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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you

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Speaker 1: for the Strawberry Letter. Well, my good friend Shirley straw Berry,

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Speaker 1: thank you, junior. Subject. I want to get my girlfriend tested.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, Shirley. I'm a single man in my mid

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Speaker 1: She's three years older. She is gorgeous, has a great body,

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Speaker 1: and she's more mature than girls my age. We started

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Speaker 1: But now I have a big problem. We decided to

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Speaker 1: As soon as I posted it, I got a DM

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Speaker 1: not tell him about it. The guy said that luckily

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Speaker 1: hating X that's jealous. Fast forward to New Year's Eve,

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Speaker 1: I posted a picture of me and my girl hanging out.

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Speaker 1: Shortly thereafter, one of my older female cousins called me

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Speaker 1: and told me that my girlfriend was known as a

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Speaker 1: and she learned from her mistakes and she's ready to

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Speaker 1: move on. She swore that she is disease free, but

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Speaker 1: confronting her, and she said that she'll understand if I

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Speaker 1: her to take some STD tests before I sleep with

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Speaker 1: I want to be sure I'm okay too. Was I

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Speaker 1: wrong for addressing the rumors? Will I be wrong to

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Speaker 1: I handle this? She might be one and I don't

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Speaker 1: want to mess things up? Okay, slow your role, mister

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Speaker 1: mid twenties. Okay, please, you're not wrong. You would be

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Speaker 1: with her. So no, you're not wrong for addressing the rumor, which,

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Speaker 1: what you want and if she's who you really want.

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Speaker 1: Remember earlier in the letter, one guy said that she

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Speaker 1: had an STD, but he didn't get at it from her,

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Speaker 1: but she did get with one of his friends and

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Speaker 1: he got it. Remember all of that. Remember your older

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Speaker 1: and all of that. That's kind of like two and

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Speaker 1: you had to kind of, you know, find out about

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Speaker 1: it before she was honest with you. You know she

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Speaker 1: could have put you seriously at risk here, Okay, seriously

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Speaker 1: at risk. I know your feelings are involved. So as

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Speaker 1: far as her being the one, and yes, everyone does

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Speaker 1: have a past, I want to make that clear. We

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Speaker 1: different about this letter, you know, because it's social media

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Speaker 1: He really likes her, but he got a big problem

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Speaker 1: the holidays. He posted a picture of on ig. Then

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Speaker 1: hold up, dog, you hung out with her recently and

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Speaker 1: little vade right here? Partner claiming he hung out with

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Speaker 1: Na it don't it don't He didn't, Yeah, but he

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Speaker 1: come to you? He don't know you, Why would he

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Speaker 1: DM you? And then like the dude say it could

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Speaker 1: a New Year's Eve posted to put your men and

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Speaker 1: was known as a thought in high school. Okay, hold up,

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Speaker 1: Now the dude in his mid twenties, she three years old.

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Speaker 1: that don't mean that's what she still is. So you know,

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Speaker 1: good night. I'm gonna give you some advice when I

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Speaker 1: come back on what to do. But really, right now, though,

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Speaker 1: I mean dog, I'm just dealing with how people get

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Speaker 1: something over the girl's head. We come back, I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you what I think. Low man, I'll do all right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: hang on to that thought. We'll have part two of

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Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject I want to get my girlfriend tested.

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letters. Subject I want to get

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend tested. Okay, So this is a prime example

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Speaker 1: of social media. People. Ain't nobody ever happy for nobody?

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Speaker 1: No more at body? Hey man, glad you found somebody?

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Speaker 1: Just want to let you know this. Everybody called would

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Speaker 1: run the skies falling this on fire, posted a picture.

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Speaker 1: A total stranger calls this man out of nowhere till

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Speaker 1: he hung out with it, and he didn't get the disease.

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Speaker 1: But then this boy hung out with her and he

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Speaker 1: got it. Okay, then you post another picture in your

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Speaker 1: a thought in high school. Okay, all right, I got

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Speaker 1: a hold of this. I got no. Do you have

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Speaker 1: reason to be concerned? Yeah? You should. You should because

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Speaker 1: have some other stuff out here now that the phone calls.

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Speaker 1: Ain't know he got it, No, it's it's it's some

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Speaker 1: other things that happen now. So let's just say that

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Speaker 1: The devil's job has only one mission in life, and

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Speaker 1: that robbed you and your destiny. Take the girl's hand,

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Speaker 1: be sure because you think she'd one. Y'all go get

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Speaker 1: tested together, and then let's go have a nice life man,

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