WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Want my Spaghetti Noodle

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jubiles second d the guy on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today asked the girl that he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call out in one of the most creative

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<v Speaker 1>ways I've ever heard of. And that's saying a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>because I've been pretty creative in my dating life. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember one time I asked this girl out. I walked

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<v Speaker 1>up to her and said, Hey, could I like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out sometime? I'll give you full tongue. She said no,

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<v Speaker 1>and we didn't go out. But after looking back at

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<v Speaker 1>all my years of dating, that was the most creative

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<v Speaker 1>thing I've ever done, and this guy outdid me by far,

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<v Speaker 1>which is impressive. Congratulations Lucas. Oh thanks wet Man. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for having me on. Guys, no problem. I read your

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<v Speaker 1>email and it was very creative. How you asked this

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<v Speaker 1>girl out? First of all, what's her name? Gemma? Gemma?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, why don't you tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about Gemma. Well, she's really cute. We've worked together, we

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<v Speaker 1>do a catering job, and like I always wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask her out. It was I mean, it took me

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<v Speaker 1>forever to actually like get the courage of to say

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<v Speaker 1>anything too. How long have you been thinking about this. Ah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been at least eight months. Oh that's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like so much about her? She's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those girls' is kind of like cute, but she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how cute she is, you know. Okay, so she's cute,

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<v Speaker 1>very cute. Oh my god, she's so cute. That part

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<v Speaker 1>what finally made you go, I'm gonna ask her out.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've been thinking about it for eight months? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's been eight months. I just basically looked

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<v Speaker 1>myself in the mirror and I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't do it now, I'm never gonna do it. Okay. So,

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<v Speaker 1>so did you actually do something creative or did you

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<v Speaker 1>do something like Jubles described? No? No, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>did something pretty creative. Okay. So one night we were

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<v Speaker 1>working together on this job and we had all the

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<v Speaker 1>food set up, and it's right before the event starts,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said to her, will you please look over

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<v Speaker 1>there because there's this one special order that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to screw up. Right, So she walks over there.

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<v Speaker 1>My heart's something. She pulls up the lid of a

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<v Speaker 1>dish and underneath I had written will you go out with?

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<v Speaker 1>Me in spaghetti. That's creative. You asked a girl out

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<v Speaker 1>in spaghetti. I've never heard of that before, right. What

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<v Speaker 1>was her reaction? Well, I didn't know because I went

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<v Speaker 1>in the other room and I started working these tables

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, and I'm thinking about it the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't say anything until the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>We're cleaning up after everybody. She comes up to me

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, did you write will you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with me? In spaghetti? And I was nervous because I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that she didn't like it, but she says, did

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<v Speaker 1>you really mean that? And I said yeah. So then

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<v Speaker 1>we made plans to go out. Awesome. Okay, So so

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<v Speaker 1>it did work. Yeah, the spaghetti ask out actually worked

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So there's a lesson that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>dudes can learn out there. If you haven't ad asking

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<v Speaker 1>a girl out, use some spaghetti. Spaghetti ask out trick

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<v Speaker 1>brought to us by Lucas. What did you guys do

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<v Speaker 1>on your day when you actually went out? Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>next night, we're catering a job and she was actually

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me a lot, getting a little bit flirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Give me the eyes, you know. Okay, so she's excited

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<v Speaker 1>obviously about this date. Yeah, things are going great. And

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<v Speaker 1>then after we're cleaning up, she said, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do something and I was like, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, yeah, didn't you read my spaghetti letter. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you guys people underwrite the spaghetti. Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>hang out that night? Yeah? Yeah. So we finished up

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<v Speaker 1>the job, take her out to my car. It's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you come back to my place. I'll make

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<v Speaker 1>you some food, we'll have some wine, do that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. And she agreed. So we drive over to

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<v Speaker 1>my place and I actually made her can you guess spaghetti?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Now it's getting no when the jokes should end.

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<v Speaker 1>She really liked it though, okay, and it was good

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<v Speaker 1>wine because it was from the catering company you're listening in.

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<v Speaker 1>So you mean you stole the wine? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying? I'm I borrowed, stole Who's keep right? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys shared spaghetti and some stolen wine from

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<v Speaker 1>your job. Yeah, I guess you could say that you

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<v Speaker 1>know that she knows that you stolen from the catering company, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she worked for the same company. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a mystery where the nice bottle of wine came from. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sure she knew where it was from. But it's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>We all do it. It's one of the parks of

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<v Speaker 1>the job. Was it also left over spaghetti that you

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<v Speaker 1>were serving her at the catering? No, No, I made

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<v Speaker 1>the spaghetti that night. Okay, fresh spaghetti, old wine. Got it.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did the date go though? When you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were actually having dinner and stuff. We actually didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>get to dinner because things started heating up. We started,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, making out a little bit wow right away, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but then a little bit into things, she started getting

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird. How so well, she just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>pulled back and then started being a little bit distant,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said that she thought we were going too fast.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, what, oh, maybe that's not weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she just thought you were going too fast. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I've never had a girl and tell me to

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<v Speaker 1>slow down before. And then she just says to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I don't know if it's best that

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<v Speaker 1>I stay whoa wow? Okay, And that hit me like

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<v Speaker 1>a ton of bricks. Did you cry? No? I didn't cry,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I was upset. I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>over to the Spaghettian, right, No, please, I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way you should have just communicated with her. The

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<v Speaker 1>whole time was bea spaghetti noodle. So did she leave

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<v Speaker 1>right after that? Then? Yeah, we work at the same place.

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<v Speaker 1>We do all these same jobs together, and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly weird. That's this weird vibe going on. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually feel bad for you, Like eight months you're

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<v Speaker 1>building this night up in your head. It's finally going

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<v Speaker 1>exactly how you imagined it too, and then everything is

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<v Speaker 1>apparently fallen apart. Thank you. Have you tried to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her about this? I've tried. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I try and talk to her at the job. She

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<v Speaker 1>just walked into the next room. I'm texting her, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling her, and she never responds to anything. And and

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<v Speaker 1>you were respectful when she said she wanted to slow down.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, yeah, that's fine, that's cool, we can do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was totally cool with that. I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we are taking things too fast. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day update. Okay, all right, thankful you guys. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on rooking Jubil in the morning if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us for today's second date. Update. Lucas is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and he wants to call a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Gemma today. They actually started making out twenty minutes in

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<v Speaker 1>to their first date. Yeah, get it. But now she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back and he doesn't know why, and

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<v Speaker 1>he asked her out in one of the most creative

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<v Speaker 1>ways I've ever heard. He asked her out with a

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<v Speaker 1>plate of pasta. They both work at a catering company

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<v Speaker 1>and one night when they were working together, he spelled out,

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<v Speaker 1>will you go out with me in spaghetti? And she

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<v Speaker 1>eventually said yes. But now, like I said, she's not

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<v Speaker 1>answering any of his phone calls and she's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>ignoring him at work. Lucas, what I think you need

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<v Speaker 1>to do is go beyond words now at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean by that? Well, the pasta thing

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<v Speaker 1>works so good for you, Right, you got a date? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should do it again, but this time,

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<v Speaker 1>don't spell anything out. Just get a hot dog and

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<v Speaker 1>a bun and maybe a couple of meat balls and

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<v Speaker 1>place them all appropriately on a plate and show that

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<v Speaker 1>to her, and she might be down to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you again after that. You know, I should have

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<v Speaker 1>called you before the first time. I got all the tricks, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I got all the tricks. Especially said. She said that

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<v Speaker 1>she thought that they were moving too fast. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>too fast at all to bowl. We'll call her right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see if we can figure out why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>May I speak to Jemma? Please? This is she. Hey, Gemma,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Okay, you're working catering, so I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 1>you're not up early in the morning. Well, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you know that I work in catering. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot more than you think I know about

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<v Speaker 1>your Gemma? Why do you Why did you do it

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<v Speaker 1>like that? Okay, that's super creepy. And who are those

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<v Speaker 1>people that are in the background. That's broke. Why is

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<v Speaker 1>that weird guy laughing? That's jose the laughing guy. And

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<v Speaker 1>then there's me. My name is Jebil and this is

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you guys calling me She's like, that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make it any better. I'm calling you because you went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with a guy who listens to

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<v Speaker 1>our show and he emailed us and asked if we

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<v Speaker 1>could get you on the phone. Wow. Okay. The guy

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<v Speaker 1>that wanted us to call you today, his name is Lucas.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, and I know you know who Lucas is

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<v Speaker 1>because you guys work together. Yes, I'm trying to change jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>You're trying to change jobs to avoid Lucas. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>is really intense. Why because it's just a little too

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<v Speaker 1>awkward for me? All right? Well, what is so awkward?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he told us a little bit about your date.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us that you guys went out one night

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<v Speaker 1>after work and went back to his place to eat,

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<v Speaker 1>and you drank a little bit. He told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys started making out a certain point. He's telling

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<v Speaker 1>you that we made out. Why is he telling people

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<v Speaker 1>about our date so explicitly? He did, Well, he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>give us any like crazy details. He just said that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are making out at a certain point. You

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<v Speaker 1>stopped and said that you wanted to go, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you left and haven't talked to him since. I will

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<v Speaker 1>say he was completely respectful of you, and he was

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<v Speaker 1>so excited. I mean, it sounds like he's had a

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<v Speaker 1>crush on you for months and months and was so

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<v Speaker 1>looking forward to this night. Well, it's like so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I just yes, he was obviously very

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<v Speaker 1>excited and very inexperienced excited. And was he a bad

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<v Speaker 1>kisser or I'm kind of scared to ask you what

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<v Speaker 1>you mean why he was so excited. It's actually just

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<v Speaker 1>everything everything possible. Just seemed like he's never been with

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<v Speaker 1>a woman before ever in his life. And I the

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<v Speaker 1>date started with me going at his door and he

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<v Speaker 1>shook my hand when he saw me, he shook my

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<v Speaker 1>I've known this guy for eight months and he shook

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<v Speaker 1>my hand. Okay, maybe he was being a little bit charming,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's trying to be sweet. I'll let it fly.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we walked in and he had like already

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<v Speaker 1>opened wine that he even he was totally open about it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, yeah, I got it from catering gig.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so he essentially stole wine, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>already open from being poured at the catering events. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's cutting corners on your date. Yeah, Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first date and he wanted to impress me,

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<v Speaker 1>and he impressed me. I opened aired out used wine,

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<v Speaker 1>but you still made out with them? Well because I thought, Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's being really sweet intert maybe he's really nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>But then he started to ask me permission to do everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I say everything, I mean he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay if I sit next to you? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it okay? If I touch your hands like like this?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just put my hand on your hands? Everything?

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<v Speaker 1>So imagine like can I kiss you right now? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I kiss you with tongue right now? Is that okay?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? No? No, no, so awkward. I've heard people

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<v Speaker 1>do they can I kiss you thing? And I know

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<v Speaker 1>some girls have a split reaction that some girls like,

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<v Speaker 1>just go for it. Some girls are like, I like

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<v Speaker 1>it when they ask did he really ask you? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I kiss you with tongue? Yes? Oh god? Can I

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<v Speaker 1>use my tongue? My tongue? Was that the final question

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<v Speaker 1>that made you stop saying yes? The final question which

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<v Speaker 1>was the total total. I mean, it should have been

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<v Speaker 1>can I kiss you with tom? But it was, um,

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<v Speaker 1>can I can I grab your boobs? Your boobs. Can

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<v Speaker 1>I grab your boobs? Not like let me see them?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see them, but you know, not nothing like

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<v Speaker 1>cool dirty. It was like, can I grab your boobs? Grab?

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<v Speaker 1>And then I just had to dip out. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was so terrible. I can understand how that would

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<v Speaker 1>be awkward to ask everything the most. I also, can

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<v Speaker 1>I ask you something? Sure? I just need your permission.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it okay if I let you know that he

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay if I let you know that he's

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening right now and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Are you seeing me right now? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, Lucas. Oh my god, I didn't ask you

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<v Speaker 1>permission to do every single little thing. I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 1>going a little overboard here. Really listen. You don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to die, and you know I want to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you're okay with things. No, Lucas, if you were

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<v Speaker 1>to ask me one time, can I kiss you right now?

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<v Speaker 1>That can be still sexy. But it's not sexy when

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<v Speaker 1>you ask about everything. I mean, you were asking about

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<v Speaker 1>sitting next to me, holding my hand, topics of conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to take it slow. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to like put you off or make you feel uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. If there's anything that we get from this

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<v Speaker 1>really inappropriate and awkward phone call right now on a

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<v Speaker 1>radio shows, it's that you should never ever do that again.

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<v Speaker 1>How do I know if it's okay to if you're boom?

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<v Speaker 1>If I don't ask you, I can't even believe you're

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<v Speaker 1>asking me that question. No, man, I have to ask

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<v Speaker 1>that question. Stop dogging on Lucas so much. He's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be respectful of you, Gemma, thank you trying. I

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<v Speaker 1>get that he's trying to be respectful, but at a

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<v Speaker 1>certain point he needs to pick up on the queue

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<v Speaker 1>that it's just not working. Yeah. Hey, if I remember

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<v Speaker 1>correctly from that night, you were saying yes to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things. Good point. I only said yes because

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<v Speaker 1>I had already consumed nearly that entire bottle of the

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<v Speaker 1>open air do out wine that you stole from the

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<v Speaker 1>catering company, and I was too lit. Oh and that's

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<v Speaker 1>a responsible way to behave on a first date. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying that I was trying to be responsible. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>That's not my problem. I'm not the one calling into

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show, Jemma. No, it would have been too awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't prepared to talk to you, Jemma. He liked

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<v Speaker 1>you for eight months. You're telling me the entire time

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys worked together, you didn't have any feelings

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<v Speaker 1>towards him, and you have a wonderful personality or sweet

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<v Speaker 1>But as soon as you were alone with me, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like the worst date I've ever missed. Oh that

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<v Speaker 1>is harsh man. He didn't do anything wrong. He was

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<v Speaker 1>just awkward, for God's sake. But imagine, like like a

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<v Speaker 1>woman's spark is lit by somebody being manly, at least

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<v Speaker 1>that's how mine is, And as soon as somebody starts

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<v Speaker 1>acting like a twelve years old, I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what you like? I guess I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>never grabbed your boob on that date. I wish you

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<v Speaker 1>would just asked it. I wish you'd just grabbed it. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have a little different memory of that

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<v Speaker 1>night because you were pretty turned on when I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. Oh, I think we definitely have a different Well, Jemma,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to ask you a question. Oh God, Gemma,

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay if I ask you? If you go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second date with Lucas because we will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. You know what. No, I gotta say no.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. You know, Lucas, I wish you all

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<v Speaker 1>of the best. I really really do. I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>very sweet. My recommendation for you is that you never

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<v Speaker 1>just do not ask questions like that again. Just go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and go for it, find that self confidence within

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and move forward. You sound like a motivational speaker.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awesome. Listen. There are plenty of girls who want me.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. I don't need you, I don't need anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that, So you know, have a great one. You're right, Lucas,

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<v Speaker 1>there are plenty of girls out there who want you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just ask them. I'm sure they're out there. And jew

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, would you mind if I kiss you

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<v Speaker 1>with tongue? This time? It's broken Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about today's second date update. Lucas wanted to call

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<v Speaker 1>Jemma and we got her on the phone and found

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<v Speaker 1>out why she wasn't calling him back. It's because he

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<v Speaker 1>asked permission for everything and even utter those words, can

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<v Speaker 1>I kiss you with tongue? She was not into that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think his intentions were good, you know, the way

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<v Speaker 1>he did it not so smooth. Yeah, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to get consent and make sure things are cool,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's a point when you just kind of have

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<v Speaker 1>to know that things are okay. Yeah, when they're kissing

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Yeah, when they're kissing you back. Like at

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<v Speaker 1>that point you can kind of test the limit and

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, hey, don't put your hand there, you take

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<v Speaker 1>your hand away. Yes, but you don't want to ask

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<v Speaker 1>for everything. And he did that and they decided not

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again. The mood every time, every single time,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like a game of Simon says, at

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<v Speaker 1>some point, right, remember you want to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>day update, I'll have to do is email the show

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<v Speaker 1>and we will call the person who didn't call you

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<v Speaker 1>back just five minutes away from your shot at the

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<v Speaker 1>phrase that page ninety two point five