Speaker 1: Rooking Jubiles second d the guy on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today asked the girl that he
Speaker 1: wants to call out in one of the most creative
Speaker 1: ways I've ever heard of. And that's saying a lot,
Speaker 1: because I've been pretty creative in my dating life. I
Speaker 1: remember one time I asked this girl out. I walked
Speaker 1: up to her and said, Hey, could I like to
Speaker 1: go out sometime? I'll give you full tongue. She said no,
Speaker 1: and we didn't go out. But after looking back at
Speaker 1: all my years of dating, that was the most creative
Speaker 1: thing I've ever done, and this guy outdid me by far,
Speaker 1: which is impressive. Congratulations Lucas. Oh thanks wet Man. Thanks
Speaker 1: for having me on. Guys, no problem. I read your
Speaker 1: email and it was very creative. How you asked this
Speaker 1: girl out? First of all, what's her name? Gemma? Gemma?
Speaker 1: All right, why don't you tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about Gemma. Well, she's really cute. We've worked together, we
Speaker 1: do a catering job, and like I always wanted to
Speaker 1: ask her out. It was I mean, it took me
Speaker 1: forever to actually like get the courage of to say
Speaker 1: anything too. How long have you been thinking about this. Ah, man,
Speaker 1: it's been at least eight months. Oh that's kind of cute.
Speaker 1: Would you like so much about her? She's one of
Speaker 1: those girls' is kind of like cute, but she doesn't
Speaker 1: know how cute she is, you know. Okay, so she's cute,
Speaker 1: very cute. Oh my god, she's so cute. That part
Speaker 1: what finally made you go, I'm gonna ask her out.
Speaker 1: If you've been thinking about it for eight months? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's been eight months. I just basically looked
Speaker 1: myself in the mirror and I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: if I don't do it now, I'm never gonna do it. Okay. So,
Speaker 1: so did you actually do something creative or did you
Speaker 1: do something like Jubles described? No? No, I think I
Speaker 1: did something pretty creative. Okay. So one night we were
Speaker 1: working together on this job and we had all the
Speaker 1: food set up, and it's right before the event starts,
Speaker 1: and I said to her, will you please look over
Speaker 1: there because there's this one special order that I don't
Speaker 1: want to screw up. Right, So she walks over there.
Speaker 1: My heart's something. She pulls up the lid of a
Speaker 1: dish and underneath I had written will you go out with?
Speaker 1: Me in spaghetti. That's creative. You asked a girl out
Speaker 1: in spaghetti. I've never heard of that before, right. What
Speaker 1: was her reaction? Well, I didn't know because I went
Speaker 1: in the other room and I started working these tables
Speaker 1: and stuff, and I'm thinking about it the whole time,
Speaker 1: and she doesn't say anything until the end of the night.
Speaker 1: We're cleaning up after everybody. She comes up to me
Speaker 1: and she's like, did you write will you go out
Speaker 1: with me? In spaghetti? And I was nervous because I
Speaker 1: thought that she didn't like it, but she says, did
Speaker 1: you really mean that? And I said yeah. So then
Speaker 1: we made plans to go out. Awesome. Okay, So so
Speaker 1: it did work. Yeah, the spaghetti ask out actually worked
Speaker 1: all right. So there's a lesson that a lot of
Speaker 1: dudes can learn out there. If you haven't ad asking
Speaker 1: a girl out, use some spaghetti. Spaghetti ask out trick
Speaker 1: brought to us by Lucas. What did you guys do
Speaker 1: on your day when you actually went out? Well, the
Speaker 1: next night, we're catering a job and she was actually
Speaker 1: talking to me a lot, getting a little bit flirty.
Speaker 1: Give me the eyes, you know. Okay, so she's excited
Speaker 1: obviously about this date. Yeah, things are going great. And
Speaker 1: then after we're cleaning up, she said, you know, you
Speaker 1: want to do something and I was like, of course,
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, didn't you read my spaghetti letter. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you guys people underwrite the spaghetti. Did you guys
Speaker 1: hang out that night? Yeah? Yeah. So we finished up
Speaker 1: the job, take her out to my car. It's like, well,
Speaker 1: why don't you come back to my place. I'll make
Speaker 1: you some food, we'll have some wine, do that kind
Speaker 1: of thing. And she agreed. So we drive over to
Speaker 1: my place and I actually made her can you guess spaghetti?
Speaker 1: All right? Now it's getting no when the jokes should end.
Speaker 1: She really liked it though, okay, and it was good
Speaker 1: wine because it was from the catering company you're listening in.
Speaker 1: So you mean you stole the wine? Is that what
Speaker 1: you're saying? I'm I borrowed, stole Who's keep right? Okay,
Speaker 1: So you guys shared spaghetti and some stolen wine from
Speaker 1: your job. Yeah, I guess you could say that you
Speaker 1: know that she knows that you stolen from the catering company, right,
Speaker 1: I mean she worked for the same company. It's not
Speaker 1: a mystery where the nice bottle of wine came from. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sure she knew where it was from. But it's cool.
Speaker 1: We all do it. It's one of the parks of
Speaker 1: the job. Was it also left over spaghetti that you
Speaker 1: were serving her at the catering? No, No, I made
Speaker 1: the spaghetti that night. Okay, fresh spaghetti, old wine. Got it.
Speaker 1: So how did the date go though? When you guys
Speaker 1: were actually having dinner and stuff. We actually didn't even
Speaker 1: get to dinner because things started heating up. We started,
Speaker 1: you know, making out a little bit wow right away, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but then a little bit into things, she started getting
Speaker 1: a little weird. How so well, she just kind of
Speaker 1: pulled back and then started being a little bit distant,
Speaker 1: and she said that she thought we were going too fast.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what, oh, maybe that's not weird.
Speaker 1: Maybe she just thought you were going too fast. I
Speaker 1: don't I've never had a girl and tell me to
Speaker 1: slow down before. And then she just says to me,
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't know if it's best that
Speaker 1: I stay whoa wow? Okay, And that hit me like
Speaker 1: a ton of bricks. Did you cry? No? I didn't cry,
Speaker 1: but you know, I was upset. I wanted to go
Speaker 1: over to the Spaghettian, right, No, please, I think that's
Speaker 1: the way you should have just communicated with her. The
Speaker 1: whole time was bea spaghetti noodle. So did she leave
Speaker 1: right after that? Then? Yeah, we work at the same place.
Speaker 1: We do all these same jobs together, and it's been
Speaker 1: incredibly weird. That's this weird vibe going on. And I
Speaker 1: don't know how to I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: I actually feel bad for you, Like eight months you're
Speaker 1: building this night up in your head. It's finally going
Speaker 1: exactly how you imagined it too, and then everything is
Speaker 1: apparently fallen apart. Thank you. Have you tried to talk
Speaker 1: to her about this? I've tried. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I try and talk to her at the job. She
Speaker 1: just walked into the next room. I'm texting her, I'm
Speaker 1: calling her, and she never responds to anything. And and
Speaker 1: you were respectful when she said she wanted to slow down.
Speaker 1: He said, yeah, that's fine, that's cool, we can do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was totally cool with that. I thought, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe we are taking things too fast. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second day update. Okay, all right, thankful you guys. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: hang on rooking Jubil in the morning if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's second date. Update. Lucas is on
Speaker 1: the phone and he wants to call a girl named
Speaker 1: Gemma today. They actually started making out twenty minutes in
Speaker 1: to their first date. Yeah, get it. But now she's
Speaker 1: not calling him back and he doesn't know why, and
Speaker 1: he asked her out in one of the most creative
Speaker 1: ways I've ever heard. He asked her out with a
Speaker 1: plate of pasta. They both work at a catering company
Speaker 1: and one night when they were working together, he spelled out,
Speaker 1: will you go out with me in spaghetti? And she
Speaker 1: eventually said yes. But now, like I said, she's not
Speaker 1: answering any of his phone calls and she's kind of
Speaker 1: ignoring him at work. Lucas, what I think you need
Speaker 1: to do is go beyond words now at this point,
Speaker 1: what do you mean by that? Well, the pasta thing
Speaker 1: works so good for you, Right, you got a date? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think you should do it again, but this time,
Speaker 1: don't spell anything out. Just get a hot dog and
Speaker 1: a bun and maybe a couple of meat balls and
Speaker 1: place them all appropriately on a plate and show that
Speaker 1: to her, and she might be down to go out
Speaker 1: with you again after that. You know, I should have
Speaker 1: called you before the first time. I got all the tricks, man,
Speaker 1: I got all the tricks. Especially said. She said that
Speaker 1: she thought that they were moving too fast. That's not
Speaker 1: too fast at all to bowl. We'll call her right
Speaker 1: now and see if we can figure out why she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: May I speak to Jemma? Please? This is she. Hey, Gemma,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Okay, you're working catering, so I'm guessing
Speaker 1: you're not up early in the morning. Well, how do
Speaker 1: you know that I work in catering. I kind of
Speaker 1: know a lot more than you think I know about
Speaker 1: your Gemma? Why do you Why did you do it
Speaker 1: like that? Okay, that's super creepy. And who are those
Speaker 1: people that are in the background. That's broke. Why is
Speaker 1: that weird guy laughing? That's jose the laughing guy. And
Speaker 1: then there's me. My name is Jebil and this is
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show.
Speaker 1: Why are you guys calling me She's like, that doesn't
Speaker 1: make it any better. I'm calling you because you went
Speaker 1: out on a date with a guy who listens to
Speaker 1: our show and he emailed us and asked if we
Speaker 1: could get you on the phone. Wow. Okay. The guy
Speaker 1: that wanted us to call you today, his name is Lucas.
Speaker 1: Oh god, and I know you know who Lucas is
Speaker 1: because you guys work together. Yes, I'm trying to change jobs.
Speaker 1: You're trying to change jobs to avoid Lucas. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: is really intense. Why because it's just a little too
Speaker 1: awkward for me? All right? Well, what is so awkward?
Speaker 1: I mean, he told us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 1: He told us that you guys went out one night
Speaker 1: after work and went back to his place to eat,
Speaker 1: and you drank a little bit. He told us that
Speaker 1: you guys started making out a certain point. He's telling
Speaker 1: you that we made out. Why is he telling people
Speaker 1: about our date so explicitly? He did, Well, he didn't
Speaker 1: give us any like crazy details. He just said that
Speaker 1: you guys are making out at a certain point. You
Speaker 1: stopped and said that you wanted to go, and then
Speaker 1: you left and haven't talked to him since. I will
Speaker 1: say he was completely respectful of you, and he was
Speaker 1: so excited. I mean, it sounds like he's had a
Speaker 1: crush on you for months and months and was so
Speaker 1: looking forward to this night. Well, it's like so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just yes, he was obviously very
Speaker 1: excited and very inexperienced excited. And was he a bad
Speaker 1: kisser or I'm kind of scared to ask you what
Speaker 1: you mean why he was so excited. It's actually just
Speaker 1: everything everything possible. Just seemed like he's never been with
Speaker 1: a woman before ever in his life. And I the
Speaker 1: date started with me going at his door and he
Speaker 1: shook my hand when he saw me, he shook my
Speaker 1: I've known this guy for eight months and he shook
Speaker 1: my hand. Okay, maybe he was being a little bit charming,
Speaker 1: maybe he's trying to be sweet. I'll let it fly.
Speaker 1: And then we walked in and he had like already
Speaker 1: opened wine that he even he was totally open about it.
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, I got it from catering gig.
Speaker 1: I mean, so he essentially stole wine, but it was
Speaker 1: already open from being poured at the catering events. So
Speaker 1: he's cutting corners on your date. Yeah, Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: this is the first date and he wanted to impress me,
Speaker 1: and he impressed me. I opened aired out used wine,
Speaker 1: but you still made out with them? Well because I thought, Okay, well,
Speaker 1: maybe he's being really sweet intert maybe he's really nervous.
Speaker 1: But then he started to ask me permission to do everything.
Speaker 1: And when I say everything, I mean he was like,
Speaker 1: is it okay if I sit next to you? Yes?
Speaker 1: Is it okay? If I touch your hands like like this?
Speaker 1: Can I just put my hand on your hands? Everything?
Speaker 1: So imagine like can I kiss you right now? Can
Speaker 1: I kiss you with tongue right now? Is that okay?
Speaker 1: All right? No? No, no, so awkward. I've heard people
Speaker 1: do they can I kiss you thing? And I know
Speaker 1: some girls have a split reaction that some girls like,
Speaker 1: just go for it. Some girls are like, I like
Speaker 1: it when they ask did he really ask you? Can
Speaker 1: I kiss you with tongue? Yes? Oh god? Can I
Speaker 1: use my tongue? My tongue? Was that the final question
Speaker 1: that made you stop saying yes? The final question which
Speaker 1: was the total total. I mean, it should have been
Speaker 1: can I kiss you with tom? But it was, um,
Speaker 1: can I can I grab your boobs? Your boobs. Can
Speaker 1: I grab your boobs? Not like let me see them?
Speaker 1: Let me see them, but you know, not nothing like
Speaker 1: cool dirty. It was like, can I grab your boobs? Grab?
Speaker 1: And then I just had to dip out. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was so terrible. I can understand how that would
Speaker 1: be awkward to ask everything the most. I also, can
Speaker 1: I ask you something? Sure? I just need your permission.
Speaker 1: Is it okay if I let you know that he
Speaker 1: is it okay if I let you know that he's
Speaker 1: on the other line listening right now and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Are you seeing me right now? No?
Speaker 1: I'm not, Lucas. Oh my god, I didn't ask you
Speaker 1: permission to do every single little thing. I mean, you're
Speaker 1: going a little overboard here. Really listen. You don't want
Speaker 1: to die, and you know I want to make sure
Speaker 1: that you're okay with things. No, Lucas, if you were
Speaker 1: to ask me one time, can I kiss you right now?
Speaker 1: That can be still sexy. But it's not sexy when
Speaker 1: you ask about everything. I mean, you were asking about
Speaker 1: sitting next to me, holding my hand, topics of conversation.
Speaker 1: I was trying to take it slow. I didn't want
Speaker 1: to like put you off or make you feel uncomfortable
Speaker 1: or anything. If there's anything that we get from this
Speaker 1: really inappropriate and awkward phone call right now on a
Speaker 1: radio shows, it's that you should never ever do that again.
Speaker 1: How do I know if it's okay to if you're boom?
Speaker 1: If I don't ask you, I can't even believe you're
Speaker 1: asking me that question. No, man, I have to ask
Speaker 1: that question. Stop dogging on Lucas so much. He's trying
Speaker 1: to be respectful of you, Gemma, thank you trying. I
Speaker 1: get that he's trying to be respectful, but at a
Speaker 1: certain point he needs to pick up on the queue
Speaker 1: that it's just not working. Yeah. Hey, if I remember
Speaker 1: correctly from that night, you were saying yes to a
Speaker 1: lot of things. Good point. I only said yes because
Speaker 1: I had already consumed nearly that entire bottle of the
Speaker 1: open air do out wine that you stole from the
Speaker 1: catering company, and I was too lit. Oh and that's
Speaker 1: a responsible way to behave on a first date. I'm
Speaker 1: saying that I was trying to be responsible. That's not
Speaker 1: That's not my problem. I'm not the one calling into
Speaker 1: a radio show, Jemma. No, it would have been too awkward.
Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared to talk to you, Jemma. He liked
Speaker 1: you for eight months. You're telling me the entire time
Speaker 1: that you guys worked together, you didn't have any feelings
Speaker 1: towards him, and you have a wonderful personality or sweet
Speaker 1: But as soon as you were alone with me, it
Speaker 1: was like the worst date I've ever missed. Oh that
Speaker 1: is harsh man. He didn't do anything wrong. He was
Speaker 1: just awkward, for God's sake. But imagine, like like a
Speaker 1: woman's spark is lit by somebody being manly, at least
Speaker 1: that's how mine is, And as soon as somebody starts
Speaker 1: acting like a twelve years old, I can't do it.
Speaker 1: You know what you like? I guess I wish I
Speaker 1: never grabbed your boob on that date. I wish you
Speaker 1: would just asked it. I wish you'd just grabbed it. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: I think we have a little different memory of that
Speaker 1: night because you were pretty turned on when I was
Speaker 1: doing it. Oh, I think we definitely have a different Well, Jemma,
Speaker 1: I would like to ask you a question. Oh God, Gemma,
Speaker 1: is it okay if I ask you? If you go
Speaker 1: out on a second date with Lucas because we will
Speaker 1: pay for it. You know what. No, I gotta say no.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. You know, Lucas, I wish you all
Speaker 1: of the best. I really really do. I think you're
Speaker 1: very sweet. My recommendation for you is that you never
Speaker 1: just do not ask questions like that again. Just go
Speaker 1: ahead and go for it, find that self confidence within
Speaker 1: yourself and move forward. You sound like a motivational speaker.
Speaker 1: It's awesome. Listen. There are plenty of girls who want me.
Speaker 1: All right. I don't need you, I don't need anything
Speaker 1: like that, So you know, have a great one. You're right, Lucas,
Speaker 1: there are plenty of girls out there who want you.
Speaker 1: Just ask them. I'm sure they're out there. And jew
Speaker 1: in the morning, would you mind if I kiss you
Speaker 1: with tongue? This time? It's broken Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Talking about today's second date update. Lucas wanted to call
Speaker 1: Jemma and we got her on the phone and found
Speaker 1: out why she wasn't calling him back. It's because he
Speaker 1: asked permission for everything and even utter those words, can
Speaker 1: I kiss you with tongue? She was not into that.
Speaker 1: I think his intentions were good, you know, the way
Speaker 1: he did it not so smooth. Yeah, I think it's
Speaker 1: okay to get consent and make sure things are cool,
Speaker 1: but there's a point when you just kind of have
Speaker 1: to know that things are okay. Yeah, when they're kissing
Speaker 1: you back. Yeah, when they're kissing you back. Like at
Speaker 1: that point you can kind of test the limit and
Speaker 1: they're like, hey, don't put your hand there, you take
Speaker 1: your hand away. Yes, but you don't want to ask
Speaker 1: for everything. And he did that and they decided not
Speaker 1: to go out again. The mood every time, every single time,
Speaker 1: it's kind of like a game of Simon says, at
Speaker 1: some point, right, remember you want to do a second
Speaker 1: day update, I'll have to do is email the show
Speaker 1: and we will call the person who didn't call you
Speaker 1: back just five minutes away from your shot at the
Speaker 1: phrase that page ninety two point five