly. You and Dylan

1029
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 3: were in the hospital. You were looking down at a baby,

1030
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 3: and you looked so in love. She was like, so

1031
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 3: just take that as a promise that like that's what

1032
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 3: I saw, and so I thought, wow, God, like thank

1033
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 3: you for this gift, like this picture that you could

1034
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:57,720
Speaker 3: give me, Like I know what's going to happen.

1035
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 4: So I feel like once I went through the two.

1036
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 3: Weeks ish of like heavy grief after that first one,

1037
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 3: I was excited and like hopeful to try again and

1038
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 3: this time good. So my second one. And also, no

1039
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 3: one prepares you for, like the grief when you're trying

1040
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 3: and you take a test and it's negative. That's like

1041
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 3: the worst, like no one praising you spend your whole

1042
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 3: especially as a Christian GID, you spend your whole life

1043
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 3: trying to not get pregnant, and then like you start

1044
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 3: trying to get pregnant and you're like, wait, what is

1045
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 3: this mind effery?

1046
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 22: It's just like a whole there's a whole nother one

1047
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 22: when you get a positive one again though, because you

1048
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 22: can't fully be happy.

1049
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 4: Yeah it was. I got my second positive and I

1050
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 4: was like cautiously you're always a cautious excitement.

1051
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 3: Yes, cautiously happy, and that one was kind of wild.

1052
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 3: I had like a scare. They thought I was having

1053
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 3: a molar pregnancy, which is basically like you're instead of

1054
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 3: a baby growing like your years, fills up with the

1055
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 3: tumors and it's like they birth thrown words like chemotherapy around.

1056
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 3: It was awful, but it was a false alarm. I

1057
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 3: was not having more or pregnancy. It was just way

1058
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 3: earlier than they thought I was. So we ended up

1059
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 3: I ended up making it to eight weeks with that one.

1060
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 3: We saw the heart beat, so yeah, that was super,

1061
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 3: super exciting, and I remember that like all my friends

1062
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 3: were like, you need to get on progesterone. You need

1063
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 3: to get on progesterone, which is like obviously the hormone

1064
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 3: that helps pregnancy stick. And they were like, literally, by

1065
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 3: doctor put me on progesterone. That's what helped me keep

1066
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 3: the baby. So everybody kids telling me that. So I

1067
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 3: asked my doctor at like six weeks. I was like,

1068
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 3: we saw the heart beat, and I was like, should

1069
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 3: I get on progesterone just to make sure that you

1070
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 3: know it helps develop? And he was like, I mean,

1071
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 3: if you want it, I'll give it to you, but

1072
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 3: you have a heartbeat without it, so like and I

1073
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 3: just had this thought where I was like, God, I

1074
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 3: trust you like you brought me this far WITHO. I no, like,

1075
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 3: we'll just I won't get on it, like we'll continue.

1076
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 3: Two weeks later we go back and there's no more

1077
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 3: heart beat. And then three days after that is when

1078
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 3: I wrote Champagne and Sushi and that one I felt pissed.

1079
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 3: I was so mad, like I didn't feel sad, like

1080
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 3: I was sad, but I was like wildly angry. Who

1081
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 3: are you mad at God?

1082
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 22: I was just like, you're a dick. I told him,

1083
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 22: you say that in the song. Yeah, but wait, how

1084
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 22: do you say that? You say it so well?

1085
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,360
Speaker 3: I said, it's the bridge.

1086
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 4: It's so good.

1087
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 3: Go it's oh yeah, it's like comes out of the

1088
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:43,439
Speaker 3: second chorus. It's like, right now, my only silver lines

1089
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:48,240
Speaker 3: are Champage and sushi, lighting up a joint, watching a movie, Uh,

1090
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 3: asking God, what the fuck is he doing causing when

1091
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 3: I pray, daring him to sue, we're telling him to

1092
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 3: sue me and hearing him say let it all out,

1093
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 3: You'll never lose me.

1094
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 22: Oh that's like if that's not like God in the

1095
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 22: raw form, I'm like, thank you so much for like

1096
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:05,879
Speaker 22: not acting like we have to be perfect when we're

1097
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 22: having the worst moment of our life that you can

1098
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 22: like actually yell at God and tell God, like, what

1099
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 22: the actual hell, Like, I'm so fucking mad at you

1100
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 22: right now?

1101
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 4: Why is this happening? Like that's a relationship with God. Yeah,

1102
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 4: that's a real relationship with God.

1103
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 3: That's what I tell myself when I read fuck You.

1104
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 4: But it's not.

1105
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 22: It's not like it's like you're just it's like a

1106
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 22: parent when you're so mad at your parent, but like

1107
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 22: you know, they still love you and they're like looking

1108
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 22: out for you or whatever. But it's like God, it's like,

1109
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 22: how can this happen?

1110
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 3: God?

1111
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 4: Like, why am I going through this?

1112
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Speaker 21: Three f