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Speaker 1: a second date update today asked the girl that he

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Speaker 1: because I've been pretty creative in my dating life. I

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Speaker 1: remember one time I asked this girl out. I walked

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Speaker 1: and we didn't go out. But after looking back at

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Speaker 1: all my years of dating, that was the most creative

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Speaker 1: which is impressive. Congratulations Lucas. Oh thanks wet Man. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for having me on. Guys, no problem. I read your

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Speaker 1: email and it was very creative. How you asked this

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Speaker 1: All right, why don't you tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about Gemma. Well, she's really cute. We've worked together, we

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Speaker 1: it's been at least eight months. Oh that's kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: Would you like so much about her? She's one of

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Speaker 1: what finally made you go, I'm gonna ask her out.

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Speaker 1: If you've been thinking about it for eight months? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in spaghetti. I've never heard of that before, right. What

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Speaker 1: brought to us by Lucas. What did you guys do

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Speaker 1: but you know, I was upset. I wanted to go

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Speaker 1: I actually feel bad for you, Like eight months you're

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Speaker 1: joining us for today's second date. Update. Lucas is on

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Speaker 1: Gemma today. They actually started making out twenty minutes in

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Speaker 1: to their first date. Yeah, get it. But now she's

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Speaker 1: he asked her out in one of the most creative

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Speaker 1: and one night when they were working together, he spelled out,

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Speaker 1: I think you should do it again, but this time,

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Speaker 1: don't spell anything out. Just get a hot dog and

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Speaker 1: I got all the tricks. Especially said. She said that

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Speaker 1: not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 1: May I speak to Jemma? Please? This is she. Hey, Gemma,

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Speaker 1: like that? Okay, that's super creepy. And who are those

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Speaker 1: then there's me. My name is Jebil and this is

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Speaker 1: Why are you guys calling me She's like, that doesn't

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Speaker 1: Oh god, and I know you know who Lucas is

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Speaker 1: because you guys work together. Yes, I'm trying to change jobs.

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Speaker 1: You're trying to change jobs to avoid Lucas. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: awkward for me? All right? Well, what is so awkward?

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Speaker 1: I mean, he told us a little bit about your date.

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Speaker 1: looking forward to this night. Well, it's like so uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: I've known this guy for eight months and he shook

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Speaker 1: It's awesome. Listen. There are plenty of girls who want me.

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