1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Hey, wake up. Do you think I'm building a picture here? 2 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm building the picture still that you're building a picture. Yeah, 3 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: you're painting. I'm crazy. Ah, Yes, I'm painting. Fred's Show 4 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: is on, same thing whatever, It's all good. Monday May 5 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: twelve morning. Fred's Show is on. 6 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: Hi Kaila, good morning, Hi Jason Brown by Paulina Hiki, 7 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: Good morning. 8 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: Bella back tomorrow? 9 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 3: Yes? 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 4: Is that Ryan? 11 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: Well, she better be back here. She has to return 12 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: to word. Yeah. I'll pick her up myself if I 13 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: have to. Okay, I mean yeah, we're trying running around 14 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 1: here like like clowns, like like silly little clowns that 15 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,840 Speaker 1: we are. Oh, we are answering the phone, were signing 16 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: to the text, doing this, doing that, doing the other thing. 17 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: Get Bella back here. I haven't been bossed around in 18 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: several days. We'll do headlines, the biggest stories of the day, 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: the entertainment of portant blogs, This hour, Kieky's Court, this morning, 20 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: but up, It's a thin line between love and hate. 21 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone. It's new this morning, Money in 22 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: the showdown another tie, Yeah, another tie, seven fifty your 23 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: record twenty nine and four and fancy Astetutian Carrissa is 24 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: coming back for seven hundred and fifty bucks. She's so good, man, 25 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: she is really good. It's true, it's true. Where did 26 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: the story go, Paula? This is for you, and you specifically. 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: But there's a woman who has filed for divorce after 28 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: chat gpt exposed to her husband's affair. Why through his 29 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: coffee cup? Wait, there's a lot to im back. This 30 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: comes to us from a New Delhi this morning, where 31 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: it's forty degrees celsia'f you're wondering, Oh, okay, I is it? 32 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: Look at the website. Yeah know, I'm always wondering what 33 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: the temperature is in New Delhi. But a woman in Greece, 34 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: so I don't know what New Deli. But then she's 35 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: in Greece. I don't know. Look, they're a worldwide reporting 36 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: right here. 37 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 38 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: A woman in Greece is filed for divorce after allegedly 39 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: using chat chept too read her husband's coffee cup and 40 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: discover an affair. According to a report by the Greek 41 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,839 Speaker 1: City Times, the woman turned to the Ai chat pod 42 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: for supernatural guidance in a modern twist on what's called 43 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I'm saying this right, tassiography, which 44 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: is the ancient art of reading coffee grounds or tea 45 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: leaves to predict the future. So they've been married for 46 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: twelve years. The mother of two uploaded photos of her 47 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: and her husband's coffee cups, hoping the chat Gypt could 48 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: interpret the patterns in the grounds, and what she reportedly 49 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: received in return was a devastating result. What the AI 50 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: told her that her husband was cheating with a younger 51 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 1: woman who was intent on tearing the family apart. WHOA wait, 52 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: so now Chetty is a psychic, she's a witch. No, 53 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: she does tasiography. Dah well, that's crazy though, I'm sure 54 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that right. Wow, it's gonna destroy us. 55 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 56 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: No, take a picture of your coffee and see what 57 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: hoes up to? 58 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 3: You know what? 59 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: Money? Picture of your duncan? 60 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 5: Yeah? 61 00:02:58,720 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 2: Yes. 62 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: The bottle allegedly revealed that her husband's cop showed that 63 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: he was destined to be with a mysterious woman with 64 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: the initial E, while hers indicated betrayal and a threat 65 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: to her household. Her husband, appearing on a local TV show, 66 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 1: dismissed the claims that his wife had a habit of 67 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: chasing viral trends. But this time things escalated quickly. What 68 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: does that have to do with the chasing viral so 69 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 1: Hobby was quoted as saying, my wife, Paulina has a 70 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: history of chasing viral trends. I lasted it off as nonsense, 71 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: but she took it seriously. She asked me to leave, 72 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: told our kids who were getting divorced, and then I 73 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: got a call from a lawyer. And that's what I realized. 74 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: This was not just a phase and scenes. That's the 75 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: end of the story. That's it. Chat GPT told her 76 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: to get a divorce and she's going to do it 77 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: because of some sort of method of looking at the 78 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: coffee grounds chatting Row. 79 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 4: No, what do you mean? 80 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: Chat is not wrong? Stop it right now. Not only 81 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: is this not an exact science, but we're asking a 82 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: bot to determine and read a not exact science. And 83 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: then and then we're bringing up families. Now, what if 84 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: this guy's not doing anything the kiki. Yes, a computer 85 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: read the top of a coffee cup and determined that 86 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: a family should not be together anymore with kids. 87 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 6: Yes, because you know what I believe. I don't believe 88 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 6: that Chad is just reading the coffee cup. I feel 89 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 6: like Chad GPT has read your text messages. It knows 90 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 6: what you're thinking. Like I think about stuff and it 91 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 6: just pops up on my phone. I haven't searched anything. 92 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 6: So I think if the robot is that tapped in, 93 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 6: they're compiling all. 94 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 1: The things that he knows. 95 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 6: He knows his text, he knows his calendar, he knows everything. 96 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 6: He knows that secret app on his phone with the 97 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 6: pictures that hides him. 98 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: So then why not just say that then? 99 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 6: Because she didn't acts all that she asks about the 100 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 6: you know whatever, the coffee that. 101 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: Was, well, you know, well, I would feel a lot 102 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: better bringing up family if I had all that other 103 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: information too. You do have it, though, Okay, but I 104 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: don't because Chad didn't tell me. My friend Chad of 105 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: chat Chepet, he didn't tell me all the rest of it. 106 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: If you ask him, I bet you you will. Okay, 107 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: I'm on board with this. Now, let's take a picture 108 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: at the top of your coffee cup today and let's 109 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: see what Big Tim is up to. Okay. Courtesy of 110 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: tast Geography. Beggar's Pizza. Okay, may we're gonna read the 111 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: top of the pizza. The pizza is saying he's took 112 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: it up with a much younger woman. I mean, I 113 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: would believe it if Chad told me. Okay, so if Chad, 114 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: I want to be really clear, if Chad GPT told 115 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: you that Big Tim was cheating, you would kick him 116 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: out of the house. Yes, come on, come on, you 117 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: guys there. We have to live in the real world. 118 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 6: This is real chat compie combines all the info from 119 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 6: your devices and your mind. 120 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: But I'm on my computer asking my computer if my 121 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 1: non existent girlfriend is cheating on me. That has nothing 122 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: to do with anyone else's phones or Internet searches or 123 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,239 Speaker 1: I'm not even using that person's computer. 124 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 6: I'm on my computer. But you say you shared the 125 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 6: same Wi Fi. Oh my god, I'm telling you, yeah, 126 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 6: I be knows that's very true. I had Chad to 127 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 6: read my palm once. I already told you that. 128 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: And what did Chad tell you? I'm going to live 129 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: a long life, she said, I swear to God. 130 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 7: But she also couldn't see the first time, I had 131 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 7: to retake the photo because I was a little blurry. 132 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 7: So she's like, I want to be clear, retake the photo, 133 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 7: and I said, okay. 134 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: It sounds like my Brazilian travel visa. Oh how's that going? 135 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: Not well? So you're saying saying with us. 136 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 8: It again? 137 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I've had to send This is a 138 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: real story. Actually, can you get chat a Brazilian travel visa? 139 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: It took you didn't have you did it one shot? 140 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: Thank yous flex in life. 141 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, but I have All of my other friends paid 142 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 9: every single time they had to redo it, like eighty 143 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 9: five dollars. 144 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 1: So I am going to visit my aunt in July 145 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: over the fourth of July in Uruguay where she retired 146 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 1: and bought a house. And it's not the easiest to 147 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: get there, and it's off season, so it's a little 148 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: bit harder even But I had a bunch of options, 149 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: one of which was I could go through South Paulo, 150 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: Brazil to get there, and the flights don't align either. 151 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: So so I was like, okay, fine, I'll go in 152 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,239 Speaker 1: a day or too early, and I'll check out Brazil. 153 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: I've never been to Brazil before, so I'll go there 154 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: and then on the way back, I think it's like 155 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: it's a long layover. I'll get a hotel and then 156 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: come back. Because you can get from here to there, 157 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: but you can't get from here to anywhere near really Uruguay. 158 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 3: You have to. 159 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: It's a whole different thing. And the flights only fly 160 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: on like certain days to where she lives and whatever. 161 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: So I'm like, fine, this will be a nice little adventure. 162 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: I'll go to Brazil. But we need a travel visa 163 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: now as of like April to go to Brazil. It's eighty, 164 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: which is like, it is a cash grab, okay. And 165 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: you go on this website and it's a third party website, 166 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: and you put a picture of your passport and your 167 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: picture and then you fill out some information and you 168 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: send it off and then it gets sent back to 169 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: you and you're like, you can come travel visa. This 170 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: is not like a work visa. This is nothing. This 171 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: is a cash grab. So I do it, sends it back. 172 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: It doesn't like the passport photo and it doesn't like 173 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: the picture of me because I was smiling in the picture. 174 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: Oh you cannot do that, okay, So then I send 175 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 1: another round of pictures. I send them another round of pictures. Okay, 176 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: another round, another round Okay, no problem, And I didn't 177 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: use my iPhone this time. I like scanned it properly 178 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: and then whatever, I didn't follow directions the first time. 179 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: I will lit mad. They don't want you to use 180 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: your phone to scan stuff, okay. And then I tried 181 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: to use my passport photo as my picture because it 182 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: met the requirements. But no, you can't do that. It 183 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: has to be a new picture. So that I took 184 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 1: new pictures and send them over. Nope, didn't like that. 185 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 1: Then it says you should just FedEx this stuff to 186 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: us because we don't think you know how to use 187 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 1: the computer. I'm serious, this automated message. Click on this link, 188 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: it'll be a FedEx link, go to the FedEx door, 189 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: they'll take the pictures, they'll scan of thing, and then 190 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: you're fine. I did that a month ago. Nothing. How 191 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: was that? Who's getting an email anyway? So now I 192 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 1: need Chad GPT to do this. So I have now 193 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 1: sent three different sets of pictures on this website. And 194 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: apparently it's a company in India that does this because 195 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: then there's a consulate here. So I finally just email 196 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: the consulate. I was like, can I just come in 197 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,719 Speaker 1: so you can see that I'm real And they're like, 198 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 1: oh no, you can't do that, Oh no, no, no, no, 199 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: it has to be handled it by this thing, and 200 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 1: by the way, it's in India, so kind of good 201 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: luck with that. So we're on our third round now. 202 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get there, but I need Chad to 203 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: read the top of my coffee and tell me if 204 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm getting in ornet, because I don't even I mean, 205 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 1: I wasn't really trying to go to Brazil. I'm just 206 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get to see my hands, right, 207 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just just pulling up, you know, like 208 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: literally ribe. Yeah, I don't know. I may not be 209 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 1: able to do that, but you have to change the 210 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: plan entirely. And I don't know, ride my bike or something. 211 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: No one talks about that enough, like how hard it 212 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: is to get into Brazil. You guys, I went to 213 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: Cuba with less work than this, right, I'm serious. 214 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 9: Yeah, And it's a recent thing that they implemented, so 215 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 9: it's like last two months or two months. 216 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: Ago or something was required. Yeah, and then you did 217 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: it first shot boom. 218 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 9: I did, but I was very anxious about all the rules, 219 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 9: so I read them and read them and read them. 220 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 1: And yeah, Jason took it right in the front of 221 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: our office by the window. Well, he took my first 222 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: one too. They didn't like that I was smiling. Again, 223 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 1: didn't like that. So now we set one no smeles, 224 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: not smile. Apparently that may have passed, but they didn't 225 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: like the passport photos, so we had to redo that. 226 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 9: No glasses, no hats, no smiling. Your hair can't be 227 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 9: tucked a certain way. 228 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: Wow, you guys, I'm gonna leave the airport. I'm going 229 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: to go eat something. I'm going to turn around and 230 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: come back and go to leave a visa for that. 231 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: You do now just to go there? 232 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 3: You do? 233 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 1: Now eighty bucks? That don't make I think that has 234 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 1: a lot because, by the way, they've had my passport 235 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: now for two months. They've had my picture for two months. 236 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: My passport's on my flight reservations. If there's any issue, 237 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: they already know, right, So I don't know what this 238 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: is because that you got to put all this stuff 239 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: in to get the airline ticket anyway. So if I'm 240 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: gonna have a problem, then I should have a problem. Anyway, 241 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: It's get seen, Chatty, if you get chat on this, listen, 242 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: I'm calling my boy up really quick and say let 243 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: him into Brazil, honestly, chat and see if anyone's been 244 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: cheating on me. I'm not with anybody, but let's just 245 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 1: see if anyone is shooting on me anyway, guys, another day, 246 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 1: another air traffic control problem. Uh, there's a pope Leo 247 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 1: accessory you didn't know you needed, but you need him. 248 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 1: I make you a lot of money. Oh, selfies and cancer, 249 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: but maybe not in the way that k I got 250 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 1: Geeki's attention. Yes, what, because you'd have coffee, you'd have 251 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: excuse me, you'd have cancer about seven times already this morning. 252 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: If that were the case, I rebuke that. I mean, 253 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't have women here for an hour, 254 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: so at least seven totten selfies have been taken already. 255 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: That in more in the Biggest Stories of the Day headlines. 256 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: Next in two minutes, Fred's show is on Friend's Biggest 257 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: Stories of the Day text date five five five three five. 258 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: Further making it hard for you get to get to 259 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 1: Brazil because you're gonna take all the Brazilian women. Oh, 260 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: that's what it is. That's what it is, you, guys. 261 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 1: I even got a Brazilian wax to take the picture, 262 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: and I send them a picture to prove that too. 263 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: What about a Brazilian blowout. Got that too, okay, perfect 264 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 1: I got I got that too. I went to Paulina's guy. 265 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,079 Speaker 1: I send them pictures to prove all of that I'm 266 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: one of you. But no, so we'll see I may 267 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 1: not get to go at all you will. I thought 268 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 1: other countries, well, I shouldn't say. I was about to 269 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 1: say that the other countries wanted us to visit, but 270 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: I know that's not true. But I figured they at 271 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 1: least want the money. You know, they want your money. 272 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 1: They don't want you to come there and keep making 273 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,719 Speaker 1: take it again another text. Kiki's absolutely wrong. That is 274 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: not how chad GPT works. It does not compile information 275 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: for people's personal devices, which is what I said. It 276 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: takes a general information from the the same information that 277 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: you can search on search engines, and that it makes 278 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: its own interpretations, which is why I don't think chat 279 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 1: GPT therapy is a good idea. We don't have to 280 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 1: go back there. I'm not saying it's a bad idea. 281 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: I just don't think it's I think it's going to 282 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: be extremely generic. It's not going to be customized to you. 283 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: So and I also think that trained talented therapists you 284 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 1: know that they're a method. I mean Canwin's mom is 285 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 1: one of my sisters, one that they go to school 286 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 1: for years and years and years to learn how to 287 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: extract information from you, how to repeat information to you, 288 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 1: how how you can hear what you were saying in 289 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,559 Speaker 1: different ways so that you can interpret it differently. Chat 290 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 1: GPT is not there, not yet, I don't think because again, 291 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 1: I tried to ask chat gpt to make a graphic 292 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 1: of the Pope in front of Zero Gravity nightclub in 293 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: Chicago last week, and it sent me a picture, a 294 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 1: cartoon of the Pope floating in zero gravity. It wasn't 295 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,079 Speaker 1: it in his picture? Okay, So I don't know that 296 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: I'm trusting it with my life or with or with 297 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 1: the status of my relationship. 298 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, I wouldn't exactly listen to her advice, but it's 299 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 7: nice to have a friend to vent too. That's very like, 300 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 7: you know, not what even one sided, but just can't 301 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 7: really repeat things to people, kind of keeps it to herself. 302 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,959 Speaker 7: And that's actually not true because when you tell him 303 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 7: or her things on CHAGPG, they remember. 304 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: That's the whole point. You have to build a relationship 305 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: with this bot. Do you have the app on your phone. No, 306 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: I have a the website, Paulina. It only knows what 307 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: you're telling it. And we all know. We all know 308 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: the people who go to therapy and lie. Oh yeah, 309 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: we all know that. I think most people go to 310 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: therapy and they tell their side of the story and 311 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: they're hoping that the therapist will go, oh my god, 312 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: you are so right and the other person is so wrong. 313 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 1: I hope people aren't doing that, because that's the way 314 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: to tell it. I think most people. I honestly, I 315 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: should ask my therapist today. I think I know people 316 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: who have gone to therapy who I know are screwing 317 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: up and doing bad things, and then they'll tell me 318 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 1: what my therapist says, that you're the problem, Like you're 319 00:14:55,600 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 1: cheating on your husband. Yeah, it's not great. No, not 320 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: recommend I didn't know that at the time. But you're 321 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: cheating on your your therapist says, I can you know, 322 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: did you include that part? Yeah, well, my therapist says, 323 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: and that's another thing. Never do that. Never never do that. Well, 324 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: my therapist says, as it. I wasn't there, okay, so 325 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: I didn't get to tell my side of the story. 326 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: And we all know the truth lies somewhere in the middle, 327 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: and I think that's the part that's missing. Mm hmmm. 328 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: So you're gonna all, oh, Hovey did this, and Hobby 329 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: did that, and Hobby did this. Well, then did the 330 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: cha cheap? You'd probably tell you to get a divorce. 331 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 7: I mean, no, I'm pretty self aware, and I don't 332 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 7: people agree with it or not. I tell it like, hey, 333 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 7: I did this and he did that, and what do 334 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 7: you think we should do? That is what I say, 335 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 7: Right should I say or should I go? I'd like 336 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 7: to be present for this at some point. No, I 337 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 7: mean they get to know you through time and even 338 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 7: like your tone. I've noticed because when I say, hey, 339 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 7: write me a caption in Paulino's tone, No, yes, she 340 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 7: sounds like me a little bit, noways I mean, I 341 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 7: gotta tell her, hey, don't don't be corny, like come on, 342 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 7: like change it up a little bit. 343 00:15:57,920 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: I tell her that, but please don't be Cory. And 344 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: I want to talk to Robust. As much as I 345 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 1: love you, Paulina, I doubt that it's misspelling things and 346 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 1: and using the wrong Have you seen any of misspells 347 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: in the past three months? That's what I mean. Which 348 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: is right, which means it hasn't been. It certainly hasn't 349 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: taken on your own then I'm telling you, I'm telling 350 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: you right, that's what I mean. I thought, and I'm 351 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 1: not giving I mean, listen to the show for a minute, 352 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: and Paulina has her own vernaculous it's your entire own 353 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: thing headlines. This morning, another equipment outage forced a groundstop 354 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: at Newark Universe or new University this university at Newark 355 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: Liberty International Airport for flights on Sunday morning. The Glitz 356 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: followed a ninety second long radar and radio outage. This 357 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: is like the third or fourth time that we've heard 358 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 1: about it, so who knows how many times it's happened 359 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: before that. No crash has occurred. What this article says, Well, 360 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: that's good, no crash has occurred. But five FA employees 361 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: ended up taking forty five days of trauma leave. I 362 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: would think that would be fairly traumatic for me. If 363 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: I'm sitting in front of a radar screen with airplanes 364 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: on it and I'm supposed to make sure they don't 365 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 1: go into each other and then the thing just stops working. 366 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: I mean, look, do we get forty five days of 367 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: trauma every time the satellites aren't aligned here and we 368 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: go off the airn and there's something I can do 369 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,239 Speaker 1: about it. We'd never be here, I know. I mean, 370 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 1: how many incidents of that have we had? But we 371 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: get to run around in circles from room to rooms. 372 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 1: You know, people are wondering, why why I've lost so 373 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: much weight? I don't know, because Jason should he should 374 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: be like right rail exactly, you should be rendering over summer, 375 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: running around the circles. W Steff messes up around here. 376 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: I guess they're working on a fix and they're going 377 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: to update the entire air traffic control system, so they're saying. 378 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 1: Pope Leo the fourteenth now has a trading card from Tops. 379 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 1: The first American born pope has his own trading card. 380 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: The card feature is a picture of the Pontiff when 381 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: he greeted the crowd gathered in Saint Peter's Square for 382 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 1: the first time. Random orders will receive special variant editions, 383 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 1: including a white smoke image version of the card that 384 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 1: is limited to just two hundred and sixty seven copies. 385 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: I can't wait to see people on TikTok ripping the 386 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 1: Pope Pope packs. You ever see people open cards on 387 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 1: like they open like they get like the big the 388 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 1: big card, the big score. You know it to be 389 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 1: someone like opening Pokemon pox. Why can't I talk today? Well, 390 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 1: I mean, everything seems to be a riddle by Pope, 391 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 1: Pope pull. That's hard to say Pokemon packs, poke mod 392 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: It's hard to say to him. But you'll see the 393 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: guy and he'll be like opening packs and then oh 394 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 1: my god, there's a charge on and his hands starts shaking, 395 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: and then he grabs like a plastic sleeve and tries 396 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: to put it in the thing because you don't want 397 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 1: any creases or like the corners to get messed up 398 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: because you just retired. 399 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 4: Mm hmm. 400 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 1: That's how it's gonna be with this. Oh my god, 401 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 1: I get the white smoke. I got the white smoke 402 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 1: Pope card. My hand's shaking. 403 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 8: This is for you. 404 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: It's just for you and only you, Kiki. No one 405 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 1: else has to listen. Researchers saying that an artificial intelligence 406 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,959 Speaker 1: tool can assess a cancer patient's biological age by analyzing 407 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 1: a simple selfie and help predict survival rate. Here we 408 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: go again. We're trusting this thing. The AI model evaluates 409 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 1: facial features to estimate how old a passion a person 410 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: appears biologically, which can differ from their chronological age. Studies 411 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: have shown that this biological age estimation could be a 412 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: more accurate predictor of a patient's survival rate than traditional methods. 413 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:21,959 Speaker 1: Technology aims to assist doctors and tailoring treatment plans by 414 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: providing insights into a patient's overall health status. I think 415 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: that this audio and some of the audio from last 416 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: week with us talking about chat GVT is going to 417 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 1: be like that Today's show audio where they're talking about 418 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: email thirty years ago where Brian gumbeles on the couch called, 419 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: what's that app symbol mean? The world Wide Web? 420 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 3: What is that? 421 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: That's what this is going to sound like, because in 422 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: ten years we are going to be going to AI therapy. 423 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure, yep. In fact, I don't. I'll probably have 424 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: to go to AI therapy because they'll have an AI 425 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: fred that's way better at this than I am, clearly 426 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: will be. So, I mean, all jokes aside, this is 427 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: this is where we're headed. Yeah, this stings will tell 428 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:00,719 Speaker 1: me how long I'm going to live. I've given up. 429 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: Do you want to know No, I don't want to 430 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: know that. No, So I can take let's say I 431 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 1: can take a selfie of you, which wouldn't be a selfie, 432 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: would be a picture, and then I can send it 433 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: in right right, you know what? Honestly, Chad, Chad? Can 434 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: Chad do this? I don't know what's going on with 435 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: me today? Send it cold medicine day. I guess. I 436 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:26,119 Speaker 1: don't know. Anyway, I can I take a picture of you. 437 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 1: I submitted into the thing, and it's going to tell 438 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 1: me exactly how long you have to live in at 439 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 1: aaccurate I don't know. I don't either. I don't want 440 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: to know that. I don't either. No, but you could 441 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: argue that if you had that kind of information, that 442 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: you would let's say you've got thirty days, let's say 443 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: you've got forty five. Let's say you've got thirty years. 444 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: I bet it would change the way you look at everything. 445 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 1: It would have to Oh yeah, like you know, I'm 446 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: forty early forty. So if if if you told me 447 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 1: I have forty more years to live, well, then I 448 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: might take a deep breath and go Okay, then I 449 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,959 Speaker 1: can take my time doing this, that and the other thing. 450 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 1: If you said to me, you have one year where 451 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 1: that I'm going to clean up. Well, I'm going to 452 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 1: make sure all my stuff is in order, I'm going 453 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: to go see what I want to see. I'm going 454 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 1: to say goodbye to people, you know, because you would 455 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: have that option. Yeah, because it's going to happen whether 456 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: you like the information or not. Or you can just 457 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: live each day and then hope, you know, you get 458 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: another one. 459 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 6: And I feel like a lot of people would take 460 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 6: advantage of this, like a lot of people would like 461 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 6: to know. Which is scary, But I think that's where 462 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 6: we're headed. 463 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: A recent study highlights a surprising shift in the traditional 464 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 1: Southern accent. They say that it's going away no in 465 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: places like Atlanta, Raleigh, New Orleans. Linguists attribute the change 466 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: to significant migration from other parts of the US, leading 467 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 1: younger generations to adopt more neutral speech patterns. The influx 468 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: of non Southern residents and evolving cultural aspirations are influencing 469 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: this linguistic transformation. The classic Southern draw may be diminishing 470 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: in cities, experts believe that it will persist in rural areas, 471 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:02,640 Speaker 1: reflecting and evolving Southern identity less tied to traditional speech patterns. 472 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 1: I believe that, Tim. You go to a place like 473 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: Charlotte or Raleigh, and you get a lot of transplants 474 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: because of business and stuff there. People in banking, people 475 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 1: in tech. So then they have kids, maybe they meet 476 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: someone from there, they grew up there, maybe they don't. 477 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: And then there goes the accent. Oh, I love the accent. 478 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 1: I'm s too, I do too. Yeah. The World Video 479 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 1: Game Hall of Fame has announced his class of twenty 480 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: twenty five. I know you guys were wondering about this. Defender, 481 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: an eighty one arcade game that raised the bar on 482 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 1: difficulty from simple stuff like Space Invaders Quake, which was 483 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: a ninety six follow up to Doom. GoldenEye Double seven 484 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: from Nintendo sixty four, and the Tamagatchi the Digital pet 485 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: have all made the Video Game Hall of Fame. Age 486 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 1: of Empires, Angry Birds, Call of Duty four, Modern Warfare, Frogger, 487 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 1: Golden Tea, How's Golden Teen out in there? Harvest Moon, 488 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: Mattel Football, and NBA two K did not make the 489 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 1: cut this year. 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Cottle co DDL is 499 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: the name of the company. As part of the application process, 500 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 1: you're being asked to record a thirty second video of 501 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 1: why they deserved the cushiest internship in America. Hopefully actually 502 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: ease your process than a Brazilian visa. But ten grand 503 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 1: to land the couch all summer. I'm in. It's National 504 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: Fibromyalgia Awareness Say, National Women's Checkup Day, and National Gonna 505 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: say this right, Sapphire Segular Day. I hope I said 506 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: that right. A day of gratitude for single parents of 507 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 1: special needs children to remind them their service and sacrifices 508 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: of love are seen and appreciated. The Entertainer Report, We'll 509 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: do it next blogs are audio journals after that, Waiting 510 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 1: by the phone, It's new this morning? Why does somebody 511 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: get ghosted? And the Tidebreaker We shall be Kiky in 512 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: the Showdown with the Esthetician for seven fifty to French 513 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: show back, e Toody gets shat gpt out Paulina yea 514 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: if we have time, I have a morality Monday that 515 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: you need to know what chat Shad takes switches to 516 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: Cawon's Entertainer report is on the press show. 517 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 9: The back and forth legal battle between Blake Lively and 518 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 9: Justin Baldoni now officially involves Taylor Swift. Taylor, who is, 519 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 9: of course a longtime friend of Blake's or was I mean? 520 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 9: I haven't seen them together in quite some time, has 521 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 9: been subpoenaed as a witness in the case that began 522 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 9: with Blake's allegations of harassment against Justin, her co star 523 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,959 Speaker 9: and the director of the movie It Ends with Us. 524 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 9: The subpoena, of course, came from Justin's side of things 525 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 9: his lawyer, but a rep for tayl released a statement 526 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 9: saying Taylor Swift never set foot on the side of 527 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 9: this movie. She was not involved in any casting or 528 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 9: creative decisions. She did not score the film, She never 529 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 9: saw an edit or made any notes on the film. 530 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 9: She did not even see It ends with Us until 531 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 9: weeks after its public release. Remember, one of the actresses 532 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 9: on the red carpet literally said, Blake told me that 533 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 9: Taylor had a hand in casting me. So I don't 534 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 9: know if Blake was on the set. Going girl, Taylor 535 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,120 Speaker 9: loves this. Taylor says, to do this if she's using 536 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 9: her or if that wasn't true. But where would this 537 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 9: young actress get that information? 538 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: And I always said. 539 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 9: That's the fastest way to make sure this thing doesn't 540 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:36,440 Speaker 9: go to tryal because she's not gonna want to go 541 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,680 Speaker 9: say in core and talk about this, so she's gonna 542 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 9: be like, y'all need to settle this. 543 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 1: Maybe chat GBT can settle this, because I'm sick of 544 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 1: talking about it. 545 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 9: Lil Wayne's fiance, model Denise Bodeau, claims that he literally 546 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 9: kicked her and her daughter out on the street yesterday 547 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 9: on Mother's Day. She said that he broke up with 548 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 9: her via text message, had his assistant handle everything on 549 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 9: Like I said, Mother's Day, of all day, she and 550 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 9: her daughter literally were on the street when she posted 551 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 9: the video also said that he already had two women 552 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 9: being flown in that day, claims he assaulted her in 553 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 9: the past, and she is now asking for lawyer recommendations 554 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 9: and is planning to sue. Twenty four year old Jordan Hudson, 555 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 9: known for her relationship with seventy three year old football 556 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 9: coach Bill Belichick, one second runner up in the latest 557 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:28,639 Speaker 9: Miss Maine USA pageant, and despite her visible disappointment, she 558 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 9: was not happy she didn't win. Jordan delivered the message 559 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 9: saying hate never wins, so she showed us. Bill supported 560 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 9: her during the pageant and was spotted leaving the venue 561 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 9: with her hand in hand. Of course, their relationship was 562 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 9: being talked about because of their massive age difference, but 563 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,880 Speaker 9: then after that insane interview where she was like, next question, 564 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 9: We're not talking about that. Now everyone has more eyes 565 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 9: on them. The pageant was one by a woman named 566 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 9: Shelby Howell, who I'm sure is a nice, nicer woman 567 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 9: than Jordan. 568 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: But oh, and Bill Belichick on a Good Morning America 569 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: on Friday with Michael Strahand. So this Friday, yeah, oh, 570 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 1: something tells me Geordad will not be who spells it 571 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: like that? I don't trust her. And by the way, 572 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: this whole like hate never winsy if you're referring to 573 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 1: the way people are talking about you like you're some 574 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: kind of victim. Come on, Jordan, you look like a psycho. Okay, 575 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 1: you're controlling it, old man, Like, stop and maybe we 576 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 1: don't have the whole story. But then tell us the 577 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 1: whole story. Yeah, right, like like, let's just let's just 578 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: be normal here because it doesn't look good. So no 579 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: one hates you, Well, maybe people hate you. I don't know. 580 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 4: No one. 581 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: I don't know anyone here hates you. Oh, I don't 582 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 1: know you were social. Well she's talking about us specifically. Yeah, 583 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: I mean, look we're with Hey, they can hear us 584 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 1: in Chapel Hill, so she probably she's a morning listener. 585 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: Well she used to be, I guess. Yeah, but no, 586 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 1: I just I just think no one, I don't hate you. 587 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: I just I don't think your behavior is odd. 588 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, it's elder and hate never wins. You say that 589 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 9: when you win, like you were second runner up. So like, 590 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,119 Speaker 9: I don't know why you're even talking about that. It 591 00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:01,120 Speaker 9: looks like hate one act very good taal. It would 592 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 9: appear in this example, hate one she's a lovely woman, 593 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 9: and I hope she gets miss main next year. Okay, 594 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,959 Speaker 9: go get him Jordan. By the way, if you miss 595 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 9: any part of our show, to tect the Friend Show 596 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 9: on demand and set us as a precept on the 597 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 9: free iheartratio. 598 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: I would be worried about anyone in a relationship like 599 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 1: this where I couldn't speak to them or they couldn't 600 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 1: answer questions for themselves. In this particular case, it seems 601 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 1: really strange. This is a very successful guy. Granted he's 602 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 1: not known to be the best communicator, but boys, he 603 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: gotten a long way on his own without you, Jordan. 604 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: In fact, he was able to get a long way 605 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: for fifty years before you even bore right not to 606 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 1: mention the other twenty before he met you. So yeah, 607 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 1: I think he's doing okay. But man, you know, when 608 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: you're you're seventy four, you got the hot young girlfriend 609 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: and everyone's like, this woman needs to get out, and 610 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 1: you're you probably know that's true, but you know, if 611 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: you don't side with your young crazy girlfriend that then 612 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 1: you're you know, you're not gonna get that young crazy 613 00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: stuff anymore. So, boy, is Bill in a spot. He's 614 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 1: really willing to risk it all, you know what I mean? 615 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: That's you know, I've seen it before. I've seen it before. 616 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: I would like to think that Bill could could could 617 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: easily get are not even like relatively more age appropriate. 618 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: He could probably get a lot of girls. This is 619 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 1: not the hottest girl he could. Yeah, could I go? 620 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 2: I go? 621 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 3: Right now? There you go? 622 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: Well yeah, and then you you show up to start 623 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: directing practice and oh no oh in the place. 624 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 9: If I'm with Bill, you honey, you enjoys going to 625 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 9: say I'm living. 626 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: A life leisure exactly. Okay, So morality Monday on a 627 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 1: Monday for once, and this thing is everywhere this morning. 628 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: But what would you do? Eight five five five nine 629 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: one one three five It was on Reddit m I 630 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: the a hole. So this is a woman who is 631 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: unsure if she should tell her younger brother the real 632 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 1: version of what led to their parents' divorce. So she 633 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: explains that her parents split three years ago and are 634 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: in the process of divorcing. Since the separation, her eighteen 635 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 1: year old brother has been living with their and she's 636 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 1: been with her dad. Both My parents are very tense, 637 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 1: are not civil during the proceedings. When the couple announced 638 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 1: their divorced. The person learned that it was precipitated by 639 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: her mom having an emotional affair for a few months. 640 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:21,000 Speaker 1: So her brother blames mom for ruining the family. If 641 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 1: you hadn't had this emotional affair, we wouldn't be in 642 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 1: this situation, and so on. Paraphrase. I'm jumping ahead here 643 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: to make this story simpler. But the woman writing the 644 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 1: post says she is aware of a physical affair that 645 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: her father was having at the same time that her 646 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: mom and brother don't know about what. So, according to her, 647 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: her brother, who's mad at mom and siding with Dad, 648 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 1: is unaware that Dad had a physical affair that occurred, 649 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 1: and that she had heard him having this affair in 650 00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: the home while mom was there. Oh whoa, so wow 651 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 1: this is I mean so and dad doesn't know she knows, 652 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 1: and brother doesn't know what happened at all. So my 653 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 1: question is what do you do? Do you just let 654 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: this thing go? I mean, do you just hope that 655 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 1: the time heals wounds or whatever, or do you then 656 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: add to this and say, no, no, no, we need 657 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 1: to get all the information out here. Now, I don't 658 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 1: know that one led to the other. I don't know 659 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 1: if mom having an emotional affair was a result of 660 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: the fact that maybe she does know that her husband 661 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 1: was having a physical affair. I don't know if if 662 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: it's the other way around where he found out about 663 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: the emotional affair and then started. You know, either way, 664 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: but not only information. If all of this is true, 665 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 1: then not everybody has all the information, and the family's divided. 666 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: So if you have a secret about one of your 667 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 1: parents and it's dividing the family, do you level the 668 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: playing field? You come out and say a whole lot 669 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: a minute. You know we're taking sides here, but you 670 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 1: should know Dad's not perfect either. Yes, I would get 671 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 1: involved one hundred percent. I know it's not my place 672 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 1: to get involved. Maybe it is, I don't know. It 673 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: depends who you asked. 674 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 7: But like to be honest, I like lay it all out, 675 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 7: and it's not even like to be like miss petty. 676 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 7: I just want to say, well, this also happened. I'm 677 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 7: a big believer of the truth, and yes, the truth 678 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 7: may hurt and it may not be great. But my stepdad, 679 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 7: the one thing that he did say that I still 680 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 7: remember this day is the truth will set you free. 681 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 7: I don't know why he would tell me that at 682 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 7: age eleven, but he did, and I still remember they 683 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 7: thought you were hiding something. 684 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: I was like, bro, I'm like eleven, but yeah, what 685 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: would you do eight five five five three five? Do 686 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,600 Speaker 1: you stay out of it? I mean, there's money involved here, 687 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: there's future relationship with the sibling, and granted it's their mess, 688 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,959 Speaker 1: it's not your mass. But I mean if I can 689 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: imagine a world where if my sister went with someone, 690 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 1: you know, went with one side of the family and 691 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 1: I went with the other, then that divides our relationship 692 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: for things that have nothing to do with us. Correct. 693 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 1: So all the information should be out there, It should 694 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: all be hashed out, right should we should have a 695 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 1: sit down and go wait a minute, all right, let's 696 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 1: just get it all on the table here. You know, 697 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: mom may have done the wrong thing, but dah, you 698 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 1: did the wrong thing. You're not saying anything about that. 699 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: You're you're letting your son believe that it's all her fault. 700 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 1: But you're not perfect here either. That's what drives me crazy. 701 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 7: It's like you're letting somebody else believe a whole side 702 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 7: of the story, you know what I mean? That like 703 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 7: makes to make yourself look better or something, or make 704 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 7: yourself look innocent. At that point, I would just be like, 705 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 7: and then this happened on my side. I'm not perfect either, son, 706 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,720 Speaker 7: We're both not perfectly. Both make mistakes. Now, do you 707 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 7: end up back together or not? I don't know, that's 708 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 7: up to you, guys. But point is, you got to 709 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 7: lay it out there. 710 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 9: You already know I'm taking Dad out for a scotch. 711 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 9: I'm sitting him down. I'm saying, listen, here's what I know, 712 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 9: here's what I heard. 713 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: I know it to be true. You have forty eight hours, Dad, ooh, cheers. 714 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 1: Figure it out. You gotta tell mom or I'm telling mom, 715 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: because he probably has a financial interest in not telling 716 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 1: it himself because if it was mom's fault, and if 717 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: they're in a fault state, then he's gonna get more 718 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: money than she is because she was the one cheating, 719 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So, so he's not incentivized 720 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 1: unless he cares about his kids and their relationship. He's 721 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 1: not incentivized to come out and tell on himself because 722 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: right now it's like, well, I mean, I'm going to 723 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: get more money and it's her fault, not mine. I 724 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 1: can blame it on her. I can tell our friends 725 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:15,879 Speaker 1: it was her fault all the while I was having 726 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 1: a physical affairs. I guess I'm not perfect either. You're 727 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 1: also paying for my therapy because this is a lot 728 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 1: to hear your dad, Holy write that part. I'm pulling 729 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 1: out a clipboard with a pointer. This is what you did. 730 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 1: This is what you did. 731 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,600 Speaker 6: Now, brother, this is the conclusion it came. So both 732 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 6: parents are guilty and everybody need therapy. 733 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: Someone text it can affect the proceedings of the divorce, 734 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: So tell everyone blow it up and let everyone be 735 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:47,879 Speaker 1: responsible for their actions. The sister can't say anything unless 736 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 1: she has receipts. Well, I guess that is true, because 737 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,600 Speaker 1: I mean, how do you prove it? I mean, you 738 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 1: witnessed it, so I'm assuming that people don't think you're 739 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,879 Speaker 1: a liar. But like, where did this story come from 740 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,360 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you know what I mean. It's like, 741 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:08,800 Speaker 1: you know, oh, so, oh wow, Maybe moms is provable. 742 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: Maybe they were text messages or emails or letters or 743 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 1: whatever it is. And then Dad's is just speculations. So 744 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 1: if he's a really bad guy and really doesn't care 745 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 1: about his kids, and he can just lie and be 746 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: like I never happened. I was having a wild time 747 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: with myself in that room watching videos, And I'm sorry 748 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,399 Speaker 1: that you had to witness that. And here's some money 749 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 1: for therapy for that, you know. But that's the thing, 750 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 1: you know, and I know we were we would be 751 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 1: assuming that people would would be the bigger person here. 752 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 1: But like he if, in fact, he had a physical 753 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,320 Speaker 1: affair and she had an emotional affair, and it proves 754 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 1: the level of disconnecting a relationship and he's willing to 755 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 1: sit there and just let his family be divided, then 756 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: that says that tells you everything about what he thinks 757 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 1: about his kids. Oh yeah, like he doesn't care if 758 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 1: his kids get long or not as long as he 759 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 1: quote unquote wins in the divorce. 760 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,920 Speaker 9: If he's choosing to lie over what my truth is 761 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 9: and what I witnessed, then I won't have a reallyationship 762 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 9: with him anyways. 763 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 1: That's crazy to do your kids. Now, what about this though? 764 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 1: What if? What if the two things were not connected? 765 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,320 Speaker 1: It's hard to believe that people who were having emotional affairs, 766 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: but like, let's just say the relationship had dissolved and 767 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: they were each off doing their own things that she 768 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 1: got caught and he didn't. So because we're assuming in 769 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 1: this scenario that one led to the other, you know 770 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 1: what I mean, we're like that he was cheating and 771 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: she was cheating. So they're equal in this they're fit. 772 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,640 Speaker 1: But let's just say that the two aren't connected. That 773 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,919 Speaker 1: the reason for the divorce is not his cheating, it's 774 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 1: that she got caught. Then does he get to keep 775 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:36,959 Speaker 1: his secret? You know what I'm saying? 776 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 6: He brought another woman into our family home. That man 777 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 6: doesn't get any type of secrets to be ill. 778 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 1: Hey Jordan, oh, just short on. 779 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 5: Sorry girl, But I felt with an I instead of 780 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 5: an A. 781 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 1: Sorry, that's all right? So excited I thought Jordan A 782 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 1: and there was no O, and I thought, oh my god, 783 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: Jordan's going to confront us live from Raleigh. But no, 784 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: you're not. What's so? What do you think here? What 785 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 1: would you do? In this situation? Mom got caught having 786 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 1: an emotional affair and it's divided sister and brother. They 787 00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 1: each going to their own side. But sister, who's on 788 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,279 Speaker 1: mom's side, is aware of a physical affair that dad 789 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:20,720 Speaker 1: had and isn't saying anything. 790 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 3: What do you do? 791 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 5: So, as a product of divorced parents. As much as 792 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,279 Speaker 5: I want to say get involved, I think there's too 793 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,879 Speaker 5: many things that are unknown. And if you really want 794 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 5: to get involved, I think you have to go to 795 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 5: mom directly and let mom handle it, because at the 796 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,879 Speaker 5: end of the day, it's their business, it's their relationship, 797 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 5: and you don't know if she knows, you don't know 798 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 5: when things happen, and honestly, you could just be stirring 799 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 5: the pot for nothing. So I think if you really 800 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 5: want to get involved, you have to go to mom. 801 00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,840 Speaker 5: And like Caylen said, maybe you go to dad's first, 802 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 5: and then maybe dad says, well, mom knows, like you 803 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 5: can go to her. But I think going and getting 804 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 5: involved and doing things like that, it's to make it 805 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 5: more massy. Yeah. 806 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 1: And another thing you have to remember is sometimes adults 807 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,800 Speaker 1: do adult things, and sometimes people know about those things. 808 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,720 Speaker 1: You know, Like, let's say I don't know, God forbid, 809 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,880 Speaker 1: I found out that somebody I don't even use my 810 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 1: own parents. Example, I found out that SO and So's parents, 811 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 1: the father had a girlfriend, and then I and I'm 812 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,520 Speaker 1: close to the family and I can't believe this is happening, 813 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,399 Speaker 1: and this is devastating. So I go as I, guys, 814 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: I know, I know what's going on here. I think 815 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 1: everyone needs to be aware. Let's and maybe within that 816 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 1: relationship that was sanctioned, but they didn't want people to know. 817 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 1: And so now what happens is I alienated myself from 818 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 1: them because I know a secret they don't want people 819 00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: to know. So now I'm on the out, even though 820 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 1: I thought what they were doing was wrong. You see 821 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,359 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So, like, sometimes getting involved with other 822 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,279 Speaker 1: other people's business is like or like what, But in 823 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 1: this case, Mom is saying she I guess Mom does 824 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 1: know and is saying just don't get involved. So in 825 00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: that case, it's like it wasn't sanctioned. I don't know, 826 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,719 Speaker 1: it's very complicated. I don't know what I would do, Jordan, 827 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 1: I keep recalling, have a good day, love you too. 828 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, chaggybt's got an opinion. What 829 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:07,359 Speaker 1: does chatgybt say? 830 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 7: Well, Chad first wants to start off saying, this is 831 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 7: a very heavy and sensitive situation. 832 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:11,480 Speaker 1: Oh thank you. 833 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,000 Speaker 7: In case you guys didn't know that part, thank you. Basically, 834 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 7: I mean, she's not wrong, she's saying to understand the motivation. 835 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 7: So It's like, why would you want to tell your 836 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 7: brother like we talked about, is it to seek justice 837 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,920 Speaker 7: or are you trying to like balance the blame out here? 838 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,360 Speaker 1: And then basically, I mean, do you want to know 839 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:26,320 Speaker 1: her overall advice? 840 00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 4: No? 841 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:28,960 Speaker 1: I wanted you to get to that point and then 842 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 1: not tell me. Come on, Pete, all right. 843 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,880 Speaker 7: The sister should prioritize open communication, but approach us with 844 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 7: extreme care and empathy. So speaking with a neutral family 845 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 7: therapist or counselor not chaggy wet you, a real one 846 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 7: would also help her figure out the best way to 847 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 7: proceed and minimize harm. 848 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 1: No, I'm mad at that. That's not an answer. I 849 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,000 Speaker 1: mean she wants to know. Do you want suggestions on 850 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 1: how you can approach the conversation? 851 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 3: Yes? 852 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:56,400 Speaker 1: I do, I don't, I don't know. You don't like it? 853 00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 4: Not not good? 854 00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:59,839 Speaker 1: How do you live with that secret? Though? Like every 855 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,959 Speaker 1: time you're with both of your parents for the rest 856 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: of time. 857 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 3: Ye. 858 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 1: I think eighteen and twenty one is when I said 859 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,320 Speaker 1: the siblings were something like them. And I can remember 860 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 1: a time when my parents got divorced where I thought 861 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,800 Speaker 1: it was a million percent to zero in favor of 862 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,879 Speaker 1: one party over the other. And I still think it's 863 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:20,840 Speaker 1: like nine hundred thousand percent to maybe, like you know, 864 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,399 Speaker 1: one percent. But I also know that on both sides 865 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 1: of relationships, people make mistakes. So I don't know, but 866 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: that's not something that you realize to you get a 867 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 1: little bit older when you're young. I feel like, and 868 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 1: your parents get divorce. I don't know if it was 869 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 1: like this for you, Caln like you tend to take 870 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,839 Speaker 1: a side, but like, and I'm not saying that one 871 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 1: person is responsible for the other person's behavior, but it's 872 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,879 Speaker 1: like there, it takes more than just one Usually it's 873 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: more than one person being a total dumbass to lead 874 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 1: to something like that, if that makes sense. Yeah, and 875 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,359 Speaker 1: that doesn't seem to be considered here. You know that, like, well, 876 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 1: they're adults, they did their thing, But why is that 877 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 1: going to affect my brother's sister relationship? They just don't 878 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 1: see that, right now, That's a great point, very complicated. 879 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: All right, let's come back. Waiting at a phone is 880 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:09,360 Speaker 1: new and next more fread show next. Honestly, this is 881 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,839 Speaker 1: what the Catholic church. As a Catholic, I can say 882 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,400 Speaker 1: what we need is a rebrand and you would be 883 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: the guy to do it. 884 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 10: Imagine the pink smoke that would come out when I 885 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,279 Speaker 10: get lunch. Fread's show is on. 886 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 1: Someone DM me over the week I said, you know, 887 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,440 Speaker 1: the Pope listen to your show because he's from Chicago. 888 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, he didn't, No, he didn't, no, no, no, 889 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 1: would have flipped right past it. But I like to 890 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: believe that. We'll go with it. We'll go with the Pope, 891 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 1: the current Pope, the new Pope has listened to this program. 892 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 1: We're his favorite morning show. We do get a lot 893 00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,319 Speaker 1: of listening out of the Vatican, out of Vatican City, 894 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:54,400 Speaker 1: so it's true. Yeah, morning everyone, Monday May twelve, Hi Kala, 895 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: Hi Jason Brown, Hi morning. Can you imagine that? Though? 896 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 1: I guess it's brother the cute the cute guy, and 897 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,760 Speaker 1: he's older guy's the younger brother. Though he's a treasure. 898 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 1: He's an absolute treasure. And he's in the Vatican. Now 899 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,960 Speaker 1: I flew there. He did. Yeah, he's like sitting in 900 00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:15,120 Speaker 1: the background while his brother, the Pope did some ritualistic 901 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,360 Speaker 1: stuff over the weekend. Whatever he was into it. I 902 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,600 Speaker 1: don't know what he was. Tomb of somebody. Yeah, I'm Mcatholic. 903 00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 1: I should know, it's like it's like here's the Pope 904 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 1: and his white and his little disciples, his people, you know, 905 00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,960 Speaker 1: he the pope has people. And then behind him is 906 00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 1: his brother in like a like a checkered plaid shirt 907 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 1: and just sitting there. My god, right, what is going on? 908 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 1: His two brothers are on like a press tour of 909 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 1: their own. Have you seen them? They're both on a tour. Yeah. 910 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 9: They used to make fun of him. I don't know 911 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,000 Speaker 9: if you guys talked about this on Friday. No, they 912 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,920 Speaker 9: push him down the stairs, his older brother, that'll get him. 913 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,320 Speaker 9: He was dressed as the pope. Our current pope was 914 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,000 Speaker 9: little and play pope. Yeah, he played. Yeah the whole 915 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 9: time he was a little kid. All he wanted to 916 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:54,960 Speaker 9: do was the Pope. So I knew, like, whoa, this 917 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 9: kid is special. But they tease him, going, you'll never 918 00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 9: be the pope. 919 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 1: You'll never be the Pope, which was a pretty because 920 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,800 Speaker 1: he was American, so you know they were ahead of 921 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,719 Speaker 1: their time. They knew something. But no, huh uh, take 922 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 1: that back. His brother's like, am I going to hell now? 923 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 1: Because I told the pope like, you'll never be pope? 924 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,440 Speaker 1: And look at him now, that's nuts Vegas flex that's nuts. 925 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: I can't imagine because he apparently didn't think he had 926 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,440 Speaker 1: any shot and then you know, forty eight hours later, 927 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,920 Speaker 1: he's the Pope. I wonder where that hits you, Like, 928 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,719 Speaker 1: you went from being a big deal in the Catholic church. 929 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,920 Speaker 1: You're just but you're a relatively normal guy from Chicago. 930 00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,520 Speaker 1: He lived in Peru, whatever else. But but then now 931 00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,320 Speaker 1: you're I mean, how many days would it take for 932 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,320 Speaker 1: me to be like, oh my gosh, gosh, I'm the pope. 933 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 1: I can't imagine waiting by the phone. He's knew and 934 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 1: next wye to somebody get ghosted? Seven point fifty a 935 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,880 Speaker 1: tiebreaker in the Showdown. Five pop Culture Questions esthetician Carisa 936 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 1: back for another one, and the Entertainment Report this hour, 937 00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,239 Speaker 1: What's in there? K? What do you expect from Diddy? 938 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:53,240 Speaker 1: With the trial today? 939 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:57,080 Speaker 9: Also Morgan Wallen talking about the possible Tate mccraig lab 940 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 9: also SNL also out Okay, good, all. 941 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 1: That's coming up Fred's show. You've ever been left waiting 942 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 1: by the phone? It's the Fred Show, Dakota, Welcome to 943 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:15,080 Speaker 1: the program. How are you, I'm good? How you guys 944 00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:19,280 Speaker 1: doing doing? Okay? What's going on with this woman? Vanessa 945 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,720 Speaker 1: on waiting by the phone. You feel like you're being ghosted. 946 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,160 Speaker 1: Tell us kind of about how you met, any dates 947 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 1: you've been on, and where things are now. 948 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean exactly right, right, like we feel 949 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 3: like I'm being ghosted. We met on Bumble week shows 950 00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 3: numbered pretty quick, first date, really great, right, amazing things 951 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 3: where things are really promising. We were already planning our 952 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:45,520 Speaker 3: second date, and Lynn like out of nowhere, just like 953 00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:47,319 Speaker 3: just nothing all right. 954 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,399 Speaker 1: So that's always frustrating. I mean we hear it all 955 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 1: the time, is you have one impression of the date, 956 00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:56,360 Speaker 1: and even on the date, you're talking about future plans. 957 00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 1: Except then once the date's over and you guys go 958 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,360 Speaker 1: your separate ways. Now you can't get a hold of 959 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,319 Speaker 1: this person, and you're like, wait a minute. We talked 960 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 1: about another date so and I thought it went well. 961 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,520 Speaker 1: So what happened? And you start kind of beating yourself 962 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,240 Speaker 1: up and you want at least the closure, right. 963 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, And to be fair, we talked about plans for 964 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:14,279 Speaker 3: second date after the first date ended, so it's not 965 00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 3: like it's not like that was just that night. Like 966 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:21,919 Speaker 3: the conversation continued like like I thought, I really thought 967 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:22,800 Speaker 3: we were going places. 968 00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well let's I'm gonna play a song, 969 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: come back in a couple of minutes. Were going to 970 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: call Vanessa. You'll be on the phone at the same time, Dakota. 971 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 1: And the hope is that we can figure out what's 972 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,880 Speaker 1: going on, straighten it all out, set you guys up 973 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: on in this case, that second date, and pay for it. 974 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,440 Speaker 1: All right, amazing, Thank you every much. Let's see what's 975 00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,279 Speaker 1: going on? Part two of waiting by the phone. After 976 00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 1: this song the Weekend, Cry for me back in two minutes, 977 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 1: Fred's show The Weekend and the Fred Show is on. 978 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:49,440 Speaker 1: Hey Tocody, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call this 979 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 1: woman Vanessa, who you met on Bumble You guys exchange numberies. 980 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 1: You went in a great date, you felt like everything 981 00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,520 Speaker 1: was going well, things were very promising, you were even 982 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,720 Speaker 1: planning a second date, and then now you're being ghosted. 983 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: You feel like you can't get a hold of right now. 984 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 1: So we go from a good date and plans for 985 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 1: a second date to nothing, and you want to know why? 986 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:09,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, all. 987 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 1: Right, Let's call Vanessa now, good luck, Dakota, all right, 988 00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 1: thanks he Hi is this Vanessa. Hey Vanessa, good morning. 989 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,839 Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, 990 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,840 Speaker 1: the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and 991 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 1: I do have to tell you that we are cool. 992 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,800 Speaker 1: Oh okay, so well let me finish here, just to 993 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:36,359 Speaker 1: get this out of the way. We are on the radio, 994 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the call. 995 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:39,760 Speaker 1: Can which have for just a second? 996 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:40,719 Speaker 3: Sure? 997 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 1: Okay? Perfect? Well this is a very agreeable person. Thank you. 998 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 1: We're calling up. We have a guy named Dakota who 999 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:49,240 Speaker 1: you met on bub and you went out with Dakota recently. 1000 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:49,960 Speaker 1: Do you remember him? 1001 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 6: Uh huh? 1002 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, he called us, Vanessa, and he told us 1003 00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,040 Speaker 1: that he thought that your date was really successful and 1004 00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 1: he was excited to see you again, that you were 1005 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 1: talking about a second date and now he can't get 1006 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,360 Speaker 1: all of you. So what changed? 1007 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:07,160 Speaker 4: Well, he's crazy, first of all, but yeah, he's also right. 1008 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 4: We did have a great date, like that was fun 1009 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,040 Speaker 4: and you know, and we were like talking and texting 1010 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,799 Speaker 4: and you know, I was pretty excited about him until 1011 00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,320 Speaker 4: he showed up at my house. 1012 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: Excuse me? 1013 00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:21,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, so. 1014 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 1: Like you didn't you didn't want him there? 1015 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, like the next weekend, after we had had a 1016 00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:31,239 Speaker 4: date of something. So I was doing Errand's and then 1017 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,960 Speaker 4: I hang out with some friends, like. 1018 00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,520 Speaker 1: They came over and yeah. 1019 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:35,880 Speaker 4: It was just a busy day and I wasn't like 1020 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,360 Speaker 4: checking in my phone once I was at home and 1021 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,080 Speaker 4: then I got this random. 1022 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,040 Speaker 1: Knock on my door and it was Dakota and he 1023 00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 1: was just like, oh. 1024 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 4: You're not answering your phone. 1025 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,440 Speaker 1: Like, okay, had you given did he pick you up 1026 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,000 Speaker 1: previously or does he live nearby? 1027 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:58,800 Speaker 4: Or like, oh he got my address from when he 1028 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 4: calls me and uber to get me to get your 1029 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:03,399 Speaker 4: rifle after a date. 1030 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so you he was like, let me get you 1031 00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: an uber and then he gave you his phone or 1032 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:11,080 Speaker 1: he typed it in or somebody Okay, so he typed 1033 00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: it in and then he so you didn't answer the 1034 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,480 Speaker 1: phone in a in a or get back to him 1035 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 1: in a fast enough fashion. So then he just decides 1036 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,800 Speaker 1: to look in the uber at for your address and 1037 00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,120 Speaker 1: then show up at your house. 1038 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:25,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, and he also was like, oh, who's over there? 1039 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:28,200 Speaker 4: Any guys here? Like could he talk cars out front? 1040 00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:28,480 Speaker 4: It was. 1041 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,440 Speaker 1: Some weirdo stuff. There's some big time weirdo stuff you 1042 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,719 Speaker 1: can't do that. Now, No, you can't do that. I 1043 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 1: forgot to mention the Dakota. Now I gotta get I 1044 00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:40,719 Speaker 1: gotta get Dakota on the line. I got to be 1045 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:46,399 Speaker 1: completely transparent here because that's some weird stuff. Dakota is here. Dakota. Yeah, 1046 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 1: women games. Yeah, we don't show the people's houses uninvited. 1047 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:53,680 Speaker 1: We don't do we don't. 1048 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 3: Like I wasn't. She wasn't answering anymore after everything had 1049 00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:00,840 Speaker 3: gone well, so I wanted to be sure she was okay. 1050 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 3: Like I was. I was doing like a like a 1051 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 3: health check. I wasn't trying to stock. 1052 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,359 Speaker 1: Her doing a wellness check. That's so nice of you. Yeah, 1053 00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 1: she has every right not to respond to you in 1054 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,040 Speaker 1: whatever period of time she wants to without you showing 1055 00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,360 Speaker 1: up at her house. That's not that's not why she 1056 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,040 Speaker 1: She didn't put the address in there for you to 1057 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:18,840 Speaker 1: show up. She put the address in there for her 1058 00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,280 Speaker 1: to get home totally. 1059 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,000 Speaker 3: And I wasn't. I wasn't like planning on showing up 1060 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 3: like I figured we'd like get it and actually at 1061 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 3: some point anyway, but like when I didn't hear anything 1062 00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,160 Speaker 3: from her, I was really worried that something on her. 1063 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,839 Speaker 1: I don't think that's for you to have to worry about. 1064 00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 1: I mean, like this one date, I'm sure she's okay. 1065 00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 1: You know, I don't have to get a newspaper or 1066 00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:41,600 Speaker 1: something turn on the dateline. I don't know. I mean, like, 1067 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 1: you don't just show up at people's houses uninvited. I 1068 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,000 Speaker 1: don't know if you do that really kind of ever, honestly, 1069 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 1: And then for you to did you really show up 1070 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,560 Speaker 1: there and then ask if there were any guys there? 1071 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 1: Like that to me is not given the joke. Yeah, No, 1072 00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:54,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't. 1073 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,440 Speaker 3: That was just yeah, I was being like like ha ha, funny. 1074 00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 3: Like I wasn't like. 1075 00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:02,319 Speaker 1: Whatever that's giving I'm checking on your well being. That's 1076 00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm checking up on you, which is not cool. 1077 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,279 Speaker 3: I mean no, like that's but that's not what I 1078 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 3: was doing. Like I really was just just trying to 1079 00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,200 Speaker 3: make sure she was okay. Like that's that's that's something 1080 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 3: that like good people do you check on people with like. 1081 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:22,280 Speaker 1: Here with yeah he's a good guy. Doesn't sound like it, Vanessa, 1082 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,759 Speaker 1: are you buying any of this that he you know 1083 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:25,880 Speaker 1: he had good intentions? 1084 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 4: It was only not defending myself because you guys are 1085 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:29,400 Speaker 4: doing it for me. 1086 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 1: So he's clearly crazy and creepy. 1087 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:37,200 Speaker 3: So yeah, crazy, I'm a concerned person, Like I liked 1088 00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:38,719 Speaker 3: you and I thought we were vibing, and I wanted 1089 00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 3: to make sure you were. Okay, that's not that's not 1090 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,200 Speaker 3: crazy person behavior. That's like carrying person behavior. 1091 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 1: Okay, but no normal does that. But yeah, if in 1092 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 1: fact that was your intention, it doesn't give that because 1093 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 1: she didn't give you her address for the purpose of 1094 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,320 Speaker 1: you coming over. It's a very important distinction, you know. 1095 00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,279 Speaker 1: It wasn't like, hey, you can stop buying any time 1096 00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 1: you want. It wasn't like there was a mass murderer 1097 00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,759 Speaker 1: in the neighborhood, you know what I mean. Like, and 1098 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,880 Speaker 1: you you may be you may be the mass murderer. 1099 00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. But like, you can't just show up 1100 00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,440 Speaker 1: at people's houses. I don't even know. I mean, there 1101 00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:13,759 Speaker 1: are people I've dated whose addresses I have, whose whose 1102 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 1: homes I've been to. I still don't go over there 1103 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 1: and just knock on the door. Like it's just not 1104 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:18,879 Speaker 1: it's just not cool. 1105 00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:19,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1106 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 3: I mean, my my whole family like is like we've 1107 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,720 Speaker 3: always grown up just kind of dropping by each other's houses, 1108 00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,000 Speaker 3: like your. 1109 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,759 Speaker 1: Family that's not and even my family sometimes I think 1110 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,000 Speaker 1: would probably not answer the door. Finally, so I don't, 1111 00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,480 Speaker 1: I don't. You can't just show up at people's houses uninvited. 1112 00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,880 Speaker 1: That you can't do that, and especially this is creepy, 1113 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: Like she did not give you her address with the 1114 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 1: purpose of you having it to come over there. 1115 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:45,279 Speaker 3: She gave me that. 1116 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:47,040 Speaker 1: Well, do you right? 1117 00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 3: Right? Right? 1118 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:48,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course I do. 1119 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:49,760 Speaker 2: Like I didn't. 1120 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:51,799 Speaker 3: That's why I didn't go there. Like the next day. 1121 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,759 Speaker 3: It wasn't just like, hey, let's have a second date. No, 1122 00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 3: like when I hadn't hurt for her for a while, 1123 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,399 Speaker 3: Like that's when I was like concerned that something was wrong. 1124 00:51:59,600 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1125 00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,440 Speaker 3: You guys are totally miserating this, totally miser all of us. 1126 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:06,680 Speaker 1: Are, everybody, including Vanessa. Vanessa looks, so hey, Vanessa, we 1127 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:10,160 Speaker 1: got this all wrong. I'll just ask the question, then, 1128 00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,440 Speaker 1: would you like to go out with him again? He 1129 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:15,440 Speaker 1: had good intentions? He says, no, not interested. Okay, not 1130 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,239 Speaker 1: gonna happen. So look, Dakota, my thing to you is, 1131 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:22,200 Speaker 1: even if you do have good intentions, never do that again. Please. Okay. 1132 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I think you guys are wrong, but sure, Okay. 1133 00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 1: Okay, he's going to do it again, so that's right, 1134 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 1: all right, Well, Vanessa, thank you for answering for your time, Anned, Dakota, 1135 00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:33,440 Speaker 1: good for trying, yeah, and good luck to you Dakota. 1136 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:34,359 Speaker 3: Thanks guys. 1137 00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 1: The Entertainer Report is next seven hundred and fifty bucks 1138 00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:40,359 Speaker 1: in the showed out a tide Breaker versus Carissa. That's 1139 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 1: next Spread Show one's entertainer Report. He is on the 1140 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:44,919 Speaker 1: Fread Show. 1141 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:48,600 Speaker 9: It is the second week of Diddy's sex trafficking trial 1142 00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,959 Speaker 9: and there are some big milestones on the schedule today. 1143 00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:53,920 Speaker 9: Jury selection is up first this morning, as there are 1144 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,040 Speaker 9: forty three jurors still to go through and the goal 1145 00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,080 Speaker 9: is to pick eighteen twelve jurors and six alternates. Once 1146 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,080 Speaker 9: the jury is set, the trial will move on to 1147 00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,960 Speaker 9: opening statements. Ditty's defense will focus on the fact that 1148 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 9: he's simply a swinger, not a criminal. They also plan 1149 00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 9: to say that the physical violence shown in that surveillance 1150 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 9: video with sex Cassie went both ways. There are three 1151 00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,360 Speaker 9: witnesses at least said to be called by the prosecution 1152 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,040 Speaker 9: this week, one of which is Cassie, although we have 1153 00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 9: been hearing that one of them not Cassie. Another one 1154 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,799 Speaker 9: going by victim number three, is currently unreachable and may 1155 00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:29,520 Speaker 9: not testify. 1156 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if they're ghosting or what's going on 1157 00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,239 Speaker 1: with that. That witness was. 1158 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,799 Speaker 9: Expected to provide pivotal testimony about the alleged decades long 1159 00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,760 Speaker 9: abuse by Ditty. He of course, has pled not guilty 1160 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 9: to all charges, gave up all of his chances for 1161 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:46,120 Speaker 9: plea deals, and he faces a possibility of life in 1162 00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,360 Speaker 9: prison if convicted, which is crazy to say. The trial 1163 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 9: is expected to last like eight weeks and will not 1164 00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,120 Speaker 9: be televised like some people were hoping. I mean, this 1165 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 9: is a lot heavier and more delicate than like the 1166 00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,080 Speaker 9: Johnny Depp amber Heard trial, for example. And there's people 1167 00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 9: who are trying to not go public with their identity 1168 00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 9: and I understand that so it will not be televised 1169 00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:07,759 Speaker 9: like some people were saying. 1170 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:09,640 Speaker 1: I'm skeptical of that. Is is it a person that 1171 00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,480 Speaker 1: doesn't want to have their identity revealed, or is it 1172 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,480 Speaker 1: somebody who got paid to go away. It's interesting, right, 1173 00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 1: because this does happen sometimes where people are like, you know, 1174 00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,879 Speaker 1: they go after lasses, and they go after someone they well, 1175 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 1: they go after someone because they were a victim potentially 1176 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,839 Speaker 1: right allegedly, and then all of a sudden, right before 1177 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:30,919 Speaker 1: it's time, they just never mind. Yeah, why never mind? 1178 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:31,279 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1179 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,040 Speaker 1: I mean I realized it's a very hard thing to 1180 00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,920 Speaker 1: do to come forward and brave, so they could be that, 1181 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,040 Speaker 1: but at the same time it could also be oh, 1182 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 1: made it worth my while to go away. Yeah, and 1183 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:43,360 Speaker 1: they were very afraid of that. This is one of 1184 00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 1: the reasons why they didn't let him out on house arrests. 1185 00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:47,360 Speaker 9: They didn't want to give him access to, you know, 1186 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,640 Speaker 9: a lot of technology. And I understand why. It's very 1187 00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 9: interesting that you would muster up all that courage to 1188 00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:54,840 Speaker 9: come forward and I'm sure it took a lot and 1189 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,879 Speaker 9: then become unreachable. And I also understand having cold feet, 1190 00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,360 Speaker 9: but it does make me worried. So it'll be very interesting. 1191 00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 9: I mean, this is a music mogul, and it's just 1192 00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,799 Speaker 9: it's a crazy time. Morgan Wallinn has finally spoken out 1193 00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:08,920 Speaker 9: about that abrupt departure from SNL. 1194 00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: Back in March. 1195 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,280 Speaker 9: He was on Caleb Presley's Sunday Conversation where he downplayed 1196 00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,840 Speaker 9: the whole thing, saying it was a simple misunderstanding. He 1197 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,360 Speaker 9: explained that he followed the exact same exit route that 1198 00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,680 Speaker 9: he used during rehearsals thinking the show had ended. That moment, 1199 00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:25,520 Speaker 9: of course, gained even more attention after he exited the 1200 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,520 Speaker 9: show than posted on his Instagram storywriting get Me to 1201 00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:30,759 Speaker 9: God's Country with a picture of his private plane, and 1202 00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:32,880 Speaker 9: then of course everyone posted their own get Me to 1203 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:36,040 Speaker 9: God's Country by the way. Elsewhere in the interview, he 1204 00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,560 Speaker 9: was asked about his rumored collaboration with Tate McCrae on 1205 00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,759 Speaker 9: the song What I Want. He simply responded, I don't 1206 00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:43,560 Speaker 9: even know if that Tate McCrae is her real name, 1207 00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,400 Speaker 9: So he's playing with us, she's playing with us. We 1208 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:48,640 Speaker 9: will find out for sure the answer on Friday, though, 1209 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 9: when he drops his thirty seven song album. 1210 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 1: Thirty seven song album, which is crazy. 1211 00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,720 Speaker 9: And lastly, in other country it was Christapleton's Traveler whiskey 1212 00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 9: is now the official whis of the MLB Major League Baseball. 1213 00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:04,360 Speaker 1: So I have not tried it yet, but congrats to 1214 00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:05,319 Speaker 1: Chris on that one. 1215 00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:07,680 Speaker 9: If we have any new friends or if you're you know, 1216 00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:10,840 Speaker 9: slacky on your obligations for us, please follow us on 1217 00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:14,040 Speaker 9: social We get extra credit for that. Fred Show Radio 1218 00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:16,839 Speaker 9: on Instagram, Twitter, and Blue Sky if anyone is still 1219 00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,560 Speaker 9: using Blue Sky, or if we ever did the Fred Show, 1220 00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:23,080 Speaker 9: TikTok on TikTok if you like waiting by the phone 1221 00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,000 Speaker 9: Fred Show radio dot com and then search for The 1222 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,439 Speaker 9: Fred Show on demand on the free iHeart Radio app 1223 00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:27,879 Speaker 9: and make. 1224 00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:31,880 Speaker 1: Us appre say Chris odd Sidebreaker is up next. Seven 1225 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:36,160 Speaker 1: point fifty is the prize and it's at least an 1226 00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,480 Speaker 1: extra one hundred bucks since she appeared on the show 1227 00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:40,880 Speaker 1: like seven weeks ago. Yeah, man, she's really good. She 1228 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,000 Speaker 1: keeps tying you gonna take her out today. I'm scared. 1229 00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:48,520 Speaker 1: Talks with Smith going oh no, no, girl, I'm scared. 1230 00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,840 Speaker 1: Have mercy on me, have mercy on my soul? Please? 1231 00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:54,120 Speaker 1: What come on? 1232 00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 2: What do you mean? 1233 00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 1: Miss confidence? Over here? Gro not not today? When it 1234 00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,799 Speaker 1: comes to this game, twenty nine and four is your record? 1235 00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:03,759 Speaker 1: Just a couple of weeks left till Kelly comes back. 1236 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:06,880 Speaker 1: And remember all the money goes to you unless you 1237 00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,040 Speaker 1: lose next red shoke? Do you have what it takes 1238 00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:11,000 Speaker 1: to battle. 1239 00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 7: With the cake? 1240 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,520 Speaker 1: I know that's right. And to start the week, we 1241 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 1: let the beat drop right here. Oh yeah, come hey, Carissa, 1242 00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:36,280 Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome back the seventh member of the show 1243 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:40,480 Speaker 1: or eighth or everybody. How was your weekend, Carrissa? Were 1244 00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:42,000 Speaker 1: you just on the edge of your seat? Were you 1245 00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,360 Speaker 1: nervous all weekend? Like I'm gonna have to play this game? 1246 00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:46,680 Speaker 4: Oh? 1247 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:49,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I did some trivia at. 1248 00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:53,120 Speaker 8: Home, mentally prepared, did a little massage. 1249 00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:57,080 Speaker 1: Who relax, relax my mind? Yeah, got the phone roller out? Yeah, 1250 00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,200 Speaker 1: I know, I know. You right to stretching. Boyk you 1251 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:01,520 Speaker 1: head it out here a minute ago. You should see 1252 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:05,480 Speaker 1: her on the film roller. It's crazy, he wonders, contort herself. 1253 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,600 Speaker 1: So seven fifty is the prize? Another tiebreaker you've been 1254 00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 1: on several times now, twenty nine and four is Kiki's record. 1255 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,520 Speaker 1: Let's see if we have another tie today. Someone finally 1256 00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,400 Speaker 1: gonna win. And only a couple of weeks left till 1257 00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,760 Speaker 1: Shelley comes back from eternity leave and that means that 1258 00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,000 Speaker 1: you're off the hook, and if there's any money left, 1259 00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,640 Speaker 1: it's yours all right, Now, here we go, Kiki. Okay, 1260 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,560 Speaker 1: with all due respect, you gotta go to the sound 1261 00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,680 Speaker 1: boof boof, she goes she can't here. Okay, here we go, 1262 00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 1: Chris A question number one. Asap Rocky got a massive 1263 00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,520 Speaker 1: ring in the shape of his girlfriend and the mother 1264 00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 1: of his children, name her, which pop star has been 1265 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:49,040 Speaker 1: officially subpoenat in the Blake Lively Justin Baldoni legal battle 1266 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:53,200 Speaker 1: Taylor Swiss. The ACM Awards aired last week and celebrated 1267 00:58:53,240 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 1: the best in this genre of music. Three God two one, 1268 00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 1: I don't know Tony Hawk is fifty seven today, which 1269 00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 1: sport brought Tony to fame and led him to being 1270 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:13,600 Speaker 1: featured in various video games skateboarding and the Duke and 1271 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:16,960 Speaker 1: Duchess of Sussex enjoyed a date night at the Beyonce 1272 00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:18,280 Speaker 1: concert over the weekend. 1273 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 8: Name both of them, Meghan Marko and Princherry. 1274 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 1: That is a four. All right, here comes Kiki four. 1275 00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:33,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Oh my Land's right. I'm sensing another tie. 1276 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:36,000 Speaker 1: This may go on forever. I'm not sure. Oh boy, 1277 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:36,800 Speaker 1: are you ready? 1278 00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 9: No? 1279 00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:40,240 Speaker 1: Asap, Rocky got a massive ring in the shape of 1280 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:43,560 Speaker 1: his girlfriend and the mother of his children. Name her Rihanna, 1281 00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,600 Speaker 1: which pop star has been officially subpoenaed in the Blake 1282 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:51,120 Speaker 1: Lively Justin Baldoni legal battle. Taylor Swift. The ACM Awards 1283 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,080 Speaker 1: aired last week and celebrated the best in this genre 1284 00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:57,800 Speaker 1: of music. Country. Yeah. The Academy of Country Music Awards 1285 00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:02,000 Speaker 1: Tony Hawk is fifty seven today, which sport brought Tony 1286 01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,760 Speaker 1: to fame and led him to being featured in various 1287 01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:11,880 Speaker 1: video games three two Gayboarding. 1288 01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:13,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1289 01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,320 Speaker 1: He made a lot of money off that video game too, 1290 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:20,680 Speaker 1: by the way. All right, And finally the Duke and 1291 01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,680 Speaker 1: Duchess of Sussex into it to date night at the 1292 01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:26,920 Speaker 1: Beyonce concert over the weekend. Name both of them, Prince 1293 01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:30,720 Speaker 1: Harry and Meghan Markle. That's a five and that is 1294 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 1: a Now, that is a woman. Carissa, Carissa, you did 1295 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:42,240 Speaker 1: a great job. Okay, you are a valid competitor. 1296 01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 11: Girl. 1297 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:44,120 Speaker 1: You are that girl. 1298 01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:44,640 Speaker 3: She is. 1299 01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:49,040 Speaker 1: Kiki is more than girl. But you're gonna have to say, Carissa, 1300 01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,160 Speaker 1: my name is Chrissa. I get showed up on the showdown. 1301 01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:51,720 Speaker 1: You know the rest. 1302 01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 8: My name is Carissa. 1303 01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:55,880 Speaker 1: I got showed up on the showdown. And I cannot 1304 01:00:55,960 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 1: hang with the Kiki. Yeah, Carissa, you the esthetician in 1305 01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:03,520 Speaker 1: the fancy place, can't hang with a keik. 1306 01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:11,680 Speaker 6: Ca caoo, can't cao, can't shut out suit. 1307 01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:16,280 Speaker 1: Clarissa, you did, girl, Just edit it out. 1308 01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:16,760 Speaker 3: I did. 1309 01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:23,120 Speaker 1: I was not It's not close. Riss eight times it's Carissa, 1310 01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:27,640 Speaker 1: not Clariz. She ain't explaining at all. Okay, it's Calarissa. 1311 01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:31,920 Speaker 1: We're gonna get you a prize because you're the best. Carrissa, Clarissa, 1312 01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:34,800 Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening. Have a great day 1313 01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:35,439 Speaker 1: in a great week. 1314 01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 8: Yes, you guys, have a good one. 1315 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:38,600 Speaker 1: I stay there. 1316 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,160 Speaker 6: Oh. Man, when I get this money, I'm gonna go 1317 01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 6: see her at her fancy Hu. 1318 01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:44,960 Speaker 1: You're gonna need all the money, yeah, I think in 1319 01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 1: order to do that. So eight hundred bucks is the price. 1320 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:52,480 Speaker 1: We're number thirty, thirty and four. Man, is your record 1321 01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:54,600 Speaker 1: in the game really really good? 1322 01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:55,080 Speaker 11: Thank you? 1323 01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:58,120 Speaker 1: So we'll do it again tomorrow. New player five questions 1324 01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:00,680 Speaker 1: for eight hundred bucks. Kiki's where it is up next? 1325 01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 1: Buttomp Bump girl. It's a thin line between love and hate, Bunny. 1326 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:13,040 Speaker 1: I just wasn't expecting that. I don't know why, letter, 1327 01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just very like deep and I 1328 01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:17,640 Speaker 1: still have no idea what we're gonna find out. I 1329 01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:19,520 Speaker 1: gotta hang out. That doesn't have anything to do with 1330 01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,000 Speaker 1: the case, or is it just the teath we'll have 1331 01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:25,440 Speaker 1: to I guess. So I will do headlines the biggest 1332 01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 1: stories of the day the Entertainment Report and fun Factor 1333 01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:30,760 Speaker 1: all the next, or does they have anything to do 1334 01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,480 Speaker 1: with the case at all? Something? Or if we just 1335 01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 1: we just resorted to doing teases that have just because 1336 01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,320 Speaker 1: they sound good. Hey, baby, stay tuned. I guess I 1337 01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:54,560 Speaker 1: will okay more press show next. Wait, wait, and Kiki, 1338 01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:58,880 Speaker 1: you have a demographic of fans that I never knew about. 1339 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 1: Really it is fit fifty plus year old white man. 1340 01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:02,840 Speaker 1: What did I wait? Come give me. 1341 01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:04,760 Speaker 4: Here? 1342 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:08,680 Speaker 2: Every day Fred's show is on Good Morning Everyone, Monday 1343 01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,600 Speaker 2: May twelfth, It's the frend show. Hi Kailin, Good morning, 1344 01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:14,960 Speaker 2: Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina, Hi Kiki, Good morning Bella. 1345 01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,720 Speaker 1: I mean it's back tomorrow. Each five five, five, nine, 1346 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:19,360 Speaker 1: one one o three five. You can call him text 1347 01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:23,160 Speaker 1: the same number anytime. Kiky's Corny's next, buttom Bump girl. 1348 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:26,720 Speaker 1: It's a thin line between love and hate headlines and 1349 01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:30,560 Speaker 1: the biggest stories of the day. Selfie's in cancer woh, 1350 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:33,520 Speaker 1: I know it's serious? Fun fact is coming up? What's 1351 01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 1: in the entertainer of for this hour? 1352 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,840 Speaker 9: Kay, I will tell you who used Mother's Day to 1353 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,160 Speaker 9: send an interesting message to their X. 1354 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:45,600 Speaker 1: On the edge of my seat Lately, each day I 1355 01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:49,960 Speaker 1: get on TikTok to watch the Karen Reid trial. Okay, 1356 01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:54,240 Speaker 1: I don't I don't think she did it. If she 1357 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:58,200 Speaker 1: did it, it wasn't on purpose. And if either way, 1358 01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,720 Speaker 1: the prosecution for the second time are the biggest bunch 1359 01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:07,360 Speaker 1: of morons that I I mean, the ineptitude is unbelievable 1360 01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,640 Speaker 1: times too, with a whole different set of people and 1361 01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:12,880 Speaker 1: the and the I'm sorry, but you know, I'm a 1362 01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:16,960 Speaker 1: big police backer and first responder guy, but these guys 1363 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:20,080 Speaker 1: are idiots. These guys are they got shoes they don't 1364 01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,080 Speaker 1: know about in the wrong bags they got they got 1365 01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,320 Speaker 1: They're flirting with her, They're saying names, whether they got 1366 01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 1: people getting you know, they're they're they're calling your names, 1367 01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: they got people getting fired. They the experts don't know 1368 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:31,320 Speaker 1: what's going on. 1369 01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,560 Speaker 9: When I tell you that Karen's lawyer, Alan Jackson not 1370 01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:36,400 Speaker 9: to be confused with the Country singer. 1371 01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:38,680 Speaker 1: I thought it was, except I think Alan Jackson passed 1372 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 1: away to me he did, Yes, rip is everything to me. 1373 01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:44,640 Speaker 1: Like I don't know how you can be a fan 1374 01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:47,560 Speaker 1: of a lawyer, but like I'm his biggest fan. Phenomenal. 1375 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:50,440 Speaker 9: I want merch like that tiny man, where does he 1376 01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 9: have time to get those guns. 1377 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,360 Speaker 1: Like he's hitting the gym too. He has time to 1378 01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:53,760 Speaker 1: do it all. 1379 01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:57,160 Speaker 9: He is eating those I know they're not called monologues, 1380 01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,240 Speaker 9: but he's eating those monologues. 1381 01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,920 Speaker 1: Up in court. The cross examination performance. 1382 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,240 Speaker 9: You have to have a close in the last trial 1383 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:06,640 Speaker 9: an hour, you have to talk in your closing statement. 1384 01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:11,160 Speaker 1: He eats it up well, and he's just he's crushing 1385 01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:15,920 Speaker 1: these people in cross examination. He did defend Harvey Weinstein too, 1386 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:19,680 Speaker 1: which I don't love he did. He's a defense attorney. Okay, 1387 01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:21,440 Speaker 1: he is a defense attorney, so you don't get to, 1388 01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,880 Speaker 1: you know, necessarily pick your clients. Okay. No, I'm not 1389 01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:25,840 Speaker 1: that those two things were. I think you can think 1390 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:29,440 Speaker 1: he's very good and and but I mean again, I 1391 01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:31,680 Speaker 1: just met him, you guys, I just thought he was 1392 01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:37,400 Speaker 1: There's somebody pointed that out to Milos. No, but I'm 1393 01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 1: just putting that out there so that people know I 1394 01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:41,320 Speaker 1: am aware. But again, I mean, damn. You know, you 1395 01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:43,240 Speaker 1: can say what you want about all those defense attorneys, 1396 01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:45,400 Speaker 1: Johnny Cochran and those guys who defended Oja. You can 1397 01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:46,680 Speaker 1: say what you want about him, but I mean that 1398 01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,000 Speaker 1: was their job to get him off. Remember that and 1399 01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 1: they were successful. So I you know, uh, say what 1400 01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:54,800 Speaker 1: you want about a defense attorney that I don't know 1401 01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:57,680 Speaker 1: that you necessarily, I'm sure you can say no to cases. 1402 01:05:57,800 --> 01:06:00,800 Speaker 1: But I don't really know why he was involved with 1403 01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 1: that one. But nonetheless, he's very good at his job 1404 01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:06,680 Speaker 1: because I do. I do believe she's innocent, So that's 1405 01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:08,480 Speaker 1: why I love him so much. But I was not 1406 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:10,520 Speaker 1: aware of that. You gotta you gotta talk to God 1407 01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:13,840 Speaker 1: about that one, Alan, Yeah, again, I don't I don't know, imember. 1408 01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:17,000 Speaker 1: Everyone's entitled to a except for maybe him. Everyone's entitled 1409 01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 1: to a defensive Yeah, it's possible that she hit him 1410 01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,720 Speaker 1: and didn't know it. It's possible, but I don't see 1411 01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:26,640 Speaker 1: how a jury could could even begin to trust any 1412 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:28,280 Speaker 1: of the information that's being presented. 1413 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:30,800 Speaker 9: When I'm sober, I couldn't hit a person with my 1414 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:34,040 Speaker 9: back right tail light at the force that it would 1415 01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:36,840 Speaker 9: cause to kill them, like the aim she would have 1416 01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:37,040 Speaker 9: to have. 1417 01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,560 Speaker 1: And I was drunk. Alan Jackson's told why do I 1418 01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:44,520 Speaker 1: think he was doing? Oh you thought, Toby Keith? Toby Keith, 1419 01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 1: Maybe he's doing good toy right now. Well, that's why 1420 01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:49,720 Speaker 1: I asked the question, actually, because I wasn't sure, but 1421 01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:52,880 Speaker 1: I thought maybe all right, Well, a couple of a 1422 01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:54,840 Speaker 1: couple of the interesting facts we've learned in this segment 1423 01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:58,520 Speaker 1: then that we didn't know about before. But okay, well, 1424 01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:02,040 Speaker 1: sorry about that, Alan Fan and uh now he was 1425 01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:08,080 Speaker 1: at the are well, not surprisingly, I didn't watch it. Alan, here, 1426 01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,600 Speaker 1: I'm glad you're alive. Why Why am I thinking? Why? 1427 01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:14,760 Speaker 1: Who was I thinking? I think, yeah, Toby Keith did 1428 01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:16,440 Speaker 1: pass I like Cowey when he was at the a 1429 01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:20,680 Speaker 1: c MS. Okay, well I didn't watch that, so not surprisingly, 1430 01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,200 Speaker 1: but here, let me just make it. Let me make 1431 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,040 Speaker 1: you a little bit of money. I thought, I'm like, 1432 01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:26,640 Speaker 1: I think you said, you're like you? How many times 1433 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:33,880 Speaker 1: Dan looks just his for a second? How many seconds 1434 01:07:33,880 --> 01:07:34,960 Speaker 1: to I have to play for him to make some 1435 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,000 Speaker 1: money to make up for that, because I'm glad that 1436 01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:40,960 Speaker 1: he's alive to sing this song to that you have 1437 01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:54,040 Speaker 1: to play? He sounds very alive here. By the way, 1438 01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,560 Speaker 1: your real is Jason. He knew that he was alive 1439 01:07:56,640 --> 01:08:01,120 Speaker 1: and didn't say anything. It would have Well, we don't, Jason. 1440 01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:02,960 Speaker 1: We don't need to roll with things that we were 1441 01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:05,840 Speaker 1: wrong about. You're more than welcome to let us know 1442 01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:11,440 Speaker 1: when some mu's alive that we thought was dead. The 1443 01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:17,200 Speaker 1: prosecutor is doing an excellent job. Are you serious? Are 1444 01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 1: you serious? Are we watching the same thing? Sorry? Alan, 1445 01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:26,360 Speaker 1: are we watching the same thing? It is a disaster. 1446 01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:30,800 Speaker 1: It is an absolute disaster. And I don't know if 1447 01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:32,920 Speaker 1: it's the prosecutor's fault as much as he is the 1448 01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:35,800 Speaker 1: dummies that he's that that that he has to work with. 1449 01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:38,320 Speaker 1: So it's a new prosecutor because I just finished the 1450 01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:41,439 Speaker 1: docu series. This is a disaster, and I'm sorry, but 1451 01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:45,200 Speaker 1: the defense attorney is Alan Jackson, who's related to not 1452 01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:47,920 Speaker 1: related to the singer. Both very much alive. The Yeah, 1453 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:51,400 Speaker 1: as I was saying, it's never been more alive, Jason 1454 01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:56,439 Speaker 1: stops saying he's dead. Unbelievable. Please don't let us sit 1455 01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:59,840 Speaker 1: here and sound like idiots without correcting us. It's why 1456 01:08:59,880 --> 01:09:02,320 Speaker 1: there are thirty seven people in the room. Surely someone 1457 01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:06,000 Speaker 1: has time to google it. I want to apologize publicly 1458 01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:09,280 Speaker 1: to all the Jacksons, including the ones that were killed 1459 01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:13,280 Speaker 1: off that were very much alive. Goodness, they're alive. I 1460 01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:17,400 Speaker 1: love that. And what are you watching? No, it's it's 1461 01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:20,000 Speaker 1: it's a mess. And the judge is so bod Barb 1462 01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:25,000 Speaker 1: is so biased. Barb is judge too, No, same judge, judge. 1463 01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:26,519 Speaker 1: I believe her name is Barb and we can can 1464 01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:28,360 Speaker 1: we double check that too, since I don't think we're 1465 01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:30,519 Speaker 1: really we're not, We're not really back in a thousand 1466 01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:33,439 Speaker 1: in the facts this morning when we normally don't, but 1467 01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:38,920 Speaker 1: we try. No, it's it's this isn't No. I I 1468 01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:40,600 Speaker 1: do not see how she gets I mean, I can 1469 01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:42,679 Speaker 1: see her getting charged with the it was the lesser 1470 01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:46,000 Speaker 1: charge of manslaughter or something and as as opposed to 1471 01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:48,840 Speaker 1: first thy murder. But I don't even think they can 1472 01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:53,960 Speaker 1: charge you with the reasonable doubt? Is is beyond? Is beyond? Yeah, 1473 01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:57,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never been so into something as 1474 01:09:57,240 --> 01:10:00,840 Speaker 1: I am in this trial. It's crazy. And the second 1475 01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:04,200 Speaker 1: thing that I've been following each day all day, and 1476 01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:06,800 Speaker 1: people have been dming me asking us to talk about 1477 01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:11,400 Speaker 1: this is is a dude named Phoenix. Now Phoenix is 1478 01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:14,160 Speaker 1: sailing from Oregon to Hawaii. You know boat that he 1479 01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:17,360 Speaker 1: bought after he quit his job at discount tire and 1480 01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:19,320 Speaker 1: catched out his four oh one k at a very 1481 01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:22,160 Speaker 1: young age and decided, you know what, forget about it. 1482 01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:25,280 Speaker 1: I'm done I'm done with this, like I've had enough 1483 01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:29,240 Speaker 1: and I'm just going to I'm going to just go 1484 01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:32,280 Speaker 1: on this adventure with my cat. He brought his cat 1485 01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 1: on the boat. I believe we're on day like eleven 1486 01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:35,479 Speaker 1: or something. 1487 01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,839 Speaker 11: He says, day eleven. Yeah, sailing from Oregon to Hawaii 1488 01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:41,880 Speaker 11: with my cat. Yep, this is a thank you video 1489 01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:46,680 Speaker 11: to Crack and Sales. I'm not sponsored. They didn't ask 1490 01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:52,120 Speaker 11: me to do this. There's there's been no I'm just 1491 01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,800 Speaker 11: I'm just saying thank you, is what it is. And 1492 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:58,400 Speaker 11: before I had any big following or anything like that, 1493 01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 11: these guys at Crack and Sales that gave me this 1494 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:06,439 Speaker 11: main sale and a storm jin he kind of heard 1495 01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:09,879 Speaker 11: my story and he knew about my neck. 1496 01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:13,479 Speaker 1: So he's just going on and on about this sale. 1497 01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:16,920 Speaker 1: But nonetheless, this is he's I guess he has like 1498 01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:19,120 Speaker 1: Starling Internet or something, so he's able to update his 1499 01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:21,800 Speaker 1: journey as he goes, which I believe he has another 1500 01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 1: ten days or two weeks left. But yeah, the dude 1501 01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:26,760 Speaker 1: is he and his cat. He just did forget about it. 1502 01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:27,640 Speaker 4: I get it. 1503 01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:30,160 Speaker 1: The judge's name is Beverly, not Barb. It's Bev, not 1504 01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:33,680 Speaker 1: barbing Okay, good, thank you a couple of men. I 1505 01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,640 Speaker 1: don't care. She's terrible. I don't care that what. I 1506 01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:37,360 Speaker 1: don't care about it. She's alive, by the way. 1507 01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:37,840 Speaker 5: She is alive. 1508 01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:40,599 Speaker 1: She's alive. She hangs out with Alan Jackson, the musician, 1509 01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:43,519 Speaker 1: all of them. Yeah, yeah, And I don't think Alan Jackson, 1510 01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:45,519 Speaker 1: the project or the defense attorney will be hanging out 1511 01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:47,680 Speaker 1: with with Bev when this is all over. I knew 1512 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:50,920 Speaker 1: it was one of those bees. Yeah, Bev Barb. It's 1513 01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:52,599 Speaker 1: interesting that you would have the same judge. 1514 01:11:52,600 --> 01:11:54,519 Speaker 9: I'm just very fascinated by the whole thing and the 1515 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:57,040 Speaker 9: fact that it was a mistrial and they couldn't come 1516 01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:57,960 Speaker 9: to an agreement. 1517 01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:03,519 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah. And I realized that the burden is 1518 01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:07,519 Speaker 1: less on manslaughter. I do not again a bunch of 1519 01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:10,200 Speaker 1: things that if you come to us for facts, please 1520 01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:13,880 Speaker 1: don't then you should listen to someone else. But because 1521 01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:15,479 Speaker 1: we try and get it right, but we usually don't, 1522 01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:18,680 Speaker 1: I believe the burden is less for manslaughter than it 1523 01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:20,760 Speaker 1: is for first screen murder. But I don't see how 1524 01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:24,000 Speaker 1: you can. I don't see how you can. The ineptitude 1525 01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:27,000 Speaker 1: is unbelievable. Yeah, I don't know how you can you 1526 01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:28,360 Speaker 1: could convict her of anything at. 1527 01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:30,160 Speaker 9: This point, yeah, because one of them is like, you 1528 01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:33,280 Speaker 9: were acting carelessly and someone died, but it wasn't intentional. 1529 01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:35,640 Speaker 1: And one of them is that was my intention to 1530 01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:38,479 Speaker 1: kill you. Honestly, I don't think it was either. I 1531 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,960 Speaker 1: don't think it. But anyway, you should follow this guy 1532 01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:44,680 Speaker 1: because the very inspiring story Phoenix sailing with Phoenix, and 1533 01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:47,000 Speaker 1: he's got a gazillion followers and people are doing this thing. 1534 01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:49,320 Speaker 1: What would you do, though, if you just one day 1535 01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:51,599 Speaker 1: you woke up and you said enough, enough is enough. 1536 01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:54,599 Speaker 1: I'm catching in my non existent four oh one k yep, 1537 01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:57,720 Speaker 1: and I'm what would you do? Like, what would be 1538 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:00,880 Speaker 1: if you could just if it didn't matter to you 1539 01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:03,320 Speaker 1: in that moment and you just wanted to free yourself 1540 01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:06,240 Speaker 1: of all of this? What would you do, Kiki? Go 1541 01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,760 Speaker 1: to Cabo, live in on a resort and start a 1542 01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:11,240 Speaker 1: pat Well, we need some money for that? Well you 1543 01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:14,240 Speaker 1: said I catched him and I didn't care whoa. I 1544 01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:17,400 Speaker 1: just went out there. Well okay, okay, Now how long 1545 01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:20,400 Speaker 1: would you live? And said resort? Oh, I want to 1546 01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:23,920 Speaker 1: live there forever. That's a very expensive thing to do. Yes, 1547 01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:28,720 Speaker 1: I would like to live there forever. Okay, Kaitlin, it's like, hey, 1548 01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:30,240 Speaker 1: you know what, forget about it. We're done with this. 1549 01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:34,160 Speaker 1: I would miss you guys too much. No, but really no, 1550 01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:38,240 Speaker 1: I literally would I. Oh maybe a cabin, but I 1551 01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 1: think I would go crazy after a little while. Can 1552 01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:42,080 Speaker 1: I be a snowbird? Would you go by yourself? 1553 01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:42,840 Speaker 3: No? 1554 01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:46,799 Speaker 1: I love people. Okay, yeah, all right, Jason. 1555 01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:49,200 Speaker 10: I would go live on a farm, but have someone 1556 01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:50,559 Speaker 10: else do the farm work, and I would just live 1557 01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:53,519 Speaker 10: on it in the middle of nowhere. Just okay, Mike 1558 01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:56,040 Speaker 10: and our animals. So would you do any of the 1559 01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,080 Speaker 10: work or no? No, oh, you wouldn't do it anymore. 1560 01:13:58,240 --> 01:13:59,800 Speaker 10: I'd just like go live on TikTok and get money 1561 01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:00,000 Speaker 10: that way. 1562 01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:04,560 Speaker 1: Well that's and I don't think this guy necessarily intended 1563 01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:07,080 Speaker 1: to become as famous as he has. But I'm sure 1564 01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:08,439 Speaker 1: he's going to make write a book and make a 1565 01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:10,400 Speaker 1: ton of money. So it worked out for him. Oh yeah, 1566 01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:11,920 Speaker 1: but he was done. He was done with his nine 1567 01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:13,560 Speaker 1: to five, he was done with his retail jobs. I 1568 01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:15,400 Speaker 1: forget about him. Minus boat, I'm doing the thing. What 1569 01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:16,240 Speaker 1: would you do, Paulina? 1570 01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:18,439 Speaker 7: Honestly, I just pack up and go to Palm Springs. 1571 01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:20,160 Speaker 7: I'm gonna do that anyway when I'm like sixty five. 1572 01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:21,400 Speaker 7: But I'll get ahead start. 1573 01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:24,400 Speaker 1: Would you take your daughter and your husband with you? Absolutely? 1574 01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:26,960 Speaker 1: My husband will be at the casino. My daughter. Well 1575 01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:30,680 Speaker 1: that's a bad plan already. Yeah, budget, but let's go 1576 01:14:30,760 --> 01:14:31,280 Speaker 1: to the casino. 1577 01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:32,559 Speaker 7: Well, that's the only way I'm going to get him 1578 01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:35,439 Speaker 7: out there, and then I will be living in the desert. 1579 01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:37,240 Speaker 7: You're from the desert, you know what it's like. It's 1580 01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:37,680 Speaker 7: a good time. 1581 01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:41,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I am from the desert. You're right, Yeah, it ezy. 1582 01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:44,880 Speaker 1: I guess if money didn't matter, then i'd fly or 1583 01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:47,080 Speaker 1: fred I would just start flying and just go and 1584 01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:48,599 Speaker 1: go and go and go and go and go as 1585 01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:51,680 Speaker 1: far as I could possibly go, and thenute someone. I 1586 01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:54,719 Speaker 1: would just everywhere. Right, Well, yeah, I'd head towards Europe 1587 01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:57,880 Speaker 1: and then I would would take me forever. Wait, you can't. Yeah, 1588 01:14:58,080 --> 01:14:59,840 Speaker 1: in theory, I could do it. Yeah, and then I 1589 01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:02,479 Speaker 1: just I would. I don't know I would, because once 1590 01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:04,479 Speaker 1: you're over there, then it's kind of unlimited the stuff 1591 01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:06,800 Speaker 1: you could see and then find my way back somehow. 1592 01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:08,880 Speaker 1: That's what I would do. I still love it. Crazy 1593 01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:12,480 Speaker 1: you thought you would love COVID and then you were outside. 1594 01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:17,120 Speaker 1: Look like in terms of like, well much more than 1595 01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:20,120 Speaker 1: this is the same person who killed Alan Jackson. So 1596 01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:26,000 Speaker 1: I patient zero. You started COVID. If you had asked me, 1597 01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:30,439 Speaker 1: if you had asked me before COVID a pandemic, there's 1598 01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:32,840 Speaker 1: a world where you could work from your house and 1599 01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:34,960 Speaker 1: it would be okay with it, and you didn't have 1600 01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:39,160 Speaker 1: to leave unless you wanted to, and you didn't have 1601 01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:42,200 Speaker 1: to shower or shave or do anything, and you could still, 1602 01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:43,479 Speaker 1: you know, make the same amount of money and have 1603 01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:45,479 Speaker 1: you know, the ratings would be fine or whatever else. 1604 01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:47,800 Speaker 1: I would have told you that is an amazing thing 1605 01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:50,640 Speaker 1: and I want that, And it happened. It happened, and 1606 01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:53,240 Speaker 1: then for about three days it was and then the 1607 01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:55,280 Speaker 1: fourth day I was like, nope, forget about it. We'll 1608 01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:58,160 Speaker 1: getting COVID. Come to work. And we all decided that collectively, 1609 01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,519 Speaker 1: and then we all got COVID. But some of us 1610 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:02,559 Speaker 1: who took longer than others, and some of us got 1611 01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:05,280 Speaker 1: it multiple times before the other people did. But no, I, 1612 01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:07,479 Speaker 1: in fact did not. I need a little bit of 1613 01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:10,360 Speaker 1: human interaction, I've decided, And to do this show from 1614 01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:13,120 Speaker 1: separate locations is impossible. Yeah, I have to look at 1615 01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:16,840 Speaker 1: all of your shining faces each day. So I said, 1616 01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:18,479 Speaker 1: listening to the show this morning, I feel like I'm high, 1617 01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:22,759 Speaker 1: just today, just today, first text ever from that person. 1618 01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:27,559 Speaker 1: We're we're going to being high. So that those are 1619 01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:30,040 Speaker 1: the two things that I'm following very closely. I'm following 1620 01:16:30,120 --> 01:16:32,120 Speaker 1: well well. First of all, the health of Alan Jackson 1621 01:16:32,200 --> 01:16:34,599 Speaker 1: is the first, and I hope he's in great health. 1622 01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:38,120 Speaker 1: And the second is the Karen Reid trial. And the 1623 01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,760 Speaker 1: third is this dude's sailing his boat with a cat, 1624 01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:43,080 Speaker 1: with a cat, and a lot of people are worried 1625 01:16:43,080 --> 01:16:44,920 Speaker 1: about the cat. I'm a little worried about the cat 1626 01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:47,240 Speaker 1: because I don't I have not seen any of the 1627 01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:49,479 Speaker 1: videos him attached to any kind of leash or rope 1628 01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:52,320 Speaker 1: or anything. So my concern would be that kitty cat 1629 01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,320 Speaker 1: would just get a little comfy on this boat after 1630 01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:55,960 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks and get up on the deck 1631 01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:59,320 Speaker 1: and it gets very wavy, you know, very rough seas. 1632 01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:01,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure sure he's aware of that, but I'm worried 1633 01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:03,679 Speaker 1: about the cat. And another thing is a cat didn't 1634 01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:05,960 Speaker 1: get a vote in this, like does the cat really 1635 01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:10,600 Speaker 1: want to do this right? And that reminds me of 1636 01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:12,519 Speaker 1: you want to hear a high thought. Here's a high thought, 1637 01:17:12,600 --> 01:17:14,720 Speaker 1: and then we'll move on to Takiki's court. Here's a 1638 01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:16,519 Speaker 1: high and I've had I've shared this with you before. 1639 01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:19,479 Speaker 1: But the other day we were in Canada. Okay, we 1640 01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:21,960 Speaker 1: went there for a conference that was last week, and 1641 01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:24,439 Speaker 1: we got a little plane. Because we flew a little plane, 1642 01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:27,479 Speaker 1: little airline, and the boss is on there. You were 1643 01:17:27,520 --> 01:17:29,560 Speaker 1: on their kiki and that was all that could go 1644 01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:31,320 Speaker 1: on the plane actually, because you could barely think get 1645 01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:33,479 Speaker 1: off the ground. I love what I was asking if 1646 01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:35,400 Speaker 1: I could sit up front of the airplane because it 1647 01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:37,640 Speaker 1: had a little more leg room. The lady goes, I 1648 01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:40,519 Speaker 1: don't know, we're pretty nose heavy today. Like when the 1649 01:17:40,600 --> 01:17:42,960 Speaker 1: lady from the airline is saying, I don't know if 1650 01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:44,920 Speaker 1: that would work because like so you're saying if I 1651 01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:48,639 Speaker 1: sit in the front, and I'm a pilot, so I'm 1652 01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:50,479 Speaker 1: familiar with weight and balance, but it's like, so you're 1653 01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:53,799 Speaker 1: telling me that my placement in the front could potentially 1654 01:17:53,880 --> 01:17:56,760 Speaker 1: mean we don't get to fly, Like I don't maybe 1655 01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:59,280 Speaker 1: I'll sit in the back. Then I'd be okay with him. 1656 01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:02,040 Speaker 1: But there were there, they were like, I don't know 1657 01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:03,800 Speaker 1: what they were nats or what they were, but there's 1658 01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:06,200 Speaker 1: like some little bugs flying around in the plane, And 1659 01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:10,639 Speaker 1: I thought, do these bugs realize they may not live 1660 01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:14,680 Speaker 1: in Canada anymore? Like they flew onto this plane and 1661 01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:16,800 Speaker 1: then we're about to go land in the United States, 1662 01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:18,320 Speaker 1: and then when they open the door, what if they 1663 01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:21,760 Speaker 1: fly out? Do they was just on purpose? Did they 1664 01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:24,600 Speaker 1: realize were they making an escape because they may go 1665 01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:26,720 Speaker 1: on the wrong way. You know, I don't know how 1666 01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:29,680 Speaker 1: many Canadians wanted to accidentally wake up and live here 1667 01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:33,000 Speaker 1: or vice versa. So like this, I swear I'm not high, 1668 01:18:33,080 --> 01:18:35,519 Speaker 1: But do you ever think about that? Like a bug, 1669 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:38,080 Speaker 1: like a little fly, flies onto the United plane and 1670 01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:41,920 Speaker 1: before long they're in you know, Europe somewhere, and now 1671 01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:44,400 Speaker 1: they live there. What if they don't speak the language? 1672 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,080 Speaker 6: That must be a fun part about being a bug, 1673 01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:49,200 Speaker 6: Like that's the adventure. You wake up and you never 1674 01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:50,479 Speaker 6: know where you're gonna end up. 1675 01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:53,200 Speaker 1: I just I wondered about these bugs. I'm like, I 1676 01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:55,439 Speaker 1: hope they stay on the plane. Maybe they're smartness they 1677 01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:58,240 Speaker 1: know to stand on a plane. Anyway. I swam that high, 1678 01:18:58,280 --> 01:19:00,080 Speaker 1: but that was my I really did. I sat the I. 1679 01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:02,439 Speaker 1: I was really tired, but I stared at these guys 1680 01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:04,200 Speaker 1: and I'm like, should I should I show them out 1681 01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:07,000 Speaker 1: so they can go home? Right before we take off. 1682 01:19:07,360 --> 01:19:08,920 Speaker 1: They have a passport that's real. Man. 1683 01:19:09,200 --> 01:19:09,600 Speaker 3: No, I was. 1684 01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:12,000 Speaker 1: I was worried about it. I was extremely worried about 1685 01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:13,920 Speaker 1: it and the tariffs and everything. It's a crazy time. 1686 01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:21,479 Speaker 1: Kiki's Court two minutes A fresh show It's Geeky's Court 1687 01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:24,479 Speaker 1: goes new segment alert. I swear I'm not high, but no, 1688 01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:28,040 Speaker 1: it's been a segment. Thank you. No, it's been one 1689 01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:29,960 Speaker 1: for some time, but welcome if you're new to the thing. 1690 01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:33,759 Speaker 1: A lot of people are worried about the bugs. Several 1691 01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:35,680 Speaker 1: of my personal friends have texted me and said, no, 1692 01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:39,880 Speaker 1: that's it's valid, like the culture shock for these bugs. 1693 01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:42,680 Speaker 1: You know you land and you're like, where am I? 1694 01:19:44,160 --> 01:19:46,240 Speaker 1: And then also, I don't know how many things we 1695 01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:49,439 Speaker 1: screwed up in that last segment factually, but the cat's 1696 01:19:49,520 --> 01:19:51,400 Speaker 1: name is Oliver, or the due's name is Oliver, the 1697 01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:54,840 Speaker 1: cat's name is Phoenix. It doesn't matter. You knew what 1698 01:19:54,920 --> 01:19:57,240 Speaker 1: I was talking about. Thank you for correcting me, And 1699 01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:59,519 Speaker 1: I'm fine with that. But everyone knew I was talking 1700 01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:03,880 Speaker 1: about doing it the boat. Okay, quit his job exactly. 1701 01:20:04,439 --> 01:20:06,200 Speaker 1: I think about this fantasy all the time. I do, 1702 01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:09,360 Speaker 1: I really do. I think about like, because it's radio, 1703 01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:11,880 Speaker 1: and they'll one day they'll build make me get up 1704 01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:13,479 Speaker 1: at four in the morning, come in here, do a show, 1705 01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:15,080 Speaker 1: and then when I walk out, they'll be standing there 1706 01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:17,160 Speaker 1: and they'll say, you know, it's been nice. You can 1707 01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:21,320 Speaker 1: get the hell out of here. It's radio. It will happen. Yeah, Unfortunately, 1708 01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:23,640 Speaker 1: it's the way it is. And you guys can you know, 1709 01:20:23,800 --> 01:20:25,760 Speaker 1: protest if you want or whatever. But it's just this, 1710 01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:28,880 Speaker 1: this is a business that we work in, and I've 1711 01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:30,600 Speaker 1: thought about the fantasy of like, oh my god, I 1712 01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,879 Speaker 1: would I would immediately just go right to the airport 1713 01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:34,519 Speaker 1: and get a ticket and I would just go and 1714 01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:36,679 Speaker 1: I would you'd never see me again. And that would 1715 01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:39,120 Speaker 1: work for about the first probably three hours, and then 1716 01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:41,400 Speaker 1: I'd be on that plane. I'd be like, yes, wait up, 1717 01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:42,880 Speaker 1: and then I'd go, oh my god, I don't have 1718 01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:44,639 Speaker 1: a job. And then the rest of the trip would 1719 01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:46,360 Speaker 1: be ruined because I'd be freaking out the whole time. 1720 01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:47,680 Speaker 1: I don't think I have it in me just to go, 1721 01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:52,040 Speaker 1: you know what, Let Alan Jackson take the wheel. Either 1722 01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,120 Speaker 1: one of them, the defense attorney or the very alive 1723 01:20:54,200 --> 01:20:59,400 Speaker 1: country set All right, Kiki's court judge, Kiki, Hey, what 1724 01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:02,439 Speaker 1: say you? Who is hot in his robe? Let's get 1725 01:21:02,479 --> 01:21:03,280 Speaker 1: into the courtroom. 1726 01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:06,479 Speaker 6: This one says Heiki Key, Am I wrong for feeling 1727 01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:09,240 Speaker 6: a new level of hate for my daughter in law. 1728 01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:12,759 Speaker 6: I'm a sixty year old mom of three adult children, 1729 01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:15,200 Speaker 6: and for over twenty years I've hosted a Mother's Day 1730 01:21:15,240 --> 01:21:15,960 Speaker 6: lunch at my house. 1731 01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:16,960 Speaker 1: It's a tradition. 1732 01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:19,680 Speaker 6: My kids bring flowers, we eat, we laugh, and I 1733 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,160 Speaker 6: get to spend time with the people that I raised. 1734 01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,960 Speaker 6: It means everything to me. This year, my oldest son 1735 01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:29,600 Speaker 6: Ben called and said he would not be coming. He 1736 01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:31,960 Speaker 6: said he was spending the day with his wife, Rachel 1737 01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:35,320 Speaker 6: and their kids. Apparently she asked for a quiet day 1738 01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:38,439 Speaker 6: at home, breakfast in bed, no visitors, and no driving. 1739 01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:39,759 Speaker 1: I was stunned. 1740 01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:42,439 Speaker 6: I couldn't believe she convinced my son to skip the 1741 01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:45,720 Speaker 6: lunch entirely, not even stopping by, not even for an hour. 1742 01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:48,639 Speaker 6: I said, Rachel is not your mother, and this day 1743 01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:51,640 Speaker 6: is not about her. She gets a birthday, she gets anniversaries. 1744 01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:54,760 Speaker 6: Can I have my one day? I told him I 1745 01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:57,120 Speaker 6: felt like he was choosing her over his own mother. 1746 01:21:57,720 --> 01:22:00,320 Speaker 6: He said, Rachel's been stressed with the kids and that 1747 01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:02,600 Speaker 6: this is the only thing that she wanted. I get that, 1748 01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:06,720 Speaker 6: but why does her day dictate what happens with me 1749 01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:09,599 Speaker 6: and my son? He offered to call me and maybe 1750 01:22:09,680 --> 01:22:11,559 Speaker 6: come by later in the week, and I told him 1751 01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:14,559 Speaker 6: that was not the same. So I text his wife 1752 01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:17,160 Speaker 6: and said, listen, I know you lost your mom five 1753 01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:22,439 Speaker 6: years ago, so maybe you don't understand how Yeah, so 1754 01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:25,960 Speaker 6: maybe you don't understand how much these traditions matter, but 1755 01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:26,519 Speaker 6: they matter. 1756 01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:28,479 Speaker 1: Well that's a very messed up way of saying that. 1757 01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:31,880 Speaker 1: But okay, now, yeah, your mom's dead. I don't get it, 1758 01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:33,760 Speaker 1: like well, I had a mom and I do get it. 1759 01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:36,840 Speaker 6: So yeah, yeah, Now he's not speaking to me, and 1760 01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:39,720 Speaker 6: I'm questioning everything. Maybe I was being a bit too 1761 01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:42,600 Speaker 6: old fashioned, maybe I'm holding on too tightly, but it 1762 01:22:42,720 --> 01:22:45,519 Speaker 6: really hurts me that he forgot about his own mother 1763 01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:46,439 Speaker 6: on Mother's Day? 1764 01:22:46,560 --> 01:22:50,880 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? All right? Judge King, I have some thoughts, 1765 01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:53,120 Speaker 1: but it's you. It's your thing. What say you? You're 1766 01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:54,519 Speaker 1: the judge honor. 1767 01:22:54,720 --> 01:22:57,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, she was definitely wrong, so wrong for sending that 1768 01:22:57,840 --> 01:23:01,479 Speaker 6: text message, like you, any fibility that you had before 1769 01:23:01,600 --> 01:23:04,960 Speaker 6: the text is out the window because the wife did 1770 01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:08,080 Speaker 6: not call you and say, you know, he can't come 1771 01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:09,920 Speaker 6: see you. She didn't even tell your son he couldn't 1772 01:23:09,920 --> 01:23:11,680 Speaker 6: come see you. She just said she would like a 1773 01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:14,719 Speaker 6: quiet day at home. Now he decided not to attend 1774 01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:17,519 Speaker 6: the mother's day lunch or whatever, so you could have 1775 01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:19,479 Speaker 6: taken that up with him, But to text her that 1776 01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:23,040 Speaker 6: was so out of a line. Ooh, I think that 1777 01:23:23,160 --> 01:23:24,519 Speaker 6: was out of line. And I think you crossed the 1778 01:23:24,600 --> 01:23:27,280 Speaker 6: line by doing that. And I was with you before 1779 01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:29,360 Speaker 6: that text. Honestly, I was like, hey, you know you 1780 01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 6: are his mom, and it is okay to want to 1781 01:23:31,040 --> 01:23:31,679 Speaker 6: see your kids. 1782 01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:33,280 Speaker 2: And no, no, it is. 1783 01:23:33,439 --> 01:23:35,040 Speaker 1: It's okay to want to see your want to see 1784 01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:35,400 Speaker 1: your kids. 1785 01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:37,840 Speaker 6: You're right to feel like, oh man, you can come by, 1786 01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:39,640 Speaker 6: or you know, at least bring the grandkids. 1787 01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:43,639 Speaker 1: But after you sent that text, girl, I have no sympathy. 1788 01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:45,280 Speaker 1: I think if you live in the same town as 1789 01:23:45,320 --> 01:23:47,880 Speaker 1: your mom and you're married and your wife in this 1790 01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:51,800 Speaker 1: example is a mom, I think you can celebrate both, right, 1791 01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:54,320 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I think breakfast could be about 1792 01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:57,200 Speaker 1: your wife and kids. And she's a mom and you're 1793 01:23:57,280 --> 01:23:59,720 Speaker 1: you know you have obviously you have to celebrate her. 1794 01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:02,080 Speaker 1: He's the mother of your children. But I don't know 1795 01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,160 Speaker 1: why that would prevent you then from later in the 1796 01:24:04,240 --> 01:24:05,920 Speaker 1: day stop it might have seen your ma. I wish 1797 01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:07,799 Speaker 1: I were in the same city as my mom yesterday, 1798 01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:10,080 Speaker 1: so I could have driven over there and said hi. 1799 01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:12,640 Speaker 1: And if I were married with kids, I would have 1800 01:24:12,680 --> 01:24:14,920 Speaker 1: figured out a way because I want I know it's 1801 01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:16,800 Speaker 1: not their mom, but I would probably want my kids 1802 01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:20,000 Speaker 1: to honor their grandmother too, So there's a way to 1803 01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:21,519 Speaker 1: do both. I don't think it has to be one 1804 01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:23,920 Speaker 1: or the other. Now, the text message was out of bound, 1805 01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:27,000 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like, once she sent that text, girl, 1806 01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:28,960 Speaker 1: you are wrong. You're wrong. 1807 01:24:29,000 --> 01:24:31,960 Speaker 6: But Paulina, I hear you over at your wife. I'm 1808 01:24:32,000 --> 01:24:34,960 Speaker 6: a wife and a mother, so let me hear what 1809 01:24:35,520 --> 01:24:35,920 Speaker 6: all right? 1810 01:24:36,080 --> 01:24:38,680 Speaker 7: So I think it's time for mom to put her 1811 01:24:39,320 --> 01:24:41,800 Speaker 7: boob away and it's time to stop breastfeeding her grown son. 1812 01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:44,439 Speaker 7: That's my theory, and I know from how to come 1813 01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:46,759 Speaker 7: from me, and that's okay. I only say that because 1814 01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:48,760 Speaker 7: at the end of the day, you guys know how 1815 01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:50,920 Speaker 7: I feel like this man is now married and he's 1816 01:24:50,960 --> 01:24:53,320 Speaker 7: got a family of his own. Okay, so he can't 1817 01:24:53,360 --> 01:24:54,040 Speaker 7: so he could. 1818 01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:54,400 Speaker 1: Be his mother. 1819 01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:56,720 Speaker 7: But if your wife says, hey, I just want to 1820 01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:58,840 Speaker 7: do breakfast in bed and chill and do our own thing, 1821 01:24:59,120 --> 01:25:00,879 Speaker 7: I think it's okay to start your own traditions. 1822 01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:02,439 Speaker 1: And I stand by that I do. 1823 01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:04,120 Speaker 7: Now, if you want to go and see your mother 1824 01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:06,080 Speaker 7: later in the evening or whatever, that's your own thing. 1825 01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:07,560 Speaker 7: But we don't have to do like a hoho ha 1826 01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:09,479 Speaker 7: parade where like now we're going to go to a 1827 01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:10,519 Speaker 7: brunch and dinner and like. 1828 01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:11,479 Speaker 1: Why is mom? 1829 01:25:14,080 --> 01:25:14,479 Speaker 4: I mean. 1830 01:25:19,280 --> 01:25:21,960 Speaker 1: My mom's who? I mean, why is my mom's who? 1831 01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:22,040 Speaker 6: Ha? 1832 01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:24,280 Speaker 1: And buba like put them away mom. I'm always having 1833 01:25:24,320 --> 01:25:24,680 Speaker 1: to say that. 1834 01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:27,639 Speaker 7: Well, she's acting like it might be because like, oh, yeah, 1835 01:25:27,680 --> 01:25:31,000 Speaker 7: I think you can do both, yeah saying but if 1836 01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:32,680 Speaker 7: your wife says, hey, I don't want to like do 1837 01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:35,559 Speaker 7: all these things of going out and brunching and lunching 1838 01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:37,680 Speaker 7: and dinner, that's okay because it is it is her 1839 01:25:37,760 --> 01:25:39,800 Speaker 7: day too. She's a mother, right, that's the mother of 1840 01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:42,280 Speaker 7: your children. I think that's okay to have your own traditions. 1841 01:25:42,400 --> 01:25:44,240 Speaker 7: If she doesn't want to, and I don't think grandma 1842 01:25:44,360 --> 01:25:46,640 Speaker 7: can get mad at that. I did a brunch at 1843 01:25:46,680 --> 01:25:48,360 Speaker 7: my house yesterday and I invited my mother and my 1844 01:25:48,439 --> 01:25:50,639 Speaker 7: mother in law. But that's the kind of wife mother 1845 01:25:50,760 --> 01:25:52,560 Speaker 7: I am where I want to celebrate with them in 1846 01:25:52,920 --> 01:25:53,320 Speaker 7: my home. 1847 01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:54,680 Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to do it. I didn't want 1848 01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:55,679 Speaker 1: to go out. I didn't want to do anything. 1849 01:25:55,720 --> 01:25:58,639 Speaker 7: After at two o'clock, after a lot of champagne, everybody 1850 01:25:58,760 --> 01:25:59,240 Speaker 7: was out the door. 1851 01:25:59,479 --> 01:26:01,320 Speaker 1: And that's what he did. And that was okay, But 1852 01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:03,720 Speaker 1: that was because that's what I wanted. My husband respected that. 1853 01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:08,240 Speaker 1: I think you got a way to incorporate. I think 1854 01:26:08,240 --> 01:26:10,799 Speaker 1: you got to find a way to incorporate both, because 1855 01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:13,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to get into the game of 1856 01:26:13,080 --> 01:26:15,080 Speaker 1: who's more important. Yes, that's your wife, but that's a 1857 01:26:15,120 --> 01:26:18,320 Speaker 1: different name, that the relationship is different. You don't get 1858 01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:21,120 Speaker 1: to ignore I wouldn't get to ignore my wife, who's 1859 01:26:21,160 --> 01:26:23,400 Speaker 1: the mother of my children on Mother's Day by any means. 1860 01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:27,479 Speaker 1: But I also don't get to ignore my mom either. Now, again, 1861 01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:29,559 Speaker 1: the text message was out of bounce, but she was mad, 1862 01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:31,840 Speaker 1: and I'm not justifying she needs to apologize for that, 1863 01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:35,479 Speaker 1: but she was mad because she felt like she was 1864 01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:38,479 Speaker 1: being prevented access to her son. So maybe it's not 1865 01:26:38,720 --> 01:26:40,760 Speaker 1: a breakfast or a lunch the way that she's used to. 1866 01:26:41,120 --> 01:26:42,920 Speaker 1: But I mean again, if we're in the same city, 1867 01:26:42,960 --> 01:26:44,640 Speaker 1: I can drive across town and I can give my 1868 01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:47,120 Speaker 1: mom flowers or a Mother's Day card. I don't need 1869 01:26:47,200 --> 01:26:49,840 Speaker 1: to I don't need to be attached to you simply 1870 01:26:49,880 --> 01:26:52,559 Speaker 1: because you're my wife. That's not fair either, And I do. 1871 01:26:52,640 --> 01:26:54,760 Speaker 7: Agree with that because I think, you know, like you said, 1872 01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:56,120 Speaker 7: you don't have that where you can just you know, 1873 01:26:56,200 --> 01:26:58,240 Speaker 7: go to your mom's house and drive across the expressway 1874 01:26:58,320 --> 01:27:00,080 Speaker 7: or whatever. My mom's five minutes away. So I do 1875 01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:01,760 Speaker 7: come from a place of privilege, right. You know, my 1876 01:27:01,840 --> 01:27:04,920 Speaker 7: mom is very close to me physically and emotionally, and 1877 01:27:05,120 --> 01:27:07,800 Speaker 7: I understand that. But I do think, like, if your 1878 01:27:07,840 --> 01:27:10,560 Speaker 7: wife is asking for something a little more chill, a 1879 01:27:10,600 --> 01:27:12,120 Speaker 7: little more like, hey, let's do our own things. 1880 01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:15,360 Speaker 1: There are new traditions. I don't think it's it's bad 1881 01:27:15,439 --> 01:27:17,400 Speaker 1: to respect that. Am I wrong? If that's what your 1882 01:27:17,439 --> 01:27:19,639 Speaker 1: wife wants to do, it's tough. 1883 01:27:21,320 --> 01:27:24,120 Speaker 9: I think, yeah, that would be. I would feel crazy, 1884 01:27:24,240 --> 01:27:26,040 Speaker 9: like asking that of my son. Now he is a 1885 01:27:26,120 --> 01:27:27,880 Speaker 9: grown man, you pointed this out, and can make his 1886 01:27:27,920 --> 01:27:30,240 Speaker 9: own decisions. So if Europists take it out on him, 1887 01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:33,680 Speaker 9: I just as like the spouse would never ask you 1888 01:27:33,840 --> 01:27:35,800 Speaker 9: to not see your mom on Mother's Day. I have 1889 01:27:35,880 --> 01:27:39,240 Speaker 9: a lot of respect for that situation. But I think 1890 01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:41,200 Speaker 9: you could do breakfast in bed, and then if she's 1891 01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:42,720 Speaker 9: cool with being alone and she doesn't want to go 1892 01:27:42,760 --> 01:27:44,439 Speaker 9: for a little while, you can go over to your mom's. 1893 01:27:45,160 --> 01:27:47,640 Speaker 9: But I don't think I'm looking at her crazy for 1894 01:27:47,760 --> 01:27:49,760 Speaker 9: asking that. Honestly, I'm not cool. 1895 01:27:50,760 --> 01:27:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm fine with new traditions, and we've talked about this 1896 01:27:53,880 --> 01:27:55,519 Speaker 1: over the years on the show, but I'm not fine 1897 01:27:55,560 --> 01:27:59,000 Speaker 1: with new traditions that alienate family. I don't like that. 1898 01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:01,120 Speaker 1: I mean, if you want to do your own thing, 1899 01:28:02,000 --> 01:28:04,360 Speaker 1: you know, on a holiday, that's fine, But I don't 1900 01:28:04,360 --> 01:28:08,479 Speaker 1: know why that has to exclude everybody else, because I 1901 01:28:08,520 --> 01:28:10,040 Speaker 1: don't think you would like it very much if you 1902 01:28:10,120 --> 01:28:12,360 Speaker 1: were excluded because you were married, Like what if what 1903 01:28:12,600 --> 01:28:14,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. What if the rest of the family 1904 01:28:14,280 --> 01:28:17,160 Speaker 1: is like, oh, well, we didn't necessarily want, you know, 1905 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:20,160 Speaker 1: kids around or whatever, so you guys do your own 1906 01:28:21,080 --> 01:28:23,519 Speaker 1: it seems to be, well, we have our own traditions 1907 01:28:23,640 --> 01:28:25,800 Speaker 1: and we're doing our own thing, and that's separate from 1908 01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:29,000 Speaker 1: this family, but then when they want to be incorporated 1909 01:28:29,040 --> 01:28:30,840 Speaker 1: in the mask group, then it's it's like, I don't think. 1910 01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:33,320 Speaker 1: I don't think it's an a la carte kind of thing. 1911 01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:36,639 Speaker 1: You you can choose your saying, like when I think, yeah, 1912 01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:38,599 Speaker 1: and if that requires a little bit of effort then 1913 01:28:38,800 --> 01:28:40,519 Speaker 1: which means we have to split the day up, or 1914 01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:42,960 Speaker 1: which means that you know, and I get that could 1915 01:28:43,000 --> 01:28:45,719 Speaker 1: be hard when it comes to like Christmas and maybe 1916 01:28:45,800 --> 01:28:48,599 Speaker 1: one person's families here, one person's family's there, Well, then 1917 01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:50,600 Speaker 1: we probably have to rotate or something like that. I 1918 01:28:50,720 --> 01:28:52,400 Speaker 1: just I don't know. Family is so important to me, 1919 01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:54,479 Speaker 1: and I don't like the idea, well that all of 1920 01:28:54,520 --> 01:28:57,640 Speaker 1: a sudden your traditions become more important than mine. They 1921 01:28:57,720 --> 01:29:00,560 Speaker 1: might be, we might have to adjust them, But I 1922 01:29:00,680 --> 01:29:02,120 Speaker 1: mean to say, like, no, you have to stay here 1923 01:29:02,160 --> 01:29:05,400 Speaker 1: all day, you can't go see your mom? Yeah, yes, 1924 01:29:06,840 --> 01:29:08,559 Speaker 1: I don't know how much time we have left with mom. 1925 01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:10,479 Speaker 9: But also once she sent that text, I was out 1926 01:29:10,520 --> 01:29:12,280 Speaker 9: because you can't talk about somebody's dead mom like that, 1927 01:29:12,479 --> 01:29:13,400 Speaker 9: Like that's crazy. 1928 01:29:13,560 --> 01:29:17,040 Speaker 1: I think when families grow, it certainly becomes more complicated 1929 01:29:17,080 --> 01:29:18,640 Speaker 1: and more work, but I think it's worth it. I 1930 01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:21,479 Speaker 1: think you have to do the work, yes, and you 1931 01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:27,080 Speaker 1: have to make compromises too. Hey Clarissa, Yeah. 1932 01:29:27,240 --> 01:29:30,280 Speaker 8: I think Paulina has hi. I think Paulina has it 1933 01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:33,360 Speaker 8: all right. Like she said all the right words exactly 1934 01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:36,200 Speaker 8: what I was thinking. Like it's just inappropriate. The text 1935 01:29:36,360 --> 01:29:39,839 Speaker 8: is way out of line. But also it's really important, 1936 01:29:39,920 --> 01:29:42,000 Speaker 8: you know, as a mother to be recognized, whether it's 1937 01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:45,200 Speaker 8: a mom, mother in law, or even herself. You know, 1938 01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:47,800 Speaker 8: she wanted the opportunity to rest. You know, we don't 1939 01:29:47,840 --> 01:29:49,439 Speaker 8: know if she was to stay home mom, and that's 1940 01:29:49,520 --> 01:29:52,040 Speaker 8: hard being a staying a home mom is harder. Or 1941 01:29:52,200 --> 01:29:54,880 Speaker 8: she does both working again and stay home mom in 1942 01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:57,280 Speaker 8: the evenings, or whatever the case is. You know, to 1943 01:29:57,479 --> 01:29:59,400 Speaker 8: ask for a little bit of time to chill out 1944 01:29:59,800 --> 01:30:02,040 Speaker 8: is really not the heart of a concept to understand. 1945 01:30:02,680 --> 01:30:05,400 Speaker 8: And you know, if the mom wanted an opportunity to 1946 01:30:05,479 --> 01:30:07,720 Speaker 8: see her son, you know, try to the son. It 1947 01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:09,040 Speaker 8: was up to the sun and say, you know what, 1948 01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:12,280 Speaker 8: my wife wants to do this. But if she's okay 1949 01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:14,840 Speaker 8: with it, I'll stop for dessert. I'll bring dessert, or 1950 01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:16,920 Speaker 8: I'll stop by it. You know, we can go for 1951 01:30:17,000 --> 01:30:19,160 Speaker 8: a coffee run or whatever the case is, you know, 1952 01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:22,040 Speaker 8: even if it is up to an hour, but to 1953 01:30:22,160 --> 01:30:24,800 Speaker 8: bring up with the season mother on my that was not. 1954 01:30:24,880 --> 01:30:26,120 Speaker 1: The way to handle that at all. 1955 01:30:27,920 --> 01:30:30,519 Speaker 8: So I think you guys are all saying the right thing. 1956 01:30:31,560 --> 01:30:35,760 Speaker 8: You know, all together, boundaries are super important, and unfortunately 1957 01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:37,519 Speaker 8: the mother crossed this one, and it's going to be 1958 01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:40,120 Speaker 8: hard for her to kind of bring herself back into 1959 01:30:40,920 --> 01:30:43,519 Speaker 8: a circle of trust essentially with the mom who is 1960 01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:44,760 Speaker 8: just trying to rest out. 1961 01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:46,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's gonna be a hard one to walk back. 1962 01:30:46,439 --> 01:30:48,360 Speaker 1: I agree, Clarissa. Thanks, you have a good day. 1963 01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:50,200 Speaker 8: Thank you to you guys. 1964 01:30:51,000 --> 01:30:59,880 Speaker 1: Debbie, Hi, Debbie, good morning. You tell me why? You 1965 01:31:00,240 --> 01:31:00,720 Speaker 1: tell me why? 1966 01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:05,360 Speaker 5: Absolutely ridiculous. The whole thing started with a twenty year tradition. 1967 01:31:05,880 --> 01:31:08,439 Speaker 5: You have twenty years where you have your children. I 1968 01:31:08,520 --> 01:31:10,600 Speaker 5: have two and I didn't even see both of my 1969 01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:14,240 Speaker 5: kids yesterday, and it is hurtful. Oh you see both 1970 01:31:14,280 --> 01:31:16,479 Speaker 5: of your children, Okay. But having said that, if I 1971 01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:19,800 Speaker 5: had a tradition, which we do on certain you know, holidays, 1972 01:31:20,320 --> 01:31:23,920 Speaker 5: if my children then said well, now my daughter, you know, 1973 01:31:24,040 --> 01:31:25,880 Speaker 5: she has a child. If she said, well, now we 1974 01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:27,800 Speaker 5: have another tradition, I would have been like but for 1975 01:31:27,880 --> 01:31:30,280 Speaker 5: the last twenty years. You've given me this and now 1976 01:31:30,320 --> 01:31:34,320 Speaker 5: you're going to take it away from me on Mother's Day. No, 1977 01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:38,320 Speaker 5: you have to rearrange your schedule. You have to say, Okay, 1978 01:31:38,439 --> 01:31:41,840 Speaker 5: my wife wants, you know, breakfast in bed and a 1979 01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:44,160 Speaker 5: quiet day. Great, I've got this off. 1980 01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:46,080 Speaker 3: Plans out, You'll have breakfast. 1981 01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:47,720 Speaker 5: In bed, I will get the kids ready. We're going 1982 01:31:47,800 --> 01:31:49,200 Speaker 5: to go to my mom's and do what I have 1983 01:31:49,320 --> 01:31:51,559 Speaker 5: done for the last twenty years, and then we're going 1984 01:31:51,640 --> 01:31:53,320 Speaker 5: to come back and I'm going to bring you something 1985 01:31:53,400 --> 01:31:57,320 Speaker 5: back for dinner. You know, it's really simple. Everybody could 1986 01:31:57,320 --> 01:31:59,880 Speaker 5: have been happy, but instead it turned into the whole 1987 01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:02,040 Speaker 5: well think of shame on the mom who for sending 1988 01:32:02,080 --> 01:32:05,120 Speaker 5: that terrible texts, Shame on everybody. 1989 01:32:06,320 --> 01:32:10,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a new. 1990 01:32:10,040 --> 01:32:12,200 Speaker 5: Baby, and you're gonna want to do special things for 1991 01:32:12,439 --> 01:32:14,840 Speaker 5: your family, and you're gonna still to, like you said, 1992 01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:15,640 Speaker 5: traditions of. 1993 01:32:15,680 --> 01:32:16,280 Speaker 3: Your very own. 1994 01:32:16,320 --> 01:32:19,080 Speaker 5: But that doesn't mean you have to interfere with other people. 1995 01:32:19,760 --> 01:32:22,000 Speaker 7: And I'm not I am a Yeah, i am an 1996 01:32:22,000 --> 01:32:23,720 Speaker 7: amazing daughter in law and I will say that on 1997 01:32:23,840 --> 01:32:25,800 Speaker 7: this radio lot and proudly. And I'm an amazing mother 1998 01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:28,839 Speaker 7: now when my daughter is older and when she becomes 1999 01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:30,720 Speaker 7: a mother. I'm going to let her pick what she 2000 01:32:30,800 --> 01:32:33,040 Speaker 7: wants to do with her family, because she's going to 2001 01:32:33,080 --> 01:32:35,120 Speaker 7: experience her mother's say when her time comes, I'm going 2002 01:32:35,200 --> 01:32:37,120 Speaker 7: to be old and wrinkly and sitting somewhere at home, 2003 01:32:37,120 --> 01:32:38,720 Speaker 7: at a nursing home. And if they want to come 2004 01:32:38,760 --> 01:32:40,760 Speaker 7: see me, I'll be so happy. And if they don't, 2005 01:32:40,800 --> 01:32:41,680 Speaker 7: I can't be upset with me. 2006 01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:43,400 Speaker 1: I think you could. I think you have a right 2007 01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:44,880 Speaker 1: to be upset if they don't make any effort to 2008 01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:46,880 Speaker 1: see you on Mother's Day. I think that is a fair. Now, 2009 01:32:47,640 --> 01:32:50,000 Speaker 1: it may not be in the form that you want. 2010 01:32:50,439 --> 01:32:52,519 Speaker 1: It may not, you know, to Debbie's point, or I 2011 01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:54,920 Speaker 1: guess sort of counter to your point, the tradition that 2012 01:32:55,000 --> 01:32:58,360 Speaker 1: you have known before another family was created might have 2013 01:32:58,479 --> 01:33:01,840 Speaker 1: to adjust. But for her to be like for her 2014 01:33:01,880 --> 01:33:03,760 Speaker 1: to be like, no, you're staying here all day because 2015 01:33:03,800 --> 01:33:06,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to do anything that shouldn't preclude him 2016 01:33:06,360 --> 01:33:08,200 Speaker 1: from driving across town to see his mom and give 2017 01:33:08,240 --> 01:33:10,160 Speaker 1: her something. Now, mom might not get her way, and 2018 01:33:10,280 --> 01:33:12,400 Speaker 1: wife might not get her way. It's going to have 2019 01:33:12,479 --> 01:33:14,280 Speaker 1: to be compromised. But you might have to put the 2020 01:33:14,320 --> 01:33:16,599 Speaker 1: effort in because that's what family is about. 2021 01:33:16,920 --> 01:33:20,920 Speaker 5: In my opinion, absolutely, yeah, and I want to beat Yeah. 2022 01:33:20,960 --> 01:33:22,559 Speaker 7: I want to be clear though you like I'm okay 2023 01:33:22,640 --> 01:33:24,200 Speaker 7: with like, guess going to see your mom at night 2024 01:33:24,479 --> 01:33:26,280 Speaker 7: or whatever, going to see your mom later in the day. 2025 01:33:26,360 --> 01:33:28,400 Speaker 1: I don't that's nothing wrong with that. But I do 2026 01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:31,560 Speaker 1: think your wife in a sense comes first. She has to, 2027 01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:33,439 Speaker 1: like that is not your new family. 2028 01:33:34,560 --> 01:33:37,720 Speaker 5: Of course your wife comes first some single day. But 2029 01:33:37,880 --> 01:33:41,400 Speaker 5: can your mother have Mother's Day blunch like she has 2030 01:33:41,479 --> 01:33:43,760 Speaker 5: for the last twenty years. Can you not give him back? 2031 01:33:43,880 --> 01:33:46,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? I think I do think there's compromise here. I 2032 01:33:46,439 --> 01:33:50,280 Speaker 1: definitely think compromise. Yeah, Debbie, thank you so much for calling. 2033 01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:52,240 Speaker 1: Have a good day, But that really is that's the 2034 01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:55,240 Speaker 1: bigger question. Like when it comes to Mother's Day, is 2035 01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:57,960 Speaker 1: it your wife or your mother? Because it's it's like 2036 01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:00,200 Speaker 1: Mother's Day has said you should honor the woman who 2037 01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:02,200 Speaker 1: gave birth to you, but then you also have this 2038 01:34:02,320 --> 01:34:04,640 Speaker 1: woman who has given you children, and it's like on 2039 01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:07,160 Speaker 1: that day who really comes first? For a man? 2040 01:34:07,280 --> 01:34:09,080 Speaker 6: I feel sorry for men who have to decide this, 2041 01:34:09,479 --> 01:34:12,240 Speaker 6: but like, seriously, who is the who do you celebrate 2042 01:34:12,280 --> 01:34:12,599 Speaker 6: the most? 2043 01:34:12,720 --> 01:34:15,120 Speaker 1: I think mom has to acquiesce to the wife and 2044 01:34:15,280 --> 01:34:16,960 Speaker 1: the you know, the mother of the kids. But I 2045 01:34:17,000 --> 01:34:19,880 Speaker 1: don't think that means that mom gets ignored, yeah, or 2046 01:34:19,960 --> 01:34:22,080 Speaker 1: doesn't get a visit or do you and you know what, 2047 01:34:22,240 --> 01:34:24,320 Speaker 1: that might suck, that might be a little extra work. 2048 01:34:24,880 --> 01:34:28,439 Speaker 1: But I don't I get new traditions. But I also 2049 01:34:28,520 --> 01:34:29,880 Speaker 1: think it's like, but you want to be part of 2050 01:34:29,960 --> 01:34:33,760 Speaker 1: this family. Oftentimes you you know, mother, mother maybe does 2051 01:34:33,760 --> 01:34:37,599 Speaker 1: a lot of babysitting, mother does maybe's contributing financially. Mother 2052 01:34:37,880 --> 01:34:41,120 Speaker 1: is you know, as a great grandmother. Yeah, So we 2053 01:34:41,200 --> 01:34:44,400 Speaker 1: need to instill that in the kids too. Unfortunately, I 2054 01:34:44,439 --> 01:34:46,880 Speaker 1: think sometimes people just they just draw the line and 2055 01:34:46,920 --> 01:34:48,920 Speaker 1: pick and choose which parts of family they want and 2056 01:34:48,960 --> 01:34:51,479 Speaker 1: which parts of family they don't want. And that's that's 2057 01:34:51,800 --> 01:34:54,320 Speaker 1: very damaging. I think I think it's just gonna be 2058 01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:56,599 Speaker 1: more work. But I think you had to do both. 2059 01:34:56,720 --> 01:34:58,760 Speaker 1: It's more work, it's good. It's gonna be rewarding though. 2060 01:34:58,800 --> 01:35:00,559 Speaker 7: It's gonna be rewarding because, like you said, then your 2061 01:35:00,640 --> 01:35:03,120 Speaker 7: children can see, you know, you're gonna celebrate your mother, 2062 01:35:03,240 --> 01:35:05,479 Speaker 7: and you can celebrate grandma if Grandma's still with us. 2063 01:35:05,600 --> 01:35:08,320 Speaker 7: Like those are okay and everything's okay with that. Those 2064 01:35:08,320 --> 01:35:10,760 Speaker 7: are great traditions to have. My whole point was that 2065 01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:12,960 Speaker 7: the mom just has to come first, and if she 2066 01:35:12,960 --> 01:35:15,560 Speaker 7: doesn't want to come to brunch, lunch, dinner, whatever, she 2067 01:35:15,680 --> 01:35:16,240 Speaker 7: can stay back. 2068 01:35:16,280 --> 01:35:18,760 Speaker 1: And that should be okay for everybody. Everybody should respect that, 2069 01:35:19,000 --> 01:35:21,360 Speaker 1: all right. I wish we get to all these phone calls. 2070 01:35:21,439 --> 01:35:24,920 Speaker 1: We can't. The fun Fact is next day here more Freadshew, 2071 01:35:25,360 --> 01:35:29,479 Speaker 1: Next the Fread Show is on. Yeah, Fread's fun Fact 2072 01:35:30,120 --> 01:35:40,840 Speaker 1: Bread Fun learn us so much? Guys, did you know 2073 01:35:41,400 --> 01:35:44,920 Speaker 1: that bees? The bees? I haven't seen that lady on 2074 01:35:44,960 --> 01:35:47,360 Speaker 1: TikTok in a while, and then other day's eating the bees. 2075 01:35:48,400 --> 01:35:52,880 Speaker 1: Bees can get drunk on fermented tree sap. Same, oh yeah, 2076 01:35:53,000 --> 01:35:55,400 Speaker 1: same same on the way in here, I tap a 2077 01:35:55,439 --> 01:35:59,160 Speaker 1: tree and in Grant Park and I that's why the 2078 01:35:59,240 --> 01:36:02,599 Speaker 1: show sometimes a little cool cool. It doesn't go well 2079 01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:05,240 Speaker 1: for those who partake, though. Bees that get drunk on 2080 01:36:05,439 --> 01:36:09,400 Speaker 1: fermented tree sap are often attacked by the sober bees 2081 01:36:09,680 --> 01:36:13,200 Speaker 1: and deny access to the hive. Like you drunk, get 2082 01:36:13,240 --> 01:36:17,160 Speaker 1: out of here, can't be drunken here? Same thing happens. 2083 01:36:17,400 --> 01:36:19,000 Speaker 1: You know, I show up with a little be sap. 2084 01:36:19,040 --> 01:36:21,120 Speaker 1: Everyone's like, I can see it. Then I can smell 2085 01:36:21,160 --> 01:36:24,920 Speaker 1: that bee sap on your breath. Fread go home like 2086 01:36:25,040 --> 01:36:26,920 Speaker 1: I want more, be SAP. They're like, no, you can't. 2087 01:36:28,200 --> 01:36:30,800 Speaker 1: More thread show next up