1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: Bill Cosby's fate is now in the jury's hands. Are 2 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: you here to support Josby? Arm in arm with his 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: wife of more than fifty years. Camille Cosby made her 4 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: first appearance since the trial began, Andred Constance says that 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: Bill Cosby sexually assaulted her January February two thousand four. 6 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: Cosby is charged with felony aggravated in decent assault. This 7 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: is Crime Stories with Nancy Grace. Cosby has denied wrongdoing 8 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: and says their encounter was consensual, praying upon and exploiting 9 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: my vulnerabilities. He then truged and raped me. The seventy 10 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: nine year old has been accused by more than fifty 11 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: women of drugging and or sexual misconduct. I've never seen 12 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: anything like this, Judges only allowing one other accuser to 13 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: take the stand. The comedian left court Monday night without 14 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: a verdict, but with his spirits still intact. What is 15 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 1: wrong with the Bill Cosby jury? What in the world 16 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 1: has kept them out? You hear somebody laughing in the background. 17 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: Why don't I tell you who was with me? I meanan, 18 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 1: see Grace, this is Crime Stories. We are on a verdict. 19 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: Watch by the time you hear this podcast. There may 20 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: be a verdict. God help us all, but join me 21 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: right now. Is someone that I consider a friend, that 22 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: I have talked to many times. You know her Carla Frigno. 23 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: Now anyone in show business knows the Frigno name. She's beautiful, 24 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: she's articulate, she's talented, and I've got to tell you 25 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: she's married to the Hulk. There, I said it. I 26 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: said it. Okay, I know it's not right. I said it. 27 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: She is married to lu Ferrigno. And in addition to 28 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: being a world class mom. And I'm looking at your 29 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: photo right now, you look like you're about I'm not 30 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: going to go there because I don't know what's wrong 31 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: with me. This is what I also know what you 32 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: don't what you may not know about Carla as I 33 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: believe that she was a victim of Bill Cosby's Yeah, yes, 34 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: I was. See and people think, Carla, oh this Andrew Constance, 35 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 1: she's out for money or this one she was like, um, 36 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: what was she a model or an actress? Like that's 37 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 1: like a witch in the time of the sale and 38 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: witch hunts. But when they put people put a face 39 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: to a name of somebody, they kind of know it 40 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: changes everything. M hmm. I just want to kick it 41 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: off like this. When did you meet Bill Cosby? Now 42 00:02:56,040 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: I was it was nine, I was eighteen years old. 43 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: Don't do the math, but it was um. I was 44 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: on a date with someone who asked me to dinner, 45 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: who seemed like a very nice man in the show business. 46 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: It was in the music business, actually, and he asked 47 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: me to dinner. I went, and he said, We went 48 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: to dinner, We had a lovely evening, and then he said, 49 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: would you like to go with me to my best 50 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: friend's house, which is is Bill Cosby? And I didn't 51 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: have anything to do. I I broken up with my boyfriend. 52 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: I didn't have to worry about where I was going 53 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: or whatever. And I said, well, okay, yeah, all right. 54 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I knew Bill Cosby had a show. 55 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: I never watched the show. I knew nothing really about 56 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: him at all. And I certainly didn't go there because 57 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: he was a celebrity. I went because I was having 58 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: a nice time with my date. So he took me 59 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: over to his house in Beverly Hills, and he Bill 60 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: was so nice. He answered the door. Him and his 61 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: wife stood right by the door, Camille. I'll never forget 62 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: her name. And we were standing by the door just talking. 63 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: We were introduced, and he said, let's go to a movie. 64 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: What do you think? So I said, okay, it sounded 65 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: like fun to me. I was eighteen years old. I 66 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: just wanted to have fun. So I went to the 67 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: movies with them. There was my was my date, Bill, 68 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 1: Camille and I and we had cracker Jack's and we 69 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: laughed and he played and he was he acted like 70 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: he was playing with a child with me. Asked I 71 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: did not sit. I sat down and he sat next 72 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: to me on the far left. My date was next 73 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: to me and his wife was way on the other end. 74 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: But we had a really fun time and then we 75 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: he decided, you know, my the movie was over. We 76 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: were in Westwood. Movie was over, and he said. My 77 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: date said to me, would you like to go back 78 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: to Bills and play pool? I was the pool bunny 79 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: at the Playboy Club at eighteen? Can you believe this? So? Um? Yeah, yeah. 80 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: So I said, oh, okay, I thought, okay, we'll do that. 81 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: I mean, they all seemed so nice. Why wouldn't I 82 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 1: want to to do this? So I said, okay, I will. 83 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: So he went to his house and the first thing 84 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: he did was he walked in. He took me into 85 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: the pool. We all went to the pool room and 86 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: I said, He said to me, would you like a cocktail? 87 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: And I said no, I don't drink and he said, okay, um, 88 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: well would you like some water? And I said no, 89 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: I'm just fine. And so that's how I met him. Yeah, 90 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 1: do you want to hear some more about what happened 91 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: that night? Well, I just I played. They what he did. 92 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: Bill had this idea that it would be fun if 93 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: he played with my with my gate, and then whoever 94 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: won could play with me and we're getting on around. 95 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: The game was it was just a game of pool. Yeah, 96 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 1: we were playing pool, and so he he played first 97 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: with my date and then guess who won? Bill? And 98 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 1: he said that, okay, Well now I play with Carla. 99 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 1: Now it's getting on to be around midnight. It's getting late. 100 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: And I picked up the pools queue and i'm I'm 101 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: playing and I suddenly I looked up and I said, 102 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: where where did your wife go? And he goes, oh, 103 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: I she probably went to bed. I said, oh okay, 104 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: and then I then I play. I shot another thing 105 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: and I'm doing good at this game. And then I 106 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: looked up and I go, well, where's my date? And 107 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: he goes, oh, I don't know. He probably went to 108 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: the bathroom or something. And so he played the game. 109 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: We did it. He beat me and I took my my, my, 110 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 1: my pool queue and it was in my back was 111 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: to him, and I turned around and I put it 112 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 1: on the table and when I turned back around, he 113 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: lunched me. He just lunched right, I mean, just on me. 114 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: He jumped me and I was in shock, and I 115 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: I pushed him, like with all the strength I had. 116 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: I tried, and then he grabbed me and he kissed 117 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: me right in the mouth, and I just I kicked. 118 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: I pushed away from him and I got away from 119 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, and I mean it was 120 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: it was so awful. And then I looked up and 121 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: those eyes that he looked, he looked like the devil. 122 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: He didn't look like the fun, happy guy anymore. He 123 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: looked like the devil. And I said, I for a second, 124 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: I go, I just I sat there for a second 125 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: and I looked at him, and I was I was 126 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: a tough girl. I grew up, but in those days 127 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: I was a tough street girl. I knew how to 128 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: take care of myself, and men were always trying to 129 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: molest me my whole life, ever since I was like 130 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 1: five years old. So and I always got away. So 131 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: I I took I started running down the hallway. He 132 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: lived in a very large house on the flats of 133 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. And I went running down the hallway. And 134 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: just as I'm running down the hallway, who comes out 135 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: of a door my date. So I looked at my 136 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: date and I said, I'm leaving. I want you to 137 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: take me home now, right now. And he did and 138 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: I I never even talked to him about it. I 139 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: just went completely silent, got in the car, he took 140 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: me and dropped me off and that was that. So 141 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: that was my experience. And I got away. And out 142 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: of the supposedly sixty five women that have come forward 143 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: or or I don't know how many, I think it 144 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: was that, but they they I just I just got away. 145 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: I there was no way. And the reason I got 146 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: away was because I didn't I didn't drink anything. It 147 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: was one of the main main reasons that I made 148 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: it through this. You know, we say that the reason 149 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: you got away is because you didn't drink anything. What 150 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 1: do you mean by that, Carla? What what I meant 151 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: by that was that I didn't drink alcohol. My I 152 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: came from my family of alcoholics, and I didn't live 153 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: like that. I wouldn't drink, I wouldn't do drugs. I 154 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: was totally clean. I didn't have sex with men. I 155 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: was a young girl and but tough, and I could 156 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: take care of myself. And he didn't give me anything 157 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: that would have done what I've heard happened without these 158 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: other women. I mean I was I was on date 159 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: line with twenty seven women for eight hours and all 160 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: of us crying our hearts out. Just their stories were 161 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 1: so tragic and ruined so many lives. And I was 162 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: the one who got away. I don't think anybody else 163 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: got away, even even Beverly Johnson. She had to fight 164 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: him off because he had given her drugs. You know 165 00:09:56,320 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 1: what's interesting that Camille was there, and you know what, 166 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: God bless her, you know she she I don't know 167 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: what to think about that, what she must I don't 168 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: feel like that about her at all. I don't know 169 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: what I don't I don't know what to think. But 170 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: this is what I'm hearing from you. She's down there 171 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: and just disappears when you have guests over, even if 172 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 1: you're saying, look, guys, you're staying up to light for me, 173 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to bed, and I thank you for coming. 174 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 1: She just disappeared like your date. That's right. And you 175 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: know what was really really tragic was that when I 176 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: was when I was on date Line, I that woman 177 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: that was the host. I don't even remember who she was, 178 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: but I've never seen her before and I haven't seen 179 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: her since. But anyway, she would not let me talk. 180 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: Out of all the women I got to set in 181 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: the front row, but I wasn't allowed to talk. She 182 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: would not listen to anything I said. So by the 183 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: end of the show, after eight hours, we were all 184 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: exhausted and I said to her, I said I'm going 185 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 1: to talk, and she said, oh no, she's it. What 186 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: do you think about as she asked the whole group, 187 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: what do you think about his wife? And I raised 188 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: my hand and I said, I'm going to talk now. 189 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 1: I said, I'm going to ask a question. That's all 190 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: I want to do is ask one question. The question 191 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: is to this, to to everybody, how many of you 192 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: would let your husband stay with it at midnight with 193 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: a young pretty girl. And every one of them said, 194 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: none of us. I mean, they were all like, no, 195 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: we wouldn't know it caused the whole big stir. But 196 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: you're right. I hadn't thought of it that way. I've 197 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: just been thinking about her in the context of, Wow, 198 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 1: she's been married to this guy that has had so 199 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: many affairs, slept with so many people, and now we 200 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: learned forced himself on so many people, and it must 201 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: be horrible and humiliating. But when I hear you say 202 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: it like that, it puts it in a whole another light. 203 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: Nancy listened to this one. Here's what I was thinking of. 204 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: I was thinking. I was trying to think back on 205 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 1: the women and what one in particular that I liked 206 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: so much. And she and I spent some time together. 207 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: She was a young, beautiful model, and she was up. 208 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: You know, you may have known who she was or 209 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: who I didn't, but when I met her, it was 210 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: it was a lovely time. Because she I was trying 211 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 1: to think of what it would have been like to 212 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 1: be her. He called her on a Christmas at at 213 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: Christmas and said, can you fly here? To Connecticut to 214 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: be with my family for Christmas and me. And she 215 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: gets there and she's at the dinner table with all 216 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 1: of his children and his wife, and and then she 217 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: would go out to the guest room where she was 218 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: staying into the had a different little place in the back. 219 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: And apparently he was coming back there like two nights 220 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: in a road to have sex with her and raping her. 221 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: Now can you imagine she's invited as a guest, I 222 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: mean after the first time, I don't know why she 223 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 1: could talking about your talking about Certa Butterfield. She was 224 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: a playmate, a model, and she recounting how Cosby invited 225 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: her to his country guest in country house and she's 226 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: in the guesthouse yards from his wife, and she kept saying, 227 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: your family is here, don't do this, your family is here. Yep. 228 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: And what was his wife doing? What was she thinking? 229 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: She's not he's not in bed with her, he's not 230 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: where is he? Maybe two could have been twelve, one 231 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: to whatever, But he wasn't there. So was it she 232 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 1: thinking of anything like this? Like? And what was that 233 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: girl doing to at the time? Right? What was she doing? 234 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: I mean, really think about it? What was she doing? 235 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: There except that Bill brought her there to to abuse her. 236 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: And what did the family think she was doing there? 237 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: I mean, what did his wife think? She she knew, 238 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 1: That's why, because she knew what he was doing, and 239 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: it was all she just went along with it. I 240 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: don't know if it was the lifestyle. I don't know, 241 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 1: if it was her her um. Maybe it was the 242 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: way she grew up. Maybe she was molested and didn't 243 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: think much of it. I don't know, but something there was. 244 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: They All I know is that they knew. She knew 245 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 1: everything that was going on. Listen, I've been married thirty 246 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 1: eight years. I know what my husband does all the time, 247 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: and I make sure I know. Hold on, I'm gonna 248 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: pause just a moment, and thanks someone very special for 249 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: making today's podcast possible. Our partner, our sponsor, blew Apron, 250 00:14:56,280 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: the number one fresh ingredient and recipe to every service 251 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: in our country. Blue Apron's mission is to make incredible 252 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: home cooking accessible to everyone. 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Thank you for making this podcast and 262 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: so many others possible. Okay, back to the story, Carla, 263 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: what took you so long to tell your husband what happened? Well, 264 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: you know what, I never told my husband. A lot 265 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: of things. I didn't tell my husband, or my mother, 266 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 1: or my sister's or anybody else. When the people since 267 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: I was five, tried to molest me. I was on 268 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: a train. A man, he was one of the conductors 269 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: or whatever he was on that train. I mean, he 270 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: tried to put his hands in my panties when I 271 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: was asleep on the train, and I knew, I knew 272 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: my mother. Oh, at five years old, I knew my mother. 273 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: My mother would have killed him, and I never told 274 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: her ever in her life did I tell her that story. 275 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: I knew that if I told him her like I 276 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: kept turning over and moving and making sure that he 277 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: didn't get close to me, and he finally went away. 278 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: But I knew that if I told my mother, she 279 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: would kill him. She was a violent she was tough 280 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:05,200 Speaker 1: and hard as nails, and I knew she would kill him. 281 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: What took you so long to tell? And common? In fact, 282 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: it's very common some sometimes but that sex attack victims 283 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: never tell. Well, I didn't want to. I did. I didn't, 284 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: you know what? With me? It was so many people 285 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: this happened with that I had no desire to talk 286 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:30,880 Speaker 1: about it. I didn't There was nothing I wanted to say, 287 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:32,919 Speaker 1: so I just I let it go. You know, the 288 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: truth is I never even thought about it all through 289 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,920 Speaker 1: those years, except when I met lou and we went 290 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: to some events and I saw him come in and 291 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: at one of the celebrity event and I just said, 292 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 1: I want to stay on the other side of the room. 293 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 1: That's the only thing I said. And that was probably 294 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 1: an eight And I never told anybody yet. I didn't 295 00:17:55,400 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 1: tell that story until nineteen. It was nineteen, It was 296 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 1: no two thousand and five was when I finally told, 297 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 1: and that was because I saw that Bill Cosby had 298 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: done this with this girl, and it's this one. I 299 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: think it is too, the one that that, yeah, it 300 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 1: is it's her that when it came out, and then 301 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:23,120 Speaker 1: she got she got she she got money from him. 302 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 1: He gave her money for it. And that's when he 303 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: said that. Oh, I remember, with all the stuff that 304 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 1: went on, I didn't tell anything to anybody until I 305 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,719 Speaker 1: told lou and that and I said to him, I 306 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: told him, and he looked at me and he just went, 307 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 1: uh huh, and he walked away. He cannot stand to 308 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: hear anything bad about me. I'm got to tell you something. 309 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna can't quite verbalize it. But crime victims, violent 310 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 1: crime victims, sex crime victims MHM can go their whole 311 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: life and never or tell anybody what happened. You don't 312 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: want to think about it. It's it's so upsetting. You 313 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 1: don't want to rethink the details. You want to forget it, 314 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: you want to pretend it never happened. It's painful, it's upsetting, 315 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 1: and when you think about it and have to talk 316 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 1: about it, it's like it's happened all over again. And 317 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 1: it can mess your head up for who knows how 318 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: long and throw you into a depression that you can't 319 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 1: get out of. And I know what I'm talking about 320 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 1: on this, oh I know. I know you do. And 321 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:47,119 Speaker 1: I really can't describe it. And people like grars um uh, 322 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: defense lawyers, other people that are not in the business 323 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: or have not been a victim or a sex one 324 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,679 Speaker 1: station victim. It does I get it. It doesn't make sense. 325 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: It doesn't make sense that you don't talk about it 326 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: or tell anybody about it. But it's embarrassing. It's such 327 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 1: a personal thing. It's just I just don't want to 328 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: talk about it. No, right, I never I never wanted to. 329 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: There was nothing to talk about. And then as the 330 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 1: years went by and all this stuff happened to me 331 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 1: over and over with different men and places I worked 332 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: and things like that. But but the what what got 333 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: it for me was when I heard about this woman, 334 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,160 Speaker 1: I I thought, oh my god, I've got to tell somebody, 335 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 1: and I told Lou and I never told another person, 336 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:36,120 Speaker 1: not until what three years ago now, when those two 337 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 1: women came out and were crying on John and Ken's show. 338 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:44,479 Speaker 1: They were crying their hearts out and I've that that 339 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: that's what did it for me. I said, that's it. 340 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: I am going to call somebody. I have to talk 341 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 1: about this. Lou was out of town. I'm like, I've 342 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: got to talk because I've got to help these women 343 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: because I knew right that second that what I was 344 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: hearing from them nobody ever. You know what's upsetting with 345 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 1: me is Carla Ferrigno, who was I think one of 346 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: the early on victims of Bill Cosby. You know what 347 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:19,439 Speaker 1: that is so disheartening about this, This with Andrew Constant, 348 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 1: maybe the only criminal prosecution that will ever be because 349 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 1: so much time has passed and if it doesn't happen now, 350 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: it will never happen, and he will go free. It's 351 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 1: just that simple. It's heartbreaking. You know what terrible I'm 352 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: praying for tonight. I am praying for a true verdict, 353 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 1: a verdict that speaks the truth, whether they give him 354 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: jail time, whether God forbid they give him probation, whether 355 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: his wife ever knows the truth or admits the truth. 356 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: I want a verdict that speaks the truth to give 357 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: peace all the women and that I believe were victims 358 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: of Bill Cosby. That's what I'm Praying for Carla Ferrigno. 359 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: Thank you, Nancy Grace Crime Stories, signing off goodbye friend,