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All thanks to Live Nation. 11 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: This is what my niece who turns five on Saturday. 12 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: This is one of her favorite songs, the whole K 13 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: Pop thing, And she called meuse she facetimed me yesterday 14 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 1: to show me her American doll girl that she got 15 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: American dolls. My mom, Mimi, Hermimi bought her an American 16 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: doll girl. Who did what do you know what? She 17 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: got her one that looks like look's kind of like her. Okay, 18 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: she was showing me everything, absolutely everything. I remember that 19 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: showed me everything of the rainbow socks and the little 20 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: doll even had underwear, and I needed to see that 21 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: that she has to take them to the store to 22 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: have lunch with their American doll girls. It's an American 23 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: doll girls. American. No, I didn't say it wrong, guys. 24 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: She said what she said, you don't need to text me. 25 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: It's an American doll girl. And she kept saying it, 26 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: and that's what it is. And that's what happened. How 27 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: cute did you go to the camp? Was? It was? 28 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: It was very cute. I can't wait for those days. 29 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: And then a little chunky little May who's like two, 30 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: just goes, hi, that's we And then no, that's such 31 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: a second child. But not no, because she doesn't want 32 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,759 Speaker 1: to do it. Just know because she knows that word. 33 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 1: That's her word. Yeah, I'll be like, hi, made. 34 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 2: No, that's a great word to know. I still don't 35 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 2: know their words. 36 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: Let me I learned it. It feels great. Is it good? 37 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 3: So good? 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: It took me? Oh, I don't know, forty years, but 39 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: I did it though. A teacher texted, we're not off 40 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: three months, but we love you, okay, the configure speach 41 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: summer three months. I didn't. I don't whatever. 42 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 4: To be fair, we hate when people are like, oh, 43 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 4: you're done you know, at ten am, we had nothing 44 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 4: else to do. 45 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 2: So to be fair, maybe the teachers want to Yeah, 46 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:03,559 Speaker 2: I don't. 47 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: Know if it's eight weeks, if it's six, if it's whatever. 48 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: It is is that there's a time in the summer 49 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: where teachers have less to do many and then don't 50 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: text me and say, some of us teach summer in school. 51 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: I know that, but you know what I mean. You 52 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,119 Speaker 1: know what I mean. There are very few jobs where 53 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: there is you know, times of the and I'm not 54 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: I'm not diminishing it. I'm just saying that it doesn't 55 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: work with me. When I'm talking to one of these 56 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: people and then it's like, hey, what are we doing today, 57 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. My life didn't change fundamentally 58 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: like yours did. The show is on Friend's Biggest Stories 59 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 1: of the day, and that reminds me, did I tell 60 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: this story recently? Because I don't know why I'm thinking 61 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: of one particular teacher. This was probably a decade ago, 62 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: and this is that's the girl I'm thinking of though, 63 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: when very nice girl we were dating and it's hey, 64 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: what are we doing, I'm like, well, we're not, because 65 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: you know, I'm at work and that's cool that you're not. 66 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: She didn't do anything for the summer. So that's why 67 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: I'm about that, right, that was my experience. And then 68 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: she calls me, one did did I tell the story 69 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 1: about the Bachelor? Or was I telling it to someone else? 70 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: It doesn't maagine whatever. She calls me and she goes, hey, 71 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: I got a call from a casting director for the 72 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: Bachelor and I'm thinking about going on and that we'd 73 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: only eve been talking for like a couple of weeks. 74 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: And I'm going, I mean, okay, okay, like you know, 75 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: we're just hanging out, but you want to go into Bachelor. 76 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: But that's I mean, that's probably not gonna bode well 77 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: for me. She's like, well, I'm not gonna win. Like 78 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: I'll probably be back in like a few days, you know, 79 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: and I'll be on TV and what you know what, 80 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, but what am I supposed to tell my friend, 81 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: like the girl i'm dating when I'm a bachelor and 82 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: she might come back to me, she might not, you know, 83 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: it's like whatever. And then so we I'm like, yeah, 84 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: you know you don't want me anything. I've known you 85 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,839 Speaker 1: for twenty minutes, Like do whatever you want. To do. Yeah, 86 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: but I could travel the world and the whole thing, 87 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: and and the show is really hot at the time, 88 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I mean go, then go. It's all 89 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: good like and it wouldn't be the first time I 90 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: dated a girl. It was the back Slourette and then 91 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: came back. She went to The Bachelor. We weren't dating 92 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: at the time. She came back, we dated it briefly again, 93 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: and then she went anyway, doesn't matter. I love her too. 94 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: She's wonderful. But so she decides not to do it. Okay, 95 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: decides not to go on. No, not for me. She 96 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: just decides I'm not going to do it. I'm not 97 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 1: gonna go on the show, and then about I don't know. 98 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: Six months later, she texts me and she goes, I 99 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: owe you a thank you, and we weren't talking anymore. 100 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, why is that? Because it turns out the 101 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: person who was the casting director was recruiting for that 102 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: show where everybody went on the thing and they thought 103 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: that the guy was a millionaire, but he was broke. 104 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: Remember that show, They like they would look just like 105 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: The Bachelor was on Fox. They flew everyone to some 106 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: like resort and they all competed for this guy that 107 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: they never said or no, it was a guy who 108 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: was supposed to be the Prince. It was supposed to 109 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: be like Prince Harry, but he looked like Prince Harry, 110 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: but they never said that it was, but it wasn't. 111 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: It was one of those boy it was one where 112 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: basically you were getting and everyone looks stupid and so 113 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: it wasn't really the bad so they were trying to 114 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: make it seem like it was, but it was really 115 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: this other show where like in the end, you win 116 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 1: someone who's not who they say that who they proclaim 117 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 1: it is. So you hear you think you were gonna 118 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: be with like this prince, That's what it was. You 119 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: thought you were gonna wind up with royalty and then 120 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: the guy was just a normal dude who looked like 121 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: Prince Harry. That's what it was. Mike, You're welcome. Didn't 122 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 1: what you eat? 123 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 3: Nope? 124 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: Nope, nope. Why did you guys end up? I know, 125 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. Probably because you'd want to hang out 126 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: on Wednesday, and I see. 127 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 5: That's fair. 128 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 1: I have no idea. I'm a strange person. No, she 129 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: was great. I wish it well, I'm sure she's married 130 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: in the suburbs with four kids. Now, that's what happens 131 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 1: to everyone I date. If you have any aspiration of 132 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: being married in the suburbs with two to four children, 133 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 1: then hang out with me for a couple of weeks 134 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: because the next person you date will inevitably be the 135 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 1: person who you And I'm not saying that's great because 136 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: I think some of them are divorced already, but like, 137 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: you know, that's what will happen to you. I promise. 138 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is like the EXPERI it's 139 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: just so bad that you wind up like, Okay, I 140 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: need to log it down because it's just awful. 141 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 4: Make that your dating app profile. I would think that's 142 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 4: hysterical that I'm good luck Chuck. Yeah, if you were like, 143 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 4: if you want to get married and settled down, date me, 144 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 4: because it always happens that the next guy is the 145 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 4: way And like, I think that was so funny. 146 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm sure I'll wind up on some message board for 147 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: that too. Sad news to start the morning, those civil 148 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: rights icon on two time presidential candidate Reverend Jesse Jackson 149 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: passed away early this morning at the age of eighty four. 150 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: No stranger to this place. On any given day, you'd 151 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: walk out and see him here. In fact, one day 152 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: he walked in in the middle of a broadcast and 153 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 1: gave Pauline a kiss and walked out. Yep, the camp 154 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: it on the area. Yeah, that man rest in peace. 155 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: But that is very true. And you did not know him. No, No, 156 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 1: he walked in like he knew us though I thought 157 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: he was. I thought he was, just I don't. I 158 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: was saying hello, and next thing, you know, like you know, 159 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: we're smooching. 160 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, it's my favorite story, and then he 161 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 4: just leaves and then we're left with. 162 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: That little nugget. Yeah nothing. I didn't know he did 163 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: it like a national show here on Sundays for a 164 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: long time. I didn't know that. And when I first 165 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: started working here all those years ago, I show up 166 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: on a Sunday and like, there he is. I'm like, oh, 167 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: I'm like looking around, like where am I Like, oh, reverend. 168 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: You know, It's like okay, all right, I had a time. 169 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: Why is he here? Just like getting coffee? Where I 170 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: get coffee? Like doesn't seem right, Like oh yeah, every 171 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: Sunday he's there. Yeah, ne show is still on. Yeah. Yeah, 172 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: his daughter, his daughter, does it now? All right? Yeah, 173 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: all right? Pen him. Authorities announced that they have officially 174 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: cleared Nancy Guthrie's family of any involvement in her suspected abduction. 175 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: Shouldn't they. I mean, this has been going on now 176 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: for over two weeks and we're just not getting around 177 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: to that. This whole thing is so bumbled. It's so 178 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: sad because it just doesn't seem like it. I saw 179 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: a TikTok heatherday. I don't know if I said up 180 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: to one of you guys, but it's like, long, get this, 181 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: and I realized there are, you know, a lot of 182 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: missing person's cases, and there's a lot, there's a lot 183 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: of this is a complicated one and whatever. But like 184 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 1: the person on TikTok said, we went in to a 185 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: foreign nation and extracted the president of the nation in 186 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: the middle of the night and got him out of 187 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: like a vault, and then before anybody even knew, he 188 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: was in a jail in New York. And but we 189 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: don't know where this person is. Like this, the whole 190 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: thing is so fishy to me. And why is TMZ 191 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: at the middle of the whole thing? Did they take her? 192 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm starting to think Harvey Levin knows exactly what to. 193 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: Keep in letters? Who keeps writing him in these letters? 194 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: Harvey Levin knows more than anybody. What have we gotten 195 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: around to stop him by his house or something? Nancy, 196 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: I'm with you for it. What's that? I think he might? 197 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: The local sheriff said that investigators found no evidence linking 198 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: relatives to the crime and wanted to remove that cloud publicly. However, 199 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: despite clearing them, officials still have not identified or named 200 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: a suspect. Meanwhile, TMZ has received a fourth letter. There's 201 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: a guy who's claiming that he knows where she is 202 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: and for one bitcoin he'll tell him. And so part 203 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 1: of me and a lot of people on the internet 204 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 1: are saying this too. Then just pay it, TMZ. Give 205 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: the man sixty six thousand dollars and see what he 206 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: has to say. He apparently trusts you. You got sixty 207 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 1: six grand, You've gotten plenty of mileage out of this thing. 208 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 1: Just pay the guy and see what he says. But 209 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, how do we know this 210 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: guy is legitimate? How do we know? Yeah, it's just 211 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: like I. 212 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 2: Hope no one takes one of y'all and acts a 213 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 2: bitcoin because I don't know how to work a bitcoin. 214 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: That is one like, you know, you don't know your concern. Yeah, 215 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: one of my kids kidnapped KIK. He's like, dude, I 216 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: don't know how to use bitcoin bitcoin. I'm like, girl, 217 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 1: please let me sell you. I don't know how do 218 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,839 Speaker 1: you use bitcoin at home? All this bitcoin? So I 219 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: would not be able to find us. I would not Yeah, 220 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: I would just like keep them. Oh sounds. It just 221 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 1: seems like a circus A call, friend. I don't know, 222 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,079 Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever seen anything like this before. 223 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: But you get every media out. I mean, I realized 224 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: it's a relative of a famous person, which obviously elevates 225 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: that the stature of the you know, the attention to 226 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: the whole thing. But like as tm I mean TMC 227 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: finds himself in the middle of all kinds of news stuff. 228 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: But like, why are we Why do I go to 229 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: Harvey Levin now to see what's going on with this 230 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:13,359 Speaker 1: with a kidnapping? 231 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 4: Well, what publication would you send it to if you 232 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 4: wanted to send Probably wouldn't do it. 233 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: To begin with because it seems like a real dead end. 234 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 4: But you take someone's eighty four year old mom, seems 235 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 4: like not a lot of. 236 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 1: Room to navigate, you know, it really seems like it 237 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 1: like a short sighted thing to do well. One of 238 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: the letters demanded that NBC pay it. 239 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 4: So it's just like and now they all all the 240 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 4: other anchors have to have beefed up security, Like it 241 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 4: just doesn't make any sense. 242 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so sad, and it just it just seems 243 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,719 Speaker 1: like it's just all been messed up. And then the 244 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: share of they're saying, no, we're going to use these 245 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: experts in the FBI. It's like, no, we're the FBI, 246 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: and then we don't care. 247 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 4: Savannah posted again too, by the way, saying she still 248 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 4: has hope. 249 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's just so sad. I can't imagine 250 00:10:56,040 --> 00:11:00,239 Speaker 1: the Olympics. Let me see here if you want a 251 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: metal count but women's hockey on Thursday, probably playing Canada. 252 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: I guess nineteen total medals for the US, twenty eight 253 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: for Norway by the way, this is their thing, twenty 254 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: three for Italy, and nineteen total medals six gold for 255 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 1: the US and the women's national hockey team will play 256 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 1: on Thursday for the gold. South Florida mother is making 257 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 1: news she left her young children alone in a ride 258 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: share for hours. I have no idea how this happens either. 259 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: Investigators sated a woman ordered an uber in Florida and 260 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 1: then left her children, all to the age of ten, 261 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: inside the vehicle while she went inside a nearby location. 262 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: Instead of a quick errand authlready say she was gone 263 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: for several hours, leaving the kids waiting in the car. 264 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: The driver eventually contacted police after realizing the situation wasn't normal. 265 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: Officers responded. The mother was later arrested and is now 266 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: facing child neglected charges. No serious injuries were reported, but 267 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,199 Speaker 1: police say the incident could have turned dangerous given the 268 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: length of time the kids were left alone. If I'm 269 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,080 Speaker 1: the uber driver, it wouldn't have taken several hours. I 270 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: had a cops there in fifteen minutes, what do we do? 271 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 1: I probably would have had a cops there when the 272 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: mom says, hey, you're watching my kemmigs right, and I'd 273 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: be filming the whole time, like I'm not touching this kid. Ray. 274 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: I would have left the car right, yeah, like you 275 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: know what he is, y'all just have the car right, yeah, I. 276 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: Got a soft spot for now. I'd have probably bottom 277 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: McDonald's and I would have been like, you know, just 278 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: film the whole time so they can't say nothing. Yeah, 279 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 1: well yeah. Former President Barack Obama said that he's seen 280 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 1: no evidence that aliens have made contact with Earth, clarifying 281 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: his position after telling a podcast definitively aliens are real. 282 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: He found himself in the spotlight over the weekend when 283 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: he appeared to confirm the existence of aliens in an 284 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: interview with podcasts hosts Brian Tyler Cohen. When asked, are 285 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: aliens real, Obama replied, they're real, but I haven't seen them, 286 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: and they're not being kept in what is it? Area 287 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: fifty one. There's no underground facility unless there's this enormous 288 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: conspiracy and they hit it from the President of the 289 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: United States. He later had to issue a statement clarifying statistically, 290 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: the universe is so vast, what are the odds. The 291 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,559 Speaker 1: odds are good, there's life out there, but the distances 292 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: between solar systems are so great that the chances that 293 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 1: we've been visited by aliens is very low. And finally, 294 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: the TSA has apparently this is like from the actual TSA. 295 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: They have named the most annoying people in airport security. Oh, 296 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: now that's something when you have a business where you 297 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: can identify your annoying customers because you're the government. So 298 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: what are they going to do? And whoever knows the 299 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: TSA social media is really im by the way, I 300 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: was wondering the other day, do they have to wear 301 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 1: the TSA uniform to do the TSA social Ooh, that's 302 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 1: a good question. 303 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 3: You know. 304 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 1: I think police officers have to wear the uniforms to 305 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,719 Speaker 1: work in you know, media, did various media things or 306 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: whatever in their department. So I wonder if there's like 307 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: a person in a TSA uniform in an office somewhere 308 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: coming up with these jokes. 309 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 4: And like, were they instructed to make it funny or 310 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 4: did they go out on a limb and just start 311 00:13:59,160 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 4: making it funny? 312 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: And then somebody was like, you know what, go with this? 313 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 1: This makes us relatable, This makes us like look like 314 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:05,199 Speaker 1: real people. 315 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 4: They should make a movie about that guy's life or 316 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 4: a woman's life. 317 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 1: I would watch that the TSA social media director. Yeah, 318 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: I could see it right now. So the unprepared passenger, 319 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 1: this is the person who actually they've never been to 320 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: the airport before, even though the thing is the same. 321 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 1: What I will say though, And I think I said 322 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: this a couple of months ago too, and it's very true. 323 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: Is there there are slight variations to each like they 324 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: don't we're not all doing the same thing. 325 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 3: No. 326 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: And I said this to a TSA guy the other day, 327 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: because we're I think we're transitioning to like a facial 328 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: recognition thing. And so some places they want you to 329 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: look at the screen. Some places the screen's there but 330 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: they're not using it. Some places they want your ID, 331 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: some places they don't. And if you aren't ready for anything, 332 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: then we have a problem. 333 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 3: Ye. 334 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: People get frustrated with you. And so I was in 335 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: one trip. I was at an airport where they wanted 336 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 1: my ID, and I was at another airport where they 337 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: did not want my ID. Yeah, and I had it 338 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: in my hand either way. But when I was like 339 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 1: ready to hand it, the guy was like, I don't 340 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: want that the same way, the same way that it 341 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: would have been if I hadn't had it, and he 342 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: wanted it. Where's your ID, idiot? You know what I mean? 343 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, And I said to him, I go out there. 344 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: We're not all on it. We haven't all gotten the 345 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: memo about what we're doing here. Every place is different. 346 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: I got plases. 347 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 2: I have my shoes off, my wig and my hand, 348 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 2: my jacket off, my ID. 349 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: I get up there, they put your shoes back on. 350 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: Why do you have that? 351 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 2: I'm like every other airport. I gotta get naked. I 352 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 2: don't understand. 353 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: The slight variations that are messing things up a little bit, 354 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: and I. 355 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: Just laptops out the bag, laptops in the bark. 356 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: Some places are very specific about layers. If you're wearing 357 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: like a light jacket that can stay on, but then 358 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: the other jacket that gotta come off. Some places are 359 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: very lax. Some places are very strict. We're not all 360 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: on the same page. So I do kind of understand 361 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: how that happens. But then there are the people that 362 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: show up to the airport, like, well, what are we 363 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: doing here? What are my favorite? Some form of security 364 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: has existed for your whole life, so probably you're gonna 365 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: have to put your bag through that machine like you 366 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: always have. 367 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 4: That was probably Jason's crew, though not a lot of 368 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 4: them fly like you had to handle everything, so they 369 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 4: were probably one going one way, one going forward. 370 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: I'm out of here. I got my TSA pre check, 371 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: I got my clear, I got my clear, I'm I 372 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: paid for these things, and so when I go to 373 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: the airport, I'm using them. Oh yeah, you really do 374 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: you leave everyone behind my Yes, hey, we're all going 375 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: to the same place. And you know what I paid 376 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: ninety nine ninety five. He's sitting at the bar, too 377 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 1: clear with a seventy four dollars water. That's right. 378 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, left me in another country, right I did? Yeah, 379 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 2: you left me in Canada. Oh yeah, He'll walked right 380 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 2: on through into National Port. I was like, hey, broke anyway. 381 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 2: He called me when he was at home, like are 382 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 2: you Are you in America yet? 383 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, bro, that was the boss's idea to 384 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: leave her. Yeah, in fairness, I did call you and 385 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 1: say you need to right you did? He was like 386 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: are you? I think you said? Did you make it 387 00:16:56,120 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: in what gentleman? Yeah? Yeah, well wait I had global 388 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: entry okay, and Kiki didn't okay, And there were three 389 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: flights that came here at the same time, and she 390 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: was all the way in the back. 391 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 392 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 1: No, I actually I said are you good? You said yes. 393 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: But by the time I got a home on the highway, 394 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 1: let me tell you. I got home, emptied my bags, 395 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: put everything in the washer, took a shower, and texted 396 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: Kiki she was still in line at the airport home. Yes, 397 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: we would have been there all day. The line cutter, 398 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:39,199 Speaker 1: the overpacker, the rule ignore the bin blocker. These are 399 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,360 Speaker 1: the people that they don't like it, t Sam. I'm 400 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 1: the overpacker. I always have the heavy tag put on 401 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: my bags. Okay, well, at least that happens at the desk. Yeah, 402 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: you know. 403 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 4: Oh no, when we get into that security line, I'm 404 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 4: instructing me. We've got I've got the whole line ready 405 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:55,959 Speaker 4: to go. 406 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not going to get held up because we're 407 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: not playing. We live in a society and I feel 408 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 1: a responsibility and I'm gonna be ready for anything, and 409 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: We're not getting held up because of me. Absolutely not. 410 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 1: And stop getting dressed. At the end of the line, 411 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: like go to the go away, go away, like go way, 412 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 1: don't like, don't get because you know how sometimes they'll 413 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 1: have like the metal detector and then the X ray 414 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: and then you kind of have to go through the 415 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 1: metal detector and then take like a right and then 416 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 1: another right and then go like if you're gonna be 417 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 1: the first to get your bags out of the X ray. 418 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: You have to like be right there and people will 419 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 1: decide that's where they're going to like put their their outfit. 420 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 1: Like guys, web, no, there's go over there. 421 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 4: And then don't come up behind me so close when 422 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 4: I'm clearly about to grab my luggage, you know how, 423 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 4: Like they see there's two and they're like literally like 424 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 4: grinding with you behind you. I'm like, okay, just back up, 425 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 4: let me get mine, then you get yours. 426 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, back up off me. That's a moral. That's 427 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: a moral of story. That is a mantra, Let me 428 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: get mine and you can have yours. It's Pluto Day, 429 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: It's Fat Tuesday. It's National End Them acts of Kindness Day. 430 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: Be niceer the TSA people. Yes, say thank you to them. 431 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 1: An it's Posty Day, I believe. Yeah, that's Weesday. Say 432 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: Hi day. Great for me. This is the Fread Show. 433 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 1: Kelly Clark City is returning to Las Vegas in twenty 434 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 1: twenty six for her studio Sessions Las Vegas Residency. 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How are you? 444 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: Good morning? 445 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 6: I'm good. 446 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 1: How are you doing too? 447 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:51,479 Speaker 3: All right? 448 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. What's going on? I see you? 449 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 1: Like how I pretend like I don't know what's going on? 450 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 1: Like I do know it's planned because I've read your email, 451 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: so I do no. But every time I'm like, tell 452 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 1: me what's going on with your boyfriend? What's going on 453 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: with your boyfriend? Explained? 454 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 6: Yeah, I just I need some advice because we decided 455 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 6: that we were going to move in together pretty recently, 456 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 6: and so like we've been looking at apartments and trying 457 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 6: to figure. 458 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 1: Out by the way, you don't have to like you 459 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 1: know too two dwelling relationships or two dwelling relationship. A 460 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 1: two dwelling relationship is fine. I don't know. I had 461 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: like a minor like my brain shorted out, but like 462 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,439 Speaker 1: a two house relationship is chef's kids, but anyway, not 463 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 1: for you. So you guys are going to move in together? 464 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 6: All right, it might come to that, but you know, 465 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,439 Speaker 6: well at this point, we're trying to be together in 466 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 6: an apartment and the problem is we're we're trying to 467 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 6: figure out what we're bringing to our new place, like 468 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 6: furniture wise, and like what to get rid of and stuff. 469 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 6: And during these discussions, if you will, I have seen 470 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,239 Speaker 6: like a side of my boyfriend that I did not 471 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 6: know it was there, and I don't really like. 472 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: Like what are you talking about? Like what happened? 473 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 6: Well, he wants me to get rid of all my 474 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 6: stuff that you know that I have that I used 475 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 6: when I was with my ex. 476 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 1: Like like my bed. 477 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 6: We're talking like my bed frame, my my mattress, like 478 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 6: my my bookshelf, and like my shower. I mean, it's 479 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 6: getting a little crazy, Like we're talking about my shower 480 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 6: curtain and my spoons that I use when he was there, 481 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,959 Speaker 6: and like like he was talking about my TV and 482 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,879 Speaker 6: stuff or TV what did TV do? 483 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: The TV didn't do anything right? Well, I watch TV. 484 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe we start anew with a new mattress. You know, 485 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: like maybe if we're moving in together and we're combining things, 486 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: like you know, maybe we maybe we do a different mattress, 487 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: so new sheets too, then maybe we do news. You know, 488 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 1: we're moving intogether, why don't we start fresh with but 489 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 1: like a TV, a spoon? I know, like he what 490 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 1: if you go to the same restaurant that you mean 491 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 1: your ex probably used that. Maybe use a spoon in 492 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,199 Speaker 1: the place or a Sultan pepper shaker. Better burn the 493 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 1: place down, you know, God forbid? I mean, so what 494 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 1: what do you say to him? This is crazy? Like 495 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: we're not I'm not throwing away absolutely everything that he 496 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 1: thats ever touched, because I'm sure he's had an X 497 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 1: too exactly. 498 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 6: And also like he's used all this stuff, you know 499 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 6: what I mean, Like he watches those TVs, use those spoons, 500 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 6: and like right, what's the deal now? He's just like 501 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 6: it's crazy, and he's talking about like you know, bad 502 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 6: bad juju in the apartment and like dude, and he 503 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 6: just like has no sense that this you know, this 504 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 6: stuff costs money, Like I don't have that kind of money. 505 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: Is he offering to buy all this stuff? Is he? Oh, 506 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 1: he's not well, can that be another thing? If he's like, look, 507 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: I want to replace everything, like I want to start 508 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: with a new bed, new sheet, new towels. Let's just 509 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 1: leave new place, new stuff, Like, let's just I'll buy it, right, yeah, 510 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: go for it, exactly fine. 511 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,679 Speaker 6: No, he he didn't offer to pay for anything. And 512 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 6: I just think it's so stupid and it's just like 513 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 6: messing me up. I'm like, I don't like this side 514 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 6: of you. 515 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 1: Ew Now which of his things are we burning? Because 516 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: you know, I'm sure someone touched his stuff, so I 517 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 1: assume you know the couch. So basically, you guys are 518 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 1: starting with nothing, right because we're to donate everything because right, 519 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,360 Speaker 1: because he can't possibly bring anything into his home right 520 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:41,360 Speaker 1: into this place, right from his house exactly. So I'm 521 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 1: just like, ew, I don't I don't even love But 522 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: he's not suggesting that, right, he's not saying that, Like 523 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: that's what we're saying. But he's not. He's saying, your 524 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: stuff has got to go, but his stuff is. 525 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 6: Okay, I'm the sullied person and he's perfectly clean your steam. 526 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 1: Now, I don't like it. I don't like it at all. 527 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 1: I agree with a lot of the people texting off 528 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: the bat. This is a control thing. It is a 529 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 1: control thing, among other things. And somehow everything you did 530 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 1: was nasty, which maybe it was, but like, but the 531 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: bat has to be switched, doctor saying I'm fine with that. 532 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: I'm fine with that. But would you require that? I'm 533 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: not sure I would require it. But if I if 534 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 1: I needed that, I would come to the table with 535 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to buy it. Yeah, just like how about 536 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: a new bed? Like, how about we just start new 537 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 1: with a new bed today? Place right, it's a new house, 538 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: we're moving in together. Let's start. Let's let's hit reset 539 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: on a couple of different items here. And I don't 540 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: need to get into the detail. Why you know why? 541 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 1: I didn't bad though? 542 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 7: Like when my husband and I moved in together, I 543 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 7: wanted him to bring his bed. 544 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: Is that bad? I feel so like it out in 545 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 1: that bed for months before you moved in together, right, 546 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: I mean not really because it was at his parents house. 547 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 1: He came from his parents' house into our townhouse, so 548 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: he didn't take women that there. I mean like, well, 549 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: why did you want this bed then? If you had 550 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,959 Speaker 1: never been in it? Like I could see what's comfortable? 551 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: What I ever said on the girl take that, I 552 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 1: was like, I want that bed. All right, Well, let 553 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: me see Amy. I'm gonna say some phone calls on 554 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 1: this and see what people have to say, and we'll 555 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: go from there. But I don't know, no, I mean, 556 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: if you both are in on this, and if you 557 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: don't have the money, then if it's his idea and 558 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: he's paying for it, then maybe some stuff, but I 559 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: don't know it, like everything from your place can't come 560 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 1: because you're nasty. But he, I guess he's fine. 561 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 2: And why and I'll be obsessed with your ex like 562 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 2: why is he so obsessed on the X? 563 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 1: Like that would bother me? 564 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, you guys are making this clear. 565 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 1: This is crazy. Yeah, yeah it is, Amy. Thank you, 566 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you as you called eight 567 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,239 Speaker 1: five five five nine one three five. I mean, how 568 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: have you dealt with this when because you guys have 569 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 1: all moved in with people, I've never moved in with anybody, 570 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 1: so I don't I guess I don't know. I assume though, 571 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: that most of us don't have unlimited funds where we're 572 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: just buying new furniture every time we move, so I 573 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 1: would assume that there's some overlap, right, Like the spoons 574 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: come into the new place and the spoons have been 575 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 1: used by other people. Yeah. 576 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 4: I don't waste my time thinking about stuff that is 577 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 4: like a hurt, you know, like who cares? 578 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 1: Just move on. Yeah. I had an issue when Timothy 579 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 1: moved in. 580 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 2: I had just taken off the pictures off the wall 581 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 2: from my ex and just put them in a closet, 582 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 2: And then one day he found the pictures are still 583 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 2: in the frame. 584 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: He was like, girl, hanging back up. I'm like no, 585 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: I was just you know, making space. Yeah, I think 586 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 1: it's weird that you left the nail and the hook 587 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: up just in case, just in case, act right, I 588 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: just changed out the photos. Well, I'm not trying to 589 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 1: be gross here, but like, there are memories and there 590 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 1: are other things that other people are aware of and 591 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 1: have on both sides. This isn't a one sided deal 592 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 1: that have been shared that you can't undo. You're worried 593 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: about a bed if you're that worried about other people 594 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 1: and what they don't I know, I love him. We 595 00:26:53,800 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: were tap dancing get rid of new mouths time we knew. Yeah, 596 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: so there's that. Why do I bother I don't even know, 597 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 1: there are certain things that you can't unuse, and so 598 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: like that's really red, you know, sorry about that, Salt 599 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: Lake City. But anyway, Emily, how you doing, Emily? Good morning? 600 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: Hey Fred, Emily. So the dog this woman, Yeah, get 601 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: rid of the dog. Your dog and the X have 602 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: been together. I'm sure the dog. So the dog's gotta go. 603 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 7: Okay, that's what's going on, my dog. But so I 604 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 7: first this is she should go, but at a minimum, 605 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 7: she should pay for half and he should pay for half. 606 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 7: And this is why I don't think he should pay 607 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,119 Speaker 7: for everything, because if they break up, he's gonna then 608 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 7: say I paid for it, it's all my stuff, and 609 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 7: then she is gonna have absolutely nothing. 610 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 1: Yeah that's another thing. Yeah, I've heard of this happening 611 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: before too, where it's like I'll buy all new stuff 612 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,880 Speaker 1: for the new place and then and then they break 613 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: up and it's like, but I had to give all 614 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 1: my stuff away or donate it or throw it away, 615 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: and now I have no stuff because you said that 616 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 1: you were buying the new So so yeah, she needs 617 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 1: to have or you either. If he's gonna do that, 618 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 1: then he needs to be like if we break up, 619 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,120 Speaker 1: then I'll buy you all new stuff since I'm making 620 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 1: you throw it away. That's an excellent point. He is 621 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 1: she gonna have to say that? 622 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,239 Speaker 7: I mean I still think she should go regardless, but like, 623 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 7: at a minimum, do not give away all of your stuff? 624 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree. That's a very good point. Emily. 625 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 1: Thank you, have a good day. 626 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:28,119 Speaker 3: Thank you. 627 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 6: Yeah. 628 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're gonna do that, if it's like if 629 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 1: I'm buying all new stuff for our new place, that's fine, 630 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: I'll get rid of all my stuff, I guess since 631 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,199 Speaker 1: we're upgrading. And also you get a vote in what 632 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: we buy too. Absolutely, And then if we're gonna do 633 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: that and we're getting all new stuff and you're paying 634 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: for it, then if we break up within the next 635 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, three years, then you're gonna have to 636 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: buy me new stuff because I got rid of all mine. 637 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: Tell them move in with this, man, Hey, David, how 638 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 1: you doing good? 639 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 5: How about you? 640 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 1: Fred? Do it all right? Man? So you're you're here 641 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: with for the new bed, at least get a new bed. 642 00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 5: We got to get a new bed. 643 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 7: I mean, think about how the nice distend love making. 644 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: Making, I mean sleeping in the bed. That is an 645 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: activity that occurs. He was there too though, you know, 646 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: accidently passing gas on the bed. You know, sometimes that 647 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: happens that night, he's going to be rolling around on that. 648 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 1: It's going to happen again. You're saying that if I 649 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 1: sleep at a woman's house, I'm sleeping in her exis 650 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: flatulence still? I mean, wow, well I already have issues 651 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: and now you're just contributing to it. But now we 652 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: don't need to add things. You know, in the shower 653 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: a lot of love making with David here, so we're 654 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: burning down the house. Then we got we got to 655 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 1: get rid of the shower. I mean coming up. 656 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 5: The bookshow about the TV, the bookshelf, what the books? 657 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 5: Just do? 658 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: Okay, good because I have a books from that's a 659 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: good shower. I don't know what if somebody had a 660 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: love making, we need to get rid of it. But 661 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: I love making going on David, Thank you man. Okay 662 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: you know what you see that? Man? Yeah, she needs 663 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: the band is fine. But like if we're getting rid 664 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: of furniture because it was in the same place as 665 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: an X, then we go in the remotes we got 666 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: an issue, then, like you need to get over that. Sadly, 667 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: there are things that just you know, will not be forgotten. 668 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 1: Your cat, your cat might have seen some stuff. What 669 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I heard that dog mark and we get 670 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 1: the dog probably needs to be rehome now because you 671 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 1: know he wants pets the dog. Yeah, I don't. This 672 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: is crazy. They play one song and then then we'll 673 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 1: make the announcement and no, no, it wasn't ruined. No 674 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 1: it was not. Some of you or some of you 675 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: are like, well, I know, I know what happened. I'm like, 676 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: but you don't know what you don't know what it is, 677 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 1: because that's not what it is, you know, close with 678 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: no cigar Ellen, How are you doing. 679 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 5: L I'm doing great. I think I'm bouncing a lot 680 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 5: off of the previous caller. I had a boyfriend for 681 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 5: six years. His stuff was better. I moved in with him, 682 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 5: got rid of all my stuff, as poor as it was, 683 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 5: you know, but it was mine. And then like six 684 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 5: months later he's like, you know, I just don't see 685 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 5: us getting married. And it was during that snowstorm, you 686 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 5: know where the lakeshore drives on everything. I look for 687 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 5: an apartment, didn't have any stuff, and I had so 688 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 5: much PPSD. I married a lovely man. But I kept 689 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 5: my stuff in the basement for so long. He's like, 690 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 5: we're forever, honey, and I was like, you don't know. 691 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 5: You don't know what I went through. 692 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 4: That's why I didn't get rid of myself. I feel 693 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 4: the same way. I don't like not having stuff. 694 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I gotta have Yeah I did. Finally, you know, 695 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 5: we paid for it together and it was very healthy. 696 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 5: But this guy has issues. He's not healthy. She needs 697 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 5: to wait, like, if not break up, wait until he's 698 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 5: a little bit more relaxed and healthy in his own 699 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 5: self confidence about her relationship. 700 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: Right, So you're you're conditioned. You know you had to 701 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 1: hang on to all your stuff because you were afraid. Listen, 702 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 1: this is it creates a complex in people. Man, we 703 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 1: don't need Yeah, we don't need all this all right now, 704 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 1: and thank you. Have a good thank you? All right, 705 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: one more than I'm just gonna make I'm just gonna 706 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: tell you what's up, hey, Candace, my opinion, Yeah, tell 707 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: me your opinion. 708 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 3: My opinion is it. So I moved in with my fiance. 709 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 3: I didn't make him get rid of anything until now 710 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:31,400 Speaker 3: we're getting married. So everything on the wedding registry is 711 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 3: like new because I want our stuff, that stuff from 712 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 3: his past. 713 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 1: Yep, that's fine. I like that. No, I mean yeah, 714 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: I think that all makes sense. Make other people pay 715 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 1: for it, right, you're starting new so so new stuff 716 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: and whatever. But like this whole thing where it's get 717 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: rid of all your stuff. My stuff's okay, but get 718 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: rid of all your stuff. I don't like him, it's 719 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 1: just there's a lot of layers of issues there. Thank you, Candace, 720 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: have a good day.